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[birds chirping]
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♪
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♪ Have you been to Jesus
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♪ For his cleansing power?
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♪ Are you washed in the blood
of the Lamb? ♪
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♪ Are you fully trusting
in his grace this hour? ♪
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♪ Are you washed in the blood
of the Lamb? ♪
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Mark, I see belt loops
and no belt.
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♪ Are you washed
in the blood? ♪
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♪ In the soul-cleansing blood
of the Lamb? ♪
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[Mrs. Veda]
Oh, oh, oh... No.
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♪ Are you washed in the blood
of the Lamb? ♪
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[sighs]
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Ah, ah, ah, ah.
Miss O'’Donnell.
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Just as I suspected:
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over two-and-a-half inches
above the knee.
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Dean'’s Office. Now!
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-Morning, Mrs. Veda.
-Alice.
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School mass today at 2:00.
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Why don'’t you be
gift bearer again?
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Sure.
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Hmm.
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OK, it'’s like this,
guys are like microwave ovens.
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And ladies are like
conventional ovens.
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Guys only need a few seconds,
you know, like a microwave,
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to get...
switched on.
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While ladies,
they typically need to...
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preheat for a while.
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But God created sex
with boundaries
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and for a purpose.
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Does anyone wanna take a stab
at what the boundary is?
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Yes, Wade?
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-Marriage.
-Very good.
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And does anybody
know the purpose?
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-To have children.
-[Father Murphy] Perfecto.
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When a man and a woman receive
the sacrament of matrimony,
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God calls on them to create
children in his image.
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Any sex outside of one man,
one woman, one marriage
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is against God'’s plan.
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Um, what about sex
with yourself?
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[students laugh]
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Can you create children
from sex with yourself?
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-No.
-[Father Murphy] Right, so?
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-[Heather]
It'’s against God's plan.
-[Father Murphy] Exactly.
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[male student]So, is that what the Bible meansby "spilling your seed"?
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-Is it spilling if you catch it?-[students laugh]
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[Father Murphy]
All right, all right.
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We are called on to be chaste
until we are married.
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And that means no sex--
with yourself or anyone else--
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until you stand at that altar
and you say "I do"
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or else it is damnation
for all eternity.
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And remember...
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God is always watching.
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Capiche?
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They gave us Baby Think-It-Overin Christian Lifestyles.
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I'’m not even having sex,
they should just give them
to the slutty girls.
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Oh, have you had
to watch the partial-birth
abortion video yet?
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-It'’s really awful.
-No, no! Don'’t ruin it for me.
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How was Morality?
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It was fine.
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Did you know that masturbating
is a sin?
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Ew. Of course. Why?
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I was just wondering.
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Making me rewind Titanic
back to the car scene twice
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is probably also a sin,
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just in case you were wonderingthat next.
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Look, I only
asked you to do that
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because I couldn'’t hear
what Kate whispered to Leo
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-when he said, "Where to, Miss?"-Mm-hmm.
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Which just happens to be
right before they make out
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and steam up that car window
that Kate slaps her hand on.
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I didn'’t write it!
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[dog barking]
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Hey! Hi, Gus.
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[clicking tongue]
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Sit, Gus.
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Sit.
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[modem dialing up]
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[computer voice]
Welcome!
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OK. Here we go!
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[sighs]
Damn it!
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[sighs]
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Titanic!
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[typing]
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Yes!
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[computer voice]
You'’ve got mail.
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[gasps]
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Mom?
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[chimes]
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[chimes]
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[chimes]
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[typing]
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[chimes]
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[chimes]
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[sighs]
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[scanner whirring]
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[chimes]
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[chimes]
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[chimes]
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[chimes]
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[chimes]
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Wet?
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[chimes]
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Uh...
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[smacks lips]
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Underwear?
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[typing]
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[chimes]
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[chimes]
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Ohh.
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[chimes]
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What?
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♪
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[Mom]
Alice!
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Dinner!
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-[Priest]
I confess to almighty God...
-Almighty God...
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[all] and to you,
my brothers and sisters,
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that I have sinned
through my own fault,
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in my thoughts and in my words,
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in what I have done and in whatI have failed to do...
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[Dad] The Millers invited us
over to watch the game.
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Great, I'’ll make
my cheesy potatoes.
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Oh, Damn it, Ron.
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Now I'’m all wet!
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[sighs]
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Calm down, Gail,
you'’re not that wet.
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[water running]
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-[music playing]
-[horn honks]
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So, uh, Alice, I heard
you got on Wade Friday night.
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Stephanie told me she walked inon you guys in my sauna.
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[Anthony] Ooh!
Gettin'’ steamy in the sauna!
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No, we were just back there
getting some drinks.
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We were only gone
for like a minute!
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Yeah, that'’s long enough
for Wade.
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[grunts] I was just messin'’.
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Listen.
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You don'’t have to put out
just because you like a boy.
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I don'’t like him.
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[Father Murphy]And now, for the Bible passagesthat back all this up...
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We'’re gonna start
with Galatians.
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Heather, why don'’t you
start us off?
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[Heather] The acts of the fleshare obvious:
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sexual immorality,
impurity, debauchery...
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OK, so, I just bought
this Blink 182 CD
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from Sam Goody, right?
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Um, I upload them to my computer
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and then I just put '’em
on here.
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Easy as pie.
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The album'’s amazing, by the way.
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It'’s called
Enema of the State.
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-Get it?
-[laughs]
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I bet you know all about enemas,don'’t you?
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Can you not talk about enemas
near my baby, please?
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Yeah, I'’m gonna...
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Thank you.
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Such a perv.
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What'’s an enema?
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It'’s when you fall water skiing
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and water shoots up your butt.
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Well, look who it is.
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Where were you this weekend?
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You didn'’t come to my party.
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Yeah, I heard things
got pretty crazy.
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Everyone'’s been talking
about you and Wade.
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-Oh?
-Yeah.
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They'’re saying
you tossed his salad.
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-What?
-Gross!
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You tossed his salad
in my sauna?
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What? No! No!
Who, who said that?
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Some girl in my Geometry class
was telling a bunch of us.
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Heather'’s really pissed too.
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She just gave Wade
a promise bracelet.
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OK. [chuckles]
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I mean, I'’ve never even heard ofdressing someone'’s salad! So...
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The party was really fun.
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Why didn'’t you come?
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I was on a retreat.
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[Laura]
Oh! Like a spa?
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No, a retreat ran by the school.
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It'’s called Kirkos and I got
this necklace on it. See?
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Cool. What'’d you do there?
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We'’re not allowed to talk aboutit with anyone who hasn'’t been.
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But it totally changed my life.
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Coming, Beth?
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Yeah. I gotta go.
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You guys should sign up
for the next one.
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I think it'’d be good for you.
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Since when does Beth eat lunch
with Nina and those girls?
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I have to go on that retreat.
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Do you think she thinks
that I actually
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tasted Wade'’s salad or whatever?
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I don'’t know.
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Beth'’s such a moron.
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I never have any clue
what'’s she's talking about
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so she probably made it up.
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[laughing]
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I'’m gonna go get more milk.
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[laughter continues]
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Oh. Hey, Heather. Hey, Wade.
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Can'’t have pudding without milk!
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She'’s disgusting.
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[church music playing]
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I think I'’m going to ask Heather
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to bear the gifts
with Jacob today.
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[snaps fingers]
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[sighs]
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Alice, if you want to continue
to be a gift bearer,
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you have to conduct yourself
like one.
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Your body is a gift from God.
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You need to honor it.
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[indistinct chatter]
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In the name of the Father,
the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
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Um, bless me Father
for I have sinned.
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It has been a week
since my last confession.
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These are my sins...
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Talking back to my dad...
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Not helping my mom
in the kitchen...
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Forgetting to feed the dog...
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And...
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And anything else?
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That'’s it.
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For penance,
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why don'’t you do
the dishes for a week?
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Give your mom a break.
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And ten Hail Marys
and ten Our Fathers.
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God, the Father of mercies,
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through the death
and resurrection of his Son,
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has reconciled
the world to itself
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and sent the Holy Spirit
among us
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for the forgiveness of sins...
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Give us this day
our daily bread,
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and forgive us
of our trespasses,
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as we forgive those that
trespass against us...
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[Mrs. Veda]
Your body is a gift from God.
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[Heather]
It'’s against God's plan.
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[Mrs. Vega]
You need to honor it.
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[Father Murphy] Or else it is
damnation for all eternity.
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Thy will be done
on earth as it is in Heaven.
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[Beth]
It'’s called Kirkos.
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I think it'’d be good for you.
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[birds chirping]
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♪
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[indistinct chatter]
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♪ Michael row the boat ashore
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♪ Hallelujah
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♪ Michael row the boat ashore
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♪ Hallelujah
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♪ Sister help
to trim the sails ♪
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♪ Hallelujah
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♪ Sister help
to trim the sails ♪
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♪ Hallelujah
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♪ Michael row the boat ashore
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♪ Hallelujah
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Are we there?
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♪ Michael row the boat ashore
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♪ Hallelujah
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I can'’t do this.
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[Laura] These few days away
are going to be good for us.
259
00:17:15,686 --> 00:17:16,905
[Alice]
I don'’t know.
260
00:17:16,948 --> 00:17:19,212
Ugh!
261
00:17:19,255 --> 00:17:23,085
Father looks so weird
in regular people clothes.
262
00:17:23,129 --> 00:17:25,087
[gasps] Oh, my God! Nina'’s here!
263
00:17:25,131 --> 00:17:27,524
She must be one
of the group leaders.
264
00:17:27,568 --> 00:17:29,483
Welcome, everyone.
265
00:17:29,526 --> 00:17:32,181
Who'’s that?
266
00:17:32,225 --> 00:17:34,879
Are you serious?
That'’s Chris.
267
00:17:34,923 --> 00:17:37,360
He'’s only like the star
of the football team.
268
00:17:41,060 --> 00:17:42,148
♪
269
00:17:42,191 --> 00:17:44,019
Welcome to Kirkos.
270
00:17:44,063 --> 00:17:46,935
So, uh, you'’re gonna be
bunking in my cabin this week.
271
00:17:46,978 --> 00:17:52,506
♪ Oh, oh, oh
272
00:17:52,549 --> 00:17:53,985
♪ My body'’s sayin' let'’s go ♪
273
00:17:54,029 --> 00:17:58,164
♪ Oh, oh, oh
274
00:17:58,207 --> 00:18:01,167
♪ But my heart is sayin'’ no ♪
275
00:18:01,210 --> 00:18:04,126
♪ If you wanna be with me
276
00:18:04,170 --> 00:18:07,738
♪ Baby,
there'’s a price to pay ♪
277
00:18:07,782 --> 00:18:11,960
♪ I'’m a genie in a bottle ♪
278
00:18:12,003 --> 00:18:14,136
♪ You gotta rub me
the right way ♪
279
00:18:14,180 --> 00:18:16,182
[Nina]
Hi! Alice, right?
280
00:18:16,225 --> 00:18:18,488
-Yeah.
-Welcome.
281
00:18:18,532 --> 00:18:21,926
I'’m Nina. Come with me.
You'’re in my cabin. Come on.
282
00:18:21,970 --> 00:18:23,058
Sorry.
283
00:18:26,017 --> 00:18:28,585
[Nina]
I'’m so excited for you guys.
284
00:18:30,979 --> 00:18:34,330
OK. Find the room
with your name on the door.
285
00:18:56,091 --> 00:18:58,180
-[knock at door]
-Oh, sorry!
286
00:18:58,224 --> 00:18:59,616
I didn'’t mean to scare you!
287
00:18:59,660 --> 00:19:01,052
You settling in?
288
00:19:01,096 --> 00:19:03,751
I'’ve got a sweatshirt
here for you.
289
00:19:03,794 --> 00:19:05,187
Thanks.
290
00:19:05,231 --> 00:19:08,538
And... next order
of beeswax is...
291
00:19:08,582 --> 00:19:10,497
I'’m gonna need
your cell phone and/or watch,
292
00:19:10,540 --> 00:19:11,976
if you have '’em.
293
00:19:12,020 --> 00:19:14,327
Did you bring either one
of those with you?
294
00:19:14,370 --> 00:19:15,763
Mm-hmm.
295
00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:34,477
No phone?
296
00:19:34,521 --> 00:19:36,175
-Mm-mm.
-K.
297
00:19:36,218 --> 00:19:38,481
Don'’t worry,
you won'’t be needing
298
00:19:38,525 --> 00:19:41,876
a watch this weekend anyway
because...
299
00:19:41,919 --> 00:19:43,834
you'’re on Jesus' time!
300
00:19:43,878 --> 00:19:46,315
See ya!
301
00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:50,014
[indistinct chatter]
302
00:19:50,058 --> 00:19:53,192
[Mrs. Veda] Please find
your small group number!
303
00:19:53,235 --> 00:19:55,672
Cut the chit-chat, please,
and have a seat.
304
00:19:55,716 --> 00:19:58,022
Sit at the table
with your small group number.
305
00:19:58,066 --> 00:19:59,807
Please find
your small group number.
306
00:19:59,850 --> 00:20:01,200
[sighs]
307
00:20:01,243 --> 00:20:03,419
-I guess I'’ll see you later.
-What?
308
00:20:17,477 --> 00:20:18,695
Group One?
309
00:20:20,306 --> 00:20:21,524
Awesome!
310
00:20:23,222 --> 00:20:24,788
I'’m Chris,
Group One'’s Senior Leader.
311
00:20:24,832 --> 00:20:25,920
Have a seat.
312
00:20:28,357 --> 00:20:31,752
Group One too?
Awesome! Have a seat.
313
00:20:33,623 --> 00:20:37,279
You are here
as a part of God'’s plan.
314
00:20:37,323 --> 00:20:41,892
His spirit moved each of you
to sign up for this retreat,
315
00:20:41,936 --> 00:20:45,156
which is a unique experience
that will challenge you
316
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,637
in new and profound ways.
317
00:20:47,681 --> 00:20:49,900
Kirkos is a time
to find meaning
318
00:20:49,944 --> 00:20:51,989
in the highs and lows
of your life.
319
00:20:52,033 --> 00:20:53,948
Over these next four days
320
00:20:53,991 --> 00:20:55,732
you will hear
from your classmates
321
00:20:55,776 --> 00:20:57,995
and be invited
to open up as well.
322
00:20:58,039 --> 00:21:00,955
It will strengthen your
relationship with yourself,
323
00:21:00,998 --> 00:21:05,176
but most importantly,
with Jesus.
324
00:21:05,220 --> 00:21:07,004
Now let'’s get started.
325
00:21:07,048 --> 00:21:08,963
On the papers
that Mrs. Veda is handing out,
326
00:21:09,006 --> 00:21:11,095
you'’re going to find
a list of feelings.
327
00:21:11,139 --> 00:21:13,402
Go through them
and circle any
328
00:21:13,446 --> 00:21:16,187
that you may have felt
in the past year or so.
329
00:21:16,231 --> 00:21:19,974
There are no wrong answers.
So just, just be honest.
330
00:21:20,017 --> 00:21:21,932
♪
331
00:22:10,372 --> 00:22:13,375
[Father Murphy] While ladies,
they typically need to...
332
00:22:13,419 --> 00:22:15,334
preheat for a while.
333
00:22:31,088 --> 00:22:32,481
[Father Murphy]
OK. Let'’s finish up.
334
00:22:32,525 --> 00:22:34,353
Pass your papers
toward the aisles.
335
00:22:34,396 --> 00:22:37,312
And make sure that your name
is printed clearly on top.
336
00:22:45,842 --> 00:22:46,756
Come on.
337
00:22:50,934 --> 00:22:53,284
The other night I dreamt
that I was walking
338
00:22:53,328 --> 00:22:54,460
along the beach with the Lord.
339
00:22:54,503 --> 00:22:56,113
As we walked,
340
00:22:56,157 --> 00:22:58,725
scenes from my life
flashed across the sky
341
00:22:58,768 --> 00:23:00,335
and in each scene,
342
00:23:00,379 --> 00:23:02,424
I noticed that there were
footprints in the sand.
343
00:23:02,468 --> 00:23:05,427
In some scenes there were
two sets of footprints
344
00:23:05,471 --> 00:23:09,300
and in other scenes there was
only one set of footprints.
345
00:23:09,344 --> 00:23:11,259
[indistinct chatter]
346
00:23:16,090 --> 00:23:17,004
Hey.
347
00:23:17,918 --> 00:23:19,093
Oh. Hey.
348
00:23:19,136 --> 00:23:21,400
-Hey, Sister Louise.
-Hi.
349
00:23:21,443 --> 00:23:24,272
Do you mind if I snag another
stupendous Walking Taco?
350
00:23:24,315 --> 00:23:27,536
[Sister Louise]
Of course, dear.
You'’re a growing boy!
351
00:23:27,580 --> 00:23:31,627
And Walking Tacos have lots
of protein and fiber.
352
00:23:31,671 --> 00:23:33,716
Oh, may I have some sour cream
too, please?
353
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,370
-[Sister Louise] Oh, yes.
-[Chris] Thank you.
354
00:23:35,414 --> 00:23:38,155
You'’re welcome.
What about you, dear?
355
00:23:38,199 --> 00:23:40,201
-Oh, no, no thanks.
-[Sister Louise] No?
356
00:23:40,244 --> 00:23:44,466
No sour cream?
No, that is the best part.
357
00:23:44,510 --> 00:23:46,120
OK.
358
00:23:46,163 --> 00:23:49,036
-I guess I'’ll have some.
-[chuckles]
359
00:23:49,079 --> 00:23:51,038
How'’s everything going for you
so far, Alice?
360
00:23:51,081 --> 00:23:53,040
It'’s great.
361
00:23:53,083 --> 00:23:58,132
You know, it'’s OK if you think
things are totally weird.
362
00:23:58,175 --> 00:24:00,743
It'’s supposed to be
a little weird.
363
00:24:00,787 --> 00:24:02,658
At least at first.
364
00:24:02,702 --> 00:24:03,790
[chuckles]
365
00:24:03,833 --> 00:24:05,226
I'’ll see you later, Alice.
366
00:24:05,269 --> 00:24:06,793
OK, bye!
367
00:24:10,231 --> 00:24:13,190
I come from a very big family.
368
00:24:13,234 --> 00:24:18,239
I have four younger siblings
and...
369
00:24:18,282 --> 00:24:21,242
an older sister...
370
00:24:21,285 --> 00:24:23,374
Melissa.
371
00:24:23,418 --> 00:24:26,160
She made honor roll
every semester
372
00:24:26,203 --> 00:24:28,162
and she founded
Habitat for Humanity
373
00:24:28,205 --> 00:24:29,598
at our school.
374
00:24:29,642 --> 00:24:32,296
She'’s the star of our family.
375
00:24:32,340 --> 00:24:35,386
One time,
I came home at 2:00 a.m.--
376
00:24:35,430 --> 00:24:38,346
three hours past my curfew.
377
00:24:41,958 --> 00:24:44,526
And no one even noticed.
378
00:24:44,570 --> 00:24:48,487
It felt like no one cared
379
00:24:48,530 --> 00:24:52,491
if I was there or not.
380
00:24:52,534 --> 00:24:54,014
Um...
381
00:24:54,057 --> 00:24:55,581
Uh...
382
00:24:55,624 --> 00:24:58,409
I'’d now like to play
my first song.
383
00:24:58,453 --> 00:25:00,368
[music playing]
384
00:25:08,550 --> 00:25:12,946
♪ You don'’t notice me
standing here ♪
385
00:25:12,989 --> 00:25:16,210
♪ Wishing you
could somehow feel ♪
386
00:25:16,253 --> 00:25:18,473
♪ I just wish
that you could feel ♪
387
00:25:18,517 --> 00:25:21,607
Last fall,
Melissa came to pick me up
388
00:25:21,650 --> 00:25:24,087
from a friend'’s house
to take me home.
389
00:25:24,131 --> 00:25:29,702
♪ And each day we were born
390
00:25:29,745 --> 00:25:34,489
And the next thing I remember
is waking up in the hospital
391
00:25:34,533 --> 00:25:36,317
being told that
we were in an accident
392
00:25:36,360 --> 00:25:40,060
and that I had
three broken ribs...
393
00:25:40,103 --> 00:25:42,192
[sobbing]
394
00:25:42,236 --> 00:25:44,847
And the first thought
I had was...
395
00:25:46,893 --> 00:25:48,895
[sobbing]
396
00:25:48,938 --> 00:25:54,857
Maybe my parents will finally
start to notice me.
397
00:25:54,901 --> 00:25:57,904
[sobbing]
398
00:25:57,947 --> 00:26:00,428
Melissa was fine but...
399
00:26:00,471 --> 00:26:02,561
my parents
were still obsessed with her.
400
00:26:02,604 --> 00:26:08,436
It felt likethey blamed me for the accident.
401
00:26:08,479 --> 00:26:12,135
That if she hadn'’t
had to come and pick me up,
402
00:26:12,179 --> 00:26:15,312
she wouldn'’t have missed
her Science Bowl nationals.
403
00:26:15,356 --> 00:26:19,403
But then,
I came on to this retreat...
404
00:26:19,447 --> 00:26:20,796
[sniffles]
405
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:25,801
And I realized
that God loves me...
406
00:26:25,845 --> 00:26:28,412
my friends love me...
407
00:26:28,456 --> 00:26:31,633
and...
408
00:26:31,677 --> 00:26:32,634
[chuckles]
409
00:26:32,678 --> 00:26:35,637
I love me too.
410
00:26:39,380 --> 00:26:42,426
[chuckles]
411
00:26:45,778 --> 00:26:47,736
[crickets chirping]
412
00:26:53,046 --> 00:26:54,395
[sighs]
413
00:27:00,662 --> 00:27:05,145
[beeping]
414
00:27:10,367 --> 00:27:12,239
[chiming loudly]
415
00:27:27,428 --> 00:27:29,996
[beeping]
416
00:27:38,657 --> 00:27:40,528
[vibrates]
417
00:27:50,930 --> 00:27:52,845
[vibrates]
418
00:28:03,682 --> 00:28:05,945
[vibrates]
419
00:28:05,988 --> 00:28:08,556
[moans]
420
00:28:08,599 --> 00:28:12,516
-[vibrating]
-[moaning]
421
00:28:31,492 --> 00:28:32,885
[sighs]
422
00:28:35,670 --> 00:28:37,672
[birds chirping]
423
00:28:40,066 --> 00:28:41,284
[indistinct chatter]
424
00:28:41,328 --> 00:28:43,156
OK, guys, circle up, circle up.
425
00:28:47,943 --> 00:28:49,945
Now, this is one
of my favorite songs,
426
00:28:49,989 --> 00:28:52,948
and while you'’re listening,
I want you to imagine
427
00:28:52,992 --> 00:28:56,952
that the eyes in the song
are Jesus'’s eyes.
428
00:28:59,999 --> 00:29:01,957
[music playing]
429
00:29:21,934 --> 00:29:23,109
♪ Love
430
00:29:26,025 --> 00:29:31,857
♪ I get so lost sometimes
431
00:29:31,900 --> 00:29:37,210
♪ Days pass
432
00:29:37,253 --> 00:29:43,172
♪ And this emptiness
fills my heart ♪
433
00:29:43,216 --> 00:29:46,959
♪ When I want to run away
434
00:29:47,002 --> 00:29:49,962
[indistinct chatter]
435
00:29:52,181 --> 00:29:54,140
Would you look at how
these gorgeous pines
436
00:29:54,183 --> 00:29:56,795
contrast against the blue sky?!
437
00:29:56,838 --> 00:30:00,189
Isn'’t God's paint palette
just magnificent?
438
00:30:00,233 --> 00:30:02,452
[Laura] So did I tell you Nina
told me she liked my hair
439
00:30:02,496 --> 00:30:04,715
-this morning at breakfast?
-Mm-hmm.
440
00:30:04,759 --> 00:30:06,674
She said she can'’t do it
with her own hair
441
00:30:06,717 --> 00:30:08,937
because every time she tries ither hair gets all bumpy.
442
00:30:08,981 --> 00:30:11,461
So I said I could
show her how I do it
443
00:30:11,505 --> 00:30:13,594
and she said she would
invite me over sometime!
444
00:30:13,637 --> 00:30:14,987
Isn'’t that cool?
445
00:30:15,030 --> 00:30:16,597
Yeah.
446
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,164
[gasps]
447
00:30:18,207 --> 00:30:22,908
I mean, you can come too,
of course, if you want.
448
00:30:22,951 --> 00:30:24,518
Well, maybe I should
ask Nina first
449
00:30:24,561 --> 00:30:26,302
if it'’s OK that you're there,
450
00:30:26,346 --> 00:30:28,348
but I mean
do you even wanna come?
451
00:30:28,391 --> 00:30:30,654
-Whoa!
-[gasps] Oh, my God.
452
00:30:30,698 --> 00:30:32,526
Are you OK?
453
00:30:32,569 --> 00:30:34,136
[groans]
454
00:30:34,180 --> 00:30:35,659
Everything OK here, troops?
455
00:30:35,703 --> 00:30:37,748
Ooh, comrade.
456
00:30:37,792 --> 00:30:39,925
That'’s quite a battle wound.
457
00:30:39,968 --> 00:30:41,056
Uh-huh.
458
00:30:41,100 --> 00:30:42,928
Can you walk?
459
00:30:42,971 --> 00:30:47,802
-[groans] No. No. No.
-OK. Just don'’t move.
460
00:30:47,846 --> 00:30:49,804
[grunts]
461
00:30:49,848 --> 00:30:51,893
Let'’s get you to the nurse, huh?
462
00:30:51,937 --> 00:30:55,244
♪
463
00:30:55,288 --> 00:30:57,246
[indistinct chatter]
464
00:31:09,476 --> 00:31:10,825
[knock at door]
465
00:31:10,869 --> 00:31:13,045
[door opens]
466
00:31:13,088 --> 00:31:15,525
Hey.
467
00:31:15,569 --> 00:31:17,701
I was just coming to let youknow we'’re doing the group photo
468
00:31:17,745 --> 00:31:19,225
down by the bridge in five.
469
00:31:19,268 --> 00:31:23,403
Great. I'’ll be there.
470
00:31:23,446 --> 00:31:25,927
Everything OK in here?
471
00:31:25,971 --> 00:31:27,842
Yep.
472
00:31:27,886 --> 00:31:29,061
OK.
473
00:31:30,889 --> 00:31:32,542
[phone vibrates]
474
00:31:32,586 --> 00:31:34,109
What was that?
475
00:31:34,153 --> 00:31:38,331
[phone vibrates]
476
00:31:38,374 --> 00:31:41,029
-[sighs]
-[phone vibrates]
477
00:31:41,073 --> 00:31:43,162
I specifically asked you
for your phone
478
00:31:43,205 --> 00:31:45,904
on the day you arrived.
479
00:31:45,947 --> 00:31:49,516
Look, I'’m gonna have
to tell Father about this.
480
00:31:49,559 --> 00:31:50,865
[sighs]
481
00:31:52,562 --> 00:31:53,912
Uh, Chris,
could you come in, please?
482
00:31:55,783 --> 00:31:59,395
Hey, Alice,
what'’d you have for breakfast?
483
00:31:59,439 --> 00:32:01,180
Cereal.
484
00:32:01,223 --> 00:32:03,095
Oh, you didn'’t have salad?
485
00:32:03,138 --> 00:32:04,487
[male student]
Like a Wade salad.
486
00:32:04,531 --> 00:32:05,749
[laughing]
487
00:32:05,793 --> 00:32:09,101
OK. Everybody say Jesus Christ!
488
00:32:09,144 --> 00:32:11,190
[all]
Jesus Christ!
489
00:32:11,233 --> 00:32:12,756
-[camera shutter clicks]
-OK, great!
490
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,584
Guys, head up
toward the cafeteria.
491
00:32:14,628 --> 00:32:16,978
We'’re gonna have lunch
in our small groups today, OK?
492
00:32:19,938 --> 00:32:23,332
And Alice, Alice, a quick word.
493
00:32:28,207 --> 00:32:29,643
Nina said you kept your phone.
494
00:32:33,255 --> 00:32:34,343
You know, we have a reason
for everything
495
00:32:34,387 --> 00:32:36,084
that we ask you to do here
496
00:32:36,128 --> 00:32:38,347
and it'’s very important
that you follow our rules.
497
00:32:38,391 --> 00:32:40,219
Sorry, Father.
498
00:32:40,262 --> 00:32:43,265
I hope you understand I can'’t
let this go unpunished.
499
00:32:43,309 --> 00:32:47,878
Now first, you must empty
the trash receptacles.
500
00:32:47,922 --> 00:32:50,272
There are four of them.
501
00:32:50,316 --> 00:32:55,756
One there... and one there...
502
00:32:55,799 --> 00:32:58,280
and one there...
503
00:32:58,324 --> 00:33:00,239
♪
504
00:33:10,814 --> 00:33:11,728
[grunts]
505
00:33:19,910 --> 00:33:22,435
Come on. [grunts]
506
00:33:24,915 --> 00:33:26,004
[grunts]
507
00:34:23,104 --> 00:34:25,063
♪
508
00:34:34,420 --> 00:34:36,813
[exhales deeply]
509
00:34:46,823 --> 00:34:48,738
[typing]
510
00:34:57,443 --> 00:34:58,531
What?
511
00:35:00,794 --> 00:35:02,100
[computer chimes]
512
00:35:04,624 --> 00:35:05,538
[chimes]
513
00:35:08,628 --> 00:35:09,542
[chimes]
514
00:35:12,153 --> 00:35:13,111
[chimes]
515
00:35:19,029 --> 00:35:21,641
[typing]
516
00:35:21,684 --> 00:35:22,598
[chimes]
517
00:35:25,558 --> 00:35:26,472
[chimes]
518
00:35:28,126 --> 00:35:29,083
[sighs]
519
00:35:30,302 --> 00:35:32,304
[footsteps approaching]
520
00:35:40,094 --> 00:35:42,314
[Nina]
Alice!
521
00:35:42,357 --> 00:35:43,967
-Hey.
-What'’s up?
522
00:35:46,231 --> 00:35:48,363
Just finished cleaning.
523
00:35:48,407 --> 00:35:50,191
We made S'’mores after lunch.
524
00:35:50,235 --> 00:35:51,497
Saved you one.
525
00:35:52,585 --> 00:35:54,369
Thanks.
526
00:35:54,413 --> 00:35:56,632
We pretended each marshmallow
was a different mortal sin
527
00:35:56,676 --> 00:35:58,068
before burning it.
528
00:35:58,112 --> 00:36:00,070
Yours was lust.
529
00:36:00,114 --> 00:36:01,115
Oh.
530
00:36:03,291 --> 00:36:06,207
Look, I want you to know
I'’m not mad
531
00:36:06,251 --> 00:36:08,775
about the phone thing, OK?
532
00:36:08,818 --> 00:36:10,907
You'’re doing a real good job
533
00:36:10,951 --> 00:36:13,954
and I think
you'’re on the right path now.
534
00:36:13,997 --> 00:36:16,609
So, just keep up
the good work, OK?
535
00:36:16,652 --> 00:36:17,827
OK.
536
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,657
I believe in you.
537
00:36:21,701 --> 00:36:23,181
[chuckles]
538
00:36:30,231 --> 00:36:32,190
[crickets chirping]
539
00:36:43,462 --> 00:36:44,637
"Dear Andrew...
540
00:36:48,293 --> 00:36:49,511
Remember when you were little
541
00:36:49,555 --> 00:36:51,470
and Mom and I would tuck you in,
542
00:36:51,513 --> 00:36:53,820
and you would make us kiss you
on both of your cheeks
543
00:36:53,863 --> 00:36:55,213
at exactly the same time
544
00:36:55,256 --> 00:36:57,824
or else
you couldn'’t fall asleep?
545
00:36:57,867 --> 00:36:59,869
I always thought those
were my favorite memories
546
00:36:59,913 --> 00:37:01,871
from when
we were a young family.
547
00:37:01,915 --> 00:37:03,308
But I was wrong.
548
00:37:03,351 --> 00:37:06,136
Every day is a new
favorite memory with you.
549
00:37:06,180 --> 00:37:09,009
I love you, kiddo.
550
00:37:09,052 --> 00:37:11,185
Love, Dad."
551
00:37:12,404 --> 00:37:13,622
[clears throat]
552
00:37:15,537 --> 00:37:17,235
"Dear Laura...
553
00:37:18,801 --> 00:37:21,282
Your father and I
love you so much.
554
00:37:21,326 --> 00:37:23,284
And although
I will always cherish
555
00:37:23,328 --> 00:37:25,808
those days
when you were little,
556
00:37:25,852 --> 00:37:28,420
I love being able to do
adult things with you too--
557
00:37:28,463 --> 00:37:30,509
like getting our nails done
558
00:37:30,552 --> 00:37:34,121
and showing you how to cook
my famous baked ziti.
559
00:37:34,164 --> 00:37:39,909
But no matter what,
you'’ll always be my baby girl.
560
00:37:39,953 --> 00:37:42,042
I love you so much."
561
00:37:45,611 --> 00:37:48,744
"Dear Alice,
562
00:37:48,788 --> 00:37:51,443
You'’re a wonderful daughter
and the best church partner
563
00:37:51,486 --> 00:37:54,924
a father could ask for.
It'’s so amazing
564
00:37:54,968 --> 00:37:57,492
to watch you grow
into the wholesome young woman
565
00:37:57,536 --> 00:38:00,974
God created you to be.
I am so proud of you
566
00:38:01,017 --> 00:38:05,979
for always making good choices.Love you, Al.
567
00:38:06,022 --> 00:38:07,110
Love, Dad."
568
00:38:07,154 --> 00:38:09,069
♪
569
00:38:26,913 --> 00:38:27,827
[Chris]
Amen.
570
00:38:27,870 --> 00:38:29,742
[all]
Amen.
571
00:38:31,570 --> 00:38:35,269
[sighs] All right.
Like myself
572
00:38:35,313 --> 00:38:37,402
and my fellow senior leaders
have done,
573
00:38:37,445 --> 00:38:38,925
we are now gonna ask
574
00:38:38,968 --> 00:38:41,841
that you all share
your own stories.
575
00:38:41,884 --> 00:38:44,583
Moments when life
was difficult,
576
00:38:44,626 --> 00:38:48,326
or hard, or overwhelming.
577
00:38:48,369 --> 00:38:50,545
Times where you felt
Jesus was far away.
578
00:38:55,942 --> 00:39:00,294
My girlfriend
dumped me last week.
579
00:39:00,338 --> 00:39:02,470
That was really rough.
580
00:39:02,514 --> 00:39:04,298
I thought everything
was going well,
581
00:39:04,342 --> 00:39:06,779
and last week,
she had her friend call me
582
00:39:06,822 --> 00:39:08,824
to break up with me for her.
583
00:39:08,868 --> 00:39:10,565
And I'’m pretty sure
it was a three-way call,
584
00:39:10,609 --> 00:39:15,222
and she was listening,
so I acted like it was cool,
585
00:39:15,265 --> 00:39:18,051
but it really sucked.
586
00:39:18,094 --> 00:39:19,357
Thank you, Andrew.
587
00:39:20,445 --> 00:39:22,055
[deep breath]
588
00:39:22,098 --> 00:39:26,494
This is really hard
to talk about.
589
00:39:26,538 --> 00:39:30,106
But...
590
00:39:30,150 --> 00:39:32,587
Last month...
591
00:39:35,416 --> 00:39:38,593
my Grandma died.
592
00:39:38,637 --> 00:39:42,597
She lived in Idaho,so I didn'’t see her that often.
593
00:39:46,035 --> 00:39:48,342
And like,
it makes me really sad
594
00:39:48,386 --> 00:39:51,301
that we didn'’t get to talk muchbefore she died.
595
00:39:51,345 --> 00:39:55,175
The saddest part is...
after her funeral,
596
00:39:55,218 --> 00:39:58,352
we went back to her house,
597
00:39:58,396 --> 00:40:01,964
and her dog was there,
just looking so sad.
598
00:40:02,008 --> 00:40:03,792
It was, like,
walking around the house
599
00:40:03,836 --> 00:40:07,492
looking for her.
It had no idea.
600
00:40:18,677 --> 00:40:20,505
OK...
601
00:40:22,376 --> 00:40:23,682
Um...
602
00:40:25,510 --> 00:40:27,381
Well...
603
00:40:29,818 --> 00:40:32,386
Speaking of dogs...
604
00:40:34,214 --> 00:40:38,523
My dog... Gus...
605
00:40:38,566 --> 00:40:41,482
died a few weeks ago.
606
00:40:41,526 --> 00:40:47,401
Um, our neighbors put out
some chipmunk poison.
607
00:40:49,751 --> 00:40:54,626
He must have got into it
through the chain-link fence.
608
00:40:54,669 --> 00:40:57,585
My family was playing basketballin our driveway,
609
00:40:57,629 --> 00:40:59,979
and the ball
went over the fence,
610
00:41:00,022 --> 00:41:02,242
and I went to go get it,
611
00:41:02,285 --> 00:41:06,681
and... that'’s where
I found him...
612
00:41:08,204 --> 00:41:13,122
lying on his side.
He wasn'’t moving.
613
00:41:13,166 --> 00:41:15,081
[crying, sniffling]
614
00:41:35,884 --> 00:41:37,886
-I thought he was just...
-[Father Murphy] Excuse me.
615
00:41:37,930 --> 00:41:39,192
All right, can I have
your attention, please?
616
00:41:39,235 --> 00:41:41,542
All eyes and ears here.
617
00:41:41,586 --> 00:41:44,153
I'’m sorry to report
that earlier this morning,
618
00:41:44,197 --> 00:41:45,720
I found something
rather disturbing
619
00:41:45,764 --> 00:41:48,070
on my office computer.
620
00:41:48,114 --> 00:41:49,724
It appears that someone
has used it
621
00:41:49,768 --> 00:41:53,336
to engage
in an online chat of...
622
00:41:53,380 --> 00:41:56,470
well, let'’s just say
an explicit nature.
623
00:41:56,514 --> 00:41:58,907
Would anyone like to take
responsibility for this?
624
00:41:58,951 --> 00:42:01,214
[quiet murmuring]
625
00:42:03,608 --> 00:42:07,046
I didn'’t think so.
626
00:42:07,089 --> 00:42:11,529
Now, I have no way
of knowing who did this,
627
00:42:11,572 --> 00:42:16,664
but whoever it was,even if I don'’t know you did it,
628
00:42:16,708 --> 00:42:21,060
you do, and so does God.
629
00:42:21,103 --> 00:42:23,628
But in keeping with the theme
of this retreat,
630
00:42:23,671 --> 00:42:26,674
I hope that whomever did do it
feels compelled
631
00:42:26,718 --> 00:42:29,024
by the Spirit of Christ
to come forward
632
00:42:29,068 --> 00:42:31,331
before the retreat is through.
633
00:42:32,941 --> 00:42:34,987
[murmuring]
634
00:43:02,188 --> 00:43:04,625
So, Alice,
how would you describe
635
00:43:04,669 --> 00:43:06,758
your relationship with Jesus?
636
00:43:06,801 --> 00:43:09,064
-Fine.
-Just fine?
637
00:43:11,589 --> 00:43:13,591
Fine, as in good.
638
00:43:13,634 --> 00:43:15,723
Do you think that
there might be something
getting in the way?
639
00:43:15,767 --> 00:43:18,117
Something that'’s preventing it
from being better?
640
00:43:21,381 --> 00:43:23,426
OK, well, why don'’t you try
reflecting back
641
00:43:23,470 --> 00:43:25,124
on that feelings checklist
you filled out
642
00:43:25,167 --> 00:43:27,648
on your first day here.
Do any of the emotions
643
00:43:27,692 --> 00:43:30,390
that you circled on there
bring anything up?
644
00:43:30,433 --> 00:43:32,610
Um...
645
00:43:34,699 --> 00:43:40,487
I was feeling envious
of my best friend
646
00:43:40,530 --> 00:43:43,708
when she got a Beamer
for her birthday,
647
00:43:43,751 --> 00:43:46,667
because I drive
a Buick Le Sabre.
648
00:43:46,711 --> 00:43:50,584
Anything else?
649
00:43:50,628 --> 00:43:53,456
She also got Oakley sunglasses
for Christmas.
650
00:43:56,590 --> 00:43:58,374
What about feeling turned on?
651
00:44:05,077 --> 00:44:07,079
No temptation
has overtaken you
652
00:44:07,122 --> 00:44:09,298
except what is common
to mankind.
653
00:44:09,342 --> 00:44:10,778
And God will not let you
be tempted
654
00:44:10,822 --> 00:44:12,475
beyond what you can bear,
and he knows
655
00:44:12,519 --> 00:44:14,216
what is truly in your heart.
656
00:44:17,524 --> 00:44:18,873
OK.
657
00:44:22,485 --> 00:44:24,139
So, have you ever
felt turned on?
658
00:44:28,709 --> 00:44:31,364
And did you take any action
when you had that feeling?
659
00:44:33,801 --> 00:44:35,368
You didn'’t take any action?
660
00:44:37,675 --> 00:44:38,719
No.
661
00:44:42,331 --> 00:44:44,464
Nothing with
your classmate Wade?
662
00:44:47,206 --> 00:44:49,948
No.
663
00:44:49,991 --> 00:44:51,689
Someone made that up.
664
00:44:54,779 --> 00:44:56,606
Alice, this retreat
isn'’t gonna do you any favors
665
00:44:56,650 --> 00:44:57,912
if you'’re not honest.
666
00:45:10,664 --> 00:45:12,971
How'’s this?
667
00:45:13,014 --> 00:45:17,192
Wow! That one'’s huge.
Way to go, Alice.
668
00:45:20,369 --> 00:45:21,762
Thanks.
669
00:45:35,123 --> 00:45:36,603
[sighs]
670
00:45:36,646 --> 00:45:39,649
And when you turn it on,
our plasma rises
671
00:45:39,693 --> 00:45:41,695
out of this little Oak unit.
672
00:45:41,739 --> 00:45:43,784
But when you press off,
it sinks back down
673
00:45:43,828 --> 00:45:45,786
and a Rothko takes its place.
674
00:45:45,830 --> 00:45:48,006
Your rec room sounds amazing!
675
00:45:48,049 --> 00:45:50,269
Hey, Nina, that, um...
676
00:45:50,312 --> 00:45:52,184
leader meeting
is about to start.
677
00:45:52,227 --> 00:45:54,752
Right, right.
I forgot about that.
678
00:45:54,795 --> 00:45:56,884
Thank you. Um, I gotta go.
679
00:45:56,928 --> 00:45:58,973
OK. I'’ll see you
at the campfire.
680
00:46:11,420 --> 00:46:12,682
Hey!
681
00:46:12,726 --> 00:46:14,075
What?
682
00:46:14,119 --> 00:46:16,686
[sighs]
683
00:46:16,730 --> 00:46:18,732
What is your problem with me?
684
00:46:18,776 --> 00:46:21,648
My problem? My problem is
that Heather almost dumped me
685
00:46:21,691 --> 00:46:23,563
because of that disgusting rumoryou started.
686
00:46:23,606 --> 00:46:25,130
I didn'’t start it!
687
00:46:25,173 --> 00:46:27,001
Yeah, well,
if you didn'’t, who did?
688
00:46:27,045 --> 00:46:29,699
I don'’t know! I--
689
00:46:29,743 --> 00:46:30,788
Did you start it?
690
00:46:30,831 --> 00:46:33,921
No! I have a girlfriend.
691
00:46:33,965 --> 00:46:37,098
OK. Well,
both you and I know
692
00:46:37,142 --> 00:46:40,101
that nothing happened.
693
00:46:42,451 --> 00:46:43,801
Are you telling people that?
694
00:46:48,109 --> 00:46:50,024
You need to start!
Because everyone thinks
695
00:46:50,068 --> 00:46:52,810
that I'’m a slut,
even the teachers.
696
00:46:54,768 --> 00:46:56,683
Look, you'’re
the only other person
697
00:46:56,726 --> 00:46:57,945
who knows what happened.
698
00:46:57,989 --> 00:47:00,600
And no one believes me!
699
00:47:00,643 --> 00:47:02,820
Hey, Wade! What are you
still doing here?
700
00:47:02,863 --> 00:47:04,517
Just on my way out, Father.
701
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,606
OK, good, good.
Hey, how'’s the old shotput arm
702
00:47:06,649 --> 00:47:08,303
-doing in the off season?
-[Wade] Good, Father.
703
00:47:08,347 --> 00:47:10,262
Just trying not to do
too much heavy lifting.
704
00:47:10,305 --> 00:47:11,785
[chuckles]
705
00:47:30,021 --> 00:47:31,979
[music playing through radio]
706
00:47:49,867 --> 00:47:52,782
♪ Give me a word
Give me a sign ♪
707
00:47:52,826 --> 00:47:58,179
♪ Show me where to look
Tell me what will I find ♪
708
00:47:58,223 --> 00:48:00,529
♪ What will I find?
709
00:48:02,444 --> 00:48:05,578
♪ Lay me on the ground
Fly me in the sky ♪
710
00:48:05,621 --> 00:48:11,018
♪ Show me where to look
Tell me what will I find ♪
711
00:48:11,062 --> 00:48:13,412
♪ What will I find?
712
00:48:15,196 --> 00:48:17,938
[music intensifies]
713
00:48:17,982 --> 00:48:19,157
♪ Yeah
714
00:48:21,202 --> 00:48:22,464
♪ Yeah
715
00:48:24,814 --> 00:48:29,515
♪ Oh, heaven,
let your light shine down ♪
716
00:48:31,256 --> 00:48:35,956
♪ Oh, heaven,
let your light shine down ♪
717
00:48:37,871 --> 00:48:43,181
♪ Oh, heaven,
let your light shine down ♪
718
00:48:43,224 --> 00:48:45,270
-[music lessens in intensity]
- ♪ Oh
719
00:48:45,313 --> 00:48:47,620
[Sister Louise coughs]
720
00:48:47,663 --> 00:48:50,579
I need a cup of tea.
721
00:48:58,283 --> 00:48:59,937
I'’m all done.
722
00:48:59,980 --> 00:49:01,416
OK, dear.
723
00:49:01,460 --> 00:49:04,550
[girl]
It is the best.
724
00:49:04,593 --> 00:49:06,073
...and the colorful,
like, floral tops.
725
00:49:06,117 --> 00:49:07,074
-The stripes, the stripes!
-Hey!
726
00:49:07,118 --> 00:49:08,336
It'’s so good.
727
00:49:08,380 --> 00:49:10,382
Can I talk to you
for a minute?
728
00:49:10,425 --> 00:49:11,905
-Um...
-I'’ll save you a seat.
729
00:49:11,949 --> 00:49:13,385
OK.
730
00:49:16,518 --> 00:49:18,868
What'’s up?
Nina asked me to sit with her,
731
00:49:18,912 --> 00:49:20,870
so I don'’t want
to make her wait.
732
00:49:20,914 --> 00:49:25,353
I saw Nina giving Adam
a blow job.
733
00:49:25,397 --> 00:49:26,702
What?!
734
00:49:26,746 --> 00:49:28,791
Yeah. In the woods
after lunch.
735
00:49:33,709 --> 00:49:36,756
Why do you think it'’s OK
to keep making things up?
736
00:49:36,799 --> 00:49:38,497
I'’m not making this up!
737
00:49:38,540 --> 00:49:40,020
Gabby told me you were talking
738
00:49:40,064 --> 00:49:42,762
about your dog dying
in your small group?
739
00:49:42,805 --> 00:49:44,633
-Did Gus die?
-[sighs] OK, look.
740
00:49:44,677 --> 00:49:47,201
I just said that because...
I didn'’t know what to do!
741
00:49:47,245 --> 00:49:48,637
I didn'’t have anything to say,
and everyone had
742
00:49:48,681 --> 00:49:50,074
these really sad stories...
743
00:49:50,117 --> 00:49:52,163
[scoffs] God,
this is just like
744
00:49:52,206 --> 00:49:53,991
that time in sixth grade
when you told everyone
745
00:49:54,034 --> 00:49:55,253
Jason gave you
a "purple nurple"
746
00:49:55,296 --> 00:49:56,689
-on the bus.
-[scoffs]
747
00:49:56,732 --> 00:49:58,473
You want attention.
748
00:49:58,517 --> 00:50:00,432
-OK...
-You know what?
749
00:50:00,475 --> 00:50:02,390
I bet you actually did
toss Wade'’s salad.
750
00:50:02,434 --> 00:50:03,652
I don'’t even know
what that means!
751
00:50:03,696 --> 00:50:04,914
Oh, my God. Quit the act.
752
00:50:04,958 --> 00:50:06,438
I know you know what it means,
753
00:50:06,481 --> 00:50:07,961
just like you know
the sex scene in Titanic
754
00:50:08,005 --> 00:50:09,832
comes right after
they'’re in the car.
755
00:50:13,706 --> 00:50:16,317
You were the onein Father'’s office, weren't you?
756
00:50:16,361 --> 00:50:19,755
What? [scoffs]
757
00:50:19,799 --> 00:50:23,933
It makes perfect sense.
758
00:50:23,977 --> 00:50:27,894
And I am sick of constantly
feeling embarrassed
759
00:50:27,937 --> 00:50:31,245
for being friends
with a pervy psycho.
760
00:50:43,692 --> 00:50:45,085
[Alice]
Ugh.
761
00:50:45,868 --> 00:50:49,002
[gurgling]
762
00:50:49,959 --> 00:50:52,223
Ugh.
763
00:51:19,337 --> 00:51:21,295
[Father Murphy whistling]
764
00:51:53,806 --> 00:51:55,764
[sexy music
playing from computer]
765
00:52:09,604 --> 00:52:10,518
[moans]
766
00:52:13,739 --> 00:52:15,654
[car squeaking]
767
00:52:19,919 --> 00:52:21,007
[gasps]
768
00:52:22,835 --> 00:52:23,836
[woman on computer moaning]
769
00:52:23,879 --> 00:52:25,881
[exhales sharply]
770
00:52:29,407 --> 00:52:31,365
[woman on computer moaning]
771
00:52:36,979 --> 00:52:40,374
[sighing]
772
00:52:49,862 --> 00:52:52,908
Alice, hey.
773
00:52:52,952 --> 00:52:54,954
Hey.
774
00:52:54,997 --> 00:52:56,521
Is everything all right?
775
00:52:56,564 --> 00:52:59,350
Uh...
776
00:52:59,393 --> 00:53:00,829
Do you wanna talk?
777
00:53:10,491 --> 00:53:12,145
Is everything OK?
778
00:53:21,154 --> 00:53:22,155
What are you doing?
779
00:53:33,427 --> 00:53:34,950
What are you doing?!
780
00:53:36,735 --> 00:53:38,563
You know that I get turned on
like a microwave!
781
00:53:44,003 --> 00:53:47,963
[students]
♪ Let us build
the city of God ♪
782
00:53:48,007 --> 00:53:51,880
♪ Let our tears
be turned into dancing ♪
783
00:53:51,924 --> 00:53:56,145
♪ For the Lord,
our light and our love ♪
784
00:53:56,189 --> 00:53:59,671
♪ Has turned
the night into day ♪
785
00:53:59,714 --> 00:54:03,936
♪ Let us build
the city of God ♪
786
00:54:03,979 --> 00:54:07,548
♪ Let our tears
be turned into dancing ♪
787
00:54:07,592 --> 00:54:11,857
♪ For the Lord,
our light and our love ♪
788
00:54:11,900 --> 00:54:15,382
♪ Has turned
the night into day ♪
789
00:54:15,426 --> 00:54:19,212
♪ Let us build
the city of God ♪
790
00:54:23,347 --> 00:54:25,262
♪
791
00:55:14,267 --> 00:55:16,182
[music playing]
792
00:55:24,451 --> 00:55:29,978
♪ I am the drink at
the loneliest place in town ♪
793
00:55:33,808 --> 00:55:36,550
♪ The place where
the heartache and smoke... ♪
794
00:55:36,594 --> 00:55:40,032
One wine cooler. Please.
795
00:55:42,687 --> 00:55:48,475
♪ The jukebox is moanin'’
a sad old country sound ♪
796
00:55:51,478 --> 00:55:53,828
Thanks.
797
00:55:53,872 --> 00:55:57,484
♪ At the loneliest place
in town ♪
798
00:56:00,661 --> 00:56:05,100
♪ It'’s a place
where I feel at home ♪
799
00:56:05,144 --> 00:56:07,538
♪ And it'’s better
than bein'’ alone ♪
800
00:56:07,581 --> 00:56:10,105
Rough day?
801
00:56:10,149 --> 00:56:13,544
♪ '’Cause ever since
you been gone ♪
802
00:56:13,587 --> 00:56:15,415
♪ This is where I belong
803
00:56:15,459 --> 00:56:18,897
You from that Catholic
youth retreat down the road?
804
00:56:18,940 --> 00:56:22,161
No.
805
00:56:22,204 --> 00:56:23,902
I'’m 21.
806
00:56:28,341 --> 00:56:32,171
♪ Cuttin'’ up, tellin' jokes ♪
807
00:56:32,214 --> 00:56:34,391
So, what'’s it like over there?
808
00:56:37,437 --> 00:56:42,921
♪ You'’d never know my whole world'’s falling down ♪
809
00:56:45,924 --> 00:56:48,230
♪ Yeah I'’m the life
of the party ♪
810
00:56:48,274 --> 00:56:50,319
♪ At the loneliest place...
811
00:56:50,363 --> 00:56:52,670
[Gina] I used to be Catholic.
I went to Catholic school
812
00:56:52,713 --> 00:56:56,891
for 12 years.
I was baptized, confirmed,
813
00:56:56,935 --> 00:57:00,634
the whole kit '’n caboodle.
814
00:57:00,678 --> 00:57:02,897
[Alice]
You'’re not anymore?
815
00:57:02,941 --> 00:57:06,205
No.
816
00:57:06,248 --> 00:57:08,337
How come?
817
00:57:08,381 --> 00:57:11,950
San Francisco. The '’70s.
818
00:57:11,993 --> 00:57:15,475
Sex. Women. Mm.
819
00:57:15,519 --> 00:57:19,914
Lots of reasons.
But I remember being your age
820
00:57:19,958 --> 00:57:22,569
and just being scared shitless
821
00:57:22,613 --> 00:57:25,093
that I was gonna wind up
in hell.
822
00:57:25,137 --> 00:57:27,487
Really?
823
00:57:27,531 --> 00:57:29,358
-For what?
-[Gina] Oh, God.
824
00:57:29,402 --> 00:57:32,971
For everything.
Cheating on my homework,
825
00:57:33,014 --> 00:57:37,149
for giving up sugar for Lent
and then eating a whole jar
826
00:57:37,192 --> 00:57:42,110
of gumdrops underneath
my grandmother'’s staircase.
827
00:57:42,154 --> 00:57:45,462
I literally thought
I was going to hell
828
00:57:45,505 --> 00:57:47,768
for eating gumdrops.
829
00:57:47,812 --> 00:57:49,466
[chuckles]
830
00:57:49,509 --> 00:57:51,946
And that there would be
a big red devil there
831
00:57:51,990 --> 00:57:55,559
with a poker,
and he'’d poke at me.
832
00:57:55,602 --> 00:57:57,386
And my bed would be
made out of coals,
833
00:57:57,430 --> 00:58:00,172
and there'’d be nothing
but peas to eat,
834
00:58:00,215 --> 00:58:02,609
'’cause I hate peas.
835
00:58:02,653 --> 00:58:04,437
[sighs]
836
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:24,413
I thought I was
gonna go to hell.
837
00:58:24,457 --> 00:58:29,244
for... rewinding Titanic
838
00:58:29,288 --> 00:58:34,859
back to the sex scene...
three times.
839
00:58:36,730 --> 00:58:40,429
You know, I thought
I was gonna go to hell
840
00:58:40,473 --> 00:58:42,127
for looking through my dad'’s
841
00:58:42,170 --> 00:58:44,433
Sports Illustrated
Swimsuit Edition.
842
00:58:44,477 --> 00:58:47,262
I thought I was going to hell
for having cybersex!
843
00:58:47,306 --> 00:58:50,962
[both laugh]
844
00:58:51,005 --> 00:58:52,311
[Gina]
Yep.
845
00:58:58,665 --> 00:59:02,321
You know, the truth is,nobody knows what they'’re doing
846
00:59:02,364 --> 00:59:05,367
any more than the rest of us.
We'’re all just trying
847
00:59:05,411 --> 00:59:06,891
to figure out our shit.
848
00:59:06,934 --> 00:59:08,370
[sighs]
849
00:59:13,027 --> 00:59:14,986
But be careful online, OK?
850
00:59:15,029 --> 00:59:17,336
Don'’t give your password
out to anyone,
851
00:59:17,379 --> 00:59:19,381
not even someone who says
they work for AOL.
852
00:59:19,425 --> 00:59:22,515
They don'’t. They just want
to give you the Melissa virus.
853
00:59:25,866 --> 00:59:28,608
[Gina sighs]
854
00:59:28,652 --> 00:59:31,611
Now, I got to get you back
to that Jesus camp.
855
00:59:31,655 --> 00:59:36,007
I don'’t want any nuns showing upat my bar looking for ya.
856
00:59:38,575 --> 00:59:42,796
I know. Come on.
I'’ll give you a lift.
857
00:59:53,285 --> 00:59:56,157
[sighs] Mm.
858
00:59:56,201 --> 00:59:58,725
-Thanks.
-No problem, kid.
859
01:00:02,250 --> 01:00:07,081
Hey. Have you thought about
where you might go to college?
860
01:00:08,866 --> 01:00:14,306
Um... probably State?
861
01:00:14,349 --> 01:00:16,047
Why don'’t you
check out some schools
862
01:00:16,090 --> 01:00:19,093
on the East and West Coasts?
863
01:00:19,137 --> 01:00:21,661
You might like getting
outta this town for a bit.
864
01:00:26,274 --> 01:00:27,667
[Alice]
Wait!
865
01:00:33,194 --> 01:00:38,896
Do you know what...
tossing someone'’s salad is?
866
01:00:38,939 --> 01:00:40,854
[laughs]
867
01:00:44,771 --> 01:00:48,209
It'’s means licking
someone'’s butthole.
868
01:00:49,776 --> 01:00:53,650
[both chuckle]
869
01:00:53,693 --> 01:00:55,129
Good luck out there, kid.
870
01:00:57,915 --> 01:00:59,612
[giggling]
871
01:00:59,656 --> 01:01:01,875
[motorcycle cranks, revs]
872
01:01:16,629 --> 01:01:18,544
♪
873
01:01:28,641 --> 01:01:30,643
[indistinct chatting]
874
01:01:44,570 --> 01:01:47,573
Hey, how'’s it going?
875
01:01:47,616 --> 01:01:49,488
I really miss my cat.
876
01:01:49,531 --> 01:01:52,534
[chuckles]
877
01:01:52,578 --> 01:01:55,712
Um... what'’s your cat's name?
878
01:01:57,888 --> 01:01:59,498
Kyoto.
879
01:01:59,541 --> 01:02:02,762
Oh, that'’s pretty.
What does it mean?
880
01:02:02,806 --> 01:02:05,634
It'’s a city is Japan.
I love Japan!
881
01:02:05,678 --> 01:02:07,332
I'’m going to go with my mom
when I turn 18
882
01:02:07,375 --> 01:02:09,073
as a-- a graduation present.
883
01:02:09,116 --> 01:02:11,205
Cool. What are you
gonna do there?
884
01:02:11,249 --> 01:02:14,208
Try all the weird Japanese candyand eat a ton of sushi.
885
01:02:14,252 --> 01:02:15,688
I'’ve never had sushi.
886
01:02:15,732 --> 01:02:18,343
Oh, my God! It'’s so good.
887
01:02:18,386 --> 01:02:22,564
We should go to Taki sometime.
They have the best sushi.
888
01:02:22,608 --> 01:02:26,046
-Yeah.
-In this city, anyway.
889
01:02:26,090 --> 01:02:28,092
[chuckles]
890
01:02:46,327 --> 01:02:48,895
Hey.
891
01:02:48,939 --> 01:02:50,418
Hey.
892
01:02:52,638 --> 01:02:55,293
So, everyone says
that it was Wade
893
01:02:55,336 --> 01:02:58,775
who used Father'’s computer.
894
01:02:58,818 --> 01:02:59,776
Oh.
895
01:02:59,819 --> 01:03:01,647
Yeah.
896
01:03:01,690 --> 01:03:04,041
Father found his bracelet
in his office or something.
897
01:03:04,084 --> 01:03:07,740
Mm.
898
01:03:07,784 --> 01:03:09,350
I'’m sorry
I thought it was you.
899
01:03:12,527 --> 01:03:15,356
It'’s OK.
900
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,794
But now that we know
he'’s a perv,
901
01:03:17,837 --> 01:03:20,405
he probably made up that rumor
about you guys.
902
01:03:20,448 --> 01:03:25,279
He clearly made it upto hide the fact that he'’s gay.
903
01:03:25,323 --> 01:03:26,367
What?
904
01:03:26,411 --> 01:03:27,978
Yeah, apparently,
905
01:03:28,021 --> 01:03:32,330
whatever he did
on Father'’s computer was gay.
906
01:03:32,373 --> 01:03:34,811
But... he has a girlfriend.
907
01:03:34,854 --> 01:03:37,204
Yeah. A girlfriend
who doesn'’t even kiss
908
01:03:37,248 --> 01:03:41,774
because she'’s afraid
it'’ll lead to sex.
909
01:03:41,818 --> 01:03:43,428
The perfect cover-up.
910
01:03:43,471 --> 01:03:44,385
[door opens]
911
01:03:56,354 --> 01:03:57,790
Ew.
912
01:04:05,972 --> 01:04:08,496
We have a mantra
here at Kirkos.
913
01:04:08,540 --> 01:04:12,326
Question the First,
Weep the Second,
914
01:04:12,370 --> 01:04:15,895
Accept the Third,
Live the Fourth.
915
01:04:15,939 --> 01:04:19,333
It refers to
the four days of Kirkos.
916
01:04:19,377 --> 01:04:21,205
Now, they'’re all pretty
self-explanatory,
917
01:04:21,248 --> 01:04:24,251
except for
that last one: live.
918
01:04:24,295 --> 01:04:26,950
What that means is
to take what you have learned
919
01:04:26,993 --> 01:04:29,866
this weekend, what youhave discovered about yourself,
920
01:04:29,909 --> 01:04:33,434
and incorporate it
into your everyday lives.
921
01:04:33,478 --> 01:04:37,612
To live each day like it
is the fourth day of Kirkos.
922
01:04:37,656 --> 01:04:39,440
Now, I'’m going to ask
that you come up here
923
01:04:39,484 --> 01:04:41,181
and speak about
your experiences this weekend
924
01:04:41,225 --> 01:04:44,315
with the whole group.
There'’s no set order.
925
01:04:44,358 --> 01:04:46,926
Just let the Spirit of Christ
move you.
926
01:05:07,686 --> 01:05:09,253
I, uh...
927
01:05:12,473 --> 01:05:15,824
I gave in to temptation.
928
01:05:15,868 --> 01:05:19,654
This is not who I am,
but I let myself lose control.
929
01:05:19,698 --> 01:05:21,352
This retreat has taught me,
though, that,
930
01:05:21,395 --> 01:05:25,182
through the love
of my friends, teachers,
931
01:05:25,225 --> 01:05:26,792
and, most importantly, Jesus,
932
01:05:26,835 --> 01:05:29,708
that there is nothing
I can'’t overcome.
933
01:05:55,690 --> 01:05:57,083
[sighs]
934
01:06:06,223 --> 01:06:11,010
Being in high school sucks.
935
01:06:11,054 --> 01:06:15,275
People love to talk, but...
936
01:06:17,321 --> 01:06:23,892
just because you hear somethingdoesn'’t mean that it's true.
937
01:06:23,936 --> 01:06:30,029
When people spread lies
about you, it hurts.
938
01:06:30,073 --> 01:06:35,426
It makes you feel alone...
939
01:06:35,469 --> 01:06:38,255
and empty.
940
01:06:38,298 --> 01:06:43,869
And... sometimes...
941
01:06:43,912 --> 01:06:47,351
you do things
that you'’re not proud of.
942
01:06:50,615 --> 01:06:54,053
But look...
943
01:06:54,097 --> 01:06:57,926
we'’re all hiding stuff.
944
01:06:57,970 --> 01:07:01,495
All kinds of stuff.
What if we just try
945
01:07:01,539 --> 01:07:06,979
to be honest and to treat
each other with respect?
946
01:07:07,023 --> 01:07:09,460
That'’s what
Jesus wanted, right?
947
01:07:09,503 --> 01:07:14,726
And then, maybe, we can stop
feeling so guilty
948
01:07:14,769 --> 01:07:18,077
about who we are all the time,
because the truth is,
949
01:07:18,121 --> 01:07:19,818
we'’re all just trying
to figure out our shit.
950
01:07:19,861 --> 01:07:21,776
[students gasp]
951
01:07:24,953 --> 01:07:26,085
Sorry, um...
952
01:07:35,790 --> 01:07:37,705
♪
953
01:07:54,070 --> 01:07:56,028
[inaudible]
954
01:08:05,733 --> 01:08:07,126
Have you ever had sushi?
955
01:08:07,170 --> 01:08:10,129
Sushi? You mean
like raw fish?
956
01:08:10,173 --> 01:08:12,044
[chuckles] No.
957
01:08:12,088 --> 01:08:13,567
Who are you gonna go
to church with
958
01:08:13,611 --> 01:08:15,482
when I go to college?
959
01:08:15,526 --> 01:08:17,919
College? That'’s not
for two more years.
960
01:08:17,963 --> 01:08:19,791
A year and a half.
961
01:08:19,834 --> 01:08:22,533
[Dad sighs] I don'’t know.
962
01:08:28,278 --> 01:08:29,888
Maybe I'’ll start going
to the late service again
963
01:08:29,931 --> 01:08:31,324
so your mom will come.
964
01:08:34,022 --> 01:08:38,810
Besides, State'’s only
40 minutes away.
965
01:08:38,853 --> 01:08:41,117
Just come home
on the weekends.
966
01:08:42,596 --> 01:08:44,511
[car cranks]
967
01:08:47,993 --> 01:08:49,908
♪
968
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:15,542
Hey.
969
01:09:20,808 --> 01:09:23,942
-Um...
-Hey.
970
01:09:23,985 --> 01:09:26,640
You don'’t have
to be scared of me.
971
01:09:26,684 --> 01:09:29,252
I-- I'’m not scared of you.
972
01:09:30,862 --> 01:09:32,429
It won'’t happen again.
973
01:09:35,083 --> 01:09:36,346
Friends?
974
01:09:38,913 --> 01:09:40,132
Friends.
975
01:09:41,699 --> 01:09:44,223
Hug?
976
01:09:44,267 --> 01:09:45,398
Side hug.
977
01:09:45,442 --> 01:09:46,747
[chuckles]
978
01:09:53,276 --> 01:09:56,017
[Alice] Bless me, Father,
for I have sinned.
979
01:09:56,061 --> 01:09:58,324
It has been a week
since my last confession.
980
01:09:58,368 --> 01:10:01,109
These are my sins.
981
01:10:01,153 --> 01:10:05,331
Talking back to my parents.
982
01:10:05,375 --> 01:10:08,204
Not doing my chores.
983
01:10:14,122 --> 01:10:15,385
Is that it?
984
01:10:22,435 --> 01:10:26,744
No. It'’s something
that happened on the retreat.
985
01:10:28,006 --> 01:10:29,355
OK.
986
01:10:30,791 --> 01:10:32,445
I watched people having sex.
987
01:10:39,757 --> 01:10:41,149
All right.
988
01:10:41,193 --> 01:10:42,803
[Alice]
It was a video.
989
01:10:42,847 --> 01:10:47,286
There was a man and a woman.
990
01:10:47,330 --> 01:10:51,290
And the woman was wearing
a hot pink bra.
991
01:10:51,334 --> 01:10:54,989
They were on
the hood of a car.
992
01:10:55,033 --> 01:10:56,817
With graffiti on it.
993
01:11:04,260 --> 01:11:07,001
And I did it,
994
01:11:07,045 --> 01:11:11,528
even though I knew
it was a sin.
995
01:11:11,571 --> 01:11:13,660
Will God still forgive me?
996
01:11:17,577 --> 01:11:19,492
That'’s between you and God.
997
01:11:21,625 --> 01:11:27,631
For penance, fifty Hail Marys
and fifty Our Fathers.
998
01:11:31,722 --> 01:11:33,680
God, the Father of mercies,
999
01:11:33,724 --> 01:11:35,856
through the death and
resurrection of his Son
1000
01:11:35,900 --> 01:11:38,294
has reconciled the world
to himself
1001
01:11:38,337 --> 01:11:40,208
and sent the Holy Spirit
among us
1002
01:11:40,252 --> 01:11:42,559
for the forgiveness of sins...
1003
01:12:14,242 --> 01:12:16,810
"Where to, miss?"
1004
01:12:16,854 --> 01:12:18,290
"Stars..."
1005
01:12:27,299 --> 01:12:29,301
♪
1006
01:12:44,925 --> 01:12:46,840
[vibrating]
1007
01:12:50,453 --> 01:12:51,410
♪ Give it to me
1008
01:12:51,454 --> 01:12:53,804
♪ Ooh, oh
1009
01:12:53,847 --> 01:12:56,415
♪ Yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
1010
01:12:56,459 --> 01:12:58,548
♪ Ooh, oh
1011
01:12:58,591 --> 01:13:00,288
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
1012
01:13:00,332 --> 01:13:01,333
♪ Give it to me
1013
01:13:01,377 --> 01:13:03,335
♪ Ooh, oh
1014
01:13:03,379 --> 01:13:06,077
♪ Yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
1015
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:08,035
♪ Ooh, oh
1016
01:13:08,079 --> 01:13:09,254
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
1017
01:13:09,297 --> 01:13:10,429
♪ Give it to me
1018
01:13:10,473 --> 01:13:12,300
♪ I'’m so addicted ♪
1019
01:13:12,344 --> 01:13:16,783
♪ To the loving
that you'’re feeding to me ♪
1020
01:13:16,827 --> 01:13:20,004
♪ Ohh
1021
01:13:20,047 --> 01:13:22,136
♪ Can'’t do without it ♪
1022
01:13:22,180 --> 01:13:26,140
♪ This feeling'’s got me
weak in the knees ♪
1023
01:13:26,184 --> 01:13:29,579
♪ Ohh, baby, baby
1024
01:13:29,622 --> 01:13:31,668
♪ Body'’s in withdrawal ♪
1025
01:13:31,711 --> 01:13:35,889
♪ Every time
you take it away ♪
1026
01:13:35,933 --> 01:13:39,066
♪ Ohh
1027
01:13:39,110 --> 01:13:41,286
♪ Can'’t you
hear me callin'’ ♪
1028
01:13:41,329 --> 01:13:45,421
♪ Beggin'’ you
to come out and play ♪
1029
01:13:45,464 --> 01:13:46,552
♪ Aw, yeah
1030
01:13:46,596 --> 01:13:47,771
♪ Aw, yeah
1031
01:13:47,814 --> 01:13:50,251
♪ So, baby, come to me
1032
01:13:50,295 --> 01:13:52,558
♪ Baby, show me who you are
1033
01:13:52,602 --> 01:13:54,908
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah
Sweet to me ♪
1034
01:13:54,952 --> 01:13:57,258
♪ Like sugar to my heart
1035
01:13:57,302 --> 01:13:58,434
♪ Ooh, baby
1036
01:13:58,477 --> 01:13:59,478
♪ I'’m craving for you ♪
1037
01:13:59,522 --> 01:14:00,871
♪ I'’m craving ♪
1038
01:14:00,914 --> 01:14:05,223
♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪
1039
01:14:05,266 --> 01:14:07,791
♪ Missin'’ you like candy ♪
1040
01:14:07,834 --> 01:14:09,836
♪ Sweet sweet loving
1041
01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:13,753
♪ Got me going
to the extreme ♪
1042
01:14:13,797 --> 01:14:17,365
♪ You gotta know, oh
1043
01:14:17,409 --> 01:14:19,193
♪ Won'’t go without it ♪
1044
01:14:19,237 --> 01:14:23,589
♪ This vibe has
got a hold on me ♪
1045
01:14:23,633 --> 01:14:24,851
♪ Oh, baby
1046
01:14:24,895 --> 01:14:26,897
♪ Oh, baby
1047
01:14:26,940 --> 01:14:28,942
♪ Satisfying, baby
1048
01:14:28,986 --> 01:14:32,555
♪ Let me show you
what I'’m made of ♪
1049
01:14:32,598 --> 01:14:36,515
♪ Made of
1050
01:14:36,559 --> 01:14:38,386
♪ No doubt about it, boy
1051
01:14:38,430 --> 01:14:43,609
♪ Got me feeling crazy,
can'’t get enough ♪
1052
01:14:43,653 --> 01:14:46,090
♪ Baby, baby, baby,
won'’t you ♪
1053
01:14:46,133 --> 01:14:47,526
♪ Come to me
1054
01:14:47,570 --> 01:14:49,920
♪ Baby, show me who you are
1055
01:14:49,963 --> 01:14:52,357
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah
Sweet to me ♪
1056
01:14:52,400 --> 01:14:54,490
♪ Like sugar to my heart
1057
01:14:54,533 --> 01:14:55,665
♪ Ooh, baby
1058
01:14:55,708 --> 01:14:56,883
♪ I'’m craving for you ♪
1059
01:14:56,927 --> 01:14:58,319
♪ I'’m craving ♪
1060
01:14:58,363 --> 01:15:02,454
♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪
1061
01:15:02,498 --> 01:15:04,238
♪ Missin'’ you like candy ♪
1062
01:15:04,282 --> 01:15:06,589
♪ So, baby, come to me
1063
01:15:06,632 --> 01:15:08,895
♪ Baby, show me who you are
1064
01:15:08,939 --> 01:15:11,332
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah
Sweet to me ♪
1065
01:15:11,376 --> 01:15:13,552
♪ Like sugar to my heart
1066
01:15:13,596 --> 01:15:14,727
♪ Ooh, baby
1067
01:15:14,771 --> 01:15:15,859
♪ I'’m craving for you ♪
1068
01:15:15,902 --> 01:15:17,295
♪ I'’m craving ♪
1069
01:15:17,338 --> 01:15:23,127
♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪
1070
01:15:23,170 --> 01:15:24,345
♪ Now, give it to me
1071
01:15:24,389 --> 01:15:26,391
♪ You know who you are
1072
01:15:26,434 --> 01:15:28,872
♪ Your love
is as sweet as candy ♪
1073
01:15:28,915 --> 01:15:31,265
♪ I'’ll be forever yours ♪
1074
01:15:31,309 --> 01:15:33,746
♪ Love always, Mandy
1075
01:15:33,790 --> 01:15:36,575
♪ Boy, I'’m craving ♪
1076
01:15:36,619 --> 01:15:41,232
♪ Missing you like candy
1077
01:15:42,450 --> 01:15:45,453
♪ So, baby, come to me
1078
01:15:45,497 --> 01:15:48,195
♪ Come, come, come to me
1079
01:15:48,239 --> 01:15:50,589
♪ Sweet to me
1080
01:15:50,633 --> 01:15:51,895
♪ You'’re so sweet ♪
1081
01:15:51,938 --> 01:15:53,070
♪ Ooh, baby
1082
01:15:53,113 --> 01:15:55,507
♪ I, I, I, I
1083
01:15:55,551 --> 01:16:00,338
♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪
1084
01:16:00,381 --> 01:16:01,557
♪ Aw, yeah
1085
01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:03,950
♪ So, baby, come to me
1086
01:16:03,994 --> 01:16:06,257
♪ Baby, show me who you are
1087
01:16:06,300 --> 01:16:08,607
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah
Sweet to me ♪
1088
01:16:08,651 --> 01:16:10,783
♪ Like sugar to my heart
1089
01:16:10,827 --> 01:16:12,002
♪ Ooh, baby
1090
01:16:12,045 --> 01:16:13,264
♪ I'’m craving for you ♪
1091
01:16:13,307 --> 01:16:14,613
♪ I'’m craving ♪
1092
01:16:14,657 --> 01:16:19,879
♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪
1093
01:16:19,923 --> 01:16:21,838
♪
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