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Tonight part two of

the "Below Deck
Sailing Yacht Reunion."

We are having a baby.

-Whoo-hoo!

I cannot believe
what I've seen

and I have yet to hear
an apology from you.

It didn't have to happen that
way, but it did and I hate it.

Gary had a girlfriend

when he came on board
and Sydney slept with him.

Dani, everybody wants to know,
is JL the father of your baby?

-Well...
-Incredibly disgusting

that he won't even acknowledge
the situation

JL, shall I say,
does not have a spine.

I wish he was here
to defend himself

or to say what he thinks.

Jean-Luc couldn't join us,
so we tracked him down

and he's here with us now.

If that is my child.

I want everything,
and anything to do

with that child's life.

Welcome back to part two of

the "Below Deck Sailing
Yacht Reunion."

I'm Andy Cohen, joined by
the Parsifal III crew --

Captain Glenn, Daisy,
Gary, Natasha, Colin,

Sydney, Alli, and Dani.

Gary, Melanie, Jay, Facebook,

why do you and Alli always flirt
and make out in front of Sydney

and then can't understand
why she's so upset?

Alli, same as what happened.

It was just -- it was
a weird situation.

You had feelings for me.
I had feelings for Alli.

Alli didn't have feelings
for me.

It was like a domino effect,
is wasn't going anywhere.
Yes, I did.

No, no, no,
but not in that way.

But when you broke up with me,

it was just like,
this can't happen.

And it was just, you know,
it was a weird situation.

That wasn't easy for me.
Are you actually saying this?

That was not easy for me.
That was really hard for me.

And it was really awkward
working with you every day.

That's not fair to say that
I didn't have feelings for you.

And you know
that that's not true.

No, no, I do know
that's not true --
You know that.

But I think I felt a bit more
for you, yeah, anyway.

We've worked through this.

I was just trying
to do the right thing.

And I was the only one who seems
to be trying because no one else

seemed to have any respect
in this situation except for me.

I tried my best to navigate
a really awkward situation.
I take my hat off for you.

And that's what I said to you
for you looking for Sydney's --

I wouldn't say condolences,

but you were wondering
why was Sydney upset

and you keep asking,
are you okay with me doing this?

And she said, yeah,
I don't care.

And you didn't know
the whole story

and you actually honestly
worried about her feelings.

She kept having digs at me
so obviously she wasn't okay.
Yeah, I know, but you were --

So I kept trying to check in
I'm like --

I wasn't trying
to get her okay.

I was trying to make sure
that I wasn't hurting someone

because I'm a human being
and I have compassion.

Alli, Lori S. wants to know
if you feel like you

broke girl code hooking up
with Gary in Sydney's face.

Why not wait until
the season was over?

No, I have my reasons for why
I don't feel like I broke

the girl code.
-What are they?

Go, Alli, go.

Why don't we ask Sydney?

Sydney, do you know
why she didn't break girl code?

No, I'm not really sure why Alli
saying that in particular.

All I know is that, like, things
that happened in the season

and things that I said
were not indicative

of who I am and I'm very

upset about the way
that I portrayed myself

because I was hurting

and feeling rejected
on national television,

I was jealous about
being rejected by somebody

that I had feelings for.

I told myself I wouldn't
get emotional.

It's not a big deal
and like everybody

has those feelings,
everybody gets jealous.

Everybody has insecurities.
And I felt that.

And I -- it's not an excuse
for what I said,

but I felt those things
and I lashed out

and I hate myself for it.

And that's the only thing
I can think

that Alli would think
is breaking girl code.

And I'm so sorry for it.
No. That's not it.
That's not it.

Oh, that's not it.
I'm sorry.

That's not it.
That's not it.

I mean, I don't know why

everyone's just sleeping
over the fact

that Gary had a girlfriend
when he came on board

and Sydney slept with him,
a long-term girlfriend.

So there, I've said it.

So that is why you were not
breaking girl code?

I did everything I could to be
respectful in a situation,

but at the end of the day,
when you sleep with someone,

when they're in a relationship,

I feel like that
that kind of voids

you being able to treat me
the way you treated me.

I'm like so hurt
with what I've seen,

Sydney, I cannot believe
what I've seen.

And I have yet to hear
an apology from you.

I have yet to hear
any sincerity from you.

You only have cared about
how you've looked on TV.

You haven't like one on one
tried to contact me and say,

I'm so sorry
for the things that I said.

You really hurt my feelings.

Sydney, what's your response?

I'm just really, like,
emotional about it.

Sydney, what's your response?

Do you feel you owe
her an apology?

Of course, and I thought that
what I just said was an apology.

No, I haven't tried to reach out
to Alli one on one

mostly just because I've been
trying to deal with this

in my own way and I've been
dealing with a lot of

personal trauma with like
realizing who I am

and trying to figure out
how to navigate myself in this,

and I haven't known
how to reach out to Alli.

And I thought now would be
the best way.

I should've reached out
to her before.

On TV, it just seems
so insincere.
Cellphone.

It's so insincere and that's why
I'm still so upset.

I've just freshly seeing
so much stuff on the episodes.

And I'm -- I'm like gutted.

I'm gutted with the things
that I've seen.

It's you -- you kind of
embarrassed me.

And I feel like
you've embarrassed yourself.

And I know that you know
that I don't want to --

I'm not trying to hurt you.
I'm not trying to rub it in.

But you -- if you were sincere
about this apology,

you would have said it to me
one on one

you wouldn't have waited to hear
on the reunion show.

Ooh.

Gary, did you have a girlfriend
when you came on the boat?

You know, now that
it's come out, yes, I did.

We were in
a very complicated relationship.

I hadn't seen her
for eight months

prior to me
coming on the show.

The fact that I was
in a relationship,

Yes, I was. If you want to go
put that label on it, for sure.

Not seeing someone for
eight months and growing apart

for those eight months nonstop,
do we put a label on that?

No, we only look at the negative
things that, yes,

I had a "girlfriend"
and I did what I did

was that's the only regret

I've got in life
was doing what I did.

We see your perspective.
We don't see her perspective.

So don't say, oh,
if you want to see it like,

oh, I didn't see her
for eight months.

I mean,
maybe you're right.

But from her perspective,
she might have seen

your relationship different.

So, Gary, did you break up
at all during the charter?

I mean, were you
still "together"

as the whole charter away.
No.

After what happened with Sydney
and I, I had to let her know.

And the hardest thing
was I hadn't spoken to her

I don't know,
maybe --

maybe two weeks prior to that,
I'd say.

And then that was the news
that I had to tell her.

But I couldn't live with myself
for knowing what I'd done.

Well, initially,
I sent her a message

saying I kissed my deckhand

and hoping that she would think
my deckhand was a dude.

But no, I mean,
I thought it was okay.

No, uh...
-Nice try.

I couldn't, yeah, I couldn't
live with myself.

Why have a girlfriend
if you're not going to be

able to be with them 24/7?

And clearly, I wasn't
that type of person for her

and I proved it
in the completely wrong way.

And yeah,
I had to let her know.

You could have saved
a lot of people a lot of drama

if you just hooked up
with JL that first night.

I don't have a stepladder
on board, unfortunately.

Sydney, are you seeing
anybody now?

Yes, I have a partner

that I've been with
for about five months now.

And what's his reaction
to the show?

You know, my partner knows
that it's in the past

and that's that and, um,

you know, I've come to --

I work with him
on a new boat now.

He's the captain
and we work together.

And he doesn't --

I mean, he's not the biggest fan
of the show, obviously,

it's never easy
to see the person

that you have
strong feelings for,

having intimate relations
with other people, you know,

in front of the nation.
Yes, yes, I can imagine.

Yes, yes.

But, you know, he's supportive
of me and he cares about me.

And, you know, he's there
to have my back no matter what.

Wow, and Alli, are you seeing
anybody these days?

Yes, I have a boyfriend.

We are just about
to move in together.

I'm finally signing a lease
for a house for the first time

in a long time
and going to live the land life.

That's great.
Any other updates with you?

Yeah.

Yes, we are having a baby.

-Whoo-hoo!

Coming up...

Dani,
everybody wants to know,

is JL the father of your baby?

We are having a baby.

-Whoo-hoo.

How far along are you?

-I'm 20 weeks.
-Wow.

Yeah.

That is very exciting.

It's a very exciting,
it's scary, but exciting.

Very fertile crew...

We are. So Dani and I are
pregnant at the same time.

It's so cool.
-Very sweet.

Gary, did you know about this?

-What, about Alli's pregnancy?
-Yes.

No, I didn't. No, I didn't.
No, I didn't.

What's your reaction?
She didn't tell me
that at all.

-What's your reaction?
-I'm happy for her.

She told me when I spoke
to her that her boyfriend

treats her well
and treats like a princess.

And at the end of the day,
as long as Alli's happy,

I'm happy.

So as long
as he treats her well

and she's as happy
as she says she is,

then by all means,
congratulations, Alli.

I wish you many
happy years together.

And I'm sure your kids
will be amazing.

They've got a mother like you.
Of course they will so.

Thank you.

I wanted to ask
about the crossing.

You know, the season ended
on sort of a cliffhanger.

There was this crossing.

What happened on the crossing?
How was it?

I mean, Gary,
did you and Alli

rekindle your relationship
during the crossing?

Yeah, actually, that's where
we built our relationship up.

And we actually, I would say,
became a couple,

if I can say that, Alli,
for the crossing.

And until we got to basically
until she left to Australia,

which it was inevitable that

she was always leaving to
Australia.

So I think in both of our minds,
in the back of our minds,

we knew it could never
seriously work because of that,

regardless of the great chemistry

and the ability to make
each other laugh endlessly

and also finish
each other's...

No, clearly not, sentences,
but there we go, yeah.
Sentences.

And do that.
-Whomp, whomp.

Colin,
Tricia P. wants to know

if your opinion of Gary
changed at all after he told you

he just wanted
to have sex with Sydney

to get Alli's attention.
-No.

I mean, Gary's
a really good friend.

We became such good mates

and he didn't really want to
take any of my advice.

So I was kind of wasting
my breath in the end there

a little bit,
but he's my boy.

We're still good mates.
You all right there, Daisy?

Sorry, sorry.

She's like every drunk...

Maybe don't have any more wine!

Wine!

Oh, you're doing --
That's Erica. That's good.

Colin, Lauren B. wants to know
if you think

Gary would have been
a better manager

if he wasn't distracted with
this love triangle all season.

I think Gary
was a great manager

and I think Glenn said
it pretty clearly.

And I completely agree
with him that Gary,

in terms of
the professionalism,

was exceptional.

Alli, Joto said after everything
that happened with Gary,

why were you kissing him
during the last charter?

I still have feelings for him
and I made a poor decision

and forgave something that
I shouldn't have forgiven.

Alli, do you in Sydney
feel like you had closure today?

Um, I don't think so.

-No.
-No, sorry.

Sydney, do you?

I think that, you know, with
mine and Alli's complicated...

we're never really going
to have a complete closure.

I think there's been a lot
that's happened

between the two of us

that can't necessarily
be resolved over one

zoom call, I think it needs
much more than that.

...what could have been
a beautiful friendship.

And I am very sorry

that it hasn't been
what it should have been

considering Alli
and I could've been

the best of friends,
but just the way things played,

it wasn't in the cards for us

and quite remarkable 'cause
I think Alli is a beautiful soul

and I think
she has a good heart

and I'm very regretful for
the way things have played out.

Yeah, I don't think you're
a bad person at all, Sydney.

I just don't like things
that went down.

But I definitely don't think
you're a bad person.

I know you.
I can see in your face --

I don't like the way things
went down either, believe me,

I wish they hadn't.

Well, I think you're both
in agreement.

We will leave it there.

Everybody love everybody.
Everyone, I love everyone.

Well, not quite everybody.

Gary, you don't talk to me

so that's a whole 'nother
[bleep]...

How many bottles of wine have
you had at this point, Daisy?

Is it...

-That's a good question.
-Is it more than two?

Andy, stop being jealous.

Stop being jealous.

After the break, we're getting
into the MVPs of PDA --

Dani and JL.

Don't go anywhere.
We'll be right back.

Coming up...

You're upset. JL?

Oh, man, um...

We are back with the "Below Deck
Sailing Yacht Reunion."

I'm Andy Cohen
joined by Captain Glenn, Daisy,

Gary, Natasha, Colin,
Sydney, Alli, and Dani.

Despite an age difference,
height difference,

and a harrowing STD scare,
it was only chafing,

Dani and JL
found love this season,

even if they had trouble
finding a bed

that could fit both of them.

Let's watch.

JL, I dare you to kiss Dani.

-Yeah!
-Yeah!

I could definitely make out
with her again, that's for sure.

I'm not sure how this height
difference is going to work,

but I'm looking forward
to find out.

I want the very best
for you so much.

Why can't I be with you?
I want to have babies.

I want to get married.
Let's have sex tonight.

And if I get pregnant,
that's God's will.

All right, so, Dani,

by the way, congratulations
again on your pregnancy.

How are you feeling?

Thank you, um...

I'm very happy being a mom,
you know,

obviously I didn't plan this,

but I'm happy with,
you know, with, yeah.

We saw you and JL

leave the boat
together in the finale,

what happened next?

Did you guys hang out after

or how did you --
how did -- what happened?

Well, we did hang out
for a couple days.

But it was never really --
I kept trying to tell him

the whole season that it
wouldn't really ever work like

I was coming to Australia,
he was going to America.

I was not going to move
from Australia

to go anywhere else for him.

And I wouldn't ask him
to move to Australia for me.

And I just kept trying
to convince him

that this wouldn't work.

And he kept the whole season

trying to convince me
that this would work.

And what's your
relationship status today?

-I am single.
-You're single.

Well, Alli W. wants to know
if any of the rest of you

are surprised how
this all turned out for Dani.

I, um, I was shocked.

It took me a few days
to digest, I'm not going to lie.

It was hard.

Wow, Dani,
everybody wants to know

is JL the father of your baby?

Well, let's put it this way,

this baby was made
during the season

while we had cameras 24/7
with us

and I only slept
with one guy, so.

What is his reaction
to the pregnancy then?

He hasn't support me
at all in any way.

He thinks it's not his child
and he doesn't want

to have anything to do
with it.

Wow, Dani, what have
your conversations been like

with JL and are you in touch

with anyone else
in his family or?

So from the beginning, Andy,

I found out
I was pregnant when I was

in quarantine in Sydney.

So as soon as I got
to Australia, I found it out.

I was alone there.

And I told him
and he was obviously

a bit shocked
and everything,

but he was --
he seemed supportive.

He told me he would support me,
whatever I decided to do.

So he was supportive
in the beginning.

And then it just changed
like around December.

Things just changed and he was
just not interested anymore.

And yeah, and then on the 1st
of January, New Year's,

I get a message saying,
don't go around telling people.

I mean,
I'm the dad of this child

and I want a DNA test.

And I have all the messages,

all the receipts to say
that I said, okay,

you want a DNA test,
let's do it.

And but I will only do it

if you organize
and you pay first

because it's quite expensive
and it's contribution.

And if he was interested
in doing that, he would do it.

And he hasn't --
haven't done anything.

I ask him again,
but since January,

he asked about the baby
like twice or three times,

like, and his mom made
a horrible comment online.

And since then I just literally
have zero interest

in having their family
involved in my child's life.

She she made a horrible comment
online about you?

Yeah, she comments on --

somebody's comment on
his pictures saying

that it was very gross

that he would abandon
the mother of his child,

and she comments that gross
was a woman who uses a man

because she's so desperate
to be a mom.

Wow.

Up next...

My heart breaks for Dani.

JL, shall I say,
does not have a spine.

Welcome back to the "Below Deck
Sailing Yacht Reunion."

It's Andy Cohen with the gang
from Parsifal III.

Dani, what have your
conversations been like with JL

and are you in touch with anyone
else in his family or...

His mom made a horrible
comment online

and since then I just literally
have zero interest

in having that family
involved in my child's life.

She made a horrible comment
online about you?

Yeah, she comments on --

somebody commented on
his pictures

saying that it was very gross

that he would abandon
the mother of his child.

And she commented that gross
was a woman who uses a man

because she's so desperate
to be a mom.

Wow. I'm so sorry.

Thanks, Andy, I've been
getting some comments

really mean comments
from people saying, like how,

well, you knew he didn't want
to be involved.

You should just
have had an abortion.

And I just want to say
that I'm very pro-choice.

I think people should do --

women should do whatever
they think is best for them.

But for me, I just wouldn't
be able to do that.

Obviously, I say during
the whole season that I want

to be a mom and a family,
but I wanted a family.

That was my plan.
That was my vision.

I would not choose
to move to a new country

where I don't know anybody

to have a child
with a 24-year-old boy

that I barely knew.

So I did not choose that.
I did not plan that.

But I'm just going with it now

and I'm sure my little
baby girl is going to be,

you know, yeah,

she's going to be amazing

and I will do my best
every day

to give her
everything she needs.

And it's a girl which is very
exciting to hear

and, you know, listen,

this girl is going to come into
a world where she is very loved

and you're going to be
an incredible mom.

You want her,
you're waiting for her,

and you're going to be great.

Thanks, Andy.
I appreciate that.

I'm very happy
it's a little girl

because I wouldn't know
what to do with a boy.

So, yeah.

Alli, what's
your reaction to that?

I've known this for a while.

So I've been talking to Dani
almost every day.

I've been hearing
her struggles.

She's working so hard.

She's doing 12-hour days.
She's on her feet.

She is trying to get herself
prepared as best as she can.

She's been so amazing.

And it's just incredibly

disgusting and frustrating

that he won't even acknowledge
the situation.

So my heart breaks for Dani,

but she's so strong
and I know

that she can do this without him
and she will be better off.

Gary, what's your reaction
to this?

I just I feel people or JL,
shall I say,

does not have a spine.

And for the little respect
that I had for him, I mean,

that's gone out the window.

I mean, he's got something
beautiful

coming into this world.

And the fact that he doesn't
want anything to do with it,

I just cannot fathom
that at all.

And Dani, I know you're going
to be the best mom ever.

I had a dad
that could have been there

that he chose not to be there.

And that's one thing
I've learned in life

is to not be like that.

And this is
a prime example on that.

And...

And grow a spine.

That's I don't really
want to say --
Thanks, Gary.

Really I don't want to say
how I...

I just want to say
as well that

I wish he was on this reunion
because I'm not --

I don't want to -- and I'm just
telling my side of the story

and I wish he was here
to defend himself

or to say what he thinks,

because I'm -- as much as,
you know, everything he did,

I don't think it is as fair
that I'm just saying all this

and he's not being
able to say anything.
Right, right.

You didn't come here with --

you didn't come here with
and to be fair to you,

you didn't come here
with an ax to grind.

You didn't come here
with a bomb to drop.

You're answering
my questions honestly

and that's it.

I feel for you, Dani.
I feel for you hard.

Very good.
Any final thoughts

that anyone wants to say
before we leave you?

I mean,
these guys are amazing.

I had a great time
with these guys.

You know, there was
some stuff going on there,

some conflict,
there was some indecision.

But the positive energy in this
crew this season was amazing.

I wasn't disappointed.

We will leave things there.

I want to thank the crew for
joining me from around the world

and for an incredible season.

Dani, Alli,
congratulations to you both.

Came to see pictures
of your babies.

You're both going to be
the greatest moms.

Thank you so much.

Up next...

You know, a lot of viewers
have been asking

whether you're the father
of Dani's baby.

What do you say to that?

Oh, man, you're going to make me
do this now, aren't you?

Welcome back to the "Below Deck
Sailing Yacht Reunion."

As you know, Jean-Luc
couldn't join us,

so we tracked him down
and he's here with us now.

How are we doing, Andy?
How's it going?

Great. So why were you unable to
join us at the reunion taping?

So that was
really unfortunate.

I did want to be there,
but I had a charter

and it was our primary's
his daughter's birthday.

So basically one of the biggest
days of the whole charter

that I could not
take time off for.

I just couldn't.

Right. What was the biggest
professional lesson

that you learned
this year on the show?

Oh, biggest
professional lesson.

Do not get intimate
with any of the crew.

Right. What would you say

the status of your relationship
with Dani is today?

Today, I would say the status
of my relationship with Dani

is kind of a little uncertain.

We definitely talk a little bit
back and forth,

not as much
as we probably should.

But yeah, it's just --
there's some things that are,

you know, to be questioned.

And she has questions for me
and I have questions for her.

And, you know,
we're trying to be adults

about this whole entire process
and figure it out.

Well, you know, a lot of viewers
have been asking

whether you're the father
of Dani's baby.

What do you say to that?

Oh, man, you're going to make me
do this now, aren't you?

I asked for a paternity test

and essentially that turned
into a lot of backlash

and her
not wanting to hear from me

and essentially not having
to do anything with me,

but for me as a 24-year-old
at the time, you know,

with not much experience
at all in a relationship

and a woman telling me
that she's pregnant,

I feel like that that's a very
understandable question

to ask in any situation.

And she took it very poorly.

And I understand
why she took it poorly,

because, you know,
in her mind,

I might be the only person
that she's ever been with.

And if that's the case,
I told her,

I really do apologize
but for my peace of mind,

I just wanted to know and I
told her that this is my child,

I want to be a part
of that child's life

every single day
as much as I can

for the rest of her little life
or his life.
You do? If you find out --

Abso-[bleep]-lutely.
The people. Hold on.

I'm sorry, because now I'm
gonna start getting emotional.

The fact that people -- I don't
know where this came from

or what source this was from,

the fact that people
are telling me

that I want nothing to do
with this child,

it's really tearing me up.

Like all my friends
and all my family know

the type of person that I am

and know that I want everything
to do with that child,

everything, if it is mine.

But the fact of me not knowing
at this particular moment

if it is or is not my child,

how am I supposed
to go about that

and tell everyone 100%
that it is?

Because I don't know.

I want everybody to know
who watches your show,

who watches Bravo, who watches
"Below Decks Sailing Yacht"

if that is my child,

I want everything and anything
to do with that child's life.

Bottom line, bottom line.

Well, that makes me
really happy to hear.

Why didn't you
take the DNA test?

There was talk of a DNA test
and I still want to do it.

I was told that
I have to pay for it,

which is completely fine.

Money is not the object.

The peace of mind
is the object here.

And so, you know,

we've gone as far as me

trying to reach out
to her doctor's office.

I don't know if it's something
that, you know,

I don't think lawyers
need to get involved.

That's not the avenue
I want to go at all.

I'd really like for me and Dani
to work together on this.

But she told me that
if this was my child,

that she would never
basically throw dirt

on my name to our child.

Okay, good. Okay, well,
the headline news is

that there's
a little baby girl,

and if she's yours,

you want to be
a very big part of her life.

I want to be there.

I want to be there
for the birth,

I want to as much as Dani
probably doesn't want me there.

I know that this child
is gonna be born very soon.

I was told a date.

I'm not going to share that with
you guys because she hasn't.

And I have been counting down
the days till I hear something.

You know, the fact of me --
the fact of me knowing that

this could possibly be my child

and not being there for
the birth is killing me.

Wow.

I would love to share with you

what Dani told us
on the reunion

about where she's coming from
and get your response to it.

Let's roll it.

He thinks it's not his child
and he doesn't want

to have anything to do
with this.

I get a message saying,
don't go around telling people.

I mean,
I'm the dad of this child

and I want a DNA test.

She is trying to get herself
prepared as best as she can.

She's been so amazing.

And it's just incredibly
disgusting and frustrating

that he won't even
acknowledge the situation.

So my heart breaks for Dani.

JL, shall I say,
does not have a spine.

And for the little respect
that I had for him,

I mean,
that's gone out the window.

You knew he didn't want
to be involved,

you should just have
had an abortion.

She comments that gross
was a woman who uses a man

because she's so desperate
to be a mom.

I'm sure my little baby girl
is going to be,

you know, yeah,

she's going to be amazing.

Okay.

You're upset.

JL?

Yeah, hello.

What's your reaction to that?

Oh, man.

I don't know right now.
Words don't, uh...

I'm a little lost
for words at the moment.

Do you feel
misrepresented by her?

You know, everything that --
everything that she said is

most of it is correct

as far as the messages
that we went back and forth

about how in December
I started apparently, you know,

not being there for her
as much or whatnot.

What was your family's reaction
to learning

that Dani was pregnant?

I know you're a mom
originally said on the show

that you two
look cute together.

Yes, so, you know,

mom's initial reaction,

she was excited,
she was a little confused

because she's been telling me
my whole life to wear protection

and be safe and this,
this and that

and, you know,
haven't really taken on

that teaching that

she's been trying to tell me.

I know that
she'd be happy for me.

But in the same token,

she wants to know the same thing
that I want to know.

And she's only trying
to protect me.

And I actually told her
about two weeks ago

after she made that comment
that's been going around,

I told her I was like, Mom,
you need to realize

that even though what
they're saying could be true

or could not be true,
you can't let it get to you.

Does she think that Dani
used you to become a mom?

I think that was said
out of anger

towards a bunch of
other things.

And what was your reaction
to hearing about that comment?

You know,
I didn't agree with it.

I told her to take it down,

to delete it,
because I knew that,

you know, I didn't like
for things to be said

in regards to Dani that way,

and I hope that she wouldn't
have like things said about me

in regards to that way,
so I made her take it down.

I actually got really frustrated
with her over the phone.

I said, Mom,
you can't be doing this.

Whether what you believe is true
or not, you can't be doing this

because then it paints me
in the picture

because I'm attached to you.

So, yeah, I was pretty --
I was pretty upset

and I made her take it down
and she did and she apologized.

But it seems like if you're
hung up on a DNA test

and you understand that
it's okay for you to pay for,

I mean, it seems like maybe
your mom could help you out

and try to
facilitate this test.

It seems like
a pretty simple equation.

Well, you know, Andy,
at this point,

the child is going to be born
here very soon.
Yeah.

As soon as a child is born,
we're going to know.

Coming up...

I would not choose
to move to a new country

where I don't know anybody

and to have a child
with the 24-year-old boy.

Are you still in touch
with anyone from

the Parsifal III crew
because,

I mean, their reaction
to learning your behavior

surrounding Dani's pregnancy
announcement was damning.

Oh, yeah. No, I know
none of those guys --

none of those people like me.

That's okay, though.
I really -- I'm cool with that.

Everyone has their own opinion
and the fact that they all saw

one side to the story
and now everyone, you know,

has this picture against me
and now I'm a piece of

And I saw their faces,
you know,

I saw how everyone started
judging me right off the bat.

And that's okay, because they're
going off of stuff

of what they only heard
from someone

and, you know,
not the other side of the story.

But no, I wish everyone
the best of luck

who was on board
with on Parsifal III.

But as far as it goes,
I don't -- I don't care

what any of them think as far
as this situation goes at all,

because none of them
have gone through this

and they have no idea
what it's like so.

Is there anything else
that you wish

you had been able to tell Dani
or your fellow crewmates,

had you been at the reunion,
that you haven't said?

Is there any possible chance
that I can see that clip again?

Sure, yeah.

Please, yeah.

Guys, let's play it again
for him.

I'm just telling my side
of the story,

and I wish he was here
to defend himself

or to say what he thinks.

I would not choose to move
to a new country

where I don't know anybody
and to have a child

with a 24-year-old boy
that I barely knew.

I know that she can do
this without him

and she will be better off.

Disgusting and frustrated
that he won't even acknowledge.

You knew
he didn't want to be involved

you should've just had
an abortion.

The comments that gross was
a woman who uses a man

because she's so desperate
to be a mom.

The little respect
that I had for him,

that's gone out the window.

Is it worse the second time?

-Yeah, yeah, yeah.
-Why?

I was paying attention,
I was paying attention

a little bit more
to things that were said.

Well, I think --

The looks on
people's faces, too.

Well, I think the most
important thing

isn't the looks
on other people's faces.

I think the most important thing
is what she said.

And I listen,
I've been doing this a long time

and I've talked
to a lot of people

in uncomfortable situations
and at these reunions and stuff

and I thought it was
very notable that she said,

I wish he was here.

I didn't come here
to attack him.

I think you should
take that to heart

because especially
if you're saying

that pretty much everything
she said was true, you know.

-Mm-hmm.
-You're upset.

I'm not happy, no.

It seems like now is the time

for you to communicate
and figure this thing out.

You might regret it
if you don't.

Yeah, I don't -- I really --
I really don't know.

I don't know what to tell you.
I don't know what to say.

Listen, Dani and your former
crewmates are going to see this.

Is there anything else
you want to say to them?

I just think that...

just don't really judge
a book by its cover.

You know, I understand
how I'm probably

being perceived right now

and... I just want everyone
to know that,

you know,
if this is my child,

I want everything to do
with this kid, like, you know,

I haven't told Dani this,

but I thought about
moving to Australia like.

There's been a lot of scenarios
running through my mind

these past eight months to
where it's, you know,

I don't know.

I've thought about every
possible avenue,

every avenue,

and I just -- I haven't
come up with one yet.

And to Dani...

what we had on the show
for me was real.

I don't care
what anybody says,

even now that we're going
through what we're going,

what I felt for you and the time
that we had was genuine

and everything that I ever said
to you was true.

And...

the fact that we are at where
we are now, I'm really sorry,

and I-I would assume to say
that most of it is my fault.

Maybe because it's --

I'm the boy that you think
that I am and...

I don't know,
but with that being said,

I want to be there for you.

And...

I just want to know

what I've asked you
for months now and...

though you may not want
anything to do with me

because of me asking you
for a paternity test,

I understand that.

That's something
that I can get over.

But what I can't get over

is if this is my child
is not being there for her,

to watch her grow up,
to watch or learn how to eat,

to watch her learn
how to walk to...

I can't get over that,
and I need you to know that

I did support your decision
and still do.

And I really hope that

we can coparent
together, mutually,

and have respect
for one another like we did.

And I'm sorry that things
happened the way that they did.

I really am. Really am.

-Wow.
-So.

-Well...
-I think that's --

I think that's all
I have to say.

I think that's everything

what you just said and what
I really think you should do

is remember everything you
just said and write it all down

and send it to Dani
right now so you can

resolve this.

Yeah.

She needs to hear from --

She needs to hear that from you,
I think.

Yeah.

All right, Jean-Luc.

A lot on your plate.

Yeah, you're right.

I really appreciate you
talking to me tonight.

And I was --
I'm happy to hear

what you had to say
for yourself.

Glad to hear it, Andy,
thanks.

Thanks, Jean-Luc.