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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:00,001 --> 00:00:04,167 Subtitles by explosiveskull 2 00:00:04,169 --> 00:00:06,572 Yep, you're probably right. 3 00:00:08,506 --> 00:00:11,141 I don't know what I'm talking about. 4 00:00:11,143 --> 00:00:14,514 Forget about my degree and experience. 5 00:00:15,948 --> 00:00:19,451 What's important, after all, how you feel. 6 00:00:21,085 --> 00:00:23,853 You tell me you like girls? 7 00:00:23,855 --> 00:00:25,857 Great, go for it, buddy. 8 00:00:26,758 --> 00:00:27,927 You like boys? 9 00:00:28,893 --> 00:00:30,128 All the better. 10 00:00:31,262 --> 00:00:33,663 (SIGHS) You do what you feel. 11 00:00:33,665 --> 00:00:35,898 I could tell you all about safe sex, 12 00:00:35,900 --> 00:00:39,001 give you a condom, but it'd only be a matter of time 13 00:00:39,003 --> 00:00:42,140 before you picked up some ungodly STD. 14 00:00:43,542 --> 00:00:47,010 Unleashing all your carnal cravings on whatever sweet thing 15 00:00:47,012 --> 00:00:49,482 walked through the door, yeah. 16 00:00:50,781 --> 00:00:52,485 But I won't stop you. 17 00:00:53,751 --> 00:00:55,720 Nope, you enjoy your herpes. 18 00:01:01,893 --> 00:01:05,661 What the fu...? (TAPPING) 19 00:01:05,663 --> 00:01:10,669 ♪ Lord can you give me a little bit of grace ♪ 20 00:01:11,969 --> 00:01:16,808 ♪ Oh can you hear me, it's been one of those days ♪ 21 00:01:18,577 --> 00:01:22,548 ♪ Oh oh oh oh, please don't delay ♪ 22 00:01:31,122 --> 00:01:33,625 ♪ Oh oh oh oh ♪ 23 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,269 Tastes like s'mores. 24 00:01:47,005 --> 00:01:48,274 I like it black. 25 00:01:49,607 --> 00:01:53,880 You're missing out on a whole world of flavor, man. 26 00:01:54,645 --> 00:01:56,815 (TRAFFIC RUMBLING) 27 00:02:01,153 --> 00:02:03,053 MAN: Hey, nice car, man. 28 00:02:03,055 --> 00:02:05,054 DAVE: Belonged to my ex. 29 00:02:05,056 --> 00:02:06,655 MAN: What was his name? 30 00:02:06,657 --> 00:02:11,664 ♪ Lord can you give me a whole lot of strength ♪ 31 00:02:12,863 --> 00:02:17,837 ♪ Cause I keep reliving every single mistake ♪ 32 00:02:19,303 --> 00:02:24,309 ♪ Oh oh oh oh please don't delay ♪ 33 00:02:25,076 --> 00:02:27,913 ♪ Please don't delay ♪ 34 00:02:31,682 --> 00:02:33,349 (LAUGHING) 35 00:02:33,351 --> 00:02:35,818 Dave Hopper, my savior. 36 00:02:35,820 --> 00:02:36,919 (LAUGHING) 37 00:02:36,921 --> 00:02:37,924 Get in here. 38 00:02:38,956 --> 00:02:41,991 Look at you, big boy, look at, 39 00:02:41,993 --> 00:02:45,228 you look good, considering, yeah. 40 00:02:45,230 --> 00:02:46,363 Let's go take a look at your office, come on. 41 00:02:46,365 --> 00:02:48,568 Well, show me the way. 42 00:02:49,835 --> 00:02:51,266 It's a closet. 43 00:02:51,268 --> 00:02:53,036 It's a start. 44 00:02:53,038 --> 00:02:57,273 Uh huh, the door is bigger than the entire room. 45 00:02:57,275 --> 00:03:00,111 (GORDON LAUGHS) 46 00:03:05,150 --> 00:03:06,782 You stole my title. 47 00:03:06,784 --> 00:03:08,984 One of the best student papers I ever read. 48 00:03:08,986 --> 00:03:10,353 How do you do it? 49 00:03:10,355 --> 00:03:12,855 Well, when you're in chapel five days a week, 50 00:03:12,857 --> 00:03:15,091 you got a lot to pull from. 51 00:03:15,093 --> 00:03:17,693 Most of us used to swipe our card and leave anyways. 52 00:03:17,695 --> 00:03:19,194 Until that landed you and your buddies 53 00:03:19,196 --> 00:03:21,698 in front of my disciplinary board. 54 00:03:21,700 --> 00:03:24,000 You really should not have run from the campus cops. 55 00:03:24,002 --> 00:03:24,867 (LAUGHS) 56 00:03:24,869 --> 00:03:27,836 I just couldn't take another installment 57 00:03:27,838 --> 00:03:31,306 of Dr. Nessey's, The Four Voices of the Tishbite. 58 00:03:31,308 --> 00:03:35,679 The tortures of the damned, my friend. 59 00:03:35,681 --> 00:03:38,214 What ever happened to him? 60 00:03:38,216 --> 00:03:41,450 His wife left him for a woman. 61 00:03:41,452 --> 00:03:44,122 (GORDON LAUGHS) 62 00:03:46,957 --> 00:03:49,158 I'm sorry, I didn't mean... 63 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:50,325 It's too soon, right? 64 00:03:50,327 --> 00:03:51,995 That's all right. 65 00:03:51,997 --> 00:03:54,898 At least she left me the car, right? 66 00:03:54,900 --> 00:03:58,234 And the car payments and the student loans 67 00:03:58,236 --> 00:03:59,168 - and the... - That's, 68 00:03:59,170 --> 00:04:00,770 that is all behind you. 69 00:04:00,772 --> 00:04:03,940 Now you are back with friends. 70 00:04:03,942 --> 00:04:04,907 So where are you staying? 71 00:04:04,909 --> 00:04:06,075 (GENTLE MUSIC) (BIRDS CHIRPING) 72 00:04:06,077 --> 00:04:08,144 Aunt Patty. 73 00:04:08,146 --> 00:04:10,079 GORDON: Ah. 74 00:04:10,081 --> 00:04:13,852 DAVE: I'm surprised she's still breathing. 75 00:04:21,092 --> 00:04:25,061 ♪ God knows I'd save your ass ♪ 76 00:04:25,063 --> 00:04:30,068 ♪ God knows I'd save your ass ♪ 77 00:04:31,068 --> 00:04:32,301 ♪ But there was not much left to save ♪ 78 00:04:32,303 --> 00:04:37,308 (GENTLE MUSIC) (DOOR CREAKING) 79 00:04:42,948 --> 00:04:43,782 Patty? 80 00:04:51,022 --> 00:04:51,856 Patty? 81 00:05:01,532 --> 00:05:02,367 Patty? 82 00:05:06,003 --> 00:05:06,905 Whoa, what? 83 00:05:09,541 --> 00:05:10,375 Mm, uh mm. 84 00:05:40,104 --> 00:05:42,205 Yeah, I need to report a dead body. 85 00:05:42,207 --> 00:05:43,573 Gotcha, Dave. (DAVE YELLS) 86 00:05:43,575 --> 00:05:46,344 (LAUGHS) Gotcha. 87 00:05:49,847 --> 00:05:52,784 I've been waiting weeks to do this. 88 00:05:54,219 --> 00:05:56,255 What took you so long? 89 00:05:57,255 --> 00:05:58,554 (PATTY LAUGHS) 90 00:05:58,556 --> 00:06:01,126 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 91 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,041 (STUDENTS CHATTERING) 92 00:06:25,584 --> 00:06:27,049 Good morning, everyone. 93 00:06:27,051 --> 00:06:28,083 STUDENTS: Good morning. 94 00:06:28,085 --> 00:06:29,921 My name is Mr. Hopper. 95 00:06:31,623 --> 00:06:33,392 Welcome to Psych 101. 96 00:06:36,161 --> 00:06:40,128 Now, as far as I'm concerned the basis 97 00:06:40,130 --> 00:06:42,898 for our understanding of human behavior 98 00:06:42,900 --> 00:06:46,001 can clearly be found in the Bible, 99 00:06:46,003 --> 00:06:47,203 and that's where we'll begin. 100 00:06:47,205 --> 00:06:49,338 Now we're gonna start each class 101 00:06:49,340 --> 00:06:51,273 by answering one question. 102 00:06:51,275 --> 00:06:52,941 Any question, I will give you 103 00:06:52,943 --> 00:06:55,578 my honest black and white answer. 104 00:06:55,580 --> 00:06:57,347 Give me something tough. 105 00:06:57,349 --> 00:06:58,183 Anything. 106 00:07:02,921 --> 00:07:03,556 Mr. Uh? 107 00:07:05,356 --> 00:07:06,191 Nate. 108 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,197 Why does God hate gay people? 109 00:07:12,897 --> 00:07:15,265 (CHUCKLES) 110 00:07:15,267 --> 00:07:16,665 There it is. 111 00:07:16,667 --> 00:07:19,571 The issue of your generation, the gays. 112 00:07:22,373 --> 00:07:25,910 We hear things like it's the new normal, 113 00:07:27,544 --> 00:07:31,347 an acceptable lifestyle, and that Christians, 114 00:07:31,349 --> 00:07:35,587 and others who oppose that practice are homophobic. 115 00:07:37,421 --> 00:07:40,592 Nate, I'm not afraid of homosexuality, 116 00:07:41,558 --> 00:07:44,095 I just know that it's wrong. 117 00:07:46,063 --> 00:07:48,534 It destroys people and families. 118 00:07:51,169 --> 00:07:52,301 I've seen it. 119 00:07:52,303 --> 00:07:53,402 (KNOCKING) 120 00:07:53,404 --> 00:07:54,537 GORDON: Come in. 121 00:07:54,539 --> 00:07:57,243 (DOOR CREAKS) 122 00:07:59,077 --> 00:08:00,246 What's this? 123 00:08:02,347 --> 00:08:03,612 Building a house? 124 00:08:03,614 --> 00:08:06,515 Uh huh, for the psych department. 125 00:08:06,517 --> 00:08:07,450 We have a psych department? 126 00:08:07,452 --> 00:08:09,184 Not yet. 127 00:08:09,186 --> 00:08:12,388 We wanna get the Cash Feed property over on Wabash, 128 00:08:12,390 --> 00:08:13,989 have it ready for the fall. 129 00:08:13,991 --> 00:08:16,592 Oh yeah, love that building. 130 00:08:16,594 --> 00:08:18,294 Who's gonna head it? 131 00:08:18,296 --> 00:08:21,364 I was hoping that you would. 132 00:08:21,366 --> 00:08:23,498 I've taught like one class. 133 00:08:23,500 --> 00:08:25,535 Nobody cares. 134 00:08:25,537 --> 00:08:27,102 You've got real-world experience. 135 00:08:27,104 --> 00:08:29,104 You're young, you're committed. 136 00:08:29,106 --> 00:08:32,075 Board eats that sort of stuff up. 137 00:08:32,077 --> 00:08:34,078 (SIGHS) 138 00:08:35,179 --> 00:08:36,015 What? 139 00:08:37,381 --> 00:08:41,216 It's ridiculous, I'm starting to think 140 00:08:41,218 --> 00:08:44,119 we may not be able to get it. 141 00:08:44,121 --> 00:08:46,455 Well, what ever happened to 142 00:08:46,457 --> 00:08:49,962 attempt great things, expect great things? 143 00:08:52,396 --> 00:08:54,229 There's a support group, okay? 144 00:08:54,231 --> 00:08:55,998 The recently deceased owner of the property 145 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,566 willed it to them as long as they 146 00:08:57,568 --> 00:08:59,435 could raise money to pay the back taxes, 147 00:08:59,437 --> 00:09:01,771 and it's only rumors, I have no way of knowing for sure, 148 00:09:01,773 --> 00:09:04,773 but it sounds like they're getting close. 149 00:09:04,775 --> 00:09:06,441 Is there no other building? 150 00:09:06,443 --> 00:09:09,445 (CHUCKLES) Not like that. 151 00:09:09,447 --> 00:09:12,715 Not at that price or with that history. 152 00:09:12,717 --> 00:09:15,084 It's breath-taking. 153 00:09:15,086 --> 00:09:17,356 (SIZZLING) 154 00:09:22,260 --> 00:09:23,692 It smells good in there, Patty. 155 00:09:23,694 --> 00:09:25,194 Do you need any help? 156 00:09:25,196 --> 00:09:27,499 PATTY: Do you like vajatas? 157 00:09:28,533 --> 00:09:29,665 What? 158 00:09:29,667 --> 00:09:30,733 PATTY: Vajatas. 159 00:09:30,735 --> 00:09:32,337 Do you like them? 160 00:09:38,143 --> 00:09:40,542 Fajitas, I love fajitas. 161 00:09:40,544 --> 00:09:42,412 That's what I said. 162 00:09:42,414 --> 00:09:43,649 Go have a seat. 163 00:09:58,362 --> 00:10:00,763 (SIGHS) 164 00:10:00,765 --> 00:10:03,733 Let me go check out the group. 165 00:10:03,735 --> 00:10:05,167 GORDON: Hmm? 166 00:10:05,169 --> 00:10:08,537 The support group, just check it out. 167 00:10:08,539 --> 00:10:12,441 Not say anything, find out how close they are to the money. 168 00:10:12,443 --> 00:10:13,508 I don't know, Dave. 169 00:10:13,510 --> 00:10:15,777 That sounds a little deceitful. 170 00:10:15,779 --> 00:10:17,613 It's research. 171 00:10:17,615 --> 00:10:18,447 Where do they meet? 172 00:10:18,449 --> 00:10:21,450 (GORDON GRUMBLES) 173 00:10:21,452 --> 00:10:25,588 Over by that hippie church on Main Street. 174 00:10:25,590 --> 00:10:26,855 I think. 175 00:10:26,857 --> 00:10:32,063 (UPBEAT MUSIC) (BIRDS CHIRPING) 176 00:10:36,266 --> 00:10:38,236 (SIGHS) 177 00:10:40,105 --> 00:10:43,605 GINA: Hi, are you here for the group? 178 00:10:43,607 --> 00:10:45,108 I think so. 179 00:10:45,110 --> 00:10:45,711 Great! 180 00:10:51,182 --> 00:10:52,148 Come on in. 181 00:10:52,150 --> 00:10:54,749 DAVE: That's how it works. 182 00:10:54,751 --> 00:10:57,356 (CHATTERING) 183 00:11:10,568 --> 00:11:13,702 Hey, am I at the right place? 184 00:11:13,704 --> 00:11:16,074 It depends, are you gay? 185 00:11:17,442 --> 00:11:20,176 It's not a trick question. 186 00:11:20,178 --> 00:11:23,345 Your shirt says you are, come on. 187 00:11:23,347 --> 00:11:24,580 Hey guys, Alyssa's gonna be late 188 00:11:24,582 --> 00:11:26,516 so I'm gonna lead discussion tonight. 189 00:11:26,518 --> 00:11:28,618 RICHARD: Oh, no he didn't! 190 00:11:28,620 --> 00:11:31,220 Yes, right in the middle of service! 191 00:11:31,222 --> 00:11:32,754 We were at the alter-call-thing 192 00:11:32,756 --> 00:11:35,490 and the pastor says to me, with his mic on, 193 00:11:35,492 --> 00:11:36,459 are you a lesbian? 194 00:11:36,461 --> 00:11:38,628 RICHARD: Girl, he didn't. 195 00:11:38,630 --> 00:11:42,665 And I said, I'm not here for sex, I'm here for salvation 196 00:11:42,667 --> 00:11:44,466 and I'll go find it elsewhere, thank you. 197 00:11:44,468 --> 00:11:45,801 (RICHARD LAUGHS) 198 00:11:45,803 --> 00:11:48,838 That was like eight years ago though, babe. 199 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:51,574 More things are much better now, more accepting. 200 00:11:51,576 --> 00:11:53,209 Some of us are changing. 201 00:11:53,211 --> 00:11:55,610 I guess, let's start like usual, 202 00:11:55,612 --> 00:11:57,846 everyone says their name and why they're here. 203 00:11:57,848 --> 00:11:59,484 Rosa, can you start? 204 00:12:00,952 --> 00:12:03,619 My name is Rosa and I'm here to support my wife, 205 00:12:03,621 --> 00:12:04,586 although I don't think it's worth the cost 206 00:12:04,588 --> 00:12:06,190 of a baby sitter. 207 00:12:06,890 --> 00:12:08,356 And to make sure she grows up 208 00:12:08,358 --> 00:12:11,527 in a less hateful world than we did. 209 00:12:11,529 --> 00:12:12,662 Bruce? 210 00:12:12,664 --> 00:12:13,830 Hello, my name is Bruce. 211 00:12:13,832 --> 00:12:17,733 And I've been a member of the gay community my whole life. 212 00:12:17,735 --> 00:12:19,502 Hi everyone, I'm Richard, 213 00:12:19,504 --> 00:12:21,671 and I'm here to love on my family. 214 00:12:21,673 --> 00:12:24,606 That's what you are, you're my family. 215 00:12:24,608 --> 00:12:26,911 His family doesn't like him. 216 00:12:28,513 --> 00:12:30,912 Well, I'm Kyle, and I've been questioning my sexuality 217 00:12:30,914 --> 00:12:33,516 for about four years now. 218 00:12:33,518 --> 00:12:34,786 He's not gay. 219 00:12:36,420 --> 00:12:39,922 I'm Mark, I'm the pastor at the church next door. 220 00:12:39,924 --> 00:12:43,692 I love people, that's why I'm here. 221 00:12:43,694 --> 00:12:44,929 What about you? 222 00:12:47,698 --> 00:12:48,663 Mm-hmm. 223 00:12:48,665 --> 00:12:50,568 Oh, uh, I don't really... 224 00:12:53,571 --> 00:12:56,939 It's okay to just start with your name. 225 00:12:56,941 --> 00:12:58,773 Right, oh okay. 226 00:12:58,775 --> 00:13:00,909 Um, my name is Dave. 227 00:13:00,911 --> 00:13:03,581 Just moved here a few days ago. 228 00:13:04,716 --> 00:13:08,450 Uh, living with my aunt and I don't like 229 00:13:08,452 --> 00:13:10,753 to talk about my sexuality. 230 00:13:10,755 --> 00:13:12,622 It's okay, we all understand. 231 00:13:12,624 --> 00:13:13,623 We're really glad you're here. 232 00:13:13,625 --> 00:13:16,492 We've all been there. 233 00:13:16,494 --> 00:13:18,761 GINA: Erika, do you wanna go? 234 00:13:18,763 --> 00:13:19,598 Pass. 235 00:13:21,598 --> 00:13:22,831 We can do that? 236 00:13:22,833 --> 00:13:23,669 Okay. 237 00:13:25,303 --> 00:13:26,469 Does anyone have anything 238 00:13:26,471 --> 00:13:28,303 they need support with tonight? 239 00:13:28,305 --> 00:13:29,638 (DOOR BANGS) 240 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:31,706 That little shit behind the counter did it again. 241 00:13:31,708 --> 00:13:33,743 Every time I go to that gas station on the corner 242 00:13:33,745 --> 00:13:35,677 I catch him spewing his hate! 243 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,913 Your god is love, bitch, why can't you be? 244 00:13:38,915 --> 00:13:41,283 (THUDS) 245 00:13:41,285 --> 00:13:42,654 MARK: It's okay. 246 00:13:44,655 --> 00:13:46,689 (SIGHS) Hi. 247 00:13:46,691 --> 00:13:50,593 GROUP: Hi. (laughing) 248 00:13:50,595 --> 00:13:51,630 Not gay. 249 00:13:52,563 --> 00:13:54,964 I just got back from the attorney's office, 250 00:13:54,966 --> 00:13:57,399 and we're all set to go on the property. 251 00:13:57,401 --> 00:13:58,633 We just need to get the money 252 00:13:58,635 --> 00:13:59,869 to cover the taxes and it's ours! 253 00:13:59,871 --> 00:14:02,338 Well, how much money do we need? 254 00:14:02,340 --> 00:14:05,907 $50 thousand in 30 days and we're at about 10. 255 00:14:05,909 --> 00:14:07,843 We need everyone at the car wash, everyone. 256 00:14:07,845 --> 00:14:09,378 Yes, please. 257 00:14:09,380 --> 00:14:11,614 Uh, sorry, car wash? 258 00:14:11,616 --> 00:14:13,816 Yeah, yep, a car wash. 259 00:14:13,818 --> 00:14:16,451 It just seems like a lot of cars to wash. 260 00:14:16,453 --> 00:14:18,687 Honey, you have not seen us wash cars. 261 00:14:18,689 --> 00:14:21,525 - (LAUGHING) - Okay? 262 00:14:23,060 --> 00:14:23,926 Right. 263 00:14:23,928 --> 00:14:24,859 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 264 00:14:24,861 --> 00:14:27,495 Girl. Okay, on you. 265 00:14:27,497 --> 00:14:28,596 We'll see you soon. 266 00:14:28,598 --> 00:14:29,665 - All right, now. - Okay. 267 00:14:29,667 --> 00:14:30,666 Only one cookie now. 268 00:14:30,668 --> 00:14:33,337 I deserve it, thank you, okay? 269 00:14:38,875 --> 00:14:39,810 I'm Dave. 270 00:14:41,078 --> 00:14:43,579 (ALYSSA LAUGHS) 271 00:14:43,581 --> 00:14:45,417 Sorry, I'm so sorry. 272 00:14:46,083 --> 00:14:47,450 DAVE: Mm-hmm. 273 00:14:47,452 --> 00:14:49,784 I had to do something about your shirt. 274 00:14:49,786 --> 00:14:51,789 So I hear you're not... 275 00:14:53,725 --> 00:14:54,724 Not what? 276 00:14:54,726 --> 00:14:56,758 Uh, afraid of a challenge. 277 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:58,661 ALYSSA: No. 278 00:14:58,663 --> 00:15:00,428 40,000 in three weeks. 279 00:15:00,430 --> 00:15:02,764 This shelter is gonna happen. 280 00:15:02,766 --> 00:15:03,832 Shelter? 281 00:15:03,834 --> 00:15:05,768 It's for everyone who needs a place to feel safe. 282 00:15:05,770 --> 00:15:07,769 Well, isn't that what Good Shepherd's for? 283 00:15:07,771 --> 00:15:10,538 Not if you're gay, darling. 284 00:15:10,540 --> 00:15:13,375 Bruce, have you met Dave? 285 00:15:13,377 --> 00:15:14,976 Yes, we have, we met at the circle. 286 00:15:14,978 --> 00:15:18,349 And Dave is new to town, he is single, 287 00:15:19,583 --> 00:15:21,917 and he lives with his aunt. 288 00:15:21,919 --> 00:15:23,918 And he hasn't talked about sexuality much though. 289 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,854 Oh, that's understandable. 290 00:15:25,856 --> 00:15:27,623 It gets better. 291 00:15:27,625 --> 00:15:29,461 Be seeing you, Dave. 292 00:15:31,795 --> 00:15:34,696 (GORDON HUMMING) 293 00:15:34,698 --> 00:15:35,764 Oh. 294 00:15:35,766 --> 00:15:37,800 Why didn't you tell me? 295 00:15:37,802 --> 00:15:38,868 Do they have it? 296 00:15:38,870 --> 00:15:39,902 DAVE: Did you know? 297 00:15:39,904 --> 00:15:41,870 Do they have it? 298 00:15:41,872 --> 00:15:43,739 - No, they don't. - Excellent. 299 00:15:43,741 --> 00:15:44,806 (GORDON LAUGHS) 300 00:15:44,808 --> 00:15:48,112 Not even close. (SIGHS) 301 00:15:49,013 --> 00:15:51,116 Gordon, it's a gay group. 302 00:15:54,018 --> 00:15:55,850 All right, that would have been nice to know. 303 00:15:55,852 --> 00:15:57,987 That would have been great to know actually 304 00:15:57,989 --> 00:16:02,191 and you know you'd think they want it for a gay bar 305 00:16:02,193 --> 00:16:04,759 or maybe some sort of sex house. 306 00:16:04,761 --> 00:16:08,129 But they want it for a homeless shelter. 307 00:16:08,131 --> 00:16:09,532 Did you know that? 308 00:16:09,534 --> 00:16:11,633 No Dave, how could I know that? 309 00:16:11,635 --> 00:16:14,537 And so what if they want it for a homeless shelter? 310 00:16:14,539 --> 00:16:15,805 You want those poor kids 311 00:16:15,807 --> 00:16:18,606 taken off the street taken by sodomites? 312 00:16:18,608 --> 00:16:20,678 - No. - No, of course not. 313 00:16:21,946 --> 00:16:24,680 But like I said they're unorganized. 314 00:16:24,682 --> 00:16:26,581 All they have are car washes. 315 00:16:26,583 --> 00:16:28,817 You haven't seen gays wash cars. 316 00:16:28,819 --> 00:16:31,487 I will this weekend. 317 00:16:31,489 --> 00:16:32,491 Will what? 318 00:16:33,790 --> 00:16:35,191 You're going back? 319 00:16:35,193 --> 00:16:37,225 Why would you you do that? 320 00:16:37,227 --> 00:16:38,060 Because what if I... 321 00:16:38,062 --> 00:16:39,431 Sabotage it? 322 00:16:42,500 --> 00:16:45,167 Jesus flipped over tables and whipped sinners 323 00:16:45,169 --> 00:16:47,802 to rid the temple of evil. 324 00:16:47,804 --> 00:16:50,141 Desperate times, my brother. 325 00:16:52,009 --> 00:16:53,478 Ha, great idea. 326 00:16:54,911 --> 00:16:57,782 So who's got a question today? 327 00:16:59,650 --> 00:17:00,883 Yes, Nate. 328 00:17:00,885 --> 00:17:03,652 Does a person choose to be gay? 329 00:17:03,654 --> 00:17:04,790 Wow, obsessed? 330 00:17:06,591 --> 00:17:10,225 Okay, well it's complicated, but in most cases, 331 00:17:10,227 --> 00:17:12,695 the psycho-social choice can be traced back 332 00:17:12,697 --> 00:17:16,898 to some kind of abuse or negative impact growing up. 333 00:17:16,900 --> 00:17:19,801 Call it a distant father, an overbearing mother. 334 00:17:19,803 --> 00:17:21,837 Sometimes it's as simple as a gay man 335 00:17:21,839 --> 00:17:24,005 has never had a chance to be with a woman, 336 00:17:24,007 --> 00:17:26,708 hindering his sexual development. 337 00:17:26,710 --> 00:17:29,144 So they're attracted to the same sex 338 00:17:29,146 --> 00:17:32,947 because they never kissed the opposite sex? 339 00:17:32,949 --> 00:17:34,486 Psycho-social. 340 00:17:36,821 --> 00:17:38,219 When have you kissed a man? 341 00:17:38,221 --> 00:17:41,090 (STUDENTS LAUGHING) 342 00:17:41,092 --> 00:17:42,757 I'm sorry? 343 00:17:42,759 --> 00:17:44,959 I don't know, maybe you don't know you're gay. 344 00:17:44,961 --> 00:17:45,994 Maybe if you kissed a man 345 00:17:45,996 --> 00:17:47,763 you'd find you really like men. 346 00:17:47,765 --> 00:17:50,733 (STUDENTS LAUGHING) 347 00:17:50,735 --> 00:17:51,570 Stop it. 348 00:17:54,804 --> 00:17:56,571 (DOOR CREAKS) 349 00:17:56,573 --> 00:17:59,574 (CLANGING) 350 00:17:59,576 --> 00:18:00,211 Patty? 351 00:18:03,714 --> 00:18:04,780 Patty? (GRUNTS) 352 00:18:04,782 --> 00:18:05,747 I ain't Patty. 353 00:18:05,749 --> 00:18:06,884 Holy, clearly. 354 00:18:07,985 --> 00:18:09,118 Who are you? 355 00:18:09,120 --> 00:18:09,754 Frank. 356 00:18:10,888 --> 00:18:13,923 You must be Dave, Patty tells me 357 00:18:13,925 --> 00:18:16,591 you don't know how to please a woman. 358 00:18:16,593 --> 00:18:20,628 Um, okay Frank, that is none of your business 359 00:18:20,630 --> 00:18:22,534 and it's mostly untrue. 360 00:18:23,967 --> 00:18:27,269 Ain't nobody ever told you how to be a 60 minute man? 361 00:18:27,271 --> 00:18:28,169 Um... 362 00:18:28,171 --> 00:18:30,272 A 60 minute man. 363 00:18:30,274 --> 00:18:34,976 15 minutes a cuddling, 15 minutes a smooching, 364 00:18:34,978 --> 00:18:36,011 15 minutes a rubbing... 365 00:18:36,013 --> 00:18:37,716 Whoa, okay, wow. 366 00:18:39,883 --> 00:18:41,317 Thank you, please stop though. 367 00:18:41,319 --> 00:18:42,984 Why are you here, Frank? 368 00:18:42,986 --> 00:18:46,187 I'm whatcha call Patty's friend with benefits. 369 00:18:46,189 --> 00:18:50,125 We share our Social Security income and meds. 370 00:18:50,127 --> 00:18:53,963 I give her my downers and she gives me her uppers. 371 00:18:53,965 --> 00:18:55,063 (LAUGHS) 372 00:18:55,065 --> 00:18:56,031 Okay. 373 00:18:56,033 --> 00:18:57,065 Where is she? 374 00:18:57,067 --> 00:18:58,202 PATTY: Frank. 375 00:19:00,371 --> 00:19:05,040 I tell you what, you go give her these pills, 376 00:19:05,042 --> 00:19:07,044 but you gotta wear this. 377 00:19:08,044 --> 00:19:09,811 Um, mm, I don't... 378 00:19:09,813 --> 00:19:11,379 Oh, it'll freak her out. 379 00:19:11,381 --> 00:19:13,948 She's all the time pullin' crap with me 380 00:19:13,950 --> 00:19:15,917 and she'll get you before long? 381 00:19:15,919 --> 00:19:16,985 She already did. 382 00:19:16,987 --> 00:19:18,957 Here's your chance. 383 00:19:21,993 --> 00:19:23,993 - (PILLS RATTLING) - Gonna regret this. 384 00:19:23,995 --> 00:19:25,060 Mm-hmm. 385 00:19:25,062 --> 00:19:26,995 It's a bad idea. (SOLEMN MUSIC) 386 00:19:26,997 --> 00:19:28,165 Bad, bad idea. 387 00:19:30,101 --> 00:19:32,603 PATTY: Frank, where you at? 388 00:19:35,238 --> 00:19:37,005 Frank, I'm ready for you. 389 00:19:37,007 --> 00:19:38,040 (PATTY SCREAMS) (FRANK LAUGHING) 390 00:19:38,042 --> 00:19:39,207 - Oh! - Oh no. 391 00:19:39,209 --> 00:19:40,044 No. 392 00:19:41,111 --> 00:19:43,047 FRANK: Gotcha Patty! 393 00:19:44,180 --> 00:19:45,414 DAVE: Frank. 394 00:19:45,416 --> 00:19:48,720 (CELL PHONE BUZZING) 395 00:19:50,388 --> 00:19:51,320 At night? 396 00:19:51,322 --> 00:19:53,121 (CRICKETS CHIRPING) 397 00:19:53,123 --> 00:19:55,092 (HUMMING) 398 00:20:03,066 --> 00:20:05,236 Woo, our first customer! 399 00:20:06,403 --> 00:20:08,070 Your wash will be for free, handsome, 400 00:20:08,072 --> 00:20:10,074 but then you gotta help. 401 00:20:12,709 --> 00:20:15,279 Okay, none of this makes sense. 402 00:20:19,015 --> 00:20:20,986 (HUMMING) 403 00:20:29,092 --> 00:20:32,363 (GARAGE DOOR RATTLING) 404 00:20:38,002 --> 00:20:38,803 Okay. 405 00:20:40,371 --> 00:20:42,137 ♪ Show me what you got for me ♪ 406 00:20:42,139 --> 00:20:44,072 ♪ I wanna see what you got for me ♪ 407 00:20:44,074 --> 00:20:46,108 ♪ I want it all like a shopping spree ♪ 408 00:20:46,110 --> 00:20:48,377 ♪ I want y'all on top of me ♪ 409 00:20:48,379 --> 00:20:50,111 ♪ Show me what you got for me ♪ 410 00:20:50,113 --> 00:20:52,080 ♪ I wanna see what you got for me ♪ 411 00:20:52,082 --> 00:20:54,148 ♪ I want it all like a shopping spree ♪ 412 00:20:54,150 --> 00:20:56,051 ♪ I want y'all on top of me ♪ 413 00:20:56,053 --> 00:20:57,151 ♪ Watching you wine I had to stop ♪ 414 00:20:57,153 --> 00:20:58,454 ♪ And hit rewind on that ass ♪ 415 00:20:58,456 --> 00:20:59,455 ♪ Caught the pause like what's the play ♪ 416 00:20:59,457 --> 00:21:00,455 ♪ I guess the time moving fast ♪ 417 00:21:00,457 --> 00:21:02,791 ♪ Slow motion like juvenile ♪ 418 00:21:02,793 --> 00:21:04,158 ♪ I'm a have to call ya mom on that ass ♪ 419 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:05,727 ♪ Get 'em daddy ♪ 420 00:21:05,729 --> 00:21:06,962 ♪ I don't think they gone have a problem with that ♪ 421 00:21:06,964 --> 00:21:07,862 ♪ Came from a dollar all I needed ♪ 422 00:21:07,864 --> 00:21:09,798 ♪ Was some commas to add, Shakespeare ♪ 423 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,065 ♪ But we ain't tryin' to have no drama with that ♪ 424 00:21:11,067 --> 00:21:11,899 ♪ Bought a white house like all I needed ♪ 425 00:21:11,901 --> 00:21:14,405 ♪ Was Obama with that ♪ 426 00:21:19,976 --> 00:21:20,812 No. 427 00:21:21,879 --> 00:21:23,244 Oh, I'm not asking. 428 00:21:23,246 --> 00:21:24,146 DAVE: No. 429 00:21:24,148 --> 00:21:25,914 (WATER SPLASHING) 430 00:21:25,916 --> 00:21:27,049 ALYSSA: Go. 431 00:21:27,051 --> 00:21:28,149 (SCREAMS) 432 00:21:28,151 --> 00:21:30,017 (LAUGHS) No, no, no. 433 00:21:30,019 --> 00:21:32,120 (ROCK MUSIC) 434 00:21:32,122 --> 00:21:33,488 ♪ Gimme a second ♪ 435 00:21:33,490 --> 00:21:35,491 ♪ I'm trying to select the appropriate weapon, uh ♪ 436 00:21:35,493 --> 00:21:37,225 ♪ Watch where you steppin' ♪ 437 00:21:37,227 --> 00:21:39,227 ♪ Them snakes all around you know they connected, uh ♪ 438 00:21:39,229 --> 00:21:40,228 ♪ When I was a kid ♪ 439 00:21:40,230 --> 00:21:41,929 ♪ My grandmamma told me I can't go to heaven ♪ 440 00:21:41,931 --> 00:21:43,165 ♪ So I stopped praying ♪ 441 00:21:43,167 --> 00:21:44,766 Oh no, keep that one, that one's on us. 442 00:21:44,768 --> 00:21:46,100 You go ahead. 443 00:21:46,102 --> 00:21:47,202 ♪ Got nothing to lose, I'm all in ♪ 444 00:21:47,204 --> 00:21:49,103 ♪ Walking the edge, don't fall in ♪ 445 00:21:49,105 --> 00:21:50,906 ♪ Enough of the lies, don't apologize ♪ 446 00:21:50,908 --> 00:21:52,073 ♪ I don't understand are you foreign ♪ 447 00:21:52,075 --> 00:21:53,141 Keep your money. 448 00:21:53,143 --> 00:21:54,542 This one's on us. 449 00:21:54,544 --> 00:21:56,145 ♪ This is a site, grab all your people and log in ♪ 450 00:21:56,147 --> 00:21:58,112 ♪ I'm waiting, don't care how long it's gonna take ♪ 451 00:21:58,114 --> 00:21:59,113 ♪ Watching and waiting ♪ This one's on us. 452 00:21:59,115 --> 00:22:00,249 ♪ For that first mistake ♪ 453 00:22:00,251 --> 00:22:01,315 Go ahead. ♪ Don't come up missing ♪ 454 00:22:01,317 --> 00:22:03,151 ♪ Just checking the listings ♪ 455 00:22:03,153 --> 00:22:05,154 ♪ I'm always aware of your current position ♪ 456 00:22:05,156 --> 00:22:07,121 ♪ I just hold out till the perfect conditions ♪ 457 00:22:07,123 --> 00:22:08,090 ♪ Coming alive ♪ 458 00:22:08,092 --> 00:22:10,559 ♪ Whoa oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 459 00:22:10,561 --> 00:22:11,526 ♪ Heat of the night ♪ 460 00:22:11,528 --> 00:22:14,128 ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 461 00:22:14,130 --> 00:22:15,097 ♪ Now is the time ♪ 462 00:22:15,099 --> 00:22:17,866 ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 463 00:22:17,868 --> 00:22:19,267 ♪ Don't try to hide ♪ 464 00:22:19,269 --> 00:22:21,969 ♪ 'Cause I'm gonna hunt you like an animal ♪ 465 00:22:21,971 --> 00:22:22,937 ♪ Benefit of the doubt ♪ 466 00:22:22,939 --> 00:22:24,438 ♪ We the ones ♪ (SIZZLING) 467 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,077 (CHATTERING) 468 00:22:28,044 --> 00:22:29,278 Kyle? 469 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,182 I didn't do anything. 470 00:22:32,115 --> 00:22:36,019 (SPEAKING IN FOREIGN LANGUAGE) 471 00:22:45,196 --> 00:22:46,561 (DAVE SIGHS) 472 00:22:46,563 --> 00:22:48,330 How was the baptism? 473 00:22:48,332 --> 00:22:49,330 (BIRDS CHIRPING) 474 00:22:49,332 --> 00:22:50,134 Success. 475 00:22:52,136 --> 00:22:54,136 There's no way they made money off of that. 476 00:22:54,138 --> 00:22:55,840 I don't wanna know. 477 00:23:01,845 --> 00:23:03,344 So what's the deal with the bi's? 478 00:23:03,346 --> 00:23:04,580 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 479 00:23:04,582 --> 00:23:06,849 I mean, make up your mind already. 480 00:23:06,851 --> 00:23:08,116 Am I right? 481 00:23:08,118 --> 00:23:11,052 And you guys, you've got it the hardest. 482 00:23:11,054 --> 00:23:13,054 Raising that girl. 483 00:23:13,056 --> 00:23:15,456 No greater responsibility. 484 00:23:15,458 --> 00:23:19,464 How does it feel to know that your support group 485 00:23:20,363 --> 00:23:22,199 thinks you're not gay? 486 00:23:23,234 --> 00:23:24,269 Hmm. 487 00:23:25,335 --> 00:23:29,807 If it were me, I'd find a place I was more accepted. 488 00:23:31,242 --> 00:23:35,346 I look at you and I look at everyone else around here, 489 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,513 don't near cares like you do. 490 00:23:38,515 --> 00:23:40,514 Where's their passion? 491 00:23:40,516 --> 00:23:42,352 I see it in your eyes. 492 00:23:43,353 --> 00:23:44,887 Don't see it in theirs. 493 00:23:44,889 --> 00:23:45,620 (GASPS) 494 00:23:45,622 --> 00:23:48,226 You've been here what, a year? 495 00:23:49,325 --> 00:23:52,394 Still no gender neutral bathrooms. 496 00:23:52,396 --> 00:23:54,228 Must be tough. 497 00:23:54,230 --> 00:23:58,065 Do they have to get childcare or do homework? 498 00:23:58,067 --> 00:24:00,369 Get their kid to school? 499 00:24:00,371 --> 00:24:01,570 Nope. 500 00:24:01,572 --> 00:24:03,304 You know why? 501 00:24:03,306 --> 00:24:05,340 They're too busy having fun. 502 00:24:05,342 --> 00:24:06,207 What is it I've been saying, 503 00:24:06,209 --> 00:24:08,676 for the love of God, pick a side already. 504 00:24:08,678 --> 00:24:12,147 But I'm so gay I make circles look straight. 505 00:24:12,149 --> 00:24:14,616 There's always been this voice telling me that. 506 00:24:14,618 --> 00:24:19,487 You know, inside my head, I just don't want to believe it. 507 00:24:19,489 --> 00:24:21,255 It's true. 508 00:24:21,257 --> 00:24:23,961 Dude, I use the ladies room. 509 00:24:25,963 --> 00:24:26,598 Right. 510 00:24:33,370 --> 00:24:36,241 (DOOR CREAKING) 511 00:24:37,307 --> 00:24:40,474 Hey, how's everyone doing? 512 00:24:40,476 --> 00:24:42,410 (CHUCKLES) That's funny that you ask. 513 00:24:42,412 --> 00:24:44,245 I just wish everyone (GROUP ARGUING) 514 00:24:44,247 --> 00:24:46,148 would care as much as I do! 515 00:24:46,150 --> 00:24:48,183 Don't act like we're not sitting here 516 00:24:48,185 --> 00:24:49,553 with a bunch of hypocrites. 517 00:24:53,423 --> 00:24:55,991 Do not talk to us like that. 518 00:24:55,993 --> 00:24:58,296 Bruce, apologize to Erika. 519 00:25:01,230 --> 00:25:03,333 Y'all, snap it together! 520 00:25:04,301 --> 00:25:05,370 Get your lives. 521 00:25:06,536 --> 00:25:07,369 Do I have to remind you? 522 00:25:07,371 --> 00:25:09,737 This is not who we are. 523 00:25:09,739 --> 00:25:11,473 We're together because no one else wants us 524 00:25:11,475 --> 00:25:13,308 and to make sure we're there for others 525 00:25:13,310 --> 00:25:15,676 who don't have anyone else either. 526 00:25:15,678 --> 00:25:19,414 Erika, honey, we know you've gone through so much 527 00:25:19,416 --> 00:25:21,416 and have grown stronger for it. 528 00:25:21,418 --> 00:25:23,385 That's why we love you. 529 00:25:23,387 --> 00:25:28,223 Bruce, you keep your close-minded hate to yourself. 530 00:25:28,225 --> 00:25:30,492 Miss Gina, Miss Rosa, 531 00:25:30,494 --> 00:25:33,294 you're doing a beautiful thing with Chloe, 532 00:25:33,296 --> 00:25:36,999 but that blessing was your choice, okay? 533 00:25:37,001 --> 00:25:37,635 Yeah. 534 00:25:39,236 --> 00:25:40,972 And Kyle, poor child, 535 00:25:42,473 --> 00:25:43,608 you are not gay. 536 00:25:45,575 --> 00:25:47,242 So let it go, boo boo. 537 00:25:47,244 --> 00:25:48,545 We still love you. 538 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:51,582 All right, good. 539 00:25:53,449 --> 00:25:58,153 So, the numbers are in from the car wash, and it's bad. 540 00:25:58,155 --> 00:25:59,788 It's like $130 bad. 541 00:25:59,790 --> 00:26:01,188 RICHARD: Uh-huh. 542 00:26:01,190 --> 00:26:02,323 But we washed like a thousand cars! 543 00:26:02,325 --> 00:26:04,592 GINA: Yeah, we charged $20 a pop! 544 00:26:04,594 --> 00:26:06,427 But after the accident with lights 545 00:26:06,429 --> 00:26:08,362 and the sound system, we didn't make enough. 546 00:26:08,364 --> 00:26:09,296 GROUP: Kyle! 547 00:26:09,298 --> 00:26:11,332 I told you I didn't touch it. 548 00:26:11,334 --> 00:26:13,034 It's fine, it's okay. 549 00:26:13,036 --> 00:26:15,669 Everyone had fun and people learned about the shelter, 550 00:26:15,671 --> 00:26:17,339 so that's good. 551 00:26:17,341 --> 00:26:20,375 We also have the 5k next week, so that'll help. 552 00:26:20,377 --> 00:26:22,310 Speaking of which, after group 553 00:26:22,312 --> 00:26:25,515 I need help making signs, any volunteers? 554 00:26:26,650 --> 00:26:30,121 Uh, I could, if nobody else wanted to. 555 00:26:32,688 --> 00:26:33,524 Okay. 556 00:26:43,566 --> 00:26:45,801 DAVE: Bruce kinda told me you're not gay. 557 00:26:45,803 --> 00:26:46,637 Kind of? 558 00:26:49,273 --> 00:26:52,407 Well he mouthed it to me at my first meeting. 559 00:26:52,409 --> 00:26:53,474 (ALYSSA LAUGHS) 560 00:26:53,476 --> 00:26:57,244 Well that man does too many things with his mouth. 561 00:26:57,246 --> 00:26:58,082 So? 562 00:26:59,315 --> 00:27:00,485 ALYSSA: No. 563 00:27:01,351 --> 00:27:02,216 Oh, no? 564 00:27:02,218 --> 00:27:03,520 ALYSSA: Um-hmm. 565 00:27:05,488 --> 00:27:07,388 Then why the meetings? 566 00:27:07,390 --> 00:27:08,558 For support. 567 00:27:10,393 --> 00:27:13,195 DAVE: Seems like you do more than support. 568 00:27:13,197 --> 00:27:14,262 You kinda run the place. 569 00:27:14,264 --> 00:27:15,397 Yeah. 570 00:27:15,399 --> 00:27:17,368 How long have you lived here? 571 00:27:18,399 --> 00:27:19,504 I'm actually from here. 572 00:27:20,637 --> 00:27:23,772 Yeah, I um, just moved back a few days ago. 573 00:27:23,774 --> 00:27:26,140 Well three years ago, before me, 574 00:27:26,142 --> 00:27:30,145 there was another guy that ran the group, Ryan. 575 00:27:30,147 --> 00:27:32,417 He was confident, handsome. 576 00:27:34,584 --> 00:27:37,551 Great with people, very gay. 577 00:27:37,553 --> 00:27:39,521 A little bit like you. 578 00:27:39,523 --> 00:27:41,590 The shelter was his dream. 579 00:27:41,592 --> 00:27:44,592 He would bring in homeless teens off the street 580 00:27:44,594 --> 00:27:46,561 and try and get them in at Good Shepherd, 581 00:27:46,563 --> 00:27:51,569 but their sponsors didn't want the gays hurting their image. 582 00:27:52,736 --> 00:27:55,473 The image of a homeless shelter. 583 00:27:56,707 --> 00:27:59,608 So he would take them to the shelter in Orlando. 584 00:27:59,610 --> 00:28:02,343 Mark volunteers there sometimes. 585 00:28:02,345 --> 00:28:03,878 And then Ryan realized that 586 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,148 there is enough gay youth here 587 00:28:06,150 --> 00:28:08,553 that we needed our own place. 588 00:28:09,453 --> 00:28:11,622 So what happened to him? 589 00:28:21,698 --> 00:28:25,402 One night he was locking up after group, 590 00:28:30,541 --> 00:28:32,510 some guys jumped him. 591 00:28:34,945 --> 00:28:37,615 They found him the next morning. 592 00:28:39,949 --> 00:28:40,784 Beaten, 593 00:28:41,951 --> 00:28:44,788 and strangled with a rainbow flag. 594 00:28:59,636 --> 00:29:01,203 He was my brother. 595 00:29:01,205 --> 00:29:03,541 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 596 00:29:06,476 --> 00:29:08,646 (SOBBING) 597 00:29:17,220 --> 00:29:18,688 That's why I'm here. 598 00:29:21,291 --> 00:29:23,226 To make his dream real. 599 00:29:33,769 --> 00:29:34,604 You know? 600 00:29:39,610 --> 00:29:40,945 Bruce was right. 601 00:29:42,713 --> 00:29:44,482 You are kinda cute. 602 00:29:46,550 --> 00:29:47,715 What? 603 00:29:47,717 --> 00:29:49,887 It's too bad you're gay. 604 00:29:53,422 --> 00:29:55,790 (SCOFFS) Excuse me? 605 00:29:55,792 --> 00:29:58,627 You're just so refreshing. 606 00:29:58,629 --> 00:30:00,262 So many new people feel the need 607 00:30:00,264 --> 00:30:02,800 to overemphasize their sexuality. 608 00:30:04,700 --> 00:30:08,639 What I love about you is you don't have to try, 609 00:30:09,605 --> 00:30:12,309 your gayness just flows naturally. 610 00:30:14,678 --> 00:30:15,577 (LAUGHS) 611 00:30:15,579 --> 00:30:19,446 Do you have any idea what I would do to you 612 00:30:19,448 --> 00:30:20,548 if you were straight? 613 00:30:20,550 --> 00:30:22,650 (DAVE GRUNTS) 614 00:30:22,652 --> 00:30:24,586 (ALYSSA LAUGHS) 615 00:30:24,588 --> 00:30:28,622 (CHUCKLES) (SIGHS) 616 00:30:28,624 --> 00:30:31,659 Your gayness flows naturally? 617 00:30:31,661 --> 00:30:33,730 (LAUGHS) 618 00:30:34,765 --> 00:30:38,399 Not funny man, they think that I'm gay! 619 00:30:38,401 --> 00:30:39,667 GORDON: All of them? 620 00:30:39,669 --> 00:30:41,569 Apparently, something about 621 00:30:41,571 --> 00:30:43,737 not having to force my sexuality. 622 00:30:43,739 --> 00:30:44,805 (CHUCKLES) 623 00:30:44,807 --> 00:30:47,775 Look Dave, this is a good thing. 624 00:30:47,777 --> 00:30:50,078 They trust you now, you gotta keep 'em trusting you. 625 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,417 (CELL PHONE VIBRATES) 626 00:30:56,386 --> 00:30:57,686 What? 627 00:30:57,688 --> 00:31:00,621 They want me to go to some place called The Closet. 628 00:31:00,623 --> 00:31:03,625 (GORDON LAUGHS) 629 00:31:03,627 --> 00:31:05,493 It's a gay bar, Dave. 630 00:31:05,495 --> 00:31:07,529 A very classy place. 631 00:31:07,531 --> 00:31:08,432 Phenomenal. 632 00:31:10,734 --> 00:31:12,099 Should I go? 633 00:31:12,101 --> 00:31:14,802 Absolutely, the door is wide open, Dave. 634 00:31:14,804 --> 00:31:16,937 Get in there and strike. 635 00:31:16,939 --> 00:31:18,807 You be careful okay? 636 00:31:18,809 --> 00:31:21,642 Make sure you bottle up that natural gayness of yours. 637 00:31:21,644 --> 00:31:23,778 (LAUGHS) 638 00:31:23,780 --> 00:31:25,980 (TAPPING) 639 00:31:25,982 --> 00:31:28,786 (GENTLE MUSIC) 640 00:31:50,841 --> 00:31:52,709 You look so handsome. 641 00:31:54,777 --> 00:31:56,079 Just like Frank. 642 00:31:59,949 --> 00:32:01,919 (SNORTS) 643 00:32:03,687 --> 00:32:04,522 Perfect. 644 00:32:06,156 --> 00:32:09,456 PATTY: First date since Samantha? 645 00:32:09,458 --> 00:32:10,760 It's not a date. 646 00:32:11,861 --> 00:32:13,927 Don't come back fore 10. 647 00:32:13,929 --> 00:32:17,634 You might see something you don't want to. 648 00:32:36,820 --> 00:32:39,123 Yep, looks pretty gay to me. 649 00:32:41,091 --> 00:32:44,094 (CRICKETS CHIRPING) 650 00:32:45,928 --> 00:32:47,561 Hey. 651 00:32:47,563 --> 00:32:48,929 Hey. 652 00:32:48,931 --> 00:32:52,099 Wow, you really clean up nicely. 653 00:32:52,101 --> 00:32:53,635 Thanks. 654 00:32:53,637 --> 00:32:55,806 You are... also wearing clothes. 655 00:32:57,841 --> 00:32:59,107 Yeah, you like? 656 00:32:59,109 --> 00:33:01,909 (LAUGHS) That scarf though. 657 00:33:01,911 --> 00:33:02,746 - No. - Uh. 658 00:33:04,948 --> 00:33:06,781 I'm glad you came out tonight. 659 00:33:06,783 --> 00:33:09,516 Yeah, uh, and thanks for inviting me. 660 00:33:09,518 --> 00:33:12,821 I haven't really been out since 661 00:33:12,823 --> 00:33:14,824 Sam... left me for a woman. 662 00:33:16,159 --> 00:33:17,559 He did? 663 00:33:17,561 --> 00:33:18,396 Oh, Dave. 664 00:33:19,662 --> 00:33:20,897 Yep, a woman. 665 00:33:21,832 --> 00:33:23,865 Two timing man-whore. 666 00:33:23,867 --> 00:33:24,702 Mm-hmm. 667 00:33:25,901 --> 00:33:29,471 I don't know, I guess I took it pretty bad. 668 00:33:29,473 --> 00:33:30,839 (SIGHS) 669 00:33:30,841 --> 00:33:32,874 I feel like I must not have been enough man 670 00:33:32,876 --> 00:33:36,881 to leave Sam the only choice of switching sides. 671 00:33:38,547 --> 00:33:40,482 Most days are okay though, 672 00:33:40,484 --> 00:33:44,053 but then all it takes is seeing an old photo, 673 00:33:45,721 --> 00:33:48,923 or I could be at a movie and reach over, 674 00:33:48,925 --> 00:33:51,462 but realize there's no hand. 675 00:33:54,563 --> 00:33:57,732 Ah I just wish I could hold your hand 676 00:33:57,734 --> 00:33:59,069 one more time, Sama... 677 00:34:01,036 --> 00:34:01,838 man. 678 00:34:03,806 --> 00:34:05,706 Sam-a-man, I used to call him Sam-a-man 679 00:34:05,708 --> 00:34:08,208 because he was so much man. 680 00:34:08,210 --> 00:34:10,544 (LAUGHS) 681 00:34:10,546 --> 00:34:11,613 BOUNCER: Good evening Alyssa. 682 00:34:11,615 --> 00:34:12,946 Hi, Jason. (UPBEAT MUSIC) 683 00:34:12,948 --> 00:34:14,916 Here you go. 684 00:34:14,918 --> 00:34:17,720 (DOOR SQUEAKS) 685 00:34:21,992 --> 00:34:22,959 Deep breath. 686 00:34:26,963 --> 00:34:29,733 (DOOR SQUEAKING) 687 00:34:39,108 --> 00:34:40,307 (GASPS) 688 00:34:40,309 --> 00:34:41,144 Ready? 689 00:34:43,079 --> 00:34:44,945 Um. 690 00:34:44,947 --> 00:34:45,782 Come on. 691 00:34:46,983 --> 00:34:49,783 (DOOR CREAKING) ♪ ♪ 692 00:34:49,785 --> 00:34:54,791 ♪ ♪ (CHATTERING) 693 00:34:59,028 --> 00:35:00,995 I see what they did there. 694 00:35:00,997 --> 00:35:04,568 ♪ ♪ 695 00:35:05,235 --> 00:35:07,801 Not as gay as I expected. 696 00:35:07,803 --> 00:35:08,872 Give it time. 697 00:35:10,307 --> 00:35:14,142 DAVE: How does a straight woman fit into a gay bar? 698 00:35:14,144 --> 00:35:15,242 They don't mind? 699 00:35:15,244 --> 00:35:17,044 No, they don't mind as long 700 00:35:17,046 --> 00:35:19,981 as I follow the straight girl rules. 701 00:35:19,983 --> 00:35:22,119 My vagina has no power here. 702 00:35:23,753 --> 00:35:25,086 I mean the straight girls are used to getting free drinks 703 00:35:25,088 --> 00:35:26,854 and being the center of attention at bars. 704 00:35:26,856 --> 00:35:29,090 That doesn't happen here. 705 00:35:29,092 --> 00:35:30,791 (CLEARS THROAT) Makes sense. 706 00:35:30,793 --> 00:35:32,660 Straight guys can be here too. 707 00:35:32,662 --> 00:35:33,961 They just need to need to know 708 00:35:33,963 --> 00:35:35,363 that around midnight that's when the party 709 00:35:35,365 --> 00:35:37,267 can get a little crazy. 710 00:35:39,102 --> 00:35:41,572 How crazy are we talking? 711 00:35:42,872 --> 00:35:43,974 You'll see. 712 00:35:45,140 --> 00:35:47,709 RICHARD: What does that do to a person? 713 00:35:47,711 --> 00:35:50,077 I've just never been hurt that way, you know? 714 00:35:50,079 --> 00:35:53,881 I saw things no one should ever see. 715 00:35:53,883 --> 00:35:54,948 Disturbing stuff. 716 00:35:54,950 --> 00:35:57,184 I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. 717 00:35:57,186 --> 00:36:00,954 And then Frank, that old dirty bastard. 718 00:36:00,956 --> 00:36:02,990 He was downstairs laughing. 719 00:36:02,992 --> 00:36:04,325 Yeah. 720 00:36:04,327 --> 00:36:06,093 I'll never look at my Aunt Patty the same way again. 721 00:36:06,095 --> 00:36:07,260 She sounds amazing. 722 00:36:07,262 --> 00:36:09,997 No, she is a dirty old witch 723 00:36:09,999 --> 00:36:13,100 is what she is. (SIGHS) 724 00:36:13,102 --> 00:36:15,003 I didn't want to move in with her. 725 00:36:15,005 --> 00:36:17,104 I had no choice, I lost everything. 726 00:36:17,106 --> 00:36:18,773 Well, you can always move with me, I mean. 727 00:36:18,775 --> 00:36:20,173 Mi casa, su casa. 728 00:36:20,175 --> 00:36:21,978 Ooh, almost time. 729 00:36:23,278 --> 00:36:24,912 I should probably get going. 730 00:36:24,914 --> 00:36:25,946 No, no, no, stay for just a minute. 731 00:36:25,948 --> 00:36:28,850 ALL: And three, two, one. 732 00:36:28,852 --> 00:36:31,753 (CHATTERING) 733 00:36:31,755 --> 00:36:33,954 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 734 00:36:33,956 --> 00:36:36,626 Oh, are we going to wash cars. 735 00:36:38,961 --> 00:36:41,130 - Yeah. - I love this song. 736 00:36:42,164 --> 00:36:43,830 ♪ Let's go ♪ 737 00:36:43,832 --> 00:36:47,035 ♪ We them rebels everybody wanna talk about ♪ 738 00:36:47,037 --> 00:36:50,972 ♪ We stay up all night and cause a riot scream and shout ♪ 739 00:36:50,974 --> 00:36:54,742 ♪ Get on the floor, on the floor, if you really 'bout it ♪ 740 00:36:54,744 --> 00:36:58,146 ♪ Don't take it slow, take it slow, everybody's shouting ♪ 741 00:36:58,148 --> 00:37:02,115 ♪ Jump up and down, wave them hands around ♪ 742 00:37:02,117 --> 00:37:05,887 ♪ Jump up and down, make it super loud ♪ 743 00:37:05,889 --> 00:37:09,457 ♪ Jump up and down, wave them hands around ♪ 744 00:37:09,459 --> 00:37:13,294 ♪ Jump up and down, make it super loud ♪ 745 00:37:13,296 --> 00:37:15,229 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 746 00:37:15,231 --> 00:37:17,097 ♪ Make it super loud ♪ 747 00:37:17,099 --> 00:37:19,133 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 748 00:37:19,135 --> 00:37:21,135 ♪ Make it super loud ♪ 749 00:37:21,137 --> 00:37:23,037 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 750 00:37:23,039 --> 00:37:24,872 ♪ Make it super loud ♪ 751 00:37:24,874 --> 00:37:26,807 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 752 00:37:26,809 --> 00:37:30,880 ♪ Make it super loud, loud, loud ♪ 753 00:37:35,385 --> 00:37:36,220 Dave? 754 00:37:37,854 --> 00:37:40,921 I can't even get hit on by a gay dude. 755 00:37:40,923 --> 00:37:42,423 And I was just drunk. 756 00:37:42,425 --> 00:37:45,796 Drunk and dancing like really dancing. 757 00:37:47,296 --> 00:37:49,262 GORDON: Okay, I am putting the brakes 758 00:37:49,264 --> 00:37:52,066 on this thing right now. 759 00:37:52,068 --> 00:37:54,801 What if we're wrong about them? 760 00:37:54,803 --> 00:37:56,206 Wrong about them? 761 00:37:59,342 --> 00:38:01,441 Who am I talking to right now? 762 00:38:01,443 --> 00:38:02,544 Not Dave Hopper. 763 00:38:04,314 --> 00:38:08,182 Not the guy who's world was ripped apart by their agenda. 764 00:38:08,184 --> 00:38:11,785 Not the guy who's wife was seduced by another woman 765 00:38:11,787 --> 00:38:13,988 and ruined his practice. 766 00:38:13,990 --> 00:38:17,057 Totally destroyed his chance of a normal, fulfilling life! 767 00:38:17,059 --> 00:38:19,063 (SIGHS) 768 00:38:20,130 --> 00:38:22,800 I wanna talk to that Dave, okay? 769 00:38:24,032 --> 00:38:25,867 'Cause I'm in his corner, buddy. 770 00:38:25,869 --> 00:38:27,401 I can give him another chance. 771 00:38:27,403 --> 00:38:30,240 When he shows up, you let me know. 772 00:38:31,206 --> 00:38:33,309 'Cause I'm ready to help. 773 00:38:34,410 --> 00:38:35,245 All right? 774 00:38:39,148 --> 00:38:41,215 Just not sure we're doing the right thing. 775 00:38:41,217 --> 00:38:43,820 Sweet creeping Judas, Dave. 776 00:38:45,555 --> 00:38:48,222 Stop going to the group, stay sober, 777 00:38:48,224 --> 00:38:51,191 get a grip on your class and on yourself. 778 00:38:51,193 --> 00:38:52,228 Okay? 779 00:38:53,463 --> 00:38:54,298 Okay. 780 00:38:58,233 --> 00:38:59,499 (GORDON HUMMING) 781 00:38:59,501 --> 00:39:02,271 (ENERGETIC MUSIC) 782 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,345 You ready for this? 783 00:39:12,347 --> 00:39:13,814 The 5K? 784 00:39:13,816 --> 00:39:15,416 No, the shelter. (CROWD CHATTERING) 785 00:39:15,418 --> 00:39:16,883 Huge job. 786 00:39:16,885 --> 00:39:21,021 You know, operations, reports, finances. 787 00:39:21,023 --> 00:39:22,289 One thing to own a property, 788 00:39:22,291 --> 00:39:24,225 another thing to keep it running long term. 789 00:39:24,227 --> 00:39:25,859 You know? You're right. 790 00:39:25,861 --> 00:39:26,497 I am? 791 00:39:28,363 --> 00:39:30,463 Yeah, we don't really have that experience. 792 00:39:30,465 --> 00:39:34,270 Well, better to be honest about that now. 793 00:39:35,137 --> 00:39:36,973 Maybe we should just... 794 00:39:38,073 --> 00:39:39,941 Field trip. 795 00:39:39,943 --> 00:39:40,874 A what? 796 00:39:40,876 --> 00:39:42,142 Field trip. 797 00:39:42,144 --> 00:39:44,579 Mark volunteers at the shelter in Orlando. 798 00:39:44,581 --> 00:39:47,113 He could take us all there, show us around, 799 00:39:47,115 --> 00:39:48,349 show us how it's done. 800 00:39:48,351 --> 00:39:49,450 Give us a tour. 801 00:39:49,452 --> 00:39:51,586 Great idea Dave! 802 00:39:51,588 --> 00:39:52,421 Bloop. 803 00:39:54,057 --> 00:39:55,425 You betta' stretch. 804 00:39:57,093 --> 00:39:58,859 Good morning, everyone. 805 00:39:58,861 --> 00:40:00,595 (UPBEAT MUSIC) (CROWD CHEERING) 806 00:40:00,597 --> 00:40:02,195 Oh, you look amazing. 807 00:40:02,197 --> 00:40:03,330 Are you ready to do this? 808 00:40:03,332 --> 00:40:04,332 CROWD: Yeah! 809 00:40:04,334 --> 00:40:05,365 All right, let's count down. 810 00:40:05,367 --> 00:40:07,300 All together, here we go, ready. 811 00:40:07,302 --> 00:40:09,236 ALL: Three, 812 00:40:09,238 --> 00:40:10,072 two, 813 00:40:10,939 --> 00:40:12,240 one. 814 00:40:12,242 --> 00:40:17,247 (AIR HORN HONKING) (VOCALIZING) 815 00:40:25,655 --> 00:40:27,053 ♪ Come on, come on ♪ 816 00:40:27,055 --> 00:40:30,124 ♪ Strut up to the scene like it's a party ♪ 817 00:40:30,126 --> 00:40:33,093 ♪ Let's all move together to the sound ♪ 818 00:40:33,095 --> 00:40:37,030 ♪ Oh a heated fever rising in my head space ♪ 819 00:40:37,032 --> 00:40:41,102 ♪ Up so high I'm never coming down ♪ 820 00:40:41,104 --> 00:40:42,903 ♪ Never coming down never ♪ 821 00:40:42,905 --> 00:40:44,171 WOMAN: Oh, sorry. 822 00:40:44,173 --> 00:40:46,207 (LAUGHING) 823 00:40:46,209 --> 00:40:47,608 TEEN: Hey, I love your shirt. 824 00:40:47,610 --> 00:40:48,575 - Oh thanks. - I actually have one 825 00:40:48,577 --> 00:40:50,044 - just like it. - You do? 826 00:40:50,046 --> 00:40:50,678 - Yeah. - Yeah, it's pretty nice. 827 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,046 (CHATTERING) 828 00:40:52,048 --> 00:40:53,417 TEEN: Yeah, I do. 829 00:40:56,251 --> 00:40:57,987 WOMAN: Woo, woo. 830 00:41:00,389 --> 00:41:03,226 Woo. (UPBEAT MUSIC) 831 00:41:12,235 --> 00:41:13,600 Really? 832 00:41:13,602 --> 00:41:14,871 A church van? 833 00:41:16,238 --> 00:41:18,939 Am I the only one afraid we're gonna burst into flames? 834 00:41:18,941 --> 00:41:21,541 Hey, if Jesus can handle all the sexual purity 835 00:41:21,543 --> 00:41:24,312 that's happened back there on youth trips, 836 00:41:24,314 --> 00:41:26,079 he can handle a couple of flamers. 837 00:41:26,081 --> 00:41:27,016 Ooh, ooh. 838 00:41:37,994 --> 00:41:42,329 ♪ Ah, ah, ah, ah, gayin' alive, gayin' alive ♪ 839 00:41:42,331 --> 00:41:46,435 ♪ Ah, ah, ah, ah, gayin' alive ♪ 840 00:41:49,271 --> 00:41:50,338 (LAUGHING) 841 00:41:50,340 --> 00:41:53,006 ♪ Gayin' alive, gayin' alive ♪ 842 00:41:53,008 --> 00:41:53,740 MARK: That's good. 843 00:41:53,742 --> 00:41:55,209 - Thank you. - Hey. 844 00:41:55,211 --> 00:41:57,044 What's he doing? 845 00:41:57,046 --> 00:41:58,745 It's a game that Kyle plays. 846 00:41:58,747 --> 00:42:00,715 You take a song and replace one of the words 847 00:42:00,717 --> 00:42:02,115 with the word gay. 848 00:42:02,117 --> 00:42:04,184 Yeah, but it has to make sense. 849 00:42:04,186 --> 00:42:06,153 Right, so Bruce, can you give us one? 850 00:42:06,155 --> 00:42:08,225 Uh, yeah, let me think. 851 00:42:09,425 --> 00:42:13,361 ♪ Gay you, gay me ♪ 852 00:42:13,363 --> 00:42:15,129 ♪ Gay for everyone ♪ 853 00:42:15,131 --> 00:42:17,330 ♪ That's the way it should be. ♪ 854 00:42:17,332 --> 00:42:19,200 - Good job, Bruce. - So good. 855 00:42:19,202 --> 00:42:21,001 Oh okay, me. 856 00:42:21,003 --> 00:42:24,240 ♪ No gay, but to-gay ♪ 857 00:42:25,240 --> 00:42:26,439 Oh my god. 858 00:42:26,441 --> 00:42:29,010 ♪ It's a beautiful gay ♪ 859 00:42:29,012 --> 00:42:31,745 ♪ Don't let it get away ♪ 860 00:42:31,747 --> 00:42:33,481 Okay, okay, I got one guys 861 00:42:33,483 --> 00:42:37,350 ♪ Hey I just met you and this is crazy ♪ 862 00:42:37,352 --> 00:42:41,354 ♪ So here's my number, so call me gay-by. ♪ 863 00:42:41,356 --> 00:42:42,490 No, nope. 864 00:42:42,492 --> 00:42:43,557 Hmm-uh, uh mm. 865 00:42:43,559 --> 00:42:45,026 That was painful. 866 00:42:45,028 --> 00:42:46,260 KYLE: Nope. 867 00:42:46,262 --> 00:42:47,495 - Well I give up. - It does not work. 868 00:42:47,497 --> 00:42:48,262 MARK: I'm sorry. 869 00:42:48,264 --> 00:42:50,097 KYLE: I appreciate the effort. 870 00:42:50,099 --> 00:42:51,468 You got anything? 871 00:42:52,769 --> 00:42:53,570 You go. 872 00:42:54,604 --> 00:42:56,169 Uh, mm. 873 00:42:56,171 --> 00:42:57,504 Oh c'mon, this is a safe space. 874 00:42:57,506 --> 00:43:00,173 Yeah, it's a no judgment zone. 875 00:43:00,175 --> 00:43:01,408 You don't wanna hear me it, 876 00:43:01,410 --> 00:43:02,410 you don't wanna hear me sing. (CHATTERING) 877 00:43:02,412 --> 00:43:03,447 Please. 878 00:43:05,247 --> 00:43:07,383 Ah okay, you asked for it. 879 00:43:08,617 --> 00:43:11,385 ♪ This is the gay, this is the gay ♪ 880 00:43:11,387 --> 00:43:15,722 ♪ That the Lord has made, that the Lord has ♪ 881 00:43:15,724 --> 00:43:18,394 C'mon, I only know church songs. 882 00:43:21,530 --> 00:43:23,263 Now we're gonna burst into flames. 883 00:43:23,265 --> 00:43:24,432 Yeah, a little bit. (ALYSSA LAUGHING) 884 00:43:24,434 --> 00:43:27,204 (GENTLE MUSIC) 885 00:43:30,072 --> 00:43:32,508 (CHATTERING) 886 00:43:34,543 --> 00:43:36,309 This is the zebra house, 887 00:43:36,311 --> 00:43:39,345 where "sexually unacceptable" teens go 888 00:43:39,347 --> 00:43:43,383 when their parents or God kicks them out. 889 00:43:43,385 --> 00:43:45,452 I'm intersex, it means 890 00:43:45,454 --> 00:43:48,222 I'm not biologically male or female. 891 00:43:48,224 --> 00:43:51,158 My insides are kind of a mix up. 892 00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,794 But I was raised in the Christian church 893 00:43:53,796 --> 00:43:56,229 and I get to hear all these sermons 894 00:43:56,231 --> 00:43:57,700 about man and woman. 895 00:44:00,702 --> 00:44:03,771 When I'm not strictly either. 896 00:44:03,773 --> 00:44:05,472 I identify as gender-fluid, 897 00:44:05,474 --> 00:44:08,475 which means that I believe that I am both male and female. 898 00:44:08,477 --> 00:44:11,278 I didn't fit into the exact binary 899 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:12,512 that people thought I should. 900 00:44:12,514 --> 00:44:15,448 That my mom thought I fit into. 901 00:44:15,450 --> 00:44:17,753 That physically I should have. 902 00:44:19,287 --> 00:44:21,454 The first time that I thought something was different, 903 00:44:21,456 --> 00:44:23,323 I was probably about nine. 904 00:44:23,325 --> 00:44:25,693 I was in Catholic school since I was five years old. 905 00:44:25,695 --> 00:44:29,562 Actually got kicked out for coming out as gay 906 00:44:29,564 --> 00:44:31,298 at that point in my life. 907 00:44:31,300 --> 00:44:33,466 When I was 11, I used to fight with my mom 908 00:44:33,468 --> 00:44:35,169 about wanting to wear my brother's clothes 909 00:44:35,171 --> 00:44:36,336 'cause I had four brothers. 910 00:44:36,338 --> 00:44:38,405 I have seven siblings. 911 00:44:38,407 --> 00:44:40,407 I knew back then that something about me 912 00:44:40,409 --> 00:44:42,343 was way more masculine than just feminine. 913 00:44:42,345 --> 00:44:44,144 People ask me, they're like oh, so you're gay 914 00:44:44,146 --> 00:44:46,579 and I'm like no, not gay. 915 00:44:46,581 --> 00:44:49,182 It's always one of the first questions I get 916 00:44:49,184 --> 00:44:53,620 or the normal question of "What do you have in your pants?" 917 00:44:53,622 --> 00:44:56,289 I just kind of roll my eyes and I answer people. 918 00:44:56,291 --> 00:44:57,791 I'm like what does it matter though? 919 00:44:57,793 --> 00:45:02,495 My family aren't as loving as they say they are. 920 00:45:02,497 --> 00:45:06,566 Even though they say that they do not judge others 921 00:45:06,568 --> 00:45:10,236 and they love thy neighbor, that might be true, 922 00:45:10,238 --> 00:45:12,773 but just not when it's in the family, you know? 923 00:45:12,775 --> 00:45:16,546 I used to cry out to God and ask him why, 924 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,414 why did, if he formed me in the womb, 925 00:45:20,416 --> 00:45:23,850 why did he choose to form me in this way. 926 00:45:23,852 --> 00:45:25,818 My mother has allowed me back into her house, 927 00:45:25,820 --> 00:45:28,555 but she's like I don't care if you like girls, 928 00:45:28,557 --> 00:45:30,823 just don't be someone who's transgender. 929 00:45:30,825 --> 00:45:33,260 Just don't mess with your gender, you know. 930 00:45:33,262 --> 00:45:34,794 That's how God made you. 931 00:45:34,796 --> 00:45:38,265 You've already proven that something's wrong 932 00:45:38,267 --> 00:45:40,568 by liking the same sex. 933 00:45:40,570 --> 00:45:43,537 This person that I am, Christina 934 00:45:43,539 --> 00:45:45,673 isn't this body, it's me, it's a voice 935 00:45:45,675 --> 00:45:49,510 that I hope can speak to this world. 936 00:45:49,512 --> 00:45:50,945 I love my mother, though. 937 00:45:50,947 --> 00:45:53,713 She is a wonderful woman. 938 00:45:53,715 --> 00:45:54,782 I think the world of her 939 00:45:54,784 --> 00:45:56,850 and I'll always love my mommy. 940 00:45:56,852 --> 00:45:58,885 Even if she doesn't want me to call her mommy one day. 941 00:45:58,887 --> 00:46:01,689 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 942 00:46:01,691 --> 00:46:04,258 Just have a hard time having to sit around 943 00:46:04,260 --> 00:46:06,327 with my family as they're all happy 944 00:46:06,329 --> 00:46:07,861 with one another and knowing that 945 00:46:07,863 --> 00:46:09,562 they don't feel that way about me. 946 00:46:09,564 --> 00:46:12,533 Not knowing what they say about me when I'm not around. 947 00:46:12,535 --> 00:46:14,468 What does my mom tell her friends and her family 948 00:46:14,470 --> 00:46:15,669 that I'm doing? 949 00:46:15,671 --> 00:46:18,372 I learned that she doesn't even tell 'em that I'm homeless. 950 00:46:18,374 --> 00:46:20,573 I wonder what my mom tells all her friends. 951 00:46:20,575 --> 00:46:24,611 I wonder what's her idea of a perfect child. 952 00:46:24,613 --> 00:46:28,349 And I wish that I was good enough to be that child 953 00:46:28,351 --> 00:46:30,820 worth just telling people about. 954 00:46:32,454 --> 00:46:35,858 I just come to hang out on nights and weekends. 955 00:46:38,394 --> 00:46:40,727 This is, this is the only place 956 00:46:40,729 --> 00:46:44,333 where I feel like I have a voice, you know? 957 00:46:45,601 --> 00:46:47,537 Like I actually matter. 958 00:46:56,646 --> 00:46:57,479 I'm sorry. 959 00:47:07,389 --> 00:47:08,490 Nate, Nate. 960 00:47:09,858 --> 00:47:11,725 What are you doing here? 961 00:47:11,727 --> 00:47:13,994 Were you following me? 962 00:47:13,996 --> 00:47:14,831 No. 963 00:47:15,831 --> 00:47:18,731 So you're here with them. 964 00:47:18,733 --> 00:47:21,401 How's that gonna look to the administration? 965 00:47:21,403 --> 00:47:24,707 Look, you can't tell anybody I was here. 966 00:47:26,309 --> 00:47:27,640 Is that really what you came out here to say? 967 00:47:27,642 --> 00:47:29,776 Why am I gonna tell them, huh? 968 00:47:29,778 --> 00:47:32,445 Oh hey, Dr. Woodman, I was at my afternoon gay house 969 00:47:32,447 --> 00:47:34,648 when your puppet came visiting. 970 00:47:34,650 --> 00:47:36,716 Oh why were you at that gay house, Nate? 971 00:47:36,718 --> 00:47:38,255 Because I'm gay. 972 00:47:39,722 --> 00:47:41,424 Yeah, I'd be done. 973 00:47:42,624 --> 00:47:43,590 We could help you. 974 00:47:43,592 --> 00:47:45,658 Help, seriously? 975 00:47:45,660 --> 00:47:47,695 I've heard a month of your help. 976 00:47:47,697 --> 00:47:49,530 No thank you. 977 00:47:49,532 --> 00:47:50,763 And you know what, don't worry. 978 00:47:50,765 --> 00:47:53,633 I'm not gonna tell anyone your little secret. 979 00:47:53,635 --> 00:47:54,901 Can't have anyone knowing 980 00:47:54,903 --> 00:47:57,937 you've been spending time with the unforgivable. 981 00:47:57,939 --> 00:47:58,775 Nate. 982 00:47:59,709 --> 00:48:00,744 Nate! 983 00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:05,849 I had no idea. 984 00:48:07,682 --> 00:48:09,451 Why would you, huh? 985 00:48:10,820 --> 00:48:14,691 All you do is answer the questions, you never ask any. 986 00:48:16,124 --> 00:48:19,059 I don't have any answers right now. 987 00:48:19,061 --> 00:48:20,430 But I think... 988 00:48:22,731 --> 00:48:25,865 You know what, I don't know what to think either. 989 00:48:25,867 --> 00:48:27,336 But this place, 990 00:48:29,003 --> 00:48:32,708 it's good and I feel like you should stay. 991 00:48:34,843 --> 00:48:37,746 PHONE: Call from Hot Sweet Muffin. 992 00:48:38,847 --> 00:48:40,079 That's rather inappropriate. 993 00:48:40,081 --> 00:48:41,414 PHONE: Call from 994 00:48:41,416 --> 00:48:42,149 Hot Sweet Muffin. And gross. 995 00:48:42,151 --> 00:48:44,354 It's coming from your pocket. 996 00:48:45,820 --> 00:48:49,523 PHONE: Call from Hot Sweet Muffin. 997 00:48:49,525 --> 00:48:50,760 It's my aunt. 998 00:48:51,593 --> 00:48:52,792 Hello? 999 00:48:52,794 --> 00:48:57,800 (GENTLE MUSIC) (RAIN PATTERING) 1000 00:49:00,903 --> 00:49:04,470 Patty, I told you, you need to take it easy. 1001 00:49:04,472 --> 00:49:05,773 You know a hug would go a lot further 1002 00:49:05,775 --> 00:49:06,974 than words right now. 1003 00:49:06,976 --> 00:49:10,711 You don't understand, she's just always... 1004 00:49:10,713 --> 00:49:11,611 You know what, nevermind. 1005 00:49:11,613 --> 00:49:14,782 This girl doesn't know how to have fun. 1006 00:49:14,784 --> 00:49:17,517 Every time she thinks it's an emergency. 1007 00:49:17,519 --> 00:49:21,824 Well look, Patty, take it easy, get some rest, okay? 1008 00:49:23,526 --> 00:49:24,527 Thank you. 1009 00:49:28,731 --> 00:49:30,597 The paramedic said you passed out! 1010 00:49:30,599 --> 00:49:31,865 You all right? 1011 00:49:31,867 --> 00:49:34,801 Tell me something great you did today. 1012 00:49:34,803 --> 00:49:37,537 Today has not been great. 1013 00:49:37,539 --> 00:49:40,876 Bull shit, tell me then a small great. 1014 00:49:42,510 --> 00:49:43,477 Learned a new game. 1015 00:49:43,479 --> 00:49:44,711 (PATTY COUGHS) 1016 00:49:44,713 --> 00:49:47,448 Ah good, will you teach it to me? 1017 00:49:47,450 --> 00:49:48,916 No. (COUGHS) 1018 00:49:48,918 --> 00:49:50,519 Oh it sounds bad. 1019 00:49:52,153 --> 00:49:55,823 What were you doing when you got the call? 1020 00:49:55,825 --> 00:49:59,892 I was unraveling a bandage and pouring salt 1021 00:49:59,894 --> 00:50:02,131 into student's deepest wound. 1022 00:50:04,767 --> 00:50:07,934 Have you seen my silk flowers? 1023 00:50:07,936 --> 00:50:09,836 You can't miss 'em. 1024 00:50:09,838 --> 00:50:13,506 I had Frank plant them years ago. 1025 00:50:13,508 --> 00:50:14,173 (COUGHS) 1026 00:50:14,175 --> 00:50:15,843 For the emphysema? 1027 00:50:15,845 --> 00:50:17,711 Just wanted my flower beds 1028 00:50:17,713 --> 00:50:20,079 to look beautiful all year long, 1029 00:50:20,081 --> 00:50:22,716 no matter the season. 1030 00:50:22,718 --> 00:50:24,917 Except they look fake. 1031 00:50:24,919 --> 00:50:27,921 Most people go their whole lives, 1032 00:50:27,923 --> 00:50:29,923 thinking they can be silk flowers. 1033 00:50:29,925 --> 00:50:31,591 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1034 00:50:31,593 --> 00:50:33,896 They love the beauty of summer 1035 00:50:35,965 --> 00:50:40,669 without the growth of spring, and the death of winter, 1036 00:50:41,903 --> 00:50:43,907 or the doubts of fall. 1037 00:50:51,646 --> 00:50:52,845 My favorite part is the line 1038 00:50:52,847 --> 00:50:54,948 where the black and white meet. 1039 00:50:54,950 --> 00:50:59,553 It's clear, it's obvious, there's no gray and no doubt. 1040 00:50:59,555 --> 00:51:02,155 I'm not so sure doubt's such a bad thing. 1041 00:51:02,157 --> 00:51:04,057 I'm late for class. 1042 00:51:04,059 --> 00:51:05,925 So why don't I join you. 1043 00:51:05,927 --> 00:51:08,595 (STUDENTS CHATTERING) 1044 00:51:08,597 --> 00:51:09,930 Good morning, everyone. 1045 00:51:09,932 --> 00:51:12,131 Carry on. (CHUCKLES) 1046 00:51:12,133 --> 00:51:12,968 Hi. 1047 00:51:14,836 --> 00:51:15,936 Morning, everyone. 1048 00:51:15,938 --> 00:51:17,907 STUDENTS: Morning. 1049 00:51:19,140 --> 00:51:23,012 Let's continue with Behavioral Psychology. 1050 00:51:24,914 --> 00:51:27,584 What about the question today? 1051 00:51:29,785 --> 00:51:31,087 Right, question. 1052 00:51:33,289 --> 00:51:34,720 Who's got a... 1053 00:51:34,722 --> 00:51:37,724 How is the gay thing different from slavery? 1054 00:51:37,726 --> 00:51:39,662 Or oppression of women? 1055 00:51:40,896 --> 00:51:42,595 I'm sorry? 1056 00:51:42,597 --> 00:51:45,765 The Bible has been used to support both of those things. 1057 00:51:45,767 --> 00:51:48,001 Before the Civil War, slavery was supported 1058 00:51:48,003 --> 00:51:49,870 by white pastors saying that slaves 1059 00:51:49,872 --> 00:51:52,606 should respect their masters. 1060 00:51:52,608 --> 00:51:54,006 And men have always used the new testament 1061 00:51:54,008 --> 00:51:57,611 to keep women silent in the church. 1062 00:51:57,613 --> 00:52:00,012 How do we know that homosexuality is different 1063 00:52:00,014 --> 00:52:03,050 than these things the church used to support with Scripture? 1064 00:52:03,052 --> 00:52:05,318 Nate, these are complicated issues. 1065 00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:07,287 Now, pardon me. 1066 00:52:07,289 --> 00:52:08,825 Um, Nate, is it? 1067 00:52:10,258 --> 00:52:11,691 Yeah. 1068 00:52:11,693 --> 00:52:14,894 Nate, you are absolutely right. 1069 00:52:14,896 --> 00:52:17,030 The Bible has been misused time and again 1070 00:52:17,032 --> 00:52:18,966 to justify racism, slavery, 1071 00:52:18,968 --> 00:52:21,767 and the oppression of women, even calling it God's work 1072 00:52:21,769 --> 00:52:24,671 and that is shameful, absolutely shameful. 1073 00:52:24,673 --> 00:52:25,872 All right? 1074 00:52:25,874 --> 00:52:30,077 But as you start to closely study scripture, 1075 00:52:30,079 --> 00:52:34,180 you're gonna find that there has always been this tension, 1076 00:52:34,182 --> 00:52:37,617 this opposing narrative that actually calls for women 1077 00:52:37,619 --> 00:52:39,753 to be in leadership and denounces slavery 1078 00:52:39,755 --> 00:52:42,088 as contrary to God's will. 1079 00:52:42,090 --> 00:52:43,724 Dig in there, read it closely, 1080 00:52:43,726 --> 00:52:46,258 you are gonna find it, I promise you. 1081 00:52:46,260 --> 00:52:49,162 However, even though some people try to bend scripture 1082 00:52:49,164 --> 00:52:50,696 to fit their own personal beliefs, 1083 00:52:50,698 --> 00:52:53,867 there is no narrative anywhere 1084 00:52:53,869 --> 00:52:56,035 in the Bible that affirms homosexuality 1085 00:52:56,037 --> 00:52:59,171 or calls it anything other than a sin. 1086 00:52:59,173 --> 00:53:03,042 But love is the ultimate message of the Scriptures, right? 1087 00:53:03,044 --> 00:53:04,747 GORDON: Uh-huh. 1088 00:53:05,881 --> 00:53:08,215 If we love, then aren't we kinda stuck 1089 00:53:08,217 --> 00:53:10,586 affirming our gay friends? 1090 00:53:11,820 --> 00:53:14,655 Okay. (CLEARS THROAT) 1091 00:53:14,657 --> 00:53:19,126 Nate, we have certainly made plenty of mistakes, 1092 00:53:19,128 --> 00:53:22,095 and gays who think they're Christians 1093 00:53:22,097 --> 00:53:23,997 have suffered at the hands of the Church. 1094 00:53:23,999 --> 00:53:27,066 Which many times has failed 1095 00:53:27,068 --> 00:53:28,137 to treat them 1096 00:53:29,070 --> 00:53:30,606 with compassion, 1097 00:53:33,374 --> 00:53:36,175 but we all know that God's ways are best, right? 1098 00:53:36,177 --> 00:53:38,711 We agree on that, we believe it. 1099 00:53:38,713 --> 00:53:40,983 And the greatest expression 1100 00:53:41,849 --> 00:53:42,918 of God's love 1101 00:53:45,019 --> 00:53:47,055 is to speak his truth. 1102 00:53:49,457 --> 00:53:50,660 Case closed. 1103 00:53:52,093 --> 00:53:53,695 Have a blessed day. 1104 00:54:00,968 --> 00:54:02,301 Okay. 1105 00:54:02,303 --> 00:54:05,407 So what's important to remember here. 1106 00:54:07,041 --> 00:54:08,810 Nate, what are you... 1107 00:54:09,811 --> 00:54:10,646 Nate. 1108 00:54:23,258 --> 00:54:26,062 (DOOR RATTLES) 1109 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:33,133 (CHATTERING) 1110 00:54:33,135 --> 00:54:35,068 Hey guys, Rosa and I wanna invite you 1111 00:54:35,070 --> 00:54:36,903 to Chloe's birthday party on Saturday. 1112 00:54:36,905 --> 00:54:38,838 It's over on that new place at Clompton, 1113 00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,841 with the weird inflatable things. 1114 00:54:41,843 --> 00:54:44,211 Hey, are you sure you want a bunch of old folks 1115 00:54:44,213 --> 00:54:46,278 attending her 10th birthday party? 1116 00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,080 Her friends will be there, too, 1117 00:54:48,082 --> 00:54:49,749 but when we asked who she wanted, 1118 00:54:49,751 --> 00:54:52,486 she said her 2nd family and that would be you guys. 1119 00:54:52,488 --> 00:54:54,086 Please say you'll come. 1120 00:54:54,088 --> 00:54:55,521 Of course, we'd be honored. 1121 00:54:55,523 --> 00:54:56,358 Thank you. 1122 00:54:57,526 --> 00:54:59,361 Okay, now to business. 1123 00:55:00,863 --> 00:55:01,794 We are not even close. 1124 00:55:01,796 --> 00:55:04,099 We need 32,000 in two weeks. 1125 00:55:05,133 --> 00:55:07,200 So time to brainstorm. 1126 00:55:07,202 --> 00:55:09,135 Give me what you got, there are no bad ideas. 1127 00:55:09,137 --> 00:55:10,370 Hey, listen to this. 1128 00:55:10,372 --> 00:55:12,138 We find the biggest church in town, 1129 00:55:12,140 --> 00:55:15,108 we have a huge bake sale in front of their doors, 1130 00:55:15,110 --> 00:55:18,211 we all wear T-shirts that say "Youth Group." 1131 00:55:18,213 --> 00:55:20,113 All right, I mean who's gonna know? 1132 00:55:20,115 --> 00:55:20,946 (GROUP LAUGHS) 1133 00:55:20,948 --> 00:55:22,182 I was wrong. 1134 00:55:22,184 --> 00:55:23,182 No. 1135 00:55:23,184 --> 00:55:24,950 What about a town hall meeting? 1136 00:55:24,952 --> 00:55:28,254 You know a chance to tell people why we need this, 1137 00:55:28,256 --> 00:55:29,823 how it's gonna help. 1138 00:55:29,825 --> 00:55:31,390 We could set up a open mic, 1139 00:55:31,392 --> 00:55:34,026 give people the opportunity to voice their opinion. 1140 00:55:34,028 --> 00:55:37,164 So they can tell us they hate us to our faces. 1141 00:55:37,166 --> 00:55:39,265 I don't know about that. 1142 00:55:39,267 --> 00:55:40,432 Oh I don't know, I think we have more support 1143 00:55:40,434 --> 00:55:42,001 than you think. 1144 00:55:42,003 --> 00:55:44,171 Yeah, we're running out of options here. 1145 00:55:44,173 --> 00:55:45,372 This could work. 1146 00:55:45,374 --> 00:55:47,874 We can do a silent auction at the same time. 1147 00:55:47,876 --> 00:55:49,809 Yeah, I mean if we're going to hear hater's hate, 1148 00:55:49,811 --> 00:55:52,312 we might as well take their money too. 1149 00:55:52,314 --> 00:55:54,481 Are you sure you can handle that? 1150 00:55:54,483 --> 00:55:56,582 I don't think we have a choice. 1151 00:55:56,584 --> 00:55:59,255 (PATTY SNORING) 1152 00:56:17,171 --> 00:56:19,004 (MOANS) 1153 00:56:19,006 --> 00:56:19,842 Hey. 1154 00:56:22,177 --> 00:56:25,312 When's the last time you've been out of the house? 1155 00:56:25,314 --> 00:56:28,280 ♪ Easily the most emotional of all emotions ♪ 1156 00:56:28,282 --> 00:56:31,218 ♪ Obsession manifested but disguised as devotion ♪ 1157 00:56:31,220 --> 00:56:33,320 ♪ Well I guess it's just too soon ♪ 1158 00:56:33,322 --> 00:56:37,356 ♪ To say we're never gonna make it ♪ 1159 00:56:37,358 --> 00:56:39,992 ♪ 'Cause I been around the world ♪ 1160 00:56:39,994 --> 00:56:43,363 ♪ And yeah, it's oh so full of hatred ♪ 1161 00:56:43,365 --> 00:56:46,432 ♪ But there's love ♪ 1162 00:56:46,434 --> 00:56:50,336 ♪ We already know that it's all we need ♪ 1163 00:56:50,338 --> 00:56:53,205 ♪ There's love ♪ 1164 00:56:53,207 --> 00:56:55,941 ♪ And I don't wanna know where we'd be ♪ 1165 00:56:55,943 --> 00:56:57,443 ♪ No without love ♪ 1166 00:56:57,445 --> 00:57:02,384 (PATTY MOANING) (CRICKETS CHIRPING) 1167 00:57:03,584 --> 00:57:04,419 Oh yes. 1168 00:57:06,287 --> 00:57:07,322 Yes! 1169 00:57:08,222 --> 00:57:09,356 (PATTY MOANS) 1170 00:57:09,358 --> 00:57:10,892 This is so good. 1171 00:57:14,229 --> 00:57:16,162 - Let's go, c'mon. - Oh. 1172 00:57:16,164 --> 00:57:20,468 (PATTY MOANING) Yeah, come with mommy. 1173 00:57:21,570 --> 00:57:23,403 This was perfect. 1174 00:57:23,405 --> 00:57:24,240 Thank you. 1175 00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:28,076 Yeah, you want more? 1176 00:57:29,244 --> 00:57:31,211 No, I can't have any more. 1177 00:57:31,213 --> 00:57:34,217 But I have to go to the ladies room. 1178 00:57:38,452 --> 00:57:39,285 DAVE: You got it? 1179 00:57:39,287 --> 00:57:40,923 PATTY: Mm-hmm. 1180 00:57:41,956 --> 00:57:43,258 That's bullshit. 1181 00:57:44,425 --> 00:57:46,593 Are you kidding me? 1182 00:57:46,595 --> 00:57:49,365 And they're just telling you now? 1183 00:57:50,264 --> 00:57:53,068 No, it's just, it's just wrong. 1184 00:57:54,336 --> 00:57:55,401 (SIGHS) 1185 00:57:55,403 --> 00:57:57,504 Well, we are gonna work it out. 1186 00:57:57,506 --> 00:58:00,506 And we're gonna find something even better. 1187 00:58:00,508 --> 00:58:03,309 Of course, love you, too. 1188 00:58:03,311 --> 00:58:04,346 Bye. 1189 00:58:05,447 --> 00:58:07,414 Didn't sound good. 1190 00:58:07,416 --> 00:58:08,715 Nope. 1191 00:58:08,717 --> 00:58:11,283 The inflatable place just canceled Chloe's party! 1192 00:58:11,285 --> 00:58:12,718 No! 1193 00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:15,254 Yeah, the whole bullshit about not wanting 1194 00:58:15,256 --> 00:58:17,557 to support that lifestyle. 1195 00:58:17,559 --> 00:58:19,693 PATTY: You do have friends. 1196 00:58:19,695 --> 00:58:20,526 (ALYSSA LAUGHS) 1197 00:58:20,528 --> 00:58:22,128 Yeah. 1198 00:58:22,130 --> 00:58:26,166 Patty, this is Alyssa, Alyssa, my aunt Patty. 1199 00:58:26,168 --> 00:58:27,733 Hot Sweet Muffin. 1200 00:58:27,735 --> 00:58:29,202 So nice to meet you. 1201 00:58:29,204 --> 00:58:31,070 It's nice meeting you. 1202 00:58:31,072 --> 00:58:32,671 Is everything okay? 1203 00:58:32,673 --> 00:58:34,409 Uh, not really, um, 1204 00:58:36,177 --> 00:58:37,676 some of my friends, well our friends 1205 00:58:37,678 --> 00:58:39,678 just found out their daughter's birthday party 1206 00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:40,747 has just been canceled. 1207 00:58:40,749 --> 00:58:42,148 Oh why? 1208 00:58:42,150 --> 00:58:43,983 A location thing. 1209 00:58:43,985 --> 00:58:46,218 Well she can have it at my house. 1210 00:58:46,220 --> 00:58:47,354 - Really? - (CHUCKLES) Uh-uh. 1211 00:58:47,356 --> 00:58:49,088 - PATTY: Yes. - I wouldn't wanna impose. 1212 00:58:49,090 --> 00:58:50,490 Oh we have a big house. 1213 00:58:50,492 --> 00:58:51,691 It's not real big. 1214 00:58:51,693 --> 00:58:53,559 That's great, they'll be thrilled! 1215 00:58:53,561 --> 00:58:55,195 How many people can you take? 1216 00:58:55,197 --> 00:58:56,262 Three, four. 1217 00:58:56,264 --> 00:58:57,731 Everyone! 1218 00:58:57,733 --> 00:58:59,733 I love parties! (ALYSSA LAUGHS) 1219 00:58:59,735 --> 00:59:00,700 Okay great, we will bring everyone then. 1220 00:59:00,702 --> 00:59:02,571 - All of you. - Thank you. 1221 00:59:03,505 --> 00:59:06,171 This is huge, I appreciate it. 1222 00:59:06,173 --> 00:59:08,443 Hey guys, sorry I'm late. 1223 00:59:09,577 --> 00:59:10,412 All right. 1224 00:59:11,613 --> 00:59:14,483 Nate, what do you got for me today? 1225 00:59:21,590 --> 00:59:23,292 Anybody seen Nate? 1226 00:59:27,628 --> 00:59:28,630 Where is he? 1227 00:59:30,032 --> 00:59:31,731 Hi Dave, how are you? 1228 00:59:31,733 --> 00:59:33,332 Where is he? 1229 00:59:33,334 --> 00:59:34,800 Where's who? 1230 00:59:34,802 --> 00:59:36,269 Nate. 1231 00:59:36,271 --> 00:59:39,571 Nate is no longer with us at Lakeside. 1232 00:59:39,573 --> 00:59:42,274 Don't tell me you didn't know. 1233 00:59:42,276 --> 00:59:45,245 He can't be here, all right? 1234 00:59:45,247 --> 00:59:47,613 How can we help him by ignoring him? 1235 00:59:47,615 --> 00:59:50,716 We're not ignoring him Dave, we're confronting him 1236 00:59:50,718 --> 00:59:52,484 with his need to change. 1237 00:59:52,486 --> 00:59:56,222 Oh for heaven's sake, look, you've lost sight of the truth. 1238 00:59:56,224 --> 00:59:59,291 I told you to stop going to the group. 1239 00:59:59,293 --> 01:00:01,528 You've already done plenty of damage. 1240 01:00:01,530 --> 01:00:03,599 (RUMBLING) 1241 01:00:17,678 --> 01:00:20,213 No. (ENGINE RUMBLING) 1242 01:00:20,215 --> 01:00:21,180 Wait! 1243 01:00:21,182 --> 01:00:21,814 Wait! 1244 01:00:21,816 --> 01:00:22,749 Wait! 1245 01:00:22,751 --> 01:00:24,350 Wait, wait! 1246 01:00:24,352 --> 01:00:26,519 (GROANS) 1247 01:00:26,521 --> 01:00:29,655 (SIGHS) Come on. 1248 01:00:29,657 --> 01:00:33,792 ERIKA: You know this is a children's party, right? 1249 01:00:33,794 --> 01:00:36,162 (BIRDS CHIRPING) 1250 01:00:36,164 --> 01:00:38,298 Doesn't have to be. 1251 01:00:38,300 --> 01:00:40,669 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1252 01:01:10,264 --> 01:01:11,497 ERIKA: Perfect, thank you. 1253 01:01:11,499 --> 01:01:12,501 DAVE: Oh. 1254 01:01:17,838 --> 01:01:21,508 Hey, I, um, give you a heads up about my Aunt Patty. 1255 01:01:21,510 --> 01:01:22,809 So excited to meet her! 1256 01:01:22,811 --> 01:01:23,642 No. 1257 01:01:23,644 --> 01:01:25,611 Yes I am. 1258 01:01:25,613 --> 01:01:28,515 What I mean is she's kinda up there in age, ya know? 1259 01:01:28,517 --> 01:01:30,219 - Not really... - Woo. 1260 01:01:32,586 --> 01:01:33,421 With us. 1261 01:01:34,856 --> 01:01:37,325 Girl, you look beautiful! 1262 01:01:38,193 --> 01:01:39,459 You must be Patty. 1263 01:01:39,461 --> 01:01:41,193 Thank you. (RICHARD CHUCKLES) 1264 01:01:41,195 --> 01:01:42,662 This is a gift. 1265 01:01:42,664 --> 01:01:44,329 FRANK: Sorry I'm late. 1266 01:01:44,331 --> 01:01:48,470 That fudge packer at the grocery store took forever. 1267 01:01:51,539 --> 01:01:53,338 They're here, come on. 1268 01:01:53,340 --> 01:01:54,407 RICHARD: Oh come on, Miss Patty! 1269 01:01:54,409 --> 01:01:56,876 Don't get your vintage Chenille all snagged up, girl. 1270 01:01:56,878 --> 01:01:58,410 What is he doing here? 1271 01:01:58,412 --> 01:01:59,546 PATTY: I needed my uppers! 1272 01:01:59,548 --> 01:02:00,412 Shh! 1273 01:02:00,414 --> 01:02:01,213 Sorry. 1274 01:02:01,215 --> 01:02:01,780 Girl. 1275 01:02:01,782 --> 01:02:02,617 Sorry. 1276 01:02:04,552 --> 01:02:06,619 Okay guys, remember this was thrown together last minute, 1277 01:02:06,621 --> 01:02:08,354 so we have to appreciate what we have, okay? 1278 01:02:08,356 --> 01:02:09,658 CHILDREN: Okay. 1279 01:02:11,258 --> 01:02:12,291 ALL: Surprise! 1280 01:02:12,293 --> 01:02:13,225 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 1281 01:02:13,227 --> 01:02:15,827 (CHATTERING) 1282 01:02:15,829 --> 01:02:17,532 ROSA: You guys! 1283 01:02:18,465 --> 01:02:19,666 GINA: This is too much. 1284 01:02:19,668 --> 01:02:21,633 ERIKA: This is just right. 1285 01:02:21,635 --> 01:02:24,637 And I'm Frank, Patty's friend with benefits. 1286 01:02:24,639 --> 01:02:25,504 (FRANK LAUGHS) 1287 01:02:25,506 --> 01:02:28,144 (CHATTERING) 1288 01:02:34,682 --> 01:02:37,283 ♪ When I go walking ♪ 1289 01:02:37,285 --> 01:02:39,751 ♪ With you downtown ♪ 1290 01:02:39,753 --> 01:02:40,986 ♪ You brush up against me ♪ 1291 01:02:40,988 --> 01:02:42,454 Now tell me if that ain't good enough 1292 01:02:42,456 --> 01:02:45,358 to make the dead part of your anatomy come alive! 1293 01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:46,559 Ooh. 1294 01:02:46,561 --> 01:02:48,227 DAVE: Frank! (laughs) 1295 01:02:48,229 --> 01:02:49,229 Frank! 1296 01:02:49,231 --> 01:02:50,696 ♪ Get that feeling ♪ 1297 01:02:50,698 --> 01:02:52,798 ♪ I get that feeling ♪ 1298 01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:55,801 ♪ And you know what that means ♪ 1299 01:02:55,803 --> 01:02:59,472 ♪ When I'm driving and you lean in close ♪ 1300 01:02:59,474 --> 01:03:01,274 I've always been a firm believer 1301 01:03:01,276 --> 01:03:03,709 that you plant it where the woman wants it. 1302 01:03:03,711 --> 01:03:04,843 DAVE: Frank! 1303 01:03:04,845 --> 01:03:06,512 Frank. 1304 01:03:06,514 --> 01:03:08,615 ♪ Well I get that feeling, get that feeling ♪ 1305 01:03:08,617 --> 01:03:10,916 ♪ Yeah, you give it to me, get that feeling ♪ 1306 01:03:10,918 --> 01:03:13,653 ♪ Oh I get that feeling, get that feeling ♪ 1307 01:03:13,655 --> 01:03:15,421 ♪ And you know what that means ♪ 1308 01:03:15,423 --> 01:03:16,555 No, no, no, no, no, no. 1309 01:03:16,557 --> 01:03:18,024 ♪ Take me to church ♪ 1310 01:03:18,026 --> 01:03:20,596 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 1311 01:03:37,378 --> 01:03:42,282 ♪ You are sleeping at half past three ♪ 1312 01:03:42,284 --> 01:03:44,651 ♪ But I know you know, girl ♪ 1313 01:03:44,653 --> 01:03:47,419 ♪ A man's got his needs ♪ 1314 01:03:47,421 --> 01:03:49,821 ♪ So I get that feeling, get that feeling ♪ 1315 01:03:49,823 --> 01:03:52,591 ♪ Oh, I get that feeling, get that feeling ♪ 1316 01:03:52,593 --> 01:03:54,994 ♪ Oh, I get that feeling ♪ 1317 01:03:54,996 --> 01:03:57,796 ♪ And you know what it means ♪ 1318 01:03:57,798 --> 01:04:02,702 ♪ I lose control ♪ 1319 01:04:02,704 --> 01:04:07,709 ♪ I done lost control ♪ 1320 01:04:08,476 --> 01:04:12,847 ♪ Done lost control ♪ 1321 01:04:13,615 --> 01:04:16,385 ♪ I done lost control ♪ 1322 01:04:25,660 --> 01:04:26,695 ROSA: Chloe? 1323 01:04:31,066 --> 01:04:32,765 MARK: Your town hall meeting is a go. 1324 01:04:32,767 --> 01:04:34,767 It's Friday night at my church. 1325 01:04:34,769 --> 01:04:35,803 Really? 1326 01:04:37,104 --> 01:04:40,640 I thought that was kind of a bad idea. 1327 01:04:40,642 --> 01:04:41,807 People might not like you 1328 01:04:41,809 --> 01:04:44,644 shoving the gay agenda in their face. 1329 01:04:44,646 --> 01:04:47,650 Seriously, the radical gay agenda? 1330 01:04:49,550 --> 01:04:52,718 The only agenda I have is to love the unloved. 1331 01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:55,421 Those kids who get kicked out of their homes 1332 01:04:55,423 --> 01:04:58,994 in the name of religion or moral superiority. 1333 01:05:00,595 --> 01:05:04,030 They don't even know what love looks like. 1334 01:05:04,032 --> 01:05:08,800 They're labeled an outsider, or a queer, or worse. 1335 01:05:08,802 --> 01:05:10,102 I like to imagine what would be possible 1336 01:05:10,104 --> 01:05:13,842 if we chose to love rather than label people. 1337 01:05:19,481 --> 01:05:20,847 ALYSSA: He did these himself? 1338 01:05:20,849 --> 01:05:23,483 He and his ex did them together. 1339 01:05:23,485 --> 01:05:27,055 Oh, well they'd look great with some color. 1340 01:05:28,389 --> 01:05:29,655 I thought you left. 1341 01:05:29,657 --> 01:05:30,756 Oh, I was going to, but Aunt Patty 1342 01:05:30,758 --> 01:05:32,524 invited me to stay for dinner. 1343 01:05:32,526 --> 01:05:35,595 PATTY: Isn't that be nice, Dave? 1344 01:05:35,597 --> 01:05:36,899 Yeah, very nice. 1345 01:05:38,099 --> 01:05:40,800 Could I borrow you real quick, Patty? 1346 01:05:40,802 --> 01:05:42,604 - Excuse me. - Yeah. 1347 01:05:44,671 --> 01:05:45,771 DAVE: What are you doing? 1348 01:05:45,773 --> 01:05:46,638 I've seen the way 1349 01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:48,573 - you look at her. - Shh. 1350 01:05:48,575 --> 01:05:50,776 It's not a good time, okay? 1351 01:05:50,778 --> 01:05:52,010 It's complicated. 1352 01:05:52,012 --> 01:05:53,111 PATTY: Samantha? 1353 01:05:53,113 --> 01:05:55,481 Don't say her name, please. 1354 01:05:55,483 --> 01:05:56,118 Ooh. 1355 01:05:57,718 --> 01:05:59,419 She's a lesbian! 1356 01:05:59,421 --> 01:06:01,653 (GASPS) Look at how progressive I am, 1357 01:06:01,655 --> 01:06:04,189 having a lesbian for dinner! 1358 01:06:04,191 --> 01:06:05,992 Or does she swing both ways? 1359 01:06:05,994 --> 01:06:09,832 Isn't that what you young men like these days? 1360 01:06:16,137 --> 01:06:20,441 So, Aunt Patty, Frank seems like quite a catch. 1361 01:06:21,476 --> 01:06:22,945 He keeps me young. 1362 01:06:24,211 --> 01:06:25,945 You two ever hook up? 1363 01:06:25,947 --> 01:06:27,814 Oh, no. 1364 01:06:27,816 --> 01:06:28,780 We do have sex though. 1365 01:06:28,782 --> 01:06:30,149 (ALYSSA LAUGHS) 1366 01:06:30,151 --> 01:06:32,154 This was a great idea. 1367 01:06:36,957 --> 01:06:39,492 Dave never told me you could cook like this. 1368 01:06:39,494 --> 01:06:40,129 Dave. 1369 01:06:41,496 --> 01:06:42,928 I don't talk about my personal life. 1370 01:06:42,930 --> 01:06:44,930 He talks in his sleep, though. 1371 01:06:44,932 --> 01:06:46,097 You should hear him talk about Sam... 1372 01:06:46,099 --> 01:06:47,867 Patty. 1373 01:06:47,869 --> 01:06:49,001 Uh-mm. (ALYSSA CHUCKLES) 1374 01:06:49,003 --> 01:06:52,571 Okay, we won't talk about Sam. 1375 01:06:52,573 --> 01:06:55,707 Oh, how long have you two known each other? 1376 01:06:55,709 --> 01:06:57,809 Um, we've known each other a few weeks. 1377 01:06:57,811 --> 01:06:59,879 No, I meant you and Saman... 1378 01:06:59,881 --> 01:07:00,716 Mm. 1379 01:07:01,648 --> 01:07:03,182 This broccoli is so good. 1380 01:07:03,184 --> 01:07:04,584 No, I've never met Sam. 1381 01:07:04,586 --> 01:07:06,151 Just know what little Dave has told me. 1382 01:07:06,153 --> 01:07:08,887 Oh, I thought by the way you said the name, 1383 01:07:08,889 --> 01:07:09,821 that you had known h... 1384 01:07:09,823 --> 01:07:11,858 (DAVE GROANS) 1385 01:07:11,860 --> 01:07:13,091 Broccoli. 1386 01:07:13,093 --> 01:07:15,561 - (GROANS) - No, never net him. 1387 01:07:15,563 --> 01:07:17,865 (DAVE COUGHS) 1388 01:07:21,802 --> 01:07:23,971 (GASPING) 1389 01:07:27,941 --> 01:07:28,941 I don't, 1390 01:07:28,943 --> 01:07:29,876 I don't think, 1391 01:07:29,878 --> 01:07:31,843 I don't think that's how you... 1392 01:07:31,845 --> 01:07:33,745 (DAVE GROANING) 1393 01:07:33,747 --> 01:07:36,885 - (DAVE GASPING) - Got it. 1394 01:07:42,189 --> 01:07:43,021 (DAVE COUGHS) 1395 01:07:43,023 --> 01:07:43,958 You okay? 1396 01:07:45,793 --> 01:07:48,193 They were such a sweet couple. 1397 01:07:48,195 --> 01:07:51,597 And then that tramp ripped Dave's heart 1398 01:07:51,599 --> 01:07:54,867 right out of his chest and pounded on it. 1399 01:07:54,869 --> 01:07:57,238 (ALYSSA MOANS) 1400 01:08:02,309 --> 01:08:03,975 Genius. 1401 01:08:03,977 --> 01:08:05,278 DAVE: What'd I do? 1402 01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:08,180 No, the silk flowers, they always stay colorful. 1403 01:08:08,182 --> 01:08:10,850 Oh yeah, something about the emphysema, 1404 01:08:10,852 --> 01:08:11,850 real ones make it worse. 1405 01:08:11,852 --> 01:08:13,986 (ALYSSA SIGHS) 1406 01:08:13,988 --> 01:08:15,657 I love that woman. 1407 01:08:16,957 --> 01:08:18,123 You're lucky to have her. 1408 01:08:18,125 --> 01:08:21,827 (INHALES) So lucky. 1409 01:08:21,829 --> 01:08:23,296 Good night, Alyssa! 1410 01:08:23,298 --> 01:08:28,266 Dave hasn't had this much fun since Samantha left. 1411 01:08:28,268 --> 01:08:31,837 (DOOR BANGS SHUT) 1412 01:08:31,839 --> 01:08:33,041 Who's Samantha? 1413 01:08:36,978 --> 01:08:38,677 My ex-wife. 1414 01:08:38,679 --> 01:08:39,881 Say that again? 1415 01:08:40,881 --> 01:08:42,985 Samantha is my ex-wife. 1416 01:08:45,820 --> 01:08:47,218 (ALYSSA CLEARS THROAT) 1417 01:08:47,220 --> 01:08:51,724 And by wife you mean a gender neutral term 1418 01:08:51,726 --> 01:08:53,562 for your male partner? 1419 01:08:56,296 --> 01:08:58,000 You lying bastard. 1420 01:08:59,666 --> 01:09:02,004 Wait, wait, hold on, hold on! 1421 01:09:03,905 --> 01:09:06,004 I said she was a man because, 1422 01:09:06,006 --> 01:09:08,074 I've never talked about anything like that before. 1423 01:09:08,076 --> 01:09:11,310 And I didn't think that you would believe 1424 01:09:11,312 --> 01:09:14,180 I've lived as a straight guy all those years. 1425 01:09:14,182 --> 01:09:15,017 I didn't. 1426 01:09:16,851 --> 01:09:18,184 That shit happens all the time, 1427 01:09:18,186 --> 01:09:21,119 why wouldn't we believe you? 1428 01:09:21,121 --> 01:09:23,724 I don't know, I'm an idiot. 1429 01:09:30,063 --> 01:09:34,065 My therapist says I need to work on my past 1430 01:09:34,067 --> 01:09:36,968 by giving people a second chance. 1431 01:09:36,970 --> 01:09:38,937 That's good advice. 1432 01:09:38,939 --> 01:09:39,974 Shut up. 1433 01:09:41,009 --> 01:09:42,110 I will not, 1434 01:09:43,777 --> 01:09:45,645 let you get me this mad. 1435 01:09:45,647 --> 01:09:47,145 - (ENGINE CRANKING) - I'm sorry. 1436 01:09:47,147 --> 01:09:48,583 Yes, you are. 1437 01:09:49,851 --> 01:09:52,254 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1438 01:10:08,102 --> 01:10:13,108 ♪ I am a phony posing as a phonyless ♪ 1439 01:10:15,108 --> 01:10:16,978 ♪ Person ♪ 1440 01:10:18,446 --> 01:10:19,912 Mr. Hopper? 1441 01:10:19,914 --> 01:10:21,146 Oh, yeah? 1442 01:10:21,148 --> 01:10:23,986 Sorry, Taylor, read the scripture. 1443 01:10:26,687 --> 01:10:28,119 Do not be fooled. 1444 01:10:28,121 --> 01:10:30,989 Those who sin sexually, worship idols, 1445 01:10:30,991 --> 01:10:33,926 take part in adultery, those who are male prostitutes, 1446 01:10:33,928 --> 01:10:37,229 or men who have sexual relations with other men, 1447 01:10:37,231 --> 01:10:40,699 those who steal, are greedy, get drunk, 1448 01:10:40,701 --> 01:10:43,034 lie about others, or rob these people 1449 01:10:43,036 --> 01:10:45,070 will not inherit God's kingdom. 1450 01:10:45,072 --> 01:10:50,044 ♪ I am a phony posing as a phonyless ♪ 1451 01:10:51,812 --> 01:10:53,881 ♪ Person ♪ 1452 01:11:06,861 --> 01:11:08,127 You know, absolutely, 1453 01:11:08,129 --> 01:11:09,127 you will be the very first person I call. 1454 01:11:09,129 --> 01:11:10,930 Of course. 1455 01:11:10,932 --> 01:11:13,899 All right, have a good day, goodbye. 1456 01:11:13,901 --> 01:11:15,101 (SIGHS) 1457 01:11:15,103 --> 01:11:16,435 Have a seat, Dave, you're making me nervous. 1458 01:11:16,437 --> 01:11:17,372 I'm done. 1459 01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:21,907 You're done for the day or? 1460 01:11:21,909 --> 01:11:23,175 Forever, I'm done. 1461 01:11:23,177 --> 01:11:24,776 (GORDON SIGHS) 1462 01:11:24,778 --> 01:11:26,412 This is because of Nate? 1463 01:11:26,414 --> 01:11:28,279 Why does this mean so much to you? 1464 01:11:28,281 --> 01:11:31,249 Because, Gordon, Nate matters. 1465 01:11:31,251 --> 01:11:33,084 Things we do matter. 1466 01:11:33,086 --> 01:11:36,090 The things that we say, they matter. 1467 01:11:38,092 --> 01:11:40,696 (GORDON SIGHS) 1468 01:11:44,098 --> 01:11:45,463 Think about this, Dave. 1469 01:11:45,465 --> 01:11:47,999 - I have. - Have you? 1470 01:11:48,001 --> 01:11:48,833 Where you gonna work? 1471 01:11:48,835 --> 01:11:50,302 Where are you gonna go? 1472 01:11:50,304 --> 01:11:52,303 To your girlfriend who thinks you're gay? 1473 01:11:52,305 --> 01:11:54,205 Your crazy Aunt Patty? 1474 01:11:54,207 --> 01:11:56,242 We have to stand for the truth, man, 1475 01:11:56,244 --> 01:11:57,976 because nobody else will. 1476 01:11:57,978 --> 01:11:59,779 Love speaks the truth. 1477 01:11:59,781 --> 01:12:01,146 That's the only way we can fix him. 1478 01:12:01,148 --> 01:12:02,248 He's not broken! 1479 01:12:02,250 --> 01:12:04,853 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1480 01:12:06,187 --> 01:12:07,552 Dave, have you thought about 1481 01:12:07,554 --> 01:12:10,122 who your new friends really are? 1482 01:12:10,124 --> 01:12:12,490 The scriptures are very clear on this. 1483 01:12:12,492 --> 01:12:13,926 They're right there next to 1484 01:12:13,928 --> 01:12:16,162 the idolaters and the adulterers. 1485 01:12:16,164 --> 01:12:19,265 This is who you're supporting now. 1486 01:12:19,267 --> 01:12:20,102 Support? 1487 01:12:21,568 --> 01:12:25,037 You want to talk to me about support? 1488 01:12:25,039 --> 01:12:26,204 (SCOFFS) Okay. 1489 01:12:26,206 --> 01:12:29,108 How was I supported when the church turned their back on me 1490 01:12:29,110 --> 01:12:32,077 after Samantha left, huh? 1491 01:12:32,079 --> 01:12:35,213 When I heard whispers and those Christian parents 1492 01:12:35,215 --> 01:12:37,550 who boycotted my practice because, according to them, 1493 01:12:37,552 --> 01:12:40,921 I allowed my own wife to be perverted. 1494 01:12:41,555 --> 01:12:43,189 That's not okay. 1495 01:12:43,191 --> 01:12:47,193 So let's talk about this list of sinners. 1496 01:12:47,195 --> 01:12:50,165 The cheats, the greedy, the idolaters. 1497 01:12:51,398 --> 01:12:55,202 When I look at Erika, Bruce, Kyle, and Nate. 1498 01:12:56,504 --> 01:12:57,869 I don't see the people who have anything 1499 01:12:57,871 --> 01:13:00,172 to do with that list. 1500 01:13:00,174 --> 01:13:01,176 I see, 1501 01:13:02,943 --> 01:13:05,246 I see a love I never saw here. 1502 01:13:08,049 --> 01:13:11,219 So you can keep your psych department. 1503 01:13:18,259 --> 01:13:19,294 Dave. 1504 01:13:21,262 --> 01:13:23,494 It actually sounds really nice, 1505 01:13:23,496 --> 01:13:25,898 this place you've found. 1506 01:13:25,900 --> 01:13:27,632 I'm sure it feels good. 1507 01:13:27,634 --> 01:13:31,403 And I'm sure you think it's some new kind of enlightenment. 1508 01:13:31,405 --> 01:13:36,007 But it's not real, Dave and I can't go there with you. 1509 01:13:36,009 --> 01:13:38,079 I can't ignore the truth. 1510 01:13:40,513 --> 01:13:42,983 There's no love without it. 1511 01:13:47,487 --> 01:13:50,392 (CROWD CHATTERING) 1512 01:13:54,362 --> 01:13:56,261 Good evening. 1513 01:13:56,263 --> 01:13:58,596 Thank you for coming out tonight. 1514 01:13:58,598 --> 01:14:01,367 I would like to introduce my good friend, Alyssa. 1515 01:14:01,369 --> 01:14:05,040 (CHEERING AND APPLAUDING) 1516 01:14:09,477 --> 01:14:14,482 (SIGHS) Thank you again for spending your evening with us. 1517 01:14:15,650 --> 01:14:17,516 For those of you who don't know me. 1518 01:14:17,518 --> 01:14:20,151 My name is Alyssa Cane. 1519 01:14:20,153 --> 01:14:22,223 My brother was Ryan Cane. 1520 01:14:24,392 --> 01:14:26,294 You all know the story. 1521 01:14:28,161 --> 01:14:31,596 We are here tonight to finish what he started, 1522 01:14:31,598 --> 01:14:32,998 so that such hate would never 1523 01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:35,566 be a part of this town again. 1524 01:14:35,568 --> 01:14:38,369 So we are launching a Zebra House 1525 01:14:38,371 --> 01:14:41,409 at the Wabash property down the street. 1526 01:14:43,344 --> 01:14:46,248 A shelter for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, 1527 01:14:49,349 --> 01:14:51,516 and Transgender teens could go 1528 01:14:51,518 --> 01:14:54,720 when they have no other place to turn. 1529 01:14:54,722 --> 01:14:59,027 We understand this is a new concept for our area, 1530 01:15:00,161 --> 01:15:03,194 and you might have some questions 1531 01:15:03,196 --> 01:15:05,230 and we're here to answer them. 1532 01:15:05,232 --> 01:15:07,632 As well as ask for your financial support 1533 01:15:07,634 --> 01:15:10,970 because we can not do this without you. 1534 01:15:10,972 --> 01:15:12,171 Thank you. 1535 01:15:12,173 --> 01:15:15,010 With that, the microphone is open. 1536 01:15:27,988 --> 01:15:29,256 Hi, I'm Nate. 1537 01:15:31,358 --> 01:15:35,463 I've been to a place like this before in Orlando, 1538 01:15:36,629 --> 01:15:40,401 without that place, I wouldn't be here today. 1539 01:15:41,501 --> 01:15:43,103 It saved my life. 1540 01:15:44,437 --> 01:15:48,042 Thank you. (APPLAUDING) 1541 01:15:54,714 --> 01:15:57,382 I'm not really good with mics, I'll just stay here. 1542 01:15:57,384 --> 01:15:58,552 That's okay. 1543 01:16:00,454 --> 01:16:04,392 I don't get the whole gay thing, I never have. 1544 01:16:05,593 --> 01:16:08,526 But, that doesn't mean it's not a real issue. 1545 01:16:08,528 --> 01:16:12,263 These kids, they don't deserve to live on the streets 1546 01:16:12,265 --> 01:16:15,199 because of something they can't control. 1547 01:16:15,201 --> 01:16:18,069 I'm in your corner for a hundred dollars. 1548 01:16:18,071 --> 01:16:21,008 Yes. (APPLAUDING) 1549 01:16:22,375 --> 01:16:23,475 Thank you. 1550 01:16:23,477 --> 01:16:26,147 (CLEARS THROAT) 1551 01:16:27,281 --> 01:16:30,352 I'm here as a woman married to a man, 1552 01:16:31,419 --> 01:16:33,485 the way it should be. 1553 01:16:33,487 --> 01:16:37,092 You all seem nice, but I can't support you. 1554 01:16:39,293 --> 01:16:42,360 I wish it was different, I really do, 1555 01:16:42,362 --> 01:16:45,463 but I can't change what the Bible says. 1556 01:16:45,465 --> 01:16:48,236 I know you'll think this is hate. 1557 01:16:49,070 --> 01:16:50,638 But I don't hate you. 1558 01:16:52,540 --> 01:16:53,475 I love you. 1559 01:16:55,675 --> 01:16:58,142 I just can't stand by 1560 01:16:58,144 --> 01:17:00,678 and let you ruin the sanctity of marriage. 1561 01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:03,315 Oh for the love of God. (CROWD CHATTERING) 1562 01:17:03,317 --> 01:17:07,252 Mrs. Waters, thank you for your comment really, 1563 01:17:07,254 --> 01:17:09,087 and even though tonight we're not talking 1564 01:17:09,089 --> 01:17:11,092 about marriage equality, 1565 01:17:12,226 --> 01:17:15,461 I want to personally apologize to you 1566 01:17:15,463 --> 01:17:17,829 that it's destroying the sanctity of your third marriage. 1567 01:17:17,831 --> 01:17:20,132 (LAUGHING) 1568 01:17:20,134 --> 01:17:21,603 Oh, no she didn't. 1569 01:17:26,874 --> 01:17:30,309 I've been learning in class about black and white, 1570 01:17:30,311 --> 01:17:34,148 and this is certainly a black and white issue. 1571 01:17:36,483 --> 01:17:38,851 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1572 01:17:38,853 --> 01:17:43,187 It's a perversion, an unnatural lifestyle 1573 01:17:43,189 --> 01:17:45,457 that leads to destruction. 1574 01:17:45,459 --> 01:17:47,226 My Bible is very clear 1575 01:17:47,228 --> 01:17:51,762 when it says we need to separate ourselves from such evil. 1576 01:17:51,764 --> 01:17:52,597 (SIGHS) 1577 01:17:52,599 --> 01:17:54,501 Look, I'm sorry, ma'am. 1578 01:17:56,237 --> 01:17:57,639 But it's the truth. 1579 01:18:00,473 --> 01:18:02,507 Your brother was an abomination. 1580 01:18:02,509 --> 01:18:04,309 (CROWD CHATTERING) 1581 01:18:04,311 --> 01:18:05,144 It's the truth. 1582 01:18:05,146 --> 01:18:08,513 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1583 01:18:08,515 --> 01:18:10,552 1 Corinthians 6:9, 10. 1584 01:18:11,785 --> 01:18:13,618 It's in the Bible. 1585 01:18:13,620 --> 01:18:14,752 That, that's enough. 1586 01:18:14,754 --> 01:18:16,123 That's enough! 1587 01:18:20,460 --> 01:18:22,160 That's not love. 1588 01:18:22,162 --> 01:18:23,430 That's not God. 1589 01:18:25,198 --> 01:18:26,267 Mr. Hopper? 1590 01:18:28,434 --> 01:18:29,838 What are you doing? 1591 01:18:34,607 --> 01:18:36,276 You know this kid? 1592 01:18:37,478 --> 01:18:41,349 Yeah, he's my professor at Lakeside Christian. 1593 01:18:42,383 --> 01:18:43,684 He taught me that. 1594 01:18:47,655 --> 01:18:49,657 You, you taught me that. 1595 01:18:52,593 --> 01:18:55,662 Everything I just said came from you. 1596 01:18:57,464 --> 01:18:58,867 I don't understand. 1597 01:19:00,467 --> 01:19:04,272 Have you been playing both sides the entire time? 1598 01:19:08,541 --> 01:19:11,146 (CHATTERING) 1599 01:19:23,991 --> 01:19:26,691 (CHATTERING) 1600 01:19:26,693 --> 01:19:27,993 GINA: I'm gonna get a little more mean about this. 1601 01:19:27,995 --> 01:19:30,494 I'm just saying you guys are being way too nice. 1602 01:19:30,496 --> 01:19:32,364 All I'm saying is that from now on 1603 01:19:32,366 --> 01:19:33,565 maybe we should be a little bit more careful 1604 01:19:33,567 --> 01:19:34,833 about who we let in. 1605 01:19:34,835 --> 01:19:36,767 Preacher, you need to pray for him. 1606 01:19:36,769 --> 01:19:38,703 I will, Richard, I will. 1607 01:19:38,705 --> 01:19:39,870 ROSA: How are you not angry? 1608 01:19:39,872 --> 01:19:40,806 MARK: Calm down. 1609 01:19:40,808 --> 01:19:41,739 ROSA: I'm not gonna calm... 1610 01:19:41,741 --> 01:19:42,541 If you tell me to calm down. 1611 01:19:42,543 --> 01:19:44,478 You son of a bitch! 1612 01:19:49,750 --> 01:19:51,553 Are you even gay? 1613 01:19:52,553 --> 01:19:53,555 Oh my god. 1614 01:19:54,621 --> 01:19:55,886 KYLE: I knew it, I knew it. 1615 01:19:55,888 --> 01:19:57,855 What about the car wash? 1616 01:19:57,857 --> 01:19:58,923 That was you! 1617 01:19:58,925 --> 01:19:59,824 And he blamed him. 1618 01:19:59,826 --> 01:20:01,525 - Come on. - That was Dave? 1619 01:20:01,527 --> 01:20:02,427 Piece of shit. 1620 01:20:02,429 --> 01:20:03,261 KYLE: You see. 1621 01:20:03,263 --> 01:20:05,365 I told you guys. 1622 01:20:06,433 --> 01:20:07,565 I don't know what to say. 1623 01:20:07,567 --> 01:20:09,900 You'd better figure something out! 1624 01:20:09,902 --> 01:20:11,302 You know Mulberry had 1625 01:20:11,304 --> 01:20:14,308 a same-sex homecoming couple last year? 1626 01:20:16,677 --> 01:20:18,944 I was raised in Mulberry. 1627 01:20:18,946 --> 01:20:23,614 A gay kid growing up in the south in the 50s and 60s. 1628 01:20:23,616 --> 01:20:24,918 That was not easy. 1629 01:20:26,687 --> 01:20:29,756 I had my share of slurs and beatings, 1630 01:20:32,358 --> 01:20:34,559 but I was one of the lucky ones. 1631 01:20:34,561 --> 01:20:36,863 My parents always accepted me. 1632 01:20:37,798 --> 01:20:40,298 And it made things better. 1633 01:20:40,300 --> 01:20:42,700 Oh things are much better now. 1634 01:20:42,702 --> 01:20:44,535 We got over Stonewall. 1635 01:20:44,537 --> 01:20:45,770 We got over the AIDS crisis 1636 01:20:45,772 --> 01:20:48,640 and the lies they told about us. 1637 01:20:48,642 --> 01:20:50,708 We can even marry now, which is something 1638 01:20:50,710 --> 01:20:54,812 I thought I would never see in a lifetime. 1639 01:20:54,814 --> 01:20:58,684 But I have been living in a dream world. 1640 01:20:58,686 --> 01:21:01,656 One where, well, everyone is changing 1641 01:21:03,656 --> 01:21:08,662 and getting over their fear and accepting us as just people. 1642 01:21:09,062 --> 01:21:10,729 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1643 01:21:10,731 --> 01:21:13,965 But tonight, (CHUCKLES) 1644 01:21:13,967 --> 01:21:18,505 Tonight pulled up emotions I had buried for decades. 1645 01:21:20,808 --> 01:21:22,974 Words that killed me as a kid. 1646 01:21:22,976 --> 01:21:26,647 Words that will kill every kid in that room. 1647 01:21:28,048 --> 01:21:31,882 And I'm tired of living the dream world. 1648 01:21:31,884 --> 01:21:35,322 I'm gonna speak up and I'm gonna fight. 1649 01:21:36,823 --> 01:21:40,061 And thank you, David, for reminding me. 1650 01:21:46,767 --> 01:21:48,667 I believe that the way we treat people 1651 01:21:48,669 --> 01:21:51,669 who we disagree with the most 1652 01:21:51,671 --> 01:21:53,941 is our true test of our faith. 1653 01:21:55,808 --> 01:21:58,709 So, I won't hold this against you. 1654 01:21:58,711 --> 01:21:59,944 I will. 1655 01:21:59,946 --> 01:22:01,413 - (GROUP CHATTERING) - Absolutely. 1656 01:22:01,415 --> 01:22:02,012 BRUCE: You can forget that idea. 1657 01:22:02,014 --> 01:22:02,681 Me too, really. 1658 01:22:02,683 --> 01:22:03,648 Get a life. 1659 01:22:03,650 --> 01:22:04,485 Please. 1660 01:22:05,652 --> 01:22:08,523 PHONE: Call from Hot Sweet Muffin. 1661 01:22:09,822 --> 01:22:11,455 You sure he ain't gay? 1662 01:22:11,457 --> 01:22:13,792 PHONE: Call from Hot. 1663 01:22:13,794 --> 01:22:14,629 Hello? 1664 01:22:15,862 --> 01:22:17,462 Frank. 1665 01:22:17,464 --> 01:22:18,462 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1666 01:22:18,464 --> 01:22:19,864 Okay. 1667 01:22:19,866 --> 01:22:21,432 I'm coming. 1668 01:22:21,434 --> 01:22:24,371 (MELANCHOLY MUSIC) 1669 01:22:43,022 --> 01:22:45,791 I never thought you cared about that thing. 1670 01:22:45,793 --> 01:22:47,892 I don't care about that thing. 1671 01:22:47,894 --> 01:22:50,063 I care about what it says. 1672 01:22:51,564 --> 01:22:53,798 I'm not sure I follow. 1673 01:22:53,800 --> 01:22:57,104 People like you care about that thing. 1674 01:22:58,839 --> 01:23:00,908 Care about the answers. 1675 01:23:02,142 --> 01:23:06,043 You spend your whole life reading it, studying it, 1676 01:23:06,045 --> 01:23:08,579 down to every last syllable. 1677 01:23:08,581 --> 01:23:09,983 You obsess with it, 1678 01:23:11,585 --> 01:23:13,821 but you miss what it's about. 1679 01:23:15,488 --> 01:23:19,024 There's a lot in here I don't understand, 1680 01:23:19,026 --> 01:23:21,729 but I do know what it's about. 1681 01:23:23,796 --> 01:23:27,634 Mystery is God's way of keeping humans humble. 1682 01:23:30,571 --> 01:23:33,908 Sounds like a complicated way to live. 1683 01:23:34,875 --> 01:23:36,908 Maybe you've done that to yourself. 1684 01:23:36,910 --> 01:23:39,781 (RAIN POUNDING) 1685 01:23:51,558 --> 01:23:53,891 DAVE: How much do you know? 1686 01:23:53,893 --> 01:23:54,728 Enough. 1687 01:23:57,231 --> 01:23:59,096 Why didn't you stop me? 1688 01:23:59,098 --> 01:24:00,967 That's not my job. 1689 01:24:01,835 --> 01:24:03,971 You're a grown-ass man. 1690 01:24:04,937 --> 01:24:07,538 My job was to love you. 1691 01:24:07,540 --> 01:24:09,541 And give you a place to stay 1692 01:24:09,543 --> 01:24:12,243 when you had no place to stay, 1693 01:24:12,245 --> 01:24:14,846 when nobody wanted you. 1694 01:24:14,848 --> 01:24:17,618 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1695 01:24:18,885 --> 01:24:20,655 I really messed up. 1696 01:24:21,888 --> 01:24:24,689 Really hurt some people. 1697 01:24:24,691 --> 01:24:26,760 Well, go make it right. 1698 01:24:28,094 --> 01:24:30,694 DAVE: I don't even know where to start. 1699 01:24:30,696 --> 01:24:31,698 Come here. 1700 01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:44,242 There's this thing the Jews do. 1701 01:24:44,244 --> 01:24:45,644 I'm not Jewish. 1702 01:24:45,646 --> 01:24:47,745 (CHUCKLES) But your boy, Jesus was. 1703 01:24:47,747 --> 01:24:50,114 (DAVE LAUGHS) 1704 01:24:50,116 --> 01:24:54,752 They don't start their day in the morning the way we do. 1705 01:24:54,754 --> 01:24:57,592 They start at sundown, before bed, 1706 01:24:59,092 --> 01:25:01,496 and reflect upon their day. 1707 01:25:03,095 --> 01:25:06,867 At the end of the day, for the past 60 years, 1708 01:25:08,335 --> 01:25:09,937 I've asked myself 1709 01:25:11,138 --> 01:25:12,907 who did I love today? 1710 01:25:16,876 --> 01:25:20,046 You say you don't know where to start. 1711 01:25:22,316 --> 01:25:23,851 Start with love. 1712 01:25:27,888 --> 01:25:30,124 Who did you love today, Dave? 1713 01:25:38,698 --> 01:25:41,199 Have you seen any of these yet? 1714 01:25:41,201 --> 01:25:42,837 Read 'em to me. 1715 01:25:47,941 --> 01:25:51,245 I need to hear your laugh one more time. 1716 01:25:53,679 --> 01:25:56,851 Thank you for showing me what love is. 1717 01:26:00,086 --> 01:26:03,922 Hot Sweet Muffin got me huffin' and puffin'. 1718 01:26:03,924 --> 01:26:04,959 Frank. 1719 01:26:08,061 --> 01:26:11,831 Thank you for listening when no one else did. 1720 01:26:14,034 --> 01:26:17,604 Patty, you made me believe in people again. 1721 01:26:20,272 --> 01:26:24,344 You were the first person I felt actually saw me. 1722 01:26:26,379 --> 01:26:29,583 You made it okay for me to be weird. 1723 01:26:34,153 --> 01:26:36,756 You're pretty popular, Patty. 1724 01:26:39,125 --> 01:26:39,960 Patty? 1725 01:26:48,035 --> 01:26:49,167 (MELANCHOLY MUSIC) 1726 01:26:49,169 --> 01:26:50,101 PASTOR: I think we all remember 1727 01:26:50,103 --> 01:26:53,137 the first time we met Patty. 1728 01:26:53,139 --> 01:26:54,204 And if you were like me, 1729 01:26:54,206 --> 01:26:56,041 the first time you met her you were, 1730 01:26:56,043 --> 01:27:00,310 well you didn't know exactly what to think of her. 1731 01:27:00,312 --> 01:27:02,747 If there's one thing Patty taught me, 1732 01:27:02,749 --> 01:27:04,114 it was what living and loving 1733 01:27:04,116 --> 01:27:07,819 without labels actually looks like. 1734 01:27:07,821 --> 01:27:10,387 And that reminds me of 1 Corinthians 13 1735 01:27:10,389 --> 01:27:14,191 that's sometimes referred to as the love chapter, 1736 01:27:14,193 --> 01:27:17,428 if I speak in the tongues of mortals and angels 1737 01:27:17,430 --> 01:27:22,167 but do not have love, I'm a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 1738 01:27:22,169 --> 01:27:24,405 (KNOCKING) 1739 01:27:43,356 --> 01:27:46,027 (DOOR CLATTERS) 1740 01:27:55,869 --> 01:28:00,875 Oh yeah, I've been embracing the colors more lately. 1741 01:28:02,041 --> 01:28:03,141 The place goes to auction next week. 1742 01:28:03,143 --> 01:28:04,441 We'll all be there. 1743 01:28:04,443 --> 01:28:06,211 You guys don't have a prayer. 1744 01:28:06,213 --> 01:28:09,180 Yeah, it's kind of more of a statement. 1745 01:28:09,182 --> 01:28:11,285 Why are you here, Nate? 1746 01:28:12,919 --> 01:28:17,122 I was kind of hoping that you weren't going to be here. 1747 01:28:17,124 --> 01:28:19,760 DAVE: Sorry to disappoint. 1748 01:28:22,829 --> 01:28:25,232 I need to tell you a story. 1749 01:28:26,232 --> 01:28:29,033 Before I came out to my mom, 1750 01:28:29,035 --> 01:28:31,235 I had it all perfectly planned out. 1751 01:28:31,237 --> 01:28:33,238 I rehearsed different responses depending on 1752 01:28:33,240 --> 01:28:36,039 if she'd hit me or hug me. 1753 01:28:36,041 --> 01:28:38,275 I mean I really didn't have a reason to be scared, 1754 01:28:38,277 --> 01:28:41,980 she was always supportive of other gay kids at school, 1755 01:28:41,982 --> 01:28:44,114 but my friends said that she would be different 1756 01:28:44,116 --> 01:28:46,387 with her own kid, you know. 1757 01:28:52,092 --> 01:28:56,895 One day I just, I went off script and I said it. 1758 01:28:56,897 --> 01:28:59,129 I told her I was gay. 1759 01:28:59,131 --> 01:29:01,102 So she kicked you out? 1760 01:29:04,004 --> 01:29:05,139 She hugged me. 1761 01:29:06,305 --> 01:29:08,476 Told me that she loved me. 1762 01:29:09,442 --> 01:29:10,811 We both cried. 1763 01:29:11,978 --> 01:29:14,782 That's my favorite memory with her. 1764 01:29:15,549 --> 01:29:18,082 So what happened? 1765 01:29:18,084 --> 01:29:20,351 She got this job in Orlando 1766 01:29:20,353 --> 01:29:23,120 and things started getting rough at home. 1767 01:29:23,122 --> 01:29:26,190 So she started going to this counselor on her lunch break 1768 01:29:26,192 --> 01:29:30,227 to work on her issues, I guess, she said. 1769 01:29:30,229 --> 01:29:31,365 But she changed. 1770 01:29:33,933 --> 01:29:35,600 Seemed distant. 1771 01:29:35,602 --> 01:29:38,602 Questioning if I was really gay or not. 1772 01:29:38,604 --> 01:29:42,306 Started to sound a lot like you do in class. 1773 01:29:42,308 --> 01:29:44,244 One day, she came home. 1774 01:29:53,186 --> 01:29:55,289 I need you to watch this. 1775 01:30:06,866 --> 01:30:10,400 NATE'S DAD: Honey, come on, let's get this started. 1776 01:30:10,402 --> 01:30:15,205 NATE'S MOM: Nate, honey, I want to tell you something 1777 01:30:15,207 --> 01:30:17,277 before I say anything else. 1778 01:30:19,211 --> 01:30:20,147 I love you. 1779 01:30:21,281 --> 01:30:23,381 NATE: Yeah, yeah, I know. 1780 01:30:23,383 --> 01:30:25,350 NATE'S MOM: I know you've been gay 1781 01:30:25,352 --> 01:30:28,386 since you been a little boy. 1782 01:30:28,388 --> 01:30:31,256 NATE: Yeah, so you know by this point 1783 01:30:31,258 --> 01:30:33,925 that it's not a choice. 1784 01:30:33,927 --> 01:30:36,093 NATE'S MOM: It is a choice. 1785 01:30:36,095 --> 01:30:38,499 NATE: No, it's not a choice. 1786 01:30:40,267 --> 01:30:44,235 NATE'S MOM: In that case, you have a choice now. 1787 01:30:44,237 --> 01:30:46,303 You could either get help or move out. 1788 01:30:46,305 --> 01:30:48,472 I can't support your lifestyle. 1789 01:30:48,474 --> 01:30:51,275 NATE: Mom, it's not a... 1790 01:30:51,277 --> 01:30:53,144 It's who I am. 1791 01:30:53,146 --> 01:30:55,279 NATE'S MOM: My baby was not born a queer. 1792 01:30:55,281 --> 01:30:58,315 NATE: I don't know where this is coming from? 1793 01:30:58,317 --> 01:31:01,418 NATE'S MOM: From the Bible, from God. 1794 01:31:01,420 --> 01:31:04,154 NATE: No, you didn't say this before. 1795 01:31:04,156 --> 01:31:06,958 You weren't like this, you loved me. 1796 01:31:06,960 --> 01:31:08,028 You loved me. 1797 01:31:09,129 --> 01:31:10,627 I still love you. 1798 01:31:10,629 --> 01:31:12,230 No, no, that's not what... 1799 01:31:12,232 --> 01:31:14,465 (YELLING) (SCREAMING) 1800 01:31:14,467 --> 01:31:16,367 NATE'S DAD: Get back you son-of-a-bitch! 1801 01:31:16,369 --> 01:31:17,401 NATE: What is wrong with you? 1802 01:31:17,403 --> 01:31:20,003 NATE'S MOM: Stop! 1803 01:31:20,005 --> 01:31:22,543 There's something wrong with you. 1804 01:31:24,076 --> 01:31:25,944 NATE: There's nothing wrong with me. 1805 01:31:25,946 --> 01:31:28,512 NATE'S DAD: You're a disgrace. 1806 01:31:28,514 --> 01:31:31,050 NATE: I'm not a disgrace. 1807 01:31:32,352 --> 01:31:36,186 NATE'S DAD: I can't believe that I have said 1808 01:31:36,188 --> 01:31:38,358 that my son is a disgrace. 1809 01:32:11,390 --> 01:32:12,425 Nate. 1810 01:32:15,027 --> 01:32:16,195 It's not true. 1811 01:32:19,232 --> 01:32:23,003 I came here to tell you that I forgive you. 1812 01:32:26,638 --> 01:32:28,172 You're not a disgrace. 1813 01:32:28,174 --> 01:32:29,574 (NATE SNIFFLES) 1814 01:32:29,576 --> 01:32:31,111 I forgive you. 1815 01:32:35,281 --> 01:32:38,382 (NATE CRYING) 1816 01:32:38,384 --> 01:32:41,155 DAVE: You're not a disgrace. 1817 01:32:54,401 --> 01:32:57,534 (FAINT CHATTERING) 1818 01:32:57,536 --> 01:33:00,307 (DOOR BANGING) 1819 01:33:03,410 --> 01:33:06,610 We're here for the auction. 1820 01:33:06,612 --> 01:33:07,779 CLERK: You're early. 1821 01:33:07,781 --> 01:33:09,446 We wanted to be early. 1822 01:33:09,448 --> 01:33:11,681 CLERK: Fill one of these out. 1823 01:33:11,683 --> 01:33:14,420 - Okay. - Auction starts at three. 1824 01:33:15,722 --> 01:33:16,724 Thank you. 1825 01:33:31,571 --> 01:33:34,538 ♪ This is the gay, this is the gay ♪ 1826 01:33:34,540 --> 01:33:39,545 ♪ That the Lord has made, that the Lord has made ♪ 1827 01:33:40,746 --> 01:33:43,346 ♪ Goodness gracious gay balls of fire ♪ 1828 01:33:43,348 --> 01:33:44,248 (LAUGHS) 1829 01:33:44,250 --> 01:33:47,517 ♪ Oh, I heard it through the gay-vine ♪ 1830 01:33:47,519 --> 01:33:48,819 Yeah, girl. 1831 01:33:48,821 --> 01:33:52,824 ♪ Been living most our lives living in a gay-ster's paradise ♪ 1832 01:33:52,826 --> 01:33:54,059 Aha. 1833 01:33:54,061 --> 01:33:58,596 ♪ You're so gay, you probably think this song is about you ♪ 1834 01:33:58,598 --> 01:34:00,530 ♪ You're so gay ♪ 1835 01:34:00,532 --> 01:34:03,501 ♪ You probably think this song is about you ♪ 1836 01:34:03,503 --> 01:34:05,502 ♪ Don't you, don't you ♪ 1837 01:34:05,504 --> 01:34:07,305 Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. 1838 01:34:07,307 --> 01:34:09,543 (LAUGHING) 1839 01:34:11,811 --> 01:34:14,611 (FOOTSTEPS TAPPING) 1840 01:34:14,613 --> 01:34:16,379 (SIGHS) 1841 01:34:16,381 --> 01:34:18,786 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1842 01:34:20,786 --> 01:34:22,520 CLERK: How can I help you? 1843 01:34:22,522 --> 01:34:25,455 Hi, I'm here for the auction. 1844 01:34:25,457 --> 01:34:26,490 You're early. 1845 01:34:26,492 --> 01:34:27,458 GORDON: Mm-hmm. 1846 01:34:27,460 --> 01:34:28,525 Fill one of these out. 1847 01:34:28,527 --> 01:34:30,427 Thank you. 1848 01:34:30,429 --> 01:34:31,597 Um, thank you. 1849 01:34:42,775 --> 01:34:45,142 Auction starts at three. 1850 01:34:45,144 --> 01:34:46,146 Thank you. 1851 01:34:56,555 --> 01:34:58,623 (CLEARS THROAT) 1852 01:34:58,625 --> 01:35:00,591 GORDON: I don't see your picket signs. 1853 01:35:00,593 --> 01:35:02,193 ERIKA: And who the hell are you? 1854 01:35:02,195 --> 01:35:05,462 Gordon Woodman, the Dean at Lakeside Christian. 1855 01:35:05,464 --> 01:35:07,565 You're the son-of-a-bitch who used Dave. 1856 01:35:07,567 --> 01:35:09,566 Send that kid to the meeting too? 1857 01:35:09,568 --> 01:35:14,437 From what I hear, Mr. Hopper kinda did that to himself. 1858 01:35:14,439 --> 01:35:16,509 (CHUCKLES) 1859 01:35:19,512 --> 01:35:22,312 ♪ You're so gay ♪ 1860 01:35:22,314 --> 01:35:25,550 ♪ ALL: You probably think this song is about you ♪ 1861 01:35:25,552 --> 01:35:28,789 ♪ Don't you, don't you ♪ 1862 01:35:30,423 --> 01:35:32,659 (CHATTERING) 1863 01:35:39,598 --> 01:35:41,668 (RUMBLING) 1864 01:36:21,340 --> 01:36:22,441 725 Wabash. 1865 01:36:23,610 --> 01:36:25,976 Can I say something? 1866 01:36:25,978 --> 01:36:28,412 But that's not how it works. 1867 01:36:28,414 --> 01:36:29,480 Sorry. 1868 01:36:29,482 --> 01:36:31,649 That's not how this works. 1869 01:36:31,651 --> 01:36:35,653 Okay, so we're probably not gonna get 1870 01:36:35,655 --> 01:36:37,754 what we came here for today, 1871 01:36:37,756 --> 01:36:42,763 and we've all been through way more than we should have, 1872 01:36:43,830 --> 01:36:46,029 but I know we're stronger because of it. 1873 01:36:46,031 --> 01:36:47,500 I love you all. 1874 01:36:48,367 --> 01:36:50,568 Well, I'm inspired. 1875 01:36:50,570 --> 01:36:53,037 Let's just start the bidding at 19,000, shall we? 1876 01:36:53,039 --> 01:36:56,306 We'll start the bidding at 10,000. 1877 01:36:56,308 --> 01:36:59,677 - $10,000, do I hear 10,000? - Here. 1878 01:36:59,679 --> 01:37:01,979 AUCTIONEER: 10,000, do I hear 15, 15? 1879 01:37:01,981 --> 01:37:03,047 Here. 1880 01:37:03,049 --> 01:37:05,619 15,000, do I hear 20, 20,000? 1881 01:37:06,719 --> 01:37:07,554 $18,427. 1882 01:37:10,656 --> 01:37:13,893 AUCTIONEER: $18,427, do I hear 20, 25? 1883 01:37:14,760 --> 01:37:16,229 $50 thousand. 1884 01:37:19,631 --> 01:37:20,965 WOMAN: 52,000. 1885 01:37:20,967 --> 01:37:23,734 AUCTIONEER: 52,000, going once. 1886 01:37:23,736 --> 01:37:24,738 $60,000! 1887 01:37:26,772 --> 01:37:28,439 62,000. 1888 01:37:28,441 --> 01:37:30,841 - 62,000, going once. - For God's sake. 1889 01:37:30,843 --> 01:37:32,012 $100 thousand. 1890 01:37:39,719 --> 01:37:42,956 AUCTIONEER: $100 thousand, going once. 1891 01:37:44,089 --> 01:37:47,024 $100 thousand, going twice. 1892 01:37:47,026 --> 01:37:49,729 (DOOR CLANGS) 1893 01:37:51,363 --> 01:37:52,430 DAVE: Hold on! 1894 01:37:52,432 --> 01:37:53,064 What's he doing? 1895 01:37:53,066 --> 01:37:54,501 I don't know. 1896 01:37:55,567 --> 01:37:56,570 Excuse me. 1897 01:38:02,508 --> 01:38:03,873 Okay. 1898 01:38:03,875 --> 01:38:04,710 Ah. 1899 01:38:06,012 --> 01:38:08,611 All right, can you? 1900 01:38:08,613 --> 01:38:10,047 Okay, thank you. 1901 01:38:10,049 --> 01:38:13,818 All right, I know none of you want 1902 01:38:13,820 --> 01:38:16,820 to hear anything I have to say now, 1903 01:38:16,822 --> 01:38:19,890 but just give me one moment. 1904 01:38:19,892 --> 01:38:20,727 Please. 1905 01:38:22,728 --> 01:38:23,763 All right. 1906 01:38:26,665 --> 01:38:29,400 I know that I have caused each 1907 01:38:29,402 --> 01:38:32,669 and every one of you some sort of pain. 1908 01:38:32,671 --> 01:38:35,375 And I am deeply, deeply sorry. 1909 01:38:40,545 --> 01:38:41,912 I've always measured my success 1910 01:38:41,914 --> 01:38:44,785 based on having all the answers. 1911 01:38:45,817 --> 01:38:46,751 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1912 01:38:46,753 --> 01:38:50,323 And that arrogance has caused a lot of pain. 1913 01:38:52,825 --> 01:38:54,961 Today, the only thing I know 1914 01:38:56,995 --> 01:38:59,864 is that I don't really know a lot 1915 01:38:59,866 --> 01:39:01,568 about anything, life, 1916 01:39:03,102 --> 01:39:04,537 love, struggle. 1917 01:39:06,805 --> 01:39:08,875 I saw all of you as broken. 1918 01:39:11,411 --> 01:39:13,046 You were never broken. 1919 01:39:15,781 --> 01:39:16,615 I was. 1920 01:39:18,683 --> 01:39:21,151 I believe we were at sold. 1921 01:39:21,153 --> 01:39:22,856 Oh, uh, 200,000. 1922 01:39:25,424 --> 01:39:26,690 AUCTIONEER: $200 thousand. 1923 01:39:26,692 --> 01:39:27,958 You can't be serious. 1924 01:39:27,960 --> 01:39:30,593 You can't even pay your car payments. 1925 01:39:30,595 --> 01:39:32,797 DAVE: Call it a gift from Aunt Patty. 1926 01:39:32,799 --> 01:39:34,735 David, don't do this. 1927 01:39:35,668 --> 01:39:37,970 The bid is at $200 thousand. 1928 01:39:40,839 --> 01:39:43,908 AUCTIONEER: $200 thousand, going once. 1929 01:39:43,910 --> 01:39:45,045 $400 thousand. 1930 01:39:47,946 --> 01:39:50,980 (MELANCHOLY MUSIC) 1931 01:39:50,982 --> 01:39:53,619 AUCTIONEER: $400 thousand. 1932 01:39:54,653 --> 01:39:56,822 $400 thousand, going once. 1933 01:39:58,991 --> 01:40:01,461 $400 thousand, going twice. 1934 01:40:05,764 --> 01:40:07,433 $400 thousand, sold. 1935 01:40:30,055 --> 01:40:31,424 Hey, Alyssa. 1936 01:40:33,259 --> 01:40:35,562 Hey, could I have a ride? 1937 01:40:36,963 --> 01:40:37,928 (ALYSSA SIGHS) 1938 01:40:37,930 --> 01:40:39,797 That was really nice what you did back there, 1939 01:40:39,799 --> 01:40:41,832 but we're not okay. 1940 01:40:41,834 --> 01:40:43,167 Yeah, I know. 1941 01:40:43,169 --> 01:40:46,270 But Patty left you something. 1942 01:40:46,272 --> 01:40:47,941 It's at her house. 1943 01:40:52,644 --> 01:40:53,446 Get in. 1944 01:41:01,754 --> 01:41:04,491 (BIRDS CHIRPING) 1945 01:41:08,928 --> 01:41:10,831 Come on, it's inside. 1946 01:41:14,933 --> 01:41:17,603 (KEYS JINGLING) 1947 01:41:22,575 --> 01:41:23,809 One more thing. 1948 01:41:24,876 --> 01:41:26,912 You gotta put this on. 1949 01:41:33,184 --> 01:41:34,885 This is getting weird. 1950 01:41:34,887 --> 01:41:36,490 It's not weird. 1951 01:41:40,058 --> 01:41:40,990 Almost there. 1952 01:41:40,992 --> 01:41:42,528 ALYSSA: Okay. 1953 01:41:44,996 --> 01:41:46,096 Okay. 1954 01:41:46,098 --> 01:41:46,997 Stay right here. 1955 01:41:46,999 --> 01:41:48,001 Okay. 1956 01:41:54,339 --> 01:41:56,739 DAVE: You can take it off now. 1957 01:41:56,741 --> 01:41:57,775 I don't know. I'm kinda getting used to it. 1958 01:41:57,777 --> 01:41:58,609 DAVE: Just take it off. 1959 01:41:58,611 --> 01:41:59,211 Okay. 1960 01:42:03,014 --> 01:42:04,681 (LAUGHS) 1961 01:42:04,683 --> 01:42:06,016 Frank. 1962 01:42:06,018 --> 01:42:08,555 She wanted to give me Frank. 1963 01:42:09,955 --> 01:42:12,726 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1964 01:42:20,066 --> 01:42:21,798 The Ryan Home? 1965 01:42:21,800 --> 01:42:22,968 DAVE: Yeah. 1966 01:42:25,737 --> 01:42:28,271 (CRYING) The Ryan Home? 1967 01:42:28,273 --> 01:42:31,609 DAVE: Ryan's dream, here. 1968 01:42:31,611 --> 01:42:32,245 Now. 1969 01:42:33,912 --> 01:42:35,980 Is this real? 1970 01:42:35,982 --> 01:42:36,913 DAVE: Patty left me the house, 1971 01:42:36,915 --> 01:42:39,216 she said fill it with love, 1972 01:42:39,218 --> 01:42:41,985 you're the most loving people I know. 1973 01:42:41,987 --> 01:42:44,089 (CRYING) 1974 01:42:47,927 --> 01:42:50,026 The Ryan Home. 1975 01:42:50,028 --> 01:42:50,930 Hell yes. 1976 01:42:53,232 --> 01:42:54,668 It's perfect. 1977 01:42:58,036 --> 01:43:00,104 I won't disappoint her. 1978 01:43:00,106 --> 01:43:01,107 I promise. 1979 01:43:20,026 --> 01:43:20,992 Hey look what I made 1980 01:43:20,994 --> 01:43:23,226 for my favorite people in the entire universe. 1981 01:43:23,228 --> 01:43:24,360 Hand-crafted. 1982 01:43:24,362 --> 01:43:26,396 All natural, chocolate chip cookies. 1983 01:43:26,398 --> 01:43:28,968 (CHATTERING) 1984 01:43:31,103 --> 01:43:32,403 The most important part 1985 01:43:32,405 --> 01:43:35,038 about being a 60 minute man 1986 01:43:35,040 --> 01:43:37,807 is step three, the rubbing. 1987 01:43:37,809 --> 01:43:39,409 A lot of guys don't understand that, 1988 01:43:39,411 --> 01:43:42,014 so let me show you what I mean. 1989 01:43:45,985 --> 01:43:49,986 ♪ Oh happy gay, oh happy gay ♪ 1990 01:43:49,988 --> 01:43:54,224 ♪ Oh happy gay, oh happy gay ♪ 1991 01:43:54,226 --> 01:43:57,927 ♪ The LGBT, oh happy gay ♪ (DOORBELL RINGING) 1992 01:43:57,929 --> 01:44:00,767 ♪ I said the LGBT ♪ 1993 01:44:02,701 --> 01:44:03,467 ALYSSA: Charley? 1994 01:44:03,469 --> 01:44:05,138 I'm Alyssa, come in. 1995 01:44:06,338 --> 01:44:09,873 Glad you made it. (TRIUMPHANT MUSIC) 1996 01:44:09,875 --> 01:44:11,811 Let me show you around. 1997 01:44:26,759 --> 01:44:28,995 (KNOCKING) 1998 01:44:31,097 --> 01:44:32,395 Dave, this is Charley. 1999 01:44:32,397 --> 01:44:34,297 Charley, I'm glad you're here. 2000 01:44:34,299 --> 01:44:36,068 Nice to meet you. 2001 01:44:36,969 --> 01:44:38,038 Welcome home. 2002 01:44:51,851 --> 01:44:54,254 (GENTLE MUSIC) 2003 01:45:12,071 --> 01:45:15,172 ♪ Hey Jesus can you hear me now ♪ 2004 01:45:15,174 --> 01:45:18,175 ♪ It's been awhile since I came out ♪ 2005 01:45:18,177 --> 01:45:23,183 ♪ I was wonderin' do you love me the same ♪ 2006 01:45:25,550 --> 01:45:29,886 ♪ You see I've loved you since I was young ♪ 2007 01:45:29,888 --> 01:45:32,989 ♪ Tried to be the greatest son ♪ 2008 01:45:32,991 --> 01:45:37,996 ♪ Now I'm wonderin' could they love me the same ♪ 2009 01:45:40,131 --> 01:45:44,034 ♪ 'Cause I know that I could never change ♪ 2010 01:45:44,036 --> 01:45:47,971 ♪ I tried so hard and brought so much pain ♪ 2011 01:45:47,973 --> 01:45:52,979 ♪ And I just wanna be loved for who I am ♪ 2012 01:45:54,914 --> 01:45:58,481 ♪ I know that I could never change ♪ 2013 01:45:58,483 --> 01:46:02,218 ♪ I tried so hard and brought so much pain ♪ 2014 01:46:02,220 --> 01:46:07,227 ♪ And I just wanna be loved for who I am ♪ 2015 01:46:09,862 --> 01:46:14,868 ♪ I just wanna be loved ♪ 2016 01:46:16,101 --> 01:46:21,107 ♪ For who I am ♪ 2017 01:46:25,044 --> 01:46:27,977 ♪ Hey Jesus can you hear me out ♪ 2018 01:46:27,979 --> 01:46:31,215 ♪ I just want to love like everyone else ♪ 2019 01:46:31,217 --> 01:46:36,222 ♪ I was wonderin' since you made me this way ♪ 2020 01:46:39,325 --> 01:46:42,525 ♪ Do you want me to fall in love ♪ 2021 01:46:42,527 --> 01:46:47,534 ♪ To know what it's like to love someone else ♪ 2022 01:46:48,534 --> 01:46:53,203 ♪ In the most intimate way ♪ 2023 01:46:53,205 --> 01:46:56,873 ♪ 'Cause I know that I could never change ♪ 2024 01:46:56,875 --> 01:47:00,276 ♪ I tried so hard, brought so much pain ♪ 2025 01:47:00,278 --> 01:47:05,218 ♪ And I just wanna be loved for who I am ♪ 2026 01:47:07,920 --> 01:47:11,320 ♪ I know that I could never change ♪ 2027 01:47:11,322 --> 01:47:14,925 ♪ I tried so hard, brought so much pain ♪ 2028 01:47:14,927 --> 01:47:19,933 ♪ And I just wanna be loved for who I am ♪ 2029 01:47:22,500 --> 01:47:27,506 ♪ I just wanna be loved ♪ 2030 01:47:28,573 --> 01:47:31,344 ♪ For who I am ♪ 2031 01:48:06,612 --> 01:48:09,680 ♪ Hey Jesus can you hear me out ♪ 2032 01:48:09,682 --> 01:48:13,150 ♪ I just wanna love like everyone else ♪ 2033 01:48:13,152 --> 01:48:18,157 ♪ I was wonderin' could you love me the same ♪ 2034 01:48:20,658 --> 01:48:25,658 Subtitles by explosiveskull139320

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