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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,877 --> 00:00:05,338 - I had written myself notes. I only have five minutes. 2 00:00:05,339 --> 00:00:07,673 I didn't want to spend the entire time rambling. 3 00:00:07,674 --> 00:00:09,467 - It's okay if you ramble. 4 00:00:09,468 --> 00:00:12,303 - No, it's not. - Yes, it is. 5 00:00:12,304 --> 00:00:14,264 - No, it's not. I don't... 6 00:00:15,349 --> 00:00:19,519 It's right here, so.... 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,270 Um... 8 00:00:21,271 --> 00:00:24,106 I... 9 00:00:24,107 --> 00:00:26,484 I was online yesterday 10 00:00:26,485 --> 00:00:29,278 and, um, a bunch of people had posted links 11 00:00:29,279 --> 00:00:31,239 to this infographic, and... 12 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:32,990 Sorry, does everyone know what that... 13 00:00:32,991 --> 00:00:35,952 It's a... it's a cartoon that illustrates statistics. 14 00:00:35,953 --> 00:00:37,453 So, um... 15 00:00:37,454 --> 00:00:39,914 this infographic was about marriages, 16 00:00:39,915 --> 00:00:42,917 and, um, it said that if your spouse dies, 17 00:00:42,918 --> 00:00:47,922 it... it feels like losing $308,780 a year, 18 00:00:47,923 --> 00:00:50,258 which sounded crazy to me at first. 19 00:00:50,259 --> 00:00:52,426 Like, how do you... 20 00:00:52,427 --> 00:00:54,512 how do you put a dollar amount on death? 21 00:00:54,513 --> 00:00:56,347 Like, how is that even a thing with a price tag? 22 00:00:56,348 --> 00:00:57,974 Um... 23 00:00:57,975 --> 00:00:59,809 But then I... 24 00:00:59,810 --> 00:01:01,769 I started to think 25 00:01:01,770 --> 00:01:05,523 about what it would feel like to lose... 26 00:01:05,524 --> 00:01:09,318 $308,780 a year. 27 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,279 And it would feel like... 28 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,198 like a problem you could never fix. 29 00:01:14,908 --> 00:01:17,785 It's an impossible amount of money to lose. 30 00:01:17,786 --> 00:01:20,830 Um... 31 00:01:20,831 --> 00:01:22,665 I don't know if it's that exact number. 32 00:01:22,666 --> 00:01:25,793 The 780 at the end feels a bit weird. 33 00:01:25,794 --> 00:01:27,253 Um... 34 00:01:27,254 --> 00:01:29,630 But I... 35 00:01:29,631 --> 00:01:32,633 would say that my... 36 00:01:32,634 --> 00:01:35,804 husband being dead... 37 00:01:37,139 --> 00:01:40,601 Feels like the same kind of impossible thing. 38 00:01:44,855 --> 00:01:46,522 That's what I got. 39 00:01:46,523 --> 00:01:49,484 - Thanks for sharing. - Okay, you're welcome. 40 00:01:50,986 --> 00:01:52,820 - You still have a few minutes. 41 00:01:52,821 --> 00:01:55,115 - I don't really want them. 42 00:02:14,384 --> 00:02:16,636 - No. - Up. Yes, come on. 43 00:02:16,637 --> 00:02:19,347 You teach at 7:00. No. No. No. No "Moms." Come on. 44 00:02:19,348 --> 00:02:21,933 - Hey, stop. I'm not wearing pants. 45 00:02:21,934 --> 00:02:23,893 - Your body literally came out of my vagina. 46 00:02:23,894 --> 00:02:26,771 Do not talk to me about pants. Come on. 47 00:02:26,772 --> 00:02:29,608 I don't want to be awake. 48 00:02:31,026 --> 00:02:33,194 - I know, sweetie, but no one wants to be awake. 49 00:02:33,195 --> 00:02:34,862 That's how mornings work. 50 00:02:34,863 --> 00:02:37,031 Here, there's those pants you were so worried about. 51 00:02:37,032 --> 00:02:38,783 - Yeah. Get up. Get up. 52 00:02:38,784 --> 00:02:40,243 Get up. Get up. Get up. 53 00:02:40,244 --> 00:02:42,703 Get up. Get up. Get up. Get up. 54 00:02:42,704 --> 00:02:45,164 Get up. Get up. Get up. Get up. 55 00:02:46,834 --> 00:02:49,919 Babe.. 56 00:02:49,920 --> 00:02:52,505 I'm going back to sleep. 57 00:02:53,966 --> 00:02:56,259 You need to take a shower. 58 00:02:56,260 --> 00:02:59,220 You do not smell good enough to be around my family. 59 00:02:59,221 --> 00:03:00,596 - I smell okay. 60 00:03:00,597 --> 00:03:01,973 - I promise you don't smell okay. 61 00:03:01,974 --> 00:03:04,100 - I didn't know I was coming with. 62 00:03:04,101 --> 00:03:05,726 - Do you not want to come? 63 00:03:05,727 --> 00:03:07,603 - I-it's just been a long week. 64 00:03:07,604 --> 00:03:09,438 I thought I'd take the morning to sleep. 65 00:03:09,439 --> 00:03:12,692 - Matt, please. I need you. 66 00:03:12,693 --> 00:03:15,903 You always make things better with my family. 67 00:03:15,904 --> 00:03:17,446 I don't, but you do. 68 00:03:17,447 --> 00:03:19,907 - You know that's not true about you. 69 00:03:19,908 --> 00:03:23,578 - Please, get up. 70 00:03:23,579 --> 00:03:26,122 Oh, my God. 71 00:03:27,916 --> 00:03:29,959 - Thank you. 72 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,296 - I love you. - I love you, too. 73 00:03:33,714 --> 00:03:36,174 I'll love you more after you've brushed your teeth. 74 00:03:36,175 --> 00:03:38,926 - Yeah, how about we try all that again? 75 00:03:38,927 --> 00:03:41,179 - I just love you and nothing else. 76 00:03:41,180 --> 00:03:42,389 - Yeah, there it is. 77 00:03:42,390 --> 00:03:44,183 - Leigh. Leigh. 78 00:03:46,268 --> 00:03:47,852 Honey. 79 00:03:47,853 --> 00:03:51,147 You have the 7:00 and 8:15 classes... 9:30. 80 00:03:51,148 --> 00:03:52,607 I'm at noon. 81 00:03:52,608 --> 00:03:54,734 Uh, Jules, you have the evening slots. 82 00:03:54,735 --> 00:03:56,903 You have group at 8:30. 83 00:03:56,904 --> 00:03:59,488 And I have a date with a guy who seems nice, 84 00:03:59,489 --> 00:04:01,115 but, you know, kind of boring on eHarmony. 85 00:04:01,116 --> 00:04:02,575 So let's hope he's nice 86 00:04:02,576 --> 00:04:05,203 and kind of interesting in real life. 87 00:04:05,204 --> 00:04:07,122 - Hello. 88 00:04:09,208 --> 00:04:12,168 - Hey. - Hi. 89 00:04:12,169 --> 00:04:13,753 Good morning. 90 00:04:13,754 --> 00:04:16,214 - Hi. - Can't believe you're here. 91 00:04:16,215 --> 00:04:18,007 Okay, you guys I got to show you something funny. 92 00:04:18,008 --> 00:04:20,134 Come on. Look at what Mom made. - What? Oh. 93 00:04:20,135 --> 00:04:21,511 No. - Yes. 94 00:04:21,512 --> 00:04:22,887 - Wow. - What? 95 00:04:24,264 --> 00:04:26,057 - What? What's so funny? 96 00:04:26,058 --> 00:04:28,726 Hey, that's not cool. I don't make fun of your stuff. 97 00:04:28,727 --> 00:04:30,811 - Mom, if you don't want people to laugh at your vision boards, 98 00:04:30,812 --> 00:04:32,605 don't put so much healing crystals. 99 00:04:32,606 --> 00:04:34,440 - They are not vision boards. They are soul collages. 100 00:04:34,441 --> 00:04:35,858 - Oh, right. Of course. 101 00:04:35,859 --> 00:04:37,401 - Well, I think this is really cool art. 102 00:04:37,402 --> 00:04:39,278 What's the story? - Thank you. 103 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,614 You collage a card for each aspect of your soul, 104 00:04:41,615 --> 00:04:43,866 and then you use the cards to answer your life questions. 105 00:04:43,867 --> 00:04:45,993 So it's sort of like a personalized tarot deck. 106 00:04:45,994 --> 00:04:47,745 - Oh, my God, you've got to stop 107 00:04:47,746 --> 00:04:49,288 being a parody of yourself. 108 00:04:49,289 --> 00:04:51,165 - You don't subscribe to my belief system. 109 00:04:51,166 --> 00:04:54,168 That's just fine, but you give some respect where it's due. 110 00:04:54,169 --> 00:04:56,337 Everything I have accomplished in my life 111 00:04:56,338 --> 00:04:59,006 is a result of believing that I could create my own reality, 112 00:04:59,007 --> 00:05:02,218 and that includes raising both of you by myself 113 00:05:02,219 --> 00:05:03,803 and running my own business, 114 00:05:03,804 --> 00:05:06,681 which also apparently employs you both. 115 00:05:06,682 --> 00:05:09,809 So don't make fun of my magic. You should be respectful of it. 116 00:05:09,810 --> 00:05:12,103 - I mean, I hear that. - Thank you. Thank you. 117 00:05:12,104 --> 00:05:13,855 He is my favorite. 118 00:05:13,856 --> 00:05:15,731 - Are you serious? - You're my favorite. 119 00:05:15,732 --> 00:05:18,025 See? He's nice. Why are they so horrible to me? 120 00:05:18,026 --> 00:05:20,779 Okay, so that's Thursday. Let's do this. 121 00:05:22,865 --> 00:05:25,241 Okay? 122 00:05:25,242 --> 00:05:26,868 - Wait, say that all again? - Come on. 123 00:05:26,869 --> 00:05:28,036 - I'm sorry. 124 00:05:28,037 --> 00:05:30,121 I'm just, like, stupid excited 125 00:05:30,122 --> 00:05:32,039 to get my three-month chip tonight. 126 00:05:34,042 --> 00:05:36,669 You are a beast. 127 00:05:36,670 --> 00:05:38,254 You're kicking this thing in the teeth, 128 00:05:38,255 --> 00:05:40,006 and we could not be more proud of you. 129 00:05:40,007 --> 00:05:42,383 Could we, Leigh? 130 00:05:42,384 --> 00:05:44,595 - Yeah. Everything she said. 131 00:05:46,221 --> 00:05:49,056 - Just, like, these last few months, 132 00:05:49,057 --> 00:05:51,601 everything has been so emotional and stressful, 133 00:05:51,602 --> 00:05:55,938 and I could have fallen off the wagon so many times, but... 134 00:05:55,939 --> 00:05:57,773 I didn't. 135 00:05:57,774 --> 00:05:59,317 I handled it. 136 00:05:59,318 --> 00:06:02,612 - Yep, it really, uh, screwed me up, too, 137 00:06:02,613 --> 00:06:03,946 when my husband died. 138 00:06:03,947 --> 00:06:05,323 - That's not what I was saying. 139 00:06:05,324 --> 00:06:07,074 - That's exactly what you were saying... 140 00:06:07,075 --> 00:06:09,160 that my husband being dead is making it harder 141 00:06:09,161 --> 00:06:10,912 for you to stay sober. 142 00:06:10,913 --> 00:06:12,872 - I wasn't saying it like that. - You still said it. 143 00:06:12,873 --> 00:06:15,374 - Hey, you. That's enough. - What? 144 00:06:15,375 --> 00:06:17,502 Take a breath. - I'm breathing. 145 00:06:17,503 --> 00:06:19,086 - Now do it with some intention. 146 00:06:19,087 --> 00:06:20,880 Come on - Whatever. 147 00:06:20,881 --> 00:06:22,716 I'm gonna go to the studio. 148 00:06:29,765 --> 00:06:33,476 How do you expect anyone to be in a good mood 149 00:06:33,477 --> 00:06:35,604 before the sun's up? 150 00:06:37,064 --> 00:06:39,691 Just think about that. 151 00:06:49,660 --> 00:06:53,579 - Up and press. Heels up like you're wearing stilettos. 152 00:06:53,580 --> 00:06:55,414 Come on, I know you girls have higher hells than that. 153 00:06:55,415 --> 00:06:57,208 And up, and press. 154 00:06:57,209 --> 00:06:58,252 Now you're gonna lower yourself 155 00:06:58,253 --> 00:06:59,836 three inches and hold. 156 00:06:59,837 --> 00:07:01,337 Three inches. 157 00:07:01,338 --> 00:07:03,339 You guys have zero inches. Three inches. 158 00:07:03,340 --> 00:07:05,049 Come on. Here, you got this. 159 00:07:05,050 --> 00:07:06,884 Come on, match me. Match me. You got this. 160 00:07:06,885 --> 00:07:08,928 Right now. One inch up. One inch down. 161 00:07:08,929 --> 00:07:10,680 We're gonna pulse for ten seconds to tempo. 162 00:07:10,681 --> 00:07:12,181 Yep. 163 00:07:12,182 --> 00:07:13,850 You can do anything for ten seconds. Mm-hmm. 164 00:07:13,851 --> 00:07:18,145 And pulse. Two, three, four, five, 165 00:07:18,146 --> 00:07:21,774 six, seven, eight, nine, ten. 166 00:07:21,775 --> 00:07:24,318 And release. Good job. Good job. 167 00:07:24,319 --> 00:07:26,153 Now we're gonna go to butt school, ladies, 168 00:07:26,154 --> 00:07:27,531 and work those seats. 169 00:07:28,490 --> 00:07:31,577 - I'll see you girls later. - Bye. See you later. 170 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,540 I love you. 171 00:07:37,541 --> 00:07:39,626 Okay. 172 00:07:40,752 --> 00:07:43,171 - Oh, hey, real quick... I have to ask you something. 173 00:07:43,172 --> 00:07:44,922 - Are you saying you love me because you have 174 00:07:44,923 --> 00:07:46,632 to ask me something? 175 00:07:46,633 --> 00:07:49,385 - No, I love you, and I have to ask you something. 176 00:07:49,386 --> 00:07:51,179 - What? 177 00:07:51,180 --> 00:07:53,014 - You've been wearing a lot of my workout stuff. 178 00:07:53,015 --> 00:07:56,809 But you have your own stuff. 179 00:07:56,810 --> 00:07:59,437 - Yeah, but it's at my apartment. 180 00:07:59,438 --> 00:08:03,191 - When's the last time you went to your apartment? 181 00:08:03,192 --> 00:08:05,193 - A little before the funeral. 182 00:08:05,194 --> 00:08:07,236 - It's, like, three months? 183 00:08:07,237 --> 00:08:08,988 All your stuff is still there, 184 00:08:08,989 --> 00:08:11,115 and you're still paying rent and utilities. 185 00:08:11,116 --> 00:08:12,742 - Yeah. 186 00:08:12,743 --> 00:08:14,994 Yeah, I know. 187 00:08:14,995 --> 00:08:17,747 - So maybe you could go by your apartment 188 00:08:17,748 --> 00:08:19,208 and get your stuff. 189 00:08:21,293 --> 00:08:24,587 - Sure. Yeah, sure. 190 00:08:24,588 --> 00:08:27,006 - Okay, great. 191 00:08:27,007 --> 00:08:30,301 Thank you. - You're welcome. 192 00:08:32,262 --> 00:08:34,680 I love you. - I love you, too. 193 00:09:31,905 --> 00:09:33,198 Can you be my sounding board? 194 00:09:33,199 --> 00:09:35,366 It's for my column. 195 00:09:35,367 --> 00:09:37,326 A high-school girl just got her heart broken 196 00:09:37,327 --> 00:09:38,995 for the first time, 197 00:09:38,996 --> 00:09:41,998 feels like she is dying. 198 00:09:41,999 --> 00:09:44,542 What does she do? 199 00:09:44,543 --> 00:09:46,460 Keeping doing your homework, 200 00:09:46,461 --> 00:09:48,796 you'll be in love with someone new by Winter Formal. 201 00:09:48,797 --> 00:09:50,715 You're gonna say that. 202 00:09:50,716 --> 00:09:52,592 No, I'm not gonna say that, 203 00:09:52,593 --> 00:09:54,802 but I just... I feel like she's 15 204 00:09:54,803 --> 00:09:56,929 and her heart is broken, and she's going to use it 205 00:09:56,930 --> 00:09:58,723 as an excuse to be an asshole to her mom. 206 00:09:58,724 --> 00:10:00,308 And I want to tell her not to do that. 207 00:10:00,309 --> 00:10:03,186 - Yeah, just say all that in a not-patronizing way. 208 00:10:03,187 --> 00:10:05,313 Ooh. - I'm going to. 209 00:10:05,314 --> 00:10:06,981 - Yeah? - Um... 210 00:10:06,982 --> 00:10:09,984 "You've lost someone important to you, 211 00:10:09,985 --> 00:10:13,237 "but there are people 212 00:10:13,238 --> 00:10:16,616 "who still depend on you. 213 00:10:16,617 --> 00:10:20,453 "So help your friend 214 00:10:20,454 --> 00:10:24,081 "with her mock-trial audition 215 00:10:24,082 --> 00:10:28,461 "and your brother with his Latin homework 216 00:10:28,462 --> 00:10:31,714 "and tell your mom 217 00:10:31,715 --> 00:10:33,925 "you love her. 218 00:10:33,926 --> 00:10:38,221 "Even though you know she knows... 219 00:10:38,222 --> 00:10:42,142 she still needs to hear it." 220 00:10:43,393 --> 00:10:45,895 - I really like that. 221 00:10:45,896 --> 00:10:47,939 - Thank you for being my sounding board. 222 00:10:47,940 --> 00:10:50,566 - Yeah, always. 223 00:10:50,567 --> 00:10:52,360 - You want to get ramen for dinner? 224 00:10:52,361 --> 00:10:54,111 - Oh, I can't. 225 00:10:54,112 --> 00:10:57,782 I told my brother I would hang out with him tonight. 226 00:10:57,783 --> 00:10:59,450 - You're always hanging out with your brother. 227 00:10:59,451 --> 00:11:01,786 - No, I'm always hanging out with you. 228 00:11:01,787 --> 00:11:03,330 I live with you. 229 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:10,211 Well, he just got dumped. It's been hard on him. 230 00:11:10,212 --> 00:11:12,004 You can hang with us if you want. 231 00:11:12,005 --> 00:11:14,590 - I don't really like hanging out with regular Danny, 232 00:11:14,591 --> 00:11:17,051 and I definitely don't want to hang out with dumped Danny. 233 00:11:17,052 --> 00:11:21,138 - Okay, well, I just thought I'd offer, just in case. 234 00:11:21,139 --> 00:11:24,183 All right, I'm gonna, um... 235 00:11:24,184 --> 00:11:26,811 head out in a few, all right? 236 00:11:26,812 --> 00:11:28,771 Bye, bye, bye. 237 00:11:42,536 --> 00:11:44,912 - Oh, sorry. - It's okay. 238 00:11:44,913 --> 00:11:46,206 - Thanks. - Mm-hmm. 239 00:11:48,834 --> 00:11:50,127 - Hey. - Hey. 240 00:11:50,128 --> 00:11:51,711 - You look pretty. 241 00:11:51,712 --> 00:11:53,880 - I slept four hours. I look like a cadaver. 242 00:11:53,881 --> 00:11:56,007 - Super-hot cadaver. 243 00:11:56,008 --> 00:11:59,385 - It's 'cause I teach three barre classes a day 244 00:11:59,386 --> 00:12:02,471 and I only get to eat one fun thing a week. 245 00:12:02,472 --> 00:12:04,473 - What's your fun thing? 246 00:12:04,474 --> 00:12:06,518 - Doughnuts at grief group. 247 00:12:07,936 --> 00:12:09,813 - Jesus. - I know. 248 00:12:12,983 --> 00:12:14,609 - Well, as long as we're not having fun... 249 00:12:16,278 --> 00:12:18,529 - There's something I need to talk to you about. 250 00:12:18,530 --> 00:12:19,781 - What? 251 00:12:21,241 --> 00:12:24,161 - Taylor wants to get the advice column going again. 252 00:12:27,372 --> 00:12:30,458 - I just don't feel like the same person 253 00:12:30,459 --> 00:12:31,792 who wrote that anymore. 254 00:12:31,793 --> 00:12:33,169 - I get it, 255 00:12:33,170 --> 00:12:35,254 but I'd love for you to still write it 256 00:12:35,255 --> 00:12:37,716 as whoever you are now. 257 00:12:39,676 --> 00:12:42,303 - You're a good editor. 258 00:12:42,304 --> 00:12:44,639 And you're a really good friend. 259 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,725 - And that is a yes? 260 00:12:47,726 --> 00:12:51,187 - That's an "I'll think about it." 261 00:12:51,188 --> 00:12:53,857 - Okay. Thinking cadaver. 262 00:13:05,452 --> 00:13:09,080 - Yo, you just, uh, checked yourself out, didn't you? 263 00:13:10,832 --> 00:13:14,877 Yeah. I did. 264 00:13:14,878 --> 00:13:17,171 Did you get to go by your apartment? 265 00:13:17,172 --> 00:13:20,341 - You know what? I didn't end up having time. 266 00:13:20,342 --> 00:13:22,844 - You got to go over there. I'm out of clothes. 267 00:13:22,845 --> 00:13:24,595 I'm gonna have to teach naked. 268 00:13:24,596 --> 00:13:26,514 - Right. Well, I don't know what to tell you, Jules. 269 00:13:26,515 --> 00:13:28,516 You're asking me to do something that I can't do. 270 00:13:28,517 --> 00:13:30,393 - I don't want this to be a thing. 271 00:13:30,394 --> 00:13:32,520 - I'm just trying to help. - Yeah, but you're not helping. 272 00:13:32,521 --> 00:13:34,188 I know what helping looks like 273 00:13:34,189 --> 00:13:36,732 'cause that's what I did for you for, like, a decade. 274 00:13:36,733 --> 00:13:39,485 - Are you gonna list every mistake I ever made. 275 00:13:39,486 --> 00:13:41,153 Should I get comfortable? 276 00:13:41,154 --> 00:13:43,364 - Sure, 'cause apparently you don't remember 277 00:13:43,365 --> 00:13:45,950 the hundreds of times that I had to help you out 278 00:13:45,951 --> 00:13:48,369 'cause you were too wasted to help yourself. 279 00:13:48,370 --> 00:13:50,746 - But I do remember that look that you always have 280 00:13:50,747 --> 00:13:53,291 on your face when you get to feel superior to me. 281 00:13:53,292 --> 00:13:55,459 You never do anything nice for me 282 00:13:55,460 --> 00:13:58,462 without making me pay for it later. 283 00:13:58,463 --> 00:14:02,134 - Okay, well, you never do anything nice for me at all. 284 00:14:04,219 --> 00:14:05,928 I have an idea. 285 00:14:05,929 --> 00:14:08,723 How about you go to my apartment to get my stuff, 286 00:14:08,724 --> 00:14:11,601 since you're the one who wants it so badly? 287 00:14:11,602 --> 00:14:14,520 These are my keys. 288 00:14:14,521 --> 00:14:17,815 I got to go to grief group 'cause my husband died. 289 00:14:17,816 --> 00:14:19,943 - How are you getting there? 290 00:14:28,327 --> 00:14:29,953 Smile about it. 291 00:14:39,379 --> 00:14:43,049 "Everyone keeps telling me that I'll get over him. 292 00:14:43,050 --> 00:14:46,344 "Everyone keeps telling me it's not the end of the world, 293 00:14:46,345 --> 00:14:48,846 "but if that's true, then why does it feel 294 00:14:48,847 --> 00:14:51,350 like the end of the world?" 295 00:15:05,697 --> 00:15:08,407 Hi. 296 00:15:08,408 --> 00:15:10,076 Are you here for group? 297 00:15:10,077 --> 00:15:12,245 - Yeah, I was, uh, just gonna try it out, 298 00:15:12,246 --> 00:15:14,497 see if it was any good or if it was stupid. 299 00:15:14,498 --> 00:15:16,666 - It's not stupid. - You been going? 300 00:15:16,667 --> 00:15:18,835 - Mm, yeah, this is my sixth, seventh week, 301 00:15:18,836 --> 00:15:20,294 something like that. 302 00:15:20,295 --> 00:15:21,754 - I just Googled "grief group near me," 303 00:15:21,755 --> 00:15:23,006 and this is what came up. 304 00:15:23,007 --> 00:15:24,382 - Yeah, that's what I did. 305 00:15:24,383 --> 00:15:27,343 I think that's what everyone does. 306 00:15:27,344 --> 00:15:28,845 - You know what? 307 00:15:28,846 --> 00:15:30,638 Uh, you been going. This is your thing. 308 00:15:30,639 --> 00:15:32,682 I don't want to show up and screw with your thing, 309 00:15:32,683 --> 00:15:34,183 so I could... - I don't own grief group. 310 00:15:34,184 --> 00:15:36,686 - More than me. - Okay, well, just come, 311 00:15:36,687 --> 00:15:37,938 because I'm gonna feel bad if you don't. 312 00:15:37,939 --> 00:15:39,397 - No, you won't. 313 00:15:39,398 --> 00:15:41,649 You'd be happy, 'cause you hate me, so... 314 00:15:41,650 --> 00:15:43,234 - I don't hate anyone. 315 00:15:43,235 --> 00:15:45,319 - That's what people say when they hate you. 316 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,573 - I don't hate you. 317 00:15:54,121 --> 00:15:56,248 Are you coming? 318 00:16:02,504 --> 00:16:04,339 - Hi. 319 00:16:07,092 --> 00:16:09,010 - What is this? 320 00:16:09,011 --> 00:16:11,846 - Oh, we're switching up snacks. 321 00:16:11,847 --> 00:16:13,931 - Why? - I got a couple emails. 322 00:16:13,932 --> 00:16:15,683 People are trying to cut out sugar. 323 00:16:15,684 --> 00:16:19,061 - So there's just, like, no doughnuts? 324 00:16:19,062 --> 00:16:20,897 - Hey, we have a few minutes before we start. 325 00:16:20,898 --> 00:16:22,523 Do you want to go outside and talk? 326 00:16:22,524 --> 00:16:24,650 - Nope, I don't want to talk to you. 327 00:16:24,651 --> 00:16:27,862 I don't even want to be here most of the time. 328 00:16:27,863 --> 00:16:30,114 I just... I come here because usually 329 00:16:30,115 --> 00:16:32,950 it doesn't make me feel better, but sometimes it does. 330 00:16:32,951 --> 00:16:34,702 But... 331 00:16:34,703 --> 00:16:36,329 you know what? 332 00:16:36,330 --> 00:16:39,666 Nothing makes me feel better enough! 333 00:16:47,716 --> 00:16:50,302 All I wanted was a doughnut. 334 00:16:52,638 --> 00:16:55,473 That's, um... 335 00:16:55,474 --> 00:16:57,726 what was going to make me feel better. 336 00:17:04,149 --> 00:17:05,900 Can you stop following me? 337 00:17:05,901 --> 00:17:07,527 Just go back. Do group. It's good. 338 00:17:07,528 --> 00:17:09,028 - Why don't you go back? 339 00:17:09,029 --> 00:17:10,446 - I just literally had a psychotic break 340 00:17:10,447 --> 00:17:11,948 over carrot sticks. 341 00:17:11,949 --> 00:17:13,866 - I've seen worse. - That's not helpful. 342 00:17:13,867 --> 00:17:15,409 - I'm not trying to be helpful. You want to get a doughnut? 343 00:17:15,410 --> 00:17:16,869 - No, that's okay. 344 00:17:16,870 --> 00:17:18,621 - You were just crying five seconds ago 345 00:17:18,622 --> 00:17:19,915 because you couldn't have one. 346 00:17:19,916 --> 00:17:21,999 - I wasn't crying. - Okay, come on. 347 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,252 I know a doughnut shop near here. 348 00:17:24,253 --> 00:17:26,087 - Yeah, I know the same one. 349 00:17:26,088 --> 00:17:29,090 I drive by it all the time, and I think about going in, 350 00:17:29,091 --> 00:17:30,175 and I never do. 351 00:17:30,176 --> 00:17:32,468 - Okay. So come on. 352 00:17:32,469 --> 00:17:34,512 - I will buy you a doughnut, and if you're not being 353 00:17:34,513 --> 00:17:36,097 too much of a bitch, I'll buy you two. 354 00:17:36,098 --> 00:17:38,391 - That's an ugly word with an ugly history. 355 00:17:38,392 --> 00:17:41,269 - Now I'm only buying you one. 356 00:17:42,855 --> 00:17:45,858 - I hate when people use the word "condolences." 357 00:17:49,361 --> 00:17:51,612 - I hate it when people tell me that I'm in their prayers. 358 00:17:51,613 --> 00:17:53,573 Yeah. 359 00:17:53,574 --> 00:17:55,575 I hate how in the beginning, 360 00:17:55,576 --> 00:17:58,369 everyone wants to send you flowers and donate 361 00:17:58,370 --> 00:18:01,622 to, like, a foundation for your dead person. 362 00:18:01,623 --> 00:18:04,250 And then they stop calling and writing 363 00:18:04,251 --> 00:18:06,794 and doing nice things for you because they're over it, 364 00:18:06,795 --> 00:18:09,547 and they expect you to be over it. 365 00:18:09,548 --> 00:18:12,925 - I hate it when people ask me if I was close to my brother... 366 00:18:12,926 --> 00:18:14,802 like they're trying to decide how sorry 367 00:18:14,803 --> 00:18:16,387 they have to feel for me. 368 00:18:16,388 --> 00:18:18,347 - And they want me to say, "Not close," 369 00:18:18,348 --> 00:18:21,100 as if that would make it better or whatever. 370 00:18:21,101 --> 00:18:23,603 - I hate running into someone I haven't seen in a long time, 371 00:18:23,604 --> 00:18:25,980 and I know they know he's dead. 372 00:18:25,981 --> 00:18:28,149 But we have an entire conversation, 373 00:18:28,150 --> 00:18:30,318 and they never bring him up. 374 00:18:30,319 --> 00:18:32,570 They never say they're sorry. 375 00:18:32,571 --> 00:18:35,573 They don't ask how I'm doing. 376 00:18:35,574 --> 00:18:39,035 They just pretend like everything's fine. 377 00:18:39,036 --> 00:18:40,536 I hate that. 378 00:18:40,537 --> 00:18:43,331 God, that's so good. 379 00:18:43,332 --> 00:18:45,917 - Do you want another doughnut? 380 00:18:45,918 --> 00:18:47,460 - No. - Come on. 381 00:18:47,461 --> 00:18:49,754 You want another one. Yes. 382 00:18:49,755 --> 00:18:51,130 - Yes, I do. - Yes, you do. 383 00:18:51,131 --> 00:18:53,008 - I would love one. 384 00:19:19,451 --> 00:19:22,245 Jesus. 385 00:19:22,246 --> 00:19:23,663 Oh, God. 386 00:19:27,709 --> 00:19:29,670 Matt. 387 00:19:32,714 --> 00:19:35,175 Matt. 388 00:19:49,940 --> 00:19:52,108 Matt? 389 00:20:04,162 --> 00:20:06,163 - Hey, you reached Matt. Sorry I missed your call. 390 00:20:06,164 --> 00:20:08,917 Leave a message, and I'll get back to you. 391 00:20:14,673 --> 00:20:16,674 - Hey, you reached Matt. Sorry I missed your call. 392 00:20:16,675 --> 00:20:19,136 Leave a message, and I'll get back to you. 393 00:20:50,125 --> 00:20:52,335 - Yes. - Is Matt here? 394 00:20:52,336 --> 00:20:53,961 - Wha... 395 00:20:53,962 --> 00:20:55,546 What time is it? - Is Matt here? 396 00:20:55,547 --> 00:20:58,216 - No, he went home. - No, he didn't. 397 00:20:58,217 --> 00:20:59,592 - Well, that's what he said. 398 00:20:59,593 --> 00:21:01,344 We walked back here from the bar, 399 00:21:01,345 --> 00:21:02,845 and I told him to crash, 400 00:21:02,846 --> 00:21:04,722 but he said he had to get back to you. 401 00:21:04,723 --> 00:21:06,975 - Was he okay to drive? 402 00:21:08,268 --> 00:21:09,727 - Y-yeah. 403 00:21:09,728 --> 00:21:11,604 - Well, he's not picking up his phone. 404 00:21:11,605 --> 00:21:13,940 You don't know where he is. I don't know where he is. 405 00:21:13,941 --> 00:21:15,983 So what am I supposed to do, Danny? 406 00:21:15,984 --> 00:21:18,986 - Don't yell at me. I didn't do anything. 407 00:21:22,115 --> 00:21:23,992 Leigh. Leigh! 408 00:22:11,164 --> 00:22:13,416 - Hey, hey. Hey. 409 00:22:13,417 --> 00:22:15,751 What are you doing? 410 00:22:15,752 --> 00:22:17,920 - I was just waiting till I was okay to drive. 411 00:22:17,921 --> 00:22:20,840 - I thought you were dead. - No. 412 00:22:20,841 --> 00:22:23,634 No. 413 00:22:23,635 --> 00:22:27,097 - You can never die. 414 00:22:28,807 --> 00:22:31,684 - No, I won't. - I'm serious. 415 00:22:31,685 --> 00:22:34,061 I'm serious... like, ever. 416 00:22:35,772 --> 00:22:38,107 - I think I have to someday. 417 00:22:38,108 --> 00:22:41,444 - Just do it after me. 418 00:22:41,445 --> 00:22:43,779 - Okay. 419 00:22:43,780 --> 00:22:46,073 Okay. Okay. Hey. Hey. Hey. 420 00:22:46,074 --> 00:22:48,160 I'm here. 421 00:22:51,580 --> 00:22:53,080 - Okay, then. 422 00:22:53,081 --> 00:22:55,208 - So you, uh, want to hang out sometime? 423 00:22:55,209 --> 00:22:57,001 - Why? 424 00:22:57,002 --> 00:22:58,878 - Never mind. 425 00:22:58,879 --> 00:23:01,005 - No, that's not what... I actually mean why. 426 00:23:01,006 --> 00:23:03,549 - No, it's okay. Forget it. You know... 427 00:23:03,550 --> 00:23:06,677 I'm having a shitty enough time without having to go 428 00:23:06,678 --> 00:23:08,554 through this whole thing with you, Leigh. 429 00:23:08,555 --> 00:23:10,306 - I'm having a shitty time, too. 430 00:23:10,307 --> 00:23:12,808 - I'm having an objectively shittier time than you. 431 00:23:12,809 --> 00:23:13,936 - Really? - Yeah. 432 00:23:13,937 --> 00:23:15,353 - How is that? 433 00:23:15,354 --> 00:23:17,313 - Because you can get another husband. 434 00:23:17,314 --> 00:23:19,525 I can't just get another brother. 435 00:23:21,276 --> 00:23:24,695 Okay. 436 00:23:24,696 --> 00:23:26,948 Oh, wow. 437 00:23:26,949 --> 00:23:29,909 I cannot believe you just said that. 438 00:23:29,910 --> 00:23:32,119 - It's true. 439 00:23:32,120 --> 00:23:34,288 'Cause you're young. You'll find someone new. 440 00:23:34,289 --> 00:23:36,541 You'll be fine. I'm the one who's screwed here. 441 00:23:36,542 --> 00:23:39,377 - Okay, this is why I never wanted to hang out with you. 442 00:23:39,378 --> 00:23:40,878 Right, and this is why 443 00:23:40,879 --> 00:23:43,756 I still don't want to hang out with you. 444 00:23:43,757 --> 00:23:47,261 So, Danny, thank you. 445 00:24:06,864 --> 00:24:09,949 - Did you get my stuff? 446 00:24:09,950 --> 00:24:12,410 I want to talk to you. 447 00:24:12,411 --> 00:24:13,911 Cool, that's a no. 448 00:24:13,912 --> 00:24:16,540 - No, I really need you to listen to me. 449 00:24:18,917 --> 00:24:21,127 I went to your apartment, 450 00:24:21,128 --> 00:24:22,962 and I stood outside the door, 451 00:24:22,963 --> 00:24:24,922 but I didn't go in 452 00:24:24,923 --> 00:24:26,799 because I kept thinking about this thing 453 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,719 that people say when they're in the program... 454 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,181 "suit up and show up." 455 00:24:34,057 --> 00:24:36,142 Even if you don't feel like going to a meeting, 456 00:24:36,143 --> 00:24:39,645 you have to get dressed up and go. 457 00:24:39,646 --> 00:24:42,315 How you feel about it doesn't matter. 458 00:24:42,316 --> 00:24:45,194 What matters is that you do it. 459 00:24:48,447 --> 00:24:50,324 I can go with you. 460 00:24:51,575 --> 00:24:53,201 I will. 461 00:24:53,202 --> 00:24:55,786 I will sit with you for however long it takes 462 00:24:55,787 --> 00:24:57,413 for you to feel like you can go in, 463 00:24:57,414 --> 00:24:59,917 but I can't go for you. 464 00:25:02,211 --> 00:25:05,213 You have to show up for yourself. 465 00:25:36,787 --> 00:25:39,747 "Everyone keeps telling me that I'll get over him. 466 00:25:39,748 --> 00:25:43,751 "Everyone keeps telling me it's not the end of the world, 467 00:25:43,752 --> 00:25:45,503 "but if that's true, 468 00:25:45,504 --> 00:25:49,466 then why does it feel like the end of the world?" 469 00:25:58,267 --> 00:26:02,061 "The reason everyone keeps telling you 470 00:26:02,062 --> 00:26:05,231 "it's not the end of the world 471 00:26:05,232 --> 00:26:08,734 "is because it's not 472 00:26:08,735 --> 00:26:13,155 "the end of their world. 473 00:26:13,156 --> 00:26:16,868 "They don't have to figure out" 474 00:26:16,869 --> 00:26:19,662 "how to live 475 00:26:19,663 --> 00:26:24,084 "inside a world that's over. 476 00:26:25,878 --> 00:26:29,298 You do." 477 00:26:54,114 --> 00:26:56,324 - You're up. 478 00:26:56,325 --> 00:26:58,743 - Yep. 479 00:27:57,678 --> 00:27:59,428 - Why don't we make this 480 00:27:59,429 --> 00:28:01,597 as straightforward as this impossible thing can be? 481 00:28:01,598 --> 00:28:03,015 Divide everything into three piles... 482 00:28:03,016 --> 00:28:04,268 keep, toss, and give away. 483 00:28:04,269 --> 00:28:05,768 How does that sound? 484 00:28:05,769 --> 00:28:08,187 - This is the nicest gift 485 00:28:08,188 --> 00:28:10,815 I've ever gotten. 486 00:28:10,816 --> 00:28:15,695 - I think there was a lot about him I didn't know. 487 00:28:15,696 --> 00:28:18,322 - Nobody really knows anything about anyone. 488 00:28:18,323 --> 00:28:19,991 - I don't want to fight. - But... 489 00:28:19,992 --> 00:28:21,951 - You're belongings have meaning, 490 00:28:21,952 --> 00:28:24,245 and they should be treated with the respect that they're owed. 491 00:28:24,246 --> 00:28:25,830 - Well, why don't you spend 492 00:28:25,831 --> 00:28:27,707 a week in this place respecting the objects? 493 00:28:27,708 --> 00:28:29,710 Because if I do that, I'm gonna throw myself out a window. 494 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:34,310 Repair and Synchronization by Easy Subtitles Synchronizer 1.0.0.0 35532

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