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Oh, there you are.
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Honey, you're gonna have to
stop doing this to yourself.
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We're going to get through
this, Janice, I promise.
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Calvin, you seem
a little distant.
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Is everything okay?
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You know, I've been thinking,
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I've been thinking a
lot about our situation.
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We both know that we can't
have kids of our own.
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No, we tried everything.
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Not quite everything.
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It didn't breaks my heart,
just thinking about it.
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What can we do?
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There's one option left.
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We can consider adoption.
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Janice, there are so many
kids out there who are in need
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of a loving home, and I believe
our home can offer that.
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Are you saying we
can adopt a child?
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Yes, any age you want.
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We've built a strong foundation
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and I believe we
can provide a secure
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and a nurturing environment.
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Plus, we have the space.
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You are right.
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We can definitely make a
difference in a child's life.
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I mean, since we can't
have our own children,
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I'm sure God would want
us to be a blessing
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to another child who's
in need of a home.
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So is that a yes?
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Yes! Yes!
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Let's reach out to
Lita's Adoption Center
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and get this ball rolling.
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Yes, come in.
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Hi, Ms. Bennett.
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Hi.
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Here's Joy's file.
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Thank you so much.
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Waiting on this...
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Excellent.
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New beginnings for Joy.
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All right, Calvin
and Janice Nelson.
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- Hey.
- What's going on?
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- Like your flowers?
- I do. Thank you.
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You are welcome.
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You deserve 'em.
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Thank you.
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- Pretty, ain't they?
- Yeah.
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- Hello?
- Hi, this is Dolores Bennett.
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I'm calling from LAC.
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May I please speak with
Calvin or Janice Nelson?
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This is Calvin.
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You say you're calling
from where again?
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LAC, Lita's Adoption Center.
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Janice, come quickly.
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Yes, Ms. Bennett, both my
wife and I are here right now.
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Awesome.
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Well, I am thrilled
to inform you
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that everything on your
application was approved.
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Am I hearing you correctly?
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Joy is our daughter now?
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Yes, ma'am. She is.
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When can we come get her?
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Gimme a few days to
finalize some paperwork
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and I will call you
to schedule a day
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to pick up your daughter.
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Thank you.
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Thank you so much, Ms. Bennett.
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Yes, thank you, Ms. Bennett.
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We hope to see
you in a few days.
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Okay, bye.
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Bye-bye, see you soon.
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My goodness.
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I cannot believe it.
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We are about to be parents.
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Wow, this is amazing, babe.
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This is so
wonderful, thank you so much.
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We deserve it.
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Yes, we do.
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It is so nice to see you
again, Mr. and Mrs. Nelson.
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It's a pleasure.
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- Good to see you.
- Thank you.
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You know, Joy is truly
a special little girl.
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All God's children
are special.
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But what makes Joy so special?
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Hmm, well, her situation is
different from the other kids
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that are brought here.
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Both of her parents were
killed in an accident.
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Oh, no.
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Yeah, but she has such
an incredible spirit.
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It just shines
through every moment.
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You will see.
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Also your home will
be the first home
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that she'll be moving into
since she's been here.
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So what makes her special
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is her resilience.
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It's simply remarkable.
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And her imagination
knows no limits.
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Her story has touched
our hearts deeply.
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We look forward to showering
her with lots of love
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And welcoming her
into our family.
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We promise to
provide a nurturing
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and supportive environment
for her to grow and blossom.
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Yes.
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Well, if you
are ready for her,
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I'll call and have
them bring her down.
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Yes.
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Alright, let's do it.
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Yes, can you bring Joy down to
my office right away, please?
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Thank you so much.
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She's on the way.
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I can't believe we're
waiting on our daughter,
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Janice, we're going home
today with our daughter.
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Oh.
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Hi.
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Thank you so much.
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Baby.
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Well, Joy, meet your
new mom and dad.
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Hi, I'm Joy.
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I'm your mom and
that's your dad.
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Can I call you
mommy and daddy?
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Yes, sweetheart, of course.
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Thank you for believing in us
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and entrusting us
with Joy's future.
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We will cherish her
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and give her all the
love that she deserves.
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I knew from the very beginning
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that Joy was a perfect
match for your family,
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and I have no doubt
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that you all would take
excellent care of her.
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Congratulations again.
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Thank you.
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Thank you,
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Joy, you ready?
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Yeah.
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All right.
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All right, let's go.
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It's been a pleasure.
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Thank you,
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Honey, how was school today?
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It was okay.
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The look on your
face says otherwise.
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Joy, did something happen?
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It was fine until
they started teasing me.
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Who was teasing
you, and about what?
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The girls in my class keep
saying, I don't have any hair,
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and that's why I
get hair extensions.
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You know there's
no truth to that
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so you shouldn't
let that bother you.
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Sweetie?
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I'll try.
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Oh, don't forget my
birthday invitations.
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They're right here.
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Can I fill them
out when we get home?
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Why don't you
do that tomorrow?
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That'll give you
something to do.
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- Okay.
- Okay.
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I made it.
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What did you make, honey?
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Oh, nothing.
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Hey, good morning, babe.
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Hey.
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Hey.
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Mommy, Daddy, I finished
all my birthday invitations.
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Great job, sweetheart.
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So how many kids
are you inviting?
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I used all the
invitations mommy gave me.
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Huh.
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Janice, how many
invitations did you buy?
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Oh, I just bought two
packs of 24 in each.
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She's inviting
48 little people.
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Not funny, Joy.
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48 isn't a lot, babe.
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That's why it's called a
party with a lot of guests.
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Honey, that's
like a field trip
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with a whole class of second
graders running around.
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Daddy, you can run around
and play with us too.
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Run around and
play with y'all?
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Lemme tell you something:
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If dad starts running, it's
gonna be right out of that door
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until the party is over.
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Daddy? No.
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Then you'd miss all the
noise and all the fun?
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Joy, the noise would be
dad's reason for running out
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of that door in the first
place, okay?
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Listen, you're gonna
have to take some
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of those names off
the list, okay?
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Okay.
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I removed two.
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Honey...
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Here, you can't invite
your whole class.
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Take 10 of these
invitations, okay,
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who you really want to
celebrate with, okay?
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Okay.
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Take those invitations,
give 'em to your mom.
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Alright.
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Here you go.
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Thank you, baby.
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A potential
of some shallow landslides
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and the potential of some
severe thunderstorms.
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So get out the door
right now before noon,
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especially if you
live in the North Bay.
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We're gonna be watching some
severe thunderstorm potential--
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Why are you trying to make
Joy reduce her guest list?
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That's way too many kids
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for a seven year old's party.
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If Joy wanted her whole class
to be at this celebration,
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then why don't we just move
a party to a classroom?
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Because they will
only allow them
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to have a 20 minute
cupcake break,
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and then back to school work.
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Okay, and?
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The problem with that is?
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She's turning seven, not 70.
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Are you serious right now?
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You got it twisted.
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A 70-year-old should have
a 20 minute cupcake party,
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not a 7-year-old.
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They want to run
around and have fun
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and be loud for hours.
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Exactly, and that's what I
don't want here in our house.
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Honey, look, do the math.
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What comes with 48 kids?
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I don't know, gifts?
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48 parents will
arrive with these kids.
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That's 96 guests.
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And that's not even
including our family members.
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I really don't
see the problem.
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It's a party.
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Where is your party spirit?
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It won't be here on that day
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because I'll be the one left
behind having to clean up
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after darn near 100 people.
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So Joy won't be using
nowhere near the amount
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of invitations
that you've bought.
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Whatever.
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I'm serious, Janice,
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You and Joy can go
to church tomorrow.
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Really?
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Another Sunday you won't
be attending church.
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You and I both know they could
care less about them people
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up in that church.
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All they care about
is they tithes,
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and that's all that matters.
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Don't worry, I'll ask God to
forgive you for that comment.
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And while you at it,
don't forget to tell God
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how controlling you trying
to be about Joy's party.
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Goodnight.
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Is mom coming later?
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No, I don't think so.
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Ephesians, chapter
four, verse 32.
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God says, "Be kind
to one another.
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"Forgive one another..."
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The same way God forgave you.
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Because we know that
when the kindness
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and the love of God, our
savior, when He appeared,
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He saved us.
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And not because of
some righteous thing that we had done,
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but because of His mercy.
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Preach.
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So always remember
to pray first
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and to think before reacting
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because God is always watching.
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Amen.
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You too.
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You guys have a blessed weekend
267
00:17:48,515 --> 00:17:50,931
and I will see you next Sunday.
268
00:17:50,966 --> 00:17:51,967
Amen.
269
00:17:56,730 --> 00:17:58,594
That was good, ready to go?
270
00:17:58,629 --> 00:17:59,699
Yep.
271
00:17:59,733 --> 00:18:02,426
Hey, Brother Calvin,
you have a minute?
272
00:18:02,460 --> 00:18:03,358
Sure.
273
00:18:04,048 --> 00:18:05,981
How's everything going?
274
00:18:06,015 --> 00:18:07,914
Everything's fine.
275
00:18:07,948 --> 00:18:09,709
And Sister Janice?
276
00:18:09,743 --> 00:18:11,262
She's fine.
277
00:18:11,297 --> 00:18:13,471
Is there something particularly
you're trying to ask about?
278
00:18:13,506 --> 00:18:15,301
Well, it's just,
I haven't seen her
279
00:18:15,335 --> 00:18:17,889
over the past few
weeks, and you know,
280
00:18:17,924 --> 00:18:19,305
church attendance is everything.
281
00:18:19,339 --> 00:18:20,582
Well, she's fine.
282
00:18:20,616 --> 00:18:22,860
I guess she just wanted
to take a little break.
283
00:18:22,894 --> 00:18:24,172
A break from church?
284
00:18:24,206 --> 00:18:25,414
Yeah.
285
00:18:25,449 --> 00:18:26,312
Well, now you know
God don't want us
286
00:18:26,346 --> 00:18:27,968
taking breaks from church.
287
00:18:28,003 --> 00:18:30,454
Well, you know Janice.
288
00:18:30,488 --> 00:18:34,906
Janice does what she
wants when she wants.
289
00:18:34,941 --> 00:18:36,701
At least Joy and I
here every Sunday.
290
00:18:36,736 --> 00:18:37,909
Daddy, daddy.
291
00:18:37,944 --> 00:18:39,773
Church is like school?
292
00:18:39,808 --> 00:18:42,638
They take attendance too?
293
00:18:42,673 --> 00:18:47,160
Well look at Joy, asking
about church attendance already.
294
00:18:47,195 --> 00:18:49,576
You gotta catch 'em
while they're young.
295
00:18:49,611 --> 00:18:53,062
And yes, attendance in
church is very important.
296
00:18:53,097 --> 00:18:56,894
- Why?
- Well, when you miss church,
297
00:18:56,928 --> 00:18:58,930
you're missing valuable lessons
298
00:18:58,965 --> 00:19:01,278
directly from God's teaching.
299
00:19:01,312 --> 00:19:05,627
I have two teachers,
Ms. Anderson in school,
300
00:19:05,661 --> 00:19:07,111
and one at church.
301
00:19:07,146 --> 00:19:09,078
You have four teachers,
302
00:19:09,113 --> 00:19:11,736
your teacher at
school, your pastor,
303
00:19:11,771 --> 00:19:13,117
your mom and I.
304
00:19:13,152 --> 00:19:14,567
Oh, speaking of your mom,
305
00:19:14,601 --> 00:19:17,915
I think we better be heading
that way pretty soon.
306
00:19:17,949 --> 00:19:19,088
Pastor, have a great week.
307
00:19:19,123 --> 00:19:20,400
See you next Sunday.
308
00:19:20,435 --> 00:19:22,091
Alright, and make sure
you bring the Missus.
309
00:19:22,126 --> 00:19:23,714
I won't forget to invite her.
310
00:19:23,748 --> 00:19:26,510
Now whether she comes or not,
that's totally up to her.
311
00:19:27,856 --> 00:19:28,822
Have a blessed day, Pastor.
312
00:19:28,857 --> 00:19:29,651
Alright, you too.
313
00:19:29,685 --> 00:19:30,445
Stay blessed, brother.
314
00:19:30,479 --> 00:19:31,377
Yes sir.
315
00:19:32,585 --> 00:19:33,206
Praise God.
316
00:19:33,241 --> 00:19:35,381
Great service, right?
317
00:19:36,830 --> 00:19:38,246
Great work.
318
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:39,212
I'm so
glad you enjoyed it.
319
00:19:39,247 --> 00:19:40,420
This is my grand-baby, Summer.
320
00:19:40,455 --> 00:19:42,215
How're
you doing, Summer?
321
00:19:53,295 --> 00:19:55,297
Is that your real hair?
322
00:19:55,332 --> 00:19:57,403
No, it's extensions.
323
00:19:57,437 --> 00:19:59,957
Why do you wear
extensions every day?
324
00:19:59,991 --> 00:20:01,441
Because I like them.
325
00:20:01,476 --> 00:20:04,237
I don't ask you why do you
wear your hair like that?
326
00:20:04,272 --> 00:20:05,445
I know why.
327
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:06,860
She doesn't have any hair.
328
00:20:09,104 --> 00:20:13,212
Is that the reason,
Joy-with-no-hair?
329
00:20:14,937 --> 00:20:17,595
God says we shouldn't judge.
330
00:20:17,630 --> 00:20:20,633
God says, say it with me--
331
00:20:20,667 --> 00:20:23,981
God says
we shouldn't judge.
332
00:20:24,015 --> 00:20:25,948
But we're not judging.
333
00:20:25,983 --> 00:20:27,364
We're stating facts.
334
00:20:27,398 --> 00:20:29,435
You don't have hair.
335
00:20:29,469 --> 00:20:31,230
Just because I have
braids doesn't mean
336
00:20:31,264 --> 00:20:32,955
I don't have hair, Sarah.
337
00:20:32,990 --> 00:20:33,991
Yes it does.
338
00:20:34,025 --> 00:20:35,372
No it doesn't.
339
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,593
- Hey, Mr. Nelson.
- Hey Ms. Brown.
340
00:21:07,645 --> 00:21:09,026
Hey Joy.
341
00:21:09,060 --> 00:21:11,753
- Hi Dad.
- Where's the joy today?
342
00:21:11,787 --> 00:21:16,136
It was okay until Sarah and
Annie started teasing me again
343
00:21:16,171 --> 00:21:18,035
about my braids.
344
00:21:18,069 --> 00:21:20,106
Maybe they like
your hairstyle,
345
00:21:20,140 --> 00:21:21,728
but just don't know
how to show it.
346
00:21:22,591 --> 00:21:24,317
They don't like it, dad.
347
00:21:24,352 --> 00:21:25,836
They were making fun of me
348
00:21:25,870 --> 00:21:28,045
of wearing my
braids all the time.
349
00:21:28,079 --> 00:21:30,530
Well, they don't need to
come to your party then.
350
00:21:30,565 --> 00:21:33,084
We want friendly, happy
kids at your party.
351
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,327
Not troublemakers.
352
00:21:35,777 --> 00:21:37,226
What's funny?
353
00:21:37,261 --> 00:21:39,436
They are
troublemakers in school.
354
00:21:39,470 --> 00:21:41,817
How did you know that, dad?
355
00:21:41,852 --> 00:21:45,165
Oh, I've had my fair share
of troublemakers in life.
356
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,720
Unfortunately, it
won't be your last.
357
00:21:47,754 --> 00:21:50,861
So are you inviting
them to your party?
358
00:21:50,895 --> 00:21:52,000
No.
359
00:21:52,034 --> 00:21:55,590
I didn't invite Sarah or
Annie to my birthday party.
360
00:21:59,352 --> 00:22:01,458
Hey, don't forget
your backpack, honey.
361
00:22:01,492 --> 00:22:03,598
Can we stay in the
car a little longer?
362
00:22:03,632 --> 00:22:05,496
- Why?
- I'm scared.
363
00:22:05,531 --> 00:22:07,256
Scared, of what?
364
00:22:07,291 --> 00:22:09,431
The dog next door.
365
00:22:09,466 --> 00:22:11,813
Oh, she's harmless.
366
00:22:11,847 --> 00:22:14,988
She chases me every
time I get out of the car.
367
00:22:15,023 --> 00:22:16,404
Like she's on a mission.
368
00:22:16,438 --> 00:22:19,061
She doesn't want
to attack you.
369
00:22:19,096 --> 00:22:20,580
She's a friendly dog.
370
00:22:30,832 --> 00:22:33,869
Joy, will you get
out of the car?
371
00:22:34,939 --> 00:22:36,424
Okay.
372
00:22:54,027 --> 00:22:55,719
Did you see that Dad?
373
00:22:55,753 --> 00:22:58,411
She's trying to attack me.
374
00:22:58,446 --> 00:23:01,138
Why can't she stay in her yard?
375
00:23:01,172 --> 00:23:03,485
She's not trying
to attack you.
376
00:23:04,452 --> 00:23:05,798
Get in there.
377
00:23:05,832 --> 00:23:08,248
Okay.
378
00:23:22,055 --> 00:23:25,887
♪ Even if I'm far away, I
think about you every day ♪
379
00:23:25,921 --> 00:23:28,476
♪ And now I just
wish you could stay ♪
380
00:23:28,510 --> 00:23:29,753
♪ For another week or two ♪
381
00:23:29,787 --> 00:23:33,066
♪ I'd take you wherever
you want, girl ♪
382
00:23:37,174 --> 00:23:38,589
I'll get it.
383
00:23:39,866 --> 00:23:41,212
Thanks for managing
the door, Brittany.
384
00:23:41,247 --> 00:23:42,421
You're welcome.
385
00:23:49,428 --> 00:23:50,498
Hi.
386
00:23:54,778 --> 00:23:56,469
Oh, Joy, let's play a game.
387
00:23:56,504 --> 00:23:57,712
What game, Brittany?
388
00:23:57,746 --> 00:23:59,023
The game we always play
389
00:24:00,059 --> 00:24:00,956
This...
390
00:24:41,928 --> 00:24:44,828
Honey, I told you I didn't
want a lot of guests showing up
391
00:24:44,862 --> 00:24:49,142
to Joy's party, but more
and more are showing up.
392
00:24:49,177 --> 00:24:50,385
Can you not?
393
00:24:50,419 --> 00:24:51,697
It's Joy's party.
394
00:24:51,731 --> 00:24:53,353
That's why more
people are coming.
395
00:24:55,528 --> 00:24:57,496
I hear a certain
little one's celebrating
396
00:24:57,530 --> 00:24:59,567
their seventh birthday.
397
00:24:59,601 --> 00:25:00,844
Auntie Kay.
398
00:25:00,878 --> 00:25:03,502
Hey Joy. Happy birthday.
399
00:25:03,536 --> 00:25:05,952
Here, I have something for you.
400
00:25:07,402 --> 00:25:10,163
What is it, Auntie Kay?
401
00:25:10,198 --> 00:25:12,752
Do you wants your Auntie
Kay to tell you what it is?
402
00:25:12,787 --> 00:25:15,721
You go put that gift with
the other gifts and go play.
403
00:25:16,687 --> 00:25:18,240
Thanks Auntie Kay.
404
00:25:18,275 --> 00:25:19,345
I love you.
405
00:25:19,379 --> 00:25:20,933
Oh, I love you too, Joy.
406
00:25:23,142 --> 00:25:25,558
Hey big bro. Hey Janice.
407
00:25:25,593 --> 00:25:26,835
- Hey sis.
- Hey, Kay.
408
00:25:26,870 --> 00:25:28,354
I didn't think you
were gonna make it.
409
00:25:28,388 --> 00:25:31,391
I wouldn't have missed my
niece's party for nothing.
410
00:25:31,426 --> 00:25:32,945
You're such a spoiler.
411
00:25:32,979 --> 00:25:35,568
Now, the rest of y'all's
birthdays,
412
00:25:35,603 --> 00:25:37,052
that's a different story.
413
00:25:38,675 --> 00:25:42,541
Whoa, she had a
really nice turnout.
414
00:25:43,645 --> 00:25:45,302
Too many people.
415
00:25:45,336 --> 00:25:49,133
I specifically told Janice
not to invite a lot of people.
416
00:25:50,928 --> 00:25:54,207
But you completely
disregarded what I said.
417
00:25:55,864 --> 00:25:59,592
Well, I mean, I didn't mean
to start anything, but...
418
00:25:59,627 --> 00:26:02,491
Look, Calvin, I'm not
having this conversation
419
00:26:02,526 --> 00:26:04,804
with you now or later.
420
00:26:04,839 --> 00:26:07,669
This party will go as I plan.
421
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,191
- Sweetie, are you having fun?
- Yes.
422
00:26:13,192 --> 00:26:15,021
But are you my mom happy?
423
00:26:15,056 --> 00:26:16,540
Of course.
424
00:26:16,575 --> 00:26:17,783
Mommy and daddy are just having
425
00:26:17,817 --> 00:26:19,647
a little conversation right now.
426
00:26:20,475 --> 00:26:22,960
About my party isn't it?
427
00:26:22,995 --> 00:26:25,169
Now you go finish
playing with your guests.
428
00:26:25,204 --> 00:26:26,067
Yeah, go have fun.
429
00:26:26,101 --> 00:26:26,792
We're fine.
430
00:26:28,966 --> 00:26:29,864
Okay.
431
00:26:30,968 --> 00:26:34,213
Mommy, are you
excited like I am?
432
00:26:34,247 --> 00:26:35,801
Of course she is.
433
00:26:35,835 --> 00:26:39,390
The party's going
just as she planned.
434
00:26:39,425 --> 00:26:40,702
It's your special day.
435
00:26:40,737 --> 00:26:41,910
Now go have some fun.
436
00:26:50,332 --> 00:26:52,265
Are you happy now, Calvin.
437
00:26:52,300 --> 00:26:54,060
Thanks to you, Joy's upset now.
438
00:27:01,136 --> 00:27:02,586
Who's ready to sing
"Happy Birthday?"
439
00:27:19,361 --> 00:27:22,882
♪ May God bless you ♪
440
00:27:22,917 --> 00:27:26,437
♪ in whatever you do ♪
441
00:27:26,472 --> 00:27:29,924
♪ May God bless you ♪
442
00:27:29,958 --> 00:27:33,548
♪ May on your dreams come true ♪
443
00:27:37,621 --> 00:27:40,348
Which one do you wanna open?
444
00:27:40,382 --> 00:27:41,176
That one?
445
00:27:41,211 --> 00:27:41,901
Okay.
446
00:27:48,218 --> 00:27:49,115
A phone.
447
00:27:50,496 --> 00:27:52,671
Oh wait, who am I gonna call?
448
00:27:52,705 --> 00:27:55,087
I don't have anyone's number.
449
00:27:55,121 --> 00:27:56,951
I'm sure you'll find
someone to talk to.
450
00:27:56,985 --> 00:27:59,539
How about you open
up your next gift.
451
00:27:59,574 --> 00:28:01,990
This is the best
gift ever, Auntie Kay.
452
00:28:03,992 --> 00:28:05,511
You really like that phone?
453
00:28:05,545 --> 00:28:07,616
Now, I don't know
who you gonna call,
454
00:28:07,651 --> 00:28:10,274
but how about you open
up your other gifts.
455
00:28:10,309 --> 00:28:13,450
Can I open my gifts
later and go play?
456
00:28:13,484 --> 00:28:14,382
Sure you can.
457
00:28:15,452 --> 00:28:16,902
Alright!
458
00:28:34,609 --> 00:28:35,714
Calvin.
459
00:28:36,645 --> 00:28:37,785
- Hey.
- Hey.
460
00:28:37,819 --> 00:28:38,889
Thanks for inviting us out.
461
00:28:38,924 --> 00:28:40,132
We really had a good time.
462
00:28:40,166 --> 00:28:42,306
Absolutely, have
a great night.
463
00:28:42,341 --> 00:28:43,307
- Thank you.
- Yep.
464
00:28:53,835 --> 00:28:56,079
Hi, God, it's me, Joy.
465
00:28:57,252 --> 00:29:00,842
Thank you for making
this the best birthday.
466
00:29:02,119 --> 00:29:06,330
Please bless my
dad, my mom, and me.
467
00:29:07,711 --> 00:29:10,610
Oh, and my auntie Kay
for giving me this phone
468
00:29:10,645 --> 00:29:11,784
so I can talk to you.
469
00:29:13,061 --> 00:29:13,959
Amen.
470
00:29:18,170 --> 00:29:20,828
And don't forget to wake
us up tomorrow morning.
471
00:29:22,001 --> 00:29:23,382
Amen.
472
00:29:42,332 --> 00:29:43,782
Just like I thought.
473
00:29:45,335 --> 00:29:47,924
Just like you
thought, what, Calvin?
474
00:29:47,958 --> 00:29:49,339
I can't believe
you still running
475
00:29:49,373 --> 00:29:51,962
around here fussing about
your daughter's party,
476
00:29:51,997 --> 00:29:54,827
which was a success,
if I may add.
477
00:29:54,862 --> 00:29:57,554
We had way too
many guests, Janice.
478
00:29:57,588 --> 00:29:59,038
But you won't admit it
479
00:30:00,108 --> 00:30:01,972
because that's exactly
what you wanted.
480
00:30:02,007 --> 00:30:04,837
It's not about the
number of guests.
481
00:30:04,872 --> 00:30:07,978
It's about Joy's happiness.
482
00:30:08,013 --> 00:30:10,809
Why did a 7-year-old
need to invite
483
00:30:10,843 --> 00:30:13,052
so many kids to a party?
484
00:30:13,087 --> 00:30:15,365
We will not be throwing
enormous parties
485
00:30:15,399 --> 00:30:17,608
like that every year
486
00:30:17,643 --> 00:30:20,163
Until Joy is 18,
487
00:30:20,197 --> 00:30:23,269
her parties will always
be planned my way.
488
00:30:23,304 --> 00:30:25,547
And the sooner you get
that through your head,
489
00:30:25,582 --> 00:30:27,549
the better off we'll be.
490
00:30:41,529 --> 00:30:43,807
You want to throw
these extravagant parties,
491
00:30:43,842 --> 00:30:45,809
then you handle the aftermath.
492
00:30:45,844 --> 00:30:49,364
I am done for having a
clean up after everyone.
493
00:30:49,399 --> 00:30:54,438
And you've got the nerve to
be laying in bed, relaxing.
494
00:30:54,473 --> 00:30:55,543
Hi God.
495
00:30:55,577 --> 00:30:57,717
It's me, Joy.
496
00:30:57,752 --> 00:31:02,067
I don't think Dad was happy
about my birthday party today.
497
00:31:02,101 --> 00:31:04,828
They argued a lot.
498
00:31:04,863 --> 00:31:06,243
A whole lot.
499
00:31:06,278 --> 00:31:10,696
Please make them stop fussing
and be kind to each other.
500
00:31:10,730 --> 00:31:12,042
Amen.
501
00:31:25,090 --> 00:31:29,163
- No help from you whatsoever.
- Are you done?
502
00:31:40,450 --> 00:31:41,313
Good morning, Joy.
503
00:31:51,219 --> 00:31:55,154
Who is that 7-year-old
big girl in my kitchen?
504
00:31:57,674 --> 00:32:00,919
Joy, what's wrong?
505
00:32:00,953 --> 00:32:04,819
I thought my birthday
party would be special.
506
00:32:04,853 --> 00:32:09,134
- It was special.
- No it wasn't.
507
00:32:09,168 --> 00:32:11,308
Why do you feel that
it wasn't special?
508
00:32:11,343 --> 00:32:13,724
You had a lot of
people that came out
509
00:32:13,759 --> 00:32:15,243
to your party to celebrate you.
510
00:32:16,382 --> 00:32:18,522
'Cause I heard
you and Dad arguing
511
00:32:18,557 --> 00:32:21,940
about too many people
being here the whole time.
512
00:32:23,182 --> 00:32:26,530
Your dad just has some
things to get used to,
513
00:32:26,565 --> 00:32:27,635
don't you, dad?
514
00:32:29,223 --> 00:32:32,812
Joy, you know your dad has
never lied to you before,
515
00:32:32,847 --> 00:32:34,504
and I'm not about to start now.
516
00:32:35,746 --> 00:32:36,575
Dad felt like--
517
00:32:36,609 --> 00:32:37,507
Calvin don't.
518
00:32:39,129 --> 00:32:42,305
There were way too many
people at your party yesterday
519
00:32:42,339 --> 00:32:45,101
and that was a discussion
between mom and dad.
520
00:32:45,135 --> 00:32:46,723
We didn't mean to upset you.
521
00:32:46,757 --> 00:32:49,105
If you hadn't made
such a big deal about it,
522
00:32:49,139 --> 00:32:50,865
she be sad this morning.
523
00:32:50,899 --> 00:32:53,143
This is all your fault.
524
00:32:53,178 --> 00:32:55,594
Let's go, Joy, so
you won't be late.
525
00:32:55,628 --> 00:32:58,631
Grab your backpack, your
lunchbox, and let's go.
526
00:33:04,154 --> 00:33:05,742
Learn something
new today, baby,
527
00:33:05,776 --> 00:33:07,502
and have a great day.
528
00:33:07,537 --> 00:33:09,056
Okay, I will.
529
00:33:09,090 --> 00:33:10,574
Bye, mommy.
530
00:33:10,609 --> 00:33:13,232
Especially if Sarah and Annie
don't come to school today.
531
00:33:15,234 --> 00:33:16,304
I know, right?
532
00:33:16,339 --> 00:33:17,719
Reading that was super-cool.
533
00:33:17,754 --> 00:33:19,480
That story was awesome.
534
00:33:19,514 --> 00:33:21,482
Look, Annie, her
hair's in the same style.
535
00:33:21,516 --> 00:33:24,864
Are you surprised that's
the only style she wear?
536
00:33:24,899 --> 00:33:27,729
Don't you guys have
something better to talk about?
537
00:33:27,764 --> 00:33:29,593
Yeah, a new hairstyle for you.
538
00:33:29,628 --> 00:33:32,734
God, please make
them stop teasing me.
539
00:33:32,769 --> 00:33:33,770
Let's go.
540
00:33:53,376 --> 00:33:56,689
Today we'll be talking
about exploring change.
541
00:33:56,724 --> 00:33:59,727
Change means when
something becomes different
542
00:33:59,761 --> 00:34:01,591
or something new happens.
543
00:34:01,625 --> 00:34:04,594
For example, has anyone
seen a caterpillar
544
00:34:04,628 --> 00:34:06,182
change into a butterfly?
545
00:34:07,010 --> 00:34:08,667
Yes.
546
00:34:08,701 --> 00:34:11,532
Can anyone else give me
an example of a change?
547
00:34:12,533 --> 00:34:13,430
Caleb?
548
00:34:13,465 --> 00:34:14,949
We used to live
in an apartment.
549
00:34:14,983 --> 00:34:16,709
Now we live in a house.
550
00:34:16,744 --> 00:34:17,986
Yes. Very good.
551
00:34:18,021 --> 00:34:19,643
That is a form of change.
552
00:34:19,678 --> 00:34:21,369
Anyone else?
553
00:34:21,404 --> 00:34:22,750
Sarah?
554
00:34:22,784 --> 00:34:25,960
If Joy changes her hair
from braids to another style,
555
00:34:25,994 --> 00:34:27,582
would that be a form of change?
556
00:34:30,413 --> 00:34:34,141
Yes, that would be a change.
557
00:34:34,175 --> 00:34:36,004
But Sarah, that's not
the form of change
558
00:34:36,039 --> 00:34:37,454
that we're exploring today.
559
00:34:38,593 --> 00:34:41,217
Okay, who wants to
help pass out homework?
560
00:34:42,839 --> 00:34:44,185
Thanks, Joy.
561
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,396
Tonight, your homework
is on critical thinking.
562
00:34:48,431 --> 00:34:50,605
I want you guys to
use your imaginations
563
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,540
and write out two ways
in which it can change.
564
00:34:54,575 --> 00:34:57,681
You can even draw pictures
to make it more fun.
565
00:34:57,716 --> 00:35:00,201
Now you guys are dismissed.
566
00:35:28,402 --> 00:35:33,131
- What's wrong?
- That dog. She's so mean.
567
00:35:33,959 --> 00:35:36,237
She's always chasing me.
568
00:35:36,272 --> 00:35:38,929
That dog is not
mean.
569
00:35:38,964 --> 00:35:40,414
I have to run
back to the office
570
00:35:40,448 --> 00:35:42,105
to grab a file I've
been working on.
571
00:35:42,140 --> 00:35:43,555
I'll be back shortly, okay?
572
00:35:43,589 --> 00:35:44,625
Okay.
573
00:35:44,659 --> 00:35:46,040
Well, Joy, don't
get too comfortable.
574
00:35:46,074 --> 00:35:47,386
I need to run to the store.
575
00:35:47,421 --> 00:35:50,665
Can I stay here, please?
576
00:35:50,700 --> 00:35:53,910
No, you're too young
to stay home by yourself.
577
00:35:53,944 --> 00:35:55,325
I promise.
578
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,327
I'll go in my room
and lock the door.
579
00:35:57,362 --> 00:35:59,295
I won't come out
until you return.
580
00:36:00,399 --> 00:36:02,850
Don't be silly.
The answer is no.
581
00:36:02,884 --> 00:36:03,816
So let's go.
582
00:36:04,645 --> 00:36:06,405
Okay.
583
00:36:12,894 --> 00:36:14,413
Unlock the car, mom.
584
00:36:23,905 --> 00:36:24,906
Hello?
585
00:36:24,941 --> 00:36:25,907
Hello, Calvin?
586
00:36:25,942 --> 00:36:27,461
This is the Pastor.
587
00:36:27,495 --> 00:36:30,947
I was calling to check
in with Sister Janice.
588
00:36:30,981 --> 00:36:33,052
She's not here
right now, Pastor.
589
00:36:33,087 --> 00:36:35,917
Okay, well let her know
590
00:36:35,952 --> 00:36:39,058
we miss seeing her at church.
591
00:36:39,093 --> 00:36:41,095
Daddy, we're back.
592
00:36:41,129 --> 00:36:45,962
Oh wait, Pastor, you are
in luck, she just walked in.
593
00:36:45,996 --> 00:36:46,687
Hold on a second.
594
00:36:48,102 --> 00:36:48,999
It's for you.
595
00:36:56,835 --> 00:36:58,181
Hello?
596
00:36:58,216 --> 00:37:01,219
Hello, Janice,
it's the Pastor.
597
00:37:03,186 --> 00:37:04,256
How are you?
598
00:37:05,188 --> 00:37:06,983
I'm well, and you?
599
00:37:07,949 --> 00:37:08,881
God is good.
600
00:37:12,057 --> 00:37:13,300
Is everything okay?
601
00:37:15,267 --> 00:37:16,544
I'm fine.
602
00:37:18,477 --> 00:37:20,445
Did you need to
speak back to Calvin?
603
00:37:20,479 --> 00:37:22,585
Actually, I wanted
to chat with you.
604
00:37:24,656 --> 00:37:28,176
I haven't seen you in church
over the past several weeks.
605
00:37:28,211 --> 00:37:29,592
I can't be missed, Pastor.
606
00:37:29,626 --> 00:37:32,629
You have a whole congregation
to keep you busy.
607
00:37:32,664 --> 00:37:34,390
That's true.
608
00:37:34,424 --> 00:37:38,497
But when members' attendance
start going off course,
609
00:37:38,532 --> 00:37:40,534
I need to find out why.
610
00:37:42,639 --> 00:37:46,298
Is there a reason why you
haven't attended church?
611
00:37:48,162 --> 00:37:50,371
I appreciate your
concern, Pastor,
612
00:37:51,648 --> 00:37:54,272
but I'm just not in the
mood for church right now.
613
00:37:55,100 --> 00:37:59,277
Oh, I see.
614
00:38:01,865 --> 00:38:04,489
That's more reason for
you to join us every week.
615
00:38:05,731 --> 00:38:08,251
You know, church can
be a source of comfort
616
00:38:08,286 --> 00:38:11,737
and strength during
challenging times.
617
00:38:11,772 --> 00:38:15,293
I never said I was facing
anything challenging.
618
00:38:15,327 --> 00:38:18,882
You know, okay, thank
you for calling, Pastor.
619
00:38:20,367 --> 00:38:22,092
Well, our doors
are always open
620
00:38:22,127 --> 00:38:22,990
if you need to talk.
621
00:38:24,474 --> 00:38:26,787
Will we see you Sunday?
622
00:38:26,821 --> 00:38:28,513
I'll try.
623
00:38:29,755 --> 00:38:31,067
Alright. Bye-bye.
624
00:38:36,175 --> 00:38:37,763
Hi God.
625
00:38:37,798 --> 00:38:39,524
It's me, Joy.
626
00:38:39,558 --> 00:38:42,043
My mom talked to
the pastor today
627
00:38:42,078 --> 00:38:45,771
and I can tell she wasn't
very happy with him
628
00:38:45,806 --> 00:38:48,326
or my dad for giving
her the phone.
629
00:38:49,327 --> 00:38:51,363
Do you know what's
wrong with her?
630
00:38:51,398 --> 00:38:53,469
Please touch her with kindness.
631
00:38:54,159 --> 00:38:55,540
Amen.
632
00:39:12,315 --> 00:39:15,076
Why did you put me on a
spot like that the other day?
633
00:39:15,111 --> 00:39:17,631
- Like what?
- With our pastor?
634
00:39:18,425 --> 00:39:20,634
Well, he is our pastor.
635
00:39:20,668 --> 00:39:23,913
Exactly, at church,
not in my kitchen.
636
00:39:25,604 --> 00:39:27,503
Do you even hear
yourself right now?
637
00:39:28,504 --> 00:39:31,955
The question is,
do you hear me?
638
00:39:31,990 --> 00:39:33,163
Don't do that again.
639
00:39:33,198 --> 00:39:37,858
If I wanna speak with the
pastor, I'll contact him
640
00:39:37,892 --> 00:39:42,690
until then, all his future
calls are for your ears only.
641
00:39:43,622 --> 00:39:46,280
What has gotten into you?
642
00:39:46,314 --> 00:39:48,351
You're short-tempered with me.
643
00:39:48,386 --> 00:39:50,388
You're not attending church,
644
00:39:50,422 --> 00:39:53,183
and now you are rude
towards the pastor.
645
00:39:54,461 --> 00:39:57,256
We used to be a team, Janice.
646
00:39:57,291 --> 00:39:59,327
If I don't wanna sit here
647
00:39:59,362 --> 00:40:01,744
and listen to his lectures,
648
00:40:01,778 --> 00:40:04,712
what makes you think I wanna
sit here and listen to yours?
649
00:40:13,031 --> 00:40:13,928
God.
650
00:40:17,656 --> 00:40:21,695
God, I know prayer unlocks
the door of patience.
651
00:40:24,801 --> 00:40:25,802
So I'm praying.
652
00:40:26,941 --> 00:40:29,288
I'm praying that you
unlock those doors
653
00:40:29,323 --> 00:40:31,877
of patience right now, Dear God.
654
00:40:33,396 --> 00:40:37,227
Please, unlock those
doors of patience.
655
00:40:48,307 --> 00:40:51,379
Daddy, you pray by yourself.
656
00:40:51,414 --> 00:40:52,139
I do.
657
00:40:53,485 --> 00:40:56,523
We all should pray to God,
whether we're by ourselves
658
00:40:56,557 --> 00:40:57,938
or in a group.
659
00:40:59,111 --> 00:41:02,460
- Can I tell you a secret?
- Sure you can, sweetie.
660
00:41:02,494 --> 00:41:03,771
I pray to God too.
661
00:41:03,806 --> 00:41:07,810
Aw, that's nothing to be
ashamed about, sweetheart,
662
00:41:07,844 --> 00:41:10,882
and I know God is
very happy with you,
663
00:41:10,916 --> 00:41:14,230
But he doesn't
tell me he's happy.
664
00:41:14,264 --> 00:41:16,025
Does God only talk to adults?
665
00:41:16,991 --> 00:41:17,992
Oh no, sweetie.
666
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:21,858
God is here for everyone
667
00:41:21,893 --> 00:41:25,483
and he talks to us in
his own unique way.
668
00:41:25,517 --> 00:41:27,692
He has the whole
world to listen to.
669
00:41:28,796 --> 00:41:30,798
He'll get to your prayer soon.
670
00:41:30,833 --> 00:41:35,872
But remember, you
must keep the faith.
671
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:38,634
I love you daddy,
and I love mommy too.
672
00:41:38,668 --> 00:41:40,187
And how much do we love you
673
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:42,983
This much.
674
00:41:51,543 --> 00:41:52,820
Amen.
675
00:41:58,136 --> 00:41:58,930
Mom.
676
00:41:58,964 --> 00:42:00,172
Yes.
677
00:42:00,207 --> 00:42:02,589
Did kids ever tease you
when you were in school?
678
00:42:03,624 --> 00:42:07,525
I faced my fair share
of teasing back then.
679
00:42:07,559 --> 00:42:08,836
You're so strong.
680
00:42:08,871 --> 00:42:10,562
How did you deal with it?
681
00:42:10,597 --> 00:42:11,943
I didn't.
682
00:42:11,977 --> 00:42:14,566
That's why I'm not taking
any crap off anyone.
683
00:42:14,601 --> 00:42:16,844
Honey, do you have
to use that word?
684
00:42:18,018 --> 00:42:18,812
What word?
685
00:42:18,846 --> 00:42:19,916
Crap.
686
00:42:19,951 --> 00:42:21,849
Joy's already dealing
with problems in school.
687
00:42:21,884 --> 00:42:24,162
Now it's the time
to toughen her up.
688
00:42:24,196 --> 00:42:26,889
She's going to hear and see
more than that in the streets.
689
00:42:26,923 --> 00:42:29,408
Then let her hear
it in the streets.
690
00:42:29,443 --> 00:42:31,583
If Joy having issues at school,
691
00:42:31,618 --> 00:42:34,172
our home should be a
positive place for her.
692
00:42:35,967 --> 00:42:38,556
Over the years, I have
learned that standing up
693
00:42:38,590 --> 00:42:40,972
for yourself is vital.
694
00:42:41,006 --> 00:42:43,940
I wanna be just like
mommy when I grow up.
695
00:42:47,737 --> 00:42:50,775
You should want to be
like Joy when you grow up.
696
00:42:50,809 --> 00:42:52,742
God wants us to
be like ourselves.
697
00:42:54,088 --> 00:42:58,127
Dad, I don't think God
would mind if I'm like mommy.
698
00:42:58,161 --> 00:42:59,577
That's my girl.
699
00:43:02,476 --> 00:43:04,098
Hurry up and eat
your food, okay?
700
00:43:05,513 --> 00:43:06,963
Alright.
701
00:43:06,998 --> 00:43:07,792
You done?
702
00:43:07,826 --> 00:43:08,896
Yeah.
703
00:43:08,931 --> 00:43:11,209
Okay, go ahead and
get ready for bed.
704
00:43:11,243 --> 00:43:12,348
Alright?
705
00:43:12,382 --> 00:43:13,038
All right.
706
00:43:19,942 --> 00:43:22,565
You and I both know
that child doesn't need
707
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:25,154
to be following
in your footsteps.
708
00:43:25,188 --> 00:43:26,880
What's the problem now.
709
00:43:26,914 --> 00:43:28,985
You wanna argue because
she wants to be like me?
710
00:43:29,020 --> 00:43:32,023
No, Janice, what bothered
me is that you couldn't handle
711
00:43:32,057 --> 00:43:34,922
this conversation in a
more positive manner.
712
00:43:36,959 --> 00:43:41,791
We are having a dinner
conversation in our home,
713
00:43:42,965 --> 00:43:45,070
not in our office group
counseling session.
714
00:43:52,422 --> 00:43:55,494
Hi God, it's me, Joy.
715
00:43:55,529 --> 00:43:57,911
Can you get between
mommy and daddy
716
00:43:57,945 --> 00:44:01,708
and stop them from
fussing right now?
717
00:44:01,742 --> 00:44:04,711
I really want them to be happy.
718
00:44:04,745 --> 00:44:06,333
Goodnight, God.
719
00:44:07,955 --> 00:44:08,715
Amen.
720
00:44:29,943 --> 00:44:31,289
Ahh.
721
00:44:36,190 --> 00:44:37,088
Good morning.
722
00:44:37,122 --> 00:44:38,952
Good morning, how's it going?
723
00:44:38,986 --> 00:44:40,263
Good to see you, man.
724
00:44:40,298 --> 00:44:41,748
Hi God.
725
00:44:41,782 --> 00:44:45,752
How come I'm the only one
my neighbor's dog chases?
726
00:44:54,105 --> 00:44:56,176
Hey honey, are
you ready to go?
727
00:44:56,210 --> 00:44:57,833
Yep.
728
00:44:57,867 --> 00:45:01,526
- I don't wanna go to school.
- Are you feeling okay?
729
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,045
Yeah.
730
00:45:03,079 --> 00:45:04,702
Then why don't you
want to go to school?
731
00:45:04,736 --> 00:45:06,255
'Cause of Annie and Sarah.
732
00:45:06,289 --> 00:45:09,016
Honey, you're going to
have to learn to ignore them.
733
00:45:24,963 --> 00:45:25,861
Listen, I need
to ask a question.
734
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,864
How many of you have
ever prayed to God
735
00:45:30,175 --> 00:45:32,246
and you felt like you
didn't get an answer?
736
00:45:34,352 --> 00:45:38,183
That doesn't mean that God
doesn't hear your prayers.
737
00:45:38,218 --> 00:45:42,015
Listen, the same way he enjoys
us coming into the house
738
00:45:42,049 --> 00:45:45,466
of the Lord, he also
enjoys seeing us come
739
00:45:45,501 --> 00:45:47,330
together in prayers.
740
00:45:48,884 --> 00:45:50,506
Listen, I need you to get this.
741
00:45:51,990 --> 00:45:56,754
In Matthews, the 18th
chapter, the 20th verse--
742
00:45:57,927 --> 00:45:59,687
Is Mommy coming to
church with us anymore?
743
00:45:59,722 --> 00:46:01,206
Of course she will, sweetie.
744
00:46:01,241 --> 00:46:03,105
Just pay attention yo the pastor
so we don't miss anything.
745
00:46:03,139 --> 00:46:06,211
I'm there among them, meaning,
746
00:46:06,246 --> 00:46:09,663
when two or more come
together in agreement,
747
00:46:09,697 --> 00:46:11,941
whatever they ask will be done.
748
00:46:16,394 --> 00:46:17,602
Listen, I'm your pastor,
749
00:46:17,636 --> 00:46:21,537
so listen, sometimes we got
to think outside the box
750
00:46:21,571 --> 00:46:26,784
and think of a more creative
approach to discovering God.
751
00:46:28,233 --> 00:46:32,237
I mean, God made it very clear
in Matthews 18, didn't he?
752
00:46:32,272 --> 00:46:33,342
Are you okay?
753
00:46:33,376 --> 00:46:34,170
So listen,
I'm your pastor--
754
00:46:34,205 --> 00:46:35,413
Yes.
755
00:46:35,447 --> 00:46:36,724
So what I'm
encouraging you to do is--
756
00:46:36,759 --> 00:46:38,416
Are we going straight
home after this?
757
00:46:38,450 --> 00:46:41,177
Unless there's somewhere
else you would like to go.
758
00:46:41,212 --> 00:46:42,351
No.
759
00:46:42,385 --> 00:46:44,698
Circle and see what
it does in your life.
760
00:46:44,732 --> 00:46:45,595
Amen?
761
00:46:45,630 --> 00:46:46,734
Amen.
762
00:46:48,598 --> 00:46:51,153
Mommy, can we play dress up?
763
00:46:51,187 --> 00:46:53,017
Not now, Joy. I'm busy.
764
00:46:54,225 --> 00:46:56,848
Oh, daddy always
plays with me.
765
00:46:56,883 --> 00:46:59,540
You never play with me.
766
00:46:59,575 --> 00:47:03,821
That's what daddies
are supposed to do, okay?
767
00:47:08,032 --> 00:47:10,068
Joy, I'll play with you.
768
00:47:10,103 --> 00:47:11,207
Yay.
769
00:47:11,242 --> 00:47:13,796
So what do you wanna play?
770
00:47:13,831 --> 00:47:16,730
Hmm, dress up.
771
00:47:16,764 --> 00:47:18,318
Dress up.
772
00:47:18,352 --> 00:47:22,909
Okay, that sounds like a
lot of fun and easy to do.
773
00:47:22,943 --> 00:47:24,255
I tell you what,
why don't you go
774
00:47:24,289 --> 00:47:25,981
to your room and get dressed.
775
00:47:26,015 --> 00:47:27,568
I'll go to my room
and get dressed.
776
00:47:27,603 --> 00:47:28,880
Okay.
777
00:47:28,915 --> 00:47:29,536
And we'll meet
up in the hallway.
778
00:47:29,570 --> 00:47:31,262
Alright.
779
00:47:31,296 --> 00:47:31,987
Alright.
780
00:47:33,954 --> 00:47:37,785
- Daddy, are you almost ready?
- Almost.
781
00:47:37,820 --> 00:47:38,890
Okay.
782
00:47:41,686 --> 00:47:43,239
On the count of three.
783
00:47:43,274 --> 00:47:45,552
One, two, three.
784
00:47:47,899 --> 00:47:49,487
We did it, Joy, we look good.
785
00:47:50,902 --> 00:47:54,147
No, no, daddy, you
put on the wrong outfit.
786
00:47:54,181 --> 00:47:56,908
What do you mean I
put on the wrong outfit?
787
00:47:56,943 --> 00:47:58,945
This is my dress up outfit.
788
00:48:01,085 --> 00:48:02,465
Church, not in the house.
789
00:48:03,604 --> 00:48:05,606
I have to dress you now.
790
00:48:05,641 --> 00:48:07,643
Okay, go pick out my outfit.
791
00:48:19,137 --> 00:48:20,898
Huh, that feels awkward
792
00:48:27,594 --> 00:48:29,492
Are you finished yet?
793
00:48:29,527 --> 00:48:32,323
One second. No. Peaking.
794
00:48:32,357 --> 00:48:33,186
Okay.
795
00:48:34,083 --> 00:48:37,052
♪ Take a holiday ♪
796
00:48:37,086 --> 00:48:38,639
♪ Where you hide away ♪
797
00:48:40,469 --> 00:48:41,539
Three, two, one.
798
00:48:44,749 --> 00:48:46,164
Tada!
799
00:48:46,199 --> 00:48:48,132
Joy, what did you do?
800
00:48:50,030 --> 00:48:51,583
Dress up, daddy.
801
00:48:53,344 --> 00:48:54,172
Come here.
802
00:48:55,933 --> 00:48:58,142
Dinner's ready.
803
00:49:04,424 --> 00:49:08,462
Get back
here.
804
00:49:10,188 --> 00:49:12,363
Joy, go wash your hands.
805
00:49:12,397 --> 00:49:13,847
Okay.
806
00:49:13,881 --> 00:49:15,228
I'm gonna get you later.
807
00:49:16,884 --> 00:49:19,715
Calvin, you look crazy.
808
00:49:19,749 --> 00:49:23,098
Change your clothes before
you sit at the table with us.
809
00:49:24,927 --> 00:49:27,067
It's called playing.
810
00:49:29,207 --> 00:49:32,383
If you spent more time with
Joy, you would understand
811
00:49:32,417 --> 00:49:35,282
what parents would do for the
sake of that kid's happiness.
812
00:49:35,317 --> 00:49:37,905
Happiness, looking like that?
813
00:49:37,940 --> 00:49:39,321
What is wrong with you?
814
00:49:43,049 --> 00:49:44,982
We'll finish this
conversation later.
815
00:50:17,324 --> 00:50:19,326
So now you're tired from running
816
00:50:19,361 --> 00:50:21,777
around here earlier
looking crazy.
817
00:50:21,811 --> 00:50:23,158
Let it go, Janice.
818
00:50:23,192 --> 00:50:24,883
I'm trying to go to sleep.
819
00:50:24,918 --> 00:50:26,816
I will not.
820
00:50:26,851 --> 00:50:31,166
Did you think it was cute to
let our 7-year-old daughter
821
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,340
put a robe on you,
822
00:50:34,514 --> 00:50:38,276
a wig on your head, and
lip gloss on your lips?
823
00:50:40,899 --> 00:50:43,109
Do you know how to parent?
824
00:50:43,143 --> 00:50:46,595
Don't you ever question
my parenting skills.
825
00:50:46,629 --> 00:50:49,080
You need to be
asking yourself that.
826
00:50:49,115 --> 00:50:50,840
Or maybe you are
the one who needs
827
00:50:50,875 --> 00:50:52,532
to be taking parenting classes.
828
00:50:52,566 --> 00:50:55,155
Look, all she wanted
to do was play dress up
829
00:50:55,190 --> 00:50:56,156
with her mom.
830
00:50:56,191 --> 00:50:57,951
As in you, Janice.
831
00:50:57,985 --> 00:50:59,297
You turned her down.
832
00:50:59,332 --> 00:51:01,230
What was I supposed to do?
833
00:51:01,265 --> 00:51:04,751
What were you supposed to do?
834
00:51:04,785 --> 00:51:07,650
I can tell you what you
weren't supposed to do,
835
00:51:07,685 --> 00:51:12,138
and that was to not
let a 7-year-old put a wig on your head
836
00:51:12,172 --> 00:51:14,312
and lip gloss on your lips.
837
00:51:16,142 --> 00:51:18,627
Maybe if you learn
to set aside some time
838
00:51:18,661 --> 00:51:21,147
to be more involved in Joy's
life, then maybe I wouldn't
839
00:51:21,181 --> 00:51:23,632
have to play both
Daddy and mommy.
840
00:51:27,325 --> 00:51:31,191
Hi God, it's me,
Joy, and my dolls.
841
00:51:31,226 --> 00:51:34,401
We're asking for miracles.
842
00:51:34,436 --> 00:51:38,129
There are things going on in
my life that need to change.
843
00:51:39,234 --> 00:51:41,167
Daddy and I played
a fun game today,
844
00:51:41,201 --> 00:51:44,239
but mommy is so upset with him.
845
00:51:44,273 --> 00:51:46,448
Please make mommy's heart nicer.
846
00:51:47,725 --> 00:51:51,073
God, I know you can hear
them all the way in heaven
847
00:51:51,108 --> 00:51:53,282
because there's
so loud right now.
848
00:51:54,076 --> 00:51:56,492
Fix them, God, please.
849
00:51:57,942 --> 00:51:59,392
Goodnight God.
850
00:51:59,426 --> 00:52:00,427
Amen.
851
00:52:03,810 --> 00:52:06,053
Years ago, men used to not be
852
00:52:06,088 --> 00:52:07,917
as engaged in their
children's lives
853
00:52:07,952 --> 00:52:10,851
and they would leave
everything to the mother to do.
854
00:52:12,198 --> 00:52:13,682
And I'm making sure
that you're involved
855
00:52:13,716 --> 00:52:16,892
in our daughter's life
and not leaving everything
856
00:52:16,926 --> 00:52:18,514
on me to do.
857
00:52:18,549 --> 00:52:20,620
I could say the
same thing, Janice.
858
00:52:21,828 --> 00:52:25,452
Years ago, moms used to
be extremely involved
859
00:52:25,487 --> 00:52:28,524
in their little girl's
lives, no matter what.
860
00:52:28,559 --> 00:52:33,150
I love Joy and I would
do anything for her,
861
00:52:33,184 --> 00:52:35,186
such as you should.
862
00:52:35,221 --> 00:52:37,775
But you wanna blame
me and punish me
863
00:52:37,809 --> 00:52:40,847
for other dad's lack of doing.
864
00:52:40,881 --> 00:52:44,678
That is not my situation
here and it'll never be.
865
00:52:44,713 --> 00:52:47,336
I know it won't because
I'm making sure of it.
866
00:52:49,304 --> 00:52:52,099
I am not tired of
doing everything for Joy.
867
00:52:52,134 --> 00:52:55,102
But what I am tired of
is having to watch her
868
00:52:55,137 --> 00:52:59,072
go through life as if
she only has one parent.
869
00:52:59,106 --> 00:53:00,660
Look, Janice, you're here,
870
00:53:00,694 --> 00:53:03,421
but you're not here
when it comes to Joy
871
00:53:03,456 --> 00:53:06,907
and that stops right
here and right now.
872
00:53:06,942 --> 00:53:08,357
Can't take this anymore.
873
00:53:11,153 --> 00:53:13,431
Where are you going?
874
00:53:14,432 --> 00:53:16,745
Calvin, what are you doing?
875
00:53:17,953 --> 00:53:19,437
Calvin.
876
00:53:19,472 --> 00:53:22,406
Calvin, why are you
packing your clothes?
877
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,649
Calvin, what are you
doing, what are you doing?
878
00:53:25,823 --> 00:53:28,481
Calvin, what are you doing?
879
00:53:32,278 --> 00:53:34,556
Calvin, what are you doing?
880
00:53:35,453 --> 00:53:37,110
Where are you going?
881
00:53:37,144 --> 00:53:38,318
What are you doing?
882
00:53:38,353 --> 00:53:40,700
What are you doing?
883
00:53:40,734 --> 00:53:44,911
I love you, Janice,
more than anything,
884
00:53:44,945 --> 00:53:46,775
and I love Joy too.
885
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:53,022
That little girl's been
through so much prior
886
00:53:53,057 --> 00:53:54,369
to us adopting her.
887
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,165
I can't continue to
have her watch us fuss
888
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,306
and fight every day.
889
00:54:01,099 --> 00:54:02,308
So I'm leaving.
890
00:54:03,343 --> 00:54:05,483
I'll be back for
my things later.
891
00:54:06,864 --> 00:54:10,488
God, God blessed us, babe.
892
00:54:10,523 --> 00:54:14,251
He blessed us with a opportunity
to raise that little girl,
893
00:54:14,285 --> 00:54:15,838
our only child.
894
00:54:16,874 --> 00:54:19,463
We will not fail Joy,
895
00:54:20,740 --> 00:54:24,571
and most importantly,
disappoint God.
896
00:54:29,404 --> 00:54:32,890
Calvin, please,
please don't go.
897
00:54:32,924 --> 00:54:35,272
I need you.
898
00:54:35,306 --> 00:54:37,895
We need you.
899
00:54:37,929 --> 00:54:39,103
Calvin, I'm sorry.
900
00:54:55,084 --> 00:54:56,534
What have I done?
901
00:54:58,571 --> 00:55:01,677
God, bring Calvin
back to us, please.
902
00:55:15,898 --> 00:55:16,899
Joy.
903
00:55:16,934 --> 00:55:17,866
Yeah.
904
00:55:17,900 --> 00:55:18,867
You wanna help
Mommy bake cookies.
905
00:55:18,901 --> 00:55:20,938
Ooh, cookies.
906
00:55:20,972 --> 00:55:21,939
Yes, mommy.
907
00:55:21,973 --> 00:55:22,871
Come on.
908
00:55:27,082 --> 00:55:28,083
You wanna put 'em in?
909
00:55:28,117 --> 00:55:28,911
Yep.
910
00:55:28,946 --> 00:55:30,534
Okay.
911
00:55:35,435 --> 00:55:36,505
Good job.
912
00:55:37,403 --> 00:55:38,196
Let's see if it's done.
913
00:55:38,231 --> 00:55:40,026
Yep.
914
00:55:40,060 --> 00:55:43,132
Ooh, they smell delicious.
915
00:55:43,167 --> 00:55:44,824
Be careful, mommy. It's hot.
916
00:55:44,858 --> 00:55:46,412
Okay. Okay.
917
00:55:46,446 --> 00:55:47,516
All right.
918
00:55:51,969 --> 00:55:53,453
Daddy.
919
00:55:53,488 --> 00:55:56,283
- Hey sweetie.
- Do you want a cookie?
920
00:55:56,318 --> 00:55:57,802
I would love one.
921
00:55:57,837 --> 00:56:02,531
I'll take one cookie from
you and a cookie from mommy.
922
00:56:03,083 --> 00:56:03,636
Alrighty.
923
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,121
Here you go.
924
00:56:06,155 --> 00:56:07,398
Thank you.
925
00:56:09,020 --> 00:56:09,883
I'm sorry.
926
00:56:14,888 --> 00:56:15,855
Joy.
927
00:56:15,889 --> 00:56:16,856
Yes.
928
00:56:16,890 --> 00:56:17,822
Hurry up, sweetie.
929
00:56:17,857 --> 00:56:19,479
We don't want to
be late for church.
930
00:56:19,514 --> 00:56:20,653
Okay.
931
00:56:25,554 --> 00:56:26,935
You look nice.
932
00:56:26,969 --> 00:56:27,901
Thanks.
933
00:56:27,936 --> 00:56:29,489
Calvin, if you
gimme a few moments,
934
00:56:29,524 --> 00:56:31,733
I can get dressed in, attend
church with you and Joy.
935
00:56:31,767 --> 00:56:34,494
Mommy, you're coming
to church with us too.
936
00:56:34,529 --> 00:56:35,322
Yes, baby.
937
00:56:35,357 --> 00:56:36,289
Yay.
938
00:56:36,323 --> 00:56:38,947
Take all the minutes you need,
939
00:56:38,981 --> 00:56:39,844
But hurry up.
940
00:56:41,363 --> 00:56:42,606
All right.
941
00:57:21,955 --> 00:57:22,818
Joy?
942
00:57:22,853 --> 00:57:24,130
Hmm?
943
00:57:24,164 --> 00:57:26,443
You wanna give your hair
a break from these braids?
944
00:57:26,477 --> 00:57:30,136
Yeah, but how would I wear it?
945
00:57:30,170 --> 00:57:32,483
You have beautiful long hair.
946
00:57:32,518 --> 00:57:34,381
You can wear it
out if you want to.
947
00:57:34,416 --> 00:57:36,591
- Okay.
- All right.
948
00:57:36,625 --> 00:57:37,971
Well, find something on TV
949
00:57:38,006 --> 00:57:39,939
'cause we're gonna
be here all night.
950
00:57:39,973 --> 00:57:40,629
Okay.
951
00:57:43,667 --> 00:57:45,634
Now we're all ready to pray.
952
00:57:48,292 --> 00:57:49,535
It's time to pray now.
953
00:57:49,569 --> 00:57:53,159
I need you right here
954
00:57:53,193 --> 00:57:55,541
and I'm gonna pray with you too.
955
00:58:02,202 --> 00:58:03,100
Hi God.
956
00:58:04,308 --> 00:58:05,861
It's me, Joy.
957
00:58:05,896 --> 00:58:08,036
I'm going to school
tomorrow with my hair out.
958
00:58:09,658 --> 00:58:13,179
Please don't let Sarah and
Annie tease me about my hair.
959
00:58:14,594 --> 00:58:17,632
Oh, God, guess what?
960
00:58:17,666 --> 00:58:19,910
Mom is much nicer now,
961
00:58:19,944 --> 00:58:22,015
just like she was when
I first moved here.
962
00:58:24,328 --> 00:58:25,225
Amen.
963
00:58:30,092 --> 00:58:32,129
Glorify, to give honor,
964
00:58:32,163 --> 00:58:34,580
to exalt or admire.
965
00:58:34,614 --> 00:58:36,996
Praise, to express gratitude.
966
00:58:37,030 --> 00:58:41,552
To express how great
someone or something is.
967
00:58:41,587 --> 00:58:43,934
What's all the
excitement about, class?
968
00:58:43,968 --> 00:58:47,109
Ms. Anderson,
look at Joy's hair.
969
00:58:47,144 --> 00:58:48,421
It's so long and pretty.
970
00:58:48,455 --> 00:58:50,181
Yes, it is.
971
00:58:50,216 --> 00:58:52,114
You kids don't miss a beat.
972
00:58:52,149 --> 00:58:54,772
Sarah and Annie, I see y'all
are not teasing Joy today.
973
00:58:54,807 --> 00:58:57,016
Her hair is longer than
the both of y'all's.
974
00:58:57,050 --> 00:58:58,776
What do you mean by
that comment, Tania?
975
00:58:58,811 --> 00:59:01,676
Sarah and Annie
tease Joy every day
976
00:59:01,710 --> 00:59:03,988
about her wearing braids
and not having hair,
977
00:59:04,023 --> 00:59:06,439
but they're not
saying anything today
978
00:59:06,473 --> 00:59:08,545
As they shouldn't.
979
00:59:08,579 --> 00:59:09,891
Let this be a lesson
to each of you.
980
00:59:09,925 --> 00:59:13,619
I don't wanna hear anyone
teasing anyone anymore.
981
00:59:13,653 --> 00:59:16,276
Joy, you have beautiful hair.
982
00:59:16,311 --> 00:59:19,417
Sarah and Annie, apologize
to her right now.
983
00:59:19,452 --> 00:59:21,143
Sorry.
984
00:59:21,178 --> 00:59:22,489
I'm sorry.
985
00:59:22,524 --> 00:59:23,905
It's okay.
986
00:59:25,009 --> 00:59:26,873
As long as it
doesn't happen again.
987
00:59:27,978 --> 00:59:29,635
It better not.
988
00:59:29,669 --> 00:59:32,258
And if it does, you
come talk to me.
989
00:59:46,686 --> 00:59:48,343
I am sorry we
teased you earlier.
990
00:59:48,377 --> 00:59:50,000
Will you be my friend?
991
00:59:50,034 --> 00:59:52,312
Yeah, can you
be my friend too?
992
00:59:52,347 --> 00:59:54,487
We didn't know you had hair.
993
00:59:54,521 --> 00:59:56,144
Sure we can be friends.
994
00:59:56,178 --> 00:59:57,835
I've always had long hair.
995
00:59:57,870 --> 01:00:00,942
Just promise not to tease
me or anyone else again.
996
01:00:00,976 --> 01:00:01,563
We won't.
997
01:00:01,598 --> 01:00:02,737
I learned my lesson.
998
01:00:02,771 --> 01:00:04,014
Yeah, me too.
999
01:00:19,512 --> 01:00:21,997
Hey, Ms. Anderson.
1000
01:00:22,032 --> 01:00:23,827
Joy,
you're dismissed.
1001
01:00:28,901 --> 01:00:30,696
Have a good day, guys.
1002
01:00:30,730 --> 01:00:32,076
Oh, you too,
1003
01:00:33,837 --> 01:00:36,115
Mom, mom, guess what?
1004
01:00:36,149 --> 01:00:37,288
What is it, sweetie?
1005
01:00:37,323 --> 01:00:38,945
You got an A on your test?
1006
01:00:38,980 --> 01:00:42,397
No, everyone
loved my hair today,
1007
01:00:42,431 --> 01:00:44,848
including Sarah and Annie.
1008
01:00:44,882 --> 01:00:47,782
They were surprised to
see how long it was,
1009
01:00:47,816 --> 01:00:51,924
and Ms. Anderson made them
apologize for teasing me.
1010
01:00:51,958 --> 01:00:53,857
I'm so happy for you, Joy.
1011
01:00:53,891 --> 01:00:58,516
I prayed and asked God
not to let them tease me.
1012
01:00:58,551 --> 01:01:00,208
God is awesome, isn't he?
1013
01:01:00,242 --> 01:01:03,625
He used Ms. Anderson
to help resolve all
1014
01:01:03,660 --> 01:01:05,938
of your problems all
through your prayers.
1015
01:01:07,422 --> 01:01:09,010
All right, baby, let's go.
1016
01:01:24,059 --> 01:01:24,681
Calvin.
1017
01:01:24,715 --> 01:01:25,923
Hey babe.
1018
01:01:25,958 --> 01:01:27,787
You won't believe
the fantastic day
1019
01:01:27,822 --> 01:01:30,100
our little girl
headed school today.
1020
01:01:30,134 --> 01:01:32,205
I'm all ears. What happened?
1021
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:36,209
Well, when I picked her
up, she was a live wire.
1022
01:01:36,244 --> 01:01:40,904
She was happy, excited, wouldn't
stop talking about her day.
1023
01:01:40,938 --> 01:01:45,978
She said that everyone was
shocked that she had hair.
1024
01:01:46,979 --> 01:01:48,670
I gathered they
assumed she didn't
1025
01:01:48,705 --> 01:01:50,189
have hair under those braids.
1026
01:01:50,223 --> 01:01:54,814
Oh, our baby girl
has hair.
1027
01:01:54,849 --> 01:01:57,748
I'm so glad we adopted her.
1028
01:01:58,784 --> 01:02:02,028
That's one of the best
decisions we ever made.
1029
01:02:03,858 --> 01:02:05,031
Me too, daddy.
1030
01:02:05,825 --> 01:02:07,137
Me three.
1031
01:02:08,207 --> 01:02:12,383
And so the teacher made
the girls apologize.
1032
01:02:12,418 --> 01:02:13,971
Hmm.
1033
01:02:14,006 --> 01:02:16,215
- I'm so glad that's over.
- They're all cool now.
1034
01:02:16,249 --> 01:02:17,941
- Nice.
- Yes.
1035
01:02:20,046 --> 01:02:25,086
Calvin, I am so sorry
1036
01:02:26,294 --> 01:02:28,296
for how I've treated you
these last few months.
1037
01:02:31,023 --> 01:02:33,784
You've been spending
so much time with Joy,
1038
01:02:33,819 --> 01:02:37,926
I just felt like I
was not important.
1039
01:02:38,685 --> 01:02:41,965
Like I was neglected.
1040
01:02:45,900 --> 01:02:50,939
And I responded to you
terribly, with no respect,
1041
01:02:51,768 --> 01:02:52,941
and no regards to your feelings.
1042
01:02:57,463 --> 01:02:59,603
I'm truly sorry.
1043
01:02:59,637 --> 01:03:01,053
Can you ever forgive me?
1044
01:03:02,433 --> 01:03:07,404
Babe, I wouldn't be a man of
God if I didn't forgive you.
1045
01:03:09,406 --> 01:03:13,168
You are the best thing
that ever happened to me.
1046
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:18,242
Even when you withdrew
from us, nothing changed.
1047
01:03:19,174 --> 01:03:22,453
Joy increased our family size.
1048
01:03:22,488 --> 01:03:23,385
She didn't replace.
1049
01:03:24,421 --> 01:03:27,182
You are my wife.
1050
01:03:27,217 --> 01:03:31,186
I vowed to love you for
better or for worse.
1051
01:03:33,154 --> 01:03:36,329
That was your worst.
1052
01:03:37,330 --> 01:03:39,194
I love you, Janice.
1053
01:03:39,229 --> 01:03:40,126
Love you too.
1054
01:03:42,819 --> 01:03:43,647
Ew!
1055
01:03:45,166 --> 01:03:47,030
Let me show you
what's Ew, young lady.
1056
01:03:49,308 --> 01:03:49,964
Now that is Ew.
1057
01:03:51,137 --> 01:03:53,450
I bet you won't do that again.
1058
01:03:53,484 --> 01:03:55,003
Oh, you're right about that,
1059
01:03:55,038 --> 01:03:57,764
'cause from this day
forth, that is mom's job.
1060
01:03:57,799 --> 01:03:59,663
Do y'all hear me, ladies?
1061
01:03:59,697 --> 01:04:01,734
We hear you.
1062
01:04:25,447 --> 01:04:28,071
I am not gonna be scared.
I'm not gonna be scared.
1063
01:04:30,107 --> 01:04:33,421
God, please make that
dog stop chasing me.
1064
01:04:51,335 --> 01:04:52,026
Okay. Okay.
1065
01:04:58,170 --> 01:05:00,551
Aw, she just wants to play.
1066
01:05:02,795 --> 01:05:03,692
So cute.
1067
01:05:05,108 --> 01:05:05,971
Aw.
1068
01:05:08,732 --> 01:05:11,079
I'm so glad you
guys can make it.
1069
01:05:11,114 --> 01:05:14,358
This is gonna be so much fun.
1070
01:05:14,393 --> 01:05:15,290
I know, right?
1071
01:05:15,325 --> 01:05:17,914
I can't believe
Savannah came too.
1072
01:05:17,948 --> 01:05:19,501
I wouldn't miss
this for the world.
1073
01:05:35,759 --> 01:05:36,933
It's Rae.
1074
01:05:38,658 --> 01:05:40,143
That's UM to you.
1075
01:05:40,902 --> 01:05:44,043
Hey girl, hey, what is up?
1076
01:05:44,078 --> 01:05:45,320
Where are you on your way to?
1077
01:05:45,355 --> 01:05:46,701
Remember, I told
you I was gonna start
1078
01:05:46,735 --> 01:05:47,805
doing private lessons.
1079
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:49,048
Oh.
1080
01:05:49,083 --> 01:05:50,705
Seven times already.
1081
01:05:54,951 --> 01:05:58,955
My first is what he get-o.
1082
01:06:02,027 --> 01:06:05,237
My first one is right here
in y'all's neighborhood.
1083
01:06:05,271 --> 01:06:08,481
Hi, UM.
1084
01:06:08,516 --> 01:06:10,138
You forgot her name?
1085
01:06:10,173 --> 01:06:13,038
No, that's what
everyone calls her.
1086
01:06:13,072 --> 01:06:13,970
I'm a dancer.
1087
01:06:14,004 --> 01:06:16,041
My street name is UM.
1088
01:06:16,075 --> 01:06:17,387
What does it mean?
1089
01:06:17,421 --> 01:06:20,252
It stands for Unique Moves.
1090
01:06:20,286 --> 01:06:22,461
Can you show us
some of your moves?
1091
01:06:22,495 --> 01:06:24,739
Now you know that's
right up UM's alley,
1092
01:06:24,773 --> 01:06:26,568
to whip out some dance moves.
1093
01:06:28,122 --> 01:06:29,778
Don't be throwing no shake.
1094
01:06:29,813 --> 01:06:31,056
Girl, whatever.
1095
01:06:35,474 --> 01:06:36,509
My wife knows you.
1096
01:06:39,374 --> 01:06:40,237
Oh.
1097
01:06:43,206 --> 01:06:45,346
Joy, I would love to
show you and your friends
1098
01:06:45,380 --> 01:06:48,383
some dance moves and
I'll do it for free.
1099
01:06:48,418 --> 01:06:50,937
How else were
they gonna pay you?
1100
01:06:50,972 --> 01:06:52,318
They don't have any money.
1101
01:06:53,250 --> 01:06:54,872
Girl, get on outta here.
1102
01:06:54,907 --> 01:06:57,323
She's good. You'll see.
1103
01:06:57,358 --> 01:06:58,083
Ready?
1104
01:06:58,117 --> 01:06:59,808
Five, six, seven, and one, two.
1105
01:07:01,258 --> 01:07:04,158
Hit the back and dig, dig.
1106
01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:12,545
Shake it.
1107
01:07:12,580 --> 01:07:13,270
Shake.
1108
01:07:14,513 --> 01:07:16,929
Whew, okay, I'm
done for the night.
1109
01:07:16,963 --> 01:07:18,620
Watch out for that invoice,
1110
01:07:18,655 --> 01:07:21,140
because if they can't
pay me, you gotta pay me.
1111
01:07:21,175 --> 01:07:22,590
Watch out for that invoice.
1112
01:07:22,624 --> 01:07:24,626
Time for my other
lesson, y'all.
1113
01:07:24,661 --> 01:07:26,525
Sayonara.
1114
01:07:26,559 --> 01:07:28,044
See you later, UM.
1115
01:07:28,078 --> 01:07:29,114
Bye, UM.
1116
01:07:32,048 --> 01:07:35,085
Oh boy. That was cute.
1117
01:07:38,261 --> 01:07:41,436
Mercedes, what's
that on your arm?
1118
01:07:43,714 --> 01:07:45,026
It looks like a bump.
1119
01:07:45,061 --> 01:07:46,924
Oh, that, I'm not sure.
1120
01:07:46,959 --> 01:07:48,409
It doesn't hurt or anything.
1121
01:07:48,443 --> 01:07:50,963
One day it wasn't there,
but the next day it was.
1122
01:07:50,997 --> 01:07:52,309
This was recent too.
1123
01:07:53,414 --> 01:07:56,210
Mom, Mercedes has
a lump on her arm.
1124
01:07:57,107 --> 01:07:59,109
- Where?
- Right there?
1125
01:08:01,387 --> 01:08:05,357
Hmm, I don't
know what this is.
1126
01:08:06,358 --> 01:08:07,531
Has your mom seen this?
1127
01:08:07,566 --> 01:08:08,912
Yes.
1128
01:08:08,946 --> 01:08:11,328
Since your mom is monitoring,
I'm sure she's aware of it.
1129
01:08:12,605 --> 01:08:13,917
You see?
1130
01:08:13,951 --> 01:08:16,885
Hmm. It'll be okay.
1131
01:08:19,785 --> 01:08:21,614
Let's finish playing.
1132
01:08:21,649 --> 01:08:26,481
Okay, but first, let's pray
for your lump to go away.
1133
01:08:27,862 --> 01:08:29,829
God can do miracles if we
pray and believe together.
1134
01:08:29,864 --> 01:08:30,934
Sure.
1135
01:08:30,968 --> 01:08:32,384
I'll be right back.
1136
01:08:32,418 --> 01:08:33,316
Okay.
1137
01:08:50,471 --> 01:08:51,506
Hi God.
1138
01:08:51,541 --> 01:08:55,372
It's me, Joy, and
my friend, Mercedes.
1139
01:08:55,407 --> 01:08:57,443
I have a favor to ask you.
1140
01:08:59,100 --> 01:09:02,241
God, your Word says,
"For where two or three
1141
01:09:02,276 --> 01:09:04,278
"are gathered
together in my name,
1142
01:09:04,312 --> 01:09:07,453
"there am I in the
midst of them."
1143
01:09:08,903 --> 01:09:12,493
Well, Mercedes has a lump on
our arm that needs healing.
1144
01:09:13,942 --> 01:09:17,877
She doesn't know what it is,
but we want it to disappear
1145
01:09:17,912 --> 01:09:19,327
before it gets worse.
1146
01:09:20,121 --> 01:09:22,365
In Jesus' name. Amen.
1147
01:09:23,607 --> 01:09:24,712
Thank you Joy.
1148
01:09:24,746 --> 01:09:28,785
No one has ever prayed
for me or my arm before.
1149
01:09:28,819 --> 01:09:30,580
Thank you very much.
1150
01:09:30,614 --> 01:09:31,305
You are welcome.
1151
01:09:45,940 --> 01:09:47,148
Hi, Mrs. Nelson.
1152
01:09:47,183 --> 01:09:48,977
Hi Mercedes.
1153
01:09:49,012 --> 01:09:51,014
Hi Janice.
1154
01:09:51,048 --> 01:09:52,257
Hi Sharon.
1155
01:09:52,291 --> 01:09:53,879
Is Joy around?
1156
01:09:53,913 --> 01:09:55,260
Yes. Joy?
1157
01:09:55,294 --> 01:09:56,916
Coming, mom.
1158
01:09:56,951 --> 01:09:58,711
Mercedes!
1159
01:09:58,746 --> 01:10:00,299
Hi Joy.
1160
01:10:00,334 --> 01:10:01,714
What are you doing here?
1161
01:10:01,749 --> 01:10:05,442
Joy, we couldn't
wait to rush over here
1162
01:10:05,477 --> 01:10:09,584
and thank you for praying
over Mercedes arm.
1163
01:10:09,619 --> 01:10:13,001
God heard your prayers
and healed that lump.
1164
01:10:14,279 --> 01:10:16,695
Look, it's gone.
1165
01:10:17,799 --> 01:10:18,490
Wow.
1166
01:10:20,043 --> 01:10:21,355
Thank you Joy.
1167
01:10:21,976 --> 01:10:22,977
I told you, Mercedes.
1168
01:10:23,011 --> 01:10:25,290
Yeah, thanks, BFF.
1169
01:10:25,324 --> 01:10:29,984
Wait, Joy prayed
over your arm.
1170
01:10:32,228 --> 01:10:33,470
She's very good at it too.
1171
01:10:35,058 --> 01:10:38,648
We were so thrilled about
her lump disappearing
1172
01:10:38,682 --> 01:10:42,238
that we wanted to come
and show you in person.
1173
01:10:42,272 --> 01:10:47,035
That's a miracle because
I saw it with my own eyes.
1174
01:10:47,070 --> 01:10:48,899
Oh wow.
1175
01:10:48,934 --> 01:10:51,281
Our prayers were answered.
1176
01:10:52,317 --> 01:10:54,595
Yes, so we have
to run some errands.
1177
01:10:54,629 --> 01:10:56,182
We gotta go.
1178
01:10:56,217 --> 01:10:57,080
Bye, Mercedes.
1179
01:10:57,114 --> 01:10:58,461
Bye, Joy.
1180
01:10:58,495 --> 01:11:00,808
Bye-Bye.
1181
01:11:00,842 --> 01:11:01,636
Alright.
1182
01:11:02,603 --> 01:11:03,880
Bye guys.
1183
01:11:03,914 --> 01:11:05,191
Bye.
1184
01:11:09,437 --> 01:11:11,128
What is going on in here?
1185
01:11:11,163 --> 01:11:14,097
Room is a mess.
1186
01:11:38,811 --> 01:11:40,088
Oh my goodness.
1187
01:11:49,546 --> 01:11:51,030
You messed them up.
1188
01:11:51,065 --> 01:11:52,618
Messed who up?
1189
01:11:52,653 --> 01:11:54,931
Your room was already
a mess, sweetie.
1190
01:11:54,965 --> 01:11:58,279
My dolls, they're
supposed to be right there.
1191
01:11:58,314 --> 01:11:59,487
Where's my phone?
1192
01:11:59,522 --> 01:12:02,732
Hey, hey, hey,
what's going on here?
1193
01:12:02,766 --> 01:12:06,114
Joy's upset about
me moving her dolls.
1194
01:12:06,149 --> 01:12:07,530
And my phone.
1195
01:12:07,564 --> 01:12:10,533
Sweetie, I'm sure Mommy was
just trying to be helpful.
1196
01:12:11,741 --> 01:12:15,365
- I know, but--
- I'll put them back for you.
1197
01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:16,677
No, I'll do it
1198
01:12:16,711 --> 01:12:19,921
Honey, just let Joy
rearrange her dolls back
1199
01:12:19,956 --> 01:12:20,819
the way she had 'em.
1200
01:12:21,854 --> 01:12:23,511
Okay.
1201
01:12:25,168 --> 01:12:26,583
And here's your phone.
1202
01:12:37,663 --> 01:12:40,597
In
the North Bay...
1203
01:12:43,911 --> 01:12:48,571
Mom, dad, can I
ask you a question?
1204
01:12:48,605 --> 01:12:52,402
Of course, sweetheart,
you can ask us anything.
1205
01:12:52,437 --> 01:12:54,542
Why did you choose me?
1206
01:12:54,577 --> 01:12:56,613
I mean, there were
so many other kids
1207
01:12:56,648 --> 01:12:58,960
who needed to be adopted.
1208
01:12:58,995 --> 01:12:59,754
Why me?
1209
01:13:05,622 --> 01:13:08,660
Joy, we need you
1210
01:13:08,694 --> 01:13:12,077
to understand the
decision to adopt,
1211
01:13:12,111 --> 01:13:15,425
it's never about choosing
one child over another.
1212
01:13:16,875 --> 01:13:21,604
It's about finding that special
bond, a connection that goes
1213
01:13:22,328 --> 01:13:24,710
beyond anything else.
1214
01:13:24,745 --> 01:13:27,299
But how did you make
a connection with me,
1215
01:13:27,333 --> 01:13:28,921
and we never met before.
1216
01:13:30,647 --> 01:13:32,684
When we first
saw your picture,
1217
01:13:34,686 --> 01:13:36,515
we couldn't explain it,
1218
01:13:36,550 --> 01:13:41,244
but we felt an instant
connection with you
1219
01:13:41,278 --> 01:13:42,556
through your picture.
1220
01:13:43,798 --> 01:13:47,492
And at that point,
we knew in our spirit
1221
01:13:47,526 --> 01:13:51,254
that God wanted us three
to become a family.
1222
01:13:51,288 --> 01:13:54,533
But there were so many other
kids who needed families.
1223
01:13:54,568 --> 01:13:56,086
They would've been great too.
1224
01:13:58,364 --> 01:13:59,504
You are right, Joy.
1225
01:14:00,505 --> 01:14:03,680
There are so many
incredible kids
1226
01:14:03,715 --> 01:14:07,028
that's deserving of loving
families just like you.
1227
01:14:07,063 --> 01:14:11,274
But the truth is, we
can't save every child.
1228
01:14:11,308 --> 01:14:16,521
All we knew is that we wanted
to give a child a home,
1229
01:14:17,073 --> 01:14:18,661
a loving family.
1230
01:14:18,695 --> 01:14:22,388
And when we saw your
picture, we knew immediately
1231
01:14:22,423 --> 01:14:25,150
that you were that child.
1232
01:14:26,772 --> 01:14:31,190
Joy, we didn't adopt you
because we felt sorry for you
1233
01:14:32,468 --> 01:14:35,056
or because we thought
you needed us.
1234
01:14:35,091 --> 01:14:38,957
We adopted you because
we wanted you, Joy.
1235
01:14:40,406 --> 01:14:44,756
We wanted to be your parents
and to share our lives with you
1236
01:14:46,171 --> 01:14:50,037
and to give you the love and
support that you deserve.
1237
01:14:55,180 --> 01:14:56,388
My baby.
1238
01:14:56,422 --> 01:14:57,562
Where you going?
1239
01:15:03,844 --> 01:15:06,122
Joy is truly a
blessing from God.
1240
01:15:09,470 --> 01:15:12,162
Her presence reminds
us of how family
1241
01:15:12,197 --> 01:15:16,926
and life should be, full
of love and laughter.
1242
01:15:18,652 --> 01:15:21,344
I'm eternally grateful unto God
1243
01:15:21,378 --> 01:15:23,380
for the gift of our daughter.
1244
01:15:23,415 --> 01:15:25,106
I agree.
1245
01:15:25,141 --> 01:15:28,627
And to think, she could have
been placed somewhere else
1246
01:15:29,973 --> 01:15:33,321
Or waiting for a
family to adopt her.
1247
01:15:34,391 --> 01:15:37,118
It was God's plan.
1248
01:15:37,153 --> 01:15:38,257
It was her time.
1249
01:15:40,536 --> 01:15:41,847
Thank you God.
1250
01:15:43,262 --> 01:15:45,299
I'm so glad you thought
about adoption when you did.
1251
01:15:45,333 --> 01:15:46,749
It was the Holy Spirit.
1252
01:15:48,164 --> 01:15:51,443
Was that the same Holy Spirit
that told you to marry me?
1253
01:15:51,477 --> 01:15:56,344
Yes it was.
1254
01:15:59,244 --> 01:16:01,626
- Mom.
- Yes baby.
1255
01:16:01,660 --> 01:16:03,662
Can we play dress up?
1256
01:16:03,697 --> 01:16:06,389
Sure we can, but I
don't know what to wear.
1257
01:16:06,423 --> 01:16:07,424
Can I dress you?
1258
01:16:07,459 --> 01:16:09,875
I'm not liking this already.
1259
01:16:09,910 --> 01:16:11,946
I'll get everything for you.
1260
01:16:11,981 --> 01:16:14,880
Well, in that
case, I'm ready now.
1261
01:16:18,366 --> 01:16:22,232
But me, no, I'd be walking
1262
01:16:22,267 --> 01:16:24,131
around here looking all crazy.
1263
01:16:24,165 --> 01:16:25,270
Calvin.
1264
01:16:25,304 --> 01:16:26,305
Yeah?
1265
01:16:26,340 --> 01:16:27,686
I can hear you.
1266
01:16:27,721 --> 01:16:29,377
Love you honey.
1267
01:16:35,073 --> 01:16:36,695
Mom, I'll
be in there shortly.
1268
01:16:36,730 --> 01:16:38,835
Okay sweetie.
1269
01:16:39,491 --> 01:16:41,597
Wait til Calvin sees me.
1270
01:16:41,631 --> 01:16:44,013
Okay, mom,
are you ready?
1271
01:16:44,047 --> 01:16:46,153
Joy's gonna dress
me up all pretty.
1272
01:16:48,604 --> 01:16:50,675
Ooh, don't you look pretty.
1273
01:16:50,709 --> 01:16:52,504
Is that my dress?
1274
01:16:52,538 --> 01:16:55,127
Yeah, it's called
dress up, mommy.
1275
01:16:55,162 --> 01:16:56,301
Oh well you look cute.
1276
01:16:56,335 --> 01:16:57,026
Thanks.
1277
01:16:57,854 --> 01:16:58,648
You're welcome.
1278
01:16:58,683 --> 01:17:00,408
Now cover your eyes.
1279
01:17:00,443 --> 01:17:02,169
Close my eyes?
1280
01:17:02,203 --> 01:17:03,653
Yeah.
1281
01:17:03,688 --> 01:17:06,380
Sweetie, I promise
my eyes will not get
1282
01:17:06,414 --> 01:17:08,796
in the way of you dressing me.
1283
01:17:08,831 --> 01:17:12,904
Okay, but you
have to close them.
1284
01:17:12,938 --> 01:17:15,423
I don't wanna close my eyes.
1285
01:17:15,458 --> 01:17:16,735
It's too late.
1286
01:17:16,770 --> 01:17:18,564
I'll have to cover them now.
1287
01:17:18,599 --> 01:17:20,325
Okay.
1288
01:17:24,260 --> 01:17:27,021
Mommy, you're gonna
look so beautiful.
1289
01:17:27,056 --> 01:17:29,852
But first I have
to do your makeup.
1290
01:17:29,886 --> 01:17:33,372
Alright, but promise
not to make me look crazy.
1291
01:17:33,407 --> 01:17:34,304
Okay.
1292
01:17:37,963 --> 01:17:40,586
♪ Going to fly away ♪
1293
01:17:40,621 --> 01:17:42,658
Is
that the foundation?
1294
01:17:42,692 --> 01:17:44,314
Mm-hmm.
1295
01:17:44,349 --> 01:17:46,592
Okay.
1296
01:17:46,627 --> 01:17:49,147
♪ Where I can hide away ♪
1297
01:17:49,181 --> 01:17:51,597
Now time for lipstick.
1298
01:17:51,632 --> 01:17:53,323
Okay, wait a minute.
1299
01:17:54,566 --> 01:17:57,673
Wait a minute,
what is on my lips?
1300
01:17:57,707 --> 01:17:58,501
Joy, you promised.
1301
01:18:00,503 --> 01:18:01,469
You're fired.
1302
01:18:02,574 --> 01:18:04,472
♪ Life like summer ♪
1303
01:18:06,371 --> 01:18:07,821
Daddy, come here.
1304
01:18:09,650 --> 01:18:10,927
♪ Where the sun shines like ♪
1305
01:18:10,962 --> 01:18:13,827
Whoa-ho, great job, Joy.
1306
01:18:15,138 --> 01:18:18,279
Now I must say, you made
mommy look way better
1307
01:18:18,314 --> 01:18:19,695
than you did daddy.
1308
01:18:21,317 --> 01:18:24,769
And I said to myself, watch
Joy make mommy look so pretty.
1309
01:18:24,803 --> 01:18:26,909
Like she's going out on a date.
1310
01:18:26,943 --> 01:18:29,739
Huh, you know what,
it's a great idea.
1311
01:18:29,774 --> 01:18:31,707
Let's go ladies.
1312
01:18:31,741 --> 01:18:33,674
I say let's go right now,
1313
01:18:33,709 --> 01:18:35,607
but I need to see
what I look like.
1314
01:18:35,641 --> 01:18:37,195
Good point.
1315
01:18:37,229 --> 01:18:37,920
Joy?
1316
01:18:39,231 --> 01:18:39,887
Alright.
1317
01:18:39,922 --> 01:18:41,993
Okay, hold the mirror.
1318
01:18:44,512 --> 01:18:45,410
Three, two, one.
1319
01:18:51,381 --> 01:18:53,487
Oh my--
1320
01:18:54,488 --> 01:18:56,386
You like it?
1321
01:18:56,421 --> 01:18:57,629
Yes.
1322
01:18:57,663 --> 01:18:59,493
You promised to make
me look beautiful.
1323
01:18:59,527 --> 01:19:00,425
You are beautiful.
1324
01:19:00,459 --> 01:19:01,840
I look beautiful?
1325
01:19:01,875 --> 01:19:04,601
Aw, you know I'm gonna
get you back, right?
1326
01:19:04,636 --> 01:19:06,051
I am going to get you back.
1327
01:19:06,776 --> 01:19:08,019
Oh my goodness.
1328
01:19:08,053 --> 01:19:11,850
Well, well, well,
who's looking crazy now?
1329
01:19:11,885 --> 01:19:12,678
We going out?
1330
01:19:12,713 --> 01:19:14,025
What are we gonna do?
1331
01:19:14,059 --> 01:19:15,129
What are we gonna do?
What are we gonna do?
1332
01:19:15,164 --> 01:19:16,579
Mom, can
I have your hand?
1333
01:19:16,613 --> 01:19:17,787
Yes.
1334
01:19:17,822 --> 01:19:19,133
Can I have your hand?
1335
01:19:19,168 --> 01:19:20,445
Yes.
1336
01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:21,273
Mom and dad, hold hands.
1337
01:19:21,308 --> 01:19:22,550
Okay.
1338
01:19:22,585 --> 01:19:25,001
Hi, God, it's me, Joy.
1339
01:19:25,036 --> 01:19:29,419
This time I have my mom and
dad praying with me today.
1340
01:19:29,454 --> 01:19:32,871
Thank you for making me
a part of their family
1341
01:19:32,906 --> 01:19:35,598
and for making our
home happy again.
1342
01:19:35,632 --> 01:19:38,325
We love you so much.
1343
01:19:38,359 --> 01:19:39,153
In Jesus' name.
1344
01:19:39,188 --> 01:19:40,430
Amen.
1345
01:19:47,506 --> 01:19:49,163
- All right, let's go.
- I'm hungry, let's go eat.
1346
01:19:49,198 --> 01:19:50,924
All right, come on.
1347
01:20:13,601 --> 01:20:15,914
Hi, God, it's me, Joy.
1348
01:20:15,949 --> 01:20:17,226
Guess what?
1349
01:20:17,260 --> 01:20:19,918
Sarah and Annie don't
tease me anymore
1350
01:20:19,953 --> 01:20:22,334
and Mommy's heart
is much nicer now,
1351
01:20:22,369 --> 01:20:25,027
and I'm not scared of the
neighbor's dog next door.
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