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What is your boiling point?
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Everybody has one. Is that point where you've just had enough?
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The pressure builds, emotions rise.
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You feel like you're about to snap.
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And then it happens. You lose it and you break.
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You react. Maybe it's anger,
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frustration, the need to withdraw.
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It's just a moment where there's no control.
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And then there's aftermath. Regret,
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damage, loss,
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self reflection, feeling bad about your reactions.
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And then on top of that, if maybe the other people that were involved
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and that you offended or hurt them.
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Now you gotta deal with that guilt.
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The truth is, you don't have to hit your boiling point.
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You can stop it before it boils over.
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So how do we stop it? First thing you do is you recognise the signs.
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They're your triggers. You should know what they are.
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Right? So you notice,
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as they start to build up,
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the tension, the irritation,
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the patience. The more you are aware of it and.
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Excuse me, impatience.
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The more you're aware of it,
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the earlier you can stop yourself from escalating.
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Pausing and breathing. When you feel that heat start to rise up,
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take a beat, take a breath,
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take a moment. Don't let your emotions control the situation.
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Give yourself a moment, just a break,
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and give yourself space.
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Next, shift your perspective.
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Instead of focusing on what's wrong,
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focus on the things that you can control in that situation.
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What can I do right now to shift My energy
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from where it is to where it should be
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or where I want it to be next.
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Don't laugh, but have a plan.
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These are your triggers. Have glimmers ready.
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The opposite of triggers, right?
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Have a tool kit ready for those moments of stress.
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Is it deep breathing that you're gonna do or you're gonna walk away
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or you're gonna call a friend or you're gonna go meditate for a minute?
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Doesn't matter.
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What are your strategies to not lose it and keep control?
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Cause when you get to that boiling point,
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it's not what happens to you,
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it's about what you do with it. Again,
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we don't wanna affect other people.
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This is now,
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at this point is where you can break the old pattern of the old you
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and create a brand new one.
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If you want help on how to do that,
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reach out to me. This is what I do as a mentor,
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as a coach,
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as I help people shift their mindset to be where they want it to be.
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