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[theme music playing]
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All right, Tyler, we're live.
And I'm about to go in.
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And we're moments away
from meeting the celebrity
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who you're gonna read today.
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-All right.
-I'll see you in there.
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I'll see you out there. Ah! [laughs]
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All right, so, guys,
Tyler never knows who he's going to read
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before he meets them.
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And you're about to get
to know them soon. Let's go.
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[Tyler] My name is Tyler Henry,
and I have a rather unusual ability.
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I don't exactly see dead people,
but I definitely communicate with them.
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I receive messages from those
who've passed for those still here,
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proving our loved ones
never truly leave us.
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I don't know who I'm going to read
or what messages may come through,
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but powerful revelations await
from the other side.
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Welcome to
Live from the Other Side with Tyler Henry.
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Sitting right behind me is a celebrity
and their friends and family
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who are all here to get a live reading
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from the world's most
renowned medium, Tyler Henry.
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Hi, I'm Amanda Kloots.
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Now, Tyler has no idea
who he is about to read
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and is going to meet them
for the first time
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right here on our stage.
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So, Tyler, you want to come out here
and get this started?
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All right.
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-[Amanda] Hello!
-Hello, everybody!
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[laughs] Oh, my goodness!
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-Kristin Chenoweth, are you kidding me?
-Hi! [laughs]
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-Nice to meet you.
-[Amanda chuckling]
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-[Tyler] How are you?
-I'm wonderful.
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-Hi, I'm Shannon. Nice to meet you.
-Shannon, wonderful to meet you.
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-I'm Genna. Nice to meet you.
-Genna, so good to meet you.
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-Melody.
-Melody, wonderful to meet you.
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-Jonathan. Nice to meet you.
-Jonathan! You have such good energy.
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-My goodness.
-[Amanda] Hello!
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-It's so good to see you.
-Nice to see you again!
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Thank you for having me, everybody.
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Hello to my mom out there.
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Yes, of course, we have Tyler's mom,
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-Theresa, with us today.
-Hi, everyone.
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All right, so, Tyler, of course,
we have Kristin Chenoweth with us today.
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And she is here
with her new Netflix holiday film,
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which we're all so excited to see,
Our Little Secret.
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And obviously, Tony and Emmy winner.
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I mean, you've just done it all, Kristin.
We're so happy to have you here.
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Will you tell us
who you brought with you today
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and how you know them?
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Yes, I would love to.
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Um, I have crossed all kinds of boundaries
with people who work with me on my team.
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This is my assistant
who I love like a little sister.
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-Her name is Shannon.
-[Tyler] Amazing.
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Um, another boundary cross.
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Um, this is my business manager's daughter
who's like my niece.
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-[chuckles]
-[Kristin] Genna.
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We've known each other
since she was about seven.
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And there is said mother of Genna,
Melody, who has been… She--
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Talk about knowing
where all the bodies are buried.
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-Par-- Par-- Pardon the pun.
-[laughing]
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But she is my-- These are my family.
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And then Jonathan does my hair,
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but it's much more
of a wonderful, beautiful friendship.
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I love his hairdos, but I love who he is.
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And I've known him for, I want to say, 20…
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Twenty.
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Twenty years so we're looking at 20…
In the 20 years range.
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And this is only a year but, you know,
God puts people in your life
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for a reason
and this isn't supposed to be…
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-[Amanda] Yes.
-[Tyler] Absolutely.
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Thank you so much for sharing
with me and thank you for coming
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and being here to support each other,
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and I'm looking forward to seeing
what comes through!
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So, today, I'll basically
just kind of explain the process,
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let you know kind of what to expect,
and then we'll go right in.
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And as I scribble,
I basically just get impressions.
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And my job as a medium
is to articulate these impressions
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in a way that makes sense.
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So, you know, anybody could tell you
your loved one loves you
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or they're proud of you,
but it's the facts and the details,
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and the specifics
that are only known between you
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and the person that passed
that really substantiates that connection.
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And that's what I try to get
in every reading.
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I kind of describe messages
as like currents.
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So some people come through
like a white water rapid
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and other people come through
like a drip faucet.
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[laughing]
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I kind of have to get a sense of where
I'm gonna get pulled the most.
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Sometimes that's about people
we're expecting to hear from.
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Other times we'll get
information about people
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we would have never thought
would come through.
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Kind of, people will come
wanting to hear from Mom
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and sometimes they hear
from mother-in-law. [chuckles]
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I have no control,
so just full disclosure.
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But as we go through this,
basically, I'll relay everything.
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And big on specifics,
I find that inside jokes,
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family dynamics,
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recent conversations,
and oftentimes sentimental memories
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will just kind of come in
as a way to validate information
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that can't be researched,
can't be guessed.
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That's really what substantiates
these connections.
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So, we'll kind of navigate it accordingly.
I do love objects.
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That's always kind of one
of my favorite ways to get to connect.
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So today, Kristin, we can start with yours
and I'll give it a hold on to.
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Sure.
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Kristin, tell us,
you're a huge fan of Tyler's.
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-[Tyler chuckles] Aw.
-Are you so excited to be here today?
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Yeah, I can't believe it's happening.
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I actually-- When he was off the air
for a bit, I actually prayed for him
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because I saw how much energy
and love he puts into the world
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and I know what the cost of that is.
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-So, I'm really happy to be here.
-[Tyler] Aw.
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Thank you so much, Kristin.
So, so appreciate you.
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-[Kristin] Course.
-Oh, my goodness.
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I've got a lot. This is good.
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Thankfully, you know, it's awkward
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when I sit down and a medium goes,
"Uh-oh, there's nothing."
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-[chuckles] I'll be all right.
-No, this is good. Okay.
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You know what I'm gonna do?
I'm gonna take it object by object,
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but first I'm gonna start with this one,
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and then we'll kind of try
to connect it to each one,
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and we'll kind of see where we go.
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As I share my initial impressions
with this, immediately
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I'm given an overwhelming sense
of relief and love from Mom.
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"Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom"
keeps coming in.
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Now, anytime I get that symbology, M-O-M,
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it's basically an acknowledgement
of wanting to refer to being Mom
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to lots of different people.
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And we're going to kind of get
into how this kind of figures out.
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But this lady comes across and she feels
like she would have looked younger
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than her age or prided herself
on looking younger than her age.
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So, if there was a conversation
around that or if you ever remember
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her saying that or that being said--
Do you?
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-Yes, absolutely.
-Okay.
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I have to highlight
this kind of youthfulness.
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Now, what's so interesting
is she highlights
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the last two years of her life.
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And she kind of showing me
what is kind of a symbol
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of an amalgamation of things
that kind of all contribute to a passing.
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So, oftentimes people will deal
with like one annoying thing
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and they deal with it
and deal with it and deal with it.
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And then a second thing comes in
and just kind of takes them out
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and expedites this process.
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-Yes. Yes.
-She brings that up in the last two years.
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There's a sense of knowingness
that my time is going to be limited
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in the grand scheme
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and a sense of acceptance
that comes through.
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It's-- There's a lot of like
surprising amount of peace there
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before she even transitions.
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-And I need you to know that.
-Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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When this lady comes across,
there's a few things I want to mention.
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She's showing me a couple different things
about just overall health, wellbeing.
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She's having me acknowledge
this feeling of weight loss.
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And when I talk about eating,
and making sure I'm eating regularly.
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-And I feel like I have to check in.
-[Genna chuckles]
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[Tyler]
But she's giving me this, like, shaky…
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Remember that I'm saying this.
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You know when people
sometimes just kind of have a hard time
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keeping their hands still?
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She's showing me this, like,
shakiness in the way this comes through.
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-Do you ever remember there being that?
-Yes. Yeah.
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She's also showing me,
and this is just one of those
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quirky things that's just good
to keep in mind,
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if someone moves their jaw
in a certain way,
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I know it's kind of a weird thing to say,
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but I'm wanting to move my jaw
like this, in a kind of funny sense.
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Some of those people when they like, gnaw,
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like thinking about something, or…
I'm doing that,
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it's just kind of coming in,
and it comes across.
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Yeah, yeah, I see that.
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It's a funny thing,
but I'm going to my lower face
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in the way this kind
of comes across, and it strikes me.
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I want to bring up,
in the way this pops in,
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two mother figure references.
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For sure this one has to be passed.
Do you have another mother figure as well?
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-Yes.
-Okay. Would she still be living?
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-No. Passed, okay.
-I have one that…
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-is living, and one is passed.
-[Tyler] Gotcha.
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Okay, so we have-- Gotcha.
Acknowledgements of two mother figures,
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one living, one passed.
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Okay, when we talk about
the living mother figure,
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and we go to her, they're having,
it's kind of interesting,
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this mom figure that's passed is watching
over this living mother figure.
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And like, there's a sense of when
we talk about living mother figures'
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health and well-being,
she's watching over her like a hawk.
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[sniffles]
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[Tyler] I have to articulate things kind
of sensitively 'cause we are on TV.
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[chuckles]
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-But in the way this comes across…
-I hear ya.
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…they're looking out for living,
Mom, health-related stuff.
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We need to keep in mind with Mom, living,
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that there's going to be basically
a situation where… [sighs]
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…I see swelling in the lower extremities
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-and fluid building up.
-Yeah.
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And a feeling of like,
"How do I get this fluid out of my body?"
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It's kind of similar
when people have lymphedema
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-or like circulation problems…
-Yes.
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…throughout their body.
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And it feels frustrating,
like this isn't an easy solution to fix
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or is ongoing.
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And that,
paired with some other health stuff,
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I just really want to kind
of put an awareness around Mom.
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-Got it.
-In the way this comes in.
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With what I described, does that
make sense with what you know?
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-Every single thing.
-[Tyler] Okay.
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'Cause there's some very interesting
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circulatory susceptibilities,
fluid retention.
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-Even my ankles feel swollen.
-[Kristin] It's just crazy.
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So, Kristin, your living mom
has some of these health issues?
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-[Kristin] Yes.
-Okay.
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-[Tyler] Okay. And then, when we go to…
-Yes, exact.
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…Mom that passed, do you know
if she had any history of lung problems
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-in her family at all?
-[laughs]
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Because I'm trying to go…
[inhales deeply]
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-COPD.
-Gotcha.
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I'm hearing like raspy,
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like… [inhales deeply] …you know
when you go to inhale and it's crunchy?
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-You never want a crunchy inhale.
-[laughs] No, you don't.
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[Tyler] No, but it's kind of coming in
in the way this comes across.
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And I feel like I have to highlight that
in some kind of larger capacity.
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I have to kind of go
all across the board here.
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I have this other guy that's coming in
over here who's hitting me closer to like,
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"I should have had more time."
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And he's different
and he's not related to you.
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So I'm gonna figure that out in a minute.
[chuckles]
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But give me one sec,
'cause there's more to cover with this.
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Now, we talk about
the living mother figure
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and we go to her side of family.
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They're having me talk
about basically any family members
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who would have
dealt with any breast-related
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or cancer-related issues
to the feminine systems.
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So, that's usually breast,
ovarian, uterine.
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-That's kind of like the area I go.
-It's all-- It's correct.
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That's one that I need to highlight
in kind of some kind of larger capacity.
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There's some reference…
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What in the world is this?
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Just got pulled in a different direction,
so I'm excited.
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[chuckles] I think I-- they're starting
to like come in over here.
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We're all good there.
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-Are you married?
-I am.
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-Congratulations, that's awesome.
-Thank you. [chuckles]
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-This is so random.
-Finally.
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-I feel like I have to highlight…
-[laughs]
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…partner's family coming through…
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-[Kristin gasps]
-…and wanting to celebrate your union,
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but I have to highlight his family,
his people.
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Um, give me one sec.
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In the way this comes in,
I'm just gonna look there.
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-There's a very strong military kind of…
-[gasps]
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[Tyler] …emphasis that comes in.
Then there's this guy.
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Oh, my gosh!
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Just remember that I'm saying this.
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In his family, they're having me talk
about, like, a tragic situation
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that may have happened, that created
an intergenerational effect within family,
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where people weren't
able to fully grieve or deal.
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Um, there's just a lot of sense of, like,
silent loyalty, not bragging,
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not speaking about my history,
but people finding things out later.
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-[Kristin] Correct.
-It's, like, a lot of stuff there.
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Oh, my gosh.
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[Tyler] But there's a silent admiration
that comes through.
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And there's this sense of like,
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"What I was known for,
that's only scraping the surface."
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There was so much done
that he didn't talk about.
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That's the only way to describe it.
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-That makes sense in what you know?
-That makes-- Yes, I mean, beyond.
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-[Tyler] Okay.
-That was unexpected.
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Gotcha. Let me take a bit of a turn
in the way this comes across.
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Kristin, can I just ask,
the military connection,
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it's with your husband's family?
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My husband's grandfather
was a prisoner of war.
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-[Tyler] Oh, my God.
-[Amanda] Oh, my gosh.
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And for two years was in Germany,
a prisoner of war.
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And when he came back,
he came back a different person, sad.
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There was a divorce.
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And they're very,
very salt of the earth, private people,
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-and dealt with it… down.
-[Amanda] Mm.
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And I think he… I mean,
obviously people move on in their life,
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but I think it was always…
there and sad.
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-Right. Right.
-[Tyler] Absolutely.
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You know, it's so beautiful
when this comes through,
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'cause there's a sense of healing
and seeing the intergenerational effect.
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Yes.
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And there's just a sense of pride,
particularly in the women in the family…
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-Oh, yeah.
-…for their ability to continue on
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and be strong.
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There's this kind of funny thing of,
like, the men come through as, like,
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warriors, you know, but he's like,
"The female warriors in my family,"
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almost like continuing on that.
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-That's just so true, Tyler.
-[Tyler] Fascinates me.
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It's really, really interesting
when it comes in,
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but I just have to highlight there.
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This is off the wall,
if I go this direction really qu…
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Ooh, well, hold on, 'cause we have, like…
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-[exhales] Like, 20 people, so…
-[laughing]
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-What I'm gonna do…
-[Amanda] Oh, man.
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Let me give this a gander and we're going…
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I'm gonna go back to that in a minute
'cause there's a lot of information there.
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On a side note, um, you mentioned
a Christmas Netflix thing?
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-[Amanda] Yes, a holiday movie she did.
-Yeah. That's incredible.
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So, this makes this validation
kind of like, "Okay, whatever."
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But it was weird, before I came on stage,
I kept seeing music and Christmas music
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and Christmas music release.
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So, if you get the chance to do a jingle,
it doesn't surprise me,
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considering now as I sit down
and I find out you're doing a thing.
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-[Kristin] That's cra-- There you go.
-It'd be like the equivalent
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of a holiday album, holiday song
made specifically for a project.
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She's doing a holiday concert in LA.
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-I am. Thank you very much.
-[laughing]
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I sat down and I'm like, "This is…
Really, my goodness."
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That explains it for you, right? [laughs]
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-[Tyler] Yes. Yes, yes, yes.
-[Amanda] Wow. Yes.
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Okay, let me take this a step further
in the way this comes in,
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and I'm gonna go over here.
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So, I have this interesting situation.
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I have a very no-nonsense man
coming through.
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[laughs] I have to figure out who he is.
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There's this sense of people expecting
to hear from him more than they have.
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So anytime I get that, it's usually
indicative of people would think,
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"Thought they'd be giving lots of signs."
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And people just are not noticing
as much as they would like.
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Let me figure out who he is.
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Um, give me one minute here.
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My guy, my guy, my guy. Okay.
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Huh.
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One sec.
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[exhales] Okay.
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This is gonna sound a little strange.
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I have this guy coming in
a little bit closer to middle age.
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Do you know, over here, if anybody's lost
a father figure that would be kind of
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closer to middle age,
like not elderly when they went?
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Okay, you can relate to that.
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I have to highlight this sense of,
I feel like a brick house.
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Like… [laughs] …I'm just coming in.
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And the only way to describe this is…
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The way I would articulate this
is a sense of, kind of,
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when we talk about decades
that I never got the chance to have,
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there's this feeling of,
kind of, like, the plan
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and the idea of, like,
we make plans and God laughs.
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And this idea of just,
kind of, like, watching this unfold
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in a very different way.
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Within your family, do you know
where two girls would be?
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So, like, two females
that would be siblings?
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-[Shannon] Mm-hmm.
-[Tyler] Okay.
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'Cause I gotta highlight them.
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And they're putting that
in a very strong emphasis…
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-Interesting. Oh, man.
-[Tyler] …of looking at.
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The way I want to articulate this,
this is very interesting.
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So, the-- The presentation,
the way this kind of comes through is…
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heavy but not negative
in any way, shape, or form.
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When I say heavy, there's just
like a lot of information there
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and a lot I feel
like I want to communicate.
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He's putting more of an emphasis
on the inter-relational aspect
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of living people
than he even is on his own death.
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So, he's like, "I don't wanna
leave a mess with the living people."
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And he's showing me my symbol,
as Amanda knows,
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of the symbol of keeping glue,
like glue that keeps people together.
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-[Shannon] Mm-hmm.
-And then when I pass,
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things kind of come unglued,
people's relationships stray.
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And I need you to know the way
that this comes across,
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there's this feeling
of knowing what is our responsibility
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and what's not. [chuckles]
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So kind of this essence of kind of
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understanding people
are gonna do what they're gonna do.
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We can't fix a situation
that involves so many nuanced factors.
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And to be completely honest with you,
this predates even his passing.
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-There was historical stuff that informed…
-Yeah.
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-…and then this just acts as a catalyst…
-Mm-hmm.
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…that kind of causes this to happen.
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I need you to know with that said,
there's a sense of release
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from responsibility,
a sense of, like, patting on the back,
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a feeling of just not making
the wrong choice.
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Like, I just don't feel like
in any way here you've messed up…
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-Mm-hmm.
-…or this has been, like… [laughs]
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-Yeah. Yeah.
-[Tyler] There's very much a sense
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of taking your side
and being on your team with this.
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-[Shannon sighs] That feels good.
-But it does reflect.
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Yeah,
it reflects some complicated stuff
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and all families
deal with complicated things,
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but it's a way of trying
to kind of release that.
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Amanda, before you interject,
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-give me one sec.
-[Amanda laughs] Yeah.
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-You feel me, like… [laughs]
-I can feel it. I can sense it.
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-What is your first name again?
-[Shannon] Shannon.
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[Tyler] Shannon, okay.
Remember that I'm saying this,
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I can't figure out where we're going.
As I was reading you
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and then I was reading you,
I was going back and forth.
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Is there a William
in your husband's family?
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-I'm not sure.
-[Tyler] Okay.
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It's either yours or his.
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Let me look and see with this.
[clicks tongue]
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If I were to say George,
this is kind of interesting.
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And the way this comes across,
and I were to kind of expand this out,
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does anybody relate to a George here?
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Living or passed?
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I feel like there's a George in my family,
but I'm not-- I've heard the name.
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-[Tyler] That's okay. Okay.
-I'm not sure.
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'Cause I'm going to both,
and I just have to say your family
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and husband's family
come through equally as strong.
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It's so cute. It's actually like precious
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-in the way that it comes in.
-Tyler.
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But it's funny.
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I am highlighting those two names.
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00:16:49,959 --> 00:16:51,294
-Both are good to look into…
-[Kristin] Okay.
402
00:16:51,327 --> 00:16:54,914
…but it's like different sides of family,
different people.
403
00:16:54,947 --> 00:16:57,416
I want to-- Can I hold on to
the object you brought?
404
00:16:57,450 --> 00:16:58,467
-[Shannon] Sure.
-Yeah. I'd love to.
405
00:16:58,501 --> 00:17:00,286
-I have a couple, but…
-I love that.
406
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-Gives me options.
-These are both from one person.
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00:17:02,622 --> 00:17:03,990
Amazing. Thank you so much.
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00:17:04,023 --> 00:17:05,324
-[Shannon] Yeah.
-[Tyler] Okay.
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-[Shannon] These are from a second person.
-[Tyler] Oh, amazing.
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00:17:08,744 --> 00:17:13,900
Shannon, can we go back
and clarify who the two females are?
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00:17:13,933 --> 00:17:17,403
And that-- I know you guys
were really close and hugging.
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There was a lot of…
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Yeah, so my dad passed when I was ten.
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-I'm 31 now.
-[Tyler] I'm so sorry.
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And I have two half-sisters.
My dad was married previously to my mom.
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So, I have two half-sisters
and we don't have a great relationship.
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00:17:32,835 --> 00:17:35,054
-And don't have much of one at all.
-[Amanda] Okay.
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But I hold a lot of guilt 'cause…
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You know, you share a father
who's no longer here,
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but we don't have a relationship.
421
00:17:42,445 --> 00:17:44,730
-[Amanda] Right. Okay.
-So, that's very interesting.
422
00:17:44,764 --> 00:17:46,082
Thank you for that openness.
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And I know a lot of people
who can relate to similar dynamics
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through their grief will find
a lot of comfort in your openness
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and willingness to share that.
'Cause there's this sense of, you know,
426
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you can lead a horse to water,
can't make it drink.
427
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And that's so often true
for so many things.
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There's a sense
of exuberance that comes through
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in the way that this pops in.
430
00:18:03,799 --> 00:18:07,286
Um, there's a message I want
to kind of give you privately,
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but give me one second,
I'll just take note of it.
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It's about how we treat people equally
433
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and… [chuckles] …if I could do it
over certain things around
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establishing and validating
this person versus that person.
435
00:18:21,300 --> 00:18:24,103
So, give me one minute.
We're gonna give this a scribble.
436
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Oh, my goodness.
437
00:18:26,272 --> 00:18:27,873
Oh, do you know of anyone
who's passed since 2020?
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-[Shannon] Yes.
-Yeah, 'cause I gotta highlight
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passing since 2020. Gotta go there.
440
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There's a conversation,
for some reason, around genetics
441
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and mental health, cognitive health,
442
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genetic health susceptibilities
around that.
443
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And this is just good to keep in mind.
There might've been, like, someone might--
444
00:18:44,340 --> 00:18:46,592
I don't know,
I've never seen this symbol before.
445
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If somebody ends up going
and getting their genetics tested
446
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or something along those lines,
remember that I'm saying that,
447
00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,966
'cause I'm seeing my symbol
for usually what I attribute to 23andMe.
448
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:55,551
-[laughs]
-[guests laughing]
449
00:18:55,584 --> 00:18:57,837
-It's kinda defunct now, largely.
-[guests laughing]
450
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Um, but there's an aspect
of like genetic exploration.
451
00:19:01,357 --> 00:19:02,775
On Dad's side of family,
452
00:19:02,808 --> 00:19:06,362
do you know if we talk
about people from other countries,
453
00:19:06,395 --> 00:19:08,981
other places, like where
was Dad from originally?
454
00:19:09,015 --> 00:19:10,399
And then where was Grandparents from?
455
00:19:10,433 --> 00:19:13,285
-From here, but Scottish heritage.
-[Tyler] Got it. [chuckles]
456
00:19:13,319 --> 00:19:17,723
When we kind of go to Dad's side, um…
457
00:19:19,458 --> 00:19:20,493
Let me look here.
458
00:19:21,344 --> 00:19:22,228
Ah.
459
00:19:23,729 --> 00:19:24,630
2020.
460
00:19:25,898 --> 00:19:27,566
Weird. They're showing me
my symbol for COVID,
461
00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,702
which is interesting
in the way this comes across.
462
00:19:29,735 --> 00:19:31,337
Coincidentally, do you know
463
00:19:31,370 --> 00:19:34,156
if someone in the family
had like a case of this
464
00:19:34,790 --> 00:19:38,444
around when he passed?
Like, I'm not putting it as his passing.
465
00:19:38,477 --> 00:19:40,896
I'm having to talk
about people getting sick… [chuckles]
466
00:19:40,930 --> 00:19:44,100
…or a really bad case, 'cause I have
to talk about long COVID symptoms.
467
00:19:44,133 --> 00:19:45,584
-Yeah.
-And like someone complaining of, like,
468
00:19:45,718 --> 00:19:47,937
"I feel like I got it
and I never really kicked it."
469
00:19:47,970 --> 00:19:50,923
But it would have been putting me
in that, kind of, like, dealing with grief
470
00:19:50,956 --> 00:19:53,059
and then someone also
getting COVID on top of that,
471
00:19:53,092 --> 00:19:54,694
and having to kind of process that.
472
00:19:54,727 --> 00:19:57,396
Do you know if anyone got it
in the family at all?
473
00:19:57,430 --> 00:19:59,465
-I have to think.
-[Tyler] No problem.
474
00:19:59,498 --> 00:20:01,200
And we got some half-sister situations
475
00:20:01,283 --> 00:20:04,336
that I'm wondering if there
could be some connections with.
476
00:20:04,370 --> 00:20:05,888
Yeah, I'm not sure.
477
00:20:05,921 --> 00:20:07,907
But it definitely comes in,
and it's just kind of like,
478
00:20:07,940 --> 00:20:09,508
while we're dealing with this,
we have to process them.
479
00:20:09,542 --> 00:20:11,977
-Yeah.
-[Tyler] By and large, yeah.
480
00:20:12,011 --> 00:20:13,729
I feel
like I should have had more time.
481
00:20:13,763 --> 00:20:16,282
Kristin, does this relate to you?
I feel like you're…
482
00:20:16,315 --> 00:20:18,350
-Well, I mean, 2020?
-[Amanda] …feeling…
483
00:20:18,384 --> 00:20:19,835
-[Amanda] Yeah.
-[Tyler] Yeah.
484
00:20:21,053 --> 00:20:23,456
-Yeah, my best friend, but I don't know.
-[Tyler] I'm so sorry.
485
00:20:23,489 --> 00:20:26,392
Yeah. And there could be a lot
of people, but this guy's coming in.
486
00:20:26,425 --> 00:20:28,344
There's something-- I'm trying
to think of how to articulate this.
487
00:20:28,377 --> 00:20:29,929
-Can I just whisper this in your ear?
-[Shannon] Sure.
488
00:20:29,962 --> 00:20:31,464
-Like what I would want to tell you?
-[Shannon] Yeah.
489
00:20:31,547 --> 00:20:33,766
'Cause it's kind of, like--
Oh, let me see here.
490
00:20:33,799 --> 00:20:35,000
[Amanda] Yeah.
491
00:20:35,034 --> 00:20:36,135
[indistinct chatter]
492
00:20:36,168 --> 00:20:37,837
-[Amanda] So, for our viewers at home…
-Yeah.
493
00:20:37,870 --> 00:20:40,606
Let me, like, whisper it like this,
and I'll cover my mic.
494
00:20:40,639 --> 00:20:43,526
[Amanda] So, our viewers at home,
sometimes Tyler has, you know,
495
00:20:43,559 --> 00:20:46,812
personal messages that he wants
to just share with the person
496
00:20:47,696 --> 00:20:50,483
that maybe aren't
something you say publicly.
497
00:20:50,516 --> 00:20:54,587
So, he does this once in a while.
It's just sensitive information.
498
00:20:55,738 --> 00:20:57,940
-[Melody] That's, like, really thoughtful.
-[Genna] Yeah.
499
00:20:57,973 --> 00:21:00,126
It is. It's very thoughtful.
500
00:21:00,276 --> 00:21:03,693
[indistinct chatter]
501
00:21:06,182 --> 00:21:07,733
-[Kristin] Oh, wow.
-[Tyler chuckles]
502
00:21:07,767 --> 00:21:09,535
-Thanks.
-[Tyler] Yeah, I need you to know that.
503
00:21:09,568 --> 00:21:13,789
[chuckles] Sweetheart. I would love
to stay in touch. We're gonna… talk.
504
00:21:13,823 --> 00:21:15,224
-Shannon.
-[Amanda] Aw.
505
00:21:15,257 --> 00:21:17,726
That was… [chuckles] …that was a big one.
I was sitting here like,
506
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,361
"How do I say this? How do I say this?"
507
00:21:19,395 --> 00:21:22,081
It's just better
to just sometimes get it out directly.
508
00:21:22,114 --> 00:21:24,517
I know.
I don't want to interrupt but I was…
509
00:21:25,234 --> 00:21:26,752
-'Cause I was adopted.
-[Tyler] Yeah.
510
00:21:26,786 --> 00:21:29,522
The 21 and three and me or whatever.
511
00:21:29,555 --> 00:21:31,040
-[Tyler] Yeah.
-Been talking about that a lot.
512
00:21:31,106 --> 00:21:32,408
-[Tyler] Oh, have you? Yeah.
-Finding my own…
513
00:21:32,441 --> 00:21:37,029
Because there's some argument
as to what I actually am.
514
00:21:37,062 --> 00:21:39,031
-[Tyler] Yeah, I love it.
-I feel like, my mom…
515
00:21:39,064 --> 00:21:40,332
[Tyler] Mm-hmm.
516
00:21:40,366 --> 00:21:41,867
-…wants me to do that.
-[Tyler] Yeah, do it.
517
00:21:41,901 --> 00:21:44,270
I think the exploration,
knowledge is power.
518
00:21:44,303 --> 00:21:46,055
It can be a beautiful thing.
519
00:21:46,088 --> 00:21:49,575
There's a joke about surprise
of not having native… Oh.
520
00:21:50,109 --> 00:21:52,294
That's funny. There might have been a joke
about someone thinking
521
00:21:52,328 --> 00:21:53,863
they're Native American
or Native American history
522
00:21:53,913 --> 00:21:55,598
-and then being like, "Oh, no."
-[Shannon] Oh, my goodness.
523
00:21:55,631 --> 00:21:56,749
-That's what…
-[Tyler] Womp, womp.
524
00:21:56,782 --> 00:21:59,502
Okay, so yesterday,
Tyler, we had a conversation.
525
00:21:59,535 --> 00:22:00,536
Yeah.
526
00:22:00,586 --> 00:22:02,788
-My mother, alive, says…
-[Shannon chuckles]
527
00:22:02,822 --> 00:22:05,324
…"You're not that," and my birth mother
said, "You are Native American."
528
00:22:05,357 --> 00:22:06,425
Yeah, yeah.
529
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:08,527
Can you even believe it? You two--
530
00:22:08,561 --> 00:22:10,329
Yes, and I said to her last night,
531
00:22:10,362 --> 00:22:12,364
I was like, "Well,
maybe you should just get 23andMe,
532
00:22:12,398 --> 00:22:13,365
and you'll find out, like…
533
00:22:13,399 --> 00:22:15,034
-[Amanda] Woah.
-…really what you're made out of.
534
00:22:15,067 --> 00:22:17,703
I mean, that's actually--
My mind is blown.
535
00:22:17,736 --> 00:22:18,938
[laughing]
536
00:22:19,038 --> 00:22:20,322
That's exactly what we were talking about.
537
00:22:20,356 --> 00:22:21,240
-Yeah.
-Got it.
538
00:22:21,340 --> 00:22:22,491
Now, it wouldn't surprise me
539
00:22:22,525 --> 00:22:25,477
one bit if we find that we were not
as Native American as we were told.
540
00:22:25,561 --> 00:22:26,529
That's what I would say.
541
00:22:26,562 --> 00:22:28,347
-That's what my mother says.
-[Amanda] Interesting.
542
00:22:28,380 --> 00:22:30,082
-My birth mom says no.
-My birth mom says no. Yeah.
543
00:22:30,115 --> 00:22:32,268
Birth mom was fun, and she comes across…
544
00:22:32,351 --> 00:22:33,519
-Yeah. She's--
-[laughing]
545
00:22:33,569 --> 00:22:34,803
She's very fun.
546
00:22:34,837 --> 00:22:36,572
She likes a good story,
the way this comes across.
547
00:22:36,672 --> 00:22:38,307
-[Amanda] Oh, my goodness.
-[Tyler] There's a sense of…
548
00:22:38,340 --> 00:22:40,559
She really had a youthfulness
that she kind of…
549
00:22:40,593 --> 00:22:41,644
-Yes. Yes.
-…permeates.
550
00:22:41,827 --> 00:22:44,396
[Tyler] I have to just say, this is good
to keep in mind by and large within,
551
00:22:44,430 --> 00:22:45,598
like, women and family.
552
00:22:45,631 --> 00:22:47,733
She gives me, like,
a little bit of a susceptibility
553
00:22:47,766 --> 00:22:49,885
in her life to something similar
to fibromyalgia.
554
00:22:49,952 --> 00:22:51,637
-I don't know if you know what that is?
-Yes. I do.
555
00:22:51,670 --> 00:22:54,123
But it generally is something
that's, like, systematic,
556
00:22:54,156 --> 00:22:55,841
-contributes to chronic fatigue.
-She has that.
557
00:22:55,875 --> 00:22:56,759
-[Tyler] Yeah, so…
-Had that.
558
00:22:56,792 --> 00:22:58,811
…just remember from a genetic perspective.
559
00:22:58,878 --> 00:23:01,280
I don't know why there's aspects
of, like, susceptibility…
560
00:23:01,313 --> 00:23:03,682
-[Kristin] Okay.
-…keeping that in mind just by and large.
561
00:23:03,716 --> 00:23:05,417
-Thank you.
-[Tyler] All good there.
562
00:23:05,517 --> 00:23:09,471
Kristin, do you have any stories, like,
this younger feeling that she always had?
563
00:23:09,505 --> 00:23:11,690
She was just a hippie
564
00:23:11,724 --> 00:23:13,926
and she was my size
and she talked just like me.
565
00:23:13,959 --> 00:23:14,843
[Amanda laughs]
566
00:23:14,877 --> 00:23:17,212
She used to see me on TV
and never put it together,
567
00:23:17,246 --> 00:23:18,631
but we're just alike.
568
00:23:18,664 --> 00:23:22,151
-Oh, my gosh.
-I mean, she's petite.
569
00:23:22,184 --> 00:23:24,803
-People thought she was younger than--
-[Tyler chuckles] Her age.
570
00:23:24,837 --> 00:23:27,139
They thought she was younger than--
And she always said to me,
571
00:23:27,172 --> 00:23:31,477
"Now, baby, don't be a smoker like me
'cause you always will look young,
572
00:23:31,510 --> 00:23:32,845
like I did for so long."
573
00:23:32,878 --> 00:23:33,729
[Amanda] Oh, my God.
574
00:23:33,779 --> 00:23:36,231
That's what her thing was.
"I always looked young."
575
00:23:36,282 --> 00:23:38,350
-[Tyler] That's so precious.
-I mean, it's crazy.
576
00:23:38,384 --> 00:23:39,285
Yeah.
577
00:23:39,318 --> 00:23:41,053
It's so interesting.
The things that get brought up, I find,
578
00:23:41,086 --> 00:23:43,172
are often kind of symbolic
in their own way.
579
00:23:43,205 --> 00:23:44,757
-Yes.
-[Tyler] It's really, really special.
580
00:23:44,790 --> 00:23:46,809
It's so cute. The joyfulness, the glee.
581
00:23:46,842 --> 00:23:48,210
-She shows me all these--
-Yes.
582
00:23:48,243 --> 00:23:49,995
This is funny. These crystals.
583
00:23:50,029 --> 00:23:51,447
You know,
like rock crystals that people…
584
00:23:51,547 --> 00:23:53,732
-Oh, my God! She get--
-[Tyler] She's putting them in a circle.
585
00:23:53,766 --> 00:23:55,384
It's very funny the way this comes across.
586
00:23:55,417 --> 00:23:57,236
It's like I have my little,
like, mini altar,
587
00:23:57,269 --> 00:23:58,837
but I wanna put these little, like,
588
00:23:58,871 --> 00:24:00,456
they're like tumbled rocks
in the way this comes across.
589
00:24:00,539 --> 00:24:02,791
Did she love crystals
or collect crystals like that?
590
00:24:02,841 --> 00:24:05,778
-She gave me those salt crystals…
-[Tyler] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
591
00:24:05,811 --> 00:24:07,746
…over and over for me
to have around me. It's healing.
592
00:24:07,780 --> 00:24:09,131
-[Tyler] That's so sweet.
-[Amanda] Oh, my God.
593
00:24:09,214 --> 00:24:10,582
-It comes across, yeah.
-Turquoise.
594
00:24:10,616 --> 00:24:11,817
[Amanda] What was that like when you--
595
00:24:11,884 --> 00:24:13,636
-[Tyler] Did you just say-- So sorry.
-Oh, sorry!
596
00:24:13,669 --> 00:24:15,337
Did you just say-- What did you just say?
597
00:24:15,371 --> 00:24:16,605
-Turquoise.
-Turquoise?
598
00:24:17,306 --> 00:24:18,924
-[chuckles]
-[Amanda chuckles]
599
00:24:18,958 --> 00:24:19,825
[Amanda] What?
600
00:24:19,858 --> 00:24:22,828
You told me you had things
that you were seeing before.
601
00:24:22,861 --> 00:24:24,663
So, I had something coming
in before we got here.
602
00:24:24,713 --> 00:24:25,714
[Amanda] He told me this backstage.
603
00:24:25,764 --> 00:24:27,900
He was like,
"I have so many things in my pockets."
604
00:24:27,983 --> 00:24:30,819
Now, it's weird that you mention that,
'cause when do I ever write?
605
00:24:30,853 --> 00:24:34,707
-[Shannon] That's, like, her thing.
-And the way this comes in, this is funny.
606
00:24:36,558 --> 00:24:38,510
So, I was seeing turquoise beads,
607
00:24:38,544 --> 00:24:41,647
and I wrote this down
with a date about someone considering,
608
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,134
"Do I take this? Do I not?
Do I want it? Where are these?"
609
00:24:45,167 --> 00:24:47,686
It's like a whole thing
that comes through.
610
00:24:47,753 --> 00:24:49,688
Just the fact you said turquoise,
I was like--
611
00:24:49,772 --> 00:24:54,493
She has turquoise rings, turquoise beads,
turquoise necklaces, turquoise…
612
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:55,728
[Tyler] Do you know where they are?
613
00:24:55,761 --> 00:24:59,365
It's with my sister,
but I'm going to get some of them.
614
00:24:59,398 --> 00:25:01,633
[Tyler] I love that. That is so funny.
You said that, I was like,
615
00:25:01,667 --> 00:25:03,335
"That is weird 'cause the way it came in."
616
00:25:03,369 --> 00:25:04,937
-[Amanda] Wow.
-[laughs] But very cool.
617
00:25:04,970 --> 00:25:06,155
You're blowing my mind.
618
00:25:06,188 --> 00:25:08,323
-[Amanda laughs]
-Very interesting.
619
00:25:08,374 --> 00:25:09,675
This is so fun.
620
00:25:09,708 --> 00:25:12,261
[all laugh]
621
00:25:12,361 --> 00:25:16,265
Um, weird question. Okay, sorry.
622
00:25:16,298 --> 00:25:18,167
Wow, they have me go
in different directions.
623
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,352
-I'm gonna gently put this over here.
-Sure.
624
00:25:20,953 --> 00:25:23,222
And then I haven't forgotten those.
625
00:25:23,255 --> 00:25:26,575
-I'm gonna try to work my way over there.
-[Kristin] Yeah, of course.
626
00:25:26,608 --> 00:25:30,446
This is kind of interesting.
So, put that there.
627
00:25:30,479 --> 00:25:33,298
Give this a scribble.
This is so left field.
628
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,002
Kristin, do you, most people
obviously have a makeup artist.
629
00:25:37,036 --> 00:25:39,805
Do you have a makeup artist
that you, like, know regularly,
630
00:25:39,838 --> 00:25:40,839
like, the same one?
631
00:25:40,873 --> 00:25:43,158
-Yes.
-[Tyler] So, this is gonna sound so weird.
632
00:25:43,192 --> 00:25:46,361
Kristin, I don't know how to say this,
but she should have been here today.
633
00:25:46,395 --> 00:25:48,447
Oh my God, Tyler, she's here.
634
00:25:49,264 --> 00:25:51,784
And her dad, if I go in that direction,
635
00:25:51,817 --> 00:25:53,952
do we know much
about her dad's side of family at all?
636
00:25:53,986 --> 00:25:55,003
I know that…
637
00:25:55,938 --> 00:25:57,656
-Mom and dad have--
-[Tyler] Got it.
638
00:25:57,689 --> 00:25:58,924
-She's here in the studio.
-[Tyler] Okay.
639
00:25:59,058 --> 00:26:00,242
There's this feeling.
640
00:26:00,275 --> 00:26:03,278
-It's so freaking weird.
-[Kristin] Jill, I hope you're listening.
641
00:26:03,312 --> 00:26:04,680
-[Tyler] Jill?
-[laughs] Sorry.
642
00:26:04,713 --> 00:26:08,434
Okay. If Jill would like to come out,
Jill can. [laughs]
643
00:26:08,467 --> 00:26:10,202
[Amanda] Can we bring Jill out here?
644
00:26:10,235 --> 00:26:12,771
But I have to highlight is,
it's just like coming in,
645
00:26:12,805 --> 00:26:16,308
it won't leave me alone,
and I want to go there. Oh my God.
646
00:26:16,341 --> 00:26:20,612
-[laughs]
-It is really genuinely kind of unusual.
647
00:26:21,497 --> 00:26:24,733
Whether we bring her out or not,
either way, I just have to let her know.
648
00:26:24,767 --> 00:26:25,984
Like, Dad's side of family hits me
649
00:26:26,118 --> 00:26:28,137
in the way this comes across
really strongly.
650
00:26:28,170 --> 00:26:31,006
There's a sense of, like,
a passing over a decade ago
651
00:26:31,056 --> 00:26:33,659
and this feeling of, like,
all of the changes in my life
652
00:26:33,692 --> 00:26:36,161
that have happened since I passed.
653
00:26:36,195 --> 00:26:38,981
There's this guy,
there's this feeling of, like…
654
00:26:39,014 --> 00:26:41,667
huh, similarity between husband and wife.
655
00:26:41,700 --> 00:26:44,553
Let me figure out
what that is really quickly. [laughs]
656
00:26:44,586 --> 00:26:47,439
It's very cute, but he does come in.
657
00:26:47,473 --> 00:26:48,740
This is kind of random.
658
00:26:48,774 --> 00:26:54,613
There's gonna be two coincidental things
involving Christmas-ish.
659
00:26:54,646 --> 00:26:56,398
So, oh God, we're gonna figure this out.
660
00:26:56,431 --> 00:26:57,649
-[laughs]
-[laughs]
661
00:26:57,716 --> 00:27:01,370
Oh gosh. As this comes in, Kristin,
one thing to look into,
662
00:27:01,403 --> 00:27:02,821
and this probably will not
connect right away,
663
00:27:02,855 --> 00:27:04,490
but check and see
if anyone had any birthdays
664
00:27:04,556 --> 00:27:06,441
or death dates on Christmas
or Christmas Eve.
665
00:27:06,475 --> 00:27:08,427
-Okay. Okay.
-[Tyler] So remember that I'm saying that.
666
00:27:08,460 --> 00:27:09,962
Jill was her name in the back.
667
00:27:09,995 --> 00:27:14,183
There's also like a Christmas connection
some form in other capacity.
668
00:27:14,216 --> 00:27:16,435
Both I'm pretty sure are going to link up
when we look into this.
669
00:27:16,468 --> 00:27:17,369
Okay.
670
00:27:17,402 --> 00:27:20,389
So, just let me know,
and if we get any feedback from Jill…
671
00:27:20,422 --> 00:27:23,142
Jill's on her way out.
We're getting her mic'd up, she's coming.
672
00:27:23,175 --> 00:27:24,076
[Tyler] No worries.
673
00:27:24,109 --> 00:27:26,445
-Here she comes.
-[Tyler] Kind of intense.
674
00:27:26,478 --> 00:27:29,798
-Here she comes. Hi, Jill.
-Oh, good. We've got… [laughs]
675
00:27:29,832 --> 00:27:32,267
Looks like you're coming in, baby.
676
00:27:32,301 --> 00:27:34,253
-Get over here.
-I've got to give you a hug real quick.
677
00:27:34,286 --> 00:27:35,888
-Thank you for coming.
-Hi, Tyler.
678
00:27:35,921 --> 00:27:37,990
I'm sorry.
I know this is a little overwhelming.
679
00:27:38,023 --> 00:27:40,275
-Sit down.
-Oh, she wants to get over there.
680
00:27:40,309 --> 00:27:42,828
Oh, good.
Yeah, you can sit wherever you'd like.
681
00:27:42,861 --> 00:27:45,731
-[all laugh]
-[Tyler] Hi!
682
00:27:45,764 --> 00:27:49,351
So, this is so strange,
but I feel like when I talk to you,
683
00:27:49,384 --> 00:27:50,986
can you relate to a dad that's passed?
684
00:27:51,019 --> 00:27:51,937
-Yes.
-[Tyler] Okay.
685
00:27:51,970 --> 00:27:55,457
If I were to talk about three siblings
being significant, like, within a family,
686
00:27:55,490 --> 00:27:57,693
do you know where those three would be?
687
00:27:57,726 --> 00:27:59,611
-My brother and my sister.
-[Tyler] Okay.
688
00:27:59,645 --> 00:28:02,464
I have to highlight a joke
about being the middle child
689
00:28:02,497 --> 00:28:05,234
or getting, like, the short end
of the stick as a middle child
690
00:28:05,267 --> 00:28:07,953
-and the unique challenges that happen.
-[guests laughing]
691
00:28:07,986 --> 00:28:09,738
[Tyler] And there's an interesting thing.
692
00:28:09,771 --> 00:28:11,690
This is going to sound kind
of unique, but, like,
693
00:28:11,723 --> 00:28:14,226
so my parents had me
when they were a little older.
694
00:28:14,259 --> 00:28:16,111
So I have, like, older parents.
No offense, Mom.
695
00:28:16,245 --> 00:28:17,629
-You're still 28.
-[guests laughing]
696
00:28:17,729 --> 00:28:19,464
And you look damn good, girl.
697
00:28:19,498 --> 00:28:21,266
-[Tyler] Exactly.
-[Amanda] You look good over there.
698
00:28:21,300 --> 00:28:23,001
There's a feeling, the way this comes
through of, like,
699
00:28:23,035 --> 00:28:24,203
people living a pretty good,
700
00:28:24,236 --> 00:28:26,438
like, older full life,
but I feel like I've been gone
701
00:28:26,471 --> 00:28:28,574
for quite some time,
the way this comes through.
702
00:28:28,607 --> 00:28:32,711
So, when we talk about decades
of time passing, I have to highlight that.
703
00:28:32,744 --> 00:28:34,680
How long ago was it when Dad went?
704
00:28:36,965 --> 00:28:38,767
It was probably…
705
00:28:40,769 --> 00:28:42,204
fifteen years ago.
706
00:28:42,254 --> 00:28:45,207
Okay, so definitely kind of more
in that kind of wheelhouse.
707
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,993
I have to talk
about this feeling when we refer
708
00:28:48,026 --> 00:28:51,463
to the last week of his life.
He only brings me really the last week
709
00:28:51,496 --> 00:28:54,333
for some reason, I don't really
see much emphasis on much before
710
00:28:54,366 --> 00:28:57,119
and much after, he's kind of giving me
this acknowledgement
711
00:28:57,152 --> 00:29:00,389
of when we talk
about basically an initial start
712
00:29:00,422 --> 00:29:02,824
and then I see a snowball,
the snowballing
713
00:29:02,858 --> 00:29:05,661
kind of very, very quickly,
kind of confusing,
714
00:29:05,694 --> 00:29:08,080
but basically is indicative
of an established issue
715
00:29:08,113 --> 00:29:11,934
that then takes a very, very, very
quick downturn in the way that pops in.
716
00:29:12,868 --> 00:29:13,936
He gives me the sense--
717
00:29:13,969 --> 00:29:16,972
Remember that I'm saying this,
there might end up being like,
718
00:29:17,005 --> 00:29:18,674
you know models of things,
719
00:29:18,774 --> 00:29:21,026
I'm trying to think
of how to articulate this.
720
00:29:21,543 --> 00:29:25,063
Check and see if there's any medical tools
that anyone saved,
721
00:29:25,097 --> 00:29:29,334
anything funny involving, like, devices,
what someone would do at work,
722
00:29:29,368 --> 00:29:31,737
occupationally,
but I'm wanting to joke about it.
723
00:29:31,770 --> 00:29:34,890
So, it reminds me kind of like,
I had a science teacher
724
00:29:34,923 --> 00:29:38,860
who had a skeleton in his classroom
and I'd be like, "It's Mr. Bones," right?
725
00:29:38,894 --> 00:29:40,412
It's not that kind of thing exactly,
726
00:29:40,445 --> 00:29:42,848
but they're having me talk
about like medical-related stuff
727
00:29:42,881 --> 00:29:45,550
and an object that we would still
retain in some way.
728
00:29:45,584 --> 00:29:47,619
Do you know anything about models?
729
00:29:47,653 --> 00:29:50,706
Well, my dad was a dentist,
and he kept all his dental tools.
730
00:29:50,739 --> 00:29:54,593
-[Tyler] Oh, gotcha.
-[Amanda] Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh.
731
00:29:54,626 --> 00:29:57,379
On your mom's side of family,
when we kind of go there,
732
00:29:57,412 --> 00:29:59,965
there's some very strong personalities.
[laughs]
733
00:29:59,998 --> 00:30:02,217
-I have to highlight that side of things.
-Jill.
734
00:30:02,250 --> 00:30:04,753
What's kind of interesting
with Mom's side of deal,
735
00:30:05,587 --> 00:30:06,738
kind of a unique thing.
736
00:30:06,772 --> 00:30:09,424
One of the biggest messages
that come through is this feeling of
737
00:30:09,458 --> 00:30:14,479
not needing a send-off
in the traditional sense, and it's okay.
738
00:30:14,513 --> 00:30:16,882
So, when I get that message,
obviously I don't know
739
00:30:16,915 --> 00:30:19,184
whether you were for her
or not at the very end,
740
00:30:19,318 --> 00:30:22,087
the feeling with this is,
"I didn't need someone to be there
741
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,440
in my last dying moments
for them to know that I love them."
742
00:30:25,474 --> 00:30:28,810
So, there is no need for a rush,
no need for people to have to make it.
743
00:30:28,844 --> 00:30:31,013
There's this feeling of
this was all worked out earlier
744
00:30:31,046 --> 00:30:33,882
and I feel good about that
in the way this comes through.
745
00:30:34,049 --> 00:30:37,502
Do you know if people were able
to physically be there as she passed?
746
00:30:38,153 --> 00:30:40,589
My sister was, but it was--
747
00:30:40,622 --> 00:30:44,926
the initial cause of death
was an accident where she had--
748
00:30:45,427 --> 00:30:50,449
was in a-- was in a home
and went out the sliding glass doors
749
00:30:50,482 --> 00:30:54,269
and went walking down the street
and slipped and fell and hit her head.
750
00:30:54,302 --> 00:30:57,055
-I'm so sorry.
-[Jill] And then they took her back
751
00:30:57,089 --> 00:31:00,892
and they thought everything was fine,
but she was bleeding internally
752
00:31:00,926 --> 00:31:02,928
-and then rushed to the hospital.
-[Tyler] I'm so sorry.
753
00:31:02,961 --> 00:31:04,162
It's so interesting that you say this.
754
00:31:04,312 --> 00:31:06,231
As tragic as it is, one of the things
that was coming
755
00:31:06,264 --> 00:31:07,399
through was seeing blood thinner.
756
00:31:07,432 --> 00:31:09,801
And so, I wonder if there
was some underlying issues
757
00:31:09,835 --> 00:31:12,404
just kind of coincidentally with,
like, body's ability to clot.
758
00:31:12,437 --> 00:31:14,723
-Yeah.
-When we talk about Dad's side of family,
759
00:31:14,906 --> 00:31:16,441
do you know if anyone dealt
with any dementia
760
00:31:16,475 --> 00:31:18,143
or cognitive issues
where there would have been, like,
761
00:31:18,176 --> 00:31:19,678
a personality change?
762
00:31:19,711 --> 00:31:21,346
Not so much on my dad's side.
763
00:31:21,380 --> 00:31:23,148
[Tyler] Okay, on your mom's side, though,
do you know?
764
00:31:23,181 --> 00:31:27,119
Yeah, a little bit,
that she had vascular dementia.
765
00:31:27,652 --> 00:31:31,323
Do you know of any men on your mom's side
that would have passed?
766
00:31:31,356 --> 00:31:33,492
-Not offhand.
-[Tyler] Okay.
767
00:31:33,525 --> 00:31:36,762
I do, just when you go and check,
see if any men on your mom's side
768
00:31:36,795 --> 00:31:40,031
of family dealt with dementia,
just 'cause that is one father figure
769
00:31:40,065 --> 00:31:43,602
on that, evidently, side,
and then relating back to that.
770
00:31:43,635 --> 00:31:46,238
And then, yeah, by and large,
771
00:31:46,271 --> 00:31:47,873
there's a joke
about the middle child thing… [laughs]
772
00:31:47,906 --> 00:31:51,243
It just comes across.
It comes across as, like, funny.
773
00:31:51,326 --> 00:31:56,264
All good,
but celebratory and positive and happy.
774
00:31:56,298 --> 00:32:00,619
I will say, she was with me
on a job when her mom passed,
775
00:32:00,652 --> 00:32:02,320
and I don't know
if you remember this, Jill,
776
00:32:02,354 --> 00:32:04,723
but you said-- I wanted her to go.
777
00:32:04,756 --> 00:32:06,358
I was like, "Who cares about this movie?"
778
00:32:06,391 --> 00:32:09,294
"Go". And she said, "No, it's okay."
779
00:32:09,327 --> 00:32:14,149
"My mom knows, and it's okay.
I'm okay, and it's okay."
780
00:32:14,749 --> 00:32:16,468
-She was…
-[Jonathan] That's insane.
781
00:32:16,501 --> 00:32:17,953
[Jill] We were up in Canada.
782
00:32:18,553 --> 00:32:20,539
-That's exactly what you said.
-[Kristin] I know.
783
00:32:20,572 --> 00:32:21,973
-Wow.
-[Tyler] So strange.
784
00:32:22,007 --> 00:32:24,943
All of this is popping in.
Give me one sec.
785
00:32:25,010 --> 00:32:26,178
Now, they've just whiplashed me.
786
00:32:26,211 --> 00:32:28,914
Jill, I might… I might release you,
787
00:32:28,947 --> 00:32:30,365
but I want to thank you,
788
00:32:30,398 --> 00:32:32,017
and I want to give you
a quick hug really fast
789
00:32:32,050 --> 00:32:33,185
-before you leave.
-[Amanda chuckles]
790
00:32:33,218 --> 00:32:34,820
-Thanks for having me.
-I would love to touch base again.
791
00:32:34,853 --> 00:32:35,987
Please know you're on the right track.
792
00:32:36,021 --> 00:32:38,056
-You're doing everything right.
-Oh my gosh. Thank you.
793
00:32:38,089 --> 00:32:39,357
[Tyler] It's all good.
794
00:32:39,391 --> 00:32:41,226
-Thank you, Jill.
-[overlapping chatter]
795
00:32:41,259 --> 00:32:42,661
We weren't expecting that one, were we?
796
00:32:42,694 --> 00:32:45,714
-No and no.
-All sorts of things. All right.
797
00:32:45,747 --> 00:32:47,999
That's the kind of the thing,
I get pulled where I get pulled.
798
00:32:48,033 --> 00:32:49,468
So let me look and see.
799
00:32:50,485 --> 00:32:51,870
We're gonna now navigate this.
800
00:32:51,903 --> 00:32:55,357
So, we… [tongue clicks]
I'm like… [mimics beep]
801
00:32:55,390 --> 00:32:57,809
-[Kristin chuckles]
-I'm trying to put my beeper out. Um…
802
00:32:59,044 --> 00:33:00,195
[smacks lips] Okay.
803
00:33:00,946 --> 00:33:04,132
[hums]
All right, you two, as far as objects go.
804
00:33:04,166 --> 00:33:05,150
I think this is the time.
805
00:33:05,183 --> 00:33:07,002
-[laughs] Okay.
-I'm gonna try to hold on to something.
806
00:33:07,035 --> 00:33:08,670
-[chuckles]
-We'll see what occurs.
807
00:33:08,703 --> 00:33:11,139
-What do you want, this and this?
-Hopefully something, yeah.
808
00:33:11,173 --> 00:33:13,975
We'll look and see. All good.
And it can be for different people.
809
00:33:14,059 --> 00:33:15,794
It doesn't matter. It's totally fine.
810
00:33:15,827 --> 00:33:18,747
Oh, what a cool object! It's like a big…
811
00:33:18,780 --> 00:33:19,681
[Genna] Money clip.
812
00:33:19,714 --> 00:33:21,900
[Tyler] Money clip?
Do they even make those anymore?
813
00:33:21,933 --> 00:33:23,301
-That's so nice.
-[Kristin] They should, right?
814
00:33:23,335 --> 00:33:24,836
Oh, that's so beautiful.
815
00:33:24,870 --> 00:33:27,989
Okay. Let me just put that there
so I can kind of get a feel.
816
00:33:28,607 --> 00:33:32,043
All right. So, let's see. [laughs] Okay.
817
00:33:32,077 --> 00:33:34,930
So the way this comes across
is really everything that pops in.
818
00:33:34,963 --> 00:33:37,399
Um, I'm going there, there, there, there.
819
00:33:37,432 --> 00:33:39,184
Wow. Okay. I have two
very different cultures coming in,
820
00:33:39,217 --> 00:33:40,719
which is kind of interesting.
821
00:33:40,752 --> 00:33:43,255
-[Genna] Sounds great.
-Let me figure that out. Um…
822
00:33:43,338 --> 00:33:44,322
Huh, okay.
823
00:33:45,106 --> 00:33:46,458
Two different cultures popping in
824
00:33:46,491 --> 00:33:48,360
and an acknowledgement
that that usually is indicative
825
00:33:48,393 --> 00:33:51,429
of when we have two very
different backgrounds
826
00:33:51,463 --> 00:33:56,268
that kind of meet up within a family
and are able to… [laughs] …uh, continue
827
00:33:56,301 --> 00:33:59,471
and kind of pick certain traditions
versus that tradition.
828
00:33:59,504 --> 00:34:02,057
That might not click right away,
but my question I suppose with this
829
00:34:02,090 --> 00:34:03,108
is can you think of any situations
830
00:34:03,174 --> 00:34:05,176
where there were two very different
cultural backgrounds
831
00:34:05,210 --> 00:34:08,513
that, like, got married together
at all within family…
832
00:34:08,547 --> 00:34:10,465
-[Melody] Mm.
-…or, like, a mixing of like Jewish
833
00:34:10,498 --> 00:34:12,617
-and Christian or like a connection.
-[Melody] My brother.
834
00:34:12,651 --> 00:34:13,902
-Okay.
-My brother.
835
00:34:13,935 --> 00:34:16,421
Do you know in the family
if there's any situations involving,
836
00:34:16,454 --> 00:34:18,990
like, six people? Like, six?
837
00:34:19,024 --> 00:34:21,259
So, let me figure this out
in the way this comes across.
838
00:34:21,293 --> 00:34:24,462
I have to highlight generationally
below six.
839
00:34:24,496 --> 00:34:27,232
And so it's usually indicative
of either six siblings,
840
00:34:27,265 --> 00:34:29,234
one of six or sometimes six grandchildren.
841
00:34:29,267 --> 00:34:31,686
-My dad was one of six.
-[Tyler] Dad was one of six.
842
00:34:31,736 --> 00:34:34,222
Okay, so when we go there,
I have to highlight that.
843
00:34:34,256 --> 00:34:36,408
There's an acknowledgement
of a joke around,
844
00:34:36,441 --> 00:34:39,311
you know when someone keeps having
the same gender over and over again
845
00:34:39,344 --> 00:34:40,545
-and they're trying to like…
-[Genna] Yes.
846
00:34:40,579 --> 00:34:42,480
-[Melody chuckles] Yes.
-They're having me joke about that.
847
00:34:42,514 --> 00:34:44,182
-Yeah.
-[Tyler] So it's almost like if it's girl
848
00:34:44,215 --> 00:34:46,935
after girl after girl,
we want a boy or vice versa.
849
00:34:47,035 --> 00:34:49,354
-It's very much that kind of thing.
-[Amanda] Was that his family?
850
00:34:49,387 --> 00:34:52,607
-[Tyler] Has that been referenced?
-No, it was our family, my…
851
00:34:52,641 --> 00:34:56,561
-[Genna] His grandchildren.
-My generation only had girls.
852
00:34:56,595 --> 00:34:58,496
My father used to just tease…
853
00:34:58,530 --> 00:35:00,348
It was one girl after another and finally…
854
00:35:00,382 --> 00:35:04,536
There were five granddaughters in a row
before there was a grandson.
855
00:35:04,569 --> 00:35:07,472
-[Amanda] Oh, my gosh.
-[laughing]
856
00:35:07,505 --> 00:35:09,140
And he comes across so funny
857
00:35:09,240 --> 00:35:12,177
and, like, just kind of like, "We just
keep trying and trying and trying…"
858
00:35:12,210 --> 00:35:13,495
[laughing]
859
00:35:13,528 --> 00:35:16,681
-Which is I guess how it happens.
-[Kristin laughs] Exactly.
860
00:35:16,715 --> 00:35:20,285
But there's a sweetness there
and a sense of levity and relief.
861
00:35:20,318 --> 00:35:22,637
There's a lot more. Let me look there.
862
00:35:22,671 --> 00:35:24,723
Did you bring any other
objects other than…
863
00:35:24,806 --> 00:35:25,907
-[both] Yeah.
-[Tyler] …what we have?
864
00:35:25,957 --> 00:35:27,759
'Cause I'm getting pulled
in a different direction.
865
00:35:27,792 --> 00:35:29,728
-Definitely the one…
-They're further…
866
00:35:29,761 --> 00:35:31,546
-[chuckles]
-Yeah. All good.
867
00:35:32,247 --> 00:35:34,582
Oh, how funny,
you brought the Jewish symbol.
868
00:35:34,616 --> 00:35:35,600
-[Genna] Yeah.
-It's like…
869
00:35:35,634 --> 00:35:37,602
I'm like, I'm not a theologian,
but I'm pretty sure.
870
00:35:37,636 --> 00:35:41,089
-[laughing]
-So interesting. Okay, cool, cool, cool.
871
00:35:41,122 --> 00:35:42,340
Let me go there.
872
00:35:43,475 --> 00:35:46,144
Oh! So this is one thing
to keep in mind when we talk
873
00:35:46,177 --> 00:35:49,614
about family and the receival
of news of someone's passing.
874
00:35:49,648 --> 00:35:52,784
Check and see if anybody was literally,
875
00:35:52,851 --> 00:35:56,321
like, out of town for work
when someone passed.
876
00:35:56,354 --> 00:35:58,306
Because there's a feeling
in the way this comes across
877
00:35:58,340 --> 00:36:02,260
of being far away
and, like, receival of news.
878
00:36:02,293 --> 00:36:04,829
But I'm putting work around this
in a certain sense.
879
00:36:04,863 --> 00:36:06,965
This may not click right away,
but what I want to say
880
00:36:06,998 --> 00:36:11,069
is there's a sense of, like,
someone not letting the devastating loss
881
00:36:11,102 --> 00:36:13,371
of an individual prevent me
from continuing on
882
00:36:13,405 --> 00:36:16,725
and willing and dealing
and continuing to work,
883
00:36:16,775 --> 00:36:19,044
but I have to figure out where this is.
884
00:36:19,077 --> 00:36:21,346
-So, give me one minute.
-I don't know, maybe…
885
00:36:21,379 --> 00:36:24,149
[Tyler] If we talk about
Mom's side of family.
886
00:36:25,717 --> 00:36:27,552
Okay. [tongue clicks]
887
00:36:28,219 --> 00:36:30,755
If I say Steven,
and the way this comes across, uh,
888
00:36:30,872 --> 00:36:33,158
where would that be,
off the top of our head?
889
00:36:33,191 --> 00:36:34,626
-Steven.
-[Tyler] Steve or Steven.
890
00:36:34,659 --> 00:36:36,494
Think of, like, a cousin, a second cousin.
891
00:36:36,528 --> 00:36:37,796
Which side of family is that on?
892
00:36:37,829 --> 00:36:39,464
-[Melody] My dad's.
-Your dad's side, okay.
893
00:36:39,581 --> 00:36:42,717
Um, when we talk about Dad's side,
this is kind of interesting.
894
00:36:43,968 --> 00:36:46,855
I'm seeing clippers, clippers, how weird.
895
00:36:46,888 --> 00:36:49,340
What in the world? Clippers, my hair?
896
00:36:49,374 --> 00:36:51,242
-What is this?
-Oh, my God.
897
00:36:51,276 --> 00:36:52,794
[Tyler] He's showing me clippers
of, like, my hair.
898
00:36:52,827 --> 00:36:53,695
I know what it is.
899
00:36:53,728 --> 00:36:55,029
[Tyler] I'm trying to figure out
what this is.
900
00:36:55,063 --> 00:36:56,448
-[Kristin] What is it?
-[Amanda] Share, tell us.
901
00:36:56,481 --> 00:36:58,533
I don't know
if I'm, like, really reaching for it,
902
00:36:58,566 --> 00:37:00,752
but it's in relation
to the thing I handed you.
903
00:37:00,785 --> 00:37:01,803
[Tyler] Okay.
904
00:37:01,836 --> 00:37:05,290
It's… [scoffs] I honestly don't think
I could say this on TV. Um…
905
00:37:06,391 --> 00:37:07,609
-The cufflinks…
-[Tyler] Yes.
906
00:37:07,642 --> 00:37:09,811
-…are my grandfather's.
-Got it.
907
00:37:09,844 --> 00:37:14,749
And… [chuckles] …my grandparents,
when they first met,
908
00:37:14,783 --> 00:37:17,168
they were on a date
and it was really important
909
00:37:17,202 --> 00:37:20,121
to my grandmother
that she was with a Jewish man.
910
00:37:20,155 --> 00:37:23,742
She came from a very religious family
and my grandpa didn't look super Jewish.
911
00:37:23,775 --> 00:37:25,827
-And he… [chuckles]
-[Tyler chuckles]
912
00:37:25,860 --> 00:37:28,313
He said, "Well, I can show you
my Jewish star cufflinks
913
00:37:28,346 --> 00:37:30,315
or I can show you my, you know…"
914
00:37:30,348 --> 00:37:33,218
-[laughing]
-That's hilarious!
915
00:37:33,251 --> 00:37:36,988
-She told me that last night.
-[Amanda] No! Oh, my God.
916
00:37:37,021 --> 00:37:39,457
-She told it yesterday.
-Wait, was she Christian? Because…
917
00:37:39,491 --> 00:37:41,242
No, both my grandparents were Jewish.
918
00:37:41,276 --> 00:37:42,444
-[Amanda] Oh, okay.
-Yeah.
919
00:37:42,477 --> 00:37:44,162
-Yeah.
-Yeah. So, he was…
920
00:37:44,229 --> 00:37:46,498
He was joking that he…
921
00:37:46,531 --> 00:37:48,099
Yeah, she didn't think
he looked very Jewish.
922
00:37:48,133 --> 00:37:50,235
-He's like, "I'll show you my cufflinks."
-[Tyler] Yes, that's hilarious.
923
00:37:50,268 --> 00:37:52,353
[Amanda] Oh, my God. [laughs]
924
00:37:52,387 --> 00:37:54,239
While that's coming in,
I'm seeing, like, shears?
925
00:37:54,322 --> 00:37:55,457
[overlapping chatter]
926
00:37:55,507 --> 00:37:59,544
But that just happened yesterday, Tyler.
We were just talking about that story.
927
00:38:00,295 --> 00:38:04,649
So random, we see a big snip-snip,
sometimes it can be a reference page.
928
00:38:04,682 --> 00:38:07,869
It might be a reach, but it's related
to the thing you're holding.
929
00:38:07,902 --> 00:38:09,754
That I'm holding. Okay. Very cool.
930
00:38:10,438 --> 00:38:11,573
[Amanda] That's a good story.
931
00:38:11,656 --> 00:38:13,224
[Tyler] See, that is so cute.
932
00:38:13,258 --> 00:38:15,927
-Freaking out right now.
-Yeah.
933
00:38:17,796 --> 00:38:20,448
If I go, okay, so one thing…
934
00:38:20,632 --> 00:38:22,700
Oh, I'm being pushed
in different directions
935
00:38:22,734 --> 00:38:25,086
with different states, so give me one sec.
936
00:38:25,119 --> 00:38:28,690
Kristin, in your family, do you know
of anybody who's in Missouri?
937
00:38:28,723 --> 00:38:30,608
-[chuckles] Yes.
-[Tyler] Okay.
938
00:38:30,642 --> 00:38:33,545
All I'll say with that is just, like,
when we talk about living family
939
00:38:33,578 --> 00:38:36,181
in Missouri stuff, it is what it is.
It's all good.
940
00:38:36,214 --> 00:38:37,382
Just, I'll leave it at that.
941
00:38:37,415 --> 00:38:39,250
When we talk about over here,
I wanna ask,
942
00:38:39,334 --> 00:38:41,102
do you guys have any connections,
and this is going to open
943
00:38:41,135 --> 00:38:44,422
into New Jersey at all,
if we go to, like, East Coast?
944
00:38:44,472 --> 00:38:45,690
And there's you. [chuckles]
945
00:38:45,723 --> 00:38:49,711
If I go there, there's something random.
946
00:38:49,744 --> 00:38:53,131
Check and see if anyone
was, like, marathoning or did a run
947
00:38:53,164 --> 00:38:56,301
or was preparing for, like,
a race in some capacity.
948
00:38:56,334 --> 00:38:57,919
It might end up being a conversation
949
00:38:57,952 --> 00:39:00,371
or a point of discussion
that comes up and I'm seeing it
950
00:39:00,438 --> 00:39:02,040
and I'm bringing it back East Coast…
951
00:39:02,073 --> 00:39:03,208
-Okay.
-…in the way this comes through.
952
00:39:03,241 --> 00:39:05,210
So, just something to kind of look into.
953
00:39:05,243 --> 00:39:09,547
What I want to do, I wanna hand this back
954
00:39:09,581 --> 00:39:12,350
and kind of go down the chain of command,
so to speak.
955
00:39:13,718 --> 00:39:16,037
And my friend over there. [chuckles]
956
00:39:16,070 --> 00:39:17,822
-I love you. I just have to say.
-[Jonathan chuckles]
957
00:39:17,872 --> 00:39:20,458
I don't know if it is proximity,
but very often the person
958
00:39:20,491 --> 00:39:21,926
-who sits the furthest away…
-[laughing]
959
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,062
…is like the last one that I connect with.
960
00:39:24,095 --> 00:39:25,597
So, let's give it a shot
and see if we can--
961
00:39:25,630 --> 00:39:27,899
You have good energy though, Jon.
He's been patiently waiting.
962
00:39:27,932 --> 00:39:31,169
Oh, you're amazing.
We so appreciate you. [chuckles]
963
00:39:31,202 --> 00:39:33,655
-Okay, so let me look here.
-[scribbling]
964
00:39:35,256 --> 00:39:38,109
Let me look here. All right.
965
00:39:41,012 --> 00:39:42,964
Um, Jon, this is kind of random.
966
00:39:43,998 --> 00:39:46,200
Oh, wait, wait, wait, wait.
And you are Jon?
967
00:39:47,035 --> 00:39:48,336
-Jonathan.
-[Tyler] Jonathan.
968
00:39:48,369 --> 00:39:49,387
-My dad was John.
-[Tyler] Do you--
969
00:39:49,420 --> 00:39:52,473
Was just gonna ask,
"Were you named after anyone?" [laughs]
970
00:39:52,507 --> 00:39:54,442
So, this is interesting
in the way this comes across.
971
00:39:54,475 --> 00:39:55,827
We'll need to keep in mind,
for some reason,
972
00:39:55,860 --> 00:39:57,111
when I kind of tune into your energy.
973
00:39:57,145 --> 00:39:58,129
This is so left field,
974
00:39:58,162 --> 00:40:01,149
but they're having me talk about,
like, birthday related stuff.
975
00:40:01,182 --> 00:40:03,401
Um, anytime I get that
it's usually indicative,
976
00:40:03,434 --> 00:40:05,920
like, if we might end up getting invited
to a birthday party
977
00:40:05,954 --> 00:40:08,172
or if somebody in the family
just celebrated a birthday.
978
00:40:08,206 --> 00:40:10,358
Remember that I'm saying this,
putting an oddly celebratory feeling
979
00:40:10,391 --> 00:40:13,828
around a time that,
it's kind of rough right now, you know?
980
00:40:13,861 --> 00:40:17,065
But it does come in.
Do you… Let me get a little further
981
00:40:17,098 --> 00:40:20,335
and I'll try to get a sense of where
that could be kind of coming.
982
00:40:20,368 --> 00:40:22,870
Um, in the family,
do you know of any stories
983
00:40:22,904 --> 00:40:25,556
of any losses of any babies
or miscarriages?
984
00:40:25,590 --> 00:40:26,474
-Yes.
-[Tyler] Okay.
985
00:40:26,507 --> 00:40:28,543
'Cause I have to highlight,
like, that, like, event.
986
00:40:28,576 --> 00:40:29,494
The occurrence of this
987
00:40:29,527 --> 00:40:32,130
and how that affects
kind of multiple generations.
988
00:40:32,163 --> 00:40:34,198
Um, this is kind of
another strange question.
989
00:40:34,282 --> 00:40:37,485
Do you know if anyone in family
had, like, a bunch of acreage
990
00:40:37,518 --> 00:40:38,836
or, like, a bunch of land?
991
00:40:38,870 --> 00:40:42,073
So, kind of not what you would interpret
as, like, city folk. [chuckles]
992
00:40:42,106 --> 00:40:44,509
I'm going more to, like, farming area.
993
00:40:44,542 --> 00:40:47,595
-Yes, my grandfather was a potato farmer.
-[Tyler] Oh, amazing.
994
00:40:47,629 --> 00:40:49,514
-Okay, so if we go there…
-[Amanda] Wow.
995
00:40:49,547 --> 00:40:51,149
…I have to highlight that.
996
00:40:51,182 --> 00:40:55,553
There's this feeling
of talking about family history.
997
00:40:56,054 --> 00:41:01,192
The way I would articulate this
is in being true to who you are
998
00:41:01,225 --> 00:41:05,363
and living your life, there's this sense
of there being other family members
999
00:41:05,396 --> 00:41:07,849
who were not able
to demonstrate the same courage,
1000
00:41:07,882 --> 00:41:12,904
but shared a very similar way of being,
is how I would articulate that.
1001
00:41:12,937 --> 00:41:14,856
So, and the way this comes through
1002
00:41:14,889 --> 00:41:17,775
is kind of like bridging the past
and the present.
1003
00:41:17,809 --> 00:41:20,561
And kind of like being through to--
True to who you are.
1004
00:41:20,595 --> 00:41:22,213
There's a sense of other people
kind of having a horse
1005
00:41:22,246 --> 00:41:24,215
in that race in a larger way.
1006
00:41:24,248 --> 00:41:28,186
Um, I need to bring up… Do you know
of any M-A-R names in the family at all
1007
00:41:28,219 --> 00:41:29,921
off the top of your head?
1008
00:41:29,954 --> 00:41:33,408
-[smacks lips] M-A-R.
-[Tyler] M-A-R.
1009
00:41:33,441 --> 00:41:34,625
We'd be going to female
1010
00:41:34,659 --> 00:41:37,512
and that would be hitting me
on Mom's side more.
1011
00:41:37,562 --> 00:41:38,997
Do you know much
about Mom's side of family?
1012
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,615
-A little bit.
-[Tyler] Okay.
1013
00:41:40,648 --> 00:41:43,167
Uh, when we talk about her,
do you have an elderly woman
1014
00:41:43,201 --> 00:41:45,453
who's still alive on Mom's side of family?
1015
00:41:45,486 --> 00:41:46,487
No.
1016
00:41:46,521 --> 00:41:48,373
[Tyler] So,
no living family on Mom's side?
1017
00:41:48,406 --> 00:41:50,408
-Well, sisters.
-[Tyler] There's one.
1018
00:41:50,441 --> 00:41:53,311
Okay. One I need to highlight
in the way this comes through,
1019
00:41:53,344 --> 00:41:56,230
and they're having me discuss
cognitive decline, mental decline,
1020
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,883
and, like, someone being,
I don't wanna say put in a home,
1021
00:41:58,916 --> 00:42:02,620
but, like, ultimately needing help
in that kind of a way.
1022
00:42:02,653 --> 00:42:06,107
Um, but I see ultimately people
being spread out by states,
1023
00:42:06,140 --> 00:42:08,409
and this is just good
to keep in mind, like, all over.
1024
00:42:08,443 --> 00:42:10,094
There's gonna be an opportunity
to go to Florida.
1025
00:42:10,128 --> 00:42:11,095
And this is good to keep in mind.
1026
00:42:11,129 --> 00:42:13,031
And that'll be
over the course of the next year.
1027
00:42:13,064 --> 00:42:14,782
Uh, I feel like I'm just going to Florida.
1028
00:42:14,816 --> 00:42:16,584
I don't know if I'm going to Miami
or, like, living it up.
1029
00:42:16,617 --> 00:42:17,919
-It looks good.
-[laughing]
1030
00:42:17,952 --> 00:42:20,521
-And that aspect comes through.
-Wow.
1031
00:42:20,555 --> 00:42:22,240
Yeah. It's just like a lot there.
1032
00:42:22,273 --> 00:42:23,875
-But you…
-You're going to Florida next month.
1033
00:42:23,908 --> 00:42:24,826
I am.
1034
00:42:24,942 --> 00:42:27,311
-[Amanda] You're going to Florida?
-I'll be in Florida for Thanksgiving.
1035
00:42:27,345 --> 00:42:29,380
-[Tyler] Oh, amazing.
-My ex, we used to-- We had a--
1036
00:42:29,414 --> 00:42:32,834
-We owned a place in Fort Lauderdale.
-[Amanda] Oh, wow. Whoa.
1037
00:42:32,867 --> 00:42:34,519
[Kristin] It's immediately what I thought.
1038
00:42:34,552 --> 00:42:36,454
-[Jonathan] Right.
-[Tyler] What I want to do for you.
1039
00:42:36,487 --> 00:42:41,559
I… You have some real…
lovely people there looking out for you.
1040
00:42:41,592 --> 00:42:45,329
And I wanna meet with you one-on-one,
so I'd like to extend that for you.
1041
00:42:45,363 --> 00:42:48,449
-And we'll talk privately, my friend.
-Okay. Right. Thank you.
1042
00:42:48,483 --> 00:42:50,968
-They're right there. Oh, my goodness.
-[Amanda] Oh, my God.
1043
00:42:51,002 --> 00:42:51,903
Thank you so much.
1044
00:42:51,936 --> 00:42:57,391
Tyler, I think that was one
of the most mind-blowing… [chuckles]
1045
00:42:57,425 --> 00:42:58,960
…episodes that we've had.
1046
00:42:58,993 --> 00:43:00,378
You know, Kristin, how are you feeling?
1047
00:43:00,411 --> 00:43:03,848
'Cause there was so much
that came through with your two moms,
1048
00:43:03,881 --> 00:43:04,966
and what that meant to you.
1049
00:43:05,049 --> 00:43:07,235
-The thing that I take away…
-[Amanda] Yeah.
1050
00:43:07,268 --> 00:43:10,404
…from today
is that my birth mother, who's in Heaven,
1051
00:43:10,438 --> 00:43:14,959
is looking out for my mom on Earth
who has her own challenges health-wise…
1052
00:43:14,992 --> 00:43:16,761
-Absolutely. Thank you.
-…which you nailed.
1053
00:43:16,794 --> 00:43:19,964
And another thing I take away,
and then I'll shut up, is…
1054
00:43:20,898 --> 00:43:23,935
I was praying
that each person would have a…
1055
00:43:23,968 --> 00:43:27,538
-And I loved her dad, and I never met him.
-[Tyler] Aw.
1056
00:43:27,572 --> 00:43:30,608
And the fact that we talked yesterday…
1057
00:43:30,641 --> 00:43:33,010
-Yeah.
-…and that that's the one, you know?
1058
00:43:34,345 --> 00:43:37,031
This is crazy too.
That's-- It's just not--
1059
00:43:37,064 --> 00:43:38,282
I don't mean crazy in a bad way.
1060
00:43:38,316 --> 00:43:40,802
I mean,
it's wonderful that you have a gift.
1061
00:43:40,835 --> 00:43:42,520
-[Shannon] Yeah.
-[Kristin] You have such a beautiful gift.
1062
00:43:42,553 --> 00:43:44,489
To see your willingness
to honor your loved ones,
1063
00:43:44,522 --> 00:43:46,524
and the fact that you were here today
to share this,
1064
00:43:46,557 --> 00:43:48,693
it really speaks to the fact
that they are with you
1065
00:43:48,743 --> 00:43:51,729
and live vicariously through
what you do in this life.
1066
00:43:51,762 --> 00:43:53,798
-Yeah.
-[Tyler] So, thank you for letting me in.
1067
00:43:53,831 --> 00:43:56,050
-[Amanda] Tyler, thank you!
-Tyler, you're amazing.
1068
00:43:56,234 --> 00:43:57,785
-Thank you so much!
-[Tyler] Thank you.
1069
00:43:57,869 --> 00:44:02,106
Thank you so much to Kristin Chenoweth
and her guests for joining us today.
1070
00:44:02,140 --> 00:44:05,643
Another celebrity and their loved ones
will be here next time.
1071
00:44:05,676 --> 00:44:08,613
Who will it be?
You at home know as much as we do.
1072
00:44:08,646 --> 00:44:12,750
It'll be another surprise for all of us.
We'll see you on the other side.
1073
00:44:12,783 --> 00:44:14,702
[theme music playing]
1074
00:45:00,798 --> 00:45:03,401
[theme music concludes]
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