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Have you ever been in love?
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Have you ever just looked at someone and...
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Felt really loved.
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And understood.
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And protected.
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Just find yourself praying.
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For every second that you spend with them.
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To stretch so that you can spend more time.
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Together!
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What?
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You don't think it's possible for...
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A young girl and an older man to be...
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In love without any materialistic benefits.
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I know that look.
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That condescending look.
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You looking at me as if...
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You are better than me.
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So now you think you know me.
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Simply because you have heard a few stories.
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I've had that look for most my life.
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And I honestly don't have to take it from you too.
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You only just got here Kali.
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Why are you in a hurry to leave?
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Keep the refund, I don't want to talk.
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Write about it then.
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Alright.
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Fine.
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In the beginning it started as...
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It was just normal girl stuff.
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No strings attached.
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I was young beautiful, wild, free.
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The world was mine for the take and boy.
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Did I take as much as I could?
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You can't just keep a girl waiting like that.
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I am sorry my baby.
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I am sorry.
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I had some daddy
duties at home with Joan.
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So because of that I'll have
to be waiting for you.
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You chose Joan over me?
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I'm sorry.
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I'm sorry
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- Or let me...
- It was so impromptu.
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that I couldn't just
talk over it over the phone.
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Let me even ask you.
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Who's your priority?
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Me or Joan?
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- You of course.
- Are you sure?
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Because honestly it doesn't feel that way.
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If you were,
you would not just choose her over me.
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How can you even think about that?
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Okay.
Okay.
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What should I do now to...
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Bring my babies smile back?
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Just take me home.
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Just take you home?
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Do they like this?
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Who is that for?
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Because I'm sure it's not for me.
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I bought it for Joan but...
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It's okay, it's fine I'll take it.
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This looks so nice.
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Wear it for me.
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I'm sure even a daddy's girl like her.
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Has to realize that
at some point.
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That she can't always get
everything that she wants.
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So jewelries are...
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Ladies... Best friends?
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Of course!!
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I mean your jewelry is not going to...
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Keep you waiting or lie to you.
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- Look at you, Can we go now?
- Yes.
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My goodness!
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Just...
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Feel the texture now!
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Check out! Look at a dress.
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Babe I'm telling you now!
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Now I know the difference between Origo.
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And Original.
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No need for long talk, Babe take.
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- These are beauttful.
- See it, Babe touch it.
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- I love them!
- Touch it.
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Gifts again?
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Although my name is gift.
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I don't receive gifts like this.
Although my name is gift.
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I don't receive gifts like this.
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Whoever this guy is.
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He must really be very rich.
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Come!
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When are we meeting this
your new guy?
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That's true.
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So he can introduce me to his rich friends.
That's true.
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So he can introduce me to his rich friends.
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I mean why are you guys talking like this.
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You don't even...
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You people talk all the time as if...
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You've not been around rich people.
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That's my problem with you girls.
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These people are hardly ever around.
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You should know now.
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What's the problem?
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Besides why are you people even talking anyhow?
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Just look at me.
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As I'm fine like this.
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Don't I deserve to be spoiled?
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Babe!
Don't I deserve to be spoiled?
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Babe!
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-This baby girl
-Common!
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- Don't I deserve a baby girl lifestyle.
- You do girl.
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I wish I meet these rich men and not those...
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Broke boys that would want to kill you in bed.
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And they wouldn't give you anything.
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It's okay Aunty, Keep quiet,
Do you like this one?
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- I like it.
- Okay please take it.
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Thank you!
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- You sounded like you really liked this one.
- I do.
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- Take it.
- Thanks girl!
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Take!
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I got you girls covered.
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Hello Daddy!
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Daddy we need to talk.
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I need new clothes.
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Common! Common!
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- Sit.
- Noooo.
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It's okay sit down, Common!
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Sir, I don't want to risk my friendship with
my best friend over this.
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What about you locking the door?
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Have some decency zaddy
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Dece what? Common! What's decent about?
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A sugar daddy.
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And a sugar girl.
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Besides you are not starting anyone now.
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See, the riskier, the sweeter.
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Really!
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Sorry Daddy.
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I went to go to a bigger
Supermarket to get you people drink.
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(Stuttering)
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You see, you see,
It's better late than never.
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I thought you had classes now?
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I did.
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They got canceled,
I just got in like some...
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-Minutes ago,
-Okay!
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So Daddy
You remember my best friend Kali?
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Oh my God! Kali!
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- How are you my daughter?
- I'm fine Thank you.
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- Good! Good!
- Thank you.
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-Good evening sir,
-She can never stop talking about you at home.
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Daddy, please where is the bracelet
you bought for me?
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Bracelet?!
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You see your daddy has
so much in his head.
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I.
I.
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-I think it should be in the car or something
- Sorry, excuse me.
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- It's Okay, it's okay.
- Hello!
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I think it should be in the car
or maybe somewhere.
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Daddy's pet.
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You know to be fair on the guys, I...
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I couldn't relate with them, I couldn't...
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Relate with the guys my own age.
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I didn't understand
what it meant.
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To be with somebody my own age.
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Didn't make any sense to me that the...
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Girls in school were dating the boys in school.
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We are all just trying to
figure life out, You know?
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And then even the ones that understood
life already they...
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That had the answers.
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They were all just out to use you.
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Why your best friend's dad?
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You know I just...
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I just felt.
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Instead of wasting my time, Why not.
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Give myself to you know the
men who understood...
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The essence of time,
the value of what they had.
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Would you say you used your best friend
to get to her father?
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They call Abuja the Haven of sugar Daddies.
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Every corner.
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Every street.
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Has at least.
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One Aristo.
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Looking for young girls to spoil silly.
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You were young.
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Beautiful as you still are.
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But you chose your best friends
Father.
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Why?
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You know there are two kinds of people.
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There are the ones who lives their lives
to the fullest.
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And end up being judged.
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And there are the self righteous ones.
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Who are too scared to live their lives.
And there are the self righteous ones.
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Who are too scared to live
their lives.
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And instead they make themselves
the judges over others.
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I guess it's a way to make up for their...
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Miserable excuse of a life.
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At the end of the day.
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People are a mass emotions and opinions.
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Sometimes positive.
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Sometimes negative.
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It's just the way of the world.
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Honesty however is personal.
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Tea or Coffee?
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Tea.
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The end of my service year ushered
in many new things.
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I finally started a successful fashion brand.
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My years of selling wears to students
and obsessing about.
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Luxury designer wears finally paid off.
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Cheers girls!
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So guys I've been meaning to ask you.
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What do you think about Umar?
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I think he's the luckiest boy in Abuja.
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Why would you say that?
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But that is clear now.
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Like the difference between
cigarette and cannabis.
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You say the guy no be your spec.
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And what do you think my spec is?
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I laugh in french.
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Old!
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Must have grey hair.
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With pot belly
Must have grey hair.
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With pot belly
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Either married or not that one doesn't matter.
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But.
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Chief Gozie.
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Ambassador Felix.
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Julius!
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Okay it's okay,
Messaged received.
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Just to mention a few.
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Shocking though!
But wait.
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How Umar take escape your
friend zoning moves?
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Because plenty people have tried,
some even died on the way.
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Okay wait,
I understand but it's not that deep.
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Wait!
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Do you remember George?
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Our fine course rep you friend zoned.
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That boy was fine.
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That guy was ready.
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To follow you to any length.
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I didn't know you guys realized
what my spec was.
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Kali.
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Hold on.
Why Umar though?
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After years of dating older men.
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I got tired of the judgmental
looks and the side talks.
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So I decided to finally try
someone my own age.
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There is neither happiness nor unhappiness.
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No.
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Life at all he thought.
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He was angry with all of them
for their interference.
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Just because he felt in his soul.
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That they,
All these people were right.
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He felt that the love that
bound him to Anna.
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Was not a momentary impulse.
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Which would pass.
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As worldly intrigues do pass.
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He knew right then.
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That they were going to spend the
rest of their lives together.
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And make each other happy.
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Why are you reading ahead?
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No babe I did not.
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Those are not Tolstoy's lines.
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I'm writing our own story.
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I love you.
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You're the best.
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Babe aren't you supposed to say I love you too?
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Common.
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I don't want to lie to you.
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Babe I want you to lie to me.
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Even if it's for once.
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I'll love to hear the sound of those
words from your lips.
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I want to hear them.
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I will.
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I'll say it.
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I promise.
270
00:14:36,639 --> 00:14:37,799
When I mean it.
271
00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,279
He was an absolute gentleman.
272
00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:48,679
One of the good ones.
273
00:14:49,879 --> 00:14:52,039
In Joan's words.
274
00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:53,840
He was the salt of the earth.
275
00:14:54,159 --> 00:14:56,639
- Let me, let me do this.
- Okay fine.
276
00:14:58,320 --> 00:14:59,639
Alright just...
277
00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:01,519
Make sure you spray tomato paste over it.
278
00:15:02,279 --> 00:15:03,399
Add the cheese.
279
00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:07,039
- Spray it evenly, make sure it's even.
- Yes boss, let me get the tomato.
280
00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:09,559
You're so sexy when you are doing this.
281
00:15:14,399 --> 00:15:16,639
Let's just put this guy here.
282
00:15:17,519 --> 00:15:19,279
Watch and learn alright?
283
00:15:19,919 --> 00:15:22,039
How am I learning from what I'm teaching?!
284
00:15:25,639 --> 00:15:26,759
Yes.
285
00:15:26,879 --> 00:15:28,399
Even even even!
286
00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:35,240
I'm thinking I should have spread it a bit more.
287
00:15:35,279 --> 00:15:37,199
- Stop doing this!
- You are so...
288
00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,879
I'm already a mess being with you in the kitchen.
289
00:15:48,879 --> 00:15:53,720
(Clears throat) Ladies and gentlemen!
for the 10th consecutive year.
290
00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,840
The best chef award goes to...
291
00:15:58,879 --> 00:16:02,639
Chef Kali!
292
00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,159
Thank you! Thank you!
293
00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,080
Please come and sit down.
294
00:16:09,679 --> 00:16:13,960
- Let's admit this is extra ordinary, to be honest.
- This is really good.
295
00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:16,240
I mean you also helped so thank you.
296
00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:18,200
I guess they should add chef to my name as well.
297
00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:21,960
I'm telling you actually yeah Chef Umar
that actually doesn't sound bad.
298
00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:23,320
Welcome madam!
299
00:16:24,039 --> 00:16:27,600
Umar how far now!
I wasn't expecting to see you here today.
300
00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:29,080
I miss you too.
301
00:16:30,279 --> 00:16:32,559
You do know I can not stay away from
this girl for too long.
302
00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:33,399
You know now.
303
00:16:33,519 --> 00:16:36,240
- How is work?
- Work is good.
304
00:16:36,399 --> 00:16:37,480
Where are you coming from?
305
00:16:37,519 --> 00:16:38,879
- Here.
- A meeting.
306
00:16:40,279 --> 00:16:41,120
Thank you!
307
00:16:41,639 --> 00:16:43,518
This is exactly what I needed today.
308
00:16:43,519 --> 00:16:44,320
Oh God!
309
00:16:44,639 --> 00:16:45,679
It's good.
310
00:16:46,759 --> 00:16:49,240
Better enjoy it because this is
the last free slice you'll get.
311
00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,639
- You cant be serious?
- I am.
312
00:16:52,639 --> 00:16:54,759
And even you looking at her,
you too.
313
00:16:56,159 --> 00:16:57,600
This is our house now.
314
00:17:06,799 --> 00:17:08,799
I know that face.
315
00:17:08,839 --> 00:17:10,079
What face?
316
00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:14,559
It's the leave us alone so that we
can enjoy our company face.
317
00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,599
And that's what happens when
you're loyal to a fault.
318
00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:24,839
Like being in love with one pattern of bedsheet alone.
319
00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:27,279
You don't have to take the whole yogurt,
Common now!
320
00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:31,559
- She left us two glasses.
- Don't mind her.
321
00:17:32,279 --> 00:17:33,319
So was it about...
322
00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:34,799
The money with the older men.
323
00:17:34,839 --> 00:17:37,000
No, It wasn't just about the money.
324
00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:41,759
Even though I didn't realize that it until
I started making my own money.
325
00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,720
You know I've always liked the
idea of having my own money
326
00:17:52,039 --> 00:17:53,920
So I could make my own choices.
327
00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:57,559
When I was in school, I...
328
00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:00,200
I became a personal shopper for...
329
00:18:00,599 --> 00:18:01,519
Rich kids.
330
00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,160
And I made a lot of money.
331
00:18:05,039 --> 00:18:07,519
But you know even then people couldn't
believe that.
332
00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:10,039
I was making my own money.
333
00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,319
Because they felt it was the men
who were giving it to me.
334
00:18:15,559 --> 00:18:18,319
It wasn't my fault that these men could.
335
00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:21,440
Could spend money on people that
they love.
336
00:18:21,519 --> 00:18:22,920
Without you even having to ask.
337
00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:28,200
So what was it then?
338
00:18:30,319 --> 00:18:31,319
I don't know.
339
00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:34,799
I still can't explain it.
340
00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,759
I mean they get me.
341
00:18:41,799 --> 00:18:44,200
They get me on a deep level.
342
00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,839
And the way they feel grateful for
having me in their lives.
343
00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,160
That makes me feel good.
344
00:18:59,279 --> 00:19:02,759
So did you find this deep connection with Umar?
345
00:19:04,319 --> 00:19:08,920
When I realized that I was only attracted
to older men I decided to break that.
346
00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:12,920
I dated Umar as a...
347
00:19:13,079 --> 00:19:14,759
Conscious decision.
348
00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:18,640
To date people my own age.
349
00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:24,039
- And how did that go?
- For awhile it was good.
350
00:19:27,079 --> 00:19:28,240
I had the...
351
00:19:29,319 --> 00:19:32,559
Care and support of my friends and Umar.
352
00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:35,640
I had a business that was blossoming.
353
00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:41,680
I wasn't happy.
354
00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:51,000
Somehow I still felt lonely even
in a sea of people.
355
00:19:54,039 --> 00:19:55,880
What did he do about this?
356
00:19:56,559 --> 00:19:57,599
Nothing!
357
00:19:59,279 --> 00:20:00,400
Nothing!
358
00:20:02,079 --> 00:20:03,839
Umar was too...
359
00:20:05,079 --> 00:20:07,319
Care free too.
360
00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:09,680
Notice I wasn't happy.
361
00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:11,799
And he was.
362
00:20:12,319 --> 00:20:15,519
Too selfish to see that I was no longer smiling.
363
00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,319
Don't get me wrong Umar is a good guy.
364
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:29,279
I guess even good guys have their own flaws.
365
00:20:31,799 --> 00:20:34,759
When was the last time you
talked with your mum?
366
00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,720
I don't know what's happening to me mama.
367
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:43,160
Lately I just.
368
00:20:43,559 --> 00:20:46,559
Find my self so scared for my future.
369
00:20:58,839 --> 00:20:59,920
I think I'm...
370
00:20:59,960 --> 00:21:02,400
- Depressed mama.
- God forbid!
371
00:21:02,839 --> 00:21:05,400
You are not depressed my daughter.
372
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:09,759
Depression is of the devil and you
have nothing in common with him.
373
00:21:10,319 --> 00:21:11,079
Come.
374
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:16,240
Does this have anything to do with your fathers death?
375
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:52,440
Babe.
376
00:21:53,759 --> 00:21:55,880
When was the last time you saw your period?
377
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,319
Don't worry I am not pregnant.
378
00:22:01,759 --> 00:22:03,279
That's not what I meant.
379
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:07,400
I'm talking about your mood,
it's been a bit...
380
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:09,559
Funny lately.
381
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:13,160
Yeah.
382
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:15,599
Wow!
383
00:22:20,839 --> 00:22:22,559
So babe.
384
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:28,319
You do know that sex actually
helps relieve mood swings.
385
00:22:29,759 --> 00:22:30,799
Yes.
386
00:22:31,279 --> 00:22:33,200
It raises your endorphin's.
387
00:22:33,519 --> 00:22:35,720
With other hormones and it makes your mood...
388
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:37,559
A bit more lively.
389
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:39,680
Okay, so first!
390
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,519
I'm on my period.
391
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,279
But now I need sex?
392
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:46,920
Alright.
393
00:22:47,079 --> 00:22:48,279
This is what I'm thinking.
394
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,359
I think we should go for a late night movie,
and when we come back.
395
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:54,359
We can have some.
396
00:22:55,279 --> 00:22:56,759
You know, late night sex.
397
00:22:59,039 --> 00:22:59,759
What do you think?
398
00:23:01,279 --> 00:23:02,680
Goodness!
399
00:23:04,079 --> 00:23:04,839
Babe!
400
00:23:40,319 --> 00:23:42,839
Thinking back now I realize.
401
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:46,640
I was the problem.
402
00:23:48,799 --> 00:23:50,440
It wasn't him.
403
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,440
It wasn't anyone else.
404
00:23:53,559 --> 00:23:54,599
It was me.
405
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,839
Or maybe I'm too self-important.
406
00:24:11,599 --> 00:24:14,799
I know that somewhere along
the way I've lost.
407
00:24:15,599 --> 00:24:18,319
I've lost myself, I've lost my way.
408
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,720
But I don't remember where.
409
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,039
I have so many questions.
410
00:24:35,839 --> 00:24:37,160
And no answer.
411
00:24:41,759 --> 00:24:44,440
What answers do you seek?
412
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:53,799
Really thanks darling!
413
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,240
Don't worry about it, I have the bills for today.
414
00:24:56,279 --> 00:24:58,680
I just want to see that smile again.
415
00:24:58,759 --> 00:25:01,200
- Look at me I'm smiling.
- I can see.
416
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,319
Joan, you said you'll speak to
your dad to help me out.
417
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,319
Or do you like how broke and jobless I am?
418
00:25:10,559 --> 00:25:12,680
I can't keep spending your money all the time.
419
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,720
I would also like to take my girls out too.
What do you think?
420
00:25:16,079 --> 00:25:17,880
I'll tell him when next I see him.
421
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:18,799
-I promise
-Thank you!
422
00:25:18,839 --> 00:25:21,759
You you are equally job hunting?
423
00:25:22,519 --> 00:25:25,759
- You that wakes up at 12 pm.
- Is it not that serious?
424
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:27,680
You guys shouldn't bother yourself.
425
00:25:27,799 --> 00:25:29,839
By the time I start making my millions.
426
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,160
I'll block both of you on social media.
427
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,519
Wait better still I'll employ the both of you.
428
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,439
You!
You'll be my cook.
429
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,279
You are laughing, What can you do?
430
00:25:43,559 --> 00:25:45,799
I don't think I can employ you.
431
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,359
I will just block you.
432
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:48,839
- So you'll rest.
- It's okay!
433
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:50,119
I can do.
434
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:51,319
- Do what?
- What do you want me to do?
435
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,480
- What can you even do?
- Anything.
436
00:25:52,559 --> 00:25:53,759
- Tell me now.
- Please.
437
00:25:53,839 --> 00:25:56,359
- I can work.
- You will ruin my company.
438
00:25:57,759 --> 00:25:59,480
Something I will blow.
439
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,200
I've told you, come and hire me.
440
00:26:02,319 --> 00:26:03,880
I am employable.
441
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,640
- I will make your business boom!
- You are funny!
442
00:26:06,799 --> 00:26:07,680
Consider it.
443
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:07,718
Rest.
Consider it.
444
00:26:07,719 --> 00:26:08,519
Rest.
445
00:26:08,559 --> 00:26:10,400
I will rest.
446
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,559
Hi!
447
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,279
You're good?
448
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,240
Your eyes are amazing!
449
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,160
You know that?
450
00:27:43,319 --> 00:27:47,319
You shouldn't close them not even at night.
451
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,960
Would you mind taking a walk with me?
(chuckles)
452
00:28:00,759 --> 00:28:05,880
Most men I've met would ask you
out for drinks or food.
453
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,559
I don't think I've ever met any man
who asked me out for a walk.
454
00:28:10,839 --> 00:28:12,039
Well!
455
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,799
Most girls, will also be in there.
456
00:28:16,759 --> 00:28:19,079
Drinking up and partying.
457
00:28:19,759 --> 00:28:24,960
But here you are alone and clearly
you are not waiting for anyone.
458
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,839
So would you want to walk
with me while you?
459
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,640
Why do you think I'm not
waiting for someone?
460
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,519
Your eyes tell me everything.
461
00:28:45,119 --> 00:28:47,240
And what else do they tell you?
462
00:28:50,839 --> 00:28:53,279
That you have a lot to say.
463
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,000
So?
464
00:28:58,839 --> 00:29:00,119
We walk.
465
00:29:00,279 --> 00:29:01,960
You talk.
466
00:29:02,119 --> 00:29:04,880
While I stare into those beautiful eyes.
467
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,759
After you.
468
00:29:19,079 --> 00:29:22,519
I think there's a lot to explore in this direction.
469
00:29:28,279 --> 00:29:30,159
So you know somehow every body.
470
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:33,559
Just expects me to come
into their lives and make their lives better.
471
00:29:33,759 --> 00:29:35,000
You know.
472
00:29:35,559 --> 00:29:37,720
This feels like they feel I'm this...
473
00:29:37,799 --> 00:29:39,160
Thing this good luck charm.
474
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:42,200
That once they have me all
their problems are just going to go away.
475
00:29:43,079 --> 00:29:44,480
But it's not true.
476
00:29:44,559 --> 00:29:47,839
- It's not?
- I mean at the end of the day.
477
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,559
I'm just as confused as the girl next door.
478
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,559
- So you know one other thing that feels really weird.
- What?
479
00:29:59,599 --> 00:30:01,559
Imagine this, picture this.
480
00:30:02,079 --> 00:30:03,319
There is someone.
481
00:30:04,759 --> 00:30:06,559
Who you...
482
00:30:06,759 --> 00:30:07,920
Think you fancy.
483
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,200
Only to realize after a while.
484
00:30:10,279 --> 00:30:13,279
That you never did and at that point
you were just lonely.
485
00:30:15,079 --> 00:30:16,359
That's weird right?
486
00:30:19,039 --> 00:30:20,720
You can't trick the heart.
487
00:30:21,119 --> 00:30:24,640
It what it wants at the time he wants it.
488
00:30:24,839 --> 00:30:28,559
- Okay but I know something that is even worse.
- So?
489
00:30:29,759 --> 00:30:32,119
The person you're beating yourself over.
490
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,920
Because you know, You're trying to...
491
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,599
Take their feelings into consideration.
492
00:30:36,759 --> 00:30:38,279
And then at the end of the day you find out that.
493
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,400
They didn't like you either.
494
00:30:40,599 --> 00:30:43,680
And you were both just lonely at that time.
495
00:30:43,799 --> 00:30:45,440
And using each other to pass away time.
496
00:30:45,559 --> 00:30:47,759
So now you're just nothing but a distant memory.
497
00:30:50,079 --> 00:30:53,079
- Love is depressing huh?
- Yeah it is.
498
00:30:53,519 --> 00:30:54,759
It is.
499
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,319
Do you know what will be really cool?
500
00:30:57,759 --> 00:30:58,680
Tell me.
501
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,680
- Time machines.
- Sorry?
502
00:31:00,759 --> 00:31:01,359
Yes!
503
00:31:03,799 --> 00:31:07,559
Imagine a situation where everyone
has a time machine.
504
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:13,039
You can all go into the future
and see who the one.
505
00:31:13,319 --> 00:31:14,000
Is.
506
00:31:14,839 --> 00:31:17,679
Think about it I mean it will save
every single person.
507
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,400
A whole world of heartbreaks and...
508
00:31:20,839 --> 00:31:22,880
And break ups.
509
00:31:23,799 --> 00:31:24,599
We all just...
510
00:31:25,079 --> 00:31:25,599
You know.
511
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,799
Know who we are with and
every body is happy.
512
00:31:29,799 --> 00:31:31,599
But wouldn't that be a boring life.
513
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,880
Well a boring life is better than a sad life.
514
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:37,880
You know, I mean it's not like
you can't have fun.
515
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,440
You can but you just know the person
you are having fun with is.
516
00:31:41,519 --> 00:31:43,200
Definitely not the one for you.
517
00:31:43,279 --> 00:31:44,799
And they know the same too.
518
00:31:46,799 --> 00:31:49,400
I think it'll kill the joy of life.
519
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:50,160
If.
520
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,559
If I know what's going to happen tomorrow.
521
00:31:52,799 --> 00:31:55,720
To be honest I will revel in the fact.
522
00:31:57,119 --> 00:31:59,279
That I have what tomorrow
has in store for me.
523
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:01,880
See.
524
00:32:02,119 --> 00:32:04,880
We both left home with different plans.
525
00:32:06,319 --> 00:32:09,680
Neither of us knowing what the day
would bring for us.
526
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,000
Here we are, yet.
527
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,359
You know.
Here we are.
528
00:32:14,599 --> 00:32:17,799
I think the stars are just aligning.
529
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,000
To...
530
00:32:19,279 --> 00:32:21,119
Bring our footsteps together.
531
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,359
At this very moment.
532
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:27,559
Who are you?
533
00:32:27,759 --> 00:32:28,640
Gil Thorpe.
534
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,559
- That's an interesting name.
- Yes.
535
00:32:31,599 --> 00:32:34,559
Don't tell me you never watched modern family.
536
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:39,000
(Both Laughing)
537
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,920
Women are usually more mature
than men their own age.
538
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,440
And the look for relationships with people...
539
00:32:47,759 --> 00:32:50,200
Who match their level of maturity.
540
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,400
It's a psychological thing.
541
00:32:53,279 --> 00:32:57,440
Could this be the reason why you
were instantly drawn to him?
542
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:58,400
No.
543
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:00,240
No.
544
00:33:01,319 --> 00:33:02,799
It was more than that.
545
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,640
There was something about him.
546
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:11,599
Something about being understood.
547
00:33:12,599 --> 00:33:16,359
There's something about talking for
hours without being judged.
548
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:23,440
I know we must have spent about
two or three hours talking and...
549
00:33:23,519 --> 00:33:25,759
In that time I never.
550
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:29,240
Saw him bring out his phone,
not even once.
551
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,279
- Mobile phone?
- Yes!
552
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,279
I even had to pay him a compliment for that.
553
00:34:02,559 --> 00:34:03,720
You know...
554
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,160
I know you are seeing.
555
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,199
Someone now.
556
00:34:10,559 --> 00:34:13,320
And honestly I respect that.
557
00:34:15,639 --> 00:34:16,800
But...
558
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,320
I like you very much already.
559
00:34:23,519 --> 00:34:27,639
You are someone I'd like to spend a long...
long time with.
560
00:34:38,119 --> 00:34:40,239
Will you give me your number?
561
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,199
So I have an idea.
What if?
562
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,119
Instead of that.
563
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:57,840
What if we just meet back here,
where we met.
564
00:34:58,360 --> 00:34:59,840
At 4 pm.
565
00:35:00,119 --> 00:35:02,880
Next Sunday.
That's six days from now.
566
00:35:04,679 --> 00:35:06,760
- In six days from now.
- Yes.
567
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:12,280
Okay!
568
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,920
You said Okay so quickly,
what if I don't show up?
569
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:17,360
It's Okay.
570
00:35:17,599 --> 00:35:18,760
I'll keep coming here.
571
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:20,760
I'll come here next
Sunday if you don't show up.
572
00:35:21,519 --> 00:35:23,480
I'll come every Sunday after that.
573
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,119
Do you know what?
I have an idea.
574
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,718
- What if we are to make a video.
- Video?
575
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:39,119
Yes!
576
00:35:39,159 --> 00:35:40,480
Right?
So that way.
577
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,320
Even if...
578
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,199
Even if I don't show,
even if you don't show.
579
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,920
At least we would always have a memory of this.
580
00:35:53,599 --> 00:35:55,599
- Okay?
- Game!
581
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:58,719
Game!
582
00:36:01,599 --> 00:36:04,079
Say something Gil Thorpe.
583
00:36:04,559 --> 00:36:05,480
Something.
584
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,960
For the first time in my life I was
nervous about meeting someone.
585
00:37:00,079 --> 00:37:03,038
I just wanted to look perfect for this stranger.
586
00:37:03,039 --> 00:37:04,880
Whose name I didn't even know.
587
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,239
(Whistling)
588
00:37:15,679 --> 00:37:18,360
(Whistling)
589
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:19,480
What's all these!?
590
00:37:20,599 --> 00:37:21,920
Are you giving your clothes out?
591
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:28,199
- You'll have to kill me before that happens.
- So why is your room so scattered?
592
00:37:28,679 --> 00:37:30,480
I'm.
I'm...
593
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,360
I'm looking for something to wear for a date.
594
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,599
I need it to be as hot as it can be.
595
00:37:38,159 --> 00:37:40,079
Since when do you need to look hot for Umar?
596
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,920
Wait!
Is he about to propose?
597
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,000
- Joan, Joan calm down.
- Please.
598
00:37:49,119 --> 00:37:51,880
As your maid of honor,
we need to talk about colors of the day.
599
00:37:52,079 --> 00:37:54,199
What you thinking bro?
What you...
600
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,360
No No.
601
00:37:57,679 --> 00:37:58,599
No.
602
00:38:01,039 --> 00:38:02,800
So is everything okay.
603
00:38:03,079 --> 00:38:05,559
Cos I've been hearing plenty
stories from him.
604
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:11,400
Yes.
605
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,320
We good.
Everything is alright.
606
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:16,039
Can I ask you something?
607
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,239
Have I ever said no?
608
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,280
Would you still...
609
00:38:22,079 --> 00:38:23,800
Call it cheating if...
610
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,559
You know there's someone who is
always on your mind.
611
00:38:27,639 --> 00:38:28,800
Not your partner.
612
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,119
Is that still classified as cheating?
613
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,880
Is this someone else the reason why
you ghosted us the other day?
614
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,360
What ever you are doing just think of Umar.
615
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,039
Because what you
guys have is good.
616
00:38:44,079 --> 00:38:46,079
It would be sad to see you mess it up.
617
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:51,239
Please make my own.
618
00:38:52,039 --> 00:38:53,800
Help me arrange the room I will.
619
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,280
Two tops only!
620
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,199
Don't worry leave it, don't worry,
don't stress yourself.
621
00:40:16,639 --> 00:40:19,079
Say something nice.
622
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:20,679
Something.
623
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:25,000
(Laughter)
624
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,400
I finally lost all hope in the relationship.
625
00:40:34,079 --> 00:40:37,320
And It was really clear to me
that we could never work.
626
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:38,679
Kali!
627
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:44,920
Kali this is really impressive.
628
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,599
So your phone is actually working.
629
00:40:49,079 --> 00:40:50,400
How are you?
630
00:40:54,559 --> 00:40:55,400
Kali!
631
00:40:56,159 --> 00:40:59,119
Why haven't you been responding to my calls.
632
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,880
- I'm sorry.
- Don't sit there and tell me you are sorry.
633
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,480
You have a lot of explanation to give me.
634
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:09,399
But first we are going to start.
635
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:10,679
With exactly what you've been doing.
636
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,599
With yourself for the past few weeks.
637
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:22,639
So I've curated a list of branding
and packaging concept designs.
638
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:27,719
I'm sending it you now so you
can start working on them.
639
00:41:28,159 --> 00:41:31,400
As soon as possible Okay?
Alright.
640
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:42,280
Babe.
641
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,360
If I remember clearly.
642
00:41:46,599 --> 00:41:49,880
You told me that you're
going to make it up to me.
643
00:41:52,079 --> 00:41:53,760
Sure.
644
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,480
So I'm thinking.
645
00:41:57,079 --> 00:42:00,320
That this is just the perfect time.
646
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:13,159
- My dad said he will like to meet you.
- Sure.
647
00:42:13,199 --> 00:42:15,440
Why not?
When does he want to see me.
648
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,880
My dad died sixteen years ago.
649
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:24,599
- You of all people should know this.
- I'm so sorry It totally skipped me.
650
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:29,599
Babe I'm sorry.
651
00:42:29,639 --> 00:42:30,920
Babe come back to bed now.
652
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,400
Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill.
Alright?
653
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:35,119
I'm sorry.
654
00:42:35,199 --> 00:42:38,079
Okay wait, It's good I have your attention now.
655
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,760
So yes, maybe I can finally do this.
656
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:42,199
Umar!
657
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:43,840
Do you know what my mum does?
658
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:44,840
Do you remember?
659
00:42:49,679 --> 00:42:52,679
On the days, when she's not selling puff puff.
660
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:56,119
She's going from door to door preaching.
661
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,880
Umar you and I we're not the same.
662
00:43:03,119 --> 00:43:04,480
- Kali!
- It's.
663
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,800
I'm not one of you rich Abuja kids.
664
00:43:11,679 --> 00:43:13,159
Okay?
665
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,280
And now that you know this.
666
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:21,920
Do you still think we can be together?
667
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:30,079
- That's what I thought.
- Kali!
668
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:31,800
Babe!
669
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:54,719
Hi!
670
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:07,159
I didn't think you'll still be here after I
stood you up for the second time.
671
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:11,320
Wow!
672
00:44:12,519 --> 00:44:15,840
I'm sorry it took me two weeks
to come for our date.
673
00:44:18,199 --> 00:44:21,518
- It's alright.
- And I wish I looked nicer I just...
674
00:44:21,519 --> 00:44:24,280
I didn't have the time
to put on something else.
675
00:44:28,159 --> 00:44:30,679
You're still the most beautiful
woman in the world.
676
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:41,239
Come!
I want to show you something.
677
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:43,800
Let's go this way.
678
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:00,880
This way.
679
00:45:02,039 --> 00:45:02,840
So...
680
00:45:03,039 --> 00:45:05,880
- I've never been at an art gallery before.
- Well!
681
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,119
Now you have.
682
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:15,840
- Oh this is so beautiful.
- Right!
683
00:45:16,679 --> 00:45:17,639
Right.
684
00:45:18,079 --> 00:45:20,599
It's all so beautiful.
685
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,840
That's exactly how I feel about you.
686
00:45:26,079 --> 00:45:28,039
You're the masterpiece here.
687
00:45:36,639 --> 00:45:37,920
How many more Sundays.
688
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,679
Were you going to keep coming
here, waiting for me.
689
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:45,360
Well!
690
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,840
When a man gets to his final bus stop.
691
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,440
There's only one thing left to do.
692
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:56,599
Head home.
693
00:46:10,039 --> 00:46:16,400
(Inaudible)
694
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:20,239
- That's also possible.
- You know.
695
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,239
Give me a bit let me attend to this.
696
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:27,639
- I'll be right back.
- Alright.
697
00:47:04,079 --> 00:47:06,800
Oh no no sorry, we haven't ordered yet.
698
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:08,400
Your dad did at the bar.
699
00:47:22,039 --> 00:47:25,599
Are you guys like officially dating?
700
00:47:28,599 --> 00:47:30,079
Kinda.
701
00:47:31,119 --> 00:47:34,280
You have the I am in love eyes.
702
00:47:34,559 --> 00:47:37,000
But I don't know if I should be
happy or sad for you.
703
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:39,440
Okay, calm down.
704
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,000
I don't know about love, but...
705
00:47:44,119 --> 00:47:45,800
What we have is kinda deep.
706
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:47,880
You're weird.
707
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:49,638
How can you spend so much
time with someone.
708
00:47:49,639 --> 00:47:49,677
And you don't know if you love them. How
can you spend so much time with someone.
709
00:47:49,678 --> 00:47:50,880
And you don't know if you love them.
710
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,158
I just don't use love in the same
way other girls do.
711
00:47:55,159 --> 00:47:55,197
You know? I just don't use love
in the same way other girls do.
712
00:47:55,198 --> 00:47:55,880
You know?
713
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,880
So what happens to your boyfriend now?
714
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:00,920
-Ex
-Ex?
715
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,800
You see by the time Umar realizes...
716
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:06,679
How to read my body language.
717
00:48:07,119 --> 00:48:09,480
He's going to see that we've been
over for a long time.
718
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:11,880
So you don't think he deserves closure.
719
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:13,639
Closure!
720
00:48:15,679 --> 00:48:17,039
My darling!
721
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:22,920
Umar has his priorities and I can assure
you that I am not one of them.
722
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:26,159
So?
723
00:48:26,199 --> 00:48:29,039
When are we meeting this your new guy?
724
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:42,519
(Inaudible)
725
00:48:43,199 --> 00:48:45,000
Toke darling!
726
00:48:45,519 --> 00:48:49,760
Let me officially introduce my two
favorite ladies to each other.
727
00:48:52,119 --> 00:48:55,480
Toke meet Kali my friend.
728
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,599
- Kali, Toke my daughter.
- Hi, Toke.
729
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:05,360
It's nice to finally put a face to the name
I've heard so much about you.
730
00:49:06,039 --> 00:49:08,920
- Then how come I've heard nothing about you?
- Stop that.
731
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,719
Didn't raise you to be a rude girl.
732
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,480
- Sorry daddy but...
- No, enough!
733
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:19,039
Toke I'm sure we'll get...
734
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,840
A lot of time to get to know each other better.
735
00:49:22,079 --> 00:49:23,440
Not in this life.
736
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,880
- I'm sorry.
- It's okay.
737
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,079
So, what was that about?
738
00:49:44,159 --> 00:49:46,639
Can't you see she's just a gold digger
who is trying to eat your money?
739
00:49:46,679 --> 00:49:47,440
How do you know this?
740
00:49:47,519 --> 00:49:48,920
Because it's written all over her face.
741
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,800
I know girls like them when I see them.
742
00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:53,919
Why are you making judgments based on face value.
743
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:54,599
Toke!
744
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:56,679
She is not what you think she is.
745
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,960
Can you just at
least get to know her?
746
00:49:59,960 --> 00:50:01,280
Okay Daddy!
747
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:03,199
Please!
748
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,440
So is that a Yes?
749
00:50:15,639 --> 00:50:17,239
No it's...
750
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:18,880
I don't know just...
751
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:21,960
It just feels weird.
752
00:50:22,559 --> 00:50:25,400
What's weird about going to see your mother?
753
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:29,039
Well for starters I've never done it before.
754
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:30,840
Lucky you!
755
00:50:31,079 --> 00:50:32,559
At least you don't have to...
756
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,280
Worry about taking someone else
after me to her then.
757
00:50:36,519 --> 00:50:37,480
Okay!
758
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:39,119
Nice lines.
759
00:50:39,679 --> 00:50:42,840
Though cute but, that's not even what it's about.
760
00:50:44,159 --> 00:50:45,599
What is it then?
761
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,199
I don't know.
762
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,199
I don't know.
763
00:50:53,639 --> 00:50:54,639
That's fair.
764
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:58,000
I'll let you make up your mind.
765
00:50:58,079 --> 00:51:01,800
Be rest assured, I'll support
whatever decision you make.
766
00:52:23,639 --> 00:52:24,719
Kali!
767
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:29,480
Kali!
768
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,599
So you even knew that what I'm
going to see on this phone.
769
00:52:51,039 --> 00:52:52,400
I wasn't going to be happy.
770
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:55,360
Kali!
771
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,840
What the hell is wrong with you?
772
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,079
- This is...
- Shut up!!
773
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:10,719
Kali!
774
00:53:13,159 --> 00:53:15,679
If you were looking for money
why didn't you just tell me.
775
00:53:16,599 --> 00:53:18,039
If that was what you needed.
776
00:53:19,159 --> 00:53:21,880
Instead of you going about selling yourself.
777
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,079
To men for money, petty cash.
778
00:53:26,559 --> 00:53:28,320
Look you have no right to go through my phone.
779
00:53:28,679 --> 00:53:30,280
It's private.
780
00:53:33,639 --> 00:53:34,800
Kali, have you no shame?
781
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,039
Are you, Are you bloody insane?
782
00:53:40,079 --> 00:53:41,599
Did you think about your privacy.
783
00:53:41,679 --> 00:53:45,760
When you were selling yourself
to old men for money?
784
00:53:53,079 --> 00:53:56,400
I can't even stand you,
I can't even stand you right now.
785
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:00,800
You disgust me.
786
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,199
Your dead father will be cursing you right now.
787
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:07,480
Right now.
788
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:09,880
What's this nonsense?
789
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,639
What kind of nonsense talk is this?
790
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:13,519
That's why I don't even like dating small boys.
791
00:54:13,599 --> 00:54:15,759
- What kind of policing is this?
- Your phone!
792
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:16,880
Give it to me.
793
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:20,000
Your bloody phone.
794
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,039
You don't even have the decency.
795
00:54:24,119 --> 00:54:26,800
To look me in the eye and apologize.
796
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:34,039
You know what?
797
00:54:34,559 --> 00:54:35,760
You can have your phone.
798
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:37,599
Thank you.
799
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:41,639
You know that man is old enough
to be your father, right?
800
00:54:43,679 --> 00:54:45,159
I'm glad your father is dead.
801
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:48,199
Because he would kill himself out of shame.
802
00:54:48,639 --> 00:54:50,360
If he was still alive.
803
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:53,480
Shame on you.
804
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:08,559
Did you feel guilty?
805
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:11,480
No.
806
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,199
Do you feel guilty now?
807
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:16,559
No.
808
00:55:17,639 --> 00:55:18,400
Why?
809
00:55:19,039 --> 00:55:20,119
Why should I?
810
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,079
You know, thinking about my relationship.
811
00:55:28,159 --> 00:55:30,519
With older men and I'm realizing something.
812
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,000
One thing that never gets talked about.
813
00:55:36,119 --> 00:55:38,079
Is the genuine connection.
814
00:55:43,159 --> 00:55:46,320
People who have away of just mistaken...
815
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:51,760
Dating your own age mates for compatibility.
816
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:55,480
What about trust?
817
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:58,280
Honesty.
818
00:55:59,679 --> 00:56:01,800
Emotional self sufficiency.
819
00:56:03,039 --> 00:56:05,479
These are words that I can tell
you that a lot of guys.
820
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:09,280
My own age have no clue about.
821
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:17,280
Describe your childhood in one word.
822
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:24,800
I'll do you three.
823
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:27,719
Perfect.
824
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:31,760
Lovely.
825
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:34,159
Beautiful.
826
00:56:37,159 --> 00:56:38,960
Nothing compares with.
827
00:56:39,400 --> 00:56:42,719
Growing up in the loving arms of my parents.
828
00:57:05,199 --> 00:57:06,679
When you get to your last bus stop.
829
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:08,440
The only way left to go is home.
830
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,679
That's something kola says.
831
00:57:17,039 --> 00:57:21,639
You are the lord that is your name.
832
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:26,599
Nice home ma.
833
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,039
I'm pretty sure you did not come all the way.
834
00:57:33,199 --> 00:57:35,280
Just praise my home.
835
00:57:36,519 --> 00:57:37,599
Kaliwana!
836
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:39,440
Come and sit down here.
837
00:57:55,119 --> 00:57:56,400
You came to know.
838
00:57:57,239 --> 00:58:01,480
If I will accept your relationship
with my daughter.
839
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:07,800
The answer is capital NO.
840
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:09,920
No.
841
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,840
The bible frowns at it.
842
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:18,159
Likewise myself as born again christian.
843
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:22,679
I am sorry ma'am.
844
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:25,000
I love your daughter.
845
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:29,360
She gives me happiness the
type that I have not...
846
00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:33,079
Known since I lost my wife.
847
00:58:33,119 --> 00:58:34,320
I love her.
848
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,599
I reject it in Jesus name!
849
00:58:37,639 --> 00:58:38,880
What kind of love is that?
850
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:44,719
You want to use my daughter.
851
00:58:45,639 --> 00:58:48,639
For replacement of your dead wife.
852
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,679
My beautiful pretty daughter.
853
00:58:54,679 --> 00:58:56,599
You are using her to grief.
854
00:58:56,960 --> 00:59:01,679
-No ma, No mama
-Just hold on, hold it!
855
00:59:03,079 --> 00:59:04,599
Who is your mother?
856
00:59:05,599 --> 00:59:07,000
I'm not your mother.
857
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,480
If not for anything you are older than me.
858
00:59:13,239 --> 00:59:15,400
You see this thing that both of you have going on?
859
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:16,719
It's evil.
860
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:20,159
It is caused by...
861
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:22,239
- Evil spirit from...
- Mama!
862
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:23,360
Shut up!
863
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:26,480
Shut up your mouth, Mama
What do you know?
864
00:59:27,599 --> 00:59:30,239
Kneel down, let me pray this thing out of you.
865
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,760
This devil, I say kneel down let me
pray this rubbish out of you.
866
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:37,199
I know you miss your father.
867
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:41,480
But this is not the way to go about it.
868
00:59:43,039 --> 00:59:45,880
What is your problem Kaliwana my daughter?
869
00:59:48,599 --> 00:59:50,280
I hope it's not what I'm thinking.
870
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:53,760
Mama you know this is the
reason why we are no longer close.
871
00:59:54,079 --> 00:59:56,198
You never take any time out to understand...
872
00:59:56,199 --> 00:59:59,880
Anything or anybody all you do is judge everybody.
873
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:18,880
You know.
874
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:21,199
Since we met.
875
01:00:23,559 --> 01:00:25,599
I've been wishing for more time.
876
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:30,920
I really really would like to spend
more time with you.
877
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:32,760
Well!
878
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:34,880
- Me too.
- Really!
879
01:00:39,239 --> 01:00:41,959
And again I'm really really sorry about my mum.
880
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,800
Oh no please, that's water under the bridge.
881
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:47,400
Now.
882
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:53,039
How about you tell me about
your family, everything.
883
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:57,079
No.
884
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:00,280
I'm sorry I'll rather not.
885
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:02,679
It's okay.
886
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:04,760
It's okay.
887
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:06,599
But.
888
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:09,039
It's you and I now.
889
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,119
Going forward you know that.
890
01:01:16,559 --> 01:01:18,159
Thank you for being so sweet.
891
01:01:25,199 --> 01:01:26,840
I brought something along for you.
892
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:29,199
Okay.
893
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:31,119
- I hope you like it?
- I hope so.
894
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:41,280
I got one for myself too.
895
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:48,199
Keep it.
896
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:03,039
I'm really glad.
897
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:05,079
That you agreed to do this.
898
01:02:05,199 --> 01:02:07,880
After that, after the last time.
899
01:02:10,119 --> 01:02:11,238
It really means a lot.
900
01:02:11,239 --> 01:02:12,960
That you agreed to
come do dinner.
901
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:14,360
With me and my daughter.
902
01:02:16,039 --> 01:02:17,960
Anything for your happiness Papi.
903
01:02:19,679 --> 01:02:20,840
Thank you!
904
01:02:24,199 --> 01:02:24,920
But.
905
01:02:26,119 --> 01:02:27,519
Why do you fancy me?
906
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,000
Cos you are old and ugly.
907
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:34,480
Got you!
908
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:39,119
Not just sweet.
909
01:02:40,079 --> 01:02:41,400
And you're loving.
910
01:02:42,039 --> 01:02:43,159
And handsome.
911
01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:47,360
And also I just feel like.
912
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,320
You know you probably deserve the most
beautiful girl in the world.
913
01:02:51,599 --> 01:02:52,800
Such vanity!
914
01:02:57,679 --> 01:02:58,880
Let's go in.
915
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:01,920
I'll get your door.
916
01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:13,079
After you.
917
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:21,679
Daddy!
918
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,800
- How are you dear?
- I'm fine daddy.
919
01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:26,679
So Okay!
920
01:03:27,079 --> 01:03:28,679
It's not enough what you did to my cousin?
921
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:30,079
Umar told me everything.
922
01:03:30,199 --> 01:03:31,320
You had to switch to my father.
923
01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:33,119
I knew this girl was a gold
digger from the start.
924
01:03:33,199 --> 01:03:35,079
Now go back to the bush you came from.
925
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:37,320
She's my girlfriend.
926
01:03:39,599 --> 01:03:40,440
Look Dad!
927
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:50,400
Where did you pick her from?
928
01:03:50,599 --> 01:03:52,039
I told you this girl was gold digging whore.
929
01:03:52,119 --> 01:03:54,000
- But you wouldn't listen to me.
- Enough!
930
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:58,119
You will not speak to her that...
That way.
931
01:03:58,320 --> 01:03:59,960
- Now apologize to her.
- No dad!
932
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:01,599
Kola!
933
01:04:03,559 --> 01:04:04,559
She's right.
934
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:09,360
What she said is true.
935
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:17,280
Kali!
936
01:04:18,599 --> 01:04:19,480
Kali!
937
01:04:19,719 --> 01:04:20,800
Hey hold on, hold on.
938
01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:22,519
Wait, wait now!
939
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:25,239
Kali!
940
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:28,440
- Hold on Kali.
- Kola please.
941
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:30,519
Please now.
942
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:33,079
Let's let's talk about this.
943
01:04:34,599 --> 01:04:37,599
Honestly I stopped seeing him
immediately we started.
944
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:39,800
I believe you.
945
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:43,480
I had no idea you were related.
946
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:46,719
Look I know, I know.
947
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:52,760
Sorry for embarrassing you
in front of your daughter.
948
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:55,639
No It's... That's fine,
That's fine.
949
01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:58,920
Kali, I love you.
950
01:05:03,199 --> 01:05:05,000
Do you still love me?
If I told you...
951
01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,360
That I used to sleep with men for money.
952
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:18,559
I'll still love you.
953
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:20,199
Why?
954
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:24,159
That doesn't even make any sense.
955
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:26,719
Who are you lying to?
956
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:28,760
- How am I lying?
- Yourself or me who?
957
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:30,639
I am not lying.
958
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,960
- I love you.
- Can't even deal with this right now.
959
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:35,320
No, Kali.
960
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,000
Leave me just stop, just stop.
961
01:05:38,079 --> 01:05:39,920
I need to figure this out.
962
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,039
- Don't do things like this.
- Please.
963
01:05:42,079 --> 01:05:45,079
It's Okay.
Alone, please.
964
01:05:56,760 --> 01:06:00,960
Sometimes home isn't a place it's a person.
965
01:06:02,599 --> 01:06:05,079
To love someone you have to love yourself first.
966
01:06:06,559 --> 01:06:09,920
I guess I just didn't love myself enough
to love someone else.
967
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:23,280
Kali, What again?
968
01:06:25,599 --> 01:06:27,039
What again what?
969
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:30,400
Umar's uncle really?
970
01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,360
I had no idea that was his uncle I swear.
971
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:37,199
I didn't know.
972
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:38,159
Right!
973
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:39,679
Just like you didn't know when...
974
01:06:41,599 --> 01:06:42,639
Don't worry.
975
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:55,000
You could have had any man you wanted.
976
01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:58,840
But you chose your best friends father.
977
01:06:59,960 --> 01:07:00,880
Again.
978
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:02,159
Why?
979
01:07:04,199 --> 01:07:06,480
This is not about Joan or her father.
980
01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:09,719
That was in the past.
981
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:12,880
- Let's talk about your father.
- Okay.
982
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,599
We are even 30 minutes past our session time.
983
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:24,320
Why did you come here?
984
01:07:27,079 --> 01:07:29,079
I'll tell you why you came here.
985
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:37,199
A good percentage.
986
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:39,360
Of women.
987
01:07:39,599 --> 01:07:41,679
Who loose their fathers early.
988
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:45,880
Or who had complicated relationships
with their fathers.
989
01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:56,400
Subconsciously, look for father figures who
can love protect and adore them.
990
01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:03,280
They may even seek a relationship
with an older man.
991
01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:08,119
Who'll give them the affection that they thought
they missed in their childhood.
992
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:14,880
Could this be the reason
why women with Daddy issues...
993
01:08:16,119 --> 01:08:19,039
Seek relationships with older men?
994
01:08:20,119 --> 01:08:21,079
Stop!
995
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:22,920
Stop!
996
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:30,520
You came to find answers that you already have.
997
01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:39,399
People with fearful - avoidant, attachment issues.
998
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:44,199
Find it difficult to get intimate with people.
999
01:08:48,039 --> 01:08:52,359
They are afraid to experience difficult feelings.
1000
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:54,079
And emotions.
1001
01:08:56,319 --> 01:08:57,600
They exhibit.
1002
01:08:58,279 --> 01:09:01,840
Behaviors that are relatable
1003
01:09:02,319 --> 01:09:02,840
To.
1004
01:09:04,119 --> 01:09:07,520
Rebound dating.
1005
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:13,079
And rushing into relationships.
1006
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:17,319
Why do you seek?
1007
01:09:18,199 --> 01:09:20,359
When you know what you need.
1008
01:09:22,279 --> 01:09:26,199
Why do you lie to yourself and believe.
1009
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:29,319
Please stop!
1010
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:33,880
Okay, fine.
1011
01:09:35,119 --> 01:09:36,279
Fine!
1012
01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:37,800
You're right.
1013
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:40,680
You're right.
1014
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:45,479
I was jealous.
1015
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:53,720
I was jealous of what Joan had with her father.
1016
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:07,279
Sorry that I didn't care who got hurt.
1017
01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:21,319
I just.
1018
01:10:22,319 --> 01:10:25,560
I just feel like I've been running for so long.
1019
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:37,479
I feel like I've been waiting for someone to
catch me all my life and now I am so tired.
1020
01:11:58,079 --> 01:11:59,199
Are you okay?
1021
01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:07,319
I had a long hard look in the mirror today.
1022
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:11,279
I didn't like what I saw.
1023
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:15,279
I didn't like myself mama.
1024
01:12:15,680 --> 01:12:16,840
God forbid!
1025
01:12:17,239 --> 01:12:19,479
I reject it in Jesus name.
1026
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:21,239
It is not your portion.
1027
01:12:22,399 --> 01:12:23,119
My daughter.
1028
01:12:23,399 --> 01:12:24,319
Come Come come.
1029
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:27,880
- Come let me pray for you.
- Mama stop!
1030
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:30,239
Please just stop.
1031
01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:35,479
Can you not see that what you
are doing is killing me?
1032
01:12:40,239 --> 01:12:42,199
Have you ever in even once.
1033
01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:45,399
Asked me how I'm coping with papa's death?
1034
01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:51,960
You've never despite the fact that you
know he was everything to me.
1035
01:12:54,079 --> 01:12:55,760
Then when I tried to talk to you about it.
1036
01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:58,960
You just say things that kill me further.
1037
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:04,479
Can you not see that your daughter is dying?
1038
01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:08,000
Your only child.
How can you not see that she's dying inside?
1039
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:14,880
Mum I am not saying that prayers don't work.
1040
01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:18,680
All I'm saying is.
1041
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:21,000
Sometimes a girl needs her mother.
1042
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:25,359
She needs her mother to tell
her that she loves her.
1043
01:13:27,279 --> 01:13:29,840
Tell me that Kali you are enough!
1044
01:13:30,039 --> 01:13:32,439
Please, My daughter Please.
1045
01:13:34,079 --> 01:13:39,399
Please, I'm sorry.
Look at me.
1046
01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:41,119
Please.
1047
01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:45,359
I may not know how to show
you for you to understand.
1048
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:47,479
Or appreciate.
1049
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:50,079
But deep down in my heart.
1050
01:13:50,359 --> 01:13:54,479
You are more than everything
in this world to me.
1051
01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:58,239
I love you!
1052
01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:01,840
Please forgive your mother.
1053
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:06,920
You know I'm from a different generation.
1054
01:14:08,399 --> 01:14:12,680
The only way I know how to
solve problems is prayers.
1055
01:14:13,239 --> 01:14:16,760
It's only prayers my daughter,
please forgive me.
1056
01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:20,640
Please, I'm so sorry my love.
Please, please.
1057
01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:22,560
Please I'm sorry.
1058
01:14:25,199 --> 01:14:29,039
(Inaudible)
1059
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:35,880
Joan.
1060
01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:37,680
I...
1061
01:15:42,239 --> 01:15:44,239
I have something important I need to tell you.
1062
01:15:45,199 --> 01:15:46,199
O... kay!
1063
01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:00,000
I had an affair with your dad when we were in school.
1064
01:16:02,199 --> 01:16:02,880
I'm sorry.
1065
01:16:06,279 --> 01:16:08,640
Girl why you...
Are you kidding me?
1066
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:11,279
I've known all these years.
1067
01:16:12,399 --> 01:16:14,760
Wait!!
Why are telling me this now?
1068
01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:23,399
Cos I've realized how...
1069
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:27,439
How wrong that was of me.
1070
01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:30,600
How much of a crappy friend I've been to you.
1071
01:16:34,319 --> 01:16:36,600
I just felt you needed to know the truth.
1072
01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:38,960
The truth?
1073
01:16:40,119 --> 01:16:42,760
Did you even for one second think about me?
1074
01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:46,680
You've been calling me your best
friend all these years and yet.
1075
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:50,840
You know at first I was upset.
1076
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,840
But then I've realized my dad
has chosen his ways.
1077
01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:57,600
And you can't teach an old dog new tricks.
1078
01:16:59,159 --> 01:17:01,520
You were just one of his side chicks.
1079
01:17:05,399 --> 01:17:07,399
Or do you think you were the only one?
1080
01:17:12,279 --> 01:17:15,279
Well, the only person I felt for
was my mum, I mean.
1081
01:17:16,079 --> 01:17:19,399
When I found out that even she knew and
didn't say anything about it
1082
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:22,039
Because my dad always provided for the family.
1083
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:25,119
And gave her whatever she wanted.
1084
01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:30,119
I just figured, why was I taking panadol
for another persons headache.
1085
01:17:33,840 --> 01:17:35,199
Joan I'm sorry.
1086
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:40,359
Here!
1087
01:17:44,600 --> 01:17:47,800
For what it's worth I really needed
money at the time.
1088
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,319
After awhile I got my best friend back.
1089
01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:12,720
I started a new phase of healing.
1090
01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:14,000
And acceptance.
1091
01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:27,640
Oh my God!
1092
01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:29,559
These are the new collections
I was telling you about.
1093
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:31,640
I love it, I love all their designs.
1094
01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:34,520
Hands down my favorite
Nigerian fashion brand, So classy!
1095
01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:36,399
- You are getting one for me.
- Sure thing.
1096
01:18:36,479 --> 01:18:38,000
When I come back from my training in
Milan.
1097
01:18:38,079 --> 01:18:41,039
I'm going to order one of these.
1098
01:18:41,119 --> 01:18:43,199
- Oh my God, they are so beautiful.
- Are you telling me?
1099
01:18:43,239 --> 01:18:44,600
I'm buying all.
1100
01:18:48,479 --> 01:18:50,000
That's the gold digger I was telling you about.
1101
01:18:50,079 --> 01:18:52,439
If not for my intervention she would have
been my step mum by now.
1102
01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:53,840
- Kali?
- Yes, you know her?
1103
01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:56,118
Yes, how will you know fashion and not know her?
1104
01:18:56,119 --> 01:18:59,119
She's one of the best
in the industry.
1105
01:18:59,199 --> 01:19:01,680
- What do you mean?
- She's the CEO of Africana.
1106
01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:03,319
Wait, be serious now!
1107
01:19:09,399 --> 01:19:10,279
See?
1108
01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:12,920
And all this while I've been thinking...
1109
01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:14,960
- Toke come and introduce me to her now.
- Noooo!
1110
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:17,039
Please now, I always wanted to meet her.
1111
01:19:17,079 --> 01:19:18,800
And take a picture with her please.
1112
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:21,399
Okay, this is going to be super awkward.
1113
01:19:25,600 --> 01:19:28,359
- Hi.
- Hey.
1114
01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:29,680
Hi Toke.
1115
01:19:30,159 --> 01:19:32,640
Hi, I'm sorry about everything.
1116
01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:37,479
It's okay.
It's okay.
1117
01:19:38,199 --> 01:19:40,399
I'm sure you had good reasons
to say what you said.
1118
01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:44,399
- Still, I'm sorry.
- Stop, don't be so hard on yourself.
1119
01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:49,800
You know what?
I think I may have something just for you.
1120
01:19:59,920 --> 01:20:00,880
Play now!
1121
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:02,399
Is that?
1122
01:20:03,039 --> 01:20:03,960
It's hold on.
1123
01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:04,680
Right.
1124
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:07,279
- God I shouldn't be telling you the answers.
- Are you serious?
1125
01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:11,039
Don't worry God will reward me for my kindness.
1126
01:20:13,079 --> 01:20:14,720
Just call him already.
1127
01:20:17,399 --> 01:20:20,198
Well, for once I actually do not
want my happiness.
1128
01:20:20,199 --> 01:20:22,880
- To depend on somebody else.
- For how long?
1129
01:20:23,359 --> 01:20:26,479
You've already beaten your record for time
spent without being boo'ed up.
1130
01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:30,199
Truth is that, I've lost his number.
1131
01:20:30,279 --> 01:20:32,520
- I don't have it anymore.
- Okay!
1132
01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:34,880
I'm serious, pick two.
1133
01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:36,640
See vex.
1134
01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:41,720
Pick another two cos your mouth is sharp.
1135
01:20:43,079 --> 01:20:43,840
God!
1136
01:20:50,319 --> 01:20:54,199
Does anyone else think about the whole
concept of finding someone?
1137
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:56,680
Connecting with them.
1138
01:20:57,319 --> 01:20:58,880
Falling in love with them.
1139
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:04,960
Sometimes, I can't help but think
about the unlikely odds.
1140
01:21:05,279 --> 01:21:07,520
For many coincidences that have to happen.
1141
01:21:07,600 --> 01:21:10,680
For two strangers
to realize that without each other.
1142
01:21:11,119 --> 01:21:12,920
They are lost forever.
1143
01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:18,239
And when it ends, it's still beautiful because
you know that deep down.
1144
01:21:18,800 --> 01:21:21,920
You have been
touched by something deep.
1145
01:21:22,159 --> 01:21:23,800
Deeper than your trauma.
1146
01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:26,359
Deeper than your healing.
1147
01:21:27,079 --> 01:21:29,680
And both your lives will never be the same again.
1148
01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:35,800
Hi.
1149
01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:38,760
Hi.
1150
01:21:50,079 --> 01:21:51,800
I still wear it because I like you,
1151
01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:59,199
You know for the past one month I've been...
1152
01:22:00,399 --> 01:22:02,079
Doing a lot of healing.
1153
01:22:05,399 --> 01:22:08,279
I've been facing my past and answering questions.
1154
01:22:08,359 --> 01:22:12,000
That I've not ever dared to answer before.
1155
01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:17,239
And I realized that I've.
1156
01:22:18,399 --> 01:22:20,680
I hurt so many people in the past and...
1157
01:22:23,279 --> 01:22:26,359
The thought of finally loving someone and
then hurting them I just...
1158
01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:28,399
I couldn't do that to you.
1159
01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:30,399
I couldn't do that to my self.
1160
01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:33,119
I didn't even think I was capable.
1161
01:22:33,199 --> 01:22:37,640
Of giving you back the love
that you, that you give.
1162
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:44,159
And that's why I ran.
1163
01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:46,840
I'm Sorry!
1164
01:22:57,960 --> 01:22:59,279
So where do we go now?
1165
01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:07,600
Kola always said that when love
is real, it would always find a way.
1166
01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:11,760
He had said a thousand beautiful
things to me that were right.
1167
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:14,720
But this is the
one I'll always remember.
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