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so all right let's see
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this one is about why did the Prophet Muhammad
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peace be upon a Mary Aisha at such a young age
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let's figure this out
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a lot of people have been asking us this
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and we've been talking to
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we want to see what he has to say so we'll check it out
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much then says non believers mostly ask this question
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why did your prophet Sallallahu Alayhillah
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marry Aisha when she was just a child
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how do we respond to them
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first of all
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you
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do not have to respond
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to every question that you're asked
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if someone asks you an inappropriate question
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would you answer him
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so if someone asks you about the previous sin
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did you ever try champagne
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have you ever gone out with a woman and fornicated
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and you say oh
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I stop for a lot I can't lie okay
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yes I did or no
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I didn't no
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you don't answer such questions
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now if the person asking this question
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is someone who's objective
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who's fair who's just
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who's interested in learning about Islam
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no problem in answering him
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if he is someone
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who's just trying to tarnish the reputation of Islam
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trying to cast doubt in your mind
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avoid him and do not pay any attention to him
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but seriously Sheikh
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come on why did the Prophet as Assam
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when he was like 53 years of age
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marry a child of 9 years of age
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this is unheard of
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wait and don't fall into Satan's crap
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gather information do your homework
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make a research to understand the circumstances
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then you can answer this Insha Allah
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with clarity and transparency
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first of all
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the Prophet was 53 years of age when he married Aisha
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was he married before that
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yes he was married when he was 25 years of age
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for a quarter of a century
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he married a woman who was 15 years older than him
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so he married a woman of 40 when he was 25
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and remained married to her until she died
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when she was 65 years of age
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this isn't the track record of a womanizer
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Allah Musallahu Alaihimallah Muhammad
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this is the track record of a decent man
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in the prime of his youth
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being satisfied and content with an older woman
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for 25 years definitely this man is a decent person
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okay chef
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but again why did he marry this child after she died
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that is Hadija may I please
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with her
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he married a woman his age
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so that means Emma she was also 50+ years of age
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because she's a she was a widowed and she was alone
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and he wanted to console her by marrying her
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and Aisha by the way
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before the Prophet proposed to her already
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Jubaid of an amount of new ID
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maleb please
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with him his father proposed to Abu Bukkar for his son
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so he he proposed to Ayesha to get married to his son
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Jubair
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but when Abu Bakr declined
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then the Prophet Assam proposed
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why did the Prophet propose Alisal son
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because Allah ordered him to marry her in a revelation
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and he saw her picture twice brought to him by Jibril
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why did he marry Aisha
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because she was the daughter of his lifetime friend
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his best friend Abu Bakr
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and they wanted to strengthen the bond
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so he married her
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but again why at this young age
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this is the norm
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at the time of the Prophet
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this is the age that girls got married in
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don't judge their era with the standards we have today
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in Gyrgyzstan today
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the average age of marriage is from 10 to 13
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in Mexico
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in some states the age of marriage is 14
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and in some it's 18
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even the idol worshippers
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the Jews the Christians
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for 13 centuries no one had ever spoken about
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why is he or was he married to such a young girl
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because this was normal
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Omar bin Hattab who was like in his 60s
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married his friend's daughter
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the daughter of Idy
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who was a child of 11 or 12 years of age
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that was the norm
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Abu Bakr when his daughter huffs
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Umar himself his daughter Huffsa
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when she when her husband died
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he went to Abu Bakr who was way older than him himself
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telling him or asking him to marry his daughter
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so this was the norm and if you
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our objective
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you will find that the Prophet married a young girl
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married an old woman married a widowed
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married the daughter of his fierce enemy
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Abu Sufian married the daughter of a Jew
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married different types and arrays of women
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to collect
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and combine and join the community and the society
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and he married her because of her wit
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and intelligence and intellect
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he knew that she would teach his own
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which actually happened the affairs of her religion
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so this is in a summary why he married her
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may Allah be pleased with her
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wow he actually gave some good points
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because it's actually a fallacy called presentism
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where you're judging today's standards and morality
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into back then
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because the life span back then was 30 to 40 years old
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so you're already if you're 10 years old
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you already lived a 30 year life
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I'm sure you're working
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I'm sure you're acting and working as an adult
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you obviously you're not developed
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you're not an adult obviously
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but back then was such a different time
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that we can't even fathom it
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and also 14 years ago
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no one actually knows how old this person was
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because they had they didn't know their age
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they'd had no idea to tell
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they didn't keep track of their a
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I'm sure that was
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not the most important thing for them to keep track of
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so it's not like today now everyone's got a calendar
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everyone understands oh
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this is when my birthday is
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this exact day people didn't even know their birthdays
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exactly they didn't know their exact birthday
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but yeah
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that's that is interesting
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but the other points that were
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he said about you know
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is his best friend and he did marry Khadijah
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who was a lot older and his best friend
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they wanted to combine the families together
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and he got these visions from god
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so a lot of times you can't judge something
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if there is a God is telling you to do it
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then that that is what you need to do so right
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right absolutely
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and yeah
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I mean I know back then it was very
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very different like you said
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no one knows this exact age for sure
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we can't say but
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you know I
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I know that was more normal back then
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especially even around Jesus is time
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it was normal for girls get married off around
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you know around 12
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essentially when they hit puberty
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cause if you have a different
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completely moral society code
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and you're basically just going off biologics
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and people die a lot quicker
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a lot sooner that too
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and the concept of marrying and marriage
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I'm sure was quite different too
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because to a father his job is to protect his child
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and make sure his child taken care of right
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sound like he was getting older
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you know he might want to make sure that
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his daughter is in a good place
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taken care of well off before
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you know God
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forbid he passes on and that's your duty as a father
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right to make sure that your
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kids are gonna be in good position
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and marrying was very very big for that you know
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especially back then like you solidified something
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cause if you see a good man that could
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you know influence your child for the better
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the way to go about a relationship like that
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solidify it would be through marriage
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you're not just gonna have your daughter around a man
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hmm you know
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if they're not married yeah
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and if he knows this guy
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you think this guy is not a creep
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he's not you know weirdo
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he is a good guy
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and he is going to take care of my family
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that's what they're thinking
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they're not thinking it's in today's day and age
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people view everything by this sex and having sex
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I mean people need to get this out of their mind
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stop viewing everything about having sex
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and started viewing it as
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as actual duty if you're getting married
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because a lot of these people were getting married
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for a duty to their family
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to solidify their bloodline and to help their families
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and if you had one healthy child
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that was like a blessing you're like okay
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you know now in this woman
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she needs some take care of her it's a crazy world yeah
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so
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you know it was just a different time and like I said
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it was about justifying or justification
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it's about understanding why this actually happened
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and what was going on during that time frame
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so yeah it's a really interesting video guys
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and let us know anything yeah
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great explanation so
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let us know what you guys think about that
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and how you guys explain it
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if people are asking you about it
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