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[music]
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FEMALE SINGER: ♪ Don't you
wish to think about it? ♪
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♪ In here to please somebody
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♪ I'm around and undercover
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♪ Here comes trouble now
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♪ And in my wicked ways
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♪ I'll get you
into trouble now ♪
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♪ It's just so hard to behave
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♪ Got to see
another round now ♪
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♪ I'm the one
your mama told you ♪
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♪ Avoid that one stranger
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♪ The risk you can't afford,
and here comes trouble now ♪
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♪ Turnin' it up all night
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♪ Got you feelin' all right
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♪ Turnin' it up all night
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♪ Got you feelin' all right
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♪ Get you into trouble now
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Describing my sex life.
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My sex life is me
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making other people's dreams
come true.
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Pretty active.
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I probably fall
somewhere in between
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one night stands
and long-term relationships.
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I would describe my sex life
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as extremely important to me,
consistent.
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- Choosy.
- Our sex life is new
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and very exciting right now.
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Active, colorful,
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a little bland sometimes.
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I haven't gotten properly laid
since, mm,
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April of last year.
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My sex life is a mom sex life.
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So it's quiet,
it's hurry-hurry,
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and it's
"Did-you-lock-the-door?"
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Consistent.
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Yeah. Active.
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Yeah. I'm very happy with it.
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I decided to bury
some love crystals on a hike,
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but it was a little too strong.
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And now it's sea of dick,
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and I can't even come up
for air.
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- I'm Solomon.
- I'm Alison.
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- I'm Ettie.
- I'm Erin.
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- I'm Ryan.
- Alex. And this...
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- And this...
- And this...
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And this is my motherfucking
sex life.
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That's like Valerie Cherish
in "The Comeback."
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[laughs]
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[music]
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GENEVIEVE: The Skirt Club
is a private member's club
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for women only.
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It's intended for bi-curious,
bisexual women,
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or straight women looking
for first-time experience,
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would like to explore
part of themselves
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like not quite got to know
just yet.
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You're emboldened
by your new experience.
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There's some air of confidence
around you.
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You've accomplished
what you secretly desired
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and it feels liberating.
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- Wow.
- Oh, my gosh.
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You did good.
Fuck, this is amazing.
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Wow.
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I think this is gonna be
our best venue ever.
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Ever.
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Should we check down this way?
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People who are, like,
gonna come and, like,
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get ready and get their makeup,
like, had, like,
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to touch their makeup up.
- Yeah.
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This might be a good room
for that.
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When I started Skirt Club,
you know,
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one of the main drivers
was that I, as a woman,
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had bought a ticket
for my boyfriend
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to attend a sex party,
a Swingers Club.
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It was co-ed,
it was mixed couples.
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- Gorgeous through here.
- Oh, check this out.
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There's a couch
in the bathroom.
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Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
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- Oh, my God.
- GENEVIEVE: And...
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it was his birthday present.
We went there together.
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Yet when I arrived, you know,
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I was kind of manhandled
a little bit,
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treated, um, like most women
are in society--
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grabbed by the arms,
slapped on the bottom.
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How many do you think
we could fit in this?
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- Four.
- Let's go for six.
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- Maybe a five or...
- [laughs]
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I couldn't understand how,
if I have paid
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for the ticket to be there,
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why I was been treated
like a second citizen.
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That--That first
sparked my interest in,
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I guess pulling things over
to the other side,
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the female side.
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I wanted to experiment
with how a--a party
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in that scenario would look
without men attending,
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if women would behave
differently.
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And I can tell you,
yes, they do.
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TOPANGA: This could be
a cute place to, like,
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close all, like,
close all of these
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and then put the blankets here.
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- GENEVIEVE: Yeah.
- And maybe a few on the floor.
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Right. I mean, it's a pay--
a perfect spot for perching.
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- Yeah. Perfect spot for that.
- You know--
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you know
what I'm talking about.
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Pussy perch?
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- Yes.
- Let's do it.
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- It's the Pussy Perch.
- GENEVIEVE: I, actually.
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TOPANGA: Exactly. Yeah.
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- GENEVIEVE: Okay.
- Mm-hmm.
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Skirt Club has completely
changed my life.
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You know how I feel
about grand pianos.
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[laughter]
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TOPANGA: I do.
I really do.
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When I first started,
I was dating a guy.
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Our relationship
was kind of ending,
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and I just wasn't feeling
sexually fulfilled.
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I think we do have
some first-timers
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and I think this is a lovely
venue for them to be at,
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just because they're gonna
be able to feel
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like so luxurious
and well taken care of
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because it's just so lux.
- GENEVIEVE: Mm-hmm.
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It'll just feel
like home almost.
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- Yeah.
- Like a big, sexy home.
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I am an openly bisexual woman
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and when it comes
to the day-to-day,
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like, typically gay bars
are for men.
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So even if you're a woman
in a gay bar,
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you don't know
if that other woman
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is gonna want to--
want to be hit on.
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So we don't want to--
want to cross any boundaries.
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So I literally Googled
"lesbian sex party,"
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and Skirt Club was the first
thing that came up.
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I decided to be a member,
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and it was
like opening the door
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into a whole other world.
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Like, wow. This is breaking on
through to the other side.
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GENEVIEVE: You know,
I really--I think
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it's like 70%
of our guest list
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is, uh, first-timers
for this event.
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TOPANGA: Mm-hmm.
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- Which isn't unusual.
- No.
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But it's, you know, our duty
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to help them feel relaxed
and comfortable and...
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- Yeah.
- ...make new friends quickly.
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So--
- Mm-hmm.
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...this is the right place
to do that.
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Yes.
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It's a real
hands-on experience.
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[laughter]
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It's important for women
to understand
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it's okay to explore
your sexual pleasure.
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I personally believe knowing
what is your true desire
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is part of our journey
as human beings.
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And so we all have
a unique sexual self.
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It takes time to get
to know what that actually is.
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So having a safe place
to explore it is important,
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especially for women
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who don't normally find
safe places.
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LAUREN: I really feel
like I've, you know,
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I've met like the one
I'm gonna spend my life with.
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But at this age
and this point in my life,
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I just know that I have to be
accepted as I am.
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It's nonnegotiable.
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I have to have a man
and a woman.
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I have to have both.
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LAUREN: Some people
have that perception
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that being with a woman
is cheating,
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and then other guys
just feel like, oh,
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anything you do with a woman
isn't cheating.
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Like, it's sexier.
It's a turn-on for them.
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And then so you just,
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you don't know
what you're gonna get.
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But I'm not gonna be
with someone
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who thinks that this is just
like a, I don't know,
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an extravagant thing
that I need.
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This is just who I am.
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Like, there's things
that I need
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and things that I want
and this is a part of that.
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I'm a mother, I'm an author,
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and I'm a bisexual woman.
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Currently, I'm in
a monogamous relationship.
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He meets all those sort
of traditional needs
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I have from a man
and what it feels like
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to be a woman with a man.
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But yet, the desire
to be with a woman is--
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it's an authentic part
of myself.
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Even my own partner
didn't really know
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what to make of it
when we met.
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He just--He had no context
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to understand me
being attracted to a woman.
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I'll never forget when he
first saw me with a woman,
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just like touching a woman
or kissing a woman,
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and he said, "Wow.
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Like, you like women
the way I like women."
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I'm like, "Yeah."
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So I'm hoping
that our monogamy
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can also include me having
a relationship with a woman.
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It's "Walk On the Wild Side,"
the event.
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So I think it has to be--
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I think it has to be this one.
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And I think...
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it has to be...
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I think it's gonna be this.
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Skirts are sexy
and sort of wild.
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I think I have to wear a skirt.
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It's better than pants
because, you know,
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easy access.
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I mean, I'd love to meet
someone at Skirt Club
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to have a--
a sexual partnership
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and--and emotional
partnership.
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And, you know, there's times
where I'm with my partner
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and I imagine
I have two girlfriends
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and--and then
there's other times
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where I imagine there's,
you know,
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a woman that just
joins us in the bedroom.
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And at other times
I imagine there's a woman
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that can join us
in our life in some way.
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And I don't know how it's
all gonna come together
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but I knew it's gonna
come together.
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So keys we're giving
to women
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that coming to Skirt Club
for the first time.
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So that the other woman
can see
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who is first-timer
and who's not
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and maybe they can start
a nice conversation
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or share a nice story
with each other,
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like a--like a pick-up line.
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"Oh, it's your first time,
huh?"
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GENEVIEVE:
What still drives me
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is that Monday morning
after an event,
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guaranteed there'll be at least
one email from a woman
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to tell me how much
her life has changed.
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It's amazing
that we can provide that.
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Imagining what it's like
for a first-timer
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attending an event,
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she's obviously very nervous,
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really unsure about
how this evening might go.
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Leaves the house,
maybe slightly trembling,
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and makes her way
to the event.
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She's wondering
who she'll meet,
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if she can make friends
quickly.
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So many questions
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and so many different paths
it could take you.
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Arriving at the venue,
I'm pretty sure
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she'll reconsider
actually attending.
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She'll ring the doorbell.
251
00:11:22,246 --> 00:11:23,813
And probably feel
somewhat relieved
252
00:11:23,944 --> 00:11:26,120
to see a smiling face
253
00:11:26,250 --> 00:11:27,687
and many women there
to greet her.
254
00:11:30,254 --> 00:11:33,257
And then making friends
for the first time,
255
00:11:33,388 --> 00:11:37,131
women who think similar to you
that you've never met.
256
00:11:41,309 --> 00:11:44,486
[chatter]
257
00:11:44,616 --> 00:11:46,009
- Hi.
- I'm Lauren.
258
00:11:46,140 --> 00:11:47,532
- Hi, I'm Romie.
- Nice to meet you, Romie.
259
00:11:47,663 --> 00:11:48,751
Nice to meet you, yes.
260
00:11:48,882 --> 00:11:50,361
And Romie has made
all her jewelry.
261
00:11:50,492 --> 00:11:52,233
Ooh, that's fantastic.
262
00:11:52,363 --> 00:11:55,758
[music]
263
00:11:57,238 --> 00:11:58,935
- I'm Bella.
- Hi, Bella. I'm Lauren.
264
00:11:59,066 --> 00:12:01,198
- Lauren, yeah.
- Nice to meet you.
265
00:12:01,329 --> 00:12:04,027
I'm in that place where
I've had a lot of experiences
266
00:12:04,158 --> 00:12:05,942
and I know who I am.
267
00:12:06,073 --> 00:12:08,945
I have this great partnership
and looking for people
268
00:12:09,076 --> 00:12:11,426
that fit in
and work in my life.
269
00:12:11,556 --> 00:12:14,995
And that, uh,
just an authentic expression
270
00:12:15,125 --> 00:12:17,649
of who I am
and what I'm looking for.
271
00:12:17,780 --> 00:12:19,826
Yeah, I heard about it from,
uh, a client, actually.
272
00:12:19,956 --> 00:12:21,523
She was telling me about it.
273
00:12:21,653 --> 00:12:23,481
The thing I think
is safe about Skirt Club
274
00:12:23,612 --> 00:12:25,092
is the fact that,
when women come in,
275
00:12:25,222 --> 00:12:26,615
they feel a part of something.
276
00:12:26,746 --> 00:12:28,660
They feel connected
to the women around them.
277
00:12:28,791 --> 00:12:30,401
And I've tried to date
lesbian women,
278
00:12:30,532 --> 00:12:32,099
and they're always like,
"You're bi.
279
00:12:32,229 --> 00:12:33,491
- Like, no thanks." And--
- Yeah. Oh, my gosh.
280
00:12:33,622 --> 00:12:34,971
They're like,
"Stay far away from me."
281
00:12:35,102 --> 00:12:36,538
- Yeah.
- "You're bisexual."
282
00:12:36,668 --> 00:12:39,019
Yeah. Oh, I should show you
some of the chats.
283
00:12:39,149 --> 00:12:40,411
It's like an inquisition,
sort of.
284
00:12:40,542 --> 00:12:42,587
They're like, "So how many
women have you dated?"
285
00:12:42,718 --> 00:12:44,154
And like,
"Were any of them serious?"
286
00:12:44,285 --> 00:12:45,590
And, you know,
I'm like, "Wow.
287
00:12:45,721 --> 00:12:47,331
This is already--
it's not feeling very fun."
288
00:12:47,462 --> 00:12:49,594
- Yeah, so like, yeah.
- Okay.
289
00:12:49,725 --> 00:12:51,466
SEREN: You go to a party
where there are men involved,
290
00:12:51,596 --> 00:12:53,598
and it's like the women are
kind of like on their arms
291
00:12:53,729 --> 00:12:56,471
and they're in their dresses,
and they almost, like,
292
00:12:56,601 --> 00:12:58,560
need to impress each other
and they need to impress
293
00:12:58,690 --> 00:12:59,996
the men around them.
294
00:13:00,127 --> 00:13:02,085
And they're not as free
with what they do
295
00:13:02,216 --> 00:13:04,435
or they don't--
they don't fully embrace
296
00:13:04,566 --> 00:13:06,089
playing with one another
297
00:13:06,220 --> 00:13:07,525
because they're conscious
of the men around them,
298
00:13:07,656 --> 00:13:11,921
um, and that kind of
male gaze.
299
00:13:12,052 --> 00:13:14,141
STEPHANIE: I think Skirt Club
is such a safe place
300
00:13:14,271 --> 00:13:18,319
because it is highly vetted
301
00:13:18,449 --> 00:13:19,842
for the people that are coming
302
00:13:19,973 --> 00:13:23,150
and it's people that are all
here for the same reason.
303
00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,979
They're here because they're
curious about their sexuality
304
00:13:26,109 --> 00:13:28,024
and they want to be in a place
305
00:13:28,155 --> 00:13:30,026
where other women
are accepting of that.
306
00:13:30,157 --> 00:13:32,202
So that's something
I really enjoy about Skirt Club
307
00:13:32,333 --> 00:13:35,292
is it--it's fun
to just get to know women
308
00:13:35,423 --> 00:13:38,426
that have that same thing
that you do and are--
309
00:13:38,556 --> 00:13:40,645
have a genuine interest
and pursue it.
310
00:13:40,776 --> 00:13:42,909
Well, cheers to us.
311
00:13:43,039 --> 00:13:45,825
- Cheers to ladies.
- Cheers, yes.
312
00:13:47,217 --> 00:13:49,480
GENEVIEVE:
Welcome to Skirt Club LA.
313
00:13:49,611 --> 00:13:51,918
A delight to see you
all here looking wild.
314
00:13:52,048 --> 00:13:53,397
- Wow.
- Woo.
315
00:13:53,528 --> 00:13:56,357
There's some real claws
out tonight.
316
00:13:56,487 --> 00:13:58,489
Many of you have been before,
but I'd love to know
317
00:13:58,620 --> 00:14:01,275
who is here
for the first time tonight.
318
00:14:01,405 --> 00:14:02,406
Yes.
319
00:14:02,537 --> 00:14:04,147
[cheering]
320
00:14:04,278 --> 00:14:06,019
Can I see your little keys
dangling in the air?
321
00:14:06,149 --> 00:14:07,847
- Yeah.
- Yes.
322
00:14:07,977 --> 00:14:08,935
Where will you put
that key tonight
323
00:14:09,065 --> 00:14:10,110
when you get home?
324
00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:11,546
Will you keep it
somewhere safe?
325
00:14:11,676 --> 00:14:13,940
Will you
hang it on your bedpost
326
00:14:14,070 --> 00:14:16,072
to remind you
of what a wonderful time
327
00:14:16,203 --> 00:14:17,595
you will have shortly?
328
00:14:17,726 --> 00:14:19,162
[laughter]
329
00:14:19,293 --> 00:14:20,424
Because you ain't seen
nothing yet.
330
00:14:20,555 --> 00:14:22,078
[laughter]
331
00:14:22,209 --> 00:14:24,167
Exploration is everything.
332
00:14:24,298 --> 00:14:25,690
The people you will meet,
333
00:14:25,821 --> 00:14:29,216
you won't normally in bars
or with your friends.
334
00:14:29,346 --> 00:14:32,959
[music]
335
00:14:33,089 --> 00:14:36,484
[cheering]
336
00:14:36,614 --> 00:14:39,356
[music]
337
00:14:39,487 --> 00:14:41,184
They're gonna meet people
from all parts of life,
338
00:14:41,315 --> 00:14:43,317
different circles,
different professions.
339
00:14:43,447 --> 00:14:46,494
People you don't
normally cross into.
340
00:14:46,624 --> 00:14:48,061
Um, but you'll be bonded
by one thing,
341
00:14:48,191 --> 00:14:51,542
this desire to explore
your sexuality for yourself.
342
00:14:51,673 --> 00:14:54,850
[music]
343
00:14:54,981 --> 00:14:57,070
That, I think,
is the most important thing
344
00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:58,506
of Skirt Club.
345
00:14:58,636 --> 00:15:00,377
Now, what happens after that,
you know,
346
00:15:00,508 --> 00:15:03,424
is that sexy time
and two people get naked,
347
00:15:03,554 --> 00:15:04,904
and all that kind of stuff.
348
00:15:05,034 --> 00:15:07,907
I do believe
that's what 80% have come for.
349
00:15:08,037 --> 00:15:10,344
[laughs] So, um, yeah,
350
00:15:10,474 --> 00:15:12,520
there's opportunity
for everything.
351
00:15:12,650 --> 00:15:14,652
Uh, I have my Skirt Club
sisters right here.
352
00:15:14,783 --> 00:15:16,959
Um, but they've been with me
through the tests of time
353
00:15:17,090 --> 00:15:19,353
from all over the world.
- Oh.
354
00:15:19,483 --> 00:15:20,745
You're not there
with a partner,
355
00:15:20,876 --> 00:15:21,964
you're not there with someone
356
00:15:22,095 --> 00:15:24,488
who, um, you're concerned
357
00:15:24,619 --> 00:15:26,403
about what they think of you,
358
00:15:26,534 --> 00:15:29,102
what they think
of what you're going to do,
359
00:15:29,232 --> 00:15:30,451
what you're not going to do.
360
00:15:30,581 --> 00:15:33,671
[music]
361
00:15:36,065 --> 00:15:37,545
For your own pleasure,
362
00:15:37,675 --> 00:15:39,329
most importantly,
you know, it's--
363
00:15:39,460 --> 00:15:40,896
I feel like it's
a judgment-free zone
364
00:15:41,027 --> 00:15:44,421
because everyone's there
to get everyone off.
365
00:15:44,552 --> 00:15:46,510
[woman laughs]
366
00:15:46,641 --> 00:15:49,992
Salt, tequila, lime
in that order.
367
00:15:50,123 --> 00:15:53,474
You're going to lick the salt
slowly from her thigh.
368
00:15:53,604 --> 00:15:54,475
Mm-hmm.
369
00:15:54,605 --> 00:15:56,346
You're going to down the shot,
370
00:15:56,477 --> 00:15:57,434
and then you're going to kiss
the lime
371
00:15:57,565 --> 00:15:59,306
from her mouth.
- Ooh.
372
00:15:59,436 --> 00:16:01,395
Whoever has the lime at the end
is the winner.
373
00:16:01,525 --> 00:16:03,788
- Mm-hmm.
- Simple rules.
374
00:16:03,919 --> 00:16:06,400
Everybody please count with me
on the count of 3.
375
00:16:06,530 --> 00:16:07,879
3, 2, 1.
376
00:16:08,010 --> 00:16:09,055
Go!
377
00:16:09,185 --> 00:16:11,274
[cheering]
378
00:16:11,405 --> 00:16:13,885
Go, go, go, go! Oh!
379
00:16:14,016 --> 00:16:16,279
[cheering]
380
00:16:16,410 --> 00:16:17,759
And slowly does it.
381
00:16:17,889 --> 00:16:20,283
[cheering]
382
00:16:20,414 --> 00:16:22,677
LAUREN: It's surprising
how magical it is
383
00:16:22,807 --> 00:16:24,592
to be with only women.
384
00:16:24,722 --> 00:16:27,769
I realize that I never
experienced that,
385
00:16:27,899 --> 00:16:31,033
and, yeah,
386
00:16:31,164 --> 00:16:33,905
I think maybe I've been
aware of women in the room
387
00:16:34,036 --> 00:16:36,473
and sort of felt
that connection.
388
00:16:36,604 --> 00:16:40,434
But to have a space
where it's just women
389
00:16:40,564 --> 00:16:42,044
and women
who are really comfortable
390
00:16:42,175 --> 00:16:43,698
with their bisexuality
391
00:16:43,828 --> 00:16:45,613
feels really beautiful.
392
00:16:45,743 --> 00:16:47,484
I know this is kind of--
I'm starving.
393
00:16:47,615 --> 00:16:48,877
I think this is really good.
394
00:16:49,008 --> 00:16:51,575
[screaming]
[laughter]
395
00:16:51,706 --> 00:16:53,186
- Ready?
- Come on, get down.
396
00:16:53,316 --> 00:16:55,753
How do we do three?
397
00:16:55,884 --> 00:16:56,885
[laughter]
398
00:16:57,016 --> 00:16:58,713
[laughs] Sorry.
- Quick.
399
00:16:59,844 --> 00:17:02,717
The thing I like the most
about Skirt Club
400
00:17:02,847 --> 00:17:06,634
is the energy
of the sort of matrix holders.
401
00:17:08,853 --> 00:17:11,726
There has to be a certain
energy and certain people
402
00:17:11,856 --> 00:17:16,252
to catalyze and create
the sexuality of the space,
403
00:17:16,383 --> 00:17:18,646
or else you just have a bunch
of, like, fearful women
404
00:17:18,776 --> 00:17:19,908
who are afraid
to make the first move.
405
00:17:20,039 --> 00:17:21,344
Are you all ready?
406
00:17:21,475 --> 00:17:25,174
3, 2, 1. Go!
- Whoo!
407
00:17:26,828 --> 00:17:30,353
[cheering]
408
00:17:30,484 --> 00:17:32,616
That was impressive.
409
00:17:34,357 --> 00:17:37,447
[cheering, shouting]
410
00:17:40,102 --> 00:17:43,105
[music]
411
00:17:57,424 --> 00:18:00,253
Things feel so different now,
412
00:18:00,383 --> 00:18:05,301
and you finally begin
to understand who you truly are.
413
00:18:05,432 --> 00:18:10,611
You understand
that you are unique,
414
00:18:10,741 --> 00:18:13,962
that your sexual self is
still a journey to discover,
415
00:18:14,093 --> 00:18:16,051
but that
you are on that journey.
416
00:18:16,182 --> 00:18:19,185
[music]
417
00:18:23,102 --> 00:18:24,277
LAUREN: You're so pretty.
418
00:18:24,407 --> 00:18:26,366
[woman laughs]
419
00:18:26,496 --> 00:18:28,324
Such a pretty
Orange County girl.
420
00:18:28,455 --> 00:18:30,326
This is so, like, rippable,
421
00:18:30,457 --> 00:18:31,719
like, I just want
to rip it off of you.
422
00:18:31,849 --> 00:18:33,242
It is torn a little bit.
423
00:18:33,373 --> 00:18:34,678
So teasing.
424
00:18:34,809 --> 00:18:38,552
- [laughs]
- So unfair.
425
00:18:38,682 --> 00:18:40,162
You're so smart,
and you talk, you talk.
426
00:18:40,293 --> 00:18:42,338
I was--I was, uh...
427
00:18:42,469 --> 00:18:43,948
I just want
to rip it off of you.
428
00:18:44,079 --> 00:18:45,167
- Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
429
00:18:45,298 --> 00:18:47,648
You're such a pretty woman.
430
00:18:52,566 --> 00:18:54,568
- You are.
- You are.
431
00:18:54,698 --> 00:18:56,657
- You are.
- No, you are.
432
00:19:02,793 --> 00:19:06,145
[music]
433
00:19:10,584 --> 00:19:12,194
LAUREN: There are so many
beautiful women
434
00:19:12,325 --> 00:19:15,197
that you sort of are like,
"Which one should I approach?"
435
00:19:15,328 --> 00:19:18,722
But I did connect with a woman,
and that was pretty amazing,
436
00:19:18,853 --> 00:19:22,291
and, you know, it--it's
a mixed bag at the same time
437
00:19:22,422 --> 00:19:24,163
because I'm looking
for connection.
438
00:19:24,293 --> 00:19:26,774
Like, I'm looking for,
"Do you want to do this again?"
439
00:19:26,904 --> 00:19:28,950
Not like, "Oh,
I just want to hook up
440
00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:32,432
and then, uh,
cross that off my list."
441
00:19:32,562 --> 00:19:34,434
Want to go get another drink
or wander around?
442
00:19:34,564 --> 00:19:36,479
I mean, I have this--
right here.
443
00:19:36,610 --> 00:19:38,133
Yeah, wander around
a little bit, like...
444
00:19:38,264 --> 00:19:40,353
Yeah, yeah, I know.
I'm gonna go do that, too.
445
00:19:40,483 --> 00:19:43,486
And I'm gonna go see you,
and I hope I find you again.
446
00:19:44,922 --> 00:19:46,620
I don't know.
We'll see, you know.
447
00:19:46,750 --> 00:19:49,231
Bisexual women, they're--
I think they're challenging
448
00:19:49,362 --> 00:19:51,755
to pin down in relationship.
449
00:19:53,583 --> 00:19:55,933
But I have to say
that, being here,
450
00:19:56,064 --> 00:19:58,545
they've created a space
that just--
451
00:19:58,675 --> 00:20:00,503
that takes you into your sexy.
452
00:20:00,634 --> 00:20:03,811
So, uh, it's a very special
environment.
453
00:20:03,941 --> 00:20:05,639
I plan on going to more
Skirt Club parties
454
00:20:05,769 --> 00:20:08,598
and exploring it more,
for sure.
455
00:20:08,729 --> 00:20:10,470
[music]
456
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,341
Skirt Club
has helped normalize
457
00:20:12,472 --> 00:20:15,083
bisexuality for women,
full stop.
458
00:20:15,214 --> 00:20:16,432
Uh, we have made a dent
459
00:20:16,563 --> 00:20:19,218
in how people perceive women
460
00:20:19,348 --> 00:20:21,611
who date both boys and girls,
461
00:20:21,742 --> 00:20:25,006
and, um, I'm proud of that.
462
00:20:25,136 --> 00:20:27,356
To just be themselves,
their authentic selves.
463
00:20:29,053 --> 00:20:30,316
It's their human right.
464
00:20:30,446 --> 00:20:32,535
They should be able to express
465
00:20:32,666 --> 00:20:35,277
without feeling ashamed
or concerned
466
00:20:35,408 --> 00:20:37,366
that people
won't approve of them.
467
00:20:37,497 --> 00:20:38,411
In the name of equality,
468
00:20:38,541 --> 00:20:39,673
it's time to stand up
469
00:20:39,803 --> 00:20:42,545
and just be free
to be yourself.
470
00:20:48,464 --> 00:20:50,379
[music]
471
00:20:54,514 --> 00:20:57,256
Have I ever experimented
with anal play
472
00:20:57,386 --> 00:21:01,129
is like asking a gay man
"Do you like brunch?"
473
00:21:01,260 --> 00:21:03,653
Like, it's the most obvious
question in the world.
474
00:21:03,784 --> 00:21:05,699
Of course.
- Some things are off limits.
475
00:21:05,829 --> 00:21:07,396
I don't do anything in my ass.
476
00:21:07,527 --> 00:21:10,094
However, I do enjoy
giving a little peg.
477
00:21:10,225 --> 00:21:11,661
It's amazing.
478
00:21:11,792 --> 00:21:14,316
I mean, I've pegged
three men in a day
479
00:21:14,447 --> 00:21:16,927
before noon sometimes.
480
00:21:17,058 --> 00:21:19,060
We haven't fully dabbled
in anal sex yet.
481
00:21:19,190 --> 00:21:21,280
I feel like
that's the final frontier.
482
00:21:21,410 --> 00:21:23,064
[laughter]
483
00:21:23,194 --> 00:21:25,501
Well, I am a big fan of...
484
00:21:25,632 --> 00:21:28,852
back door--[chuckles]--sex,
485
00:21:28,983 --> 00:21:32,378
and he is not really
into that.
486
00:21:32,508 --> 00:21:35,511
And I'm like,
"But you should try."
487
00:21:35,642 --> 00:21:39,341
I think I will never, like,
you know, it scares me.
488
00:21:39,472 --> 00:21:40,560
You'd be very surprised
489
00:21:40,690 --> 00:21:42,083
of how many men
loved to be pegged.
490
00:21:42,213 --> 00:21:45,652
I fucked a man in Waco
in the ass.
491
00:21:45,782 --> 00:21:48,568
It almost made me wish
I had a real dick, almost.
492
00:21:48,698 --> 00:21:50,657
It's just as fun
to strap it on.
493
00:21:50,787 --> 00:21:52,789
Every animal does it
from the back, you know,
494
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:54,095
like, maybe, like, dolphins
or something
495
00:21:54,225 --> 00:21:56,402
don't do it that way,
but, like, yeah.
496
00:21:56,532 --> 00:21:58,404
They have sex like we do.
- The exception.
497
00:21:58,534 --> 00:22:00,275
Well, it's true.
They're very smart.
498
00:22:00,406 --> 00:22:02,103
Yeah, but, uh, yeah,
it's cultural thing.
499
00:22:02,233 --> 00:22:04,018
I guess that's
the whole thing about it.
500
00:22:04,148 --> 00:22:07,630
Can you get over that there
might be poop somewhere
501
00:22:07,761 --> 00:22:10,154
far up there that might be
coming down
502
00:22:10,285 --> 00:22:11,721
or it becoming poop.
503
00:22:11,852 --> 00:22:14,158
The most important thing
that I want Americans
504
00:22:14,289 --> 00:22:18,598
to embrace about sexuality
is loosen up.
505
00:22:18,728 --> 00:22:20,861
Loosen the fuck up
and have some fun
506
00:22:20,991 --> 00:22:23,994
and, like, put something up
your butt in a weird way
507
00:22:24,125 --> 00:22:25,431
and, like, laugh about it
and take a picture of it
508
00:22:25,561 --> 00:22:26,823
and send it to your friends.
509
00:22:26,954 --> 00:22:30,740
And just have fun
because it's just sex.
510
00:22:30,871 --> 00:22:34,483
[music]
511
00:22:38,661 --> 00:22:39,967
Hello, everyone.
512
00:22:40,097 --> 00:22:43,536
My name is
Professor Rain DeGrey
513
00:22:43,666 --> 00:22:46,843
and I am your resident
butt expert.
514
00:22:46,974 --> 00:22:50,847
I am here today
to talk about butt stuff.
515
00:22:50,978 --> 00:22:52,153
That's right.
516
00:22:52,283 --> 00:22:54,024
Butts, we all have one.
517
00:22:54,155 --> 00:22:56,331
Those glorious globes,
518
00:22:56,462 --> 00:22:57,854
the junk in the trunk,
519
00:22:57,985 --> 00:23:01,075
that delightful posterior.
520
00:23:01,205 --> 00:23:04,600
A payload of pleasure
that we are all sitting on
521
00:23:04,731 --> 00:23:07,429
and most people
are afraid to explore.
522
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,170
Now, I know
what you're thinking.
523
00:23:09,300 --> 00:23:11,999
I can hear you
thinking it right now.
524
00:23:12,129 --> 00:23:15,916
"But Rain, I'm scared
to put something in my butt.
525
00:23:16,046 --> 00:23:17,178
What if it hurts?
526
00:23:17,308 --> 00:23:19,398
What if it's messy?"
527
00:23:19,528 --> 00:23:22,531
You're worried your neighbors
are gonna judge you.
528
00:23:22,662 --> 00:23:24,881
First off,
what you stick in your butt
529
00:23:25,012 --> 00:23:27,493
is nobody's business
other than you
530
00:23:27,623 --> 00:23:29,059
and the person
who's helping you
531
00:23:29,190 --> 00:23:31,061
put things in your butt.
532
00:23:31,192 --> 00:23:32,889
Humans have been sticking
things up their butt
533
00:23:33,020 --> 00:23:34,413
for as long as we've been
on the planet.
534
00:23:34,543 --> 00:23:35,762
We've just gotten better at it.
535
00:23:35,892 --> 00:23:37,372
The toys have gotten better,
536
00:23:37,503 --> 00:23:39,156
the lube has gotten better.
537
00:23:39,287 --> 00:23:41,724
With the proper amount of care
and foresight,
538
00:23:41,855 --> 00:23:43,247
anal doesn't have to hurt.
539
00:23:43,378 --> 00:23:45,162
It doesn't have to be messy,
540
00:23:45,293 --> 00:23:46,903
unless you're into
that sort of thing.
541
00:23:47,034 --> 00:23:48,905
No judgment. I'm not German.
542
00:23:49,036 --> 00:23:51,430
Join me today
543
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,432
on an exploration
of butt stuff.
544
00:23:53,562 --> 00:23:55,216
By the time I'm done with you,
545
00:23:55,346 --> 00:23:59,002
you, too, can be safely
and enjoyably
546
00:23:59,133 --> 00:24:01,091
exploring the wonders of anal.
547
00:24:01,222 --> 00:24:04,660
[music]
548
00:24:06,140 --> 00:24:09,360
INDIANA: [giggles]
549
00:24:09,491 --> 00:24:10,753
The first time I saw Evan,
550
00:24:10,884 --> 00:24:13,626
he was on stage playing
with his bands.
551
00:24:13,756 --> 00:24:17,673
Evan is this confident force
552
00:24:17,804 --> 00:24:21,460
who's like got a look
and he's intriguing.
553
00:24:21,590 --> 00:24:23,157
So I was like,
"You never want to date me.
554
00:24:23,287 --> 00:24:25,072
I'm pretty plain."
555
00:24:25,202 --> 00:24:27,291
At least in my, I don't know,
in my opinion, but, yeah.
556
00:24:27,422 --> 00:24:28,249
I don't think so, no.
557
00:24:28,379 --> 00:24:32,906
[vocalizing]
558
00:24:33,036 --> 00:24:34,908
We got to get lyrics
right there.
559
00:24:35,038 --> 00:24:36,866
Yeah. I went up and I said hi
to you after I got off
560
00:24:36,997 --> 00:24:38,651
the stage that night.
- Mm-hmm.
561
00:24:38,781 --> 00:24:40,261
I really wanted
to get to know you
562
00:24:40,391 --> 00:24:41,958
in any kind of capacity
at that point.
563
00:24:42,089 --> 00:24:44,265
[guitar plays]
564
00:24:44,395 --> 00:24:46,006
EVAN: One of the things
I love about this relationship
565
00:24:46,136 --> 00:24:47,747
is that we are extremely in tune
566
00:24:47,877 --> 00:24:49,923
to each other's emotions,
needs.
567
00:24:50,053 --> 00:24:51,533
INDIANA:
We have this magnificent
568
00:24:51,664 --> 00:24:53,143
physical connection.
569
00:24:53,274 --> 00:24:54,493
We're on the same level.
- It's so passionate.
570
00:24:54,623 --> 00:24:55,755
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
571
00:24:55,885 --> 00:24:57,321
I can say literally
anything to her
572
00:24:57,452 --> 00:24:59,149
and it's not gonna be
responded to
573
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,761
with any kind of backlash
or anything like that.
574
00:25:01,891 --> 00:25:03,458
Just open arms and like,
"Okay, let's talk."
575
00:25:03,589 --> 00:25:06,592
[guitar music plays]
576
00:25:06,722 --> 00:25:08,724
INDIANA: When it comes to sex,
577
00:25:08,855 --> 00:25:11,553
my experience with anal play
or anal sex
578
00:25:11,684 --> 00:25:13,512
has just been very minimal.
579
00:25:13,642 --> 00:25:15,731
I've wanted to try that.
580
00:25:15,862 --> 00:25:17,951
I've wanted to pursue that
in a way that's pleasurable
581
00:25:18,081 --> 00:25:19,561
but, like, safe.
582
00:25:19,692 --> 00:25:21,476
♪ And I'll drive you
583
00:25:21,607 --> 00:25:24,914
♪ Crazy
584
00:25:25,045 --> 00:25:28,527
♪ Yeah, I'll drive you wild
585
00:25:30,746 --> 00:25:32,226
[laughter]
586
00:25:32,356 --> 00:25:34,707
- I love you.
- I love you.
587
00:25:34,837 --> 00:25:38,362
When I think about Evan
and I engaging in anal sex
588
00:25:38,493 --> 00:25:40,147
and I'm on the receiving end,
589
00:25:40,277 --> 00:25:43,150
it does bring this level of like
a little bit of anxiety.
590
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:44,586
I trust you.
591
00:25:44,717 --> 00:25:47,154
But it does make me
a little nervous
592
00:25:47,284 --> 00:25:48,242
because I know how big you are.
593
00:25:48,372 --> 00:25:49,939
- Makes me nervous.
- Yeah.
594
00:25:50,070 --> 00:25:51,767
Yeah.
595
00:25:51,898 --> 00:25:55,684
It's awkward to ask
about sexuality.
596
00:25:55,815 --> 00:25:59,993
And I am always so proud
of any couple
597
00:26:00,123 --> 00:26:02,343
that reaches out to me
for coaching.
598
00:26:02,473 --> 00:26:04,737
I like that you and I
are taking this step to,
599
00:26:04,867 --> 00:26:06,956
like, have that opportunity
to talk to an expert.
600
00:26:07,087 --> 00:26:09,002
- I do.
- The two main issues
601
00:26:09,132 --> 00:26:11,482
people have when it comes
to anal play
602
00:26:11,613 --> 00:26:15,356
is it being messy
and it being painful.
603
00:26:15,486 --> 00:26:17,750
Both of those issues
are very easily addressed
604
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,186
with a little bit
of preparation.
605
00:26:19,316 --> 00:26:20,404
We want to be able
to do this safely
606
00:26:20,535 --> 00:26:22,450
while still maintaining
like, you know,
607
00:26:22,581 --> 00:26:24,931
that sexual energy and...
608
00:26:25,061 --> 00:26:26,802
explore new things with you.
609
00:26:26,933 --> 00:26:28,848
It's gonna be
a really good step
610
00:26:28,978 --> 00:26:30,371
in a direction
we've talked about
611
00:26:30,501 --> 00:26:32,678
but haven't had
the opportunity to do.
612
00:26:32,808 --> 00:26:34,767
Far as like me
entering somebody,
613
00:26:34,897 --> 00:26:37,073
I haven't really known anybody
I ever felt confident with
614
00:26:37,204 --> 00:26:40,163
or been confident in myself
enough to engage in that.
615
00:26:40,294 --> 00:26:41,774
We have the opportunity
now to kind of change that,
616
00:26:41,904 --> 00:26:43,166
I think, a little bit.
617
00:26:43,297 --> 00:26:44,211
- Mm-hmm.
- So I'm excited about that.
618
00:26:44,341 --> 00:26:47,040
- Yeah. Me, too.
- Oh, you missed.
619
00:26:47,170 --> 00:26:49,390
[laughs]
620
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,784
[music]
621
00:26:55,439 --> 00:26:59,879
Our body is the finest toy
we will ever be given.
622
00:27:00,009 --> 00:27:01,402
And most people are afraid
to play with it.
623
00:27:01,532 --> 00:27:03,317
[laughs]
624
00:27:03,447 --> 00:27:05,188
As an advice columnist,
625
00:27:05,319 --> 00:27:07,451
people get worried
about being judged
626
00:27:07,582 --> 00:27:09,323
and they're like,
"Well, I'm gonna ignore
627
00:27:09,453 --> 00:27:10,541
that part of me."
628
00:27:10,672 --> 00:27:14,415
[music]
629
00:27:14,545 --> 00:27:18,462
People are fascinated
by anal play
630
00:27:18,593 --> 00:27:20,247
for a multitude of reasons.
631
00:27:20,377 --> 00:27:22,684
And when you go through
your whole life with
632
00:27:22,815 --> 00:27:26,122
"That's dirty, butts
are embarrassing," fart jokes,
633
00:27:26,253 --> 00:27:29,865
like, you get so much stigma
attached around that.
634
00:27:29,996 --> 00:27:31,562
So you take something
that's forbidden,
635
00:27:31,693 --> 00:27:35,088
you take something that is
a little harder to acquire,
636
00:27:35,218 --> 00:27:38,004
and it's also simultaneously
very pleasurable.
637
00:27:38,134 --> 00:27:40,702
That's the trifecta
of awesome.
638
00:27:40,833 --> 00:27:43,270
Rain seems like she's gonna be
a wealth of knowledge,
639
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,447
and, uh, I know
I'm gonna have a good time.
640
00:27:46,577 --> 00:27:48,536
I hope that this is positive
for you.
641
00:27:48,667 --> 00:27:50,146
Yeah, I'm sure it will be.
642
00:27:50,277 --> 00:27:51,582
I mean, I've been sticking
a finger up my ass
643
00:27:51,713 --> 00:27:54,063
since I was like 13, so...
- [laughs]
644
00:27:54,194 --> 00:27:55,064
EVAN: When I was younger
and I was first
645
00:27:55,195 --> 00:27:56,805
starting to pleasure myself,
646
00:27:56,936 --> 00:27:58,633
I'd be in the shower for,
you know, a couple of hours,
647
00:27:58,764 --> 00:28:00,853
and I would--I would stick
a finger up my ass,
648
00:28:00,983 --> 00:28:02,463
and it felt really good.
649
00:28:02,593 --> 00:28:04,465
And then I immediately
felt ashamed of myself.
650
00:28:04,595 --> 00:28:05,422
Shame.
651
00:28:05,553 --> 00:28:06,946
[laughs]
652
00:28:07,076 --> 00:28:09,122
Anal and butt play
and stuff like that
653
00:28:09,252 --> 00:28:11,472
is such a vulnerable place
to be in.
654
00:28:11,602 --> 00:28:14,344
You know, growing up
in this society as a man,
655
00:28:14,475 --> 00:28:17,217
I'm expected to not have
anything done to me.
656
00:28:17,347 --> 00:28:19,741
I was a man growing up
in a very conservative town
657
00:28:19,872 --> 00:28:21,830
with very conservative parents.
658
00:28:21,961 --> 00:28:24,006
Literally, Dad said,
"Don't ever be a cocksucker."
659
00:28:24,137 --> 00:28:25,660
Anybody who is, you know,
660
00:28:25,791 --> 00:28:28,010
exhibiting any kind of
homosexual tendencies
661
00:28:28,141 --> 00:28:30,447
was immediately shot down
and shamed.
662
00:28:30,578 --> 00:28:32,580
I feel kind of, I guess,
not sad for you,
663
00:28:32,711 --> 00:28:35,496
but I--I've always felt
like it wasn't really fair
664
00:28:35,626 --> 00:28:37,890
that you haven't had
the ability
665
00:28:38,020 --> 00:28:39,587
to experience
something sexually
666
00:28:39,718 --> 00:28:42,982
that you'd like to because
it's just more taboo for men.
667
00:28:43,112 --> 00:28:44,984
It's being talked about
a lot now
668
00:28:45,114 --> 00:28:47,377
with the buzzword
toxic masculinity,
669
00:28:47,508 --> 00:28:49,292
saying, "Oh, you can't
be this and be a man."
670
00:28:49,423 --> 00:28:51,773
The most manly thing
that I've come up with
671
00:28:51,904 --> 00:28:54,080
that you can do is not listen
to other people
672
00:28:54,210 --> 00:28:56,647
that are trying to tell you
how to be who you are.
673
00:28:56,778 --> 00:28:59,563
So if that means
sticking a finger up my ass
674
00:28:59,694 --> 00:29:02,044
and being proud of it,
then so be it.
675
00:29:02,175 --> 00:29:04,351
If that means she's sticking
a finger up my ass
676
00:29:04,481 --> 00:29:06,135
and I'm proud of it,
so be it.
677
00:29:06,266 --> 00:29:07,658
- It's gonna be fun.
- Mm-hmm.
678
00:29:07,789 --> 00:29:09,312
I glad I got my ass waxed.
679
00:29:09,443 --> 00:29:11,401
[laughter]
680
00:29:11,532 --> 00:29:13,186
Ooh, that's hot.
681
00:29:13,316 --> 00:29:14,753
Oh, whoa,
you're getting in there.
682
00:29:14,883 --> 00:29:16,406
- Yep.
- Oh, whew.
683
00:29:16,537 --> 00:29:18,626
[laughs] Oh, ow.
684
00:29:18,757 --> 00:29:21,368
I have--That's something
I've never seen before.
685
00:29:21,498 --> 00:29:24,327
[music]
686
00:29:26,112 --> 00:29:27,591
INDIANA: I'm so excited.
687
00:29:27,722 --> 00:29:29,593
It's a pleasure
to meet both of you.
688
00:29:29,724 --> 00:29:30,899
- Yeah.
- Who's excited?
689
00:29:31,030 --> 00:29:31,813
I think we're both
really excited.
690
00:29:31,944 --> 00:29:33,032
- Yes. Butt stuff.
- Yes.
691
00:29:33,162 --> 00:29:34,511
-I'm excited for both of you.
- Yeah.
692
00:29:34,642 --> 00:29:37,297
I'd be honored to give
and receive in this--
693
00:29:37,427 --> 00:29:39,299
in this situation,
at least learn more about it.
694
00:29:39,429 --> 00:29:42,258
Normally when you're
hooking up with someone,
695
00:29:42,389 --> 00:29:44,391
you don't have to put
that much thought into it.
696
00:29:44,521 --> 00:29:46,567
You can show up
and you're good to go.
697
00:29:46,697 --> 00:29:48,395
Anal is an activity
698
00:29:48,525 --> 00:29:51,137
that requires a little bit
more preparation.
699
00:29:51,267 --> 00:29:52,878
You have to think about it.
700
00:29:53,008 --> 00:29:54,227
You have to have
some foresight,
701
00:29:54,357 --> 00:29:56,011
and you have to get
some supplies.
702
00:29:56,142 --> 00:29:57,578
But in my opinion,
703
00:29:57,708 --> 00:30:00,407
that preparation
is totally worth it
704
00:30:00,537 --> 00:30:03,018
because the payoff
is so enjoyable.
705
00:30:03,149 --> 00:30:04,890
When it comes to anal play,
706
00:30:05,020 --> 00:30:06,848
the step that I'd like
to cover,
707
00:30:06,979 --> 00:30:09,198
step 1--
how to clean the butt.
708
00:30:09,329 --> 00:30:11,853
[music]
709
00:30:11,984 --> 00:30:13,855
When you start to do anal,
710
00:30:13,986 --> 00:30:15,814
you don't want to be
figuring out
711
00:30:15,944 --> 00:30:18,817
how your colon works
in the middle of sexy time.
712
00:30:18,947 --> 00:30:20,470
- [laughs]
- Salvador Dali
713
00:30:20,601 --> 00:30:23,343
said something like--
I believe the line was,
714
00:30:23,473 --> 00:30:26,215
"Pussies are bullshit,
and--and butts are honest."
715
00:30:26,346 --> 00:30:27,695
[water shower dripping]
716
00:30:27,826 --> 00:30:30,089
We're anatomically designed
717
00:30:30,219 --> 00:30:32,700
to have pleasure from the ass,
718
00:30:32,831 --> 00:30:34,267
male or female.
719
00:30:34,397 --> 00:30:36,660
It feels good.
There's nerve endings there.
720
00:30:36,791 --> 00:30:38,488
There's the prostate there.
721
00:30:38,619 --> 00:30:41,143
If you're a female,
through the wall of the anus
722
00:30:41,274 --> 00:30:42,492
you can hit the G-spot.
723
00:30:42,623 --> 00:30:44,233
It feels good.
724
00:30:44,364 --> 00:30:46,322
Now, some people
really get into enema play.
725
00:30:46,453 --> 00:30:47,933
[laughs]
726
00:30:48,063 --> 00:30:50,936
And they will do milk enemas,
they'll do coffee enemas.
727
00:30:51,066 --> 00:30:52,938
- Yeah, I've heard about that.
- They will clean themselves.
728
00:30:53,068 --> 00:30:54,853
I just use water,
and I'm good to go.
729
00:30:54,983 --> 00:30:57,029
Hey. Oh, I like those.
730
00:30:57,159 --> 00:30:58,552
RAIN: Take the time
to figure out
731
00:30:58,682 --> 00:31:01,903
what is the process you need
to clean out your colon.
732
00:31:02,034 --> 00:31:03,731
It's all about relaxing.
733
00:31:03,862 --> 00:31:05,646
It literally is a mindset
734
00:31:05,776 --> 00:31:08,431
where you're having
to retrain your brain.
735
00:31:08,562 --> 00:31:12,044
If you have a clean ass
and you are relaxed,
736
00:31:12,174 --> 00:31:15,090
anal's
a pretty feasible thing.
737
00:31:15,221 --> 00:31:17,788
What is your opinion on,
uh, on graduating plugs?
738
00:31:17,919 --> 00:31:20,313
- I'm a huge advocate for it.
- Okay.
739
00:31:20,443 --> 00:31:21,575
I think
they're an excellent idea.
740
00:31:21,705 --> 00:31:24,012
Something like this.
741
00:31:24,143 --> 00:31:26,275
- Whoo, boy.
- And you're like, that's--
742
00:31:26,406 --> 00:31:28,495
I admire people
who want to tackle this.
743
00:31:28,625 --> 00:31:30,497
And there are people--
"It's not me."
744
00:31:30,627 --> 00:31:33,413
- However, this is possible.
- Mm-hmm.
745
00:31:33,543 --> 00:31:37,417
The truth is the average length
of a vagina
746
00:31:37,547 --> 00:31:39,071
is 3 to 5 inches.
747
00:31:39,201 --> 00:31:40,333
And when it's aroused,
748
00:31:40,463 --> 00:31:42,944
it can get up
to 5 to 7 inches.
749
00:31:43,075 --> 00:31:44,641
The interesting thing
about the ass is
750
00:31:44,772 --> 00:31:47,253
you have, like,
22 feet of colon.
751
00:31:47,383 --> 00:31:49,124
I've seen people
do squat thrusts
752
00:31:49,255 --> 00:31:50,517
over a traffic safety cone.
753
00:31:50,647 --> 00:31:52,606
You can get some size
up there.
754
00:31:52,736 --> 00:31:55,217
If you get that ass
opened up and relaxed,
755
00:31:55,348 --> 00:31:58,699
I have succeeded
in double-fisting a man's ass.
756
00:31:58,829 --> 00:31:59,961
I have never managed
757
00:32:00,092 --> 00:32:01,310
to double-fist
a woman's pussy.
758
00:32:01,441 --> 00:32:03,095
Everybody's body
is different.
759
00:32:03,225 --> 00:32:06,402
Your ass can be trained.
760
00:32:06,533 --> 00:32:07,969
And the more that you go
on that journey
761
00:32:08,100 --> 00:32:09,840
and the more you figure out
how your ass works
762
00:32:09,971 --> 00:32:11,320
and the more relaxed you get,
763
00:32:11,451 --> 00:32:12,713
generally the larger
you can get.
764
00:32:12,843 --> 00:32:14,976
One of my pet peeves
765
00:32:15,107 --> 00:32:16,717
is I hate seeing people
766
00:32:16,847 --> 00:32:18,806
get sex education from porn.
- Mm-hmm.
767
00:32:18,937 --> 00:32:20,112
Because it's completely
768
00:32:20,242 --> 00:32:21,417
unrealistic.
- Yes.
769
00:32:21,548 --> 00:32:23,202
You cannot look at porn
770
00:32:23,332 --> 00:32:25,247
and think that's
how people are doing it.
771
00:32:25,378 --> 00:32:27,206
I don't look at the Olympics
772
00:32:27,336 --> 00:32:29,512
and wonder why I can't do
a five-point barrel jump
773
00:32:29,643 --> 00:32:31,601
and land
and not shatter my legs.
774
00:32:31,732 --> 00:32:33,734
If you're gonna look
at a porn film
775
00:32:33,864 --> 00:32:36,041
and then go home
and try and duplicate it,
776
00:32:36,171 --> 00:32:38,304
and you're like, "I-I can't--
777
00:32:38,434 --> 00:32:40,959
I can't fit it all in me."
778
00:32:41,089 --> 00:32:44,701
Porn is as realistic
as Tom Cruise movies.
779
00:32:44,832 --> 00:32:46,965
The model has been
sitting on a plug
780
00:32:47,095 --> 00:32:49,315
for an extended period of time.
- BOTH: Mm-hmm.
781
00:32:49,445 --> 00:32:53,058
And they've put lube
inside the hole.
782
00:32:53,188 --> 00:32:55,538
What, like lube's not sexy?
783
00:32:55,669 --> 00:32:57,627
Lube is sexy.
784
00:32:57,758 --> 00:32:59,064
Use the fucking lube.
785
00:32:59,194 --> 00:33:00,108
[laughter]
786
00:33:00,239 --> 00:33:02,284
Use more lube.
787
00:33:02,415 --> 00:33:05,766
We need to normalize
using lube.
788
00:33:05,896 --> 00:33:07,811
Oh, that's cold.
[laughs]
789
00:33:07,942 --> 00:33:09,030
- It's all right.
- Oh, boy.
790
00:33:09,161 --> 00:33:10,249
We'll leave that
in the sunlight.
791
00:33:10,379 --> 00:33:12,860
Once you take mess off
the table,
792
00:33:12,991 --> 00:33:14,949
what's the other thing
that people are worried about?
793
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,516
- Pain.
- The pain.
794
00:33:16,646 --> 00:33:18,213
Pain.
- Definitely.
795
00:33:18,344 --> 00:33:20,607
The most important tip
796
00:33:20,737 --> 00:33:22,739
that I can possibly
give anybody--
797
00:33:22,870 --> 00:33:25,220
breathe and relax.
798
00:33:25,351 --> 00:33:28,397
The more tense you are
and the more stressed you are,
799
00:33:28,528 --> 00:33:30,138
the higher your chances
800
00:33:30,269 --> 00:33:31,705
that you're not gonna
have a fun time.
801
00:33:31,835 --> 00:33:34,621
Find your Zen about anal.
802
00:33:34,751 --> 00:33:37,189
Breathe and relax.
803
00:33:37,319 --> 00:33:39,408
So how do we avoid pain?
804
00:33:39,539 --> 00:33:42,933
We avoid pain
by romancing the butthole.
805
00:33:43,064 --> 00:33:44,805
You need to woo the butthole.
806
00:33:44,935 --> 00:33:45,849
[laughs]
807
00:33:45,980 --> 00:33:47,373
How is it for you?
808
00:33:47,503 --> 00:33:48,548
- It's nice.
- Really?
809
00:33:48,678 --> 00:33:50,158
I feel you're reacting to it.
810
00:33:50,289 --> 00:33:52,421
And, I mean, obviously
this feels great physically.
811
00:33:52,552 --> 00:33:53,814
[gasps]
812
00:33:53,944 --> 00:33:56,121
I don't know how far into it
we're gonna get.
813
00:33:56,251 --> 00:33:57,296
It's not just
about the anal sex,
814
00:33:57,426 --> 00:33:58,949
it's about the pleasure
all around.
815
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,300
Do either of you
have any questions for me?
816
00:34:01,430 --> 00:34:02,431
I have so many questions.
Um...
817
00:34:02,562 --> 00:34:03,867
- Bring them.
- All right.
818
00:34:03,998 --> 00:34:05,826
It's one of the misconceptions
that I know
819
00:34:05,956 --> 00:34:08,307
that are out there--
men will go to,
820
00:34:08,437 --> 00:34:10,874
I guess,
jackhammer their partner.
821
00:34:11,005 --> 00:34:13,529
Is in and out
the thing that we do here,
822
00:34:13,660 --> 00:34:15,314
is it just in
or is it just slowly or--
823
00:34:15,444 --> 00:34:17,881
I always describe
the sphincter
824
00:34:18,012 --> 00:34:21,450
as the bouncer
for a very exclusive club.
825
00:34:21,581 --> 00:34:23,148
[music]
826
00:34:23,278 --> 00:34:26,455
The hardest part
is the initial insertion.
827
00:34:26,586 --> 00:34:27,326
- Mm-hmm.
- Geez, that feels--
828
00:34:27,456 --> 00:34:28,892
I mean, it's good.
829
00:34:29,023 --> 00:34:29,937
It's just strange.
830
00:34:30,068 --> 00:34:31,112
[gasps]
831
00:34:31,243 --> 00:34:32,896
- Yeah.
- But nice.
832
00:34:33,027 --> 00:34:35,203
Nice, strange--Oh, boy.
833
00:34:35,334 --> 00:34:36,683
Baby, don't go all the way
back out.
834
00:34:36,813 --> 00:34:39,686
Once you've gotten
past that bouncer,
835
00:34:39,816 --> 00:34:40,817
you're good to go.
836
00:34:40,948 --> 00:34:42,558
Oh, it's cold.
837
00:34:42,689 --> 00:34:45,039
Nothing has prepared me
for how cold that is.
838
00:34:45,170 --> 00:34:46,301
Oh.
839
00:34:46,432 --> 00:34:48,086
Where you undock and redock,
840
00:34:48,216 --> 00:34:49,783
undock and redock
841
00:34:49,913 --> 00:34:51,915
is where you're increasing
your chances of damage.
842
00:34:52,046 --> 00:34:55,049
I always advocate
that once you're in,
843
00:34:55,180 --> 00:34:56,703
you're just sliding
back and forth with it.
844
00:34:56,833 --> 00:34:59,488
- Mm-hmm.
- I always describe anal
845
00:34:59,619 --> 00:35:01,621
as a five-course meal.
846
00:35:01,751 --> 00:35:03,101
Lube has happened,
847
00:35:03,231 --> 00:35:04,798
prior stretching has happened,
848
00:35:04,928 --> 00:35:06,278
cleaning has happened.
849
00:35:06,408 --> 00:35:08,193
You can't just bust in
willy-nilly
850
00:35:08,323 --> 00:35:09,672
and hope it all works out.
851
00:35:09,803 --> 00:35:11,196
Well, you can,
852
00:35:11,326 --> 00:35:13,285
but that's
a much higher chance
853
00:35:13,415 --> 00:35:14,590
of things going wrong.
854
00:35:14,721 --> 00:35:16,853
You have to prepare for it
855
00:35:16,984 --> 00:35:20,335
to ensure that things
do not go wrong.
856
00:35:20,466 --> 00:35:22,729
Oh, stay relaxed.
857
00:35:22,859 --> 00:35:24,426
I'm trying.
858
00:35:24,557 --> 00:35:25,645
Lots of breathing.
859
00:35:25,775 --> 00:35:27,299
Yeah.
860
00:35:27,429 --> 00:35:29,083
Do you trust me?
- I trust you.
861
00:35:29,214 --> 00:35:31,912
If we get to the point
where I'm comfortable enough
862
00:35:32,042 --> 00:35:33,479
to actually receive you,
863
00:35:33,609 --> 00:35:35,307
and that's 8 1/2 inches,
864
00:35:35,437 --> 00:35:36,525
and that's a lot.
865
00:35:36,656 --> 00:35:38,919
Like you try to tell me,
push up.
866
00:35:39,049 --> 00:35:39,920
And push.
867
00:35:40,050 --> 00:35:41,356
Oh.
868
00:35:41,487 --> 00:35:43,315
If we're able
to get to that point,
869
00:35:43,445 --> 00:35:45,186
I think that that's possible,
870
00:35:45,317 --> 00:35:46,579
and I'd like that
to be the case.
871
00:35:46,709 --> 00:35:48,276
But if it's not,
that's okay, too.
872
00:35:48,407 --> 00:35:52,106
I'm more in this to have
another avenue of pleasure,
873
00:35:52,237 --> 00:35:54,500
and it doesn't necessarily
have to be, you know,
874
00:35:54,630 --> 00:35:55,805
to the point of orgasm.
875
00:35:55,936 --> 00:35:56,632
[laughs] How was that?
876
00:35:56,763 --> 00:35:57,894
- I-I like it.
- Yeah?
877
00:35:58,025 --> 00:35:59,244
It's gonna take
maybe some time.
878
00:35:59,374 --> 00:36:00,419
Of course.
879
00:36:00,549 --> 00:36:01,855
Before I could do that again.
880
00:36:01,985 --> 00:36:02,856
Yeah, nervous butthole.
881
00:36:02,986 --> 00:36:05,380
It does do that. I do.
882
00:36:05,511 --> 00:36:07,077
I counsel people all the time.
883
00:36:07,208 --> 00:36:08,992
Just start off with a finger.
884
00:36:09,123 --> 00:36:11,125
If you just take your finger
on the outside
885
00:36:11,256 --> 00:36:13,519
and you just start
knocking on the door,
886
00:36:13,649 --> 00:36:16,565
"Oh. Oh, hold on a minute.
887
00:36:16,696 --> 00:36:19,960
That's actually
kind of marvelous."
888
00:36:20,090 --> 00:36:22,049
Hey, baby,
I really want to try.
889
00:36:22,180 --> 00:36:24,486
In the context
of doing things,
890
00:36:24,617 --> 00:36:26,706
analing, and then to a man?
891
00:36:26,836 --> 00:36:29,796
That is a whole power dynamic
892
00:36:29,926 --> 00:36:32,973
that I am still kind of
wrapping my head around.
893
00:36:33,103 --> 00:36:35,845
I don't ever try
to get inside an ass
894
00:36:35,976 --> 00:36:38,239
until I've managed
to get all three fingers in.
895
00:36:38,370 --> 00:36:40,110
When you get
all three fingers in,
896
00:36:40,241 --> 00:36:42,852
stop, wait.
897
00:36:42,983 --> 00:36:44,419
- Do you believe in me?
- I do.
898
00:36:44,550 --> 00:36:46,029
- I believe in you.
- I trust you.
899
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:49,729
You can actually feel
as the ass starts to relax
900
00:36:49,859 --> 00:36:52,253
and realize it doesn't have
anything to be scared of.
901
00:36:52,384 --> 00:36:54,124
- Mm-hmm.
- Male or female,
902
00:36:54,255 --> 00:36:57,737
when you can feel the ass
start to relax,
903
00:36:57,867 --> 00:36:59,913
that's when I like to make
a little "come hither" motion.
904
00:37:00,043 --> 00:37:01,436
- Mm-hmm.
- Coochy, coochy-coo.
905
00:37:01,567 --> 00:37:03,438
Come here, you. Come here.
906
00:37:03,569 --> 00:37:06,093
And whether the prostate
or the G-spot,
907
00:37:06,224 --> 00:37:07,877
they're going to respond
to that.
908
00:37:08,008 --> 00:37:08,878
[laughs] It does tickle.
909
00:37:09,009 --> 00:37:11,141
I told you it tickles.
910
00:37:11,272 --> 00:37:13,579
- Yeah.
- You were warned.
911
00:37:13,709 --> 00:37:14,580
There's a lot
of responsibility,
912
00:37:14,710 --> 00:37:15,668
and I feel the weight of that,
913
00:37:15,798 --> 00:37:18,410
but it's a very powerful
feeling
914
00:37:18,540 --> 00:37:19,802
to have that, yeah.
915
00:37:19,933 --> 00:37:22,457
- Oh, whoa. [laughs]
- [laughs]
916
00:37:22,588 --> 00:37:24,372
Oh, I felt that.
All right. Um...
917
00:37:24,503 --> 00:37:26,635
This is that?
This is the come hither.
918
00:37:26,766 --> 00:37:28,420
I'll stop.
- All right.
919
00:37:28,550 --> 00:37:30,900
I do think that anal play would
be able to give me an orgasm.
920
00:37:31,031 --> 00:37:33,076
The male G-spot
or the prostate is in there.
921
00:37:33,207 --> 00:37:34,687
I'm very aware of it.
922
00:37:34,817 --> 00:37:36,732
It's much better.
I can feel you tense.
923
00:37:36,863 --> 00:37:39,648
The advice that I would
give any couple
924
00:37:39,779 --> 00:37:43,130
that hired me for coaching
is communicate,
925
00:37:43,261 --> 00:37:46,002
negotiate, own your awesome.
926
00:37:46,133 --> 00:37:47,874
Let go
of the fear and the guilt
927
00:37:48,004 --> 00:37:48,875
and the anxiety.
928
00:37:49,005 --> 00:37:50,746
Explore your body.
929
00:37:50,877 --> 00:37:52,748
Find out what works for you.
930
00:37:52,879 --> 00:37:55,795
There's only one thing
left to do, my friends.
931
00:37:55,925 --> 00:37:57,579
Go forth and fuck.
932
00:37:57,710 --> 00:37:59,015
Thank you so much.
933
00:37:59,146 --> 00:38:00,278
It's been a pleasure.
- My pleasure.
934
00:38:00,408 --> 00:38:01,801
- Lovely meeting you.
-Thank you. Thank you.
935
00:38:01,931 --> 00:38:03,019
You're very feisty.
I like it.
936
00:38:03,150 --> 00:38:04,630
- You go first.
- All right.
937
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,371
[laughs]
938
00:38:08,329 --> 00:38:10,549
You don't have to do anal.
939
00:38:10,679 --> 00:38:12,855
It's not the mark
of a cool kid.
940
00:38:12,986 --> 00:38:14,292
You should never be pressured
941
00:38:14,422 --> 00:38:16,468
to doing something
you don't enjoy.
942
00:38:16,598 --> 00:38:17,904
But sometimes,
943
00:38:18,034 --> 00:38:21,124
the things that we enjoy
sneak up on us.
944
00:38:21,255 --> 00:38:24,650
There's so much pleasure
associated with your body,
945
00:38:24,780 --> 00:38:28,480
and I just want to have more
people access that pleasure.
946
00:38:28,610 --> 00:38:31,961
It's a noble cause
through the power of butt sex.
947
00:38:34,703 --> 00:38:36,792
INDIANA: I'm just excited
to have, like,
948
00:38:36,923 --> 00:38:38,838
another tool in our tool belt.
- EVAN: Mm-hmm.
949
00:38:38,968 --> 00:38:40,361
Just another thing
that we can do
950
00:38:40,492 --> 00:38:42,537
to help each other achieve
951
00:38:42,668 --> 00:38:44,713
some amount of pleasure
and passion.
952
00:38:44,844 --> 00:38:45,888
- Yeah.
- And I think it's gonna be
953
00:38:46,019 --> 00:38:47,063
really beneficial in that way.
954
00:38:47,194 --> 00:38:49,370
[laughter]
955
00:38:49,501 --> 00:38:51,981
I trust you, I trust some
of the knowledge we've gained,
956
00:38:52,112 --> 00:38:55,376
and I trust that we'll continue
that journey as we see fit.
957
00:38:55,507 --> 00:38:56,638
Bottom line, end of the day,
958
00:38:56,769 --> 00:38:58,379
all I want to do
is love this woman.
959
00:38:58,510 --> 00:39:01,208
- Oh.
- In every way possible.
960
00:39:01,339 --> 00:39:03,689
Mm. You're my favorite person.
961
00:39:03,819 --> 00:39:04,994
Oh, you're my person.
962
00:39:05,125 --> 00:39:06,953
See? I told you.
963
00:39:07,083 --> 00:39:08,041
It's not so bad.
964
00:39:08,171 --> 00:39:11,392
Now that you're a little
bit more...
965
00:39:11,523 --> 00:39:14,352
opened up to the concept,
966
00:39:14,482 --> 00:39:16,528
I want you to go forth
967
00:39:16,658 --> 00:39:18,747
and stick something
up your butt.
968
00:39:18,878 --> 00:39:20,967
That's your homework
assignment.
969
00:39:21,097 --> 00:39:21,924
Enjoy.
970
00:39:23,970 --> 00:39:27,843
[music]
971
00:39:30,585 --> 00:39:32,152
I think about sex
all the time.
972
00:39:32,282 --> 00:39:33,675
I've been thinking about it
this whole time.
973
00:39:33,806 --> 00:39:34,894
Uh, well, not with you,
974
00:39:35,024 --> 00:39:36,374
but, uh, you know, I'm a guy.
975
00:39:36,504 --> 00:39:38,201
You know, I think about sex
all the time.
976
00:39:38,332 --> 00:39:39,246
From the moment I wake up,
977
00:39:39,377 --> 00:39:41,117
all I can think about is ass.
978
00:39:41,248 --> 00:39:43,598
Literally, that's what keeps me
hungry throughout the day.
979
00:39:43,729 --> 00:39:46,122
Yeah, I did think about
having sex when I was married,
980
00:39:46,253 --> 00:39:48,211
but it was more like
how can I get out of it.
981
00:39:48,342 --> 00:39:49,865
I am a bit of pervert
in my head.
982
00:39:49,996 --> 00:39:51,301
I think about sex a lot
throughout the day.
983
00:39:51,432 --> 00:39:53,652
It's like there's like a devil
on my shoulder
984
00:39:53,782 --> 00:39:55,958
that's just like,
"Sex, sex, sex."
985
00:39:56,089 --> 00:39:58,700
Sex thoughts are kind of
just filtered
986
00:39:58,831 --> 00:40:00,441
and woven in between
everyday life.
987
00:40:00,572 --> 00:40:02,225
Is it healthy? I think so.
988
00:40:02,356 --> 00:40:04,445
I'm currently single,
989
00:40:04,576 --> 00:40:07,492
and I sometimes feel like
a 14-year-old boy some days.
990
00:40:07,622 --> 00:40:09,015
I'm totally distracted
in my head.
991
00:40:09,145 --> 00:40:10,886
We're humans.
We're sexual creatures,
992
00:40:11,017 --> 00:40:12,322
so it's throughout the day.
993
00:40:12,453 --> 00:40:14,237
Everything is sort of
sexual to me.
994
00:40:14,368 --> 00:40:16,022
That's just the concept
in my life.
995
00:40:16,152 --> 00:40:18,111
I'm thinking about it
right now.
996
00:40:18,241 --> 00:40:19,765
I think I think about sex
997
00:40:19,895 --> 00:40:21,244
even when I'm not thinking
about sex, you know?
998
00:40:21,375 --> 00:40:22,681
Like, sex is just the thing.
999
00:40:22,811 --> 00:40:24,770
Like, it is literally
the reason I'm alive.
1000
00:40:24,900 --> 00:40:25,901
I think about it all the time.
1001
00:40:26,032 --> 00:40:27,903
I'm, like, grateful
for fucking.
1002
00:40:28,034 --> 00:40:30,428
[music]
1003
00:40:34,344 --> 00:40:35,476
SOVEREIGN:
I think that I want to do
1004
00:40:35,607 --> 00:40:37,913
some girl-girl content again.
1005
00:40:38,044 --> 00:40:40,046
RAE: Wait, wait,
more forward. Yeah.
1006
00:40:40,176 --> 00:40:41,830
Here we go.
1007
00:40:41,961 --> 00:40:43,528
Oh, that's really good.
1008
00:40:43,658 --> 00:40:45,355
Look at--
Look in each other's eyes.
1009
00:40:45,486 --> 00:40:47,401
Ream me out from behind
like a real fucking champion.
1010
00:40:47,532 --> 00:40:48,663
[laughter]
1011
00:40:48,794 --> 00:40:49,882
RAE: There we go.
1012
00:40:50,012 --> 00:40:51,318
Now both of you
just look at me.
1013
00:40:51,449 --> 00:40:52,841
Don't have too much fun, fun.
1014
00:40:52,972 --> 00:40:54,234
Are you ready to fuck?
1015
00:40:54,364 --> 00:40:57,629
ALL: Yes.
1016
00:40:57,759 --> 00:41:00,066
SOVEREIGN: I think the bed
should be like in the center.
1017
00:41:00,196 --> 00:41:03,591
RAE: Yeah. That's what I was
thinking, too, actually.
1018
00:41:03,722 --> 00:41:05,375
I kind of go rogue
during a scene,
1019
00:41:05,506 --> 00:41:08,944
so there's a chance that,
if things are going well there,
1020
00:41:09,075 --> 00:41:10,816
I might just like fuck you
in that chair.
1021
00:41:10,946 --> 00:41:12,295
You know what I mean?
1022
00:41:12,426 --> 00:41:13,688
Like, sometimes the scene
just works like that.
1023
00:41:13,819 --> 00:41:14,733
When I started
in the porn industry,
1024
00:41:14,863 --> 00:41:16,082
it was at a time
when social media
1025
00:41:16,212 --> 00:41:17,953
was really starting
to pop off.
1026
00:41:18,084 --> 00:41:21,435
My space was--was really big,
and social media
1027
00:41:21,566 --> 00:41:23,959
was really starting
to pick up steam--Twitter.
1028
00:41:24,090 --> 00:41:25,483
It was the very beginning
of when we were seeing
1029
00:41:25,613 --> 00:41:28,311
that social media could really
transform someone's life
1030
00:41:28,442 --> 00:41:31,489
and could really get them
to reach through self-promotion
1031
00:41:31,619 --> 00:41:32,838
like their own audience.
1032
00:41:32,968 --> 00:41:34,579
I can make out with you there
1033
00:41:34,709 --> 00:41:35,928
but I'm gonna take you
to the chair,
1034
00:41:36,058 --> 00:41:37,495
go down on you,
like eat your pussy.
1035
00:41:37,625 --> 00:41:39,061
You can come.
1036
00:41:39,192 --> 00:41:40,628
And then I'll get up,
take you by the hand,
1037
00:41:40,759 --> 00:41:41,934
walk you over the bed,
and then we'll do
1038
00:41:42,064 --> 00:41:43,457
the more
conventional sex stuff.
1039
00:41:43,588 --> 00:41:45,111
Oh, take me by the hand?
1040
00:41:45,241 --> 00:41:46,939
Porn has gone
through a huge shift
1041
00:41:47,069 --> 00:41:51,683
in the nine years
that I've been in the industry.
1042
00:41:51,813 --> 00:41:53,554
The girl next door
1043
00:41:53,685 --> 00:41:57,210
with an internet connection
and a social media profile
1044
00:41:57,340 --> 00:41:58,994
were able to build up
their own websites,
1045
00:41:59,125 --> 00:42:01,954
create pay sites,
and start making money.
1046
00:42:02,084 --> 00:42:04,130
It really did start
to transform
1047
00:42:04,260 --> 00:42:06,219
the industry as a whole.
1048
00:42:06,349 --> 00:42:07,742
So then, after we bang,
1049
00:42:07,873 --> 00:42:09,135
we want it to end
1050
00:42:09,265 --> 00:42:10,832
with kind of like
cuddling like--
1051
00:42:10,963 --> 00:42:13,574
- Yeah, just like that...
- Very sweet.
1052
00:42:13,705 --> 00:42:16,534
I've always known, I think,
since a very young age,
1053
00:42:16,664 --> 00:42:18,623
you know, I wasn't gonna be
just at a desk
1054
00:42:18,753 --> 00:42:20,494
could do a 9-to-5
every day.
1055
00:42:20,625 --> 00:42:23,366
I just knew I was gonna do
something different.
1056
00:42:23,497 --> 00:42:24,672
I did a lot of different
types of scenes
1057
00:42:24,803 --> 00:42:26,282
for several years.
1058
00:42:26,413 --> 00:42:29,024
I just felt so empowered
by this feeling of like,
1059
00:42:29,155 --> 00:42:31,374
well, I can do this,
so why the fuck not?
1060
00:42:31,505 --> 00:42:32,375
Things have changed,
obviously, with--
1061
00:42:32,506 --> 00:42:33,986
SOVEREIGN: Yeah.
1062
00:42:34,116 --> 00:42:36,075
...things kind of being
more in our hands now.
1063
00:42:36,205 --> 00:42:37,163
When I first start doing porn,
1064
00:42:37,293 --> 00:42:39,382
I had so many agents
1065
00:42:39,513 --> 00:42:40,906
and managers ask me,
1066
00:42:41,036 --> 00:42:42,255
"Can you be more
of a dumb whore on Twitter?"
1067
00:42:42,385 --> 00:42:44,170
They--And I was like,
"I can't. I literally can't.
1068
00:42:44,300 --> 00:42:45,954
I can't maintain that."
- PHOENIX: Yeah.
1069
00:42:46,085 --> 00:42:48,217
Every single day,
all day long.
1070
00:42:48,348 --> 00:42:49,958
And they want you
to come off "available"
1071
00:42:50,089 --> 00:42:51,220
and not talk about
your personal life.
1072
00:42:51,351 --> 00:42:52,395
Yeah. And then I was like,
"I can't do that."
1073
00:42:52,526 --> 00:42:53,832
And just be a dumb
available slut.
1074
00:42:53,962 --> 00:42:55,790
For so long
there were gatekeepers
1075
00:42:55,921 --> 00:42:57,749
that said models
must look like this.
1076
00:42:57,879 --> 00:42:59,228
They must be 5'11"
1077
00:42:59,359 --> 00:43:02,231
and between 105
and 115 pounds.
1078
00:43:02,362 --> 00:43:05,191
Before, you know,
when shooting studio porn,
1079
00:43:05,321 --> 00:43:06,409
when you suggested,
"What if we do it like this?"
1080
00:43:06,540 --> 00:43:08,237
Like, "Yeah, no."
1081
00:43:08,368 --> 00:43:09,674
And you just learned
just stop making suggestions
1082
00:43:09,804 --> 00:43:11,371
and just stop.
Do you know what I mean?
1083
00:43:11,501 --> 00:43:14,243
Now these new platforms
were allowing,
1084
00:43:14,374 --> 00:43:18,030
uh, self-motivated,
uh, content creators
1085
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:19,771
to put their own product
out there,
1086
00:43:19,901 --> 00:43:22,077
and what they were proving
was that
1087
00:43:22,208 --> 00:43:24,863
there was absolutely an audience
that would buy it.
1088
00:43:24,993 --> 00:43:26,821
Because of the advancements
in technology
1089
00:43:26,952 --> 00:43:28,693
and sort of edited--
and by technology,
1090
00:43:28,823 --> 00:43:30,042
I just mean like
editing software,
1091
00:43:30,172 --> 00:43:32,435
I can shoot--
my iPhone can shoot in 4K
1092
00:43:32,566 --> 00:43:34,394
if I want it to, right?
- The cameras on this?
1093
00:43:34,524 --> 00:43:35,482
- Yeah.
- Are crazy.
1094
00:43:35,613 --> 00:43:37,049
It's made it fun again.
1095
00:43:37,179 --> 00:43:38,354
Yeah, because you're creating
your own content.
1096
00:43:38,485 --> 00:43:39,617
- Yes.
- Now, you're not under like--
1097
00:43:39,747 --> 00:43:41,314
you're not under any contract,
1098
00:43:41,444 --> 00:43:42,881
and, like, I think that's--
- And it's not like--
1099
00:43:43,011 --> 00:43:44,186
it's not like
I couldn't tell my agent,
1100
00:43:44,317 --> 00:43:45,623
"No, I don't want to do
that scene,"
1101
00:43:45,753 --> 00:43:47,407
but I feel like now,
there's so much more--
1102
00:43:47,537 --> 00:43:49,278
- But with all the scene--
- ...agency with ourselves
1103
00:43:49,409 --> 00:43:50,715
where it's like, hey,
I can just hit you up
1104
00:43:50,845 --> 00:43:52,630
and be like, "Hey, do you
want to bang? Let's film it."
1105
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,066
For me, the best part about it
1106
00:43:54,196 --> 00:43:56,764
is being able to engage
directly with the fans.
1107
00:43:56,895 --> 00:43:58,766
- Yeah.
- The data that we now have
1108
00:43:58,897 --> 00:44:00,812
in our hands has really
empowered us
1109
00:44:00,942 --> 00:44:02,944
to be our own business owners
1110
00:44:03,075 --> 00:44:06,295
and to figure out
not necessarily
1111
00:44:06,426 --> 00:44:08,080
how to make the content
that will sell the best,
1112
00:44:08,210 --> 00:44:10,125
but how to find the audience
1113
00:44:10,256 --> 00:44:12,824
that is looking for the content
that we want to make.
1114
00:44:12,954 --> 00:44:17,611
Technology, analytics,
big data
1115
00:44:17,742 --> 00:44:21,484
has told me exactly
who's buying my content.
1116
00:44:21,615 --> 00:44:22,877
It's fantastic.
1117
00:44:23,008 --> 00:44:25,271
If the Mad Men of the '60s
1118
00:44:25,401 --> 00:44:27,186
knew that there was gonna be
a platform
1119
00:44:27,316 --> 00:44:29,928
where a person
could put out their products,
1120
00:44:30,058 --> 00:44:32,060
directly engage
with their audience,
1121
00:44:32,191 --> 00:44:34,062
tailor it, check market trends,
1122
00:44:34,193 --> 00:44:35,934
and have access to analytics,
1123
00:44:36,064 --> 00:44:37,718
they would have
shit themselves.
1124
00:44:37,849 --> 00:44:39,328
It's gonna be one scene,
but what--
1125
00:44:39,459 --> 00:44:40,025
like, what do you want shot?
- Yeah, I want to shoot, like,
1126
00:44:40,155 --> 00:44:41,896
through, like, minimal cuts,
1127
00:44:42,027 --> 00:44:43,376
unless we absolutely need to--
- Yeah.
1128
00:44:43,506 --> 00:44:45,117
..baby wipe or lube
or whatever.
1129
00:44:45,247 --> 00:44:46,596
All right.
So you just want it one,
1130
00:44:46,727 --> 00:44:48,381
like, you know, one whole...
1131
00:44:48,511 --> 00:44:49,469
More on the fluid side.
1132
00:44:49,599 --> 00:44:50,949
Do you want it more
focused on, like,
1133
00:44:51,079 --> 00:44:52,341
your face or your genitals
or, like--
1134
00:44:52,472 --> 00:44:53,995
- SOVEREIGN: Face.
- RAE: I'll have one version--
1135
00:44:54,126 --> 00:44:55,083
- SOVEREIGN: Reactions.
- ...like wide shots
1136
00:44:55,214 --> 00:44:56,563
and stuff like that?
I'm one of maybe
1137
00:44:56,694 --> 00:44:57,956
just a handful of known
1138
00:44:58,086 --> 00:44:59,566
femme-identifying photographers
1139
00:44:59,697 --> 00:45:01,916
in adult industry, I believe.
1140
00:45:02,047 --> 00:45:03,439
A lot of mainstream porn
1141
00:45:03,570 --> 00:45:06,747
don't hire
female camera people.
1142
00:45:06,878 --> 00:45:09,358
It's really hard
to be recognized
1143
00:45:09,489 --> 00:45:13,623
as a queer woman of color
in any industry, really,
1144
00:45:13,754 --> 00:45:16,191
so I feel like--
1145
00:45:16,322 --> 00:45:19,194
it feels nice to be
recognized for my work.
1146
00:45:19,325 --> 00:45:20,500
Like, going off the mood board
that you sent,
1147
00:45:20,630 --> 00:45:22,023
like, you want this to be
like shot, like,
1148
00:45:22,154 --> 00:45:24,025
really contrasted?
1149
00:45:24,156 --> 00:45:26,201
I love being shot by women
1150
00:45:26,332 --> 00:45:30,118
because they just understand
things that men don't.
1151
00:45:30,249 --> 00:45:31,859
When you're being shot
by a woman,
1152
00:45:31,990 --> 00:45:34,122
she understands that,
1153
00:45:34,253 --> 00:45:36,211
oh, that's an uncomfortable
pose to hold.
1154
00:45:36,342 --> 00:45:39,606
So someone lie Rae
that actually takes the time
1155
00:45:39,737 --> 00:45:41,521
and cares, she understands.
1156
00:45:41,651 --> 00:45:43,175
I kind of like the idea
of maybe doing something
1157
00:45:43,305 --> 00:45:45,003
where we start with maybe you,
1158
00:45:45,133 --> 00:45:47,005
focusing on you
and maybe we could--
1159
00:45:47,135 --> 00:45:48,441
if we have like a hand mirror
or something
1160
00:45:48,571 --> 00:45:49,485
that we could have,
you start putting on lipstick
1161
00:45:49,616 --> 00:45:51,009
or something like that.
- Oh, yeah.
1162
00:45:51,139 --> 00:45:52,924
And then I can, like,
come in
1163
00:45:53,054 --> 00:45:54,926
and sort of start helping you.
1164
00:45:55,056 --> 00:45:57,232
I could not feel more confident
about how this is gonna go.
1165
00:45:57,363 --> 00:45:58,494
SOVEREIGN: Yeah.
1166
00:45:58,625 --> 00:46:00,148
[music]
1167
00:46:04,152 --> 00:46:06,111
What if we put this chair
over there
1168
00:46:06,241 --> 00:46:08,156
and this is like the fuck chair.
1169
00:46:08,287 --> 00:46:09,375
SOVEREIGN: Just say the fuck--
Just say the fuck chair.
1170
00:46:09,505 --> 00:46:10,680
It's the fuck chair.
1171
00:46:10,811 --> 00:46:15,555
I'm always happy to help
a friend have an orgasm.
1172
00:46:15,685 --> 00:46:17,165
That's why I'm here.
I'm here to make her come.
1173
00:46:17,296 --> 00:46:18,514
Where are you gonna take me?
1174
00:46:18,645 --> 00:46:19,907
I'm gonna take you
to the fuck chair.
1175
00:46:20,038 --> 00:46:21,517
I'm gonna eat your pussy,
make you come,
1176
00:46:21,648 --> 00:46:22,997
and then I'm gonna
take you by the hand
1177
00:46:23,128 --> 00:46:25,391
and do you over the bed
and shove your face in my ass,
1178
00:46:25,521 --> 00:46:26,827
and then you're gonna
make me come.
1179
00:46:26,958 --> 00:46:28,089
And then we'll be done.
1180
00:46:28,220 --> 00:46:29,438
PHOENIX: It sounds good.
1181
00:46:29,569 --> 00:46:32,964
[giggles]
1182
00:46:33,094 --> 00:46:36,097
I could go back to an agent
and shoot for other studios,
1183
00:46:36,228 --> 00:46:37,620
but I don't have to.
1184
00:46:37,751 --> 00:46:39,797
I don't have to rely
on what work comes to me.
1185
00:46:39,927 --> 00:46:41,711
I can choose
what I want to put out there,
1186
00:46:41,842 --> 00:46:43,670
and the people
that want to follow me,
1187
00:46:43,801 --> 00:46:45,106
the people that want to see me
1188
00:46:45,237 --> 00:46:47,195
or the--the diehards
1189
00:46:47,326 --> 00:46:50,677
that have been following me
since 2009,
1190
00:46:50,808 --> 00:46:52,853
they're like, "Hey, are you
gonna put out more content?"
1191
00:46:52,984 --> 00:46:54,202
or "When are you
gonna do this?"
1192
00:46:54,333 --> 00:46:55,638
They're gonna be there,
no matter what.
1193
00:46:55,769 --> 00:46:57,553
I'm always still a little
nervous before a scene,
1194
00:46:57,684 --> 00:47:00,121
even when it's someone that
I've worked with a dozen times,
1195
00:47:00,252 --> 00:47:01,296
because there's always
this element, right?
1196
00:47:01,427 --> 00:47:03,777
Like, you still also just
don't--never know
1197
00:47:03,908 --> 00:47:05,866
what's gonna happen.
1198
00:47:05,997 --> 00:47:10,131
It rather put out something
more I'm really turned on.
1199
00:47:10,262 --> 00:47:11,176
RAE: Pretty girl shots.
1200
00:47:11,306 --> 00:47:12,699
Both of you look at me.
1201
00:47:12,830 --> 00:47:14,788
I'm into it creatively.
1202
00:47:14,919 --> 00:47:16,790
Fuck, yes.
1203
00:47:16,921 --> 00:47:19,271
And it just all feels good.
1204
00:47:19,401 --> 00:47:21,273
RAE: All right, everybody,
ready to bang away?
1205
00:47:21,403 --> 00:47:23,318
- I--I think so.
- If you're not there...
1206
00:47:23,449 --> 00:47:25,973
You're gonna have these
titties in your face.
1207
00:47:26,104 --> 00:47:29,585
Nowadays, girls will absolutely
call themselves entrepreneurs
1208
00:47:29,716 --> 00:47:31,326
before they even call
themselves porn stars,
1209
00:47:31,457 --> 00:47:33,676
which I think is amazing.
- RAE: It's the right shot.
1210
00:47:33,807 --> 00:47:36,288
PHOENIX: That's exactly
what I was--Here we go.
1211
00:47:36,418 --> 00:47:39,160
So what do is something
called content trade,
1212
00:47:39,291 --> 00:47:41,815
which means that we pool
our resources...
1213
00:47:41,946 --> 00:47:44,644
So just establishing,
we're walking this way.
1214
00:47:44,774 --> 00:47:46,385
Just do what you're doing.
1215
00:47:46,515 --> 00:47:48,561
...to make
one piece of content,
1216
00:47:48,691 --> 00:47:50,737
and then we each put it
on our own platforms.
1217
00:47:50,868 --> 00:47:53,479
And so that's a way
that we're able to cut costs,
1218
00:47:53,609 --> 00:47:54,741
because then we don't have
to pay each other.
1219
00:47:54,872 --> 00:47:57,439
[music]
1220
00:47:59,789 --> 00:48:02,183
So, um, if you could angle
a little bit more this way
1221
00:48:02,314 --> 00:48:04,316
because as--your--
your head is shadowing hers.
1222
00:48:04,446 --> 00:48:08,146
PHOENIX: There's a very
authentic intimacy there
1223
00:48:08,276 --> 00:48:10,409
because we're attracted
to each other.
1224
00:48:10,539 --> 00:48:12,672
Having that established trust
1225
00:48:12,802 --> 00:48:14,717
and that connection
1226
00:48:14,848 --> 00:48:17,938
really just heats
everything up so much.
1227
00:48:18,069 --> 00:48:20,506
[moans]
1228
00:48:23,422 --> 00:48:24,902
Can I get a shot of you walk--
1229
00:48:25,032 --> 00:48:27,730
taking her over here?
1230
00:48:27,861 --> 00:48:29,254
No one else
was really in the room,
1231
00:48:29,384 --> 00:48:30,864
even though they were.
1232
00:48:30,995 --> 00:48:32,692
There's that part of me,
the exhibitionist side,
1233
00:48:32,822 --> 00:48:34,955
that's like,
"Yeah, everybody's here."
1234
00:48:35,086 --> 00:48:37,523
But there's definitely
that, like, little part of me
1235
00:48:37,653 --> 00:48:39,394
that's, like,
being into being watched
1236
00:48:39,525 --> 00:48:42,789
is what led to me
wanting to get into porn
1237
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:43,964
in the first place.
1238
00:48:44,095 --> 00:48:45,661
- [moaning]
- [gasping]
1239
00:48:50,318 --> 00:48:53,104
Ohh! [gasping]
1240
00:48:57,151 --> 00:48:59,545
[laughter]
1241
00:49:01,939 --> 00:49:05,159
I'm glad that we did our own
approach to this scene.
1242
00:49:05,290 --> 00:49:08,336
I like that it was just
so sensual,
1243
00:49:08,467 --> 00:49:11,165
very soft, and it's just
like it's electric.
1244
00:49:11,296 --> 00:49:12,993
I really want to do
like a minute clip
1245
00:49:13,124 --> 00:49:15,169
to force something
in your ass.
1246
00:49:15,300 --> 00:49:17,302
- Oh, yeah.
- How long have women
1247
00:49:17,432 --> 00:49:20,305
been trying to just
be seen as equal
1248
00:49:20,435 --> 00:49:21,784
or get equal opportunity?
1249
00:49:21,915 --> 00:49:23,786
It's so much more exciting
1250
00:49:23,917 --> 00:49:25,745
to have an all-woman crew,
1251
00:49:25,875 --> 00:49:28,966
but also have people
with the right vision,
1252
00:49:29,096 --> 00:49:32,317
the right style to really
complement my style.
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Yay, we shot a porno.
High-five.
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- Whoo!
- We made a porn, huh?
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High-five.
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♪ I'm so glad
you don't ask questions ♪
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♪ And you're not paranoid
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♪ Don't stay out late
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♪ Wondering
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♪ If I'm off with other boys
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♪ But I've been having dreams
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♪ About other strange men...93371
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