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[imitating zombie]

[exclaims] Where did you get that rope?

From outside.

I want to be a mummy!

-[chuckles] -[Adam grunts]

[religious prayer reciting]

[brief gas release]

-Dad. -Hmm?

I farted.

You farted?

[Bima] Next time, if you need to poop,

you can do it at home. Don't hold it until prayer.

[Bima] Adam! Wait for me.

[Bima groans]

[Adam] Grandma!

-Peace be upon you! -Hmm!

Peace be upon you.

-I'm hungry, Mom. What's on the menu? -Want some gado-gado?

[chuckles]

-Make it spicy, please. -All right.

-[Adam] Dad! Come here! -Wait, sweetie.

-Are you feeling better, Dad? -Yeah, thanks to God.

-[Bima exclaims] Help! -[Rudy] Change your clothes first.

[muffled] I can't breathe!

[both giggling]

[Rudy] Tone it down a little. Adam could wet himself.

-[chuckles] -[grunts]

Bim, how are you?

I'm fine, Auntie.

[annoyed grunts] Hey!

Thank you, Auntie.

-[woman] No problem. -[shrieks]

[imitating vehicle vroom]

Good boy.

[Bima] Do you want to go to Korea, Adam?

-Yeah! -Really? Okay.

Off we go!

Is this Mom's house in Korea?

[chuckles] Nope.

[nurse] Adam Setyagafar.

[doctor] Does Adam have diarrhea often?

[Bima] No, Doc.

[doctor] His mother takes care of him at home, right?

[doctor] You can tell her not to worry

and just make sure Adam eats and rests well.

Adam! It's Mom!

-Mom! -[Dara] Hello, Adam!

-Hi! -It's Mom!

I just got back. I'm so tired.

Are you guys going to bed?

[both] Yeah.

-We're about to go to bed. -Mom, I want the shark!

[Dara] Ta-da!

-It's the shark! -[Bima giggles]

-Boop. -Boop.

[tender music playing]

[parade music playing]

You were away for four years, we wanted to welcome you with a bang.

[parade music continues]

-[man] Dara! How are you? -[woman] Dara! Welcome back!

[in Korean] I love you.

[in English] Hi.

[in English] Hello.

-[man] Okay, stop. -Look who's here.

I love you, ondel-ondel.

[laughs]

Say hi to Mom.

Say hi. Dam.

[gentle music playing]

Why are you going inside?

Say hi to Mom.

-[Adam] That's not Mom! -Hello, Mom.

Hello.

-That's Mom! Look! -No!

-You don't recognize her? -[Rudy] Oh dear.

-[Adam] That's not Mom! I know Mom. -Dad.

You're often on the phone with her.

-No, she's not! -She is!

[Yuni] Everyone, let's have dinner.

Okay, Mom.

-I brought you the Shark plushie. -Shark!

Look, Adam.

Mom got you something!

-It's from Korea. -No! My mom is in the phone!

-But she's here. -I'm home.

-My mom is in the phone! -This is your real mom.

Do you want to call Mom?

[in English] Hi!

-Hi, Adam! -Mom.

-So many people there. -Grandma is here, too.

[in Korean] Hello.

[Bima] See? Mom is here.

[Bima exclaims] Do you want to go there?

[somber music playing]

[sighs]

What are you looking at?

[chuckling]

It's like a dream,

having you back here.

A good or bad dream?

[chuckles] Well…

It depends on you.

[clicks tongue] For four years,

I've been thinking about what I'd do to you.

I'm ready.

Do what you want.

[grunts] Oh my God!

I've been itching to remove your blackheads all this time.

Your nose skin was rough.

[sighs] That hurt.

From now on,

I'll take good care of you and Adam.

[chuckles] It should be me taking care of you.

[scoffs]

You're too lazy to bother with self-care.

[chuckles] Gosh.

It'll be a problem if I get any more handsome.

What if people start falling for me?

Sheesh. My hubby is on his high horse.

You're the one who's so well-loved.

[clicks tongue] Nonsense.

You know.

Didn't you get an offer for a permanent role

by Boss Kim? [in Korean] Oppa. Kim oppa!

I'm a professional.

But it's true, isn't it?

What kind of boss would offer to drive you home every day?

-[scoffs] Whatever. -[chuckles]

I'm just kidding!

Why are you mad? I was just kidding.

It's a joke. Come on. Don't pout.

Hey.

Huh?

Why so quiet?

I don't hear anything. Hello?

Boop.

[chuckles]

Ding-dong.

[smooches]

-Vroom. -[chuckles]

[Bima hums]

Are you… tired?

No.

No?

Nope.

[sighs]

You have to keep using this lube, right?

Yeah.

I read on a forum online,

women who've had their uterus removed use this.

My vagina is so dry now.

Well…

As long as you're not hurting,

I don't even mind if it's motor oil.

[chuckles]

Come on, girl.

I'll give you a ride.

Vroom-vroom.

[glass clinking]

[whispering] Quiet! They'll hear us!

[recital sounds from the mosque]

[knocking on door]

[Yuni] Bima!

Dara!

Wake up! Fajr prayer!

Bima!

Dad.

Dad, do you want to go first?

-Yeah. Before Iqomah starts. -[clears throat]

You've finished showering, Mom?

And you? Are you going wudhu or taking a shower?

A shower.

-Don't forget the prayer. -[Rudy] I know.

I seek forgiveness from Allah.

Hello, sweetie.

[grunts] Good boy.

-Kiss Mom's hand. -[groans]

Hey, don't be like that.

Hey.

-Adam. -Go on, to your Mom.

[in English] No.

[tender music playing]

Adam.

-[sighs] Where are you going? -What are you doing?

[chuckles]

[shouts]

[chuckles]

-[smooches] -[chuckles]

Make it explode.

[Bima groans]

[shouts] Like that?

-Bim. Come here for a sec? -Okay.

There's gum there. Clean it up.

-Got it. -All right.

Adam! Count to three.

Okay.

[Adam] One, two, three!

-[shouts] -[cheering]

[Dara] Adam.

-Mr. Entrepreneur. [laughs] -Amen.

If you can come up with marketing ideas,

it could be better, you know.

-I have some ideas. -[Adam chuckles]

-Let me know if you need my help. -They're so cute!

Playing with the cats?

Yeah, its paw is out.

You're right.

-So cute. -[chuckles]

Adam, let's eat together.

No.

Adam, it scratched me.

-[Bima] Adam, let's eat. -Let's go, Adam.

Vroom-vroom.

Good boy.

He'd eat anything with chicken.

You don't want to eat with Mom?

No.

Hang in there.

[somber music playing]

[Dara] Adam, I made you Korean-style chicken.

Let's eat, okay?

-[Bima] Just go for a check-up. -Open wide. Here it comes.

If you're fine, you can go straight home, Dad.

-[Rudy] Bim, I know -No. There's a bug in there.

-my own condition. I'm healthy. -What bug?

-If anything, it's just old age. -That's sesame seeds.

-You should try it first. -You have trouble praying, Dad.

You can't go anywhere.

If Dewi finds out you refuse to see a doctor,

-she'll scold me again. -[Yuni and Dara chattering]

Just don't tell your sister.

Why would you say that, dear?!

She'll know regardless.

I don't want to be a burden.

Nobody thinks you're a burden!

-[Bima] It could be your prostate. -Adam, I worked hard

-You should check it. -to make this for you.

It might spread if you let it be.

-Enough, enough… -It'll be a problem…

Cut it out! Stop, stop!

[clatters]

That's enough, Bim.

Enough about Dad's illness.

He knows…

He knows his condition best.

If he wants to go, he'll go. If he doesn't, he won't.

And you too.

If Adam doesn't want it, don't force him.

What do you want to eat, sweetie?

Fried chicken?

Want me to cook it?

Yeah!

-Yeah! -Let's go.

[somber music playing]

[Yuni sighs]

Finish your food first.

5 EFFECTS OF SPOILING TODDLERS

-[Bima] Don't mix them. -Adam, no.

Adam, sweetie. You can't mix them. Okay? Don't.

Listen to me.

This one is dry, the other is not.

[music stops]

So, am I the problem, Doc?

Or is it me?

Um… Sir, ma'am.

The goal of today's assessment isn't to point fingers.

[Bima] I don't get it.

What am I here for?

Adam has been overly spoiled.

We've talked about this at home.

Adam is a bit moody. He's been like that since birth.

Is it because

I was depressed when I was pregnant?

I got pregnant at 17 years old.

[Bima] Ra, stop.

It's okay, Bim.

[somber music playing]

Dr. Inti should know that we…

got married by accident. We almost decided on an abortion.

Tur neighbors were gossiping about us,

and we almost left Adam with my aunt.

Ra, stop.

But you said so yourself.

Adam has been this way since birth. Maybe Dr. Inti can help us.

Can we focus on today?

Well.

We're all here

to help Adam deal with his emotions.

So, when he gets older, even into adulthood,

he can fully realize his potential.

Isn't this too fast?

I've lived for 21 years,

but I still can't figure out my potential.

What about Adam? He's only four.

Doc.

This is why I decided to come back from Korea.

[inhales]

This family could use someone strict.

Ma'am.

Being strict is not enough.

You have to bond with Adam.

[somber music playing]

[Bima] It cost this much?

[receptionist] It was over 30 minutes.

Adam.

-Let's go home. -Your PIN, sir.

No.

Dad is almost done paying.

-Come on, honey. -[Bima] Adam.

Dad!

Let's go, Ra.

[Adam] Grandma! Grandma!

-[Yuni] Grandma's here, sweetie! -[Adam] Grandma! Grandma!

Mom, don't!

-Stop, please. -Why?

Dara said Adam needs to learn discipline.

Just stay here, Mom.

What kind of discipline that make her son cry?

-What is wrong with you? -[Adam] Grandma! Grandma!

Anyway, she said Adam should be in bed by 7 p.m., starting today.

Adam should know the time and the rules.

Bima!

Who cares what she said.

Listen, are there any other four-year-olds

who wake up for Fajr prayer every morning?

Besides, Dara should know her place.

She should understand the household rules.

She should be the one who learns Adam's daily routine.

Not the other way around!

-[Adam] Grandma! -[Yuni] Poor kid.

-Adam! Grandma is coming! -Mom!

Enough is enough, Bima!

-[Yuni] Dam? Adam? -[Adam] Grandma.

-[Yuni] Come here, sweetie. -[Adam] Grandma, Mom is being mean.

[somber music playing]

[Yuni] What did she do to you?

[Adam] I want to sleep with Grandma.

[Yuni] Adam, be a good boy there, okay?

Okay?

-[Adam] Grandma. -[Yuni] Don't worry. Grandma will be here.

-Grandma. -Yes, sweetie?

[Bima] Come on. [groans]

Grandma.

[sniffling]

-Grandma. -All right, sweetie.

[Adam] No.

-[Putri] Why not? -[Adam] There's no Mr. Shark in the room.

[Putri] But I have sharks in my room. Look.

[Putri] You can sleep with me, Adam.

[Adam] I want my own room.

[Putri] Your own room in this house?

[Rika] How long will you stay at home?

Until I bonded with Adam.

How long until then?

[clicks tongue]

Bima refuses to consult a child psychologist.

It could've helped speed things up.

I suppose. But you need to discuss it.

You should work on your communication with Bima.

Start learning, so you won't become like…

[sighs] Because it's too late for me and your dad.

Our problems piled up and burst.

Don't end up like that.

Did Dad already contact you about his business debts?

Mom, I have some savings.

No!

Your money is for your family.

Think twice before spending it.

I'm okay, dear.

[somber music playing]

DARA: DAD, WHY AREN'T YOU RESPONDING?

Ra.

Are you okay?

-[Bima] Daddy's going to work. -[Adam whining]

[Adam imitating engine sounds]

I'll get going, Mom.

Do you still work there?

I know a lot of people. Just tell me.

Um…

-I already owe you so much. -[Dara] Adam.

-Let Dad go, Adam. -I'm going to work.

Dad is leaving for work.

-I want to go with Dad! -Come on.

How about a drive in the car with Grandma like we always do?

Come on. I know you love it.

Up we go.

[grunts]

Say goodbye. Bye, Dad.

Bye-bye.

-Take care, Bim. -Yes, Mom.

-Get in. Peace be upon you. -Peace be upon you.

[sighs]

What were you talking about with Bima, Mom?

You shouldn't do that.

Are you okay with Bima staying that way?

You should motivate Bima to live up to his potential.

In these four years, you've evolved,

but he hasn't changed a bit.

Do you want me to lecture him?

Is that it?

Okay, okay.

[sighs]

-Adam. -Hey.

You can sit next to me, okay?

[bright music playing]

We can't run away every time things don't go our way.

After all, your family is our family too.

We have to be independent, Bim.

As long as we live with our parents,

we'll always be treated like kids.

I know.

But I don't have--

I have money.

I worked part-time in Korea for us.

For our family.

Okay.

I'll find a house.

[gentle music playing]

But only within our budget.

Okay.

I'll repay you for the rent you cover.

-No, Bima. -That's my principle.

I'm the head of the family.

It is my responsibility.

Okay?

[tender music playing]

[Iqi] Checkout right now!

It's 20% off! Checkout right now!

-Checkout right now! -Right now!

[both] Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

-Checkout right now! -Checkout right now! Come on!

Well?

[Adam moans]

It's a good place! It's right in the city center.

It's right between your in-laws and your parents.

Close to the pre-school, the park, the stores,

and close to me!

You won't find it anywhere else!

Mr. Hendra said he'd give my friend a lower price.

It's haunted, isn't it?

Are you serious?

You're broke and scared of ghosts? It's daytime!

Then why is no one renting it?

It's not that it doesn't sell! Housing is about the right fit.

This house has been waiting for you.

You annoy me.

-[sighs] -[cat meows]

I won't be a sacrifice, right?

Who'd want a ball pit staff as a sacrifice?

Are you for real?

You watch too many horror movies!

[Adam] Dad! There's fish here!

Yeah?

-Come here. -[Bima hums]

Count them for me.

-[Adam] There are eight fish. -Oh, there are eight.

Do you still pray?

Of course.

Good to hear.

-Why? -Three, two,

-[speaker ringing] -one.

-It's from the mosque behind the house. -[child's voice from speaker]

[car engines roaring]

SUPER LOGAM HARDWARE STORE

-[man] Hello. -[Bima] Hello

[shouting in distance]

Come on, Mom.

-Where's the house? -Just up ahead.

[Yuni] Is this the way to your house?

[Adam] Yeah.

Why is there so much stuff around here?

Yeah. My house is in the store.

They say the store is haunted.

Is it scary?

Is living here scary?

No.

Dad.

Mom.

Let's go.

Mom! Where are you going?

-Mom! -[Yuni] I'm against it!

[Bima] Mom, please hear me out.

What?

It's only temporary. Just until I have enough money.

Why not go back to our home then?

[Rudy] Dear, show respect for Bima's decision.

Let's go inside first.

-[Bima] Peace be upon you. -Peace be upon you.

-[Yuni] Peace be upon you. -[Putri] Dam. Adam.

[Rudy] Peace be upon you.

-[Putri] Come to Aunty. -[Dara] Thank you.

-Come in, Dad. Have a seat. -Peace be upon you.

-[Bima] Peace be upon you. -[Dara] Peace be upon you.

[chuckles]

-[Rudy] Dara. -[Dara] Mom.

Have a seat, Dad.

[Putri mutters]

[Dara] Bim, I'll unpack the clothes.

Okay.

-[Rudy exclaims softly] -[glass clinks]

Bima.

Yes, Mom?

[indistinct chattering]

When you and Dara are at work,

who's going to take care of Adam?

I don't want Adam to be raised by a nanny.

[Rudy chuckles]

Dara's not working for a while.

Then, what is she going to do?

Be a gado-gado seller? Like me?

You can teach her.

That's not what I meant!

I was just kidding.

It's a joke, okay?

If we need to work, I'll bring Adam to you.

-All right? -You should've said so.

-Here, Dad. -[sighs]

-Thank you. -Bim.

Keep an eye on Adam when you go to the rooftop.

-Yes, Mom. -Don't leave him alone.

Do you want a drink?

No, thanks.

Mom.

Make yourself at home.

You can be independent in our house.

Independence depends on the person, not the place.

[indistinct chatter]

How can I raise a family if I can't be independent?

-[thuds] -[Rudy] Ouch!

-[Rudy] Oh my God. -[Yuni] Dear?

-[Bima] Dad! -[Yuni] Oh my goodness.

-Are you okay? -What happened?

Let me see.

[Rika] Do you have a first aid kit?

Did you hit your head?

-Ra, grab a cloth. -Cloth?

[Bima] It's seawater.

[Adam mutters]

It's seven. It's time for…

-bed! -It's seven. Time for bed!

-[in English] No! -[in English] No?

Okay, then we'll camp tonight.

We'll go camping with…

Oyong!

And dolphin!

And quack-quack!

Also, Shark 1, Shark 2,

-[chuckles] -and Gugu!

But tonight is special. There's also Mo…

[in English] No!

[Bima] Close your eyes and sleep.

Adam is sleepy now.

[tender music playing]

[background chattering]

[engine starts]

Bye, Adam!

Adam.

[woman] Bim?

Come play inside with me?

[soft whimsical music playing]

[woman] Bim, wait!

Adam!

Adam.

Adam, do you want to go with me?

[in English] No!

Adam, don't run!

-Adam! -Checkout now.

Let's go home.

[in English] No.

Please? Let's wash up and then play at home.

[in English] No.

Praise be to God.

[soft whimsical music playing]

-[Adam] I hope I get it! -[Dara] Amen.

[chuckles] Come on, Dam.

[groans, chuckles]

Let me.

Careful.

[both exclaim]

Shark. [chuckles]

Excuse me, miss. I need to use the bike.

Mom, look! Fishies!

You're right.

I want to go inside.

Adam, no.

-But I want to! -No, Adam.

[cheers]

Careful, sweetie.

[giggling]

-Ouch! -Adam.

[smooches] You'll heal.

[Adam groans]

[Adam giggling]

[in English] Hello!

[in English] Hi!

[Dara cheering]

Boo!

Boop.

Boop-boop.

-[smooches] -Boo!

Boo!

Where's Adam?

-Boo! -[shrieks, chuckles]

Boo!

Boo!

Adam?

Adam?

Peek-a…

Where are you?

Adam?

Adam! Adam!

[tense music playing]

Don't run off there!

Do you hear me?

-It hurts. -Do you understand me?!

-It hurts! -[Bima] Peace be upon you.

-Peace be upon you. -Peace be upon you. [Adam groans]

Dad! Mom was mean!

Huh?

-Mom was mean! -How so?

He was running around on the rooftop.

-Good thing he didn't fall. -[Adam groans]

Are you going to take a while?

Yeah.

Help me, Bim.

[groans] Let's switch.

[Bima hums]

[sighs] Did you eat?

I'm about to cook dinner.

[Adam groans]

-[Adam groaning] -Bim.

Bim, I think we should get groceries tomorrow.

Let's hold off for another two or three days.

-Huh? -Mr. Rizal said we will be paid late.

He just covered the rent for the mall space.

What's it got to do with you?

You should tell him off.

How many times does this make?

I know.

Dad, I can't poop.

No?

Okay.

Let's wash your hands!

[sighs]

[faucet squeaks]

Ra, how about we stay at Mom's tomorrow?

We should be the one giving to our parents,

not depending on them for food.

When I lived there, we always divided everything in half.

Even my salary.

[Rizal] You're just a high school graduate.

How much do you expect me to pay you?

[Bima] Enough to support my wife and kid.

You keep using them as excuses.

That's your problem.

It's your fault, really.

For knocking up a rich kid. Think!

[sighs] It is what it is.

Is that so? Listen up.

If you want a high salary or get rich, it's easy.

Start your own business. Don't work for me.

Get it?

Don't take it personally.

Consider this as advice.

[distant indistinct shouting]

[Dara] You should resign. I'll get a job.

Excuse me?

I'll… get… a job.

You said you wanted to bond with Adam.

Now you want to get a job?

It takes money to raise a child, Bima.

-Yeah, money, prayers, and efforts. -[seller] Balloons!

[Bima] Just tell me if you don't like staying home.

[curious music playing]

[excited humming]

Balloons!

Hello, Mr. Chicken.

Cluck-cluck. Heave-ho!

-[giggling] -[cat shrieks]

[both] Adam!

[both] Adam!

-Adam! -Adam!

Sir, did you see Adam step out?

-I haven't seen him. -Oh God.

Adam!

Adam is missing?

-Adam! -Ma'am, what's wrong?

-Adam! -Adam's gone.

-Did he come here? Can you help us? -We'll help you.

[horn honks]

[Dara] Adam!

-[Dara] Adam! -[driver] Dumbass!

[children laughing]

Adam!

[panting] Adam!

Adam!

[sobs]

Adam!

Sir, my son is missing.

Huh?

Have you seen him around here?

I don't think so.

[man] I can help you find him.

Did you see my son?

[Bima] Adam!

Dam!

Hey!

What are you doing? He's my grandson.

♪ How to or what to do ♪

Dear!

-Dear! -Adam!

Have you seen my grandson? About this tall?

He just passed by here.

Thank you, sir.

Adam!

Excuse me. Have you seen a little boy with bangs?

I've looked everywhere. [sobs]

I've looked all over but he's gone!

FOR SALE

Excuse me, sir.

Have you seen my son? He's four years old. He has bangs.

I don't think so.

Adam!

Did it hurt, Dad?

-Yeah, I… -Dad, stay at home if you're unwell.

-But Adam… -I'll find him.

[motorcycle honks]

Gosh!

Adam!

Honey.

Honey.

[Dara sobbing]

I can't find him, Mom.

♪ Where do we go ♪

♪ Where do we seek if not… ♪

Adam!

♪ Within ♪

♪ Within me, within you… ♪

[seller] Balloons!

Balloons!

♪ Within me, within you… ♪

Balloons!

[woman] Mister! I want one.

[seller] All right.

[woman] Let's go.

[Iqi] Adam!

Grandma! Grandpa!

-Adam! -Adam!

-Adam! -[Rudy whispers] Adam.

Where have you been?

Why did you wander off so far?

He followed the balloon seller.

Good thing he stopped in front of my house.

Qi, thank you.

[Bima] Thank God.

Adam!

Adam!

[Dara] Sweetie!

-Don't! -Mom!

Mom, what's wrong with you?

Don't!

[Rika] Yuni.

Stay calm.

Adam, where were you…

[Yuni] What's wrong with me, you ask?

[Yuni] Did you ever

-[Yuni] stray away when you were young? -[Dara] We were looking for you.

Answer me, Bima.

What were you two doing, huh?

Answer me.

How could you let my grandson wander off?!

Dear.

-Calm down, dear. -Dear.

[sobs]

Did Bima ever get separated from me when he was small?

He never did.

[Yuni sobbing]

From now on,

Adam is staying with me.

Mom, don't.

Don't, Mom.

-Mom, please, no. -Let go.

You two are not fit to be parents.

Mom…

Rika, please take me home.

[somber music playing]

Please forgive my mom, Ra.

Hey.

[sniffling]

Don't be sad.

[sighs]

[somber music playing]

Stop shaking your leg, dear. Grandma is clipping your nails.

Mom, Adam has his parents.

I know!

Who's been looking after him since birth?

-[sighs] -[Yuni] Huh?

Feeding him, washing his clothes, cleaning up his mess?

You better practice being a parent first

before taking Adam out of this house.

Do you understand?

Did you practice first when you had Dewi?

It's different! I didn't--

What?

Keep going, I want to hear it.

-Don't give me that look! -Bima.

-Look away! -Bim.

Don't treat Mom that way.

He's out of line.

Adam has to be at home.

Otherwise, Dara will get even more upset with me.

Dara this, Dara that.

Do you, as his father, ever think about Adam's well-being?

Do you?

Have you ever thought about it?

Mom! I'm not a kid anymore!

-Then prove it to me! -Dear!

Enough.

We'll return Adam on Sunday.

-Dear! -Enough.

[frustrated groans] Sweetie, let's go watch it outside. Let's eat.

[Dara] Practice?

[Bima] Yeah.

Practice.

We'll practice.

Not just you.

Okay.

Okay, okay.

We'll practice.

Both of us!

Move.

[in English] Parenting a toddler is a challenging but rewarding phase.

[in English] They begin to develop a sense of self

and are becoming more aware of their emotions.

[in English] Feeling emotions is exactly like wanting to pee.

[chuckles]

[in English] We must not hold it, we must get it out immediately, but…

we can't just pee anywhere.

[in English] But believe me, there are adults that still bed wet their emotions

even as parents now.

[somber music playing]

[in English] Yourself right now is your children's future.

[in English] They mirror how you act.

[in English] If you're feeling angry, your child might watch that

and express anger as well.

[in English] If you're feeling sad and you demonstrate sadness,

your child might be sad.

[in English] We have to set an example for our children.

[in English] Discuss with your partner. Communication is important.

Want some gado-gado?

No, thanks.

[Dara sighs]

Maybe they're taking a walk. Just be patient.

They said they'll return him on Sunday.

I'm done. We're not going to those parenting programs again.

I wouldn't do this if you took the initiative to learn.

You didn't even listen. You were playing with your phone.

Weren't you?

They didn't have subtitles.

That's why I've always reminded you to learn English!

Dr. Inti wasn't enough?

This was your mom's idea.

To practice a lot?

What's your priority? Adam or games?

[sighs]

Look.

Did you see any other dads beside me there?

-Adam is-- -Adam is with my parents!

They'll return him.

Stop overreacting.

-[neighbor] Peace be upon you. -Peace be upon you.

Your mom took your dad to the hospital.

[Dewi] What should I do?

I can't leave Amsterdam right now.

It's okay.

Just use the money for Dad.

Get him a nice hospital room, medication, and everything, okay?

Okay. I can pitch in if we need more.

I'm sorry, Dara.

Please take care of Mom and Dad for me.

It's okay. Take care.

Peace be upon you.

[tender music playing]

Thanks, Ra.

I'll pay you back.

[tender music playing]

Don't worry about it, Bim.

Your dad is my dad too.

[Bima sighs]

[smooches]

[Bima sighs]

[smooches]

[woman] Yes, sir.

I'll check with Mila.

[Vini] Dara.

-Vi. -Dara!

[chuckling]

-I missed you so much. -[clicks tongue]

-You've got prettier. -Thanks.

Why are you still wearing the ring?

I've told you Mila wanted someone single.

We have so much work right now. She needs someone who's focused.

Just take it off for now, okay?

Look, you're competing with someone single.

["Satu-Satu" by Idgitaf playing]

-Hello. I'm Dara. -I'm Mila.

-[Adam] Mom! -[Dara] Come here, Adam!

Mom! Wait for me!

Come on, sweetie. My office is over there.

Beep-beep.

-I'm off to work. -I'm coming with you!

-Stay with me, Adam. -Bye, Adam. Bye, Bima.

-Bye-bye. -Adam!

-Don't… -No!

-Oh no. -Why did you drop it?

It's okay. I'll get it. You can go.

-Bye. -Bye.

Bye, Mom!

-May, take care of Adam, please. -Okay, Bim.

There.

-Bim! -Hello.

-Gosh. I've been looking for you. -[chuckles]

What are you doing here?

I'm off to work.

Wait here, okay?

Don't go anywhere, okay?

-♪ I am no longer angry… ♪ -[Mr. Rizal] Why do you always run away?

-Dad. -I don't like it, Bim.

[giggles]

Oh my God. What are you doing?

Please watch over him, miss.

I'm resigning. He finally proposed!

[girls shrieking]

Congratulations!

-[chuckles] -I'm heading home, Ra.

Okay, take care.

Look. Mom is eating too. Come on, Mom. Ah.

Ah-hum!

The plane is about to land.

-♪ There will be a future… ♪ -Yum. Okay.

-[groans] Time to go home! -Yay!

♪ For those who endure ♪

♪ My world had fallen once ♪

♪ Build it again one by one… ♪

Ra!

♪ There will be a future… ♪

We're here.

♪ Oh, build it again ♪

-Bye! -♪ One by one ♪

[smooches]

-Bim. -Yeah.

-Read this. -What's that?

So we're on the same page.

-No Indonesian books? -[clicks tongue]

Just read it first.

The titles are in English.

It's Indonesian inside.

[in English] The Denish Way of Parenting.

-[in English] Danish. -[in English] Danish.

[Bima] Where is it anyway?

What about Depok? It's closer.

Not funny. I'll kiss you.

[moans] Yes, please.

-I want it too. -Come here.

[chuckling]

[Adam] Dad!

-Yes, Adam? -Mom!

-Where's my shark? -What's wrong? The shark?

[wailing] It's not here!

Sweetie, where did you put it?

-I put it here! -Here?

-[Adam wailing] -Bim!

-His shark plushie. -It might be at the motorcycle.

-Go check it. -On it.

Where did you put it?

Right here!

Here?

-Did you find it? -No.

[wailing]

[somber music playing]

-[Bima shushing] -I'll look for it.

MISSING: SHARK PLUSHIE

[Adam] Stop!

[kids groaning]

Hey, hey, hey!

Dad!

-Mr. Rizal! -Dad!

-Adam, were you hurt? -Dad!

Sir! You can't treat Adam like that!

Are you seriously scolding me right now?

-Where's your wife? -At work.

What is wrong with you?

Where's your honor, your dignity as a man?!

She's supposed to take care of the kid while you work.

You're being trampled around like a doormat!

Sir.

Dara, my wife,

will never be like that.

I quit.

Thanks for everything.

Huh?

[tender music playing]

[indistinct chattering]

Isn't this fun?

-Have you ever been to the market, Adam? -Not yet.

-[Bima] Never. -[Iqi] Is this your first time?

-Yeah. -This place has all kinds of toys.

Buy him something.

Sheesh.

You don't have to tell me that.

-[chattering] -See? Like that, Bim.

Livestream is like that. Easy, right?

-It's embarrassing. -Don't be shy.

What if I go viral?

You have to go viral to make a lot of money.

I'll be in trouble if my family finds out.

So many to choose from.

I have no money.

I'll take care of it.

So tacky! Measure it on your neck. [scoffs]

Should've said so.

For starting funds, we'll do 70 from me

and 30 from you.

But I'll ask for the money once we break even.

[sighs]

What do you think?

Stop catching breaths. Are you a swimmer? [scoffs]

So negative.

Adam, do you want the green one or the blue one?

-Green. -Are you sure?

It'll fit! This is a big size.

Large. It's my size.

We also have a smaller size. Wait.

Come here.

[Bima] Never mind. It's too embarrassing.

The heck?! Just wait.

You're broke. What's there to be embarrassed about?

Here it is. Small size. Here you go!

[shrieks]

Test the zipper.

Should I open it here?

Don't open it! What for?!

All good.

Check the pockets. Any holes?

All good.

Are you serious? It's all good!

[both] Checkout right now!

Twenty percent off for all display items.

See? You can hop around in this.

-Hurry! -It's so short.

It is a pair of shorts, Bima.

[scoffs] I'll make you wear diving pants tomorrow.

Buy now, guys.

You'll be more attractive with these pants on. Come on.

Checkout right now!

Checkout right now! Do it, do it!

The material is breezy.

Dots.

It's not dots, it's leopard.

If you wear this, you can roar. Check it out.

[roars]

[chuckling]

-Come on. -It looks so tight.

It's good. I just don't feel confident in this.

Don't go! Come back!

Not many people are watching.

Be grateful! It's all part of the hustle.

Checkout right now!

[both] Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

Checkout these pants now. We have cool motifs here.

It's checkered pants with some accents…

[lady] Read this book for the kids.

Sir, I'll just buy the breast and thigh.

Bima!

Hello, ma'am.

Adam's not in school yet?

Not yet.

Want to join "My Family"?

-Be your family? -No.

Are you trying to replace my husband? [chuckles]

I meant our community parenting class.

Uh, maybe next time. I need to give Adam a bath.

-I see. -Yeah.

I have a spare book. Make sure you read it. It's free.

-Okay. Thank you, ma'am. -Mm-hmm.

-Excuse me. -Okay.

Dam!

[Ika] Ladies, we all know children will find ways to forgive their parents.

So, what kind of parents do we want to be for our kids?

Ah!

Don't be afraid to be wrong. No parent is perfect.

We're not expected to be perfect.

Our parents weren't perfect either.

Perhaps when our parents wronged us,

they didn't apologize.

Sorry, ma'am.

A father would like to join.

Oh, please.

Bima!

Bima! Come join us!

I'm giving Adam a bath right now.

[lady] Please, don't be shy.

-Come here! -[Ika] Come on, sir.

Maybe next time.

-Just keep going. Excuse me. -It's okay.

-[somber music playing] -[Ika] On the contrary,

if we apologize to our kids, they'll respect us even more.

How many of you have admitted your mistakes and apologized?

[Dara groans] Gosh.

Oh my God.

[Bima groans]

Oh my God.

It's wet.

Oh my God. I wet the bed.

Did you?

-Yeah. -Let me see.

[grunts]

I'm sorry, Dad.

I forgive you.

But if you really have to pee next time,

just wake Mom and Dad up. Okay?

-Okay. -[Bima] Okay.

[Bima] Good.

[feel-good music playing]

Bim, I'm off to work.

Dara. I packed lunch for you.

Aw!

[in Korean] Thank you, Oppa.

Bye.

[smooches]

-[in Korean] I love you. -[in Korean] I love you, dear.

-[chuckles] Peace be upon you. -Peace be upon you.

[tender music playing]

[in Korean] Thank you.

Boop.

Boop.

[crowd praying] Amen.

[leader] Allahu akbar.

You want to see the jeans? This one?

This one is…

[muttering]

Not good enough.

Anyway, my brand will be innovative.

We can't keep following the customers' wishes.

It'll be independent but still well-structured.

[sighs] Where's my laptop?

-I thought it was here. -I put it in under the TV.

[in Korean] Thank you.

You're welcome.

[sighs]

-Ra. -[Dara] Hm?

We're out of cooking gas.

[Dara] Go buy it.

[Dara] You know the store's number, right?

[Dara] Gosh.

I don't have money.

Your payment is late again?

I can't believe Mr. Rizal.

I quit.

I couldn't stand him anymore.

I'm sorry for telling you just now. I feel bad.

Perhaps there's a bright side to this.

The house is neat and tidy.

Thank God.

[tender music playing]

Adam is in good care, and you're not stressed anymore.

Adam is happy, you're happy, we're happy.

Here.

For weekly groceries too.

Thanks.

Bim.

[Bima] Hm?

A little extra for you.

It's my duty since you're taking care of Adam at home now.

If it were the other way around

and I was the one at home,

wouldn't you give me an allowance?

I'm off.

[smooches]

Peace be upon you.

Peace be upon you.

[in Korean] I love you.

Take care of the house, please.

FIGHTING! LOVE, DAD AND ADAM.

[Iqi] Look!

-[Iqi] All kinds of color on display! -Dad?

Put them all in your cart!

-[Iqi] All colors are available. -[Bima] It fits perfectly.

[Iqi] Everything is good.

So cheap! Lowest price!

Checkout right now! It's cheap!

Adam.

Let's go there.

-Look, guys. -You should play here.

The shorts I'm wearing are from the buy-two-get-one-free promo.

-Play over here. -This one.

-Buy two, get one. -I'll carry you later.

-After this, okay? -It's so comfortable.

This is the buy-two-get-one-free promo.

Such a steal, right?

It's fine. He can be in the frame.

"Cute. Whose kid is that?"

"Teen dad?" Correct.

"How old is the dad?"

So nosy! Buy my product! It's not about him.

Buy now! Checkout right now! Not later!

If you don't buy now, the price will go up tomorrow!

-Right. -Where did you learn that?

Even Adam is telling you to buy now. Yes, his name is Adam.

[all] Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

Wow.

[Adam] It's super cheap!

It's nice for both adults and kids.

For husbands.

It starts from 20,000 rupiah!

You can find anything…

I want… I'll show you, okay?

Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

-[Iqi shrieks] -[Iqi's mom] Praise be to Allah!

-What's wrong with them? -[Iqi's mom] That's a blessing from Him.

Dam, oh my God. You're so blessed!

Look at this, Bim! Adam brings good luck!

-Five million! -Thank God!

You're amazing!

[happy exclaim]

Bim, the two of you combined would be too powerful.

Do you know what we should've sold?

What?

[chuckles]

[Iqi] We have a full selection of matching outfits

for dads and kids on the display.

[happy shout]

-Checkout right now! -Checkout right now!

Don't buy later! Buy now!

For free!

Not free! How will I make money?

Boo!

We also have couple shirts.

-Peace be upon you. -Peace be upon you.

We can wear this for Friday prayer, right?

Yeah.

Iqiyut has everything!

Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

-Qi, switch with me. -[Iqi] Okay.

Okay!

-[Iqi] Relax, Adam is not going anywhere. -Adam, we're not done.

I don't want to.

-Just five minutes? -He's not going anywhere, just resting.

-Come on. -No.

He's taking a little break. I'm not lying!

He's still here!

-How about if I get you a toy duck? -He's really famous, huh?

-Yeah! -You want it?

One million ducks!

-[Bima] Adam! Don't run off! -Adam!

[Iqi] Adam! Bima! The heck?!

-[Iqi] What about me? Seriously! -[Bima] Wait here. Hurry up, Iqi!

[toys buzzing]

[woman] It's not strong enough.

My concept is gentle-care.

Caring for humans is a gentle, consistent process.

So, I see this Olina product as a long-term solution.

Look, if it is your brand, do whatever you want.

Olina's investors want a quick return on their investments.

So do the consumers.

They want smooth skin right after applying.

I hired you to figure it out.

-[Iqi shouts] -[Bima] We have to make Mom proud

and happy!

It's 10% off!

We have it in three colors. Red, blue, and maroon!

Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

-Checkout right now! -[Iqi] Bim.

Is Dara upset?

[Iqi] Are you okay?

[Dara] Is this the surprise?

[Dara] What about our house?

-[Bima] So, you want me to stay at home -Want me to take the helmet off?

while you have fun at work?

[Dara] Fun? Says who?

[Bima] If this is about money,

don't worry. I'll pay you back!

I'll transfer it now!

[Dara] It's not about me!

It's about Adam!

[Dara] That's what you call being responsible?

-[Dara] By selling your son? -[Bima] What are you talking about?

[Bima] Adam is helping the business!

[Dara] Bim, think about his privacy!

[Bima] What privacy?

[Bima] Your Mom's and Puput's social media has Adam in it too!

-[Dara] I told them off too! -[Bima] Good!

[Bima] Still, this is better! The money goes to us too!

[Dara] That money is useless if it means harming him!

[Bima] When have I ever harmed him?!

Take back your words!

[Dara] What words?

-[Bima] Take back your words! -[Dara] Why should I?!

[Bima] Talking to you is pointless!

[Dara] Do you even understand what I'm saying?

[Bima] What's the problem?

-[Dara] You missed the point! -[Adam] Stop!

-[Bima] Tell me what the problem is! -[Dara] You don't get it!

[Bima] I didn't force Adam to be there!

-Stop! -[Bima] He likes it there!

He likes it!

-[Dara] Bim! You're such-- -Mom, Dad, stop!

Dam.

-Hey, Dam. -Sweetie.

Stop! [groaning]

[somber music playing]

Adam, Dad is here.

Come with me.

Come with Dad.

Come with Mom.

Dam.

Stay away from the edge.

Adam!

You're a meanie!

Hey!

Why did you throw it away?

-[whining] -Wait here.

-[Bima sighs] -[Adam wails] Oyong.

[kids chattering] Go get it, Adam!

[kids chattering]

Go get it, Adam!

Hey, don't go there.

[kids jeering] Adam's a crybaby!

-Adam's a crybaby! -[Adam] I'm not a crybaby!

-Adam's a crybaby! -[screaming] I'm not a crybaby!

-I'm not a crybaby! -Adam, let's go.

[kids chattering]

[washing machine thudding]

[Bima] I'm so tired. We're not compatible anymore.

She's changed.

I don't know her anymore.

Mrs. Marni, someone has amnesia.

-Then get to know her! -[Bima] Excuse me, ma'am.

Don't be so tacky!

It's Dara, Bim!

She's not your roommate, she's your mate for life!

Speak gently, ask how she's feeling.

[sighs]

Like what?

-What? You don't how to speak gently? -[male customer] Coming through.

I almost hit my head.

[Iqi whines]

Just these.

How many dozens is this?

A dozen. Just mix up the sizes.

Okay.

I'm frustrated.

Bim.

[Bima] What?

Maybe you should buy her a gown.

A gown? Is she going to a ball?

You're so lame!

A gown!

Dara works in an office!

Come here.

-Look. There! -What?

I feel sorry for you.

On your right.

-I mean, left. -Tracksuits?

The haram one.

An inmate's uniform?

You want me to put you in jail?

Seriously, what's wrong with you!

I'm going to your mom's with Adam!

-Money. -Money?

Go steal some.

[Iqi] I'll transfer it later, ma'am.

[soft whimsical music playing]

[indistinct chattering]

Mister.

[Bima] It's the newest model.

I bought two.

If it's not to your taste or if you want to try other kinds

or if you want the entire store,

just let me know.

I'll buy it for you.

I bought a lot.

The seller said this is the best seller.

But I had to buy in all sizes.

And this one. [chuckles]

It's the most special of all.

It complements your skin.

If you wear this,

you'll be even more beautiful.

[Dara] The money will be used better as your college fund.

Are you still upset?

[sighs]

If Adam throws a tantrum when you and Iqi are working,

what will you do?

You promised to prioritize Adam.

You didn't ask for my permission.

Did you ask my permission for anything?

This is the only way

for me to help you.

To look after Adam.

This is all I can do.

You can work

but leave Adam with Putri.

[somber music playing]

[phone dings]

[Putri sniffling] Mom said the divorce might happen.

She's planning to sell the house

to settle Dad's debts.

If Mom and Dad split up,

where will I go?

You have me.

You have your own family.

Put.

No matter what,

I promise you,

we'll always be family.

[sniffles]

[sighs]

[Dara] Is there no other way?

What other way, Dar?

I heard from your dad's cousin.

He's off meditating in Bali.

Healing.

Perhaps…

[sighs]

…Dad is dealing with even bigger issues.

Or he's running away.

[somber music playing]

[Dr. Inti] How was your day?

-[Adam crying] -Dam. [groans]

-[crying] -Gosh. Oh, poor baby.

[Adam crying]

[in Korean] Hello.

[in Korean] Boss Kim.

Korea again?

I called Mr. Kim.

[groans]

Of course. Boss Kim.

I'm trying to have a serious conversation here.

Why are you dragging him into this?

Because I'm not your Boss Kim.

The smart guy.

[clicks tongue] Whatever.

It's all in your head. So insecure.

What?

What did you call me?

I didn't spend four years in college just to deal with your ego.

Shouldn't the smart one be teaching the stupid one, like me?

[grunts] You're not stupid!

You're lazy!

So what?

I don't run away like you do.

Like your dad.

You're out of line.

You started it.

You've always been so ready to run away!

You can't come and go as you please!

Think it through, Ra.

Ra.

Mom.

Dad. What's wrong?

Adam.

Go watch some videos. Okay? Come on.

[Bima sniffling]

[door creaking]

[inhales deeply]

This is all I can do.

Working in an office.

Providing.

Is it because I don't have an office job like you?

Bim.

This isn't about you!

My mom is getting a divorce!

-She's selling the house! -To settle her problems!

But why do you want to leave and cause more problems?

It's for Adam's sake.

When will you stop using Adam as your excuse?

I'm doing this for Adam's future!

-It's so he wouldn't-- -Wouldn't what?

End up poor?

So he won't live in slums?

And not be stupid like me?

Yeah? [inhales]

That's me, Ra.

-You can't accept that? -That's not what I meant!

I've never asked for a lot from you.

All you see is my flaws.

-I never asked you to be rich. -The past four years,

-I just need you -you only looked at my blackheads!

-to provide for me and Adam! -Or is it Adam?

Is it Adam who doesn't meet your expectations?

I just need you to focus.

I am looking! I'm trying!

Reach your full potential.

-Dara! I'm not as lucky as you! -Don't settle.

I'm willing to help you.

[melancholic music playing]

Must we do it your way?

When? When have I ever forced you?

This.

Right now.

That's not what I meant. [sighs]

Why?

Why must everything have to go your way?

Hmm?

Four years.

For four years, you were on this screen.

On video calls.

Everything was fine.

The old Dara would understand.

From the day I gave birth to Adam

to this very moment,

I'm no longer your high school girlfriend Dara.

I've evolved.

I've grown.

With or without you,

I want to keep growing.

[sniffling]

Dad, Mom.

[sobs]

♪ There are no ♪

♪ Perfect families ♪

♪ Without wounds ♪

♪ And secrets ♪

♪ And also the hardships ♪

♪ Of the world ♪

♪ The father who does not wish to talk ♪

-♪ The mother ♪ -[phone ringing]

♪ Who suppresses her anger… ♪

[Dara] I must go up first. To the lab.

Kids are not allowed.

My boss could scold you. Wait here.

Please watch him for a bit, sir. I'll be back.

What is this, sir?

That's the office.

-[static sound] -Hello.

[shushing]

-[security] Good morning, ma'am. -[woman] Morning.

Are the guys working overtime here already?

Yes, ma'am.

What's going on, Dara?

It's nothing, Mom.

Mom and Dad are meanies. They're fighting.

Mm-hmm.

In ten minutes?

[background chattering]

Okay.

Dam.

Dara, this is serious.

Mom.

This is my family. I can handle it. Let me lead.

Bima.

Dara.

Can't you…

discuss it again with Bima?

It's best to do it now than to suffer later.

-Dar, your problem -What did you do

-is different from mine. -to her?

-Are you aware of the risks? -Bima!

I'm ready to face the consequences.

[Rika sighs]

That's arrogance!

There is no marriage or family

that can afford to live life selfishly.

-Arrogance? -Yes!

Aren't you the one who's been arrogant?

-[shocked scoff] -[Rika] Dara!

-I'm Adam's mom. -Dara, don't talk like that.

-You never accepted me, did you? -[Rika] Dara!

Where are your manners?

You can't talk like that to my daughter. I hate it.

Calm down, everyone. Bima, you too.

Your daughter started it.

Your son doesn't get it!

-My son-- -Enough! Don't make it bigger!

-Dear! -It's always been a problem.

She's leaving again.

[Rika] Leaving?

-Leaving? -Where are you going?

Back to Korea.

-What? -Dara!

-Oh my God. What for? -What are you thinking?!

-You can't do this! -This is my life!

-You have a kid! -I've made up my mind!

You haven't even told your mom that you're leaving.

-Stop! Stop! -Dara, you didn't think about--

[heavy breathing]

Is this the family you promised?

-Cake! Yummy! -Adam, let's get out of here.

[Rika] Adam. Putri.

[soft sobs] Dear. I can't.

-Oh my God. -Dear.

-Let's hear them out first. -[sniffling]

-Let them… Well… -How could this happen?

I'm useless here, Bim.

[gasps]

I can never be the best mom for Adam.

-Oh my God. -It's best if I go.

This family…

will be fine without me.

Oh my God.

It's me.

I failed to be the head of the family.

I failed to lead you.

You're too far away for me.

[gasps] Dear. Let's go home.

[stammering] It hurts. I can't.

-Let's hear them out. -No! There's nothing to hear.

-Excuse me, Rika. I'm sorry. -Dear.

[Bima sniffles]

[sobs]

["Growing Up" by Rara Sekar playing]

[sobbing]

♪ Growing up ♪

♪ What are we supposed to see To feel, to meet ♪

♪ Growing up ♪

♪ What are we supposed to miss To keep, to leave ♪

♪ When it hurts ♪

♪ It hurts me… ♪

Do you realize?

Dara could have just stayed in Korea.

But she came back.

She worked hard

for you and Adam.

But I can't be a man when I'm with her.

[sighs]

I feel like she's walking all over me.

What kind of wife is that?

Tell me.

What does it mean to be a man?

What is it?

Well, I have no idea.

If it means to have testicles, mine was removed.

-Dad. -[chuckles]

If it means to be a father, well,

you, Dara, and Dewi helped cover my surgery.

You think your mom didn't tell me?

If it means to be a husband,

your mother always helped me to support you and Dewi.

Yet I always felt like pride got the best of me.

Perhaps…

I've set the wrong example for you.

[chuckles]

[soft, somber music playing]

Can you really bring yourself to leave Adam again?

It's not that I want to, Put.

It's best if Adam gets used to my absence

rather than seeing me fail

and…

he can't forgive me for it.

Like you can't forgive Dad?

[Adam] Mom, are you sad?

[soft shout]

[Adam] What's that, Mom?

That?

Adam,

you were in my belly for nine months.

Wow. Really?

Yeah.

Because every person is born from their mom's stomach.

Did it hurt

when you gave birth to me?

Mm-hm.

Did you cry?

Just a bit. [shrieks]

I'm sorry, Mom,

for hurting you.

It wasn't your fault.

I'll blow on it.

[Dara chuckles]

Heal.

[tender music playing]

Mom, if I hurt you again, just tell me, okay?

Don't be upset.

And don't leave me.

I want to stay with you.

And with Dad?

-[woman] Hi. -Hi.

What's your name?

Adam. What's your name?

Lisa.

You're pretty.

You're cute.

Where's your mom?

[upbeat music playing]

Hello, miss. I added extra oysters.

I know raising a kid can be tough.

Thank you.

Say bye.

Bye.

[chuckles]

Excuse me, miss.

Peace be upon you.

[Yuni] Peace be upon you.

-Mom. -Yes?

[gentle music playing]

Thank you.

You've been working hard to be a good mother to Adam.

But I haven't been a good wife to Bima.

Every marriage has different challenges.

-Just the fact that you came here -[sniffling]

reflects your great efforts.

And I thank you for that.

I should be thanking you, Mom.

Dara.

I'd like to apologize to you.

I have been selfish

because I love Adam too much.

[soft sob]

And I forgot

that Adam needs to grow

and be with his mother.

You don't need to apologize, Mom.

You've done so much for me.

I'm really grateful to you.

[sobbing] Thank you, Mom,

for taking care of Adam.

Forgive me.

Yes, sweetie.

♪ Sorrow and joy ♪

♪ Always go hand in hand ♪

♪ Changing its appearance… ♪

Heal.

-Where did you learn that? -From Mom.

♪ In loneliness Independent human beings are born… ♪

HIGH SCHOOL DIPLOMA

Who says I'm not proud of you?

You're always there, no matter how difficult things get.

You never run away.

I'm so proud of you for that.

I respect you.

To be honest,

I didn't expect that.

I should've been the one asking you

what I can do to help you.

Um…

Can you scan this for me?

[uplifting music playing]

[chuckles]

What is it for?

For applying to college.

I'll scan them for you.

[Bima] Check. Testing. One, two.

-Dara. -[mic feedback shrieks]

[Ika] We just covered the "I message" communication approach.

For easier practice at home,

would someone like to volunteer to try it out here?

Raise your hand.

[indistinct chattering]

Don't be shy.

I think Bima and Dara can come forward as an example.

-[clamoring] Yes, do it! -Okay.

-Would you come forward? -Come on!

-Come on! -Don't be shy.

Here.

It's just for example.

-Think of it as the dinner table. -[chuckles]

As for the situation,

let's say Bima comes home late. What do you say, Dara?

Uh…

Use this.

Why are you always late? I'm tired of waiting.

[mic shrieks]

You're so naggy.

Can't you talk nicely?

Hey, don't fight for real. It's just an example. Right, Moms?

[ladies] Yeah.

Now, let's try the "I message" approach.

Use the formula I told you about.

This?

-Sure, you can cheat. -[clears throat]

I get worried

if you come home late without any heads-up.

I hope you'll tell me in advance

if you're coming home late.

It'll help us both feel at ease.

How do you feel, Bima?

Um… I feel relieved.

[Bima chuckles]

I feel relieved, Mrs. Ika.

It doesn't feel like she's nagging me.

[crowd laughing]

[Ika] It's better, isn't it? Now, it's your turn.

[Bima sighs]

I feel annoyed if you nag me

when I come home late.

I want you to ask me about my day

or give me some time

because, actually, I want to share my day with you.

[crowd cooing]

-[exclaims] So sweet! -How do you feel, Dara?

Um… I feel like I can understand my husband better.

-Okay. -[crowd laughing]

Thank you.

-[woman] Ika, I have a question. -[uplifting music playing]

Are you also applying it in your home with your kids and husband?

[mouthing] I'm sorry.

[mouthing] I'm sorry too.

[Dara] Ma'am, please wait.

I'm trying to persuade Adam to go into class.

They're waiting for you!

Come on.

Where?

Over there.

Must be a lot of fun.

They're not playing, they're coloring.

Why don't you want to go inside, Adam?

What if I don't like it there?

Will you two be mad at me?

Will you two fight again?

Are you still sad because Mom and Dad fought a lot?

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry, too.

We promise you

we won't shout when we're upset.

We won't get mad if you don't like the class.

Okay? Will you please try?

Okay.

Really? Good boy.

[humming]

[chuckling]

-[smooches] -[smooches]

Go inside.

[chuckling]

[hums]

[chuckling]

I do.

He does! What picture?

Fishy.

Fishy? What's his name?

-Oyong. -Oyong?

I see!

Does anyone want to get to know Adam?

Dara.

What if I become a kindergarten teacher?

Why haven't we considered this before?

You're perfect for it.

You're sweet, kind,

and you love kids.

[clicks tongue]

A sweetheart. [chuckles]

You won't be ashamed of me?

I'm so proud that you started to discover your potential.

But I still want to do business with Iqi.

I want to get serious about the business.

Well?

Mmm… Will I get a special discount?

Nope.

You already have a special bonus.

Me.

-[mocking] -[chuckling]

[whispers] I'll show you tonight.

[Adam] Dad.

Hey.

You finished washing your hands?

Yeah.

Did you flush?

Oh my God. I forgot.

-Not yet. -[chuckling]

-[Bima] Okay. -[Dara] Go help him.

Next time, flush immediately after you're done. Okay?

Especially in school. What if your friends saw it?

[together] One, two, three.

Hurry!

[tender music playing]

Where is it?

[laughing]

[Dara] There it is!

-There! -Yeah.

[Bima] Yeah!

[Dara, Bima] Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem.

[Adam] Rabbighfirli waliwalidayya

warhamhuma kama rabbayanii

sagheera.

Dear God,

forgive me and my parents

of sins.

[Bima, Dara, Adam] Be merciful to them

as they raised me

when I was young.

Ameen!

[Iqi] New fish for Adam!

-[cheering] -You got a new fish!

Now there's a lot in there.

Everyone! Look at my new fish!

[cheering]

-New fish. -Where? Let Grandma see.

They're so beautiful.

Which one is it, Adam?

[cheering, clapping]

Hey! I have the perfect outfit for couples!

[cheers]

[uplifting music playing]

Come on. Be romantic.

[Dara chuckles]

Yes! Again!

Turn around.

Do it right, Bim!

-[chuckling] -Stop fighting! The movie's over!

-I'm sorry, Bim. -Go to the back.

Next!

Clothes for teens!

It's a pretty dress, right?

The girl is prettier, but she's single!

That's too much information!

And this is why you're single. Go!

I'll have a boyfriend next year!

Next, look cool even when you're old.

Let's welcome…

Okay then! Two beautiful ladies!

Come on out, ladies!

Why did you even say we're old?

We already know. You don't have to announce it!

-We're self-aware. -Yeah.

Come on. It's Eid. Don't nag me.

-Come on! -[in unison] What now?

Sell it!

Okay, It's good clothing, nice fabric. Go buy it.

-But-- -That's done. Now what?

-[Bima] Dance, Moms. -Dance?

Turn around or something.

Turning around.

[exclaims]

-Done. -Checkout now! Don't worry.

We have a men's selection too.

Oh.

Look. Two distinguished gentlemen.

But I'm holding a tambourine.

-Let's pose. -Okay.

-Looks good. -Yeah.

Your sales will go up thanks to me.

-No, it's thanks to everyone. [moans] -Yeah.

So, this shirt is free?

-No! Tell them to buy it. -Yeah, but it's free for me?

-Right. -Okay.

-Why am I not in a couple? -You're up with me!

-Gosh. -Okay.

-It's the whole family. -Wishing you forgiveness and blessings.

-Wishing you forgiveness and blessings. -Wishing you forgiveness and blessings.

Wishing you forgiveness and blessings. Good luck with your shop, Iqi.

Amen! I hope it sells well!

Wait. We're missing someone.

Who?

We have a special guest today! Please welcome the guest star!

[cheering]

-Spin again! -Spin!

[cheering]

Okay, that's enough!

You went too far, sweetie.

Who is it?

-Take a guess! -Open it!

[cheering]

Iqi, put it on.

-Come on. -Here.

I'll put it on.

Here goes.

-It won't fit. -Wow!

It doesn't fit!

[all] Eid Mubarak!

Wishing you forgiveness and blessings!

Checkout right now!

Checkout right now!

♪ Build it again one by one ♪

♪ Build it again one by one ♪