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Cunnilingus

A woman's lust is distinctly different from a man's.

Women generally need more time to let themselves go completely.

Consequently, almost every woman enjoys cunnilingus, that is, oral sex.

Here, too, there are a number of important factors to take into account.

The human body is made up of innumerable erogenous zones, just waiting to be explored.

The mouth, the ears, the neck, the sexual organs are just the most obvious of these.

It is the man's task to set out on this exploratory mission.

And what could be better suited for this task than his mouth?

The tongue contains an unimaginable number of sense receptors.

It is not only capable of tasting, but is at least as adept at feeling.

Every area of a woman's body feels different, and often these differences are minute.

Interestingly, the mere fact that these areas are being explored is enough to evoke sensual arousal in a woman.

Here again, the area just above the backside contains a multitude of nerve tracts, and is ideal as a starting point for a sensuous encounter between a man and a woman.

Always remember to establish body-to-body contact.

For most women, feeling the man's masculinity is highly erotic.

And when the woman starts to open up and become sufficiently trusting, she feels able to turn over to present to him her even more sensitive front side.

In the case of a man, the woman's body is like a mirror.

Tranquility and a sense of security are the key ingredients in sensuality.

That's why it is very important to establish a snug environment, stress-free, devoid of appointments, with the phone switched off and so forth.

Candles and soft music can help create a pleasing atmosphere.

And a glass of wine can also contribute to a sensuous ambience.

The nipples are also highly erogenous zones.

The vast majority of women get very aroused when this area is afforded attention.

The man can explore what is most stimulating for the woman.

Licking, probing, playful biting.

Anything is permissible, provided it's pleasurable.

After extensive foreplay, the man can begin to focus on the genital zone.

To begin with, he can thoroughly explore the area, by observing with his eyes, feeling with his hands, tasting with his mouth.

A gentle massage is a good way to start, so that the woman can let herself go and become accessible.

One does not require a sophisticated technique.

To simply enjoy the sensuousness of the situation and be attentive to the woman's desires is quite sufficient.

Aspiration, that is, soft blowing, can be a very intimate gesture and will trigger shudders of pleasure in many a woman.

For some women, the area around the groin is an erogenous zone, whilst others are merely ticklish there.

On the other hand, laughter is a welcome element in the amorous play between a man and a woman.

Slowly feeling one's way forward, the initial contact.

Vaginal lips are very sensitive and should only be touched very gently.

It's a good idea for the man to cut and ideally file his fingernails prior to commencing.

Required is a slow, bit-by-bit process, letting one's fingers wander softly along both sides of each lip, inching slowly upwards and downwards.

Very gently, one can let one's fingers circle around the lips, using a little oil if required.

The man's tongue is more sensitive than his fingers, and again, he might first let it glide along the lips.

The area around the clitoris is particularly sensitive, but also highly erogenous.

Initially, one should approach this area considerably.

A woman's vagina is a very sensitive organ.

And a man should treat it with the utmost respect.

Unfortunately, many men merely regard the vagina as an instrument for satisfying their own desire, thus depriving themselves of the chance to experience how enjoyable it is when both partners find a mutual path to arousal.

Since most women often require more time than men to reach a state of arousal, cunnilingus is a good method for overcoming this discrepancy.

The man can use his tongue and his hands simultaneously, but it's important that he doesn't overstimulate the woman's intimate region.

So holding back and progressing with care is probably the best option, especially in the initial phase.

As the woman becomes more aroused, it becomes possible to increase the degree of stimulation.

The first penetration with a finger should be done slowly and should be accompanied by clitoral stimulation.

Most

women find this combination extremely arousing.

One finger inside the vagina, whilst the tongue stimulates the clitoris, and a hand massages stomach or breasts.

When arousal increases, using just the finger is possible, letting it slide in and out.

Rubbing gently up and down, left and right of the clitoris, between the inner and outer vaginal lips, induces a pleasurable feeling in a woman.

The same goes for circling around the clitoris.

When both partners become aroused, they lose themselves in the playful game of hands, tongues, nipples.

Men are often far too quick in moving on to integrals when, as in moments like this, sexual desire is unleashed.

Yet it is precisely in the process of cunnilingus that the intensity of desire is increased.

While the tongue is licking the clitoris, the finger can stimulate the G-spot.

In most women, it is located 3-4 cm inside, on the roof of the vagina.

G-spot stimulation evokes very intense arousal in many women.

Degrees of intensity can be allowed to fluctuate, fast and strong, followed by soft and slow.

Unlike most men, women are often capable of having several consecutive orgasms.

It is quite feasible that, especially during cunnilingus, a woman will climax once, twice or even several times, and still remain in a state of sexual desire.

Laying one's hand over the vagina invokes a sense of being protected and secure.

So this is a good way to end cunnilingus.

Gentle touching and soft massage motions create a kind of afterspace in which the woman is able to chill out.

Cuddling, coming down together, sharing the mutual experience.

Fellatio In a world where men must permanently be achievers, where they have to stand firm each day, where there is little room for relaxation or emotions,

in such a world it is a great pleasure for a man when, occasionally, he does not need to perform.

And since, for many, this pressure to deliver the goods extends into the area of sexuality, this is the right place to simply let go from time to time.

It is one of men's oldest fantasies to be able to give oneself into the hands of a woman, to be sexually pampered.

And fellatio is one of the most exciting fantasies in this respect.

But the art of fellatio involves a lot more than simply having one's penis inside the partner's mouth.

Fellatio can be applied to any place on the body.

A man's backside, for example, is one of his most erogenous zones.

And the area directly above it contains a multitude of nerve tracts capable of invoking great pleasure.

But for many men, this is an unexplored no-man's land.

Licking, blowing, caressing, scratching, so many ways to satisfy a man.

A cozy ambience is essential when it comes to the sensual encounter between a man and a woman.

Coloured cloths, pleasant scents, warm oils.

Perhaps the crackle from a fireplace are the ingredients for an exceptional, erotic experience.

With her tongue, a woman is capable of unleashing torrents of pleasurable sensations in a man.

Skillfully applied to the entire body, she can induce him into a sensual trance.

His devotion and passivity allow him to become centred within himself.

Most men have extremely sensitive nipples, and they relish the sensation of gentle licking, tender tingling and playful biting.

The man's genital area is also more than just the penis.

The testicles, the anus, the groin, the pubic bone, these are all erogenous zones, which the experienced lover will gladly caress.

She teases him gently, provokes and occasionally withdraws, only to assail him once more in a torrent of lust.

Fellatio is a game between two people, a pleasurable pastime.

The shaft and the root of the penis are also highly erogenous zones.

Often neglected during standard amorous play, fellatio ensures they get the attention they should.

The head of the penis is the centre of a man's potency, and practically all men enjoy fellatio on this point.

But one should be aware of the fact that on this spot, all men are sensitive to varying degrees.

While some men may experience total ecstasy, the same modus operandi may cause others a sense of painful overstimulation.

Therefore, a woman must remain connected with a man in order to bestow pleasure.

Letting the tongue circle around the head of the penis, or letting it quiver on its tip, introduces playful elements into the oral repertoire.

She can use her hand to firmly clasp the shaft of the penis, thus enhancing his erection.

The idea that a man is a better lover the larger his penis, and the firmer his erection, is a widely held misconception.

Every man and every penis is unique.

Some are larger, some are smaller.

Some men have huge erections, others have smaller ones.

Some get very firm when stimulated, and others are softer.

There are so-called shower penises, which don't vary a great deal in size when erect.

And there are so-called grower penises, which can double in size during erection.

In this area, as in others, life is diverse.

Very carefully, the teeth can also be applied to the shaft.

Gentle probing and experimenting will reveal what he finds stimulating.

The Kama Sutra, one of the oldest erotic texts, also deals with the topic of fellatio.

In doing so, the Kama Sutra lists six different methods of eroticism.

As if coitus.

Biting the sides.

Outside pressing.

Inside pressing.

Kissing.

The penis is kissed all over.

Sucking a mango fruit.

Half of the penis is inserted into the mouth and intensely sucked.

And the testicles can always be included in these procedures.

Here again, each man has different preferences.

Some enjoy firm pressure, even gentle squeezing of the testicles, whilst others are very, very sensitive in this area, and anything more than subtle scratching will cause pain.

In addition to fellatio, the woman can also massage the penis, using massage oil, for instance.

A tasteless lubricant should be used, good quality almond oil, for example, to ensure that it will continue to be a sensuous experience for her as well.

As his pleasure mounts, she can further enhance his arousal by moving the foreskin of the penis back and forth, then intermittently lavishing its head with her mouth and massaging the penis with her hand.

In this way, she can continuously bring him to the verge of orgasm, without him actually climaxing.

Agile hands can sometimes have a greater effect than, say, intercourse as such.

An enrichment in any partnership, and a treat for every man.

And always the changeover between the hand and the mouth.

Together, these techniques are far more sensuous than each on their own.

The man's arousal increases in the course of this encounter.

And, while some men might relish remaining at this level, the majority are likely to abandon themselves to the physical climax of orgasm.