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Who is that?

It's just me.

Go to bed, Stine.

Oh, how cold.

Stine.

Are you going to the hospital?

I wish I hadn't yelled at you like that.

It was all too much for you to wash up and clean up.

The others could have done something.

They were also in the apartment.

You became so pale.

You also became so difficult to talk to.

Stine, if only you could forgive me.

Can't you forgive me and get well soon?

Oh, little Stine.

I promise I'll never yell at you again.

Oh, Stine.

Get well soon.

Just tell me what you want.

Then you'll get it.

I promise.

Stine.

Stine.

Come on.

Get up.

The others are already up.

There you go.

You're lying there with your socks on.

Move aside!

Cool down.

You're going to get it.

Leave me alone.

- Go and get the coffee. - Okay.

Can I do it?

No, you know that.

Done.

- Thanks. - Watch out.

- Here. - Sit down.

Mom, where are the clean socks?

You know that.

No, there aren't any more in the closet.

- Aren't there any more? - No.

Then you know where the others are.

No.

- Down at the bottom... - I don't know where.

Yes, you do.

I want to go to the playground with you.

Where do you want to go?

I want a sausage.

And I want this.

Not without your socks.

Where were they?

Down at the bottom of the closet.

Can you give me the milk?

Yes.

Do you want some?

Yes, I do.

I'll get some more.

Preben?

Yes?

Do you want some fish fritters?

No, thanks.

Fish fritters, number 10.000.

Fish fritters?

Yes.

Good.

Can you give me the sugar?

Yes.

I'll use it myself.

You've had enough sugar.

You don't need so much sugar.

I don't want to eat fish fritters.

I'd rather have a sausage.

Then eat a sausage.

I need the sugar.

Here.

Can you help yourself?

Thomas?

I told you not so much sugar. Don't you get it?

What are you doing today?

I want to think about something.

What is it?

Tomato soup.

Yes, that's good.

A cucumber.

Yes.

A cucumber.

Yes.

And...

This one.

Already up?

Good morning.

Good morning.

Stop eating sugar.

No.

Your teeth are going to rot.

Look at me.

Not one hole.

You know why?

Because I don't use sugar on seafood.

It tastes good.

I know.

Thomas, can you clean the table?

Who?

Thomas, clean the table.

Can't you do it yourself?

No.

I told you you could do it yourself.

You can also do it.

It's not necessary.

Talk normally.

Get calm.

Don't disturb Stine.

Be quiet.

Don't you want some bread?

I need the milk.

Don't you want some bread?

No.

It's called "no, thank you".

Why are you so angry in the morning?

- I'm not angry. You're angry. - I'm not angry.

Then what are you?

You're talking back again.

We're sitting here...

Can't we talk?

Of course we can.

You can do it in a polite way.

You're just angry in the morning.

You're always angry in the morning.

You just sit there.

You don't say anything.

Just let me handle this.

You have to be careful.

You have to be careful.

You can say anything to me.

But don't say I'm stupid.

I don't care about that.

You have to hurry up.

Hurry up to school.

Stop being angry.

Stop being unfriendly to your friends and teachers.

- I'm not angry. - Yes, you're angry.

I'll have a cup of coffee.

Just calm her down.

Don't you want coffee or bread?

Then I'll keep you company.

It's not my fault.

I don't know what the reason is.

You're the one who goes with them every day.

It's quite common that someone comes in the morning.

I've had enough of you.

I'm not angry.

You shouldn't get involved.

You should just eat your food.

I told you not to eat more sugar, didn't I?

He should have listened to himself.

He got a lot of scolding.

"You can say anything to me."

"But don't say I'm stupid."

"Hurry up to school. Stop being angry."

"You shouldn't get involved."

Shut up. Just shut up.

We don't hate each other.

If only he could understand me.

If only we could be happy.

If only he would listen to me.

If only we could be better together.

If only we could be happy.

Just look at each other and smile.

Hi.

Hi.

You just have to keep working.

Are you all ready?

Just where you've come to.

You have to keep writing.

Not like that.

You're doing so well.

I can go to the meeting.

It's only five minutes.

I expect there to be peace and quiet.

Peter and Bjørn, don't fight. Okay?

We have to do the math.

I forgot my book.

She'll get mad.

It could be me.

I can't count.

She can just leave me alone.

She's coming.

It could be me.

I can't count.

It could be me.

I forget it almost every time.

She's used to it.

She's trying to hide it.

- What side are you on in the book, Stine? - On this one.

We're not on this side.

That's weird.

I thought we were here.

You're not where the rest of us are.

You're the one who has to learn to talk.

I'm standing here trying to find out what you've learned.

I don't have my clothes here.

You're impudent, Stine.

Why?

You can't just write on the table.

I don't write. I draw.

Stine, that's too much.

What?

I'm standing here trying to teach you something.

Who do you think you are?

A child.

What?

What did you say?

I said "a child".

I want to...

I want to...

What is it?

Stine!

You have to change.

You can't be like this.

I can't take that.

How?

Like this.

How?

What is it?

A skirt.

No, it's not a skirt.

It's pants.

Pants with a flap.

Like little kids wear.

Yes.

And a little girl's dress.

Hey, stop it!

You have to wear nice clothes.

Like grown-up ladies.

Long dresses.

Short ones that go all the way.

No, you'll break the egg.

I'll just keep it the same.

Your egg is much smaller.

They have different colors.

I don't know.

Maybe it's the color of the egg.

I can't take it.

You have to change it that way.

I can't take it.

Do you want me to cut it?

Okay.

You have to spread it.

What should we do?

Go down?

It's boring down there.

I don't understand why the kids want to go to those playgrounds.

It's terrible.

It's sad.

It's not fun to jump on the swings.

I don't like that.

And on those lights.

They don't have any colors.

And then there's a tree.

And some plastic.

It doesn't fit.

What about dressing up?

You can't do that.

Why not?

It's just like when you're in class.

You can't see it.

Okay.

Okay.

It's so exciting.

I have to put it on.

What's wrong?

You can't do it like this.

I'll open my mouth.

Okay.

Like this.

Does it look good?

Yes.

Can you look at the mirror?

Okay.

Do you have black on your eyes?

No, I didn't.

Your nails are nice.

My nails are funny.

A little bit higher.

Oh, I'm so cute.

I'm cute.

I'm the cutest.

I have to put it on.

Take also this.

1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12.

I got 13.

1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13.

Did I get it right?

Yes.

Let's have something to drink.

There are only two bottles, so we have to split it.

The one who cries the loudest wins.

Who cried the most?

Cry, or you won't get anything.

There's nothing for Stine before we get to this one.

There's also a tiny bit of...

This one still needs a little soda.

Just a little bit.

The smallest one always gets the most.

A little too much.

I'll pour it on the table.

No, that's too much.

Just a little bit.

Then you get this one.

The smallest is always the best.

The smallest is always the best. That's right.

I just need a minute.

The husband's elbow is on the table.

Oh no!

I think the wife has made a very strong sauce.

The husband can't get his elbow up from the wife's sauce.

It's a very thick sauce.

The wife has made such a strong sauce.

What should the husband do?

The husband is upset.

The husband likes sauce, but not thick sauce.

Thin sauce.

What should the husband do when the wife makes thick sauce?

I never have to do that.

Can you promise me that?

I'm good today, aren't I?

Does it taste good?

Yes, it does.

Does it taste good?

Yes, it does.

Cheers, everyone!

Congratulations on your father.

Cheers.

Thomas, can't you shut up?

No, I won't.

Is this enough?

Yes, I'd like some sugar.

Five or six pieces.

Three are enough.

Then I'll take three.

You poured so much coffee.

So I need more sugar.

I've always had three.

Yes, that's right.

And afterwards, you've had another three pieces.

No, I've always had three.

You always say I've had five or six.

I don't want to hear this again.

I had to make something out of my lunch.

And we had a great time, didn't we?

Yes, we did.

You always ruin everything.

I haven't ruined anything.

I'm just talking about sugar.

It's so annoying.

Take it easy.

It's not very nice of you to say that.

It's nothing to complain about.

Yes, it is.

But I said it was just for fun.

It's not very funny of you to say that.

Then let's say it's not funny.

Where are you going?

You're staying here, aren't you?

Go and help mom with the dishes.

Go and help her with the dishes!

I've done the dishes once today.

Then do it one more time.

Stine.

Why is it so hard for you?

Like this.

A little further down.

You can do it like this.

He knows I'm getting angry.

He knows I don't like what he's doing.

No, he doesn't know. He doesn't care.

Yes, he does. I don't care.

You can't tickle me.

Yes, I can.

You know what I said.

Then I can't do it.

Then go downstairs.

Every time I'm kicked out,

I have to be sent out

to wash up

if he doesn't get his win.

What if it was us who said that?

Yes, we did.

Then we go to bed.

It's bedtime.

Go out and wash up.

Don't smoke.

It's unhealthy.

If you don't get up,

you'll end up in bed.

When they go down to play,

bring the ball.

Be up before eight o'clock.

Then you'll get one over your neck.

You have to be careful.

Don't tell me that.

Be careful when you walk down the street.

Don't get too much sugar in your coffee.

Tell me, Stine.

What is this?

It ends every single time

that they send you out.

We used to be such good friends.

You've never looked so sad.

How can that be?

I don't know.

Every time I ask you,

you get too close.

It's because we don't get along at home.

Is someone sick?

When I get home,

Mom is crying.

I have to wash up

and comfort her.

I have to put Thomas and Maria

in bed and clean up.

They always fight.

That's terrible.

Why didn't you tell me?

I have to do everything myself

and cook for them.

Come on, Stine.

There's always a fight

because they don't clean up after themselves.

Then I have to do

all the cleaning.

That's terrible.

I often hear someone crying at night.

Then I have to get up and I can't sleep.

I don't have time for my homework.

What about Thomas and Maria?

They don't feel well either.

They're always in bed.

Can't anyone do anything about it?

We can't.

What about your grandmother?

She doesn't know.

No one knows.

They don't want you here.

Don't tell anyone.

I don't want to.

Don't you think I should talk to your mom?

No, you shouldn't. They could get angry.

I don't want to talk about them.

I want to talk about you.

I don't think it can go on like this.

When they're in a bad mood,

they don't want anyone to come.

We don't have money

to buy food.

Really?

When Dad comes home,

he's so weird.

He's so strange.

They shout so loud

that I can't sleep.

Are they going to separate?

I don't know, but I think so.

I ask Stine Jacobsen

to come to the school office.

Stine, Birgit told me

that your parents were going to get divorced.

Is that true?

Yes.

Who told you that?

Or did you just feel it?

It feels like it.

But they didn't tell you

that they wanted to leave each other?

Not really.

Do they fight a lot?

Yes.

Do you think it would be a good idea

if you left home

at this time?

No.

Stine, what would you say

to come to the country?

I don't think it's a good idea.

It would be great for you.

There are green fields

and horses and cows.

My mother can't go out all day

and be with the kids.

It would be easier for your mother.

It would be easier for her

if one of the kids left.

Maybe the others could come as well.

But they can't do it.

Who's going to clean up?

It doesn't make sense, Stine.

You're the one who has to do everything.

You have to learn something here at school.

You sit here all the time

and don't get anything out of it.

My mother would be so sad.

Stine, I don't think your mother knows

that you have it so bad

as you have it now.

She doesn't know how you are here at school.

Stine, we can't send you

abroad without talking to your parents.

I don't want to go abroad.

It's so nice.

There are horses and pigs and cows.

You live in a farm.

I know there's a farm

right next to the holiday home.

I don't like to be sent abroad.

Don't you think they need some peace and quiet?

If you, Thomas and Maria

came to the country for a while

and your parents were alone

they would have more time

to deal with the problems at home.

Stine, I think we should talk

to your parents about it.

It's not something you can do.

If you try to...

How long will it take for her to clean up?

Stine, it takes not a long time

to clean up. Your mother can do it

when you're gone.

Just a short time.

If you contact her parents

and I contact Dr. Hansen

we'll try to get some time

to take Stine to school.

Then we should be able to

take care of everything.

Don't be sad.

We'll take care of everything.

My dad won't like it.

We'll figure it out.

We have to do something.

It can't get any better.

It's not about what your dad likes

but about how you feel about it.

What were you doing at the school office?

They're asking if I'm going abroad.

Why?

Because I told them

that my parents will get a divorce.

That your parents are getting a divorce?

Yes.

That's not true.

No, but she keeps asking

so I have to tell her.

But it's a big lie.

Yes, but she keeps asking

why I'm going abroad.

Aren't you afraid they'll find out?

I told them

they can't say anything

because my mom was so upset.

Do you think you can trust them?

Yes, I think so.

If your parents will getting a divorce,

who would you live with?

I don't know.

Why did you get the idea

that they were getting a divorce?

I don't know. It just came to me.

Shouldn't we go?

It's so nice

there are horses and pigs

and cows and sheep.

You live in a farm.

A farm?

As if you're a little kid.

As if they have to decide

when I'm going to the country

and what kind of country I'm going to.

I can figure that out myself.

Hello?

Hello.

"You poured so much coffee. So I need more sugar."

Here you go.

Ah, how lovely.

What are you going to write?

I'm going to write a story.

Mostly a fantasy story.

I'm going to write

about a planet

called Pluto.

It was the animals who ruled

and the people who were the animals.

There were people who lived in a cave

and then came a yacht

and took the people's baby

because they wanted it as a pet.

It's exciting.

I don't like to write myself,

but I like to find something.

It's fun to write it down.

It's good to have a notebook.

You have to remember what's behind it.

You should have a notebook

so you can write down what you want.

That's right.

What are you doing?

It looks good.

Remember to put your jumper on

when you leave.

Have you come late?

Yes.

It looks very good.

Yes.

It has a nice color.

Who's going to have it?

I don't know.

Your mom?

No.

Let's give it a try.

It'll last a hundred years.

Yes.

You should write your name on it.

Yes.

Like a painter.

Yes.

Here, Thomas. Take this and share it with the others.

Do you remember the speech

that mother tried to hold

to Ulla's speech

and the movement overwhelmed her?

Now I hope the sun will shine just like it did on you, little Ulla,

and on the speech you made.

And then I answer, like the talented man I am,

then there won't be a lot of sun in my head.

I'm just a man of few words.

It was those summers when you turned brown.

Yes, It was those summers when you turned brown.

Do you remember that time with Stine?

I remember...

It was the same year she started talking.

One night she was sitting at the table

and she often said "cheers".

We said "cheers" that night, and she said...

And she had no glass, and she said:

"Mom".

Do you remember when Thomas saw spring water in Tivoli for the first time?

He also said "Mom".

Yes, that's something to remember.

It's up to you.

Our children will be more brown than we will be.

They get it better.

It was a long summer.

We'll have some more coffee, won't we?

I remember when I turned brown.

When I was a boy, I was always scared of the sun in the summer.

It would burn my back.

I remember once...

It's like being an albino.

I'm not exactly an albino.

I was maybe a little bit like that.

I remember...

Hi.

I want to see.

Let me see.

It hurts.

It tickles.

Back then, we had a lot of fun.

If you imagine it.

We had two baths rooms.

One for the girls, one for the boys.

And we were five kids.

Five is a lot, right?

Yes, I remember.

And then they looked at us.

No, no.

Yes, they looked at us.

I've never done that.

And then... all five of us...

jumped into the bathtub.

We were splashing around each other.

You love those days, don't you?

I don't anymore.

You don't anymore, because you've spent a lot of time together, don't you?

You've spent a lot of time with your mother, haven't you?

Yes, I was also at the office.

Yes, basically, my career as an insurance agent.

Yes, yes.

You promised insurance.

Yes, you did.

Thank you.

Thank you.

That was good.

Cheers.

Yes, yes.

Maybe it's also a sin to be like that, at that moment.

Cheers.

You probably can't do that.

We can sit in the kitchen and talk about it.

We can do that.

There's always something to close up a bit more, when you get...

No, it's not because you don't listen to me.

Cheers.

But are they up on the 10th?

It would be nice if we could come here on the 10th.

Yes. And there would be some more on Wednesday.

Yes. Then it would be with the kids.

Yes.

Don't say anything to them.

I think we'll come out tomorrow, because we want to.

And I think mom would like it, too.

We'll come out on Sunday.

You know what I mean?

And then we'll go somewhere else.

Yes.

We could go to the zoo or something.

Just without them.

That would be really nice.

A magazine.

A telegram.

A bill.

A rental contract.

A letter.

An order.

A certificate.

It is hereby confirmed in agreement with the marriage agreement

that Assistant Preben Jacobsen and Ola Andersen

on the 5th of March 1960

legally and with full citizenship

in Copenhagen as registrars have entered into marriage with each other.

The marriage will start on the 5th of March 1960.

The 5th of March.

A doctor's certificate.

A marriage certificate.

Stine.

The parents or adoptive parents.

Thomas.

Maria.

Personal ID.

120960.

7454.

Stine Jacobsen, Hedegarden 10,

2750 Ballerup.

Stine Jacobsen.

There is Maria.

There is Thomas.

And there is Thomas.

There is grandma.

And there is me.

There is grandpa.

And there is dad.

There is me.

Mom.

There is me again.

There is Maria.

And there is grandpa.

And there is Aunt Kristine in Canada.

It's so boring.

He's just sitting there.

Sitting on his kitchen table.

Is it nice?

Yes.

What's for dinner?

I don't know. Maybe some other food.

Just look.

Can you do it?

I don't think so.

Just look. I'll do it.

Like this.

You need a big portion

Like this.

Good, right?

It has black eyes.

Yes.

Don't be afraid. They don't bite.

You take it like this.

Take it by the head.

Like this.

No, you need to hold the tail.

Otherwise it will slip away.

Should I break the tail off?

No, no. First the head.

No, you need to do it again.

We'll take a new one.

Like this.

We'll find a good one.

You hold it by the head.

And then you pull.

Powerful!

And then the tail.

Do the same.

Can I take the tail off?

No, we'll take a few more.

Then we'll take the long tails.

Like this?

Yes, powerful.

Then you take the head off.

And then the ribs.

We'll take them off too.

Like this.

The rips.

Look how nice they are.

I'll take one more.

Did you get the head off?

It's a bit hard.

Like this.

One in the mouth.

It doesn't smell good.

It doesn't smell good? Try it.

In your mouth.

I'll try it.

It's good.

It's not bad, is it?

Yes, it tastes good.

Have you ever been to France?

No.

What's a marriage certificate?

A marriage certificate?

Well...

A marriage certificate is when two people get married.

Then they bring what they have in the marriage.

In the house they move into.

And then there's something that their grandmother or grandfather wants to give them.

Because that's something they want all their lives.

And then they write on a piece of paper what it is.

Do you also have a personal ID?

A personal ID?

Yes.

Let me see if I remember mine.

68755.

That's my personal number.

What's yours?

I don't remember.

You have to remember your personal ID.

You can't go through life without having a personal ID.

Remember it.

People often ask me what my personal ID is.

Say it again.

I can't remember.

68755.

Number two.

That's a good number.

Or number five.

- Five is a nice number. - Eight is good.

Say your lucky number.

Mine is 2812.

Then you can have it.

2812.

When someone asks you what your personal ID is, you say 2812.

Yes.

Very nice.

It's going well.

Do you want more?

No.

Why did you ask what a marriage certificate is?

I found one in my dad's closet.

They had a marriage certificate.

A marriage certificate?

Why do they need one?

It's a lot of different things.

What do you think took your dad into the house?

What's your dad's and what's your mom's?

I don't know.

I think they bought furniture together.

They have to share it.

I think it's dad's desk.

It's dad's desk, right?

Yes.

He has to have it if something happens.

That's practical.

You need it in case.

Are you married?

No, you know I'm not.

Who's that guy?

A boy I know.

What's he like?

He's a little boy who visits me.

With his mom.

Just like you.

You could meet him.

You could do that.

That would be nice.

Would you want that?

Where do you think I will live?

I'll stay with mom and dad.

That's for sure.

I don't live with them.

I don't live with my real parents.

You don't? I always thought you did.

My real mother lives in a castle.

There's a big park next to it.

With 20 acres of land.

And there are lions running around.

I have my own little lion.

And I take care of myself.

There are elephants and giraffes.

And crocodiles in a little river.

There's gold and silver in the castle.

And I have three bedrooms.

Three bedrooms?

I'd have a good night's sleep.

And I have a lot of money.

I don't want to spend my money.

If it was mine, I'd spend it all day.

I don't want to.

Once a year, there's a horse race.

We ride around in the park.

And we ride to the city.

And buy different things.

And go to the doctor.

We visit the prime minister the most.

Or we have tea with the queen.

I don't live there anymore.

Why not?

Because the countess got me

when her husband was away.

And that wasn't so good.

Then I couldn't be with mom anymore.

What does your mother look like?

She has black hair.

And a light red dress with braids.

And a pretty skirt.

What are you wearing?

You don't have long pants.

I have a sailor's dress.

And white socks.

And a hat.

We ride around in our horse carriage.

And in it, there's gold.

What if you don't want to play with all the lions?

And run around in the park?

Then we'll find something else.

Don't you want to learn anything?

And not go to school?

Then a teacher will come.

If I want to.

We don't go to school that much.

It's been a long time since I've been last.

Are you sure you're not going to visit them again?

No, because I live with them now.

Everyone thinks they are my real parents.

I've tried to ride on a lion once.

But it's not easy.

Don't they know you?

My parents?

No, when you ride on the lions.

Yes.

They know me well.

What if you fall and hit yourself?

It's not high, because they are little ones.

You can't hurt yourself and there's grass all over.

Hi, Stine. How are you?

Come and sit with me.

I'll put a chair here.

So what is it all about?

First of all, I want to express myself.

But at the same time, I wonder if I'm too egocentric.

How many people are in favour of that?

You have to be egocentric.

You're the only one, I think.

Don't you want anything?

Go inside and get it.

And put on some water, so we can have coffee.

But that's for the poor.

Yes, but at the same time, I wonder...

Now I want the other arm.

Yes, Stine, of course you shouldn't do anything with that arm.

Ouch!

Ouch! It hurts. Damn it!

I need more water.

Not so much.

What are you doing?

I'm not doing anything.

Then what are you doing?

I'm not doing anything. What are you doing here?

Are you making fun of me?

We're allowed to be here.

I'm not.

You're making fun of me.

Get out of here.

We think you're making fun of us.

Get out of here and leave me alone.

No, we're allowed to be here.

I don't want to talk to you.

I need some water.

Get out of here.

You're a little bitch.

You're a little bitch.

Ouch! It hurts.

Don't hit me.

You're so fat.

What's up with you? You're so fat.

I'm not going out with you.

Then get out.

I'm not going out with you.

Get out.

I don't want to be here.

It's okay.

It's not just your fault.

You look like shit.

What?

Are you deaf?

Let's just pretend she doesn't see us.

She's so stupid.

Don't you want to go downstairs?

Yes.

Do you want to do something?

No.

Okay.

Okay, I'll be dead.

Then maybe they got something else to think about.

I don't know why they're so sad.

The guitar.

I have to get rid of it.

And my doll, too.

Who's going to sleep with it?

Maria, I guess.

Or maybe Thomas will sleep with it.

My posters are going to have Sanne and Thomas.

Luna is going to have something, too.

Aunt Kristine in Canada is going to be sad.

Who needs my money?

How would it look if a street had my name?

Well, screw it.

- Stine. - Yes?

Come here, please.

Sit down, honey.

I heard you say that that your mother and I are going to get divorced.

You won't?

Stine.

Tell me, do you know what that word means?

What does it mean? Explain it to me.

It's when two people get married and then they leave each other again.

Well, It's not as simple as you think it is.

Can't you understand that we've lived together for many years?

What do you think people think of us if we suddenly leave each other?

There has to be a reason for two people to leave each other.

People can be unfriendly and can't stand each other.

You don't see that here at home, do you?

You just see us together every single day and we have a good time together, right?

We have a good time.

Yes, excellent.

You have to understand that if the girls in school tell other people about a divorce...

If they hear at work that I'm going to get a divorce,

and everything I do and build on that people should expect them to trust me

and that I'm a stable man who is happy for his wife,

then you can't do anything about it.

Can't you understand what it means, Stine?

Why do I have a marriage certificate?

A marriage certificate?

What do you know about that?

A marriage certificate?

You can see what you're getting yourself into, can't you?

Mom and dad have a marriage certificate.

Why?

How did you find out that we have a marriage certificate?

Have you been to my desk?

No.

You must have been.

Have you been to my desk?

Have you been in the papers?

Yes.

How the hell do you know that?

There are also some of my papers.

Some of your papers?

What are some of your papers?

There's nothing in this house that's yours.

I'm in charge here.

In that area.

You know that very well.

The most important thing in life is that when you're about to give birth,

and it suddenly starts to roll around,

you can't just let it roll down.

It's normal.

All over the world.

You can't just let it roll around.

You have to be prepared.

You can't just let it roll around like that.

You can't just let it roll around like that.

You know that as well as I do.

And I'm telling you this for the last time.

Can't you understand that?

I know you're not...

You're not married because you want me.

Can't you just forgive me?

Many people do that.

There's nothing wrong with that.

Tell her what it is that many people do.

Let her explain it all from the beginning.

How the hell do you know about marriage?

You got married because you got me?

Because we got you?

That was...

We were already married when we got you.

Why would you think that?

I don't think that's...

Can I just have a moment?

It's just...

Don't ask questions.

I'll just tell you one thing.

Can I just have a moment?

Why should my father get involved?

I'll have to keep your father out of this.

Remember one thing.

When there are important papers in this house, I get them.

Because I'm the father of the house.

I put them in my closet and in my drawer.

And they stay there.

And if in the future, my dear,

you have to lock your drawers,

because you can't trust your own daughter,

then it's sad.

But that's how it is now.

And if you want to hear more stories, ask me first.

I'm also good at making up stories.

Your children don't belong to you.

They are sons and daughters of the longing of life itself.

They come through you, but not from you.

No matter how beautiful they are to you, they don't belong to you.

You can give them your love, but not your thoughts.

Because they have their own thoughts.

You can house their...

You can house their bodies, but not their souls.

Because their souls are in the land of tomorrow, which you can't visit, even in your dreams.

You can strive to resemble them, but don't try to make them like you.

Because life doesn't go back and doesn't dare to go forward.