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I'm, like, four minutes away. 9 00:00:32,275 --> 00:00:34,177 Don't do it. -You know what? 10 00:00:34,277 --> 00:00:36,079 I am gonna do it because how are you this unprofessional? 11 00:00:36,179 --> 00:00:38,114 How are you not at your job on time? 12 00:00:38,214 --> 00:00:40,116 -Well, I was dealing with the baby. 13 00:00:40,216 --> 00:00:41,918 It's her birthday today, so... 14 00:00:42,018 --> 00:00:43,853 -Don't try to pull on my heartstrings. 15 00:00:43,953 --> 00:00:45,488 Don't do that. Don't do that. 16 00:00:45,588 --> 00:00:47,223 You knew that girl's birthday was coming 17 00:00:47,323 --> 00:00:49,459 and you knew I was coming. Don't do it. 18 00:00:49,559 --> 00:00:55,031 Had me fly across the world for him to not be on time. 19 00:00:55,131 --> 00:00:58,167 "It's my daughter's birthday. Wah-wah-wah." 20 00:00:58,267 --> 00:01:01,904 -Oh, my goodness, she's here. [ Laughs ] 21 00:01:02,004 --> 00:01:04,874 How lucky am I? 22 00:01:04,974 --> 00:01:06,442 Well, shit! 23 00:01:06,542 --> 00:01:09,011 Who the fuck...? No, don't you get up. 24 00:01:09,112 --> 00:01:10,313 Damn. -What is wrong with -- 25 00:01:10,413 --> 00:01:13,049 -What they put in this chair? Butter? 26 00:01:13,149 --> 00:01:15,284 -What is -- What is wrong with you? 27 00:01:15,385 --> 00:01:17,019 Hi. -[ Indistinct ] happy. 28 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:18,921 -Do we have to walk in? 29 00:01:19,021 --> 00:01:21,124 Do we walk in from over here? -Alright, guys. Let's do it. 30 00:01:21,224 --> 00:01:23,559 -No, seriously, what do I do? -Stand over there. 31 00:01:23,659 --> 00:01:25,628 God damn, Niecy. 32 00:01:25,728 --> 00:01:29,766 ** 33 00:01:29,866 --> 00:01:32,935 Here we are again, out of our Hartbeat Studios in Atlanta. 34 00:01:33,035 --> 00:01:34,904 We're out of west coast wine cellar. 35 00:01:35,004 --> 00:01:36,139 I'm not mad about that one bit, 36 00:01:36,239 --> 00:01:37,473 because when life gets busy, 37 00:01:37,573 --> 00:01:39,308 well, you gotta take it on the road, 38 00:01:39,409 --> 00:01:41,244 and no one knows that better than my next guest. 39 00:01:41,344 --> 00:01:43,246 Guys, she's always breaking new ground 40 00:01:43,346 --> 00:01:45,481 and redefining herself in the roles that she takes on, 41 00:01:45,581 --> 00:01:47,817 and she crushes it every single time. 42 00:01:47,917 --> 00:01:50,086 We're about to find out how she does and why she does it. 43 00:01:50,186 --> 00:01:51,320 I'm gonna get the secret sauce, 44 00:01:51,421 --> 00:01:53,256 because that's what I do here. 45 00:01:53,356 --> 00:01:55,324 Guys, she's got Day and Primetime Emmys, 46 00:01:55,425 --> 00:01:58,961 Image Awards, Gracie wins, too many nominations to mention. 47 00:01:59,062 --> 00:02:01,497 Comedienne, author, actress, advocate, wife, mother. 48 00:02:01,597 --> 00:02:04,100 I can go on and on, but what she is to me 49 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,202 is the person with a heart of platinum. 50 00:02:06,302 --> 00:02:08,404 Oh, my God, how do I do it? 51 00:02:08,504 --> 00:02:11,207 Sometimes the intros just find themselves. 52 00:02:11,307 --> 00:02:14,010 Most read, I just go off the cuff. 53 00:02:14,110 --> 00:02:16,145 Guys, please welcome my friend, 54 00:02:16,245 --> 00:02:20,083 a multi-layered and multi-talented individual, 55 00:02:20,183 --> 00:02:21,951 Ms. Niecy Nash Betts. 56 00:02:22,051 --> 00:02:23,486 How did I do? Huh? Did you see that? 57 00:02:23,586 --> 00:02:25,354 -I saw it. -A lot of people prep. 58 00:02:25,455 --> 00:02:28,024 -[ Laughs ] You obviously don't. 59 00:02:28,124 --> 00:02:29,559 -Well, I don't. 60 00:02:29,659 --> 00:02:31,494 That's what it is, that's why -- Listen, 61 00:02:31,594 --> 00:02:33,963 when I bring you on here, it's all raw and uncut. 62 00:02:34,063 --> 00:02:35,398 -Come on, raw and uncut. 63 00:02:35,498 --> 00:02:37,366 -You in a world of authenticity, okay? 64 00:02:37,467 --> 00:02:39,302 Niecy, before we do anything, 65 00:02:39,402 --> 00:02:41,404 I'm gonna explain to you why we do what we do here. 66 00:02:41,504 --> 00:02:43,306 You know, why it's gonna be great for you. 67 00:02:43,406 --> 00:02:45,041 -Okay. -First of all, we talk. 68 00:02:45,141 --> 00:02:47,243 We talk for real. 69 00:02:47,343 --> 00:02:49,112 We engage over a glass of wine, 70 00:02:49,212 --> 00:02:50,680 and I know that that's good for you, 71 00:02:50,780 --> 00:02:53,082 because I know how much you like to drink. 72 00:02:53,182 --> 00:02:55,184 -[ Laughs ] -So here... 73 00:02:55,284 --> 00:02:58,321 Here, we're gonna tap into that happy space. 74 00:02:58,421 --> 00:03:00,957 Show the world what I've seen for so long, 75 00:03:01,057 --> 00:03:02,759 which is the dope energy. 76 00:03:02,859 --> 00:03:07,430 More importantly, the reason, the why behind your efforts, 77 00:03:07,530 --> 00:03:10,767 and why you're just getting started, right? 78 00:03:10,867 --> 00:03:13,870 Like, I hear you talk, I hear the ambition that you talk with, 79 00:03:13,970 --> 00:03:16,139 and on "Hart to Heart," it's all about flowers. 80 00:03:16,239 --> 00:03:18,541 It's about giving the flowers 81 00:03:18,641 --> 00:03:20,610 that should be given in real-time, 82 00:03:20,710 --> 00:03:22,912 and, you know, show my love and support for those 83 00:03:23,012 --> 00:03:24,414 that I not only know, 84 00:03:24,514 --> 00:03:27,850 but those that I am motivated by, inspired by. 85 00:03:27,950 --> 00:03:29,485 You are one of those people, 86 00:03:29,585 --> 00:03:30,987 although I give you a lot of shit when we talk. 87 00:03:31,087 --> 00:03:33,022 -You do. -You really are. 88 00:03:33,122 --> 00:03:35,058 Your energy is, like, contagious, 89 00:03:35,158 --> 00:03:37,126 and it's truly, like, one-of-a-kind. 90 00:03:37,226 --> 00:03:38,294 So I can't wait. -Thank you, Kevin. 91 00:03:38,394 --> 00:03:39,929 I'm not used to you being sincere. 92 00:03:40,029 --> 00:03:41,531 -Well, this is why you're here! Because I wanna do it-- 93 00:03:41,631 --> 00:03:43,299 -I'm not used to you being sincere, now. 94 00:03:43,399 --> 00:03:44,801 Who are you? -I just told you. 95 00:03:44,901 --> 00:03:48,037 -What is going on? -I told you what this is about. 96 00:03:48,137 --> 00:03:49,939 -Okay. -This is different. 97 00:03:50,039 --> 00:03:52,742 This is me actually doing what I should do on the normal, 98 00:03:52,842 --> 00:03:55,211 but if I did it too much then you would take advantage of it 99 00:03:55,311 --> 00:03:56,546 and expect it all the time. -Okay. 100 00:03:56,646 --> 00:04:00,950 Before you do it, I just wanna say, 101 00:04:01,050 --> 00:04:05,455 because you're rich, I was expecting better craft services. 102 00:04:05,555 --> 00:04:08,558 You got chips and cookies and stuff. 103 00:04:08,658 --> 00:04:10,359 I say where is the caviar? -Niecy. Niecy. 104 00:04:10,460 --> 00:04:11,994 -Where's the -- You know what I mean? 105 00:04:12,095 --> 00:04:13,496 Where's the pâté? 106 00:04:13,596 --> 00:04:15,064 Where are all the beautiful things? 107 00:04:15,164 --> 00:04:16,232 And you know what I was told? 108 00:04:16,332 --> 00:04:18,167 "Locked up in your dressing room." 109 00:04:18,267 --> 00:04:19,635 That's what I was told. 110 00:04:19,736 --> 00:04:21,537 I just wanted to get that out of the way 111 00:04:21,637 --> 00:04:24,273 before we start to have this "Hart to Heart" talk. 112 00:04:24,373 --> 00:04:28,144 -Niecy, the show is not about craft services. 113 00:04:28,244 --> 00:04:29,779 It's about conversation. -Oh. 114 00:04:29,879 --> 00:04:32,415 -I don't need you back there snacking and getting sleepy. 115 00:04:32,515 --> 00:04:35,752 I need you out here for a fresh, refined, and, like -- 116 00:04:35,852 --> 00:04:38,287 -And drunk. So when are we gonna get to this part? 117 00:04:38,388 --> 00:04:39,989 -We are. You know, let me call up my somm, okay? 118 00:04:40,089 --> 00:04:41,657 D, come on out, man. 119 00:04:41,758 --> 00:04:44,494 This is DLynn, who does an amazing job 120 00:04:44,594 --> 00:04:48,664 of positioning us with some of the best wine, 121 00:04:48,765 --> 00:04:50,800 great tasting wine, great conversation wine, 122 00:04:50,900 --> 00:04:52,869 and he always accommodates the guests. 123 00:04:52,969 --> 00:04:58,608 -I actually played his mother in a movie that was about him. 124 00:04:58,708 --> 00:05:01,444 It was called "Uncorked," Kevin. Have you read my résumé? 125 00:05:01,544 --> 00:05:04,013 -Okay. I'm thinking you talking about him, okay? 126 00:05:04,113 --> 00:05:06,182 But I get what you did there. -You see what I did there? 127 00:05:06,282 --> 00:05:07,650 -Yes, I see what you did there. 128 00:05:07,750 --> 00:05:09,886 That was very good, that was actually very good. 129 00:05:09,986 --> 00:05:11,654 I was about to say, "What the fuck? You didn't tell me this?" 130 00:05:11,754 --> 00:05:15,158 -That's the heart. -[ Indistinct ] 131 00:05:15,258 --> 00:05:16,626 Alright, what are we drinking today? 132 00:05:16,726 --> 00:05:18,261 -I've got some red for you, of course, Mr. Hart. 133 00:05:18,361 --> 00:05:20,029 I'll get into that in one second. 134 00:05:20,129 --> 00:05:21,964 But Mrs. Nash Betts, 135 00:05:22,065 --> 00:05:24,567 and incredible Chardonnay from the Pacific Northwest. 136 00:05:24,667 --> 00:05:27,870 We're talking Oregon, Willamette Valley. 137 00:05:27,970 --> 00:05:31,441 But more specifically, the Chehalem mountain range AVA. 138 00:05:31,541 --> 00:05:33,710 An incredible Chardonnay dual vineyard. 139 00:05:33,810 --> 00:05:36,145 I mean, this exquisite 2020 vintage. 140 00:05:36,245 --> 00:05:37,613 -That's where the money went. 141 00:05:37,714 --> 00:05:40,316 You worried about some damn pâté, okay? 142 00:05:40,416 --> 00:05:43,886 I put it in the glass. That's where it's at. 143 00:05:43,986 --> 00:05:47,190 Give her a light pour. -You know what? Relax. 144 00:05:47,290 --> 00:05:49,325 Am I supposed to check the legs? 145 00:05:49,425 --> 00:05:51,461 -What? -Of course you can, absolutely. 146 00:05:51,561 --> 00:05:53,062 Give it a good swirl, let it aerate, 147 00:05:53,162 --> 00:05:56,332 and it's gonna open up in the glass and you can enjoy. 148 00:05:56,432 --> 00:05:58,034 -You know what, Kevin? Don't hate. 149 00:05:58,134 --> 00:05:59,502 -No, I like it. I like how -- 150 00:05:59,602 --> 00:06:02,238 Why did you lean in like this? [ Laughter ] 151 00:06:02,338 --> 00:06:03,806 "Check the legs." 152 00:06:03,906 --> 00:06:05,875 -'Cause I didn't know if he was gonna do it for me. 153 00:06:05,975 --> 00:06:08,411 -What do I got? -And of course, Mr Hart, 154 00:06:08,511 --> 00:06:10,012 we're leaving the Pacific Northwest, 155 00:06:10,113 --> 00:06:13,549 and we're going down to the South of France, St. Tropez. 156 00:06:13,649 --> 00:06:17,887 Specifically about 20 kilometers just west. 157 00:06:17,987 --> 00:06:22,458 A blend of Grenache, Syrah, and Mourvedre. 158 00:06:22,558 --> 00:06:26,696 -Mourvedre. Yes. -[ Laughs ] 159 00:06:26,796 --> 00:06:31,000 -Yes. Yes, yes, yes. -Both of you, please enjoy. 160 00:06:31,100 --> 00:06:32,168 Cheers. -Cheers. 161 00:06:32,268 --> 00:06:34,570 -Salut. -Salut. 162 00:06:34,670 --> 00:06:36,372 I know where I wanna start. 163 00:06:36,472 --> 00:06:37,907 I know where I wanna start talking to you. 164 00:06:38,007 --> 00:06:42,445 And, you know... I gotta start off by talking 165 00:06:42,545 --> 00:06:44,080 about your household, your upbringing. 166 00:06:44,180 --> 00:06:51,120 You know, I've heard you, a couple of times now, you know, 167 00:06:51,220 --> 00:06:52,789 speaking from the stage 168 00:06:52,889 --> 00:06:56,726 after receiving said mentioned awards in the beginning. 169 00:06:56,826 --> 00:06:59,228 One thing you've always referred back to is how you were raised, 170 00:06:59,328 --> 00:07:00,963 how you were brought up, 171 00:07:01,064 --> 00:07:03,566 and there's a high sense of spirituality, right? 172 00:07:03,666 --> 00:07:06,069 There's a high sense of just being in touch 173 00:07:06,169 --> 00:07:07,670 with a higher power. 174 00:07:07,770 --> 00:07:11,240 Were you raised in, like, a real, real, 175 00:07:11,340 --> 00:07:14,077 like, firm church upbringing, or...? 176 00:07:14,177 --> 00:07:18,414 -No. I found my way to church on my own, you know what I mean? 177 00:07:18,514 --> 00:07:23,152 But my parents had me in their early 20s, 178 00:07:23,252 --> 00:07:27,590 and you know how you do when you play "break up to make up." 179 00:07:27,690 --> 00:07:29,826 So my daddy kept chasing my mama wherever she went 180 00:07:29,926 --> 00:07:32,361 until she finally came back to California. 181 00:07:32,462 --> 00:07:34,530 I was born in California, 182 00:07:34,630 --> 00:07:36,866 but she went back to St. Louis 183 00:07:36,966 --> 00:07:39,368 'cause my daddy was getting on her nerves. 184 00:07:39,469 --> 00:07:41,404 He came back and got her, 185 00:07:41,504 --> 00:07:43,172 brought us all back to California. 186 00:07:43,272 --> 00:07:47,410 And this is where -- I mean, that is where I was raised, 187 00:07:47,510 --> 00:07:49,612 but it was a neighbor of mine 188 00:07:49,712 --> 00:07:52,315 that used to go to church every Sunday. 189 00:07:52,415 --> 00:07:54,250 And I said, "Can I go?" 190 00:07:54,350 --> 00:07:55,785 And the lady said yes, 191 00:07:55,885 --> 00:07:58,788 and I started going to church with my older neighbor. 192 00:07:58,888 --> 00:08:03,526 But, unfortunately, I couldn't go to the 11:00 AM service 193 00:08:03,626 --> 00:08:05,194 because that's where the youth went. 194 00:08:05,294 --> 00:08:09,832 I had to go to old folks church at 8:00 in the morning. 195 00:08:09,932 --> 00:08:12,735 So I was the youngest one singing in the choir, 196 00:08:12,835 --> 00:08:15,905 and, you know, I walked down the church, 197 00:08:16,005 --> 00:08:19,175 and dedicated my life while I was at church by myself, 198 00:08:19,275 --> 00:08:22,145 none of my family were there. 199 00:08:22,245 --> 00:08:28,151 So that's where the spiritual part of me 200 00:08:28,251 --> 00:08:30,219 began to develop. 201 00:08:30,319 --> 00:08:31,788 -Why entertainment? 202 00:08:31,888 --> 00:08:35,658 Why, you know, the entry of comedy, et cetera? 203 00:08:35,758 --> 00:08:37,293 -Well, okay. 204 00:08:37,393 --> 00:08:38,895 How it started was, 205 00:08:38,995 --> 00:08:40,430 I was watching television with my grandmother, 206 00:08:40,530 --> 00:08:41,898 and I was five years old. 207 00:08:41,998 --> 00:08:44,000 I saw the most gorgeous Black woman 208 00:08:44,100 --> 00:08:47,203 I had ever seen in my little five years of living. 209 00:08:47,303 --> 00:08:48,671 She had on a long, red dress, 210 00:08:48,771 --> 00:08:50,873 and her eyelashes looked like butterflies. 211 00:08:50,973 --> 00:08:52,809 I said, "Grandmama, who is that?" 212 00:08:52,909 --> 00:08:54,677 Now, Grandmama smoked a cigarette on a filter, you know, 213 00:08:54,777 --> 00:08:56,679 so it was way out here. -That's one of the fancy ones. 214 00:08:56,779 --> 00:08:58,848 -Yeah. -That's the long stick. 215 00:08:58,948 --> 00:09:01,350 -Yeah, a gold filter and then the cigarette is at the end. 216 00:09:01,451 --> 00:09:03,586 She said, "Baby, that's Lola Falana." 217 00:09:03,686 --> 00:09:05,755 And in that moment, 218 00:09:05,855 --> 00:09:08,591 I feel like my destiny was stamped on the canvas 219 00:09:08,691 --> 00:09:09,892 of my imagination. 220 00:09:09,992 --> 00:09:11,360 I look at my grandmother and I go, 221 00:09:11,461 --> 00:09:12,729 "That's what I wanna be. 222 00:09:12,829 --> 00:09:15,832 Black, fabulous, and on TV." 223 00:09:15,932 --> 00:09:18,868 And so I stopped answering to my name. 224 00:09:18,968 --> 00:09:21,704 If you didn't call me "Lola," you were not talking to me. 225 00:09:21,804 --> 00:09:24,340 And my first talent was to take two phone books 226 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,942 and stack them together, 227 00:09:26,042 --> 00:09:27,810 and then I would turn around in the circle, 228 00:09:27,910 --> 00:09:30,713 and finish, ah, with my hand on my hip. 229 00:09:30,813 --> 00:09:34,083 And my grandfather would go, "Oh, look at her." 230 00:09:34,183 --> 00:09:36,552 That's all I needed. "Oh, look at that." 231 00:09:36,652 --> 00:09:40,189 And so, I knew this is the call of my life. 232 00:09:40,289 --> 00:09:41,858 But comedy, 233 00:09:41,958 --> 00:09:44,560 I did not know because I did not know it was a gift. 234 00:09:44,660 --> 00:09:48,731 I got pinched in church for cutting up. 235 00:09:48,831 --> 00:09:50,433 "Talks too much" on a report card. 236 00:09:50,533 --> 00:09:51,768 "Well, what were you talking about?" 237 00:09:51,868 --> 00:09:53,736 "I was telling jokes." 238 00:09:53,836 --> 00:09:55,605 "Get the belt. I got a joke for you." You know? 239 00:09:55,705 --> 00:09:58,408 So it was never -- I didn't know it was a thing 240 00:09:58,508 --> 00:10:02,111 until my brother was murdered in '93, 241 00:10:02,211 --> 00:10:04,447 and my mother went into this depression. 242 00:10:04,547 --> 00:10:07,417 She said, "I'm getting into bed and I'm never getting back up." 243 00:10:07,517 --> 00:10:09,585 And I didn't know what to do, 244 00:10:09,685 --> 00:10:12,488 but I knew I could make my mama laugh. 245 00:10:12,588 --> 00:10:14,157 -How old were you at the time? 246 00:10:14,257 --> 00:10:17,193 -My brother was murdered the day before my 23rd birthday. 247 00:10:17,293 --> 00:10:18,928 -Wow. 248 00:10:19,028 --> 00:10:23,433 -And I stood at the foot of that bed and did my bit, 249 00:10:23,533 --> 00:10:25,468 and I did it everyday. 250 00:10:25,568 --> 00:10:29,472 Then one day I come in to do my bit and my mama not in the bed. 251 00:10:29,572 --> 00:10:31,474 "We're in here!" I'm like, "Who is we?" 252 00:10:31,574 --> 00:10:34,711 "Well, I went across the street and got Ms. Brown and Ms. Sadie 253 00:10:34,811 --> 00:10:36,913 and I told 'em you was funny. 254 00:10:37,013 --> 00:10:38,848 Get up there and tell these people some jokes." 255 00:10:38,948 --> 00:10:40,550 And I was like, "Wait, what?" 256 00:10:40,650 --> 00:10:42,618 And then, that was when, 257 00:10:42,719 --> 00:10:44,854 'cause I couldn't pay anybody to get me a job. 258 00:10:44,954 --> 00:10:47,457 I wanted to do "Roots" Part 6 259 00:10:47,557 --> 00:10:49,125 and play the lead slave, you know? 260 00:10:49,225 --> 00:10:52,795 I thought it was gonna all be the drama of it all. 261 00:10:52,895 --> 00:10:55,932 And when I was standing up there 262 00:10:56,032 --> 00:10:58,701 performing for the neighbors and my mom, 263 00:10:58,801 --> 00:11:01,571 I heard a voice as audible as my own say, 264 00:11:01,671 --> 00:11:03,306 "Niecy, don't be a selfish heffa." 265 00:11:03,406 --> 00:11:05,241 I don't know if that's how the Lord talk to other folk, 266 00:11:05,341 --> 00:11:06,676 but that what He said to me. -That's how He talked to you. 267 00:11:06,776 --> 00:11:08,478 "Don't be a selfish heffa. 268 00:11:08,578 --> 00:11:09,879 Go outside and spread this around." 269 00:11:09,979 --> 00:11:11,647 So I went outside and I was like, 270 00:11:11,748 --> 00:11:13,216 "My name's Niecy Nash and I'm funny." 271 00:11:13,316 --> 00:11:15,752 And people were like, "Yes, you are, little girl. 272 00:11:15,852 --> 00:11:17,653 Come on over here and get this job." 273 00:11:17,754 --> 00:11:20,923 So because that's where the industry met me, 274 00:11:21,023 --> 00:11:23,326 it took a long time for them to see me 275 00:11:23,426 --> 00:11:25,328 as anything other than that. 276 00:11:25,428 --> 00:11:26,729 -It was a discovery for you. 277 00:11:26,829 --> 00:11:27,864 You feel like the comedy was a discovery? 278 00:11:27,964 --> 00:11:29,766 -As a gift. -Okay. 279 00:11:29,866 --> 00:11:32,101 -I knew I was funny, but I didn't think it was a job. 280 00:11:32,201 --> 00:11:34,270 -Niecy, an amazing conversation we're having, 281 00:11:34,370 --> 00:11:37,540 but I gotta stop you because we gotta go pay some bills. 282 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:39,108 Guys, don't go anywhere. 283 00:11:39,208 --> 00:11:41,044 We'll be back with more "Hart to Heart" after this. 284 00:11:41,144 --> 00:11:43,346 We're talking to Niecy Nash Betts. 285 00:11:43,446 --> 00:11:46,115 -You know, I have to say... 286 00:11:46,215 --> 00:11:48,618 I would've thought, you know, Kevin is so rich, like, 287 00:11:48,718 --> 00:11:49,919 where's the caviar? 288 00:11:50,019 --> 00:11:53,790 Where's the pâté? Where is the...? 289 00:11:53,890 --> 00:11:55,758 -That's all in his dressing room. 290 00:11:55,858 --> 00:11:57,727 That's locked. -And that's terrible. 291 00:11:57,827 --> 00:11:58,895 -I know. -That's terrible. 292 00:11:58,995 --> 00:12:00,563 And look, look what we got. 293 00:12:00,663 --> 00:12:02,331 Cookies. 294 00:12:02,432 --> 00:12:03,566 Mm-mm-mm-mm. 295 00:12:03,666 --> 00:12:09,105 ** 296 00:12:13,543 --> 00:12:17,947 ** 297 00:12:18,047 --> 00:12:19,882 -So, I don't have to tell you that, 298 00:12:19,982 --> 00:12:23,286 but just you to be [indistinct] while you're here. 299 00:12:23,386 --> 00:12:25,788 [Indistinct] fucking flowers, so don't be an asshole. 300 00:12:25,888 --> 00:12:27,256 -I just came to pick up my money. 301 00:12:27,356 --> 00:12:28,925 -'Cause I'll take it back. -I just came to -- 302 00:12:29,025 --> 00:12:31,127 -I don't fucking care. Come on, let's go. 303 00:12:31,227 --> 00:12:34,163 Let's go. Welcome back to "Hart to Heart." 304 00:12:34,263 --> 00:12:36,332 We're talking to Niecy Nash Betts. 305 00:12:36,432 --> 00:12:37,967 So where were we? 306 00:12:38,067 --> 00:12:40,136 I've heard you talk about your brother before, 307 00:12:40,236 --> 00:12:44,207 so I'm not gonna act as if I'm a stranger to that information. 308 00:12:44,307 --> 00:12:47,076 What I've always been most intrigued by is 309 00:12:47,176 --> 00:12:49,011 how openly you discussed it, 310 00:12:49,112 --> 00:12:51,514 talked about how it was a motivation factor, 311 00:12:51,614 --> 00:12:53,282 how you used it, 312 00:12:53,383 --> 00:12:56,986 how, you know, you were able to find strength in that moment, 313 00:12:57,086 --> 00:12:58,821 and, you know, others around you. 314 00:12:58,921 --> 00:13:01,157 Hearing you now talk about your mom, 315 00:13:01,257 --> 00:13:04,594 your mom being in that moment and you pulling her out of it. 316 00:13:04,694 --> 00:13:06,429 As you make these decisions, 317 00:13:06,529 --> 00:13:09,098 you know, the one thing that I think we always want, 318 00:13:09,198 --> 00:13:10,933 or one thing that we always look for, 319 00:13:11,033 --> 00:13:12,435 is support, especially from our loved ones. 320 00:13:12,535 --> 00:13:16,005 How fast did that support come, or did it not come, 321 00:13:16,105 --> 00:13:19,108 in the early stages for you when making the choice? 322 00:13:19,208 --> 00:13:23,746 -No, it didn't come. It didn't come early at all, because, 323 00:13:23,846 --> 00:13:27,917 you know, my mother came from a time 324 00:13:28,017 --> 00:13:30,920 where... "pick something practical," 325 00:13:31,020 --> 00:13:32,488 you know what I mean? 326 00:13:32,588 --> 00:13:35,925 "You're kind-hearted. You should go into nursing." 327 00:13:36,025 --> 00:13:39,695 I said no. -I love how fast you go into -- 328 00:13:39,796 --> 00:13:43,099 I love, like, there's not a moment 329 00:13:43,199 --> 00:13:45,701 of, like -- you don't count. 330 00:13:45,802 --> 00:13:48,404 There's not, like, a "one, two." 331 00:13:48,504 --> 00:13:52,775 It's just a little tilt and you're in it. 332 00:13:52,875 --> 00:13:54,410 -I've known her my whole life, yes. 333 00:13:54,510 --> 00:13:57,380 -See, right there, you just did it again that fast. 334 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:59,849 One of the quickest segues I've ever seen in my life. 335 00:13:59,949 --> 00:14:02,185 Go ahead. -So she just was like, 336 00:14:02,285 --> 00:14:04,120 you know, "You gotta finish school. 337 00:14:04,220 --> 00:14:06,789 You gotta, you know what I mean, maybe pick something, 338 00:14:06,889 --> 00:14:09,225 have a backup plan," you know? 339 00:14:09,325 --> 00:14:13,062 And then she saw me in an acting competition, 340 00:14:13,162 --> 00:14:17,834 and after she saw that, she said, 341 00:14:17,934 --> 00:14:19,836 "Now, that girl is good." 342 00:14:19,936 --> 00:14:22,105 And then she was like, "I'm with it. 343 00:14:22,205 --> 00:14:25,942 I see what you're trying to do, and how can I help you?" 344 00:14:26,042 --> 00:14:27,810 -What acted as your first big break? 345 00:14:27,910 --> 00:14:29,479 -My first big break? -Yes. 346 00:14:29,579 --> 00:14:33,116 -My first big break was a movie called "Boys on the Side," 347 00:14:33,216 --> 00:14:35,585 with Whoopi Goldberg and Drew Barrymore, 348 00:14:35,685 --> 00:14:39,322 and a very undiscovered, at the time, Matthew McConaughey. 349 00:14:39,422 --> 00:14:43,459 And I did not know enough to know 350 00:14:43,559 --> 00:14:47,096 that you can't just pick up the phone and call somebody 351 00:14:47,196 --> 00:14:48,965 and tell them to get you a job. 352 00:14:49,065 --> 00:14:50,800 So I met this guy at a workshop, 353 00:14:50,900 --> 00:14:52,268 and I called him up and I was like, 354 00:14:52,368 --> 00:14:54,670 "Hey, you said I was funny," you know? 355 00:14:54,771 --> 00:14:58,741 "Why won't you be responsible for my introduction to Hollywood 356 00:14:58,841 --> 00:15:00,243 and hook a sister up?" 357 00:15:00,343 --> 00:15:02,211 I said, "I'm broke, I got a baby, and I need a job." 358 00:15:02,311 --> 00:15:05,548 'Cause I was doing what my mother and father were doing, 359 00:15:05,648 --> 00:15:08,217 break up to make up, with my then-husband. 360 00:15:08,317 --> 00:15:10,586 So the guy said, "Be down here at 3:00." 361 00:15:10,686 --> 00:15:15,525 I went down to CBS. -That's so you in being forward 362 00:15:15,625 --> 00:15:19,629 in what you wanna do, why you wanna do it. 363 00:15:19,729 --> 00:15:20,997 That's very much on-brand. 364 00:15:21,097 --> 00:15:22,632 -So I just called him and he said, 365 00:15:22,732 --> 00:15:23,833 "Come down here at 3:00." 366 00:15:23,933 --> 00:15:25,334 -Like a bully? -Kind of. 367 00:15:25,435 --> 00:15:29,906 -Yeah. Just to put context and a word on it. 368 00:15:30,006 --> 00:15:32,175 -Self-assured, Kevin. -Or bully. 369 00:15:32,275 --> 00:15:34,277 -Okay. Or self-assured. 370 00:15:34,377 --> 00:15:38,548 -What I receive... what I receive... 371 00:15:38,648 --> 00:15:40,950 -Then I'm not speaking until you're listening. 372 00:15:41,050 --> 00:15:42,819 -Okay. Go ahead. -I shall continue. 373 00:15:42,919 --> 00:15:44,587 -Okay. Go ahead. -So I get down 374 00:15:44,687 --> 00:15:48,291 to the CBS Radford Studios, don't know enough to know. 375 00:15:48,391 --> 00:15:52,428 I have no agent, no manager, I just have a head shot. 376 00:15:52,528 --> 00:15:58,334 And I had done background work on the back of it, 377 00:15:58,434 --> 00:16:02,271 and I had "won Miss Grand Talent in a beauty pageant." 378 00:16:02,371 --> 00:16:04,574 That's all I had on the back. -You put 'em all on there? 379 00:16:04,674 --> 00:16:06,609 -Yeah, it was all on there. -[ Indistinct ] 380 00:16:06,709 --> 00:16:08,411 Yes. Absolutely. 381 00:16:08,511 --> 00:16:11,881 -So I get there, I have makeup out to here on my face, 382 00:16:11,981 --> 00:16:13,783 I got a weave down to my address, 383 00:16:13,883 --> 00:16:15,818 it's just a lot going on. 384 00:16:15,918 --> 00:16:20,423 The man looked at me and he was like, the casting director say, 385 00:16:20,523 --> 00:16:22,358 "Hey, so what is this?" -[ Laughs ] 386 00:16:22,458 --> 00:16:26,028 -I said, and look at me, not picking up on it, 387 00:16:26,129 --> 00:16:28,231 I said, "I know, right?" 388 00:16:28,331 --> 00:16:31,801 He said, "No, no, no, no. 389 00:16:31,901 --> 00:16:35,671 Go wash your face and pull your hair and come back," you know? 390 00:16:35,772 --> 00:16:41,210 And I was like, "Okay, that's weird, but okay." 391 00:16:41,310 --> 00:16:44,947 So I come in and I'm under five lines, right? 392 00:16:45,048 --> 00:16:46,549 But it's a producer session, 393 00:16:46,649 --> 00:16:48,051 'cause when I called, he was like, "Come today." 394 00:16:48,151 --> 00:16:49,685 I'm like, "Okay." 395 00:16:49,786 --> 00:16:52,555 Director's there, there's about 15 people in the room, 396 00:16:52,655 --> 00:16:55,224 I read the under five lines, the director goes, 397 00:16:55,324 --> 00:16:58,294 "Hm, give her this and this." 398 00:16:58,394 --> 00:17:02,365 Still little, bitty parts. "Have her read this." 399 00:17:02,465 --> 00:17:04,734 He says, "Okay, we want you to go out in the hall, 400 00:17:04,834 --> 00:17:06,469 take a look at this." 401 00:17:06,569 --> 00:17:08,337 I said, "This all I gotta say?" He said, "Yeah, but just --" 402 00:17:08,438 --> 00:17:10,006 I said, "I could say it right here." 403 00:17:10,106 --> 00:17:11,574 He was like, "Well, no, you should..." 404 00:17:11,674 --> 00:17:14,577 And I was like, "Man, why you pushing me? I got it." 405 00:17:14,677 --> 00:17:17,346 And then, "If she wants to do it, just let her do it." 406 00:17:17,447 --> 00:17:20,416 I was like, "Yeah, come on." -You went and did it. 407 00:17:20,516 --> 00:17:23,186 -So I said it. And you know what the man said to me, Kevin? 408 00:17:23,286 --> 00:17:27,090 He said, "Thank you." And I said, "You welcome." 409 00:17:27,190 --> 00:17:30,159 He said, "Thank you." 410 00:17:30,259 --> 00:17:33,096 I said, "Don't mention it." -Yeah. 411 00:17:33,196 --> 00:17:35,965 -He said, "Thank you, you may go." 412 00:17:36,065 --> 00:17:39,135 I said, "Oh! Y'all are dismissing me. 413 00:17:39,235 --> 00:17:40,837 Well, did you pick me? 414 00:17:40,937 --> 00:17:43,406 Because I talked -- Did you tell him that I told you 415 00:17:43,506 --> 00:17:45,775 I'm broke and I got a baby and I need a job?" 416 00:17:47,443 --> 00:17:51,347 That man turned bright red, the casting director. 417 00:17:51,447 --> 00:17:54,183 The director was like, "Dear, you need to leave here." 418 00:17:54,283 --> 00:17:56,686 I said, "Not before I say my piece. 419 00:17:56,786 --> 00:17:58,821 And I'm gonna tell you something, this is rude. 420 00:17:58,921 --> 00:18:02,558 Who asks you to come in and audition for something 421 00:18:02,658 --> 00:18:04,527 without telling you if they got the job?" 422 00:18:04,627 --> 00:18:06,329 It's my first professional audition, 423 00:18:06,429 --> 00:18:08,030 I did not have any -- -Nobody told you? 424 00:18:08,131 --> 00:18:09,665 -No! -You didn't have tact. 425 00:18:09,766 --> 00:18:12,001 You didn't understand any of it. -I didn't know any of it. 426 00:18:12,101 --> 00:18:13,503 -And that acted as your advantage? 427 00:18:13,603 --> 00:18:16,272 -"And why would you do that? And you know what? 428 00:18:16,372 --> 00:18:18,508 My mama told me everybody got a boss. 429 00:18:18,608 --> 00:18:21,878 I'm telling on you, I'm telling on you, and I'm telling on you." 430 00:18:21,978 --> 00:18:26,816 The guy is now shaking, the director goes like this, 431 00:18:26,916 --> 00:18:31,287 the casting director bends down, and he goes, "She's adorable. 432 00:18:31,387 --> 00:18:32,855 Where did you find her?" 433 00:18:32,955 --> 00:18:34,824 I don't know when to quit, Kevin, 'cause I said, 434 00:18:34,924 --> 00:18:38,394 "Uh-uh, don't try to get on my good side now! It's too late." 435 00:18:38,494 --> 00:18:41,164 -But now you're getting -- it's energy, it's energized. 436 00:18:41,264 --> 00:18:43,032 Absolutely. -I leave, 437 00:18:43,132 --> 00:18:44,767 and they called me and said, 438 00:18:44,867 --> 00:18:50,039 "Would you like to be in this film as 'Woman in the Diner'?" 439 00:18:50,139 --> 00:18:52,642 -By the way, I'm gonna slow-mo that. 440 00:18:52,742 --> 00:18:55,712 When you do that, I'mma slow-mo the fuck down, 441 00:18:55,812 --> 00:18:58,314 so you can just see how fast you do it. 442 00:18:58,414 --> 00:18:59,449 -Stop! -And by the way, 443 00:18:59,549 --> 00:19:01,184 for everybody watching here, 444 00:19:01,284 --> 00:19:02,752 this is the amazing story of Niecy Nash. 445 00:19:02,852 --> 00:19:03,986 I want you guys to understand that Niecy Nash Betts 446 00:19:04,087 --> 00:19:05,321 is completely different. 447 00:19:05,421 --> 00:19:07,056 Don't you walk into these rooms... 448 00:19:07,156 --> 00:19:08,791 -Don't do it. Oh, please, don't do it. 449 00:19:08,891 --> 00:19:12,295 -Don't you follow this suit, don't applaud this energy. 450 00:19:12,395 --> 00:19:13,963 She's giving you a moment in time 451 00:19:14,063 --> 00:19:17,734 where great things happened because she was not aware. 452 00:19:17,834 --> 00:19:22,171 You are aware now, after these stories, so act as if you are. 453 00:19:22,271 --> 00:19:23,606 Don't apply this. -Don't do it. 454 00:19:23,706 --> 00:19:26,242 -Okay. So, this moment hits. Oh, my God. 455 00:19:26,342 --> 00:19:28,344 -I do the movie. -You did a movie. 456 00:19:28,444 --> 00:19:30,113 -My scene is with Whoopi Goldberg. 457 00:19:30,213 --> 00:19:33,149 [ Sighs ] 458 00:19:33,249 --> 00:19:34,817 I almost got -- 459 00:19:34,917 --> 00:19:37,620 I'm not even gonna say I almost got fired off the movie, Kevin, 460 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,422 because that would be aggressive. 461 00:19:39,522 --> 00:19:41,224 -Well, I don't think there's an in between. 462 00:19:41,324 --> 00:19:43,593 I don't think you can -- It's either -- 463 00:19:43,693 --> 00:19:46,329 -Well, I did the movie, so I didn't get fired, 464 00:19:46,429 --> 00:19:49,599 but I came close. -Okay. 465 00:19:49,699 --> 00:19:51,567 -I come out the bathroom. -Oh, no. 466 00:19:51,667 --> 00:19:55,238 -And I'm supposed to say to Whoopi Goldberg, 467 00:19:55,338 --> 00:19:56,939 "Hey, there's a sick lady in there. 468 00:19:57,039 --> 00:19:59,876 She said her friend was out here and she needs help," 469 00:19:59,976 --> 00:20:01,244 or something. 470 00:20:01,344 --> 00:20:02,578 Whoopi starts to laugh. 471 00:20:02,678 --> 00:20:04,480 The director goes, "Cut. Do it again." 472 00:20:04,580 --> 00:20:06,516 I come back out and do it again, Whoopi laughs again. 473 00:20:06,616 --> 00:20:08,117 I come back out and I do it again. 474 00:20:08,217 --> 00:20:09,552 Now I'm on the fourth time. 475 00:20:09,652 --> 00:20:11,421 She keeps laughing, which I don't know why. 476 00:20:11,521 --> 00:20:13,189 So I go in the bathroom and I pray to the Most High, 477 00:20:13,289 --> 00:20:15,391 and I say, "Lookie here," 478 00:20:15,491 --> 00:20:16,993 'cause of how we talk to each other, I said, 479 00:20:17,093 --> 00:20:19,595 "This woman gonna have to have a glass of act-right, 480 00:20:19,695 --> 00:20:21,664 'cause if she don't, I'm gonna say something." 481 00:20:21,764 --> 00:20:23,566 -What do you mean? This is Whoopi Goldberg! 482 00:20:23,666 --> 00:20:26,669 -I don't care! She was ruining my chance, Kevin, 483 00:20:26,769 --> 00:20:28,771 and the man was getting frustrated. 484 00:20:28,871 --> 00:20:33,476 So I walk back out there and I commit a cardinal sin. 485 00:20:33,576 --> 00:20:38,347 I say the line, she laughs again, and I go, "Time out! 486 00:20:38,448 --> 00:20:40,883 Stop! Hold up. Can we stop? Can we cut?" 487 00:20:40,983 --> 00:20:43,352 -You cut yourself?! -I cut the whole thing. 488 00:20:43,453 --> 00:20:48,257 -You can't do that! -I know now, Kevin! 489 00:20:48,357 --> 00:20:52,462 -Oh, God. -I cut myself! 490 00:20:52,562 --> 00:20:54,497 -And what did they say after you cut yourself? 491 00:20:54,597 --> 00:20:56,632 -"Whoa. Whoa. Whoa. Whoa. Whoa." -Yeah, "What the f--" 492 00:20:56,733 --> 00:20:59,502 [ Indistinct ] "What the fuck was that? 493 00:20:59,602 --> 00:21:01,637 What did she just do?" Niecy standing there with a -- 494 00:21:01,738 --> 00:21:04,207 By the way, this is not "cut," for the people don't know, 495 00:21:04,307 --> 00:21:06,609 this means "time out" in basketball. 496 00:21:06,709 --> 00:21:09,178 -That's what I did. -She called a NCAA time out. 497 00:21:09,278 --> 00:21:11,647 This is not how you cut. -I said, "Halt." 498 00:21:11,748 --> 00:21:14,417 -It's still not. No. None of that's "cut." 499 00:21:14,517 --> 00:21:17,653 No. That's not how you do it. You just say "cut!" 500 00:21:17,754 --> 00:21:19,389 -Okay. Well, I didn't know that either. 501 00:21:19,489 --> 00:21:21,124 -Okay. Alright. 502 00:21:21,224 --> 00:21:22,959 -And the guy comes over and he goes, "What is the problem?" 503 00:21:23,059 --> 00:21:25,962 I said, "The line is dumb and she keep laughing." 504 00:21:26,062 --> 00:21:28,631 And she said, "No, you didn't." I said, "Yes, I did. 505 00:21:28,731 --> 00:21:30,867 They ain't gonna fire you!" -Oh, no. 506 00:21:30,967 --> 00:21:33,069 -He said, "Well, what's wrong with it?" 507 00:21:33,169 --> 00:21:35,505 And I said, "It's hokey. People don't talk like that." 508 00:21:35,605 --> 00:21:36,873 I don't even know if this man wrote the script, 509 00:21:36,973 --> 00:21:39,575 but I'm telling him the words are dumb. 510 00:21:39,675 --> 00:21:42,779 -Niecy, we gotta stop putting this out there. 511 00:21:42,879 --> 00:21:45,915 This is worse than me saying you ain't got to take the SATs. 512 00:21:46,015 --> 00:21:48,751 I said that one time and it backfired on me. 513 00:21:48,851 --> 00:21:51,554 -[ Laughs ] -It backfired, Niecy. 514 00:21:51,654 --> 00:21:54,357 They said, "Kevin, what? 515 00:21:54,457 --> 00:21:57,527 You gotta take this shit." It backfired. 516 00:21:57,627 --> 00:21:59,796 It came and got me, alright? 517 00:21:59,896 --> 00:22:02,999 So, I just wanna make sure that we preface it. 518 00:22:03,099 --> 00:22:05,234 -I don't know if mine is worse than that, Kevin. 519 00:22:05,334 --> 00:22:06,669 -No, it's not. Go ahead. -But he said, 520 00:22:06,769 --> 00:22:08,438 "What would you like to say?" 521 00:22:08,538 --> 00:22:09,672 I said, "If it were me, I would be like, 522 00:22:09,772 --> 00:22:11,641 'Is that your friend in the bathroom? 523 00:22:11,741 --> 00:22:13,409 Girl, you better get in there 'cause she throwing up.'" 524 00:22:13,509 --> 00:22:16,546 And he said, "Edith, we're changing the line!" 525 00:22:16,646 --> 00:22:18,614 -Again. -And Whoopi Goldberg said, 526 00:22:18,715 --> 00:22:22,485 "You go, girl," and that was it. And that's how I -- 527 00:22:22,585 --> 00:22:26,155 -It's another example of first-class bullying. 528 00:22:26,255 --> 00:22:27,590 -Oh, my God, Kevin. 529 00:22:27,690 --> 00:22:28,958 -I just wanted to make it very clear. 530 00:22:29,058 --> 00:22:31,394 -Please don't put that on me. I'm not a bully. 531 00:22:31,494 --> 00:22:32,829 -We're talking about then. 532 00:22:32,929 --> 00:22:34,397 I'm not saying you're the same person now. 533 00:22:34,497 --> 00:22:35,932 People change. -Oh, I have evolved. 534 00:22:36,032 --> 00:22:37,867 -See that, right there? -I have evolved. 535 00:22:37,967 --> 00:22:40,369 -Yeah. That person is not -- She wasn't on that set. 536 00:22:40,470 --> 00:22:42,739 [ Laughter ] 537 00:22:42,839 --> 00:22:46,409 -She -- That girl, that woman right there, no, she wasn't. 538 00:22:46,509 --> 00:22:47,777 -Not at all, not at all. 539 00:22:47,877 --> 00:22:49,512 -I wanna go to "Reno 911" for a second, 540 00:22:49,612 --> 00:22:51,748 'cause I wanna talk about -- Here's why. 541 00:22:51,848 --> 00:22:55,885 No, not big -- Now, remember, I'm heavy comedy. 542 00:22:55,985 --> 00:22:59,989 What you guys were able to discover with "Reno 911!" 543 00:23:00,089 --> 00:23:03,593 at the time, I wanna say, like, [indistinct] 544 00:23:03,693 --> 00:23:05,995 of Hollywood included of things coming after. 545 00:23:06,095 --> 00:23:12,135 The idea of satire attached to the real show, 546 00:23:12,235 --> 00:23:14,604 the reality show, "Reno 911!" 547 00:23:14,704 --> 00:23:18,808 was at the table very early, and I wanna say for -- 548 00:23:18,908 --> 00:23:22,045 I hope I'm not speaking incorrectly by saying 549 00:23:22,145 --> 00:23:26,749 if not first, very close to the first table. 550 00:23:26,849 --> 00:23:28,684 -'Cause that was unscripted. -It was unscripted. 551 00:23:28,785 --> 00:23:31,621 -Yep. -Unscripted spoof. 552 00:23:31,721 --> 00:23:33,456 -Of "Cops." -Wait a minute. Wait. 553 00:23:33,556 --> 00:23:34,891 Before you get into that, 554 00:23:34,991 --> 00:23:39,562 'cause the world should know why "Reno 911!" 555 00:23:39,662 --> 00:23:41,798 is one of the best things to ever hit television. 556 00:23:41,898 --> 00:23:43,466 But more importantly, they should know, 557 00:23:43,566 --> 00:23:45,068 like, how it started. 558 00:23:45,168 --> 00:23:46,402 Guys, don't go anywhere. 559 00:23:46,502 --> 00:23:47,703 We'll be back with more of this story 560 00:23:47,804 --> 00:23:49,906 when we come back after this. 561 00:23:51,474 --> 00:23:52,809 Where did you first meet him? 562 00:23:52,909 --> 00:23:56,913 -Kevin? Ooh, I've known Kevin for a long time. 563 00:23:57,013 --> 00:23:58,114 Stand-up days? 564 00:23:58,214 --> 00:23:59,716 Um... 565 00:23:59,816 --> 00:24:03,019 I knew him back when he was ugly. 566 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:05,822 You know what I'm saying? 567 00:24:05,922 --> 00:24:07,557 He's a little more fetching now, you know what I mean? 568 00:24:07,657 --> 00:24:10,426 But I knew him back when he -- You know? 569 00:24:10,526 --> 00:24:12,495 Old Kevin. You know what I mean? 570 00:24:12,595 --> 00:24:15,531 He looks a couple of inches taller now, 571 00:24:15,631 --> 00:24:18,601 a little more buff, a little more filled out. 572 00:24:18,701 --> 00:24:21,704 But I knew him when he was ugly and simple. 573 00:24:21,804 --> 00:24:24,006 That's how long I known him. How about that? 574 00:24:24,107 --> 00:24:25,041 I love it. 575 00:24:25,141 --> 00:24:29,746 ** 576 00:24:33,583 --> 00:24:37,954 ** 577 00:24:38,054 --> 00:24:39,622 -Welcome back to "Hart to Heart." 578 00:24:39,722 --> 00:24:41,157 We're talking to Niecy Nash Betts, 579 00:24:41,257 --> 00:24:43,192 and we're still talking about "Reno 911!" 580 00:24:43,292 --> 00:24:46,696 At the time in doing that, where did the decision come? 581 00:24:46,796 --> 00:24:48,564 Was it just a great opportunity? 582 00:24:48,664 --> 00:24:50,566 Was it, like, another audition? 583 00:24:50,666 --> 00:24:52,101 Did you see this in the early times? 584 00:24:52,201 --> 00:24:54,070 'Cause everybody was fairly new on that project. 585 00:24:54,170 --> 00:24:56,239 -No. Because you know what happened was, 586 00:24:56,339 --> 00:24:59,275 it was supposed to be a sketch show at first. 587 00:24:59,375 --> 00:25:02,045 So when they called and said, "Hey, there's an audition. 588 00:25:02,145 --> 00:25:05,348 Do you know how to do sketch?" and I was like, "Yes." 589 00:25:05,448 --> 00:25:07,583 And I hung up and called my friend, Big George, I was like, 590 00:25:07,683 --> 00:25:09,185 "What the hell is sketch?" 591 00:25:09,285 --> 00:25:12,088 'Cause I'm from LA. -Niecy, you gotta stop. 592 00:25:12,188 --> 00:25:14,390 -But I had never heard of Groundlings, 593 00:25:14,490 --> 00:25:17,026 Second City, I didn't know any of that. 594 00:25:17,126 --> 00:25:18,961 -Well, why'd you have to lie to the people? 595 00:25:19,062 --> 00:25:21,230 -Because I needed to get in the door! 596 00:25:21,330 --> 00:25:23,599 I'm a live person, figure it out on the way. 597 00:25:23,699 --> 00:25:25,902 Come on! -Alright. That's aggressive. 598 00:25:26,002 --> 00:25:27,670 She doesn't mean that she lies. 599 00:25:27,770 --> 00:25:30,773 -Oh, no, she did. She lied. [ Laughter ] 600 00:25:30,873 --> 00:25:34,911 -"Oh, no. Yes, I did." -Yeah, I did. 601 00:25:35,011 --> 00:25:36,679 -Okay. Go ahead. -So when I got down there, 602 00:25:36,779 --> 00:25:40,216 there were two other girls, who I now know are improv, 603 00:25:40,316 --> 00:25:42,919 you know, sketch greats, these other two girls. 604 00:25:43,019 --> 00:25:48,825 But...the audition was running late 605 00:25:48,925 --> 00:25:52,829 and one girl was doing vocal warm-ups, 606 00:25:52,929 --> 00:25:55,898 the other girl was stretching, 607 00:25:55,998 --> 00:25:57,700 and I was reading a magazine. 608 00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,769 I said, "Well, I'mma give them my lunch. 609 00:25:59,869 --> 00:26:02,171 You want this lunch?" -Chilling. 610 00:26:02,271 --> 00:26:04,841 -But it was taking so long, and I went and knocked on the door, 611 00:26:04,941 --> 00:26:06,242 another -- -God damn it, Niecy. 612 00:26:06,342 --> 00:26:07,577 -I know. 613 00:26:07,677 --> 00:26:09,178 -During somebody else's audition? 614 00:26:09,278 --> 00:26:11,547 -No, nobody was in there yet, we were all just waiting. 615 00:26:11,647 --> 00:26:14,016 And I was like, "Yo, excuse me. 616 00:26:14,117 --> 00:26:17,987 When is this dog-and-pony show gonna get started?" 617 00:26:18,087 --> 00:26:21,290 And somebody had an attitude in the room, and was like, 618 00:26:21,391 --> 00:26:24,994 "Why, are you in a hurry?" and I said, "Ma'am, I am. 619 00:26:25,094 --> 00:26:27,363 I gotta get my kids to Chuck-E-Cheese by 7:00. 620 00:26:27,463 --> 00:26:30,099 The last time I got there late, they jumped on the mouse, 621 00:26:30,199 --> 00:26:32,402 the head came off, the man went in the back 622 00:26:32,502 --> 00:26:33,503 and never came back out. 623 00:26:33,603 --> 00:26:34,971 I gotta go." 624 00:26:35,071 --> 00:26:36,539 -You can't tell them people that, Niecy. 625 00:26:36,639 --> 00:26:38,141 -But I told them. -Okay, alright. 626 00:26:38,241 --> 00:26:40,309 -And they said, "Come on in and do your bit." 627 00:26:40,410 --> 00:26:42,678 I said, "Thank you, 'cause I gotta get going." 628 00:26:42,779 --> 00:26:45,114 I did my bit and I left. Guess what? 629 00:26:45,214 --> 00:26:47,717 I get a callback. -Was your bit -- 630 00:26:47,817 --> 00:26:49,152 This is the real, like -- 631 00:26:49,252 --> 00:26:52,622 This is a for-real me question right now. 632 00:26:52,722 --> 00:26:54,424 -Okay. 633 00:26:54,524 --> 00:26:56,692 -Did you go in there and just improv the whole thing? 634 00:26:56,793 --> 00:26:59,128 -No, I knew what I wanted to do 635 00:26:59,228 --> 00:27:02,031 and I had a little paper bag that had, like, 636 00:27:02,131 --> 00:27:05,068 a men's jacket in it, 'cause I played a pastor. 637 00:27:05,168 --> 00:27:07,170 I had some of the little things in there. 638 00:27:07,270 --> 00:27:09,138 -It was all sketch. So you wanted little characters? 639 00:27:09,238 --> 00:27:10,673 Got it. Okay. Okay. -Yeah, characters. 640 00:27:10,773 --> 00:27:12,375 Get the callback, 641 00:27:12,475 --> 00:27:15,344 did not have the presence of mind enough to know 642 00:27:15,445 --> 00:27:18,514 that you might wanna practice some of this stuff 643 00:27:18,614 --> 00:27:20,183 before you do it. 644 00:27:20,283 --> 00:27:22,852 So when I go into the callback, first of all, 645 00:27:22,952 --> 00:27:24,687 the first thing they said was, 646 00:27:24,787 --> 00:27:27,023 "What happened at Chuck-E-Cheese?" 647 00:27:27,123 --> 00:27:28,925 -You done forgot... -So I did five minutes 648 00:27:29,025 --> 00:27:30,326 on Chuck-E-Cheese. -No, Niecy. 649 00:27:30,426 --> 00:27:32,061 -Just to talk about it. I mean, they asked. 650 00:27:32,161 --> 00:27:34,230 -Yeah, but... -Then I said, 651 00:27:34,330 --> 00:27:38,101 "I could do the same, you know, 'she-I-T' that I did last time." 652 00:27:38,201 --> 00:27:40,937 -You can cuss, Niecy. -Or I said I found 653 00:27:41,037 --> 00:27:43,106 a handkerchief in the backseat of my car, 654 00:27:43,206 --> 00:27:45,408 and I came up with this character called 655 00:27:45,508 --> 00:27:46,476 "Carol the Slave." 656 00:27:46,576 --> 00:27:47,910 "Y'all wanna see that, 657 00:27:48,010 --> 00:27:49,379 or do you want me to do what I did last time?" 658 00:27:49,479 --> 00:27:51,047 -So you're off the cuff. Everything's off the cuff. 659 00:27:51,147 --> 00:27:52,648 -They said, "Please do Carol the Slave." 660 00:27:52,749 --> 00:27:54,083 -God damn it. God damn it, Niecy! 661 00:27:54,183 --> 00:27:56,486 -[ Laughs ] -God damn it! 662 00:27:56,586 --> 00:27:58,254 -And that's what I did. 663 00:27:58,354 --> 00:28:02,525 I did Carol the Slave, and who I now know is Kerrie Kenney 664 00:28:02,625 --> 00:28:03,926 fell out of the chair. 665 00:28:04,026 --> 00:28:05,228 'Cause my mother said, "How did it go?" 666 00:28:05,328 --> 00:28:06,963 I said, "A white lady fell off the chair 667 00:28:07,063 --> 00:28:08,831 and was beating her fist on the ground." 668 00:28:08,931 --> 00:28:11,300 And I said, "I guess she liked it." 669 00:28:11,401 --> 00:28:15,938 And they called me. -Here's the crazy thing. 670 00:28:16,038 --> 00:28:17,940 Like, when you think about "In Living Color," 671 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:19,742 you think about what it meant, right? 672 00:28:19,842 --> 00:28:22,278 -Yeah. -So big, so huge. 673 00:28:22,378 --> 00:28:26,249 And the door that it opened for other, like, you know, 674 00:28:26,349 --> 00:28:28,084 sketch comedy shows to come after it, 675 00:28:28,184 --> 00:28:30,153 and such a variety, so many. 676 00:28:30,253 --> 00:28:32,855 Between "SNL" and "In Living Color," 677 00:28:32,955 --> 00:28:34,524 you're looking at the two conglomerates 678 00:28:34,624 --> 00:28:36,192 that sit on the pedestal, 679 00:28:36,292 --> 00:28:37,927 but there were a lot of them that came out after, right? 680 00:28:38,027 --> 00:28:39,595 Some that probably feels 681 00:28:39,695 --> 00:28:41,264 like they deserve a little more attention and notoriety, 682 00:28:41,364 --> 00:28:42,965 some that feel like they got their shots, 683 00:28:43,066 --> 00:28:45,234 opportunities, whatever. 684 00:28:45,334 --> 00:28:47,970 "Reno 911!" for the world of sketch, 685 00:28:48,071 --> 00:28:51,074 once again, in this particular unscripted, 686 00:28:51,174 --> 00:28:55,845 like, comedic world that has now been created, 687 00:28:55,945 --> 00:28:57,180 I wanna truly say, man, 688 00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,549 it was groundbreaking because the cast 689 00:28:59,649 --> 00:29:01,150 that you guys put together, 690 00:29:01,250 --> 00:29:03,186 this show was able to go on for how many seasons? 691 00:29:03,286 --> 00:29:06,222 -We're still doing. We've been doing "Reno" for 20 years. 692 00:29:06,322 --> 00:29:09,125 We just made our 20-year anniversary. 693 00:29:09,225 --> 00:29:11,427 And the funny thing was that we were doing 694 00:29:11,527 --> 00:29:15,665 an untitled sketch show, and at the last minute, 695 00:29:15,765 --> 00:29:21,370 they said -- I think Cedric was doing a sketch show, too, 696 00:29:21,471 --> 00:29:23,072 and they were like, "You got something else? 697 00:29:23,172 --> 00:29:24,907 But we was out of time and money. 698 00:29:25,007 --> 00:29:27,477 And somebody was like, "Let's just do 'Cops,'" 699 00:29:27,577 --> 00:29:30,380 because it was the biggest show on Fox at the time, 700 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:32,782 "and everybody make up what cop you wanna be." 701 00:29:32,882 --> 00:29:36,285 -Biggest response. Holy shit. -And I had never done improv. 702 00:29:36,386 --> 00:29:38,154 Like I told you, never heard of it. 703 00:29:38,254 --> 00:29:39,856 Now, I'm fine if you give me words to say, 704 00:29:39,956 --> 00:29:41,157 I know how to make 'em funny. 705 00:29:41,257 --> 00:29:43,593 But now what do I have to do? 706 00:29:43,693 --> 00:29:45,661 You have to make it up. 707 00:29:45,762 --> 00:29:47,163 "You come in the 'Hart to Heart' studios 708 00:29:47,263 --> 00:29:49,132 and somebody is going to jail. Action." 709 00:29:49,232 --> 00:29:50,767 I don't know what you gonna say, 710 00:29:50,867 --> 00:29:52,168 you don't know what I'm gonna say. 711 00:29:52,268 --> 00:29:54,036 I said, "Well, let me think about this." 712 00:29:54,137 --> 00:29:55,605 I said, "Okay, Niecy. You alright." 713 00:29:55,705 --> 00:30:00,009 I have been arguing with my first husband for years, 714 00:30:00,109 --> 00:30:01,944 and I could think on my feet 715 00:30:02,045 --> 00:30:04,047 'cause I was going, you know what I mean? 716 00:30:04,147 --> 00:30:06,349 I fancy myself a bit of a wordsmith, 717 00:30:06,449 --> 00:30:10,353 so I'm like, "Alright." -As you say a sentence 718 00:30:10,453 --> 00:30:14,190 that is, like, pure example of word fucking... 719 00:30:14,290 --> 00:30:17,627 I mean, "I fancy myself a wordsmith." 720 00:30:17,727 --> 00:30:18,961 -Yeah! -Well, I don't. 721 00:30:19,062 --> 00:30:21,130 -Okay. -I don't fancy myself as one, 722 00:30:21,230 --> 00:30:22,732 So you talk regular to me. 723 00:30:22,832 --> 00:30:25,835 Fancy yourself as nothing. You confuse the fuck out of me. 724 00:30:25,935 --> 00:30:27,203 [ Indistinct ] 725 00:30:27,303 --> 00:30:28,905 "I fancy myself a wordsmith." What? 726 00:30:29,005 --> 00:30:30,540 -Shut up, Kevin. -Okay, go ahead. 727 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:35,578 -So we went and we did "Reno," and there you have it. 728 00:30:35,678 --> 00:30:38,214 -Niecy, an amazing conversation we're having, 729 00:30:38,314 --> 00:30:40,283 but I gotta stop you, like I always do, 730 00:30:40,383 --> 00:30:42,885 because we gotta go pay some bills. 731 00:30:42,985 --> 00:30:44,387 Guys, don't go anywhere. 732 00:30:44,487 --> 00:30:45,988 We'll be back with more "Hart to Heart" after this. 733 00:30:46,089 --> 00:30:47,690 We're talking to Niecy Nash Betts. 734 00:30:47,790 --> 00:30:50,793 I'll take it after we done. Let's go. It's time to go, Juan. 735 00:30:50,893 --> 00:30:52,195 Yeah, you'll get it. Lemme see. 736 00:30:52,295 --> 00:30:54,897 -Get together. -[ Indistinct ] 737 00:30:54,997 --> 00:30:56,733 -Okay. Smile. Good. 738 00:30:56,833 --> 00:31:01,370 ** 739 00:31:05,875 --> 00:31:11,614 ** 740 00:31:11,714 --> 00:31:14,917 -How much of the story was true? 741 00:31:15,017 --> 00:31:17,220 -40%. -40% of it? Okay. 742 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:18,888 -Of course, you gotta do all the other, you know, 743 00:31:18,988 --> 00:31:20,189 stuff that makes you good. 744 00:31:20,289 --> 00:31:21,924 But, yeah, about 40% of it, yeah. 745 00:31:22,024 --> 00:31:24,026 -Nice. -Absolutely. 746 00:31:24,127 --> 00:31:27,363 -Oh, let me take our picture 747 00:31:27,463 --> 00:31:30,800 so I can say, "Look who I'm hanging out with." 748 00:31:30,900 --> 00:31:33,202 ** 749 00:31:33,302 --> 00:31:35,538 Hey! 750 00:31:35,638 --> 00:31:38,107 Hey, I'll send it to you. 751 00:31:38,207 --> 00:31:39,375 -Welcome back to "Hart to Heart." 752 00:31:39,475 --> 00:31:42,211 We're talking to Niecy Nash Betts. 753 00:31:42,311 --> 00:31:44,280 Watch this segue train, here. -Mm! 754 00:31:44,380 --> 00:31:45,982 -Segue train meaning, you know, 755 00:31:46,082 --> 00:31:48,284 how I effortlessly move from here 756 00:31:48,384 --> 00:31:50,119 to the next version of our conversation 757 00:31:50,219 --> 00:31:52,355 but keep it connected. -Mm. 758 00:31:52,455 --> 00:31:55,291 -Word play. Did you see what I did? 759 00:31:55,391 --> 00:31:56,759 -I did. I saw it. -I looked in there. 760 00:31:56,859 --> 00:32:00,029 -I saw it, yeah. -[ Indistinct ] Okay. 761 00:32:00,129 --> 00:32:01,230 Here's what I wanna know. 762 00:32:01,330 --> 00:32:02,899 Did it become a mind-set, 763 00:32:02,999 --> 00:32:04,267 did it become a conscious thought to say, 764 00:32:04,367 --> 00:32:06,302 "Okay, well, let me make sure 765 00:32:06,402 --> 00:32:09,605 that I make myself available to do more. 766 00:32:09,705 --> 00:32:12,575 How do I make sure that I'm not just seen as this, 767 00:32:12,675 --> 00:32:15,078 but I get out there and I get seen as more"? 768 00:32:15,178 --> 00:32:18,281 Like, when did that light bulb go off, 769 00:32:18,381 --> 00:32:21,184 and was there extra energy or effort 770 00:32:21,284 --> 00:32:24,020 into going out and auditioning for more things, 771 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,922 have more conversations, more meetings, whatever? 772 00:32:26,022 --> 00:32:28,491 Because you did a great job, while doing this, 773 00:32:28,591 --> 00:32:30,359 still expanding and doing so much more. 774 00:32:30,460 --> 00:32:36,299 -Yeah. Well, what happened was, right before "Reno," 775 00:32:36,399 --> 00:32:41,304 I had to beg my ex-husband for time to audition, 776 00:32:41,404 --> 00:32:44,373 and I said -- I already had three babies, I said, 777 00:32:44,474 --> 00:32:46,309 "If you give me the nine months 778 00:32:46,409 --> 00:32:49,145 that I have given my body over to bear children, 779 00:32:49,245 --> 00:32:50,880 give me nine months for me. 780 00:32:50,980 --> 00:32:53,816 If I don't make it nine months, I'll go back to work." 781 00:32:53,916 --> 00:32:55,785 'Cause he was like, "Everybody up in here going to work." 782 00:32:55,885 --> 00:32:58,388 -That's strong. -So I was like, 783 00:32:58,488 --> 00:33:00,623 "Give me nine months and I'mma handle my handle." 784 00:33:00,723 --> 00:33:06,429 And it took about seven-and-a-half months, 785 00:33:06,529 --> 00:33:09,365 and I booked my home makeover show, 786 00:33:09,465 --> 00:33:11,834 which ran for nine seasons, "Clean House," 787 00:33:11,934 --> 00:33:16,672 "Reno 911!" maybe about a week later. 788 00:33:16,773 --> 00:33:18,875 And then, maybe about a week or two after that, 789 00:33:18,975 --> 00:33:21,177 I book a recurring on "Bernie Mac Show" 790 00:33:21,277 --> 00:33:23,379 as his sister, Aunt Benita. 791 00:33:23,479 --> 00:33:26,616 So I entered into the business with three jobs, 792 00:33:26,716 --> 00:33:28,251 and I've always felt like, 793 00:33:28,351 --> 00:33:30,253 "Oh, I like working in triplicate." 794 00:33:30,353 --> 00:33:32,221 So that was the mandate for my team, 795 00:33:32,321 --> 00:33:34,290 "I always want three job. 796 00:33:34,390 --> 00:33:35,691 I don't care if it's a cartoon voice over, 797 00:33:35,792 --> 00:33:37,427 if it's a this, if it's a that." 798 00:33:37,527 --> 00:33:41,864 But what kept falling under the radar was drama. 799 00:33:41,964 --> 00:33:45,201 Everything was either co-- you know, hosting, you're yourself. 800 00:33:45,301 --> 00:33:46,369 -Personality. -Yeah. 801 00:33:46,469 --> 00:33:48,671 But it still wasn't the dream. 802 00:33:48,771 --> 00:33:50,273 -Just to -- 803 00:33:50,373 --> 00:33:53,209 Because I want the audience watching to 804 00:33:53,309 --> 00:33:54,877 not just sweep that under the rug, 805 00:33:54,977 --> 00:33:57,013 when you're like, "Yeah, three jobs and something consistent," 806 00:33:57,113 --> 00:33:59,415 we're talking about a significant time span 807 00:33:59,515 --> 00:34:01,718 of consistency in work, right? -Yeah. 808 00:34:01,818 --> 00:34:04,887 -And that running comedy, for you, before, like, "Okay, 809 00:34:04,987 --> 00:34:07,890 well, I got to go find my drama, I got to get my drama nugget. 810 00:34:07,990 --> 00:34:09,292 I gotta make people understand that 811 00:34:09,392 --> 00:34:11,728 there's more in this machine." -Yeah. 812 00:34:11,828 --> 00:34:14,630 -When and where did that happen? 813 00:34:14,731 --> 00:34:19,669 -I had done all the things, you know? 814 00:34:19,769 --> 00:34:22,705 I played Cedric the Entertainer's wife on a sitcom, 815 00:34:22,805 --> 00:34:25,041 I still was doing "Reno." 816 00:34:25,141 --> 00:34:26,542 I had done all of these sitcoms 817 00:34:26,642 --> 00:34:29,612 in all of these spaces and places. 818 00:34:29,712 --> 00:34:35,518 I had hosted the things, and I called my team 819 00:34:35,618 --> 00:34:38,321 and went down to Beverley Hills, and everybody was like, 820 00:34:38,421 --> 00:34:40,123 "Well, why are we here?" 821 00:34:40,223 --> 00:34:42,425 I said, "Because I wanted to reintroduce myself." 822 00:34:42,525 --> 00:34:44,160 -I love this. -"I think you think 823 00:34:44,260 --> 00:34:45,728 you know me." -I love this. 824 00:34:45,828 --> 00:34:48,364 -I said, "But I done changed." -This is where you -- 825 00:34:48,464 --> 00:34:49,732 It's also a, "You work for me 826 00:34:49,832 --> 00:34:51,634 and let me tell you what I need" moment, 827 00:34:51,734 --> 00:34:54,537 which is -- I've said it on this show several times, 828 00:34:54,637 --> 00:34:56,372 there's a lot of talent that doesn't -- 829 00:34:56,472 --> 00:34:58,741 they don't grasp that correctly. 830 00:34:58,841 --> 00:35:01,444 -No, you're so grateful that you feel like, 831 00:35:01,544 --> 00:35:05,448 "they chose me," and you don't wanna make them upset, 832 00:35:05,548 --> 00:35:07,350 you don't wanna rock the boat. 833 00:35:07,450 --> 00:35:09,919 And I just said, "I wanna tell you about me, 834 00:35:10,019 --> 00:35:13,556 who I am right now, and invite you to think differently. 835 00:35:13,656 --> 00:35:15,458 And if you don't, I'm okay with that. 836 00:35:15,558 --> 00:35:17,427 It just means that we can't go forward together," 837 00:35:17,527 --> 00:35:19,062 you know what I mean? 838 00:35:19,162 --> 00:35:20,496 Because I gotta be with people 839 00:35:20,596 --> 00:35:22,498 that see me the way I see myself. 840 00:35:22,598 --> 00:35:24,801 They understood it, took the directive. 841 00:35:24,901 --> 00:35:27,637 I auditioned right after that for "Getting On," 842 00:35:27,737 --> 00:35:31,107 which was -- I was a two-time Emmy nominee. 843 00:35:31,207 --> 00:35:35,511 It was an industry darling, that show on HBO. 844 00:35:35,611 --> 00:35:37,447 -I want you to stop doing what you're doing, 845 00:35:37,547 --> 00:35:39,916 which is rubbing your little fucking nominations in my face. 846 00:35:40,016 --> 00:35:41,751 And I told you off-- 847 00:35:41,851 --> 00:35:44,787 I get that you got all these awards and shit, 848 00:35:44,887 --> 00:35:46,355 but you don't have to keep saying it to me. 849 00:35:46,456 --> 00:35:48,224 -Don't you have a few, Kevin? 850 00:35:48,324 --> 00:35:49,926 -People's Choice and Kids' Choice. 851 00:35:50,026 --> 00:35:52,929 -Aww, of course you're the Kids' Choice. You're their size. 852 00:35:53,029 --> 00:35:55,565 -That's great for you. -That's good. That's real good. 853 00:35:55,665 --> 00:35:58,267 Somebody has to do it. -Is that making you feel good? 854 00:35:58,367 --> 00:36:02,138 -[ Laughs ] -So the little darling... 855 00:36:02,238 --> 00:36:05,875 That's enough. -Okay. Geez. 856 00:36:05,975 --> 00:36:07,844 -You ain't laughed that goddamn hard since you been here. 857 00:36:07,944 --> 00:36:09,712 Say something to hurt my feelings all the time. 858 00:36:09,812 --> 00:36:12,415 [ Laughs mockingly ] Some time to show teeth. 859 00:36:12,515 --> 00:36:13,950 She ain't shown that much goddamn teeth 860 00:36:14,050 --> 00:36:15,451 since we been here. 861 00:36:15,551 --> 00:36:17,820 One thing about my height. [ Laughs mockingly ] 862 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,823 -Okay, Kevin. Well, at least you're rich. 863 00:36:20,923 --> 00:36:22,525 -Shut up, Niecy. -What? 864 00:36:22,625 --> 00:36:24,193 -Now, that's enough. -Okay. 865 00:36:24,293 --> 00:36:26,329 -[ Laughs ] Tell me -- 866 00:36:26,429 --> 00:36:28,331 Tell me, so you get the -- 867 00:36:28,431 --> 00:36:30,566 you get an opportunity to do this industry darling. 868 00:36:30,666 --> 00:36:33,369 -Industry darling. And have you ever seen it? 869 00:36:33,469 --> 00:36:34,737 If you haven't, you would love it. 870 00:36:34,837 --> 00:36:36,739 -I will not lie to you, I have not seen it. 871 00:36:36,839 --> 00:36:38,841 -Kevin, I'm trying to tell you something. 872 00:36:38,941 --> 00:36:40,777 -Tell me to watch it, I'm gonna watch it. 873 00:36:40,877 --> 00:36:43,379 -No, I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna ask you as my friend. 874 00:36:43,479 --> 00:36:44,680 -Well, later, you'll text me and go, 875 00:36:44,781 --> 00:36:46,282 "Did you watch it, motherfucker?" 876 00:36:46,382 --> 00:36:47,817 And then I'll be like... -Okay. 877 00:36:47,917 --> 00:36:52,188 -Yeah. So I'm saying, I'm telling my bully... 878 00:36:52,288 --> 00:36:55,458 that I'm gonna follow the rules and do what you ask me to do. 879 00:36:55,558 --> 00:36:57,393 -Thank you. -Okay. 880 00:36:57,493 --> 00:37:00,797 -So I did that, and... 881 00:37:00,897 --> 00:37:03,533 that was when everything turned on a dime. 882 00:37:03,633 --> 00:37:05,935 That's where Ava DuVernay saw me, 883 00:37:06,035 --> 00:37:08,871 and she invited me to come be a part of the movie "Selma," 884 00:37:08,971 --> 00:37:11,908 and then that turned into "When They See Us," 885 00:37:12,008 --> 00:37:14,477 and that turned into "Origin." 886 00:37:14,577 --> 00:37:16,546 -You really did just go. -So that one thing... 887 00:37:16,646 --> 00:37:20,216 And I feel like -- Let me ask you something else as a friend, 888 00:37:20,316 --> 00:37:21,784 and I think I've said this to you before, 889 00:37:21,884 --> 00:37:26,222 but there's been no manifestation of it. 890 00:37:26,322 --> 00:37:30,193 I haven't been on camera with you in 1,000 years, 891 00:37:30,293 --> 00:37:31,627 not since -- 892 00:37:31,728 --> 00:37:33,496 -We're evading a fire in the fire suit. 893 00:37:33,596 --> 00:37:36,532 -No. No, no, no. I'm talking about in a movie. 894 00:37:36,632 --> 00:37:38,234 -We have not been a movie since... 895 00:37:38,334 --> 00:37:41,070 -Since the one with... -Wait a second. 896 00:37:41,170 --> 00:37:42,939 -...Taraji and Morris Chestnut. 897 00:37:43,039 --> 00:37:44,907 -That's -- You're talking about "Not Easily Broken." 898 00:37:45,007 --> 00:37:46,509 -"Not Easily Broken." 899 00:37:46,609 --> 00:37:47,977 -And then we did, like -- -No, but that -- 900 00:37:48,077 --> 00:37:50,213 -I know, I'm saying what we've done together, Niecy. 901 00:37:50,313 --> 00:37:51,948 I'm trying to get it in my head. 902 00:37:52,048 --> 00:37:53,383 God, I'm not correcting nothing. 903 00:37:53,483 --> 00:37:55,852 I'm trying to think. Give me a second. 904 00:37:55,952 --> 00:37:59,555 God damn it. One, two... [ Laughter ] 905 00:37:59,655 --> 00:38:01,858 No, that's it. -You finished? 906 00:38:01,958 --> 00:38:03,760 -Yes, I am. I just wanted to make sure. 907 00:38:03,860 --> 00:38:07,463 -Okay. Because now, here's what's happening. 908 00:38:07,563 --> 00:38:09,165 It's either feast or famine. 909 00:38:09,265 --> 00:38:11,734 So then once they found out people that can make you laugh 910 00:38:11,834 --> 00:38:14,637 can make you cry, there's tons of dramas. 911 00:38:14,737 --> 00:38:17,273 You know, Jeffrey Dahmer and all of these things. 912 00:38:17,373 --> 00:38:21,677 And I'm like, I think people forgot I'm funny. 913 00:38:21,778 --> 00:38:23,679 Oh, Lord! You know what I mean? 914 00:38:23,780 --> 00:38:26,549 I'm like, I gotta go find a comedy to do, 915 00:38:26,649 --> 00:38:28,751 just to remind people. 916 00:38:28,851 --> 00:38:30,753 -Well, I told you, I felt like "Claws," 917 00:38:30,853 --> 00:38:33,022 to me, it's personally one of my favorites, 918 00:38:33,122 --> 00:38:34,991 but I wanted to know how you feel about it. 919 00:38:35,091 --> 00:38:36,592 But before you do, let's take a quick break, guys. 920 00:38:36,692 --> 00:38:38,327 We're gonna go pay some bills. 921 00:38:38,428 --> 00:38:39,629 We'll be back with Niecy Nash Betts after this, 922 00:38:39,729 --> 00:38:40,963 and we're talking "Claws." 923 00:38:41,064 --> 00:38:45,701 -So many people for such a small man. 924 00:38:47,103 --> 00:38:49,739 Jesus. And them over there, too, look over there. 925 00:38:49,839 --> 00:38:51,641 There's people over there, too. 926 00:38:51,741 --> 00:38:53,943 ** 927 00:38:54,043 --> 00:38:55,912 [ Laughs ] 928 00:38:56,012 --> 00:38:58,915 So many people for such a small man. 929 00:38:59,015 --> 00:39:04,554 ** 930 00:39:04,654 --> 00:39:06,355 For such a tiny fellow. 931 00:39:06,456 --> 00:39:11,828 ** 932 00:39:20,803 --> 00:39:22,338 -Guys, this is "Hart to Heart," 933 00:39:22,438 --> 00:39:25,608 and I'm about to get some of my personal questions answered. 934 00:39:25,708 --> 00:39:28,177 I really wanted to know about "Claws." 935 00:39:28,277 --> 00:39:32,348 I personally feel like "Claws," 936 00:39:32,448 --> 00:39:38,087 it just put a different Niecy Nash Betts on bird's-eye view, 937 00:39:38,187 --> 00:39:40,156 you know what I mean? -Yeah. 938 00:39:40,256 --> 00:39:43,259 -Like, and I know other things started coming, once again, 939 00:39:43,359 --> 00:39:46,729 after the Ava calls, and the movies just started to come in, 940 00:39:46,829 --> 00:39:48,197 and they get bigger and bigger, 941 00:39:48,297 --> 00:39:50,967 and the choices, they're dramatic. 942 00:39:51,067 --> 00:39:52,835 'Cause we now know you can operate in that space. 943 00:39:52,935 --> 00:39:55,972 Now there's a feeling of, "Well, damn. I can do both. 944 00:39:56,072 --> 00:39:57,907 I hope that you don't forget that I can do both." 945 00:39:58,007 --> 00:40:02,678 I feel like this is where -- this is the moment of, now, 946 00:40:02,779 --> 00:40:05,982 having the understanding that you're also in the position to, 947 00:40:06,082 --> 00:40:08,551 really, create for yourself. -Yeah. 948 00:40:08,651 --> 00:40:12,155 -The creative engine now, is that exciting for you? 949 00:40:12,255 --> 00:40:13,990 -I love it. 950 00:40:14,090 --> 00:40:18,528 I mean, I have something that I'm working on right now. 951 00:40:18,628 --> 00:40:21,631 You know, I ended up with a first-look deal somewhere, 952 00:40:21,731 --> 00:40:24,600 you know, bringing other projects 953 00:40:24,700 --> 00:40:28,404 that I'm not in to life. 954 00:40:28,504 --> 00:40:30,573 -Uplifting, amplifying other talent. 955 00:40:30,673 --> 00:40:32,675 -Other talent. Yes, yes, yeah. 956 00:40:32,775 --> 00:40:34,243 I've never gotten a job, by the way, 957 00:40:34,343 --> 00:40:36,079 and not gotten somebody else a job. 958 00:40:36,179 --> 00:40:40,116 I always feel like you don't hoard a blessing. 959 00:40:40,216 --> 00:40:42,051 -Is that a priority to you? 960 00:40:42,151 --> 00:40:44,754 Is that, like, something that's in the line for you? 961 00:40:44,854 --> 00:40:50,093 Like, "In my opportunity, let me find an opportunity for someone, 962 00:40:50,193 --> 00:40:51,961 or others in general"? 963 00:40:52,061 --> 00:40:53,763 -It's just what it is. It's just how I move. 964 00:40:53,863 --> 00:40:56,132 -Got it. -And I don't care what you do. 965 00:40:56,232 --> 00:40:58,601 You a grip, you sell music, 966 00:40:58,701 --> 00:41:01,671 maybe you know how to press hair, whatever it is. 967 00:41:01,771 --> 00:41:04,107 -Why? Where does that come from? 968 00:41:04,207 --> 00:41:07,443 -I just feel like, for me, it just feels like breathing. 969 00:41:07,543 --> 00:41:09,512 Like, I don't even -- It's not like, 970 00:41:09,612 --> 00:41:11,614 "Let me think about why I would want to." 971 00:41:11,714 --> 00:41:13,616 It's like, "Oh, this is for me? 972 00:41:13,716 --> 00:41:18,888 Oh, who else can be blessed because of this thing?" 973 00:41:18,988 --> 00:41:21,591 -The reason why I said, like, "Why?," 974 00:41:21,691 --> 00:41:24,627 is there something in that that reverts back to home? 975 00:41:24,727 --> 00:41:26,629 Is that Mom, Dad? 976 00:41:26,729 --> 00:41:30,099 Was that, rest in peace, brother? 977 00:41:30,199 --> 00:41:33,836 Where do you think the energy attached to, 978 00:41:33,936 --> 00:41:36,339 "I wanna make sure that if I have, 979 00:41:36,439 --> 00:41:38,908 someone else can, too" comes from? 980 00:41:39,008 --> 00:41:41,444 -I feel like that's probably a Mama thing. 981 00:41:41,544 --> 00:41:43,446 -Okay. 982 00:41:43,546 --> 00:41:45,548 -You know, watching how she cared for people 983 00:41:45,648 --> 00:41:51,954 and just made sure everybody had something. 984 00:41:52,055 --> 00:41:55,858 And I don't know, it's just my way. 985 00:41:55,958 --> 00:42:01,731 I just will never -- I pray it never changes, 986 00:42:01,831 --> 00:42:03,933 because I love it just like that. 987 00:42:04,033 --> 00:42:06,102 -What now? 988 00:42:06,202 --> 00:42:10,206 Like, what else do you feel like you can give to the business, 989 00:42:10,306 --> 00:42:13,443 that can, like, strongly define where you are? 990 00:42:13,543 --> 00:42:17,580 You've said, multiple times in our conversation tonight, 991 00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:21,284 "I'm not the same person I was. I've changed, I'm different." 992 00:42:21,384 --> 00:42:26,723 So with that change, what else is there that you wanna do? 993 00:42:26,823 --> 00:42:29,525 -The short answer would be create. 994 00:42:29,625 --> 00:42:31,360 -Okay. 995 00:42:31,461 --> 00:42:34,197 -You know, and know that, through my life experiences, 996 00:42:34,297 --> 00:42:36,365 all the things that I've been through, 997 00:42:36,466 --> 00:42:40,636 that there is an add value when you put pen to paper, 998 00:42:40,737 --> 00:42:44,941 and, you know, my mandate for my company is 999 00:42:45,041 --> 00:42:47,510 "voices unheard, stories untold." 1000 00:42:47,610 --> 00:42:49,112 -Nice. 1001 00:42:49,212 --> 00:42:51,381 -So wanting to be at a space where you unpack, 1002 00:42:51,481 --> 00:42:54,484 you know what I mean, someone who has been overlooked, 1003 00:42:54,584 --> 00:42:56,719 or you tell a story that, you know, 1004 00:42:56,819 --> 00:42:58,121 people may not be familiar with, 1005 00:42:58,221 --> 00:43:03,092 just to be able to allow people's minds to, like, 1006 00:43:03,192 --> 00:43:05,128 stretch and grow, like, "I didn't know that. 1007 00:43:05,228 --> 00:43:06,963 Wait a minute, what?!" 1008 00:43:07,063 --> 00:43:08,698 And then also to allow people to feel seen, 1009 00:43:08,798 --> 00:43:09,966 you know what I mean? 1010 00:43:10,066 --> 00:43:12,101 -Yeah. I do. 1011 00:43:12,201 --> 00:43:18,274 -So I guess that would be what's in front of me right now. 1012 00:43:18,374 --> 00:43:21,644 -You keep saying, you know, your story, 1013 00:43:21,744 --> 00:43:23,579 or tell your story, right? 1014 00:43:23,679 --> 00:43:27,617 I know you, so I just know how much... 1015 00:43:27,717 --> 00:43:31,921 how much is in your story. 1016 00:43:32,021 --> 00:43:33,856 -When you read it on paper, baby, 1017 00:43:33,956 --> 00:43:35,258 if you saw me in a straight jacket, 1018 00:43:35,358 --> 00:43:36,893 you wouldn't be surprised, or in jail. 1019 00:43:36,993 --> 00:43:38,594 -But you've done it, though. 1020 00:43:38,694 --> 00:43:41,130 Like, you've put in on paper. Like, the world of storytelling, 1021 00:43:41,230 --> 00:43:43,366 your journey as an author, you've done it. 1022 00:43:43,466 --> 00:43:46,969 But to be that transparent, to get to a place where it's like, 1023 00:43:47,070 --> 00:43:49,872 you know, "I'm choosing happiness, 1024 00:43:49,972 --> 00:43:52,275 I'm choosing what's best for me," right? 1025 00:43:52,375 --> 00:43:54,444 -Yeah, yeah. -That discovery is a real one, 1026 00:43:54,544 --> 00:43:57,680 and it's one that, sometimes, isn't often found. 1027 00:43:57,780 --> 00:43:59,615 It's one that, 1028 00:43:59,716 --> 00:44:03,352 you know, is never-ending for a lot of people. 1029 00:44:03,453 --> 00:44:05,288 For you, 1030 00:44:05,388 --> 00:44:09,425 I think that's a clear, defining moment of your light bulb 1031 00:44:09,525 --> 00:44:12,161 of happiness and your choice of you 1032 00:44:12,261 --> 00:44:14,797 rather than the choice of others before you. 1033 00:44:14,897 --> 00:44:17,066 -And, baby, you said something when you said that, 1034 00:44:17,166 --> 00:44:19,736 'cause that's it. That's it right there. 1035 00:44:19,836 --> 00:44:22,739 And I mean, even in my -- 1036 00:44:22,839 --> 00:44:25,174 I've been to the big show three times, you know? 1037 00:44:25,274 --> 00:44:28,177 But now, I'm on my third marriage, 1038 00:44:28,277 --> 00:44:30,079 that's what I meant when I said "big show." 1039 00:44:30,179 --> 00:44:31,447 -I know what you meant, 'cause I'm, you know? 1040 00:44:31,547 --> 00:44:32,849 -The big show's a wedding! 1041 00:44:32,949 --> 00:44:34,417 -Alright, stop. Hold on a second. 1042 00:44:34,517 --> 00:44:36,953 I'm on two big shows, alright? 1043 00:44:37,053 --> 00:44:38,688 -Oh, I know. -Oh, shut up. 1044 00:44:38,788 --> 00:44:40,590 Don't do it. 1045 00:44:40,690 --> 00:44:42,992 -Oh, I know. -See, this what you do. 1046 00:44:43,092 --> 00:44:44,594 Don't start pointing at me. 1047 00:44:44,694 --> 00:44:46,262 Don't start your shit. 1048 00:44:46,362 --> 00:44:47,797 -I was gonna say something, I'm not even gonna say it. 1049 00:44:47,897 --> 00:44:49,031 -How can you say -- I've kept it so good! 1050 00:44:49,132 --> 00:44:51,267 -I know! That's why I said -- 1051 00:44:51,367 --> 00:44:53,035 -And you was about to go there, as soon as I say something. 1052 00:44:53,136 --> 00:44:55,772 I know. You did this. You dirty-pointed at me. 1053 00:44:55,872 --> 00:44:57,340 -And I pulled it back. -Yes. 1054 00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,742 -I pulled it right back. 1055 00:44:59,842 --> 00:45:03,746 Just like this. Like, look, like a little mime. 1056 00:45:03,846 --> 00:45:05,715 I pulled it back. -Okay. 1057 00:45:05,815 --> 00:45:07,016 [ Laughs ] 1058 00:45:07,116 --> 00:45:09,285 You're on your third, fourth, fourth? 1059 00:45:09,385 --> 00:45:11,020 -Third. -Third. 1060 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:12,388 -And even when -- I have to tell you, 1061 00:45:12,488 --> 00:45:17,894 so even when I got married to JB, you know, 1062 00:45:17,994 --> 00:45:20,129 there were people that loved me was like, you know, 1063 00:45:20,229 --> 00:45:22,999 "You can't -- I don't care if this makes you happy. 1064 00:45:23,099 --> 00:45:25,201 You can't tell other people 1065 00:45:25,301 --> 00:45:27,904 because you'll never eat lunch in this town again." 1066 00:45:28,004 --> 00:45:31,040 I said, "This town? This town?" 1067 00:45:31,140 --> 00:45:33,176 They were like, "Yeah." 1068 00:45:33,276 --> 00:45:37,647 And I chose to run after the thing 1069 00:45:37,747 --> 00:45:40,516 that served me with reckless abandon. 1070 00:45:40,616 --> 00:45:47,090 I'm like, "I'm so happy," and I'm gonna always lead with that, 1071 00:45:47,190 --> 00:45:50,560 because the happier I am off-camera, 1072 00:45:50,660 --> 00:45:54,497 the much more I enjoy my life on-camera, you know? 1073 00:45:54,597 --> 00:45:57,767 And it's just important to me. 1074 00:45:57,867 --> 00:46:00,403 Like, I'm basically a show girl. 1075 00:46:00,503 --> 00:46:03,272 How I can keep anything a secret, you know what I mean? 1076 00:46:03,372 --> 00:46:07,276 I was born in sequins and eyelashes and all the things. 1077 00:46:07,377 --> 00:46:09,078 Like... And who wants to be inside -- 1078 00:46:09,178 --> 00:46:10,980 You ever been inside of a closet? 1079 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:12,949 It's dark, it don't got windows, 1080 00:46:13,049 --> 00:46:14,550 there ain't nothing to eat in there. 1081 00:46:14,650 --> 00:46:17,620 -That then acts as the answer to my light-bulb question, 1082 00:46:17,720 --> 00:46:19,789 was that your happy moment of saying, 1083 00:46:19,889 --> 00:46:24,727 "I'm going to free myself from the idea of this closet and..."? 1084 00:46:24,827 --> 00:46:27,830 -No, because I was never inside of a closet. 1085 00:46:27,930 --> 00:46:31,200 I just loved who I loved until I didn't. 1086 00:46:31,300 --> 00:46:32,602 -Okay. -You know what I mean? 1087 00:46:32,702 --> 00:46:34,137 I loved boys. 1088 00:46:34,237 --> 00:46:35,938 I mean, they're great, you know what I mean? 1089 00:46:36,038 --> 00:46:38,975 -You don't have to -- I wanna make this very clear, 1090 00:46:39,075 --> 00:46:40,476 I'm not looking to -- -Boys are great. 1091 00:46:40,576 --> 00:46:42,111 -I get that, but I'm saying -- -Boys are really great. 1092 00:46:42,211 --> 00:46:43,446 -I know that, but I wanna make this -- 1093 00:46:43,546 --> 00:46:46,616 I don't want you to, like... -[ Laughing ] 1094 00:46:46,716 --> 00:46:49,085 -That's not why I'm asking these questions, alright? 1095 00:46:49,185 --> 00:46:52,822 I'm not looking for any of that conversation with you, Niecy. 1096 00:46:52,922 --> 00:46:56,192 I get it, alright? I'm asking about the happy. 1097 00:46:56,292 --> 00:46:57,860 -That's what I'm trying to tell you, 1098 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,663 is that I just -- -Don't get me in trouble with JB 1099 00:47:00,763 --> 00:47:02,331 come talking to me. 1100 00:47:02,432 --> 00:47:04,500 -Oh, yeah. She will talk to you, still. 1101 00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,402 -Don't put me in the hot seat. 1102 00:47:06,502 --> 00:47:07,870 -Oh, you know she talked to somebody stiff at your party? 1103 00:47:07,970 --> 00:47:09,906 -Okay, see what I'm saying? Here we go. 1104 00:47:10,006 --> 00:47:11,507 I just asked a simple question. -Sure did. 1105 00:47:11,607 --> 00:47:13,576 -I'm not looking for no trouble from JB. 1106 00:47:13,676 --> 00:47:15,211 -No, you don't. -Thank you. 1107 00:47:15,311 --> 00:47:17,246 -But what I'm saying is, is that I just met 1108 00:47:17,346 --> 00:47:20,349 the most beautiful soul I had encountered, 1109 00:47:20,450 --> 00:47:25,188 and I was just like, "Wow," like, you know, 1110 00:47:25,288 --> 00:47:27,523 because we were friends first, 1111 00:47:27,623 --> 00:47:30,326 that was more troubling than the fact she was a woman. 1112 00:47:30,426 --> 00:47:32,061 I'm like, "You're a woman and you're my friend, 1113 00:47:32,161 --> 00:47:35,932 but if this don't work out, I will be devastated, 1114 00:47:36,032 --> 00:47:37,366 because I wanna know you. I wanna know you." 1115 00:47:37,467 --> 00:47:38,935 -"I don't wanna lose you as a friend." 1116 00:47:39,035 --> 00:47:40,570 -Right. "I wanna know you 1117 00:47:40,670 --> 00:47:42,405 when they throw dirt on my face," you know what I mean? 1118 00:47:42,505 --> 00:47:44,440 "I want you standing up with me going, 1119 00:47:44,540 --> 00:47:46,809 "She look just like herself." You know? That's what I want. 1120 00:47:46,909 --> 00:47:48,778 And if I mess it up because of this, 1121 00:47:48,878 --> 00:47:51,080 I'll never forgive myself. -Yeah. 1122 00:47:51,180 --> 00:47:53,549 -But, um, I pushed through. 1123 00:47:53,649 --> 00:47:57,286 I was like, "I just -- I have to be in this relationship 1124 00:47:57,387 --> 00:48:00,957 because I feel so satiated, I feel fully seen," 1125 00:48:01,057 --> 00:48:03,593 and I'm so happy, you know? 1126 00:48:03,693 --> 00:48:06,496 And, you know, of course, 1127 00:48:06,596 --> 00:48:08,531 you're always gonna have people who are haters, 1128 00:48:08,631 --> 00:48:14,237 and, you know, people who talk down on what you're doing, 1129 00:48:14,337 --> 00:48:17,740 but I don't care. -I was gonna say, 1130 00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:21,978 you can't have the energy of going into an audition, 1131 00:48:22,078 --> 00:48:24,414 and not knowing what's going on 1132 00:48:24,514 --> 00:48:27,083 but telling people to hurry up, and then-- 1133 00:48:27,183 --> 00:48:28,117 -Then care about what people think. 1134 00:48:28,217 --> 00:48:29,886 -There you go. -Yes. 1135 00:48:29,986 --> 00:48:31,921 Those two things don't go hand-in-hand, 1136 00:48:32,021 --> 00:48:34,624 and you've never come across as a person to let that energy, 1137 00:48:34,724 --> 00:48:38,928 or, you know, let that space of negativity get to you. 1138 00:48:39,028 --> 00:48:40,063 -No. -It's one of the reasons 1139 00:48:40,163 --> 00:48:42,865 why you're one of my favorite. 1140 00:48:42,965 --> 00:48:44,467 Like, you're just -- you're the same. 1141 00:48:44,567 --> 00:48:47,403 Like, you've been the same, and I don't know, 1142 00:48:47,503 --> 00:48:50,339 I just have so much respect for the same. 1143 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:53,176 Like, that's -- because that's the real energy 1144 00:48:53,276 --> 00:48:55,645 that I think we desperately look for, 1145 00:48:55,745 --> 00:48:58,614 would love to surround ourselves with whenever we can, 1146 00:48:58,715 --> 00:49:00,783 but sometimes comes far, few, and in between. 1147 00:49:00,883 --> 00:49:05,621 -And the one thing you know for sure is that fame, money, 1148 00:49:05,722 --> 00:49:13,696 success has nothing to do with pain, trauma, shame, guilt. 1149 00:49:13,796 --> 00:49:15,732 It has nothing to do with any of those things. 1150 00:49:15,832 --> 00:49:18,468 Those are equal opportunity things, and they gonna find you, 1151 00:49:18,568 --> 00:49:20,770 as the old folks say, "just keep on living." 1152 00:49:20,870 --> 00:49:23,673 And so in the keeping on living, 1153 00:49:23,773 --> 00:49:26,275 I've been through so many hard moments, you know? 1154 00:49:26,375 --> 00:49:28,511 I got divorced on camera, 1155 00:49:28,611 --> 00:49:30,313 then I got married again, and I wrote a relationship book, 1156 00:49:30,413 --> 00:49:32,548 and then that marriage failed. 1157 00:49:32,648 --> 00:49:36,052 And then, you know, all of these things that would happen, 1158 00:49:36,152 --> 00:49:39,889 but I pressed toward the mark no matter what. 1159 00:49:39,989 --> 00:49:41,624 It's the "no matter what" of it all 1160 00:49:41,724 --> 00:49:44,260 are the three words that I have lived by, 1161 00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,763 and that's the reason why, with this picture you got right here, 1162 00:49:46,863 --> 00:49:49,966 when I got up there at that Emmy speech and I said, 1163 00:49:50,066 --> 00:49:51,801 "I wanna thank me." 1164 00:49:51,901 --> 00:49:55,538 Because I know what it cost me to be falling apart 1165 00:49:55,638 --> 00:49:59,008 in a trailer, and them be like, "They're ready for you." 1166 00:49:59,108 --> 00:50:00,910 "Okay," you know? 1167 00:50:01,010 --> 00:50:02,412 And you have to get yourself together, 1168 00:50:02,512 --> 00:50:04,447 and you still gotta show up, 1169 00:50:04,547 --> 00:50:06,816 and the show must go on, and you the show. 1170 00:50:06,916 --> 00:50:08,651 -Yeah. -You know what I mean? 1171 00:50:08,751 --> 00:50:13,322 I stay in that place of "no matter what." 1172 00:50:13,423 --> 00:50:15,324 You gotta cry all the way to an audition 1173 00:50:15,425 --> 00:50:17,593 where you gotta be funny, no matter what. 1174 00:50:17,693 --> 00:50:20,029 I had to take all three of my kids to callbacks 1175 00:50:20,129 --> 00:50:21,864 when I was just getting started, 1176 00:50:21,964 --> 00:50:23,566 because I didn't have a babysitter, 1177 00:50:23,666 --> 00:50:25,501 I couldn't afford it, I was the babysitter. 1178 00:50:25,601 --> 00:50:27,370 -Yeah. -No matter what, you know? 1179 00:50:27,470 --> 00:50:30,807 And I still stay in that place. 1180 00:50:30,907 --> 00:50:33,109 My no matter what's are a little bit different now, 1181 00:50:33,209 --> 00:50:38,514 but all still with that same mindset and energy 1182 00:50:38,614 --> 00:50:40,349 to stay committed to the commitment 1183 00:50:40,450 --> 00:50:43,519 and the call on my life. 1184 00:50:43,619 --> 00:50:45,054 -No, happiness is such a good conversation. 1185 00:50:45,154 --> 00:50:47,123 I just feel like, 1186 00:50:47,223 --> 00:50:48,725 you know, it's where we ultimately all wanna be, 1187 00:50:48,825 --> 00:50:50,526 and I told you before, I feel like you're there, 1188 00:50:50,626 --> 00:50:52,528 I want other people to understand that more. 1189 00:50:52,628 --> 00:50:53,896 Guys, we're gonna take a break. 1190 00:50:53,996 --> 00:50:55,531 We'll be right back. 1191 00:50:55,631 --> 00:50:58,000 We're gonna talk happy, we're gonna talk her happy. 1192 00:50:58,101 --> 00:50:59,402 You should hear it, so don't go anywhere. 1193 00:50:59,502 --> 00:51:01,304 -What was a moment in your career 1194 00:51:01,404 --> 00:51:03,005 that made you realize that you made it? 1195 00:51:03,106 --> 00:51:06,242 -* Baby girl, you made it, you made it * 1196 00:51:06,342 --> 00:51:10,446 Um, when did I know I made it? Oh. 1197 00:51:10,546 --> 00:51:12,749 You know what? I guess I knew I made it 1198 00:51:12,849 --> 00:51:15,551 when they did a spoof of me on "Saturday Night Live." 1199 00:51:15,651 --> 00:51:17,120 I mean, I guess that's success. 1200 00:51:17,220 --> 00:51:19,756 That will tell you right there, won't it? 1201 00:51:34,537 --> 00:51:35,938 -Can I see that, please? -Don't do this to yourself. 1202 00:51:36,038 --> 00:51:40,043 -Don't be ridiculous. Look. 1203 00:51:40,143 --> 00:51:42,078 See that? 1204 00:51:42,178 --> 00:51:44,080 I'm gonna move the lint so I can sit back. 1205 00:51:44,180 --> 00:51:47,083 -Kevin, if you were out on the red carpet, they would drag you. 1206 00:51:47,183 --> 00:51:49,886 -I would never. [ Laughs ] I would never. 1207 00:51:49,986 --> 00:51:51,387 -They would drag you. 1208 00:51:51,487 --> 00:51:54,023 -You know what I would never do? Go to the red carpet. 1209 00:51:54,123 --> 00:51:56,059 -Here, let me come down to your size. 1210 00:51:56,159 --> 00:51:58,161 -Stop it, don't do this. Let's go. 1211 00:51:58,261 --> 00:52:00,463 Let's wrap it up. -They would drag you. 1212 00:52:00,563 --> 00:52:02,365 -Alright. -You understand me? 1213 00:52:02,465 --> 00:52:04,434 -Tell the team to go. Let's go. -Now get yourself together, 1214 00:52:04,534 --> 00:52:06,502 and don't you come out the house like this. 1215 00:52:06,602 --> 00:52:08,638 I know your wife didn't see you in that 1216 00:52:08,738 --> 00:52:10,073 'cause she would've told you don't wear that. 1217 00:52:10,173 --> 00:52:12,308 -Put your shoes on and stop it. 1218 00:52:12,408 --> 00:52:15,111 -No, 'cause I'm trying to talk to you eye-to-eye. 1219 00:52:15,211 --> 00:52:18,314 -Look at me, I'm back. Look at that. Huh? 1220 00:52:18,414 --> 00:52:20,049 Back to a [indistinct] 1221 00:52:20,149 --> 00:52:21,584 -[ Laughs ] 1222 00:52:21,684 --> 00:52:23,119 -Welcome back to "Hart to Heart." 1223 00:52:23,219 --> 00:52:24,987 We're talking to Niecy Nash Betts, and, guys, 1224 00:52:25,088 --> 00:52:27,457 I'm getting all of the secret spices 1225 00:52:27,557 --> 00:52:29,759 and the sauce that she's put into her life, the business. 1226 00:52:29,859 --> 00:52:32,995 So where were we? 1227 00:52:33,096 --> 00:52:34,731 You break down your "no matter what," 1228 00:52:34,831 --> 00:52:36,799 you break down what is attached to you, 1229 00:52:36,899 --> 00:52:41,838 you break down the trials, the tribulations. 1230 00:52:41,938 --> 00:52:44,440 But ultimately, you get to your moment. 1231 00:52:44,540 --> 00:52:46,142 When you get to your moment, 1232 00:52:46,242 --> 00:52:47,677 you don't know what that moment is gonna be, 1233 00:52:47,777 --> 00:52:49,011 but you're gonna feel it when it happens. 1234 00:52:49,112 --> 00:52:50,713 -Mm-hmm. 1235 00:52:50,813 --> 00:52:52,248 -Your moment came when you were on that grand stage, 1236 00:52:52,348 --> 00:52:54,384 you had an opportunity to accept an award, 1237 00:52:54,484 --> 00:52:56,119 you got an opportunity, like, 1238 00:52:56,219 --> 00:52:58,654 put some great positivity out there, 1239 00:52:58,755 --> 00:53:00,690 but more importantly, some matter-of-fact. 1240 00:53:00,790 --> 00:53:02,525 -Mm-hmm. 1241 00:53:02,625 --> 00:53:04,694 -Like, here's some real words 1242 00:53:04,794 --> 00:53:08,097 with some real life, real energy, 1243 00:53:08,197 --> 00:53:11,567 but something to really hold on to, and that's different. 1244 00:53:11,667 --> 00:53:14,437 And you start to, like, add to the value 1245 00:53:14,537 --> 00:53:17,540 that you already know you found. -Yeah. 1246 00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:18,875 -You know you discovered your value, 1247 00:53:18,975 --> 00:53:21,010 you know you know your value. 1248 00:53:21,110 --> 00:53:23,379 You know you know what you do. 1249 00:53:23,479 --> 00:53:25,314 You know that you feel seen. 1250 00:53:25,415 --> 00:53:27,884 You found a partner, you're in a great place 1251 00:53:27,984 --> 00:53:32,288 where your value is not something that's in -- 1252 00:53:32,388 --> 00:53:34,023 it's just in jeopardy, right? 1253 00:53:34,123 --> 00:53:37,693 -Yeah, yeah. -Like, that's the win. 1254 00:53:37,794 --> 00:53:40,763 -That's the win. -That's the win. 1255 00:53:40,863 --> 00:53:45,201 But the mindset, if you get that, that's next level. 1256 00:53:45,301 --> 00:53:47,303 -I'm a winner, baby. -You got there. 1257 00:53:47,403 --> 00:53:49,472 -That's what I said, that's what I believe. 1258 00:53:49,572 --> 00:53:53,076 -I will say, in closing, 1259 00:53:53,176 --> 00:53:59,115 I'm not gonna give you too many compliments in our relationship, 1260 00:53:59,215 --> 00:54:01,417 like, after this, so I'll make this, like, 1261 00:54:01,517 --> 00:54:03,553 just my last. -Okay. 1262 00:54:03,653 --> 00:54:05,621 -'Cause you won't receive it. -Anymore? 1263 00:54:05,722 --> 00:54:06,956 -But I just wanna make it very clear. 1264 00:54:07,056 --> 00:54:08,758 -Okay. -So don't ever ask me 1265 00:54:08,858 --> 00:54:11,728 to repeat what I said after I say it. 1266 00:54:11,828 --> 00:54:14,130 Play this back so I know that you see it, you saw it. 1267 00:54:14,230 --> 00:54:15,932 -Uh-huh. Mm-hmm. 1268 00:54:16,032 --> 00:54:19,802 -You're one of my favorites, you're one of my favorites 1269 00:54:19,902 --> 00:54:23,873 because our relationship comes with a shit-talking 1270 00:54:23,973 --> 00:54:27,009 and joking atmosphere that we've created. 1271 00:54:27,110 --> 00:54:28,444 The reason why I say you're one of my favorites 1272 00:54:28,544 --> 00:54:30,413 is because I root for you, 1273 00:54:30,513 --> 00:54:35,351 and I call you and I text you when I'm supposed to. 1274 00:54:35,451 --> 00:54:37,420 But your happy makes me happy. 1275 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,256 -Thank you. -And I mean that. 1276 00:54:40,356 --> 00:54:41,591 Like, 'cause I know where you've come from, 1277 00:54:41,691 --> 00:54:43,059 I know what you've done. 1278 00:54:43,159 --> 00:54:44,927 Everybody doesn't know that, 1279 00:54:45,027 --> 00:54:46,829 everybody doesn't know the background of you. 1280 00:54:46,929 --> 00:54:48,598 And to those that don't, 1281 00:54:48,698 --> 00:54:50,967 I recommend, like, you go get the book, 1282 00:54:51,067 --> 00:54:58,641 you get a little educated just on what Niecy Nash Betts 1283 00:54:58,741 --> 00:55:00,543 has really been through 1284 00:55:00,643 --> 00:55:02,845 and, like, how she got to the place of sitting in this seat 1285 00:55:02,945 --> 00:55:05,348 and having the conversation that we're having. 1286 00:55:05,448 --> 00:55:07,483 It's fucking dope! 1287 00:55:07,583 --> 00:55:08,785 And the scary thing is that, 1288 00:55:08,885 --> 00:55:10,386 like, you're still not done, so... 1289 00:55:10,486 --> 00:55:12,288 -Still not done, Kevin. 1290 00:55:12,388 --> 00:55:15,124 -Whatever those things are that you do next, 1291 00:55:15,224 --> 00:55:17,560 do 'em well and I can't wait 1292 00:55:17,660 --> 00:55:20,463 until we do share the screen together 1293 00:55:20,563 --> 00:55:22,298 in a way that we're supposed to. 1294 00:55:22,398 --> 00:55:24,267 And we'll figure out whatever that is, 1295 00:55:24,367 --> 00:55:26,836 but the one thing I'm happy about 1296 00:55:26,936 --> 00:55:28,104 is that I got a relationship with you. 1297 00:55:28,204 --> 00:55:30,273 So don't fucking change, 1298 00:55:30,373 --> 00:55:32,041 continue to do what you're doing, 1299 00:55:32,141 --> 00:55:35,344 and, you know, JB won. 1300 00:55:35,445 --> 00:55:37,313 -[ Laughs ] 1301 00:55:37,413 --> 00:55:40,183 -JB won. This version of you is fucking dope. 1302 00:55:40,283 --> 00:55:41,884 I love where you are, and I mean it. 1303 00:55:41,984 --> 00:55:43,553 -Thank you. Thank you. 1304 00:55:43,653 --> 00:55:45,488 -So I appreciate you doing a "Hart to Heart," 1305 00:55:45,588 --> 00:55:47,256 and don't ask me to be nice to you again after this. 1306 00:55:47,356 --> 00:55:49,492 Don't ask for another compliment. 1307 00:55:49,592 --> 00:55:54,731 I have worn them all out here on this fucking platform. 1308 00:55:54,831 --> 00:55:57,266 We are done. -Okay, well, cheers to that. 1309 00:55:57,366 --> 00:55:59,001 -Let's cheers to that. -Cheers to that. 1310 00:55:59,102 --> 00:56:01,604 -To you not asking ever again. Ladies and gentlemen -- 1311 00:56:01,704 --> 00:56:03,239 -Ever? -Don't. Niecy, please. 1312 00:56:03,339 --> 00:56:05,708 -Ever? That's, like, so harsh. 1313 00:56:05,808 --> 00:56:08,544 -Niecy, I'm done. Cheers. 1314 00:56:08,644 --> 00:56:10,747 Cheers. -Hmm. 1315 00:56:10,847 --> 00:56:13,049 -To an amazing "Hart to Heart" with one of the best hearts. 1316 00:56:13,149 --> 00:56:15,017 Ladies and gentlemen, this was Niecy Nash Betts. 1317 00:56:15,118 --> 00:56:16,386 Come on, give her some love. 1318 00:56:16,486 --> 00:56:18,020 [ Applause ] 1319 00:56:18,121 --> 00:56:20,723 Such a -- That was so good. 1320 00:56:20,823 --> 00:56:23,159 I didn't mean none of that. -Hmm? 1321 00:56:23,259 --> 00:56:25,161 -I didn't mean any of that. 1322 00:56:25,261 --> 00:56:27,230 -You didn't mean any of what, the nice stuff you said? 1323 00:56:27,330 --> 00:56:29,599 -Yes, I'm so good, though, that people will think I did. 1324 00:56:29,699 --> 00:56:33,469 Hey, Casey, lint brush, let's shoot the shit so we can go. 1325 00:56:33,569 --> 00:56:36,506 Fucking Niecy. Right? 1326 00:56:36,606 --> 00:56:39,709 Did I sell it? I read it off the prompter. 1327 00:56:39,809 --> 00:56:41,010 Joking. 1328 00:56:41,060 --> 00:56:45,610 Repair and Synchronization by Easy Subtitles Synchronizer 1.0.0.0 105423

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