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Previously on "Dirty John"...
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I'm John.
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Ronnie thinks
that John is creepy
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and might be a gold digger.
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I'm trying to find somebody
who's smart
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and funny
and someone I'm attracted to.
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There's something wrong
with him.
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Do you not see that?
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I found out some things
about you.
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You weren't in Iraq.
You lived in a trailer park.
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You don't even have
a medical license.
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You worry about
your own sad life.
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I'll worry about Debbie.
We're married now.
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We hired someone.
A private detective.
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We need to figure out
why he's lying to you.
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John's not a perfect person.
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But I love him
because he's a good man.
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Did you open my mail?
How dare you?
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It's a felony to open
someone's mail.
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My God, this place makes me want
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to curl up
in the fetal position.
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- You said one drink.
- I say a lot of things.
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Well, I actually listened
to this one.
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I should have just gone home
and had a bowl of cereal...
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Greyhound or sea breeze?
Greyhound or sea breeze?
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Okay. If this place
has grapefruit juice,
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I'll pay your next month's rent.
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- Hey, Ton.
- Hi.
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So anyway, one of my patients
today was getting
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a quadruple bypass,
and his entire family...
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And it was getting
so annoying because...
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Nice scrubs.
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Thanks.
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No, I mean, seriously, like,
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it's a great color.
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Nice pants.
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You like 'em?
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Good.
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I was kind of
on the fence today.
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I wasn't sure whether
to go with pants.
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And I thought, "Probably."
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Probably pants."
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What were your other choices?
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Barrel and suspenders.
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Catsuit...
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some kind of decorative,
you know, paint situation.
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Shorts?
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Shorts. Yeah.
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That's definitely a choice
people make, right?
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So let me get this straight.
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So then do you get different
anesthesia training?
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No. No, it's the same.
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But when a nurse...
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anesthetist.
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You can't even say it.
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You can't even say it.
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I can say it. I can say it.
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But when a nurse anesthetist...
Anesthetist.
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Anesanesthetist.
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Administers anesthesia,
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it's nursing,
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so it has to be overseen
by a doctor.
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But when an anesthesiologist
does it,
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it's medicine, so it doesn't
have to be overseen, so.
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- Okay, wait.
- That's the difference.
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So you do the same job
as anesthesiologist...
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But with a chaperone
for half the money.
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Well, I mean...
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half the money
is still great money.
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And no one really chaperones
me anymore...
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But doesn't that make you mad?
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- Um...
- I mean, that would...
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That would make me mad,
I'm sorry.
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But I mean, I'm mad for you.
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II mean...
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you should be paid more.
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Maybe I should go
to law school then.
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There's still time.
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Okay, you're making fun
of me now.
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I see.
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You know, I am on the pathway
to the...
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materially rich,
spiritually empty existence
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of my dreams.
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That's not funny at all.
That's just sad.
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Hi, I'm Ethan, I'm the best man.
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Most of you don't know him
real well.
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I've known him,
three or four years now.
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And if you talk to any
of his friends,
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as far as the reaction
to him getting married,
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you are gonna find out
they are just
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completely shocked and baffled.
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We are going for pancakes,
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and you are not invited
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because you are busy.
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- No, I'm not.
- You've got your hands full.
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- I mean, why don't you?
- Stop it.
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You don't want a handful
of that guy, you must be crazy.
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I will see you tomorrow.
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And the reason why,
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I think the reason why
is that we're...
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skeptical people.
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So seeing him in love is...
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an inspiring thing for me.
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And I'm sure for anyone
who knows him too.
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You're leaving with them?
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Nope.
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But you're leaving.
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Yeah.
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II have a shift tomorrow.
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I should really go.
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Take me with you.
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No, II didn't mean it like that.
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I just meant, like, you know,
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let's go get a coffee
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or go for a drive,
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you know, whatever
you're comfortable with.
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It's just...
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I mean, we're having
a good time.
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Right? I just...
I don't want it to end.
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Not yet.
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Yeah, okay.
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And so, in closing,
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I wish you the best
of everything, John.
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Let's everybody say, "Cheers!"
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Cheers!
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May you live happily ever after.
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Come on, guys.
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Big smile for the camera.
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I had a dream about this,
by the way.
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You did?
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About eggs?
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Well, eggs served
by a beautiful, sexy woman.
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I mean, what could be
a better dream than that?
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Maybe a dream where I could fly.
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Maybe.
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Here you go.
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Thank you.
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What's your day?
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Um, I am...
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going to meet with a client
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in Mission Viejo.
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What's your day?
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I have a clinic in Garden Grove.
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I have to help
with a root canal.
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You ever heard
of an endodontist?
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An endodontist
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is a dentist that specializes
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in diseases of the pulp.
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Pulp, as in, like, your tooth...
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I know what an endodontist is.
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I don't need to hear
any more about that.
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You know, if you taught me
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how to cook eggs
that awesome French chef way,
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I could make them
for both of us.
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You don't have to do that, hon.
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You do so much for me already.
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We could also get the court
to enter a restraining order
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for depletion of capital.
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You know, to stop someone
from destroying assets.
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Okay.
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But that's not those, right?
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Nol mean, well,
some of them do mention money,
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stolen money, but...
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They seem to mostly be...
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threats, harassment,
intimidation, yeah.
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Wait, that's why
I was wondering,
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you know, is it possible
that maybe that's...
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not him, you know?
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I mean, maybe those
aren't about him.
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You mean, like, that John Meehan
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is a common name?
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Yeah, but...
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let's not ask him
about it just yet,
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because you did say that...
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this one is his ex-wife,
right? Tonia?
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Yeah.
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But that, you know,
that was a very,
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very ugly divorce.
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I mean, she...
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cheated on him and then
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wanted him to come back,
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andand, you know,
she fought him for custody
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and made all kinds
of accusations.
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He eventually lost his job.
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Yeah, I'm emailing these
to myself,
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okay, so that I can,
print them out.
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Okay.
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And, you know, I-I thought, too,
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you know, maybe the, um,
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those printouts
from some of those online
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forums or whatever,
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maybe that could have
been Tonia too.
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'Cause I mean, anybody can
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make a profile
and post pictures,
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and, you know, all kinds
of nasty stuff online.
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Yeah. Things can get
very out of control online.
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That's the understatement
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of the century?
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Yeah, and I wish
I could tell you
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that I've never seen
this kind of behavior
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in family court, but, well,
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people do just keep on
surprising me.
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Are you thinking you want
to file for an annulment?
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Would that help?
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Um...
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I don't know...
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Okay. That's fine.
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Look, I know
that all of this here
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is very intimidating.
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I do. I understand that.
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But I'm gonna figure out
what we're dealing with.
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Okay? We're gonna
figure it out, together.
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All right?
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Okay. Thank you.
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Okay, well,
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till then,
just keep your head down.
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You all right?
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Please don't
make fun of me, okay?
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I'm not.
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Remember, I told you,
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you don't even have to do this.
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No, I do.
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Your dad's old-school.
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He asked your grandpa
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for your mom's hand in marriage,
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and I'll do the same.
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What if you throw up on him?
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I'm kidding.
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He loves you.
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They all do.
Why are you so worried?
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Just... getting married,
you know?
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Families coming together,
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I don't know if I can do that.
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You don't know
if you can do what?
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My family, I can't...
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do that to yours, like,
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dishonor them with mine.
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You know, I know you say that,
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and I know you had
a hard time growing up, but...
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No, you don't.
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You couldn't, because,
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you know, your family's
loving and supportive.
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Mine were drug addicts
and alcoholics.
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Even before the divorce,
they hated each other.
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When I was little,
they hated me,
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and I knew that before
I even knew what it meant.
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- John...
- But you can't understand that
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because you were raised
by people to be a person.
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I was raised by monsters.
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Well, I'm here. To listen.
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If I told you
what they did to me,
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you'll think about me
the same way that they did.
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You won't be able to help it.
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John, baby, that's not true.
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I told you that I, you know,
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don't talk to them much anymore,
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but that's not true.
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I don't talk to them at all.
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For how long?
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Years.
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For years now.
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It's just,
it was either that or...
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I mean, it had to be that.
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Listen, I want this life
with you more than anything.
265
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I do, it's just...
266
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if we're gonna do this,
267
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my family cannot
be a part of it.
268
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Ever.
269
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- Okay.
- No, you have to promise me.
270
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Because next thing,
we'll have a baby,
271
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and you'll be so in love.
272
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And you'll think,
273
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"They can share in this.
274
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This'll fix everything,"
but it won't.
275
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They'll poison us,
276
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and you can't let that happen,
277
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so please promise me.
278
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I...
279
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Yeah, no, I promise.
280
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I promise.
281
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Hey.
282
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You married him?
283
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I-I-I did.
284
00:13:15,529 --> 00:13:18,463
I-Iyou know, honey,
I was gonna tell you,
285
00:13:18,498 --> 00:13:20,732
but I-I wanted to wait
for the right moment
286
00:13:20,767 --> 00:13:22,133
because youyou...
287
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You know, you hate him so much.
288
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Toby told me.
289
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John told Toby.
290
00:13:30,577 --> 00:13:32,677
I didn't know that.
291
00:13:32,712 --> 00:13:35,313
No, John wouldn't have told you.
292
00:13:35,348 --> 00:13:37,415
Toby went to the house
the day before yesterday.
293
00:13:37,450 --> 00:13:39,584
He wanted to apologize to you.
294
00:13:39,619 --> 00:13:42,020
John told him
he was trespassing.
295
00:13:42,055 --> 00:13:44,355
And that he no longer
has an aunt.
296
00:13:44,391 --> 00:13:46,235
And that it was a good thing
his father shot his mother
297
00:13:46,259 --> 00:13:48,293
before she could see
what a loser Toby is.
298
00:13:48,328 --> 00:13:49,505
- Veronica...
- John said that.
299
00:13:49,529 --> 00:13:51,229
The man that you married...
300
00:13:53,567 --> 00:13:55,733
and didn't tell us
that you married him,
301
00:13:55,769 --> 00:14:00,305
said that, about our family.
302
00:14:01,408 --> 00:14:03,942
I don'tl, you know...
303
00:14:03,977 --> 00:14:06,945
I don't know about any of that.
304
00:14:06,980 --> 00:14:11,950
You don't know this man at all.
305
00:14:11,985 --> 00:14:13,918
Or what he is...
306
00:14:13,954 --> 00:14:15,920
potentially capable of.
307
00:14:18,892 --> 00:14:20,525
Do you really,
308
00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,727
really believe that
he doesn't want your money?
309
00:14:22,762 --> 00:14:24,429
You don't see that
that's what he's wanted
310
00:14:24,464 --> 00:14:25,763
from the beginning?
311
00:14:25,799 --> 00:14:28,466
I am working through some...
312
00:14:28,501 --> 00:14:29,534
I'm figuring it out.
313
00:14:29,569 --> 00:14:30,635
How?
314
00:14:30,670 --> 00:14:33,204
I am dealing with it,
315
00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:34,572
Veronica.
316
00:14:34,608 --> 00:14:36,074
I hope you got a prenup.
317
00:14:59,866 --> 00:15:01,633
Not a science major.
318
00:15:01,668 --> 00:15:03,134
No. No.
319
00:15:03,169 --> 00:15:05,136
I did do a lot of
extra science classes
320
00:15:05,171 --> 00:15:06,771
outside of my major, though.
321
00:15:06,806 --> 00:15:10,742
Growing up, I worked
at Stanford Med as an orderly.
322
00:15:10,777 --> 00:15:13,912
So interested in medicine,
peripherally.
323
00:15:13,947 --> 00:15:15,513
Yeah.
324
00:15:15,548 --> 00:15:18,316
And then I met Tonia, and...
325
00:15:18,351 --> 00:15:20,129
I've been taking him
through all my old textbooks.
326
00:15:20,153 --> 00:15:22,787
He's picking things up
way faster than I did.
327
00:15:22,822 --> 00:15:24,923
Yeah, law school taught me
the pros and cons
328
00:15:24,958 --> 00:15:27,292
of every make of luxury car,
329
00:15:27,327 --> 00:15:28,638
but at this point,
I can't even remember
330
00:15:28,662 --> 00:15:30,295
why I went there.
331
00:15:30,330 --> 00:15:31,863
I mean, if you decide
I can't do this,
332
00:15:31,898 --> 00:15:34,098
I-I can't go back to that.
333
00:15:34,134 --> 00:15:36,668
I-I really need some purpose.
I really do.
334
00:15:36,703 --> 00:15:38,036
I will say we do see
335
00:15:38,071 --> 00:15:40,271
a proportionally high rate
of success
336
00:15:40,307 --> 00:15:43,775
with our older students.
337
00:15:43,810 --> 00:15:47,312
And you have this one
on your side, which helps.
338
00:15:47,347 --> 00:15:49,847
But it's gonna be a lot of work.
339
00:15:49,883 --> 00:15:53,051
More than you even know.
340
00:15:53,086 --> 00:15:54,452
When I want something,
341
00:15:54,487 --> 00:15:56,487
I know how to buckle down.
342
00:16:24,784 --> 00:16:27,185
All right, just let me know
when you're finished.
343
00:16:44,137 --> 00:16:46,204
Well, I have a little cash
here in the house
344
00:16:46,239 --> 00:16:47,872
that I just keep here
in case, you know,
345
00:16:47,907 --> 00:16:50,174
there's an earthquake,
God forbid, or...
346
00:16:50,210 --> 00:16:52,243
How much is it?
347
00:16:52,278 --> 00:16:53,945
I don't know, maybe...
348
00:16:53,980 --> 00:16:56,180
80,000 or 90,000?
349
00:16:56,216 --> 00:16:57,882
I rented a safe
deposit box today.
350
00:16:57,917 --> 00:16:59,450
- Yeah?
- Yeah, you know.
351
00:16:59,486 --> 00:17:01,552
For like, important papers,
passports,
352
00:17:01,588 --> 00:17:03,221
that kind of thing.
353
00:17:03,256 --> 00:17:06,224
I was thinking the cash
should go in there too.
354
00:17:06,259 --> 00:17:08,593
In case there's, like,
a fire or something.
355
00:17:12,966 --> 00:17:14,298
- Hey.
- Hi.
356
00:17:14,334 --> 00:17:16,034
How's it going?
357
00:17:16,069 --> 00:17:18,469
- Good.
- Just making myself some tea.
358
00:17:18,505 --> 00:17:20,105
I've got an upset stomach.
You want some?
359
00:17:20,140 --> 00:17:22,373
No. Yeah, sure.
360
00:17:22,409 --> 00:17:23,941
Thanks.
361
00:17:28,681 --> 00:17:31,049
So I talked to a buddy.
362
00:17:31,084 --> 00:17:33,451
A guy I met back when
I was trying to stop Tonia
363
00:17:33,486 --> 00:17:37,922
from draining me dry
after the split.
364
00:17:37,957 --> 00:17:40,258
He used to not mind
investing cash for me
365
00:17:40,293 --> 00:17:42,060
through his firm
when I needed him to.
366
00:17:42,095 --> 00:17:43,928
So I asked him to,
367
00:17:43,963 --> 00:17:46,364
hook me up
with someone out here.
368
00:17:46,399 --> 00:17:50,001
To invest our cash.
369
00:17:50,036 --> 00:17:53,604
So that's why it's not in
the safe deposit box anymore.
370
00:18:00,380 --> 00:18:02,447
I have the text alert option.
371
00:18:02,482 --> 00:18:04,515
So I got a text today
372
00:18:04,551 --> 00:18:05,716
saying that you were there.
373
00:18:05,752 --> 00:18:06,752
It didn't tell me why,
374
00:18:06,786 --> 00:18:07,852
but it made me realize
375
00:18:07,887 --> 00:18:08,986
I hadn't told you
376
00:18:09,022 --> 00:18:12,557
that I had taken the cash out.
377
00:18:14,494 --> 00:18:17,028
All right.
378
00:18:17,063 --> 00:18:18,963
That's fine.
379
00:18:20,834 --> 00:18:22,233
So?
380
00:18:22,268 --> 00:18:23,801
Why were you there?
381
00:18:26,539 --> 00:18:29,373
Well...
382
00:18:29,409 --> 00:18:33,044
Veronica came by
the office today.
383
00:18:33,079 --> 00:18:35,680
And, um,
384
00:18:35,715 --> 00:18:38,749
somehow, she knows
we're married.
385
00:18:38,785 --> 00:18:41,018
So cat's out of the bag.
386
00:18:43,756 --> 00:18:45,523
We can wear these now.
387
00:18:47,527 --> 00:18:48,693
Really?
388
00:18:57,437 --> 00:18:58,836
Aww.
389
00:18:58,872 --> 00:19:00,471
We're married.
390
00:19:26,469 --> 00:19:29,737
Here we go.
391
00:19:29,772 --> 00:19:32,840
Look at the camera.
392
00:19:32,875 --> 00:19:34,308
We should treat every child
393
00:19:34,344 --> 00:19:36,744
not just as a case patient,
394
00:19:36,779 --> 00:19:39,714
but as if they were part
of our own family.
395
00:19:39,749 --> 00:19:42,583
Thank you so much for coming.
396
00:19:48,191 --> 00:19:49,757
Great talk. Thank you.
397
00:19:49,792 --> 00:19:51,704
Really appreciate it.
You have a good afternoon.
398
00:19:51,728 --> 00:19:53,527
Okay? Take care.
Nice to meet you.
399
00:19:53,563 --> 00:19:54,929
Nice to meet you. Bye.
400
00:19:56,432 --> 00:19:58,599
No, please, sorry. Drink it.
401
00:19:58,634 --> 00:20:00,045
I know everyone wants
to talk to you.
402
00:20:00,069 --> 00:20:02,303
- I'm Maggie.
- Tonia.
403
00:20:02,338 --> 00:20:04,872
I'm a CRNA at St. Hilda's
in Dayton.
404
00:20:04,907 --> 00:20:07,074
Dayton, yeah, I've heard
that's a great hospital.
405
00:20:07,110 --> 00:20:09,977
Yeah, yeah, I mean... No, it is.
406
00:20:11,848 --> 00:20:13,381
I-I just wanted to tell you
407
00:20:13,416 --> 00:20:14,982
how much I loved your talk.
408
00:20:15,018 --> 00:20:16,617
I alwayswell,
409
00:20:16,652 --> 00:20:18,919
I just prefer the more
anecdotal speeches
410
00:20:18,955 --> 00:20:20,921
to the really technical ones.
411
00:20:20,957 --> 00:20:22,434
Well, and I know
a lot of our colleagues
412
00:20:22,458 --> 00:20:23,858
would like a little more...
413
00:20:23,893 --> 00:20:25,826
"Intracranial cysts in children.
414
00:20:25,862 --> 00:20:28,262
"Peritoneal derivation
or endoscopic fenestration?
415
00:20:28,297 --> 00:20:29,830
Discuss."
416
00:20:29,866 --> 00:20:32,066
But I'm like you,
I like to hear about people.
417
00:20:32,101 --> 00:20:34,802
Iwell, I've only worked
one pediatric case.
418
00:20:34,837 --> 00:20:36,337
Two months old, hydrocephalus,
419
00:20:36,372 --> 00:20:38,572
VP shunt placement failed.
420
00:20:38,608 --> 00:20:40,841
You would not believe
how cute this baby was.
421
00:20:40,877 --> 00:20:42,576
Eyelashes like "swock."
422
00:20:42,612 --> 00:20:44,578
I would definitely believe it.
423
00:20:44,614 --> 00:20:46,580
Do you have a family yourself?
424
00:20:46,616 --> 00:20:48,949
Yep. Married, two kids.
Both under five.
425
00:20:48,985 --> 00:20:50,251
- Wow.
- I know.
426
00:20:50,286 --> 00:20:52,486
You are an American hero.
427
00:20:52,522 --> 00:20:54,221
Well, what about you?
428
00:20:54,257 --> 00:20:56,090
Not yet.
429
00:20:56,125 --> 00:20:58,526
I used to think I was
more effective without kids.
430
00:20:58,561 --> 00:21:00,828
Less emotional, in a good way.
431
00:21:00,863 --> 00:21:02,663
But then a few years ago,
I realized
432
00:21:02,698 --> 00:21:04,131
that wasn't true anymore.
433
00:21:04,167 --> 00:21:06,834
Now you think maybe you might?
434
00:21:06,869 --> 00:21:09,270
Yeah. Um...
435
00:21:09,305 --> 00:21:10,838
I didn't want to do it alone.
436
00:21:10,873 --> 00:21:12,273
And, you know,
it took me a while
437
00:21:12,308 --> 00:21:15,009
to find the person,
you know, but...
438
00:21:15,044 --> 00:21:16,377
we're about ten months in now,
439
00:21:16,412 --> 00:21:18,179
and yeah, we're having
those conversations.
440
00:21:18,214 --> 00:21:19,847
Well, congratulations.
441
00:21:19,882 --> 00:21:21,749
That's gonna be one smart kid.
Thank you.
442
00:21:21,784 --> 00:21:24,852
No, thank you, again,
for the talk, really.
443
00:21:24,887 --> 00:21:26,153
Well, it's my pleasure.
444
00:21:26,189 --> 00:21:29,723
And it was really nice
to meet you...
445
00:21:29,759 --> 00:21:31,625
Tonia.
446
00:21:31,661 --> 00:21:33,861
Tonia Meehan.
447
00:21:33,896 --> 00:21:38,065
Dayton, you said
you're a CRNA in Dayton?
448
00:21:38,101 --> 00:21:39,233
Yeah.
449
00:21:41,437 --> 00:21:43,404
What does your husband do?
450
00:21:43,439 --> 00:21:45,539
John?
Well, he's actually one too.
451
00:21:45,575 --> 00:21:47,842
He travels a lot more than me.
452
00:21:47,877 --> 00:21:49,910
I stick near home for the kids.
453
00:21:49,946 --> 00:21:51,912
Actually, he's been coming
to Indiana a lot.
454
00:21:51,948 --> 00:21:53,747
You might have crossed paths
at work.
455
00:21:53,783 --> 00:21:55,649
It wouldn't be surprising
at all.
456
00:22:21,144 --> 00:22:22,776
Hey.
457
00:22:22,812 --> 00:22:24,378
How's it going?
458
00:22:26,215 --> 00:22:27,548
You look wiped.
459
00:22:27,583 --> 00:22:31,185
It's a good thing
the kids are asleep.
460
00:22:31,220 --> 00:22:33,554
Those conferences are tough?
461
00:22:33,589 --> 00:22:35,556
Not that looking after
two kids is easy.
462
00:22:35,591 --> 00:22:38,225
The latest thing is they've
taken to pinching each other.
463
00:22:40,229 --> 00:22:42,563
So...
464
00:22:42,598 --> 00:22:45,366
what's the latest
in anesthesia care?
465
00:22:50,239 --> 00:22:52,039
No? All right.
466
00:22:52,074 --> 00:22:54,441
Let's start smaller.
467
00:22:54,477 --> 00:22:56,577
Whatwhat'd you learn?
468
00:22:58,848 --> 00:23:01,315
I talked to a
pediatric neurosurgeon.
469
00:23:01,350 --> 00:23:03,517
Yeah? They're smart.
470
00:23:06,756 --> 00:23:08,088
Yeah.
471
00:23:08,124 --> 00:23:10,224
Her name is Maggie Baratta.
472
00:23:24,507 --> 00:23:27,308
Are...
473
00:23:27,343 --> 00:23:29,677
are you smiling?
474
00:23:29,712 --> 00:23:32,646
Okay. All right.
475
00:23:32,682 --> 00:23:35,249
So you want to get
into this now?
476
00:23:35,284 --> 00:23:37,918
You want to get into this
right now.
477
00:23:41,157 --> 00:23:43,157
Get into what, John?
478
00:23:43,192 --> 00:23:44,658
What are we getting into?
479
00:23:44,694 --> 00:23:48,529
She said you've been together
almost ten months.
480
00:24:00,176 --> 00:24:03,444
She operates two days a week.
481
00:24:03,479 --> 00:24:06,847
Sees patients two mornings.
482
00:24:06,882 --> 00:24:08,782
She probably makes,
I don't know,
483
00:24:08,818 --> 00:24:11,285
like, 500K?
484
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:12,786
And you saw her.
485
00:24:12,822 --> 00:24:15,055
I mean, she even looks
expensive, right?
486
00:24:18,894 --> 00:24:20,361
What are you even...
487
00:24:20,396 --> 00:24:21,895
Whatwhat are you even saying?
488
00:24:21,931 --> 00:24:23,897
Are you trying to upgrade?
489
00:24:23,933 --> 00:24:25,165
You're showing off.
490
00:24:25,201 --> 00:24:27,134
You're putting on
some kind of show.
491
00:24:27,169 --> 00:24:29,737
I don't know for who.
492
00:24:29,772 --> 00:24:31,672
What is this, John?
493
00:24:35,011 --> 00:24:37,378
What are you doing?
494
00:24:39,915 --> 00:24:41,815
I don't know.
495
00:24:47,256 --> 00:24:49,857
It's something.
496
00:25:00,428 --> 00:25:02,595
I'll go over
everything with you,
497
00:25:02,631 --> 00:25:04,497
and then I've also
printed up a copy.
498
00:25:04,533 --> 00:25:07,534
- My God.
- It'sit's a lot.
499
00:25:07,569 --> 00:25:09,969
Arrest record's on top.
500
00:25:12,407 --> 00:25:14,340
"Felony, burglary, first degree.
501
00:25:14,376 --> 00:25:16,209
Felony, burglary,
second degree."
502
00:25:16,244 --> 00:25:17,944
What is the difference
between those two?
503
00:25:17,979 --> 00:25:19,813
Second is entering
a commercial building
504
00:25:19,848 --> 00:25:21,881
with intent to commit.
505
00:25:21,917 --> 00:25:24,217
First is entering a residence.
506
00:25:24,252 --> 00:25:26,786
So both of those.
507
00:25:26,822 --> 00:25:28,655
I knew it.
508
00:25:32,694 --> 00:25:36,029
"Felony threat
with intent to extort.
509
00:25:36,064 --> 00:25:38,998
"Felony...
510
00:25:39,034 --> 00:25:41,701
Possession of a gun by a felon."
511
00:25:41,737 --> 00:25:44,003
John's a gun guy? He has guns?
512
00:25:44,039 --> 00:25:45,305
At least once that we know of,
513
00:25:45,340 --> 00:25:49,008
he has been a guy
with a gun, yeah.
514
00:25:52,414 --> 00:25:54,380
What are all these numbers here?
515
00:25:54,416 --> 00:25:56,382
Social Security numbers
he's used.
516
00:25:56,418 --> 00:25:59,919
If he has been arrested
for all of these things,
517
00:25:59,955 --> 00:26:02,055
and he's been charged
with all of them,
518
00:26:02,090 --> 00:26:03,389
then why is he not in prison?
519
00:26:03,425 --> 00:26:05,558
He was, and now he's not.
520
00:26:05,594 --> 00:26:07,761
Okay, but, like, he pled guilty
521
00:26:07,796 --> 00:26:09,696
for stalking and a gun
in California.
522
00:26:09,731 --> 00:26:11,364
It says that he was...
523
00:26:11,399 --> 00:26:13,500
"given two concurrent
two-year sentences," so...
524
00:26:13,535 --> 00:26:14,934
Right, so concurrent means
525
00:26:14,970 --> 00:26:17,170
you serve them at the same time.
526
00:26:17,205 --> 00:26:19,606
So two concurrent sentences,
527
00:26:19,641 --> 00:26:22,242
and the court gave him credit
for time served
528
00:26:22,277 --> 00:26:24,177
and good behavior.
529
00:26:24,212 --> 00:26:28,548
So two years minus
541 days credit
530
00:26:28,583 --> 00:26:30,450
is 6 1/3 months.
531
00:26:30,485 --> 00:26:32,218
Now, he should have gone
to state prison,
532
00:26:32,254 --> 00:26:35,555
but overcrowding,
so he serves 6 1/3 months
533
00:26:35,590 --> 00:26:38,358
at Theo Lacy Jail in Orange,
534
00:26:38,393 --> 00:26:40,393
and he was released.
535
00:26:40,428 --> 00:26:42,896
The third week
of last September.
536
00:26:44,900 --> 00:26:47,600
That's when he met my mom.
537
00:26:47,636 --> 00:26:50,236
So wherewhere did he go
when he got out?
538
00:26:50,272 --> 00:26:51,638
Where was he living?
539
00:26:51,673 --> 00:26:53,807
I haven't found
any fixed address for him
540
00:26:53,842 --> 00:26:55,408
in that time frame yet.
541
00:26:57,445 --> 00:26:59,546
So...
542
00:26:59,581 --> 00:27:03,550
when I told my mom I thought
he looked homeless,
543
00:27:03,585 --> 00:27:06,820
maybe he actually was homeless.
544
00:27:14,095 --> 00:27:15,328
There she is.
545
00:27:15,363 --> 00:27:16,596
You did great, Celia.
546
00:27:16,631 --> 00:27:18,331
You're a Spartan.
547
00:27:18,366 --> 00:27:19,999
They get it all?
548
00:27:20,035 --> 00:27:22,335
Yeah, surgeon's on his way
down to talk to you.
549
00:27:22,370 --> 00:27:25,271
You got a tube going there,
so be careful.
550
00:27:25,307 --> 00:27:27,340
Got a pump for your meds.
551
00:27:27,375 --> 00:27:29,943
How's your pain right now?
552
00:27:29,978 --> 00:27:31,344
From a one to ten?
553
00:27:31,379 --> 00:27:33,346
One, "I feel okay," to...
554
00:27:33,381 --> 00:27:35,582
Ten? Your pain is a ten?
555
00:27:35,617 --> 00:27:37,016
Okay. All right.
556
00:27:37,052 --> 00:27:39,919
I'm gonna take that away.
557
00:28:03,511 --> 00:28:05,612
He barely drew out the fentanyl.
558
00:28:05,647 --> 00:28:07,680
I think what he gave her
was saline.
559
00:28:07,716 --> 00:28:09,616
I know he didn't give her meds.
560
00:28:09,651 --> 00:28:12,986
And I saw him drop the vials
in his pocket.
561
00:28:13,021 --> 00:28:14,721
He didn't put them
in the receptacle.
562
00:28:14,756 --> 00:28:16,823
You seriously think
John would steal drugs?
563
00:28:16,858 --> 00:28:17,891
From a patient?
564
00:28:17,926 --> 00:28:19,993
I'm telling you what I saw.
565
00:28:20,028 --> 00:28:22,228
And...
566
00:28:22,264 --> 00:28:23,796
I reported it to Aikiko.
567
00:28:23,832 --> 00:28:25,365
She's calling the Nursing Board.
568
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,467
My God.
569
00:28:27,502 --> 00:28:28,868
Lynn, why would you?
570
00:28:28,904 --> 00:28:30,837
He'll lose his license.
571
00:28:30,872 --> 00:28:33,706
It was smooth, Tonia,
572
00:28:33,742 --> 00:28:35,074
what he did.
573
00:28:35,110 --> 00:28:36,709
This was not a "day one" thing.
574
00:28:36,745 --> 00:28:38,478
It was just the first time
anyone saw him.
575
00:29:05,106 --> 00:29:08,775
John is not the only CRNA
in your family, Tonia.
576
00:29:08,810 --> 00:29:11,444
If this is a bigger thing
577
00:29:11,479 --> 00:29:12,779
than what I...
578
00:29:12,814 --> 00:29:14,213
And it ends up with the cops
579
00:29:14,249 --> 00:29:15,259
searching your house for drugs,
580
00:29:15,283 --> 00:29:16,283
they could think that you
581
00:29:16,318 --> 00:29:17,450
were stealing them too.
582
00:29:17,485 --> 00:29:20,286
Or at least that
you knew he was.
583
00:29:30,832 --> 00:29:33,366
They could take your kids.
584
00:29:33,401 --> 00:29:35,068
And I know you.
585
00:29:35,103 --> 00:29:36,469
I know you would never.
586
00:29:43,778 --> 00:29:45,244
But...
587
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,715
I'm not the one you'd
have to prove it to.
588
00:30:25,887 --> 00:30:27,353
Hello?
589
00:30:27,389 --> 00:30:28,755
Hi, Debra, it's Paula Harding,
590
00:30:28,790 --> 00:30:29,922
the attorney.
591
00:30:29,958 --> 00:30:31,524
Hi, Paula, how are you?
592
00:30:31,559 --> 00:30:34,093
I...
593
00:30:34,129 --> 00:30:36,129
I'm just gonna start.
594
00:30:36,164 --> 00:30:38,831
Well, that doesn't sound
very good.
595
00:30:38,867 --> 00:30:40,166
They're him.
596
00:30:40,201 --> 00:30:41,167
The restraining orders
597
00:30:41,202 --> 00:30:42,835
in Ohio and California,
598
00:30:42,871 --> 00:30:45,538
and more in Indiana
and Kentucky, all...
599
00:30:45,573 --> 00:30:48,041
it's all the same guy,
it's all your husband.
600
00:30:48,076 --> 00:30:51,277
Okay. Well...
601
00:30:52,981 --> 00:30:55,148
Are you sure?
602
00:30:55,183 --> 00:30:57,817
In California and Ohio,
he's been in prison.
603
00:30:57,852 --> 00:31:00,486
California more than once.
604
00:31:00,522 --> 00:31:01,587
Prison for what?
605
00:31:01,623 --> 00:31:02,822
Stalking a woman.
606
00:31:02,857 --> 00:31:04,157
Violating a restraining order
607
00:31:04,192 --> 00:31:05,958
against a different woman.
608
00:31:05,994 --> 00:31:07,527
Doing drugs.
609
00:31:09,831 --> 00:31:12,532
The online purchases were
component parts of a handgun,
610
00:31:12,567 --> 00:31:14,734
a Sig Sauer,
like he was trying to buy
611
00:31:14,769 --> 00:31:16,302
each piece
from a different place
612
00:31:16,337 --> 00:31:18,704
and use them all
to build the one gun.
613
00:31:18,740 --> 00:31:20,173
And was he able to do that?
614
00:31:20,208 --> 00:31:22,475
Was he able to get...
615
00:31:22,510 --> 00:31:24,310
all the pieces?
616
00:31:24,345 --> 00:31:25,978
I-I don't know.
617
00:31:27,949 --> 00:31:29,348
And what, what...
618
00:31:29,384 --> 00:31:31,084
So then what should I do?
619
00:31:31,119 --> 00:31:32,485
Look.
620
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:33,920
This man has sued every lawyer
621
00:31:33,955 --> 00:31:35,254
who's ever filed against him.
622
00:31:35,290 --> 00:31:36,400
Tied them up with complaints.
623
00:31:36,424 --> 00:31:37,990
He's sued his own lawyers
624
00:31:38,026 --> 00:31:39,592
after they've won
judgements for him
625
00:31:39,627 --> 00:31:43,496
so they couldn't collect
their fees, I-I...
626
00:31:43,531 --> 00:31:46,032
I-I just can't deal with
somebody like that.
627
00:31:48,069 --> 00:31:50,736
I'm sorry.
628
00:31:50,772 --> 00:31:53,005
Debra?
629
00:31:53,041 --> 00:31:55,675
I'm... Okay, so that's it, then?
630
00:31:55,710 --> 00:31:57,276
The annulment.
631
00:31:57,312 --> 00:31:59,078
You should file on that
right away.
632
00:31:59,114 --> 00:32:01,714
And if you have a will
and he's in it,
633
00:32:01,749 --> 00:32:03,382
take him out.
634
00:32:03,418 --> 00:32:04,951
If you don't have one,
635
00:32:04,986 --> 00:32:06,097
you need to make one right away
636
00:32:06,121 --> 00:32:07,253
that does not mention him.
637
00:32:07,288 --> 00:32:08,254
And you need to make sure
638
00:32:08,289 --> 00:32:09,555
he knows it doesn't.
639
00:32:09,591 --> 00:32:10,634
Because if he thinks he would
640
00:32:10,658 --> 00:32:12,291
be getting your money,
641
00:32:12,327 --> 00:32:14,527
I don't know what he might do.
642
00:32:14,562 --> 00:32:16,762
The palpitations?
Shortness of breath?
643
00:32:16,798 --> 00:32:18,297
Dizziness?
You were totally right
644
00:32:18,333 --> 00:32:19,932
to come here, okay?
645
00:32:19,968 --> 00:32:21,868
But it's not your heart.
646
00:32:21,903 --> 00:32:23,936
I'm gonna give you
some lorazepam.
647
00:32:26,241 --> 00:32:27,874
Anybody waiting?
648
00:32:27,909 --> 00:32:29,053
Do you need me to go out front,
649
00:32:29,077 --> 00:32:31,577
bring anyone back here for you?
650
00:32:31,613 --> 00:32:33,779
Husband? Partner?
651
00:32:33,815 --> 00:32:35,248
No.
652
00:32:35,283 --> 00:32:36,616
Well, then,
653
00:32:36,651 --> 00:32:38,117
you just rest here for a bit,
654
00:32:38,153 --> 00:32:39,263
and when I come back
with your script,
655
00:32:39,287 --> 00:32:40,486
we'll get you out of here.
656
00:32:40,522 --> 00:32:42,321
Okay?
657
00:32:42,357 --> 00:32:44,557
Thank you.
658
00:32:51,438 --> 00:32:53,740
Jeff.
659
00:32:53,775 --> 00:32:55,875
Can you explain to us
a little bit about John?
660
00:32:55,910 --> 00:32:57,810
Shush.
661
00:32:57,846 --> 00:33:01,247
Someday, I'll be president,
and I will exile this man.
662
00:33:01,282 --> 00:33:03,016
Okay, let me start by saying
663
00:33:03,051 --> 00:33:06,185
that John Meehan...
John Meehan's nickname
664
00:33:06,221 --> 00:33:08,554
is Filthy John Meehan.
665
00:33:08,590 --> 00:33:10,223
And can you remember when
666
00:33:10,258 --> 00:33:11,858
you first created
that nickname and why?
667
00:33:11,893 --> 00:33:13,426
Yes, yes, I can.
668
00:33:13,461 --> 00:33:15,395
But it cannot be divulged
on camera.
669
00:33:16,531 --> 00:33:17,664
I just want to say,
670
00:33:17,699 --> 00:33:19,065
I take showers now.
671
00:33:19,100 --> 00:33:20,500
And baths, okay?
672
00:33:20,535 --> 00:33:21,701
I'm a fan of being clean.
673
00:33:21,736 --> 00:33:23,036
All right?
674
00:33:24,606 --> 00:33:27,240
I mean, coke, yeah.
675
00:33:27,275 --> 00:33:28,341
We were in grad school.
676
00:33:28,376 --> 00:33:29,742
There was studying
677
00:33:29,778 --> 00:33:32,211
that some of us even
took seriously.
678
00:33:32,247 --> 00:33:33,946
But so a few of the guys
did coke.
679
00:33:33,982 --> 00:33:35,081
John did it, yeah.
680
00:33:35,116 --> 00:33:37,483
Keep-you-awake kind of stuff.
681
00:33:37,519 --> 00:33:40,219
We were young. Ish.
682
00:33:40,255 --> 00:33:43,956
Also, all of us in the house
thought you were great.
683
00:33:43,992 --> 00:33:45,425
Honestly, we kind of wondered
684
00:33:45,460 --> 00:33:47,794
why you would be with him.
685
00:33:47,829 --> 00:33:48,795
Why?
686
00:33:48,830 --> 00:33:50,463
Whywhy wouldn't I?
687
00:33:50,498 --> 00:33:52,865
About you being nice and smart,
688
00:33:52,901 --> 00:33:54,200
a nurse.
689
00:33:54,235 --> 00:33:57,937
And just like...
690
00:33:57,972 --> 00:34:00,373
Just being, like,
a dog with women.
691
00:34:02,243 --> 00:34:03,910
Is that why the name?
692
00:34:03,945 --> 00:34:06,746
He never told me. Dirty? Filthy?
693
00:34:06,781 --> 00:34:09,148
- Yeah, I guess.
- Dirty John.
694
00:34:09,184 --> 00:34:11,818
Yeah. Hello, hi.
695
00:34:11,853 --> 00:34:13,920
Second time asking for coffee.
696
00:34:13,955 --> 00:34:14,965
Whenever you get a chance.
697
00:34:14,989 --> 00:34:16,322
Um, but it was also about
698
00:34:16,357 --> 00:34:17,924
the other kinds of stuff
he was up to.
699
00:34:17,959 --> 00:34:19,839
You know, the credit cards,
the yard work thing.
700
00:34:23,932 --> 00:34:25,798
Um, what are you talking about?
701
00:34:25,834 --> 00:34:28,000
He had... God.
702
00:34:28,036 --> 00:34:29,602
He had business cards made up.
703
00:34:29,637 --> 00:34:31,404
Like for roofing, yard work.
704
00:34:31,439 --> 00:34:34,507
And he'd give them out
to older people
705
00:34:34,542 --> 00:34:36,409
and say he'd throw them
a break onthank you...
706
00:34:36,444 --> 00:34:38,044
Shingling or a chimney rebuild.
707
00:34:38,079 --> 00:34:39,746
Just... that's enough, thanks.
708
00:34:39,781 --> 00:34:41,314
Give them an advance
for materials.
709
00:34:41,349 --> 00:34:43,916
And then he'd take the money
and not go back.
710
00:34:46,121 --> 00:34:47,653
And what about the credit cards?
711
00:34:47,689 --> 00:34:50,389
They'd come in the mail
to the house.
712
00:34:50,425 --> 00:34:52,158
All different names.
713
00:34:52,193 --> 00:34:55,928
At first we thought it was
a delivery mistake, but...
714
00:34:55,964 --> 00:34:57,697
It wasn't.
715
00:34:59,834 --> 00:35:02,635
Also, some of the guys saw him
716
00:35:02,670 --> 00:35:04,704
run into the street
at stop signs
717
00:35:04,739 --> 00:35:08,141
and throw himself onto the hood
of a car slowing down.
718
00:35:08,176 --> 00:35:10,276
And tell the driver,
"Give me 300 bucks
719
00:35:10,311 --> 00:35:12,979
and your premium won't go up."
720
00:35:13,014 --> 00:35:15,381
And they did.
721
00:35:15,416 --> 00:35:18,384
Um...
722
00:35:18,419 --> 00:35:21,521
how was he keeping
all these scams straight
723
00:35:21,556 --> 00:35:24,690
and going to classes too?
724
00:35:24,726 --> 00:35:28,127
Last semester, second year,
he was definitely gone.
725
00:35:28,163 --> 00:35:29,862
But he might have bailed
before that.
726
00:35:29,898 --> 00:35:32,799
We weren't in the same classes.
727
00:35:32,834 --> 00:35:34,133
Sorry.
728
00:35:35,837 --> 00:35:38,004
- For what?
- I lived with him that year.
729
00:35:38,039 --> 00:35:40,139
And we had good times
or whatever.
730
00:35:40,175 --> 00:35:42,542
But he never talked about
things and I never asked.
731
00:35:42,577 --> 00:35:44,811
I don't know why.
732
00:35:44,846 --> 00:35:46,312
So...
733
00:35:46,347 --> 00:35:49,048
I don't know... why.
734
00:35:49,083 --> 00:35:51,584
There's just...
735
00:35:51,619 --> 00:35:53,953
a blank space
where the story should be.
736
00:36:16,077 --> 00:36:17,610
Are you okay?
737
00:36:17,645 --> 00:36:20,112
Yeah? Come on.
738
00:36:42,770 --> 00:36:44,370
What are you doing here?
739
00:36:44,405 --> 00:36:45,771
If I ask you a question,
740
00:36:45,807 --> 00:36:48,207
will you answer me honestly?
741
00:36:48,243 --> 00:36:51,210
John, I am the most
honest person you know.
742
00:36:51,246 --> 00:36:52,912
Okay.
743
00:36:52,947 --> 00:36:55,414
Who called
the state Nursing Board?
744
00:36:55,450 --> 00:36:56,916
I'm not telling you.
745
00:36:56,951 --> 00:36:58,684
Why would I?
746
00:37:03,858 --> 00:37:05,002
If you won't tell me who it was,
747
00:37:05,026 --> 00:37:05,992
it means it was you.
748
00:37:06,027 --> 00:37:09,095
My God.
749
00:37:09,130 --> 00:37:11,330
This is what you care about.
750
00:37:11,366 --> 00:37:13,733
Not the patients
whose meds you stole?
751
00:37:13,768 --> 00:37:16,269
People relying on you
who you could have killed?
752
00:37:16,304 --> 00:37:17,615
Either because
you're so out of it,
753
00:37:17,639 --> 00:37:19,071
you miss something,
754
00:37:19,107 --> 00:37:20,773
or because their hearts
could have stopped
755
00:37:20,808 --> 00:37:23,109
from the shock.
756
00:37:23,144 --> 00:37:25,578
Do you know we could have lost
the girls over this?
757
00:37:25,613 --> 00:37:27,647
I have it on excellent authority
758
00:37:27,682 --> 00:37:28,826
that you're the one who called.
759
00:37:28,850 --> 00:37:31,284
Well, I didn't.
760
00:37:31,319 --> 00:37:32,652
You really sound like
you're going
761
00:37:32,687 --> 00:37:33,986
off the deep end, you know that?
762
00:37:34,022 --> 00:37:35,466
How would you know
what I sound like?
763
00:37:35,490 --> 00:37:37,590
You don't even know who I am.
764
00:37:44,699 --> 00:37:47,433
Well, if you were me,
what would you do?
765
00:37:47,468 --> 00:37:48,935
Would you leave?
766
00:37:48,970 --> 00:37:51,103
I'm not you.
767
00:37:51,139 --> 00:37:53,873
Well... Supposing that you were.
768
00:37:53,908 --> 00:37:55,875
I can't make
this decision for you.
769
00:37:55,910 --> 00:37:57,376
Only you can.
770
00:37:57,412 --> 00:37:58,811
Because only you will know
771
00:37:58,846 --> 00:38:00,224
if you're really ready
for what might happen
772
00:38:00,248 --> 00:38:01,380
when you do.
773
00:38:01,416 --> 00:38:02,381
Wait, what, what do you mean,
774
00:38:02,417 --> 00:38:04,183
"what might happen?"
775
00:38:04,218 --> 00:38:05,851
His plan is ruined.
776
00:38:05,887 --> 00:38:08,287
Whatever it was,
you got the jump on him.
777
00:38:08,323 --> 00:38:10,656
Took him by surprise.
778
00:38:10,692 --> 00:38:11,657
He's not gonna like that.
779
00:38:11,693 --> 00:38:13,526
Probably not.
780
00:38:13,561 --> 00:38:16,829
And I don't know if
your daughter told you, but...
781
00:38:16,864 --> 00:38:19,865
two of the restraining orders
against him
782
00:38:19,901 --> 00:38:22,234
were taken out by...
783
00:38:22,270 --> 00:38:23,669
cops.
784
00:38:23,705 --> 00:38:25,972
Irvine PD. Women.
785
00:38:26,007 --> 00:38:28,140
A detective and a uni, I think?
786
00:38:28,176 --> 00:38:29,508
But still.
787
00:38:29,544 --> 00:38:30,910
Active duty cops.
788
00:38:30,945 --> 00:38:32,712
So it's not dumb to be scared.
789
00:38:32,747 --> 00:38:34,146
No.
790
00:38:34,182 --> 00:38:35,182
Or to want to leave.
791
00:38:35,216 --> 00:38:36,148
And if you do leave,
792
00:38:36,184 --> 00:38:38,551
it's good to have a plan.
793
00:38:39,954 --> 00:38:41,854
What kind of a plan?
794
00:38:41,889 --> 00:38:43,255
Stay in hotels
795
00:38:43,291 --> 00:38:44,991
or places you've never
stayed before
796
00:38:45,026 --> 00:38:46,525
but not the same place
for too long.
797
00:38:46,561 --> 00:38:48,394
We should get a new car. Right?
798
00:38:48,429 --> 00:38:49,595
And different clothes.
799
00:38:49,630 --> 00:38:51,263
Ones that blend in more.
800
00:38:51,299 --> 00:38:53,432
Her clothes do blend in
in Orange County.
801
00:38:53,468 --> 00:38:54,934
It's yours that stand out.
802
00:38:54,969 --> 00:38:57,336
Snap.
803
00:38:57,372 --> 00:38:58,671
Dye your hair, probably.
804
00:38:58,706 --> 00:38:59,739
Or wigs.
805
00:38:59,774 --> 00:39:01,207
There are great wigs today.
806
00:39:01,242 --> 00:39:02,286
When you come
into a crowded place,
807
00:39:02,310 --> 00:39:03,776
really study the room.
808
00:39:03,811 --> 00:39:06,245
Try to notice if someone's
following you.
809
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,547
Make yourself
a difficult target.
810
00:39:10,918 --> 00:39:12,451
I have to go.
811
00:39:12,487 --> 00:39:16,055
Because he's picking
me up from work, and...
812
00:39:16,090 --> 00:39:17,723
I don't know...
813
00:39:17,759 --> 00:39:19,558
what he would do
if I wasn't there.
814
00:39:19,594 --> 00:39:21,861
So I need to, um... I'm gonna go.
815
00:39:21,896 --> 00:39:23,462
Thank you.
816
00:39:25,466 --> 00:39:26,432
Bye, hon.
817
00:39:26,467 --> 00:39:27,933
Look, Debra.
818
00:39:27,969 --> 00:39:30,703
Just get yourself out.
819
00:39:30,738 --> 00:39:33,739
That's what I'd do.
820
00:39:33,775 --> 00:39:36,675
Okay. Thank you.
821
00:39:36,711 --> 00:39:39,011
I'll talk to you later, Ronnie.
822
00:39:58,099 --> 00:40:00,433
- Hi.
- Hey.
823
00:40:11,379 --> 00:40:13,179
I know you're in there,
Tonia. I can hear you.
824
00:40:13,214 --> 00:40:14,613
You changed the locks on me?
825
00:40:14,649 --> 00:40:16,015
I changed them all so you know
826
00:40:16,050 --> 00:40:18,184
your keys don't work anymore.
827
00:40:18,219 --> 00:40:20,453
You think I can't
get in there if I want to?
828
00:40:20,488 --> 00:40:22,054
Why would you want to, John?
829
00:40:22,090 --> 00:40:23,489
There's nothing for you in here.
830
00:40:23,524 --> 00:40:25,035
- You know what!
- Just the kids and me.
831
00:40:25,059 --> 00:40:26,425
What, your drugs?
832
00:40:26,461 --> 00:40:27,860
I got rid of them.
833
00:40:27,895 --> 00:40:29,328
To protect my children.
834
00:40:29,363 --> 00:40:31,430
Let me in!
835
00:40:32,500 --> 00:40:34,800
Get me my shit!
836
00:40:36,637 --> 00:40:38,804
Give me my shit, Tonia!
837
00:40:57,658 --> 00:41:00,326
- Mommy?
- Mommy!
838
00:41:09,103 --> 00:41:11,470
Hello?
839
00:41:11,506 --> 00:41:13,873
Yes.
840
00:41:13,908 --> 00:41:16,408
I'm sorry to call so late.
841
00:41:16,444 --> 00:41:17,977
Maybe you're having dinner.
842
00:41:18,012 --> 00:41:19,411
California's three hours behind,
843
00:41:19,447 --> 00:41:20,524
so I thought it would be okay.
844
00:41:20,548 --> 00:41:22,815
Who is this?
845
00:41:22,850 --> 00:41:27,052
- I-I, um... I...
- Tonia?
846
00:41:27,088 --> 00:41:28,754
Is this Tonia?
847
00:41:28,789 --> 00:41:30,823
Is this Delores?
848
00:41:30,858 --> 00:41:31,858
Meehan?
849
00:41:31,893 --> 00:41:33,559
My God.
850
00:41:33,594 --> 00:41:36,862
I knew you would call.
I knew it.
851
00:41:36,898 --> 00:41:38,664
And I wanted you to,
and I didn't.
852
00:41:38,699 --> 00:41:40,099
Because that means
853
00:41:40,134 --> 00:41:43,669
it's all gone wrong, hasn't it?
854
00:41:43,704 --> 00:41:45,771
John warned me so many times,
855
00:41:45,806 --> 00:41:47,940
don't ever call you or the kids,
856
00:41:47,975 --> 00:41:49,441
don't even try.
857
00:41:49,477 --> 00:41:51,343
Don't even think about it.
858
00:41:54,815 --> 00:41:57,850
Is he still doing drugs?
859
00:42:09,964 --> 00:42:11,730
John?
860
00:42:14,235 --> 00:42:16,368
John?
861
00:42:18,339 --> 00:42:20,105
- Can you call someone?
- My God!
862
00:42:20,141 --> 00:42:21,640
- Deb...
- What's going on?
863
00:42:21,676 --> 00:42:23,242
- I don't know.
- Okay.
864
00:42:23,277 --> 00:42:24,843
My God. My God.
865
00:42:30,354 --> 00:42:32,822
With the nonmechanical
obstruction
866
00:42:32,858 --> 00:42:34,368
in your intestines,
I worry about infection.
867
00:42:34,392 --> 00:42:35,970
Which, we're okay, but we need
to move quickly.
868
00:42:35,994 --> 00:42:37,293
What about the pain?
869
00:42:37,329 --> 00:42:38,529
You'll be going into surgery
870
00:42:38,563 --> 00:42:39,574
hopefully tonight, Mr. Meehan.
871
00:42:39,598 --> 00:42:40,930
I don't understand.
872
00:42:40,966 --> 00:42:43,933
He was fine and then
he just collapsed.
873
00:42:43,969 --> 00:42:45,568
Is the surgery now?
874
00:42:45,604 --> 00:42:47,604
Like right goddamn now,
because if it isn't...
875
00:42:47,639 --> 00:42:49,372
We're giving you 2 milligrams
of Dilaudid.
876
00:42:49,407 --> 00:42:52,375
I need Dilaudid-HP.
Four milligrams.
877
00:42:52,410 --> 00:42:54,711
How long have you been
on opioids, Mr. Meehan?
878
00:42:57,315 --> 00:42:59,215
Deb, this is insane. Come on.
879
00:42:59,251 --> 00:43:00,683
Can you tell me, Mrs. Meehan?
880
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:02,096
- Tell you...
- How long has your husband
881
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:03,486
been taking opioids,
or which ones?
882
00:43:03,522 --> 00:43:05,388
Because that's something
883
00:43:05,423 --> 00:43:07,390
to do with his intestines, or...
884
00:43:07,425 --> 00:43:08,391
He has a paralytic ileus.
885
00:43:08,426 --> 00:43:10,927
His blood work...
886
00:43:10,962 --> 00:43:12,362
could you help me understand
887
00:43:12,397 --> 00:43:13,696
his history with narcotics?
888
00:43:13,732 --> 00:43:16,065
I don'tl don't know it.
889
00:43:16,101 --> 00:43:17,400
I don't know.
890
00:43:17,435 --> 00:43:20,003
I'm on a pain management
program.
891
00:43:20,038 --> 00:43:22,739
I injuredfractured
my right ankle.
892
00:43:22,774 --> 00:43:25,041
I also have
a spinal compression.
893
00:43:25,076 --> 00:43:26,609
So ever since,
I've been dealing with
894
00:43:26,645 --> 00:43:29,445
a cervical radiculopathy.
895
00:43:29,481 --> 00:43:31,748
How did you injure yourself?
896
00:43:33,618 --> 00:43:36,119
Iraq.
897
00:43:36,154 --> 00:43:38,788
Well, I'm not sure,
who was helping you here,
898
00:43:38,823 --> 00:43:40,635
but they shouldn't have let
this blockage develop.
899
00:43:40,659 --> 00:43:42,025
Pretty bad?
900
00:43:42,060 --> 00:43:43,893
But right now my tolerance
is so high.
901
00:43:43,929 --> 00:43:46,663
I'm giving you 4 milligrams
of Dilaudid-HP
902
00:43:46,698 --> 00:43:49,165
every two hours.
903
00:43:49,201 --> 00:43:51,067
I, um...
904
00:43:51,102 --> 00:43:53,670
I don't think I'm gonna stay
here for the consult.
905
00:43:53,705 --> 00:43:55,138
It's not a problem.
906
00:43:55,173 --> 00:43:57,173
I don't want them
to have to dumb it down
907
00:43:57,209 --> 00:43:59,409
for John,
and I'm not very good at
908
00:43:59,444 --> 00:44:02,045
thinking about blood, and...
909
00:44:04,282 --> 00:44:07,083
I'm gonna go to the chapel.
910
00:44:07,118 --> 00:44:09,285
And pray.
911
00:44:09,321 --> 00:44:10,820
Okay.
912
00:44:12,624 --> 00:44:14,257
I love you.
913
00:44:21,032 --> 00:44:23,132
You'll be just fine.
914
00:45:22,093 --> 00:45:23,326
Yes?
915
00:45:23,361 --> 00:45:24,427
You know why I have
916
00:45:24,462 --> 00:45:25,728
this big smile on my face?
917
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:31,167
Why, John?
918
00:45:31,202 --> 00:45:32,935
'Cause trust me.
919
00:45:32,971 --> 00:45:35,838
Just trust me. That's why.
920
00:45:37,442 --> 00:45:39,120
Trust you what?
You're not making any sense.
921
00:45:39,144 --> 00:45:41,511
You'll understand
when it happens.
922
00:45:41,546 --> 00:45:44,247
You'll understand it all.
923
00:45:44,282 --> 00:45:46,516
I won't be anywhere near it.
924
00:45:46,551 --> 00:45:49,552
I'll be in Bermuda or wherever,
925
00:45:49,587 --> 00:45:52,422
having a drink
with a 22-year-old,
926
00:45:52,457 --> 00:45:56,392
smiling like I am right now.
927
00:45:56,428 --> 00:45:59,228
You should enjoy
your time left, Tonia.
928
00:45:59,264 --> 00:46:01,964
Your time left on this earth.
929
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:04,967
That's what it's gonna
come down to.
930
00:46:05,003 --> 00:46:07,770
Just, when it happens?
931
00:46:07,806 --> 00:46:09,539
When you see it in your eyes
932
00:46:09,574 --> 00:46:11,040
and you know,
933
00:46:11,076 --> 00:46:13,710
promise you'll remember
it was me.
934
00:46:26,091 --> 00:46:28,057
Come here. Come here, okay?
935
00:46:39,371 --> 00:46:40,448
Do you have any words to say
936
00:46:40,472 --> 00:46:42,004
to the wedding couple?
937
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,140
Just keep your eyes
on him, Tonia.
938
00:46:44,175 --> 00:46:45,455
Don't let him out of your sight.
939
00:46:47,812 --> 00:46:48,945
Run!
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