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-Looking back now, I did love you.
-No, you didn't.
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I swear to you, I did love you.
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I just miss you in general.
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Never say never.
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-Do we have a future together?
-No.
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Hey.
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Yes, told my Mum and my Dad.
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Wow.
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Oh, God.
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-Have you ever faked an orgasm with me?
-No.
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-Lie.
-Have you? You have.
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I never had to.
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That's what I like to hear. Oh, yeah.
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You told the truth.
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Damn. Hell, yeah.
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She is telling the truth.
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Thank you.
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That's the truth. Boom, boom.
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-Give us the truth.
-Give us the truth.
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-Do you regret rejecting me?
-No.
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-She's still lying.
-How do you know?
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Ask her, are you in love with me?
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I'm so sorry.
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I properly love you.
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Tell the truth.
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I'd say I love you.
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I love you.
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The truth is scary,
and a lot of people avoid...
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...having honest conversations
in their relationships.
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If you just have honest conversations,
You could solve your problems.
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The people coming to me
are either ex-couples...
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...current Couples, or people that are
in brand new relationships.
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They all need answers.
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I'll make sure that they have
the most honest...
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...conversation of their lives.
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When I love someone, and I fall in
love with someone, I love them.
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I'm here with Kath.
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Every time we're single...
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...we're drawn to each other
like two magnets.
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Like, we'll sleep together
and we'll wake up the next day...
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...like nothing's happened.
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Our latest development
is we made a pact...
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...that if we want to sleep
with someone else...
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...we'll tell each other first.
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I don't know what it is,
I'm as confused myself.
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Kath, first question.
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How do you feel about talking today?
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Nervous.
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Yeah, nervous.
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True.
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Sometimes the truth is scary.
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-Very.
-Yeah.
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-Very scary.
-Yeah.
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How do you feel about
today's conversation?
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Very, very nervous,
but excited at the same time.
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Good, good answer. OK.
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What mark out of 10 would you
give my looks today?
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Gotta be a 10.
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Lie.
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-She says it's gotta be a 10.
-Oh, I did, yeah.
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Not "it is a 10", "it's gotta be..."
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It has to be because she wants
to make you feel good.
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Give him the honest mark.
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-He's good.
-No sugar coating.
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What mark out of 10 would you
give him for his looks today.
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Nine.
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Truth.
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Yeah.
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Why didn't you say nine the first time?
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I don't know.
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Because you wanted to make him feel good.
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-Yeah.
-That's...
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...make him feel good, yeah.
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...that's why people lie.
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People lie for certain reasons.
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I don't want to make you feel bad,
or I don't want to look bad.
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-Yeah.
-Good. Next question, Kath.
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What's your sexual fantasy?
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I'd like to have sex on my car bonnet.
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I haven't done that.
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I definitely would like to do that.
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What kind of car do you drive?
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-I drive a Vauxhall Corsa...
-Oh, OK.
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Which is very good on fuel.
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Next question.
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Wow!
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Have you ever faked an orgasm?
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-No.
-No, I'd be surprised if you said yes.
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-I always tell you if I don't orgasm.
-Yes.
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-True.
-Yeah.
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Steve is probably one of the most
amazing people I've ever met.
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I don't really have any interest
in sleeping with anyone else.
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I'd love to have a future with Steve.
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I could see me and Steve getting married
and eventually having kids.
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If we're exclusive,
are we in a relationship?
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I literally only had one previous female
relationship and I haven't had any since.
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Everyone loves Danica.
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Everyone loves her, like,
they always say she was so good for me.
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I do want to see if me and her dating
again and starting afresh would work out.
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When we see each other the sparks
are always still there.
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There's so much chemistry between us.
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On a scale of one to 10,
how hot do I look today?
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I give you about a 20.
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Thank you.
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That was truthful. Next question,
please, Danica. Thank you.
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What was the first thing
that attracted you to me?
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Your eyes.
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They're sexy.
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Say that the eyes are
the window to the soul.
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-Right?
-Yeah.
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I can see your soul through your eyes.
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Next question.
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Describe my kissing technique.
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Mesmerising.
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Thanks.
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Our relationship progressed from
the first date quite quickly, I would say.
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I was literally just
staring at her for ages.
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The chemistry then or the attraction
to was like, it was pretty much like, wow.
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Am I good in bed?
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Hell, yeah!
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That's the truth.
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Why did you say, "Hell, yeah?"
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-She's the best I've had, so...
-Wow!
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We don't just have sex, we make love.
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-Big difference.
-Yeah.
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Do you still fancy me?
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Yes.
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Do you still fancy me?
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Of course I do.
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What do you miss most about me?
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I miss waking up next to you.
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You know that I miss you because
I've been bugging you like, recently.
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...because you haven't really been like,
showing me any attention.
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Next question.
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What was the last lie you told me?
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That I'm cool with being
just friends with you.
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-Do you love me?
-Yes.
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You know I love you.
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Do you love me as much now
as you did at the beginning?
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More.
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-Are you in love with me?
-Yes.
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You know when you just lock eyes
with somebody, and you're like...
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...oh, he's a bit of all right.
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Me and Can first met,
we were laughing, dancing...
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...singing, like, in a massive group.
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And I'm jumping in his Snapchat,
and he's like...
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...and then after I'm like,
oh, send me that, send me that...
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...and he's like, oh, well,
I need to get your number then.
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We are just like soulmates but
I just want to know where he sees us.
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Like, future, what he really thinks...
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...because we've not had that
in-depth conversation.
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What one word
would you use to describe me?
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Essex.
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Loud, bubbly, fun, fake tan.
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Hair, that is my type, Essex.
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-All right, honest answer.
-Cool.
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Ooh, it's upside down.
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Am I a good boyfriend?
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No. No, I'm joking.
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Whoa! Is she lying?
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-Do you think he's a good boyfriend?
-Yeah.
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I think you are a good boyfriend.
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You have your little bit of immaturity
side that we all know about...
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...but genuinely, I mean,
you are a good boyfriend.
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-You're there, you listen to me.
-Cool.
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-Yeah.
-That's a truthful answer.
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-Yeah, I'm happy with that.
-Truthful answer.
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And sort of sometimes the answers
become obvious to go, "Well, you know..."
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"...she wouldn't be with me if
I wasn't a good boyfriend, so..."
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-...but we like to hear it, though, yes?
-Yeah, of course, yeah.
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OK.
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I was actually asking myself
this question this morning.
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Am I better with or without a tan?
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I like your tan, but sometimes
I feel like it's too much.
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So I think half a tan.
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-You're better with half a tan.
-Which half?
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How can I be half tanned?
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No, a bit less orange.
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Are you saying I'm orange?
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No, you're not too orange.
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-Am I orange?
-I don't think she's orange.
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She's not orange, but it would be better,
she would be better with a lighter tan.
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Alright, boss.
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So, and you've got it, Can.
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-Oh, my God, what?
-Do you think I'm well hung?
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Now, how do I answer this?
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-Right, OK.
-You answer it yes or no.
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I'm going to answer it like this.
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It's about the motion of the ocean.
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-You're not well hung.
-No.
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I've got no problems there. That's fine.
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-That's what counts, good.
-Enough is enough, yeah, really.
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Who is the smartest, me or you?
This is the easy question.
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Oh, my God!
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Yeah. There are some elements,
like geography...
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...just little things
that I don't get, like...
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...you did teach me that a rhinoceros
is not a rhinosaurus, remember?
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You talking about a rhinoceros then?
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I suppose you're just
pronouncing it differently.
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Yeah, 'cause I didn't think...
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-...it was called a rhinoceros.
-Rhinoceros, right.
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So the moral of the story
is you're smarter in some ways...
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...but not in all ways, because...
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...I have 10 years' more
experience than you...
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...so I'm more, like, life experience.
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When I first met her...
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I didn't know her age 'cause she
does look a lot younger than she is.
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I thought she was 21, 22,
which is my average...
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...average age of my exes.
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I thought OK, she is a lot older,
what, is it, is it possible to work?
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Do you wish I was younger?
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Yeah, I'm not going to lie.
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I do, I do think...
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...it just makes things easier,
you know, we'll be...
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...we'll be rolling at the same age.
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For example, getting married,
having kids, moving out...
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...like, together, growing up together.
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My friends have a lot of banter with me
about our age gap relationship.
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They think it's funny, but we do have
a lot of banter between us...
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...and I say things to them,
they say it to me.
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They do mention a lot how she's old
enough to be my Mum and she's a milf,
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...because she has a daughter
and stuff like that.
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But I take that as a compliment.
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What do your parents
think about our age gap?
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Right.
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I don't even know if they know.
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-I've never had this conversation.
-I know we haven't had this conversation.
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They do know, yeah, they know.
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And?
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I'm shocked.
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You've been so adamant with moving on...
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...that I've just assumed
that you're OK...
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...with us being just friends.
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I'm OK with it, but cool
with it, like, yay, no.
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Had I had it my way,
it wouldn't have been this way.
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That's the truth, she's telling the truth.
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Let's do the next question.
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How serious were you about me?
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Very serious, from, from day one.
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I didn't even look at another girl.
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You had all of me.
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Truthful answer.
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-Were you jealous of my ex?
-Yes.
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True.
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Why?
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Because she had your attention still,
and I wanted all of it.
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OK.
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I definitely felt in,
in the middle of everything...
249
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...because it was just like,
I was just trying to keep...
250
00:15:26,026 --> 00:15:28,176
...a friendship with my ex and then...
251
00:15:28,266 --> 00:15:30,216
...I was trying to make things
work with Danica...
252
00:15:30,306 --> 00:15:32,416
...but I didn't want to get rid
of both of them...
253
00:15:32,506 --> 00:15:35,296
...so it was like,
back and forth and hearing...
254
00:15:35,386 --> 00:15:38,496
...you know, Danica speak about my ex
and hearing my ex speak about Danica...
255
00:15:38,586 --> 00:15:41,148
...and I'm just like, literally
caught in the middle.
256
00:15:41,239 --> 00:15:42,569
It's ridiculous.
257
00:15:46,321 --> 00:15:47,710
Did you ever cheat on me?
258
00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:01,545
My Mum's like, "Oh, what are you going
to do with a 30-year-old woman?"
259
00:16:02,799 --> 00:16:05,269
They are not entirely
happy about it, actually.
260
00:16:06,184 --> 00:16:07,229
But that's because they're parents...
261
00:16:07,319 --> 00:16:08,589
-...and I can relate to that...
-That's because they're parents, yeah.
262
00:16:08,679 --> 00:16:09,989
...anyway because I'm a Mum as well...
263
00:16:10,079 --> 00:16:13,596
-...so that's a fair enough answer.
-That's the truth, yeah.
264
00:16:16,719 --> 00:16:19,519
Do you think I am too young
to know what love is?
265
00:16:19,799 --> 00:16:20,799
That's a good question.
266
00:16:22,032 --> 00:16:25,429
Well, I have had that much
more experience in terms of...
267
00:16:25,519 --> 00:16:27,839
...like, relationships,
so I know where I'm coming from.
268
00:16:27,959 --> 00:16:30,848
So let's answer the
question, yes or no, now.
269
00:16:31,359 --> 00:16:33,257
Do you think he knows what love is?
270
00:16:35,999 --> 00:16:37,545
Not entirely.
271
00:16:39,068 --> 00:16:40,127
So it's no?
272
00:16:40,999 --> 00:16:42,669
I think he's a bit of both.
273
00:16:42,759 --> 00:16:45,949
I don't think I can answer it
a full yes or no.
274
00:16:46,039 --> 00:16:47,559
-OK.
-Because you don't know.
275
00:16:48,039 --> 00:16:49,588
Do you love her?
276
00:16:49,719 --> 00:16:52,272
Yeah, a lot. A lot, I do.
277
00:16:53,159 --> 00:16:55,629
I just loved... I just look at you
and I am happy...
278
00:16:55,719 --> 00:16:56,709
...you do make me happy...
279
00:16:56,799 --> 00:16:58,069
-...and I love that, I love that.
-You do say that a lot.
280
00:16:58,159 --> 00:17:01,509
-Yeah, well, it's true.
-He does, he does, and I believe him.
281
00:17:01,599 --> 00:17:02,589
-So you do believe him.
-Yeah.
282
00:17:02,679 --> 00:17:03,679
OK.
283
00:17:09,679 --> 00:17:13,919
How soon do you want to get
married and have kids?
284
00:17:15,239 --> 00:17:19,189
At the moment, because of
my age and as a student,
285
00:17:19,279 --> 00:17:20,722
I am not ready at the moment.
286
00:17:22,639 --> 00:17:24,629
If I do have a child and get married...
287
00:17:24,719 --> 00:17:27,910
...it will be between five to 10 years...
288
00:17:28,860 --> 00:17:30,709
...and I know we haven't
actually spoken...
289
00:17:30,799 --> 00:17:31,909
-...about anything like this...
-No.
290
00:17:31,999 --> 00:17:34,189
-That's why you're here.
-That's why we're here.
291
00:17:34,279 --> 00:17:38,319
But if I see myself capable
of running a family...
292
00:17:38,439 --> 00:17:40,710
...then I will happily get married
and have a kid.
293
00:17:43,799 --> 00:17:45,990
See, that's a mature answer.
294
00:17:46,839 --> 00:17:48,349
That's what I love about him.
295
00:17:48,439 --> 00:17:52,297
He has a mature sense of, like, direction.
296
00:17:53,879 --> 00:17:56,513
Five to 10 years down the road...
297
00:17:57,239 --> 00:18:02,345
...when he's settled and able
to support a wife and have children...
298
00:18:03,079 --> 00:18:05,589
...would make you 35 to 40 years old.
299
00:18:05,679 --> 00:18:10,430
How do you feel about being potentially
a 35 to 40-year-old bride?
300
00:18:13,039 --> 00:18:16,759
That's fine.
I look 10 years younger, babe.
301
00:18:16,983 --> 00:18:21,426
So obviously, if you do the maths,
I'm better at maths now...
302
00:18:22,159 --> 00:18:23,309
...if you do the maths...
303
00:18:23,399 --> 00:18:26,759
...when I'm 40, I'm going to look 30.
304
00:18:26,879 --> 00:18:28,829
When you're 90, you'll look 80.
It's great.
305
00:18:28,919 --> 00:18:32,949
So to be honest,
age don't matter, does it?
306
00:18:33,039 --> 00:18:34,869
-Exactly.
-It doesn't matter.
307
00:18:34,959 --> 00:18:36,189
-Age is here.
-It's all in the mind.
308
00:18:36,279 --> 00:18:37,799
Exactly.
309
00:18:42,399 --> 00:18:47,082
Today has opened up my eyes a little bit
more, actually, and I think him too.
310
00:18:47,839 --> 00:18:49,269
-That's all you're getting, though.
-OK.
311
00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,309
I have told her the truth
and she knows now.
312
00:18:51,399 --> 00:18:53,258
And I'm glad that she does understand it.
313
00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,078
Did you ever cheat on me?
314
00:19:11,891 --> 00:19:12,977
Yes.
315
00:19:17,775 --> 00:19:19,087
With who?
316
00:19:25,221 --> 00:19:26,435
My ex.
317
00:19:27,678 --> 00:19:28,876
Yeah?
318
00:19:31,085 --> 00:19:32,259
When?
319
00:19:34,799 --> 00:19:38,820
Like... a few days before we break up.
320
00:19:44,679 --> 00:19:45,759
I did it...
321
00:19:46,319 --> 00:19:50,639
...because I still want to know if I still
have feelings for her...
322
00:19:50,959 --> 00:19:52,559
And...
323
00:19:55,254 --> 00:19:57,683
...after it happened...
324
00:19:58,624 --> 00:19:59,749
That's when I like...
325
00:19:59,839 --> 00:20:02,033
I realised that I don't.
326
00:20:02,124 --> 00:20:05,023
I'm not in love with her or
don't want to be with her...
327
00:20:05,114 --> 00:20:06,884
I don't want anything with her.
328
00:20:06,975 --> 00:20:08,936
I ignored my instincts.
329
00:20:11,191 --> 00:20:13,588
I ignored what I really knew...
330
00:20:14,814 --> 00:20:16,927
...because I wanted to believe in you.
331
00:20:17,306 --> 00:20:19,417
I want to believe in us.
332
00:20:22,306 --> 00:20:26,415
I did polygraphed her and Susan did...
333
00:20:27,266 --> 00:20:29,661
...confessed that she had...
334
00:20:30,586 --> 00:20:32,456
...an intimate with her ex.
335
00:20:32,546 --> 00:20:35,106
She was honest with me
that it was only time...
336
00:20:35,198 --> 00:20:36,718
...that she has been unfaithful to you.
337
00:20:37,930 --> 00:20:39,335
If that make a difference.
338
00:20:40,586 --> 00:20:42,154
I am so sorry that I did that.
339
00:20:50,292 --> 00:20:51,903
Can you ever trust me again?
340
00:20:56,039 --> 00:20:57,388
I don't know.
341
00:21:01,466 --> 00:21:04,069
The door's still open when you answer,
"I don't know."
342
00:21:11,786 --> 00:21:14,656
How many people
have you slept with since me?
343
00:21:14,746 --> 00:21:16,096
-Four.
-Bullshit.
344
00:21:16,186 --> 00:21:19,456
Probably about 15.
I've really calmed down.
345
00:21:19,546 --> 00:21:20,456
Three or four.
346
00:21:20,546 --> 00:21:21,936
-He's telling the truth.
-Damn it.
347
00:21:22,026 --> 00:21:23,536
Did you meet the girls
round the pawn shop?
348
00:21:23,626 --> 00:21:25,052
Is that why it's only 15?
349
00:21:29,066 --> 00:21:32,536
If we're exclusive,
are we in a relationship?
350
00:21:32,626 --> 00:21:33,826
No.
351
00:21:36,186 --> 00:21:38,789
I'm not ready for a relationship yet.
352
00:21:41,306 --> 00:21:42,466
Wow.
353
00:21:45,266 --> 00:21:47,016
She didn't have to say a word.
354
00:21:47,106 --> 00:21:48,826
I just looked at her face.
355
00:21:50,746 --> 00:21:52,066
I don't wanna hurt you.
356
00:21:54,546 --> 00:21:56,576
The moment you say,
"I'm in a relationship"...
357
00:21:56,666 --> 00:21:57,896
...you've got to talk more.
358
00:21:57,986 --> 00:21:59,336
You've got to phone call each other...
359
00:21:59,426 --> 00:22:02,546
...you've got to put specific time
to see each other...
360
00:22:02,946 --> 00:22:04,634
...and it can ruin things.
361
00:22:06,026 --> 00:22:07,456
Have you stuck to our agreement...
362
00:22:07,546 --> 00:22:09,706
-...not to sleep with anyone?
-Yeah, yeah, yes, yes.
363
00:22:10,106 --> 00:22:12,256
-I haven't slept with anyone.
-Oh, I'd be angry if you said no.
364
00:22:12,346 --> 00:22:13,936
No, I, I haven't slept with anybody.
365
00:22:14,026 --> 00:22:16,256
That's the truth,
he has not slept with anyone...
366
00:22:16,346 --> 00:22:18,776
...he's not had intercourse with anyone.
367
00:22:18,866 --> 00:22:20,946
What about anything else?
368
00:22:22,666 --> 00:22:24,426
Yeah, I've kissed somebody.
369
00:22:27,226 --> 00:22:28,426
Wow.
370
00:22:30,769 --> 00:22:32,536
Never thought you'd do that.
371
00:22:32,626 --> 00:22:34,951
-Was it just a kiss?
-Yes, it was just a kiss.
372
00:22:39,466 --> 00:22:40,456
Wow.
373
00:22:40,546 --> 00:22:43,736
It was just a kiss,
that I can prove to you.
374
00:22:43,826 --> 00:22:48,296
When I asked Steven, did you have any
other sexual physical contact with her...
375
00:22:48,386 --> 00:22:51,012
...besides kissing and touching,
he answered, no.
376
00:22:51,826 --> 00:22:54,416
As you can see,
there's no significant reaction...
377
00:22:54,506 --> 00:22:56,914
...which in a polygraph means
he's telling the truth.
378
00:22:58,159 --> 00:22:59,374
Yup.
379
00:23:09,906 --> 00:23:11,430
Can you ever trust me again?
380
00:23:13,826 --> 00:23:15,306
I don't know.
381
00:23:16,346 --> 00:23:19,040
The door is still open when
you answer, "I don't know."
382
00:23:21,386 --> 00:23:23,163
So you haven't shut the door.
383
00:23:25,866 --> 00:23:27,373
People make mistakes.
384
00:23:31,386 --> 00:23:33,288
I've made mistakes in my past.
385
00:23:34,066 --> 00:23:35,736
-Yeah.
-You know?
386
00:23:35,826 --> 00:23:37,285
I'm not, I'm not a saint.
387
00:23:39,146 --> 00:23:42,056
So, you know, it's unfair
to judge you like that.
388
00:23:42,146 --> 00:23:43,713
I don't think you're a bad person.
389
00:23:44,226 --> 00:23:45,948
It's a good, honest answer.
390
00:23:47,866 --> 00:23:50,112
Do you think you can fall
in love with me again?
391
00:23:55,386 --> 00:23:56,706
Yes.
392
00:24:04,066 --> 00:24:06,226
Told you you were gonna
get the truth today.
393
00:24:06,666 --> 00:24:08,936
-Truth, the whole truth and nothing...
-That's been a long time coming.
394
00:24:09,026 --> 00:24:10,666
...but the truth.
395
00:24:17,226 --> 00:24:18,456
After you.
396
00:24:18,546 --> 00:24:20,496
I feel like after today
and seeing how she's reacted...
397
00:24:20,586 --> 00:24:22,336
...and how I've reacted as well.
398
00:24:22,426 --> 00:24:28,017
My feelings for her are so strong,
like, I know that I love her so much.
399
00:24:45,746 --> 00:24:48,576
With relationships nowadays,
it's a little bit awkward...
400
00:24:48,666 --> 00:24:50,186
...because of social media.
401
00:24:50,346 --> 00:24:52,376
Text messages can be misread.
402
00:24:52,466 --> 00:24:56,388
It causes such a massive, like,
drama, you don't need it.
403
00:25:02,226 --> 00:25:04,517
I first met Alana on Tinder.
404
00:25:05,066 --> 00:25:08,113
We've gone on a date before,
it's now been six months...
405
00:25:08,826 --> 00:25:11,136
...and we still haven't arranged
a second date.
406
00:25:11,226 --> 00:25:13,699
I think we need to find out
why and where we stand.
407
00:25:15,986 --> 00:25:17,491
Please have a seat.
408
00:25:18,797 --> 00:25:20,078
-Welcome.
-Hi..
409
00:25:23,986 --> 00:25:25,866
How hot do I look today?
410
00:25:26,026 --> 00:25:28,016
Stunning, to be fair.
I'll give you a 10 out of 10.
411
00:25:28,106 --> 00:25:30,696
-Thanks.
-Truth, truth.
412
00:25:30,786 --> 00:25:32,576
You look 10 out of 10 as well.
413
00:25:32,666 --> 00:25:34,576
-Truthful and a good compliment...
-I'll take that, yeah.
414
00:25:34,666 --> 00:25:35,878
...right, yeah?
415
00:25:37,466 --> 00:25:38,706
Oh, God.
416
00:25:39,106 --> 00:25:41,719
What's your favourite sexual position?
417
00:25:45,826 --> 00:25:49,256
I don't know, anything where
the guy's dominant, I'd say.
418
00:25:49,346 --> 00:25:50,896
-Truthful answer.
-In fact, dominant woman...
419
00:25:50,986 --> 00:25:53,506
-...that's just a bit weird.
-You still haven't said a position.
420
00:25:53,866 --> 00:25:57,106
-Missionary.
-Yeah, but missionary's just standard.
421
00:25:59,689 --> 00:26:01,336
Venture out.
422
00:26:01,426 --> 00:26:04,186
I'm not the sort
of guy that sort of like...
423
00:26:04,346 --> 00:26:07,536
...doggy and like, oh, yeah,
typical lad banter, yeah...
424
00:26:07,626 --> 00:26:09,736
...more lads' holiday,
high fiving his mate.
425
00:26:09,826 --> 00:26:11,376
-Yeah.
-I'm not about that.
426
00:26:11,466 --> 00:26:13,107
What's your favourite position?
427
00:26:13,786 --> 00:26:16,496
Well, I would probably
say doggy, actually.
428
00:26:16,586 --> 00:26:17,842
-Oh, really?
-Yeah.
429
00:26:20,946 --> 00:26:22,073
Oh, God.
430
00:26:23,066 --> 00:26:24,176
Oh, God.
431
00:26:24,266 --> 00:26:27,257
Of all of your first dates,
where does ours rank?
432
00:26:28,306 --> 00:26:29,696
It was a good date.
433
00:26:29,786 --> 00:26:33,209
Like, it wasn't bad at all,
like, I had a really good time.
434
00:26:35,186 --> 00:26:36,836
Lot of potential here.
435
00:26:40,386 --> 00:26:43,536
Yeah, I really enjoyed the first date,
like, I really wanna see him again.
436
00:26:43,626 --> 00:26:45,056
And we were meant to meet, like...
437
00:26:45,146 --> 00:26:48,776
...a week after but at the very
last minute, he cancelled on me.
438
00:26:48,866 --> 00:26:51,216
And then we've had like,
another date, like...
439
00:26:51,306 --> 00:26:54,856
...a few days after, and he cancelled
on me, like, an hour before again.
440
00:26:54,946 --> 00:26:56,976
So then I was just like, oh, right...
441
00:26:57,066 --> 00:26:59,136
...that's it, like,
you've lost your chance.
442
00:26:59,226 --> 00:27:01,296
Like, I'm not gonna just
wait around for you.
443
00:27:01,386 --> 00:27:04,064
He's tried to do
the second date about like...
444
00:27:05,386 --> 00:27:07,346
...probably like, 20 times.
445
00:27:11,346 --> 00:27:13,976
-Do you think I'm a player?
-Yeah.
446
00:27:14,066 --> 00:27:16,496
-True.
-Yeah, I do.
447
00:27:18,106 --> 00:27:20,306
You just kind of give off
that kind of vibe.
448
00:27:21,386 --> 00:27:24,026
Definitely wrong there, definitely wrong.
449
00:27:24,306 --> 00:27:25,296
Well.
450
00:27:25,386 --> 00:27:26,875
Not a player, 100 percent.
451
00:27:29,146 --> 00:27:33,581
Since our last date, how many people
have you had sexual contact with?
452
00:27:38,466 --> 00:27:40,297
Three. Two or three.
453
00:27:41,466 --> 00:27:42,466
Truthful.
454
00:27:43,185 --> 00:27:44,436
Nice.
455
00:27:45,706 --> 00:27:47,706
I've slept with two people.
456
00:27:47,826 --> 00:27:50,426
So I'm not that bad after all, am I?
457
00:27:50,746 --> 00:27:52,737
-No, it's close, it's...
-I'm not that bad.
458
00:27:54,906 --> 00:27:57,186
Basically, I treat girls with respect.
459
00:27:57,346 --> 00:27:59,256
A lot of my mates say,
oh, you're too nice.
460
00:27:59,346 --> 00:28:02,816
So I always sort of like,
get walked all over by different girls.
461
00:28:02,906 --> 00:28:06,216
So now I've got to the point now where
I'm not going to change as a person.
462
00:28:06,306 --> 00:28:08,656
Do you know what I mean?
I'm, I'm always going to be me so...
463
00:28:08,746 --> 00:28:10,226
...I just need to find the right one.
464
00:28:12,746 --> 00:28:14,776
When dating, who should pay the bill?
465
00:28:14,866 --> 00:28:16,456
I feel like if a guy
asks a girl on a date...
466
00:28:16,546 --> 00:28:19,176
...then they're kind of setting
them self up to pay...
467
00:28:19,266 --> 00:28:21,546
...but the girl should still offer.
468
00:28:21,866 --> 00:28:23,296
-No, I...
-But if you're both, like...
469
00:28:23,386 --> 00:28:25,016
"Oh, shall we go do something?"
470
00:28:25,106 --> 00:28:27,321
Then I feel like it should be,
like, an equal thing.
471
00:28:27,906 --> 00:28:30,536
As a genuine guy,
I think that it should be...
472
00:28:30,626 --> 00:28:32,896
-...the guy that pays.
-Maybe on the first date a guy.
473
00:28:32,986 --> 00:28:34,616
A guy... Not just first date.
474
00:28:34,706 --> 00:28:36,016
I'd say through dating...
475
00:28:36,106 --> 00:28:38,057
...the guy should be the one that
sort of makes the effort.
476
00:28:38,147 --> 00:28:40,482
Yeah, but the girl can't,
like, just expect.
477
00:28:40,573 --> 00:28:41,416
She has to offer.
478
00:28:41,506 --> 00:28:45,506
That's a good thing because
there's a lot of guys today...
479
00:28:45,626 --> 00:28:49,296
...that are like, "Well, she works
and, well, she should pay half."
480
00:28:49,386 --> 00:28:54,746
That's a very noble, chivalrous and,
like, a proper English gentleman.
481
00:28:54,986 --> 00:28:56,146
-Yeah.
-Good.
482
00:29:00,666 --> 00:29:02,536
Who's cancelled more dates?
483
00:29:02,626 --> 00:29:04,456
-Oh, I've probably cancelled more dates.
-Yeah.
484
00:29:04,546 --> 00:29:07,736
But that was only because you
cancelled dates initially...
485
00:29:07,826 --> 00:29:09,586
...so I was like, no, I can't be bothered.
486
00:29:09,706 --> 00:29:13,009
Between you two, 20 dates
have been cancelled.
487
00:29:13,106 --> 00:29:14,666
-I know.
-Wow.
488
00:29:14,906 --> 00:29:17,896
Together you've been playing
games of, well, he blew me off...
489
00:29:17,986 --> 00:29:20,896
...so I'm going to blow him off,
and he blew me, and...
490
00:29:20,986 --> 00:29:23,496
That, now that is exactly
what I was on about.
491
00:29:23,586 --> 00:29:26,346
That was the stage where I wasn't sure
and then I said, like...
492
00:29:26,506 --> 00:29:28,896
...my head's not really
in the right place...
493
00:29:28,986 --> 00:29:30,896
...for anything and, like...
494
00:29:30,986 --> 00:29:34,176
...I don't want to start going on dates
with someone if I don't feel like...
495
00:29:34,266 --> 00:29:36,936
I'm going to completely be in it.
496
00:29:37,026 --> 00:29:38,936
Trying to almost protect you
even though I probably...
497
00:29:39,026 --> 00:29:40,736
...seemed like I was being horrible.
498
00:29:40,826 --> 00:29:42,002
No, that's fair enough.
499
00:29:46,146 --> 00:29:47,777
Do you want to go a second date?
500
00:29:55,506 --> 00:29:56,566
For God's sake...
501
00:29:57,601 --> 00:29:59,200
Yeah, I would go on a second date.
502
00:30:03,186 --> 00:30:04,735
Give me two high fives.
503
00:30:09,706 --> 00:30:12,466
I, like, came here with
one opinion on him, that...
504
00:30:12,586 --> 00:30:14,896
...and he's kind of proven
that that opinion...
505
00:30:14,986 --> 00:30:16,547
...isn't exactly what I thought it was.
506
00:30:17,906 --> 00:30:19,616
I'm definitely pleased
that I've come today...
507
00:30:19,706 --> 00:30:22,456
...and me and can definitely
move forward and go on another date.
508
00:30:23,626 --> 00:30:26,136
If it wasn't for the help from Dan...
509
00:30:26,226 --> 00:30:28,456
...basically, I don't think we'd ever
have got to the bottom of it.
510
00:30:28,546 --> 00:30:30,409
So I'm really grateful for today.
511
00:30:44,866 --> 00:30:48,096
I think when you get love right,
it can be amazing and beautiful.
512
00:30:48,186 --> 00:30:49,776
I think it's just really hard to find.
513
00:30:54,426 --> 00:30:57,226
Neil is very brash, he's very impulsive.
514
00:30:57,506 --> 00:31:01,576
He was a bit like, rough and ready and I
just found that really hot and exciting.
515
00:31:01,666 --> 00:31:03,546
I'd never met anyone like that before.
516
00:31:03,666 --> 00:31:05,271
I'll always love Neil.
517
00:31:05,986 --> 00:31:07,936
I feel like we've never had closure...
518
00:31:08,026 --> 00:31:10,326
...in the sense that we've never
really talked about the break up.
519
00:31:16,666 --> 00:31:19,176
All right, gentlemen.
Who's going to ask the first question?
520
00:31:22,346 --> 00:31:25,696
Who gets more male attention, you or me?
521
00:31:25,786 --> 00:31:26,920
Absolutely you.
522
00:31:27,506 --> 00:31:31,376
I know it sounds ridiculous but like,
this look that's appealing to gay men...
523
00:31:31,466 --> 00:31:34,466
...dark hair, bit laddish, bit boyish...
524
00:31:34,586 --> 00:31:38,140
...and I would say you get
a lot more attention.
525
00:31:39,746 --> 00:31:40,826
OK.
526
00:31:44,546 --> 00:31:45,866
What is it?
527
00:31:46,626 --> 00:31:48,936
Who is better at giving blow jobs?
528
00:31:49,026 --> 00:31:50,535
Oh, God.
529
00:31:54,026 --> 00:31:55,501
You, probably.
530
00:31:56,706 --> 00:31:58,096
I'm not that great.
531
00:31:58,186 --> 00:32:00,336
-I wouldn't say.
-You were lazier, but when you actually...
532
00:32:00,426 --> 00:32:01,856
...Christmas and birthdays, it was nice.
533
00:32:01,946 --> 00:32:03,936
-Right, yeah, OK. Thanks for that.
-Special occasions?
534
00:32:04,026 --> 00:32:06,403
Yes, steak and blow job day.
535
00:32:09,586 --> 00:32:11,106
Horrendous.
536
00:32:15,826 --> 00:32:18,120
How many people have you
slept with since me?
537
00:32:27,426 --> 00:32:29,517
I think it's probably about three.
538
00:32:32,746 --> 00:32:33,836
Four.
539
00:32:34,626 --> 00:32:38,146
Maybe, maybe two more but
I didn't sleep with them.
540
00:32:38,386 --> 00:32:39,592
-Rudies.
-Rudies.
541
00:32:40,746 --> 00:32:42,469
All right, next question.
542
00:32:46,506 --> 00:32:48,319
Was it just a kiss at Gay Pride?
543
00:32:52,186 --> 00:32:53,426
Yes.
544
00:33:01,146 --> 00:33:02,656
We were at Manchester Pride...
545
00:33:02,746 --> 00:33:05,176
...drinking, and he was,
when he gets drunk, he gets a bit like...
546
00:33:05,266 --> 00:33:08,256
...you're boring, I just want to dance and
be free, and run off into the night.
547
00:33:08,346 --> 00:33:10,736
And I was like, yeah, that's fine,
how exciting, great, kind of thing.
548
00:33:10,826 --> 00:33:13,416
Went home, and then literally,
5:00 in the morning...
549
00:33:13,506 --> 00:33:14,936
...my doorbell starts ringing...
550
00:33:15,026 --> 00:33:16,496
...and I go down and open the door,
and he's like...
551
00:33:16,586 --> 00:33:19,371
...I'm really, really sorry but I'm,
I've kissed someone else.
552
00:33:20,546 --> 00:33:22,506
Always had an inkling there
was a little bit more.
553
00:33:23,666 --> 00:33:25,886
-He's not telling the truth.
-Is he not?
554
00:33:27,026 --> 00:33:28,584
No, I am telling the truth...
555
00:33:30,426 --> 00:33:32,161
...that it was just a kiss.
556
00:33:36,946 --> 00:33:38,539
-Can I ask you a question?
-Please.
557
00:33:39,226 --> 00:33:42,841
-When I kissed you, what do you feel?
-Well, I don't know.
558
00:33:43,906 --> 00:33:46,306
You don't have to finish, I know
what it makes you feel like.
559
00:33:46,946 --> 00:33:51,186
It's like when we have sex,
it's not just with someone random...
560
00:33:51,306 --> 00:33:54,745
...and even when we kiss,
it's special to me.
561
00:33:56,786 --> 00:33:58,776
And we care about each other so much...
562
00:33:58,866 --> 00:34:03,136
...but I think we're both scared
to go any further...
563
00:34:03,226 --> 00:34:05,493
...because one, we don't want
to lose that friendship.
564
00:34:07,466 --> 00:34:13,731
Because so many do when they get together,
and what we have already is quite golden.
565
00:34:14,786 --> 00:34:16,915
If I kiss you, I let feelings in.
566
00:34:17,306 --> 00:34:20,906
If I let, if I let feelings in,
I'm scared with you...
567
00:34:21,026 --> 00:34:23,026
...because I don't want
to lose you out of my life.
568
00:34:23,146 --> 00:34:27,176
I just think we've pushed
the feelings, like, away.
569
00:34:27,266 --> 00:34:29,096
Like, they're buried underground.
570
00:34:29,186 --> 00:34:30,976
-Yeah, but they're really...
-And they have been for...
571
00:34:31,066 --> 00:34:33,026
...really, really, really buried, yeah.
572
00:34:33,306 --> 00:34:35,176
You have a diamond
in your hand, my friend.
573
00:34:35,266 --> 00:34:37,301
Don't lose it while you search
for pebbles.
574
00:34:42,266 --> 00:34:44,256
What's my most annoying habit?
575
00:34:44,346 --> 00:34:45,536
Other than breathing?
576
00:34:45,626 --> 00:34:47,346
Picking your nose.
577
00:34:47,906 --> 00:34:48,937
You talk too much.
578
00:34:49,027 --> 00:34:50,056
I'm not going to accept that.
579
00:34:50,146 --> 00:34:51,776
You don't clean up.
580
00:34:51,866 --> 00:34:54,576
-You're just a whinge bag.
-Oh, yes.
581
00:34:54,666 --> 00:34:55,764
Now you've got it.
582
00:34:59,306 --> 00:35:02,337
-Was it just a kiss at Gay Pride?
-Yes.
583
00:35:07,706 --> 00:35:09,276
So when I asked him...
584
00:35:10,346 --> 00:35:12,296
...besides a kiss...
585
00:35:12,386 --> 00:35:17,426
...did you have any other sexual
physical contact that day.
586
00:35:17,586 --> 00:35:20,416
You're going to see that we have
a significant...
587
00:35:20,506 --> 00:35:24,056
...reaction indicative of deception.
588
00:35:24,146 --> 00:35:26,426
-So...
-You might as well just spill it now.
589
00:35:26,586 --> 00:35:29,887
It was a kiss but what
I told you was a...
590
00:35:32,426 --> 00:35:35,096
-Watered down version.
-...a watered down version.
591
00:35:35,331 --> 00:35:36,976
But why did you want to stay
with me after that, then?
592
00:35:37,066 --> 00:35:38,502
Because it was a mistake.
593
00:35:39,826 --> 00:35:41,699
It was an absolute mistake.
594
00:35:44,266 --> 00:35:45,656
Whenever he was going out drinking...
595
00:35:45,746 --> 00:35:47,416
...I would always be paranoid
after that...
596
00:35:47,506 --> 00:35:50,176
...that he was going to go
and kiss someone else, or
597
00:35:50,266 --> 00:35:52,936
...do something and I just,
I never really could get past it...
598
00:35:53,026 --> 00:35:54,216
...which I guess was my issue.
599
00:35:54,306 --> 00:35:57,306
I probably should have, if, when
I said I was going to stay with him.
600
00:35:57,506 --> 00:36:00,111
But that just caused so many
problems for us after that.
601
00:36:01,826 --> 00:36:04,674
-But you never got with anyone else?
-No, no.
602
00:36:04,764 --> 00:36:05,764
-No.
-I didn't.
603
00:36:07,436 --> 00:36:09,117
-Did you?
-No.
604
00:36:09,207 --> 00:36:10,927
-Did you ever kiss anybody else?
-No.
605
00:36:12,527 --> 00:36:14,950
-I did polygraph you both, didn't I?
-Yeah.
606
00:36:16,643 --> 00:36:19,701
I 1,000 and 50 hundred million
percent didn't.
607
00:36:19,821 --> 00:36:22,781
OK. Let me get now to Lloyd's results.
608
00:36:22,871 --> 00:36:25,301
He answered no and if you watch...
609
00:36:25,391 --> 00:36:28,959
...you'll see that significant
reaction once again.
610
00:36:31,031 --> 00:36:34,200
The only thing I was thinking
of that after we'd broken up...
611
00:36:34,290 --> 00:36:36,998
...when I was in New Zealand,
I did kiss someone.
612
00:36:37,088 --> 00:36:39,320
You've got to take responsibility
for that now, like I did...
613
00:36:39,410 --> 00:36:41,371
-...and say sorry.
-Yeah, but we weren't together.
614
00:36:42,050 --> 00:36:43,760
You hadn't informed
me that we wasn't together.
615
00:36:43,850 --> 00:36:44,693
Yes, I had, Neil.
616
00:36:44,784 --> 00:36:46,768
We did say that we were
going to take time apart...
617
00:36:46,858 --> 00:36:49,459
...and see if we'd changed as people,
that's what, how we left it.
618
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,320
Don't know about that.
619
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,889
What do you regret most
in our relationship?
620
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:03,525
Kissing that lad.
621
00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:06,160
True.
622
00:37:09,240 --> 00:37:10,870
Last question.
623
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,288
A free question.
624
00:37:13,240 --> 00:37:14,710
-Shall we go for a pint?
-Yeah.
625
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,202
Oh, good, there we go.
626
00:37:21,240 --> 00:37:25,750
I never for one second felt that he'd ever
done anything like that behind my back.
627
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,369
But you can't hold on to the past,
you've got to move on.
628
00:37:28,459 --> 00:37:32,409
I was thinking, obviously,
we hadn't officially broken up...
629
00:37:32,499 --> 00:37:36,849
...when I kissed someone else,
and I am sorry for that.
630
00:37:36,939 --> 00:37:39,409
We work really well together
right now as friends.
631
00:37:39,499 --> 00:37:41,646
Who knows what'll happen
one day in the future?
632
00:37:42,179 --> 00:37:44,929
-You can get the pints in tonight. Eh?
-Yeah, OK.
633
00:37:45,019 --> 00:37:46,606
As a sorry...
634
00:37:48,379 --> 00:37:50,619
You're not kids any more.
635
00:37:50,739 --> 00:37:55,309
You know what happens if perhaps
you don't let your feelings out?
636
00:37:56,149 --> 00:37:59,453
You might lose her because she might go
into another relationship.
637
00:38:00,537 --> 00:38:02,649
You have one last question.
638
00:38:02,739 --> 00:38:05,209
What question do you want to ask Kath?
639
00:38:10,559 --> 00:38:11,981
Yeah, will, will you be with me?
640
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:18,539
Yes.
641
00:38:19,217 --> 00:38:20,372
True.
642
00:38:26,299 --> 00:38:27,819
Come here.
643
00:38:29,422 --> 00:38:30,636
I do love you.
644
00:38:32,539 --> 00:38:33,889
-I want to give you a cuddle.
-Yeah.
645
00:38:33,979 --> 00:38:36,420
-Can I give him a cuddle?
-You can give him whatever you want.
646
00:38:48,419 --> 00:38:50,210
All of the couples are leaving...
647
00:38:50,300 --> 00:38:53,465
...having had the most honest
conversation of their lives.
648
00:38:53,585 --> 00:38:57,916
They can now take the next step
in their relationship with clarity.
649
00:38:59,681 --> 00:39:05,682
That conversation has needed
to happen for so many years...
650
00:39:05,773 --> 00:39:08,964
...and it's great
to finally get it all out.
651
00:39:09,533 --> 00:39:12,745
I kept with you, I don't want to go
with anyone else for the rest of my life.
652
00:39:13,613 --> 00:39:15,151
-I mean that.
-Yeah.
653
00:39:16,493 --> 00:39:18,093
I'm in a relationship.
654
00:39:18,653 --> 00:39:20,910
Yeah, with someone...
655
00:39:21,893 --> 00:39:24,718
...who was right in front of me
for seven years.
656
00:39:33,573 --> 00:39:35,683
I was very confused with my feelings
for Danica.
657
00:39:35,773 --> 00:39:38,763
I just felt like, you know,
I liked her but did I like her enough?
658
00:39:38,853 --> 00:39:42,403
But we never had serious
conversations before today.
659
00:39:42,493 --> 00:39:45,385
It's helped me understand
her more as a person.
660
00:39:45,475 --> 00:39:48,865
Now I can say that maybe
there's a chance...
661
00:39:48,955 --> 00:39:50,475
...me and her could just move forward.
662
00:39:51,315 --> 00:39:54,051
It's weird because I've never felt
this way with anyone before.
663
00:39:55,835 --> 00:39:57,479
I love her to bits.
664
00:40:04,435 --> 00:40:07,985
After all that with Charley and
Dan, it was... it was great.
665
00:40:08,075 --> 00:40:11,795
I've learned a lot,
I think the relationship has progressed.
666
00:40:11,915 --> 00:40:15,576
I think we've both taken something
away from this, which is great.
667
00:40:24,435 --> 00:40:28,465
I 100 percent believe now that
the friendship's the most important thing.
668
00:40:28,555 --> 00:40:31,115
-You can get the pints in tonight.
-OK.
669
00:40:40,075 --> 00:40:42,195
The conversation's definitely
been a long time coming.
670
00:40:42,875 --> 00:40:45,305
Like I said,
there were so many times where...
671
00:40:45,395 --> 00:40:46,945
...I'd love to have just phoned
her and said...
672
00:40:47,035 --> 00:40:49,456
"Look, what is actually going on?"
but the thing is...
673
00:40:50,155 --> 00:40:52,619
...like, without today it probably
would have never happened.
674
00:41:02,574 --> 00:41:06,894
We're all afraid of the truth,
but we need it in our relationships.
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