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[♪ "Work To Do"
by The Isley Brothers playing]
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Oh, yeah.
Chicken is done.
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Alright, what's goin' on
with the waffle count?
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Mm, uh, nearly 40.
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- Oh, nice, nice.
- We're movin'.
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Oh, that looks so good, Edwin.
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- Nadine...
- Hm?
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- ...does it look professional?
- Yes.
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I really need this to work, mama.
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Mm, mm!
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- Yeah?
- Dad! What smells so amazing?
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- Oh! Oh, hey, Paige.
- Hi.
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[Nadine Gregory] Your dad made
these shrimp and grits balls.
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They're divine.
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I know you prefer
bland Swedish food,
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- but come try.
- [Edwin Alexander] Okay, okay.
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Good morning.
Good morning, baby girl.
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You got the "morning" part right.
What's the occasion?
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Why are you in my favorite apron
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and you guys using
every single bowl in my house?
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I'm catering your sister's open house.
Did you forget that?
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- No, no, no. I remember.
- Few more gigs like that,
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I'll have a down payment
on the food truck.
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Yeah, and then you're just
gonna need a license to drive it
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and a business permit,
an employer ID number,
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- and a food--
- And a food service license. I know.
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- [Nadine sighs]
- The shit ain't set up for me to succeed.
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I understand,
but I got my birth certificate.
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- One step at a time, okay?
- Yeah, you are correct.
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- You hungry?
- Yes. [laughs]
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Hey, Nadine put together
these little waffle bites
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in case she's feelin'
more sweet than savory.
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I'd say Paige feels more salty.
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I'll just have a coffee.
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Okay.
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- [mouths] Stop.
- [mouths] What?
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- Dad?
- Yeah, baby.
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I thought we said no overnights.
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She just got here,
and she saved the day, Paige.
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How?
[chuckles]
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Did you know you're missing
lemon pepper and garlic salt?
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Oh, well, yeah,
that makes her a hero.
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Can you maybe warn me
when you're gonna have company
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so that I don't come down
in my private clothes?
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You wore those pants
to Target last week, girl.
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[Nadine]
I raised you better than that.
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Oh, let's please not unpack
how you "raised" me.
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- A-Also, these are Ivy Park.
- Paired with Birkenstocks.
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I'm gonna go fold some laundry
'cause there's something about
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being around the two of you
that makes me wanna put some
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sharp creases in my jeans.
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[♪ upbeat, rhythmic music playing]
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[Edwin]
Hey! Comin' to it right now. Comin' to it!
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- What is this?
- It's not what you think.
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Okay, it's an album
recorded by my kid's father,
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and it's in my dad's room,
so what should I think?
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Paige, rock-and-roll went south
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after Chuck Berry
and Little Richard and them,
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so there must be another reason
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- why it's in my room--
- What the fu--
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- Grandpa.
- Finn.
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- You said you wouldn't tell.
- Y-Your mama came--
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Wouldn't tell what?
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- [sighs] It doesn't matter.
- Jesus Christ.
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- It doesn't matter.
- Aw, Dad, Dad, Dad.
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We talked about this.
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You and I are supposed
to tell each other the whole truth.
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The boy is allowed to be curious
about his own father, Paige.
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No. No, no, no.
This is a terrible idea.
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You are opening up
a whole can of worms.
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Can been open, Paige.
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- [Paige sighs]
- Been open since the day the boy was born.
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Paige, I gotta get ready.
I got food in the car.
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It would really mean a lot to me
if you would just stop by
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the open house later to support me.
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Y-Yeah. That-- Yes, that's fine. Sure.
I already told Esti that I would be there.
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- Oh, okay. Yeah, Esti. Okay.
- I just-- I need you to promise me
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that you are not going
to quit your day job
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over whatever this food thing
may or may not pan out to be, okay?
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I will be keeping that bird
very firmly in my hand, Paige.
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- Okay.
- Anyway, I'm glad you're comin'.
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I know how much you like to snoop
around other folks' floor plans.
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What does that mean, Dad?
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It means you're a sn-- [laughs]
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- You're a snoop, girl.
- I'm not a snoop. It was right there.
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Okay, yeah.
Whose room is this?
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- [Paige Alexander] Who pays the mortgage?
- Oh!
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- [video recorder beeps]
- I wanna talk about triggers.
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So, maybe there's
no such thing as a trigger warning
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because, apparently,
a trigger can show up
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in your kitchen uninvited
and unannounced,
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and that is not the right attitude.
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- [video recorder beeps]
- [sputters]
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- Ah!
- [video recorder beeps]
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[whispers]
Triggers.
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[normal] Triggers are almost never
about what's happening right now.
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They are connected to something old,
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something that is carried in the mind
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but really held in the body,
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and that is why
they can be so overwhelming,
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like a riptide is sucking
you under and-- [yells]
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[sighs]
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- [video recorder beeps]
- Triggers are like metal detectors,
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and when they go off,
it means that you have found a spot
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where something deeply personal
is buried way down.
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And so, the question
you need to ask yourself is:
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am I willing to start digging?
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- [video recorder beeps]
- No, I am not.
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[groans] I'm so triggered.
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- [Finn Alexander] Mom?
- Hey.
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Um... about my dad...
I've been thinking--
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And you have questions, right?
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Of course, you do,
because these are critical years
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of individuating,
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and so it's totally natural for you
to wanna know more about your dad.
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It's primal, really.
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So, I mean, whatever you
wanna ask me, you should ask me,
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- like on Reddit but in real life.
- Mom. Can we talk a little slower?
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[chuckles]
Uh, yes, we can.
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I'm sorry, sweetie.
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What's he really like?
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I mean, I kinda don't know
what he's like, but I also do.
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Wow.
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Uh, well, your dad,
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he is charming and charismatic
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and also, like, fun and carefree.
[laughs]
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- So you're saying I took after you?
- Tragically, yes. [laughs]
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But, honey, there's still hope for you
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because you might get some
of your granddad's swag passed onto you
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'cause it's somewhere in my genetics.
[laughs]
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Is there a reason
he doesn't come see me?
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You know, his band tours,
like, 300 days a year.
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Yeah, and he doesn't visit the other 65.
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- I mean.
- Yeah, I c-- I can't explain that, Finn.
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- 'Kay, maybe I'll just ask him.
- Oh, wow. Okay, that's interesting.
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Um, so, it is one approach,
and we can talk about it,
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but let's just talk about it maybe when
I'm not on my way out the door, okay?
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- Okay.
- Okay! Okay, okay!
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- [door closes]
- [♪ soft, rhythmic music playing]
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♪
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Welcome. There is a sign-in sheet
on the table right there.
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- [softly] Thank you.
- Oh, and I have a neo-soul small bite
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for your enjoyment, take that.
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- Thank you.
- There you go.
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It's like the Erykah Badu of light bites.
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So, what are we thinking?
Is the bedroom suite not dreamy?
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It's the heated floors
in the bathroom for me.
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There's nothin' like stepping down
onto warm tile in the middle of winter.
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I was just talking about that.
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Now if I'm you all,
I'm moving very quickly.
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This place is goin' in multiples,
you best believe.
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- I'm calling our agent.
- Okay.
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Oh, please, uh, take
a sammie before you go.
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- Thank you.
- And for all your catering needs,
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please take a card.
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It has my, uh, QR code,
which my grandson made for me.
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- Oh, sweet. Thank you.
- Thank you.
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- You guys enjoy.
- Thank you so much.
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- Bye.
- Bye-bye now.
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That was good.
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- Dude, promise me I'll never have to do...
- Huh? What?
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...another open house without you
and your awesome waffle sammies.
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Okay, gimme somethin'.
Come on.
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Uhh!
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You said you're gonna take
better care of me.
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- Mm-hm.
- So, you know Nadine's a walking,
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talking trigger machine,
but what are you gonna do?
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- I don't need trouble.
- I don't know. Ignore her?
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[gasps]
Wait, does that work?
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- No. Fight her.
- Uh, try again.
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Listen to everything you say
that we need the most?
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- Bingo!
- Oh!
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Oh, God.
Incoming.
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Paige, hi!
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- Hi! Wow!
- [Ava] Hi!
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Oh, you're checking out
my dad's new business venture.
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Yeah. You know,
I like to show up for my clients.
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Right.
Or check up on them?
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Just a little. I love how
he's literally cooking up bigger plans.
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Ah, I see what you did there.
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Your dad's showin' out.
The man's food slaps.
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- Mm-hm.
- Yep. Except now, thanks to him,
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I gotta talk Ava outta this house.
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Mm, it's literally perfect.
Ooh, I'm moist. [laughs]
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Slow down, babe.
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I think you've had one
too many bourbon-glazed shrimp.
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- Okay? Let's get you home.
- Bye, Paige.
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- [Mal Kennedy] See you, Paige.
- See you, Ava. Bye, Mal.
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- Bye, guys. [groans]
- [metal detector beeping]
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Beep, beep, beep, beep.
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- [gasps] Beeeeep!
- [metal detector beeping]
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♪
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I don't understand why Paige
keeps doubting this part of who I am.
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Yeah, Paige is just
an "I'll believe it when I see it" type.
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Oh yeah. Give her time.
It's only been three or four decades.
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Let her cook.
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Ooh, that looks good.
And I will take one of--
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- No, you will not.
- Hey, hey, hey! Leave some for the guests!
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- Come on!
- [Edwin] You know what?
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You guys ate all the food.
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- [Esti Nelson] Uh-uh.
- [Edwin] Forget it! Forget it!
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- I'll be standing by.
- [Edwin] Forget it. Nuh-uh.
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Paige! Oh, my God!
So glad you made it!
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- Baby girl.
- Uh, your dad's grits balls
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have sold this house
five times already.
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- Grits balls?
- Oh, they're very persuasive.
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- Well, you like the balls.
- [Esti] Seriously though,
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your dad is the best
hype man of all time.
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Okay, okay.
Come on now, come on now.
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Okay, well, Lil Jon is
the best hype man of actual all time,
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but I don't know Lil Jon.
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I couldn't afford him even if I did.
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You might not be able
to afford me after a while.
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- Ah!
- [all laughing]
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[fake laughing]
Esti, can I talk to you for a minute?
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Okay, and then,
I come around the corner,
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and there she is
in my favorite vintage apron.
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- The one you got at Ragstock?
- Yes!
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And now she's trying to be
all buddy-buddy with my sister?
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- Me?
- Yes, you.
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I can't even get my feet underneath me
'cause everywhere I turn,
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there's Nadine
and her stupid fucking long legs.
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She does have outstanding legs.
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- Stop liking her!
- Ow! O-Okay, okay!
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- [whispers] What do you want me to do?
- I don't know.
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Be mean to her,
at least when I'm around.
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I'm kidding.
You know I'm totally kidding, right?
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Who are you kidding?
You are totally not kidding.
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00:09:38,912 --> 00:09:43,292
[groans] I also saw Mal
and his gorgeous girlfriend.
230
00:09:43,292 --> 00:09:45,502
I should sue her
for breaking my face, right?
231
00:09:45,502 --> 00:09:48,589
- Isn't she a lawyer?
- Oh, yeah. So that plan's a bust.
232
00:09:48,589 --> 00:09:52,968
Oh, also, Finn, all of a sudden,
has all these questions about his dad.
233
00:09:52,968 --> 00:09:55,888
I'm triggered as fuck.
Somehow, he got his hands on the album.
234
00:09:55,888 --> 00:09:57,848
Oh, that, that was me.
235
00:09:57,848 --> 00:09:59,808
- How could you?
- No, oh, yeah, yeah, I probably should've
236
00:09:59,808 --> 00:10:01,727
- told you. I--
- Yes! How could you?
237
00:10:01,727 --> 00:10:03,187
You know how I feel about Johnny.
238
00:10:03,187 --> 00:10:07,399
I guess. It-- But it-it-- Vaguely, okay?
It's not like we ever talk about it.
239
00:10:07,399 --> 00:10:09,151
Yes, because there's
nothing to talk about.
240
00:10:09,151 --> 00:10:12,446
- He's totally not present.
- Which is why I got the record, okay?
241
00:10:12,446 --> 00:10:15,073
If I had a dad I never see
who dedicated something to me,
242
00:10:15,073 --> 00:10:16,909
I'd be all over that,
like a little piece of me.
243
00:10:16,909 --> 00:10:20,621
But this isn't you!
This is Finn, my kid, who is anxious!
244
00:10:20,621 --> 00:10:23,540
Okay, this is, uh, too much
Selling Sunset drama for me,
245
00:10:23,540 --> 00:10:25,626
and unlike those girls,
I actually have to sell this house.
246
00:10:25,626 --> 00:10:26,710
[Paige]
Okay.
247
00:10:27,085 --> 00:10:29,171
- [metal detector beeping]
- [Little Paige] Beep, beep, beep--
248
00:10:29,171 --> 00:10:31,715
No, no, no, no. Okay, okay, can you--
Y-- J-- Turn that off.
249
00:10:31,715 --> 00:10:36,428
Trick, you need to phone a friend,
a friend named Murphy.
250
00:10:36,428 --> 00:10:38,180
- [Paige] No.
- Mm.
251
00:10:38,180 --> 00:10:40,140
Oh, really?
252
00:10:40,849 --> 00:10:42,059
Go on.
253
00:10:46,522 --> 00:10:48,148
[kids shouting]
254
00:10:49,233 --> 00:10:50,859
- Nadine...
- Hm?
255
00:10:50,859 --> 00:10:54,821
...I would like to invite you
to family therapy with us.
256
00:10:54,821 --> 00:10:56,949
[coughs]
I'm-I'm sorry, what?
257
00:10:56,949 --> 00:10:58,534
Yeah, I'm sure my dad has told you
258
00:10:58,534 --> 00:11:00,911
that we're seeing someone
and we're learning a lot.
259
00:11:00,911 --> 00:11:03,080
- Whether we want to or not.
- This week, our therapist
260
00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,040
recommended that we include you,
261
00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,252
so for whatever reason,
I'm going along with it.
262
00:11:08,252 --> 00:11:11,255
But it's family therapy, so.
263
00:11:11,255 --> 00:11:14,466
- I-I--
- Okay. She's inviting you, take the win.
264
00:11:14,466 --> 00:11:18,428
'Cause I am ready to start digging,
even if it's my own grave.
265
00:11:18,846 --> 00:11:21,056
- Oh!
- [nastily] Excuse me.
266
00:11:21,056 --> 00:11:22,140
Wh--
267
00:11:22,516 --> 00:11:25,143
No... No.
268
00:11:30,607 --> 00:11:32,609
[phone chimes]
269
00:11:36,572 --> 00:11:37,906
- So, Mom?
- Mm-hm.
270
00:11:37,906 --> 00:11:39,741
- I've been texting my dad...
- What?
271
00:11:39,741 --> 00:11:44,079
...and, um... he's not going
on the road until January.
272
00:11:44,079 --> 00:11:45,998
- I wanna go see him.
- [sighs]
273
00:11:45,998 --> 00:11:47,916
He said I can visit him, like, next week--
274
00:11:47,916 --> 00:11:50,794
Visit? Bu-- No. Uh, Finn, your dad
should not be making promises
275
00:11:50,794 --> 00:11:52,421
about trips without talking to me.
276
00:11:52,421 --> 00:11:54,631
But you don't have to do anything.
277
00:11:54,631 --> 00:11:55,883
I'm old enough to go by myself.
278
00:11:55,883 --> 00:11:58,886
Honey, you haven't even gotten behind
the wheel of a car since the accident.
279
00:11:58,886 --> 00:12:00,721
Now you wanna get
on a plane by yourself?
280
00:12:00,721 --> 00:12:01,805
Mom, this is different.
281
00:12:01,805 --> 00:12:05,225
Finn, I... I'm sorry, it's a no.
282
00:12:06,518 --> 00:12:09,062
I smell tension.
Anyone else smell tension?
283
00:12:09,062 --> 00:12:11,231
[sniffs]
Tension.
284
00:12:12,065 --> 00:12:13,317
Hello!
285
00:12:13,317 --> 00:12:15,319
Enchanté.
286
00:12:15,319 --> 00:12:17,613
You must be Nadine,
the, uh, non-legal stepmother
287
00:12:17,613 --> 00:12:19,323
who triggers the fuck outta Paige, huh?
288
00:12:19,323 --> 00:12:21,116
Hm, is that what she told you?
289
00:12:21,116 --> 00:12:22,951
- Eh.
- Interesting.
290
00:12:22,951 --> 00:12:24,995
[Murphy Collins]
Right this way, please.
291
00:12:24,995 --> 00:12:26,788
You ready for this?
292
00:12:26,788 --> 00:12:29,082
- Question is, are you?
- [chuckles]
293
00:12:31,460 --> 00:12:33,295
[sighs]
294
00:12:33,295 --> 00:12:35,214
[Murphy]
Paige, you okay?
295
00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,259
Um, my heart is beating really fast,
296
00:12:39,259 --> 00:12:42,304
and, um, I just--
I-I-I d-- I don't feel safe.
297
00:12:42,304 --> 00:12:46,808
Okay, well, at the risk
of sounding shrinky...
298
00:12:48,185 --> 00:12:50,938
Nadine, why, why do you think
Paige feels unsafe?
299
00:12:50,938 --> 00:12:52,022
I don't know. [laughs]
300
00:12:52,022 --> 00:12:54,650
You'd think she owns stock
in childhood trauma.
301
00:12:54,650 --> 00:12:57,110
Oh, well, thanks to you,
I do own some shares.
302
00:12:57,110 --> 00:12:59,696
Do Finn and I really need
to be here for this?
303
00:12:59,696 --> 00:13:01,865
'Cause I can take him down
the street for a burger,
304
00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:03,075
- you know?
- We can bring you back some food.
305
00:13:03,075 --> 00:13:06,578
- No eating in my office.
- Paige, I want to help you
306
00:13:06,578 --> 00:13:08,163
work through your shit.
307
00:13:08,163 --> 00:13:09,248
- Oh, thank you.
- Okay?
308
00:13:09,248 --> 00:13:13,168
But it takes a special kind of love
to raise a child who's not your own.
309
00:13:13,168 --> 00:13:18,090
- A special [laughs] kind of love?
- Good, Paige. Don't hold back now.
310
00:13:18,090 --> 00:13:20,676
Your body's telling you something.
What are you feeling right now?
311
00:13:20,676 --> 00:13:22,511
Take a deep breath,
identify the feeling...
312
00:13:22,511 --> 00:13:24,972
and then unleash, alright?
313
00:13:24,972 --> 00:13:28,600
We're gonna really have to wrestle
through some emotions today.
314
00:13:29,476 --> 00:13:30,811
[Little Paige]
Let's do it, Murph!
315
00:13:30,811 --> 00:13:32,980
[♪ "Apache" by
Incredible Bongo Band playing]
316
00:13:32,980 --> 00:13:35,691
- [bell dings]
- [audience cheers, applauds]
317
00:13:35,691 --> 00:13:38,151
[announcer voice]
Live from my office in St. Louis Park,
318
00:13:38,151 --> 00:13:40,821
it's the Alexander Family
Therapy Smackdown!
319
00:13:42,531 --> 00:13:44,908
Let's get ready to validaaate
320
00:13:44,908 --> 00:13:46,243
[normal]
our feelings.
321
00:13:46,785 --> 00:13:48,704
[announcer voice]
Round one! Ladies, take your corners.
322
00:13:48,704 --> 00:13:53,458
Nadine, the Bi-polar Babe
versus Ragey Paigey.
323
00:13:53,458 --> 00:13:55,794
Okay, so first,
start with the flying dropkick.
324
00:13:55,794 --> 00:13:57,296
- What?
- And then go for her knees.
325
00:13:57,296 --> 00:13:58,589
- Okay.
- 'Cause she's got great legs,
326
00:13:58,589 --> 00:13:59,673
- but bad knees.
- I know.
327
00:13:59,673 --> 00:14:00,966
- Bad knees! Woo!
- Woo! Let's go!
328
00:14:00,966 --> 00:14:04,052
- Okay! Yeah! Woo!
- Yeah!
329
00:14:07,681 --> 00:14:09,933
[both grunting]
330
00:14:14,146 --> 00:14:16,481
A special kind of love?!
331
00:14:16,481 --> 00:14:19,109
You left me at a truck stop in Arizona!
332
00:14:19,109 --> 00:14:22,321
I thought you were sleeping
in the back seat,
333
00:14:22,321 --> 00:14:24,364
and I came right back!
334
00:14:24,364 --> 00:14:26,992
- [Paige grunting]
- Ooh!
335
00:14:28,243 --> 00:14:31,079
Two hours is not "right back"!
336
00:14:32,497 --> 00:14:33,874
In your face, Nadine!
337
00:14:33,874 --> 00:14:38,754
Because of you, I had to work
shitty office jobs for 10 years!
338
00:14:38,754 --> 00:14:42,299
I'm sorry! You could've
been turning tricks instead!
339
00:14:42,299 --> 00:14:43,592
[grunts]
340
00:14:43,592 --> 00:14:46,595
- You know what?
- I'm so sorry, Nadine...
341
00:14:46,595 --> 00:14:49,431
- You gonna jump in or what?
- Trust the process. This is good.
342
00:14:49,431 --> 00:14:51,600
- Tell me something that you did for me...
- [Nadine] What?
343
00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,393
...other than put a roof over my head.
344
00:14:53,393 --> 00:14:55,270
Oh, how 'bout put you through college?
345
00:14:55,270 --> 00:14:56,772
Oh, no, no.
I had work-study.
346
00:14:56,772 --> 00:14:58,732
Oh, work-study.
That didn't pay for shit.
347
00:14:58,732 --> 00:15:00,192
- [yells]
- [body thuds]
348
00:15:00,192 --> 00:15:01,527
♪
349
00:15:01,527 --> 00:15:02,819
[yells]
350
00:15:02,819 --> 00:15:05,113
I took you to get your ears pierced.
351
00:15:05,113 --> 00:15:09,785
Yes, after you made me watch you
get your belly button pierced!
352
00:15:09,785 --> 00:15:12,079
- [bell dings]
- [grunting]
353
00:15:12,663 --> 00:15:14,915
I should've spanked you then!
354
00:15:14,915 --> 00:15:16,625
[grunting]
355
00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,171
You only ever do anything for me
when there is something in it for you!
356
00:15:21,171 --> 00:15:25,592
What kinda kid wants a mom
who just always puts herself first?
357
00:15:26,468 --> 00:15:28,303
That's a great question.
358
00:15:28,804 --> 00:15:29,805
- Bingo.
- Oh.
359
00:15:29,805 --> 00:15:32,182
[audience cheers, applauds]
360
00:15:32,182 --> 00:15:34,768
♪
361
00:15:37,104 --> 00:15:38,522
[bell dings]
362
00:15:39,606 --> 00:15:42,359
- That's exactly what you do to me.
- Come on.
363
00:15:43,026 --> 00:15:46,321
- I said I wanna see my dad.
- Well, it's better this way!
364
00:15:46,321 --> 00:15:48,699
- Better for who?
- For you!
365
00:15:50,242 --> 00:15:53,871
- Did you stop him from visiting?
- No! No, of course not,
366
00:15:53,871 --> 00:15:57,124
but I, I couldn't force him to step up.
367
00:15:58,208 --> 00:16:00,627
So you let my dad drift away?
368
00:16:00,627 --> 00:16:02,045
[silence]
369
00:16:02,045 --> 00:16:03,547
Because what?
370
00:16:05,382 --> 00:16:07,384
Ya didn't wanna deal with him?
371
00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:10,679
Hit him with the chair!
372
00:16:11,305 --> 00:16:12,931
Are you crazy?
373
00:16:14,183 --> 00:16:19,521
Is that what you need to hear from me?
That I, I fought for you to have a dad?
374
00:16:19,521 --> 00:16:21,899
Mom, I was too little to fight for myself.
375
00:16:21,899 --> 00:16:25,819
Finn, it is so hard to have a dad
376
00:16:25,819 --> 00:16:30,824
who, one minute,
he's there and it is great,
377
00:16:30,824 --> 00:16:36,747
but then, he's gone,
and it is terrible!
378
00:16:42,628 --> 00:16:44,963
[announcer voice] And now,
the moment we've all been waiting for,
379
00:16:44,963 --> 00:16:50,219
the main event,
Daddy Destruction versus Ragey Paigey!
380
00:16:50,219 --> 00:16:51,637
[bell dings]
381
00:16:52,179 --> 00:16:55,724
I tell you that woman triggers me.
Everywhere you go, there she is!
382
00:16:55,724 --> 00:16:58,227
- Nadine has been there for me.
- [Paige cackles]
383
00:16:58,227 --> 00:17:00,312
When you will not
or you cannot support me!
384
00:17:00,312 --> 00:17:03,148
Dad, you live in my house!
385
00:17:03,148 --> 00:17:06,026
I literally support you!
386
00:17:06,026 --> 00:17:08,278
[both screaming]
387
00:17:08,278 --> 00:17:13,200
Only after you remind me
about all the times I failed you.
388
00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:14,535
You think that helps me?
389
00:17:14,535 --> 00:17:18,580
I don't do that... all the time.
390
00:17:18,580 --> 00:17:20,624
[grunting]
391
00:17:20,624 --> 00:17:23,377
- Often enough, baby.
- [both yelling]
392
00:17:27,339 --> 00:17:29,591
Oh, yeah, oh, yeah.
393
00:17:29,591 --> 00:17:32,177
Paige, you can't keep livin' in the past.
394
00:17:32,177 --> 00:17:36,473
All the time I done lost,
I've got to live in the right now!
395
00:17:36,473 --> 00:17:38,100
- [Paige] Okay.
- We all do!
396
00:17:38,100 --> 00:17:39,184
Okay!
397
00:17:39,184 --> 00:17:43,772
But does the "right now"
have to include so much Nadine?
398
00:17:43,772 --> 00:17:45,065
[yells]
399
00:17:45,065 --> 00:17:48,610
Can I just cut in here for a second?
Wow.
400
00:17:48,610 --> 00:17:51,196
I am proud of you, Edwin.
You're really doin' the work.
401
00:17:51,196 --> 00:17:53,156
- [Edwin] Thank you, doc.
- You're welcome.
402
00:17:53,156 --> 00:17:54,449
- Now, Paige?
- Yes.
403
00:17:54,449 --> 00:17:57,327
Look, Nadine may be wildly dysfunctional.
She may be mis-attuned.
404
00:17:57,327 --> 00:17:59,872
She may have had
a bi-polar episode or two.
405
00:17:59,872 --> 00:18:01,790
- Or five.
- Or five,
406
00:18:01,790 --> 00:18:04,501
but she's not causing the big reaction.
407
00:18:04,501 --> 00:18:09,423
Yes, there's big feelings
around her, but, him, your dad,
408
00:18:09,423 --> 00:18:13,343
what makes you really mad
about your dad, specifically?
409
00:18:18,140 --> 00:18:19,349
[Paige]
Dad.
410
00:18:20,517 --> 00:18:22,519
Gimme what you got, baby girl.
411
00:18:23,061 --> 00:18:24,688
[silence]
412
00:18:27,941 --> 00:18:34,364
I was so happy...
when you got out that first time.
413
00:18:34,364 --> 00:18:35,866
Do you remember?
414
00:18:36,575 --> 00:18:41,413
You finally came home,
and you took me out of foster care
415
00:18:41,413 --> 00:18:45,209
because I was gonna
come live with you again...
416
00:18:45,209 --> 00:18:51,298
and we were gonna go shopping
and... get a dog.
417
00:18:58,722 --> 00:19:02,351
But then... there was this woman,
418
00:19:02,351 --> 00:19:08,398
and it was all
Nadine this and Nadine that,
419
00:19:08,398 --> 00:19:10,651
and then you just left me with her.
420
00:19:10,651 --> 00:19:13,820
You left me with her.
421
00:19:13,820 --> 00:19:18,200
So, when I see you two together,
422
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:22,120
I am right back in that moment
where everything was great,
423
00:19:22,120 --> 00:19:24,248
and then, suddenly, it all fell apart.
424
00:19:24,248 --> 00:19:29,127
I am in that place where I know
that my daddy loves me...
425
00:19:29,127 --> 00:19:32,840
but he just keeps leaving me anyway.
426
00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:38,804
So I stay mad at Nadine
because I can't get mad at you
427
00:19:38,804 --> 00:19:44,685
because I am so afraid
that if I let you see how angry I am
428
00:19:44,685 --> 00:19:49,273
that you will just leave me again.
429
00:19:52,067 --> 00:19:55,487
There it is...
There it is.
430
00:19:55,487 --> 00:19:58,240
- [audience shouting]
- [Little Paige screaming]
431
00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,033
[Edwin yells]
432
00:20:02,077 --> 00:20:03,871
Yes! Woo-hoo!
433
00:20:03,871 --> 00:20:07,249
- [bell dings]
- I won! I won!
434
00:20:08,125 --> 00:20:10,335
Did you though, really?
435
00:20:10,335 --> 00:20:12,045
[silence]
436
00:20:13,797 --> 00:20:18,510
That was awesome. [sighs]
I'm so fucking good at this, aren't I?
437
00:20:19,970 --> 00:20:21,972
[gong rings]
438
00:20:23,056 --> 00:20:24,683
[Nadine]
Are sessions always like that?
439
00:20:24,683 --> 00:20:28,061
Sometimes Murphy reads
from his book, you know?
440
00:20:28,061 --> 00:20:31,398
But... yeah, yeah.
441
00:20:31,398 --> 00:20:34,484
I don't know how you do this every week.
442
00:20:35,110 --> 00:20:36,737
- Nadine...
- Hm?
443
00:20:37,988 --> 00:20:40,616
...I feel like we need
to take a step back, girl.
444
00:20:44,036 --> 00:20:46,079
At least while I'm livin' with Paige.
445
00:20:46,079 --> 00:20:50,792
I don't think your grown daughter
should dictate what goes on in your life.
446
00:20:50,792 --> 00:20:54,505
In a lotta ways, she ain't grown, Nadine.
447
00:20:54,505 --> 00:20:58,467
Paige is stuck at age eight
when I left her with you.
448
00:20:58,467 --> 00:21:01,553
- Oh--
- Now you know her mama walked out
449
00:21:01,553 --> 00:21:02,971
before she could lace up her shoes.
450
00:21:02,971 --> 00:21:04,598
- I know.
- Okay.
451
00:21:04,598 --> 00:21:07,893
We don't know that kinda pain, Nadine,
452
00:21:07,893 --> 00:21:12,564
and if ever I'm gonna,
like, heal this family...
453
00:21:12,564 --> 00:21:14,274
I gotta be a father first.
454
00:21:14,691 --> 00:21:15,901
Father first?
455
00:21:16,485 --> 00:21:18,695
- Yeah.
- It's kinda hot.
456
00:21:20,489 --> 00:21:23,700
- I'm trying to do the right thing, Nadine.
- [softly] I know.
457
00:21:24,493 --> 00:21:26,495
And right now, this feels--
458
00:21:29,331 --> 00:21:30,832
It's for the best.
459
00:21:34,795 --> 00:21:38,423
I gotta show up the way
my family need for me to show up.
460
00:21:53,856 --> 00:21:57,484
Your dad loves card games, like you...
461
00:21:58,360 --> 00:22:02,281
and when you were four,
he taught you to play Go Fish,
462
00:22:03,156 --> 00:22:05,242
and with your little, tiny hands,
463
00:22:05,242 --> 00:22:08,912
you could barely hold
onto all the cards. [laughs]
464
00:22:08,912 --> 00:22:11,707
And then he would go off on the road,
465
00:22:11,707 --> 00:22:13,625
and you would come and say,
466
00:22:13,625 --> 00:22:18,005
"Mommy, please, I wanna go fishing.
Let's go fishing, let's go fish."
467
00:22:18,630 --> 00:22:22,384
And you just always seemed so sad.
468
00:22:23,385 --> 00:22:27,431
I just-- I don't want
that to keep happening.
469
00:22:28,182 --> 00:22:29,725
You know what Murphy would say?
470
00:22:29,725 --> 00:22:32,519
Oh, what would Murphy say?
471
00:22:35,147 --> 00:22:37,900
[imitating Murphy]
Paige, darling Paige...
472
00:22:37,900 --> 00:22:42,321
I wonder,
is sad how Finn has always felt...
473
00:22:42,321 --> 00:22:45,240
or is that how you have always felt?
474
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:48,535
- Oh!
- Asking for a friend.
475
00:22:48,535 --> 00:22:52,289
- Oh, [laughs] the shade!
- [Finn laughs]
476
00:22:52,289 --> 00:22:55,375
Murphy, where are your weird,
dangling suspenders?
477
00:22:55,375 --> 00:22:57,377
[laughs]
I actually like the suspenders.
478
00:22:57,377 --> 00:22:59,671
- No.
- Yeah, they're kinda cool.
479
00:23:03,884 --> 00:23:05,302
Finn...
480
00:23:06,845 --> 00:23:09,473
I cannot keep you from your dad.
481
00:23:11,642 --> 00:23:14,520
So, if you really...
482
00:23:16,104 --> 00:23:19,733
wanna see him, then I will take you.
483
00:23:19,733 --> 00:23:23,028
[♪ "Now That We Found Love"
by The O'Jays playing]
484
00:23:24,238 --> 00:23:25,447
Really?
485
00:23:27,115 --> 00:23:28,325
Yes.
486
00:23:28,325 --> 00:23:31,245
♪ Now that we found love ♪
487
00:23:31,245 --> 00:23:35,666
♪ What are we gonna do with it ♪
488
00:23:35,666 --> 00:23:39,419
- ♪ Sweet love... ♪
- ♪ Now that we found love ♪
489
00:23:39,419 --> 00:23:43,715
♪ What are we gonna do with it ♪
490
00:23:45,843 --> 00:23:48,720
♪ Let's give it a chance ♪
491
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:53,225
♪ Let it control our destiny ♪
492
00:23:54,142 --> 00:24:00,649
♪ We owe it to ourselves
to live happy eternally ♪
493
00:24:01,650 --> 00:24:05,779
♪ Oh, love is what
we've been lookin' for ♪
494
00:24:05,779 --> 00:24:10,617
♪ And love is what
we've been searchin' for ♪
495
00:24:10,617 --> 00:24:14,329
♪ Now that I've got it
right here in my hands ♪
496
00:24:14,872 --> 00:24:19,042
♪ Seems like I'm gonna spread it
all over the land ♪
497
00:24:19,042 --> 00:24:21,712
♪ Now that we found love ♪
498
00:24:21,712 --> 00:24:25,215
♪ What are we gonna do with it... ♪
499
00:24:25,215 --> 00:24:27,092
[speaker]
Woo-hoo!
500
00:24:28,385 --> 00:24:30,137
[spray paint can hissing]
501
00:24:30,187 --> 00:24:34,737
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