All language subtitles for Selena.Gomez.My.Mind.Me.2022.1080p.WEBRip.x264.AAC5.1-[YTS.MX]-1

How are you feeling?

I'm very tired.

Do you want to do your morning meds?

Mmm.

I know the answer, but… you should.

Morning, Selena.

Let me make a promise.

I'll only tell you my darkest secrets.

December 19.

I have to stop living like this.

Why have I become so far from the light?

Everything I ever wished for,
I've had and done all of it…

but it has killed me.

Because there's always Selena.

Selena!

Selena Gomez,
the lead single, "Good For You,"

was a critical and commercial success.

…recently dubbed
the queen of the social networking app.

Hello, Howard.

Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber

- have finally called it quits.
- Again?

Really? I don't feel like a rock star.

And this album, Revival…

…people are saying that it--
it's going to be number one,

and the tour starts up soon, right?
In May?

I'll be touring in May.

Oh, I'm actually at the LA Sports Arena.

Um, we have two days
till I leave and the tour starts.

I have my hair and makeup team with me,
so we're trying new things every day.

And we're doing tests and figuring out
what-- You know,

what we're going to do for the show.
The identity of the show.

Do we like this?

'Cause you see through the mirror
with the white?

I think it's just the sequins.

Let me take-- I'll take
a little bit from the center. Right.

They even have those little vagina things?

- Okay. Yeah.
- Maybe those flattened ones.

I don't know. Just got weird.

If I was a guy, I could wear jeans
and just switch up my T-shirt

and put a beanie on…

…and nobody would care.

Actually, I think the breasts are good.

- I don't know.
- You like it?

-I do need a little breast.
-So formal, "the breasts."

It's my vagina…

- No, it's not. It's just--
- …in every freaking costume.

-It's not you…
-It's--

- …I'm just making fun of myself.
- Wait. Come and look here.

- It's not you, it's my vagina.
- Literally. It's my vagina.

I wanna have the body to wear it proudly,
and I want the booty that I don't have.

- My body's very young.
- Yeah.

I don't wanna be like, "Oh, wait."

Making sure I look like a woman
and not like a twelve-year-old boy.

I wouldn't wanna be anybody else

Yeah

You made me insecure

Told me I wasn't good enough

But who are you to judge
When you're a diamond in the rough?

I'm sure you got some things
You'd like to change about yourself

But when it comes to me
I wouldn't wanna be anybody else

Na-na-na-na, na-na-na-na,
Na-na-na-na-na

Na-na-na-na, na-na-na-na,
Na-na-na-na-na

I'm no beauty queen,
I'm just beautiful me

Na-na-na-na, na-na-na-na
Na-na-na-na-na

Na-na-na-na, na-na-na-na
Na-na-na-na-na

And you've got every right
To a beautiful life

Come on
Who says?

Who says you're not perfect?
Who says you're not worth it?

Who says
You're the only one that's hurtin'?

Trust me
That's the price of beauty

Who says you're not pretty?

Who says you're not beautiful?

Who says?

The dress is too long

And I hate how it opens up

It just sucks.

- What's wrong?
- All of it. It looks so bad.

I'm just like--

I have no idea
what the fuck I'm doing.

- What part did you feel that?
- Uh, from the beginning.

So I get the voice that comes in my head
that says that you missed this.

That sucked. That suck.

Oh, you get a glimpse of yourself
on the screen.

Wow, that looks pretty fucking shitty.

And then I'm sitting there
and I trip over the co-- clothes

and, like, this is just--

- Like, it sucks the life out of me…
- Yeah.

…and I don't want to perform.

The pressure is just overwhelming
because I wanna do the best I can

and I-- and I'm not-- I don't--

I don't know what John thinks.

I wanna talk to John 'cause I'm like--
I don't want to disappoint John.

I don't want him to think that he signed
some fucking Disney kid, like--

John was standing there, like,

-smiling ear to ear.
-John was excited.

It is in your head.

It just sucks too, 'cause, like,
the whole song thing.

He called me this morning
about the song with Justin,

- and I was like…
- The DJ thing, hmm?

"Like, when am I gonna just be
good enough by myself?"

- Just don't worry about that.
- Like, when am I gonna be-- like--

When am I gonna be good just by myself?

Not needing anybody to be associated with.

- Like, it's so fu--
- You already are.

Hi, John.

- I'm so sorry.
- What are you sorry about?

I just, like, I-I don't want you
to ever regret signing me…

-What?
-…or feeling like you need something--

-You were amazing.
-We were both standing next to you.

The costume looked bad.
Everything looked so bad.

You were amazing.
I thought it was awesome.

Can I have a hug?
I'll give you a hug.

I thought you were amazing.
It was so good.

- Really.
- "Me and My Girls" was crazy. Like the--

That's it. John was standing
there like this. John was like--

I was rocking out to it. It was awesome.

Does it feel young?

- It doesn't feel young.
- No.

I do-- I w-want nothing more
than to not be my past.

And it comes back.

You're your own worst enemy right now.

When you get all into your head and it's,
like, you can't let it spiral you.

- Costumes can change.
- Yeah.

Lights can change. Sets can change.

You wanna get rid of the stage,
you can perform on the floor.

What people like and don't like
doesn't matter. You have to like it.

You have to feel good about it.
It's your show.

Don't beat yourself up over it.
It's gonna be great.

-John, thank you.
-It's great seeing you.

-Sorry. Thank you. Sorry.
-I'll see you soon.

Thank you. No. It really is great.

Thank you.

Aw.

I'm sorry.

It's just too much.

They're coming.

- Theresa?
- Hey, girl.

-Did you bring my blood pressure machine?
-Yeah. It's right here.

This is for your lupus, right?

Yep.

-Now do I press it? Just start?
-Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

-That's good, right?
-Perfect.

How do you know?

So, 109 over 78 is really good.

The average, what you would probably have,
is 120 over 78.

But when my blood pressure is high,

it's usually 150, 145
to the bottom number being a hundred,

-which means I could have a stroke.
-Whoa.

Got it.

-So as long as it stays under 120--
-Should we keep this in here for tour?

Like, in your little…

-I mean, maybe on the bus.
-Okay.

It probably should be wherever we are,
just in case.

We have a gift for you,
and then we're gonna leave you alone.

Can you start with this?

This is from me and Zack.

This is something we've collected for you,
for tour.

What is this?

Every day, it's a good luck charm word
for that night

and that you're going to be thinking of…

You put it on your makeup table.

…for you.
And every show is a different one.

- That's so kind.
- Oh, my gosh.

- So, look at these.
- So sweet.

It kind of made us cry.

Every day you'll choose one.

-That is so beautiful.
-Isn't that cool?

-Thank you so much.
-We love you so much.

So, my question to you is,

do you feel like you have
too many meet and greets?

They have about
an hour and a half scheduled.

I don't think it will take that long.

-What do you think?
-Sometimes they milk it.

-It's my birthday.
-It is? Happy birthday.

-Thank you.
-How old are you?

-I'm 13.
-Oh, Mylanta.

I've been celebrating your birthday
every year since I was three.

-My birthday?
-I've had bi--

I have birthday parties, cakes,
playlists, everything.

- You're so sweet. Thank you.
- Can we get a picture?

-There we go.
-So exci--

- Three, two.
- Yes. Let's do it.

- So pretty.
- Hey, don't cry.

Aw. Got it.

And can you put,
"Bae number one," right there?

Okay.

Yeah. I got, like, different girls.

I'm a--

I could be number one?

-Yeah.
-Yeah, okay.

These two have heard
some really inappropriate things.

…was Hallelujah
Hallelu--

Thank you guys so much
for how hard all of you worked.

It means more to me
than you can even imagine.

This is the most important tour
I've ever done,

which is why I've been a mess every day,
so that you know.

I hope we just go out there, inspire
people, have so much fun.

And bless our feet, our hands,
our instruments, everything.

Our lights, Baz, Melissa, everyone.

- I love you guys. In Jesus's name. Amen.
- Amen!

Ooh, the heat's a common ground

No matter what's your history

Be free with me, oh

And everybody wants to be touched
Everybody wants to get some

But don't you play a song about love

When I move my body

I don't have to talk about none

Let the chemicals do its stuff

Till the energy is too much

Oh

Yeah, all I need

Is the rhythm, oh oh

Me and the rhythm

Oh oh, nothing between

Yeah, the rhythm, oh oh

Me and the rhythm, oh oh

Who said, who said?

Would you tell me who said that?

Yeah, who said?

Who says?
Who says you're not perfect?

Who says you're not worth it?

Who says
You're the only one that's hurtin'?

Trust me, that's the price of beauty

Who says you're not pretty?

Who says you're not beautiful?

Who says?

Fuck.

Hey, Selena!

We're by Big Ben. What's up? Whoo!

Me and my girls, me and my girls

Me and my, me and my
Me and my, me and my girls

There were rumors
that she had a drug problem--

Selena parties too much.
She's outta control.

Let's go!

I am about to go onstage.

Wish me luck.

You don't know how to love me
When you're sober

When the bottle's done you pull me…

Selena, I love you.

Did Justin Bieber make you go to rehab?

Justin has a new girlfriend.

Are you jealous, Selena?

I'm so sick of that same old love

Selena. Did you go back to drinking?

-Selena. Where's the alcohol?
-Did you start drinking again?

Sing it.

I'm so sick of that same old love

That shit, it tears me up

- I was dying.
- Yeah.

What am I missing?
Like, what do I need?

Everyone was on their feet…

Guys, there's too many people.
I'm so sorry. Too many people.

- Stop analyzing.
- No.

- Be happy.
- I am happy.

I hate it.

It's just hard being a fucking girl

and being crazy already.

That's another thing that pissed me off.

I'm doing the quick change,

then rip goes one sleeve,
and then rip goes the other one,

and then all my entire bottom half ripped.

Oh, that…

How are you feeling about Justin?

Are you depressed?

- Are you tired?
- She's always tired.

Sometimes I-- I wake up, and
I don't really feel like I have it in me.

Selena is now on break,

dealing with anxiety,
panic attacks, and depression.

There were rumors
that she had a drug problem.

Letting the high life
of celebrity and partying

get the best of her and her career.

At one point, she's like,
"I don't wanna be alive right now.

I don't wanna live."

And I'm like, "Wait. What?"

And it was one of those moments

where you look in her eyes
and there's nothing there.

It was just pitch black,
and it's so scary.

You're like, "Okay, fuck this.

Like, this needs to end, like,
we need to go home."

We had to have a serious
conversation with her of, like,

"What is going on?"

Her answer was also like,
"I don't know. I can't explain it.

I wish you could feel
what it feels like to be in my head."

I just remember it being very chaotic
and she was hearing all of these voices.

They just kept getting louder
and louder and louder.

That triggered some
sort of psychotic break.

Selena Gomez has been in dire straits,
uh, for a couple of weeks now.

Last year, she was battling lupus,
and the kidney transplant saved her life.

As a result of that,

she had a very low white blood cell count
in the last week of September.

Purely a medical situation,
but it turned into an emotional breakdown.

She was trying to rip her IVs out.

And it was so bad, they ended up
taking her to a psychiatric hospital.

We heard about her mental breakdown
through TMZ.

They called me and wanted to know

what my daughter was doing
in the hospital with a nervous breakdown.

She didn't want anything to do with me,

and I was scared she was gonna die.

If anybody saw what I saw

and the state that she was in
at the mental hospital,

they wouldn't have recognized her at all.

And I was devastated

because psychosis can last
from days, to weeks, to months,

to years, to life.

You hang on as tight as you can
and try to help them with their treatment,

and that's the hardest thing to do,

to then just go to bed
and hope that they wake up the next day.

My thoughts take over my mind often.

It hurts when I think about my past.

I wanna know how to breathe again.

Do I love my own self?

How do I learn
how to breathe my own breath?

It's a miracle she got out…

…but there's always
that fear that that's gonna happen again,

and it hurt us so much.

I found out
I have a diagnosis of bipolar disorder.

I'm gonna be honest,

I didn't wanna go
to a mental health hospital.

I didn't want to,

but I didn't want to be trapped
in myself-- In my mind anymore.

I thought my life was over. I was like,
"This is how I'm gonna be forever."

That's why I say to people that
I have the greatest friends and family,

especially my mom and my stepdad, Brian.

Because I shouldn't have spoken to them
the way that I did,

and I shouldn't have treated them
the way that I did sometimes.

And then they know it wasn't me,

so then when I wake up the next day,
they're like--

They tell me what happened,
but they're-- They explain to me--

They're like, "Look,
we know that that's not you talking,

and we're really concerned, and--
You know, just know that we love you.

We don't see anything different
from what was-- Last night to now."

But if I talk about it to them,

then I just say it
over and over again, you know?

I say, "I'm so sorry."

'Cause I remember
certain things that I did

and I was really so mean.

And so, like-- Even to this day, I keep
saying "Thank you," and "I'm sorry,"

and everything that I do--

And they are always like,
"Once we found out everything,

it made so much sense, Selena.

Like, you're the best
that you've ever been,

and we're so happy that we can see that,
and we never, ever would give up on you."

And they haven't when, in so many times,
they probably should have.

I'm in a better place, but…

I don't know.

I guess sometimes
I can't explain it, for sure.

No.

Totally lost.

When I first got out,

I didn't know
how I'd cope with my diagnosis.

What if it happened again?

What if the next time I didn't come back?

I needed to keep learning about it.

I needed to take it day-by-day.

When I was a kid,
I was terrified of thunderstorms.

I grew up in Texas,

and I was so scared that lightning and
thunder would mean a tornado was coming.

But my mom gave me these books for kids

that explained storms
and lightning and thunder,

and basically said,
"The more you learn about it,

the less you're going to be afraid of it."

And it really helped.

I love you.

I love you.

You know, my mom was always
teaching me not to be scared of life.

- She's such a powerful spirit.
- Your nose? Did you hit the door?

She was so young, still in school,

and eventually tried every job
you could possibly imagine.

Kiddo.

She said, "This is what we're
going through, but I'm not gonna stop.

I'm not gonna give up.
I'm gonna make my life better than this."

Oh, here's one.
"Stay at home. $145 a day.

Processing mail
for local company in your area."

Yeah. Hey, I could do that.

You know, my mom--

She had me
when she was still in high school.

Daddy?

My parents were separated
when I was five.

My grandparents, my nana and papa,
would look after me when my mom worked.

…that song you were singing about grandpa?

Hi, Daddy.

I can't imagine
the pressure for my dad.

I see.

He has a lot of regrets,

and he would be like,
"I'm sorry, mi hija. I just--

I don't know how to talk to you."

But he made me feel

like I was the, like,
prettiest young girl.

Like I could do anything, and no one
was worthy, and, like--

So, I miss him a lot…

but he knows that, so…

Take a picture of her, and you're
gonna take a picture of us, okay?

- Well, get over there.
- Hold on, I'm coming.

I'm gonna take a picture.

Friends forever.

Is that all y'all have got to say?

Okay.

Priscilla is my cousin,

probably the closest person to me
in the world, except for my mom.

We did everything together.

To this day, she's my life.
She's my blood.

Actually we never did.
So, we never went back to those.

- Where are we going?
- Just don't--

- Chicken Express, to get sweet tea.
- Okay.

If you like rolls, there's rolls.

No, we're--
I just wanted sweet tea.

- Wait, we're gonna do three.
- Three, uh, large sweet teas--

- Extra ice in one of them.
- Please, sir?

No problem.

-You can't talk over me like that.
-Well, you didn't say "please."

I was getting there.

Every time I've come home,

I've always just gone
to the places that I remember.

It's because I don't want
to lose that part of me.

Do you even go here?

Beep!

Hi--

I need to see your driver's license
if you're coming in the building, please.

-A driver's license?
-Yeah.

- Okay.
- Here. Grab one.

-For everybody that's out there.
-Oh.

I don't have one.

Okay, never mind.
I used to go here when I was younger.

Um, my name is Selena, so I didn't
mean to bother you, but thank you.

-You're welcome.
-Bye.

Okay, bye.

She does.

Do you…

Who all has a driver's license?

- Everybody.
- We have one.

- She used to go here--
- I used to come here

- and I wanted to see--
- No worries.

Are you a teacher here?

- I'm the registrar.
- Oh, got it.

Except-- Yeah, I work in the office.

Hi, guys.

Everybody calm down.

You're office aides? How old are you guys?

Thirteen.

That's so nice.
Do you know I went to school here?

- Yes.
- You do?

Okay. So I only had a crush
on Dylan Alvarado, um--

Sammy in elementary.

Okay. Elementary was Sammy Rodriguez.

-Then it was Dylan Alvarado, Keith Maupin…
-Keith.

Eli was in there somewhere.

Hmm. No, not necessarily. Really?

-Yes.
-Okay.

And then Matthew from Danny Jones.

That's it.

Not one of them liked me back.

- But again, like I said, they regret it.
- Yeah, I was just saying.

She was, I would say,
like, an outcast, growing up, you know?

Like, in school,
she didn't really talk to many people.

She had, like, her--
You know, little two or three friends,

but not a lot of boyfriends,
if you know what I mean.

And so I would go in there to get my food,

and I would sit, like, right here,
at a long table.

- But it was usually by myself.
- No--

- Hi. My name is-- My name is Selena.
- I saw you earlier.

Whatever you think you can't do,

just know that there's no one
that's gonna tell you no but yourself.

You have to continue
to do what you wanna do.

-Now that is inspirational.
-So-- Oh, I'm--

-Yeah?
-Great. Great.

So, kick ass, or-- Oh, I'm sorry.

You gotta stay after school.

Hello, students
at Danny Jones Middle School.

This is Selena Gomez talking to you.

Thank you for letting me
disrupt your classes.

And just-- just a reminder,
your teachers aren't that bad.

You just gotta do the hard work.

You have to hug him. He's gonna cry.

- Can I have an autograph?
- He's such a big fan.

Oh, my God!

You're welcome.

- Can I have a hug, too?
- Can I have a hug?

- This is where…
- I really don't know.

…I grew up.

That's my house.

- It is?
- Yeah.

I bet your handprints are still there.

This spot right here--

Poor neighbors, 'cause some guy
would do drug deals, like, right there,

and we would watch through those windows
'cause we weren't allowed outside.

- I felt bad for those neighbors…
- Yeah.

…'cause he would pull up his car,
it was an old car,

there was a trunk, and…

-This was the same door.
-Oh.

Hi.

- Hi.
- Hi, my name is Selena.

-How are you?
-How are you?

- Good, good. Come on in.
- Do you mind?

- No. Please.
- Okay.

Oh, my gosh.

Okay, this is where I used to, um,

- descale fish, right here.
- Descale fish.

Yes.

Selena, what's he doing?

He's just cutting his blood out.

- So this is my bedroom.
- It's kinda messy, though.

Do you mind if I see if I still have
my drawings from this closet?

Oh, they took it out.

- It's gone?
- Yeah.

I used to have, like--
I had a crush on Cole and Dylan Sprouse,

so I'd come in my closet,
and I would write things down.

- No.
- Thank you.

-There's writing on this one.
-Really?

I guess you were really in love with Cole.

Oh, my gosh! Stop this.

I mean--
I'm sorry, Cole, if you ever see this.

I would, like, straddle…

-Um, Christiana?
-Yeah?

This right here--
My nana can show you the photo.

She's taking a photo.
I'm looking at myself in the mirror.

And that's when I found out
I booked Barney.

- Oh, my God.
- You were on the phone.

And there's a picture of me in here.

Everything looks wonderful, Barney.

She'll be coming round…

I was seven years old
when I got my first job.

I was proud because I got to
go escape my life and be in Barney Land,

and just play and sing.

I don't know, I just fell in love
with these escape things.

Then I never stopped. I just kept going.

And then when I hit around 11
and I moved to Los Angeles,

I just wanted to work. I loved my job.

But eventually,
after doing this for so long,

I started to feel vain.

It made me feel lonely somehow.

And then when I started touring,
it just got worse.

After I got out
of the last treatment center,

I knew what made me happy was connection.

This is Joyce.

Priscilla, are we sure?

Yeah.
You want me to ask my grandma?

She had this beautiful doll house
that I wanted so bad.

Is that why you put poop
on her front porch?

Stop. That was Charlie.

They would always pick on her.

Hi.

-Hi, I'm Selena.
-Yes?

I used to come here when Joyce--
Joyce lived here.

-Selena Gomez?
-Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Is she here?

Yeah. She's, uh--
Why don't you come on in?

-Are you sure?
-Yes.

Okay.

Do y'all still have that…

- The doll house?
- Don't-- Don't let anyone else in.

How are you?

- Oh, my gosh. Hi. Don't move.
- Thank you.

- I got to move.
- There's the doll house, Selena.

Hi-- Is that the-- That's the dollhouse!
Don't-- Don't get up.

I can't get up, baby.

- It's okay.
- How do you like my bald head?

Yeah, well, you look great.

Got past that, but, see,
I broke my ankle twice this year.

-I-- I can't get up.
-Yeah, what's been going on?

W-Well, not much.

Hmm. I'm sorry.

I broke a toe.

So how's your health now?

My health is goo-- Is doing good.
My lupus is in remission.

-Good.
-And I'm very happy about that.

I got a kidney transplant two years ago,

and so far
everything's going good with that.

-Well, good.
-Yeah,

-I just take my medication every day.
-You know, lupus is cousin to MS.

Really? I did not know that.

A lot of the symptoms are alike.
It's autoimmune-- An autoimmune disease.

-Yeah?
-What do you remember about me?

I remember--
I remember when we'd come over here,

and me and Charlie
would give you a hard time.

Okay.
Here's the self-testimony here.

Yes, it is. And I apologize f--

You don't remember anything else about it?

No, I do. You would let us come in,

we'd have cookies,
and I get to go right there, and--

That's what I was waiting
for you to say my cookies.

-Oh, I remember. We'd play with that.
-Cookie lady.

-I think it was over here last time.
-It was.

That's right.

Oh, my gosh.
I was obsessed with this, Joyce.

- Well, it was good to see you.
- I'm just so thrilled that you--

I once asked Debbie
if you'd come and see me sometime.

-And I'm glad I did.
-You did.

-Mm-hmm.
-I didn't have to ask.

Nope.

You're sick too.

Oh, it's okay. We all get through.

-Thank you so much.
-I hope you have a great day.

-I'll be praying for you.
-Okay, thank you.

Bye, Joyce.

- Bye, Selena.
- Bye. Thank you so much.

- Thank you.
- It was good to see you.

Thank you, guys.

I will.

When I got my lupus, it was really scary.

Then I got out of it and I said,

"I can go and visit these people,
because I've had this."

Hi, baby.

And then I had the transplant,
and we did a lot of work.

And then
when it started into mental health,

and the same thing I said to myself is,
"Now I can relate to these people."

-I think things happen for a reason.
-All right. Bye, guys.

Just be who you are, Selena.

Just stop trying.

No one cares about what you're doing.

It's about who I am.
Being okay with where I am.

I am grateful for my family.

I am grateful for my friends.

I am grateful to be alive.

I'm just gonna add three more paragraphs
that I wrote.

"I think we are better
when we tell the truth,

- so again, and I'm telling my truth."
- Yeah.

"I was suffering mentally and emotionally,

and I wasn't able to stay all buttoned up
and together.

I felt as though all of my pain, anxiety,
fear washed over me all at once,

and it was one of the scariest moments
of my life.

It was the day that--
that I found out I was bipolar."

No one thinks
that you need to say you're bipolar.

You're 27 years old

and you have a lifetime to tell the world
that exact thing,

unless you are determined
that now's the time that you want it out.

-Okay.
-No one's-- No one's against it.

It's just that
that becomes the narrative, right there.

And I'm sure that means, like-- What?

Like, certain people or directors
or something may not wanna work with me?

But then why would I wanna work
with them anyway?

- True. Whatever you think.
- I think I'm gonna say it.

- Yeah.
- I'm gonna say it. It's fine.

- And that's it.
- It'll say-- Yeah.

Selena Gomez talking candidly

- about her struggle--
- …the star shining a light

on her personal battle with depression
and anxiety,

and the journey that she says left her…

Do I have 20 minutes?

- Are you feeling nerves?
- I don't feel good.

Is it nerves?

I don't feel good, you guys,
like, at all.

- Is she hungry?
- Very uncomfortable.

- What?
- What happened?

Or nerves.

Makes sense.

What did it do?

-It makes you feel sick.
-It burns.

Yeah.

Hi, Raquelle.

Hello, Selena.

Raquelle, this is so cute.
This is a whole one-piece outfit, or two?

No. It's-- It's so crazy…

It is with great pleasure
that I welcome you

to the McLean Psychiatric Hospital
annual dinner.

Hi, guys. Um, I'm very happy to be here,

and I might be a little awkward,
so I'm sorry.

Um, yeah. I started when,
um-- I started working when I was seven,

and I quickly learned
how to play the part.

I have juggled work and school
and relationships

for as long as I can remember.

As great as life was,
underneath all of it, I was struggling.

Last year, I was, um-- I was suffering
m-mentally and emotionally,

and I wasn't able to stay
all buttoned-up and together.

I sought support,

and the doctors were able
to give me a clear diagnosis.

The moment
that I received that information,

I finally had the knowledge of why
I had suffered for so many years

with depression and anxiety.

So I began to face it head-on,

as my mother had taught me to face my
fears and challenges when I was younger.

I am happier, I am healthier,

and I am in control of my emotions and
thoughts more than I have ever been.

So, I'm very happy about that. Thanks.

It actually feels good to say it,
because I mean it, you know?

Like, for so many years, I feel, like,
maybe I needed to say that,

but it feels really great to be able
to actually mean it this time.

Um, I also struggle with my own thoughts
and feelings at times,

but this doesn't make me faulty.

This does not make me weak.

This does not make me less than.

This makes me human.

That was my life and the fact
that you brought light to it--

If it wasn't for someone that was able
to put the word out there,

it wouldn't make change happen.

From the bottom of my heart,
your courage is amazing,

and I-- I think that you are saving lives.
I know that you're saving lives,

-so thank you for the work that you do.
-Wow, I just hope I'm a part of--

I just hope I'm a part of
the conversation, you know?

Absolutely, thank you. It's such an honor.

You guys are the ones that save the lives,
but as much as I can use what I do,

-I'm more than happy to be here.
-Thank you.

Even just for you to, like, speak publicly
about your experience with mental health,

-depression, and anxiety--
-Yeah.

Me, myself, I attempted
almost three years ago in October,

and I remember just--
Oh, thank you.

Being honest that night helped.

I texted Julia Michaels
and Justin Tranter

and said,
"I think I'm ready to just say I'm sad."

We wrote the song in 45 minutes.
The fastest song I've ever written.

It's about more than just a lost love.
It's me learning to choose myself.

To choose life.

But also hoping that people
can find grace and peace in that too.

You promised the world
And I fell for it

I put you first and you adored it

- Daddy.
- Set fires to my forest

And you let it burn
Sang off-key in my chorus

'Cause it wasn't yours

I saw the signs and I ignored it

The song is about knowing

that you completely lost
every part of who you are.

Set fire to my purpose

Just to rediscover yourself again.

You got off on the hurtin'
When it wasn't yours, yeah

Are you still in love with Justin?

Everything was so public.

Selena, any comment
on Bieber's engagement?

What's your favorite thing
about Bieber?

Can I go to the-- Get food, please?
Can you not-- Wanna go get food.

I felt haunted by a past relationship
that no one wanted to let go of.

But then I just moved past it.

And I wasn't afraid anymore.

- Thank you, everybody. Bye, guys!
- All right guys. So um,

-that is a camera wrap.
-Thank you.

It says, "Selena Gomez is now projected

to debut inside the top 20
of Billboard Hot 100.

This will make her and Adele
the only females in history

- to have the biggest ballad debut."
- Yes.

- Yeah.
- I wanna cry.

-Was it one of your biggest songs ever?
-Yeah, it was.

It is your biggest song ever, right?

I wanted to be as honest as I could,

and I think that I'm very lucky
to be in a position

where I can make people feel good.

I feel like I had to go through
the worst possible heartbreak ever,

and then just forgetting everything
at the drop of the hand.

It was-- It was really confusing,
but I just think that needed to happen.

And ultimately it was the best thing
that ever happened to me.

And ultimately,
so, your message is--

You didn't hear me say it was
the best thing that happened to me.

- Sorry.
- You just started talking.

- I can't say it anymore.
- One more time.

No.

All right. What do you wanna ask me?

I just-- Was it the best thing
that ever happened to you?

It was the best thing
that ever happened to me, yes.

So, when do you want an album out?

- January.
- Okay, cool.

I just need to know if you have to leave,

-or issues, or it--
-I have to go to Kenya and London.

Okay.

It's gonna be a fun six weeks.

Do you want to, um,
perform at the AMAs this year?

Yeah.

And, um, okay.

-So if we do want to do that…
-I do.

-…we'll get into that right now.
-Perfect.

- Okay.
- My stomach.

- Are you hungry?
- No.

- You all right?
- Yeah, I think it's nerves.

It's also chilly. Do you want a sweater?

-I'm hot as hell.
-You are? Okay.

-Well, then you're in the right room.
-Yeah.

-It feels like the Amazon.
-It's like an igloo.

It is an igloo in here.

-Y'all are gonna kill me, but…
-So, let's start over.

-Y'all are gonna kill me, but I gotta go.
-Okay.

-I just feel-- Yeah. Oh.
-You all right? Sorry.

I think it's the stress of this meeting.

Mmm, I think so.

- Me too.
- Okay.

Yeah.

I hadn't been onstage
in over two years,

and I still didn't know if I was ready.

But what good is having a song
if I was too scared to sing it?

After the AMAs,
I was going straight to Kenya.

For years, my doctors hadn't let me go
because of my kidney transplant,

but I was finally ready.

So, Raquelle and I were going
to visit students at a primary school,

and a college for young women.

Both schools that I helped raise the money
to build in Kenya for the WE Charity.

I knew it would be a lot,

but it was my only chance to go
before my album came out.

-That's it. That's it.
-Is it done?

That's it, yeah. Well done.

- Okay.
- Take a deep breath in, and out.

Ow! Hi, babe!

- Did you do it?
- Yeah.

-Good job.
-I'm just laying down.

Are you in pain?

Yeah, my arm feels weak.

Oh, Mylanta.

-Now you know what I went through.
-I know. You went through more than me.

I was gonna say,
"Actually, no, you don't."

-I'm proud of you, though.
-Thank you.

Selena Gomez's highly
anticipated comeback on the AMA stage.

This is her first performance

in over two years,

post all the Bieber drama
and a short break from the biz.

I saw the signs and I ignored it

Rose-colored glasses all distorted

Set fire to my--

The pitch is-- The pitch is the nerves.

So if you just let
the muscle memory happen,

you get out of your way,
it's gonna just float up.

I need you to trust yourself.

Sel, we're gonna sing
something else right now.

-This one we need to sing.
-Okay.

Hit it.

-Crank it!
-This isn't my song.

I don't even remember all of this one.

Who cares? Just sing what you know.

I keep fighting voices in my mind

That say I'm not enough

Come on!

Every single lie that tells me

I will never measure up

Jesus help me.

You promised the world
And I fell for it

I put you first and you adored it

Set fire to my forest

And I let it burn
Sang off-key in my chorus

'Cause it wasn't yours

Selena Gomez suffered
a panic attack before…

Many accused her of being off-key…

Gomez, who didn't learn how to sing

after her 10-year-old career,
and gets millions for it.

…in four years.
But anxiety, it doesn't just disappear.

In fact, she says that her lupus
amplifies her anxiety.

Hi. She's up.

- Hi.
- Hi.

Aw. How's it going?

Hey, Sir Winnie.

I got you some soup and that, um…
…thing,

and a ham and cheese.

Aleen asked me,
when you do London promo, after Kenya,

you're there for, like, three days.

And she asked if you can do-- If you
wanna do Paris for a day and then home.

- Are you coming with me, Raquelle?
- Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah? You don't think that's too much?

Mmm, no, but I also don't wanna rush it.

I haven't done promo in years.

It's my least favorite thing
in the world to do.

But I feel like it's gonna be great,

because you're excited
about what you're putting out…

- Mmm.
- …and it's so true to you.

I don't wanna talk about work anymore.

- Okay.
- Let's put on a movie.

I need a break.

From everything?

Mm-mmm, no. I have a lot of work to do.

Hunter, do you wanna maybe walk
and go in first in--

I know you don't pay attention to
your calendar, but you're going to Africa.

Yeah, 'cause I'm going to Kenya first,

and then I'm gonna go straight to London,
and Paris for promo.

Okay. You feel okay
about trying to get everything done

-for the next month?
-Mm-hmm. Yeah.

-Okay.
-Not worried.

Then it's just the video,
the campaign, the song.

Mm-hmm.

- No computers in your--
- No. Do we take our shoes off?

- Yes.
- Yeah.

Let's go. Whoo! Whoo-hoo!

-Whoo!
-Thank you.

Welcome.

-We also say it's a blessing.
-What?

When it rains, we say it's a blessing.

-It's a blessing?
-Yeah.

When it rains here,
it's considered a blessing.

- Oh, I love that.
- Ooh! Whoa!

Take this. We can put this on now.
Are you okay with the camera?

- It's okay.
- It's fine-- It's okay?

- Hello, everyone.
- Hello.

-Hi, what's your name?
-Aneesia.

-Aneesia? I'm Selena, nice to meet you.
-Yeah.

Hello. My name is Selena.
Um, I have come here with WE,

and I want to honor your--
your drive for education.

So, I'm-- I'm very happy to be here.

So, which grade did you reach,
actually? Did you finish grade 12?

-Uh, I finished eighth grade…
-Mm-hmm.

…and then for nine, ten, 11, 12,
I had to do school on set.

To-- Like, five hours
and then I could work, so…

Mm-hmm. Wow.

Well, it was--
it was interesting, you know?

To be homeschooled by a computer.
It's not real…

Wow.

…but it was-- it was great for me.
It worked, you know?

Late last year,
we had a talent group,

and we were singing, like, your song.
Like…

Who says you're not perfect

Oh, that's my song!

- That's one of my favorite songs.
- Who says, who says

Who says you're not perfect?
Who says you're not worth it?

Who says you're the only one
That's hurtin'?

I was really shy in school,

so I would usually just hang out
with two friends.

And, um, my cousin was, like,
the captain of the cheerleading team,

and so nobody would pick on me
because of my cousin.

My cousin, like, controls everything. Um…

Hmm, okay.

For me, I grew up in a family of eight,
like my mom and dad have eight kids.

My mom told me
that they want me to be married off,

but, at some point, they said that,

"Since you got a school where you
got a scholarship to go and learn,

there's no need for us."

For them, they don't pay any fee.

So they told me
I'm not going to be married off.

- That's very interesting.
- Do you believe in love?

In love?

Do you believe in love?

- 'Cause I know you love each other.
- Yeah.

Love is just a gift.

- Yeah.
- Yeah.

Is it something that you look forward to,
or you just think--

- You focus on what you do…
- For me--

- …and then it comes. Right?
- Yeah.

Or, like, having a boyfriend or such.

So, for me, uh, I will get one
when I'm done with my high school.

Love it.

Because I-- I don't want to split my mind.

So, I want to concentrate first here.

Just when the house is being built,

you cannot start building by the roof.

You start by the foundation.

So, I don't have the foundation,

so till I'm done with form four…

then after that,
I can now think about that.

I love that.

That's really well said.

Mmm.

-My name? Selena.
-Selena?

-Yeah.
-Selena.

-What's your name?
-Uh, Diana.

-Diana?
-Mmm.

- Beautiful.
- Mmm.

Raquelle.

-Oh yes. She says, "I have a son."
-Oh! Right! Your son-- He's old. Okay.

Do you think he'd like me?

How old's he?

- He's like, 20, 21 years old.
- Okay!

- That works.
- That might be better,

maybe more for Selena. We're both 27.
Selena likes younger guys. Yeah.

Oh, my gosh. What? Raquelle!

I have, in the past.

I'm a little worried
my lupus is flaring up.

- Here, will you open this, please?
- Mm-hmm.

My hands are still so messed up.

Shaky?

No, they're-- They hurt.

- So, every time I do this, they hurt.
- Why?

I don't know. I went to the doctor
and he said he didn't see any swollen.

Said the only way that, you know,
we could find out is if I did, like, a--

-Thank you.
-Mm-hmm.

-I had to do a CAT scan or whatever? MRI.
-Oh, yeah.

-I think I might when I get back.
-Mm-hmm.

My name is Betty Chep,
and I'm a student here taking nursing.

When you're checking your blood pressure,
which average…

Being a nurse,
you're there with people

when they feel so bad, and support them.

So I felt that's the best thing
that I can do in life.

My dad was my role model.

And he really taught me that…

In this life,
you have to show people empathy,

have a chance to give people
more than what you receive.

Yeah.

I believe in God.

I always tell myself that
no matter what people think about me,

and what God has planned
for me in my life,

that is what I will achieve in life. Yeah.

-That's amazing.
-Yeah.

-I believe in God as well.
-Wow.

I was born in a middle-class family.

But unfortunately,
when I was in grade ten,

my dad passed in a road accident.

My mom was not able to raise school fees
for me to go to the campus.

So I had to stay home six years.

Just fetching firewood, collecting water,
and doing some home chores.

So in those six years, I felt so terrible,

because I felt that I was becoming
a burden to my mom and everybody.

So I felt so discouraged and so hopeless.

So I went to the river,
and then I felt that…

"Let me just drown myself into this river.

End it here, so that…

I will never see my mother suffer,

I will never see my sisters
and my siblings…

Just let me end this."

And I sat there for some time,
and I thought…

"If I end my life now,
and I'm the firstborn in my family…

what example
will I have shown to my family?"

-Wow.
-So I woke up,

took the water, and went home.

After two weeks…

I was called
for an interview here at the WE College.

- Wow.
- Just a miracle.

But look at me now.
I'm a role model in my community.

You are.

Some people call me and tell me
to talk-- to speak to the girls…

and I usually tell them,
even if it means doing what you do daily…

Continue doing it,
and a miracle will come ahead of you.

- Yeah.
- Yeah.

That takes so much courage,
to think about wanting to end your life.

And understanding that
that's not what you are meant to do.

- Yes.
- All by yourself.

And I really relate to that.
So when you say that,

I know that feeling
where you're about to do something

- to hurt yourself.
- Yeah.

And I'm so happy to know you.

It's an honor for me to know you too.

Oh. Raquelle! Come on.

One of my, like, goals in life--

I've, like, had this in my mind
for seven years, um,

-is to create a bill…
-Yeah. Oh, wow.

…where it is required
to have a therapy, sort of, class

in elementary school on to high school.

I just think, you know, when you're a kid
and you're in kindergarten,

they ask you, like, how you're feeling.

There's, like, a smiley face or sad face,
and they're learning emotions,

and that's amazing, but then why would
we not continue to talk about that?

-Feelings only get more complicated…
-Yes.

-…and i-it's-- it gets harder to navigate.
-Mm-hmm.

- Can I ask a very odd question?
- Yeah.

-What's holding you back from doing it?
-It's ready to go.

Um, that I'm not able to.
That I'm not capable.

Mmm.

You know, I'm not good enough.

Mmm.

I don't know. That's something
that I've felt a lot of growing up.

- Mm-hmm. Yeah.
- Mmm.

But it's the very thing
that makes you feel that,

is why you can relate to others.

So it's the exact reason
why you are the perfect person.

The truth is, I've never felt good enough.

Even when I'm on stage
and in front of a crowd,

I'll always find the one person
who doesn't like me, and I believe them.

I wanna believe in myself.

The people I've met here in Kenya
are so giving.

I just want to feel like I deserve
to be here with them.

We can talk more later.

-About what?
-About all this.

- About what? Oh, I know.
- I know you're feeling sad.

We should do a trip quarterly.

Like, we should plan this,
like, every quarter.

We also need to talk about, like,
why you hate going home so much,

why you don't wanna turn on your phone.
Like, that's--

You shouldn't feel that way.

Do you know what I mean? So it's like,
what can you implement in your life

that makes you not anxious
to turn on your phone,

that makes you not sad to go home,
that makes you not hate your job.

-Do you know what I'm saying?
-Mmm.

It's like, what-- 'Cause-- 'Cause you can
implement things in your life

that help you get through that.

You don't have to live your life
constantly in that state.

In a way, that's just escaping r-reality.
Do you know what I mean? It's like--

Or is this reality?

This isn't reality.
This is their reality. This is--

This can be reality a few times a year.

You can come and volunteer
and come for a week,

but this is-- this isn't reality.

I just wanna stay here forever

I don't wanna close my eyes

I just wanna stay here forever

I don't wanna close my eyes

I just wanna stay here forever

I don't wanna close my eyes

I just wanna stay here forever

I don't wanna close my eyes

- Who is that?
- The paparazzi's blocking.

Oh, my God. That's a paparazzi carpool.

Yeah, they're teaming up.

It's very loud here, Chris.

I know.

I do feel, like, a bit of a culture shock.

I know.

- Selena? Good morning.
- Mm-hmm.

Hey.

It's 7:00.
Glam's gonna start in a half hour.

Selly?

Oh no, I just had a bad dream.

Do you know,
I didn't have one bad dream in Kenya?

- I know, and then--
- She didn't have bad dreams in Kenya.

What was I saying?

I only heard a few things
'cause you were, like, mumbling,

but, like, the one thing was, like,
"I got coffee for everyone!"

-And I was like, "Oh, wow!"
-She said that?

And then she was like…

Doing stuff like today,

it allows you the platform
to really be able to do trips like that

-and make a difference, you know?
-Mmm.

So even though this kind of stuff's hard,
it-it, you know…

Can you order some Thai? That Thai dish?

You want Thai right now? -00 a.m.?

-Yep.
-Let's make it happen.

In the studio, it is the one, the only,
the absolute queen…

-Aw.
-…that is Selena Gomez!

- So, your album's coming out.
- Yeah.

You had a break from music.

What did you get up to on your--
on your time off, on your break away?

Some stuff happened in between
that was a bit personal and hard,

and, um, then towards the end,
it was-- it was necessary.

Hello, everyone. I am Selena Gomez,

and I am answering questions
from the Internet.

"Selena Gomez eats Oreos with a fork."

Um, these are just great.
I'm doing great things for the world.

Which interview number is this of the day?

Four.

- Four?
- Four already?

Selena, your single

makes me really emotional,
and I want to give you a hug

and wrap you in a blanket
and just talk about boys forever.

I think the point of the song
is so that I really

don't need to sit around
and talk about boys.

Selena, for your fans!

Hey, it's Selena Gomez,
and I'm playing the Emoji Game.

But have you got a guilty-pleasure
weird food combination?

Popcorn and pickle juice.

What is your favorite color?

My favorite color is red.

Wizards of Waverly Place.

Stop.

So it's one DJ equals one word.

"Marshmello."

-Fluffy.
-Okay. And that's it. Thank you.

- Thank you.
- Thanks.

Oh. Okay, sorry.

Those were some weird-ass questions.

It just seems like such a waste of time.

What am I doing right now?

Right now, we're getting up,
and then glam is coming in ten minutes.

Sorry, I was asleep. What do I have to do?

The feelings that you feel
when you're jet-lagged--

You never feel them any other time.

- What is that?
- Like, combination of all things.

- It's not even tired.
- I know.

You feel like you are just
in another world.

- Like, in space.
- Yeah.

Okay, put in.

There's my ride.

You know we have Marissa's
birthday dinner the night we get back?

The night we get back?
No. I'd rather do what I'm doing.

I'm not going to that. I have to do--
shoot a music video the next day.

Nice.

-I mean, it's a lot.
-It'll be good.

No, it is good, but you're gonna be
kind of messed up for a few days.

Yeah, totally. Just thought you would
wanna come,

-but that's just-- Mmm.
-I would,

-but I'm not gonna have one day to adjust.
-Okay.

Do you think that I'm
complaining about my job?

Yeah. You felt--
You sounded like you were.

Not at all. Raquelle, I was saying
I need to get rest.

- Not like it's a bad thing. Of course I--
- No, it's not a bad thing.

It was the way you said it.
Not what you said.

So I was not complaining about work.

I was literally just complaining
that it'd be nice if I get more sleep.

-You think I'm ungrateful for it--
-No, I don't think you're ungrateful.

I just feel like you've been so ups--
like, down, over the past couple days,

so I just-- I'm trying to figure out
what's going on.

But we had the most amazing week
in Africa--

I know.

I'm just waking up.

You've heard me tell everybody
how much I love London.

What else do you want from me?

Nothing.

I just was asking, "Are you good?"
'Cause you don't seem happy.

I'm having fun.

Good. I'm so happy you're having fun.

Like, it doesn't seem like it to me,
so I was just asking you.

I'm so fucking done.

Mm-mmm.

Whew.

Hey.

About your new album,
what would you like your fans

to keep in mind with this new project?

So I felt like it was the right time
to tell my story

before it's past a point
that it didn't matter.

I felt like the message I needed
to release in "Lose You to Love Me"

was meant to be a song for others.

It's-- It's meant to tell people
that they're not alone

and that it's such a complicated feeling,

and the one thing you wanna do
is be able to let it go.

You're a singer, you're an actor,
you worked into production, in fashion.

Uh, is there any other hat
you would like to try?

-In future?
-Uh,

uh, I gotta say I'll do a little bit
of all of this for a while.

But eventually,
when it all slows down for me,

I'm probably going to devote
most of my life to philanthropy.

-Okay. That's good for me.
-Yeah.

Wow. Thank you.

- Appreciate it.
- Thank you very much.

Felt like you really understood.

All right, are we good?

- Yeah.
- Getting on my nerves.

Can I sit, please?

Yeah, honey.

- Come on in.
- We're done.

We're gonna change you.

-Fucking dumbest thing I've ever done.
-What happened?

I'm done. I can't do that anymore.
That's so stupid.

Do you know how much-- how, like, cheap
it makes me feel? I--

Yeah.

She's asking me questions, like,
good ones,

and then she didn't even pay attention
to what I was saying.

I don't wanna do that ever again.

I feel like a product.

Oh, God.

- It was, like, making me angry.
- Yeah.

You know-- You know what it is,
is it made me feel like Disney.

It's a trigger.

I don't-- I just-- I've spent years--
years of my life trying to not be that.

I fucking look like a witch,

with the outfit doing it all--
like, the wand again.

- Whatever. It's fine.
- You got it done.

-You don't have to do it again.
-Yeah.

Hi.

Selena!

-Hi, Selena. How are you?
-Selena!

Selena!

Oh, I'm going over there.

You're so pretty. Thank you.

How are you? It's okay.

It's okay. You're all good.

-Everything's-- Good tears, hopefully?
-Yes, yes, yes.

Okay.

-Can we take a picture?
-Yeah. Let's take a picture.

Selena, photo, quick!

- All right?
- I'm good. Okay.

Do you want to
do your morning meds?

Mmm.

I know the answer,
but… you should.

Morning, Selena!

Just attach it to the inside
or up and under.

Do you know what you're doing?

Nope. I work better that way.

Well, we're gonna leave you
in the room, basically alone.

You're doing it to the mirror.
It's a conversation with yourself.

-Okay.
-Um, and then you'll just hear, um,

directions from--
coming from that speaker over there.

-Mkay.
-And then we'll just roll with it.

-All right.
-Awesome.

Hi, Selena.
Could you please open the first envelope?

"A song that reminds you
of being in love."

I don't know if I have one.

Envelope number two, please.

"What do you see when you look
in the mirror?"

Why are they so deep?

I, uh…

I see…

Yeah. Still working on
what I see in the mirror, I suppose.

These are good questions.

What's your ultimate dream?

My ultimate dream
is that I am able to save…

people's lives through…

…through something,

whether it's a song, music, or if it's me,
just speaking about the troubles

and the trials and tribulations
that I had gone through.

That I could be a voice for others
who maybe don't know what's going on

or what they're feeling.

Um, that's what I hope.

Incredible. Thank you so much.

There is a girl
who's crippled by anxiety

and can't move
when she looks in the mirror.

She smiles when everyone is looking
but cries when she's alone.

She hides because she's terrified
to show herself.

My world is so empty.

My world is so big and cold.

I want joy and hope.

Clean air where I can finally breathe.

What has been is not what will be.

Why is everyone
wearing a T-shirt that says "rare"?

Rare is out now.
Rolling Stone loves it.

Billboard calls you triumphant.

Variety said Rare's one of the best
pop albums to be released

- in recent memory.
- This is Selena's

third studio album
and her first in four years.

The singer saying, "It's by far
the work I'm most proud of to date."

Kenya was like a dream.

When I even asked about boys,
just out of curiosity

they were like, "No, no."

"We're just"--

You know, they giggled. They're like,
"We want to do what we want to do,

and then it will happen."
And I was like, preach.

That's awesome.

I mean, these girls were more confident
than I was, and it was beautiful to see.

And at times-- I'm very, um…

I overthink

and I feel like if I'm not having some
sort of aspect of my life

where I'm giving, it's not--
It makes me f-- It just makes--

It doesn't make me feel good.
It makes me feel

like I'm just taking, taking, taking
and people should give me this

and give me that, um,

even though that's not my personality.

So now I want to make it
a quarterly thing.

I have a dinner with Aleen and Zack,

and we're gonna discuss, you know,

- my goals.
- Yeah.

Can we talk, for a minute, about the trip
and the WE organization,

- and why don't you start?
- Mmm.

Like just tell us a little bit
about what you're thinking.

I would love to find a way
to build a curriculum

that can be taught in schools.

There's so much to be said about
being connected with your emotions

and having that intelligence.

You're kind of like-- I mean,
you're kinda fucked

-if you don't understand it.
-You also--

You have no compassion,
you have no empathy.

-Yeah.
-You have-- You have no way

of connecting with people
because you don't even know how to.

This is sort of the thing
that you want to be.

-It-it-it's something--
-You wanna do.

Very, very important to me.

I want to start today
with discussion over a deadly new virus

that some health officials say
might affect thousands

or even millions of people this year.

The second US case
announced just this morning.

It's a new strain
of what's called coronavirus.

Major cities across the country

are looking more like ghost towns.

Seemingly overnight,
much of our daily lives have been

put on hold.

All Americans now trying to navigate
what we're kind of calling "a new normal."

Infrastructure
from large private companies

like Microsoft to the Department of Energy

and even
the Department of Treasury all hit.

-Lawmakers are now demanding answers…
-Hey Sel,

we're going to take your blood pressure.

Hello, Winnie.

Good evening, and thanks for joining us.

We begin with breaking news
about WE Charity,

the organization at the heart
of the latest ethics investigation

involving Prime Minister Justin Trudeau.

WE Charity is shutting down
its Canadian operations.

The charity ran into trouble
after the Liberal government

awarded it a sole-sourced,
multimillion-dollar contract to run a…

The accusations
against the WE Charity

made the work I had just planned
to do with them impossible.

The most important thing…

It broke my heart because
I had seen their good intentions,

and I had met the women in Kenya
whose lives had been changed.

But now it was all so complicated.

We started the organization
back in 1995

when we were kids in Thornhill,
in our parent's basements,

-and, uh, this is our 25th anniversary…
-Can't listen to it. That's such a bummer.

I was devastated.

I was angry.

The Covid-19 pandemic was beginning
to cut us all off from friends and family.

And the purpose I had found in Kenya
felt like it had been taken away.

Then just when I thought
it couldn't get any worse,

it did.

I don't know.

My lupus.

You're in pain?

Give me a hug. I'm sorry.

- It's okay.
- I love you.

I love you too.

It'll get better.

They're going to figure it out.
You're going to feel better.

Is this what it felt like before,

when you found out you had lupus?

Yeah, but I was so young.

Like, I have not felt it
since I was younger.

-Oh, my God.
-And so, like, now, it just hurts,

like, in the morning when I wake up,

I immediately start crying
because it hurts.

- Yeah.
- Like, everything.

I've been having, like, really bad dreams
about, like, my past and stuff.

I think my past and my mistakes…
…that's what drives me…

into depression.

It's like, my whole life
since I was a kid, I have been working

and the only thing that I want
is, like, a family.

I just, like, wanna be, like, a mom.

And I told Raquelle,
I just, like, wanted to quit sometimes,

so I could just be happy and be normal
like everybody else.

And she was just like, "I want you to know
that I feel like God has given you

this platform not to quit."

I don't want to be, like, super famous.

I don't wanna be all that stuff.

But I do know that if I'm here,
I have to use that for good.

I just feel stuck,
and I just want to move forward.

Hello.

Hi, it's Dr. Wallace.

So I wanted to go over your results
with you.

You have a positive rheumatoid factor,

which means that this
is a lupus myositis rheumatoid overlap.

We could give you another dose
of Rituxan which would probably,

at the rate you handle it,

get rid of your joint pain
for probably a year or so.

Okay.

- Okay, bye.
- Bye, Dr. Wallace.

- Bye.
- Bye.

At least
that explains some of why.

Yeah, I-I just always feel better
when I have answers,

but the Rituxan was really hard to do
last time, but I-I--

What is it?

Rituxan is a treatment
that they give you through an IV,

and it's about four hours, five hours.

It's really hard on your system
at first, but, um, it's okay.

It's okay.

They gave me something to relax
because I can't stand being still.

My nana didn't wanna come,
because she's--

she's just seen me
been put through all this.

Don't put it in your mouth.

Why am I here?

Why am I alive?

There she is,
ballerina Thumbelina.

Clearly for something.

Baby's first bath. Let's see that rat.

All right, time for your bath.

Shut up.

I love my friends, love my family.
I think I'm a great daughter.

I think I'm a great friend.
And that means a lot to me.

What is happening?

But clearly,
I'm still here to use whatever I have

to help someone else.

A part of my heart is still in Kenya,

but I felt guilty being there sometimes.

I-I don't know, I hate that.

I feel like I went, and I filmed,
and I experienced.

But it's just so hard
because I feel so selfish.

Yes, it was great. And yes,
do I feel like I left an impact? Yes.

But do I feel like I've done enough? No.

Talking to someone about mental health
in Kenya,

that's… …beautiful, you know.

I don't know--

I don't know if I felt like,

"Oh, I did it,
and I'm such a great person."

It's like, you know,
this is the beginning for me.

Hi everyone. I'm Selena Gomez.

And for World Mental Health Day,
I wanted to invite Dr. Murthy,

the surgeon general, to chat with me
about loneliness

and helping people access the resources
they need to support their mental health.

That's very kind of you, Selena.
I'm really glad

that we're having this conversation.

Uh, what we were facing pre-Covid-19
was already pretty challenging

in terms of high rates of loneliness
and depression and anxiety,

and I worry that that's
gotten worse for a lot of people.

How-- How do we identify loneliness
in ourselves and in others?

And do the symptoms of loneliness
always look like being alone?

It's really hard to tell.

Even in a crowd, you can feel
profoundly lonely.

And this is why the world is filled
with so many people

who seemingly have it all, right?

They, you know, are famous,
or they're wealthy, or they're powerful.

But what really matters is the quality
of connections that we have.

-Mm-hmm.
-That whenever we have interactions

with people where we feel like
we can't be ourselves,

that actually separates us
further and further from other people.

Yeah.

A-And service, it turns out,
is one of the greatest antidotes

to loneliness that we have.

We reaffirm to ourselves
that we have value, uh,

to bring to the world,

and it doesn't have to be
going to a soup kitchen.

Simply by being fully present
and listening to someone.

We can give them something
extraordinarily powerful.

Mm-hmm. Right.

And so the journey, Selena,
to become more connected to ourselves,

to connect more deeply with other people,

is not a journey to somehow
transform ourselves

into something we're not.

It's really a journey to return
to who we intrinsically are,

-being centered at our best…
-Wow.

…and experiencing our greatest meaning
and fulfillment,

uh, when we're giving
and receiving that love.

Mic drop. I mean, that was amazing.

Okay.

You wanna come down with me? No?

"Finish the sentences.

Strangers who would describe me as…
only I know that I am…"

Strangers would describe you as, like,
a warm sort of all-American girl.

And I think people would be surprised,

and only you know maybe how complex
you are.

There's a lot of layers to who you are.

And there's
a lot of different sides of you.

Oh.

-Oh, sorry.
-What would you say, Ash?

Yeah, I think that's a great answer.

Okay.

"Do you believe everyone has a calling?
If so, do you think I've found mine?"

Yes, I believe everybody has a calling.

I think that you know what yours is,
but you don't always choose to walk in it.

Agreed.

What do you mean?

I think that you know
the things that fuel you

and give you purpose in life,
and the things that make you happy.

But I don't think you always choose that.

Yeah, that's probably self-sabotage.

Yeah, tha-- that's exactly what it is.

I think stuff being normal

-or not having chaos…
-Right.

…is actually uncomfortable,
'cause if you think about it,

your life for so long,
from such a young age,

has always been chaos.

-Right?
-Yeah.

So it makes sense.
It's, like, more comfortable.

-Yeah, no that's nuts. Oh, it sucks.
-Yeah.

But the good thing is that you know.
You know the things that fulfill you.

- You know what makes you happy.
- You're very smart.

You know what's not
going to make you happy.

Aw. I love you.

She's a lot calmer, right?

That's so great.
She usually will move her hand.

I see you, and you see me.

And that's because I look like your mom.

Look at my mom.

Oh, my goodness.

Do I look like my mom?

Yes.

- What?
- Oh, the bangs.

Look at her marrying my stepdad, Brian.

- Yeah, he's been such a great dad to me.
- Aw.

- That is so sweet. So cute.
- Aw. That's awesome.

-Selena? Hey.
-Hi.

- How's it going, girl?
- Good, how are you?

I'm good.

They don't bite.

Hey.

This one's my youngest.

-That's my cousin's daughter…
-Oh, my gosh.

…and my other two aren't here
because my son has leukemia.

-Oh, no.
-So he stayed in at his other mom's house,

and his sister wanted to stay with him.

Yeah.

So we left them there.

What's that? Are you trying to scare me?

Do you know who this is?

It's Selena Gomez.

My name is Selena.

The one that you hear the songs of?

Yeah.

She's my dramatic one.

Well, that was me. Aw.

Come here, baba. No?

-Yeah, you're the alpha male.
-I didn't know she was real.

Yes, she's real.

Mommy went to school with her.

She lived right down the street from me.

Mommy grew up with her.

Can I have a hug?

Yeah.

Does that make you happy?

Yes!

- Just wanted to say hello.
- Well, thank you. I appreciate it.

-It was good seeing you.
-Of course. It was so good to see you.

-I'm glad everything's good with you.
-Yeah.

Went better. Trust me,
it was a little scary at that point,

'cause I grew up with you, I knew.
So, to see you go through that was hard.

Yeah. Thank you, I do feel better.

Oh, we love y'all.

-Okay bye, honey. Bye-bye.
-Say "Bye." Say "Thank you."

When you're struggling
with your mental health,

the essential part of it
is knowing what to do

and recognizing that.

It's something that I'm not ashamed of.

I had to relearn things
that completely fell out of my mind.

I-It was like, "Hey,
you're not a bad person.

You're not a gross person.

You're not crazy. You're not any of this

but you're gonna have to deal with this.

I know it's a lot,
but this is the reality."

And I found having a relationship
with bipolar and myself, it's…

it's gonna be there.

I'm just making it my friend now.

I think that I needed to go through that
to be who I am,

and then I'm gonna keep going through it,

but I'm really happy.

I'm at peace.

I'm angry.

I'm sad.

I'm confident.

I'm full of doubt.

I'm a work in progress.

I am enough.

I am Selena.

- Thank you for having us today.
- Of course.

I wanted people to understand
that what I did for this process

was giving you guys, like,
my heart essentially,

and see how you would take my words
and put them into a record.

I've never done that before.
Have you guys?

-No, I-- Yeah.
-Diary entries, journal entries?

- No, that's super intimate.
- 'Course.

I'm happy we didn't
butcher your journal entries.

No, you didn't.

Wanna hear a part to my story?

I tried to hide in the glory

And sweep it under the table
so you would never know

Sometimes I feel like an accident

People look when they're passing it

Never check on the passenger

They just want the free show

Yeah, I'm constantly

Trying to fight something
that my eyes can't see

My mind and me

We don't get along sometimes

And it gets hard to breathe

But I wouldn't change my life

And all of the crashing
and burning and breaking

I know now

If somеbody sees me like this

then thеy won't feel alone now

My mind and me

It's hard to talk and feel heard

When you always feel like a burden

Don't wanna add to concern
I know they already got

But if I pull back the curtain

Then maybe someone who's hurtin'

Will be a little more certain

They're not the only one lost

Yeah, I'm constantly

Trying to fight something
that my eyes can't see

My mind and me

We don't get along sometimes

And it gets hard to breathe

But I wouldn't change my life

And all of the crashing
and burning and breaking

I know now

If somеbody sees me like this

then thеy won't feel alone now

My mind and me

My mind and me

My mind and me

My mind and me

Oh, it's only my mind and me

My mind and me

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