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Yeah, so remember the whole truth and nothing but the truth? Yeah, while we have a number of people who are comfortable with what they used to live to, you know, down in the San Diego area, remember, 30 years ago, you know, I used to fuck around with a girl, not fucking, but just, she was my friend, and we both found ourselves in similar situations, needing, needing money, and she said I know something we can do, yeah, and she didn't tell me what it was, I could bask in her and she was like nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, n

let's just see if we can do it, yeah, and it's such a, so she picked up a pack of like, I don't know, some old coolers, or something, you know, she's like let's go, and so we went over to this, I wanna say it was a shady motel, but it was, it's gay porn down there. Oh gosh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, the predominant companies are gay, um, companies, yeah, they shoot gay content a lot more. A lot. There's more, you know, times, you know, like, you know, I mean, it's just, like, I mean, you know, I love it, I like it's just, like, I'm not gonna say it's a shame, you know, I love it, I love it, you know, I love it, you know, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, and I love it, I love it, I love it, I love

A lot of younger college guys and Navy guys and stuff like that.

And the big business of porn is really mostly in LA.

That's true of Russia.

So that's kind of like a side thing.

Anyway, so this guy shot us.

It was fantastic.

It was easy.

I was like, wow, this is great.

Oh, so you guys did a girl girl scene?

Yeah, we did a girl scene.

You guys did the girl scene.

Mambo, yeah.

Yeah.

And I was like, hey, this is pretty cool.

So I asked the guy, can I work more?

Do you have more things?

Nice.

And then he put me with two gay guys that were doing a scene.

And I guess so I guess it was just a whole bi scene.

So it's more kind of a bi scene?

Interesting.

Interesting.

OK, gotcha.

Yeah, I don't even know if that's still fine.

They know.

And how do they go?

Was that easy or hard or difficult?

I don't know.

It's a duck to water, I guess.

It's just too bright.

It's just too bright.

I'm like, give me that dick.

I'll show you what you miss it.

You know, the only thing I find so porn brings a lot of people out of the woodwork that need

money and are desperate but aren't necessarily good.

That's true.

Doing what they're doing.

That's true, yeah.

Full of perfection.

They just think it's going to be fast money.

Yeah, they think it's going to be easy.

Yeah.

And so, you know, some guys, maybe they're gay in their private life or maybe they're

just gay for pay.

Right.

But, you know, some people have a hard time getting it up.

That's true.

Keeping it up.

And that's not just in gay porn, we find that a lot of straight points.

Oh, yeah.

Oh, yeah.

Definitely.

Definitely.

It's, I tell people all the time, male porn star has to be one of the hardest jobs.

I know.

And I try to do that to people too.

So much pressure.

Oh, my God.

You know, you'd think, you think that the scene is riding on the girl because most people

are probably watching the girl.

That's true.

However, the whole base of the scene, the foundation of the scene is the man.

That's true.

If he can't work, we don't have a scene.

She is there to market the product, which is the girl, and make her shine.

Right?

So there's a specific set of skills that you have to have.

Exactly.

The whole lot of guys that come in with the business these days, because they're like,

well, I got only fans.

I could do this shit.

And then they get to a real porn set.

Yeah.

And I get hard, stay hard.

Come on, Q.

And then you get to a liver dialogue, know how to open the girl up, how to position,

how to position.

That's a big one.

A big one right there.

And you're not fucking for home, right?

Yeah.

You try and explain that to them.

And they're like, I can do that.

And you're constantly running away from the camera and positioning the hardcore so they

can watch it.

Not the camera.

Yeah.

I'm like, bro, what are you doing?

Yeah.

Right?

Yeah.

I tell people all the time that if that's something you want to do, you should film it

first.

Yeah.

And once you've filmed somebody else doing it, then you know what you're looking for.

Yep.

And then you know how to move based on that.

And yes, the man drives the scene.

The man is the, he's the workforce in the whole scene.

Yeah.

He's the workforce that is his sole job is to make you look good the entire time.

And make it look easy.

Easy, easy, easy.

And it's the hardest job there.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Because 100%, if you are uncomfortable, it looks good for the camera.

Yeah.

As soon as you get comfortable, you better move because it doesn't look good.

Yep.

And you know, I mean, you've got to keep like some people that isn't natural to them.

So they have to get into an imaginary space.

And that's like a big deal to you.

Sure.

You're just the right thing.

They're alter ego.

Yeah.

Yeah.

They take their car kit glasses off.

Exactly.

Exactly.

So it's not an easy job.

So you went from that initial scene and then how did you migrate up into sort of more mainstream

comment?

Yeah.

Straight high-end porn film production.

So I asked the guy.

He ran a legitimate company down in San Diego.

I think he's still around too.

Cool.

Anyway, I just said, hey, you know, if I want to do this full-time, what do I do?

Are there more people I can work for?

Sure.

Sure.

Sure.

Like I do nothing about porn.

Nothing.

And he's like, hey, I know, in fact, I can't remember her name.

I haven't written down somewhere because I'm so forgetful.

But he's like, I have this girl's number.

She's huge in the industry.

Give her a call and she will tell you who to contact up in LA.

And that's exactly what I did.

So she gave me the name and number of a contact at VCA, Vivid, Wicked, and what was the other

one?

Metro.

Yeah.

Metro.

See?

Yeah.

Right?

Yeah.

Yep.

And of course, from there, like it grew, like just more people find out.

New meat, new meat.

Well, it's shooting you.

One of the things that made you so special back in the day is there were not a plethora

of girls who were anal champs, but you came into the business and you liked it and you

were a champ already.

And I think that was how we met her.

We did an anal scene together.

Yeah.

In fact, I have to say most of my scenes were anal.

Yeah.

Like almost all of them.

And I'm going to touch on another topic that was a real big one that made me kind of the

star.

Sure, sure.

There were a lot of girls that weren't doing racial or interracial.

Yeah, I don't mean we didn't even call that that anyway.

But you were a former man.

Back then, I'm old school and after we called up the band, and they would ask you, do you

do interracial?

Right.

And I'm like, what?

Sure.

You know, they give you that check.

Right.

The checklist is a check on everything you do.

And I'm like, there's pretty much nothing here except this beating stuff.

Right.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And they were like shocked and surprised.

And I guess back then, girls got paid for their first time a big amount.

And then their first interracial scene, it was a big amount.

Or their first DP.

Their first thing.

Or their first double VAD.

Exactly.

Whatever.

And I don't, I mean, really for the most part back then, until we started like, you know,

double penetration and stuff like that, or gang bangs, I didn't get paid anything extra.

I just did it because I liked it.

Yeah.

I find nothing wrong with you.

See, I told you.

Champ right here.

Champ right here.

She's like, I just did it because I liked it.

Wait, I got a check too.

This is fucking great.

Man, where do I sign up here?

Exactly.

You know, I tell people all the time, I got into porn and porn was a blessing for me.

It was a godsend.

Oh, her percent.

Because I could be the mom and the dad.

That's right.

Yeah.

So in a short amount of time, I mean back then, like, unless you were on a really big

shoot, and I mean a big, big shoot.

Maybe three hours?

Yeah.

Maybe four hours.

And, you know, Gonzo came along and people were just like popping off with scenes.

You do three scenes a day.

Yeah.

You do three scenes a day literally.

Yes.

Three ain't up because I figured I'm already clean out.

Why not?

Yeah.

Right.

And then I got a reputation for never canceling or whatever.

So people could call me.

You get calls for the last minute replacements.

Yeah.

They would be like, hey, this girl bailed.

She's not showing up or, you know, she's an hour away.

Exactly.

Can you be here?

And I'm like, I've had a scene right now.

I'll be there in an hour.

Yeah.

Like that kind of stuff.

Um, it was fun time, so.

Those were the good old days, man.

I fondly remember, you know, I try to explain to the kids these days how different it was

back then when, you know, back then we started in an era where they made really big production.

So we made movies.

We started in an era when everything was a production and then Gonzo came along.

Yeah.

So you went from this, Matt, like I was on, I was on set 16 hours one time.

To read dialogue and then at some dipshit decided to film something different and change

something.

And so we had to, uh, 16 hours like we were sleeping all over couch.

Yes.

You know, and I try and try and tell the kids this because, you know, these days a lot of

the kids don't shoot on their phones.

I mean, no, we had quarter million dollar cameras, $50,000 lenses.

We were shooting the same kind of stuff that you would put Holly.

Oh, yeah, 1000%.

And then at some point you would get negative have sex, but all the dialogue was somehow

much more important than that.

Yeah.

And that funny.

Back when the directors thought they were really making a movie.

Yeah.

100% right.

Yeah.

So now things kind of more afraid we were just as touching like how things changed more

to Gonzo.

Yeah.

Right.

Yes.

And back then the internet was just burgeoning, right?

And so people were creating websites left to right.

You were the first people that got on board building a website.

Yeah.

Right.

Yeah.

And back when you had to download the picture, you didn't see it right away.

It just, yeah.

Yeah.

It's almost there.

Right.

Yeah.

Craziness.

Um, and so I think people were shooting porn left and right because they were just,

I mean, it was just everything was developing at that time.

So it was a great time to make money, you know?

It was just tons to make.

Work enough to take all the money that people wanted to give you.

Yes.

Yes.

Oh, I honestly, my holes could not have taken how much there was available.

Yeah.

Like I literally could not, I couldn't work more.

I worked as much as I possibly could and I worked every day all the time.

Like, you know, so it was a great time.

And then as things went into the internet market space, did things change for you?

Or did you notice that work increased because you started to fit certain genres that websites

were catering for?

So I missed a fairly pivotal time in the industry.

So I did my stint and I did see that, you know, from big productions to gonzo to websites.

And then, and then I stopped.

Oh, that's right.

So you got into music, which is another thing we have in common.

Yeah.

You released an album.

I took a break from porn.

I raised my daughter.

She was just at that time where she was...

You were born under years.

Yeah.

She was understanding stuff more than I wanted.

And I said, I need to take a break.

So I took a break.

Right.

I got into music.

Right.

I did an album.

I did loads of songs.

That was really good, by the way.

Thank you.

That was really well.

Thank you.

I wrote all the lyrics, some of the melodies.

And then I worked with a producer.

Nice.

It came out good.

I'm super happy and super proud of it.

I will say this, that the music industry...

Porn has it easy because you already have a market banking for it.

Music is so difficult, you have to have million dollar pockets that really, really, you know,

market your stuff.

You have to have a promotional machine behind the orange.

Yes.

Not going to happen.

A thousand percent.

Yeah, it's just a different goat.

And I'm going to tell you too, I think my old fans that knew me from porn...

I'm not going to say that they wouldn't enjoy my music, but they didn't want to see that.

There was a different gear shift for them.

Right.

They still wanted me just to come back to porn.

And see me only as that.

And so I kind of like hit a little bit of...

It's not easy to trust one.

Yeah.

And then my daughter came out in the industry.

That's right.

She entered the industry.

And then I said, well, fuck it, I'm coming back.

Yes.

Now I say all of that because I missed that time when social media went from my space

to all of the new stuff.

I saw it coming out.

I saw Twitter coming out.

I saw Instagram coming out.

And I might have reserved a name, but I was just so uninterested in that because...

Sure.

You know, I...

Wasn't your focus anymore?

Well, it's not only my focus.

It wasn't my focus.

But I just come from a place where that kind of scared me because it's a big intrusion.

Absolutely.

Right.

I'm privacy.

Right.

You no longer get to be private.

You're open for the world to criticize and say stuff.

That just wasn't where I came from.

So I didn't really see that changeover.

I didn't see the takeover of browsers or Pornhub and all of that.

I got told all about it later on, which is it saddens me because there were some great

companies and some people I loved.

Didn't survive.

Yeah.

And I thought I was just going to come back and see all these people that I knew.

And I did see...

I mean, there are some, you know, Mike Wazer is one that is still chugging away.

Still chugging away.

And I'm like, God damn, you know, half a decade?

Like, or more?

He got into the business because he was just looking for a way to pay his bills while he

tried to be a musician.

That's how he got it.

That's why he came to LA.

He and I are very good friends.

We used to be on a contract together with 30 people.

But he never performed.

Right?

He never performed.

He's always directing and shooting that.

Yeah.

He's a sweetheart.

I love him to doubt.

Anyway, there were a ton of people I thought I would see.

Some are still around.

That's true.

Marcy from Vivid.

Yep.

Now it's a podcast.

Yep.

Or like, I guess they have many podcasts.

Yeah, I don't know.

You know, I don't know.

You know, we were like Kristi Canyon and Jim Berer.

Yeah.

They're still doing their podcast.

They're podcasting stuff.

Anyway, so I didn't...

I know Lynn's doing a radio thing to sit down in LA again.

Oh.

Yeah.

See, everybody's just tickling something.

Actually, because I'm sure she'd love to have you on.

Oh, I would love that.

Yeah.

Very cool.

So I did not see the change in the internet porn until I came back.

Gotcha.

Then I saw a drastic change.

But let me say this.

For all the craft services that most shoots, most productions don't do, there are still

companies that say I'm going to order lunch.

We're going to order lunch for everyone.

And they just order it.

So things change, but things didn't really change.

Yeah, sure.

So that makes any sense.

Razors still shoots big productions.

I know a couple of other companies that still will shoot big productions.

So they're out there, you know.

There's a lot of people shooting on their phone now too.

Yeah, that's true.

And even professionally, I have seen like a...

I want us to call it like a cage.

Sure, yeah.

They just put their phone in.

That's right.

And they hold it and it's like a gimbal, right?

And they put a lens on the lens that's on the...

Correct, correct.

It's what you've got like...

It's an Uber phone.

It's amazing, you know, 4K is 4K, right?

So it's very interesting.

Hey, the iPhone, I mean, I don't know about any of the other phones.

And this isn't an iPhone, but their camera's pretty damn good.

Androids cameras fantastic, especially in the light.

Now, you have other hobbies besides just doing adult content.

Oh, good, Laura.

You can tell us how you got sort of interested and you're like...

You're really good at remodeling your house, would you?

I'm really good at construction.

Fantastic design taster.

Your house is absolutely amazing.

Yeah, I really wanted to do that for a living.

If I had had parents, like my parents, my mom was a bible for her.

Okay, okay.

I had a Java witness and she was just crazy into that.

And so secular education and secular work was never really pushed.

Right?

Right.

Because I was just probably going to be a wife and a bible thumper.

Right, right.

Yeah, so that's it.

I know how to sew, I know how to cook, I know how to do every wifely thing, you know, from

that era, right?

Pretty cool.

Okay.

It's not wifely now, I suppose.

Yeah.

We're earners too.

Yeah.

Yeah, I learned a lot.

My mom would do a lot.

And like, you know, you have to have something done so you learn how to do it.

That's exactly it.

For necessity, right?

I wanted to change something about my house, put new hinges on the door, change a door,

you know, like it starts small and then you're like, you know, like, I think I'll take this

wall out.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I would have loved to have been, I would have loved to have gone to.

Like, design was a whole lot of interiors on that.

Yeah, interior design.

Yeah, I would have loved to.

Yeah.

Because you haven't that for you.

Really good fantastic.

Thank you.

Fantastic.

I have a good artistic eye.

Yes.

100%.

And then the other thing I noticed that is becoming much more mainstream acceptable.

A lot of my gal friends are into firearms now.

And they all have gotten concealed carry permits and stuff like that.

Yes.

And you were one of the first ones that, you know, we had that in common.

We went out and we've gone shooting together and stuff like that.

So that's actually pretty cool too.

Had you always been outdoorsy and, you know, oh yeah.

Oh yeah.

Oh yeah.

No, I grew up in Idaho and we went camping a lot and fishing.

Fishing and shooting.

I'm not going to say like my dad went hunting.

Okay.

But I never got to go.

Oh, okay.

Gotcha.

And I was like, I'm not going to go.

Because I've still never went.

And I really want to go.

Just get just a.

I want to shoot my own animal.

And I would love to skin it and learn how to cut it.

Right.

And, you know, feed off of what I hunted.

That'd be awesome.

Do you have any long term plans along those lines where you're going to build a similar

sort of, you know, farm type more rural substitution kind of thing.

I bought 196 acres in Tennessee.

Fantastic.

Wow.

Yeah.

It's beautiful, beautiful, beautiful.

And let's see what all I want to, I want to have a gun range.

Nice.

Just easy to do.

You just have to put some land out there.

Yeah, exactly.

I would like to like, I would like to have it for the for the golfers.

It's a golf course designed by Arnold Palmer.

Right.

And I want something designed like by Mike Glover or, you know, some of the people that

I follow on on that on YouTube.

I want something that you could even rent out to some, you know, military group or some

training.

Yeah, exactly.

Exactly.

That's fantastic.

Yeah.

I have a lot of ravines on the property.

So I was just kind of thinking of widening a ravine, you know, taking out the trees and

stuff and then making a space just making that space in there.

You know, making something fun maze-like.

Sure.

So, you know, maybe it's a, it's a garbage dump.

Sure.

Lots of cars piled on top of each other or maybe that's part of it.

And then you walk into another area and it's like Afghanistan or anything.

You know, like, I don't know.

You get some big plans.

That's really cool.

Yes.

I think that area, like I'm six miles from a lake.

It's absolutely gorgeous.

I'm on the Tennessee side.

The Kentucky side is really developed.

Oh, interesting.

So you're kind of right on the border of the state.

Yes.

And the Tennessee side, the docks and stuff like that, there's not like, I mean, I would

love to see it where it's a legitimate dock with like peers and you can have stores and

stuff, you know.

And I think that we could get there like it's coming.

But it's still kind of cool.

But it's still small town.

Gotcha.

Very small town.

So, um, hopefully if I mind my P's and Q's correctly and I do good with that product,

I think it's a great property.

It could really blossom into something.

Yes.

Wow.

That's pretty cool.

Congratulations on that.

Thank you.

Now, um, how do people, because I'm sure we've all been fascinated by this, if they hadn't

seen you before, or they love your scenes and stuff, but how do people see more of you

on the interwebs?

Like, you know, what's your website, your social media and all that stuff?

My website is ryancoder.com.

Nice.

My only fans, I think it was Ryan Connor 69 or something like Ryan Connor official,

something like that.

It's on all my social media.

Oh, you gotcha.

And somewhere I have one of those like social media trees or...

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

What do they call it?

It looks like a lot of stuff.

You know, it has all of your stuff somewhere on the internet.

So, I need to be better about that.

What's the reason we'll put them up for you?

Yeah.

I have it only fans.

I have a website.

I have an Instagram.

It is Ryan Connor ex-world.

That's right.

Yep, yeah.

Because...

They just tagged you.

They took my last one.

I hit a million and they took it.

Why I don't know, you know?

That was just because, you know...

Yeah, I actually think that they don't like adult actresses and actors.

That's very true.

So anyway, I had to change that.

What else?

Oh, Ryan Connor 69 for Twitter.

That's right.

That was what everything was.

Ryan Connor 69.

That's it.

Nice.

And then look forward to seeing her again this year as was last year at the Night Moves

Awards.

Yes, I can't wait.

That's going to be great.

And your little caravan of the stars, right?

It's fucking fantastic.

We had a great time there.

I encourage you guys to go.

And gentlemen, ladies, keep on the lookout for this amazing interview coming out and

also all the other good stuff with my super long time bestie, the incomparable legendary

Ryan Connor.

Thank you.