All language subtitles for Man With a Plan - S04E06 - Couples Therapy (1080p x265 EDGE2020)

[woman on tape]
Let the life force flow through your...

What you doing?

-I told you he'd be doing something weird.
-Yeah.

Where's Donny? Adam's got big news.

Oh, he left for couples therapy again.
Thanks for helping me up, by the way.

So, what's the big news?

Lowell, I bought a boat. Yeah.
We were leaving the lumberyard,

and some guy was selling his bass boat
real cheap in the parking lot,

so I went for it.

There she is. That's my boat.

How'd you get Andi
to finally let you buy one?

Oh, I used a new strategy:
I didn't tell her.

And you're still married. It's a mystery.

This is the only way it can work.

I've brought up buying a boat in the past,
and Andi always shot me down.

Wives, our beloved life partners,
who take a flamethrower to our dreams.

My problem was,
it was always a hypothetical boat,

so I could never push it
across the finish line.

Now that I've bought a boat,
I'm working from a place of fear.

You see, fear sharpens you.

Like, you can only run so fast.

But when a lion's chasing you,
you can run a little faster.

Not faster than a lion.

The boat's getting delivered Tuesday,

so I have a week to figure out
how to get a yes from Andi.

You need to make Andi think it's her idea.
Wives always love their own ideas.

That's true,
even if they're not good ones.

Like throw pillows.

Who needs a hundred pillows
nobody sleeps on?

Our houses are full of damn pillows.

All right, so all I have to do
is get Andi to suggest a boat.

Then I just agree.

By next week we'll be seasick, sunburned
and peeing in a lake, like God intended.

It'll be like the old days when
I used to rent a boat to take you fishing.

Yeah, but better, because we'll own it.

Yeah. A boat is like a woman.

It doesn't feel right to pay for it
by the hour.

All right, boy.
Look like a guy who really needs a boat.

I know what I'm doing.
I'm gonna walk her right into it.

[sighs] Boy, what a day. Oh!

Aw. Honey, what's wrong? Are you okay?

You know what I am? Stressed!

That's what I am.

Well, I don't like that.
Is there anything I can do?

Well, maybe...

maybe it would help me to relax
if I did something, uh, water-related.

You know, there are certain things a wife
can do to relieve her husband's stress.

Yeah, I know the things, Bev. Thanks.

Uh, hey, if you like the water,

maybe you should take a walk
around the lake.

That's not one of the things,
although you can do mine in a lake.

That's close. Yeah, I like
where you're headed with this lake thing.

You know who's relaxed? Ducks.

What?

Oh. That's right: ducks.

I bet it's because they're on the lake.
That's the key.

So, how do you get a duck's life?

But I like being a person.

How much have you guys had to drink?

Wow.

Sorry we're late. We were making out
in the car like teenagers.

That's right.
We would've gone all the way,

but there's a lot of lookie-loos
walking their dogs.

[Marcy] Mm-hmm.

See how she used her body to relax him?
That's what I was talking about.

Oh, my God!

We were just looking for ways
to help me deal with stress.

You know, fishing around.
It's all hands on deck over here.

Maybe you should try couples therapy.
It's great.

No, that's not what I'm talking about.
Andi, that's not what I'm talking about.

Well, it really changed Don.

Yeah. Turned him into a Bee Gee.

I thought Marcy wouldn't let you wear
that silk shirt.

This is the real me.

Dr. Chuck said that Marcy was wrong
to control my fashion choices.

He's our therapist, and he made me realize
that when Don wears this shirt,

it's not supportive for me to say
that he looks like an unemployed pimp.

Well, Marcy, I think it is so healthy

that you're working on your relationship
with your husband,

the roller-rink deejay.

Well, here's Dr. Chuck's card.
You guys should give it a whirl.

Maybe she's right.
I mean, you might be stressed out

because there's something
bottled up inside you.

Like a ship in a bottle!

No. No, no, no, no. [chuckles]
Therapy is not for guys like me.

It's just a bunch of mumbo jumbo
that doesn't do anything.

Tony Soprano did therapy.

And yet the murdering continued.

You know what might help me relax?
Singing. Yeah.

♪ Row, row, row your... ♪

Take it home, Andi.

That went nowhere. Andi wasn't even close
to suggesting a boat.

She just thinks I got drunk
and want to be a duck.

Marcy was right.
Take her to couples therapy.

No way.
Therapists always agree with the wife.

The first class you take
in shrink school is

"Husbands:
How to Put Their Nuts in a Box."

Dr. Chuck always sides with me.

Until he doesn't,
and then it's boxed nuts.

You don't get it. I met Chuck at the gym.

He's going through a bad divorce,
so he's pretty mad at wives.

When I heard he did couples therapy,
I locked that down.

The best part is,
Don's excited to go to therapy.

I could never get Adam to go.

Well, it's hard for me to open up, too,
but part of the therapy process

is acknowledging that
I'm a flawed human being, and that's okay.

I could've told you that for free.

Anyway.

The thing I like most about therapy
is the honesty.

It's totally rigged.

Dr. Chuck could be your answer, Adam.
I say get on the Chuckwagon.

I'm not paying some quack 150 bucks
to do what I can do myself.

I still have a week.

I'll just use my brains and charisma
to get Andi on board.

So we're not getting a boat.

Don't underestimate me.

Superman can fly.
Batman has the Batmobile.

I can wear a woman down.

There she is.

I saved the last brownie
for my beautiful bride.

What do you want, sex?

No. Well...

No, no. I'm just happy.
This is my idea of a perfect life.

Oh.

The only thing that would make it
more perfect

would be if this couch was,
I don't know, a boat.

That's what this is about?

Oh, man! Can't we just have sex?

On a boat? Sure.

Yeah, we could just lay there
and let the water do the work.

Okay, we are not getting a boat.

If you want something expensive
that leaks, let's just get another kid.

I know you're against it,

but when I look out in the driveway
and don't see a boat there,

it makes me wonder
why I'm even on this crazy blue ball!

Too much?

Come on, let's get a boat!

I'll even name it after you. Probably.

-Sorry, honey.
-[sighs]

Okay.
I didn't want to have to do this, but...

Kids, could you come in here, please?

Would you tell Mommy
why you're so sad all the time?

Because we don't have a boat.

Healthy children need fresh air.

I think a boat will keep me away
from all those boys at school.

They only want one thing.

Sorry, honey, you're outnumbered.

I'm off to go shopping
for the SS Maybe Andi.

We are not getting a boat.

Can we still go out for ice cream
even though she said no?

You didn't even sell it.

You were Peter Pan in the school play.
Where was that magic?

[grunts]

You know, the oceans are rising.

-I'm wondering how we're gonna survive--
-No.

[groans]

Dr. Chuck, huh?

Well, you ain't cheatin',
you ain't tryin'.

Honey, I know I'm driving you crazy
with this boat talk,

but I can't help myself.

Maybe you're right.
We need to see Dr. Chuck.

You want to see a therapist?

Well, why not?
He's an impartial third party.

And if he agrees with you,
I will drop this boat idea forever.

Wow. Um, okay. [chuckles]
I'll make an appointment next week.

Sooner's better.
Before Tuesday, for example.

I got to say, Adam, I'm impressed.

I mean, ten years ago, you would've just
bought a boat and then lied about it.

[both laughing]

I can't believe Adam agreed
to go to therapy.

Yeah, he has never been this open-minded.

I might ride this wave
and see if I can get him to try quinoa.

Oh.

I'm making Joe go too. He has issues.

The man goes out to get the paper
in his underwear.

The neighbors had a whole meeting
about it.

Bev, are you meeting Joe's needs?

'Cause there's certain things
a wife can do.

Why do you think he's in his underwear?

All right, let's get going, Bev.
I feel like fish sticks for dinner.

-You want fish sticks, Joe?
-Yeah.

I want a husband who wears pants.

-Is this about me getting the paper again?
-I'm afraid so.

Well, the neighborhood ladies like it.
They had a whole meeting about it.

Okay. Well, uh, I better get going too.

I want to pick the perfect outfit
for therapy.

Something that says I'm willing to work
on my faults, but that I don't have any.

[laughs] Well,
I hope you like it more than I do.

I think I'm gonna stop going.

What happened?

Whenever I bring up something crazy
that Don did,

Dr. Chuck says it's my fault.

-Really?
-Mm-hmm.

Did you tell him about the time
Don said he was going to the car wash

but he really went to Vegas
for the weekend?

My fault because I was smothering him.

What? That doesn't make any sense.
Where did you find this doctor?

Oh, I didn't. Don did.

Don found him?

Yeah. I was proud of him.
He doesn't usually take the initiative.

Oh, my God. Marcy, wake up.
Chuck-- Chuck is a ringer.

What?

Look, Don obviously got some weirdo doctor

to tell you that were wrong
about everything.

I mean, is there any other explanation
for that Motown backup singer shirt?

[gasps] He is so gonna pay.
He wore that thing to church.

In front of God.

And now Adam is working the same scam
to get a boat.

-[scoffs]
-Why am I surprised?

He was raised by a man
who wanders the streets in his underpants.

[groans]

This is exciting.

I can't wait to get in there
and hash this all out,

see what Dr. Chuck thinks about the boat.
[chuckles]

Okay. You seem confident.

I believe in science, Andi.

Adam, Andi, I'm Dr. Felicia.
Come on back to my office.

Where's Chuck?

Oh, Chuck wasn't available,

so I made an appointment
with his colleague, Dr. Felicia.

What's wrong?

I don't wanna.

So, I hear we're going to be talking about
a boat today.

I don't wanna.

Chuck's not here. Run!

I still don't understand what happened.
We agreed on Dr. Chuck.

No, we agreed on therapy, which we got,

and I, for one,
am a very satisfied customer.

I already gave her five stars on Yelp.

She is a boat hater.

If we'd gone with Chuck,
I'd be waterskiing right now.

Of course you would.

Because he was a ringer, a phony, a fraud.

You don't know that.

Do you?

How do you know that?

You tried to rig therapy to get a boat.

I tried a whole bunch of things
to get a boat.

And if you had fallen for one of those,
we wouldn't even be here.

Well, I know one thing for sure,

there will never,
ever be a boat in that driveway.

-It's not Tuesday.
-What?

I'm just saying days of the week it's not.

[stammers] You know what?

Honey, I have put you through so much.
Let me take you out to dinner.

Huh? If we sprint,
we can still make happy hour.

Why are we going this way?

We're not going out the back door
like savages.

I want the whole world
to see my beautiful wife.

[chuckles]

Evening, Mr. Burns.
I'm here to drop off your boat.

On second thought, I'd rather eat in.

It's not your fault, sir.
I'm sorry for all the cursing.

She didn't know about the boat.

Yeah, you're the third drop-off this week
where the wife didn't know.

What did those guys do?

I just deliver the boats, man.

Ahoy, Captain.

We brought you champagne
to christen ye new vessel.

Uh, now's not a good time.

I got the boat delivered early
so we could take it out this weekend.

What are you guys fighting about?

-Adam bought a boat after I said no.
-Wrong.

I bought the boat before you said no.

I spent all this time
trying to get you to say yes.

You don't know everything.

Okay, wait a minute.

So all that stuff--
the therapy, the brownie, the kids--

was all because you already bought a boat?

I should've known.
You never save me a brownie.

Okay, yes. I did everything wrong.

But, you know, it just didn't seem fair.

"Can we have a boat?"
I say yes, you say no, so it's a no.

Why is the wife's no
more powerful than the husband's yes?

Because without our no, it's chaos.

A man's life expectancy would be 30

because you'd all drown
in Jacuzzis filled with beer.

Which reminds me,
you also said no to a Jacuzzi.

Hey, marriage is supposed to be 50-50,
right?

No, no, no, no. It's 51-49.

Yeah, the house has the edge,
just like blackjack.

How are you the house? I built the house.

All you did was fill it
with these pillows.

Are you saying that my only contribution
to this house is pillows?

I think we've gotten off track.

You're only mad about the boat.
Remember that.

Still in the driveway.
Can you believe I did that?

He bought a boat without telling me.

And then he lied about it. Yeah.
He did that. While we were married.

Get him, Felicia.

Well, you're clearly very passionate
about boats.

In our last session,

you said you had to have one
because boats are "bitchin'."

-I stand by that.
-He stands by it, Felicia.

Okay, look, I know where this is going.

And if it'll save time,
I will put my own nuts in that box.

That's where I keep my father's ashes.

Sorry for your loss.

You know, in many relationships,
there's a lot of gray areas.

But in this situation,
we have the benefit of clarity.

Clinically speaking, Adam,
you're super wrong.

[Adam scoffs]

That is the best 150 bucks I ever spent.
[laughs]

Thanks, Felicia. You've been very helpful.

Hang on. We're not done here.

We've identified the problem,

but now let's see
if there's an underlying cause.

Eh, I'm good with super wrong.
Do you take checks?

There's no money in that account.
I spent it all on the boat.

Adam, you risked
your most important relationship for this,

so there must be
something deeper going on.

When you think about the boat,
what comes to mind?

The boat.

I'm talking about maybe
a special memory or feeling.

Oh. Uh...

I guess I think about my dad
taking me out fishing when I was a kid.

Now we're getting somewhere.

No, we're not. Stay with me, Felicia.

When we were on the boat,

we'd laugh and crack dirty jokes.

He'd let me have a sip of his beer.

Yeah, it was like, for one day,

he stopped barking at me,
and we were pals.

That's very touching, Adam.

I'm glad my dad was in the room
to hear you say that.

So the idea of the boat
is very emotional for you.

Yeah. I guess.

You know, the more I think about it,

when I bought the boat,

I was hoping to have some fun times
like that with our kids.

They're growing up so fast.

Well, that's why I was against the boat.

Time is precious, and I didn't want it
taking you away from the family.

That's the thing I'm realizing.
I didn't want the boat just for me.

I wanted it for us.

I can't believe you never told me that.

I didn't even know that was in there.
It snuck up on me, like a burp.

-Ah.
-[chuckles]

I think I might be deep.

Don, Marcy, come on back. I'm Dr. Felicia.

Where's Chuck?

Chuck can't save you now.

Up you go.

I don't wanna.

Never again.

[sighs] Hey. Back to flannel, huh?

Dr. Felicia was brutal.
She pounded me like a speed bag.

-So you're selling it?
-Yeah, it's for the best.

I learned it wasn't about the boat.
It was about family.

Can't drink beer and pee
off the side of a family, though.

You can take the sign down.
I found a buyer for your boat.

Well, that was fast.

Yeah, it's a lady who wants to buy it
for her husband.

He was professionally diagnosed
as super wrong, but, you know,

now that she understands
why the boat's been a dream of his,

she wants to make it happen.

Oh, Andi.

[both laugh]

Wow! That's almost exactly
what happened to you.

Go home, Don.

It's a crazy world.

Thanks, Dr. Chuck. Great session.

I didn't realize me wanting you
to wear pants was smothering you.

I'm sorry.

I think you're perfect, Bev,

but it might be worth making some changes
since Dr. Chuck said so.

Hmm?