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INTERVIEWER:Ready, Ari?
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Yeah. Hold on one second.
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This is a couple from Massachusetts.
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She wants me to go there, but, uh...
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Yeah.
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..but she's having trouble.
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"Otherwise, come to...
If you come to New York..."
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Hold on a sec.
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I don't think I'm going to do it
much longer.
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I think this is probably
my final year or two
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before I'll hang up my hat.
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People say, "Well, you're not
going to be able to stop,"
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but no, I'll be able to stop.
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Trust me, I recognise the sacrifices
being made here
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and that I'm biting
off more than I can chew.
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I know that.
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LINE RINGS
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ON PHONE:Hello.
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Hi. How are you doing?
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I'm fine. You?
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OK, good. I'm downstairs.
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FUNKY MUSIC
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SIRENS WAIL
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HORNS HONK
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Hi. How are you doing?
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I just realised that there's
two airports in Dallas.
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I'm hoping you're at the right one.
Right.
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I'm just at the, um, exit
before the toll,
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so I wanted to know if we're still
on for tonight or if you want to...?
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It's your call.
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I guess...let's meet in the mall.
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You see the Target over there
across the street?
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I'll send you a tracker
so you could find me. OK?
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I'm in Target now.
I'm walking towards the Starbucks.
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All right.
Looking forward to seeing you.
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There is a, uh, Crowne Plaza.
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It's a nice, private restroom.
Very clean.
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Hey, look who's here.
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All right.
How's it going?
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I can't ejaculate with cold hands.
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I got to warm them up here.
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Oh. That's better.
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Hi. How you doing?
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Good. So good to meet you.
Oh, good to meet you, too.
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Come in.Hello. Hello.
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How are you doing? I'm cold!
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HE CHUCKLES
Hi.
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Hey. How you doing?
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OK, fine.
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I'm going to use the restroom here.
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I'll be out in a couple of minutes.
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MUSIC CONTINUES
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Number 14, 65% of you got it wrong.
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Let me erase this and take
a look at 14, 15.
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Both of these were a challenge
for the students.
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We're going to multiply this whole
first equation by a positive two,
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and then we'll have to distribute it
by all three of those.
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Two times 2X is 4X.
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Two times Y is a positive 2Y.
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And two times three is six.
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I'm left with negative X equals ten.
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And then of course
we learned this trick.
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You have to change this to a
positive and this to a negative.
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So that's going to be -
X equals negative ten.
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BELL RINGS
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ANNOUNCER:This is a
Brooklyn-bound express train.
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The next stop is Fulton Street.
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Hey, welcome.
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Hey.Is it your first time
in New York City?
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Yeah.Oh, my gosh.
So we got to go crazy.
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That's right.You got to do
something you'll regret, you know?
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They got bathrooms in
Chuck E Cheese too,
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but it's less appropriate there.
Yeah, I agree.
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It's inappropriate anywhere,
I think.
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HE CHUCKLES
That's the truth.
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But it is what it is.
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All right.What is this?
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So there's a little...OK.
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Just a little.Good.
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You'll figure it out.Yes.
That's fine.
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And you've got a flight to catch.
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So don't judge me
if I'm a little quick, OK?
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All right.All right.
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PERCUSSIVE MUSIC
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You hear it all the time.
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Parenthood is a
priceless experience,
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but what some mum and dads
are learning is that the process
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of becoming a parent
can come with a huge cost.
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The struggle to have children
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can be both emotional
and also expensive.
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Infertility has become a mainstream
health issue,
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one that means that
if you don't have the money,
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you may not have a baby.
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This is a struggle that millions
of American women are facing.
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Infertility.
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A single round of IVF
can cost upwards of $20,000,
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and it's often requiring
more than just one try.
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What people have is desire.
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I mean, to start a family,
you'd pay almost anything.
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You'll find a way.
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AUDIENCE APPLAUDS
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TV PRESENTER:Meet Ari.
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He's a 41-year-old college
maths professor from New York City,
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who's received a lot of press
recently for his surprising side job
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as a free sperm donor to women
struggling to get pregnant.
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He has 22 kids so far,
with one on the way.
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His nickname, the Sperminator.
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AUDIENCE LAUGHS
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FUNKY MUSIC
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Ten years ago,
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Ari answered a Craigslist ad
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looking for a sperm donor.
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To date, Ari Nagel has sired
29 children
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with 24 women.
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CROWD GASPS
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Good luck on your test today.
What's seven plus eight?
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15.Good.
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We have examples of the women
who you've been with...somehow.
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So, ladies, come on out.
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CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
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Oh, he has been
Heaven-sent to us.
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I myself, uh, never thought
of doing that process.
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And we wanted Zoe to be able
to know who her father is.
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So if we would have went
with an anonymous donor,
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she wouldn't have that option
to know who he is.
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Wee-heee!
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OK. Let's go.
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What's it like not having
the Sperminator around?
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He's around any time we ask him
to be around.
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Do you think he's doing
a good job for women or not?
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Yeah, he's done an excellent job,
and...
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Well, I just figured it out.
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There are all these brothers
and sisters.
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Ahhhhhhhh!
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Yes.
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How many kids do you want to have,
Tyler?
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I feel like three is nice.
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Three is a good amount.
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Three?
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I'll stop when one of them
is disappointing.
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You know what you do?
You have one
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and then you see how you feel,
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and see if you want another.
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You can't decide initially,
you know.
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How did you feel after your, like,
14th?
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After...after you turned out
so good, that's why I wanted more.
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That's when I knew I wanted 32.
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Great answer.Yeah.
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My friends, they first figured
it out because, like, I don't know
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how it came up, but we were
just in class
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and then we were looking
up everybody's names in Google
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to see what comes up.
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And then...
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So Nagel...
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THEY LAUGH
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I think that's when I first saw
the article,
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before you ever told
it to me.
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I was scrolling through.
I was like, "What?"
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Yeah, yeah.
They divulged too much.
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You didn't need to know
the play-by-play, you know.Yeah.
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Target bathroom, it's all I know.
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That didn't look too good.
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It wasn't really truthfulness,
you know.
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It was fake news, Tyler.
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Oh, nice reverse.
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Don't worry.
You weren't made in Target.
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Oh, that's great. Thank you, Dad.
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Yeah.
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GPS:Your destination
is on the left.
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Reserved. Reserved. Reserved.
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Reserved.
Where's the guest parking?
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Hey.Hi, Dad.
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How are you?
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What's going on?
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Look who's here.
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Oh, my gosh!
A doctor and a ballerina.
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Wow!
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Come give me a hug, Zoe. Wow.
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I have a boo-boo.
Can you fix my boo-boo?
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Cos you're Doc McStuffins.
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I need...
Who's gonna kiss my boo-boo?
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I really did have a boo-boo. Here.
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See? I got a blister.
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How you doing?
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I'm good. How are you?
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Hey.How you doing?
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I saw these two ads on Craigslist
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of women looking for donors
to help them have a child.
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I don't think they were
looking for a father figure.
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I think they really just
wanted sperm.
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The baby's nap time.
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Um, I just offered
that as an option of where,
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if you wanted me to play a role
in the child's life,
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I'm happy to do so.
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And I responded and offered my help.
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If I wanted him to be a
friend-like figure, he would.
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If I wanted him to be
a father figure, he would.
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Or just come around whenever,
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whenever I need him or want him
to be around.
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She's not. She's not here.
I don't see her.
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He's the fun guy.
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And that's exactly who I want
him to be.
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Yeah.Who's hitting me?
Is that you hitting me?
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We actually never thought we would
have the amount of involvement
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that we have with him...Right.
..now.
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We didn't think we would want that.
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We thought we were just getting
a donor.
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We were just getting, you know,
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somebody who was going to help us
create our child.
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We have gained an extended family
through the mums.
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We spend a lot of time
with each other.
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We go on vacation together.
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We have lots of outings
and birthday parties.
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So it's really been
just triple the love.
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Every time we meet a new person,
it is extending our family
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and it's pretty awesome
because at this point,
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like, you are choosing your family.
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You know they say you can't choose
who your family members are,
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but you are.
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Hey, you made it.
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Hi.Hi.
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Good to meet you.
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You had some traffic. Sorry.
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Yes.OK, cool.
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Come on in.
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I'm Brie. Nice to meet you.
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Hi, I'm Saphhira.
Nice to meet you, Sapphira.
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I'm Yvonne. How are you?
I'm Yvonne.
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Pleasure...Zoe's mother.OK.
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Here, take this baby
just to see if you, you know.
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Then put this here.
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Right.
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OK.Were you guys
intimidated to come here?
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No. No.we are very, very,
very ready.
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Like... Yeah.
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How old are you guys,
if you don't mind me asking?
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I'm 28.28.
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What type of relationship do
you want Ari to have with the baby,
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if any at all?
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So this is the thing.
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This was perfect because she kept
saying,
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"I want the dad
to be in the kid's life."
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I didn't want to settle for...
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She did not want to do
sperm bank at all.
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And I'm like, I don't know how...
That's going to be very hard
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to find someone who doesn't
really care, like, what we do,
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but still be around.
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I was like, "That's gonna be hard."
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Like walk up to someone and be like,
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"Hey, you want to be a sperm donor
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"and then also be
in the baby's life?"
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So this just, like...It's perfect.
255
00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:19,280
Right. Yeah.
256
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I'm gonna get the show on the road.
257
00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:25,400
Yeah, but how are you going to get
it inside the...?
258
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I can put it in this cup.
I can put it in this.
259
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And then you can put it in.
You should use that cup.
260
00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:31,480
This is like a Diva Cup?
261
00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,080
Yeah. Lena.
262
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Lena?Yeah?
We have a name for it?
263
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Yes.
264
00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:38,080
OK. Nice.
265
00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:39,760
At least it's not a guy's name.
266
00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:41,720
That would be awkward for me,
you know?
267
00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:17,920
Hey.
268
00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,920
You could put your legs up,
your feet up, you know, relax.
269
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Get comfy.
270
00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:31,040
So when we tell the story
of how the baby was conceived,
271
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we'll say we did it
272
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at this person's house
that we just met.
273
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SAPPHIRA LAUGHS
OK.
274
00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:40,040
It's like a stranger,
but new family.
275
00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,200
It was very comfortable, actually.
276
00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,680
Yeah.I felt like we'd known
them for a long time.
277
00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:45,880
That's good.
278
00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:49,400
So we had good, positive energy
and Ari is great.
279
00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:50,520
Mm-hm.
280
00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,280
And the kids were great
and the parents were great.
281
00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:56,680
While you wash your hands...
282
00:14:56,720 --> 00:15:00,760
I like that they were like
mama bears for him.
283
00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,280
It would really be great
if we all, you know,
284
00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,560
we're all close together.
285
00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:07,960
So is this fate or destiny?
286
00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,880
Destiny, because there are
no coincidences.
287
00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:19,080
It's getting big.
288
00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:21,080
You want to blow bigger?Yeah.
289
00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,960
OK. Now you want to pop it?
290
00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:28,680
Yeah.Just touch here.
291
00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:29,720
OK.
292
00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,200
AIR HISSES
293
00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,320
DOOR BEEPS
294
00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:57,240
ALARM STOPS
295
00:15:58,280 --> 00:15:59,440
OK.
296
00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,840
MUSIC PLAYS SOFTLY IN BACKGROUND
297
00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:27,880
PHONE CHIMES
298
00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:05,920
BELL RINGS
299
00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:12,960
What is the slope of this graph?
300
00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:17,080
Is it going to be
positive or negative?
301
00:17:17,120 --> 00:17:18,520
Negative.For sure. Right.
302
00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,400
So right off the bat
we're going to eliminate
303
00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:21,840
any of the positive choices.
304
00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:25,000
Find out what you did that didn't
get you the right answer, right.
305
00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:26,920
Cos 65% of you struggled
with this one.
306
00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,880
Look at your notes
and see what happened. Right.
307
00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:30,120
And that's the whole point.
308
00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:32,040
The idea is to learn
from your mistakes.
309
00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:41,400
Gordon.
310
00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:44,800
What's cooking?
311
00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:46,520
Do you want some popcorn, Gordon?
312
00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:48,560
POPPING
313
00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,760
MICROWAVE BEEPS
314
00:17:52,360 --> 00:17:55,120
Well, that's some kind of flavoured
popcorn, isn't it?
315
00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,320
I think it's just butter.
316
00:17:57,360 --> 00:17:58,480
Are you sure?
317
00:18:03,360 --> 00:18:04,520
I don't know.
318
00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:10,920
So I want to find out if this
married couple's pregnant, right?
319
00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:13,120
So I have to find out
when I was in Kentucky,
320
00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:14,160
which was in December.
321
00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:17,280
That night, I met a married couple.
So I gave her sperm.
322
00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:19,040
And then I haven't heard
from her since.
323
00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,680
And then I'm going to find...
Of course, there were no nothing...
324
00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:24,080
No papers were signed,
no anything, no agreement.
325
00:18:24,120 --> 00:18:26,480
No nothing.
Uh, no, of course not.
326
00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:29,280
Yeah. You signed, "I will be
responsible for the rest of my life
327
00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:31,160
"to take care
of this child for you,
328
00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:34,320
"in the case that you, uh, disappear
and don't like the eye colour."
329
00:18:34,360 --> 00:18:37,040
You know I have a family court case
March 1st.
330
00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:38,280
Yeah, well...
331
00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,120
Right and, uh...
332
00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:44,560
And you're paying for that,
and you still have a resolution.
333
00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:46,720
Somebody, they went after money
from yours also,
334
00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:50,920
whether it was taken legally
or not by the state, even,
335
00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:53,960
you know, the in the meantime,
you're out that money.
336
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,760
Even if it was inappropriate,
you're out the money.
337
00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,280
Yeah. My brothers pay more
in Yeshiva tuition.
338
00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:00,920
Yeah, well...
339
00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:04,880
But they live with...
These are people who they live with.
340
00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,240
This is their immediate family
341
00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:09,080
who they're actually immediate
with, you know.
342
00:19:09,120 --> 00:19:11,800
Uh, but look at my wall here.
343
00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:16,120
Your wall? Yeah. I don't see any
dollars falling off the wall.
344
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:17,880
I see dollars going into the wall.
345
00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:19,880
I don't see dollars
coming off the wall.
346
00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:26,280
PRESENTER:Five of these women
have sued Ari for child support.
347
00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:29,760
Correct?I've been supporting nine
children financially.
348
00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:34,200
As a maths professor, that's tough.
And sued by five? That's right?
349
00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:38,040
And technically, all of them
are entitled to child support.
350
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:40,160
It's the same as if he jumped
in bed with somebody.
351
00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:43,520
It's the same as a deadbeat dad
or whatever you want to say.
352
00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:45,080
He's on the hook legally,
353
00:19:45,120 --> 00:19:48,560
which I think makes it all the more
altruistic that he's doing this.
354
00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,120
He definitely could end up
with lots of lawsuits being filed
355
00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:52,400
in different states
356
00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:54,640
for child support and judgments
against him
357
00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:56,280
and his wages being garnished,
358
00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:58,480
and, you know, his property
being levied upon
359
00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:00,880
and having a lot
of financial problems...
360
00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:02,240
I hope that doesn't happen.
361
00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,560
..because of parents
seeking child support.
362
00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,400
It's chicken cutlets.
That's without the bone.
363
00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:11,400
Yes.Yes. Thank you.
364
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,040
Any?Yes, please.
365
00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,520
PEOPLE CHATTER IN BACKGROUND
366
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:20,120
OK.
367
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:21,800
You want a red one as well?
368
00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,280
You want the red ones?
369
00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:26,800
Yes, please.
370
00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:34,760
Uh, give me, like, a white bread.
371
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:35,920
I know.
372
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:37,360
Thank you.White bread...Yeah.
373
00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,000
Something I can make
grilled cheese for the kids.
374
00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:41,200
This looks fancy.
375
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:42,760
So now I got garlic bread.
376
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:46,760
OK. Thank you.
377
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:07,600
Some months, it gets a little rough
trying to budget for the month.
378
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,880
I'm always worried, you know,
what if another mum sues me,
379
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:15,760
how am I going to make ends meet?
380
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,920
My housing situation isn't so great.
381
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,520
Most of the time
I'm spending my, uh, time
382
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,320
and sleeping at an apartment
in Brooklyn
383
00:21:42,360 --> 00:21:45,480
with my three children
and their mum.
384
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,040
Mummy's waiting for you downstairs.
385
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,280
Quick. I'm sending you with food.
386
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,040
Mummy wants you to go to church
with her.
387
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,120
I don't want to go to church!
You could tell that to Mummy.
388
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,000
Tell her you don't want to go.
389
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,880
I'm a full-time parent to Tyler
and his two sisters.
390
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,280
Maybe not as full-time
as my father was to me,
391
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,720
but it's probably more closer to
what a full-time dad would do
392
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,000
than most of my other children.
393
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,040
Oh, wait. Hold on.
She needs a jacket.
394
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,160
Um, Tyler.
395
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:25,840
Can you bring them down?
396
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,040
Are you gonna be upstairs?
397
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,400
Wait, hold on.
398
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,360
PHONE RINGS
399
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,920
OK. Tyler just left.
400
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,240
She doesn't want to go.
She really doesn't want to go.
401
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:45,960
She's dressed.
She has her coat on.
402
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:47,440
She doesn't want to go.
403
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,120
OK.
404
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,160
I'm not, I'm not.
I just sent Tyler.
405
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,600
I just kicked Tyler and everyone
outside of the apartment.
406
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,080
They're all outside. OK?
407
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,280
TYLER:I live with my mum,
my two full sisters,
408
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,240
and then my dad
is usually with us.
409
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,680
Sometimes he'll bunk in my room,
sometimes he's on the couch,
410
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,960
sometimes he's in my sisters' room.
411
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,040
Yeah, it's flexible like that.
412
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,160
My mom doesn't really approve
of most of the things my dad does,
413
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,600
and so it leads to a lot of fights.
414
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,800
But until he started
having other kids
415
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,640
and helping all these families,
416
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,040
there was no real arguments
that I remember.
417
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:55,880
And I think...
418
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:57,960
I think I was conceived out of love.
419
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,880
I'm sure they loved each other
at one point,
420
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:04,640
but the things my dad is doing
421
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,960
goes against her guiding beliefs
and values
422
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:11,760
and then, uh, it caused them
to split apart, basically.
423
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,240
This is the place.
424
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,400
Got to give him a good haircut
because his mum's been giving him
425
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,760
the haircuts until now,
and he's still a virgin.
426
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,720
I think maybe he gets a
nice, professional haircut,
427
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,920
maybe he'll get some action,
you know?
428
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,760
Dad, you don't have to try
to embarrass me, OK?
429
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,440
You do enough of that
through your name alone.
430
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,400
Uh, do you, uh, get bullied
in school?
431
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,080
The only thing people can use
to, like, roast me
432
00:25:09,120 --> 00:25:10,640
at the lunch table is you.
433
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:12,360
It's always related to you.
434
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,360
And talk about Target bathrooms.
435
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,920
You know, if we pass
a Target bathroom,
436
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,160
"Hey, Tyler."
437
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:21,840
ARI CHUCKLES
438
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,160
Nice.
439
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,160
Oh, my school does this, like,
Japan trip.
440
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:28,520
Really? Does that cost money?
441
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,680
Yeah, yeah, a lot.
442
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,960
Oh. Yeah, Japan's expensive.
443
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,360
Do you mind...?
Um, if you go to Japan,
444
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,280
do you mind taking a little vial?
445
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,520
It's just 3ml,
so it's under the allowance.
446
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,160
In my backpack.No, you can't keep
it in your backpack
447
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,440
cos you got to keep it
at body temperature.
448
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,320
So it would be better if you stick
it up your tuchus
449
00:25:48,360 --> 00:25:50,560
just to keep it warm.
450
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,320
But I'll make sure to seal it tight.
451
00:25:53,360 --> 00:25:54,800
OK...
HE LAUGHS
452
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,200
It all started with Tyler,
even though he wasn't a donation.
453
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:06,080
My first child was just an accident.
454
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,120
I just met a girl at a club
and we hooked up
455
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:13,920
and she was pregnant
456
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,280
and obviously it was complicated,
457
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:21,600
and I tried to explain to her
that my parents may not accept him
458
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,760
or me or my lifestyle.
459
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,000
Ultimately, she made the decision
460
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:32,480
that she wanted to have him
regardless.
461
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,280
And I think that, in many ways,
462
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,480
changed how I was going
to live my life...
463
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,200
..being an Orthodox Jewish male
464
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:44,680
in the lifestyle
465
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,360
that all my brothers
and sisters were being raised.
466
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:58,840
JAUNTY MUSIC PLAYS ON PIANO
467
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:00,520
Not yet.
468
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,000
Not yet.
469
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,320
Now.
470
00:27:03,360 --> 00:27:05,280
THEY BOTH PLAY
471
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,800
ARI: What about your folks?
Did they tell you to stop?
472
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:27,960
HESHI:My parents?
473
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,040
No, they were thrilled
with every child.
474
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:31,280
They were thrilled?
475
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,080
I would be thrilled with every
grandchild, of course.
476
00:27:34,120 --> 00:27:36,000
Almost.
477
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,440
As long as they are the right faith.
478
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,800
Picky, picky, picky.
479
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,040
Look at the difference
between you and your brothers.
480
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,440
You could see the difference.
481
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,560
I grew up as a modern Orthodox
Jewish, uh...
482
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,640
In a Jewish family
in Monsey, New York.
483
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,120
It's one of the largest Orthodox
Jewish communities in the world.
484
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,480
All I really knew
was just other Orthodox Jews.
485
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,880
All my friends were Orthodox Jews,
all male.
486
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,040
So it was very, very sheltered.
487
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,360
Um, almost like a cult.
488
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,720
But, you know, you don't realise
when you're growing up in it.
489
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:24,480
It was, like, so many restrictions,
a lot of davening, a lot of shul,
490
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,960
a lot of learning.
491
00:28:27,360 --> 00:28:30,760
I was a pretty devout Jew
my whole childhood.
492
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,640
I think ultimately,
if not for Tyler,
493
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:40,200
I probably
would be an Orthodox Jew,
494
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,440
married with a
very traditional family.
495
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,120
I don't think I would have chosen
496
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,280
this untraditional,
unorthodox family.
497
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,400
Tyler, there's your bathing suit.
498
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,520
Hold on. Put this in there too.
499
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:29,840
You almost ready?
500
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:31,600
I think I might be good.
501
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,240
Ready to hit the road.
502
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,160
ROCK MUSIC
503
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,160
Hello?
ON PHONE:Hello.
504
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:58,920
Hey. How you doing?
505
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:00,480
OK. Did you just call me?
506
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,280
I did, I did,
I was trying to reach you.
507
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,720
I was actually gonna head
to Florida, but then I realised
508
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:05,880
it's so close to 2.00,
509
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,880
I think I'm gonna hit
Mel's for a minute.
510
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,640
Um, so, uh, are you coming?
511
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,800
Yeah, I'm bringing a bottle of wine.
512
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:17,880
Oh, a bottle of wine. Perfect.
That's good.
513
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,120
I want to have a...
I want to finish a bottle of wine
514
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,520
before the road trip
so I could sleep good. You know?
515
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,880
What? Who's driving?
516
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,640
Tyler.
517
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,320
I told you, he can't drive
out of New York!
518
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,760
He's underage.
They're not going to lock him up.
519
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,160
No, no, no, they'll arrest you.
520
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:38,520
Me?
521
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:40,800
They're not going to think
I'm the dad.
522
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,360
TYLER LAUGHS
523
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,320
Our Florida vacations,
they're usually time for us to get
524
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,280
some one-on-one time
and hang out with each other
525
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,440
and get a lot closer to each other,
526
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,120
and so I have a lot of fun
on all of them,
527
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:02,000
so it's really something
I look forward to.
528
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:03,840
LIVELY MUSIC
529
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,400
I could do it behind the back.
530
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:45,440
Can you do that?
531
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,040
Wait a minute.
This one looks like more fun.
532
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:01,600
Feel this.
533
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:11,800
Get it in, Tyler.
534
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,080
Come on.
535
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,240
ARI GROANS
536
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,760
I don't think I've ever
been live at the scene.
537
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,040
THEY CHUCKLE
538
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,760
That's one way to look at it.
539
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:38,360
Hey, how are you doing?
540
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,440
Oh, good. Are you leaving your kids
in the car
541
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,360
or in the play place?
They're right there.
542
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,200
Why don't you bring them
into the play place?
543
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:45,760
Do you want me to bring them
in there?
544
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,880
Let them go play in the play place.
Come on.
545
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:50,560
You're looking good.
546
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,120
What?
547
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:55,560
I shouldn't say that?
548
00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,400
I gotta... I gotta use the visuals,
549
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,640
you know, any visuals I can,
you know?
550
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,080
All right.
551
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,400
NO AUDIBLE DIALOGUE
552
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,520
MUSIC PLAYS SOFTLY ON SPEAKERS
553
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,520
Got it? OK. Sure.
554
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,720
Yeah, it looks good.
Looked like a strong positive.
555
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,320
GORDON:So here's the deal, Ari.
The question is,
556
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,960
can you stop if you wanted to?
557
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,800
So the question is, I don't think
you can stop even if you wanted to.
558
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,000
Hmm...
559
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,240
I think you should take a one month,
560
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:24,840
just not even, not a year,
561
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:26,400
take a one-month hiatus.
562
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:30,120
For one month,
you will not offer any services.
563
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,680
Just for a month.It would probably
be really good for you.
564
00:34:32,720 --> 00:34:34,360
One month for today. See if...
565
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,760
You know, you'll build up.
566
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,400
You'll get a little strength
in your...No, but.....self.
567
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,880
No. I'm going Argentina next month.
568
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,120
Next month, next month.
569
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,720
No, no, that's within the next
30 days, you know.
570
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,080
Well, that's not...not acceptable.
571
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:48,840
Yeah, but wait a minute.
First of all,
572
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,600
it's the summertime in Argentina.
So?
573
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:51,680
So still...still no.
574
00:34:51,720 --> 00:34:53,680
Why does summertime
have to do with babies?
575
00:34:53,720 --> 00:34:56,160
Is this making babies or
you're just looking for vacations,
576
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:57,480
you know, what is it?
577
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:00,320
Are you helping things or is it just
another way of having a good time?
578
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,920
What you've got to do
is stop doing it.
579
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,240
That's what you got to stop doing.
Just stop.
580
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:06,920
Stop.Really.Stop for a month.
581
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,960
See if you can even... I could...
Nobody thinks you could even do it.
582
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,840
Nobody thinks that
you have enough control to say no,
583
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,560
because that's what it looks like.
I have very good self control.
584
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,040
It's like all of a sudden
you can't say no to anybody, right?
585
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:19,480
No.What, are you such a weakling,
586
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:21,680
you have such weak character
that you can't say no?
587
00:35:21,720 --> 00:35:23,520
I have very good self control,
you know.
588
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,120
Unfortunately, we have a feeling
that you can't do it.
589
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,880
And that's...that's the illness.
And that's the illness
590
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:30,320
that we're concerned about.
591
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,040
So who's going to service
all these clientele? Tyler?
592
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:34,960
Problem is,
is that he broke his arm.
593
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:36,200
You're a righty, aren't you?
594
00:35:36,240 --> 00:35:37,800
I am.How are you going
to write?
595
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,600
Ejaculate is the question. How is he
going to follow my footsteps?
596
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,080
Stop it.No.Stop it.
597
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,000
Here's one case where he certainly
don't want
598
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:45,440
like father, like son.
599
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,040
You know what...
See all these hotels?
600
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,120
We're not gonna have to stay
in a hotel.
601
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,880
I could go all over the country,
I'll never need to get a hotel.
602
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:15,120
There's something nice about that,
you know.
603
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:18,000
You ever want to tour the country,
you got a free place to stay
604
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,640
in over a dozen states.
605
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:21,880
Mm-hm.
606
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,560
Come on, that's a little bit
of a perk, no?
607
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:29,440
Is paying half your salary
in child support also a perk?
608
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,360
Well, listen,
609
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:35,240
uh, you're costing me
a pretty penny, you know?
610
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,480
Yeah.Those Walmart shoes
that you buy,
611
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:39,080
that's what's costing you?
612
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,160
DOOR OPENS
613
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:56,440
Hey.
614
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,320
How you doing?
615
00:36:58,360 --> 00:36:59,920
This is my son, Tyler.
616
00:36:59,960 --> 00:37:01,280
Hello, Tyler.
617
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:07,040
Hey.
618
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,920
INDISTINCT CHATTER
619
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:11,800
I gotta do lefty hand.
620
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:14,600
Here you go.
621
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:16,560
Thank you.Thank you.
622
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,760
OK, I'll be back lickety-split.
623
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:19,920
OK.
624
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:52,840
Hello.Oh, hey.
625
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:55,800
Oh.Yes.There you go.
626
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:57,760
Thank you.Sure.
627
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,320
If you want to use the couch
to lie down when you're done,
628
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:01,760
or the bedroom, you can.
629
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:02,800
OK.
630
00:38:04,240 --> 00:38:05,440
PHONE CHIMES
631
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,200
Kanesha misses us.
632
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,160
Kanesha is the one that went
to prison?
633
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,680
No, that's her partner
or her ex-partner.
634
00:38:14,720 --> 00:38:17,920
And they both have kids?
They each have kids by me, yeah.
635
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:20,760
They had one together,
but then they broke up,
636
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,360
so I gave her one of her own.
637
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:23,720
I gave her two of her own.
638
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,920
The first one died
at five weeks old.
639
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,600
Does that affect you at all
when they die or...?
640
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:34,520
Sure, of course.
641
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,360
If you were dead, I...
642
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,720
I think you'd make jokes
about having 53 more.
643
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,680
That's what I think you'd do.
644
00:38:42,720 --> 00:38:45,480
Well, that it is nice
to have all that insurance.
645
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,600
You know, obviously it would be more
devastating if you were my only one,
646
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:52,280
but the fact that I do have
53 backups, you know.
647
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:53,520
Are you saying that to me?!
648
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:54,600
What?
649
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,080
Obviously, I'm hoping
you don't die, you know,
650
00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:00,000
but if you did, it would probably
be less devastating than maybe
651
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,640
if you were my only child, you know?
652
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:07,080
I feel like if a softer person,
653
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:10,080
which out of 53 others,
654
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,640
there's going to be many...
That are more sensitive?
655
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:13,840
Yeah, 100%.
656
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:15,240
They're going to be, uh,
657
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:19,400
probably going through a
lot of trauma because of it.
658
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,720
If they had to deal with the same
things I'm dealing with,
659
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,120
it would probably be
a lot different.
660
00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:45,560
Oh, look at this one.
661
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,080
Look at this one.
662
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:50,600
Can you pick up this one?
663
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,440
That's too big.
This one is beautiful.
664
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,200
Look at that one.
665
00:39:54,240 --> 00:39:56,320
That one right there.
666
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,240
I always knew that I wanted
children,
667
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,520
but I didn't know how to proceed.
668
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:02,840
This one is also nice.
669
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:03,880
Look at this.
670
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:06,480
As a lesbian, it was just
very difficult because, you know,
671
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:10,120
it's just not an option for me
to be with a man intimately.
672
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,080
So I was looking for other routes,
673
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,440
and that's when we decided
to use Ari.
674
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,480
Having two mixed kids,
I have a different fear
675
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,240
that I never knew that I would have.
676
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:26,280
And it's more of them not
being accepted on either side.
677
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:33,000
One of the mums sent me an
article with a picture of us
678
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:34,800
at Aria's second birthday party,
679
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:38,000
and they were talking about all of
the mums in the picture
680
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,440
and talking about
we only wanted the kids
681
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,520
with this white man
just so we can erase the black race,
682
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:47,360
and they don't even understand,
you know, the half of it
683
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,760
or the struggle or, you know,
what we have to go through
684
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:52,440
to get these children.
685
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:59,040
SAPPHIRA:You like your flower?
686
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:00,760
Look. You smell it.
687
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,120
It smells so good.
688
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,120
These are African marigolds.
689
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:11,560
They're cool, aren't they?
690
00:41:16,240 --> 00:41:21,840
Some of the criticism that I've seen
is coming from other black people
691
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:25,000
that don't like the fact
that he's biracial.
692
00:41:29,240 --> 00:41:33,000
This is something that I
think black people have dealt with
693
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,320
for a long time now.
694
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,760
If they decide to date outside
of their race or do anything
695
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:42,120
that doesn't seem like
the black thing to do, right.
696
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,600
I think it's ridiculous
because race is a social construct
697
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,560
that people have made up.
698
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:53,880
It's very sad that people
can't see the beauty in it.
699
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:59,400
All we can really do is raise him
to be a part of that change.
700
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:00,640
All right.
701
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:01,840
Come on.
702
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,640
He can be a bridge
between two worlds.
703
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:08,200
The majority of Ari's children
can be a bridge between two worlds.
704
00:42:08,240 --> 00:42:10,560
Yay!Yay!
705
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:14,720
Let's go.
706
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,640
It's raining.
707
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,560
You ready?
You want me to pick you up?
708
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,160
Yeah!OK. Let's go.
709
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:23,240
One, two, three. Up.
710
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:27,240
If people could walk a mile
in my shoes to see
711
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:31,400
what I went through to become a
mum,
712
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,040
then they would have a better
understanding.
713
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,400
Is it better?
714
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:37,880
Good.
715
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:44,680
Um...
716
00:42:44,720 --> 00:42:51,880
I mean, I was pregnant prior
to, um, me reaching out to Ari.
717
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,280
I was pregnant three times before,
718
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,800
and they ended up being miscarriage.
719
00:42:56,840 --> 00:43:00,280
And with Ari, it instantly worked.
720
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:03,120
I got two babies out of Ari.
721
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:04,880
I'll hold your hand.Come on.
722
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:06,280
I'll hold your hand. Ready?
723
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,360
One. Two. Three. Jump! Wooo!
724
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:10,680
You did it.
725
00:43:10,720 --> 00:43:13,080
Good job. I'm proud of you.
726
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:16,840
I do wish Ari
was a little more present.
727
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:21,720
And I would want him to help
someone else out there
728
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:23,400
who wants to become a mum,
729
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:26,080
but I also feel like
730
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:30,080
it is taking away from my kids
731
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,680
and the other children that he has.
732
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:37,840
He can't just be there
for all of them.
733
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,120
Hey, what are you doing?
734
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:43,280
LAUGHTER
735
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,920
Oh-ho-ho-ho!
736
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:47,680
Got me right in the face.
737
00:43:47,720 --> 00:43:49,040
Hey!
738
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:02,920
TYLER:It's a weird feeling
having 70-plus future siblings.
739
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:07,240
I think that when I grow older
and they grow older
740
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,560
and we could really have
some kind of connection, um,
741
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,280
maybe my opinions would change,
but...
742
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,400
..it's hard for me
to connect with them.
743
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:24,720
It's certainly a
lot to be the first-born.
744
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,840
You know, you're basically
put as the poster boy
745
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,440
for a service
changing people's lives.
746
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:36,320
Good to see you.
Good to see you, too.
747
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:37,440
My son Tyler.
748
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,160
Hi.Nice to meet you.
749
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,360
I'm teaching him the tricks
of the trade, you know.
750
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,360
I can't give you a handshake.
751
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,360
It's all right.
You can give her a hug.
752
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,120
It's cold, you know.
753
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:50,040
There we go. You can see how you
like having a kid of mine.
754
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:53,120
See if it's fun,
if he's well-behaved, you know.
755
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,800
Oh, this is nice.
756
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,760
The light...Yeah.
It's not working.
757
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,400
It's not working?
758
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,400
Um...Where's the switch?
Let me see.
759
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:07,800
You might have to put this in here.
760
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,160
I don't see a bulb.
761
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,280
I don't need the light.
You don't need it?
762
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,000
No.You sure?Yeah.
763
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,560
I'm sure.All right.
764
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,560
I got good aim.
SHE LAUGHS
765
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,760
Come on, you don't want
to take a picture? Get in there.
766
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,440
I'll give you a...
I'll take a snap.
767
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:54,960
Huh?I don't care for it.
768
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:56,520
Oh, come on!
769
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:00,560
It's too embarrassing?
770
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:04,280
I just don't think it's cool.
771
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:05,840
You don't think it's cool?
772
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:07,040
It's stupid.
773
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:09,280
ARI LAUGHS
774
00:46:11,720 --> 00:46:13,000
Cuatro.
775
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:14,040
Tres.
776
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:15,720
Dos.
777
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:17,520
Hola. Como estas? How are you?
778
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:19,400
Wonderful.OK.
779
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,920
It's a pleasure to have you here
in America TeVe, Channel 41.
780
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,680
So we are going to start
with the questions.
781
00:46:25,720 --> 00:46:30,680
I read in an article that you are
planning to retire at 45 years old.
782
00:46:30,720 --> 00:46:32,040
Is that true?
783
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:35,440
You know, I'm 44 now,
so that will be in one year.
784
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,720
A lot of the women that I've
already helped want another child
785
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,480
for, uh, like a sibling.
786
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:42,600
So it would be difficult
to say no to them.
787
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:45,120
But I think there are some
additional health risks
788
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:46,440
as a male gets older
789
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,760
where there's an increased risk
for certain things.
790
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:52,560
So that really would ultimately
be the time that I'd stop helping.
791
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:53,880
Maybe my son who's here,
792
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:57,080
maybe he'll take over
and then I'll be able to retire.
793
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,920
OK. So thank you very much
for your time.
794
00:46:59,960 --> 00:47:02,640
It's a pleasure to have you here
in America TeVe.
795
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,200
And for us, that's all.
796
00:47:04,240 --> 00:47:06,120
OK. My pleasure.
797
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,040
You already have two,
so you're good. You don't need me.
798
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:11,720
You got the boy.
You got the girl, right?
799
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,000
Yes. I don't need you.
OK, good.
800
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:15,880
It's good to know
I have one more year.
801
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:17,040
Oh, one more year.
802
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:18,440
Cos you are going to...
803
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,520
Oh, I see, yeah.
804
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:21,600
..45 or not?
805
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:22,640
I don't know.
806
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:24,320
No?I don't know.
807
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,240
I don't know. You know?
Tell me you don't know.
808
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,720
I didn't know... I didn't know
I was going to have 54 children
809
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,400
when I started. I'm making it
up as I go along, you know?
810
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,360
I know.Mm-hm.
811
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:36,600
So, anyway, if I need your help,
I'm going to call you.
812
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,120
I think it would be a cute baby.
813
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,360
Yeah.
814
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,880
THEY BOTH LAUGH
815
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:43,480
GUNSHOT
816
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,080
This girl messaged me.
How should I respond, Tyler?
817
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:17,200
What did she say?
818
00:48:17,240 --> 00:48:19,040
"I'm going to have a baby
in three months
819
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,600
"and I can't lie, I'm nervous.
820
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,400
"He's going to be mine.
821
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,520
"And I have to grow up
a little person
822
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:28,000
"who is going to fully
depend on me.
823
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,440
"And what happens
if I suck as a mother?"
824
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:34,120
Just tell her you have her back.
Oh, good one.
825
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:37,480
But that would be a lie.
826
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:38,640
Oh.
827
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:39,720
Yeah. Let's not...
828
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,120
I like to underpromise
and overdeliver.
829
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,520
Why create all these lies
if they're just going to go
830
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:53,000
through psychological trauma
for the rest of it?
831
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,120
You'd have all these happy smiles
in one place,
832
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,120
but that doesn't get rid
of the sad things
833
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:01,080
that other families
have had to endure.
834
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:06,800
So why even do that?
835
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,920
If you see the problems
that it creates, why do you continue
836
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,600
to make more
and spread out the time...
837
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:15,320
..even smaller?
838
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:19,520
You already know what's happening.
839
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,320
It's not like you don't see it.
840
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:24,720
Well...
841
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,600
..I'm a pretty hands-on dad
with you.
842
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:31,320
I'm doing OK so far, right?
843
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:33,360
You're happy, you're healthy.
844
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,120
You're doing well in school.
845
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:37,720
Do you credit that to yourself?
846
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:44,240
Listen, I think you could take
a lot of the credit for it, clearly,
847
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:45,760
but...
848
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,160
..I'd like to think I played a role.
849
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:52,840
I think you might be the biggest
reason why I'm not better than that.
850
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:00,200
You can make many brothers
and sisters,
851
00:50:00,240 --> 00:50:01,760
which you've obviously done,
852
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,600
but you only really have one dad,
right?
853
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,320
That's not easily replaceable.
854
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:16,320
But you've shown that brothers
and sisters very much are.
855
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:46,920
It's...it's hard growing up
with a father figure
856
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:48,600
only some of the time,
you know?
857
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:51,000
If you go into a commitment
thinking,
858
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:52,680
"Hey, he's going to be here
all the time,"
859
00:50:52,720 --> 00:50:54,120
and then he's not,
860
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:55,760
it's disappointing.
861
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,200
Great trip. That was awesome.
862
00:50:58,240 --> 00:50:59,760
Um...
863
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:02,760
Maybe creating more kids
is more important to him
864
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,280
than spending time
with his actual kids.
865
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,800
It seems like it's really taken
control of his life.
866
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,240
And that's not really something
I like
867
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,720
or the people close to him like.
868
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,600
I would rather
that it never existed.
869
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:46,320
I look at Tyler,
and maybe in many ways,
870
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:50,080
my father was a better father
to me than I was to him.
871
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:51,960
I know what a great dad looks like.
872
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:55,480
I had a great dad
and he's very, very involved.
873
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:57,200
And he was there every day
I was growing up,
874
00:51:57,240 --> 00:52:01,040
and he was laying me in bed
and telling me bedtime stories.
875
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,280
I don't really get to do that
with all my kids.
876
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:07,240
You know, sometimes they're spread
out across 20 different states.
877
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:08,280
So...
878
00:52:09,720 --> 00:52:11,160
I don't think I'm a great dad,
879
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,040
but I'm doing the best I can.
880
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,080
Dad, I was just calling you.
881
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:33,800
HESHI:You're in the airport
already?
882
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:35,680
I don't have any checked bags.
883
00:52:35,720 --> 00:52:38,480
Oh, OK.Just two carry-ons.
884
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,040
Do you want to go to the
bar mitzvah tonight?
885
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:42,200
It's up to you.
886
00:52:42,240 --> 00:52:46,960
I would like to go, so I'm happy
for you to come and keep me company.
887
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,800
Yeah, whatever you want to do.
888
00:52:50,240 --> 00:52:52,000
How are you doing, Dad?
889
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:54,840
Good to see you.
890
00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:01,440
THEY SING
891
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:14,880
INDISTINCT CHATTER
892
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:16,560
THEY TOAST
893
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:34,200
Wouldn't you like to have all
of your kids in one room together?
894
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,120
Yeah, yeah, but that's going to be
challenging because...
895
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,920
I understand it's challenging,
but ideally...
896
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:43,360
Ideally, that would be nice.
Yeah, of course.
897
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:45,680
And wouldn't you like to have
all of your kids
898
00:53:45,720 --> 00:53:49,520
and all of your nieces
and nephews in one room together?
899
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:52,480
I'm sure that must be painful
for you.
900
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,360
Well, a lot of my kids
get together with my nieces.
901
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:56,800
Not a lot.
902
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:58,000
Yeah.
903
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:01,640
None of the family are happy
with what you're doing.
904
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:06,520
Nobody. You could have been a
regular father with a wife.
905
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:09,680
And you can have as many kids
as you want with the same wife.
906
00:54:09,720 --> 00:54:12,160
That would have been...
Everybody would have been happy.
907
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,600
Everybody would have been happy.
908
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:18,840
You were always different.
909
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:19,920
From day one.
910
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,320
So you can't even blame me.
Really? Day one?
911
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:24,640
Well, I...I somehow blame myself.
912
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,160
I blame myself
913
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:32,240
because I didn't give you
the attention that you needed.
914
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:43,160
She looks nice.
915
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,120
Yeah, looks like a normal person.
916
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:47,960
Now, how do you know she's not
going to start off with you?
917
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:51,320
She's the, uh...
She came all the way. Very far.
918
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:53,240
Oh, listen, I would go far
919
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:58,680
to get full support
from a very wealthy professor.
920
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:01,640
So...
921
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:03,760
I think you should ask her
a few questions.
922
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:06,280
Nice to meet you.
923
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,600
I'm here with my dad.
924
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:11,200
Nice to meet you. Hello.
925
00:55:11,240 --> 00:55:13,640
That's my mum.Hey, Mum.
926
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,840
Do you have her eyes
or your dad's eyes?
927
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:19,640
Uh, all of us have blue eyes.
928
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:20,840
Oh, OK.
929
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,760
I never brought my parents along...
It's super, like...
930
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:25,360
..but we happened to be here.
931
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:27,120
They come here for the winters,
932
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:30,120
so I get to spend quality time
with them, right.
933
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,120
OK, good.
So you want to get started?
934
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:35,800
Which...?
935
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:48,560
My mother was really mad at me,
like, "Oh, my gosh, don't do it."
936
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,000
But maybe now that she met you,
937
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,240
she maybe would feel
a little more comfortable.
938
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:54,920
She's very against what I do.
I have no idea.
939
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:57,160
Yeah, but anyway, sorry to put
you through it, but I hope
940
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,560
that wasn't too awkward.
941
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:02,080
I don't know how I'm going
to behave, Ari.
942
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,160
I really... You reached a low
that I can't go beyond.
943
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,200
You really reached a new low.
944
00:56:07,240 --> 00:56:10,040
And I told you, I wrote you
a letter a long time ago.
945
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,200
"Stop or else I won't have
nothing to do..."
946
00:56:12,240 --> 00:56:14,240
It's about 54, 55.
Why does that make a difference?
947
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:16,840
It makes a difference to me.
I don't want any more.
I don't want to hear...
948
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:18,680
Yeah, but why does it make a
difference to you?
949
00:56:18,720 --> 00:56:20,000
Cos it's over. I don't want to.
950
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,120
The reason why you started...
I'm not doing it to...
951
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,320
The first one was a mistake,
and you were sad about it,
952
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:26,840
and then you just went with it
because you were stuck.
953
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:29,480
You made a mistake and maybe you
could have gotten away with that,
954
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:31,800
but you kept going and going
and going.
955
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:32,880
And it's like that.
956
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:34,840
I don't think you ever thought
about it.
957
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:36,320
Why do you have to keep doing it?
958
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:37,800
Yeah, but how is it affecting you?
959
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,640
What's your problem?
Why are you doing this? Why?
960
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:44,400
Well, he's different.
He's certainly different.
961
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,000
I think, uh...Different.
962
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:48,560
I think if you look at the rest
of the world and they saw...
963
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:49,800
Everybody...
964
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,200
No. I see what you're doing
with your religion and saying,
965
00:56:52,240 --> 00:56:54,320
oh, my God, we have to, you know...
966
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:57,400
All the... I don't even know
where to begin,
967
00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:59,280
but it's a cuckoo, cuckoo religion.
968
00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:01,760
This whole pidyon haben
that we just experienced
969
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:04,720
and then just what's involved in
Shabbat and how crazy it is
970
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:06,280
with the yatzar...
971
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:10,480
..and nobody knows. And the fact
that I learned hours and hours of
972
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,360
"if a bull falls into a pit
in public property"
973
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:14,480
and I'm like...
974
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:16,560
HE LAUGHS
..just what you put me through.
975
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:18,480
Most people
would consider that crazy.
976
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:20,640
I think you're very misguided.
977
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:23,600
I don't think... I don't think God
wants us to hate other people.
978
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,640
I don't hate anybody.
Sounds like you do.
979
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:27,240
Sounds like you hate me.
980
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:29,080
Well, I'm getting upset at you.
Yeah.
981
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:30,240
I don't hate you.
982
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,520
Well, I don't hate you. I love you
even if you disagree with me.
983
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:37,920
I'm not hurting anybody.
984
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:39,880
I'm a little embarrassing.
You are hurting.
985
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:41,600
I think you are hurting.
Who is he hurting?
986
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:44,960
I think he's hurting every
single kid that comes into the world
that he's thought of.
987
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:46,160
Well, you haven't met them,
988
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:47,880
so how would you say that
I'm hurting them?
989
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,040
I don't know.
Tyler was here this past week.
990
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:53,080
I didn't bring him by.
991
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:55,160
I don't want him.
Don't ever bring any of your kids.
992
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:57,640
I didn't, exactly.
You know better than that.
993
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:00,720
You don't have a real kid
that you really love.
994
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:01,960
He does. He does.
995
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:04,000
I think I love my kids
more than you love me.
996
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:05,520
I never...
HE LAUGHS
997
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:08,040
Certainly I tell them
nicer things.
998
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:09,600
I wish I wouldn't have had Ari.
999
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:11,120
You really think that?
1000
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,400
You're a wacko. Nobody's like you.
1001
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:14,800
You're really not normal.
1002
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:18,120
I'm worried that you're not...
There's some kind of loose screws.
1003
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,120
My mother, um...
1004
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,000
I love her very much,
1005
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:56,640
but obviously
we have different views.
1006
00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:59,160
I think she's very ashamed
of what I do.
1007
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:02,800
I don't think she's accepting
of this modern family
1008
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:05,320
that I helped create.
1009
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:08,280
She reminds me of that every time
we talk, you know.
1010
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:03,000
I feel like
children that I have in Israel
1011
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,400
would be more palatable
to my parents.
1012
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:08,560
I know that they're ashamed
of my lifestyle,
1013
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:13,360
and perhaps bringing children
in the Holy Land would be something
1014
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:15,400
that's a little easier for them
to swallow.
1015
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:19,240
And maybe they could have some joy
from some of the grandkids
1016
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:20,520
that I'm giving them.
1017
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:27,840
OVER PA:Ladies and gentlemen,
please fasten your seat belt.
1018
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:31,400
We'll be landing shortly
in Ben Gurion Airport, Israel.
1019
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:33,640
The local time is 8.30 in
the morning
1020
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:35,480
and the weather is nice and sunny.
1021
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:42,800
Hey!
1022
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:45,320
You look so nice.
1023
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:47,800
Let's go into the bushes
and make a baby. Right now.
1024
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:49,760
SHE LAUGHS
Good to see you.
1025
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:50,840
This is a nice car.
1026
01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:52,560
We can make a baby
in the backseat here.
1027
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:55,720
This is very romantic. I want to
make a baby right here. Right.
1028
01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:57,120
What's cooking in there?
1029
01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:00,000
I am the professional ejaculator.
1030
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:02,160
In Chabad,
it's called mitzvah night.
1031
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:04,040
This is the day you're supposed
to make a baby.
1032
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:14,280
Thank you. Wish me luck.
1033
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:16,760
Hopefully we're going to be family.
Come on.
1034
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:27,240
Hi.
1035
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:30,560
SOFTLY: Silent mode.
1036
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,240
I'll be five minutes.
1037
01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:47,880
LINE RINGS
1038
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:54,600
Tyler.
1039
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,800
Do you know what's funny is,
is that I pay your cellphone bill.
1040
01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:02,680
I gave you unlimited
high speed data,
1041
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,760
and you still never call me.
1042
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:06,160
Really?Yeah.
1043
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:07,360
I have to call you?
1044
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:10,000
Yeah, call, check in,
see how I'm doing.
1045
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,160
"How's everything?
Is everything all right?"
1046
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:14,920
I have your Snapchat stories,
and I can just watch those,
1047
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:16,200
see all the highlights.
1048
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:18,680
Yeah, I'm really good about posting.
1049
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:21,600
You know, Tyler,
2019 was my breakout year.
1050
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:23,760
I had 15 children born.
1051
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:25,240
Is that a record?
1052
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:28,240
That's my record.
It's my personal best year.
1053
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:31,440
But, of course, best
being quantity. Quality best,
1054
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:32,960
that would obviously...
1055
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:35,240
We know what year that was, right?
1056
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:36,480
Uh, yeah.
1057
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:40,000
It was... It was whatever year
you were born.
1058
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:41,920
Thank you, Dad.
1059
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:43,520
Yeah.
1060
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:05,600
Do you do it because it's
a philanthropic...Act?..act.
1061
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:08,920
Instead of giving money,
you give sperm.
1062
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:12,240
I get a lot of joy
out of it as well.
1063
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:13,760
Joy. Of course you have joy.
1064
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:16,160
Who doesn't get joy from
masturbating? Excuse me.
1065
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:49,680
PRESENTER:He's mailing sperm!
1066
01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:52,720
That's technically engaging
in the process
1067
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:54,760
of operating a sperm bank
1068
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:57,560
and most states
have health and safety laws
1069
01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:00,760
that prohibit individuals
who are not licensed
1070
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:03,520
from collecting sperm,
from soliciting.
1071
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:04,920
Good to see you both.
1072
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:08,360
He calls himself a donor,
but he's really not a donor.
1073
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:11,840
They don't give their sperm
to somebody at Starbucks in a cup
1074
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:15,120
and have them transfer it
in the bathroom into their vagina.
1075
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:16,800
That's just not normal.
1076
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:18,640
The FDA wants to shut him down.
1077
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:20,080
They're saying that it's unsafe.
1078
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:23,520
You know, you obviously have to go
through this entire system
1079
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:26,560
to make sure that your sperm
is clean and safe.
1080
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:29,760
The world's governments
are scrambling, as we speak,
1081
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:32,320
to figure out
whether this is legal or not.
1082
01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:35,120
The FDA raided the bedroom
of one of these donors
1083
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:36,560
and has determined that
1084
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:38,720
he's essentially
a one-man sperm bank,
1085
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:40,200
and he's illegal.
1086
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:03,640
I think the best movies
have the sad endings, you know?
1087
01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:05,560
HE SIGHS
1088
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,000
Yeah.
1089
01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:11,760
Listen, this movie's
about my life, OK?
1090
01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:13,840
It's not... It's not ending.
1091
01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:17,840
Yeah, I think it would be nice to
maybe do a retirement party.
1092
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:19,200
Boom. You know?
1093
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:24,080
We're shutting the door
to the sequel,
1094
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,880
but I think that's...
1095
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,160
It could be nice to ejaculate
just for fun.
1096
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:31,280
HE LAUGHS
1097
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:32,560
Yeah.
1098
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:35,200
Although it's nice
to have a purpose as well.
1099
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:52,160
MESHI READS PRAYER
1100
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:04,280
SILENTLY MOUTHS PRAYER
1101
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,200
HE CONTINUES READING
1102
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:11,080
Ay, ay, ay.
1103
01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:13,320
I daven for you every day.
1104
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:14,920
Three times a day.
1105
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:17,040
Mm-hm.You don't even know.
1106
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:19,480
You're davening three times
a day for me?
1107
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:21,240
Or for all your kids?
1108
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:23,840
What do they need? They're good.
1109
01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:26,720
They're happy. You're the only one
that's not happy.
1110
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:28,080
I'm miserable.
1111
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:33,120
You always say you're happy,
but somehow, deep down,
1112
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:34,880
I don't believe you 100%.
1113
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:37,440
You're always laughing. Hahaha.
1114
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:39,760
I don't do any work, I don't do...
1115
01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:42,000
THEY BOTH LAUGH
1116
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:43,680
I don't know what the truth is.
1117
01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:46,360
Happiness is not
your life circumstances.
1118
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:47,840
Happiness is an outlook.
1119
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:49,400
It is in your...Yeah.
1120
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:52,520
So I'm happy
like my brothers are happy.
1121
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:54,040
You know?
1122
01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:55,720
We're all happy.
1123
01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:58,440
If not for you, talking about
mummy,
1124
01:06:58,480 --> 01:06:59,680
she would have...
1125
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:01,440
Her life would be picture-perfect.
1126
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:05,320
Yeah.
1127
01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:08,680
Her life...
What else have I got to pray for?
1128
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:14,680
My health is pretty good
and my job is very good
1129
01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:16,480
and my wife is OK.
1130
01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:19,040
THEY LAUGH
1131
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:21,120
What have I got to pray for?
1132
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,680
There's only...
There's only one thorn in my side.
1133
01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:25,320
That's it.Mm-hm.
1134
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:28,800
ARI PRAYS SOFTLY
1135
01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:30,800
What do you pray for, Ari?
1136
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:41,400
ARI SINGS PRAYER
1137
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:52,120
Light all the candles.
1138
01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:53,400
Come light the candles.
1139
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:55,640
HE CONTINUES SINGING
1140
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:15,280
Everybody.
1141
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,040
THEY SING
1142
01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:22,920
All right.
1143
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:26,440
1144
01:08:26,480 --> 01:08:28,440
Whoo!
1145
01:08:28,480 --> 01:08:31,680
I never really wanted to promote
this multicultural family.
1146
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:35,480
Ultimately, in the end, I never
really chose who I should donate to.
1147
01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:37,840
I basically chose to help
whoever asks,
1148
01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:40,560
so I didn't really ask
too many questions.
1149
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:42,720
Well, are you heterosexual?
Are you...?
1150
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:45,200
What's your orientation?
Or what's your...
1151
01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:48,360
..credit score?
1152
01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:50,640
You know, I was really helping
whoever asked.
1153
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:53,200
So I wasn't really choosing.
1154
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:56,840
A lot of the women that I helped
were ostracised from their family,
1155
01:08:56,880 --> 01:08:59,480
maybe because of their orientation.
1156
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:04,280
And ultimately, the family
that they ended up adopting
1157
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:06,480
was the one that I gave them.
1158
01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:09,400
I think in some ways,
going through a similar struggle
1159
01:09:09,440 --> 01:09:12,120
with obviously my family
where they're not as accepting
1160
01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:16,080
of my lifestyle, even if it's not
because of my orientation,
1161
01:09:16,120 --> 01:09:20,560
but certainly I did
create my own family,
1162
01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:22,520
a very unorthodox one, but...
1163
01:09:26,440 --> 01:09:28,440
It's my own family, you know.
1164
01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:33,480
Hi-yah!
1165
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:36,000
CHILDREN LAUGH AND CHATTER
1166
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:42,600
We should have, like,
the mum squad, like, sperm
database,
1167
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:45,120
where they have to register
before they take his sperm.
1168
01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:48,280
So you know who is possibly
related to your child.
1169
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:51,760
I never want my child
to bring a woman or a man home
1170
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:53,400
and I'd be like, "Wait a minute.
1171
01:09:53,440 --> 01:09:55,840
"Why do you look so much
like my child?"
1172
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:59,640
Like, hold on, let's call
Ancestry.com and get this file
1173
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:01,120
and see where you came from.
1174
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:03,000
But you still have to also consider
1175
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:06,240
that he should not be donating
to so many people in one week.
1176
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,640
The chances of them actually
getting pregnant is lessened
1177
01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:11,120
because you're not handling it the
same way that you used to.
1178
01:10:11,160 --> 01:10:13,320
Ashley, you have two kids.
You're giving me advice?
1179
01:10:13,360 --> 01:10:15,400
I have 53.
THEY LAUGH
1180
01:10:15,440 --> 01:10:17,360
You're going to tell me
how to do my job?
1181
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:21,400
I think when we started
this whole thing,
1182
01:10:21,440 --> 01:10:26,760
we never expected for Ari
to have this many children.
1183
01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:29,280
Oh, my God. For Ari to have
this many children,
1184
01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:31,560
for Elijah to have this
many siblings,
1185
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:33,200
for us to know this many mums,
1186
01:10:33,240 --> 01:10:34,800
never in a million years,
1187
01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:39,160
we never imagined that there
would be almost 100 siblings.
1188
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:40,720
100 siblings.
1189
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:44,080
And I mean,
Ari wasn't the Sperminator.
1190
01:10:44,120 --> 01:10:47,520
Ari wasn't, you know, in the news.
Ari wasn't anything when we met him.
1191
01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:49,800
He was just a donor
who helped a couple of families,
1192
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:51,320
and that was it.
1193
01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:53,680
In his mind and in his heart,
1194
01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:57,000
he wants to share his love equally
with all of his kids,
1195
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:59,960
but with more kids
that are being born,
1196
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:03,800
with him helping
more and more women out there,
1197
01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:06,600
the time is just going to
be shorter and shorter and shorter
1198
01:11:06,640 --> 01:11:09,000
with the kids that he has now
1199
01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:12,160
and with the future kids to come.
1200
01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:15,480
I think at one point
he has to just call it quits.
1201
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:17,920
ARI: Uh, OK. That's good.
1202
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:19,400
Everyone make a sad face.
1203
01:11:19,440 --> 01:11:21,480
Really, really sad face.
1204
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:23,240
Corey, say cheese.
1205
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:24,920
Cheese.
1206
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:27,040
Look at the camera. Cheese.
1207
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:37,800
GORDON:You didn't keep your word
about stopping at 45.
1208
01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:40,720
You didn't keep your word
about stopping for 30 days.
1209
01:11:40,760 --> 01:11:45,080
So these are two significant
milestones
1210
01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:47,120
that you have not been able to meet.
1211
01:11:47,160 --> 01:11:50,640
And your son, who you live with,
has also asked you to stop
1212
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:52,440
and you've completely ignored that.
1213
01:11:52,480 --> 01:11:55,120
And he's told you
it's very painful for him
1214
01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:58,000
and he is not comfortable with that.
1215
01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:00,800
And he doesn't like
being in that situation.
1216
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:02,680
That's the best gift
that my parents gave me
1217
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:04,800
is they gave me
all my brothers and sisters.
1218
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:07,240
I got four brothers and two sisters
that I love to death.
1219
01:12:07,280 --> 01:12:10,760
That's right.So I should deny
my kids their brothers and sisters?
1220
01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:14,840
No. Your kids... Your kids are
telling you they don't want more.
1221
01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:17,240
Your son is telling you
he doesn't want more.
1222
01:12:17,280 --> 01:12:19,920
Well, he's not the only kid.
There's a lot of other kids.
1223
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:21,320
You gonna ask the two-year-olds
1224
01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:23,440
and the three-year-olds
and the four-year-olds?
1225
01:12:23,480 --> 01:12:25,680
You're going to ask them?
They're not siblings to them.
1226
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:29,040
They are somebody out in another
continent, in another country,
1227
01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:31,040
almost on another planet.
1228
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:34,240
Who made you the creator
of a new nation?
1229
01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:36,720
Who made you the designated donor?
1230
01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:03,880
"I've been influenced by
two almost opposite personalities.
1231
01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:07,520
"One grew up in Trinidad and Tobago
with a big family and parents
1232
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,120
"that were always fighting.
1233
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:11,880
"She relied on faith
to get through her struggles.
1234
01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:15,880
"The other grew up in New York
with a big house, a big family,
1235
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:17,960
"and two parents
that loved each other.
1236
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,920
"One is a black Christian,
yet the other is a white Jew.
1237
01:13:20,960 --> 01:13:22,760
"Both are my parents.
1238
01:13:24,440 --> 01:13:26,320
"My dad continued
to travel the world
1239
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:28,400
"and appear in the news
every Father's Day,
1240
01:13:28,440 --> 01:13:30,920
"while spreading his seed
to women in need.
1241
01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:34,000
"Very quickly, two siblings
rapidly turned to 70.
1242
01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:36,880
"My mum was always telling me
to not be like my dad,
1243
01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:40,680
"and my dad was always telling me
to not be like my mum.
1244
01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:43,720
"But I couldn't bring myself
to disappoint either of them.
1245
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:46,240
"So I ended up hiding most
of my thoughts and emotions
1246
01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:47,360
"on the inside.
1247
01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:51,600
"Most people call it crazy.
I call it life."
1248
01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:59,480
There's a certain portrayal
of my dad that he's a hero,
1249
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:03,200
that he's only helpful
and as helpful as he is,
1250
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:06,280
it leads to turmoil in other places.
1251
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:10,160
I don't think I need to
be a part of it,
1252
01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:12,880
and I...I don't know
if I want to be a part of it.
1253
01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:19,000
But I...
1254
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:20,520
I want him to be happy.
1255
01:14:21,960 --> 01:14:24,400
I care for him. I love him to death,
1256
01:14:24,440 --> 01:14:28,360
and I think it's OK
if he just follows his own heart.
1257
01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:38,680
Hey. How you doing?
1258
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:40,400
Good to see you.
Good to see you.
1259
01:14:40,440 --> 01:14:42,600
OK, terrific.
So you're ovulating, huh?
1260
01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:44,480
Yeah.How old are you?
1261
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:47,200
I'm 18.18. Oh, wow.
1262
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:49,040
Oh, you're my son's age.
1263
01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:50,640
AWKWARD LAUGH
1264
01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:53,960
Oh, very nice. OK, well, you're
young and fertile, so that's nice.
1265
01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:59,200
The supermarket.
Is this where we're gonna go?
1266
01:14:59,240 --> 01:15:01,360
They have a restroom in here?
Yeah, it's in the back.
1267
01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:03,120
OK. Do you have a cup or something?
1268
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:05,080
Yeah, I have two.
This is two cups.
1269
01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:06,160
THEY LAUGH
1270
01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:27,440
I guess I worry a little bit
about my kids.
1271
01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:31,200
You know, I want to do the best
for them
1272
01:15:31,240 --> 01:15:34,360
and worry about whether
I'm making the right decision.
1273
01:15:38,440 --> 01:15:41,080
I certainly feel like I am,
1274
01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:43,680
but, you know,
you don't really know.
1275
01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:47,760
Time will tell
1276
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:49,520
whether I'm doing the right thing.
1277
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:52,440
I think it's a little early to say.
1278
01:15:56,440 --> 01:15:57,960
You know,
1279
01:15:58,000 --> 01:16:00,920
a fish will lay thousands of eggs -
1280
01:16:00,960 --> 01:16:03,760
and there's nothing controversial
about it -
1281
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:07,720
just hoping that
some of those eggs survive.
1282
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:14,120
I think in many ways
I'm doing something similar,
1283
01:16:14,160 --> 01:16:16,240
trying to leave behind a legacy.
1284
01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:30,480
longest writing on the wall
1285
01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:32,920
1286
01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:35,960
1287
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:38,760
1288
01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:42,120
just from seeing how
1289
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:43,760
1290
01:16:45,200 --> 01:16:48,920
then came spring
1291
01:16:48,960 --> 01:16:50,560
1292
01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:52,560
The Sperminator in action.
1293
01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:56,720
1294
01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:58,160
1295
01:16:58,200 --> 01:17:00,960
1296
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:06,120
what is over
1297
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:07,840
1298
01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:11,160
1299
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:13,280
1300
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:15,040
1301
01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:17,680
I'm only here till Friday.
We're gonna make a baby this week.
1302
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:20,360
Oh, take me to the doctor.
1303
01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:22,160
1304
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:26,600
1305
01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:28,200
1306
01:17:28,240 --> 01:17:31,560
on board...
1307
01:17:31,600 --> 01:17:34,600
THEY LAUGH
1308
01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:37,080
Yeah!
1309
01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:38,920
1310
01:17:38,960 --> 01:17:41,040
1311
01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:45,360
on board
1312
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:47,800
1313
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:49,240
1314
01:17:49,280 --> 01:17:52,920
too many babies on board...
1315
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:57,320
THEY LAUGH
1316
01:17:57,360 --> 01:17:58,640
1317
01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:01,480
on board
1318
01:18:02,920 --> 01:18:04,840
1319
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:06,480
1320
01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:09,560
on board
1321
01:18:09,600 --> 01:18:14,920
wait around for normal people
1322
01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:20,960
don't wait around too long...
1323
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:22,800
Oh. Oh!
1324
01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:25,800
THEY LAUGH
1325
01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:29,080
Oh, I knew that was coming.
I shouldn't have opened my mouth.
1326
01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:32,120
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