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[chuckles] 10 00:00:32,282 --> 00:00:35,577 The dating scene is extremely shallow. 11 00:00:35,660 --> 00:00:38,079 I've been ready to get married for a long time. 12 00:00:38,163 --> 00:00:39,122 -Hello? -[man] Hey there. 13 00:00:39,205 --> 00:00:42,250 I feel optimistic that my person is here. 14 00:00:42,333 --> 00:00:45,545 -I wanna feel 100% chosen. -Hey. 15 00:00:45,628 --> 00:00:48,131 [woman] I want a man that will embrace the experiment. 16 00:00:48,214 --> 00:00:52,469 -And embrace who I am on the inside. -[laughs] 17 00:00:52,552 --> 00:00:54,471 [woman 2] I can see myself falling in love. 18 00:00:54,554 --> 00:00:58,475 ♪ Oh-whoa! Bring me a higher love ♪ 19 00:01:00,101 --> 00:01:03,313 ♪ Bring me a higher love ♪ 20 00:01:03,396 --> 00:01:04,272 ♪ Oh! ♪ 21 00:01:05,482 --> 00:01:07,984 ♪ Bring me a higher love ♪ 22 00:01:08,985 --> 00:01:13,823 ♪ Where's that higher love I keep thinking of? ♪ 23 00:01:14,657 --> 00:01:17,160 [man 2] I fell in love with somebody that I've never seen before. 24 00:01:17,243 --> 00:01:19,829 -[woman 3 shouts] -[man 2] I truly believe love is blind. 25 00:01:19,913 --> 00:01:23,666 [woman 4] We've done the emotional. We have to connect on a physical level. 26 00:01:23,750 --> 00:01:26,294 [woman] Is our love and our relationship gonna be enough? 27 00:01:26,878 --> 00:01:29,172 That is my biggest fear. 28 00:01:29,255 --> 00:01:32,175 I want you to show me that you love me. And you don't. 29 00:01:32,258 --> 00:01:35,261 I had a moment today where I was like, "Bro, am I really doing this?" 30 00:01:35,345 --> 00:01:36,721 [woman 3] She DM'd him. 31 00:01:36,805 --> 00:01:39,516 "If there's ever a chance your mind is shifting in your choice…" 32 00:01:39,599 --> 00:01:42,227 [man 3] The hardest thing has been figuring out what to follow, 33 00:01:42,310 --> 00:01:43,311 my heart or my head. 34 00:01:43,394 --> 00:01:45,355 [woman 5] You signed up knowing goddamn well 35 00:01:45,438 --> 00:01:47,690 that you would be dating 15 other people on the other side. 36 00:01:47,774 --> 00:01:50,068 -[gasps] -[woman 5] I did what I needed to do 37 00:01:50,151 --> 00:01:52,904 for the reason that I came here, which was to meet the love of my life. 38 00:01:52,987 --> 00:01:56,157 And I'll be damned if somebody sits here, and they can't come back to reality. 39 00:01:56,241 --> 00:01:58,159 You fucked her. I know you fucked her. 40 00:02:00,036 --> 00:02:02,038 [woman 6] I choose you. 41 00:02:02,122 --> 00:02:05,625 You are what I want for the rest of my life. 42 00:02:06,126 --> 00:02:07,752 [man 4] My greatest accomplishment? 43 00:02:08,378 --> 00:02:09,337 Finding you. 44 00:02:09,921 --> 00:02:10,755 [man 5] All rise. 45 00:02:10,839 --> 00:02:12,841 ♪ Bring me a higher love ♪ 46 00:02:12,924 --> 00:02:13,925 ♪ 47 00:02:14,801 --> 00:02:18,096 ♪ Bring me a higher love ♪ 48 00:02:18,179 --> 00:02:24,018 ♪ Oh, it's that higher love I keep thinking of ♪ 49 00:02:26,062 --> 00:02:28,940 ♪ Bring higher love, come on ♪ 50 00:02:29,023 --> 00:02:30,608 ♪ Bring me a higher love ♪ 51 00:02:30,692 --> 00:02:33,319 ♪ Bring higher love, love ♪ 52 00:02:33,403 --> 00:02:34,904 ♪ A higher love ♪ 53 00:02:34,988 --> 00:02:37,740 ♪ I keep thinking of ♪ 54 00:02:37,824 --> 00:02:41,327 ♪ Bring me a higher love, oh ♪ 55 00:02:41,995 --> 00:02:45,999 ♪ Bring me a higher love, oh! ♪ 56 00:02:49,752 --> 00:02:52,088 [dance music playing] 57 00:02:52,172 --> 00:02:55,049 [scatting] 58 00:02:55,133 --> 00:02:57,510 -This is a vibe. -This is really cute. 59 00:02:58,094 --> 00:03:00,013 Hello. 60 00:03:00,096 --> 00:03:01,764 -[cheering] -[Nick] Ladies. 61 00:03:01,848 --> 00:03:02,849 Hi. 62 00:03:02,932 --> 00:03:04,434 -Hello. -What's up? 63 00:03:04,517 --> 00:03:05,768 -Oh. -Hey. 64 00:03:05,852 --> 00:03:06,978 -Ooh. -Wow. 65 00:03:07,061 --> 00:03:08,980 Guys, grab a seat. Grab a seat. 66 00:03:09,063 --> 00:03:11,900 -[Vanessa] It's about to go down. -[all laughing] 67 00:03:12,483 --> 00:03:14,360 Hello, I'm Vanessa Lachey. 68 00:03:14,444 --> 00:03:16,237 And I'm Nick Lachey. 69 00:03:16,321 --> 00:03:18,990 Welcome to 70 00:03:19,073 --> 00:03:20,617 [cheering] 71 00:03:21,659 --> 00:03:22,785 [man 6] Let's go. 72 00:03:22,869 --> 00:03:25,914 I'm just curious. What made you wanna come and be a part of 73 00:03:25,997 --> 00:03:27,498 I've been looking for the same thing. 74 00:03:27,582 --> 00:03:28,958 What I'm physically attracted to, 75 00:03:29,042 --> 00:03:32,587 you know, just hasn't been fulfilling, like, what I really need to fulfill. 76 00:03:32,670 --> 00:03:34,339 [woman] I danced for sports teams, 77 00:03:34,422 --> 00:03:38,635 and a lot of times a lot of guys will really just judge me based off that alone. 78 00:03:38,718 --> 00:03:41,054 Like, "Oh, she's a dancer. She's a cheerleader." 79 00:03:41,137 --> 00:03:44,724 I want something deeper. Let the outside just be the cherry on top. 80 00:03:44,807 --> 00:03:46,684 I'm a big guy, into fitness. 81 00:03:46,768 --> 00:03:48,603 I feel like a lot of women judge me 82 00:03:48,686 --> 00:03:50,688 before they get to know my inner personality. 83 00:03:51,272 --> 00:03:54,817 When they hear that I'm 25 years old, it's like, 84 00:03:54,901 --> 00:03:56,736 "Are you ready for this?" Yeah, I am. 85 00:03:56,819 --> 00:04:00,240 I'm super nervous about 86 00:04:00,323 --> 00:04:03,826 how some of the guys are gonna receive the fact that I have a child. 87 00:04:03,910 --> 00:04:06,579 -Her name's Autumn. -[Vanessa] Autumn. And what's your name? 88 00:04:06,663 --> 00:04:08,581 -Jessica. Sorry. -[Vanessa] Jessica. 89 00:04:08,665 --> 00:04:11,167 -[exhales, laughs] -[woman 7] Oh. I told you. 90 00:04:11,251 --> 00:04:14,295 [Jessica] I'm sorry. I just love her so much. Like, I… 91 00:04:14,379 --> 00:04:17,423 Do you think that's something you're gonna wait to tell someone 92 00:04:17,507 --> 00:04:20,510 or you're gonna come out of the gate, "By the way, I have a kid"? 93 00:04:20,593 --> 00:04:25,223 I want to give people the chance to, like, get to know me individually first. 94 00:04:25,807 --> 00:04:27,767 Because even though I'm a mother, 95 00:04:27,850 --> 00:04:31,437 and it's the most important thing to me, it doesn't define me. 96 00:04:31,521 --> 00:04:34,065 I feel I'll just know when the time is right to tell somebody. 97 00:04:34,148 --> 00:04:37,527 She can't wait. Like, she's already been googling, like, her dress. 98 00:04:37,610 --> 00:04:41,197 I'm like, "Let me just go and meet somebody first. Like, calm down." 99 00:04:41,281 --> 00:04:42,532 [laughing] 100 00:04:43,032 --> 00:04:45,493 Well, as you guys already know, over the next ten days, 101 00:04:45,576 --> 00:04:48,579 you all will have the opportunity to fall in love 102 00:04:48,663 --> 00:04:51,749 based solely on who you are on the inside. 103 00:04:52,333 --> 00:04:54,210 [Vanessa] If you fall in love 104 00:04:54,294 --> 00:04:58,339 and find somebody that you wanna spend the rest of your life with, 105 00:04:58,423 --> 00:05:01,342 you'll get engaged, and then you meet your fiancé. 106 00:05:01,426 --> 00:05:02,969 -For the very first time. -[Nick laughs] 107 00:05:03,052 --> 00:05:05,388 -When you slow-motion run across to him. -Yep. 108 00:05:05,471 --> 00:05:07,932 -[laughing] -Not in these heels, girl. 109 00:05:08,016 --> 00:05:09,684 [laughing] 110 00:05:09,767 --> 00:05:12,395 And, guys, in just four weeks, you'll be at your wedding. 111 00:05:12,478 --> 00:05:14,272 [exhales] 112 00:05:15,189 --> 00:05:19,277 And there you will have to make the most important decision of your life. 113 00:05:20,361 --> 00:05:21,612 Will you get married? 114 00:05:22,113 --> 00:05:25,283 Or will you choose to walk away forever? 115 00:05:25,366 --> 00:05:26,951 Is love truly blind? 116 00:05:27,035 --> 00:05:28,202 It better be. 117 00:05:28,286 --> 00:05:29,579 [laughing] 118 00:05:29,662 --> 00:05:33,249 [both] The pods are now open. 119 00:05:33,875 --> 00:05:34,959 [Nick] Good luck, guys. 120 00:05:35,043 --> 00:05:36,502 -[Vanessa] Have fun. -Go get 'em. 121 00:05:36,586 --> 00:05:38,338 Oh, my God! 122 00:05:38,421 --> 00:05:39,255 Let's go! 123 00:05:39,756 --> 00:05:42,300 -Love you guys. Good luck. -[woman 8] Here we go. 124 00:05:42,383 --> 00:05:43,760 -[woman 9] Yes. -[man 7] Let's go. 125 00:05:43,843 --> 00:05:45,762 -Pods are open, baby. -Whoo. 126 00:05:45,845 --> 00:05:47,680 -[woman 10] Good luck. -[Vanessa] Good luck. 127 00:05:47,764 --> 00:05:50,350 -[man 8] Show 'em why you're here. -[man 7] Pods are open. 128 00:05:50,433 --> 00:05:51,768 What made you decide to come here? 129 00:05:51,851 --> 00:05:55,480 [sighs] Well, clearly my stellar dating skills. 130 00:05:55,563 --> 00:05:56,439 [laughing] 131 00:05:56,522 --> 00:05:58,858 If you had a warning label, what would it say? 132 00:05:58,941 --> 00:06:01,069 Uh, does not do laundry. 133 00:06:01,152 --> 00:06:02,195 [laughs] 134 00:06:03,529 --> 00:06:05,782 People never talk about marriage, kids on the first date. 135 00:06:05,865 --> 00:06:08,159 Yes, which I love. I'm like, let's get to the nitty-gritty, 136 00:06:08,242 --> 00:06:09,702 because I don't got time to waste. 137 00:06:09,786 --> 00:06:11,579 Do you want any children? 138 00:06:11,662 --> 00:06:14,749 I do. I kinda want a little bit of a crazy house. 139 00:06:14,832 --> 00:06:16,709 You might just like it here, then. 140 00:06:16,793 --> 00:06:19,170 Like, are we talking like a bushel? Dozen? 141 00:06:19,253 --> 00:06:21,464 A dozen? How many things are going come out of my vagina? 142 00:06:21,547 --> 00:06:23,341 [laughing] 143 00:06:23,424 --> 00:06:25,218 [Danielle] What are you looking for? 144 00:06:25,301 --> 00:06:26,636 Best friend on paper, 145 00:06:26,719 --> 00:06:30,765 but also huge sexual, emotional attraction. 146 00:06:30,848 --> 00:06:34,268 -[Danielle] Are you, like, a nympho? -No, that's not what I mean. No, no, no. 147 00:06:34,352 --> 00:06:35,603 ♪ I want more… ♪ 148 00:06:35,686 --> 00:06:38,481 [chuckles] People judge me on my muscles, 149 00:06:39,065 --> 00:06:41,275 my mullet. 150 00:06:41,359 --> 00:06:44,487 They think I'm a low-IQ meathead. 151 00:06:44,570 --> 00:06:45,738 Hello. 152 00:06:45,822 --> 00:06:51,119 I'm doing can see my sense of humor and kind heart 153 00:06:51,202 --> 00:06:53,204 before they see what I look like. 154 00:06:53,704 --> 00:06:57,708 I'm a good-hearted person. Good people deserve good things, right? 155 00:06:57,792 --> 00:07:00,378 -Hi. What's your name? -[woman 11] My name is Chelsea. 156 00:07:00,461 --> 00:07:01,963 My dog's name is Chelsea. 157 00:07:02,046 --> 00:07:03,297 No way. 158 00:07:03,381 --> 00:07:04,590 And what is your name? 159 00:07:04,674 --> 00:07:08,344 -My name is Trevor. Yeah. -Trevor. My dog's name is Trevor too. 160 00:07:08,428 --> 00:07:10,930 [laughing] 161 00:07:11,013 --> 00:07:13,558 Trevor, I wanna know more about you. 162 00:07:14,058 --> 00:07:16,686 Tell me five things that make you smile. 163 00:07:16,769 --> 00:07:19,480 Dogs. Dogs make me smile. 164 00:07:19,564 --> 00:07:20,940 Great answer. 165 00:07:21,524 --> 00:07:24,318 A very sunny day. 166 00:07:24,402 --> 00:07:25,611 Ooh! 167 00:07:25,695 --> 00:07:26,821 Butterflies. 168 00:07:26,904 --> 00:07:28,281 Stop! 169 00:07:28,865 --> 00:07:31,200 [laughing] This is a weird answer, 170 00:07:31,284 --> 00:07:34,871 but we're gonna go with a good love movie. 171 00:07:34,954 --> 00:07:36,539 [Chelsea] Okay. Like what? 172 00:07:36,622 --> 00:07:39,208 -The Notebook, -[Chelsea] Naturally. 173 00:07:39,292 --> 00:07:40,918 Yeah. 174 00:07:41,002 --> 00:07:42,128 [Chelsea] Oh! 175 00:07:42,211 --> 00:07:43,713 -Yeah. -Wow! 176 00:07:43,796 --> 00:07:44,922 What's one more? 177 00:07:46,048 --> 00:07:48,134 A fresh cut lawn. [laughs] 178 00:07:48,217 --> 00:07:52,180 I am done. [laughing] 179 00:07:52,263 --> 00:07:54,599 [laughs] Jesus Christ. 180 00:07:54,682 --> 00:07:57,477 I hate those answers, but I love 'em too. 181 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,020 What are your five? 182 00:07:59,103 --> 00:08:01,022 [Chelsea] I love a sunset. 183 00:08:01,105 --> 00:08:03,733 A good, cold Coors Light. 184 00:08:03,816 --> 00:08:06,319 And add those together? Forget about it. 185 00:08:06,402 --> 00:08:08,321 Wasn't that Gandhi that said that? 186 00:08:08,404 --> 00:08:11,449 [laughing] 187 00:08:13,576 --> 00:08:16,621 I don't know why I'm laughing so much with you, but I, like… 188 00:08:16,704 --> 00:08:19,332 I can picture you behind there, like, with a huge grin. 189 00:08:19,415 --> 00:08:21,125 [laughing] 190 00:08:21,209 --> 00:08:24,712 I'm so ready to be married. I'm so ready to find my person. 191 00:08:25,713 --> 00:08:29,217 I've even tried going to, like, Home Depot. 192 00:08:29,300 --> 00:08:31,469 There might be a man there. [laughs] 193 00:08:31,552 --> 00:08:33,221 Gosh dang it. [laughs] 194 00:08:34,013 --> 00:08:35,973 -What precious men. -[laughs] 195 00:08:36,057 --> 00:08:40,436 I'm so used to going on a date with a guy, and there being a TV behind me. 196 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,523 He's just watching the football game. Like, come on, baby, come on. 197 00:08:43,606 --> 00:08:44,732 Hello. 198 00:08:44,815 --> 00:08:47,944 Being here, it's just nice to not have the distraction 199 00:08:48,027 --> 00:08:50,947 and just truly get to have a conversation with someone. 200 00:08:51,030 --> 00:08:52,406 My name is Chelsea. 201 00:08:52,490 --> 00:08:54,492 -Chelsea. I'm Jimmy. -How's it going? 202 00:08:54,575 --> 00:08:56,827 -[Jimmy] I'm having so much fun now. -Where are you from? 203 00:08:56,911 --> 00:08:59,038 A small town in North Carolina called Randleman. 204 00:08:59,121 --> 00:09:00,873 -[Chelsea] Okay. -You're not gonna know that. 205 00:09:00,957 --> 00:09:03,417 I'm from LA. So, yeah, I have no idea where that is. [chuckles] 206 00:09:03,501 --> 00:09:06,587 Not a lot of people leave my hometown, but I wanna explore. 207 00:09:06,671 --> 00:09:08,422 I've made it a goal of mine to travel. 208 00:09:08,506 --> 00:09:12,969 I've decided I wanna go to every NFL, NBA and MLB stadium. 209 00:09:13,052 --> 00:09:14,554 -Love it. -[chuckles] 210 00:09:14,637 --> 00:09:16,556 What did you say you do? Or… 211 00:09:16,639 --> 00:09:17,974 [Jimmy] I'm in software sales. 212 00:09:18,057 --> 00:09:19,517 I won't get too deep in the weeds. 213 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,227 -But I work remote. -[laughs] 214 00:09:21,310 --> 00:09:24,146 I'm looking for someone who works remote so they can travel with me. 215 00:09:24,230 --> 00:09:25,314 [Jimmy] Tell me about you. 216 00:09:25,398 --> 00:09:28,651 I'm a flight attendant, and I am an event planner. 217 00:09:28,734 --> 00:09:29,986 I love that. That's awesome. 218 00:09:30,069 --> 00:09:32,989 Yeah. I just hosted my first wedding. 219 00:09:33,573 --> 00:09:36,909 So we're gonna take all your wedding recommendations when we get married. 220 00:09:36,993 --> 00:09:38,077 Yes, sir. 221 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:39,620 [both laugh] 222 00:09:39,704 --> 00:09:41,789 Mine are just suggestions and a couple songs. 223 00:09:41,872 --> 00:09:44,417 I'm here for it. I'm so here for it. 224 00:09:44,500 --> 00:09:45,501 I got the rest. 225 00:09:45,585 --> 00:09:47,670 [both laugh] 226 00:09:47,753 --> 00:09:51,257 Dating 15 people in one day is something I never thought I would do, 227 00:09:52,133 --> 00:09:55,219 but when you walk into the pods and the energy, 228 00:09:55,303 --> 00:09:57,722 and the excitement, it-- it was… 229 00:09:57,805 --> 00:09:59,515 I-- I had chills. It was-- it was awesome. 230 00:09:59,599 --> 00:10:02,059 -This is the funnest thing ever. -[man 9] I can barely keep up. 231 00:10:02,143 --> 00:10:03,394 Let's go. 232 00:10:03,978 --> 00:10:04,812 Hello. 233 00:10:04,895 --> 00:10:08,399 I'm feeling excited that I've got a wife on the other side. It's amazing. 234 00:10:08,482 --> 00:10:10,735 -Who do I got? -[Jessica] Your wife? I'm just kidding. 235 00:10:10,818 --> 00:10:13,070 -Oh, my. Oh, my God. -[Jessica] Maybe. My name's Jessica. 236 00:10:13,154 --> 00:10:15,865 Jessica. I'm Jimmy. What do you like to do? 237 00:10:15,948 --> 00:10:18,034 I would consider myself a homebody. 238 00:10:18,117 --> 00:10:20,828 Gotcha. I love trying new foods, trying new restaurants. 239 00:10:20,911 --> 00:10:23,789 Um, I like going to, like, wine and cocktail bars-- 240 00:10:23,873 --> 00:10:25,374 [Jessica] Oh, that's my thing. 241 00:10:25,458 --> 00:10:27,126 Like a nice, sexy vibe. 242 00:10:27,209 --> 00:10:30,546 Dinner, have drinks, and then be back in bed by 9:30. [chuckles] 243 00:10:30,630 --> 00:10:33,215 -[Jessica] I live for that. -How old are you? Am I able to ask? 244 00:10:33,299 --> 00:10:35,176 -I'm 28. How old are you? -[Jimmy] 28. I'm 27. 245 00:10:35,259 --> 00:10:36,844 [Jessica] When is your birthday? 246 00:10:36,927 --> 00:10:39,013 [Jimmy] I am a November baby. Scorpio. 247 00:10:39,096 --> 00:10:40,681 -What are you? -[Jessica] I'm a Capricorn. 248 00:10:40,765 --> 00:10:41,849 Okay, we're compatible. 249 00:10:41,932 --> 00:10:42,933 We are compatible. 250 00:10:43,017 --> 00:10:45,770 I don't know that. I'd like to say we are. I like your voice a lot. 251 00:10:45,853 --> 00:10:49,857 Oh, I love hearing that 'cause I've never been complimented on my voice ever. 252 00:10:49,940 --> 00:10:52,026 People say I sound like Fran Drescher when I laugh. 253 00:10:52,109 --> 00:10:53,444 -So I'm, like… -[laughs] 254 00:10:53,527 --> 00:10:55,988 …really trying to be ladylike about it today. 255 00:10:56,072 --> 00:10:59,408 No, you're fine. Even if I say something not funny, and you're laughing, I'm like, 256 00:10:59,492 --> 00:11:01,327 "This girl loves me, and I love that, so…" 257 00:11:01,410 --> 00:11:03,746 You'll know I love you when I start giving you pity laughs. 258 00:11:03,829 --> 00:11:05,331 -[Jimmy laughs] -Honestly. 259 00:11:05,414 --> 00:11:07,291 I feel good about you, by the way. 260 00:11:07,375 --> 00:11:09,794 Honestly, I'm not trying to get ahead of myself, 261 00:11:09,877 --> 00:11:12,046 but, like, I feel really good about you. 262 00:11:12,129 --> 00:11:14,590 Good. That's good to hear. That's aggressive for me to say. 263 00:11:14,674 --> 00:11:18,302 It's really hard to say, like, "Oh, my wife is here." 264 00:11:18,386 --> 00:11:20,179 -No, she is. Manifest it. -[laughs] 265 00:11:20,262 --> 00:11:24,058 [Jimmy] It sounds crazy to get married that fast, but I'm very optimistic. 266 00:11:24,141 --> 00:11:27,144 [Jessica] And this might be crazy that I don't think it sounds crazy. 267 00:11:27,228 --> 00:11:31,107 The thought of marriage in four weeks really is not intimidating to me. 268 00:11:31,190 --> 00:11:33,609 'Cause I truly and wholeheartedly believe 269 00:11:33,693 --> 00:11:35,653 if something is meant to be, it's meant to be. 270 00:11:35,736 --> 00:11:37,780 -[Jimmy] Yeah. -Look at us. 271 00:11:37,863 --> 00:11:40,908 -Jimmy and Jessica. Sounds perfect. -J squared. 272 00:11:40,991 --> 00:11:43,035 I like your style, and I like how forward you are. 273 00:11:43,119 --> 00:11:45,121 -[Jessica laughs] Am I forward? -No, no, like… 274 00:11:45,204 --> 00:11:47,832 [Jessica] I think I just feel comfortable, is what it is. 275 00:11:47,915 --> 00:11:49,291 [both laugh] 276 00:11:49,375 --> 00:11:51,544 Jimmy with the juice. You've got the juice. 277 00:11:51,627 --> 00:11:52,712 You know what I'm saying? 278 00:11:52,795 --> 00:11:56,632 Like, some people just have that swag, that, like, flavor about them. 279 00:11:56,716 --> 00:11:58,759 I'm like bright red over here. 280 00:11:58,843 --> 00:12:00,386 -[laughs] Are you? -[Jimmy laughs] 281 00:12:00,469 --> 00:12:02,346 -Bye, Jessica. -[Jessica laughs] Bye. 282 00:12:02,430 --> 00:12:04,306 I have a ten-year-old daughter. 283 00:12:04,390 --> 00:12:06,976 I want her so badly to see me happy. 284 00:12:07,059 --> 00:12:09,311 And for me right now, what that looks like 285 00:12:10,396 --> 00:12:11,605 is marriage 286 00:12:12,231 --> 00:12:16,318 and pursuing, like, finding a man, finding a good husband. 287 00:12:16,402 --> 00:12:17,528 Hello. 288 00:12:17,611 --> 00:12:19,363 -What's your name? -Matthew. 289 00:12:19,447 --> 00:12:22,074 Matthew, hey. I'm Jessica. 290 00:12:22,158 --> 00:12:25,327 I have questions written down, and they're numbered one through 15. 291 00:12:25,411 --> 00:12:27,872 -Okay. -[Matthew] So you can pick a number. 292 00:12:27,955 --> 00:12:29,707 Give me ten. 293 00:12:29,790 --> 00:12:32,710 What is something you think you excel at in relationships? 294 00:12:32,793 --> 00:12:36,255 My loyalty and devotion to my partner. 295 00:12:36,338 --> 00:12:37,173 What about you? 296 00:12:39,884 --> 00:12:41,302 I was just gonna ask the questions. 297 00:12:41,385 --> 00:12:43,721 I wasn't anticipating getting the same one back. [chuckles] 298 00:12:43,804 --> 00:12:45,598 Oh, my God. 299 00:12:46,307 --> 00:12:48,642 Yep. Just a dude talking to the wall. 300 00:12:48,726 --> 00:12:51,061 This experiment, I didn't really know what to expect, 301 00:12:51,145 --> 00:12:53,063 but I knew it was gonna be incredibly hard. 302 00:12:53,939 --> 00:12:55,149 You know, having conversations 303 00:12:55,232 --> 00:12:58,152 about our emotions is probably not somewhere where I would excel. 304 00:12:58,235 --> 00:13:00,654 -Hello. What's your name? -Matthew. 305 00:13:00,738 --> 00:13:02,239 [Sarah Ann] Matthew, nice to meet you. 306 00:13:02,323 --> 00:13:03,783 My name is Sarah Ann. 307 00:13:03,866 --> 00:13:05,159 How's everything going today? 308 00:13:05,242 --> 00:13:08,996 Uh, I don't know. You know, we'll keep that close to the vest. 309 00:13:09,079 --> 00:13:11,707 -Do you have anything to ask me? -[Matthew] I have a list of 15. 310 00:13:11,791 --> 00:13:13,959 -Pick a number. I'll ask a question. -[Sarah Ann] Twelve. 311 00:13:14,043 --> 00:13:16,587 What is one of your current short-term goals? 312 00:13:16,670 --> 00:13:17,880 Wanna meet the love of my life. 313 00:13:17,963 --> 00:13:20,299 This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity 314 00:13:20,382 --> 00:13:22,384 to actually meet someone without them judging me 315 00:13:22,468 --> 00:13:25,930 and me judging them, and so naturally, like, I'm trying to be 316 00:13:26,555 --> 00:13:30,142 kind and wholehearted as I possibly can with someone, you know? 317 00:13:30,226 --> 00:13:33,187 I think just from, like, knowing that you're gonna be judged, 318 00:13:33,270 --> 00:13:36,774 I definitely will say that I can relate to those reservations 100%. 319 00:13:36,857 --> 00:13:37,817 [Matthew] Oh, God. 320 00:13:37,900 --> 00:13:42,321 [Sarah Ann] Um, you're gonna be judged is always a little bit, you know, scary. 321 00:13:42,404 --> 00:13:46,242 However, I think also being in, like, everyday life, 322 00:13:46,325 --> 00:13:48,452 people judge too, you know? 323 00:13:50,746 --> 00:13:51,914 Are you there? 324 00:13:53,415 --> 00:13:55,584 He's gone. Thank fucking God. 325 00:13:56,669 --> 00:13:57,878 Matt can kiss my ass. 326 00:13:58,462 --> 00:13:59,964 [Matthew] Talking about love and stuff. 327 00:14:00,047 --> 00:14:02,842 And sometimes I feel uncomfortable even saying that word. 328 00:14:02,925 --> 00:14:04,760 You pick the number and then you get a question. 329 00:14:04,844 --> 00:14:06,303 Number four, please. 330 00:14:06,887 --> 00:14:10,266 This one's been requested a couple times. Try to be something different? 331 00:14:10,349 --> 00:14:11,642 ♪ None of your business… ♪ 332 00:14:11,725 --> 00:14:14,103 Maybe first interactions isn't my strong suit, 333 00:14:14,186 --> 00:14:16,397 but, you know, I would like to get better at it. 334 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:18,774 -[Amber] What do you do? -I'm a wealth management advisor. 335 00:14:19,358 --> 00:14:20,526 Hence, I got the spreadsheet. 336 00:14:20,609 --> 00:14:22,111 Gimme another one of your questions. 337 00:14:22,695 --> 00:14:25,072 Idea of a perfect weekend with your partner. 338 00:14:25,155 --> 00:14:27,533 Grab a coffee, go on a hike, 339 00:14:27,616 --> 00:14:29,660 see a festival or something I think would be fun. 340 00:14:29,743 --> 00:14:33,038 Putting myself out there is completely out of character for me. 341 00:14:33,122 --> 00:14:35,291 -You have nice energy. -[Amber] Thank you. 342 00:14:35,374 --> 00:14:38,752 But if I can find my wife from this experience, 343 00:14:39,253 --> 00:14:41,589 then I guess that's something I'm willing to do. 344 00:14:41,672 --> 00:14:44,592 ♪ You know what's up by the way I strut You better give me what I want… ♪ 345 00:14:44,675 --> 00:14:47,219 Superman had a cold personality to start off too. 346 00:14:47,303 --> 00:14:48,762 ♪ Gimme what I want ♪ 347 00:14:48,846 --> 00:14:49,722 [chuckles] 348 00:14:49,805 --> 00:14:50,806 I'm Matthew. 349 00:14:50,890 --> 00:14:53,559 Hey, Matthew, my name is AD. 350 00:14:54,310 --> 00:14:56,145 What are you looking for? 351 00:14:57,021 --> 00:14:58,731 -Man, right off the bat, eh? -Yeah. 352 00:14:58,814 --> 00:14:59,773 [Matthew chuckles] 353 00:14:59,857 --> 00:15:03,986 I'm certainly not doing this to become a C-list celebrity. 354 00:15:04,486 --> 00:15:06,196 Well, that's good news. 355 00:15:09,074 --> 00:15:11,368 -[Matthew] I'm king of first impressions. -[chuckles] 356 00:15:11,452 --> 00:15:13,370 You've made a lasting impression. 357 00:15:13,454 --> 00:15:17,625 This is, like, so awkward for my personality. 358 00:15:18,417 --> 00:15:22,546 Like, I'm a small-town country boy, population of 600 people. 359 00:15:22,630 --> 00:15:23,464 [AD] Mm-hmm. 360 00:15:23,547 --> 00:15:28,928 So typically you're riding dirt bikes or four wheelers. 361 00:15:29,011 --> 00:15:30,679 Showing emotion is weakness. 362 00:15:30,763 --> 00:15:33,057 [chuckles] And being in a dating pod 363 00:15:33,140 --> 00:15:35,684 is probably the scariest environment possible. 364 00:15:36,268 --> 00:15:37,603 But I'm here. 365 00:15:37,686 --> 00:15:38,687 You are here. 366 00:15:38,771 --> 00:15:41,774 So I think give me a little more time. 367 00:15:41,857 --> 00:15:45,444 And I think maybe I can win you over or maybe somebody else. 368 00:15:45,527 --> 00:15:47,529 Is that something you wanna do? Win me over? 369 00:15:48,113 --> 00:15:49,031 I'm gonna try. 370 00:15:49,114 --> 00:15:50,199 Oh. [chuckles] 371 00:15:51,075 --> 00:15:53,577 -Okay. Well, I'm open to it. -[chuckles] 372 00:15:53,661 --> 00:15:56,080 -All right. Well, I appreciate that. -Yeah. 373 00:15:56,163 --> 00:15:58,165 [Matthew] Good start. Better than the other ones. 374 00:15:58,248 --> 00:16:00,042 [both laughing] 375 00:16:00,125 --> 00:16:02,419 I just started seeing a therapist four or five months ago. 376 00:16:02,503 --> 00:16:05,381 Just 'cause I don't know. Everybody does. I'm like, "All right, whatever." 377 00:16:05,464 --> 00:16:06,423 [chuckles] Yeah. 378 00:16:06,507 --> 00:16:10,260 -And I usually give her one-word answers. -[AD] Mm-hmm. 379 00:16:10,344 --> 00:16:12,304 -And I told her what I was gonna do. -[AD] Mm-hmm. 380 00:16:12,388 --> 00:16:14,014 [Matthew] Go on this experiment. 381 00:16:14,098 --> 00:16:15,641 -Should have seen her face. -[laughing] 382 00:16:15,724 --> 00:16:17,142 [Matthew] She's like, "You?" 383 00:16:18,686 --> 00:16:23,482 It's so funny that, you're, like, a country boy from a town of 600 people, 384 00:16:23,565 --> 00:16:28,821 because I am a city girl from Boston, Massachusetts. 385 00:16:29,405 --> 00:16:31,532 I've never been on a farm or in dirt. 386 00:16:31,615 --> 00:16:33,742 So it's like we're almost like opposites, 387 00:16:33,826 --> 00:16:36,912 but I feel like you are a great guy. 388 00:16:37,538 --> 00:16:38,664 Well, I appreciate that. 389 00:16:38,747 --> 00:16:40,958 [AD] 'Cause I did. I had a great time in here. 390 00:16:41,041 --> 00:16:43,919 The beginning was a little strange, but when you started talking, 391 00:16:44,003 --> 00:16:46,046 I was like, "Okay, let's go for it." 392 00:16:46,630 --> 00:16:49,299 [both laughing] 393 00:16:49,383 --> 00:16:50,843 I feel like I talked a lot. 394 00:16:50,926 --> 00:16:53,262 You did. Congratulations. 395 00:16:53,345 --> 00:16:54,722 It feels uncomfortable. 396 00:16:54,805 --> 00:16:56,306 Welcome to the party. [laughing] 397 00:16:56,390 --> 00:16:57,808 We're all uncomfortable. 398 00:16:57,891 --> 00:17:00,978 -You finally arrived. -I think you're extremely sweet. 399 00:17:01,061 --> 00:17:02,104 [laughs] 400 00:17:04,273 --> 00:17:06,233 Something about you, Matthew. 401 00:17:06,316 --> 00:17:08,610 I feel like you're gonna shock me. 402 00:17:08,694 --> 00:17:12,364 -[pop music playing] -♪ You make me wanna love crazy… ♪ 403 00:17:12,448 --> 00:17:14,658 [Matthew] Well, I'll likely ask you for another date. 404 00:17:14,742 --> 00:17:15,784 [laughs] 405 00:17:16,660 --> 00:17:18,620 -[Matthew] I'll cross my fingers. -[AD] Okay. 406 00:17:18,704 --> 00:17:19,872 -[laughs] -[Matthew] All right. 407 00:17:20,914 --> 00:17:21,957 -See ya. -[AD] Bye. 408 00:17:22,958 --> 00:17:24,334 What the fuck… 409 00:17:24,418 --> 00:17:27,129 ♪ Your heart is on a tightrope… ♪ 410 00:17:27,212 --> 00:17:28,505 [laughs] …is going on? 411 00:17:29,006 --> 00:17:32,301 I'm 32, so a lot of people have a lot to say 412 00:17:32,384 --> 00:17:35,846 about how I should date, who I should date, even my mom. 413 00:17:36,430 --> 00:17:37,931 [sighs] Goodness. 414 00:17:38,015 --> 00:17:41,393 They're like, "Maybe you should stop dating these players 415 00:17:41,477 --> 00:17:44,354 and these athletes and these ballers." 416 00:17:45,773 --> 00:17:48,275 I don't really give the nice guy a try. 417 00:17:48,358 --> 00:17:51,695 If I see a red flag, I'm like, "Oh, well, I'll just paint my nails red to match." 418 00:17:51,779 --> 00:17:53,822 But I really want something real. 419 00:17:53,906 --> 00:17:54,948 Hello. 420 00:17:55,032 --> 00:17:56,784 [man 10] Hello. Hello. What's your name? 421 00:17:56,867 --> 00:17:59,119 My name is Amber, but I go by AD. 422 00:17:59,203 --> 00:18:02,414 -AD? All Day. All Day. -[AD laughs] 423 00:18:02,498 --> 00:18:04,625 -What's your name? -My name is Clay. 424 00:18:04,708 --> 00:18:07,336 -[laughs] All Day. -All Day and Clay. I love that. 425 00:18:07,419 --> 00:18:09,088 Was it dating apps you were doing before? 426 00:18:09,171 --> 00:18:12,841 Dating apps. It was just not working for me. 427 00:18:12,925 --> 00:18:15,719 [Clay] I'm more of a FaceTime, let's talk on the phone. 428 00:18:15,803 --> 00:18:16,845 You wanna pillow talk. 429 00:18:16,929 --> 00:18:19,223 [Clay] We're gonna pillow talk, 'cause end of the day, like, 430 00:18:19,306 --> 00:18:21,266 I put my radio tone on, and let's kind of vibe out. 431 00:18:21,350 --> 00:18:22,351 Let me hear that. Hold on. 432 00:18:22,434 --> 00:18:24,895 [clears throat] Welcome, ladies. 433 00:18:26,772 --> 00:18:28,941 This is Smooth 107.1… 434 00:18:29,733 --> 00:18:30,818 [AD snickers] 435 00:18:30,901 --> 00:18:33,070 …coming to you on a smooth line of 436 00:18:33,153 --> 00:18:35,280 Here we go. Let's go, AD. 437 00:18:35,364 --> 00:18:36,573 -What? -[Clay] Let's go, AD. 438 00:18:36,657 --> 00:18:38,075 [both laughing] 439 00:18:38,158 --> 00:18:39,493 -Hey, Clay. -[Clay] Yes. 440 00:18:39,576 --> 00:18:41,078 -How old are you? -[Clay] I'm 30. 441 00:18:41,161 --> 00:18:43,080 -What about yourself? -I'm 32. 442 00:18:43,163 --> 00:18:47,167 When I first turned 30, I was trying to hold on to 29 for as long as possible. 443 00:18:47,251 --> 00:18:48,460 Oh, gosh, why? 444 00:18:48,544 --> 00:18:50,295 [Clay] I just don't wanna age, you know. 445 00:18:50,379 --> 00:18:52,047 [AD] It's only up from here, Clay. 446 00:18:52,131 --> 00:18:53,841 [Clay] I was thinking about getting a cat. 447 00:18:53,924 --> 00:18:55,509 -What do you think? -Absolutely not. 448 00:18:55,592 --> 00:18:57,469 I'm terrified of cats. 449 00:18:57,553 --> 00:18:59,263 -You're terrified of cats? -[AD] Terrified. 450 00:18:59,346 --> 00:19:02,432 [Clay] I like the fact that cats, you don't need to show love all the time. 451 00:19:02,516 --> 00:19:05,269 -[AD] That's a problem for me. -You need love all the time? 452 00:19:05,352 --> 00:19:07,354 -[laughs] -[AD] I will bring it to your attention. 453 00:19:07,437 --> 00:19:10,107 If I'm like, "Hey, you haven't given me a kiss all day." 454 00:19:10,190 --> 00:19:12,818 -[Clay] Oh, you gotta have your kiss? -I got to. 455 00:19:12,901 --> 00:19:15,487 [Clay] Got to. I love it. I wish I could kiss you right now. 456 00:19:15,571 --> 00:19:17,447 -[AD] Oh. -[Clay chuckles] 457 00:19:17,531 --> 00:19:19,366 Yeah. 458 00:19:19,449 --> 00:19:22,077 Well, that just-- sorry, that took me for a little loop. 459 00:19:22,953 --> 00:19:24,872 I like to get a little sensual. I'm a touchy guy. 460 00:19:24,955 --> 00:19:27,708 Okay, touchy guy. I like to receive touches. 461 00:19:27,791 --> 00:19:29,918 [Clay] Of course. You gotta have a little flame. 462 00:19:30,002 --> 00:19:33,130 So are you, like, ready for, like, a long-term commitment? 463 00:19:33,213 --> 00:19:34,047 I believe I am. 464 00:19:34,131 --> 00:19:37,301 I think I'm ready for that next stage of, like, settling down. 465 00:19:37,384 --> 00:19:39,636 -I love that. -It's up for the taking. 466 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:41,013 Yes. 467 00:19:41,096 --> 00:19:43,849 I don't know why I'm smiling just, like, sitting here talking to you. 468 00:19:43,932 --> 00:19:45,767 You know, AD, I was actually doubting myself. 469 00:19:45,851 --> 00:19:48,854 -Like, "Who's gonna love my personality?" -Stop. 470 00:19:48,937 --> 00:19:51,857 [Clay] "If they don't see me, how am I gonna really capture your attention?" 471 00:19:51,940 --> 00:19:53,275 So I mean, it's really… 472 00:19:53,358 --> 00:19:56,153 Your words of affirmation has been very helpful for me, 473 00:19:56,236 --> 00:19:59,698 'cause I was actually kind of doubting myself through this process, you know. 474 00:19:59,781 --> 00:20:01,450 That's so relatable. 475 00:20:01,533 --> 00:20:03,744 But I'm glad I was able to do that for you. 476 00:20:03,827 --> 00:20:04,661 Look at us. 477 00:20:04,745 --> 00:20:05,704 ♪ Let me introduce… ♪ 478 00:20:05,787 --> 00:20:07,539 [both laugh] 479 00:20:07,623 --> 00:20:08,665 ♪ Myself ♪ 480 00:20:09,625 --> 00:20:10,792 Clay. [chuckles] 481 00:20:11,460 --> 00:20:12,294 [Clay] Jimmy, man. 482 00:20:13,086 --> 00:20:14,630 [laughing] 483 00:20:14,713 --> 00:20:17,216 -[Jimmy] Day one. That was fun. -[Clay] That was fun. 484 00:20:17,299 --> 00:20:18,884 It's good talking to girls. [laughing] 485 00:20:18,967 --> 00:20:20,719 -Yeah, absolutely. -[laughing] 486 00:20:20,802 --> 00:20:21,762 Keep it going. 487 00:20:21,845 --> 00:20:24,598 -[shouting] -[laughing] 488 00:20:25,766 --> 00:20:27,976 It was so much fun. So much fun. 489 00:20:28,060 --> 00:20:29,478 -[man 11] Whoo! -[man 12] Let's go. 490 00:20:29,561 --> 00:20:31,063 How was it, fellas? 491 00:20:31,146 --> 00:20:32,814 Whoo! 492 00:20:32,898 --> 00:20:34,775 Chelsea was dope as hell. 493 00:20:35,776 --> 00:20:39,363 -Chelsea might be my number one. -[Deion] Amy-- 494 00:20:39,863 --> 00:20:40,739 You know what's crazy? 495 00:20:40,822 --> 00:20:43,867 Like, Chelsea is also the name of my dog. 496 00:20:43,951 --> 00:20:46,453 [Chelsea] I was most excited about Trevor. 497 00:20:46,536 --> 00:20:47,371 He was nice. 498 00:20:47,454 --> 00:20:49,581 -And we, like, just laughed and laughed. -Yeah, yeah. 499 00:20:49,665 --> 00:20:51,250 -Which I want, you know? -Yeah. 500 00:20:51,333 --> 00:20:53,460 -He had really good energy. -Yeah, he did. 501 00:20:53,543 --> 00:20:55,545 -[Chelsea] And then, um… -[Jimmy, I feel like-- 502 00:20:55,629 --> 00:20:56,964 [Chelsea] He was cool. 503 00:20:57,047 --> 00:20:59,424 You were having a great day. Loving that smile on your face. 504 00:20:59,508 --> 00:21:00,509 Yeah, dude, I'm happy. 505 00:21:01,176 --> 00:21:03,262 [Jessica] Jimmy is giving… 506 00:21:03,345 --> 00:21:07,307 What I felt when I talked to him was literally, like, electric. 507 00:21:07,391 --> 00:21:08,976 Oh, did your vagina pulse? 508 00:21:09,059 --> 00:21:10,352 -Maybe. -[Ashley laughs] 509 00:21:10,435 --> 00:21:12,896 -You know who I was so surprised by? -[woman 3] Hmm? 510 00:21:12,980 --> 00:21:13,981 Clay. 511 00:21:14,064 --> 00:21:17,484 I was like, "Yeah, my name's AD." He's like, "Oh, AD? All Day?" 512 00:21:17,567 --> 00:21:19,069 "Is that it what stands for? All Day?" 513 00:21:19,152 --> 00:21:22,531 And I'm like, "Okay. Energy. It stands for something." 514 00:21:22,614 --> 00:21:25,617 [Trevor] Dude, we gotta get into Matthew's brain. 515 00:21:25,701 --> 00:21:27,786 We gotta make that motherfucker talk. 516 00:21:27,869 --> 00:21:29,955 -[Johnny] What's with that? -[Trevor] Doesn't he talk? 517 00:21:30,038 --> 00:21:32,666 He's just… He's his own world, man. 518 00:21:34,293 --> 00:21:37,170 -Matthew. I feel like, I, like-- -[chattering] 519 00:21:37,254 --> 00:21:39,923 -[Danielle] Hold on. Hold on. -[Ashley] Wait, wait, wait, wait. 520 00:21:40,007 --> 00:21:41,466 -Shh! -[Danielle] You like Matt? 521 00:21:41,550 --> 00:21:42,759 [AD] He was like a hard rock. 522 00:21:42,843 --> 00:21:46,179 And then, like, I started talking to him, and he, like, opened up, 523 00:21:46,263 --> 00:21:48,932 and then he's like, "I would love to talk to you again." 524 00:21:49,016 --> 00:21:50,684 -Oh! -[AD] I swear to you. 525 00:21:50,767 --> 00:21:52,019 -[Ashley] Who, Matt? -Yeah. 526 00:21:52,102 --> 00:21:55,647 -I'm excited to see where this goes. -We're gonna find out. 527 00:21:55,731 --> 00:21:57,316 Cheers to an amazing first day. 528 00:21:57,399 --> 00:22:00,277 Cheers to hopefully finding our husband here. 529 00:22:00,360 --> 00:22:02,487 -Cheers! -[cheering] 530 00:22:04,239 --> 00:22:05,365 [woman 12] Whoo! 531 00:22:05,907 --> 00:22:07,534 [Johnny] Fellas, fellas, cheers. 532 00:22:07,617 --> 00:22:10,037 To finding love and making memories. 533 00:22:10,120 --> 00:22:11,079 Let's go! 534 00:22:11,163 --> 00:22:13,457 [men cheering] 535 00:22:13,540 --> 00:22:14,958 [Clay] Cheers! 536 00:22:18,503 --> 00:22:19,838 [dance music playing] 537 00:22:19,921 --> 00:22:21,965 ♪ Yes, I came through And yes, I pulled up… ♪ 538 00:22:22,049 --> 00:22:23,342 Okay. Bacon's ready. 539 00:22:23,425 --> 00:22:26,386 What do you think the boys are cooking themselves for breakfast? 540 00:22:26,470 --> 00:22:28,889 -[woman 3] The boys are down bad. -Probably not cooking. 541 00:22:28,972 --> 00:22:31,266 If they are, there's one person cooking for everyone. 542 00:22:31,350 --> 00:22:32,976 [Amy] You know who I bet it is. It's Vince. 543 00:22:33,060 --> 00:22:35,187 'Cause the eggs are just wrapped up. 544 00:22:36,188 --> 00:22:38,190 I don't think this is all gonna fit in that bowl. 545 00:22:38,273 --> 00:22:40,484 It all looks so nice I don't even know what to do. 546 00:22:40,567 --> 00:22:42,861 Those delts were tighter than you expected, aren't they? 547 00:22:42,944 --> 00:22:45,489 That's 'cause you walk around like this all day. 548 00:22:45,572 --> 00:22:47,783 -I don't do it on purpose. -Hey, guys. 549 00:22:47,866 --> 00:22:49,284 -[Matthew laughs] -I'm Matt. 550 00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:52,037 -I'm done with potential. -I'm done with potential. I need it now. 551 00:22:52,120 --> 00:22:54,373 Like, we're at the age, where potential should be there. 552 00:22:54,456 --> 00:22:57,334 A man should be fully potensh'd. 553 00:22:57,417 --> 00:22:58,919 I just get so excited about love. 554 00:22:59,002 --> 00:23:01,421 -They're such good women. Like, damn! -[Jimmy] Yeah, yeah. 555 00:23:02,005 --> 00:23:04,466 [Sunni] Bye, cuties. Have fun. Be yourself. 556 00:23:04,549 --> 00:23:06,760 [Johnny] We are finding the loves of our lives. 557 00:23:06,843 --> 00:23:08,595 -[Deion] Let's get it! -[Johnny] Whoo! 558 00:23:08,678 --> 00:23:10,680 -Who am I talking to? -[chuckles] This is Amy. 559 00:23:10,764 --> 00:23:11,598 [Johnny] I'm Johnny. 560 00:23:11,681 --> 00:23:13,475 I knew it. I knew it. I knew it. Oh, my God. 561 00:23:13,558 --> 00:23:15,936 I was gonna guess, but I didn't want to be wrong. 562 00:23:16,019 --> 00:23:17,896 [Johnny] I feel I know so much about you, Amy. 563 00:23:17,979 --> 00:23:20,148 -[Amy] Yeah, no, same here. -Which is the wildest thing. 564 00:23:20,232 --> 00:23:23,777 If you can go, I guess, anywhere and do anything, what would it be? 565 00:23:23,860 --> 00:23:27,364 When it comes to traveling, my number one spot is Japan. 566 00:23:27,948 --> 00:23:29,408 Kyoto is supposed to be amazing. 567 00:23:29,491 --> 00:23:33,286 It just gives the energy of what it would have been like long, long ago. 568 00:23:33,370 --> 00:23:36,456 I wouldn't say I'm, like, huge into anime, but I do like anime. 569 00:23:36,540 --> 00:23:37,374 Really? 570 00:23:37,457 --> 00:23:40,627 When you watch these movies, or, like, Studio Ghibli films, 571 00:23:40,710 --> 00:23:42,838 that's what I picture. It's like I picture Kyoto. 572 00:23:42,921 --> 00:23:45,465 I did binge almost all of 573 00:23:45,549 --> 00:23:51,346 I tried to prepare for Japan by watching all of 574 00:23:51,430 --> 00:23:52,514 Oh, man, it's good. 575 00:23:53,515 --> 00:23:56,143 Japan has been on my bucket list for a long time now. 576 00:23:56,226 --> 00:23:58,478 It's actually very weird. I have not left the country yet. 577 00:23:58,562 --> 00:24:00,772 I'm kind of similar though, because I… 578 00:24:00,856 --> 00:24:05,277 The only places I've really gone to have been with my parents. 579 00:24:05,360 --> 00:24:10,407 So I've been to Spain because my mom's family is actually from Spain. 580 00:24:10,490 --> 00:24:12,742 -Okay. -[Amy] She was born in Puerto Rico. 581 00:24:12,826 --> 00:24:16,037 -Mm. -But her family is from Barcelona. 582 00:24:16,121 --> 00:24:18,832 -She's basically -Amy, I love your accent. 583 00:24:18,915 --> 00:24:20,625 -Oh, thank you. -[Johnny] Made my heart melt. 584 00:24:20,709 --> 00:24:22,085 -Stop! -[both laugh] 585 00:24:22,169 --> 00:24:24,504 [Johnny] Sorry. Sorry. I'm, you know-- it's okay. It's okay. 586 00:24:24,588 --> 00:24:25,589 [both laugh] 587 00:24:25,672 --> 00:24:29,301 I grew up in New Jersey. I am a very big family person. 588 00:24:29,384 --> 00:24:31,261 It is my parents. They're still together. 589 00:24:31,344 --> 00:24:35,765 My older sister, myself, my younger sister and little brother. 590 00:24:35,849 --> 00:24:38,185 We lived in a very small, like, household. 591 00:24:38,268 --> 00:24:41,688 I think I was still in bunk beds till maybe, like, freshman year of high school. 592 00:24:41,771 --> 00:24:43,523 So it was definitely… We were close. 593 00:24:43,607 --> 00:24:45,984 All four of us shared the same bathroom. 594 00:24:46,067 --> 00:24:47,819 We had two doing makeup on the sink. 595 00:24:47,903 --> 00:24:49,905 We had one in the shower and one on the toilet. 596 00:24:49,988 --> 00:24:53,617 And we all listened to my older sister's computer 'cause she played music for us. 597 00:24:53,700 --> 00:24:56,620 And that was one of my favorite memories of, like, the house I grew up in. 598 00:24:56,703 --> 00:24:59,956 I don't remember much of my childhood, but I am originally from Puerto Rico. 599 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,541 I moved here when I was five. 600 00:25:01,625 --> 00:25:05,253 It was, like, hard to, you know, adjust, and I didn't know the language. 601 00:25:05,337 --> 00:25:08,465 I didn't have a lot of friends, and I was an only child. 602 00:25:08,548 --> 00:25:10,217 And I know that I was depressed. 603 00:25:10,300 --> 00:25:13,094 Johnny, when I tell you that my parents or my dad 604 00:25:13,178 --> 00:25:17,098 would literally beg people at church to come to my birthday party… 605 00:25:17,766 --> 00:25:19,601 -[gasps] That's heartbreaking. -[Amy] It was… 606 00:25:19,684 --> 00:25:23,146 He tells me that to this day, and, like, he can't hold back his tears. 607 00:25:23,230 --> 00:25:25,357 -That's rough. -[Amy] Yeah, no, it was rough. 608 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,151 Then my mom had my brother when I was seven. 609 00:25:28,235 --> 00:25:31,321 I call him my "wish upon a star" because one day I was out, 610 00:25:31,404 --> 00:25:33,698 and I looked up at the sky, 611 00:25:33,782 --> 00:25:36,076 and I was like, "God, please." 612 00:25:36,159 --> 00:25:40,372 Like, "I wish that you could please give me a little brother." 613 00:25:40,455 --> 00:25:45,085 "Um, I don't want a sister because I know that she'll steal my clothes." 614 00:25:45,168 --> 00:25:46,294 [both laugh] 615 00:25:46,378 --> 00:25:49,256 [Amy] Literally, that same night, we get to the apartment we were living. 616 00:25:49,339 --> 00:25:52,008 My mom comes running out of the bathroom screaming she's pregnant. 617 00:25:52,092 --> 00:25:53,009 Turns out it's a boy. 618 00:25:53,093 --> 00:25:54,719 [laughs] 619 00:25:54,803 --> 00:25:56,179 [Amy] And my brother's my person. 620 00:25:58,765 --> 00:26:00,725 Listen, again, life's a journey. 621 00:26:00,809 --> 00:26:02,769 And at the end of the day, 622 00:26:02,852 --> 00:26:05,105 at end of the storm, there was a rainbow. 623 00:26:05,188 --> 00:26:08,692 I have done a lot of self-growth and healing, 624 00:26:08,775 --> 00:26:11,987 and I just feel like I'm ready for that next step, for sure. 625 00:26:12,487 --> 00:26:14,573 [Johnny] That's kind of my mindset with this too. 626 00:26:14,656 --> 00:26:16,658 Like, I'm definitely not a finished product yet. 627 00:26:16,741 --> 00:26:18,577 -[Amy] Mm-hmm. -I like the person I'm becoming. 628 00:26:18,660 --> 00:26:20,453 You're at a really good spot, Johnny. 629 00:26:20,537 --> 00:26:23,081 Thank you. I appreciate that, Amy. I appreciate that a lot. 630 00:26:23,164 --> 00:26:26,418 This is the perfect experiment for me because I always wanted somebody 631 00:26:26,501 --> 00:26:28,628 to know my heart and my soul before anything else. 632 00:26:28,712 --> 00:26:29,838 I don't need somebody. 633 00:26:29,921 --> 00:26:32,882 -But everybody wants love. -I like that a lot. 634 00:26:32,966 --> 00:26:34,926 ["Ev'ry Heartbeat" by Sarah Bonsignore playing] 635 00:26:37,053 --> 00:26:38,638 ♪ Forever changed ♪ 636 00:26:39,598 --> 00:26:42,851 I have felt judged for who I was, I mean, my whole life. 637 00:26:42,934 --> 00:26:45,895 Ever since I came here, I felt like I was an outlier. 638 00:26:45,979 --> 00:26:47,647 I felt like I didn't fit in. 639 00:26:47,731 --> 00:26:50,817 So I want to make sure that I'm with somebody 640 00:26:50,900 --> 00:26:55,196 that will love me for who I am on the inside and the outside. 641 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,907 I would love, obviously, a man to call me beautiful 642 00:26:57,991 --> 00:27:00,076 and give me physical affirmations, 643 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,537 but that's gonna go away one day. 644 00:27:02,621 --> 00:27:06,666 And I want them to still, when I'm 90, and I'm wrinkly, 645 00:27:06,750 --> 00:27:09,794 and I don't look the same like I do now, I still want them… 646 00:27:11,546 --> 00:27:13,465 [voice breaks] …to see the beauty in my soul 647 00:27:15,008 --> 00:27:16,885 and how that reflects on the outside. 648 00:27:18,595 --> 00:27:19,429 Sorry. 649 00:27:19,929 --> 00:27:22,182 It's been so hard finding that. 650 00:27:22,265 --> 00:27:23,141 [sniffles] 651 00:27:24,643 --> 00:27:26,144 And I haven't lost hope. 652 00:27:26,227 --> 00:27:27,729 I'm still hopeful. [sniffles] 653 00:27:28,855 --> 00:27:29,898 ♪ In a heartbeat ♪ 654 00:27:29,981 --> 00:27:33,568 ♪ You're my heartbeat And I can breathe deep ♪ 655 00:27:33,652 --> 00:27:35,195 ♪ When you're with me ♪ 656 00:27:35,278 --> 00:27:38,073 -[Clay laughs] All Day? What's up, girl? -All Day. [laughs] 657 00:27:38,156 --> 00:27:41,284 AD, what does actually the A stand for? I should probably know that, right? 658 00:27:41,368 --> 00:27:44,079 -The A stands for "Amber." -[Clay] Amber. Nice. 659 00:27:44,162 --> 00:27:45,955 The D stands for "Desiree." 660 00:27:46,039 --> 00:27:48,541 -"Desiree." That's good to know. -[AD] Yeah. 661 00:27:48,625 --> 00:27:51,252 -That's me. -[Clay] My first name is "Clayton." 662 00:27:51,336 --> 00:27:54,631 -Clayton. -Yes, but everyone always calls me "Clay." 663 00:27:54,714 --> 00:27:56,174 All Day and Clay. 664 00:27:56,257 --> 00:27:58,426 They call me "O-Clay." 665 00:27:58,510 --> 00:28:00,345 -[AD] O-Clay? O-Clay. O-Clay. -O-Clay. 666 00:28:00,428 --> 00:28:02,889 -[both laugh] -[Clay] O-Clay. 667 00:28:02,972 --> 00:28:04,265 I'm so relaxed right now. 668 00:28:04,349 --> 00:28:06,059 [Clay] This blanket is nice. Comfortable. 669 00:28:06,142 --> 00:28:08,269 I would love to snuggle with you with this, right? 670 00:28:08,353 --> 00:28:09,479 I'll cuddle with you. 671 00:28:09,562 --> 00:28:10,939 Look at us getting flirty at night. 672 00:28:11,022 --> 00:28:12,941 -You wanna flirt? -[Clay] Let's flirt. 673 00:28:13,024 --> 00:28:13,900 Go ahead, you start. 674 00:28:13,983 --> 00:28:17,737 Mm. All Day. AD been on my mind all day. 675 00:28:17,821 --> 00:28:20,198 -Okay. Okay. -[Clay] You know what I'm saying? Okay. 676 00:28:20,281 --> 00:28:23,159 AD been on my mind all day. O-Clay. 677 00:28:23,243 --> 00:28:25,036 [laughing] O-Clay! 678 00:28:25,120 --> 00:28:26,287 [Clay laughs] 679 00:28:26,371 --> 00:28:27,872 Look at you. 680 00:28:27,956 --> 00:28:30,125 -I like your flirting voice too. -Thank you. 681 00:28:30,208 --> 00:28:31,960 Don't-- don't do that. [laughing] 682 00:28:32,043 --> 00:28:34,087 -[AD] Thank you, Clay. -Ooh! 683 00:28:34,170 --> 00:28:35,714 -Thank you. I love it. -[AD laughing] 684 00:28:36,381 --> 00:28:38,800 -[Clay laughs] -You're fun. 685 00:28:38,883 --> 00:28:39,718 [Clay] Same. Same. 686 00:28:39,801 --> 00:28:42,178 I liked that from you from day one. You know what I'm saying? 687 00:28:42,262 --> 00:28:44,180 I think with relationships, it's a balance. 688 00:28:44,264 --> 00:28:45,557 You gotta have fun with it. 689 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,892 Gotta be flirty. We could get serious. 690 00:28:47,976 --> 00:28:51,396 -I wanna be your best friend. -So you're ready to laugh with me forever? 691 00:28:51,479 --> 00:28:54,649 -'Cause I'mma keep it coming. -[Clay] Oh, okay, okay. 692 00:28:54,733 --> 00:28:57,569 -Look at you making me blush. -[both chuckle] 693 00:28:57,652 --> 00:29:00,697 I think Clay is a ladies' man, 694 00:29:00,780 --> 00:29:02,907 but I'm still so curious. 695 00:29:02,991 --> 00:29:04,284 [laughs] 696 00:29:04,367 --> 00:29:06,035 -[pop music playing] -♪ Brighter ♪ 697 00:29:06,119 --> 00:29:09,038 -♪ It's gonna get -♪ Righter… ♪ 698 00:29:09,122 --> 00:29:11,207 [woman 13 squeals] 699 00:29:11,291 --> 00:29:12,125 [Matthew] Hello. 700 00:29:12,208 --> 00:29:14,002 -[AD] Hello. -This is Matthew. 701 00:29:14,085 --> 00:29:16,171 [AD] Hey, Matthew, it's AD. 702 00:29:16,671 --> 00:29:19,758 [Matthew] Oh, what a pleasant surprise. 703 00:29:19,841 --> 00:29:24,220 I also have a connection with Matthew. 704 00:29:24,304 --> 00:29:25,680 I'm happy it's you. 705 00:29:25,764 --> 00:29:28,767 I will admit I've been looking forward to talking to you all day. 706 00:29:28,850 --> 00:29:30,185 Oh. 707 00:29:30,268 --> 00:29:32,020 [AD] He's kind of like a pistachio. 708 00:29:32,103 --> 00:29:35,356 He's got, like, a hard shell, and if you can, like, crack it, 709 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,318 you get, like, something, like, really nice on the inside. 710 00:29:38,401 --> 00:29:41,696 Me, like, allowing him to come out of his cocoon 711 00:29:41,780 --> 00:29:44,199 on his own, like, natural way, 712 00:29:44,282 --> 00:29:46,409 he's, like, flourishing, like, before my eyes. 713 00:29:46,493 --> 00:29:48,953 I'm, like, randomly thinking about you. 714 00:29:49,037 --> 00:29:53,458 No, seriously, I'm like, "I hope whoever's talking to Matthew's being fucking nice." 715 00:29:53,541 --> 00:29:56,169 [both laugh] 716 00:29:56,252 --> 00:29:57,921 -[AD] Be nice. -Why? 717 00:29:58,004 --> 00:30:01,257 Because. I don't know. I'm just… now I'm like… 718 00:30:01,341 --> 00:30:03,092 -You being a little protective? -[AD] Yeah. 719 00:30:03,176 --> 00:30:04,219 -[Matthew] Yeah? -Yeah. 720 00:30:04,302 --> 00:30:06,888 [both laugh] 721 00:30:06,971 --> 00:30:08,306 I've only been in here one minute, 722 00:30:08,389 --> 00:30:10,475 you're trying to make me blush again? [chuckles] 723 00:30:11,059 --> 00:30:12,560 I have a random question. 724 00:30:13,061 --> 00:30:15,939 What is your favorite music genre? 725 00:30:16,439 --> 00:30:19,442 -Oh, no. Here's the deal-breaker. -[AD laughing] 726 00:30:19,526 --> 00:30:22,195 -Shit. We had such a good run. -[AD laughing] 727 00:30:22,278 --> 00:30:25,323 Uh, I mean, I like rock music. 728 00:30:25,406 --> 00:30:27,492 I also listen to just instrument-only music, 729 00:30:27,575 --> 00:30:29,410 which you may be surprised to hear. 730 00:30:29,494 --> 00:30:30,495 No, I'm not. 731 00:30:30,578 --> 00:30:33,623 I feel like you're not a man that needs many words. [laughs] 732 00:30:33,706 --> 00:30:37,502 -[both laugh] -So I'm not shocked about that. 733 00:30:37,585 --> 00:30:40,421 -What about you? -I like hip-hop, R&B. 734 00:30:40,505 --> 00:30:43,466 I actually do like, like, classic '80s rock. 735 00:30:43,550 --> 00:30:45,385 A little Twisted Sister? 736 00:30:45,468 --> 00:30:47,679 -[AD chuckles] Is that weird? -[chuckles] It's not weird. 737 00:30:47,762 --> 00:30:49,848 I'm just envisioning you there dancing like a goofball. 738 00:30:49,931 --> 00:30:51,516 [AD laughs] 739 00:30:51,599 --> 00:30:53,434 -Do you dance? -I do dance. 740 00:30:53,935 --> 00:30:55,520 [AD] Do you have rhythm? 741 00:30:55,603 --> 00:30:57,272 -More than you would expect. -[AD laughs] 742 00:30:57,355 --> 00:31:00,191 I don't expect a lot, so that's more than enough. 743 00:31:00,275 --> 00:31:02,277 Now, I used to get in a lot of dance-offs. 744 00:31:02,861 --> 00:31:05,113 -Wow. -I got in a dance-off with this guy. 745 00:31:05,196 --> 00:31:08,032 And he was killing it. And I'm like, "Oh, crap, I can't lose." 746 00:31:08,116 --> 00:31:09,492 So I did a split. 747 00:31:09,576 --> 00:31:11,786 -Matthew. -[Matthew] And I tore my hamstring. 748 00:31:11,870 --> 00:31:13,913 -Matthew! Did you win? -[laughing] 749 00:31:13,997 --> 00:31:14,998 No. 750 00:31:15,081 --> 00:31:16,916 Oh, my God. [laughing] 751 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,711 Do you wanna know an irrational fear of mine? 752 00:31:20,295 --> 00:31:22,463 Is that birds will peck my brain out. 753 00:31:22,547 --> 00:31:23,756 -Really? -[AD] Yeah. 754 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,634 Like, attack me and peck my brain out from the top. 755 00:31:26,718 --> 00:31:27,760 Wow. 756 00:31:27,844 --> 00:31:28,928 [laughs] 757 00:31:29,012 --> 00:31:32,515 [Matthew] The visuals I have for you, just dancing around to '80s rock music, 758 00:31:32,599 --> 00:31:36,144 listening to Twisted Sister as birds fly around in your cubicle over there. 759 00:31:36,644 --> 00:31:39,522 [AD laughing] I'm sorry to paint that crazy picture. 760 00:31:39,606 --> 00:31:42,692 That's what I got, and I have no idea what you look like. 761 00:31:46,195 --> 00:31:48,156 I suck at this, dating. 762 00:31:48,239 --> 00:31:52,368 But I just was trying to, like, think of how to tell you 763 00:31:52,452 --> 00:31:56,247 that, like, you make me nervous but comfortable at the same time. 764 00:31:56,331 --> 00:32:00,710 Oh, my gosh. I think you just found the perfect way to say it. 765 00:32:02,962 --> 00:32:05,548 What I'm saying to you, I'm not saying to anybody else. 766 00:32:07,592 --> 00:32:10,595 -Well, that's reassuring. -With you, it feels different to me. 767 00:32:10,678 --> 00:32:14,057 -It does, and I 100% feel that. -Okay. 768 00:32:14,140 --> 00:32:16,893 [AD chuckles] I get, like, so coy when I come talk to you. 769 00:32:18,811 --> 00:32:19,812 Weird. 770 00:32:19,896 --> 00:32:21,272 [Matthew] Yeah, it is weird. 771 00:32:21,356 --> 00:32:24,317 Still trying to figure out how a city girl ends up liking a country boy? 772 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:25,985 [AD] Yeah. Oh, my gosh. 773 00:32:26,069 --> 00:32:27,111 Yes. 774 00:32:27,195 --> 00:32:29,364 [laughing] 775 00:32:29,447 --> 00:32:32,700 -[pop music playing] -[vocalizing] 776 00:32:32,784 --> 00:32:35,244 ♪ I'll be reaching new heights ♪ 777 00:32:38,206 --> 00:32:40,792 ♪ I'll be reaching new heights ♪ 778 00:32:42,335 --> 00:32:45,171 -[woman 2] Who's your number one? -[Jessica] I don't wanna say. 779 00:32:45,254 --> 00:32:46,798 -Let it live. -[Jessica] It's Jimmy. 780 00:32:46,881 --> 00:32:48,091 Ooh! 781 00:32:48,216 --> 00:32:51,219 You care, and that's okay. 782 00:32:51,302 --> 00:32:53,179 -I do. I like him. -[woman 2] You do. 783 00:32:53,262 --> 00:32:55,223 -[woman 2] Okay. -Okay. Now go get your man. 784 00:32:56,015 --> 00:32:59,519 I'm really enjoying my relationship with Jimmy. 785 00:32:59,602 --> 00:33:02,438 Like, the cute, like, excitement that we have for each other, 786 00:33:02,522 --> 00:33:04,065 and how giddy we get when we, like, 787 00:33:04,148 --> 00:33:05,900 realize it's the other one on the other side. 788 00:33:05,984 --> 00:33:07,944 And he's very easy to talk to. 789 00:33:08,027 --> 00:33:10,905 I feel very disarmed around him. Like, I feel like I can let loose. 790 00:33:10,989 --> 00:33:15,034 I feel like the chili sauce in the middle, it's, like, safe. 791 00:33:15,118 --> 00:33:15,952 [Jimmy] Okay. 792 00:33:18,162 --> 00:33:19,539 That's fucking hot, Jess. 793 00:33:19,622 --> 00:33:22,500 Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. [laughs] 794 00:33:22,583 --> 00:33:23,960 It's really hot. 795 00:33:25,044 --> 00:33:26,045 Are you okay? 796 00:33:26,129 --> 00:33:28,089 -That's really hot for me. -Damn. 797 00:33:28,172 --> 00:33:29,424 -It's good? -[Jimmy] That's-- 798 00:33:29,507 --> 00:33:32,135 -Oh, my God. There's two more hotter. -[coughs] 799 00:33:33,428 --> 00:33:35,930 [Jimmy] I have to blow my nose. 800 00:33:36,931 --> 00:33:38,766 -[exhales] -[Jessica laughs] 801 00:33:39,892 --> 00:33:41,227 Okay, blow your nose. 802 00:33:41,811 --> 00:33:43,104 [Jimmy] I blow my nose loud. 803 00:33:43,604 --> 00:33:45,273 This is never gonna work. 804 00:33:45,356 --> 00:33:48,568 -Jess, do not break up with me. -[Jessica laughs] 805 00:33:48,651 --> 00:33:51,529 That is like… Okay, have we talked about pet peeves? 806 00:33:51,612 --> 00:33:53,740 I blow my nose like a stressed-out dad. 807 00:33:53,823 --> 00:33:55,533 [Jessica] Do you want me to cover my ears? 808 00:33:55,616 --> 00:33:58,828 No, I'm gonna have to experience this at some point. Just do it. 809 00:33:58,911 --> 00:34:02,331 [honks] 810 00:34:02,415 --> 00:34:05,168 [laughing] 811 00:34:06,836 --> 00:34:09,297 Oh, my God. Is this a joke? 812 00:34:09,380 --> 00:34:11,007 I'm dead serious. 813 00:34:11,090 --> 00:34:12,884 I don't think that you're doing it right. 814 00:34:12,967 --> 00:34:14,969 [both laugh] 815 00:34:15,053 --> 00:34:17,847 [Jessica] Jimmy is someone that I could see myself with. 816 00:34:17,930 --> 00:34:19,891 It's familiar. 817 00:34:19,974 --> 00:34:21,893 [woman 2] Have you spoken to your daughter? 818 00:34:21,976 --> 00:34:24,604 Oof. No, I haven't talked to her. 819 00:34:24,687 --> 00:34:28,066 -Yeah. That's tough. -It's fine. Ooh. Not me getting emotional. 820 00:34:28,149 --> 00:34:30,610 -Have you talked about her in the pods? -I haven't. 821 00:34:30,693 --> 00:34:33,404 Because that's not something I just toss out there. 822 00:34:33,988 --> 00:34:35,406 [Jessica] I know. I'm such a mom. 823 00:34:35,490 --> 00:34:38,409 -[Amber] You're a hot mom. -[Jessica] That's right. Don't forget it. 824 00:34:38,493 --> 00:34:41,662 [exhales] Today's the day I know I have to tell Jimmy. 825 00:34:41,746 --> 00:34:43,915 I realize, like, we can't move forward. 826 00:34:43,998 --> 00:34:46,959 There are certain conversations we can't have until… 827 00:34:47,794 --> 00:34:50,046 I can tell him that I have a child. 828 00:34:52,882 --> 00:34:53,716 Hello. 829 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:54,967 [Jimmy] What's going on? 830 00:34:55,051 --> 00:34:57,845 -[gasps] My husband. -[laughs] 831 00:34:57,929 --> 00:35:00,223 Wait, oh, my God. Ooh, I just said that out loud. 832 00:35:00,306 --> 00:35:01,641 -[laughs] -[Jessica] Ooh. 833 00:35:01,724 --> 00:35:05,895 I'm sorry. I did not mean to say that out loud. Oh, my God. 834 00:35:05,978 --> 00:35:08,898 -It's okay. I liked it. You know what? -Whew. 835 00:35:08,981 --> 00:35:12,026 I knew when I first walked in here, 836 00:35:12,110 --> 00:35:13,027 the first time, 837 00:35:13,111 --> 00:35:18,366 um, I knew that there was a connection, like, so quick. 838 00:35:18,449 --> 00:35:20,993 -Like, crippling. -[Jimmy] Immediately. 839 00:35:24,038 --> 00:35:26,207 -It sounds crazy, right? But… -[Jessica] Yeah. 840 00:35:26,290 --> 00:35:28,376 …I, like, felt it. And then you told me you felt it. 841 00:35:28,459 --> 00:35:32,213 And I was like, "Oh, I have nothing to be scared about here." 842 00:35:33,256 --> 00:35:34,298 Truthfully, I… 843 00:35:35,049 --> 00:35:38,845 What I'm looking for here is someone that is accepting of my family, 844 00:35:38,928 --> 00:35:42,098 'cause, like, I had, you know, insecurities growing up 845 00:35:42,181 --> 00:35:44,475 that prevented me from dating certain women 846 00:35:44,559 --> 00:35:48,479 that I felt that, like, weren't accepting towards, like, how I grew up, 847 00:35:48,563 --> 00:35:51,649 or, you know, how my family is or how they go about things. 848 00:35:52,316 --> 00:35:53,901 My family is great people. 849 00:35:53,985 --> 00:35:55,695 There's nothing negative. 850 00:35:55,778 --> 00:35:58,573 It's just, like, there was definitely a time in my life 851 00:35:58,656 --> 00:36:01,159 to where I was, like, really insecure about 852 00:36:01,242 --> 00:36:03,911 not having as much as some of my friends in school. 853 00:36:03,995 --> 00:36:08,749 I think I can empathize a lot more than you could probably ever imagine. 854 00:36:09,250 --> 00:36:12,336 There's a lot of things about my childhood 855 00:36:12,420 --> 00:36:17,717 that I feel like people may be hesitant to be, like, accepting of. 856 00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:21,137 So I totally get that, but, like, you should take pride 857 00:36:21,220 --> 00:36:22,680 in whatever you've been through 858 00:36:22,763 --> 00:36:25,349 and whatever has, like, led you to where you are now. 859 00:36:25,433 --> 00:36:27,059 Because you are… 860 00:36:27,143 --> 00:36:30,271 Like, I feel like some of the physical response I have to you 861 00:36:30,354 --> 00:36:34,150 is because I can feel that you are such a good person. 862 00:36:37,486 --> 00:36:39,822 I get that from you as well, and I, like, 863 00:36:40,740 --> 00:36:45,578 wholeheartedly believe that you're one of the most accepting people. 864 00:36:45,661 --> 00:36:48,372 [Jessica] There are so many conversations I wanna have with you. 865 00:36:48,456 --> 00:36:50,374 There are so many things I wanna know about you. 866 00:36:50,458 --> 00:36:52,335 I think the most important parts of me 867 00:36:52,418 --> 00:36:56,464 I've had the hardest time sharing with you, 'cause I'm, like, so terrified 868 00:36:57,548 --> 00:36:59,550 about, like, how you're gonna receive it. 869 00:37:00,968 --> 00:37:02,345 Sounds like a secret. 870 00:37:02,845 --> 00:37:05,890 When I think of "secretive," I think of something that has, like, a negative… 871 00:37:07,225 --> 00:37:09,810 I don't know. It's not anything like that. 872 00:37:13,189 --> 00:37:15,691 I have a ten-year-old daughter. 873 00:37:21,614 --> 00:37:22,990 I'm not just gonna coast over that. 874 00:37:23,074 --> 00:37:26,035 Like, I'm delivering that like it's not a big thing. 875 00:37:26,994 --> 00:37:30,206 Me addressing that with you and telling you, like, 876 00:37:30,289 --> 00:37:34,961 that's the most important part of my life. 877 00:37:36,170 --> 00:37:39,090 You know, there's certain conversations we can't have 878 00:37:39,173 --> 00:37:40,758 without you knowing that first. 879 00:37:49,892 --> 00:37:53,187 How come we didn't talk about that earlier? 880 00:37:54,313 --> 00:37:58,109 It's not something I'm just gonna, like, lead with, 881 00:37:58,192 --> 00:38:02,405 because I want people to, like, get to know me as an individual first. 882 00:38:02,488 --> 00:38:05,908 And, like, establish a relationship with me, 883 00:38:05,992 --> 00:38:07,702 even though I'm so proud of it. 884 00:38:07,785 --> 00:38:09,954 It's my greatest accomplishment. It's-- 885 00:38:10,871 --> 00:38:12,373 I wanna talk about it, 886 00:38:12,456 --> 00:38:16,085 but, you know, we haven't talked about, like, 887 00:38:16,168 --> 00:38:18,045 "When do you wanna have children?" 888 00:38:18,129 --> 00:38:19,797 or, like, "How many kids do you wanna have?" 889 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,216 'Cause that's a good conversation starter 890 00:38:22,300 --> 00:38:24,802 for me to be like, "Okay, well, yeah, like, 891 00:38:24,885 --> 00:38:26,804 I kind of already have a head start on that." 892 00:38:26,887 --> 00:38:29,557 "I have a child from a previous relationship." 893 00:38:32,810 --> 00:38:33,728 [Jimmy] Yeah. 894 00:38:36,814 --> 00:38:38,858 I-- I totally get it. 895 00:38:38,941 --> 00:38:43,863 I wouldn't want you to throw that at me first thing. 896 00:38:43,946 --> 00:38:45,990 By the way, I'm not, um… 897 00:38:48,284 --> 00:38:52,538 That's not a deal-breaker for me, and I don't think, like… 898 00:38:54,373 --> 00:38:57,293 I don't know. It's just like I feel like I've gotten to know you so much. 899 00:38:57,376 --> 00:38:59,628 And, you know, I like you a lot. 900 00:38:59,712 --> 00:39:00,880 And I'd like to… 901 00:39:02,673 --> 00:39:04,508 I'd like to just hear more about it. 902 00:39:04,592 --> 00:39:05,885 What's her name? 903 00:39:05,968 --> 00:39:09,221 -Her name is Autumn, like the season. -[Jimmy] Mm-hmm. 904 00:39:10,806 --> 00:39:15,144 And she's, I mean, the most important part of my life, so… 905 00:39:15,644 --> 00:39:19,106 -[Jimmy] She's your best friend. -She is my best friend. 906 00:39:19,190 --> 00:39:21,275 I appreciate you sharing that, um… 907 00:39:22,610 --> 00:39:23,819 That-- that's incredible. 908 00:39:25,696 --> 00:39:26,947 Can I ask, like… 909 00:39:28,741 --> 00:39:30,785 -She's ten years old? -[Jessica] Mm-hmm. 910 00:39:32,703 --> 00:39:34,372 Um, is that like… 911 00:39:36,207 --> 00:39:39,335 Was that someone that you were just dating? 912 00:39:39,418 --> 00:39:42,713 Is that someone that you were married to? I gotta ask. 913 00:39:42,797 --> 00:39:46,300 So her dad and I actually met in elementary school. 914 00:39:47,176 --> 00:39:50,888 Um, and we kind of just grew up together. 915 00:39:50,971 --> 00:39:53,391 We were always friends. I moved around a lot. 916 00:39:53,474 --> 00:39:55,768 Like, elementary, middle and high school. 917 00:39:55,851 --> 00:39:57,728 -Mm-hmm. -[Jessica] And we were always friends. 918 00:39:57,812 --> 00:40:00,356 He was kind of, like, my constant, my home base. 919 00:40:00,439 --> 00:40:04,193 And then my senior year of high school, I got pregnant. 920 00:40:04,276 --> 00:40:08,030 It wasn't one of those things where I was, like, sleeping around. 921 00:40:08,864 --> 00:40:12,284 -No, I got you. I don't suspect that. -[Jessica] I know, but, like, still. 922 00:40:12,952 --> 00:40:14,286 We were never married. 923 00:40:14,370 --> 00:40:17,957 We broke up probably a year after she was born. 924 00:40:18,707 --> 00:40:21,419 -[Jimmy] Mm-hmm. -Which was fine. Like, we co-parent great. 925 00:40:21,502 --> 00:40:23,045 He's still part of her life. 926 00:40:23,546 --> 00:40:26,215 -He's a great father. -[Jimmy] That's good. That's great. 927 00:40:26,298 --> 00:40:28,592 It is great. Very blessed, very fortunate. 928 00:40:29,593 --> 00:40:32,179 -So, yeah, no, I was never married. -Mm-hmm. 929 00:40:32,847 --> 00:40:33,973 Never been married. 930 00:40:34,765 --> 00:40:37,101 -I wanna be. -[Jimmy chuckles] Yeah. 931 00:40:40,646 --> 00:40:42,398 I have feelings for you. 932 00:40:43,065 --> 00:40:46,694 And I knew the first time I talked to you that you were here for the right reasons. 933 00:40:46,777 --> 00:40:48,070 And that-- 934 00:40:48,154 --> 00:40:52,366 Um, I mean, it's just-- it's another piece of who you are. 935 00:40:52,450 --> 00:40:55,202 -I mean, we're a package deal. -[Jimmy chuckles] Yeah. 936 00:40:55,286 --> 00:40:57,204 -We are. -[Jimmy] Yeah, I know. 937 00:40:58,747 --> 00:41:00,416 I like talking to you a lot. 938 00:41:01,750 --> 00:41:02,710 I do too. 939 00:41:02,793 --> 00:41:07,715 -[pop music playing] -♪ 940 00:41:07,798 --> 00:41:10,718 Finding out that Jess has a daughter at home, it's a lot to take in. 941 00:41:10,801 --> 00:41:14,263 So I've gotta really think things through and figure out what I want. 942 00:41:14,346 --> 00:41:17,224 But what I do know is that we definitely have a connection. 943 00:41:17,308 --> 00:41:21,395 ♪ With all of these feelings This is new ♪ 944 00:41:21,479 --> 00:41:23,063 -Chelsea. -Hey. 945 00:41:23,147 --> 00:41:24,148 [Jimmy] What's going on? 946 00:41:24,231 --> 00:41:27,234 At the same time, I also, like, 947 00:41:27,318 --> 00:41:29,737 have a really good connection with Chelsea. 948 00:41:29,820 --> 00:41:32,573 And I wanna continue to get to know her and talk to her. 949 00:41:32,656 --> 00:41:35,618 The fact that I can see myself proposing to somebody here, 950 00:41:35,701 --> 00:41:36,660 it's crazy. 951 00:41:36,744 --> 00:41:41,332 ♪ This is new ♪ 952 00:41:41,457 --> 00:41:42,875 [Chelsea] Your biggest achievement. 953 00:41:43,876 --> 00:41:46,086 [Jimmy] Going to college. I-- 954 00:41:46,170 --> 00:41:48,422 Like, that sounds so small, 955 00:41:48,506 --> 00:41:51,592 but I was first-generation college student, both sides of the family. 956 00:41:51,675 --> 00:41:52,676 That's huge. 957 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,804 Yeah. It's a big part of who I am. 958 00:41:55,888 --> 00:41:58,849 And, like, a lot of people do it, but I'm really proud that I did it. 959 00:41:58,933 --> 00:42:01,018 My parents didn't really support me going. 960 00:42:01,101 --> 00:42:03,646 They thought I was gonna waste all my money… 961 00:42:03,729 --> 00:42:05,814 -[Chelsea] Yeah. -…and not do anything with it. 962 00:42:05,898 --> 00:42:08,651 You know what? They're-- they're really proud of me now. 963 00:42:08,734 --> 00:42:10,402 That's a great accomplishment. 964 00:42:12,488 --> 00:42:14,114 I didn't go to school. 965 00:42:15,241 --> 00:42:19,119 I have done trade school after trade school. 966 00:42:19,203 --> 00:42:20,913 I'm a yoga instructor. 967 00:42:20,996 --> 00:42:22,831 I went to beauty school as well. 968 00:42:23,749 --> 00:42:26,085 I just never felt the need to go to college. 969 00:42:26,168 --> 00:42:28,921 I was the only one 970 00:42:29,004 --> 00:42:33,759 in my flight attendant training who didn't go to college. 971 00:42:36,053 --> 00:42:39,306 I bet you you're the best damn one over there too. 972 00:42:44,144 --> 00:42:46,522 You know, that's really sweet of you. 973 00:42:46,605 --> 00:42:48,274 [both laugh] 974 00:42:50,776 --> 00:42:54,280 [chuckles] I do have something to just kind of lay out there. 975 00:42:54,863 --> 00:42:55,781 Oh, boy. 976 00:42:55,864 --> 00:42:58,200 [Chelsea] It's pretty important, but… 977 00:42:58,284 --> 00:43:03,080 And it could be a red flag, but it's a part of my journey of my life. 978 00:43:03,163 --> 00:43:04,164 Okay. 979 00:43:08,419 --> 00:43:10,004 I got married. 980 00:43:15,718 --> 00:43:17,344 When I was very young. 981 00:43:18,637 --> 00:43:19,555 How young? 982 00:43:20,055 --> 00:43:23,392 I was 18. He was my high school sweetheart. 983 00:43:25,185 --> 00:43:29,315 We were married for almost five years, but it was just not my person. 984 00:43:35,946 --> 00:43:38,324 [Jimmy splutters] I mean… 985 00:43:40,326 --> 00:43:41,952 -It doesn't scare me. -Well, good. 986 00:43:42,036 --> 00:43:44,872 I heard bigger news today that scared me 987 00:43:45,497 --> 00:43:46,582 a little bit more. [laughs] 988 00:43:46,665 --> 00:43:48,250 About me or just in general? 989 00:43:48,334 --> 00:43:49,668 -[Jimmy] Other people. -Oh. 990 00:43:51,253 --> 00:43:52,463 Sorry to bring up other people. 991 00:43:54,381 --> 00:43:56,884 I just have had a lot dumped on me today. [chuckles] 992 00:43:56,967 --> 00:43:58,302 [Chelsea] I am so sorry. 993 00:43:58,385 --> 00:44:02,222 -Like, are you good? 'Cause I'm-- -[Jimmy] I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. 994 00:44:03,599 --> 00:44:06,018 It's-- it's a good thing that you told me. 995 00:44:06,101 --> 00:44:09,063 And I'm not judging you for that. 996 00:44:09,855 --> 00:44:14,818 Um, and… I'm just trying to figure out how to change the subject. 997 00:44:14,902 --> 00:44:17,655 [chuckles] 'Cause I don't wanna lead you in the wrong direction 998 00:44:17,738 --> 00:44:19,281 if I, like, I wanna collect my thoughts. 999 00:44:19,365 --> 00:44:20,574 -You know? -Mm-hmm. 1000 00:44:22,910 --> 00:44:24,161 [Jimmy] Is that okay? 1001 00:44:27,122 --> 00:44:29,249 [Chelsea sighs] 1002 00:44:29,333 --> 00:44:32,836 Yeah, that's okay. [sobs] 1003 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,381 -[sniffles] Sorry, I'm just emotional. -[Jimmy] Chelsea. 1004 00:44:35,464 --> 00:44:37,966 Oh, God. [laughs, sniffles] 1005 00:44:38,050 --> 00:44:40,260 I think I'm just emotional 'cause… [sniffles] 1006 00:44:40,803 --> 00:44:42,221 …it's kind of hard for me to… 1007 00:44:43,097 --> 00:44:45,224 I don't know. I was nervous to tell you that. [sniffles] 1008 00:44:45,307 --> 00:44:48,894 [Jimmy] I don't want you to think, like, anything negative of it. 1009 00:44:48,977 --> 00:44:51,772 It's just I don't wanna lead anybody in the wrong direction. 1010 00:44:51,855 --> 00:44:54,942 'Cause I tend to catch feelings pretty fast. 1011 00:44:55,526 --> 00:44:57,027 [Chelsea] Yeah, I do too. 1012 00:44:58,070 --> 00:45:00,614 You're not gonna like everyone. That's okay. 1013 00:45:00,698 --> 00:45:02,449 [Chelsea laughs. sniffles] 1014 00:45:02,533 --> 00:45:06,453 That's the exact opposite of what I'm trying to tell you right now. 1015 00:45:06,537 --> 00:45:09,164 -["Better by Now" by Josh Tobias playing] -♪ And these voices… ♪ 1016 00:45:10,290 --> 00:45:11,125 [sniffles] 1017 00:45:13,377 --> 00:45:15,421 ♪ They both weigh me… ♪ 1018 00:45:15,504 --> 00:45:17,881 [Chelsea shudders] 1019 00:45:17,965 --> 00:45:20,092 ♪ Weigh me down ♪ 1020 00:45:20,175 --> 00:45:22,261 [Chelsea continues shuddering] 1021 00:45:24,263 --> 00:45:26,724 [sniffles] 1022 00:45:27,850 --> 00:45:28,767 [sniffles] 1023 00:45:30,352 --> 00:45:31,353 Fuck. 1024 00:45:31,854 --> 00:45:33,355 -[women chattering] -[Chelsea sniffles] 1025 00:45:33,439 --> 00:45:34,898 What happened? 1026 00:45:34,982 --> 00:45:36,650 -I don't know. -What-- 1027 00:45:36,734 --> 00:45:39,278 [Chelsea] I told him I was divorced, and it was like… 1028 00:45:40,904 --> 00:45:44,116 -[woman 3] His reaction was super weird? -[Chelsea splutters] I don't even know. 1029 00:45:44,199 --> 00:45:45,409 [Danette] Shit. 1030 00:45:45,492 --> 00:45:47,453 [Chelsea squeals, sniffles] 1031 00:45:49,830 --> 00:45:50,706 [exhales] 1032 00:45:51,915 --> 00:45:53,792 ♪ From the rain ♪ 1033 00:45:53,876 --> 00:45:57,212 ♪ 1034 00:45:57,296 --> 00:46:00,299 ♪ Thought I'd be somebody new ♪ 1035 00:46:00,382 --> 00:46:02,384 ♪ This time around ♪ 1036 00:46:03,135 --> 00:46:07,765 ♪ Or at least be better by now ♪ 1037 00:46:08,348 --> 00:46:11,393 [Chelsea] I was excited to have fun time with you today. 1038 00:46:11,477 --> 00:46:12,436 [Trevor] Aww. 1039 00:46:13,020 --> 00:46:15,355 I feel like every time is fun time with us. 1040 00:46:15,439 --> 00:46:16,982 [Chelsea] That's very true. 1041 00:46:17,065 --> 00:46:19,735 -Is that a bad thing? -No. [blows raspberries] 1042 00:46:19,818 --> 00:46:21,195 [laughs] 1043 00:46:21,278 --> 00:46:25,032 That's, like, the main thing that other people lack in life. 1044 00:46:25,115 --> 00:46:26,158 [Chelsea] That's very true. 1045 00:46:26,909 --> 00:46:30,037 [Trevor] Yes, if you take me to, like, a family member's funeral, 1046 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:33,123 I am going to be 100% serious and, like, support you. 1047 00:46:33,207 --> 00:46:34,458 -[Chelsea] Yeah. -And be there. 1048 00:46:34,541 --> 00:46:38,253 But, like, life-- those are small moments in life 1049 00:46:38,337 --> 00:46:40,589 that don't take up a vast majority of time. 1050 00:46:40,672 --> 00:46:41,715 That's very true. 1051 00:46:41,799 --> 00:46:44,760 -[Trevor] Like, I want fun first. -Me too. 1052 00:46:45,469 --> 00:46:49,807 Ooh! Look at, like, the box thing with the question mark. 1053 00:46:49,890 --> 00:46:51,558 -[Trevor] Mm-hmm. -Let's do that. 1054 00:46:51,642 --> 00:46:55,896 "Have you ever told someone 'I love you' but didn't mean it? If so, why?" 1055 00:46:56,939 --> 00:46:58,315 [Chelsea] Mm. 1056 00:46:58,398 --> 00:46:59,983 [exhales] 1057 00:47:00,943 --> 00:47:06,990 I have told my three serious relationships that I have loved them, 1058 00:47:07,658 --> 00:47:10,786 but I don't think it was really what I was feeling, if that makes sense. 1059 00:47:10,869 --> 00:47:12,788 Yeah. No, my answer is exactly the same. 1060 00:47:12,871 --> 00:47:15,749 Like, when you're in high school and you tell them you love them. 1061 00:47:15,833 --> 00:47:18,126 -[Chelsea] Yeah. Right. -You have nothing to base it off of. 1062 00:47:18,210 --> 00:47:20,879 So in that moment, it definitely is love to you. 1063 00:47:20,963 --> 00:47:23,382 But then, like, you meet someone 1064 00:47:23,465 --> 00:47:27,177 who is a little more serious with the relationship further on, 1065 00:47:27,261 --> 00:47:29,638 and you're like, "Whoa, this is what love is." 1066 00:47:31,306 --> 00:47:32,641 The last girl I was with, 1067 00:47:32,724 --> 00:47:34,351 I would've put money that we'd get married. 1068 00:47:34,434 --> 00:47:35,853 We talked about it all the time. 1069 00:47:36,436 --> 00:47:39,398 What kind of stopped you from proposing? 1070 00:47:40,732 --> 00:47:45,612 Uh, I would say I need to be 1,000% sure. 1071 00:47:46,446 --> 00:47:48,699 And if there's anything I question, 1072 00:47:49,950 --> 00:47:53,954 even though this person might match, like, 98% of the way, 1073 00:47:54,037 --> 00:47:56,081 like, I'm waiting for the 100. 1074 00:47:56,665 --> 00:47:59,042 Have you been, like, close to getting married? 1075 00:47:59,626 --> 00:48:01,211 Well, I was married. 1076 00:48:01,295 --> 00:48:02,838 Oh. Well… 1077 00:48:04,673 --> 00:48:06,967 So you would say that was "close"? 1078 00:48:07,551 --> 00:48:09,970 -[both chuckle] -Wait, I told you that, right? 1079 00:48:10,053 --> 00:48:12,222 -[Trevor] I don't know if you did. -Wait. 1080 00:48:12,306 --> 00:48:15,893 [Trevor] I think you might have told that the first minutes into us ever meeting. 1081 00:48:15,976 --> 00:48:19,271 -Okay, so let's revisit for a second. -Let's revisit that. 1082 00:48:19,354 --> 00:48:21,940 -[Trevor] How long were you married for? -I was married-- 1083 00:48:22,024 --> 00:48:25,527 I got married very young. And I was married for five years. 1084 00:48:25,611 --> 00:48:28,989 -We did not talk about this. -Oh, my gosh. Yeah. 1085 00:48:29,072 --> 00:48:31,366 I loved being married. 1086 00:48:31,450 --> 00:48:35,203 I loved my partner. 1087 00:48:35,287 --> 00:48:37,789 At least I thought I did, 'cause I was very young. 1088 00:48:37,873 --> 00:48:40,292 -Like you said, you don't really know. -Yeah. 1089 00:48:41,001 --> 00:48:44,963 But I don't necessarily think it was true, true love. 1090 00:48:45,047 --> 00:48:47,591 It was just two kids who were getting out of their parents' house. 1091 00:48:48,759 --> 00:48:51,261 But we had an awesome relationship, and we just… 1092 00:48:51,345 --> 00:48:53,096 we just grew apart, and it was fine. 1093 00:48:53,180 --> 00:48:56,099 And I wish nothing but the best for him. 1094 00:48:56,642 --> 00:48:57,643 [Trevor] Okay. 1095 00:48:57,726 --> 00:49:00,312 That's good. That's good you don't have any animosity. 1096 00:49:00,395 --> 00:49:02,773 That doesn't, like, faze me whatsoever. [chuckles] 1097 00:49:02,856 --> 00:49:03,774 [chuckles] That's good. 1098 00:49:05,150 --> 00:49:08,445 I've gotten a few reactions this go-around, 1099 00:49:08,528 --> 00:49:10,447 so it's been kind of wild. 1100 00:49:11,031 --> 00:49:13,283 Dude, people want like… 1101 00:49:14,826 --> 00:49:18,205 like, a fairy-tale life where, like… 1102 00:49:18,288 --> 00:49:21,416 oh, their wife has never even kissed someone else. 1103 00:49:21,500 --> 00:49:23,794 -Like, that's not life. -[Chelsea] Mm-hmm. 1104 00:49:23,877 --> 00:49:25,462 -[Trevor chuckles] You know, like… -Yeah. 1105 00:49:25,545 --> 00:49:27,631 [Trevor] At this age, it's very hard to find someone 1106 00:49:27,714 --> 00:49:31,718 who hasn't either been married or, like, really close to being married. 1107 00:49:31,802 --> 00:49:33,220 Yeah, totally. 1108 00:49:33,303 --> 00:49:35,722 I feel like it would be kind of not weird, but like… 1109 00:49:35,806 --> 00:49:39,851 It would be a red flag if they never had a serious relationship to this point. 1110 00:49:39,935 --> 00:49:41,561 [Chelsea] Yeah, I totally agree. 1111 00:49:41,645 --> 00:49:43,855 I know you're clearly here for the same reason I am, 1112 00:49:43,939 --> 00:49:47,734 but, like, are you really, like, ready for 1113 00:49:48,860 --> 00:49:51,196 something that crazy serious? 1114 00:49:51,697 --> 00:49:53,031 With you? Yes. 1115 00:49:56,410 --> 00:49:59,162 -You should have seen my face. [laughing] -Aww. 1116 00:49:59,246 --> 00:50:03,166 You were the first person where I was like, "You know what?" 1117 00:50:03,250 --> 00:50:05,002 "That wouldn't be such a weird idea." 1118 00:50:05,085 --> 00:50:08,588 [pop music playing] 1119 00:50:08,672 --> 00:50:12,009 And now it's like that might be a good idea. 1120 00:50:13,051 --> 00:50:13,969 [Chelsea laughs] 1121 00:50:14,052 --> 00:50:15,429 [laughs] 1122 00:50:15,512 --> 00:50:17,264 [chuckles] 1123 00:50:18,515 --> 00:50:19,641 Whoo! 1124 00:50:19,725 --> 00:50:23,353 ♪ I wanna be, I wanna be here ♪ 1125 00:50:25,856 --> 00:50:27,691 I'm actually putting some thought into this. 1126 00:50:27,774 --> 00:50:30,527 -You better appreciate this. [laughs] -[Johnny] Really? 1127 00:50:30,610 --> 00:50:32,904 I have to say, so I thought of one. 1128 00:50:32,988 --> 00:50:35,949 -[Amy] Oh, boy. -It was very not deep. 1129 00:50:36,033 --> 00:50:38,452 Um, but I think it's still pretty good. 1130 00:50:38,535 --> 00:50:39,911 Okay, I'm ready. 1131 00:50:39,995 --> 00:50:41,955 So it starts off… [hums blues melody] 1132 00:50:42,039 --> 00:50:43,623 -[Amy] Oh, God. -♪ 1133 00:50:43,707 --> 00:50:45,792 ♪ [hums blues melody] 1134 00:50:45,876 --> 00:50:48,962 ♪ They sit and drool 1135 00:50:49,046 --> 00:50:51,089 -[hums blues melody] ♪ -[laughs] 1136 00:50:51,173 --> 00:50:53,925 ♪ They all drool 1137 00:50:54,009 --> 00:50:56,386 ♪ 1138 00:50:56,470 --> 00:50:59,056 -[laughs] -[Johnny] ♪ 1139 00:50:59,139 --> 00:51:01,391 ♪ 1140 00:51:01,475 --> 00:51:03,060 ♪ 1141 00:51:03,935 --> 00:51:06,229 ♪ I, uh, um… ♪ 1142 00:51:07,064 --> 00:51:09,733 -Fuck was the next verse? [grunting] -[laughs] 1143 00:51:09,816 --> 00:51:11,568 Oh, no, stage fright. Oh, my God! 1144 00:51:11,651 --> 00:51:12,986 [laughing] 1145 00:51:13,070 --> 00:51:16,281 In the pods, we're really able to do everything and anything, 1146 00:51:16,364 --> 00:51:19,785 even though, like, there's the moments that we need to be serious 1147 00:51:19,868 --> 00:51:21,745 and make sure that our values align. 1148 00:51:21,828 --> 00:51:25,082 It's incredibly important for me to have fun with my partner. 1149 00:51:25,165 --> 00:51:28,668 With Johnny, I feel like he can get really deep, 1150 00:51:29,503 --> 00:51:31,797 but also be fun and light-hearted. 1151 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:33,840 -I give that a nine. -Let's go. 1152 00:51:33,924 --> 00:51:37,594 He makes me laugh, and that's a beautiful thing. 1153 00:51:37,677 --> 00:51:39,096 [laughs] 1154 00:51:39,179 --> 00:51:41,932 -[pop music playing] -♪ Taking our time ♪ 1155 00:51:42,015 --> 00:51:43,850 ♪ Ain't got no stress ♪ 1156 00:51:43,934 --> 00:51:44,976 Oh, shit. 1157 00:51:45,811 --> 00:51:47,771 -What? -I ripped my pants. 1158 00:51:47,854 --> 00:51:50,941 -No, you didn't. [laughs] -Yes. 1159 00:51:51,024 --> 00:51:53,860 [laughs] 1160 00:51:53,944 --> 00:51:55,070 -I love that. -[laughing] 1161 00:51:55,153 --> 00:51:57,906 ♪ We're having fun, I got all the love… ♪ 1162 00:51:57,989 --> 00:52:00,117 -[Sunni] Put your hands in the air. -Hands in the air. 1163 00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,202 -[Sunni] Touch your toes. -Touch my toes. 1164 00:52:02,285 --> 00:52:03,537 Turn five times. [chuckles] 1165 00:52:03,620 --> 00:52:04,830 [Ben] Turn five times? 1166 00:52:04,913 --> 00:52:07,833 -Oh, God. I'm dizzy. -Are you doing this stuff? 1167 00:52:07,916 --> 00:52:10,085 -[laughs] -[Ben] Oh, my God. 1168 00:52:10,168 --> 00:52:11,461 ♪ You won't believe it ♪ 1169 00:52:11,545 --> 00:52:14,339 Where I feel most sexy is in my business attire. 1170 00:52:14,422 --> 00:52:17,551 Nice shirt, couple buttons down, some chest hair flow. 1171 00:52:17,634 --> 00:52:21,054 -Let 'em know I got some taco meat up top. -[laughing] 1172 00:52:21,138 --> 00:52:24,182 [Nolan] You know, do the hair and get myself together. 1173 00:52:24,266 --> 00:52:28,645 Hang on. Hang on. I gotta go back really quick. 1174 00:52:28,728 --> 00:52:31,565 Did you refer to chest hair as taco meat? 1175 00:52:31,648 --> 00:52:34,442 -Yeah, a little taco meat up top. -[laughing] 1176 00:52:34,526 --> 00:52:36,945 -[Nolan] Yeah. -[laughing] 1177 00:52:37,028 --> 00:52:39,698 [pop music playing] 1178 00:52:49,749 --> 00:52:51,793 -[woman 3] Have fun. -[woman 14] You too. 1179 00:52:51,877 --> 00:52:52,711 [woman 3] Thanks. 1180 00:52:52,794 --> 00:52:55,255 -[AD] What you been up to? -Just talking to my man. 1181 00:52:55,338 --> 00:52:56,715 [AD] Mm-hmm. My man. My man. 1182 00:52:56,798 --> 00:52:57,924 My mans. 1183 00:52:58,008 --> 00:52:59,718 -[AD] Yeah. Yeah. -Yeah. 1184 00:52:59,801 --> 00:53:01,970 -[AD] It's been good for me. -[Amber] It's been good. 1185 00:53:02,053 --> 00:53:03,597 -Really good. -I love that for us. 1186 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:04,681 -Thank you. -Yeah. 1187 00:53:04,764 --> 00:53:07,893 [AD] All the girls are, like, so sweet, like, so supportive. 1188 00:53:07,976 --> 00:53:11,813 But, I mean, the lounge has switched up! 1189 00:53:12,397 --> 00:53:16,735 We are no longer, like, Chatty Catties in there anymore. 1190 00:53:16,818 --> 00:53:19,029 We're like, "Yeah, this person…" 1191 00:53:19,112 --> 00:53:20,864 We're so elusive. 1192 00:53:20,947 --> 00:53:23,158 "I'm gonna tell you, but, like, don't tell anybody." 1193 00:53:23,241 --> 00:53:26,161 Like, we are keeping our men tight. 1194 00:53:26,244 --> 00:53:28,997 [Amber] No, like, literally, today… 1195 00:53:29,664 --> 00:53:31,041 I made a man cry. 1196 00:53:31,124 --> 00:53:32,709 -You made a man cry? -[Amber] Mm-hmm. 1197 00:53:33,293 --> 00:53:34,794 It was actually really sweet. 1198 00:53:34,878 --> 00:53:38,340 [laughing] These next two are gonna be very telling for me, in the best way. 1199 00:53:38,423 --> 00:53:41,801 [Amber] Oh, my God. 1200 00:53:42,427 --> 00:53:43,762 Is it who I think? 1201 00:53:44,262 --> 00:53:45,597 I don't know who you think. 1202 00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,892 -[Amber] Hmm. -I don't know who you think. 1203 00:53:48,975 --> 00:53:51,853 ♪ But I'm willing To risk it all for you… ♪ 1204 00:53:52,437 --> 00:53:55,232 [Clay] I'm really happy that you chose to do this night date with me. 1205 00:53:55,315 --> 00:53:57,984 Yeah. I know there's competition. 1206 00:53:58,693 --> 00:54:03,073 You know, my dad is one of the most smoothest and suave guys I know. 1207 00:54:03,156 --> 00:54:04,658 -Mm-hmm. -[Clay] I looked up to my dad. 1208 00:54:04,741 --> 00:54:06,826 I've always felt like as a man, like, 1209 00:54:06,910 --> 00:54:11,081 I should probably emulate who you look up to the most, you know? 1210 00:54:11,164 --> 00:54:12,582 My ego is very huge. 1211 00:54:12,666 --> 00:54:14,542 Like, and it's been a pro. 1212 00:54:14,626 --> 00:54:16,503 -And it's also been a con for me. -Mm-hmm. 1213 00:54:16,586 --> 00:54:19,506 And naturally, I am a smooth guy, but the suaveness, 1214 00:54:19,589 --> 00:54:21,007 like, the chill, the coolness, 1215 00:54:21,091 --> 00:54:24,261 it's, like, a little bit of a security blanket. 1216 00:54:24,970 --> 00:54:28,265 You know, I've always felt like I could get women, 1217 00:54:28,348 --> 00:54:30,642 but there's been a lot of women that I loved. 1218 00:54:30,725 --> 00:54:34,145 I've never felt like I was chose by the one, like, that I wanted. 1219 00:54:36,106 --> 00:54:37,440 I guess maybe the way I come off, 1220 00:54:37,524 --> 00:54:40,485 maybe I don't provide that sense of security emotionally. 1221 00:54:40,568 --> 00:54:42,320 -Mm-hmm. -[Clay] Maybe it's not as comforting. 1222 00:54:43,154 --> 00:54:46,700 And the thing is, AD, this experience has definitely been an eye-opener for me. 1223 00:54:46,783 --> 00:54:49,619 -I don't have the physical to lean on. -Mm. 1224 00:54:49,703 --> 00:54:51,454 Even if I'm talking about financial stability, 1225 00:54:51,538 --> 00:54:54,791 like, I'm not taking you on a date for you to see my money and the things I got. 1226 00:54:54,874 --> 00:54:57,961 Like, all I got is the conversation and building with you. 1227 00:54:59,671 --> 00:55:02,090 I really appreciate the fact that you came and told me, 1228 00:55:02,173 --> 00:55:04,217 like, "Yo, Clay, I wanna get to know you better." 1229 00:55:04,301 --> 00:55:07,929 Like, that's really validation for me that I need to hear. 1230 00:55:08,013 --> 00:55:09,723 -'Cause I don't hear that often. -[AD] Yeah. 1231 00:55:10,307 --> 00:55:11,808 [Clay] Somebody like me is just like, 1232 00:55:11,891 --> 00:55:14,227 the way to get to my heart is if I could trust you. 1233 00:55:14,311 --> 00:55:15,770 -So. Yeah. -Yeah. 1234 00:55:17,439 --> 00:55:19,190 [sighs] Clay. 1235 00:55:20,317 --> 00:55:21,526 Clay. Clay. Clay. 1236 00:55:21,609 --> 00:55:24,112 -I feel like I understand you. -Mm-hmm. 1237 00:55:24,863 --> 00:55:31,077 And I feel like as a man of your caliber, 1238 00:55:31,161 --> 00:55:34,205 which I assume that you have caliber because you tell me so. 1239 00:55:34,289 --> 00:55:35,123 [Clay laughs] 1240 00:55:35,206 --> 00:55:37,334 [AD] To, like, be that vulnerable and be like, 1241 00:55:37,417 --> 00:55:38,752 "Look, this is where I came from." 1242 00:55:38,835 --> 00:55:41,504 "This is what I know, but I want different," 1243 00:55:41,588 --> 00:55:42,881 is, like, honorable. 1244 00:55:42,964 --> 00:55:43,798 Yeah. 1245 00:55:45,383 --> 00:55:46,509 I appreciate that. 1246 00:55:47,010 --> 00:55:50,221 I wanna get to know you more and take it to the next level, you know? 1247 00:55:50,805 --> 00:55:54,184 Yeah, that's making me really happy. 1248 00:55:56,144 --> 00:55:57,854 [Clay] I just feel like my worst fear 1249 00:55:57,937 --> 00:56:01,691 is, like, we fall in love. We have this beautiful connection. 1250 00:56:01,775 --> 00:56:04,110 It's like, you know, we do the reveal, and it's like, 1251 00:56:04,194 --> 00:56:07,072 "Oh, wow. Like, we never really talked about physical." 1252 00:56:07,155 --> 00:56:09,407 And like, that is important to me. 1253 00:56:10,992 --> 00:56:14,412 Like, love is blind. Like, I get it. Trust me. I get it. 1254 00:56:15,246 --> 00:56:18,500 I just wanna have that reveal door and, like, 1255 00:56:18,583 --> 00:56:21,169 you know, be super turned on by my wife, you know? 1256 00:56:21,252 --> 00:56:24,422 In what way do you wanna talk about appearance 1257 00:56:24,506 --> 00:56:28,385 in an experiment where we're not talking about appearance? 1258 00:56:28,468 --> 00:56:30,637 I just have to be attracted to you. 1259 00:56:30,720 --> 00:56:35,266 Do you have, like, a specific thing that you're hoping comes through that door 1260 00:56:35,350 --> 00:56:40,230 or are you open to, like, a beauty that maybe you've never explored? 1261 00:56:40,313 --> 00:56:43,650 Naturally, I would say, I've kind of leaned towards more, like, petite. 1262 00:56:43,733 --> 00:56:47,112 My favorite attribute is, like, lips, butt and all that stuff. 1263 00:56:47,195 --> 00:56:49,322 That sounds, like, so shallow and all that, 1264 00:56:49,406 --> 00:56:52,450 but, like, hearing what your best attributes are, 1265 00:56:52,534 --> 00:56:55,620 if I'mma propose, that's something I need to know. 1266 00:56:56,204 --> 00:56:58,081 Regardless of the emotional connection. 1267 00:56:58,164 --> 00:57:00,333 -Regardless of the emotional connection. -Yeah. 1268 00:57:02,877 --> 00:57:05,588 You know what, bro? What do you mean, tell you what I look like? 1269 00:57:05,672 --> 00:57:09,426 Like, I do have, like, a very basic name, and, like, super soft voice. 1270 00:57:09,509 --> 00:57:10,885 I could be literally anything. 1271 00:57:10,969 --> 00:57:13,346 And, like, somebody trying to guess exactly what I look like 1272 00:57:13,430 --> 00:57:14,597 is a turn-off for me, 1273 00:57:14,681 --> 00:57:16,641 because that's not what we're here for. 1274 00:57:16,724 --> 00:57:21,688 I personally don't want to sell myself based off, like, 1275 00:57:22,230 --> 00:57:24,566 um, my physical attributes. 1276 00:57:24,649 --> 00:57:27,694 That, to me, defeats the purpose. 1277 00:57:27,777 --> 00:57:30,572 And I understand if that's not gonna work for you. 1278 00:57:31,072 --> 00:57:34,742 And then I understand that you personally, as the man that you are, 1279 00:57:34,826 --> 00:57:37,245 looks, you know, are everything. 1280 00:57:37,871 --> 00:57:40,957 -Not everything, but it's a big part of-- -[chuckles] 1281 00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:42,750 -It's a lot. -[Clay] Yeah. 1282 00:57:45,462 --> 00:57:47,797 -And I'm not mad. Yeah. -[Clay] Yeah. 1283 00:57:48,923 --> 00:57:50,925 -[clicks tongue] Aww. -I'm not mad. 1284 00:57:51,009 --> 00:57:54,429 No matter what it looks like to the outside world or to me, 1285 00:57:54,512 --> 00:57:56,806 like, Clay is gonna show up as Clay. 1286 00:57:56,890 --> 00:58:00,059 And, like, he gives me the option to accept it or reject it. 1287 00:58:00,143 --> 00:58:03,980 But, like, Clay is extremely hung up on appearance. 1288 00:58:04,063 --> 00:58:08,610 And it does bother me because I have so much more to offer. 1289 00:58:08,693 --> 00:58:12,280 I should have took my ass… home. 1290 00:58:12,363 --> 00:58:14,657 - -♪ Every day back on my feet ♪ 1291 00:58:14,741 --> 00:58:16,993 ♪ Closer to who I wanna be ♪ 1292 00:58:17,076 --> 00:58:20,788 I'm battling with what to sacrifice and what to compromise on. 1293 00:58:22,665 --> 00:58:23,500 Thanks, girl. 1294 00:58:23,583 --> 00:58:26,628 Like, should I just tell him what I look like and get it over with? 1295 00:58:26,711 --> 00:58:29,005 But I don't wanna tell it, and I'm not gonna tell it. 1296 00:58:29,088 --> 00:58:32,217 I want someone to want me for who I am on the inside. 1297 00:58:32,300 --> 00:58:33,384 This is Matthew. 1298 00:58:33,468 --> 00:58:35,136 [AD] This is AD. 1299 00:58:35,220 --> 00:58:37,514 -[Matthew] Really? -Really. 1300 00:58:37,597 --> 00:58:40,767 -Were you up late last night dating? -Um, yeah. 1301 00:58:40,850 --> 00:58:43,102 -[Matthew] How'd it go? -It was long. 1302 00:58:43,186 --> 00:58:45,605 [Matthew] I'm sure that you have connections with other guys 1303 00:58:45,688 --> 00:58:47,857 'cause you're just amazing. 1304 00:58:47,941 --> 00:58:50,652 -[chuckles] -[Matthew] So I'm not surprised. 1305 00:58:50,735 --> 00:58:53,446 A little jealous, but, you know, I understand. 1306 00:58:53,530 --> 00:58:54,405 [AD] Yeah. 1307 00:58:54,989 --> 00:58:58,159 [Matthew] You want the guy that's gonna be the center of attention at parties? 1308 00:58:58,243 --> 00:59:00,870 It probably isn't gonna be me. There's a lot of people that do that. 1309 00:59:00,954 --> 00:59:03,498 -A lot of women are attracted to it. -Right. 1310 00:59:03,581 --> 00:59:05,708 [Matthew] But long-term, 1311 00:59:06,251 --> 00:59:08,795 I think guys like me win more. 1312 00:59:11,089 --> 00:59:14,259 I mean, I'll just tell you, I've been thinking about you, like, all the time. 1313 00:59:14,342 --> 00:59:15,760 -[AD] Really? -Yeah. 1314 00:59:15,843 --> 00:59:17,428 [AD] Oh, my gosh. 1315 00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:21,057 That's kind of crazy 'cause I've been thinking about you too. 1316 00:59:22,475 --> 00:59:24,602 -Are you just saying that? -[AD] No. 1317 00:59:24,686 --> 00:59:27,188 I'm not the type to just say anything, really. 1318 00:59:28,690 --> 00:59:29,774 [Matthew] I appreciate that. 1319 00:59:29,857 --> 00:59:32,860 To me, yesterday… [clears throat] 1320 00:59:32,944 --> 00:59:34,070 …with you, 1321 00:59:35,905 --> 00:59:37,574 like, something happened. 1322 00:59:39,075 --> 00:59:43,580 Like, I-- I don't know if it's ever happened for me like that before. 1323 00:59:45,123 --> 00:59:48,251 -Something like what? -Like a deep connection. 1324 00:59:49,752 --> 00:59:50,587 You're funny. 1325 00:59:51,629 --> 00:59:52,463 You're quick-witted. 1326 00:59:52,547 --> 00:59:55,258 I just sense you're just incredibly caring. 1327 00:59:55,341 --> 00:59:57,594 I could just feel you being protective of me. 1328 00:59:58,803 --> 01:00:03,266 And over the course of time, I'm just becoming very protective of you. 1329 01:00:03,349 --> 01:00:04,183 [gasps] 1330 01:00:07,145 --> 01:00:08,313 It just feels different. 1331 01:00:08,855 --> 01:00:11,274 -I feel really connected to you. -Okay. 1332 01:00:11,357 --> 01:00:12,191 For sure. 1333 01:00:12,692 --> 01:00:14,193 There's a large part of me that thinks 1334 01:00:14,277 --> 01:00:17,530 that there's really only two outcomes from this. 1335 01:00:17,614 --> 01:00:18,615 [AD] Yeah? 1336 01:00:18,698 --> 01:00:21,534 -[Matthew] That's either with you or not. -Oh! 1337 01:00:22,368 --> 01:00:25,038 [Matthew] Should I have started off with jokes instead of going deep? 1338 01:00:25,121 --> 01:00:27,498 -[laughing] -[AD] No. I am… 1339 01:00:27,999 --> 01:00:29,500 I'm, like, so happy. 1340 01:00:29,584 --> 01:00:31,669 [chuckling] I don't know what to say. 1341 01:00:33,212 --> 01:00:34,881 I feel the only reason I'm here is for you. 1342 01:00:34,964 --> 01:00:36,799 Oh, my gosh. [chuckles] 1343 01:00:42,597 --> 01:00:44,015 Wow. [sighs] 1344 01:00:44,766 --> 01:00:46,225 You're making my day. 1345 01:00:47,101 --> 01:00:49,270 You are making my entire day. 1346 01:00:52,398 --> 01:00:54,067 -[Matthew sighs] -[AD] Wow. 1347 01:00:59,781 --> 01:01:02,867 [chuckles] I was not expecting this at all. 1348 01:01:02,950 --> 01:01:03,868 [Matthew] Really? 1349 01:01:03,951 --> 01:01:06,663 Yeah. So it's like, I'm not being silent 'cause I'm not happy. 1350 01:01:06,746 --> 01:01:09,707 I'm just, like… I'm so shocked. 1351 01:01:10,291 --> 01:01:11,125 [Matthew] Why? 1352 01:01:12,502 --> 01:01:15,755 Just to feel, like, this validation means a lot today. 1353 01:01:16,255 --> 01:01:18,675 I just was waiting for this moment, I guess. 1354 01:01:20,051 --> 01:01:21,552 So, thank you for that. 1355 01:01:23,262 --> 01:01:26,307 -[Matthew] You want me to tell jokes now? -[both laughing] 1356 01:01:29,352 --> 01:01:31,187 I'm just, like, really happy. 1357 01:01:32,230 --> 01:01:33,648 'Cause I feel the same way. 1358 01:01:34,357 --> 01:01:37,610 -I wish I could see you. -[AD chuckles] Wish you could see me too. 1359 01:01:37,694 --> 01:01:39,529 [Matthew] I'll just give you the biggest hug. 1360 01:01:39,612 --> 01:01:41,322 Oh, my gosh. 1361 01:01:42,490 --> 01:01:45,284 I could use that right now. You have no idea. [chuckles] 1362 01:01:46,577 --> 01:01:48,705 I hope you know that when I'm saying this, 1363 01:01:49,330 --> 01:01:50,998 you know, I'm not embellishing. 1364 01:01:52,333 --> 01:01:54,627 I'm trying to be as honest as I can. 1365 01:01:55,461 --> 01:01:58,923 But… what is my greatest accomplishment? 1366 01:02:00,925 --> 01:02:02,593 -Finding you. -[gasps] 1367 01:02:05,054 --> 01:02:06,931 -Okay. -[Matthew] Too much? 1368 01:02:07,014 --> 01:02:09,267 No, it's just getting hot in here. 1369 01:02:10,393 --> 01:02:12,478 [Matthew] After our date, I'm like, "Oh." 1370 01:02:13,604 --> 01:02:16,107 -I wanted to call my mom and tell her. -[AD gasps] 1371 01:02:16,190 --> 01:02:17,525 Like, "Oh, I finally found her." 1372 01:02:19,068 --> 01:02:20,069 Matthew. 1373 01:02:20,153 --> 01:02:22,196 -What? -[AD] Are you serious? 1374 01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:23,448 I'm dead serious. 1375 01:02:34,542 --> 01:02:36,294 It's funny, when I-- 1376 01:02:36,794 --> 01:02:38,921 when we sit here and no one's talking… 1377 01:02:39,005 --> 01:02:41,007 [AD chuckles] 1378 01:02:41,632 --> 01:02:42,675 …I'm still comfortable. 1379 01:02:42,759 --> 01:02:44,260 Yeah. Same. 1380 01:02:45,928 --> 01:02:48,890 I'm just, like, imagining you just, like, laid out on the couch, 1381 01:02:48,973 --> 01:02:51,309 and I'm just, like, laying on your chest right now. 1382 01:02:52,268 --> 01:02:53,686 -That'd be nice. -[AD] Yeah. 1383 01:02:54,854 --> 01:02:56,898 [Matthew] Like, "Why am I so lucky?" 1384 01:02:57,815 --> 01:02:58,816 [AD] Yeah. 1385 01:03:00,693 --> 01:03:03,196 -You are lucky. -[Matthew] I feel it right now. 1386 01:03:03,279 --> 01:03:04,906 [AD] I'm just happy that 1387 01:03:05,907 --> 01:03:09,744 I saw what I saw on day one, and it's brought me to this moment. 1388 01:03:09,827 --> 01:03:13,039 I mean, what do you even think about the engagement part of this? 1389 01:03:13,748 --> 01:03:15,041 [AD] I think it's cute. 1390 01:03:15,124 --> 01:03:16,959 [Matthew] 'Cause I don't really take it lightly. 1391 01:03:17,710 --> 01:03:19,545 [AD] I'm glad you don't, 'cause I don't either. 1392 01:03:19,629 --> 01:03:21,214 What's your dad think? 1393 01:03:22,048 --> 01:03:23,216 -[AD] My dad? -Yeah. 1394 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:26,302 [AD] He actually passed away last September. 1395 01:03:26,385 --> 01:03:28,638 -Oh, my goodness. I'm sorry. -It's okay. 1396 01:03:28,721 --> 01:03:31,057 So I don't think he's thinking much. [laughing] 1397 01:03:32,266 --> 01:03:34,101 -[Matthew groans] -Sorry. 1398 01:03:34,185 --> 01:03:35,603 [chuckles] Jeez. 1399 01:03:35,686 --> 01:03:37,814 [laughing] I'm sorry. 1400 01:03:38,564 --> 01:03:40,066 We weren't that close. 1401 01:03:40,149 --> 01:03:42,860 [Matthew] I asked you about your dad 'cause I really don't know 1402 01:03:42,944 --> 01:03:45,279 if I could propose to somebody without asking permission. 1403 01:03:45,363 --> 01:03:48,533 Oh, that is really, really thoughtful. 1404 01:03:49,283 --> 01:03:51,452 But I guess that roadblock is not there. 1405 01:03:52,995 --> 01:03:56,374 [AD] I just was hoping that I would find a man that's ready. 1406 01:03:56,457 --> 01:03:57,458 Like, right now. 1407 01:03:57,542 --> 01:04:00,461 -This minute? Because you just found one. -[AD] This second. 1408 01:04:00,545 --> 01:04:02,338 [Matthew] I would've asked you 15 minutes ago. 1409 01:04:02,421 --> 01:04:05,925 -[laughing] -[Matthew chuckles] Was that too ready? 1410 01:04:06,843 --> 01:04:10,513 I needed it right now, not 15 minutes ago. [laughing] 1411 01:04:10,596 --> 01:04:13,391 I think I have enough personality that I could keep you entertained 1412 01:04:13,474 --> 01:04:15,935 for about 42 years. 1413 01:04:16,018 --> 01:04:20,147 -[AD] Oh. That's all I need. Really. -Yeah, I'll totally be dead before that. 1414 01:04:20,231 --> 01:04:22,066 -[AD] No, you won't. -Hmm. 1415 01:04:22,149 --> 01:04:24,652 [AD] I'm gonna keep you alive as long as I can. 1416 01:04:24,735 --> 01:04:27,530 -[Matthew] You deserve a lot. -[laughing] Oh, my gosh. 1417 01:04:28,698 --> 01:04:32,076 I do have one very important question. 1418 01:04:32,159 --> 01:04:36,122 How important is, like, ethnicity and race to you, 1419 01:04:36,205 --> 01:04:38,624 like, when you're thinking about your wife? 1420 01:04:41,210 --> 01:04:42,295 [exhales] 1421 01:04:44,171 --> 01:04:45,423 Not important at all. 1422 01:04:48,050 --> 01:04:49,760 -Oh, okay. -[Matthew] What? 1423 01:04:49,844 --> 01:04:51,846 No, that's great news. 1424 01:04:51,929 --> 01:04:53,973 -[Matthew] Why? -[laughing] You just never know. 1425 01:04:54,056 --> 01:04:56,017 -What? -[AD laughs] Nothing. 1426 01:04:56,100 --> 01:04:59,312 You never know if people want something super specific. 1427 01:04:59,854 --> 01:05:01,147 It doesn't matter to me. 1428 01:05:01,647 --> 01:05:03,691 I mean, that's why I'm here, isn't it? 1429 01:05:03,774 --> 01:05:05,234 You're a wise man. 1430 01:05:05,318 --> 01:05:07,278 -I meant it. -[AD] I believe you. 1431 01:05:07,361 --> 01:05:09,989 [Matthew] Doesn't it feel awkward having other conversations? 1432 01:05:10,072 --> 01:05:13,868 -You feel that way? -[AD] Yeah. It's pointless at this point. 1433 01:05:14,410 --> 01:05:15,953 I don't wanna go on any more dates. 1434 01:05:16,037 --> 01:05:17,788 Listen, we have five more days. 1435 01:05:17,872 --> 01:05:19,498 [AD] Oh, my goodness. 1436 01:05:19,999 --> 01:05:22,627 You give me the word. If you wanna leave, I'll leave with you. 1437 01:05:23,502 --> 01:05:24,587 For real? 1438 01:05:24,670 --> 01:05:27,214 -[Matthew] Yeah, I would. -Oh, my gosh. Where are we gonna go? 1439 01:05:27,298 --> 01:05:29,926 [Matthew] I'll take you to the top of the mountain and propose. 1440 01:05:30,426 --> 01:05:34,263 You just say, "Matthew, let's get the hell out of here." 1441 01:05:35,264 --> 01:05:38,601 -And I will run around this room. -[laughing] 1442 01:05:38,684 --> 01:05:40,686 [Matthew] I'll find my way back to you… 1443 01:05:41,604 --> 01:05:43,981 -[sighs, laughs] -[Matthew] …get your blankie. 1444 01:05:44,065 --> 01:05:46,567 [Matthew chuckles] I'll wrap you up in it, 1445 01:05:47,652 --> 01:05:49,487 and I'll just carry you out of here. 1446 01:05:49,570 --> 01:05:51,697 [AD] I don't wanna leave, but that was really cute. 1447 01:05:51,781 --> 01:05:53,866 -[Matthew] Okay. -You're just the cutest. 1448 01:05:53,950 --> 01:05:56,619 Are you gonna tell anybody about what I said to you today? 1449 01:05:57,328 --> 01:06:01,165 Hmm. I'm gonna just, like, simmer in it. 1450 01:06:01,290 --> 01:06:04,418 -[laughs] -[AD laughs] Just gonna enjoy my moment. 1451 01:06:04,502 --> 01:06:06,087 'Cause I don't know, I just, um… 1452 01:06:06,170 --> 01:06:10,383 I just am loving this moment, and I just want it to be mine and ours. 1453 01:06:13,594 --> 01:06:16,514 This has been amazing. 1454 01:06:17,431 --> 01:06:21,060 -[pop music playing] -♪ Dear friend, I'm in love with you ♪ 1455 01:06:21,686 --> 01:06:24,230 ♪ I am hypnotized… ♪ 1456 01:06:24,939 --> 01:06:27,775 [AD] I'm all smitten over here. 1457 01:06:28,442 --> 01:06:29,902 Well, everything I said was true. 1458 01:06:29,986 --> 01:06:32,321 -And that was hard for me to do. -[AD] I know. 1459 01:06:32,405 --> 01:06:35,574 -And I'm so grateful. I know. -I was about to have a panic attack. 1460 01:06:35,658 --> 01:06:38,077 I'm, like, really hopeful, really, really optimistic 1461 01:06:39,245 --> 01:06:41,080 about this with you. 1462 01:06:41,580 --> 01:06:43,582 [vocalizing] 1463 01:06:49,463 --> 01:06:52,258 There's nothing that we can't conquer after this 1464 01:06:52,341 --> 01:06:54,301 because this is insane. 1465 01:06:54,385 --> 01:06:55,594 [Matthew] Yes, it is. 1466 01:06:55,678 --> 01:06:59,015 ♪ You'll be Mars, I'll be Venus ♪ 1467 01:06:59,098 --> 01:07:02,351 ♪ We can chase all the stars ♪ 1468 01:07:02,435 --> 01:07:05,604 ♪ And see where they lead ♪ 1469 01:07:06,981 --> 01:07:10,735 I think Matthew is the sweetest, 1470 01:07:10,818 --> 01:07:15,072 kindest, most genuine soul here. 1471 01:07:15,156 --> 01:07:17,241 We don't see men like him often. 1472 01:07:19,368 --> 01:07:21,787 Matthew has no idea what I look like, 1473 01:07:21,871 --> 01:07:24,290 the color of my skin or my body type. 1474 01:07:25,666 --> 01:07:28,044 I'm assuming Matthew is white. 1475 01:07:28,127 --> 01:07:29,670 I just… 1476 01:07:31,130 --> 01:07:33,382 I'm okay with that, surprisingly. 1477 01:07:33,466 --> 01:07:36,510 I've never dated a white man, but I'm okay with it. 1478 01:07:36,594 --> 01:07:40,681 [chuckles] I mean, people are people, and it's so beautiful. 1479 01:07:40,765 --> 01:07:43,017 [laughing] He's so cute, and I've never seen him. 1480 01:07:43,100 --> 01:07:44,560 He's so cute. 1481 01:07:44,643 --> 01:07:47,646 ♪ 1482 01:07:47,730 --> 01:07:51,233 ♪ Take my hand and we'll leave 1483 01:07:51,317 --> 01:07:54,653 ♪ 'Cause we are the dreamers ♪ 1484 01:07:56,572 --> 01:08:00,534 ♪ We are the dreamers ♪ 1485 01:08:00,618 --> 01:08:02,411 -[Amber] Had a good date. -[AD] Who'd you have? 1486 01:08:02,495 --> 01:08:03,370 Matthew. 1487 01:08:06,749 --> 01:08:08,918 He talked about, like, asking my dad. 1488 01:08:09,585 --> 01:08:11,295 And if he can't do that, we can leave. 1489 01:08:12,046 --> 01:08:15,049 I was like, "I'm fine with that. I'll leave too." 1490 01:08:16,675 --> 01:08:18,803 And I just thought it was, like, crazy. 1491 01:08:19,512 --> 01:08:21,180 [laughing] Which is good. 1492 01:08:24,809 --> 01:08:26,811 I mean, it was a great date. 1493 01:08:28,646 --> 01:08:31,440 Words are nice, right? But, like, I need action. 1494 01:08:31,524 --> 01:08:33,359 He did talk about action, he was like, 1495 01:08:33,442 --> 01:08:36,862 "Do you need to draw me a map so I could come get you?" 1496 01:08:38,364 --> 01:08:39,490 And I was like… 1497 01:08:39,573 --> 01:08:41,617 -And I'll come get you. -[laughing] 1498 01:08:41,700 --> 01:08:46,914 ♪ How many times does it take Till I learn? ♪ 1499 01:08:46,997 --> 01:08:50,876 ♪ Smoke to the ash And you're gonna get burned ♪ 1500 01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:52,962 ♪ Burned ♪ 1501 01:08:53,587 --> 01:08:58,551 It's just getting stranger and stranger as the fucking minutes go by. 1502 01:08:58,634 --> 01:09:00,344 Yeah, it's literally wild. 1503 01:09:00,928 --> 01:09:03,722 I don't wanna get excited. You know what I mean? 1504 01:09:03,806 --> 01:09:05,015 -Yeah. -We'll see. 1505 01:09:06,058 --> 01:09:07,268 We shall see. 1506 01:09:07,351 --> 01:09:08,435 [pop music playing] 1507 01:09:09,103 --> 01:09:11,188 ♪ It's your turn ♪ 1508 01:09:11,272 --> 01:09:12,356 ♪ Oh! ♪ 1509 01:09:12,982 --> 01:09:17,778 ♪ Come take me down, down, down 1510 01:09:17,862 --> 01:09:22,992 ♪ Drag me to hell right now 1511 01:09:23,075 --> 01:09:25,494 ♪ 1512 01:09:25,578 --> 01:09:27,997 ♪ 1513 01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:33,002 ♪ 1514 01:09:33,085 --> 01:09:36,005 ♪ Come take me down ♪ 1515 01:09:38,090 --> 01:09:41,010 ♪ Come take me down ♪ 1516 01:09:43,095 --> 01:09:46,015 ♪ Come take me down ♪ 1517 01:09:48,100 --> 01:09:51,020 ♪ Come take me down ♪ 127669