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I'm so excited that I'm finally leaving
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to meet my incredibly gorgeous
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girlfriend in person okay but we haven't
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communicated a lot recently and it's
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making me feel
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weird and when I start getting anxious
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it's like lightning coming out of my my
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butt damn Dy might not make her flight
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oh man that's not good my insecurities
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are starting to creep back in maybe
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she's having second thoughts I have to
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put myself out there and hope for the
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best my heart just
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wrapped meeting your mom and your family
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is actually of utmost importance to me I
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be honest with you Misha I need to talk
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to them so you wait hold on so you
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haven't told them no it just makes me
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feel like he is actually the one
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bothered with my
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past God Christian that that he is
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totally fine with eting a trans
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woman but I have noticed some mix
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signals all right I'm going to
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bed it will be woring if this doesn't
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change within you know a
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day hi baby it's good to see you what's
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been happening do you know anything
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about Jasmine and Dane she dated him
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like in 2018 2019 if I'm not mistaken
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before she met me kind of yes Jasmine's
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a is in her life and she's hiding it
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behind my back something's going on
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here so some part of still believes that
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there is some type of hope I was
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thinking like what if her was like in
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prison or something I did my own
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research and I found some stuff that he
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needs to know this is a escort page this
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is her right what
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the she was so adamant that that I come
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off the dating app she was still on it
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she didn't delete it see that's the game
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I want to believe that I'm the only man
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that's in Violet's life but her behavior
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is making me really questioning my mom
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say
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your very heart Tempo I want to be good
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to Violet I just don't like being lied
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to good morning 30 minutes away from
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Landing it's been 14 hours I'm
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desperately excited to land I might kiss
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the I might kiss the crab not really
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it's gerine but in theory I
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[Music]
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would just landed in eng I did get a
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text from Dy she's officially missed her
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flight I'm hoping she can get to England
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as quickly as possible so that we can
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finally be
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together I'm so excited to finally be
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meeting DY for the first time in person
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after months and months and months but
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de's connecting flight from Thailand was
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delayed so she missed her flight so I'm
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probably not going to see her until
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tomorrow then she arrives greeted by a
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friendly cleaning
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robot big fan of robots so that was cool
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even if it was out of her control it
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still sucks it's a huge blow especially
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because our
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communication has not been well in the
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past couple of weeks and so my
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insecurities are already pretty high so
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you add this on top of it and suddenly
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I'm like did you do this on purpose are
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you with someone else like what's going
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on I mean her not being here tonight is
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not what I was expecting or like
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wanting I feel like the more time
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together the better but just going to
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try to stay in good spirits about it and
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um I'm hoping that this works out with
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me and DC you know I'm hoping 100% this
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is kind of my end game so I put all of
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my eggs into this basket I don't have a
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plan
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B uh this kind of decides the rest of my
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life so if it doesn't go
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well Emoji like I don't know I don't
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know our plan was to meet at the airport
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get a train to Manchester stay at a
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hotel for the night and then drive up to
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her place in
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Darlington since dumpy missed her flight
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and I already booked a really nice hotel
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room in Manchester I'm going to go to
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the hotel because I'm going to use this
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time to reset and relax and just try to
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get rid of my anxieties before the big
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meat have you heard of Darlington
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darling yeah yeah yeah darington's in
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North Yia yeah kind of Farmland a little
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bit yeah no it's only a small little
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town I don't think this is the right
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time of year because it'll be a little
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chilly up there but yeah it gets pretty
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cold yeah it does get cold up there oh
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boy thank you perfect thank
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[Music]
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you good morning welcome aboard this is
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the 1053 service to Manchester why was
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she American did I just enter a freaking
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Wormhole okay now I can rest in peace
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but not in a dead
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way hello
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England
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h
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I think this is it the C Hollow Hotel
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sweet you go room W these are beautiful
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walls yeah so here's your room seven and
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if you need anything you can give us a
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call on the phone there oh wow and then
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I'll give you your key there oh cool
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thank you so much that's perfect enjoy
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your day thank you so much I will most
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definitely
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okay it's kind of a cozy romantic place
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but the toilet area is a problem just
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because like here
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here but this is just England they don't
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have a lot of space so it's like hello
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I'm taking
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a hi I'm waiting to get
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laid this is not a good situation
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because you can actively hear me
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releasing gas yeah I know I'm not turned
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on any longer that's that's what it's
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going to be
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like so I better get all my out
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now we're getting cured oh wow today
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Jasmine and I are going to the Panama
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Canal I've been dying to see it ever
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since I've come to Panama because I'm an
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engineer and the canal is one of the
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greatest Feats ever for
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engineering oh are we here I baby yes
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that is huge boat it it's such a cool
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place and so much history here I'm
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really interested to see how it operates
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and like how the ship gets through the
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canal it should be pretty
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cool w
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wow look at that one oh my
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gosh wow oh
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baby that's pretty awesome this is me
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florus locks you know that the locks
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what they do is they even the level of
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the water so huge ships can pass through
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that's good
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right how do you feel as an engineer
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baby to see this yeah it's very awesome
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you know very awesome aren't you proud
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that it was the your government your
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country the one who built this like your
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country and my country has always have
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like a love
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history baby I'm talking
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sorry that's that's I I hear okay I'm
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just this canal is so interesting
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sorry
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hey look at
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me you're
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good
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yeah ever since last night you know it's
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acting very weird and I don't understand
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why I'm a little bit concerned because
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we are running out of time to Fig it out
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and work as a couple before I mov to
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America
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so baby it's just we need to work on
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communication I'm trying to communicate
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to you right now all right okay
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okay you always get the
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fener I'm good just let me be listen
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babe with my ex-husband I was with him
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for nearly eight years one of our
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biggest struggles was
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communication well I was with my ex-wife
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and and we never had any issues uh but
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you ended up getting divorced yeah but
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we were together for 7 years and we got
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along we didn't argue we got along
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because you were a boring relationship
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no it wasn't boring why you bring up
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your
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ex why did you bring up your ex because
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I needed to give an example oh oh okay
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but you think it's okay you can bring up
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your ex and I can't because you know
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that I get mad when you bring up your ex
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it doesn't matter
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if you can do it I'm going to do it then
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you'll know what it feels
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like anyway let me enjoy this
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scenery I want to have a good time with
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Jasmine today because we've had some
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rough Seas since I've been here and God
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knows we really need it but to be honest
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in the back of my mind I'm still
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thinking about Dane this is how you you
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pay me back for bringing you here to see
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the Panama
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Canal let's
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go Dane is just a guy that Jasmine said
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she's friends with but last night
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Jasmine's friend Yura told me that Dane
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is more than just a friend but her
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ex-boyfriend I'm worried that something
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might be going on between them
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shoot hands are so
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watery I can help you let me help you no
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no
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no you got
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it
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baby what's going on youve been very
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weird I'm going to have to be honest
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with you
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um I've been a little
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concerned I know you told me you're
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talking with danne and he's just a
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friend but you lied to me
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what yesterday when we were dancing and
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your friend Yura was saying that Dan is
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your ex uh which I don't even
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know so can you tell me what's going
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on there is nothing going on I don't
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know about
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that you're acting like I'm shoting on
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you are you
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this is crazy so yes it is
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crazy I mean
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like I don't think it's funny I'm sorry
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I'm not making fun of you you know like
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I I love when I'm nervous why are you
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nervous you cheating on
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me just by like looking around here
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though like I don't think that I'm
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dressed oh my gosh I everyone in dressed
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it's a wedding it's a dress I'm fitting
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in I'm I got to change I'll jump in your
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back seat I'll I'll go in the back seat
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I'll go in the back seat I'll go in the
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back
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seat sometimes she just act in a way
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that is a little bit
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worldly this is not normal it's
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embarrassing guard you go guard there's
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people coming Misha I don't want nobody
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to see
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you I still feel in my heart that this
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bomb with Carmela it's real like I've
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come too far to just stop so I did
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reverses on on the photos on the escort
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site and uh we got ahead oh my
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God here is my baby Misha that's
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supposed to be me but whatever let me
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open for
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the thank
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you I've been in Israel for a couple
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days now with niola and so far the trip
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has now been a sort of mixed bag are you
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ready
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for yes I love it on the one hand I'm
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loving being in the holy land and going
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to all these places with
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niola on the other end I'm still
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struggling with a lot of things that I'm
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seeing and expressing that are concerns
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to me and they are not being heard or
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dealt with at
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all I would like to meet his family I
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mean it's been 7 years and they don't
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know anything about me we're thinking
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about spending our lives together so
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that's not an outrageous request I think
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that it's that it's a very normal and
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it's a very healthy request and if he
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comes through with that if that happens
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then I could potentially start to feel a
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little bit
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better yeah this looks like a trend C it
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looks really
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nice
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okay just by like looking around here
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though like I don't think that I'm
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dressed oh my gosh look at everyone in
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dresses I am not going to wear what I'm
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wearing and everyone else is in dresses
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look at it's a
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wedding it's that's a wedding dress no
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that's a dress okay maybe it's a wedding
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dress it's a dress I'm fitting in I'm I
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got to change I got to change ni you
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change okay but you're going to do it
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very fast I'll jump in your back seat
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I'll I'll go in the back seat I'll go in
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the back seat I'll go the back
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seat this is not normal it's
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embarrassing guard you go guard there's
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people coming Misha I don't want nobody
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to see you okay what should I do in this
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situation how I cover the windows you
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know she taking her
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clothes sometimes she just act in a way
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that is a little bit
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worldly I don't understand why she start
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to feel obsessed about her clothes we is
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a
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there with my past vocation in
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television I am actually very used to
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swapping clothes in every situation and
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the weirdest
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accommodations you're very fast time you
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show so if I want to switch into a dress
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and I don't have a bathroom and I just
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have a car and a back seat it's it's no
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big deal to me now let's go and look at
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this Valley come give me your
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hand oh my God look at this this is
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Absol you want to take a picture
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gorgeous yes yes I want
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to oh my God one two get your hey get
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one
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two so K
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me HiFi is very important for Catholics
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because it's located on Mount Carmel s
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Elijah in the Old Testament fought
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against the false prophet but also I
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want Misha to see the beauty of haa it's
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a bay mountain mediterian SE cultures
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lots of restaurants it it's nice it's
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[Music]
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fun oh so
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cute oh oh do you see him yeah so do you
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think today is better than yesterday
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after all the drama and with my brother
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and my mom is better today
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yeah well I mean like we haven't really
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opened that can of worms and we haven't
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really talked about it you want to sit
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down me yeah think I get tired so cute I
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know um have you texted your brother yet
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yeah yesterday you did yeah are you
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serious yes but I'm Ling to well I hope
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not
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look it say that I'm presenting un show
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and she want to see you if you can come
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to Mur
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home yeah so okay since you came to
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Israel the last 48 hours you been
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rushing me with my family I'm taking
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stuff like slowly in life you want
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everything rush rush rush rush rush we
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all the life
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together
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but we don't know if we have our entire
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lives together we need to figure that
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out over the next two weeks because how
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could I think about the rest of my life
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with someone who I feel like I don't
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even think he listens to me I don't even
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think he cares about how I feel do you
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know what that would be
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like yeah I
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can this is why this two weeks is so
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important we need to know this stuff
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because if I go home not engage to you
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Nicola then this will be
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over so we're not held captive in this
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space forever we have to have an
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answer Misha never talk like that in the
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phone she say that we meant to be
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together we will get married and nothing
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will separate us we will go through all
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the obstacles and it's first time that
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she's treating the
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relationship I'm trying to listen to her
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but I'm not going to change I'm going to
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be the same person so that's make me
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worry about our future because my goal
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is to engage to her cuz I love her so
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much we will see what's will happen
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Misha we will see
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here we
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will
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[Music]
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hey hey thanks picking me
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up you ready to head over there and talk
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to this guy yeah I'm
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ready just kind of excited to kind of
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get to that next step you know yeah
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after seeing her photos on the escort
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sites I wasn't getting any closer to
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finding out about Carmela with my own
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research so I reached out to a private
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investigator for help and I'm really
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hoping to get some answers
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today it's the Moment of Truth yeah
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truth my heart's racing a little bit I'm
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nervous I'm nervous for
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you I still feel in my heart that this
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bom with Carmela is real
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and that is Carmela's boyfriend or
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husband trying to break us up thanks I'm
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finally ready to get to the
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truth hey hi there good afternoon Ty my
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name is Louis nice to meet you Louis
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pleasure to meet you this is my sister
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lanti lanti pleasure to meet you Louis
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nice to meet you too have a seat my name
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is Lewis and I've been a private
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investigator for approximately 20 years
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I did receive a call from TY we talked a
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little while about his situation I
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believe that he was hoping that she was
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true and blue but I did find some
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information obviously I took the
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information that you gave me and I began
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I got on the computer and began running
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phone numbers and and some of the other
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items that you gave
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me you
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ready yes I'm Ready the phone numbers we
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either drop phones or uh the set up for
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texting so you can't you can't trace the
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phones um the email I did uh tracked the
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email uh and it came back did come back
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to a PayPal account and that's how you
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transferred the money yeah unfortunately
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that information is unavailable it's
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private it has to be
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subed okay okay so I did reverses on the
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photos on the escort site and uh we got
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ahead
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is it more escort sites uh
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no this is a little ranch here
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H she's a cam
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pawn
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star what wow let me tell you what I
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think we have here
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okay this is a one of her main Twitter
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accounts sweet Carmela do you see that
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it's
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crazy and as you scroll down a little
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bit you'll notice that she's got some
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contact information there okay she's got
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a PayPal numbers which didn't match the
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PayPal account that you gave me and then
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you go to over here to the about it said
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her name and underneath United States
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yeah says like she's like a fetish Queen
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wow never seen
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this
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I'm trying to stay hopeful but I'm more
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confused than ever none of this lines up
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with you know the caramel I fell in love
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with this wasn't
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her maybe the person behind the text and
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this woman in the photos are two
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different
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people oh my
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God
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so you like beautiful black
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does it sound the same no she sent
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videos but they didn't have sound you
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noticed the background and some of the
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pictures you sent me that there was the
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same background of those
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[Music]
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moons man
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I that's not the carela I fell in love
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with
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this relationship with Carmela was
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everything to me we were like soulmates
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even though we haven't met in person and
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realizing this image isn't the face I've
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been talking to is
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[Music]
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devastating I I'm angry about the fact
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that someone like got me with pictures
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of a porn star and then at the same time
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it's like I'm still a little confused so
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like since we do have like a way to
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actually communicate with the real
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Carmela I do want to reach out to her
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maybe they're working together on their
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scam but you never
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know I am suspicious that you know the
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Carmela and Christian might have some
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type of
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connection because this is very
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common they work in gangs or in groups
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you can only try yeah that's
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true I just want to contact her to see
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if this is true maybe she knows him and
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maybe that'll be my first step into
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getting answers and maybe she could lead
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me to him like I come too far to just
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stop and after hearing all this I just
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feel like it's time for me to come clean
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with the rest of my family but it's so
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much harder to tell my mom because she's
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been through so much already and I feel
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like I'm at an age where I shouldn't be
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making mistakes face like
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this are you okay uh today I don't feel
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good I want to talk with him uh and let
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him know how he Ru in Vietnam my mom she
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say you are jealous and want to control
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me I mean let me talk first oh my
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gosh
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[Music]
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I arrived to Vietnam a few days ago and
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even though yesterday Val and I had a a
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straightup blowout argument it ended
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well because I got to finally meet her
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family so today we made plans to meet at
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the remembrance Museum in hman city and
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I'm hoping that we could get everything
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back on track this Museum we keep weapon
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in war Vietnamese with American
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here just see you
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see the eagle on the back mhm it's an
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army signal for Screaming Eagles it's an
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Airborne they're Pat
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Troopers the war remembrance museum is a
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documentation of the Vietnam war with
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the Americans involvement and the
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atrocities that took place and what
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happened because of it as a soldier it
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you know as a person in the military I
553
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:12,360
want to just see the
554
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:15,240
stories you know every time when I come
555
00:28:12,360 --> 00:28:19,240
here I feel Shad you feel sad yes yeah
556
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:22,559
it's uh war is bad but it's part of the
557
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:25,720
history are you okay you want to uh
558
00:28:22,559 --> 00:28:27,039
today I don't feel good well let's uh
559
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:31,080
let's just sit down for a while we can
560
00:28:27,039 --> 00:28:35,000
talk all right I am confusing now
561
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:39,360
because sometime I see him a very cute
562
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:43,559
very lovely sometime very terrible so I
563
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:47,360
want to talk with him uh how is our um
564
00:28:43,559 --> 00:28:50,519
culture and let him know how he Ru in
565
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:54,080
Vietnam and how he you you need to learn
566
00:28:50,519 --> 00:28:56,399
uh more Vietnam culture if you want to
567
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:59,600
uh be with
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00:28:56,399 --> 00:29:04,200
me you know last night we have dinner
569
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:11,120
with family best um uh after that and my
570
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:15,000
mom talk with me um she she say you are
571
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:17,360
jealous and want to control me I'm not
572
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:20,080
trying to control I'm trying to
573
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:23,600
understand what's going on I
574
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:28,799
mean let me talk first okay go ahead and
575
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:31,960
uh second she say um you um are not uh
576
00:29:28,799 --> 00:29:35,799
thoughtful I'm not thoughtful yeah when
577
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:38,799
you come visit my home you you don't
578
00:29:35,799 --> 00:29:42,159
don't buy a flower or some chocolate for
579
00:29:38,799 --> 00:29:45,640
her very bad it very bad yeah very bad
580
00:29:42,159 --> 00:29:47,159
in Vietnam very bad how am I supposed to
581
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:49,080
I don't know what your mother like I
582
00:29:47,159 --> 00:29:52,440
don't know what's appropriate but you
583
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:56,480
have phone you can add me uh before you
584
00:29:52,440 --> 00:30:00,200
uh visit my home but uh I talk with Mom
585
00:29:56,480 --> 00:30:03,120
maybe he [Â __Â ] off all right fair enough
586
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:05,159
and I I feel horrible but it's not my
587
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:08,559
intention to disrespect you your mother
588
00:30:05,159 --> 00:30:10,799
your home your your your country I
589
00:30:08,559 --> 00:30:13,440
that's not my intention I do need to
590
00:30:10,799 --> 00:30:15,600
learn more about your culture my
591
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:18,039
question to you is when are you going to
592
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:20,960
learn about my
593
00:30:18,039 --> 00:30:24,399
culture and give you an example you call
594
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:28,039
me fat and ugly in front of
595
00:30:24,399 --> 00:30:32,360
people what I say you
596
00:30:28,039 --> 00:30:34,320
you very bad you really said that
597
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:37,519
yeah all
598
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:39,679
right in my culture in America that's
599
00:30:37,519 --> 00:30:41,320
rude that's disrespectful especially
600
00:30:39,679 --> 00:30:43,880
when a woman says that about the man
601
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:49,120
that she's with ah really yeah I don't
602
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:52,399
know sometime um I get in with um my kid
603
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:56,639
uh my friend oh you
604
00:30:52,399 --> 00:31:00,480
ugly and we in Vietnam my culture is uh
605
00:30:56,639 --> 00:31:03,480
not far um a road but I don't know how
606
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:05,639
is your country and now we we could make
607
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,840
like if we're alone and we're around
608
00:31:05,639 --> 00:31:10,159
family we could make the jokes like that
609
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:13,320
to each other but in front of strangers
610
00:31:10,159 --> 00:31:16,120
I'm a guest here I am I am I seen one
611
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:18,159
other person of my skin complexion here
612
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:20,320
in the whole time I've been here you're
613
00:31:18,159 --> 00:31:23,080
not accustomed to us so when you say it
614
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:25,320
it sounds like it's a it's an
615
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:29,720
attack because we're not light or
616
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:29,720
whatever it may be I'm already a
617
00:31:30,159 --> 00:31:34,240
spectacle I'm a black man in this
618
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:38,159
country and they're already looking at
619
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:41,519
me differently because I'm 6'4 I am dark
620
00:31:38,159 --> 00:31:44,240
and when you say oh he's ugly you start
621
00:31:41,519 --> 00:31:47,799
feeding The Stereotype that if you're
622
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:50,399
light skinn black you're prettier versus
623
00:31:47,799 --> 00:31:51,160
dark skinn black it's very uh hurtful
624
00:31:50,399 --> 00:31:53,360
and
625
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:55,440
[Music]
626
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:58,200
disrespectful people are already looking
627
00:31:55,440 --> 00:32:00,440
at me how am I supposed to to feel when
628
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:03,279
you talk in your language and then you
629
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:06,000
go I say to her you are
630
00:32:03,279 --> 00:32:07,880
ugly I don't have any context I don't
631
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:10,320
know what you're talking about I don't
632
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:12,760
know it's a joke it sound like it's a
633
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,760
fact to
634
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,080
you
635
00:32:32,399 --> 00:32:38,919
I'm say so sorry you please receive my
636
00:32:36,639 --> 00:32:42,000
apology
637
00:32:38,919 --> 00:32:44,120
okay I do accept your apology I do I
638
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:47,240
don't want to give up on us I think we
639
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:49,320
have the potential but I think
640
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:52,440
fundamentally we're not understanding
641
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:55,600
each other's culture but I think that we
642
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:59,559
we have an opportunity to to make this
643
00:32:55,600 --> 00:33:02,320
something good by attention to other
644
00:32:59,559 --> 00:33:05,039
yeah okay by by paying attention by
645
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:07,799
spending time asking questions I'm
646
00:33:05,039 --> 00:33:09,000
willing I'm willing to try because I
647
00:33:07,799 --> 00:33:12,679
care about
648
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:15,240
you I care about you too so maybe we go
649
00:33:12,679 --> 00:33:18,840
to dinner together is that
650
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:22,039
possible yes do you do you mind if I
651
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:26,320
wear sey dress I would really like you
652
00:33:22,039 --> 00:33:28,480
just wear a sexy dress all right so far
653
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:30,279
this trip has been so easy but it really
654
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:32,200
feels that Val and I are starting to
655
00:33:30,279 --> 00:33:34,559
communicate more and and things are
656
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:36,399
starting to open up for us I want to
657
00:33:34,559 --> 00:33:38,399
believe that this is us starting to get
658
00:33:36,399 --> 00:33:40,960
back on track but in reality we have a
659
00:33:38,399 --> 00:33:42,559
lot of issues that we need to address
660
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:45,559
I'm willing to put in the work because I
661
00:33:42,559 --> 00:33:48,840
Believe in Us I just hope she does
662
00:33:45,559 --> 00:33:52,519
too that's
663
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:54,880
it uh I've been waiting months to meet
664
00:33:52,519 --> 00:33:56,720
dumy and now that the moment's here I
665
00:33:54,880 --> 00:34:00,159
don't know if I've contracted a bug or
666
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:06,120
something something but I am not feeling
667
00:34:00,159 --> 00:34:25,720
well my stomach is in knots I am freaked
668
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:31,480
[Music]
669
00:34:25,720 --> 00:34:34,480
out oh I am really not feeling
670
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,480
well
671
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:43,760
um I have been sick basically all
672
00:34:41,879 --> 00:34:48,320
night
673
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:53,119
uh it's I've been having stomach
674
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:55,960
issues like intense nausea and
675
00:34:53,119 --> 00:34:58,879
um I haven't been vomiting but I've had
676
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,879
like lots of
677
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:04,920
diarrhea this is not the right day for
678
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:06,400
this because I'm seeing dumy today we're
679
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:08,960
already a day behind I was supposed to
680
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:11,320
see her yesterday and now I was I'm
681
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,880
supposed to see her today and I'm like
682
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:16,480
what's going to
683
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:19,040
happen oh my God this
684
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:21,280
sucks there's no way I can meet Dempsey
685
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,280
like
686
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,640
this like I think I'd have to wear a
687
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:30,880
diaper
688
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:30,880
legitimately oh H I'm super
689
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,800
BM
690
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:10,359
sucks I'm exhausted my body is just worn
691
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:13,359
out and I don't know if I've contracted
692
00:36:10,359 --> 00:36:17,040
a bug or something but I am not feeling
693
00:36:13,359 --> 00:36:17,040
well let's give her a
694
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:22,720
spray anything to smell
695
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,880
good I'm really hoping I'm not
696
00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:28,720
contagious because I don't want to miss
697
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,720
any more days of not seeing
698
00:36:29,720 --> 00:36:35,079
MC o my heart rate's pretty high I get
699
00:36:33,359 --> 00:36:37,800
stomach problems all the time but this
700
00:36:35,079 --> 00:36:40,440
one definitely feels different so it's
701
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,440
time to go to the
702
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,640
doctor
703
00:36:54,760 --> 00:37:01,200
hi the doctor's appointment went really
704
00:36:57,720 --> 00:37:03,839
well I have a a parasite he gave me a
705
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:05,599
nausea medicine to hold me over and it
706
00:37:03,839 --> 00:37:07,920
kicked in pretty quickly so I'm not
707
00:37:05,599 --> 00:37:09,319
feeling nauseous at the moment and I'm
708
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,560
not
709
00:37:09,319 --> 00:37:12,720
contagious do you feel like you're up
710
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,319
for meeting
711
00:37:12,720 --> 00:37:17,800
Dy yeah I feel like just knowing what's
712
00:37:15,319 --> 00:37:20,280
wrong with me makes me feel a little bit
713
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:22,240
more pep in my steps so I think I'm
714
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:25,319
going to walk a little bit and see if we
715
00:37:22,240 --> 00:37:25,319
can meet halfway
716
00:37:25,599 --> 00:37:28,599
Maybe
717
00:37:32,079 --> 00:37:37,880
she said just walking around where
718
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,880
abouts do you want to
719
00:37:38,839 --> 00:37:43,960
meet it's starting to hit me that I'm
720
00:37:41,119 --> 00:37:46,760
going to be in person face to face with
721
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:49,359
Dempsey very soon I just dropped a pin
722
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,359
for Dempsey so I think we're meeting
723
00:37:49,359 --> 00:37:54,720
somewhere up
724
00:37:51,359 --> 00:37:57,680
here I just need like a a
725
00:37:54,720 --> 00:38:00,440
second I've been waiting months to meet
726
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:02,300
dumpy and now that the moment's here I
727
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:04,760
am freaked
728
00:38:02,300 --> 00:38:07,839
[Music]
729
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:09,720
out I'm not feeling my best my stomach
730
00:38:07,839 --> 00:38:11,280
is in knots I'm not sure if I need a
731
00:38:09,720 --> 00:38:12,720
toilet soon I'm not sure if I'm going to
732
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:15,640
be able to keep it all
733
00:38:12,720 --> 00:38:16,920
in my heart is going a million miles an
734
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,810
hour it feels like it's going to just
735
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,880
beat out of my
736
00:38:18,810 --> 00:38:23,319
[Music]
737
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:25,920
chest things could to go either really
738
00:38:23,319 --> 00:38:27,400
right or really wrong you're at the top
739
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:30,119
of this roller coaster and you're just
740
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,119
waiting for it
741
00:38:32,740 --> 00:38:39,319
[Music]
742
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:41,720
to once a year I always have a
743
00:38:39,319 --> 00:38:44,319
cigarette are you serious yeah it's
744
00:38:41,720 --> 00:38:48,000
devout Catholic M you know we don't do
745
00:38:44,319 --> 00:38:50,400
like going nightclubs smoking cigarettes
746
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:53,079
I a little bit worried you live in the
747
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:55,520
world but you don't have to behave like
748
00:38:53,079 --> 00:38:58,520
the world I don't like it
749
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:58,520
Misha
750
00:38:59,470 --> 00:39:12,829
[Music]
751
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:16,480
good morning good morning good
752
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:23,040
morning last night I was really tired I
753
00:39:21,079 --> 00:39:26,040
just gave her a kiss and went to bed
754
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:27,800
which I felt kind of bad about but I
755
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:29,319
just really was like facing the other
756
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:32,160
way and just went to
757
00:39:29,319 --> 00:39:35,440
sleep um so
758
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:37,440
yeah did I sore I didn't hear you well
759
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:39,240
that's good you were moving a little bit
760
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:40,240
sometimes you kind of hugging me and
761
00:39:39,240 --> 00:39:43,440
then you were turning and then you were
762
00:39:40,240 --> 00:39:46,400
hugging me again and I do three times I
763
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:48,200
think you you're a big spoon for me I
764
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:50,880
think at some point yeah that's nice you
765
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:53,119
thank you I like snuggling
766
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:56,000
cool this is my first morning waking up
767
00:39:53,119 --> 00:39:56,960
with Christian and I woke up feeling a
768
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,640
little
769
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:02,119
disappointed I was hoping for more
770
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:03,920
physical affection there's The
771
00:40:02,119 --> 00:40:07,319
Stereotype that or people are cold I
772
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:09,960
think this is so weird for me cuddles
773
00:40:07,319 --> 00:40:15,200
hags are really important I'm
774
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:15,200
affectionate friendly and clingy
775
00:40:17,319 --> 00:40:25,079
so I kind of need to get my juice
776
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:27,359
on what a topical estrogen gel just put
777
00:40:25,079 --> 00:40:31,160
it on your arm
778
00:40:27,359 --> 00:40:34,040
really yeah that's so strange like in
779
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:36,920
America hormones are mostly like you
780
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:39,480
know by pills the thing is like pills
781
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:41,280
are kind of process through your liver
782
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:43,560
so like they're more damaging to your
783
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:45,319
body okay first topical just like go
784
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:47,319
straight into your bloodstream how long
785
00:40:45,319 --> 00:40:49,960
does that like does it take to like dry
786
00:40:47,319 --> 00:40:51,720
off or stay on um dries off like within
787
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:54,040
like two 3 minutes and then you can wrap
788
00:40:51,720 --> 00:40:58,319
my skin without you know risking turning
789
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:58,319
into a trans woman
790
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:05,760
that's funny should we go feed the
791
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:07,720
kitties sure yeah yeah we can one of the
792
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,760
things that you know really attracted me
793
00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:11,880
to Cleo's personality was how open she
794
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:13,520
is about her identity but now that we're
795
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:15,920
here in person I feel a little bit out
796
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:18,440
of my element seeing Cleo put on her
797
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:21,760
estrogen gel you know I don't know a
798
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:23,480
whole lot about it if I you know try to
799
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:25,640
touch her if it rubs off on me you know
800
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:28,720
like I'm not sure whether or not it's
801
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:30,920
something that I have to be careful of
802
00:41:28,720 --> 00:41:32,520
it's a little uncomfortable um this is a
803
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:34,520
new situation for me and it's going to
804
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:39,520
take some time for me to get used
805
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:42,240
to cats first humans second always okay
806
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:44,400
right girls
807
00:41:42,240 --> 00:41:47,440
cool maybe we should plan on what we're
808
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:50,400
going to be doing today well I don't
809
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:53,079
necessarily plan I usually have like a
810
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:55,599
rough itinerary like just like maybe
811
00:41:53,079 --> 00:41:57,400
some ideas oh just kind of want to go
812
00:41:55,599 --> 00:41:58,800
explore you know first time in London I
813
00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:03,240
want to check things out and see see
814
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:03,240
what's going on all right
815
00:42:03,319 --> 00:42:09,079
okay Christian is definitely a go with
816
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:11,839
the flow kind of person is not too much
817
00:42:09,079 --> 00:42:14,160
of a planner which triggers my anxiety
818
00:42:11,839 --> 00:42:16,359
because being an artistic person the
819
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:19,400
world can seem extremely unpredictable
820
00:42:16,359 --> 00:42:21,480
to me sometimes and in order to manage
821
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:25,960
that I need a degree of predictability
822
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:30,599
in my life let's go sir Walker okay but
823
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:32,480
I worry that if I voice my concerns that
824
00:42:30,599 --> 00:42:34,880
that could stand in the way of him
825
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:37,480
having a good time in in London
826
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:41,520
especially on our first day out
827
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:41,520
together let's go this way
828
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:49,599
yeah this is uh pretty picturesque and
829
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:54,200
yeah I mean this is literally it like
830
00:42:49,599 --> 00:42:54,200
it's literally the very center of
831
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:58,160
London
832
00:42:58,240 --> 00:43:03,079
we're getting the Chimes too that's
833
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:05,599
awesome yeah very very you got a big
834
00:43:03,079 --> 00:43:08,400
band there the parli London Eyes over
835
00:43:05,599 --> 00:43:10,319
there yeah very cool should we keep
836
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:13,040
walking yeah yeah let's just keep
837
00:43:10,319 --> 00:43:15,559
going I was a big James Bond fan as a
838
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:18,240
kid and like sing Buckingham Palace or
839
00:43:15,559 --> 00:43:20,119
big Ben just like the geographical
840
00:43:18,240 --> 00:43:23,200
scenes that I've saw in like 60s Bond
841
00:43:20,119 --> 00:43:25,000
films it felt super surreal and being
842
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:27,640
with Cleo it definitely makes my
843
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:28,480
experience much more romantic she's like
844
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:31,119
my Bond
845
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:33,280
[Music]
846
00:43:31,119 --> 00:43:36,400
girl I thought this place would be
847
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:38,640
pretty cute have a drink
848
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:42,119
cool up the gang
849
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:45,240
plank wow oh my God the view is
850
00:43:42,119 --> 00:43:47,760
great here you go babe for you oh thank
851
00:43:45,240 --> 00:43:51,480
here warm me up a little bit
852
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:54,680
here well I'd like to make a toast to
853
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:58,079
you and I finally getting together got
854
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:58,079
our first date first date
855
00:44:00,720 --> 00:44:04,920
and honestly I really like that it's not
856
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:07,160
that crowded we can be a little bit more
857
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:09,200
personal just enjoy each other's company
858
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:12,040
rather than being distracted by whatever
859
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:14,119
else is going scream and like sure you
860
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,319
can he each other what you know
861
00:44:14,119 --> 00:44:17,200
especially being jet legged and
862
00:44:15,319 --> 00:44:19,440
everything and just you know I'm sorry
863
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:21,119
that I was like so tired last night I
864
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:23,720
just didn't want you thinking like I
865
00:44:21,119 --> 00:44:26,240
wasn't attracted to you by not like
866
00:44:23,720 --> 00:44:27,359
being forward or being like touchy don't
867
00:44:26,240 --> 00:44:29,079
worry I wouldn't have slapped with you
868
00:44:27,359 --> 00:44:31,520
on the first night
869
00:44:29,079 --> 00:44:36,079
anyway okay that's that's that's good to
870
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:36,079
know you're a classy broad so yeah
871
00:44:37,240 --> 00:44:41,919
yeah whiskey
872
00:44:38,860 --> 00:44:41,919
[Music]
873
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:47,400
kiss actually yeah really nice it's not
874
00:44:45,720 --> 00:44:49,040
like bitter or anything yeah you don't
875
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,400
you don't winse at it I I like that you
876
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:52,200
know I mean I can drink this like it's
877
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,880
water I could like gurgle in my mouth I
878
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:56,800
just I yeah I drink a lot of jams and I
879
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:58,079
like it you know maybe uh on a night out
880
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:00,160
yeah about two or three drinks of that
881
00:44:58,079 --> 00:45:01,720
and then I'll probably do some karaoke
882
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,880
probably go dancing that's something I
883
00:45:01,720 --> 00:45:05,720
like to do a lot I like to go I like to
884
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:07,119
go dancing and I are you somebody who
885
00:45:05,720 --> 00:45:09,480
likes to go out and
886
00:45:07,119 --> 00:45:11,760
dance
887
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,760
um I I can't say I'm somebody that does
888
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:17,000
that to be
889
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:18,559
honest I want to kind of see you when
890
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,720
you're getting a buzz so see if you get
891
00:45:18,559 --> 00:45:23,160
like a little little goofy on me a
892
00:45:20,720 --> 00:45:25,319
little bit okay
893
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:27,240
okay what do you say about us getting
894
00:45:25,319 --> 00:45:29,480
out of here and go into something that's
895
00:45:27,240 --> 00:45:33,800
a little more
896
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:35,839
lively I guess we could go somewhere
897
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:38,640
livelier since I've been in London
898
00:45:35,839 --> 00:45:40,559
Cleo's been pretty shy I want to find a
899
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:42,839
place where she can let loose a little
900
00:45:40,559 --> 00:45:45,200
bit come out of her shell I'm really
901
00:45:42,839 --> 00:45:47,680
hoping that if we break the ice and Cleo
902
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:49,480
is able to you know liven up a little
903
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:51,680
bit but it'll definitely make me feel
904
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:54,880
more confident in our
905
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:56,490
relationship watch your
906
00:45:54,880 --> 00:46:08,530
step
907
00:45:56,490 --> 00:46:08,530
[Music]
908
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:22,760
it's kind of cute Nico you like where
909
00:46:17,119 --> 00:46:26,400
are we um in Hell downtown Kaa I
910
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:27,880
mean really in hell because I like like
911
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:30,160
I don't like to come to par and stuff
912
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:33,559
like that I'm going to do it for
913
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:36,319
you I'm actually really excited to get
914
00:46:33,559 --> 00:46:38,520
niola in a a totally different
915
00:46:36,319 --> 00:46:41,200
atmosphere let's go out let's have some
916
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:44,839
fun let's grab a beer not talk about
917
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:47,359
anything too serious just have fun if
918
00:46:44,839 --> 00:46:50,440
you came to this area 20 years ago
919
00:46:47,359 --> 00:46:52,880
nothing was here now it's all night club
920
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:55,839
and bar
921
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:57,680
restaurant many people you can see
922
00:46:55,839 --> 00:47:00,280
people like to drink and stuff like that
923
00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:01,760
but not my type of place well I think
924
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:05,960
this
925
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:09,319
area is really cute listen half hour
926
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:11,400
Misha I don't stay more than half
927
00:47:09,319 --> 00:47:13,440
hours today I'm seeing that this
928
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:16,240
relationship it's very hard you know
929
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:18,480
it's very hard work I was surprised when
930
00:47:16,240 --> 00:47:20,839
Misha told me that if she will leave
931
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:23,760
Israel and we will not be
932
00:47:20,839 --> 00:47:25,920
engaged she will live this relationship
933
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:29,200
I don't want to lose Misha so I'm trying
934
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:32,040
to adopt myself to her in
935
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:35,040
Hebrew in Arabic
936
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:35,040
sah
937
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:42,359
cheers so when was the last time you
938
00:47:38,559 --> 00:47:46,119
were at a bar I think more than 20 years
939
00:47:42,359 --> 00:47:49,000
ago I haven't been to Bar yeah not one
940
00:47:46,119 --> 00:47:52,440
not for like a sports game nothing
941
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:54,920
no what is to be in the bar as devout
942
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:58,119
Catholic M you know we don't do like
943
00:47:54,920 --> 00:48:00,800
going nightclub dancing it's opposite
944
00:47:58,119 --> 00:48:03,480
from what the church teach and from who
945
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:06,160
we are but it's okay to drink beer come
946
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:09,119
on that's not a SC that's okay but to go
947
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:14,520
to nightclub smoking
948
00:48:09,119 --> 00:48:17,480
cigarettes that's not us that's not C so
949
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:23,079
now once a year I always have a
950
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:27,640
cigarette on New Year's Eve oh you
951
00:48:23,079 --> 00:48:27,640
yeah are you serious yeah so
952
00:48:28,720 --> 00:48:35,160
here I don't like it
953
00:48:31,079 --> 00:48:37,720
Misha I am surprised that she smoke
954
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:41,640
cigarette I am a little bit worried
955
00:48:37,720 --> 00:48:44,160
about this cuz Misha have a worldly
956
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:47,079
Temptation and I think opposite the
957
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:50,319
Bible say you live in the word but you
958
00:48:47,079 --> 00:48:51,559
don't have to behave like the word it's
959
00:48:50,319 --> 00:48:55,839
not
960
00:48:51,559 --> 00:48:56,960
right like my whole life pre- conversion
961
00:48:55,839 --> 00:49:00,559
but this
962
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:02,400
was fun like this is what all me
963
00:49:00,559 --> 00:49:04,760
everyone in my family all my friends
964
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:07,319
like if they came to Israel they would
965
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:09,799
absolutely want to you know come do this
966
00:49:07,319 --> 00:49:13,040
stuff for me Misha is someone who is
967
00:49:09,799 --> 00:49:16,680
very devout Catholic I think to go to
968
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:20,520
nightclub and dance is a sing to be to
969
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:23,079
be a nightclub I like you I am also a
970
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:26,200
devout Catholic but I can also go and
971
00:49:23,079 --> 00:49:29,520
not feel ashamed or
972
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:33,680
like guilt ridden because I love to
973
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:36,079
dance that in and of itself is not a sin
974
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:39,359
but when people go to nightclub what
975
00:49:36,079 --> 00:49:41,359
they doinga woman and man what are they
976
00:49:39,359 --> 00:49:44,839
doing the simp it opens the door to
977
00:49:41,359 --> 00:49:46,520
temptation but I mean if you go to a
978
00:49:44,839 --> 00:49:50,440
like a dance club and you're just
979
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:52,079
dancing is that a sin you know it's it's
980
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:55,839
very complicated
981
00:49:52,079 --> 00:49:58,960
question I mean I can be there but I
982
00:49:55,839 --> 00:50:01,040
don't do the same right I can be there I
983
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:04,319
will not participate with them correct
984
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:07,680
but I prefer not to go there yeah my
985
00:50:04,319 --> 00:50:09,839
daughters are at that age where you know
986
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:13,040
they're going into college like would
987
00:50:09,839 --> 00:50:14,720
there be judgment on them if they had
988
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:18,319
boyfriends and they were going out
989
00:50:14,720 --> 00:50:20,880
clubbing and like would you like judge
990
00:50:18,319 --> 00:50:21,880
them and like say things I be honest
991
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:24,200
with you I'm not going to fight with
992
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:26,720
your daughter because if I fight with
993
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:29,960
them that's going to destroy our
994
00:50:26,720 --> 00:50:31,720
relationship so after the day that we no
995
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:35,760
I agree I agree all this conversation
996
00:50:31,720 --> 00:50:38,280
between us let's just enjoy yes the
997
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:40,640
night so I think this is what we should
998
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:42,280
do why don't we just go in there and
999
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:44,920
we'll just kind of see what it's like in
1000
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:46,599
there should we and just see like the if
1001
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:50,960
you want Mish I'm not going to fight
1002
00:50:46,599 --> 00:50:52,920
with you but just to sing yeah 5 minutes
1003
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:54,720
okay and we go then we'll leave I'm not
1004
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:57,040
going to you don't have to stay anywhere
1005
00:50:54,720 --> 00:51:01,200
that you don't want to stay
1006
00:50:57,040 --> 00:51:01,200
okay but I would not like it Hing
1007
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:07,440
you you're having fun
1008
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:13,119
here oh my
1009
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:19,880
God like I'm
1010
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:22,960
shocked why oh I don't know maybe 5
1011
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:27,359
minutes ago someone didn't even act like
1012
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:27,359
he had like a groovy bone I mean I just
1013
00:51:28,079 --> 00:51:34,440
for seeing niola in this element does
1014
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:36,160
give me great hope and it leads me to
1015
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:38,319
believe that he cares enough to do
1016
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:40,640
things that'll make me
1017
00:51:38,319 --> 00:51:43,400
happy there's still a lot that I need to
1018
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:45,920
figure out to see if niola is someone
1019
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:49,079
that I can spend forever with but it is
1020
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:52,520
a huge relief seeing Nikola come out of
1021
00:51:49,079 --> 00:51:52,520
his shell a little bit tonight and
1022
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:57,359
compromise I love
1023
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:04,920
so like four years ago I met this girl
1024
00:52:01,839 --> 00:52:07,240
online she lived all the way in Barbados
1025
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:08,000
producers told me I'm being catfished by
1026
00:52:07,240 --> 00:52:12,319
a
1027
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:15,200
man what I still believe that the person
1028
00:52:12,319 --> 00:52:19,520
behind all the messages is a woman I'm
1029
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:22,869
thinking like going back to Barbados for
1030
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,869
[Music]
1031
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:30,160
what I'm working myself up um shaking in
1032
00:52:26,359 --> 00:52:33,000
my boots it feels like a first look at
1033
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:33,000
potentially my
1034
00:52:37,730 --> 00:52:46,159
[Music]
1035
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:57,079
wife what are you doing uh just getting
1036
00:52:54,920 --> 00:53:00,319
some mom's pills ready uh for the week
1037
00:52:57,079 --> 00:53:01,680
these on take once a day twice a day and
1038
00:53:00,319 --> 00:53:04,000
then once a
1039
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:06,240
day after visiting the private
1040
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:08,040
investigator um I did come to the
1041
00:53:06,240 --> 00:53:10,559
realization that you know I was
1042
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:13,079
catfished and I messaged the real
1043
00:53:10,559 --> 00:53:15,280
Carmela to see if she could chat but she
1044
00:53:13,079 --> 00:53:17,160
still hasn't gotten back to me you know
1045
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:18,520
I have to be honest with myself I'm not
1046
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:21,640
getting
1047
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:24,079
anywhere it just really
1048
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:26,559
sucks let going get a beer you want one
1049
00:53:24,079 --> 00:53:29,079
yes please
1050
00:53:26,559 --> 00:53:31,319
here you go thank you you're
1051
00:53:29,079 --> 00:53:33,160
welcome
1052
00:53:31,319 --> 00:53:35,720
cheers I don't
1053
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:39,160
know I told my sister lanti and my
1054
00:53:35,720 --> 00:53:40,720
brother Ronald about um Carmela but
1055
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,920
after everything I've gone through in
1056
00:53:40,720 --> 00:53:45,119
the past few weeks I don't want to have
1057
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:47,640
any more secrets in my life especially
1058
00:53:45,119 --> 00:53:50,359
not with my family so I have to come
1059
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:53,200
clean with my mom and my sister shfa I
1060
00:53:50,359 --> 00:53:56,520
need to be able to open up with them so
1061
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:57,720
what's going on Sal long story but I
1062
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,359
kind of want to tell you and Mom
1063
00:53:57,720 --> 00:54:02,799
together just to kind of get it out
1064
00:53:59,359 --> 00:54:04,920
there okay I can't like keep hiding it
1065
00:54:02,799 --> 00:54:08,319
you going to get her yeah I'll get
1066
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:10,799
her I'm worried about giving my mom this
1067
00:54:08,319 --> 00:54:12,319
information because I know that she is
1068
00:54:10,799 --> 00:54:14,119
going through so much herself you know
1069
00:54:12,319 --> 00:54:16,640
she's trying to get herself back on her
1070
00:54:14,119 --> 00:54:20,040
feet and I don't want her to have that
1071
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:22,440
burden of me and in my dumb
1072
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:25,920
decision what you need to tell
1073
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:28,200
us uh man it's a long story
1074
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:31,599
what something you went through recently
1075
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:35,920
your health are you no my health is okay
1076
00:54:31,599 --> 00:54:35,920
like not bad okay just kind of get to
1077
00:54:36,240 --> 00:54:42,000
it yeah so like four years ago I met
1078
00:54:38,599 --> 00:54:45,040
this girl online and she lived kind of
1079
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:48,799
far away far away like
1080
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,799
where like all the way in
1081
00:54:49,119 --> 00:54:52,119
Barbados but you snuck off to Barbados
1082
00:54:51,319 --> 00:54:54,319
last
1083
00:54:52,119 --> 00:54:55,599
year last year I went to Barbados yeah
1084
00:54:54,319 --> 00:54:57,359
but this year
1085
00:54:55,599 --> 00:54:59,520
all that was the
1086
00:54:57,359 --> 00:55:01,960
plan all this was going on when I was in
1087
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:03,520
the hospital yeah kept telling you not
1088
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:04,960
to go I didn't press the issue when I I
1089
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,599
was like well maybe he just need a break
1090
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:08,119
because we was dealing with a lot of
1091
00:55:06,599 --> 00:55:09,400
stuff anyways but I never would have
1092
00:55:08,119 --> 00:55:10,559
crossed my mind that you was going out
1093
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:13,640
there to go see the
1094
00:55:10,559 --> 00:55:16,640
girl so what happened when you got there
1095
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:18,559
uh she never showed up are you serious
1096
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,760
so what did you ever talk to her again
1097
00:55:18,559 --> 00:55:21,079
like what happened I did I started
1098
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,760
talking to her again like a month
1099
00:55:21,079 --> 00:55:27,000
afterwards she I was kind of like why
1100
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:27,000
you do why you why' you do that
1101
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:34,480
Ty I cannot believe you did neither what
1102
00:55:31,359 --> 00:55:38,200
so shocked that's not even half of
1103
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:41,760
it production had a a voice message from
1104
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:42,920
this person saying that the girl in the
1105
00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:45,480
pictures isn't the girl who I was
1106
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:47,400
talking to producers told me I'm being
1107
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:50,400
catfished by a
1108
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:50,400
man
1109
00:55:51,559 --> 00:55:55,559
what I don't believe how get mixed up in
1110
00:55:54,559 --> 00:55:58,960
this
1111
00:55:55,559 --> 00:56:02,480
I can't believe it I'm I'm still I'm
1112
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:04,640
confused so is it a girl or is it a
1113
00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:06,359
boy that's what I'm trying to figure out
1114
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:08,839
like we went to a private investigator
1115
00:56:06,359 --> 00:56:11,760
yesterday y'all did you did me and the
1116
00:56:08,839 --> 00:56:14,640
shti did and what' they
1117
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:17,520
say basically he showed me that she was
1118
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:19,839
a pornography model oh and that she was
1119
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:22,400
also a cam girl an America and then he
1120
00:56:19,839 --> 00:56:26,920
said he doesn't really know where the
1121
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:26,920
person on Snapchat was
1122
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:34,079
wow that's I cannot believe it I can't
1123
00:56:30,079 --> 00:56:36,520
believe I cannot believe it you okay
1124
00:56:34,079 --> 00:56:38,960
yeah I'm okay but it's just kind of
1125
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:40,559
like I I'm just trying to get closure at
1126
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:43,480
this
1127
00:56:40,559 --> 00:56:46,680
point I'm thinking like going back to
1128
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:49,480
Barbados for
1129
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:51,920
what to like maybe see if I can find
1130
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:54,039
this person like so you want to find the
1131
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:56,440
person behind the messages and see why
1132
00:56:54,039 --> 00:56:58,720
they did this yeah you would take your
1133
00:56:56,440 --> 00:57:02,160
last M to go over
1134
00:56:58,720 --> 00:57:04,039
there why is it so why so important I
1135
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:06,079
did have strong feelings for this person
1136
00:57:04,039 --> 00:57:07,720
like we were like we had a lot of like
1137
00:57:06,079 --> 00:57:10,359
goals and aspirations that the same like
1138
00:57:07,720 --> 00:57:14,280
starting a business and like she gave me
1139
00:57:10,359 --> 00:57:18,079
like something I never really had she
1140
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:18,079
like told me that she loved me and stuff
1141
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:26,599
so I still believe that the person
1142
00:57:23,319 --> 00:57:28,240
behind all the messages is a woman so I
1143
00:57:26,599 --> 00:57:31,079
feel like need to talk to this person
1144
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:33,520
one more time because I just want to
1145
00:57:31,079 --> 00:57:35,920
know if my instincts are right that this
1146
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:38,039
person loved me the way I love them if
1147
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:40,079
anything else is fake at least that love
1148
00:57:38,039 --> 00:57:42,440
was real and I feel like that would be
1149
00:57:40,079 --> 00:57:44,880
the closure I need and that's
1150
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:47,119
it oh
1151
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:50,680
Ty I wish I knew where this person was
1152
00:57:47,119 --> 00:57:55,359
at because I'm ready to act yeah act act
1153
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:58,240
up bad yeah he's so nice so bubbly and
1154
00:57:55,359 --> 00:57:59,960
now to see him so down you know I see
1155
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:04,039
like he's heartbroken and I hope he can
1156
00:57:59,960 --> 00:58:05,760
heal I hope he can get over this I know
1157
00:58:04,039 --> 00:58:07,640
you're going to find love or whatever
1158
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:09,200
like that but don't go back over there
1159
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,599
if you even got the chance to even see
1160
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:14,480
this person in real life what would you
1161
00:58:10,599 --> 00:58:15,960
even say I don't know yet there's so
1162
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:17,920
many questions that I have that I want
1163
00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:20,200
to ask but he's not trying to answer
1164
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:22,160
them but he just won't give a straight
1165
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:24,920
answer I definitely think he's holding
1166
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:27,520
on to some type of hope that maybe it
1167
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:27,520
could work out for
1168
00:58:30,270 --> 00:58:37,679
[Music]
1169
00:58:39,039 --> 00:58:46,400
R I just dropped a pin for deny so I
1170
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,400
think we're meeting somewhere up
1171
00:58:47,070 --> 00:58:52,229
[Music]
1172
00:58:52,839 --> 00:58:58,920
here I'm working myself up um shaking in
1173
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:58,920
my
1174
00:59:00,799 --> 00:59:09,200
boots this is too much
1175
00:59:05,079 --> 00:59:12,079
man it it feels like a first look at
1176
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,079
potentially my
1177
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:20,119
wife it's exciting but it's also
1178
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:26,640
terrifying
1179
00:59:33,020 --> 00:59:38,639
[Music]
1180
00:59:47,119 --> 00:59:52,000
hi
1181
00:59:48,599 --> 00:59:56,640
hi hi hi I can't believe you're actually
1182
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:56,640
here I can't believe you're a person
1183
00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:01,520
yeah a real human being I am and you
1184
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:03,680
look lovely you look nice quite quite
1185
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:05,480
beautiful yeah yeah so do you your eyes
1186
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:08,240
are scary
1187
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:11,240
mesmerizing and
1188
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:11,240
stuff
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01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:17,760
uh so you have bags can I can I hold
1190
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:20,839
something hold that all right I'll hold
1191
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:24,119
this wow this is light this is this is
1192
01:00:20,839 --> 01:00:27,000
all you took not with you to Thailand oh
1193
01:00:24,119 --> 01:00:29,319
you got a big one okay cool yeah no
1194
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,319
that's
1195
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:39,280
good I'm Dempsey I'm 28 I live on a farm
1196
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:42,599
in Darlington and after 7 months of
1197
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:44,920
online dating to traveling being in
1198
01:00:42,599 --> 01:00:48,039
Thailand missing my flight Stettler
1199
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:51,200
being ill I'm just really excited
1200
01:00:48,039 --> 01:00:55,119
finally meet Statler but then I'm also
1201
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:58,200
really anxious the whole mix of emotions
1202
01:00:55,119 --> 01:01:00,920
is it awkward do you feel awkward I just
1203
01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:02,480
think we're both awkward people yeah me
1204
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:04,760
too
1205
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:07,240
yeah
1206
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:09,839
yeah I instantly felt a connection from
1207
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:12,760
the first like phone call she makes me
1208
01:01:09,839 --> 01:01:15,520
feel so special and I've never felt this
1209
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:17,480
much for somebody before are your cheeks
1210
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:19,760
red or did you get little sunburnt
1211
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:21,920
blushing you're blushing okay blushing
1212
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:25,160
yeah you do this to me a lot what do I
1213
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:26,920
do you make me blush it's crazy
1214
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:29,480
don't usually have that effect on people
1215
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:33,039
usually it's horror with your monotone
1216
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:34,400
voice yes it's a very monotone voice
1217
01:01:33,039 --> 01:01:37,720
thank you for
1218
01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:39,960
noticing yeah I was nervous I didn't
1219
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:43,319
know if you were going to like me if I
1220
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:47,280
was going to like you yeah but I still
1221
01:01:43,319 --> 01:01:49,599
do you still like me that's fantastic
1222
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:52,839
that's really good news for
1223
01:01:49,599 --> 01:01:54,119
me I really care for you a lot I really
1224
01:01:52,839 --> 01:01:55,920
like you I think you're better than
1225
01:01:54,119 --> 01:01:59,920
expect
1226
01:01:55,920 --> 01:02:01,839
Ed I feel amazing yeah I feel good she
1227
01:01:59,920 --> 01:02:05,240
just radiates awkwardness which is
1228
01:02:01,839 --> 01:02:07,480
really attractive to me I feel at home
1229
01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:10,720
you feel at home cuz I am extremely
1230
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:13,880
awkward oh yeah I just instantly had
1231
01:02:10,720 --> 01:02:18,039
butterflies in my heart and in my
1232
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:20,119
stomach thank you for that I got you
1233
01:02:18,039 --> 01:02:22,559
some gifts yeah cuz you're feeling well
1234
01:02:20,119 --> 01:02:25,960
I didn't know what to do that's amazing
1235
01:02:22,559 --> 01:02:31,760
oh thank you we've got some some
1236
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:36,720
vitamins yay uh oh wow then we have love
1237
01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:41,480
raw is that a sexual thing uh could
1238
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:45,359
be could be yeah use your
1239
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:46,680
imagination that's good uh vegan peanut
1240
01:02:45,359 --> 01:02:49,680
butter
1241
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:51,640
cups this is very romantic and I
1242
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:54,119
appreciate this dressure I have gifts in
1243
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:56,200
this bag yeah do you I also have gifts
1244
01:02:54,119 --> 01:02:59,440
for you it's it's in the suitcase at the
1245
01:02:56,200 --> 01:03:02,599
hotel okay can I can I check out your
1246
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,599
butt I haven't looked at it
1247
01:03:02,799 --> 01:03:05,799
yet
1248
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:12,119
no
1249
01:03:08,799 --> 01:03:14,920
wow that's even better in person Jesus
1250
01:03:12,119 --> 01:03:14,920
Christ
1251
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:22,880
wow so do you want to go exchange gifts
1252
01:03:18,119 --> 01:03:26,640
or cool all right let's let's do that
1253
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:28,640
then what's the plan for tonight yeah we
1254
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:31,480
staying in the same Hotel yeah you can
1255
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:34,960
come to my hotel room yeah you want to
1256
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:34,960
like sleep in my
1257
01:03:41,319 --> 01:03:44,599
bed excuse me are you guys like
1258
01:03:43,119 --> 01:03:46,880
celebrating something my friend's
1259
01:03:44,599 --> 01:03:48,599
birthday your birthday where are you I'm
1260
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:51,279
from Minneapolis Minnesota so Midwest
1261
01:03:48,599 --> 01:03:54,359
I'm very Midwestern Bo it's not about me
1262
01:03:51,279 --> 01:03:57,200
being shy I'm autistic Christian leaves
1263
01:03:54,359 --> 01:03:59,520
is life SP of the m and that's not what
1264
01:03:57,200 --> 01:04:01,760
I'm about I feel like I just need to go
1265
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:01,760
back
1266
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:13,440
home thank
1267
01:04:10,119 --> 01:04:15,839
you are you excited I'm excited to spend
1268
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:15,839
time with
1269
01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:28,480
you this is kind I like places like this
1270
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:31,359
very colorful
1271
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:33,839
yeah it honestly looks like a physical
1272
01:04:31,359 --> 01:04:35,200
representation of my mind all right you
1273
01:04:33,839 --> 01:04:37,799
know what I'm saying this place is like
1274
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:39,960
really small and
1275
01:04:37,799 --> 01:04:41,760
crowded yeah yeah we we we'll get a
1276
01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:44,359
drinking you and then I'm sure it'll
1277
01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:44,359
it'll open
1278
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:49,079
up I'm trying to make sure that
1279
01:04:47,359 --> 01:04:51,440
Christian has a good time here and I
1280
01:04:49,079 --> 01:04:55,880
know that he's trying to Len me up a
1281
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:58,359
little we want to do two of the sour
1282
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:59,880
Prince Charles face yeah thank you
1283
01:04:58,359 --> 01:05:02,359
brother
1284
01:04:59,880 --> 01:05:05,119
appreciate but I don't feel like this
1285
01:05:02,359 --> 01:05:07,380
place is necessarily very you know
1286
01:05:05,119 --> 01:05:10,469
autism
1287
01:05:07,380 --> 01:05:10,469
[Music]
1288
01:05:11,039 --> 01:05:17,440
friendly there's a lot going on there's
1289
01:05:14,039 --> 01:05:20,240
lights everywhere
1290
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:22,960
trinkets there's a lot of noise and I'm
1291
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,960
feeling a little
1292
01:05:23,079 --> 01:05:26,079
claustrophobic
1293
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:32,520
oh look at this WOW sit them down
1294
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:33,880
brother thank you all right I'm going to
1295
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:37,920
kind of like go to town on it just for a
1296
01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:37,920
minute just to like yeah
1297
01:05:42,079 --> 01:05:46,559
yeah I mean I don't really taste like
1298
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:47,720
the booze as much no I don't taste the
1299
01:05:46,559 --> 01:05:50,000
but that's good and that's also
1300
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:52,400
dangerous though it
1301
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:54,680
is honestly I might drink like I feel
1302
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:56,160
like if I had two of these
1303
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:59,079
I'd be really screwed up like when I
1304
01:05:56,160 --> 01:06:02,480
okay so I got a really crazy story for
1305
01:05:59,079 --> 01:06:03,760
you go on okay so like I definitely had
1306
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,680
a couple drinks on the plane ride to
1307
01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:08,000
London I was like walking through the
1308
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:09,359
aisle and you know everyone was kind of
1309
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:10,480
sleeping but there was this seat with
1310
01:06:09,359 --> 01:06:12,160
this gal that was sitting there this
1311
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:15,359
blonde girl right and she was looking at
1312
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:17,000
me like what what are you doing and then
1313
01:06:15,359 --> 01:06:18,359
I was like look I'm sorry it's dark in
1314
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:20,160
here and I can't see I'm like stumbling
1315
01:06:18,359 --> 01:06:21,680
around I'm kind of like drunk right now
1316
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:23,000
and then like she started like talking
1317
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:24,880
to me so I sat down and was having a
1318
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:26,760
conversation with her and her
1319
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:28,319
friend and these girls were like young
1320
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:31,039
they're like 21 years
1321
01:06:28,319 --> 01:06:32,440
old and we were talking for a while and
1322
01:06:31,039 --> 01:06:33,599
I I had a buzz going and they didn't
1323
01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,160
seem like you know they had any drinks
1324
01:06:33,599 --> 01:06:36,960
in front of them it was late I figured
1325
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:38,599
hey how about a night cap you know what
1326
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:40,039
I'm saying when I went to the back of
1327
01:06:38,599 --> 01:06:41,279
the plane and I said hey can I get three
1328
01:06:40,039 --> 01:06:45,000
drinks and then the flight attendant
1329
01:06:41,279 --> 01:06:46,400
goes no I heard about you and she goes
1330
01:06:45,000 --> 01:06:49,200
I'm not handing you a
1331
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:50,839
drink I guess they maybe like complain
1332
01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:51,880
or something yeah but like you know it's
1333
01:06:50,839 --> 01:06:53,480
just being social they were the only
1334
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:55,279
people that were like awake on the plane
1335
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:57,960
oh my I would I would totally freak out
1336
01:06:55,279 --> 01:06:59,880
if somebody did that for me okay being
1337
01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:01,359
like a 30-year-old man I could probably
1338
01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:02,640
look like a creep in that situation but
1339
01:07:01,359 --> 01:07:03,960
I wasn't hitting on them you know what
1340
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:06,039
I'm saying all
1341
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:07,400
right like does it does it bother you
1342
01:07:06,039 --> 01:07:08,680
that I was making friends with like
1343
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:11,799
women on the
1344
01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:13,599
plane I guess if I was on the plane and
1345
01:07:11,799 --> 01:07:17,079
we were like traveling together and you
1346
01:07:13,599 --> 01:07:19,200
just sat down to like random girls it
1347
01:07:17,079 --> 01:07:20,680
would probably be slightly weird well I
1348
01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:21,880
would never do that if you were with me
1349
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:25,599
you know what I'm saying if we were you
1350
01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:29,079
do it behind my back no no I wouldn't
1351
01:07:25,599 --> 01:07:31,480
absolutely not no but like you
1352
01:07:29,079 --> 01:07:33,279
did no because you weren't on the plane
1353
01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:36,079
I was I was all alone you know what I'm
1354
01:07:33,279 --> 01:07:36,079
saying
1355
01:07:36,359 --> 01:07:40,079
exactly I think Cleo's getting hung up
1356
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:42,520
on the fact that I was chatting two
1357
01:07:40,079 --> 01:07:45,160
younger women but it's never been a
1358
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:46,480
issue for me in past relationships I
1359
01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:48,799
think my girlfriends have understood
1360
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that I'm just like a friendly guy I hope
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01:07:48,799 --> 01:07:53,400
that you know she can kind of see that
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01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:55,839
me being social or talking with women
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01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:58,279
it's not a big deal deal there something
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01:07:55,839 --> 01:07:59,839
like you do all the time I make friends
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01:07:58,279 --> 01:08:02,359
anywhere I go I'm just kind of like
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01:07:59,839 --> 01:08:04,160
magnetic in that way I mean I'll talk to
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01:08:02,359 --> 01:08:06,799
anybody you know what I'm
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01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:09,319
saying I know that chistian is extremely
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01:08:06,799 --> 01:08:11,760
sociable but knowing that he was being
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01:08:09,319 --> 01:08:13,480
flirty with these two girls that's
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01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:15,760
definitely different from what the way I
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01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:17,799
approach My Flights I definitely
1373
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:19,839
wouldn't get drunk on a plane and I
1374
01:08:17,799 --> 01:08:22,520
certainly wouldn't be chatting after to
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01:08:19,839 --> 01:08:24,600
strangers on a plane either and there's
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01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:27,679
definitely a part of me that perhaps is
1377
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:30,679
worried about you know whether we are
1378
01:08:27,679 --> 01:08:30,679
you know 100%
1379
01:08:31,799 --> 01:08:34,839
compatible hey excuse me excuse me are
1380
01:08:33,759 --> 01:08:36,799
you guys like celebrating something
1381
01:08:34,839 --> 01:08:40,000
tonight my friend's birthday your
1382
01:08:36,799 --> 01:08:42,880
birthday 26 26 awesome is this like a
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01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:44,679
local spot of yall oh yeah yeah where
1384
01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:47,040
are you I'm from Minneapolis Minnesota
1385
01:08:44,679 --> 01:08:49,359
so Midwest I'm very Midwestern
1386
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:50,560
boy when it comes to like being American
1387
01:08:49,359 --> 01:08:52,359
people you guys have this kind of
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01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:54,080
stereotype of like a cowboy hat and
1389
01:08:52,359 --> 01:08:55,960
cowboy boots like Southern like you
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01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:58,600
don't sound like
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01:08:55,960 --> 01:09:00,120
that this is this is Cleo this is my
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01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:02,640
girlfriend
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01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:04,480
Cleo yes I'm actually here to meet her
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01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:08,480
for the first time uh yeah it's the
1395
01:09:04,480 --> 01:09:11,480
first time I've yeah in person in
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01:09:08,480 --> 01:09:14,239
person you want to come culture I just
1397
01:09:11,480 --> 01:09:14,239
can't it's too many
1398
01:09:15,199 --> 01:09:20,799
people I have issues with processing
1399
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:22,640
information when more than one person is
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01:09:20,799 --> 01:09:24,440
talking you know especially if I'm
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01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:27,120
sensorily overwhelmed or emotionally
1402
01:09:24,440 --> 01:09:29,960
overwhelmed it C to completely shut down
1403
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:33,040
and just be like I need space now it's
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01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:34,560
not about me being shy I'm autistic and
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01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:36,480
I wish it was a bit more
1406
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:38,839
considerate is there any like particular
1407
01:09:36,480 --> 01:09:40,199
scotches that you could recommend you
1408
01:09:38,839 --> 01:09:42,799
got no
1409
01:09:40,199 --> 01:09:44,279
idea okay I feel like I like too many
1410
01:09:42,799 --> 01:09:46,560
people for me to interact at the same
1411
01:09:44,279 --> 01:09:48,080
time I just need to go back home I got
1412
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:50,799
you I toally got well all right my
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01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:52,719
friends happy birthday you have a good
1414
01:09:50,799 --> 01:09:55,719
night L have a
1415
01:09:52,719 --> 01:09:55,719
good
1416
01:09:57,199 --> 01:10:02,320
I am exhausted there's a time and place
1417
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:05,159
for everything and right now it's about
1418
01:10:02,320 --> 01:10:07,280
making each other feel special not
1419
01:10:05,159 --> 01:10:12,199
inviting other people into the
1420
01:10:07,280 --> 01:10:12,199
conversation okay I'm just going to
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01:10:13,480 --> 01:10:21,360
up if today's date was an example of how
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01:10:18,719 --> 01:10:24,600
every single date between Christian and
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01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:26,760
I is to go i d necessarily think that
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01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:28,040
this is the type of relationship I would
1425
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:31,250
want to be
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01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:33,960
in you got
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01:10:31,250 --> 01:10:36,120
[Music]
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01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:38,640
everything when I want to have sex with
1429
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:42,280
you you're never in the mood you're
1430
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:45,760
unlocking new levels of insecurities in
1431
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:48,520
my life unbelievable you reject me all
1432
01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:48,520
the
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01:10:51,320 --> 01:10:55,640
[Music]
1434
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:55,640
time
1435
01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:59,839
[Music]
1436
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:06,360
so can you tell me what's going
1437
01:11:03,440 --> 01:11:09,640
on Jasmine and I have been together for
1438
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:11,719
about 2 years now and I fully trusted
1439
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:14,800
Jasmine I've never had any reason not to
1440
01:11:11,719 --> 01:11:16,880
trust Jasmine now I'm finding out that
1441
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:20,800
she's still friends with her
1442
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:20,800
ex-boyfriend and didn't tell me about
1443
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:26,920
it like what's going on behind my back I
1444
01:11:24,679 --> 01:11:29,000
have to know now because when she comes
1445
01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:30,480
to Michigan it's too late I don't want
1446
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:32,640
to find out after we're married I have
1447
01:11:30,480 --> 01:11:34,880
to find out
1448
01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:36,800
now do you have anything going on with
1449
01:11:34,880 --> 01:11:38,840
him right
1450
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:40,360
now
1451
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:43,880
no
1452
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:47,600
baby I've been faithful I'm not cheating
1453
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:49,360
on you he's just my friend you always
1454
01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:52,120
told me that I can't be friends with my
1455
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:54,639
ex you fly off the rocker even at the
1456
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:57,120
sound a mention of my ex's names Dan
1457
01:11:54,639 --> 01:12:00,960
never share nude pictures of me with
1458
01:11:57,120 --> 01:12:04,239
anyone like your ex so don't compare Dan
1459
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:06,440
he a gentlemen he's respectful he's very
1460
01:12:04,239 --> 01:12:08,960
aware we are engaged we are not
1461
01:12:06,440 --> 01:12:11,199
interested on having anything you you
1462
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:11,199
understand
1463
01:12:12,239 --> 01:12:18,120
that yes I lied to you know and he still
1464
01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:21,679
doesn't know that Dan leave in the same
1465
01:12:18,120 --> 01:12:24,120
apartment building but lying to him
1466
01:12:21,679 --> 01:12:26,520
hasn't helped our relationship at all
1467
01:12:24,120 --> 01:12:29,199
so I do believe that it is time for
1468
01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:29,199
telling him the
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01:12:30,090 --> 01:12:36,760
[Music]
1470
01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:36,760
truth okay so how often you guys
1471
01:12:37,239 --> 01:12:41,239
talk at least once a
1472
01:12:42,639 --> 01:12:48,960
week are you serious are you meeting up
1473
01:12:45,679 --> 01:12:48,960
with him and stuff in
1474
01:12:51,719 --> 01:12:59,719
person we we meet sometimes to to shout
1475
01:12:56,920 --> 01:13:02,440
to talk just to do friend stuff that
1476
01:12:59,719 --> 01:13:02,440
that's it friend
1477
01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:08,760
stuff so were you alone with him
1478
01:13:11,080 --> 01:13:17,120
recently like yes we yes because he
1479
01:13:15,040 --> 01:13:19,000
living in the same building as I am and
1480
01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:22,679
I just had coffee with him a few days
1481
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:23,500
before you come what you got to be
1482
01:13:22,679 --> 01:13:24,800
kidding me
1483
01:13:23,500 --> 01:13:26,400
[Music]
1484
01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:28,080
out of all the buildings in the freaking
1485
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:31,639
Panama you got to pick the one that your
1486
01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:33,220
ex is in yeah he's my friend are you
1487
01:13:31,639 --> 01:13:35,679
freaking kidding
1488
01:13:33,220 --> 01:13:38,440
[Music]
1489
01:13:35,679 --> 01:13:40,400
me I feel angry and betrayed because I
1490
01:13:38,440 --> 01:13:42,760
would have never paid for this apartment
1491
01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:44,560
for Jasmine to stay in if I knew that
1492
01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:47,120
her ex is living in the same building
1493
01:13:44,560 --> 01:13:49,880
and the fact that Jasmine is pretending
1494
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:52,360
like this is no big deal it makes her
1495
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:55,400
look very
1496
01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:59,560
suspicious so you're not romantic with
1497
01:13:55,400 --> 01:14:02,840
him or intimate with him in any way no
1498
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:04,239
we're not attracted physically to other
1499
01:14:02,840 --> 01:14:05,080
have you had sex with him since you
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01:14:04,239 --> 01:14:08,400
broke
1501
01:14:05,080 --> 01:14:11,920
up we became like Friends with
1502
01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:14,639
Benefits just because sex was good but
1503
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:16,639
since I met you that stop he's just my
1504
01:14:14,639 --> 01:14:19,560
friend and that's
1505
01:14:16,639 --> 01:14:22,280
it have you thought about having sex
1506
01:14:19,560 --> 01:14:25,280
with him since since
1507
01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:25,280
then
1508
01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:30,560
I'll be honest with you like it's not
1509
01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:32,960
that I'm in love with him it's not that
1510
01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:35,040
I'm attracted to
1511
01:14:32,960 --> 01:14:38,280
him
1512
01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:40,800
but since when I want to have sex with
1513
01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:44,000
you you're never in the mood you don't
1514
01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:48,320
want me AR with you have
1515
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:52,080
never I feel like you reject me all the
1516
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:55,800
time you are unlocking new levels of
1517
01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:59,040
insecurities in my life so do I think
1518
01:14:55,800 --> 01:15:00,239
about having sex with him like just
1519
01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:03,400
think about
1520
01:15:00,239 --> 01:15:06,000
it it's not that I fantasize about all
1521
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:07,719
me doing it but
1522
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:14,120
I
1523
01:15:07,719 --> 01:15:14,120
remember how it was like having sex with
1524
01:15:14,719 --> 01:15:20,159
him that's very very low do you think
1525
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:22,679
it's okay that you fantasize about
1526
01:15:20,159 --> 01:15:25,400
having sex with him if our sexual life
1527
01:15:22,679 --> 01:15:28,400
were better then I will fantasize about
1528
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:28,400
us
1529
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:35,960
unbelievable by Jasmine definition she
1530
01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:38,760
absolutely
1531
01:15:35,960 --> 01:15:41,800
cheated cuz cheating to her is even
1532
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:44,080
speaking to someone if I spoke to my ex
1533
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:47,800
she would blow a fit a
1534
01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:50,840
gasket and here she is talking to her ex
1535
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:53,719
fantasizing about him physically seeing
1536
01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:55,080
him moved into the same building he's in
1537
01:15:53,719 --> 01:15:57,480
I'm losing my
1538
01:15:55,080 --> 01:16:00,600
trust and how are we supposed to get
1539
01:15:57,480 --> 01:16:02,880
married without trust this is bad it's
1540
01:16:00,600 --> 01:16:02,880
very
1541
01:16:03,770 --> 01:16:09,239
[Music]
1542
01:16:05,480 --> 01:16:12,639
bad I have a friend she wanted to meet
1543
01:16:09,239 --> 01:16:15,159
you I'm hoping that Tiffany can get b to
1544
01:16:12,639 --> 01:16:17,000
open up a little bit more why were you
1545
01:16:15,159 --> 01:16:20,120
still on the app after you were adamant
1546
01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:21,400
about him not being on the app she's
1547
01:16:20,120 --> 01:16:26,159
asking you a question why are you
1548
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:26,159
looking at me why did do not delete the
1549
01:16:28,020 --> 01:16:55,080
[Music]
1550
01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:55,080
app
1551
01:17:19,159 --> 01:17:24,400
Hi how are you I'm good you look
1552
01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:29,520
beautiful
1553
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:32,679
lovely oh lovely is enough for SE see
1554
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:34,760
yeah it's beautiful sexy thank you I
1555
01:17:32,679 --> 01:17:37,600
hope I'm dressed appropriately for you
1556
01:17:34,760 --> 01:17:40,000
to be honest tonight you're right I'm
1557
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:42,679
great
1558
01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:45,320
uh-oh you see Violet's face she's
1559
01:17:42,679 --> 01:17:47,880
impressed this right here is why I came
1560
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:50,719
here for this moment right
1561
01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:53,000
here we have an undeniable connection
1562
01:17:50,719 --> 01:17:55,199
and I love seeing this side of her she
1563
01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:57,239
she has this tough exteria but she also
1564
01:17:55,199 --> 01:18:01,560
has a a sweet side that keeps bringing
1565
01:17:57,239 --> 01:18:05,400
me back can I ask you a question yes if
1566
01:18:01,560 --> 01:18:08,679
in future we are belong together and I
1567
01:18:05,400 --> 01:18:11,239
be your wife tell me more about uh how
1568
01:18:08,679 --> 01:18:16,080
your country what do you want to know
1569
01:18:11,239 --> 01:18:19,760
for example um if in future your sister
1570
01:18:16,080 --> 01:18:23,520
see doesn't like me okay yes how do you
1571
01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:26,360
think because you know in Vietnam uh
1572
01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:30,800
your family don't like
1573
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:35,320
me we don't get marry I understand yes
1574
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:43,320
so oh oh thank you Lord what good timing
1575
01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:47,840
wow look yummy oh what's this um fish F
1576
01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:49,719
so um in America it's very important for
1577
01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:53,719
family and friends to get along with the
1578
01:18:49,719 --> 01:18:57,159
person's spouse but if we're married
1579
01:18:53,719 --> 01:19:00,000
you're my wife it doesn't matter what my
1580
01:18:57,159 --> 01:19:03,760
sister or any other person
1581
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:07,760
say because I married you not them but
1582
01:19:03,760 --> 01:19:10,239
I'm still happy because uh you know uh y
1583
01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:13,800
Daddy like
1584
01:19:10,239 --> 01:19:16,320
me I contact with him very good
1585
01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:20,320
mhm and I know he was trying to build a
1586
01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:23,000
relationship with them but when we argue
1587
01:19:20,320 --> 01:19:25,440
M you contact my father and you said
1588
01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:28,560
really bad things about me tonight we
1589
01:19:25,440 --> 01:19:30,560
don't talk about no no no no listen if
1590
01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:32,679
you don't hear me
1591
01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:33,840
I you're right it was supposed to be a
1592
01:19:32,679 --> 01:19:38,560
nice night it was supposed to be a nice
1593
01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:38,560
night I was wrong I was wrong I'm
1594
01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:41,960
sorry thank
1595
01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:48,199
you a few days before I left to Vietnam
1596
01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:50,199
I found out that after a couple of
1597
01:19:48,199 --> 01:19:53,360
fallen out of arguments or whatever
1598
01:19:50,199 --> 01:19:55,960
Violet was texting my father horrible
1599
01:19:53,360 --> 01:19:58,400
horrible things about me and knew your
1600
01:19:55,960 --> 01:20:01,159
son doesn't love me in the time we are
1601
01:19:58,400 --> 01:20:04,639
together he just loves him himself
1602
01:20:01,159 --> 01:20:07,280
really he never knows how is true love
1603
01:20:04,639 --> 01:20:09,960
so he ever will be alone really this is
1604
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:13,800
what she says to you
1605
01:20:09,960 --> 01:20:16,719
yes as always she's not willing to talk
1606
01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:18,480
about it or she's avoiding my questions
1607
01:20:16,719 --> 01:20:20,040
and it just makes me feel uncomfortable
1608
01:20:18,480 --> 01:20:22,639
and it's a little
1609
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:27,520
rude I'm glad that you already get along
1610
01:20:22,639 --> 01:20:30,480
with my dad but I I do have a friend a
1611
01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:33,440
name it's like my big sister she um she
1612
01:20:30,480 --> 01:20:36,679
wanted to meet you she like I said
1613
01:20:33,440 --> 01:20:38,600
Tiffany Tiffany yeah would you mind if
1614
01:20:36,679 --> 01:20:41,360
we call her and she I don't mind she get
1615
01:20:38,600 --> 01:20:44,880
to okay all right all right all right so
1616
01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:44,880
let's let's call
1617
01:20:48,440 --> 01:20:56,080
her hey hey hey what's up hi tianie nice
1618
01:20:54,800 --> 01:21:00,080
to see
1619
01:20:56,080 --> 01:21:01,920
you ni thank you nice to see you too so
1620
01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:04,960
I'm gonna give you to her I got to run
1621
01:21:01,920 --> 01:21:07,679
to the bathroom okay that's a lot of
1622
01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:09,560
information well I I mean I have to go
1623
01:21:07,679 --> 01:21:13,000
and I'm holding it so you talk to
1624
01:21:09,560 --> 01:21:15,960
Tiffany and I'll be back wow I
1625
01:21:13,000 --> 01:21:18,159
definitely still have many questions for
1626
01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:19,760
Violet and I'm starting to worry that I
1627
01:21:18,159 --> 01:21:21,040
won't be able to ever have these
1628
01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:24,040
conversations with her because she'll
1629
01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:25,760
shut it down but I'm hoping that Tiffany
1630
01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:27,440
could get Viet to open up a little bit
1631
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:30,120
more if I'm not around maybe she's
1632
01:21:27,440 --> 01:21:32,760
holding back because it's me there and
1633
01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:35,120
hopefully they'll have a real candid
1634
01:21:32,760 --> 01:21:36,920
conversation no you are absolutely
1635
01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:41,400
beautiful I think your hand is hiding
1636
01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:43,560
your face oh thank you Riley he say you
1637
01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:47,239
are look like his
1638
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:50,560
sister that's my brother and I love him
1639
01:21:47,239 --> 01:21:53,840
and he keeps telling me that she may be
1640
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:56,800
the one and so I want to know you know
1641
01:21:53,840 --> 01:22:01,080
kind of how do you feel about him he a
1642
01:21:56,800 --> 01:22:04,679
good good man he's a k he's a good guy
1643
01:22:01,080 --> 01:22:07,320
yeah he is so he had said that you
1644
01:22:04,679 --> 01:22:10,280
wanted him to like you guys had met on a
1645
01:22:07,320 --> 01:22:11,880
on a dating site and then he said that
1646
01:22:10,280 --> 01:22:13,840
you were like once you guys started
1647
01:22:11,880 --> 01:22:15,400
getting really connected that you were
1648
01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:17,159
like okay I don't want you on the app
1649
01:22:15,400 --> 01:22:20,239
which I understand if I was dating
1650
01:22:17,159 --> 01:22:22,199
somebody but why were you still on the
1651
01:22:20,239 --> 01:22:24,880
app after you were adamant about him not
1652
01:22:22,199 --> 01:22:24,880
being on the
1653
01:22:25,320 --> 01:22:32,400
end cuz that's weird that's a little
1654
01:22:27,719 --> 01:22:35,560
strange to me she's asking why after you
1655
01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:38,639
told me to delete the app why were you
1656
01:22:35,560 --> 01:22:40,320
still on the app she wants to know you
1657
01:22:38,639 --> 01:22:42,000
straight up you say I'm not sure I was
1658
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:44,440
still going to do my thing that's real
1659
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:46,120
talk right she's asking you a question
1660
01:22:44,440 --> 01:22:48,639
why are you looking at me she wants to
1661
01:22:46,120 --> 01:22:50,560
hear from you why why why you do that
1662
01:22:48,639 --> 01:22:52,239
let me let me ask you a question when I
1663
01:22:50,560 --> 01:22:55,600
was at your house and your family asked
1664
01:22:52,239 --> 01:22:55,600
me question questions did I answer
1665
01:22:57,120 --> 01:23:04,440
them not a hard question I'm asking you
1666
01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:04,440
why did you not delete the
1667
01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:18,280
app this will be where we'll be staying
1668
01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:20,960
I feel like I've entered cute world for
1669
01:23:18,280 --> 01:23:24,040
two people things are a little a little
1670
01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:25,400
tight that's just like a toilet room can
1671
01:23:24,040 --> 01:23:28,120
I use the
1672
01:23:25,400 --> 01:23:31,159
toilet I just haven't had time to get
1673
01:23:28,120 --> 01:23:34,560
the bathrooms plummed in yet I am a city
1674
01:23:31,159 --> 01:23:38,280
girl this isn't going to work I think we
1675
01:23:34,560 --> 01:23:41,199
need to do it I am on my period I think
1676
01:23:38,280 --> 01:23:46,040
we need to do it even if you're period
1677
01:23:41,199 --> 01:23:49,040
you know a real man have his sword with
1678
01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:53,600
blood our hotel you have to see our room
1679
01:23:49,040 --> 01:23:55,120
I never saw a woman make a mess see
1680
01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:57,440
place in my
1681
01:23:55,120 --> 01:24:00,520
room I am in
1682
01:23:57,440 --> 01:24:06,040
shock I would have loved for Nicola to
1683
01:24:00,520 --> 01:24:06,040
be excited about us but instead I felt
1684
01:24:21,360 --> 01:24:24,360
embarrassed
1685
01:24:29,120 --> 01:24:35,040
you know I only have one week and a half
1686
01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:38,080
left together so we need to see a
1687
01:24:35,040 --> 01:24:39,280
therapist I'm not satisfied sexually in
1688
01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:43,760
this
1689
01:24:39,280 --> 01:24:46,480
relationship he has even made comments
1690
01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:49,400
about my private
1691
01:24:46,480 --> 01:24:51,400
parts you made me feel rejected these
1692
01:24:49,400 --> 01:24:54,639
are the kind of comments being honest I
1693
01:24:51,400 --> 01:24:56,880
really don't desire to be with her do
1694
01:24:54,639 --> 01:25:02,560
you want this to work
1695
01:24:56,880 --> 01:25:05,800
J the answer is not Val big problem here
1696
01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:07,920
we stop talking tonight okay do not talk
1697
01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:12,280
down to me I don't talk with you okay
1698
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:12,280
okay beat it it
1699
01:25:12,679 --> 01:25:15,679
bye
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