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[Gino] Previously on
90 Day Fiance...

I'm effectively living as
a virgin

because we haven't been
having sex recently.

[Kameron] I know
what those eyes mean, man.

"Shut up, shut up!"

What's she gonna do,
not have sex with me?

[Anali in Spanish]

You're in trouble, buddy.

- Wow, look at that booty.
- [Jasmine] Be gentle.

- You've been bad.
- No!

Miami is the place
where I belong.

For the wedding,
this is what I dream.

The only problem is my family
wouldn't be there.

I don't want them
at my wedding.

[Gino] How could she possibly
think that I wouldn't want
my family at my wedding?

That blows my mind.

[all exclaiming]

[Stacey]She really wants this.

I just worry.

You know, people don't want
to be around him.

You gonna spend the rest of
your life with this man?

I have faith, Mom.

I know, honey.
I'm just worried.

There's something I kind of
need to tell you.

After getting arrested
for having

my Suboxone medication
in an unmarked bottle,

the judge offered me
a diversion program to,

like, if I complete it,
I get off.

I didn't get the paperwork
applied for in time,

and now I have to go to court
and hear with the prosecutor

if he offers probation,
jail time.

[Citra speaking]

Do you love me enough
where no matter what,

you're going to stick by
my side?

You know, if you're trying
new things.

- You answer that question.
- No, you answer it.

You just want me
to tell on myself.

If I would have said yes,
he would have been down
for that, which is gross.

You cannot blame me for saying
this isn't a question for me.

You're not even married yet,
and you're thinking about
[bleep] other people.

I didn't say I was trying
to have sex with anyone.

I just want to know
my man only wants me,

and I can get the trust back
with you.

[bleep] that.

[soft music playing]

You trying to make me out
to be a dog.

No, that's not what it is.

I feel like if you're that
interested in somebody else

or if you're that interested
in experiencing another girl,

then you have something
that you need to figure out

on whether or not
you're interested enough

for us to do this as a couple.

Because I don't like the idea
of you having a side partner.

That's not cool with me.

That makes me feel like
I'm not enough.

I understand why
I was upset was

because I thought you wanted
to [bleep] her.

And if it was about
supporting me

and not the fact
you was getting a green light

to have sex with someone else,
then that's fine.

I understand.

All right, let's move past it.

I feel like Sophie
and I will have these
heated arguments,

and then we somehow find
each other.

And I really appreciate
that Sophie's able to move on

from these moments,
and I really try to myself.

Now he knows in the future,
if any girl wants

to get with him in any way,
with me, without me,

just tell her to go away
and leave me alone,

and I have a stunning fiance,
or soon-to-be wife.

Maybe.

[upbeat music playing]

All right, so you sent me
a little list.

- Chicken, potato, and veg.
- Yeah.

Okay.

What's my job in all this?

To help me.

Help you with which part?

Um, all of it.

I want you to help me cut
the potatoes,

but I feel like
there's no room.

[Sophie] Oh.

[Rob] There you go.

I mean, that helps.
You can go that side.

Let's peel it.

This is the first time
me and Rob are cooking in
the apartment,

just because, you know,
there's not much room to cook

- in the apartment, so...
- This is not the first time.

- This is the first time.
- No, it's not.

We cooked when you were here
the first time.

What did we cook?

We've cooked.

- We have...
It's not the first time
- No.

- we've ever cooked in these...
- We put a pizza in the oven.

- That is not cooking.
That's not cooking.
- Sophie, we have...

See, you couldn't do this
in a big old kitchen.

What, sit down?

Sit down and do this part
together.

- Yeah, a lot of
kitchens have...
- It's a bonding moment.

Ah, it's hot.
Ah, ah.

Why is it hot on there?
Stove, it gets hot.

My phone is there.

All right, but it's not gonna
get messed up.

[Sophie] There's about
three weeks left
until we have to get married.

So tonight, my mom's arriving
from Mexico to see me,

so I'm excited to see her,
but at the same time,

I'm a little bit nervous
how it's gonna go,

because I know
they haven't had
the best bond together.

But, yeah, um...
Are you looking forward

to my mum coming later?

Sure.

Yeah?

It would be nice.
I mean, you know what
I'm saying?

I'm gonna do my best.

Just want to make sure
your mom isn't going
to add stress.

Because, yeah, it's kind of
a bad time for us.

You and I are trying to get
over our own problems

before this huge thing
that we're about to do.

I understand that,
but it's also...

I don't have anyone out here,
and it's my mum,

so I'd like to see her,
and she misses me,

and we have
a close relationship.

I kind of feel like Claire
is a wrench being tossed

in the gears of Sophie and I.
She doesn't know how

to shut up, when
it's time to be quiet.

That's rude.

I'm just saying, though,
your mom says some

very problematic [bleep]
at the wrong times.

What if I said to you,
your mum doesn't know

- how to shut up when
she needs to?
- If my mom--

- If my mom--
- That is so rude.

If my mom was as rude to you
as your mom is to me...

- No, I think my mum...
- It definitely affects me,
and if you care about me,

then you would understand
where I'm coming from.

But she's always gonna be
in our lives.

She might not be making it
hard on you,

but she's making it hard
on me.

She's always gonna be
in our lives,

so you have to learn
to accept it.

They actually taste good.

Yeah, they taste good.

Good job.

- You did good.
- You did good.

My mum just landed.

Oh, yeah?

Nope.

Are you excited to see her?

Am I excited to see her?

Like, is there any part of
you that's excited
or is just straight,

like, you don't care
to see her?

Just please try to stop
from scratch.

Of course I'm gonna start
from scratch.

I'm not gonna say
anything negative.

She brings a lot more drama
than what is needed

or necessary.

[Sophie]
I can't wait to see her, actually.

[Rob] I'm hoping that Claire
does not [bleep] up
our relationship.

I hope she's not gonna bring
her brand of bull [bleep].

Sophie and I are not cruising.

You know,
we're hitting a bump.

We're hitting bumps left
and right.

So the last thing
I need is for her mom

to come in and make it harder.

[upbeat music playing]

Don't be a pussy.

I'm not familiar
with these birds.

I don't think he likes me.

I know.

No.

[banjo music playing]

Tonight is our first night
in Miami,

and I have signed Jasmine
and I up for some salsa
dancing lessons.

Jasmine seems extra stressed
about the wedding planning,

but I just want Jasmine
to have a good time and,

you know, be happy
with each other again.

Yeah, that's the spirit.

Do you see?

All right, guys,
let's get ready for
a salsa class.

My history with
salsa dancing

with Jasmine is I've not been
very good. [laughs]

[Gino] I'm trying to.

[Jasmine] Babe...

Just move.

I would describe my dancing as
like John Travolta, you know?

Just kidding.

Um, yeah, I need a lot
of work with my dancing.

Five, six, seven,
and one, two,

three, and five, six, seven.

- Let's do it?
- All right, ready.

Come on.

Every time that
I try to practice with Gino,

[laughs]

Yeah, you're great!

Okay, the other step,
you remember?

I'm kind of traumatized about
our previous experiences.

No, no!

Yay!

- Whoo!
- Oh, my gosh!

I'm amazed!

You're doing great!

[upbeat music playing]

- Mmm, delicious. I love this.
- How's your coffee?

- It's a good cappuccino.
- I know.

It's starting to feel like
the old Jasmine and Gino

when things were good
and we were happy

and having
a good time together.

Look at that view.
You can see the whole city.

South Point Park Pier.

This is exactly what I wanted
out of Miami.

Yeah. Good.

And the pictures, you know,
and he's like, yes,

Mommy, send me
all the pictures,
all the videos.

And look at what he said.

He said, Mommy,
[in Spanish]

Tell Papa Gino that
I love him so much.

Oh, really?

And yes, Papa Gino,
[in Spanish]

And that I'm learning English.

Oh, wow.

He's dreaming of coming here
with us.

No, I really look forward
to the day that we are able

to bring your kids over here.

I would like to have
the chance to be like,

you know, a father figure.

That's so sweet, baby.
Trust me, once especially,

he sees you as
a dad figure already.

- And I can tell.
- Yeah, I mean,
I can kind of feel that.

Right?

A bonus dad, but a good one.

But, you know, I want to be
more than a bonus dad, too.

I want to like to try
to be a real dad.

Being a bonus dad
is being a real dad.

- It is real.
- It is real.

I would like to have
one child of my own.

At least one would be nice.

I'm, like, almost mid-50s now.

I'd like to try to do it soon.

I'm not... ready.

[sighs] I have some very
personal fears...

And I have never opened myself
about how I really feel.

Gino has no idea
what I went through.

I am like some sugar mama
to you,

and the sex part you get
from the other bitches.

Oh, so you want to have
threesomes.

I feel like,
why are we even together?

You really want to admit me
to the nut house, don't you?

What?

I just moved here
and he going to jail,

like, it's just a lot for me.

I'm still upset about it.

I can see it in her eyes that
she's having second thoughts.

[dramatic music playing]

Since I've told Citra
about not filing the paperwork

on time, like,
she's been real quiet.

I can see it in her eyes that
she's having second thoughts,

like, did she make
the right choice coming here
to be with me?

And if I could be facing
jail time,

like, I'm not going
to be around.

Why would she want to stay
around for that?

Like, I know it's on me.
I have nobody to blame but me.

But I hope I don't lose her.

You look all nice today.

Um, you, after sleeping
on the, what I told you last,

yesterday, like,
how are you doing?

I'm still upset about it...

Uh...

It's like a 2,000-pound weight
off my shoulders

hearing that she's still gonna
stand by me.

You're welcome.
I'm sorry, baby.

I was scared to death.

The woman I love, like,
I thought maybe I lost her

for a second, but there's just
no words to explain it.

I hope your dad takes it
as well.

No, but I'm gonna have to.

I get him.

Mm-hmm.

I have a special way
to punish you
for keeping a secret.

And what would that be?

It's gonna be
something special.

Special or spicy?

Burn me a new ass [bleep]
in other words?

Mm-hmm.

[coughs]

And this is safe to eat?

[Sam] Yeah.

I already, like,
put, like, a, you know,

Every meal in Indonesia,
like, mostly nowadays,

they're spicy because
Indonesian people,
they like spicy.

- It's her survivor kit.
- No spicy, no life.

It's because they burnt
their taste buds so much

they can't taste it
unless there's a pound of

- spice in it.
- Yeah.

[coughs]

Baby, I don't know.

The American woman's starting
to sound good.

It's just such a level of
burning, numbing your tongue.

Like, I can handle it.

It's just other parts of me
can't handle it.

Getting a good case of IBS
from loving this one.

But it's worth it.

So good, baby.

So good.

- [sniffing]
- [chuckles]

[bleats]

Okay?

[sighs]

[Nikki] If you invested
as much as I did,

I think that you would feel
something like what
I'm feeling right now.

I feel like now I am like...

some sugar mama to you,
and the sex part you get

from the other bitches.

That's what I feel like.

Try what?

Just sex?

Oh, so you want
to have threesomes.

Oh, my goodness.

A lot of things try with you.

You really want to admit me
to the nut house, don't you?

What?

- It's sometimes...
maybe going to happen.
- I was explorative

and experimental in my 20s.

Like, I did all this stuff.

Really?

Very close.

I'm wondering if the reason

why he wants to have this
threesome is honestly mostly

it's just because of
my gender, you know?

And me not being born
biologically female,

I feel like I'm not enough.

I feel like, why are
we even together?

Like, why don't you just go be
with another woman?

[sighs] So much for our
romantic getaway.

I don't know if Justin loves
to get a reaction out of me

because he knows that
I can go crazy, you know?

And I think that either
he likes to get me jealous

or he literally is serious.

And I don't know
which one is it.

We seriously need to have
a talk.

Because a lot of things
are really upsetting me.

First, the part with you
saying that you didn't find

what we were doing.

um, anything important,
that it was just, like,

we were just talking, right?

Okay, fine.

But I was already having
unprotected sex with you.

So, like, how many partners?

- I'm always protecting myself.
- You always protect yourself?

- Yeah.
- Yeah?

Okay. How many girls?

Mmm...

Okay.

Now...

In the car, you also was like,
"Oh, I want the threesome."

Hon... I'm 47 years old.
I'm ready to settle down.

I did all this playing
and doing all this, like,

sex experimenting,
exploring when I was younger.

And I've been with girls.
I've been in a two-guys
[bleep] me.

I've been with two girls
[bleep] me and a guy.

I've been [bleep]

Yes, I tried all of it.

I did it once upon a time.
I even had three guys
[bleep] me in Paris.

That didn't work too well.
It was too much.

But still, your sex drive
with me is at its worst.

- I talk about these things
in the future.
- Huh? No.

Not now.

- Oh, in the future.
- Now I want to focus on us.

So after we're married
and we have our vows,

you want to do
these threesomes?

- Are you serious?
- Now we're talking.

We're just talking.

[Nikki]You know, at this point,
I've been thinking and...

[sighs]

I've been thinking
so much about where

I want to go with
this relationship.

Do I want to end it?
Do I want to continue?

Do I want to deal with him
cheating on me or feeling like

it's not cheating,
dealing with these,
like, games?

And I'm just trying to,
like,

process all this right now
because it's a lot.

Everything that
you've been telling me is,

like, you just kept on
living your life.
Like, I was nothing.

Like, I was a piece of
[bleep].

I just don't know what to
think for our future together.

Ah, my Lord.

[sighs]

More money, more problems.

I don't want to disrespect her
in any way,

but this whole not telling
her dad thing

is also causing her
to hide you from her life.

I know that these things tend
to spiral and I would hate

to see something like
that happen to him.

Honestly, man,
she has some uncertainty
about you.

[upbeat music playing]

[cell phone chimes]

[doorbell rings]

We go swapping.
We have a visitor.

Are you excited?

- Hi.
- Ashley.

How are you?

♪ To find love ♪

♪ We'd fight until
the break of dawn is up ♪

Oh, my God.

[Ashley] Manuel's best friend,
Jonathan, lives in
New York City.

It's been a year since Manuel
and Jonathan
have seen each other.

Like, I'm talking probably
like six years plus.

Oh, yeah.

Since he's been here...
[continues in Spanish]

How did you learn English?
Like, did you take any classes

or did you just kind of go
for it?

Like, how did you learn?

Street? Mm-hmm.
Exactly.

I think it's time
for you guys to go enjoy
Rochester a little bit.

Get out of the house.

It has been such a challenge
for Manuel to connect with
my friends,

so this is one of the reasons
why I invited Jonathan
to come see Manuel,

cheer him up,
and then also to be able
to speak in his language.

I remember all the traveling
I did,

and at a point in time,
just wanting to hear
some English.

And so, I know that
he's probably at that point.

[in Spanish]

[in English] More money,
more problems.

[laughs]

[speaking Spanish]

[upbeat music playing]

♪ Those eyes
like a loaded gun ♪

♪ And your hands on
the trigger ♪

It's our first morning
waking up in San Diego,

and Anali is not happy
with me.

She has been mad at me
for oversharing
our private life,

but our private life
affects me too,

so I'm just getting advice
from my friend

and his girlfriend about
something that affects
me directly.

Chiquis.

- Hola.
- [speaking in Spanish]

Mmm.

[in English] I'm sorry, honey.

[in Spanish]

sister wife.

Thank you.

- What's going on, big boss?
- What's up, man?

You ready to learn
how to dance, man?

- Let's do it, bro.
- All right, give
me another hug.

- You ready to get
your groove on?
- Yeah.

Anali has been making fun
of me recently,

saying that I dance like
a tree.

Hello.

- Welcome, welcome.
- Who's teaching me
how to dance?

- Both of us.
- Oh, come on.

So I found a Peruvian dance
instructor that's going to

teach me to dance to impress
Anali at our wedding.

So we're gonna do
the Marinera Nortena,

which is the national dance
of Peru.

- Okay, all right.
- It's gonna be for you.

This is for you, too.

And then we have the hats.

- Since you get to groom,
you get the big one.
- Okay.

- You get the little one.
- I got a bigger head, I think.

- Let's get started.
- [Clayton] All right.

I wouldn't exactly consider
myself a graceful person.

Bow.

All right, I'm not doing
very good so far.

It's all good.

There you go. Catch yourself.

I feel like I'm limping.
Am I limping?

Yes.

That's an A for effort, right?

Definitely.

- Speed it up just
a little bit.
- No, you got to speed up.

And float.
Think of floating.

Awesome, Clayton.

There he goes.

Clayton is doing better than
I expected, in all honesty.

He can get his shoulders
and hips moving more than

I expected,
so I give him that.

And music ends. Dun, dun.

- That's it.
- [all clapping]

- All right, thank you.
- Good job, man.

That was awesome.

- All right, bye.
- Bye, guys.

Take care.

How do you think dance class
went, man?

- I'm gonna be honest, bro.
- I didn't know you had it
in you.

That was better
than I expected.

I think she's gonna
like it, man.

- This is a cool little area
you're in here.
- Yeah, for real.

How do you feel about
Anali last night?

Kind of like your guys'
first really, like,
sit-down, you know?

Look, man, I think Anali's
a great girl,

and I don't want
to disrespect her in any way,

but just I know you,
and I don't want you
to be hurt.

So, I mean, there's just
a lot of things going on.

Like, you guys
aren't having sex.

Not only that,
but this whole not telling
her dad thing

is also causing her
to essentially hide you
from her life.

Really, what I truly want
to do is be like,

"Hey, Anali, you need to do it
kind of like now-ish,

or I'm going to do it myself."

But I think that would
just not end well,

and she would threaten
or actually break it off.

And, you know, but then I have
to think,

if that would be
a possibility,
is that a relationship

that I want to be in anyway?

Yeah.

Honestly, man,
I think the reason behind

all of these things happening
is she also has some

uncertainty about you.

I don't know, man.

You're about to get married.

I just don't want
to see you hurt, man.

I think you need
to take some time
to reflect to yourself

what an ideal marriage
and lifelong commitment

- would look like to you.
- Mm-hmm.

Ultimately, it's you
who has to live with you

and your mind and her
if you do choose to go
with her.

I understand what
you mean, man.

[Kameron]I think in Clayton's head,
he is very anxious about

losing his girl and losing
his source of happiness
right now.

However, I think that
it's a little bit of a veil

because the source of
happiness may not be exactly

what he thinks it is.

And I know that these things
tend to spiral

and I would hate to see
something like that happen
to him.

- Oh, you're pretty aggressive.
- Oh.

She's not aggressive.
She's just joking.

Between both of them,
I'm always one word away

from saying the wrong thing.

I know deep down you want
to say something to me.

I can feel it.
You want to say
something to me.

I could always say something.

[dramatic music playing]

[gasps] Oh, my God,
oh, my God, oh, my God,
oh, my God, oh, my God.

- Oh, my God. Come in.
- Hello.

Oh, my God, oh, my God.

You look so beautiful.

Oh, my God.

Don't cry.

Hello.

Hey.

I like your hair.

- Thank you.
- Did it get it?

Oh, bubba.

Do you want to sit down?

I've been worried about
my Sophie because

I've just been so scared,
her living in L.A.

all by herself with
an unsupported boyfriend.

And I'm hoping Rob
just isn't just Rob the Knob
anymore

and just sort of ups his game
and starts being a grown-up

because I just think
he's a bit immature.

I want to hear what's
going on.

We're here to see you.
How was your flight?

- It was good.
- Was it stressful?

[Rob] Yeah.

No, I made lots of mistakes,
dropped lots of things.

But, no, it was good.

It was good.

So, when is it all happening,
the wedding?

Uh, the 16th.

Okay, so am I helping
with that?

Totally.
You should help her with that.

You know I have no idea
how weddings go.

Neither does she.

Do you think you still need
the stuff like,

I think it's something
borrowed, something blue,

something old,
and something new?

[Rob] No, I think that's...

- I think that's like some...
- No, no, no,
I think it's a thing.

That's like some
'80s [bleep] right there.

because I think
it would be fun.

Okay.

I'll throw it to you.

I mean, it's a super
small wedding, so...

And my sister's
already married,

so... I'm pretty sure
it'll be between you

and my mom on catching that.

- I need to get married.
- [Rob] I don't doubt it.

My mom's a tiny lady,
so it's not like...

She's super tiny
and not aggressive,

so she's not gonna...

I don't think so.

Oh, you're pretty aggressive.

You're gonna,
like you just said,

you'll knock my mom
to the floor.

That's pretty aggressive
in itself.

Oh.

She's not aggre...
She's just joking.

Right, but that's kind of...
Her mom... Your mom to my mom?

The energy?

- My mom is super...
- Yeah. My mom's joking.

She's not gonna knock your mom
to the floor.

- It's a joke.
- I know it's a joke,
but it's still...

No, he said, [bleep]
as if I'm going to be at

- your wedding and knock
a woman to the floor.
- Right.

My mom's very sarcastic
and jokey.

You guys are taking me
literal.

I didn't take you literal.

See, this is exactly
why I'm always on edge
when Claire's around.

It's like we're joking,
everything's good,

and then if I say, you know,
a joke back,

now we want
to take it personal
or make it negative.

It just feels like between
both of them,

I'm always one word away
from saying the wrong thing.

See, you know...
I know deep down you want

to say something to me,
because the way
you're sitting,

your body language
is all about... I can feel it.

You want to say something
to me?

- I could always say something.
- Goodness, say it.

- I always have something.
- I think we need to...
Because I don't want

to be the mother-in-law
that you hate.

I don't hate you.
That's not what I'm going
to say.

Oh, you don't hate me?

I don't think he gets you,
but it's fine.

Oh, I get you.

- I get both of y'all.
- You don't get me.

- No, I don't think you do.
- Get both of y'all.

I can see why you argue,
because when we talked about

the bouquet and me tucking
your mother to the floor,

which was a joke,

you literally didn't take it
as a joke.

- I didn't take it seriously.
- You got--

- He doesn't get British humor.
- No, he doesn't get it.

[Sophie] No, he does. He is.

Anyway, so tomorrow
I'm going to come

and see your place, yeah?

I guess so.

I'm excited to see it.

[Claire] I'm dreading seeing
the house,

'cause I can tell by
their faces,

it's obviously not very good.

Because he's a lovely guy,
beautiful looking,

I get that, but you can,
you know, there's only so long

you can stare at
a beautiful painting

before you get bored, so...

- Good seeing you.
- It's all right, son.

Yeah, I'm glad I'm here.

- Bye.
- [Claire] See you later.

[speaking in Spanish]

He's trying to dictate
how I spend my money.

I don't like that.

So are you telling me
I'm not supporting you
right now?

Is that what you're saying?

I brought you here on my back
with no cosigner.

How are you going to sit here
and say that you don't feel
supported by me?

It's, like, disrespectful.

[upbeat music playing]

[Spanish music playing]

[exclaims]

Tell me,
what happened last night?

I want to know all the tea.
Give me all the gossip.

What [bleep]
did you talk about me?

[in Spanish]

Okay, okay, okay. Okay.

Can you, like,
help me figure this out?

Like... I'm noticing Manuel
doesn't really like

to spend money on himself.

And I feel like I work hard,
so if I want to spend money
on myself, I'm going to.

So, like, why is how
we spend money, like,

so important to him?

I just feel like Manuel thinks
that the money that

I spend on myself could be put
towards helping his family.

Directly.
That's how I feel.

[speaking in Spanish]

[in English]
I don't like this.

It's coming out of my pocket.
This could go to
my light bill.

And I'm taking it out of
my purse to give to a family

that he is keeping me
separated from.

I'm paying all these bills
on my own.

He gets on my nerves
with this topic because

he's trying to dictate
how I spend my money.

I don't like that.

I'm not going to not take care
of myself for your bill.

I take a lot of offense
to that, and I might cry.

[in English] I need a minute.

I can't.
He just hurt
my [bleep] feelings.

I'm not supporting him.
He doesn't feel [bleep]
supported by me.

All I am doing is
supporting him.

The food you eat is
the food that I bought.

The cell phone you use
is the phone that I bought.

I give you love,
I give you affection.

We're banging it out
multiple times a day.

How else can you feel
supported by me?

I brought you here on my back
with no cosigner.

How are you gonna sit here
and say that you don't feel

supported by me?

How are you gonna say that?

It's, like, disrespectful.

[Gino] It's really painful to
see her so emotional.

I feel helpless,
'cause there's not much
I can really do about it.

[sniffles]

[line ringing]

He was seeing a couple of
girls for sex.

Then he says things
to me like,

[imitates Justin]
I very much want a threesome.

[speaking other language]

Okay. How can I say it?

I love my kids

more than my own life.

- You know? I love them.
- Hmm-hmm.

But one of the hardest things
that I have experienced

as a mom...

You know?

Look at you.
You picture your son

or your daughter like,
oh, I'll do this.

I'll do that. And then...

Reality is different.

What if we have a kid,
and...

Before I agreed to marry Gino,
we made the decision

that both of my kids will have
to come to America.

I have two sons,
Juance and JC.

I share custody with
my ex-husband.

People are very mean.

And I just confirm
that once I have my son,

- because people are mean.
- Some people.

Some people.

[sniffles]

[sobs]

You're still a human being,
and we're gonna take care
of him, right?

You can't predict it.

- Exactly.
- You can't predict it.

It scares me, baby.
It's my fault.

- I ruined him.
- It's not your fault.

How do you know that?
Even doctors cannot tell.

Why?

Still a child, you know,
there's no difference whether

he has a disability or not.

That's the way
you should look at it.

Nothing is your fault.
Don't think it's your fault.

It's really painful
to see Jasmine so emotional

and, you know, sad.

And the thing is,
I feel helpless 'cause

there's not much
I can really do about it.

So it just makes me sad
to see her like this.

I just want
to assure her that,

you know,
whatever happens with us

in regards to children,
whether we have a child
or not,

I will always be there
for her no matter what,

and I'm not going
to abandon her.

You're such a kind soul.

Oh, you're so beautiful.

Oh, I'm lucky
to have you, too.

Yeah.

And my children are lucky
to have you, too.

And if we ever have a baby...

You can do whatever you want.

I just need to talk to my mom.

[line ringing]

Hey, Mom.

How are you?-I'm good.

So tell me how everything's
going, hon.
I haven't heard from you.

How's everything going?
Everything's good?

I had the biggest hangover
this morning,

and I went to breakfast
with Justin,

and we got into
this conversation.

Um...

He basically stated that
he was seeing some girl,

a couple girls, for sex, like,
you know, just to whatever.

Wait, wait.

Let's back up
a little bit here.

He was basically not taking
our relationship seriously

until he, like,
proposed to me.

Remember when I told you
all those times where

I was calling him
and he was always on the road?

Or times where he just ignored
my text messages

and got nasty with me
on the phone?

There were times on
our vacations where

it felt like there
was a blockage,

like there was somebody
he was dating

and he was an ass [bleep]
to me on purpose?

I felt so many things.

I knew it.

But it's like I had
the feeling in my gut.

Is he really being
honest, honest with you?

It seems like now he is,
but then he says things

to me like,

[imitates Justin]
"Oh, I very much want
a threesome.

I've never done threesome."

- Never what?
- You know, mom.

Threesome.

Two girls and him.

And Mom...

[sighs]

[dramatic music playing]

[speaking other language]

You want a relationship.
You want a husband.

You want him to come here
to get a job

and be serious with you.

- That's what you want.
- Right.

Okay?

I mean, no.

No.

Absolutely not.

No.

I mean, you deserve it.

[in English] Ivan
he tells me be more man
in this relationship.

And I think that's true.

Mom, and just in
a few days,

we're supposed to have
an engagement celebration.

I know, well, you know what?

You don't have to have it.

You don't have to have it.

That's where I'm at right now.

That's where I'm deciding
what I want to do.

I mean, I know you love him,
and I know he loves you too.

I know he loves me,
but this is a lot.

But, um, yeah,
I'm gonna have
to figure it out.

It's been the roller coaster.

I'm really drained today.

Like, it's been
a long day for me.

And I'm tired.

I'm exhausted.

Maybe I'm overreacting.

But for me, my motto is trust
is earned, never given.

And there's a lot I have
to think about.

I came all the way here,
and now I'm contemplating

the K1, our relationship,
and our engagement
celebration.

All three in that order.

All right, Mom,
I'm gonna let you go,
but I love you.

All right, honey, love you.
Take it easy.

All right.

Oh, my God.

- This is Citra, Mom.
- [Citra] Finally, we meet.

I know from the past and,
like, living with my mom,

all it takes is one second
for anything to blow.

It's Armageddon.

What would happen if Sam
didn't want to convert?

Would he get to still
marry you?

[upbeat music playing]

[Sam] Me and Citra,
we're heading to my mom's
house right now,

and they're gonna meet
for the first time,

so fingers crossed.

Let's hope it goes well.

You want to put it somewhere
stable right here?

I grew up with my mom for,
like, my early years,

and we were pretty close,
but since,

like, teenage years,
we've kind of been estranged,

and there's been
a big distance.

But even though
we've been estranged for,

like, over the last 10 years,

she recently kind of
resurfaced in my life

and is back in the area,
back in Cameron,

and we're trying
to rebuild things

and build that relationship
back up.

There's a reason I keep
my distance from
my mother, though.

So, just...

If it goes fine, fine,
but just...

I told you,
she's kind of crazy.

She'll be nice
and sweet to you, but...

don't judge me off of her.

Part of me wants to keep Citra
and my mom apart

just because on one side,
my mom's side,

they were really religious.

And I hate saying it,
but more of those,

they love to preach
but don't follow what
they say.

Who knows what's going on
in my mom's head or like

she might think that Muslims
don't wash up or like...

use toilet paper.

It could just be
something weird.

Hopefully she just doesn't
say obscene things

and asking her all kinds of
questions, overloading her.

She's gonna love you.

She's so gonna love you.

[Sam] That's it.

It doesn't look too bad.

[Citra] But I hope, like,
everything gonna be okay

between me and his mom
because I don't have
my mom anymore,

so that's why I need his mom
to be my second mom.

- Hi.
- Oh, my God.

This is Citra, Mom.

- [Citra] Finally,
we get to meat.
- I'm really glad to meet you.

- Another daughter.
- This is her.

We have too many boys,
need more girls.

[Citra] I know.

No, I'm joking.

You can come here
and meet my mother,
which would be Grandma.

[Citra] Yeah.

- Mom, this is Citra,
and this is Trebreh.
- Hi, Citra.

- Hi, Citra.
- Hi.

- I've heard tons about you.
- [all laughing]

Yeah, from North Carolina.

I did this, Citra,
just for you.

- No.
- [all laughing]

What is it?

Rendang.

Coconut? You know how much
I love coconut?

You remember your old Salsa?

You look good, Sammy.
I love you.

She's one of
my favorite grandma.

[Sam] I'm trying to
play it cool,
but I just,

I know from the past
and like living with my mom,

all it takes is one second
for anything to blow.

It's Armageddon, so...

Nervous.

Definitely nervous.

So what do you think of it
here,

just in the United States
of Missouri?

It's quiet.

- Quiet?
- Not that busy, like,
where I live.

It's not busy?

She's used to, like,
motorbike towns
and motorbikes.

Like the pictures
I've seen of you.

Those are my favorite
pictures ever.

They are.

We're going to be
getting married in a few days,

- and... me and her.
- Who?

Oh.

And you're invited,
by the way.

- You better be there.
- Yes, I'll be there.

- Don't worry.
- Yeah.

It is nice.
Like, I have grandma.

You'll have to get used
to me, okay?

Okay.

I am excited about them
getting married,

but this is honestly
something new for me.

So are you having
a Muslim ceremony?

Yeah. That's good.

What became of
your conversion?

Is that all settled and done?

Uh, we're still finding
a mosque to, like, do it at,

setting up an appointment,
and we gotta do it here soon.

I don't believe anybody
should have to change

their ways or beliefs
just to marry somebody.

You should love them
no matter what, you know?

I mean, there's some things
you shouldn't maybe marry to,

like, I'm gonna be blunt
about this, witchcraft.

But, you know, again,

If I could have it my way,
I'm not going to stand here
and lie.

I would love to see her
and her family serving

the same God as I do.
Absolutely.

Absolutely.

What would happen if Sam
didn't wanna do it?

Would he get to still
marry you?

Would you just call it off?

[chuckles]

As a Christian,
going to a Muslim ceremony...

I don't know how
to explain this.

How do you go to something
that you don't approve of?

I'm glad you guys got
to meet her,

and I hope you better make it
to the wedding.

I approve of them marrying,
but not of the Muslim way.

All right,
we're heading out, Grandma.

What, baby?

We're heading out,
but I'm so glad you guys got
to meet her.

- Oh, me too.
- Nice to meet you.

And you tell me if he's bad.

I'll straighten him out, okay?

- I will.
- Okay.

[Citra] He's bad all the time.

- Bye-bye.
- [Sam] Mom, I love you guys.

[Deedee] Bye, hon.

Be well.

Okay.

Were they better than
I warned you of?

Yeah, they're nice.

She acted better about
the, like, conversion

than I thought she would.

Yeah, which is nice.

But it's probably because
you were here and around.

You know that's why
she threw in that, like,

if I don't convert,
would you leave me?

Mm-hmm.

To be honest,
I kind of have some faith

going on there
that this whole thing's
going to turn out okay.

I really do.

[softly] Maybe.

[chuckles] Maybe.

[speaking in Spanish]

[in English]Like, is she in danger?

Like, why is she so worried
about it that she's crying?

Like, she seems scared.

[bleep]

[upbeat music playing]

[Clayton] Surprise.

It's Kameron.

[in Spanish]

[in English] Good.

Hmm.

- [laughs]
- So I just wanted to come say
my goodbyes.

So this is the last time that
I'm gonna be able to see you.

[in Spanish]

Come here, bring it in.

Adios.

- All right, see you, brother.
- Good to see you, man.

Are we gonna do a handshake
or a hug, bro?

- I mean, we do both, you know?
- All right, man.

- Good to see you.
- Good to see you, brother.

- See you soon.
- Take care.

It's a big relief to know
that meeting Kameron

after 13 years is
the exact same as online.

It's like, it's pretty much
like a seamless transition.

Best friends goes
both ways, right?

So, I don't know.

I'm glad that the interaction
was mutual.

Speaking with Kameron
has made me realize that

we don't really have
a lot of time left.

So I'm cooking Anali
a special dinner,

and I'm planning on talking
to Anali about her dad

not knowing about
our relationship.

We'll be having a nice meal,
having a good day.

I think this will be
a good time to resolve

the things that we need
to resolve.

Um...

- Bye.
- Bye.

[Clayton in English]I have no idea why Anali
is crying about this.

You know,
it makes me wonder

if there's something
else going on.

Like, is she in danger?

Like, why is she so worried
about it that she's crying?

Like, she seems scared.

Hello.

[bleep]

This is our humble abode.

[Claire]

[Sophie]

[Claire] It's sad.

They shouldn't be living there
right now.

I think you could have
done more.

Neither of y'all can sit here
and tell me about

what I should have done
and what I should have,

because neither of you guys
have ever been at the bottom.

Do you want me to put some gel
in your hair?

Yeah, if you want to.

So much hair.

Watch it.

Okay.

Yeah.

♪ Baby, I don't know
Tell me what you're thinking ♪

I'mma be nice.
I promise I'm gonna be nice.

Thank you.
I appreciate that.

Well, when you start
seeing it, you know me.

You see the energy.

I can only take so much,
so I need you...

I need you to also be aware
of what's happening

so that if she's making digs,
maybe just remind her that

Rob hears everything.

This morning,
Sophie's mom will be coming to

my house,
and I'm nervous because

I know that
she's super over-opinionated

and just says things
before thinking,

and I'm like, you know,
is she gonna come into
this spot

and just rip me apart,
or what?

I don't know.

I'm just hoping that
she can... I don't know.

I don't know what I'm hoping.
I'm nervous.

[cell phone dings]

She said, "I'm here, I think."

Okay, so let's go out there
and see if she's really here
or not.

Yeah, I should probably go to
the street and check on her,

'cause she doesn't want to
be walking around in the hood.

[Claire] Oh, my God.

- [Sophie] Well, well, well.
- [Claire] Well, well, well.

- You look nice.
- Oh, my God,
you look beautiful.

- You look nice.
- I like your dress.

- Oh, my God.
- Hey, Rob.

Hey. Damn, you look good.

I'm really nervous
to see where you live.

- I've got anxiety.
- It's not that bad.

You want to lead the way?

- So you got
the flower entrance.
- I like this pretty gate.

- Yeah.
- Yeah, the courtyard's cute.

Yeah.

I will show you in the house.

And the bathroom's
through there.

[Rob] That second door
is our bathroom.

Oh, so you don't have
a bathroom in your house?

Okay.

Ta-da!

This is our humble abode.

Very humble.

[Sophie] This is the kitchen.

This is our dining room
with no dining table or chair.

This is the bed and sofa
and chilling area.

And that is it.

[Claire]
So this is where you live?

For now.

For me, this was fine
while I was living here
by myself,

trying to figure things out.

[stammers] I don't know
what to say.

Is it safe here?

Yeah.

I think somebody
was just playing with

their [bleep]
in their backyard.

To be honest, for Rob's place,
the courtyard's really cute

and everything, but for her,
it wasn't what I visualized

for Sophie to be getting
married into.

Yeah, they shouldn't be living
there right now.

This is my area.

Listen, it's your home,
and the courtyard's beautiful.

What I don't get is...

You knew she was coming?

[Rob] Yeah.

Why wasn't there...
Why haven't you sorted out

a different place,
a bigger place?

Because in the last two
and a half years,

I've been putting
a lot of money into
just us being together.

I mean, the traveling, the...
Everywhere we've had to stay.

I mean, we literally lived
in Playa for two months,

so that was rent money going
to a whole 'nother spot.

In the two years, if you...
Like, I don't want to say
that term.

It's not the right term
to say.

- Like... No, I can't say it.
- What?

Like, a real man
would be like,

Soph, we can't see each other.

I know we want to be together,

but we need to put
all this money in,

so by the time you get here,

we've got a deposit,
we can move into

a one-bedroom place,
we'll have space in
a safe place.

You've just basically
moved yourself into
a man cave.

The whole idea of a real man
is supposed to...

tell his woman, like,
all right, we're not gonna

see each other for a year
so that we can get a spot.

That's ridiculous.

Instead, a couple months of
dealing with the spot

and then finding a spot
together,

that seems way more accessible
and way more like

me and her will actually
get to be together.

I really, truly, like,
stand true to this.

I think you could have
done more.

You two are in this situation
because you didn't put

enough effort into saving up
for it.

And whether you like it
or not, she can't work.

You knew when she got here,
she can't work.

[Sophie]I'm trying not to take
my mom's side,

but it's like,
everything my mom's saying,

I agree with,
and everything Rob's saying,
he's just acting defensive.

He's being the same old Rob
that he always is,

so she can't get anywhere
with him.

I just, I don't know.
I just, I don't know
what to say.

I think we're doing just fine.

I mean, I agree that
you did know the situation
was gonna be in,

and when I came here,
you didn't have a job

lined up already.

So what haven't I done
from your perspective?

- 'Cause you've obviously
been here a little bit more.
- You knew I was coming here.

You knew I couldn't work.
You haven't had a job secured.

You haven't had
the place secured.

There could have been
a lot of things you could
have done better.

There was months I was saying,
"When are you going
to get a job?

When are you going
to get a job?"

You're like, oh, yeah,
soon, soon, soon.
You didn't get a job.

Y'all and these opinions
is blowing my [bleep] mind.

Neither of y'all can sit here
and tell me about

what I should have done
and what I should have

because neither of you guys
have ever been at the bottom.

If you've never lived on
your own

and had to do it on your own,

then shut up trying
to tell somebody else

what they should be doing.

You don't know what the hell
being at the bottom is

unless and whenever you have
ever been at the bottom,

you just make a phone call
and you're back up.

That's easy enough
for you guys,
but I don't have that.

It makes me feel like
fully [bleep].

Not even the slightest bit.
I have zero help.

I have zero help.

I have zero help from anybody.

And you're going to tell me
you have zero help?

- Yeah, I do.
- That's a bald-faced lie.

[Claire]
Yeah, that's what you think.

I'm confrontational.

I'm trying not to be.

But they brought it out of me.

And I can't really go back
from that.

Judge, judge, judge,
and act like y'all been
through it all.

That's bull [bleep].

[Justin] Next time on
90 Day Fiance...

Baby...

What is that?

[in Spanish]

[Jasmine]Gino has shown me nothing
but love during this trip,

but I've been feeling guilty
because I have lied to Gino

and I have hide things
that I shouldn't have.

- Awesome.
- Thank you.

Enjoy.

Before I convert,
I want to have some fun.

There you go.

You did it, love.

I'm about to meet
her dad again.

And if I don't impress her dad
and make him trust me,

then, like,
there's no wedding,
there's nothing.

[speaking Indonesian]

[speaking in Spanish]

But why I got
to see you [bleep] a girl,

another girl, and me?

- Yes.
- Why?

[laughs]

That's really so disrespectful
that you can [bleep] laugh
in my face.

You don't take
accountability for when
you do something wrong.

- You don't want to hear it
because you're the man.
- Stop, stop.

Here we go.

Act like a little child.
Run away.

I don't have time
for this [bleep].

[in Spanish]

Sex doesn't make
all the problems go away,

even though it's a good time.

Y'all just want to [bleep]
judge, judge, judge,

and act like y'all been
through it all.
That's bull [bleep].

It's, like,
actually ridiculous
like a child.

Like, grow up.

[Rob] They can't accept
that they're not right.

Like, get the [bleep] out
of here with that [bleep].