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? What would you do
if I sang out of tune? ?
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? Would you stand up
and walk out on me? ?
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? Lend me your ears,
and I'll sing you a song ?
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? I will try not to sing
out of key, yeah ?
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? Oh, baby, I get by ?
? By with a little help from my friends ?
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? All I need is my buddies ?
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? High with a little help
from my friends ?
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? I'm sayin' I'm gonna get higher ? -?
Try with a little help from my friends ?
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? Whoa-oa-oa-oa ?
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? Oh, oh, oh, oh ?
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? Somebody who knows
quite sure ?
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? Baby ?
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? By with a little help
from my friends ?
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? Said I'm gonna make it
with my friends ?
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? Try with a little help
from my friends ?
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? Oh, I'm gonna
keep on trying ?
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? High with a little help
from my friends ?
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? I'm gonna keep on trying now,
baby ?
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? Ooh, ooh, ooh ?
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I grew up in a neighborhood
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that was likea lot of other neighborhoods...
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where the boxes we lived inwere distinguished
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only by the nameson the mailboxes
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and the cars in the driveways.
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It was a place
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where hard-working Americanscircled their wagons
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to protect themselvesfrom the outside world.
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Wayne, don't forget the trash.
Tomorrow's Tuesday.
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Hey, it's Kevin's turn.
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No, it's not.
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Just do it.
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Our lives were made upof little moments...
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Want more
scalloped potatoes, honey?
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All delicately intertwined.
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Oh, thanks Mom.
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Karen called today.
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How much?
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Just $35
till the end of the month.
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The Nixon administrationsaid today...
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Send her a check.
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Hey, that's mine!
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Not anymore, angel-face.
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[ Sighs ]
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Wayne...
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Give your brother the roll.
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Maybe we weren'taware of it then,
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amid the school paper drivesand the scalloped potatoes
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and the sounds of theneighbors' children playing...
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but life was rich therein our small sanctuary,
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and precious.
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- Very good.
- It is?
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[ Telephone rings ]
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And the only thingthat could ever change that...
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Hello?
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Was death.
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Jack? It's your father.
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[ Silverware clatters ]
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Hey, hey, hey!
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It's grandpa. Hi, grandpa.
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[ Laughs ] How are my boys?
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Not that grandpa was dead,exactly.
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In fact,he was alive and kicking.
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Ah!
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Got your nose!
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Like a fine, old wineor an old smoked ham,
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the guy just seemed to getmore robust with age.
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[ Laughter ]
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Hi, Albert.
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Let me take your coat.
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I appreciate
you putting me up, Norma.
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I really do.
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Oh, now, don't be silly.
You're always welcome here.
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So, uh, how long
you staying for, Gramps?
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Well, we'll see. We'll see.
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Somehow, he justfilled the house with life.
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[ Sighs ]
He's going to a funeral.
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Who died?
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Oh.
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You didn't tell them, John?
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Uh... No, Dad.
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I thought
you'd probably want to.
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Jack?
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Well...
I guess you ought to know.
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Aunt rose passed away
yesterday morning.
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Oh, dear. Aw, poor aunt rose.
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Well, not to worry, Norma.
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She had a full
and productive life.
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Didn't she, boys?
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Sure, Gramps.
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Right.
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It was true.
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Aunt rose hadhad a full and productive life,
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which leftjust one little question.
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Who's aunt rose?
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Actually, she wasn't your aunt.
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She was, uh...
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Well, she was my first cousin.
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By 10:00 that night,I was sorry I asked.
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Look at that.
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You know where that was taken?
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No. Why don't you
tell us, grandpa?
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That was up at the lake house.
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Nice bathing suit.
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Yeah, well...
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That's what they looked like
in those days, Wayne.
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Yeah.
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You know, she was...
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82 years old when she died.
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Can you boys even imagine that?
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'Course, when you're 14,
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82 isn't much differentfrom 42, or even 102.
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Still, if Gramps neededa friendly ear,
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he could count on us.
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[ Chuckles ]
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Come on, Dad.
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The boys should get some sleep.
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Yeah. You're right, John.
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I guess I've been bending
you boys' ears too much, huh?
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- Nah...
- Nah...
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- [ Chuckles ]
- It was fun, grandpa.
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A lie... But a good lie.
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After all,the guy was going to a funeral.
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The least we could do wasgive him a pleasant send-off.
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Oh! And set your alarm clocks.
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We got to leave by 8:00.
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Hold on, here.
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Did he say...
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Did he say "we"?
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[ Whistling ]
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It was obvioussomebody had to clear this up.
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We chose the big guy.
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Uh, Dad,
about those alarm clocks...
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I meant to tell you...
I forgot mine.
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You'll have to get us up.
And we can go in my car.
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Uh, well...
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You know, Dad,
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we weren't really planning
on going to the funeral.
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Not going?
Of course we're going.
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II have to fly to Seattle
Thursday morning, and...
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The funeral's tomorrow, John.
You got plenty of time.
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Norma, where are the glasses?
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Oh, here. Let me.
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Now, of course,what was needed here
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was a simpleclearing of the air,
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a collective statementof intention.
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This just isn't
a good time for me, Dad.
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Funerals are never
a good time, John.
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Besides, I think
the boys should go.
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Great. Now he wasdragging us into this.
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Uh, well,
the, uh, boys have school.
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Then write a note.
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I think "death in the family"
is an acceptable excuse.
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Dad, it...
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What is the matter
with you, son?
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Rose was family. Our family.
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Doesn't that mean
anything to you?
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But the truth is...It really didn't.
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Not to me, anyway.
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I'll bet
that Kevin, there, would...
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Like to pay his last respects
to one of our own.
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Wouldn't you, son?
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Then suddenly,
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I was all that was standingbetween us and aunt rose.
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Sure, grandpa.
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I guess so.
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[ Horn honks ]
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[ Mockingly ]
"Sure, grandpa. I guess so."
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Butthead.
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It wasn't fair.
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I'd been cast
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as the Benedict Arnoldof the Arnold clan
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just for beinga dutiful grandson.
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Are Phil and opal
coming to the funeral, Albert?
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Oh, yeah.
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They drove down last night to
help iris with the arrangements.
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And Ray's flying in
from Portland.
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Iris? Ray?Who were these people?
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And, uh, Lloyd
will be there, too.
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Lloyd?
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- Yeah, you remember Lloyd. He...
- Yeah, Dad.
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I remember.
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The thing is,I couldn't understand
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why all this was so importantto the old guy.
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It'll be good
to see the family again.
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Right, Kev?
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And why was he picking on me?
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Right, grandpa.
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I'm glad you decided to come.
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Do-do-do-do!
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[ Chuckles ]
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Here we are. Rose McKinsey.
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[ Organ music playing ]
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My deepest condolences.
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Somehow, I understoodexactly what he meant.
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This isn't
little Weegie, is it?
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You know why we call him
"Weegie," don't you?
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Because he couldn't say "Wayne"
until he was about 4 years old!
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[ Laughs ]
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Yes, sir. Yes, sir.
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There was a second gunman
on that grassy knoll.
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I know what I'm talking about.
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And this must be Kevin!
Just look at you!
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You look just like your mother!
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Times have been tough, Norma.
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I know it wouldn't take much
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to get the business
back on its feet again,
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but it's just
one thing after another.
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[ Sighs ] You know what I mean?
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You two... you could be twins!
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All in all,a sobering experience.
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After about 45 minutes of this,
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our little twigon the family tree
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was just about readyto branch off.
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[ Sighs ]
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Oh, God.
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- What?
- There. Right over there.
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Oh, God.
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I'll be right over. Excuse me.
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This was Dad's cousin Lloyd.
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He'd made a mintselling aluminum siding.
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How you doing?
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Probably the only personin the world
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with enough nerveto call my father...
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Cuz!
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How the hell you doing?!
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Just great, Lloyd. You?
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- Never been better.
- Oh.
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Except...
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except for this, of course.
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[ Sighs ]
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Hey...
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You're looking different, Jack.
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Put on a few? [ Chuckles ]
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I don't think so.
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Maybe you're just getting old!
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[ Chuckles ]
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It wasthe kind of give-and-take
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that always affected Dadthe same way.
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[ Inhales deeply ]
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I have to go to the John.
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Good idea.
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Hey!
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I'll bet I missed a few
birthdays in there somewhere.
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I don't have any change.
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You can split this up,
can't you?
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Hello, cuz!
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Sure.
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You bet.
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Thanks.
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No problem.
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Now, get yourself
something real nice.
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Okay?
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And suddenlywe were starting to feel
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pretty kindlytowards aunt rose.
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All right, boys.
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Time to say goodbye.
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[ Organ music plays ]
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Doesn't she look natural?
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They do such good work here.
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Hm.
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As we stood there,face-to-face with mortality,
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it's hard to describe
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the emotions that swelledwithin us.
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Give me the money.
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What?
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Half of it's mine.
I'll get the change.
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Wrong.
I'll get the change.
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00:11:31,490 --> 00:11:34,191
Okay. Fine. I trust you.
269
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[ Chuckles ]
270
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[ Bach's "toccata and fugue
in d minor" plays ]
271
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In the presence of death,
272
00:12:00,019 --> 00:12:03,687
mere words often seem...Inadequate.
273
00:12:03,689 --> 00:12:05,489
Go on. Get it.
274
00:12:05,491 --> 00:12:07,058
No way.
275
00:12:07,060 --> 00:12:09,626
I said get it.
276
00:12:09,628 --> 00:12:10,962
Why don't you get it?
277
00:12:10,964 --> 00:12:12,296
I don't think so.
278
00:12:12,298 --> 00:12:15,399
Sure, it was onlyabout 18 inches or so,
279
00:12:15,401 --> 00:12:17,534
but in the greater schemeof things,
280
00:12:17,536 --> 00:12:21,238
that $20 billwas from here to eternity.
281
00:12:22,508 --> 00:12:25,843
I know you boys
are gonna miss her...
282
00:12:25,845 --> 00:12:27,711
But remember...
283
00:12:27,713 --> 00:12:30,514
She's at peace now.
284
00:12:30,516 --> 00:12:33,250
Maybe she was...
285
00:12:33,252 --> 00:12:35,018
But we weren't.
286
00:12:35,020 --> 00:12:36,487
All right.
287
00:12:36,489 --> 00:12:38,956
We walk up to the casket,
288
00:12:38,958 --> 00:12:40,224
you keep a lookout,
289
00:12:40,226 --> 00:12:42,293
and I'll take care of the rest.
290
00:12:42,295 --> 00:12:43,294
You got it?
291
00:12:43,296 --> 00:12:44,795
Are you sure we should do this?
292
00:12:44,797 --> 00:12:46,263
What's the matter? You chicken?
293
00:12:46,265 --> 00:12:47,331
No, I'm not chicken.
294
00:12:47,333 --> 00:12:48,633
Well, then you got to help me.
295
00:12:48,635 --> 00:12:50,767
No, I don't! -Yes, you do!
You dropped it!
296
00:12:50,769 --> 00:12:52,436
- I didn't drop it!
- Yes, you did drop it!
297
00:12:52,438 --> 00:12:53,837
No, I didn't drop it!
298
00:12:53,839 --> 00:12:55,072
No, you didn't!
I... you dropped it!
299
00:12:55,074 --> 00:12:56,407
It's 20 bucks!
300
00:12:56,409 --> 00:12:57,708
I reached for your hand,
and you...
301
00:12:57,710 --> 00:12:58,909
hey! Hey! Hey!
302
00:12:58,911 --> 00:13:01,011
What's going on here?
303
00:13:02,181 --> 00:13:04,782
Nothing, grandpa.
304
00:13:04,784 --> 00:13:06,483
Well, cut it out!
305
00:13:06,485 --> 00:13:09,653
This is a funeral,
not a fistfight.
306
00:13:11,490 --> 00:13:12,789
Now, where's your Dad?
307
00:13:12,791 --> 00:13:14,224
I don't know.
308
00:13:14,226 --> 00:13:16,227
It's time to drive
to the cemetery.
309
00:13:16,229 --> 00:13:19,029
Besides, he's already missed
the coffin-closing.
310
00:13:19,865 --> 00:13:21,231
[ Door slams ]
311
00:13:28,407 --> 00:13:29,506
Yeah.
312
00:13:29,508 --> 00:13:32,042
It looked like this casewas closed, all right.
313
00:13:39,785 --> 00:13:42,686
What the hell were you doing
back there, John?
314
00:13:42,688 --> 00:13:44,288
I was getting some air.
315
00:13:45,290 --> 00:13:47,457
"Getting some air"?
316
00:13:47,459 --> 00:13:48,726
I guess you could say
317
00:13:48,728 --> 00:13:51,162
it was a kind of a solemn rideto the grave-site.
318
00:13:51,164 --> 00:13:54,332
The flowers
were lovely, Albert.
319
00:13:54,334 --> 00:13:56,934
Yeah. They were, weren't they?
320
00:13:56,936 --> 00:14:00,637
I haven't seen so many flowers
since... Helen died.
321
00:14:02,708 --> 00:14:05,709
You remember that,
don't you, John?
322
00:14:05,711 --> 00:14:08,479
Yeah. Yeah, I remember, Dad.
323
00:14:11,317 --> 00:14:12,383
Phew.
324
00:14:12,385 --> 00:14:15,319
Boy, it was hot
that day, remember?
325
00:14:15,321 --> 00:14:17,020
Dad, I remember, okay?
326
00:14:17,022 --> 00:14:19,089
Just making conversation.
327
00:14:19,091 --> 00:14:20,691
But while Gramps and Dad
328
00:14:20,693 --> 00:14:22,560
chewed the fatin the front seat,
329
00:14:22,562 --> 00:14:25,596
where I sat,I had problems of my own.
330
00:14:26,732 --> 00:14:28,165
Hey, cut it out!
331
00:14:28,167 --> 00:14:30,701
Oh, sure, after I hit you
once for every dollar you lost.
332
00:14:30,703 --> 00:14:32,102
Hey, I didn't lose it!
333
00:14:32,104 --> 00:14:34,772
Oops. Lost count.
Better start over again.
334
00:14:34,774 --> 00:14:35,539
Wayne.
335
00:14:35,541 --> 00:14:36,974
Kevin. Stop it.
336
00:14:36,976 --> 00:14:38,275
All right, I told you boys.
337
00:14:40,913 --> 00:14:42,813
Now, let's just... just all
338
00:14:42,815 --> 00:14:45,615
try to put a good face
on this, all right?
339
00:14:45,617 --> 00:14:49,486
But the fact is, I didn'tfeel like putting on a face.
340
00:14:49,488 --> 00:14:51,021
- Man...
- John...
341
00:14:51,023 --> 00:14:53,958
There's something I've been
meaning to talk to you about.
342
00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,961
I was a 14-year-old kidwith a sore shoulder,
343
00:14:56,963 --> 00:14:59,930
down 10 bucks,on my way, in a cramped car,
344
00:14:59,932 --> 00:15:01,231
to bury somebody
345
00:15:01,233 --> 00:15:03,901
who had absolutelynothing to do with me.
346
00:15:03,903 --> 00:15:04,969
Have you, uh...
347
00:15:04,971 --> 00:15:06,269
Have you thought any more
348
00:15:06,271 --> 00:15:08,272
about buying that plot
next to your mother and me?
349
00:15:08,274 --> 00:15:14,578
And then, suddenly,aunt rose's funeral hit home.
350
00:15:14,580 --> 00:15:18,248
Dad, do we have to talk
about this?
351
00:15:18,250 --> 00:15:20,383
Something you should be
thinking about.
352
00:15:20,385 --> 00:15:21,719
Dad...
353
00:15:21,721 --> 00:15:24,087
You don't want these boys
making the decisions
354
00:15:24,089 --> 00:15:25,489
for you, do you?
355
00:15:25,491 --> 00:15:28,559
They'll have enough to think
about when the time comes.
356
00:15:28,561 --> 00:15:30,694
Dad, I've
taken care of it, okay?
357
00:15:30,696 --> 00:15:32,729
It was the first timeI'd heard that my Dad
358
00:15:32,731 --> 00:15:35,900
had a little patch of earthwith his name on it.
359
00:15:35,902 --> 00:15:39,503
[ Grunting ]-And, of course, there
was only one thing to do about it.
360
00:15:39,505 --> 00:15:42,239
Boys, you just stop it! -What
do you think you're doing?
361
00:15:42,241 --> 00:15:43,907
Stop, both of you. Kevin.
[ Tires screech ]
362
00:15:43,909 --> 00:15:45,075
All right. All right!
363
00:15:45,077 --> 00:15:48,479
That's it!
Get out, the both of you!
364
00:15:48,481 --> 00:15:50,247
What?
365
00:15:50,249 --> 00:15:52,749
If you can't go to a funeral
and be respectful,
366
00:15:52,751 --> 00:15:54,951
then don't go!
367
00:15:54,953 --> 00:15:55,952
Grandpa...
368
00:15:55,954 --> 00:15:57,588
if you change your mind,
369
00:15:57,590 --> 00:16:00,925
the cemetery
is 2 Miles down the road!
370
00:16:00,927 --> 00:16:02,392
Dad!
371
00:16:02,394 --> 00:16:04,695
Hmm. No help there.
372
00:16:04,697 --> 00:16:07,330
Or there.
373
00:16:07,332 --> 00:16:09,533
So I just had to hopeGramps was bluffing.
374
00:16:09,535 --> 00:16:11,302
I'm serious about this,
damn it!
375
00:16:11,304 --> 00:16:13,237
Now get out!
376
00:16:14,540 --> 00:16:16,506
- But, I...
- Now!
377
00:16:18,210 --> 00:16:19,810
[ Sighs ]
378
00:16:27,286 --> 00:16:29,653
[ Vehicle departs ]
379
00:16:29,655 --> 00:16:34,125
I had never seenmy grandfather so furious.
380
00:16:38,131 --> 00:16:39,563
And there you had it.
381
00:16:39,565 --> 00:16:42,132
Strandedin the middle of nowhere,
382
00:16:42,134 --> 00:16:45,335
with nothing to show for itbut a clean suit.
383
00:16:45,337 --> 00:16:47,738
Ow!
384
00:16:47,740 --> 00:16:49,840
First you lose my money!
385
00:16:49,842 --> 00:16:52,375
And now this, butthead!
386
00:16:53,312 --> 00:16:55,645
You idiot!
387
00:16:55,647 --> 00:16:58,349
Whoa! Jerk!
388
00:16:58,351 --> 00:16:59,483
Moron!
389
00:16:59,485 --> 00:17:00,851
Dorkface!
390
00:17:03,555 --> 00:17:04,621
Where you going?
391
00:17:04,623 --> 00:17:06,222
I'm walking!
392
00:17:08,393 --> 00:17:10,594
Grief wears a lot of faces.
393
00:17:10,596 --> 00:17:14,698
Some people cry,some people hand out money...
394
00:17:14,700 --> 00:17:17,868
Others throw dirt clods.
395
00:17:17,870 --> 00:17:20,570
And for the first timethat day...
396
00:17:20,572 --> 00:17:22,172
Hey, wait up!
397
00:17:22,174 --> 00:17:25,042
I was starting to feela little grief of my own.
398
00:17:25,044 --> 00:17:26,143
Jerk!
399
00:17:27,413 --> 00:17:29,313
Idiot!
400
00:17:29,315 --> 00:17:31,382
Scrooge!
401
00:17:32,885 --> 00:17:35,486
We ask that you comfort them
in their loss
402
00:17:35,488 --> 00:17:38,522
as you receive rose
into your kingdom.
403
00:17:39,992 --> 00:17:40,858
Amen.
404
00:17:40,860 --> 00:17:42,593
Amen.
405
00:17:42,595 --> 00:17:45,663
Some journeystake longer than others.
406
00:17:45,665 --> 00:17:49,166
By the time we got tothe cemetery that afternoon,
407
00:17:49,168 --> 00:17:52,202
I knew I'd traveledmore than just 2 Miles.
408
00:17:52,204 --> 00:17:55,706
Something was happeningin my life...
409
00:17:55,708 --> 00:17:59,343
something so bigI couldn't take it all in.
410
00:17:59,345 --> 00:18:03,714
And though we may feel poorer
for her passing...
411
00:18:03,716 --> 00:18:06,950
We should seek comfort
in the knowledge
412
00:18:06,952 --> 00:18:10,019
that we are, in fact,
so much richer.
413
00:18:10,021 --> 00:18:13,591
Richer for having known her,
414
00:18:13,593 --> 00:18:16,893
for having been touched
by her kindness.
415
00:18:18,531 --> 00:18:24,201
Would anyone like to say
a few words about rose McKinsey?
416
00:18:25,104 --> 00:18:28,305
I, uh, I believe I would.
417
00:18:34,614 --> 00:18:36,079
[ Clears throat ]
418
00:18:37,416 --> 00:18:38,682
[ Sighs ]
419
00:18:38,684 --> 00:18:41,852
I guess, uh...
420
00:18:41,854 --> 00:18:44,788
I guess my cousin rose...
421
00:18:44,790 --> 00:18:49,627
Liked family gatherings more
than anybody I've ever known.
422
00:18:49,629 --> 00:18:52,930
Even after she had...
423
00:18:52,932 --> 00:18:55,231
Trouble getting around, she...
424
00:18:55,233 --> 00:18:59,670
Always loved to have
a chance to see...
425
00:18:59,672 --> 00:19:02,973
The folks.
426
00:19:02,975 --> 00:19:06,076
As she liked to call us.
427
00:19:06,078 --> 00:19:08,111
Of course, lately, it seems like
428
00:19:08,113 --> 00:19:11,047
the only time
we ever get together is, uh...
429
00:19:11,049 --> 00:19:14,752
When there's a wedding or...
430
00:19:14,754 --> 00:19:17,221
Or when somebody leaves us.
431
00:19:17,223 --> 00:19:22,359
As I stood there,listening to grandpa's words...
432
00:19:22,361 --> 00:19:25,628
A lot of thingsbegan to become real for me.
433
00:19:25,630 --> 00:19:27,831
Aunt rose,
434
00:19:27,833 --> 00:19:30,900
the loss Gramps was feeling,
435
00:19:30,902 --> 00:19:34,237
and why coming herewas so important...
436
00:19:36,142 --> 00:19:37,474
for all of us.
437
00:19:39,878 --> 00:19:42,879
But I can tell you one thing.
438
00:19:44,450 --> 00:19:48,385
Rose is not gone from us.
439
00:19:48,387 --> 00:19:51,922
She never will be.
440
00:19:51,924 --> 00:19:54,925
She will always
441
00:19:54,927 --> 00:19:57,928
be a part of us...
442
00:19:57,930 --> 00:20:01,265
As long as we remain a family.
443
00:20:01,267 --> 00:20:03,366
Part of...
444
00:20:03,368 --> 00:20:05,902
The folks.
445
00:20:07,539 --> 00:20:09,973
Part of who we are.
446
00:20:12,845 --> 00:20:15,779
Even for those who...
447
00:20:15,781 --> 00:20:19,183
Really didn't know her
very well.
448
00:20:22,722 --> 00:20:24,622
I guess that's whenI understood
449
00:20:24,624 --> 00:20:27,625
what my grandfather had beentrying to explain to me...
450
00:20:27,627 --> 00:20:28,925
that my life was bigger
451
00:20:28,927 --> 00:20:31,361
than the little neighborhoodI lived in,
452
00:20:31,363 --> 00:20:33,897
and that these strangerswho surrounded me
453
00:20:33,899 --> 00:20:36,733
weren't just relatives.
454
00:20:36,735 --> 00:20:39,370
They were my family.
455
00:20:39,372 --> 00:20:44,375
And the death of one affectedeach of us in some way.
456
00:20:44,377 --> 00:20:46,877
[ Voice breaking ]
Hey. It was 20 bucks.
457
00:20:49,381 --> 00:20:52,483
We'll be seeing you, rose.
458
00:21:12,671 --> 00:21:16,173
The threadof my aunt rose's life
459
00:21:16,175 --> 00:21:18,542
had been permanently woveninto mine,
460
00:21:18,544 --> 00:21:21,778
leaving me with questions.
461
00:21:21,780 --> 00:21:24,781
And driving home that night,
462
00:21:24,783 --> 00:21:28,452
my fragile, little familyhurtling through the darkness,
463
00:21:28,454 --> 00:21:32,089
I knew I'd have to facethose questions one day.
464
00:21:44,570 --> 00:21:45,802
Dad?
465
00:21:45,804 --> 00:21:46,937
Hmm?
466
00:21:55,114 --> 00:21:57,180
Don't ever die, okay?
467
00:22:01,053 --> 00:22:03,553
Nah...
468
00:22:03,555 --> 00:22:05,822
I'm not gonna die.
469
00:22:07,993 --> 00:22:10,160
But for now...
470
00:22:10,162 --> 00:22:14,063
That was good enough for me.
471
00:22:14,065 --> 00:22:16,934
[ Insects chirping ]
472
00:22:23,508 --> 00:22:25,542
[ Owl hooting ]
473
00:22:25,592 --> 00:22:30,142
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