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From Vietnam,

Romania, the United Kingdom,

Israel, the Philippines,
and New York City,

on Before the 90 Days
the Couples Tell All.

Violet took the pregnancy test
in front of you.

You did not trust that?

There's science
and then there's miracles.

Do you think that she would
be capable of lying to you

about a child
just to manipulate you?

Yes.

Had you been reaching out
to any guys on social media?

I mean, it was more,
like, flirtatious.

Hey, it's the first time
I hear that.

- God meant the sex
between men and woman.
- Oh, [bleep] that.

Today in this world,
men become a woman
and woman become a man.

- Oh, sorry.
- I wanna give you
a big [bleep] you.

- You've seen Statler
in past relationships...
- Yep.

...um, does she usually
move very quickly?

Yes. Almost always.

- So, what makes
Dempsey special?
- Uh...

I'm not 100% sure
that Dempsey is special.

I feel like you want to know
you, like, still got it.

- Like you want to--
- I don't even know
I still got it.

What... What don't I have?

Your ego is, like,
through the roof right now.

- I feel like I'm being
attacked right now.
- own it.

Jasmine, do you and Dane
have a sex video

from one month before Gino
came to see you?

Uh...

Ooh.

We are going to call the man
who catfished Tyray.

Hello?

Today is the big Tell All.

It's exciting.

But at the same time,
you're walking into
a den of wolves.

Digestive system is okay
at the moment.

My nerves aren't bad, so.

Things are good.
I know where the toilet is,
I think I'll be okay.

Hello.

- You look like a movie star.
- How are you?. So do you.

- That's crazy.
- How are you?

Meisha seems nice,
but she's really catholic
and I'm really gay.

I know there's
going to be judgment.
I mean, without a doubt.

I'm feeling good
about going into
this Tell All.

Let's go.

I'm not here to judge.

'Cause my [bleep] stinks.

Hey, hey, hey.

- Oh, hey, Riley.
- What's going on?

- Misha.
- Oh, my God.

- What's going on? Hugs. Hugs.
- It's okay,
it's okay.

- Y'all look amazing.
- You look amazing.

Wow,
it's good to see you.

It's really good
to be back in the USA.

I think the other couples,

they probably think
that I'm some boozehound,
charmer, you know, playboy.

And that's just not the truth.

I'm looking forward
to showing people, you know,
what I'm like, uh, in person.

I feel like, not too much
makes me nervous,

- but I feel like this makes me
feel a little sick.
- Really?

- How's it going, everybody?
- Oh, my God.

Howdy, neighbor. Hello, hello.

Doesn't he
look matching?

Yes, hi.
Hi, Christian.

- I like this look, bro.
- Thank you, appreciate it.

I love that coat,
it kinda matches my shoes.

Oh, my gosh,
it totally does.

- Yeah, we should switch.
- Have a seat.

I feel like I have so many
questions for everybody,
like, updates.

- It's a lot.
- It's a lot.

I think, honestly, I kinda
wanna speak to Nicola.

You know, my mother
used to say things to me like,

"Don't use
the Bible to justify
your bad behavior."

I just think that Nicola
needs to understand that when
Meisha is sharing her feelings

and he says things like,
"Where in the Bible does
it say I have to do that?"

That's very dismissive
and hurtful.

Hi. David.

Christian. It's very nice
to meet you.

Oh, thank you,
thank you so much.

I'll just let you know
that, um,

I have a few people
that'll be interpreting
for me.

- Uh, they'll be walking
with me as well.
- Awesome, right on.

- David. Hi.
- Hi, David.

David, I have to ask,
did your family see
the donut hand signals?

Yeah.

What made you use donut?

Oh, my gosh, Riley, you know.

Because a donut is delicious.

- No, I'm saying there's
another way of explaining it.
- A donut's just delicious.

- You're ridiculous.
- I get it.

Is there anybody
y'all are not looking forward
to seeing or talking to?

My gosh, look at you
going right there
with the punches.

What about Amanda?

She was just so mean.
I don't get it. Just didn't
make sense to me.

It seemed to me
that she was never content.

I will say, the one comment
that really just
grossed me out

was the bloody sword.
I literally--

Amanda. Hey.

- You just B-lined
straight for that.
- Yeah, yeah.

So, we were just chatting
about you and Razvan.

Don't worry about it.

We were, like, we thought
that you was just exploring

your emotions
and your feelings.

Looking back at it,

I feel like filming didn't get
so much of the real me.

I wish I would have been
more of myself

and not so concerned
about what people
would think of me.

And now I'm just like,
I don't give a [bleep].

Like, this is me.
Take it how it is.

To be honest, I don't feel
uncomfortable talking to women

because I talk to women
like they're people.

You know what I'm saying?
I feel like a lot of men...

You know, [sighing] like just
talk to [bleep] women
like they're people.

They're people, you know?

Some of the other
cast mates are toxic
as [bleep].

I mean...

I think it's self-explanatory.

Who do you guys
think had the most
toxic relationship?

- I mean, like,
genuinely not toxic.
- I'm number two.

- What?
- I'm number two on that list.

Yeah, I'd say, I'd probably,
yeah, vote you number one.

I... I own it.

Sorry, Gino and Jasmine
are number one.

I think
they're number one.

Toxicity, yes.

I used to think that Gino
was the scum of the earth,

but I now think Gino
needs to be protected
at all costs.

Jasmine is a horrible human.
She is the poster child
for a toxic partner.

Holy cow.

If you've ever been
in a toxic relationship,

right, that's
triggering as hell
watching her stuff.

- Oh,
it's triggering, yeah.
- So, I... I... whew.

I don't even wanna
be in the same room,

so I'm glad we're not gonna
be in the same room as her.

Yeah, I agree.

I don't know why that,
you know, that she...
that she cries 24/7.

Like, how can you stop her
from crying?

That makes sense.
I was, like--

She's either crying
or she's screaming.

- Oh, boy. Oh, boy.
Here he is. Here is is.
- Ah, Gino.

Uh, so, Gino,
were your ears burning?

- We, uh, we were talking
about you a little bit.
- Oh, really?

Anything can happen today
and I actually have
some shocking news.

Well, uh...

Some of us were more
on your side of the couples,
uh, interactions

Hi, everyone.

Oh, [bleep].

- I made it
to America, bitches.
- Oh, Lord have mercy.

You were not expecting me
to be here, but here I am.

This is wild.

They didn't know that I heard
what they were saying.

Everyone was saying
very judgmental,
bad things about me.

But when I show up...

awkward silence,
no one said a word.

I wanna start
by letting you know
that I heard everything.

That's true.

I think we can all
identify with that.

- Definitely.
- Do you recognize
that you're toxic?

I don't think anyone's
put a label on anyone,

but what I have seen, Gino,
I'm very worried for you.

Okay, first of all,
first of all,

like, you're being
very judgmental.

I love having an opinion,
I'm entitled to it.

That's very bully on you.

- Okay.
- Yes.

Okay. I got you.

Oh, my gosh, so cute.

You look beautiful.

Oh, my God. Gino and Jasmine
are there together.

Can you see me?

- You look very good.
- Thank you.

What's up, Tyray?

Everyone looks amazing.
You guys all look great.

You look good
too, Tyray.

Ah, thank you.

It's so cool to see everybody.

Meisha, can you see me?

Yes, I can see you, Nico.
It's so cute.

Hey, guys.
Hi, everyone.

- Hi.
- All right, guys,
here we go.

Quiet all around.

Five, four, three, two...

Welcome to Before the 90 Days
the Couples Tell All.

I'm Shaun Robinson.

And for the first time ever,
we're joined by a live
studio audience.

Welcome, everybody.

Yeah, that's pretty exciting.

Now, for all of our couples
love led them
to faraway places.

Tonight, we'll break down
all of the highs and lows
of their journey,

and get the latest on where
their relationships stand.

I wanna mention
we have several
sign language interpreters

here who will be interpreting
and speaking for David.

As well as our
international translators

who will help
keep the conversation going.

So, let's dive right in.

Gino and Jasmine,
I cannot believe

I'm seeing you actually
sit here together.

How are you?

- Amazing, right?
- I can't believe it either.

I know, it's been
a long journey for you two.

Jasmine, the last time
we saw you you were crying,

- hysterically, outside
of the US Embassy...
- I know.

...talking about
your visa interview.
What happened?

Uh, I went there prepared
after waiting for 18 months
for my interview,

and when the day
finally arrived they say,

"Oh, I'm sorry,
we have to postpone."

They said, like,
"It might be something
with the system."

I wanted an answer.

Even if that answer was
"No, your visa's
not gonna be approved,"

I wanted to have an answer.

Right. And, Gino,
you didn't know
what was going on?

All you knew is that you
had to take down
that Panamanian flag, right?

- That's all you knew, right?
- Yeah.

- Exactly.
- Okay. Well, there's a lot
to dig into there.

David, and Sheila, welcome.

How are things
between the two of you?

Uh, I'm doing well, um,
Sheila and I, she's here,
we're doing great.

Hi, Sheila.

David, you look
a little bit different.

Sheila, do you like the beard
or without the beard?

Without the beard.

Does that mean
you're going to shave
the beard, David?

No, I'm not gonna shave it.
No thank you.

Okay, so we already
have controversy
with David and Sheila.

Amanda and Razvan,

nice to meet both you of,
how are you?

- Hi, I'm good.
- Hi, I'm good. Thank you.

You had
a very tearful goodbye.

What happened after Amanda
returned to the States?

Um...

Well...

Uh-oh.

We will have to dig in and see
where your relationship
stands today.

Christian and Cleo,
nice to meet you.

- Hey,
it's great to be here.
- Hi.

Hi there.

Okay, there were
a lot of questions
when you two left each other.

Are you two
still together today?

- Yeah, absolutely. We are.
- We are. Oh, yes, we are.

Wow, okay.

I'm actually very surprised.

Christian is the guy
that likes to go to the bar
and talk to other women.

If Nicola was going into bars
and talking to other women

and inviting them
to Thanksgiving, that would be
a deal breaker for me.

They don't seem
very compatible.

Christian is not
on the same page, I feel.

Wow. Okay.

Well, we're gonna
dig into this
a little bit more.

But first, I'm gonna go
right over to Meisha
and Nicola, welcome.

How long has it been
since you've seen each other?

- A year.
- A year?

Yeah. One year.

We keep this relationship,
you know, from far it's hard.

But, um...

I can tell you that
I'm coming to USA very,
very soon to visit Meisha.

- Oh, you are? Okay.
- Yeah.

- Is it the K1 visa or?
- No.

We've been waiting to see
about the annulment

and then we were gonna
apply for the K1 visa.

So, he's gonna come over here
for now and visit.
So I can touch him.

Jasmine, he still doesn't know
what heavy petting is.

All right.

I wanna go over to Tyray.

Tyray, I'm so sorry that you
could not be with us
in the studio. How are you?

Uh, slight headache,
a little sore throat,
but I'm okay.

Okay, good.
We certainly hope
that you feel better.

You know, we saw your journey
take a surprising turn

when your partner
of four years turned out
to be a catfish.

How are you doing today
with what happened
in that relationship?

I mean, I'm good.

But it's just having people
asking me if I'm okay.

That's the part where
it's like, uh, like
I have to relive it

and go back through it.

Well, Tyray, I can't wait
to talk to you about
your story.

- Statler and Dempsey.
- Hi.

Um, you know,
when we last saw both of you

Dempsey you decided
that Statler could actually
come and live with you.

Is the place big enough
for the both of you?

Um...

Uh...

- I guess we're gonna
find out.
- Uh-oh.

Let me go over now
to Riley and Violet.

So, are you two
still together today?

- No.
- No?

- You're not a couple?
- No.

- Oh, boy. That was a no-no.
- Yeah, that was...

- Strong no.
- Yeah. Strong no.

So, Riley, Violet was,
I thought, saying
that she was pregnant?

- Right.
- So, what happened with that?

Gino, that's
a very good question.

And we are going to find out
very soon.

Now that we've gotten
some quick updates,

I wanna kick things off
with Gino and Jasmine.

After a delay
in getting her K1 visa,

they are now living together
here in the United States.

And, once again, Jasmine,
good to see you in person.

- Thank you.
- Okay.

So, how long have you
been here in the US?

Just a few days.

- Just a few days?
- Yes.

I'm happy that finally
the K1 visa took place
and I'm here.

But I believe that
when God created Michigan,

he didn't mean
people to live there

because it is so cold!

Well, Jasmine,
the host of this show
is from the State of Michigan.

No!

Yes, born and raised
in Michigan.

That's what I'm worried about.
You know, is can Jasmine
survive Michigan winter.

Yeah. Okay,
I have another topic
I wanna move on to.

A massive divide in Gino
and Jasmine's relationship

is her ex-boyfriend Dane.

Let's take a look at how close
Jasmine and Dane really are.

Including something
we've never seen before.

- Hi.
- Hi, how are ya?
Good to see you.

Yes,
you always look so good.

You look fantastic as well.
Love the nails.

We've stayed friends
since the breakup.

But Gino doesn't know anything
about Dane.

Hi, baby.

Uh, I wish I could say
like a honeymoon.

It's so embarrassing, but...

He doesn't wanna
have sex with me.

Gino, how'd you feel
after seeing that?

I mean...

to talk to her ex
about our sex life in details,
it's just not right. Period

- I agree.
- I agree.

- You don't do that.
- And, Gino,

honestly, like, I don't know
how you can trust her
around him.

You have expressed
several times

that you yourself
are very insecure

and that was my
insecurity, okay?

I'm not saying I'm an angel
'cause I'm not, but Gino's
not an angel either.

Did you watch that?
You were, like,
calling him "baby."

You talk about how bad
our sex is to your ex,

that's bull[bleep],
you don't do that [bleep].

Feeling that rejection,
of the person that you love,
over and over again

I needed some validation
from a male perspective.

Jasmine,
have there been
any other meetings with Dane

that Gino doesn't know about?

I'll be very honest
because I choose to be honest.

And...

- ...I know
you're gonna get mad...
- Uh-oh.

...but, um, I knew
that I was coming to America,

and I don't know
when I'm gonna go back
to Panama again

and I didn't know
if I will ever see Dane again.

- Are you kidding?
- And he proposed...

...a goodbye dinner.

"Goodbye dinner,"
what the [bleep] is that?

- So,
you went on a date?
- No, it is goodbye dinner.

A card, flowers, and dinner.

- From a friend.
- That's insane.

Did you guys
have sex after that?

You did not trust her
about you being the father?

I know medically
where I am at.

She wanted me to chase for her
and fight for her.

That is the toxic part
of our whole relationship.

Cut it out.
Own your bull[bleep].

I didn't know
if I will ever
seen Dane again.

- Are you kidding?
- And he proposed...

...a goodbye dinner.

"Goodbye dinner,"
what the [bleep] is that?

We had dinner
to say goodbye.

- A dinner.
- So, you
went on a date?

No, it is goodbye dinner.

No sex, no kiss.

No, we went to a restaurant
we had dinner--

Jasmine, when was this?

- Wait, what?
- That's Valentine's Day.

- No. No, no, no.
- No, it isn't.

You're
celebrating Valentine's--

Oh, my God!

We didn't even realize.

You know when we realized
it was Valentine's?

When we went to the restaurant
and there were
hearts everywhere.

I was like,
"Oh, look it's Valentine's."

- Did you guys
have sex after that?
- No.

Does anybody buy
the Jasmine didn't know
it was Valentine's Day?

It up to you
to believe it or not,
I'm being honest.

Jasmine,
did he get you a gift?

It was, um,
a bouquet of flowers
with a note, and that was it.

So, a card, flowers,
and dinner on Valentine's Day.

That's really sad
that you would do that to me.

How can you do that to me?

You think he should
be okay with that still?

I don't see a problem.

- Would you be okay with it
if it were reverse?
- No.

I don't see a problem
with me being friends
with Dane.

No, I have
a big problem with it.

Well,
, uh, I mean,

Jasmine was looking
for some attention,
little bit.

Well, but still, I mean,
I wasn't talking about
intimate sexual details.

- Come on.
- I mean,

I could see a world
where Dane said, "Well, hey,
if it's really that bad,

why don't you
come on downstairs
to my place tonight.

And we'll just, uh,
crack a bottle of wine
and talk about it."

Uh, I mean, we have had
so much sex in the past

that we got sick
and tired of it.

That's so gross, Jasmine.

That's the reason
why I don't want
them two together.

We don't want that anymore.
We're like, "Ugh!" It's like--

Jasmine, it should
just be as simple
as Gino says,

"I don't want
you to see him again,"
and that should be it.

Jasmine, what if Gino
gave you an ultimatum:

stop being his friend
or leave the relationship,
which would you choose?

That would be very unfair
for him to ask me that because
I have very few friends.

My inner circle is so,
so small.

And Dane has been part of it
even before Gino.

- And he's nothing other
than a friend.
- Toxic.

So, Gino, Jasmine
is constantly telling you

that she is not gonna listen
to how you feel,

you have told her,
"I do not like it
when you talk to Dane,

I don't want you to do this,
I do not want you
to talk to me this way,

I do not want you
to act this way
when we fight."

At what point
do you say to yourself,

this woman does not care
how I feel?

If... If... The breaking point
is if she cheats on me.

Jasmine,
you claimed at one point

you had a sex video with Dane
only to retract it later on.

Once and for all,

do you and Dane
have a sex video

from one month before
Gino came to see you?

Um...

You're not
making it easy for me.

You better start standing
by my side.

As somebody who's been
with a narcissistic abuser,

I know that type of behavior,
and that's it.

I'm not gonna feel bad.
I'm gonna be myself.

Deal with it.

Jasmine, do you and Dane
have a sex video

from one month before
Gino came to see you?

Um...

- Uh--
- You did?

- Yeah, it was--
- You did a sex video?

- I told you, I told you.
- No, you never told me that.

- I told you
about it.
- What? When?

- Oh, way--
- You never told me
about a sex video.

And the thing is...

Are you
freaking kidding? That's--

I have done crazy
in the past before you

with the people
that I have dated.

- That are only two people,
my ex-husband and Dane.
- Are you [bleep] kidding?

And we had a video...

We were drunk
and we filmed each other
and that was it.

- Can I see the sex video?
- You're sick.

- Gino, don't watch
that video, dude.
- No, I don't wanna watch it,

- but I wanna know the date.
- Oh, the date.

If I have it in my iCloud
I'm gonna show you
with the date.

You got it in the iCloud?
You got it in the cloud?

No, no, it's not
it's, uh, how do you call it?
Memory stick? I don't know.

And when was the last time
you talked to him?

To Dane? Uh...

After my arrival,
just to let him know
what I was...

You know, happening between
Gino and I, all the tension.

And ever since
I haven't talked
to him anymore.

Okay, Gino
and Jasmine,

we're gonna come back to you
in a little bit.

But right now we are going
to take a quick break.

You and Dane,
why do you still have
the video saved?

I'm gonna delete it.
Is that gonna make you happy?

- Yeah, can you delete?
- I'm gonna delete it.

You only save the video
if you're probably planning
to watch it again.

I have never
watched the video again, ever.

Do you understand how

fragile she is mentally?

And you were
so judgmental out there.

Like, I can take
from everyone
telling me [bleep],

but you were so judgmental
and you're acting
like you don't know me.

Or like I have cheated on you.
I'm always honest to you.

I'm not gonna feel bad
about something that
it's part of my past.

I have to find it
and delete it, okay?

- And you don't have any other
files of any of your...
- No, I don't.

- ...boyfriend's sex videos
and [bleep] like that?
- I don't. I don't.

As somebody who's been with,
like, a narcissistic abuser,

I know that type of behavior,
and that's it.

You better start standing
by my side

'cause trying to adapt
to this whole
new country

and you're not making it
easier for me, okay.

Deal with it.

All right, I wanna move on now
to Statler and Dempsey.

Caravan living posed
some unexpected challenges
for Statler.

In fact, it led
to an awkward moment

that didn't make it to air
until now.

Let's take a look.

I have to pee.
Like, now.

Okay.

We're not doing that again!

I'm sitting.

I'm gonna [bleep].

Uh! Get...
Oh, you're disgusting.

- Statler!
- I can't
help myself.

There's no shovel.
We gotta go.
I gotta go, I'm sorry.

Okay,
we're gonna just...

I have to
at this point.

No light?
There's no light. Okay.

Okay. Oh, God!

It's like I'm giving birth
to the Devil.

Oh, my gosh.

Dempsey, have you
ever had anyone,
let alone a girlfriend,

do something like that
right in front of you?

Are you still planning
on living on the farm together
in the caravan?

- No.
- You're not?

We are not planning
on living at the farm.

But we are excited
for something that's
coming up soon,

so looking forward to that.

Okay, so you've got
some big news to share?

- Yeah. Guess you'd say
big news, yeah.
- Okay.

This is terrifying to me.

This is like a massive thing
for me as well.

Statler,
you've mentioned
that you've had

an adventurous sex life.

Even doing it in church
during mass.

- Yeah.
- What?

That's a big sin.
Very big sin.

- Okay, so you've got
some big news to share?
- Yeah.

We decided to look into
buying a camper van,

um, so we can travel around
different countries
in Europe.

And, yeah, just travel
in a van full time.

- Wow.
- That's like
a dream.

That's like the ultimate
lesbian dream, yeah.

Call me a lesbian then,
that sounds like a good time.

She's been selling
all of her things,

I haven't sold a single thing
that I own.

I'm just pulling it all
until the last second, uh,

because it's just
too overwhelming.

What're you gonna do for work?

So, I work from home,
so I can work anywhere
in the world.

Dempsey, what are you
gonna do for work?

- Um, so I'm just gonna do bits
of work here and there, um--
- Okay.

For a couple of months,
I'll be the bread winner.

Couple of months
you're gonna be
the bread winner?

Yep.

Statler,
this is a huge move.

Do you have any hesitations
about it at this point
in your life?

I have, yeah,
a ton of hesitations.

I really would
like a partner who's also
financially independent.

Have you girls
agreed on that? Like...

We talked about finances,
at this point no.

When do you plan on going
on this, uh, grand Euro trip?

In a couple of weeks.

This is more Dempsey's thing.

Where she just kind of
does whatever she wants
in the moment.

- And I'm just
holding on for dear life.
- Following her lead.

Yes.

So, Statler, you were
really concerned

about the cramped quarters
of the caravan,

what about the van?

This is downsizing it by,
like, a million.

Yeah, this is gonna
be even smaller than that.

But I'm trying to push myself
because I'm trying to grow
as a person.

- Right.
- And I think this will do it.

But a working toilet?

But there will be
a working toilet,
I'm insisting on that.

Well,
trying new things
is a part of growth.

Dempsey is a spiritual person
and we saw her use of sage
to help clean Statler.

But there was another
previously unseen part
of that process.

Check this out.

Thou shall not enter anymore.

- Thou shall not enter.
- This is a private area
for me and thee.

- I feel like
I should up for this.
- Oh, yeah, we could, whoo.

Hey!

- Just maybe don't burn
my vagina off, that's be nice.
- Sorry, sorry.

- Okay.
- Okay, wait a second.
What's that?

So, you're gonna
put your hand in
and choose an egg.

So, I'm just gonna...
What the [bleep]?

This a necklace?

You put it in and, uh,
it cleanses all the energies

that, uh, no longer serve
your vagina.

Like all the sexual people
you have been with
in the past.

I'm not sure I'm, like,
wide enough for this. Ugh!

Should we get
some, like, lube?

- Just think of me.
- I am [bleep].

Let me tell you,
it's [bleep] as the
desert in here.

Ooh, gah!

- Gah!
- Oh, she's in.

I don't know about this,
she feels like she wants
to come out.

She's too pure
for your vagina
at the moment.

Once you get used to her
then the demons
will just start to fall out.

Baby steps
to the spiritual pool.

Statler,
how uncomfortable was that?

That was really...

Once Dempsey stops laughing.
That was really
uncomfortable, yeah.

Do you feel cleaner
afterwards, Statler?

Did you feel like...
What are they supposed to do?

I felt something, but I think
it was just the egg.

Uh, I felt like
a chicken maybe, but, um,
not cleaner, no.

Statler, you've mentioned
that you've had
an adventurous sex life,

going to sex parties,

a busy elevator,
and even doing it
in church during mass.

Yeah.

- How is the...?
- What?

Jesus.

I think
we're all curious
about this aspect of it.

This was years ago.
I was in my, you know,
early 20s.

- I was wild, crazy,
drunk, right.
- Yeah, I'm not judging.

Nicola,
what are you thinking
about this conversation?

Oh, my gosh,
Nicola's not gonna be happy
about it.

His face
is so serious right now.

I think it's not respectable
conversation, you know,
when you are mocking God.

And doing stuff like that
in the church that's, I mean,

a sin that you need
to ask God forgiveness
on your knees.

I mean, why you
have to go to church
and do it in the church?

I mean, that's a big sin.

I agree. It's a very,
you know, um, disrespectful.

I was worried that you were
going to say that you had sex
in a church.

- No, that's one of my no-go's.
- That's what I thought
was coming.

That's, like,
one of my no-go's.

Dempsey, anything
about Statler's sexual past
that upset you?

No, I think everybody's
entitled to their own past,
um, not bothered at all.

Well, Statler admits
that she has a tendency
to rush into relationship.

So, we wanted to find out
more about Statler's
dating history

from someone
who knows her very well.

Please welcome
Statler's friend, Natali.

I love Statler a lot
and I do know that she has
this part of her heart

that is really,
really deeply needing
to feel love back.

That's just her personality.

But it seems like
maybe this is just, like,
a fun time for Dempsey,

so that absolutely
concerns me.

- Hey, Statler.
- Hey.

Okay, Natali,
you've seen Statler
in past relationships,

um, does she usually move
very quickly?

Yes. Almost always.

You know, if she's in it,
she's in it 100%. She's not
gonna half-ass anything.

Uh...

I'm not 100% sure
that Dempsey is special.

Do you have any red flags?
'Cause I feel like
there should be.

I do have
concerns for Statler.

We have a very difficult time communicating.

I absolutely think we can
benefit from couples therapy.

Okay, Dempsey, are you onboard
for couples therapy?

Do you wanna
answer that Dempsey, or?

Uh...

I'm not 100%
that Dempsey is special.
To be honest.

Dempsey, um,
how do you feel

hearing Statler's
very good friend

say this
about your relationship?

Um, [chuckles] her opinion's
invalid to me.

Why would you say
that the opinion of Statler's
good friend is invalid to you?

Just because it is.

Yeah. That felt maybe a bit
on the aggressive side
to be honest.

I mean, I'm not, like,
I'm very support of Statler.

So, I don't know
about my opinion
being invalid.

I'd like to think it matters,
what I think.

Does it surprise you
to hear her say that, Statler?

Yeah, it surprises me,
but it's also Dempsey's...

She's just sometimes...
I don't know.

- She's sometimes what?
- Opinionated.

What Dempsey
is picking up on maybe

is that I have had
some reservations
about this whole thing.

So I don't know
whether I like Dempsey
as a person or not

but I do have concerns
for Statler

so maybe that's why
the defensiveness.

Okay,
but why did you say

that Dempsey is not special?

I haven't really had a chance
to meet her in person yet

or see them together.

Until then, you know,
all I really know

is what Statler has told me.

Dempsey, how are you
feeling right now?

- Me? I'm fine.
- Yes.

No, you look super annoyed
right now, Dempsey.

- We need you to be honest.
- Babe, did your face
change color?

She just... just like this
with people sometimes.

No, I'm not, Statler.

- Don't try and make excuses.
- Okay.

I feel like I'm sensing,

probably other people are too,
tension right away.

Do you have any red flags?

Are there any reservations?
'Cause I feel like
there should be.

We have a very difficult time
communicating sometimes.

So it's hard for us
to have these
big discussions because...

one of us shuts down, always.

I absolutely think

we can benefit
from couples therapy.

- Um...
- Okay, Dempsey,
are you on board

for couples therapy?

Do you wanna answer
that Dempsey or...

Um, I wasn't,
but we have spoken about it.

Um...

- Couple's workbooks.
- Okay.

We kind of are meeting halfway

- by doing that first.
- Okay.

- If our communication still is
complete [bleep], you know,
- Uh-huh.

...I guess
the couple's therapist

is gonna be a last resort.

Well,
we've seen you argue

about one big decision.
Having kids.

Have you talked
anymore about that?

Yes, we're on the same page.

That we both don't know
if we want children.

So you went
from not having any

to "I don't know"

and Dempsey, you went from,
"I definitely want them"

to "I don't know",
is that right?

Yeah.

I don't know. I mean,
it seemed like

they both had
made up their minds

and they were
fundamentally incompatible.

Like, that's the kind of thing
you put on your dating profile

and you wouldn't even swipe...

if somebody wants kids
and you don't.

Um, but if they are
truly undecided,

like they seem now,
that's different.

Natalie, what advice
would you give to Dempsey?

I mean, I think
she already knows this,

but I would just say
take good care of her.

She has just the best heart.

And I love her and I just...

She'll give you the world.
Just take good care of her.

Thank you.

Well, Natalie,
thank you so much

for joining us
and for speaking so candidly

about your friend Statler.

We appreciate it.

- Take care. Thank you.
- Yup. You're welcome.

She's my best friend.
I want her to be happy.

But it's still
really hard to tell
if they're the right fit.

Well,
Statler and Dempsey,

I hope you two are able
to keep working

on your communication
with each other

and we look forward to seeing
what's next for you.

Thank you.

It is time now
to move over
to Meisha and Nicola.

It took then seven long years
to finally meet in person.

Clearly, it was worth the wait

since they ended up
getting engaged

during Meisha's visit
to Israel.

But will Meisha have to wait
another seven years

to marry Nicola?

We are going
to find that out right now.

Meisha, you said
you haven't seen each other

in person for over a year now.

What has that time
been like for you?

Well, of course, it's...

You know, every year
is agonizing.

But after you meet and then
you're ripped apart again,

I think that it even hurts
even more.

Just a different
sort of longing.

So when do you plan
to see each other again?

- In what, Nicola?
- Well...

uh, in next week.

- What?
- Next week.

- Next week?
- Yes.

On Sunday I have
a flight to New York.

He is meeting me
here in New York

and we're flying
to Minnesota together.

When he get to the US,
though, we gotta do, like,

the real American thing.

- Like, Nicola needs
to be broken in.
- Yes.

Beer garden, state fair,
like, he's gotta, like,

get in the real world.

So let's talk about
the big issue

between the two of you
and that is the annulment.

Um, you have been waiting
for it for a very long time.

Meisha, can you
give us an update?

So, yeah, uh...

I've been waiting
for the annulment

for a year and a half

and basically, um,
the tribunal...

for the archdiocese
would decide

if I could ever marry again.

You're really
leaving that up to

a bunch of old dudes, though,
to decide that for you?

In my faith, yes. And I...
And that won't make sense

to a lot of people, but yes,

I put... I put all my faith
in mother church.

I trust God. I trust God.
Don't worry about it.

I trust God.

And, Nicola,
I did not tell you this...

But I did actually receive
an answer from...

the tribunal about my case.

And...

Um...

Do you think
your mom and Nicola

are a great couple?

He is different than someone

that my mom
would usually go for.

I do feel like he's going
to come in

and judge the hell out of you.

We just don't wanna feel like
we're kinda trapped
in our own home.

- So you caught her
in the lies first.
- Yes.

Why didn't
you just break off

- the relationship
at that point?
- Because I did.

- Why didn't you just say...
Uh-huh.
- I did. I did break it off.

And she went
through my family...

begging them to...
That I contact her.

Nicola, I did not
tell you this...

But I did actually receive
an answer from...

the tribunal.

And... Um...

I just wanna let you know
that no matter what they said,

I love you,

and it does not change
how I feel about you.

- But fortunately,
they gave me the annulment
- Nice.

...and my...

Oh, my God!

- That's excellent.
- Breaking news.
Breaking news.

Congrats. Wow.

It is nothing
but a celebration

when you get
to Minnesota with me.

How do you feel
about that, Nicola?

Amazing. I love it so much.

We prayed for it everyday.

I mean, Meisha and I
in our rosary.

Nicola, you're gonna
lose your virginity.

Yeah!

- So happy!
- Oh, my God.
Yeah, Jasmine.

I'm happy
for you, Nicola.

You deserve to enjoy sex.

Thank you
so much, Jasmine.

Now that the annulment
has come through,

what's your timeline
for getting married?

I... I personally
am ready now.

I've been ready
for years and years.

So I'm ready...

- now, like...
- Nicola?

- Uh--
- Same, same. Same. But...

Sex have to be only
between husband and wife,

not between
boyfriend and girlfriend.

- Ah, [bleep] that.
- That's...

I respect you. You...
That's your faith.

I mean, it's not my faith,
it's my sexuality, but okay.

My faith say husband and wife.

That's the catholic,
uh, faith.

We have to wait
until we get married

and do it in proper way
and God way

Yes, Nicola,
we know that.

But you will sleep
in my bed

...in my bedroom
and I have a very big bed

so don't worry about it.

We'll put pillows
in between us.

You'll be just fine.

Well, as we discussed,

Nicola is a 46 year old virgin
and not ashamed of it.

Meisha, on the other hand,
is not a virgin.

If you think that would cause

some complications
in their relationship, well,

you'd be right. Watch this.

Meisha...

My God, Meisha.

- What you--
- Oh, my gosh,
Nicola, what?

Wake up. Morning, sweetie pie.

Kissing and hugging,
of course.

Um...

Heavy petting?

What's that, heavy petting?

Heavy petting?

Okay, all right.

Okay. Oh...

Nicola is missing
a golden opportunity right now

to make this moment
a little bit flirty and fun.

Putting this Dead Sea mud
on me,

like you would spackle a wall.

Okay.

So the way that I'm putting
this on you...

do you wanna, like,
put it on me again, anywhere?

- You just--
- That's not the right answer
to me, really.

Sex, you learn in Israel
when you are
in the fifth grade.

They explain to you
about women and men.

When the time will come
to do sex with Meisha,

I think I will
be ready for it.

- I don't know
about that.
- No, you won't.

- No, you won't.
- What do you think,
Riley?

We know he won't.

- He won't be?
- No.

He's gonna... Listen.

I give you... I give you
38.7 seconds, bro.

- Oh, Riley.
- I, uh... That's a good
over under.

Really?

- Uh, Nicola,
what makes you think...
- Yes.

...that you know
so much about...

the woman's body
and how to please her.

Well, it's not
a rocket science

that you need to go

and to learn how to sleep
with woman.

You gotta study, bud.

If it's been this long,
you got some learning to do.

I can give you a class.

- It's not easy.
- Nicola, there is
a learning curve.

It's more
than putting

- banana in the donut, okay?
- It's more.

That's
the easiest part

but satisfying
a woman sexually,

takes more
than you might think of.

So don't feel so confident

because you understand
the anatomy of a woman

based on you fifth grade
science class.

- Yeah, that's embarrassing
that think that.
- I don't even think

- they teach about the clitoris
- See that's what I was

- ...in fifth grade.
- ...trying to get at.

If God made the sex
between men and women,

why it have to be hard?

I'm not saying
that I am expert,

but I will learn.

Meisha, you will teach me.

Uh, Meisha...

so do you think
he's gonna be good

when he performs?

Yes, when you
can actually, like,

lay by each other

and kind of,
I can crawl on him and...

Have clothes on, but I can
crawl on him and...

Yeah, I... I feel like
I'm smart enough

to be able to put two
and two together

that I'm not worried.

- He has
a proper equipment.
- He does.

Listen, the minute
we get married,

I can't wait
to consummate that marriage

and I will hold nothing back.

And he just needs
to be popped open.

So I feel like for me

this one is in for it
and I love it.

I am so excited.

It's gonna be like this,

"Oh, Meisha,
I love you, Meisha.

Ow, ow, ow

- Oh, gross.
- ...ow!"

That's exactly
what's gonna happen.

He's gonna need inhaler.

He's gonna...

- I don't know,
he is...
- He's gonna...

I think it's gonna start
on their knees

and it's gonna end
on their knees

but not in a sexual way.

It's gonna be very, like,
guilty and, like,

"Oh, gosh. What have we done?"

I feel he's gonna be
very weird about it.

Oh, my God. No way.

When she's my wife,
I promise you,

two times a day.

Oh, my God!

It's a sin?

Yeah,
it's, of course.

- Man-made...
Man-made chemicals.
- Why, Nicola?

Because it's not natural.

Jasmine...

- See, now!
- Jasmine, I don't--

I don't use...

- I don't take blue pills,
Nicola, okay?
- Listen...

- I don't think--
- It's Gino.

I... I don't always use

- the blue pills, Jasmine.
- I don't think
I need...

I don't always
use the blue pill.

Night one, coming up soon.

Yes, that's what
I was thinking.

Okay, well...

There's another key component

to Nicola
and Meisha's relationship.

Meisha's daughters
Morea and Svea,

they express doubts
about whether their mom
could be happy

with someone
so super catholic.

Now they're here to tell us
if their views have changed

now that their mom is engaged.

Please welcome Morea and Svea.

Hi, ladies.

- Hi.
- Hi.

Well, uh, welcome.

Thank you.

So, first of all,
do you think

your mom and Nicola
are a great couple?

Um, he is...

different than someone
my mom would usually go for.

Do you see Nicola being
a good step-dad to you?

I mean...

Um...

We just don't wanna
feel judged.

You know, we're...
We're still teenagers.

We're still gonna live
our teenage lives.

Um, we just don't...

wanna feel like we're kinda
trapped in our own home.

Statler,
what are you feeling?

Why are you nodding?

I do feel like
he's going to come in

and judge the hell out of you.

And then you're
not gonna want to be

at your home anymore,

and you're gonna
have this breaking
of a relationship

with your mom.

I just hope
that you're not just, like,

"This is the guy
and he's catholic

and he's really
into his beliefs",

like, please, just...

There's other fish in the sea.

I do feel like
he's going to come in

and judge the hell out of you.

And you're gonna
have this breaking

of a relationship
with your mom.

It's just been, like,
us three for so long.

We don't want anything
to come in the middle of that.

Um, I think
at the end of the day,

that's most important to us.

Nicola, let's say
when you guys

are all living together...

they wanna bring a boy over
to the house and hangout.

Is that okay?

Isn't that gonna
be your home too, Nicola?

Do you believe him?
What do you...
What do you feel?

Uh, I mean, one can only hope
that he's telling the truth.

I do think he is always
gonna voice his concerns...

to her and, um...

I don't know if that's gonna
make her more hard on us.

I can
totally understand why...

there's worry
about judgement, but...

You will never have to
worry about that,

because I'll check that.
I'll handle that.

Well, it's clear
that Nicola and Meisha
care for each other deeply,

but that doesn't mean
they always see eye to eye.

Let's see what
they have to say

after we revisit
some of their moments
of friction.

I'm here
for one reason
and one reason only,

to meet you and get answers

about what we've invested
in our lives now

for almost seven years.

I think you should
go to sleep, Meisha.

- Does that mean you're done
with this conversation?
- Yeah.

What if I'm not done?

What if I'm not
done with that?

The problem with you, Meisha,

you never want to be done
with any conversation.

When you start to talk,
you never stop.

It's important for me
to show to Meisha
that I'm the man.

A woman cannot
control a man.

I want to feel like
Nicola is proud...

happy I'm here
and cares

- that I'm here.
- Mmm-hmm.

I do.

Because after this long--

- Oh, my God, Meisha,
why're you crying now?
- Listen...

Just let me be me.

Nicola...

Did you hear what I just said?

Meisha thinks
she is the victim.

What I done to her
that she cry?

She think Nicola is always
need to change,

and everything is good
with me,

'cause I'm Meisha,
I have experience,
I know what is good

and Nicola...

Meisha...

Aw, Meisha don't cry now.

She know
that I apologized to her

and if anyone was
insulting for my word,

any woman in the world,

I... I apologize for that too.

Ladies...
How did you feel

hearing some of the things
Nicola said?

I don't want my mom
to be married to somebody
who just

doesn't really care that
she's upset about something,

that isn't really listening
to her when she's bringing
those concerns to him

and down the line,
you know,

if we did have this, um,

daughter-father relationship
with Nicola,

is that how
he's gonna treat us
when we have concerns

and we then come to him
and we're upset.

Meisha...

First of all, you know,
nothing would ever
come between us.

You have to know that. Nothing.

Nobody, nothing. Ever.

And I can only hope
and I don't know but,
I can really hope

that one day you can see
what I see in this person.

I'm still seeing him
invalidating your emotions,

on this stage
in present day,

and it's concerning.

Nicola, when you said,
"I need to show Meisha

I am the man."

What does that mean to you?

What...
What does that mean, then?

Oh, I'm sorry.

Not in this day and age.

I feel like I'm hearing
two things though.

I... I feel like I'm hearing,
the woman needs to follow
the man,

but also, at Meisha's home,

with her two daughters,

you know, you're gonna...
you're gonna let Meisha
take the reins on that one.

So, how do you
reconcile that?

I'm hearing two things, too,
"Bull" and "[bleep]."

Then how are they equal?
How are they equal?

Can I weigh in on this?

I actually agree with him.

I think that the, you know,
biblically, like,

the man is to lead the house
and to be that

and the woman
is to be his equal

but also to follow her husband

and, you know, like,
go along with that

and God being the, um,

overall top of the household
in general.

Well, there is
one way to turn them off
of religion,

and that's to be judgmental

and to, you know,
force his beliefs.

Meisha, do you see
any conflict down the line?

My daughters
are strong women,
thanks be to God.

They would put Nicola
in his place like that,

even without momma bear
stepping in.

And I would.
I would not hesitate.

And he's smiling
and he's laughing

and it's just
a little inconsiderate.

Um, I know it's been--

Yeah, yeah, apologize.

I just hope that you're aware

and hope that you're not just
like, "This is the guy

and he's Catholic
and he's really
into his beliefs

and I got to go with him."

There are other
Catholic dudes.

So don't just feel like
he's the only dude,

just 'cause you've known him
for seven years.

Like, please, just...
There's other fish
in the sea.

Jesus makes fish
multiply or whatever.
I mean, there's many.

It's just... I know I can't
walk away from him.

And, you know,
the nice thing right now

is that Nicola is coming
to the United States

and we get to spend
time together on my turf,
in my world,

with my family,
with my friends,

who are not shy
and they will weigh in

and they will
say everything.

I think, just the
biggest thing is that,
time will tell.

We just have to meet him
in person

to see what he's really
gonna be like.

Ladies, thank you.
Thank you so much.

Thank you.

Love you both.

- Love you.
- You too.

Nicola and Meisha,
you've taken some huge steps
in this relationship.

Hopefully, Nicola's
upcoming visit is everything
you hope it will be.

Let's take a break.

Break.

Hi, Nicola.

That was so awkward.
How are you?

When I think about
where my relationship
is headed right now,

I... I have a lot of nerves,

because for me there's...
there's no way out,
as they say.

So I have to be smart
about this

and it's a mess.

I'm only concerned
about Meisha, you know,

choosing to be with Nicola

and settling for less

just because of their
religious part of it.

I'm very religious,
so I'm not Catholic,

but, like, I agreed a lot
with what Nicola said.

Like, pretty much everything.

You know what I mean,
about, like, God being

above everything
in the house
and then the man

and the wife, you know,
like, I agree with that.

And, I feel like,

you know, what God
wants to happen, will happen

- and that--
- 100% be with
a Catholic dude,

just one that
treats you well

and is emotionally intelligent,

and, like, doesn't freak out
every time you cry or
have an emotion.

I can't believe you're just
totally okay, like...

Yeah.

You can't think
for one second

you could walk in
that house

and try to judge them.

I know, but... I know
but I'm a packaged deal.

So, you know, it does...
It does cross over
a little bit.

Not everything
has to be a biblical sermon.

I love it. I love the Bible,
you love the Bible.
Everyone knows.

- That's... I have to take--
- Yes, but... Can you--

Nicola... but--

I know and I love that
but listen to me.

That can be like an affront.

Like, that's just like
a cover.

It's a wall.

So they don't have to
get to know you.

They have to
get to know you.

- He comes across as a
very unexperienced person...
- Yeah.

...when it comes
to relationship
with woman

because listen to what
he was saying like,

"I understand
how women function..."

- Yeah.
- ...because of some
fifth grade Science class.

So
you understand?

Yeah, I feel like when
he gets here,

it's definitely gonna be

- like an experience
for them.
- Yeah.

I think she's gonna
make her decision.

Yeah, I think so too.

It's common for Americans
that are dating abroad

to just hire someone
to take a look into
the person.

I literally can't
believe this.

I would absolutely
not be able to handle
that relationship.

When you're in love
with the...

the idea of your love,

it's hard to let it go.

For me, it's bizarre.

Ugh, Lord, have mercy
on my soul.

And now, I want to move on

to Riley and Violet.

We all know
the elephant in the room
is Violet's pregnancy

but first, I wanna look back
at some other issues
they faced.

Riley and Violet's
relationship took
a shocking turn

once he returned
to America.

There were plenty
of moments

before Riley left Vietnam
that were cause for concern.

Let's take a look.

She's asking
after you told me
to delete the app,

Yeah.
I forgot password.

So, you're mad
because my family
is asking you question?

Okay, we stop now.

To be totally honest with you,

I did call
a private investigator.

- But I didn't do it.
- Oh, my God.

You know, I thought about it
for a quick second,

and I--
But I didn't do it.

In my country,
with my culture,

it is something
that we do.

What?

We check on people

to make sure that they are
who they say they are.

And it is a common thing
in our-- in my country.

That was rough, right?

- That was, uh...
Yeah, that was pretty rough.
- Yeah.

One of the things
that Riley said
was very interesting.

He said it's common
for Americans

to hire private investigators

to look into
their partner's past.

Does anybody agree
with Riley's statement.

I was in shock.
I was like, "Do you know?"

Let me explain.
What I'm saying is that,

it's common for Americans
that are dating abroad

to just hire someone
to take a look at the person

and just make sure
before they dive
all the way in.

I agree with Riley.

I feel like
if he had suspicions
about something

and he, you know,
went with his gut to do that,

I don't think there's
anything wrong with that.

I mean, she wasn't
answering his questions,
you know.

I... I totally thing
that's justified.

You know,
I'm not sure if it's common,

but I totally agree
with him for doing it.

Maybe she was trying to,
like, conceal some things
from him.

So I think it was a good idea
that he did hire
a private investigator.

My man.

In my defense,
my main reason
for wanting to do this,

is because
she doesn't communicate.

She lies.
I've caught her
in major lies.

No like,
"I think she's lying."

I caught her, receipts,
having lied.

I literally
can't believe this.

Because if someone
ever said to me,

"I'm hiring
a private investigator
on you."

I would absolutely not
be able to handle
that relationship.

Yeah, me either.

The trust isn't there
from the beginning, so...

I just-- For me, it's bizarre.

- So you caught her
in the lies first?
- Yes.

Why didn't you just
break off the relationship
at that point?

- Why didn't you just say...
- I did. I did.
I did break it off.

- Uh-huh.
- And she went through
my family,

begging them
that I contact her.

But you didn't have to though.

Right. I know
I didn't have to.

But then, you also...

When you're
in love with the...

the idea of your love,

it's hard to let it go.

Okay, now I wanna bring out
Riley's friend, Tiffanie.

She got an up close look
at the relationship problems

and even contributed
by pressing Violet with some
uncomfortable questions.

Please welcome
Tiffanie, everyone.
Hi, Tiffanie.

Yo.

- What up, yo?
- How are you?

- I like your shoes.
- Thank you, of course.

All right, Tiffanie,
you've been backstage,

listening to the conversation.

What is a question
that you have for Violet today

that you still need answered?

Well, she never answered
why she didn't delete the app.

Why didn't you delete the app?

I don't understand that.

Oh, Lord,
have mercy on our soul.

Riley, was Violet's profile

still active?

Or was it just like
she had just not deleted it?

It's-- It was active.

- It said--
- Active meaning she had
reached out to other people?

It tells you
how long ago they were active.

- Wow.
- Okay.

It was, like,
two days ago active.

Ooh!

She took
the pregnancy test
in front of you.

You did not trust that.

Even if you take
a home pregnancy test,

don't you go
to the doctor to confirm?

The timeline, the dates
are not making sense.

Oh, my gosh.

I believe that she would lie
to get me to commit.

Was Violet's profile
still active?

Or was it just like
she had just not deleted it?

It was, like,
two days ago active.

Let me tell you something.
I've been in online dating.

And whenever
I have met someone online,

and I'm not interested
on that person,

I keep my app
because I wanna keep
my options open.

- You think Violet was keeping
her possibilities open?
- Absolutely. Yes.

Who here thinks
that Violet was keeping
her options open?

- I'm on the fence.
- I'm sorry.

- I'm on the fence.
- Yeah?

Well, when Riley returned
to America,

it seemed like
the relationship
had come to an end.

But only days later,
Violet told Riley

- she was pregnant.
- Mmm.

Let's look
at that shocking moment.

Come on.

Since I've been home,
Violet now is claiming that

she's a couple
of months pregnant.

'Cause of the medication
I am on,

my...

It's a one--
less than 1% chance.

Being that I'm
on this medication,

less than 1% chance
that I can conceive.

I told her. I said,
"Listen, I will support you.

"Whatever you wanna do.
Let's go and confirm this.

"And, you know,
get the test
so I can get the results.

-"So I can understand
what's going on."
- Right.

I called
the international hospital.

And I said I found
a pre-natal doctor.

And she wouldn't go.

- Oh.
- She wouldn't do it.

She said, "No,
I have my own doctor."

So, in the midst of all this.
We're talking here, right?
We're speaking.

And she comes out of nowhere
and is like,

"Why don't you
just ask me to
marry you already?"

-"Let's get married."
- She wants to get married?

Oh, my gosh.

You have all this suspicious

about the person
you are dating,
you don't trust,

and you are having sex?
Unprotected sex?

It was the last night
I was there.

We could not get along.

I did not expect her
to come near.

I didn't expect
that to happen.

She showed up
on her own.

So, Riley, why did you
keep the fact

that you and Violet had sex
a secret?

- 'Cause she asked me to.
- Okay.

She said, "Please don't tell
anybody that this happened."

Anyone going away,

who'd been talking
to someone for two years,

- please bring protection.
- Yeah.

Sorry.

What I'm saying is that

there's science,

and then there's miracles.

I'm sorry
that you're so upset, Violet.

But can you tell us
what happened?

So she took
the pregnancy test
in front of you?

You did not trust that, right?

I'm saying that even if--

I mean, I'm not a woman

but I'm a reasonable
human being.

Even if you take
a home pregnancy test,

don't you go
to the doctor to confirm?

That's not true.

I called
the International hospital,

I spoke
to the pre-natal doctor,

I put a card
on file with them.

But she said
she had her own doctor.

Why did you want her
to go to a different doctor?

Because he didn't
speak English.

I needed
the International hospital.
The doctors speak English.

The timeline, the dates
are not making sense.

So you
didn't believe the timeline?

I didn't believe the timeline.

And, uh, that it was with me.

What do you think
her ultimate goal
would have been

to lie about you
being the father?

I think-- I fell--
And it's just my opinion

that she didn't like me

so easily
to walk away from 'em.

When she was, like--
She wanted me to chase her
and fight for her.

That is the toxic part
of our whole relationship

that I'm to a point now
where I believe

that she would lie
to get me to commit.

And not only is
the dates are not making sense

but I know, medically,
where I am at.

This is not
something I made up.

Oh, my God.

Just cut it out.

Own your [bleep]!

Do you think she will be
capable of lying to you

about a child

- just to manipulate you?
- Yes.

Violet,
can you tell me

if you are pregnant
with Riley's child?

Hmm.

Next time
on the Before
the 90 Days Tell All...

I'm literally
just acting the way I am.

I like to entertain people.

But sometimes
they are not entertained.

Your best friend
is probably the mirror.

Seriously?

She was being
constantly mean
to Razvan.

Listen, that's not
me being mean.

That's me
processing my emotions.

Are you sure about that?

Respectfully,
you don't know me.

So shut the [bleep] up.

David had
a translator named Amy.

David, have you been
in contact with Amy

since you all
left the Philippines?

No.

Uh-oh.

Would you like this
to end in you and Violet
getting back together?

Well, Violet is
coming to the US.

Oh, really?

Okay.

Okay. Surprise!

Tyray, I know that you've
never had a chance

to speak to Christian directly.

But since filming,
we've been able to dig up
a new phone number for him.

I'm okay calling him.

Wow.

Here we go.

Hello.

Christian referred to himself

- as a wolf on the prowl.
- Oh, boy.

I didn't feel like
I was doing anything wrong.

The woman at the bar
is here today.

Oh, my God, Christian.

Hello, Cleo.