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[man] Previously on
Before the 90 Days...

[grunts]

I'm so excited that I'm
finally leaving to meet

my incredibly gorgeous
girlfriend in person.

Okay.

But we haven't communicated
a lot recently and it's making
me feel weird.

And when I start getting
anxious, it's like lightning
coming out of my butt.

Oh, man, that's not good.

My insecurities are starting
to creep back in.

Maybe she's having
second thoughts.

I have to put myself out
there and hope for the best.

My heart just dropped.

Meeting your mom
and your family is actually
of utmost importance to me.

I'll be honest with you,
Meisha, I need to talk
to them.

You say... Wait, hold on.
So you haven't told them?

No.

It just makes me feel
like he is actually the one
bothered with my past.

[Cleo speaking]

[Cleo] Christian said that he
is totally fine with dating
a trans woman.

Hi.

But I have noticed
some mixed signals.

All right.
I'm going to bed.

It will be worrying
if this doesn't change
within, you know, a day.

Hi, baby.

It's good to see you.
What's been happening?

Do you know anything
about Jasmine and Dane?

She dated like 2018, 2019,
if I'm not mistaken.

Oh, so right before
she met me kinda?

[Ura] Yes.

[Gino] Jasmine's ex
is in her life,

and she's hiding it
behind my back.

Something's going on here.

So some part of you
still believes that there is
some type of hope?

I was thinking, "What if
Carmella was like in prison
or something?"

And I found some stuff
that he needs to know.

-This is a escort page.
-[gasps]

[Lashanti] This is her, right?

What the [bleep]?

She was so adamant that
I come off the dating app.

She was still on it.

See, that's the game.

I want to believe that I'm
the only man that's
in Violet's life.

But her behavior's
making me really question it.

[Violet speaking]

[Riley] I want to be good
to Violet.

I just don't like
being lied to.

[Statler speaking]

I might kiss the ground.
Not really, it's germy.

But in theory, I would.

I'm hoping she can get
to England as quickly
as possible.

So that we can
finally be together.

I'm so excited to finally
be meeting Dempsey
for the first time in person

after months and months
and months.

But Dempsey's connecting
flight from Thailand
was delayed,

so she missed her flight.

So I'm probably not going
to see her until tomorrow.

I'm here, arrived, greeted
by a friendly cleaning robot.

Big fan of robots,
so that was cool.

Even if it was out of her
control, it still sucks.

It's a huge blow.

Especially because
our communication

has not been well
in the past couple of weeks,

and so my insecurities
are already pretty high.

So you add this on top
of it and suddenly I'm like,
"Did you do this on purpose?

Are you with someone else?
Like what's going on?"

I mean, her not being
here tonight is not
what I was expecting,

or like... wanting.

I feel like the more time
together, the better.

But just gonna try to stay
in good spirits about it,

and, um, I'm hoping
that this works out
with me and Dempsey.

You know, I'm hoping
100% that this is kinda
my endgame.

So, I've put all of my eggs
into this basket.

I don't have a plan B.

Uh, this kinda decides
the rest of my life.

So, if it doesn't go well...

Shrug emoji,
like I don't know.
I don't know.

Our plan was to meet
at the airport,

get a train to Manchester,
stay at a hotel for the night,

and then drive up to her place
in Darlington.

Since Dempsey missed
her flight,

and I already booked a really
nice hotel room in Manchester,

I'm gonna go to the hotel
because I'm gonna use this
time to reset and relax,

and just try to get rid
of my anxieties before
the big meet.

Have you heard of Darlington?

Yeah, kind of farm land
a little bit?

[Statler laughs] Yeah,
it gets pretty cold.

Oh, boy.

-[taxi driver speaking]
-[Statler] Perfect.
Thank you.

Why was she American?
Did I just enter
a friggin' wormhole?

Okay, now I can rest in peace,

but not in a dead way.

Hello, England.

Holy [bleep].

I think this is it.
The Cow Hollow Hotel.
Sweet.

-Here you go,
here is your room.
-Wow.

-These are beautiful walls.
-[staff laughs]

-Yeah, so here's your
room seven.
-Wow.

And if you need anything,
you can give us a call
on the phone there.

-Oh, wow.
-And then I'll give you
your key there.

-Oh, cool. Thank you
so much. That's perfect.
-All right.

-Enjoy your stay.
-Thank you so much.
I will.

Most definitely.

Okay.

Kinda a cozy romantic
place, but the toilet area
is a problem.

Just because like here...
Here.

But this is just England,
they don't have
a lot of space.

So, it's like,
"Hello, I'm taking a [bleep]."

"Hi, I'm waiting to get laid."

"This is not a good situation
because you can actively
hear me releasing gas."

"Yeah, I know, I'm not
turned on any longer."

That what it's going
to be like.

Oh, I better get all
my [bleep] out now.

[sighs heavily]

[Spanish music playing]

[Jasmine speaking]

[Gino] Oh, wow.

Today, Jasmine and I are going
to the Panama Canal.

I've been dying to see it
ever since I've come
to Panama.

Because I'm an engineer

and the canal is one
of the greatest feats
ever for engineering.

-Oh, are we here?
-[Jasmine] Ay, baby, yes.

-That is huge ship.
-Look at it.

[Gino] It's such a cool place
and so much history here.

I'm really interested
to see how it operates

and like how the ship
gets through the canal.

It should be pretty cool.

[Jasmine] Wow.

Look at that one.
Oh, my gosh.

-[Gino] Wow.
-[Jasmine] Ay, baby.

[Gino] That's pretty awesome.

[Jasmine]
This is Miraflores Locks.

You know that the locks
what they do

is they even the level
of the water

so huge ships
can pass through.

-[Gino] That's good.
-[Jasmine] Right?

How do you feel
as an engineer, baby,
to see this?

Yeah, it's very awesome,
you know, very awesome.

Aren't you proud that it was
your government,

your country the one
who built this?

Like, your country
and my country

has always have
like a love history.

Baby, I'm talking.

Sorry.

-That--
-I hear something.
Okay.

I'm just... This canal
is so interesting. Sorry.

[Jasmine] Hey, look at me.

You're good?

Yeah.

[Jasmine] Ever since
last night, Gino's
acting very weird,

and I don't understand why.

I'm a little bit concerned
because we are running
out of time

to figure it out,
and work as a couple

before I move to America.

So, baby, it's just we need
to work on communication.

I'm trying to communicate
to you right now.

-All right.
-[Jasmine] Okay.

Okay.

[Jasmine] You always
get defensive.

[Gino] I'm good.
Just let me be.

Well, listen, babe.
With my ex-husband, I was with
him for nearly eight years.

One of our biggest struggles
was communication.

-That--
-Well, I was with my ex-wife
and we never had any issues.

-Uh--
-But you ended up
getting divorced.

Yeah, but we were
together for seven years.

-And we got along. We didn't
argue and we got along.
-But how long--

Uh, because you
were a boring relationship.

No, it wasn't boring.

Why you bring up your ex?

Well, why did you
bring up your ex?

Because I needed
to give an example.

Oh, okay, but you think
it's okay you can bring up
your ex and I can't?

Because you know that
I get mad when you
bring up your ex.

[Gino] It doesn't matter.

If you can do,
I'm gonna do it.

Then you'll know
what it feels like.

Anyway, let me
enjoy this scenery.

I want to have a good
time with Jasmine today

because we've had
some rough seas

since I've been here and God
knows we really need it.

But to be honest, in the back
of my mind, I'm still thinking
about Dane.

This is how you pay me back
for bringing you here
to see the Panama Canal?

Dane is just a guy
that Jasmine said
she's friends with.

But last night,
Jasmine's friend Ura

told me that Dane
is more than just a friend,

but her ex-boyfriend.

I'm worried that something
might be going
on between them.

Shoot.

My hands are so watery.

I can help you.

-Let me help you.
-[Gino] No, no, no.

I got it.

Baby, what's going on?
You're being very weird.

I'm going to have
to be honest with you, um...

I've been a little concerned.

I know you told me
you're talking with Dane
and he's just a friend,

-but you lied to me.
-What?

-Yesterday when
we were dancing and stuff...
-[Jasmine] Mmm-hmm.

...your friend Ura was saying
that Dane was your ex.

Um, which I didn't even know.

So can you tell me
what's going on?

[Jasmine] There is nothing
going on.

[Gino] I don't know
about that.

Are you?

Yes, it is crazy.

I mean, like... [laughs]

-I don't think it's funny.
-I'm sorry, I'm not
making fun of you.

-You know, like I laugh
when I'm nervous.
-Why are you nervous?

You cheating on me?

Just by like looking
around here though,

like I don't think
that I'm dressed...

Oh, my gosh,
they're wearing dresses.

[Nicola] It's a wedding,
Meisha.

[Meisha] It's a dress,
I'm fitting in.

-I'm... I gotta change.
I'll jump in your back seat.
-[Nicola] Where are you...

-I'll go in the back seat.
I'll go in the back seat.
-[Nicola] Okay.

I'll go in the back seat.

[Nicola speaking]

-Guard, Nico, guard.
-There's people
coming, Meisha.

I don't want nobody
to see you.

I still feel in my heart
that this bond
with Carmella is real.

I think I've come too far
to just stop.

[Louis] So I did reverses
on the photos
on the escort site,

and we got a hit.

[quietly]

There's my baby, Meisha!

[Meisha] That's supposed
to be me, but whatever.

[Nicola speaking]

-[speaking French]
-[laughs] Thank you.

I've been in Israel a couple
days now with Nicola,

and so far the trip
has now been
a sort of mixed bag.

[Nicola speaking]

-[Meisha] Yes.
-[Nicola speaking]

One the one hand,
I'm loving being
in the Holy Land

and going to all
these places with Nicola.

On the other end,
I'm still struggling with

a lot of things
that I'm seeing,

and expressing
that are concerns to me

and they are not being
heard or dealt with at all.

I would like to meet
his family.

I mean, it's been seven years
and they don't know anything
about me.

We're thinking about
spending our lives together

so that's not
an outrageous request.

I think that it's a very
normal and it's a very
healthy request.

And if he comes through
with that, if that happens,

then I could potentially
start to feel
a little bit better.

[Meisha speaking]

-[Nicola] Yes.
-[Meisha speaking]

Okay.

Just by like looking around
here though, I don't think
that I'm dressed...

Oh, my gosh!
They're wearing dresses!

I am not going to wear
what I am wearing
and everyone else

-is in dresses.
Look at this.
-[Nicola] It's a wedding.

That's a wedding dress?
No, that's a dress.

Okay, maybe
it's a wedding dress,
I'm fitting in.

I gotta change.
I gotta change, Nico.

-I gotta change.
-[Nico] Okay, but you're going
to do it very fast.

-I'll jump in our backseat.
-What are you doing...

-I'll go in the backseat.
I'll go in the backseat.
-Okay.

-I'll go in the backseat.
-[door closing]

[Nicola speaking]

-[Meisha] Guard, Nico, guard.
-There's people
coming, Meisha.

-I don't want nobody
to see you.
-[Meisha] Okay.

I don't understand why
she start to feel
obsessed about her clothes.

Will you zip that
up back there?

[Nicola] I can get
the zipper for you.

[Meisha] With my past
vocation in television,

I am actually very
used to swapping clothes

in every situation,
in the weirdest
accommodations.

You're very fast,
huh, Meisha?

[Meisha] So if I want
to switch into a dress
and I don't have a bathroom,

I just have a car
and a backseat,

it's no big deal to me.

Now let's go and look
at this valley. Come.

Give me your hand.

-[Meisha] Oh, my God.
-[Nicola] Look at this.
La Haifa.

[Meisha] This is absolutely
gorgeous.

[Nicola] Do you want to take
a picture, Meisha?

-Yes.
-[Meisha] Yes, I want to.

-Oh, my gosh.
-One, two.

Could you... Get your...
One, two.

[Nicola chuckles]

So cute, Meisha.

[Nicola speaking]

Aw, so cute.

[coos]

-Aw, did you see that?
-[Nicola chuckles] Yeah.

So, do you think today's
better than yesterday

after all the drama
with my brother
and my mom?

It's better today?

Yeah, well, I mean,
like we haven't really
opened that can of worms

and we haven't really
talked about it.

-[Meisha] Yeah.
-'Cause I get tired.

-[Meisha] So cute.
-[Nicola] I know.

Um, have you texted
your brother yet?

Yeah, yesterday.

-You did?
-[Nicola] Yeah.

-[Meisha] Are you serious?
-[Nicola] Yes, would I lie
to you, Meisha?

-[Meisha] Well, I hope not.
-[Nicola] Look.

It say that I am
presenting you Meisha,

and she want to see you
if you can come to Marahum.

Yeah.

-So, since you came
to Israel...
-Okay.

...the last 48 hours,
you been rushing me
with my family.

I'm taking stuff like
slowly in life.

You want everything
rush, rush, rush, rush, rush!

We've all the life together.

But we don't know if we have
our entire lives together.

We need to figure that out
over the next two weeks

because how could
I think about
the rest of my life

with someone who I feel
like I don't even think
he listens to me?

I don't even think he cares
about how I feel. Do you know
what that would be like?

This is why this two weeks
is so important. We need
to know this stuff

because... if I go home

not engaged to you, Nicola,

then this will be over.

-[sighs]
-So we're not held captive
in this space forever.

We have to have an answer.

[Nicola] Meisha never
talk like that to me
on the phone.

She say that we're meant
to be together,

we will get married
and nothing will separate us.

We will go through
all the obstacles.

And it's
the first time that...

I'm trying to listen to her,

but I'm not going to change.

I'm going to be
the same person.

So that make me worried
about our future because...

'Cause I love her so much.

Well, we'll see what'll
happen, Meisha.

-We will see.
-[Meisha] Yeah.

-We will.
-[sighs]

-[Tyray grunts]
-Hey.

Hey, thanks for picking me up.

You ready to head over there
and talk to this guy?

Yeah, I'm ready.

Just kinda excited
to kinda get...

-to that next step,
you know?
-Yeah.

[Tyray] After seeing
her photos on
the escort sites,

I wasn't getting any closer

to finding out about Carmella
with my own research.

So I reached out
to a private investigator
for help

and I'm really hoping
to get some answers today.

It's the moment of truth.

Yeah, the truth. [chuckles]

My heart's racing
a little bit. I'm nervous.
[chuckles]

[Lashanti] I'm nervous
for you.

I still feel in my heart
that it's bound with Carmella.

It's real.

And that it's Carmella's
boyfriend or husband

trying to break us up.

[Lashanti] Right, thanks.

I'm finally ready
to get to the truth.

Hey.

Hi, there. Good afternoon.

-Tyray.
-My name's Louis.

-Nice to meet you, Louis.
-Pleasure to meet you.

This is my sister Lashanti.

-Lashanti, pleasure
to meet you. Louis.
-Nice to meet you too.

Have a seat.

My name is Louis.
And I've been
a private investigator

for approximately 20 years.

I did receive
a call from Tyray.

We talked a little while
about his situation.

I believe
that he was hoping that...

she was true and blue...

but I did find
some information.

Obviously, I took
the information
that you gave me

and I began...

I got on the computer
and began running...

phone numbers...

and some of the other items
that you gave me.

You're ready?

[chuckles nervously]

Yes, I'm ready.

The phone numbers
were either drop phones...

or, uh, they're set up
for texting,

-so you can't...
you can't trace the phones.
-[Lashanti] Yeah.

Um, the email...
I did track the email.

Uh, and it came back...

Did come back to
a PayPal account

-and that's how
you transferred the money.
-Yeah.

[Louis] Now, unfortunately,

that information
is unavailable.

It's private.
It has to be subpoenaed.

-Okay.
-[Louis] Okay.

So I did reverses
on the photos

on the escort site

and, uh, we got a hit.

[Lashanti] Is it
more escort sites?

Uh, no.

[Louis] This is
a little raunchier.

[Lashanti] Hmm.

She is a cam porn... star.

-[Lashanti] What?
-Wow.

Let me tell you
what I think
we have here, okay?

This is, uh, one
of her main Twitter accounts.

"Sweet Carmella."

- Do you see that?
-[Tyray] Yes, crazy.

And as you scroll down
a little bit,

you'll notice
that she's got some...

contact information there.

-[Lashanti] Mmm-hmm.
-[Louis] Right?

She's got,
uh, PayPal numbers

which didn't match

the PayPal account
that you gave me.

And then, you go to over here
to the "about".

-It said her name
and underneath United States.
-[Tyray] Yeah.

It says, like, she's like
a fetish queen.

[Lashanti] Oh, wow.

[Tyray] Never seen this.

[Tyray] I'm trying
to stay hopeful,

but I'm more confused
than ever.

None of this lines up with,

you know, the Carmella
I fell in love with.

This wasn't her.

Maybe the person
behind the text

and this woman in the photos
are two different people.

Oh, my God.
[breathing heavily]

[Carmella on video] So...

you like beautiful,
black goddesses, do you?

[Louis] Does it sound
the same?

[Tyray] No. She sent videos
but they didn't have sound.

You notice the background?

-[Tyray] Yeah.
-[Louis] In some
of the pictures

you sent me,
that there was
the same background

- of those moons.
-[Tyray] Yeah.

No, I... I...

[sniffles]

That's not the Carmella
I fell in love with.

This relationship
with Carmella
was everything to me.

We were like soulmates
even though
we haven't met in person.

And realizing this image

isn't the face
I've been talking to

is devastating.

I... I'm angry about the fact

that someone, like, got me

with pictures of a porn star.

And then, at the same time,
it's like,

I'm still a little confused.

So, like, since we do have,

a way to actually
communicate with...

the real Carmella,

I do wanna reach out to her.

Maybe they're working together
on their scam.

You never know.

I am suspicious, that,
you know,

that Carmella and Christian

might have some type
of connection.

[Louis] This is
a very common...

They work in gangs
or in groups.

-Yeah, you can only try.
-Yeah, true.

I just wanna contact her
to see if this is true.

Maybe she knows

and maybe that'll be
my first step
into getting answers.

And maybe she
can lead me to him.

Like, I've come too far
to just stop.

And after hearing all this,

I just feel like
it's time for me
to come clean

with the rest of my family.

But, it's so much harder
to tell my mom

because she's been through
so much already.

I feel like I'm at an age

where I shouldn't
be making mistakes like this.

Are you okay?

Uh, today I don't feel good.

I mean...

Oh, my gosh.

[Riley] I arrived in Vietnam
a few days ago.

And even though yesterday
Violet and I had a...

a straight up
blowout argument,

it ended well

because I got
to finally meet her family.

So today we made plans

to meet at
the War Remembrance Museum

in Ho Chi Minh City

and I'm hoping that we can get

everything back on track.

Mmm-hmm.

You just see... You see...

the eagle on the back?

-Mmm-hmm.
-[Riley] It's a army signal
for Screaming Eagles.

-It's the Airborne,
they're paratroopers.
-Ah.

[Riley] The War
Remembrance Museum

is a documentation

of the Vietnam War
with the Americans'

involvement and the atrocities
that took place

and what happened
because of it.

As a soldier, it, you know,
as a person in the military,

I wanna just see the stories.

You feel sad?

-[Violet] Yes.
-[Riley] Yeah, it's, uh...

War is bad, but
it's part of the history.

Are you okay? You wanna...

Uh, today I don't feel good.

Oh, let's, uh...

Let's just sit down
for a while.

We can talk. All right?

You know, last night
we have dinner with family

-but, um...
-Yeah.

Uh, after that when my mom
talk with me, um...

I'm not trying to control.

I'm trying to understand
what's going on.

I mean...

-Let me talk first? Yeah.
-Okay, go ahead.

And, uh, second she say, um...

-I'm not thoughtful?
-Yeah.

-When you come
visit my home, you...
-Yeah.

You don't...

Very bad.

-It was very bad?
-Yeah, very bad.

In Vietnam, very bad.

How am I supposed to...

I don't know
what's your mother like.

I don't know
what's appropriate.

Mmm-hmm.

[Riley] All right.
Fair enough.

And I...
I feel horrible,

but it's not my intention

to disrespect you,
your mother, your home...

your... your country.

I... That's not my intention.

I do need to learn more
about your culture.

My question to you is...

when are you gonna learn
about my culture?

I'll give you an example.

You call me fat and ugly
in front of people.

What?

-You really said that?
-[Violet chuckling]

Yeah. [chuckling]

All right.

In my culture,

in America, that's rude,
that's disrespectful,

especially when
a woman says that

about the man
that she is with.

-Ah, really?
I don't know.
-Yeah.

It... It's...

We... We can be,
like, if we are alone

and we're around family,

we can make
the jokes like that

to each other.

But in front of strangers,

I'm a guest here.

I am... I am...

I seen one other person
of my skin complexion here,

in this whole time
I've been here.

You're not accustomed to us

so when you say it,
it sounds like

it's a... it's an attack.

Because we're not light
or whatever it may be.

I'm already a spectacle.

I'm a Black man
in this country

and they're already
looking at me differently

because I'm 6'4",

I am dark

and when you say,
"Oh, he's ugly,"

you start feeding
the stereotype

that if you're light skin
Black, you're prettier...

versus dark skin Black.

It's very, uh, hurtful
and disrespectful.

People are already
looking at me.

How am I supposed to feel

when you talk
in your language

and then you go,

"I say to her
you are ugly"?

I don't have any context.

I don't know
what you're talking about.

I don't know it's a joke.

It sound like
it's a fact to you.

[speaking other language]

I do accept
your apology. I do.

I don't wanna give up on us.

I think we have the potential,

but I think, fundamentally,

we're not understanding
each other's culture.

-But I think that we...
-So...

We have opportunity to...

to make this something good.

-Yeah.
-Okay.

By... by paying attention,

by spending time
asking questions.

I'm willing to...
I'm willing to try...

because I care about you.

I care about you too.

So maybe we go
to dinner together?

-Is that possible?
-Yeah.

Yes.

I would really like
you would wear a sexy dress.

-Oh. All right.
-[laughing]

[Riley] So far this trip
hasn't been so easy.

But it really feels
that Violet and I

are starting
to communicate more

and things are starting
to open up for us.

I wanna believe
that this is us

starting to get
back on track,

but in reality we have
a lot of issues

that we need to address.

I'm willing
to put in the work

because I believe in us.

I just hope she does too.

Hey!

Taxi!

[groans]

I've been waiting months
to meet Dempsey

and now that
the moment's here,

I don't know if I've
contracted a bug or something

but I am not feeling well.

My stomach is in knots.

I am freaked out.

I am really not feeling well.

Um...

I have been sick
basically all night.

Uh...

It's... I've been having...

stomach issues...

like, intense nausea

and, um...

I haven't been vomiting.

I've had, like,
lots of diarrhea.

[groans]

This is not
the right day for this

because I'm seeing
Dempsey today.

We're already a day behind.

I was supposed
to see her yesterday.

And now I...
I'm supposed to see her today

and I'm like,
what's gonna happen?

Oh, my God!

This sucks.

There's no way
I can meet Dempsey like this.

Like, I think I'd have to wear
a diaper, legitimately.

[groans]

Oh, I'm super bummed.

It sucks. [sniffles]

I'm exhausted.

My body is just worn out

and I don't know
if I've contracted

a bug or something,

but I am not feeling well.

Let's give her a spray.

[grunts] Anything
to smell good.

I'm really hoping
I'm not contagious

because I don't wanna miss
any more days

of not seeing Dempsey.

I get stomach problems
all the time,

but this one
definitely feels different,

so it's time to go
to the doctor.

Hi.

The doctor's appointment
went really well.

I have a... a parasite.

And it kicked in
pretty quickly

so I'm not feeling nauseous
at the moment

and I'm not contagious.

Yeah.

I feel like just knowing
what's wrong with me

makes me feel a little...

bit more pep
in my step, so...

I think I wanna walk
a little bit

and see if we can meet
halfway maybe.

She said,

"Just walking around.

Whereabouts do you
want to meet?"

It's starting to hit me

that I'm going to be...

in person, face to face,

with Dempsey very soon.

I just dropped
a pin for Dempsey

so I think we're meeting
somewhere up here.

Ugh.

I just need like a...
a second.

I've been waiting months
to meet Dempsey

and now that
the moment's here,

I am freaked out.

I'm not feeling my best.

My stomach is in knots.

I'm not sure if I need
a toilet soon.

I'm not sure if I'm gonna
be able to keep it all in.

My heart is going
a million miles an hour.

It feels like it's gonna
just beat out of my chest.

Things gonna go
either really right
or really wrong.

You're at the top
of this rollercoaster

and you're just waiting
for it to...

[blows]

[groaning]

Once a year, I always
have a cigarette.

[chuckles]

-Are you serious?
-[Meisha] Yeah.

I'm a little bit worried.

-[Cleo] Good morning.
-[Christian] Good morning.

Last night I was really tired.

I just gave her a kiss
and went to bed.

Which I felt
kinda bad about...

but I just, really was, like,
facing the other way

and just went to sleep.

Um, so, yeah.

-I didn't hear you.
-Well, that's good.

You're kind of hugging me

and then you were turning
and then you were
hugging me again.

That's nice. Yeah, thank you.

Cool.

[Cleo] This is
my first morning
waking up with Christian

and I woke up

feeling a little disappointed.

I was hoping
for more physical affection.

For me, cuddles, hugs,
are really important.

I'm affectionate, friendly
and...

clingy. So... [laughs]

What? [chuckles]

[Cleo] It's topical
estrogen gel.

You just put in on your arm.

-[Christian] Really?
-[Cleo] Yeah.

That's so strange, like...

-Okay.
-Whereas topical just like,

go straight
into your bloodstream.

How long does that, like,
does it take to, like,

dry off your skin?

Um, dries off, like, within,
like, two, three minutes.

[laughs]

[laughs]

That was funny.

Sure, yeah. Yeah, we can.

One of the things that,
you know,

really attracted me
to Cleo's personality

was how open she is
about her identity.

But now that
we're here in person,

I feel a little bit
out of my element.

Seeing Cleo put on
her estrogen gel,

you know, I don't know
a whole lot about it.

If I, you know, try to...

touch her, if it rubs off
on me, you know, like...

I'm not sure whether or not

it's something
that I have to be careful of.

It's a little uncomfortable.

Um, this is
a new situation for me

and it's gonna take
some time for me

to get used to.

Cats first.

-Humans second.
-[Cleo] Always.

-Okay. Cool.
-All right, girls.

[Cleo] Maybe we should
plan about what we're gonna
be doing today.

Well, I don't
necessarily plan.

I usually have like,
a rough itinerary.

-Like, just like,
maybe some ideas.
-Oh.

It's like, I wanna
go explore, you know.

First time in London and I
wanna check things out,
and see what's going on.

All right. Okay.

Christian is definitely
a go-with-a-flow
kind of person.

And, in order
to manage that,

I need a degree
of predictability in my life.

-Let's go. Start walking?
-Okay.

But, I worry that if I
voice my concerns,

that that could stand
in the way of him having
a good time in London.

Especially on our first
day out together.

-[Christian]
Let's go this way.
-Yeah.

[Christian] This is, uh,
pretty picturesque, and...

Yeah. I mean,
this is literally it.

Like, it's literally the very
center of London.

-We get the chimes too.
That's awesome. Yeah.
-Yeah.

-Very picturesque.
-Yeah.

So you got the Big Ben there,
the parliament,
London Eye's over there.

[Christian] Yeah. Very cool.

-Shall we keep walking?
-Yeah, yeah.
Let's just keep going.

I was a big
James Bond
fan as a kid.

And like, seeing
the Buckingham Palace
or Big Ben,

just like the geographical
scenes I saw in like,
'60s Bond films,

it felt super surreal.

And, being with Cleo,
it definitely makes my
experience much more romantic.

She's like, my Bond girl.

I thought this place
would be pretty cute

-to have a drink.
-Cool.

Up the gang plank.

Wow.

Oh, my God.
The view is great.

Here you go, babe.

-That's for you.
-Oh, thank you.

[Christian]
Warm me up
a little bit here.

Well, I'd like
to make a toast.

To you and I finally
gettin' together.

-We're on our first date.
-First date.

And honestly, I really like
that it's not that crowded.

We could be a little bit more
personal with each other.

-[Cleo] It's more intimate.
Um, yeah.
-Yeah.

Just enjoy each
other's company,

rather than being
distracted by whatever
else is going around.

Yeah, like having to scream,
and like, making sure you can
hear each other.

-Yeah. What? What?
-Yeah.

You know, especially being jet
lagged and everything,
and just you know...

-I'm sorry that I was like,
so tired last night.
-Yeah. Take it easy.

I just didn't want
you thinking like,

I wasn't attracted
to you, by not, like...

being forward,
or being like touchy.

Nah. Don't worry.
I wouldn't have slept with you
on the first night, anyway.

Okay.

That's good to know.
You're a classy broad.

-So... [chuckles] Yeah.
-Yeah.

Actually, yeah. Really nice.

That's not like,
bitter or anything.

Yeah. You know.
You don't wince at it.
I like that, you know.

I mean, I could drink
this like it's water.

-I could like, gurgle
it in my mouth.
-Yeah?

I just... Yeah, I drink
a lot of Jameson,
I like it.

You know, maybe,
I don't know.

Yeah. About two or three
drinks of that,

and then I'll probably
do some karaoke.

Probably go dancing.

That's something
I like to do a lot.
I like to go dancing.

And are you somebody
who likes to go out
and dance?

Um...

I can't say I'm somebody
that does that, to be honest.

I want to kind of, see you
when you're getting a buzz.

To see you get
like a little... little goofy
on me a little bit.

-Okay.
-Okay.

What do you say about
us getting out of here,

and go on to something
that's a little more lively?

I guess we could go
somewhere livelier.

Since I've been in London,
Cleo's been pretty shy.

I want to find a place where

she can let loose
a little bit,
come out of her shell.

I'm really hoping that if
we break the ice,

and Cleo is able to, you know,
liven up a little bit,

it'll definitely make
me feel more confident
in our relationship.

Watch your step.

[Meisha speaking]

-[Nicola speaking]
-[Meisha speaking]

[Nicola speaking]

I mean...

Because I don't like...

Yeah.

[Meisha] I'm actually really
excited to get Nicola in...

a totally
different atmosphere.

Let's go out.
Let's have some fun.

Let's grab a beer.

Not talk about
anything too serious.

Just have fun.

[Nicola] If you came
to this area 20 years ago,

nothing was here.

Now it's all night
club and bars.

-Oh, night club...
-Restaurant...

Many people you can see.

Yeah.

Well, I think this area...

is really cute.

-In Hebrew, l'chaim.
-L'chaim.

In Arabic.

[both speaking
foreign language]

Cheers.

So, when was the last time
you were at a bar?

[Meisha] What?

-Yeah.
-Not one?

-Not if it's like a sports
game, nothing?
-No.

Yeah, yeah.

[Meisha] So, now...

Once a year,
I always have a cigarette,

-on New year's eve.
-Oh.

-Yeah?
-Yeah.

-Are you serious?
-Yeah.

It's one a year.

I don't like it, Meisha.

It's not right.

[Meisha] Like my whole life,
pre-conversion.

But this was...

fun.

Like, this is what all me,

everyone in my family,
all my friends,

like if they came to Israel,

they would absolutely wanna,
you know, come do this stuff.

[Nicola] For me, Meisha,

is someone is very
devout Catholic...

-[Meisha] To be?
-To be in nightclub.

I like you. I am also
a devout Catholic.

But I can also go
and not feel

ashamed or like,
guilt-ridden.

Because I love to dance.

That, in and of itself
is not a sin.

[Nicola] But, when people
go to the nightclub,
what they're doing, Meisha?

Woman and man.

-Right.
-What they doing?

-It's simple life.
-It opens the door
to temptation.

But, I mean...

If you go to a,
like, a dance club,

and you're just dancing,

is that a sin?

You know, it's very
complicated question.

I mean...

I can be there,
but I don't do
the same, right?

-I can be there.
-Right.

I will not participate
with them.

-Well, correct. Yeah.
-I prefer not to go there.

My daughters
are at that age,

where you know,
they're going into college.

Like, would there
be judgement on them

if they had boyfriends
and they were
going out clubbing?

And... like, would you,

like, judge them,
like, say things?

Because if I fight with them,

that's going
to destroy our relationship.

So, after the day that we...

-I know. I agree. I agree.
-All this conversation
between us.

-Let's just enjoy the night.
-Yes.

[Meisha] So, I think
this is what we should do.

Why don't
we just go in there,

and we'll just kind of see
what it's like in there.

Should we?
And just see like the...

If you want, Meisha,
I'm not going
to fight with you.

-But just to see.
-Yeah.

-Five minutes.
-Okay.

-And we go.
-Then we'll leave.

-Ten minutes, maximum.
-I'm not gonna make--

You don't have to stay
anywhere that you
don't wanna stay.

Okay.

[Meisha speaking]

Whoo.

[Nicola speaking]

-[Meisha] Like, I'm shocked.
-Why?

[Meisha] Uh-oh.
I don't know.

Maybe just five minutes ago,

-Yeah.
-...someone wouldn't even act
like, he had a groovy bone.

[laughs]

Seeing Nicola in this element

does give me great hope.

And it leads me
to believe that

he cares enough to do
things that'll make me happy.

There's still a lot
that I need to figure out

to see if Nicola is someone

that I can spend forever with.

But it is a huge relief

seeing Nicola come out
of his shell a little bit
tonight and compromise.

So like, four years ago,
I met this girl online.

She lives all
the way in Barbados.

Producers told me
I'm being catfished by a man.

What?

[Tyray]
I still believe

that the person behind all
the messages is a woman.

I'm thinking like,
going back to Barbados.

For what?

[Statler]
I'm working myself up.

I'm shaking in my boots.

It feels like a first look

at potentially my wife.

[Shaprea] What you doing?

Uh, just getting
some of Mom's pills
ready for the week.

These are ones
she takes once a day.

Twice a day,
and then once a day.

After visiting
the private investigator,

um, I did come
to the realization

that, you know,
I was catfished.

And I messaged
the real Carmella,

to see if she could chat.

But she still hasn't
gotten back to me.

You know, I have
to be honest with myself.

I'm not getting anywhere.

It just really sucks.

-I'm gonna get a beer.
You want one?
-Yes, please.

[Tyray] Here you go.

-Thank you.
-You're welcome.

-Cheers.
-[Shaprea speaking]

I don't know. [laughs]

I told my sister Lashanti
and my brother Ronald about,

um, Carmella.

But after everything I've gone
through in the past few weeks,

I don't wanna have any
more secrets in my life.

Especially not with my family.

So I have to come clean
with my mom and
my sister, Shaprea.

And I need to be able
to open up with them.

So what's going on?

It's a long story, but...

I kind of wanna tell
you and Mom together.

Just kind of,
get it out there.

Okay.

I can't like, keep hiding it.

You gonna get her?

-Yeah, I'll get her.
-All right.

I'm worried about giving
my mom this information,

because I know that she
is going through
so much herself.

You know, she's trying to get
herself back on her feet.

And I don't want her
to have that burden of me,
and my dumb decision.

What you need to tell us?

-Uh, I mean,
it's a long story.
-What?

Something with you recently?

-Your health? Are you...
-No, my health is okay.

Like, not bad.

-Okay. Just kind of get to it.
-[Tyray chuckles] All right.

Yeah, so like, four years ago,
I met this girl online.

And, she lives
kind of far away.

Far away like, where?

Like, all the way in Barbados.

But you snuck off
to Barbados last year.

-Last year I went
to Barbados, yeah, but...
-[Shaprea] To see her?

I... That was the plan.

Yeah.

[Shaprea]
Kept telling you not to go.

And I didn't press the issue.

And I was like,
maybe he just
need a break.

'Cause we was dealing
with a lot of stuff anyways,

but never would have crossed
my mind that you was going
out there to go see a girl.

-So what happened
when you got there?
-What happened?

Uh, she never showed up.

-Are you serious?
-So what?

Did you ever talk
to her again?
Like, what happened?

I did. I started
talking to her again,

like, a month afterwards.
'Cause I was kind of like...

Why'd you...
Why'd you do that?

[Shaprea] Tyray.

-I cannot believe
you did that.
-Me neither.

-'Cause what the heck?
-I am so shocked.

That's not even half of it.

Production had
a voice message

from this person.

Saying that the girl

in the pictures isn't the girl
who I was talking to.

Producers told me
I'm being catfished
by a man.

What?

I don't believe this.

[Shaprea] Tyray, how did you
get mixed up in this?

I can't believe it.

I'm... I'm confused.

So is it a girl
or is it a boy?

That's what I'm
trying to figure out.

Like we went to a private
investigator yesterday.

-[Whitney] Y'all did?
-[Shaprea] You did?

Me and Lashanti did.

[Shaprea] And what they say?

Basically he showed me
that she was
a pornography model.

-Oh.
-Oh, my God.

[Tyray] And that she was
also a cam girl in America.

And then he said he
doesn't really know where

-the person on Snapchat was.
-Where they came from.

-Wow. That's literally insane.
-I cannot believe it.

-I'm in shock.
-I cannot believe it.

You okay?

Yeah, I'm okay. But, it's
just kind of, like...

I just... I'm just trying
to get closure at this point.

I'm thinking like, going
back to Barbados.

For what?

[exhales]

To like, maybe see if I
can find this person, like...

So you wanna find the person
behind the messages?

-And see why they did this?
-Yeah.

-Why is it so important?
-Why is it so important?

I did have strong feelings
for this person, like...

We were like... We had a lot
of like, goals and aspirations
that I was saying like,

starting a business, and...

Like she gave me, like,
something I never really had.

She...

like, told me that she
loved me and stuff. So...

I still believe that
the person behind all
the messages is a woman.

So, I feel like I need
to talk to this person

one more time.

Because I just wanna know
if my instincts are right.

That this person loved me
the way I loved them.

If anything else is fake,

at least that love was real.

And I feel like, that would
be the closure
I need, and that's it.

[Whitney] Oh, Tyray.

And now to see him
so down, you know.

I feel like, he's
just heart broken.

And I hope he can heal.

I hope he can get over this.

If you even got
the chance to even see
this person in real life,

what would you even say?

[Tyray] I don't know yet.

There's so many questions
that I have that I wanna ask,

but he's not trying
to answer them.

But he just won't
give a straight answer.

I definitely think he's
holding on to
some type of hope

that maybe it could
work out for real.

[Statler] I just dropped
a pin for Dempsey.

So, I think we're meeting
somewhere up here.

[groans]

I'm working myself up.

I'm shaking in my boots.

This is too [bleep]
much, man.

It feels like a first look,

at potentially my wife.

It's exciting,
but it's also terrifying.

-Hi. [laughs]
-[Dempsey] Hi.

-Hi.
-Hi.

I can't believe
you're actually here.

[Statler] I can't believe
you're a real person.

-A real human being.
-Yeah. I am.

[Statler] And you look lovely.

-You look nice.
-Quite beautiful, yeah.

Your eyes are scary,
mesmerizing...

and stuff.

-[chuckles softly]
-Uh...

So you have bags?

-Can I hold something?
-You can hold that.

-All right. I'll hold this.
-Thank you.

Wow. This is light.

-This is all you took...
-You want to hold
the heavy one?

-No, I took this.
-...with you to Thailand?

-Oh, you got a big one.
Okay. That's cool.
-Yeah. It's heavy.

Yeah. No, that's good.

[chuckles softly]

I'm Dempsey. I'm 28.

I live on a farm
in Darlington.

And, after seven months
of online dating,

to traveling,
being in Thailand,

missing my flight,
Statler being ill,

I'm just really excited
to finally meet Statler.

But then I'm also
really anxious.
It's a whole mix of emotions.

-I just think we're
both awkward people.
-Yeah. Me too.

-Yeah.
-Yeah.

I instantly felt
a connection from
the first, like, phone call.

She makes me feel
so special.

And, I've never felt
this much with
somebody before.

Are your cheeks red,

or did you get
a little sunburn?

-I'm blushing.
I'm blushing. Yeah.
-You're blushing. Okay.

You do this to me a lot.

-What do I do?
-You make me blush.

It's crazy.

Don't usually have
that effect on people.

Usually it's horror.

So...

-Yes, it's a very
monotone voice.
-Yeah.

-Thank you for noticing.
-[laughs]

I was nervous. I didn't know
if you were gonna like me.

If I was gonna like you.

-Yeah.
-But, I still do.

-You still like me?
-Yeah.

That's fantastic.
That's really
good news for me.

-I really care for you a lot.
-Yeah?

I really like you.

I think you're
better than expected.

Oh. [giggles]

-I feel amazing.
-Yeah, I feel good.

[Statler] She just
radiates awkwardness.

It's just really
attractive to me.

I feel at home.

You feel at home?

-'Cause I am
extremely awkward.
-Oh, yeah.

I just instantly
had butterflies in heart,
under my stomach.

-Thank you for that.
-[giggles]

So I got you some gifts.

-Oh.
-[Dempsey speaking]

That's amazing.
Oh, thank you.

-You've got some vitamins.
-[laughing] Yay!

Uh, oh. Wow.
Then we have...

"Love, Raw?"

-Is that a sexual thing?
-[clears throat]

Uh, sure. It could be.

[both laugh]

Could be, yeah.

It's good.

-Uh, vegan peanut
butter cups.
-Yay.

This is very romantic.

And I appreciate this gesture.

Yeah, do you?
I also have gifts for you.

-It's in the suitcase
at the hotel.
-Okay.

Can I...
Can I check out your butt?

I haven't looked at it yet.

[Dempsey laughing]

No?

Wow.

[both laugh]

That's even better
in person.
Jesus Christ.

Wow.

-So, do you wanna
go exchange gifts or...
-Yeah.

Cool. All right.
Let's do that then.

Yeah. Are we staying
in the same hotel?

-Yeah. You can come
to my hotel room.
-Yeah?

You wanna like,
sleep in my bed?

[snorts]

[giggles]

Excuse me, are you guys,
like, celebrating something?

Your birthday?

I'm from Minneapolis,
Minnesota, so, Midwest,
I'm very Midwestern boy.

It's not about me being shy,
I'm autistic.

Christian leads his life
spur of the moment

and that's not
what I'm about.

Thank you.

[Christian] Are you excited?

[Cleo] I'm excited
to spend time with you.

[Christian speaking]

[Cleo speaking]

[Christian] Yeah.

And, honestly, looks like
a physical representation
of my mind.

-All right.
-You know, what I'm saying?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, [stutters]
we'll get a drink in you

and, then, I'm sure
it'll, it'll open up.

I'm trying to make sure
that Christian
has a good time here

and I know that he's trying
to loosen me up a little.

We wanna do two
of the Sour
Prince Charles Face.

-Yes?
-Yeah, thank you, brother,
appreciate it.

[Cleo] But I don't feel
like this place
is, necessarily,

vey, you know,
autism-friendly.

[crowd chattering]

[Cleo] There is a lot
going on,
there's lights everywhere.

Trinkets.

There is a lot of noise
and I'm feeling
a little claustrophobic.

-[waiter] Here
are your specials.
-[Christian] Oh!

Look at this. Wow.
Set it down, brother.

[Cleo] Thank you.

[Christian] All right.

I'm gonna, kinda, like,
go to town on it just
for a minute just to, like...

-Yeah.
-Yeah?

[crowd chattering
in the background]

I mean, I don't really taste,
like, the booze as much.

But that's good
and that's also
dangerous, though.

It is.

Honestly, I might drink,
like, I feel like if I had
two of these,

I'd be really screwed up,
like, when I, okay, so...

-I got a really
crazy story for ya.
-Go on.

Okay, so, like, I definitely
had a couple drinks
on the plane ride to London.

I was, like, walking
through the aisle

and, you know,
everyone's kinda sleeping

but there is this seat
with this gal
that was sitting there,

this blonde girl, right?

And she was looking
at me like...

"What are...
What are you doing?"

And then, I was, like,
"Oh, look, I'm sorry,

it's dark in here
and I can't see.

I'm, like, stumbling around,
I'm kinda,
like, drunk right now."

And, then, like, she started,
like, talking to me,

so, I sat down
and was having conversation
with her and her friend.

And these girls are, like,
young, they were, like,
21 years old.

And we were
talking for a while
and I, I had a buzz going

and they didn't seem like,
you know, they had any drinks
in front of them

and it was late, I figured,
"Hey, how about a nightcap?"
You know what I'm saying?

When I went to the back
of the plane and I said,
"Hey, can I get three drinks?"

and then the flight
attendant goes,

"No, I heard about you."

Then she goes,
"I'm not handing you a drink."

I guess they, maybe, like,
complained or something?

Yeah, but, like, you know,
I was just being social,

they were the only people
that were, like,
awake on the plane.

Oh, my, I would, I would,
totally freak out
if somebody did that to me.

Okay, being, like,
a 30-year-old man,

I can probably look like
a creep in that situation,

-but I wasn't hitting on them,
you know what I'm saying?
-All right.

Like, does it, does it
bother you

that I was making friends
with, like, women
on the plane?

I guess, if I was on the plane
and we were,
like, traveling together

and you just sat down,
to, like, random girls...

Well, I would never do that
if you were with me,
you know what I'm saying,

-if we were traveling--
-But you would do it
behind my back?

No, no, I wouldn't,
absolutely not, no.

But like, you did.

Well, no, because you
were not on the plane,

I was all... I was all alone,
you know what I'm saying?

Exactly.

I think Cleo's getting
hung up on the fact

that I was chatting
to younger women.

But that's never been an issue
for me in past relationships.

I think my girlfriends
have understood that I'm just,
like, a friendly guy.

I hope that, you know,
she can kinda see

that me being social
or talking with women
is not a big deal.

I make friends anywhere I go,
I'm just kinda like magnetic
in that way.

I mean, I'll talk to anybody,
you know what I'm saying?

[Cleo] I know that Christian
is extremely sociable,

but knowing that he was
being flirty
with these two girls

that was definitely different
from what, the way
I approach my flights.

I definitely wouldn't get
drunk on a plane,

and I certainly wouldn't
be chatting up to strangers
on a plane either.

And there's definitely
a part of me that perhaps
is worried about,

you know, whether we are,
you know, 100% compatible.

[crowd chattering]

Hey, excuse me, excuse me,

are you guys,
like, celebrating
something tonight?

Your birthday?

Twenty-six? Awesome.

-Oh, yeah.
-Yeah.

I'm from Minneapolis,
Minnesota, so, Midwest,
I'm very Midwestern boy.

When it comes to, like,
meeting American people,

you guys have this, kind of,
stereotype of like, uh,
cowboy hat and cowboy boots,

-like, Southern...
-[women laughing]

You don't sound
like that at all!

[Christian] This is...
this is Cleo,
this is my girlfriend Cleo.

[all greeting]

Yes, I'm actually here
to meet her
for the first time.

-Uh, yeah,
this is the first time...
-First time?

-Yeah.
-In person.

In person.

Do you wanna come closer?

I just can't,
it's too many people.

[Cleo speaking]

You know, especially,
if I'm sensorially overwhelmed
or emotionally overwhelmed.

It cause a completely
shut down and just be like,
"I need space now."

It's not about me being shy.

I'm autistic and I wish
he was a bit more considerate.

Is there any, like,
particular scotches
that you could recommend?

-He's got no idea, go on.
-[women laughing]

[Christian] Okay.

-I feel like it's
too many people...
-Sure.

...for me to interact
at the same time.

[Christian] I got you,
I totally got you.

Well, all right, my friends,
happy birthday.

Thank you.

-Have a good night, ladies.
-Cheers, bye.

[all greeting indistinctly]

[Cleo] I am exhausted.

There is a time and place
for everything

and, right now,
it's about making each other
feel special,

not inviting other people
into the conversation.

Okay, I'm just gonna
finish this up.

If today's date
was an example

of how every single date
between Christian and I
is to go,

I don't necessarily think

that this is the type
of relationship
I would want to be in.

You got everything?

-Hmm.
-Okay.

When I wanna have sex
with you, you're never
in the mood.

Unbelievable.

You reject me
all the [bleep] time.

[Gino] So, can you
tell me what's going on?

Jasmine and I
have been together
for about two years now.

And I fully
trusted Jasmine.

I've never had any reason
not to trust Jasmine.

Now, I'm finding out
that she's still friends
with her ex-boyfriend

and didn't tell me about it.

That's [bleep] up.

Like, what's going on
behind my back?

I have to know now.

Because when she comes
to Michigan, it's too late.

I don't wanna find out
after we're married,
I have to find out now.

You have anything going on
with him right now?

No!

Baby,

I've been faithful.

I'm not cheating on you.

He's just my friend.

[Gino] You always told me
that I can't be friends
with my ex.

You fly off the rocker
when you... Even at the sound
or mention of my ex's names.

Dane never shared
nude pictures of me
with anyone like your ex,

so, don't compare Dane.

He's a gentleman,
he's respectful,

he's very aware
that we're engaged.

We're not interested
on having anything,
you, you understand that?

Yes, I lied to Gino.

And he still doesn't know
that Dane lives in the same
apartment building.

But lying to him...

So, I do believe
that it is time
for telling him the truth.

Okay, so, how often
you guys talk?

At least once a week.

[inhales]

Are you serious?

Are you meeting up with him
and stuff in person?

We, we meet sometimes to...

to shop, to talk.

-Just to do friend stuff,
that, that's it.
-"Friend stuff"?

-So, were you alone
with him recently?
-I--

-Like, yes, we have been--
-What do you mean, "Yes"?

Because he's living
in the same building as I am

and I just had coffee with him
a few days before you come.

-I--
-What?

You gotta be kidding me.

Out of all the buildings
in freaking Panama,

you gotta pick the one
that your ex is in.

Yeah, he's my friend.

Are you freaking
kidding me?

I feel angry and betrayed

because I would have never
paid for this apartment
for Jasmine to stay in

if I knew that her ex
is living
in the same building.

And the fact that Jasmine
is pretending
like this is no big deal,

it makes her look
very suspicious.

So, you're not romantic
with him or intimate with him
in any way?

-No, we're not attracted
physically to each other.
-So, have...

Have you had sex with him
since you broke up?

We became, like,
friends with benefits.

Just because sex was good.

But since I met you,
that stopped.

He's just my friend
and that's it.

Have you thought
about having sex with him
since, since then?

I'll be honest
with you, like...

It's not that I'm in love
with him, it's not
that I'm attracted to him,

but...

since, when I wanna
have sex with you,
you're never in the mood,

-you don't want me.
-Yeah, okay.

-You don't wanna kiss me...
-That's 'cause you argue...

-...and you have never--
-...with me
all the [bleep] time.

I feel [bleep] really, like,
you reject me
all the [bleep] time.

So, do I think about
having sex with him,

like, just think about it.

It's not that I fantasize
about, of me doing it,

but, I...

remember how it was like...

having sex with him.

-I'm not--
-That [bleep] very, very low.

Do you think it's okay
that you fantasize

-about having sex with him?
-All right, listen,

if our sexual life were better
then I would fantasize
about us.

Unbelievable.

By Jasmine's definition,
she absolutely cheated.

'Cause cheating to her
is even speaking to someone.

If I spoke to my ex,
she would blow
a fit, a gasket.

And here she is,
talking to her ex,

fantasizing about him,

physically seeing him,
moved into
the same building he's in.

I'm losing my trust.

And how are we supposed
to get married without trust?

This is bad, it's very bad.

[Riley] I have a friend

and she wanted to meet you.

I'm hoping that Tiffanie
can get Violet to open up
a little bit more.

[Tiffanie on video call]

She's asking you a question.
Why are you looking at me?

[speaking other language]

[chuckles]

-[Violet in English] Hi.
-[Riley] How are you?

-[Violet] I'm good.
-[Riley] You look beautiful.

Lovely, [excitedly]
oh, lovely.

-[Riley] Yeah.
-[Violet] Oh.

It's beautiful sexy.

Thank you.

I hope I'm dressed
appropriately for you.

-I'm great?
-[laughing] Yeah.

Uh-oh.

You see Violet's face,
she's impressed.

This is right here
is why I came here,
for this moment right here.

[sighs]

We have an undeniable
connection and I love
seeing this side of her.

She has this tough exterior,

but she also has
a, a sweet side
that keeps bringing me back.

Yes.

What do you wanna know?

Okay.

[Riley] Mmm-hmm.

[Riley] Mmm-hmm.

...we don't get married.

-I understand that.
-Yes.

[Riley] Mmm-hmm.

So... Oh!

Oh, thank you.
Lord, what good timing.

[Violet laughs]
Wow, look yummy.

Whoa, what's this?

Uh...

-[Riley] It's fish.
-[Violet speaking]

-[Violet] I think it's fish.
-[Riley] Okay.

So, um...

In America,
it's very important

for family and friends
to get along
with the person's spouse.

But, if we're married,

you're my wife.

It doesn't matter
what my sister

or any other person
is saying.

Because I married you,
not them.

Mmm-hmm.

And I know
you were trying to build
a relationship with him.

But when we argue...

Mmm-hmm.

...you contact my father
and you said really bad things
about me.

-Tonight, we don't
talk about bad--
-I know,

no, no, no, listen...

[Riley] Wait, wait, wait,
wait, wait, wait, wait...

You're right. It was supposed
to be a nice night. It was
supposed to be a nice night.

I was wrong, I was wrong.
I'm sorry.

-It was an accident.
-[Violet speaking]

Thank you.

[Riley] Few days
before I left to Vietnam,

I found out that after
a couple of falling out
or arguments or whatever,

Violet was texting my father

horrible, horrible
things about me.

"I knew your son
doesn't love me in the time
we are together,

he just loves
him... hisself." Really?

[Riley reading]

Really? This is what
she says to you?

Yes.

As always, she's not willing
to talk about it or she's
avoiding my questions

and it just makes
me feel uncomfortable
and it's a little rude.

I'm glad that you already
get along with my dad, but...

I, I do have a friend,
her name...
She's like my big sister.

She, um,
she wanted to meet you.

-She's like a sis--
-What's name?

Tiffanie.

-Tiffanie?
-Yeah.

-Would you mind
if we called her and she--
-I don't mind,

-never mind.
-She get to meet-- Okay,

all right, all right,
all right.

So, let's...

Let's call her.

[phone ringing]

[Riley] Hey, hey, hey!

[Riley] What's up?

Hi, Tiffanie,
nice to see you.

So, I'm gonna give you to her,
I gotta run
to the bathroom. Okay?

[stutters] I mean, I've to go
and I'm holding it.

So, you talk to Tiffanie
and I'll be back.

I definitely still have
many questions for Violet

and I'm starting to worry
that I won't be able

to ever have
these conversations with her
because she'll shut it down.

But I'm hoping that Tiffanie
can get Violet
to open up a little bit more

if I'm not around.

Maybe she's holding back
because it's me there.

And, hopefully, they'll have
a really candid conversation.

Oh, thank you.

[Tiffanie speaking]

[Violet] Yeah.

She's asking why,
after you told me
to delete the app,

why were you still
on the app?

She wants to know.

Right, she's asking
you a question,
why are you looking at me?

She wants
to hear it from you.

Let me... let me
ask you a question.

When I was at your house
and your family asked me
questions, did I answer them?

[Tiffanie speaking]

[Razwan] Next time
on Before the 90 Days...

[Statler] I feel like
I've entered cute world.

For two people,
things are a little,
a little tight.

[Dempsey] That's just
like a toilet room.

[Statler] Could
I use the toilet?

I'm a city girl...
this isn't gonna work.

I am on my period.

[Amanda laughing] Oh, my God.

[Razwan] You know?

[Nicola] Our hotel, you have
to see our room.

I never saw a woman
making messy place in bedroom.

I'm in shock.

I would have loved
for Nicola to be excited
about us.

But, instead,
I felt embarrassed.

[Sheila speaking
other language]

[signing]

[David signing]

[Jasmine] Gino and I
only have one week
and a half left together,

so, we need
to see a therapist.

I'm not satisfied sexually,
in this relationship.

-He has even made...
-I don't reject her.

...comments about
my private parts.

-You made me feel rejected.
-[Gino] These are the kind

-of comments...
-[Jasmine] Because
I'm being honest,

-like, we need--
-...where I really don't have
any desire to be with her.

[Tiffanie speaking]

Ah...

We stop talking tonight, okay?

Do not talk down to me.

Okay, beat it.