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Man, watching you two is worse than
having to sit through a chick movie.
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It's stupid. I'm going to the library.
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[DOOR CLOSES]
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What's wrong?
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Maybe I shouldn't go away
to New York this weekend.
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Come on, you have to find a place
to live. School starts in January.
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I still can't believe I'm going to NYU.
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I still can't believe it either.
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But it's great, you're going,
and you need a place to live.
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Most guys
would be pressuring me to stay.
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You are the best boyfriend ever.
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Long-distance relationships aren't
easy, but I know we can make it work.
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Right.
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You wanted to see me?
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Your supervisor
from the diversion programme called.
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- Yeah?
- She's very happy with your work.
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And so are we.
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You passed your 30-day evaluation
with flying colours.
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- That's great.
- We're really proud of you.
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I never would have made it
without Robbie.
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It really helps to have
someone to talk to
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who understands
exactly what I'm going through.
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You know, someone who's been
arrested and everything.
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Yeah.
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They're still on separate work shifts
down at the programme, aren't they?
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Yes, but we said Robbie
could call her, remember?
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- Well, that was a mistake.
- Yeah.
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Okay, Brad Landers wants to take me
out after school tomorrow for a burger
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to thank me for all the help
I've given him in math class.
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Wow, there is a B-list,
an A-list and then there is--
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- Brad Landers.
- Okay.
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So why aren't you screaming
or something?
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Because tomorrow I'm supposed to
instal toilets at the Habitat house.
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Installing toilets
or a date with Brad Landers?
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That's a no-brainer.
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But I just can't cancel
on Habitat for a guy, can I?
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They only have to know
you're cancelling for a guy
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if you tell them
you're cancelling for a guy.
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You still spending tomorrow
night over at Matt's?
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- It's gonna be great.
- Yeah, you seem pretty excited.
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Well, I really miss Matt. I know
he's here all the time eating and stuff,
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but he never really has time
to hang out with me.
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But tomorrow night, it's gonna be
just the two of us, like it used to be.
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What are you just standing
there for?
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There are only two weeks left
until the end of the year.
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At the end of the year comes
the millennium and that's big trouble.
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[LAUGHS]
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Hey, the millennium
is nothing to laugh at.
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On January first, all sorts of things
could fail and fall apart.
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Cars will stop running,
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people will get trapped in elevators,
credit cards won't work.
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It'll be bedtime.
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I think you mean bedlam.
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- What's the difference?
- To you, not much.
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[DOORBELL RINGS]
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Ginger, what a nice surprise.
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Where's Dad?
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I don't know.
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What? What do you mean,
you don't know? What's going on?
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Annie, honey, your father...
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Well, I don't know where he is.
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[SPEAKING INDISTINCTLY]
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I hope I'm not worrying the kids.
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Well, I told them that Dad
had to stay in Phoenix
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and that he'd probably be here
sometime tomorrow.
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You can stay in Simon's room
and he can bunk in with Ruthie.
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- I don't wanna be any trouble.
- You're not trouble, you're family.
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Okay, Sergeant Michaels
is out looking for Charles.
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Plus he's called in a few
off-duty officers to help
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and he's got bulletins out
to neighbouring police departments.
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Why do you think Dad
is heading toward Glenoak?
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Well, ever since the diagnosis,
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I mean, he's been talking a lot
about you and the kids.
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The diagnosis?
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Oh, I'm sorry, this is not the way
I wanted to tell you.
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Tell us what?
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About three months ago,
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I started noticing some little changes
in Charles' behaviour.
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- What changes?
- Difficulty in buttoning his shirt,
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trouble saying certain words,
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feeling lost in familiar places,
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misplacing things, and...
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So we went to see the doctor.
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- And?
- And, after a battery of tests,
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your father was diagnosed as being
in the very early stages of Alzheimer's.
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I couldn't tell you this on the phone,
I just couldn't.
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And so I just hopped on a plane
and headed here.
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Are you saying
that my dad has Alzheimer's?
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I'm afraid so.
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- I can't believe it's almost finished.
- I know.
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Habitat for Humanity is so cool.
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I don't think I can help out after
school. Something just came up.
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- Okay.
- We'll all cover for you.
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- You will?
- Sure, that's what friends are for.
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I owe you. Thanks.
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Shut up.
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- Robbie, how'd you get in here?
- I have my ways.
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Shouldn't you be at your school?
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Yes, but since your parents
won't let us work together,
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this is the only way I can see you.
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Maybe not the only way.
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I passed my 30-day evaluation and
my parents are really happy about it,
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so I think now is the perfect time
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to ask them for permission
for us to go out on a date.
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A "date" date?
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You're dreaming.
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Your parents won't even let us
pick up trash together.
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They're never gonna let me
take you out.
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Never say never.
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Are you still going fishing
with your dad this weekend?
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Not just fishing, fly-fishing.
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My dad's taking me camping
so I can earn another merit badge.
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He thinks I'm gonna make
Eagle Scout before I turn 16.
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You can come if you want.
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I can't. I'm gonna hang out
at my big brother's apartment.
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- We're gonna do guy stuff.
- "Guy stuff"?
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Well, you know, stay up late,
talk about girls, not take showers,
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talk about girls, eat bad food,
talk about girls.
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Man, my brother
doesn't even talk to me.
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You are so lucky.
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What's wrong with you?
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What makes you think
there's something wrong?
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Oh, my mistake.
You often sit around in your pyjamas
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eating Cocoa Puffs
in the middle of the afternoon.
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00:09:03,877 --> 00:09:05,337
I'm a little depressed.
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You hide it so well.
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This morning, when I was shaving,
I realised that Shana is going to NYU.
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- You told her to go.
- I know, but now she's really going.
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She's looking for a place to live and
there's nothing I can do to stop her.
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So have a long-distance relationship.
That's all. I mean, a lot of people do it.
131
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Well, long-distance relationships
never work out.
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She'll leave, I'll stay,
and for the rest of my life,
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I'll always think of her
as the one that got away.
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[MARY LAUGHING]
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You're saying that after the millennium
there won't be any toilet paper?
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Yes.
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- Stop that, Y2K is serious.
- Y2K? Where did you hear that?
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My friend Ben.
He has a computer and he surfs it.
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You mean he surfs the web?
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- That's what I just said.
- Oh.
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So, what about Ben's parents?
Don't they monitor the computer?
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No. And he's on the computer
all the time.
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You know what I think you should do
to prepare for the millennium?
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Stay away from Ben.
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I didn't ask you out just to thank you.
I have ulterior motives.
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And a good vocabulary.
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Sorry. You were saying?
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I've had a crush on you
since the ninth grade.
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Every time I worked up
enough courage to ask you out,
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you were always dating someone.
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I'm single now.
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I know.
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Do you know Susan Gertz
from our school?
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Maybe that's why
she and her friends
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have been staring at us
since they came in.
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Could you excuse me
for just one second?
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Hi, this is not what you think it is.
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00:11:02,913 --> 00:11:05,286
I think we all know
exactly what this is.
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You blew off the project
to have burgers with some guy?
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What kind of woman are you?
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Is this a bad time
to ask for a favour?
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Depends on the favour.
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I was thinking that since I'm doing
so well at the diversion programme,
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maybe I could have permission to go
out on a date tomorrow with Robbie.
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We won't go far,
just out to the pool hall or something.
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I don't think so.
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You and Mom told me
if I did well at the programme,
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- you'd let me go out with Robbie.
- We said we'd consider it.
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Then consider it.
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Please. What?
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- He's been in trouble.
- So have I.
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If you go out with Robbie
and something bad happens,
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you could get kicked out of
the programme and face sentencing.
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- Dad, come on.
- I'm not gonna change my mind.
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Why am I working so hard
if you're never gonna trust me?
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Or never let me go out on a date
or have fun?
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- I mean, what's the point?
- You're not being fair.
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Neither are you.
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[PHONE RINGING]
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Hello. Dad, is that you?
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- Yes, honey, it's me.
- We've been so worried.
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I know. I called Phoenix
and I talked to Ginger's son.
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- Well, Ginger's here.
- That's what her son said.
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- Well, where have you been?
- Well, I was on the way to Glenoak,
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then I saw a sign
for the Sagebrush Motel.
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The motel that your mother and I
used to stay at
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when we took our
fishing trips together.
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Yes, I know the Sagebrush.
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I just couldn't resist the impulse
to take a little trip down memory lane.
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But when I got to the motel,
it was so late
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that I just decided to get a room
and stay the night.
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He stayed last night
at the Sagebrush Motel.
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- Where is he now?
- Where are you now?
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- I don't really know.
ANNIE: Well...
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Don't worry,
I'll have Eric come and get you.
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Why would you do that?
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Because you don't know
where you are.
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Honey, I don't know
what city I'm in,
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but I know how to get
to Glenoak from here.
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Listen, give Ginger my love
and I'll see you soon.
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- He's on his way here.
- Oh. Thank goodness.
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I'm so relieved.
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- What is it?
- It's just
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that he sounded so, pfft, normal.
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Like he always does.
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Like my dad.
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[DOORBELL RINGS]
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Hi.
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GINGER: Oh, sweetheart.
- Hi. Hello, sweetheart.
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Hi, buddy, good to see you.
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GINGER:
Come here, come here. Come here.
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- I was so worried.
- Why?
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- Are you okay?
- I'm fine.
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- That's good.
- I'm fine.
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Good.
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Um, Ginger,
could I talk to Dad alone?
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Yeah.
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Is something wrong with Eric?
Is it his heart again?
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- No.
- Well, then what is it?
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- I know something's the matter.
- Eric's fine.
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- Do you wanna sit down?
- No, I wanna know what's going on.
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Ginger told me
about the Alzheimer's.
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She told you?
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Well, she thought I should know.
225
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Well, I do too,
but I'm surprised she said anything.
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I mean, she's been having a hard time
even accepting the fact that she had it.
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- She hasn't even told her children yet.
- Wait.
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Ginger has Alzheimer's?
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Who did you think
I was talking about?
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Ginger said you had Alzheimer's.
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Me? No.
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No, I'm fine.
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Ginger, on the other hand,
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has been forgetting things,
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and misplacing things, and...
236
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You just up and disappeared
from Phoenix.
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Ginger didn't misplace you, did she?
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She knew I was coming here.
I told her two weeks ago.
239
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She just forgot.
240
00:15:12,996 --> 00:15:17,125
We've been going through a lot lately
and we needed a break.
241
00:15:17,292 --> 00:15:21,338
So I planned a visit to come and see
you and Eric and the kids.
242
00:15:21,505 --> 00:15:23,878
I don't have Alzheimer's.
243
00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:26,924
You believe me, don't you?
244
00:15:27,094 --> 00:15:29,467
Look, I found
the Sagebrush Motel, right?
245
00:15:29,638 --> 00:15:32,344
A place I haven't even been to
in 30 years.
246
00:15:32,516 --> 00:15:35,553
Now, could a man with Alzheimer's
do that?
247
00:15:35,727 --> 00:15:37,935
I don't think so.
248
00:15:40,774 --> 00:15:44,227
Don't worry, honey,
Ginger's gonna be okay. She'll be fine.
249
00:15:47,906 --> 00:15:49,900
You wanna go out?
250
00:15:50,409 --> 00:15:51,785
Shana might call.
251
00:15:53,704 --> 00:15:55,532
You wanna watch some TV?
252
00:15:55,706 --> 00:15:57,699
It'll just make me think of Shana.
253
00:15:57,875 --> 00:16:01,458
Okay, what can we do
that won't make you think of Shana?
254
00:16:01,962 --> 00:16:05,213
- Everything makes me think of Shana.
- Great.
255
00:16:06,466 --> 00:16:08,923
John. Oh, man.
256
00:16:09,094 --> 00:16:12,297
Sit down, stay a while.
Please stay a while.
257
00:16:15,934 --> 00:16:17,430
Later.
258
00:16:19,062 --> 00:16:20,855
Much later.
259
00:16:29,489 --> 00:16:32,942
Hey, you seem a little low.
260
00:16:33,535 --> 00:16:35,493
I kind of lied to my Habitat friends
261
00:16:35,662 --> 00:16:37,989
so I could go out
with this really cute guy.
262
00:16:39,124 --> 00:16:40,952
But then my friends saw me
with the cute guy
263
00:16:41,126 --> 00:16:43,832
- so now they know that--
- That you lied?
264
00:16:44,004 --> 00:16:48,169
Not kind of lied, but lied, right?
265
00:16:49,092 --> 00:16:51,300
Yeah, okay, I lied.
266
00:16:51,470 --> 00:16:54,472
And I feel like such a heel
and I am really sorry I did it.
267
00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,309
Well, don't tell me, tell your friends.
268
00:16:57,851 --> 00:16:59,644
Thanks.
269
00:17:11,156 --> 00:17:12,817
Can we talk?
270
00:17:17,246 --> 00:17:20,746
Look, if Robbie
wants to spend time with you,
271
00:17:20,916 --> 00:17:23,538
he can come over
and spend time with you here
272
00:17:23,710 --> 00:17:25,834
at the house under our supervision.
273
00:17:26,004 --> 00:17:29,540
I promise, once we've gotten
to know him a little better,
274
00:17:29,716 --> 00:17:32,339
we'll revisit the dating issue.
275
00:17:36,014 --> 00:17:37,474
That's a pretty fair offer.
276
00:17:38,892 --> 00:17:40,352
I'm a pretty fair guy.
277
00:17:40,853 --> 00:17:43,973
I know. Thanks.
278
00:17:54,825 --> 00:17:57,827
What am I supposed
to be helping you with again?
279
00:17:58,495 --> 00:17:59,777
My millennium project.
280
00:17:59,955 --> 00:18:01,154
Ah.
281
00:18:01,331 --> 00:18:04,286
Ben says to successfully survive
the millennium,
282
00:18:04,459 --> 00:18:06,334
we need money and canned food.
283
00:18:06,503 --> 00:18:09,042
I also need to learn
how to cook over a fire.
284
00:18:09,214 --> 00:18:11,884
Ben says after the millennium,
there won't be any more stoves.
285
00:18:12,050 --> 00:18:14,542
Ah. Who's Ben?
286
00:18:16,597 --> 00:18:18,590
[PHONE RINGS]
287
00:18:19,433 --> 00:18:21,343
LUCY [OVER PHONE]:
Susan, don't hang up.
288
00:18:21,518 --> 00:18:23,428
Carol and Lisa already did.
289
00:18:23,604 --> 00:18:25,893
That's because you lied to us.
290
00:18:26,064 --> 00:18:28,141
I know. I'm sorry.
291
00:18:28,317 --> 00:18:31,603
I just thought if I said no to Brad,
he might not ask me out again.
292
00:18:31,778 --> 00:18:36,607
Look, we all have things in our lives.
Boyfriends, jobs, schoolwork.
293
00:18:36,783 --> 00:18:40,200
You have to prioritise.
Decide what's important to you.
294
00:18:40,746 --> 00:18:44,032
No one is forcing you
to be a part of the Habitat project.
295
00:18:44,208 --> 00:18:46,960
But if you're going to do it,
people are depending on you.
296
00:18:47,127 --> 00:18:49,121
So you have to show up
when you're scheduled.
297
00:18:49,296 --> 00:18:51,420
If everyone cancelled,
where would we be?
298
00:18:56,470 --> 00:18:59,840
Ginger's really upset. She said
I should talk to you. What's going on?
299
00:19:00,015 --> 00:19:02,934
- My dad doesn't have Alzheimer's.
- What?
300
00:19:03,101 --> 00:19:07,599
And Ginger is upset because I told her
I know she's the one with Alzheimer's.
301
00:19:08,106 --> 00:19:11,061
- Who told you that?
- Dad.
302
00:19:12,819 --> 00:19:14,196
What?
303
00:19:14,363 --> 00:19:16,570
I just spent five minutes
with your father upstairs
304
00:19:16,740 --> 00:19:20,110
and there's definitely something off.
305
00:19:20,285 --> 00:19:22,160
I've been around people
with Alzheimer's and--
306
00:19:22,329 --> 00:19:23,575
And what?
307
00:19:23,747 --> 00:19:25,741
There's something
not right with your father.
308
00:19:25,916 --> 00:19:28,538
He's upset, and so am I.
309
00:19:28,710 --> 00:19:30,419
- That's not it.
- How do you know?
310
00:19:30,587 --> 00:19:31,869
I mean, here he is,
311
00:19:32,047 --> 00:19:34,800
coping with Ginger's diagnosis,
knowing that he's the one
312
00:19:34,967 --> 00:19:38,004
that's going to have the burden
of caring for her in the years to come.
313
00:19:38,178 --> 00:19:41,264
Now, that's an awful lot
for any person to handle.
314
00:19:41,431 --> 00:19:44,006
He's a little off
because he's stressed.
315
00:19:44,184 --> 00:19:47,352
My father does not
have Alzheimer's.
316
00:19:52,526 --> 00:19:55,018
[PHONE RINGING]
317
00:19:55,195 --> 00:19:56,738
Well, aren't you gonna answer that?
318
00:19:56,905 --> 00:19:59,029
I don't want her to know
I'm missing her.
319
00:19:59,199 --> 00:20:00,694
That's crazy, you do miss her.
320
00:20:00,868 --> 00:20:02,327
Yes, but she doesn't know that.
321
00:20:03,787 --> 00:20:05,496
[ON RECORDING]
Hey, this is Matt and John.
322
00:20:05,664 --> 00:20:06,945
Leave us a message at the beep.
323
00:20:07,124 --> 00:20:08,156
[BEEPS]
324
00:20:08,333 --> 00:20:09,829
Matt? Are you there?
325
00:20:10,002 --> 00:20:11,663
Pick up if you are.
326
00:20:12,713 --> 00:20:14,505
- Pick up.
- Never.
327
00:20:14,673 --> 00:20:17,379
- You're nuts.
- I'm still not picking up that phone.
328
00:20:18,135 --> 00:20:20,128
Okay, I guess you're not there.
329
00:20:20,304 --> 00:20:21,585
Well, I will--
330
00:20:22,097 --> 00:20:23,972
Don't hang up. Don't hang up.
I'm here.
331
00:20:24,141 --> 00:20:25,553
Hey, I almost missed you.
332
00:20:25,726 --> 00:20:28,052
Yeah, I was in the bathroom.
333
00:20:28,228 --> 00:20:29,558
Liar.
334
00:20:29,730 --> 00:20:32,186
- I found a place to live.
MATT: Uh-huh.
335
00:20:32,357 --> 00:20:33,639
What's all that noise?
336
00:20:33,817 --> 00:20:36,190
Brett's throwing a party
so I can meet some people.
337
00:20:36,361 --> 00:20:38,853
- Who's Brett?
- It's a great apartment.
338
00:20:39,031 --> 00:20:40,692
Good. Who's Brett?
339
00:20:40,866 --> 00:20:42,361
One of the guys I'm moving in with.
340
00:20:42,534 --> 00:20:45,204
You're moving in
with a bunch of guys?
341
00:20:45,370 --> 00:20:48,705
You have no idea how hard
it is to find a place in Manhattan.
342
00:20:48,874 --> 00:20:51,911
I met Brett and these other guys
and they need a fourth,
343
00:20:52,085 --> 00:20:54,542
and I'll have a bedroom
to myself and--
344
00:20:54,713 --> 00:20:55,877
[DIAL TONE HUMS]
345
00:20:56,048 --> 00:20:57,591
Hello?
346
00:20:58,759 --> 00:21:01,085
She's moving into a frat house.
347
00:21:04,139 --> 00:21:05,634
So I have some good news.
348
00:21:05,807 --> 00:21:07,054
I got your message. What's up?
349
00:21:07,226 --> 00:21:08,555
We can see each other.
350
00:21:08,727 --> 00:21:10,057
That's great.
351
00:21:10,229 --> 00:21:13,231
But we can't go "out" out exactly.
352
00:21:13,398 --> 00:21:15,890
Um, we can have
sort of a home date.
353
00:21:17,402 --> 00:21:19,195
They wanna get to know you
a little better
354
00:21:19,363 --> 00:21:21,771
and when they do, they'll see
how great you are and then--
355
00:21:21,949 --> 00:21:24,238
- It's not gonna work.
- Why do you say that?
356
00:21:24,409 --> 00:21:28,622
Because when your parents
look at me, all they see is trouble.
357
00:21:28,789 --> 00:21:30,035
And that's never gonna change,
358
00:21:30,207 --> 00:21:32,876
no matter how much time I spend
at your house sucking up to them.
359
00:21:33,043 --> 00:21:34,669
Come on, just give it a chance.
360
00:21:34,837 --> 00:21:36,996
I really like you
and I wanna spend time with you,
361
00:21:37,172 --> 00:21:40,174
but I don't think your parents
are gonna ever let that happen.
362
00:21:40,342 --> 00:21:43,130
They're just stalling,
hoping you give up and I go away.
363
00:21:43,303 --> 00:21:46,471
Well, I'm never gonna give up.
You mean too much to me.
364
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,100
But you're stronger than I am.
365
00:21:49,059 --> 00:21:50,471
What is that supposed to mean?
366
00:21:50,894 --> 00:21:53,896
I think it means that I don't wanna
come to your house tomorrow.
367
00:21:54,690 --> 00:21:58,938
I'm getting a really bad feeling here.
368
00:21:59,111 --> 00:22:00,571
Are we breaking up?
369
00:22:03,782 --> 00:22:06,903
- Thanks for helping me, Grandpa.
- Glad to be of service.
370
00:22:07,077 --> 00:22:08,786
What exactly are we doing?
371
00:22:08,954 --> 00:22:11,113
Learning to cook over a fire.
372
00:22:11,290 --> 00:22:14,161
- Okay.
- First we need to light the barbecue.
373
00:22:14,334 --> 00:22:16,293
I'm not allowed to use matches.
374
00:22:23,802 --> 00:22:25,547
So this is some sort
of school project?
375
00:22:25,721 --> 00:22:27,513
Kind of.
376
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,136
Excellent.
377
00:22:30,309 --> 00:22:31,685
So what are we cooking?
378
00:22:33,061 --> 00:22:35,600
I'll be right back, watch the fire.
379
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,788
Is that...?
380
00:22:59,421 --> 00:23:01,000
Smoke.
381
00:23:01,507 --> 00:23:03,999
- We smell smoke.
- Yeah, it's coming from the backyard.
382
00:23:10,891 --> 00:23:13,465
There's a fire in the backyard.
383
00:23:26,657 --> 00:23:28,235
Dad!
384
00:23:28,867 --> 00:23:30,528
Dad.
385
00:23:31,495 --> 00:23:34,912
- Oh. Annie, hi.
- Are you okay?
386
00:23:36,333 --> 00:23:39,999
I remember the day I taught you
to ride your first two-wheeler.
387
00:23:40,170 --> 00:23:43,373
And you fell off
and you skinned both your knees.
388
00:23:43,882 --> 00:23:45,212
Dad, the fire?
389
00:23:45,843 --> 00:23:47,219
What happened?
390
00:23:51,932 --> 00:23:53,308
What's all the commotion?
391
00:24:01,358 --> 00:24:03,815
So, what's wrong with Grandpa?
392
00:24:03,986 --> 00:24:06,145
Well, he's got something
called Alzheimer's.
393
00:24:06,321 --> 00:24:07,900
What's that?
394
00:24:08,073 --> 00:24:10,945
It's something that makes it hard
for Grandpa to remember things.
395
00:24:11,118 --> 00:24:13,158
Yeah, like watch the fire.
396
00:24:15,831 --> 00:24:18,204
I need to talk to Ruthie.
397
00:24:20,210 --> 00:24:23,461
- I'm in trouble, aren't I?
- Yes and no.
398
00:24:23,630 --> 00:24:24,876
I get a choice?
399
00:24:25,048 --> 00:24:29,178
No, what I mean is, you shouldn't
have lit a fire in the barbecue,
400
00:24:29,344 --> 00:24:31,836
but you did ask an adult to help.
401
00:24:32,014 --> 00:24:34,422
- Oh.
- So why did you do it?
402
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,309
I have to know
how to cook over a fire.
403
00:24:37,186 --> 00:24:39,678
- Why is that?
- The millennium.
404
00:24:41,356 --> 00:24:44,477
- There won't be any stoves.
- Says who?
405
00:24:44,651 --> 00:24:46,312
Ben, my friend at school.
406
00:24:46,486 --> 00:24:48,279
And who told Ben that?
407
00:24:48,822 --> 00:24:50,401
His parents, I guess.
408
00:24:50,574 --> 00:24:52,900
But there's stuff
about the millennium everywhere.
409
00:24:57,539 --> 00:24:59,782
I wanna tell you a story.
410
00:25:00,292 --> 00:25:03,128
After the story,
will someone be getting punished?
411
00:25:03,295 --> 00:25:07,163
Well, that depends on whether
someone learns a lesson or not.
412
00:25:07,341 --> 00:25:08,456
I'm all ears.
413
00:25:08,634 --> 00:25:11,968
Well, 60 years ago,
an actor named Orson Welles
414
00:25:12,137 --> 00:25:15,590
read a story on the radio
about an invasion from Mars.
415
00:25:15,766 --> 00:25:17,427
It's called The War of the Worlds.
416
00:25:17,601 --> 00:25:20,140
And a lot of people
who heard the story
417
00:25:20,312 --> 00:25:23,349
thought that the Earth was actually
being invaded by Martians.
418
00:25:23,524 --> 00:25:24,556
[SCOFFS]
419
00:25:24,733 --> 00:25:27,652
Yeah, it may seem funny now,
but back then,
420
00:25:27,819 --> 00:25:31,106
if it was on the radio,
people thought it was true.
421
00:25:32,157 --> 00:25:35,243
- What happened?
- A lot of people panicked.
422
00:25:35,410 --> 00:25:37,570
They ran out into the streets,
some called the police,
423
00:25:37,746 --> 00:25:40,368
others hid in their cellars.
424
00:25:40,541 --> 00:25:42,036
Later, people realised
425
00:25:42,209 --> 00:25:44,119
that what they'd heard on the radio
wasn't real
426
00:25:44,294 --> 00:25:46,003
and no one needed to panic.
427
00:25:46,171 --> 00:25:48,841
Now, I'm not saying
the millennium is make-believe,
428
00:25:49,007 --> 00:25:50,467
and that there aren't real concerns
429
00:25:50,634 --> 00:25:53,173
about problems
that could happen on January 1st.
430
00:25:53,595 --> 00:25:56,052
What I'm saying is that
not everything you hear or read
431
00:25:56,223 --> 00:25:57,848
about the millennium is true,
432
00:25:58,016 --> 00:26:01,351
no matter whether it's on the news
or in a paper or...
433
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,189
- In Ben's computer?
- Yeah.
434
00:26:04,356 --> 00:26:06,682
Because when the millennium
happens, if everybody panics,
435
00:26:06,859 --> 00:26:09,860
there'll be a lot bigger things
to worry about than...
436
00:26:10,028 --> 00:26:11,821
A fire in the barbecue?
437
00:26:12,406 --> 00:26:13,486
Yeah.
438
00:26:13,657 --> 00:26:16,066
Did I learn a lesson?
439
00:26:17,494 --> 00:26:20,496
I just walked away for a second.
I made a mistake, I'm sorry.
440
00:26:20,664 --> 00:26:21,780
We have to talk about this.
441
00:26:21,957 --> 00:26:24,081
There's nothing to talk about.
I'm fine.
442
00:26:24,251 --> 00:26:26,291
I really think that you're overreacting.
443
00:26:26,461 --> 00:26:28,539
Dad, you almost
set the house on fire.
444
00:26:28,714 --> 00:26:30,838
I do not have Alzheimer's.
445
00:26:31,008 --> 00:26:34,045
Dad, don't be afraid, you don't have
to go through this alone.
446
00:26:34,219 --> 00:26:36,676
I'm here, Eric's here,
the kids, Ginger.
447
00:26:36,847 --> 00:26:38,805
I don't have Alzheimer's.
End of discussion.
448
00:26:38,974 --> 00:26:40,006
Dad!
449
00:26:40,184 --> 00:26:42,177
I think Ginger and I ought to go home.
450
00:26:42,352 --> 00:26:46,019
- It's too late.
- We'll leave first thing in the morning.
451
00:26:50,402 --> 00:26:54,448
Hey, so is Robbie
coming over tomorrow?
452
00:26:54,615 --> 00:26:57,367
- Nope.
- Why?
453
00:26:58,452 --> 00:26:59,912
Do you really care?
454
00:27:00,621 --> 00:27:03,576
Come on, isn't this exactly
what you wanted, Robbie gone?
455
00:27:03,749 --> 00:27:06,157
If that were true, I never
would have invited him over.
456
00:27:06,335 --> 00:27:08,624
Well, it doesn't matter what you want,
or what I want,
457
00:27:08,795 --> 00:27:11,548
what matters is Robbie
doesn't wanna come over here.
458
00:27:22,184 --> 00:27:23,893
How's your father?
459
00:27:25,479 --> 00:27:28,682
In denial. Just like I was.
460
00:27:29,650 --> 00:27:31,976
I really owe Ginger an apology.
461
00:27:34,696 --> 00:27:36,156
We're gonna get through this.
462
00:27:36,323 --> 00:27:38,317
Thanks.
463
00:27:38,492 --> 00:27:42,491
So why did Ruthie set fire
to the barbecue?
464
00:27:42,663 --> 00:27:43,743
The millennium.
465
00:27:43,914 --> 00:27:46,323
She's 8, what does she know
about the millennium?
466
00:27:46,500 --> 00:27:48,458
You'd be surprised.
467
00:27:48,627 --> 00:27:50,087
I think I helped her see
468
00:27:50,254 --> 00:27:53,837
that there's more than one way
to look at the end of 1999.
469
00:27:54,007 --> 00:27:55,171
Good.
470
00:27:55,342 --> 00:27:58,261
Oh, Simon called and he doesn't
wanna spend the night at Matt's.
471
00:27:58,428 --> 00:28:00,007
He'll have to stay in Ruthie's room.
472
00:28:00,180 --> 00:28:02,174
Yeah, I told him that,
but he doesn't care.
473
00:28:02,349 --> 00:28:03,631
- Must be really bad.
- Yeah.
474
00:28:03,809 --> 00:28:05,008
I'll go get him.
475
00:28:05,394 --> 00:28:09,262
Oh, will you stop by the store?
We're almost out of milk.
476
00:28:19,241 --> 00:28:21,199
Brad, it's Lucy.
477
00:28:21,368 --> 00:28:23,825
Hey, so I had fun
at the pool hall today.
478
00:28:23,996 --> 00:28:25,195
Me too.
479
00:28:25,372 --> 00:28:28,327
Great. Then come to the movies
with me tomorrow afternoon.
480
00:28:28,500 --> 00:28:30,541
Look, I like you,
481
00:28:30,711 --> 00:28:33,878
but if I say yes to you,
I have to say no to something else,
482
00:28:34,047 --> 00:28:36,207
and I already did that once.
483
00:28:36,383 --> 00:28:38,175
Is something else another guy?
484
00:28:38,343 --> 00:28:40,467
No, there's no other guy.
485
00:28:40,637 --> 00:28:42,097
Then I don't see the problem.
486
00:28:42,264 --> 00:28:44,803
- I can't see you anymore.
- Why?
487
00:28:44,975 --> 00:28:47,016
I volunteered for something
a long time ago,
488
00:28:47,186 --> 00:28:49,179
and I'm committed
to seeing it through.
489
00:28:49,855 --> 00:28:52,429
I just wanna take you to the movies,
not change your life.
490
00:28:52,608 --> 00:28:54,269
You don't understand.
491
00:28:54,443 --> 00:28:59,272
- I'm Superman and you're kryptonite.
- What?
492
00:28:59,740 --> 00:29:01,864
When you're around me,
I feel powerless.
493
00:29:02,034 --> 00:29:05,819
I like you so much, I'm willing to blow
off other things just to be with you.
494
00:29:05,996 --> 00:29:09,283
And doing stuff like that is the old me,
not the new me.
495
00:29:09,750 --> 00:29:12,871
I'm sorry, but it's just the way
it's gotta be.
496
00:29:26,058 --> 00:29:28,466
Robbie, right?
497
00:29:30,646 --> 00:29:31,927
I didn't know you...
498
00:29:32,105 --> 00:29:34,775
You didn't know I worked
at a grocery store on weekends?
499
00:29:35,442 --> 00:29:37,602
Did you know I made the honour roll
at my high school
500
00:29:37,778 --> 00:29:39,818
or that I'm doing so well
in the diversion programme
501
00:29:39,988 --> 00:29:41,649
they're considering
letting me out early?
502
00:29:41,823 --> 00:29:44,197
- No, I didn't.
- Well...
503
00:29:44,451 --> 00:29:46,445
I guess you don't know me
as well as you thought.
504
00:29:46,620 --> 00:29:48,530
I know you about as well
as you know me.
505
00:29:50,499 --> 00:29:53,038
But I'm willing
to get to know you better.
506
00:29:53,210 --> 00:29:54,954
And you can get to know me
a little better,
507
00:29:55,128 --> 00:29:57,502
and then who knows what
could happen.
508
00:29:57,673 --> 00:29:59,216
Why do you even care?
509
00:29:59,383 --> 00:30:01,127
Because my daughter does.
510
00:30:02,678 --> 00:30:06,048
Now, why don't you wanna
come over to the house tomorrow?
511
00:30:18,986 --> 00:30:20,611
Hey.
512
00:30:23,031 --> 00:30:24,859
I'm going home.
513
00:30:25,742 --> 00:30:27,238
Why?
514
00:30:28,745 --> 00:30:31,072
I understand you have
different things in your life now,
515
00:30:31,248 --> 00:30:35,116
but this weekend
was supposed to be like old times,
516
00:30:35,919 --> 00:30:37,580
you know, you and me hanging out.
517
00:30:37,754 --> 00:30:40,081
But you know what it was instead?
518
00:30:41,133 --> 00:30:43,921
Me watching you obsess
over your girlfriend.
519
00:30:46,471 --> 00:30:47,718
I'm sorry.
520
00:30:48,223 --> 00:30:50,217
I'm sorry too.
521
00:30:50,601 --> 00:30:51,977
I'm sorry I came.
522
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,669
What's going on?
523
00:31:23,133 --> 00:31:25,174
Oh, no way, man,
you're way out of control.
524
00:31:25,344 --> 00:31:27,172
Get ready for some tough love.
525
00:31:27,346 --> 00:31:29,968
Give me that stupid cereal box.
526
00:31:34,436 --> 00:31:36,264
So, what happened?
527
00:31:37,397 --> 00:31:40,316
- I'd rather not talk about it.
- Okay.
528
00:31:40,943 --> 00:31:42,936
Life is so unfair.
529
00:31:43,111 --> 00:31:45,401
I mean, one minute
you have this great big brother,
530
00:31:45,572 --> 00:31:47,696
the next, you have some guy
who sits in his pyjamas
531
00:31:47,866 --> 00:31:50,904
eating cereal out of the box,
moaning about his girlfriend.
532
00:31:51,453 --> 00:31:53,162
Well, why does everything
have to change?
533
00:31:53,330 --> 00:31:55,489
I mean, I know Matt had to move out
and go to college,
534
00:31:55,666 --> 00:31:57,992
but why can't things be
the way they used to be?
535
00:31:58,168 --> 00:32:01,040
Change is part of life.
536
00:32:01,213 --> 00:32:03,670
- A bad part.
- No, that's not true.
537
00:32:03,841 --> 00:32:08,005
It's just that you have to keep
changing to really keep living.
538
00:32:08,178 --> 00:32:11,014
Change or die?
These are my options?
539
00:32:11,181 --> 00:32:13,009
Relationships are like school.
540
00:32:13,183 --> 00:32:15,426
You know, there's a new lesson
every day.
541
00:32:15,602 --> 00:32:19,304
If you're aware of that, you can learn
something all the time, every day.
542
00:32:19,481 --> 00:32:23,350
Brothers, sisters, uncles,
aunts, fathers,
543
00:32:23,527 --> 00:32:26,944
mothers, husbands, wives,
friends, teachers,
544
00:32:27,114 --> 00:32:28,574
boyfriends, girlfriends,
545
00:32:28,740 --> 00:32:32,110
they're all relationships
and they're constantly changing.
546
00:32:32,286 --> 00:32:35,620
At what point in this conversation
do you start making me feel better?
547
00:32:39,585 --> 00:32:41,662
I know now that Dad's not well.
548
00:32:41,837 --> 00:32:46,215
You know, I felt just like you did
when I first found out about Charles.
549
00:32:46,383 --> 00:32:48,009
I didn't wanna believe it either.
550
00:32:48,510 --> 00:32:51,880
You don't know how many times
that I wanted to call you,
551
00:32:52,055 --> 00:32:55,390
and to tell you and talk to you.
552
00:32:55,559 --> 00:32:57,968
I can't imagine
what you must be going through.
553
00:32:58,145 --> 00:33:01,431
Well, it's hard.
554
00:33:01,607 --> 00:33:05,226
But I've got my kids,
my sister is close by, and--
555
00:33:05,402 --> 00:33:07,859
And you have us.
You have me and Eric.
556
00:33:08,030 --> 00:33:11,197
And we're gonna make sure that Dad
gets the best medical care possible.
557
00:33:12,868 --> 00:33:14,696
That's not the problem.
558
00:33:14,870 --> 00:33:18,204
The problem is getting him
to accept the fact
559
00:33:18,832 --> 00:33:21,668
that he has to deal with this.
560
00:33:21,835 --> 00:33:24,078
You see,
I'm afraid to leave him alone.
561
00:33:24,254 --> 00:33:25,880
You saw what happened
with the barbecue.
562
00:33:26,048 --> 00:33:29,215
But if he doesn't believe
that there's anything wrong with him,
563
00:33:29,384 --> 00:33:32,552
it's hard to convince him
that he needs someone
564
00:33:32,721 --> 00:33:34,762
when I'm not there.
565
00:33:34,932 --> 00:33:40,270
I mean, what if he takes off again?
566
00:33:40,812 --> 00:33:44,858
What if he goes somewhere
and forgets how to get home?
567
00:33:45,567 --> 00:33:50,314
Or he forgets what his name is?
568
00:33:53,116 --> 00:33:54,493
Dad?
569
00:33:57,037 --> 00:33:58,746
Sweetheart.
570
00:33:59,873 --> 00:34:02,911
I didn't know I was scaring everyone.
571
00:34:03,085 --> 00:34:04,710
I'm sorry.
572
00:34:04,878 --> 00:34:09,126
It's just that if I agree with the doctors
that they're right,
573
00:34:09,299 --> 00:34:11,791
then I have to start facing up
to this thing.
574
00:34:11,969 --> 00:34:14,046
I don't know if I can.
575
00:34:16,974 --> 00:34:18,766
ANNIE:
We're gonna get through this.
576
00:34:19,476 --> 00:34:21,221
We are.
577
00:34:23,522 --> 00:34:25,065
You're not alone.
578
00:34:36,577 --> 00:34:38,286
[KNOCKING ON DOOR]
579
00:34:39,955 --> 00:34:43,372
I almost didn't recognise you
without your pyjamas.
580
00:34:43,876 --> 00:34:46,831
- Can I come in?
- No.
581
00:34:47,004 --> 00:34:49,756
What if I come bearing an apology?
582
00:34:50,257 --> 00:34:51,966
You can apologise from out there.
583
00:34:52,134 --> 00:34:55,005
I'm sorry about last night.
I was stupid and selfish.
584
00:34:55,179 --> 00:34:58,679
Not to mention
inconsiderate and thoughtless.
585
00:34:58,849 --> 00:35:00,474
Are you also sorry
that because of you,
586
00:35:00,642 --> 00:35:02,719
I had to spend the night
sleeping on Pok?mon sheets
587
00:35:02,895 --> 00:35:04,972
surrounded by Hello Kitty
merchandise?
588
00:35:05,147 --> 00:35:06,346
Yeah, that too.
589
00:35:08,650 --> 00:35:10,478
Okay, apology accepted.
590
00:35:11,236 --> 00:35:12,648
Good.
591
00:35:13,488 --> 00:35:15,197
So what happened
with Shana and Brett?
592
00:35:15,365 --> 00:35:17,525
You mean Brett,
Shana's new roommate?
593
00:35:18,035 --> 00:35:20,278
Are you guys gonna be okay?
594
00:35:20,787 --> 00:35:23,789
Long-distance relationships are hard,
595
00:35:23,957 --> 00:35:26,284
but it's not the worst thing
that could've happened to us.
596
00:35:26,460 --> 00:35:29,912
So do you want to go to the Crawford
football game with me this afternoon?
597
00:35:30,088 --> 00:35:31,370
- Really?
- Yeah.
598
00:35:31,548 --> 00:35:34,087
And I'm coming too,
and I invited Nigel.
599
00:35:34,259 --> 00:35:36,217
Matt and I agree
it's time to start a tradition.
600
00:35:36,386 --> 00:35:37,846
Big Brother-Little Brother Day.
601
00:35:38,514 --> 00:35:40,258
- Really?
- Yeah.
602
00:35:40,432 --> 00:35:43,553
You might not have realised it
last night,
603
00:35:44,394 --> 00:35:45,724
but I miss having you around.
604
00:35:48,315 --> 00:35:51,068
If you guys are gonna start
getting mushy, I'm out of here.
605
00:35:51,235 --> 00:35:52,813
[BOTH LAUGH]
606
00:35:57,533 --> 00:36:00,238
[DOORBELL RINGS]
607
00:36:04,957 --> 00:36:06,535
What are you doing?
608
00:36:06,708 --> 00:36:08,868
Spending time with you,
any way I can.
609
00:36:09,378 --> 00:36:11,336
I talked to Susan Gertz,
your Habitat friend.
610
00:36:11,505 --> 00:36:14,044
She said they could use
another volunteer down at the house.
611
00:36:14,508 --> 00:36:17,463
- You'd do that for me?
- I am doing that for you.
612
00:36:18,470 --> 00:36:19,965
There's just one problem.
613
00:36:20,138 --> 00:36:23,390
You should know,
I almost flunked out of shop.
614
00:36:23,851 --> 00:36:25,476
Which end of this thing do I use?
615
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,727
Just stick close to me.
616
00:36:28,897 --> 00:36:29,930
That's the plan.
617
00:36:37,447 --> 00:36:39,240
- Hi, Ruthie.
RUTHIE: Hey, Ben.
618
00:36:39,408 --> 00:36:40,951
ERIC: Hi, I'm Eric Camden,
I'm Ruthie's dad.
619
00:36:41,118 --> 00:36:44,073
Hi, I'm Ken, this is my wife, Sally.
Can we help you with something?
620
00:36:46,123 --> 00:36:47,322
Ben's been telling Ruthie
621
00:36:47,499 --> 00:36:49,493
some interesting stories
about the millennium.
622
00:36:49,668 --> 00:36:50,867
What kind of stories?
623
00:36:51,044 --> 00:36:54,960
Well, Ruthie
almost set fire to our house
624
00:36:55,132 --> 00:36:58,418
because Ben told her that she needed
to learn how to cook on a barbecue
625
00:36:58,594 --> 00:37:01,596
because, after the millennium,
there won't be any stoves.
626
00:37:01,763 --> 00:37:03,342
Why are you here?
627
00:37:05,058 --> 00:37:09,768
I think there's been a lot of hysteria
associated with the millennium,
628
00:37:09,938 --> 00:37:14,767
and maybe Ben picked up
on some of your anxiety.
629
00:37:14,943 --> 00:37:17,482
We're not anxious, we're calm.
630
00:37:17,654 --> 00:37:20,740
We have CB radios, blankets, food,
631
00:37:20,908 --> 00:37:26,116
a water purifier, flashlights,
a gas-powered generator,
632
00:37:26,288 --> 00:37:30,334
a large first-aid kit,
two satellite phones, plenty of cash,
633
00:37:30,501 --> 00:37:33,337
and our child knows
how to cook over a fire.
634
00:37:34,379 --> 00:37:36,420
Okay, nice talking to you.
635
00:37:38,217 --> 00:37:41,005
I thought you were gonna tell them
about The War of the Worlds.
636
00:37:41,178 --> 00:37:43,670
Well, maybe some other time.
637
00:37:49,102 --> 00:37:50,598
MARY:
What are you doing here?
638
00:37:50,771 --> 00:37:53,689
I had a long talk with your dad
last night.
639
00:37:53,857 --> 00:37:55,400
You did?
640
00:37:55,567 --> 00:37:58,735
- He's not half bad.
- He isn't?
641
00:37:58,904 --> 00:38:01,822
He's just looking out for you,
being overprotective.
642
00:38:01,990 --> 00:38:03,367
You know, dad stuff.
643
00:38:03,534 --> 00:38:05,658
So I agreed to, you know,
come hang out at the house
644
00:38:05,827 --> 00:38:08,783
and let your parents get to know me.
Your dad agreed to give me a chance
645
00:38:08,956 --> 00:38:11,080
and not to judge me
based on my past.
646
00:38:12,167 --> 00:38:14,576
So does this mean
we're back together?
647
00:38:20,133 --> 00:38:21,380
What do you think?
648
00:38:28,934 --> 00:38:31,058
ANNIE: Thank you again for making
the time to see us
649
00:38:31,228 --> 00:38:33,103
on such short notice, Dr. Burns.
650
00:38:33,272 --> 00:38:34,933
Call me Nancy.
651
00:38:35,399 --> 00:38:37,558
Dr. Hastings filled me in
on your situation.
652
00:38:37,734 --> 00:38:40,736
I don't understand why I'm here.
I have a doctor in Phoenix.
653
00:38:41,238 --> 00:38:44,359
Yes, I know, I spoke with your doctor,
who is a neurologist.
654
00:38:44,533 --> 00:38:45,814
I'm a gerontologist,
655
00:38:45,993 --> 00:38:48,567
and I think that Dr. Hastings
asked me to speak with you
656
00:38:48,745 --> 00:38:51,072
because I see a lot
of Alzheimer's patients.
657
00:38:51,957 --> 00:38:56,252
I feel that the hardest part of
Alzheimer's is the initial diagnosis.
658
00:38:56,420 --> 00:39:00,999
It's scary and you don't know
what to expect or what lies ahead.
659
00:39:01,175 --> 00:39:03,927
It's important to remember
that you are not alone.
660
00:39:04,094 --> 00:39:05,673
Every year, thousands of people
661
00:39:05,846 --> 00:39:08,764
find themselves in the same
position that you're in right now.
662
00:39:10,934 --> 00:39:14,102
There's something that I like to tell
my newly diagnosed patients,
663
00:39:14,271 --> 00:39:17,226
and it may sound strange,
664
00:39:17,399 --> 00:39:21,350
but I think that with every problem,
there's a gift.
665
00:39:21,528 --> 00:39:23,403
With Alzheimer's, the gift is time.
666
00:39:23,572 --> 00:39:26,527
It's time with your family,
time with your wife.
667
00:39:26,700 --> 00:39:29,572
But eventually, I'm going to lose
my memory, right?
668
00:39:29,745 --> 00:39:32,996
Yes, memory loss
is inevitable with Alzheimer's.
669
00:39:33,165 --> 00:39:34,993
You'll lose your short-term
memory first,
670
00:39:35,167 --> 00:39:37,374
and for a while,
hopefully a long while,
671
00:39:37,544 --> 00:39:39,337
you'll retain your long-term memory.
672
00:39:39,505 --> 00:39:42,174
So someday,
673
00:39:42,341 --> 00:39:44,915
you may not recognise your wife,
674
00:39:45,093 --> 00:39:46,589
but you'll still be here
675
00:39:46,762 --> 00:39:49,799
and you'll be able to sit with her on
a porch and enjoy a sunset together.
676
00:39:49,973 --> 00:39:52,465
What about later on?
677
00:39:52,643 --> 00:39:55,135
I know things are going to get worse,
not better.
678
00:39:55,312 --> 00:39:58,647
Alzheimer's progresses very slowly,
and luckily, you're in the early stages,
679
00:39:58,815 --> 00:40:01,687
and that can last
for many, many years.
680
00:40:02,444 --> 00:40:06,822
But you should know that there's
a programme called Safe Return
681
00:40:06,990 --> 00:40:10,076
that uses ID bracelets
and clothing labels
682
00:40:10,244 --> 00:40:13,162
to help locate and return
memory-impaired loved ones.
683
00:40:13,539 --> 00:40:15,248
Plus, there are many support groups
684
00:40:15,415 --> 00:40:18,287
and senior daycare centres
all over the country
685
00:40:18,460 --> 00:40:21,379
that are there to provide you
with some help and assistance.
686
00:40:21,547 --> 00:40:23,172
And you're very lucky,
687
00:40:23,340 --> 00:40:25,417
you obviously have a family
that's very invested
688
00:40:25,592 --> 00:40:28,167
in seeing you receive
the best care available.
689
00:40:28,345 --> 00:40:30,718
Give yourself some time to adjust.
690
00:40:30,889 --> 00:40:33,346
And here are some pamphlets
from the Alzheimer's Association
691
00:40:33,517 --> 00:40:36,435
that I think you should read. Also
my card with my phone number on it.
692
00:40:36,603 --> 00:40:37,980
Call me any time day or night
693
00:40:38,146 --> 00:40:40,639
with whatever problems or questions
that you might have.
694
00:40:41,692 --> 00:40:44,943
When faced with a physical
or medical challenge,
695
00:40:45,112 --> 00:40:47,485
a positive attitude is key.
696
00:40:49,157 --> 00:40:51,317
It may be hard to grasp right now.
697
00:40:51,493 --> 00:40:55,159
While it is true that your life
is going to change,
698
00:40:55,330 --> 00:40:56,707
it's not over.
699
00:40:57,249 --> 00:41:00,915
It's just the beginning
of a new chapter.
700
00:41:02,421 --> 00:41:03,833
Thank you, doctor.
701
00:41:22,149 --> 00:41:27,227
- Mom was so beautiful.
- They used to call her the Pink Cloud.
702
00:41:27,821 --> 00:41:29,731
The Pink Cloud?
703
00:41:29,907 --> 00:41:32,992
When we were dating,
I would take her out dancing.
704
00:41:33,535 --> 00:41:37,830
She had this pink chiffon dress,
705
00:41:37,998 --> 00:41:41,249
and the way she twirled
around the dance floor.
706
00:41:41,418 --> 00:41:43,626
The Pink Cloud.
707
00:41:47,341 --> 00:41:50,758
I remember when you were born.
708
00:41:50,928 --> 00:41:52,968
I hadn't been a husband that long
and there I was,
709
00:41:53,138 --> 00:41:55,761
moments away from being a father.
710
00:41:55,933 --> 00:41:58,472
And I was just so scared.
711
00:41:58,644 --> 00:42:02,393
And then the nurse came out
and put you in my arms
712
00:42:02,564 --> 00:42:04,605
and all my fears just went away.
713
00:42:06,652 --> 00:42:08,361
You did that.
714
00:42:10,906 --> 00:42:12,734
You made everything better.
715
00:42:17,746 --> 00:42:19,787
I love you, Dad.
716
00:42:21,333 --> 00:42:23,457
I love you too.
717
00:42:28,423 --> 00:42:32,090
I think I'd like to
718
00:42:32,261 --> 00:42:34,550
rest my eyes a bit before dinner.
719
00:42:35,138 --> 00:42:36,764
Okay.
720
00:42:36,814 --> 00:42:41,364
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