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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,102 --> 00:00:02,803 We're doing a documentary on mindfulness. 2 00:00:02,836 --> 00:00:04,305 You guys know anything about mindfulness? 3 00:00:04,338 --> 00:00:05,239 No? 4 00:00:05,273 --> 00:00:06,074 We're doing a documentary on mindfulness-- 5 00:00:06,107 --> 00:00:06,740 Sorry, we're really late for class. 6 00:00:06,774 --> 00:00:07,741 Oh, go ahead. Go ahead. 7 00:00:07,775 --> 00:00:08,276 Do you know what mindfulness is? Do you practice? 8 00:00:08,309 --> 00:00:09,777 -No. -Not at all? 9 00:00:09,810 --> 00:00:10,778 No. I'm sorry. 10 00:00:10,811 --> 00:00:12,580 Do you guys know anything about mindfulness? 11 00:00:12,613 --> 00:00:13,581 Uh, no. 12 00:00:13,614 --> 00:00:14,148 Do you guys know anything about mindfulness? 13 00:00:14,182 --> 00:00:14,982 Do you practice? No? 14 00:00:15,015 --> 00:00:16,617 -No, sorry. -That's a lot of nos. 15 00:00:16,650 --> 00:00:17,685 Do you guys anything about that? 16 00:00:17,718 --> 00:00:19,387 -Ah, I don't-- -Never heard of it? 17 00:00:19,420 --> 00:00:20,254 OK. 18 00:00:20,288 --> 00:00:21,355 So do you anything about mindfulness? 19 00:00:21,389 --> 00:00:22,290 What is mindfulness? 20 00:00:22,323 --> 00:00:24,292 Have you guys ever heard of mindfulness? 21 00:00:24,325 --> 00:00:25,293 We're doing a documentary. 22 00:00:25,326 --> 00:00:26,727 You ever practice mindfulness? 23 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:28,429 We're doing a documentary on mindfulness. 24 00:00:28,462 --> 00:00:30,398 Hi, we're doing a documentary on mindfulness. 25 00:00:30,431 --> 00:00:31,399 Do you know-- 26 00:00:31,432 --> 00:00:32,200 On what? 27 00:00:32,232 --> 00:00:33,467 On mindfulness. 28 00:00:33,501 --> 00:00:34,435 Mindfulness? 29 00:00:34,468 --> 00:00:38,306 Yeah, it's called "The Mindfulness Movie." 30 00:00:57,158 --> 00:01:00,528 [BABY LAUGHING] 31 00:01:05,132 --> 00:01:06,434 RICK HANSON (VOICEOVER): A baby that's 32 00:01:06,467 --> 00:01:08,369 born, as it were, would not be presumed 33 00:01:08,402 --> 00:01:10,438 to be mindful necessarily. 34 00:01:10,471 --> 00:01:12,373 Because mindfulness involves this 35 00:01:12,406 --> 00:01:15,176 sustained deliberate quality. 36 00:01:15,209 --> 00:01:17,245 PAUL HARRISON (VOICEOVER): Most of the time, most of us 37 00:01:17,277 --> 00:01:18,479 are just not there. 38 00:01:18,512 --> 00:01:19,280 We're mindless. 39 00:01:19,313 --> 00:01:21,815 Their mind wanders 47% of the time. 40 00:01:21,849 --> 00:01:24,685 And when it does wander 47% of the time-- We're not there. 41 00:01:24,718 --> 00:01:25,919 We don't know that we're not there, 42 00:01:25,953 --> 00:01:28,356 because when you're not there, you're not there to notice. 43 00:01:41,235 --> 00:01:42,203 911 OPERATOR (VOICEOVER): 911. 44 00:01:42,235 --> 00:01:43,204 What's your emergency? 45 00:02:01,422 --> 00:02:04,325 JON KABAT-ZINN: The world is starving for something. 46 00:02:04,358 --> 00:02:06,194 And it's not starving for another issue 47 00:02:06,227 --> 00:02:09,530 of "Time Magazine" or "Sports Illustrated." 48 00:02:09,562 --> 00:02:11,765 But it is definitely starving for something. 49 00:02:11,799 --> 00:02:13,534 And it's not just the world. 50 00:02:13,567 --> 00:02:16,304 We are starving for something. 51 00:02:29,350 --> 00:02:30,518 PAUL HARRISON: When I was about 20, 52 00:02:30,551 --> 00:02:34,222 while I was sitting on my desk, working on some problem, 53 00:02:34,255 --> 00:02:37,425 I experienced what I call a shift in perspective. 54 00:02:37,458 --> 00:02:40,961 What had seemed so elusive was really right there front of me. 55 00:02:40,994 --> 00:02:43,631 And at that moment, I realized that what 56 00:02:43,664 --> 00:02:46,234 I needed to do in order to see it was 57 00:02:46,267 --> 00:02:49,237 simply to shift my perspective. 58 00:02:49,270 --> 00:02:50,804 It changed my whole life. 59 00:02:50,838 --> 00:02:52,673 Because for once, I finally got it. 60 00:02:52,706 --> 00:02:53,507 I mean, I really got it. 61 00:02:53,541 --> 00:02:56,244 And I understood myself and I started 62 00:02:56,277 --> 00:02:58,478 to understand others better. 63 00:02:58,512 --> 00:02:59,480 Hi. 64 00:02:59,513 --> 00:03:01,682 I'm Paul Harrison, an architect and an author. 65 00:03:01,715 --> 00:03:04,318 And one of the most common questions I get asked 66 00:03:04,352 --> 00:03:07,688 is why is an architect making a movie about mindfulness. 67 00:03:07,721 --> 00:03:10,258 Well, that's why I want to share this story with you. 68 00:03:10,258 --> 00:03:13,261 You see, I was a typical post hippie generation teenager 69 00:03:13,261 --> 00:03:16,630 from the early '70s with all that reckless and mindless 70 00:03:16,664 --> 00:03:19,433 behavior that made us think we were really cool. 71 00:03:19,466 --> 00:03:21,469 And we loved to challenge all the rules 72 00:03:21,502 --> 00:03:24,672 to the point of ending up with some very serious consequences. 73 00:03:24,704 --> 00:03:25,706 WOMAN (ON RADIO): Suspect down. 74 00:03:25,739 --> 00:03:27,775 Request EMT immediately. 75 00:03:27,808 --> 00:03:30,844 I realized once I left high school that 76 00:03:30,878 --> 00:03:33,981 was no path I wanted to stay on and I was looking for a much 77 00:03:34,014 --> 00:03:36,550 better way to deal with stress, and family 78 00:03:36,584 --> 00:03:38,686 issues, college, making money. 79 00:03:38,719 --> 00:03:41,555 And that led me to begin practicing mindfulness. 80 00:03:41,589 --> 00:03:42,923 And then about a year and a half ago, 81 00:03:42,956 --> 00:03:44,591 I set out on an incredible journey 82 00:03:44,625 --> 00:03:48,529 to find the core teachings of what mindfulness really is. 83 00:03:48,562 --> 00:03:51,465 You see, when I started, I took the street wise approach. 84 00:03:51,499 --> 00:03:53,667 I didn't want to subscribe any one camp, 85 00:03:53,701 --> 00:03:57,004 but rather find what that core essence of mindfulness is. 86 00:03:57,037 --> 00:03:58,839 I met with experts like Ellen Langer 87 00:03:58,872 --> 00:04:01,575 at Harvard, who many of called the mother of mindfulness. 88 00:04:01,609 --> 00:04:04,745 I also met with Congressman Tim Ryan, Guy Claxton 89 00:04:04,778 --> 00:04:08,749 from England, Jeffrey Schwartz, psychiatrist, and even world 90 00:04:08,782 --> 00:04:10,818 renowned authors like Dan Millman 91 00:04:10,851 --> 00:04:12,320 from the "Peaceful Warrior." 92 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,722 And so my mission, my passion, is 93 00:04:14,755 --> 00:04:16,856 to share my journey so you can start 94 00:04:16,890 --> 00:04:18,492 learning about mindfulness. 95 00:04:18,526 --> 00:04:21,562 And even more important, to learn about yourself. 96 00:04:33,374 --> 00:04:34,908 ELLEN LANGER (VOICEOVER): So all certainty creates 97 00:04:34,942 --> 00:04:36,477 an illusion of stability. 98 00:04:36,510 --> 00:04:38,512 So certainty promotes mindlessness. 99 00:04:41,382 --> 00:04:44,852 Mindlessness usually comes about by default. 100 00:04:44,885 --> 00:04:47,054 And it's not motivated, it just it 101 00:04:47,087 --> 00:04:50,824 never occurred to you that this thing could be other things. 102 00:04:50,858 --> 00:04:55,563 Mindless mode is, I think, the mode we're on 90% of the time. 103 00:04:55,596 --> 00:04:58,732 Most of the time, we eat and read the corn flakes box, 104 00:04:58,766 --> 00:05:02,035 or we eat and talk, or eat and dream, or most of us 105 00:05:02,069 --> 00:05:03,003 eat and read. 106 00:05:03,036 --> 00:05:05,373 Or we eat and watch TV. -You get in the car. 107 00:05:05,373 --> 00:05:06,073 You start the car. 108 00:05:06,106 --> 00:05:07,040 Pull it out of the driveway. 109 00:05:07,074 --> 00:05:09,543 You drive somewhere for 10 or 15 minutes. 110 00:05:09,577 --> 00:05:11,745 You arrive and you can't remember how you got there. 111 00:05:11,779 --> 00:05:14,582 You can take a cigarette out of the pack, put it in your mouth, 112 00:05:14,615 --> 00:05:18,386 take out the lighter, light it, and be completely unaware. 113 00:05:18,419 --> 00:05:22,390 And you're going how-- and you don't remember any of that. 114 00:05:22,390 --> 00:05:25,426 Because you were daydreaming the entire time. 115 00:05:25,459 --> 00:05:28,128 And even when we're not in that mode 116 00:05:28,161 --> 00:05:29,397 because we're thinking about something, 117 00:05:29,397 --> 00:05:31,999 we're mindless about almost everything else we're doing. 118 00:05:32,032 --> 00:05:33,200 We aren't really aware of 'em because we're 119 00:05:33,233 --> 00:05:37,538 so busy onto the next thing, anticipating the next thing. 120 00:05:37,571 --> 00:05:38,606 And-- 121 00:05:38,639 --> 00:05:41,842 Mindfulness teachers describe the distracted mind 122 00:05:41,875 --> 00:05:45,679 as monkey mind, a monkey that just jumps around 123 00:05:45,713 --> 00:05:47,147 from one thing to the other. 124 00:05:47,180 --> 00:05:50,518 We'll do something to distract ourselves. 125 00:05:50,551 --> 00:05:52,953 Because most of us the get bored. 126 00:05:52,986 --> 00:05:53,921 We get preoccupied. 127 00:05:53,954 --> 00:05:55,989 We're on the computer when we're at work. 128 00:05:56,023 --> 00:05:56,957 We're just so distracted. 129 00:05:56,990 --> 00:05:59,659 We'll put the radio on, we'll put the TV on. 130 00:05:59,693 --> 00:06:01,061 But I'm not watching it. 131 00:06:01,094 --> 00:06:02,563 It doesn't matter what channel it's on. 132 00:06:02,596 --> 00:06:03,831 It's almost like we're robots and we're 133 00:06:03,864 --> 00:06:04,765 listening to this command. 134 00:06:04,798 --> 00:06:09,537 And the robot can only respond and react. 135 00:06:16,143 --> 00:06:17,811 ROBINA COURTIN (VOICEOVER): Mindfulness, for me, 136 00:06:17,845 --> 00:06:20,080 is just a technique of identifying what's there 137 00:06:20,113 --> 00:06:22,650 and distinguishing between the neurosis and the virtues, 138 00:06:22,683 --> 00:06:25,118 or the good qualities. 139 00:06:25,152 --> 00:06:28,556 The most common definition is paying attention 140 00:06:28,589 --> 00:06:29,957 to present moment experience. 141 00:06:29,990 --> 00:06:33,827 Mindfulness is your natural state of being. 142 00:06:33,861 --> 00:06:35,996 It's the awakening of possibility 143 00:06:36,029 --> 00:06:38,532 and the possibility of awakening. 144 00:06:38,566 --> 00:06:42,069 But also, it's about just noticing what is happening 145 00:06:42,102 --> 00:06:44,572 every moment of the day. 146 00:06:44,605 --> 00:06:45,873 Mindfulness is one thing. 147 00:06:45,906 --> 00:06:47,040 It's paying attention. 148 00:06:47,074 --> 00:06:49,810 To the actions that you are taking. 149 00:06:49,843 --> 00:06:52,613 It's a sustained quality of being present. 150 00:06:52,646 --> 00:06:55,215 It's like being in the zone and you can actually train 151 00:06:55,248 --> 00:06:57,585 your mind to be in the zone. 152 00:06:57,618 --> 00:06:59,920 I call it a basic mind hygiene. 153 00:06:59,953 --> 00:07:03,491 A clear minded observational perspective. 154 00:07:03,491 --> 00:07:04,992 The experience of mindfulness-- 155 00:07:05,025 --> 00:07:07,628 Is turning into reality as it is, 156 00:07:07,661 --> 00:07:09,563 as it unfolds simply right now. 157 00:07:09,597 --> 00:07:12,500 Which is just really the full experience of life. 158 00:07:12,500 --> 00:07:15,202 Without getting lost in thought and becoming forgetful. 159 00:07:15,235 --> 00:07:18,205 Thoughts are representations of reality. 160 00:07:18,238 --> 00:07:20,574 Mindfulness is the actual experience. 161 00:07:20,608 --> 00:07:25,879 Is the ability to go to color white. 162 00:07:25,913 --> 00:07:29,182 So mindfulness is paying attention to the moment 163 00:07:29,216 --> 00:07:33,621 with an open and a willingness to let go of old patterns 164 00:07:33,654 --> 00:07:35,723 and live in the present. 165 00:07:35,756 --> 00:07:36,690 Did you get it? 166 00:07:36,724 --> 00:07:39,627 [PHONE RINGING] 167 00:07:39,659 --> 00:07:40,227 Hello? 168 00:07:40,260 --> 00:07:41,729 Hang on. What? 169 00:07:41,762 --> 00:07:42,763 Did you get it? 170 00:07:42,796 --> 00:07:43,731 Uh. 171 00:07:43,764 --> 00:07:44,998 Were you even watching? 172 00:07:45,032 --> 00:07:47,534 Watching what? 173 00:07:47,568 --> 00:07:49,703 The experts explaining mindfulness. 174 00:07:49,737 --> 00:07:50,871 Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. 175 00:07:50,904 --> 00:07:52,540 I was watching. -Mm. 176 00:07:52,540 --> 00:07:53,073 Mhm. 177 00:07:53,106 --> 00:07:54,107 What did it say? 178 00:07:54,141 --> 00:07:57,778 Well, it-- it was something about mindfulness. 179 00:07:57,811 --> 00:07:59,212 So what does that mean? 180 00:07:59,246 --> 00:08:03,183 Uh, I don't have a clue. 181 00:08:03,216 --> 00:08:05,953 It's because you weren't paying attention. 182 00:08:05,986 --> 00:08:07,821 Uh. 183 00:08:07,855 --> 00:08:09,122 Yeah, no, I did. 184 00:08:09,156 --> 00:08:09,990 I was listening to it. 185 00:08:10,023 --> 00:08:11,258 Yeah, but you weren't paying attention 186 00:08:11,291 --> 00:08:12,259 and that's the problem. 187 00:08:12,292 --> 00:08:13,160 Wait. Wait. 188 00:08:13,193 --> 00:08:14,294 There's a problem? 189 00:08:14,327 --> 00:08:15,763 Yeah, there's a problem. 190 00:08:15,796 --> 00:08:17,030 You don't pay attention. 191 00:08:17,064 --> 00:08:18,699 I don't even know what you mean because I could 192 00:08:18,732 --> 00:08:20,834 easily do two things at a time. 193 00:08:20,868 --> 00:08:22,870 Yeah, you were texting and hearing voices, 194 00:08:22,903 --> 00:08:23,837 but you weren't listening. 195 00:08:23,871 --> 00:08:24,805 What's the difference? 196 00:08:24,838 --> 00:08:26,807 The difference is you were hearing voices, 197 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:28,141 but you weren't actually listening. 198 00:08:28,175 --> 00:08:29,342 It's mindless. 199 00:08:29,376 --> 00:08:32,279 All right, so tell me what they said, if you're so smart. 200 00:08:32,312 --> 00:08:34,114 It's that mindfulness means paying 201 00:08:34,147 --> 00:08:38,085 attention to what is actually happening right now, not later. 202 00:08:38,118 --> 00:08:39,820 This is what you need to work on. 203 00:08:39,852 --> 00:08:42,690 So you just want me to be more aware, 204 00:08:42,722 --> 00:08:45,926 like to hear what's happened and to pay attention 205 00:08:45,959 --> 00:08:47,761 to what's happening right now. 206 00:08:47,795 --> 00:08:48,328 Yes. 207 00:08:48,361 --> 00:08:49,096 That's it. 208 00:08:49,129 --> 00:08:49,863 [SIGH] 209 00:08:49,897 --> 00:08:50,698 That's a start. 210 00:08:55,102 --> 00:08:57,170 JUN PO DENNIS KELLY (VOICEOVER): Go deep enough into witnessing 211 00:08:57,204 --> 00:08:59,106 and observe the function of ego. 212 00:08:59,139 --> 00:09:01,174 And you'll discover that it's just continually 213 00:09:01,208 --> 00:09:05,178 running reactive loops." 214 00:09:05,212 --> 00:09:06,279 PAUL HARRISON: We don't experience 215 00:09:06,313 --> 00:09:08,148 reality as it really as. 216 00:09:08,181 --> 00:09:12,219 We perceive it through a filter that allows us to see only what 217 00:09:12,252 --> 00:09:14,054 we've been conditioned to see. 218 00:09:14,087 --> 00:09:17,958 That's because we've become trapped in the neurobiology 219 00:09:17,991 --> 00:09:19,760 of our own brain. 220 00:09:19,793 --> 00:09:22,195 Just like every tree has a unique set of branches, 221 00:09:22,229 --> 00:09:25,999 every brain has a unique pattern of neurons and connections 222 00:09:26,033 --> 00:09:29,269 that are both genetic and learned over time. 223 00:09:29,302 --> 00:09:33,140 So each and every one of us is wired differently. 224 00:09:33,173 --> 00:09:35,876 And it's the neural architecture of our brains 225 00:09:35,909 --> 00:09:38,245 that tells us who we are and how we're going 226 00:09:38,278 --> 00:09:40,147 to act and react in the world. 227 00:09:40,180 --> 00:09:42,182 Every thought we have is the result 228 00:09:42,215 --> 00:09:45,218 of a network of hundreds of billions of brain cells 229 00:09:45,252 --> 00:09:46,486 called neurons. 230 00:09:46,519 --> 00:09:50,691 Unlike other cells in our body, neurons don't touch each other, 231 00:09:50,724 --> 00:09:55,362 but are separated by microscopic spaces called synapses. 232 00:09:55,395 --> 00:09:57,665 Neurons communicate across these synapses 233 00:09:57,698 --> 00:10:01,769 through chemical transfers that blast from one cell to the next 234 00:10:01,802 --> 00:10:03,403 with a zap of electricity. 235 00:10:03,436 --> 00:10:07,374 Messages zip around our brain like a supersonic pinball 236 00:10:07,407 --> 00:10:08,341 machine. 237 00:10:08,375 --> 00:10:10,644 Each neuron sends and receives information 238 00:10:10,678 --> 00:10:14,247 to 50,000 other neurons in a rapid fire production 239 00:10:14,281 --> 00:10:18,418 that all adds up to 100 billion neurons 240 00:10:18,451 --> 00:10:21,655 times 50,000 connections. 241 00:10:21,689 --> 00:10:23,824 In fact, there are more connections 242 00:10:23,857 --> 00:10:26,259 between neurons in a single human brain than there 243 00:10:26,293 --> 00:10:28,729 are stars in our galaxy. 244 00:10:28,762 --> 00:10:30,964 The result is a complex neural forest 245 00:10:30,998 --> 00:10:34,067 of networks that form our personality, 246 00:10:34,101 --> 00:10:36,737 our identity, and our habits. 247 00:10:36,770 --> 00:10:39,673 Hardly ever do we find trees that grow alike 248 00:10:39,707 --> 00:10:42,710 and we don't find brains that grow alike. 249 00:10:42,743 --> 00:10:44,778 We are all unique. 250 00:10:44,812 --> 00:10:47,180 While these trillions of neuron networks 251 00:10:47,214 --> 00:10:51,151 often work in concert to create brainstorms of creativity 252 00:10:51,184 --> 00:10:54,187 and new ideas, their primary purpose 253 00:10:54,221 --> 00:10:57,424 is to keep each and every one of us alive and safe 254 00:10:57,457 --> 00:11:01,862 by recognizing patterns as they access a constantly 255 00:11:01,895 --> 00:11:03,864 changing environment. 256 00:11:03,897 --> 00:11:07,167 But sometimes, things get stuck. 257 00:11:10,070 --> 00:11:13,373 Who, of us, doesn't have some form of addictive behavior 258 00:11:13,406 --> 00:11:14,241 or another? 259 00:11:14,274 --> 00:11:17,778 Maybe for a-- for personal comfort, 260 00:11:17,811 --> 00:11:20,848 or because of a desire, or whatever is behind it, 261 00:11:20,881 --> 00:11:24,417 and changing them is very difficult for a lot of people 262 00:11:24,451 --> 00:11:25,753 and they struggle with that. 263 00:11:25,753 --> 00:11:29,322 And so a lot of them are stuck in old routines, old patterns. 264 00:11:29,356 --> 00:11:32,259 Eventually, we becomes stuck in these patterns 265 00:11:32,292 --> 00:11:34,227 and live our lives on auto pilot. 266 00:11:34,261 --> 00:11:36,864 Essentially, becoming more and more mindless 267 00:11:36,897 --> 00:11:39,933 as we continue to view the world through filters 268 00:11:39,967 --> 00:11:43,270 instead of seeing things as they really are. 269 00:11:43,303 --> 00:11:46,840 As we grow older, our actions and reactions become 270 00:11:46,874 --> 00:11:50,410 conditioned by our hopes, our tensions, anxieties, 271 00:11:50,443 --> 00:11:53,046 motivations, loves, hates, desires, 272 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:54,414 fears, or frustrations. 273 00:11:54,447 --> 00:11:57,384 Thus, we analyze before we experience. 274 00:11:57,417 --> 00:11:59,319 And we filter before we see. 275 00:11:59,352 --> 00:12:02,455 Explaining that in brain terms is not hard to understand. 276 00:12:02,489 --> 00:12:05,859 I've done it in a lot of my writing, which is we have 277 00:12:05,893 --> 00:12:07,828 habits centers in our brain. 278 00:12:07,861 --> 00:12:09,863 These habit centers in our brain, 279 00:12:09,897 --> 00:12:13,000 roughly, are shared with reptiles. 280 00:12:13,033 --> 00:12:16,069 And they are very unconscious. 281 00:12:16,103 --> 00:12:21,008 So you literally do get into behavioral loops that are your 282 00:12:21,041 --> 00:12:23,376 doing without you aware of it. 283 00:12:23,410 --> 00:12:26,346 Our perception operates increasingly like a defense 284 00:12:26,379 --> 00:12:29,850 mechanism, trapping us in patterns of behavior that 285 00:12:29,883 --> 00:12:32,352 have less to do with present reality 286 00:12:32,385 --> 00:12:35,322 and more to do with past experience or expectations. 287 00:12:35,355 --> 00:12:37,557 But if we start changing that neural architecture 288 00:12:37,590 --> 00:12:39,993 through intentionally paying attention to what's here 289 00:12:40,027 --> 00:12:41,862 in a particular way, then we start 290 00:12:41,895 --> 00:12:43,096 training that healthy reactivity, 291 00:12:43,130 --> 00:12:45,833 that more adaptive reactivity. 292 00:12:45,833 --> 00:12:48,268 That can help us with stress, anxiety, depression, 293 00:12:48,301 --> 00:12:51,038 trauma, and even addiction. 294 00:12:51,071 --> 00:12:54,441 As long as we continue to perceive reality as we've been 295 00:12:54,474 --> 00:12:56,844 conditioned to perceive it, we're 296 00:12:56,877 --> 00:12:59,980 destined to live a life in endless reactive 297 00:13:00,013 --> 00:13:02,215 loops of conditioned responses. 298 00:13:02,249 --> 00:13:06,586 Mindfulness changes your relationship with that habit 299 00:13:06,619 --> 00:13:09,456 center so that it's not in control in anything 300 00:13:09,489 --> 00:13:10,557 like the same degree. 301 00:13:10,590 --> 00:13:13,861 By noticing the looping that happens 302 00:13:13,894 --> 00:13:17,230 in any particular moment, that reactive looping, 303 00:13:17,264 --> 00:13:19,900 that's sending us into these states of suffering. 304 00:13:19,933 --> 00:13:23,136 But if you practice mindfulness once or twice 305 00:13:23,170 --> 00:13:26,139 daily, you'll be able to change your brain physiology 306 00:13:26,173 --> 00:13:28,942 and you'll be able to change your nervous system. 307 00:13:28,976 --> 00:13:30,477 Even eight minutes or more a day 308 00:13:30,510 --> 00:13:32,545 can grow measurable neural structure. 309 00:13:32,579 --> 00:13:36,049 So anything in the brain that is changing and being retained 310 00:13:36,083 --> 00:13:38,051 is through some kind of neuroplasticity. 311 00:13:38,085 --> 00:13:40,353 And again, it's not rewiring major pathways. 312 00:13:40,387 --> 00:13:41,955 It's changing the subtle connectivity 313 00:13:41,989 --> 00:13:43,623 of the pathways that exist. 314 00:13:43,656 --> 00:13:46,626 So neuroplasticity changes the brain 315 00:13:46,659 --> 00:13:51,064 from being more centered in primary emotion, the kind 316 00:13:51,098 --> 00:13:53,333 of emotion that we share with all the other mammals 317 00:13:53,366 --> 00:13:56,904 to the executive centers of the brain. 318 00:13:56,937 --> 00:14:00,507 We do form new neurons, new connections. 319 00:14:00,540 --> 00:14:03,643 So when you practice mindfulness, 320 00:14:03,676 --> 00:14:05,979 then we develop new circuits. 321 00:14:06,013 --> 00:14:08,148 Neurons that fire together are wired together 322 00:14:08,181 --> 00:14:09,950 throughout the entire nervous system. 323 00:14:09,983 --> 00:14:12,519 They do so preferentially for what's in the field 324 00:14:12,552 --> 00:14:13,786 of focused attention. 325 00:14:13,820 --> 00:14:17,224 The brain is more plastic, even in adults, than people realize. 326 00:14:17,257 --> 00:14:19,659 I mean there is a lot of room for change 327 00:14:19,692 --> 00:14:20,627 in those habit loops. 328 00:14:20,660 --> 00:14:22,595 And it doesn't-- it does not take that long. 329 00:14:22,629 --> 00:14:27,267 So little mindfulness practices sustained over time 330 00:14:27,300 --> 00:14:30,938 can add up to big changes for the better 331 00:14:30,938 --> 00:14:32,405 over the course of your life. 332 00:14:32,439 --> 00:14:33,273 The brain is plastic. 333 00:14:33,306 --> 00:14:36,944 And what it has learned, it can unlearn. 334 00:14:36,944 --> 00:14:39,947 So becoming mindful means untraining our brains, 335 00:14:39,980 --> 00:14:42,382 emptying them of preconceived patterns. 336 00:14:42,415 --> 00:14:46,619 This easily accessible ability releases us from constraints 337 00:14:46,653 --> 00:14:49,322 and quickly changes mindless behavior 338 00:14:49,356 --> 00:14:50,357 in to mindful behavior. 339 00:14:50,390 --> 00:14:53,060 But what's more important is that mindfulness 340 00:14:53,093 --> 00:14:54,561 actually evolves the brain. 341 00:14:54,594 --> 00:14:58,031 It actually advances the evolutionary process 342 00:14:58,065 --> 00:15:02,202 of our brain to a state where we act in a wiser more 343 00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:05,438 compassionate mode, to not only ourselves, 344 00:15:05,472 --> 00:15:07,440 but to others in our global environment. 345 00:15:11,144 --> 00:15:12,612 So I think if we leave around 5:00 PM, 346 00:15:12,645 --> 00:15:14,147 we should be there around 9-ish. 347 00:15:14,181 --> 00:15:15,182 Yeah. 348 00:15:15,215 --> 00:15:16,283 That sounds good. 349 00:15:16,316 --> 00:15:17,184 Are you excited? 350 00:15:17,217 --> 00:15:17,985 Yeah. 351 00:15:17,985 --> 00:15:18,618 What about you? 352 00:15:18,651 --> 00:15:19,486 Of course. 353 00:15:19,519 --> 00:15:22,222 I've been waiting to go for so long. 354 00:15:22,255 --> 00:15:23,490 Are you going to bring anything? 355 00:15:23,523 --> 00:15:25,658 Um, like what? 356 00:15:25,692 --> 00:15:28,428 Like a surprise. 357 00:15:28,461 --> 00:15:29,262 A surprise? 358 00:15:29,296 --> 00:15:30,497 [PHONE RINGING] 359 00:15:30,530 --> 00:15:32,599 I think it would be nice to get a surprise. 360 00:15:32,632 --> 00:15:34,667 Well, like, if I told you it was a surprise, 361 00:15:34,701 --> 00:15:37,104 then it wouldn't, like, be a surprise. 362 00:15:37,137 --> 00:15:38,605 I know, but I was just give you a 363 00:15:38,638 --> 00:15:41,674 heads up that maybe it would be nice to get a surprise is all. 364 00:15:41,708 --> 00:15:43,310 All right. 365 00:15:43,343 --> 00:15:44,144 Well-- 366 00:15:44,177 --> 00:15:45,378 Why do you keep checking your phone? 367 00:15:45,412 --> 00:15:47,414 I don't keep checking my phone. 368 00:15:47,447 --> 00:15:48,281 Sure, you do. 369 00:15:48,315 --> 00:15:50,350 I pay attention to everything you do 370 00:15:50,383 --> 00:15:51,384 and you keep checking it. 371 00:15:51,418 --> 00:15:53,453 It's a bad habit and it's completely mindless. 372 00:15:53,486 --> 00:15:55,722 Oh, yeah? Well, so what-- what if it is? 373 00:15:55,755 --> 00:15:57,190 What if it's a bad habit? 374 00:15:57,224 --> 00:15:59,192 Because I need your full attention. 375 00:15:59,226 --> 00:16:01,028 And look, now you're getting defensive about it. 376 00:16:01,028 --> 00:16:03,596 It's your reactive loops like swinging all out of control. 377 00:16:03,630 --> 00:16:05,365 You don't even realize it. 378 00:16:05,398 --> 00:16:06,533 Reactive what? 379 00:16:06,566 --> 00:16:07,734 Reactive loops. 380 00:16:07,767 --> 00:16:10,603 It's when you react to the same thing over and over again. 381 00:16:10,637 --> 00:16:12,039 Do you realize you're doing it? 382 00:16:12,072 --> 00:16:13,073 Well, yeah, now I do. 383 00:16:13,106 --> 00:16:14,507 Thanks for you pointing that out. 384 00:16:14,541 --> 00:16:16,276 I realize it. Yeah. 385 00:16:16,309 --> 00:16:17,077 You're welcome. 386 00:16:24,617 --> 00:16:26,586 Now recent research in cognitive science 387 00:16:26,619 --> 00:16:30,790 has confirmed that performance increases when we think less. 388 00:16:30,823 --> 00:16:33,626 If a tennis player were to think of a where a ball might be 389 00:16:33,660 --> 00:16:36,763 instead of seeing where that ball actually is, 390 00:16:36,796 --> 00:16:39,132 it would be too late and he'd miss it. 391 00:16:39,165 --> 00:16:41,468 Mindfulness enables us to respond quickly 392 00:16:41,501 --> 00:16:45,072 and effortlessly to attain peak performance in any situation. 393 00:16:51,111 --> 00:16:54,647 Trying is a really interesting phenomenon because to try to do 394 00:16:54,681 --> 00:16:55,848 something is to not do it. 395 00:16:55,882 --> 00:16:58,585 We're trying to do things, rather than just doing things. 396 00:16:58,618 --> 00:17:00,587 If I said to somebody could I have a glass of water 397 00:17:00,620 --> 00:17:02,589 and they said I'll try to get you a glass of water, 398 00:17:02,622 --> 00:17:04,090 that wouldn't make much sense. 399 00:17:04,124 --> 00:17:06,292 What does trying look like? 400 00:17:06,326 --> 00:17:09,561 And it looks like this. -Try not. 401 00:17:09,596 --> 00:17:10,730 There is no trying. 402 00:17:10,762 --> 00:17:12,299 Just do or do not. 403 00:17:12,332 --> 00:17:14,334 Which is actually very trying. 404 00:17:14,367 --> 00:17:17,804 To be-- to be in that state of kind of having 405 00:17:17,837 --> 00:17:19,205 to look like you're trying. 406 00:17:19,239 --> 00:17:21,840 And accept whatever you do is fine for now. 407 00:17:21,874 --> 00:17:23,310 We'll get better over time. 408 00:17:23,343 --> 00:17:25,311 So don't try to do anything. 409 00:17:25,345 --> 00:17:29,616 A very good example I think is from the film "Matrix." 410 00:17:29,649 --> 00:17:33,320 There is this moment when Morpheus and Neo 411 00:17:33,353 --> 00:17:35,388 having a kung fu sparring. 412 00:17:35,422 --> 00:17:39,526 And Morpheus says don't try to hit me and hit me. 413 00:17:39,559 --> 00:17:41,494 That's exactly-- you know, we're trying to do things, 414 00:17:41,528 --> 00:17:43,796 rather than just doing things. 415 00:17:43,830 --> 00:17:46,566 And mindfulness teaches us how to do things 416 00:17:46,599 --> 00:17:47,767 without trying to do things. 417 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,569 When you prepare for an interview 418 00:17:49,602 --> 00:17:52,605 and you go into the interview and then they ask you questions 419 00:17:52,639 --> 00:17:54,374 that you haven't prepared for, and you're 420 00:17:54,407 --> 00:17:56,509 sort of thrown because you're there ready 421 00:17:56,543 --> 00:17:58,278 made with your answers. 422 00:17:58,311 --> 00:17:59,646 And you don't do a very good job of it. 423 00:17:59,679 --> 00:18:02,182 And then when you come out of the interview 424 00:18:02,215 --> 00:18:04,151 and you're walking down the stairs 425 00:18:04,151 --> 00:18:06,786 and you have what the French [SPEAKING FRENCH]. 426 00:18:06,819 --> 00:18:10,190 It's like, oh, yeah, I should have said that. 427 00:18:10,223 --> 00:18:12,292 I should have-- oh, that's what I should have done. 428 00:18:12,325 --> 00:18:16,163 It's like then you-- then you get your intelligence back. 429 00:18:16,196 --> 00:18:18,665 Before the interview, before you were wise, 430 00:18:18,698 --> 00:18:23,303 and afterwards you are wise, but in between, you are otherwise. 431 00:18:23,336 --> 00:18:25,572 And otherwise means it's like you're trying. 432 00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:28,575 You're trying to find something clever 433 00:18:28,608 --> 00:18:33,180 which you bring to the situation and want to use. 434 00:18:35,748 --> 00:18:37,650 But I think we're able to achieve 435 00:18:37,684 --> 00:18:41,188 with the mindfulness training is the best of both worlds. 436 00:18:41,188 --> 00:18:43,356 The alertness of the central nervous system 437 00:18:43,390 --> 00:18:47,194 without the anxiety and the calm relaxation 438 00:18:47,194 --> 00:18:49,729 and pleasantness of the parasympathetic system 439 00:18:49,762 --> 00:18:51,198 without the drowsiness. 440 00:18:51,198 --> 00:18:52,799 So there was an interesting study 441 00:18:52,832 --> 00:18:55,935 where they were in the scanner, during the same experiment, 442 00:18:55,968 --> 00:18:57,737 and they were presented with the digits 443 00:18:57,770 --> 00:18:59,906 on the screen between 1 and 9. 444 00:18:59,939 --> 00:19:03,443 And they had to judge whether the digit was odd or even. 445 00:19:03,476 --> 00:19:05,745 So as you can imagine, it's a simple task. 446 00:19:05,778 --> 00:19:07,947 You don't need to think about it much. 447 00:19:07,980 --> 00:19:10,817 But they noticed in the data here, 448 00:19:10,850 --> 00:19:12,852 you can see the brain is on fire. 449 00:19:12,885 --> 00:19:15,455 The prefrontal cortex is engaged. 450 00:19:15,488 --> 00:19:17,224 A lot of visual cortex is engaged. 451 00:19:17,257 --> 00:19:18,825 Motor cortex is engaged. 452 00:19:18,858 --> 00:19:20,460 I called it ego effort. 453 00:19:20,493 --> 00:19:22,929 This person has a very strong sense of I 454 00:19:22,962 --> 00:19:24,597 really need to do this task. 455 00:19:24,631 --> 00:19:25,865 I'm really going to go for it. 456 00:19:25,898 --> 00:19:26,999 I'm going to do it well. 457 00:19:27,033 --> 00:19:29,936 Behaviorally, they're performing on the same level. 458 00:19:29,969 --> 00:19:33,440 It's a simple task, what we call on the ceiling level, 459 00:19:33,473 --> 00:19:35,575 so both performing well. 460 00:19:35,608 --> 00:19:39,312 But what happening with the experienced meditator, only 461 00:19:39,346 --> 00:19:42,749 absolutely essential bits of the brain for the performance 462 00:19:42,782 --> 00:19:44,251 of this task. 463 00:19:44,251 --> 00:19:46,919 So one is expending a lot of energy 464 00:19:46,953 --> 00:19:49,722 to do the same task, whereas the other one, just, you can say, 465 00:19:49,756 --> 00:19:50,657 in the state of flow. 466 00:19:54,294 --> 00:19:54,961 Yeah, I don't get it. 467 00:19:54,994 --> 00:19:56,929 Like, I try stuff all the time. 468 00:19:56,963 --> 00:19:57,730 You don't get it? 469 00:19:57,764 --> 00:19:58,498 No. 470 00:19:58,531 --> 00:19:59,466 I don't get it. 471 00:19:59,499 --> 00:20:00,667 OK. 472 00:20:00,700 --> 00:20:02,735 Try to take this pen from me. 473 00:20:02,769 --> 00:20:04,504 OK. 474 00:20:04,537 --> 00:20:06,539 See, you weren't paying attention. 475 00:20:06,573 --> 00:20:07,840 What? 476 00:20:07,874 --> 00:20:08,941 So-- 477 00:20:08,975 --> 00:20:11,478 Try to take the pen from me. 478 00:20:11,511 --> 00:20:12,279 OK. 479 00:20:12,312 --> 00:20:13,913 See, you're not paying attention. 480 00:20:13,946 --> 00:20:16,683 -Well-- -I said try to take the pen. 481 00:20:16,716 --> 00:20:18,485 I didn't say take the pen. 482 00:20:18,518 --> 00:20:19,619 Well, what do you mean? 483 00:20:19,652 --> 00:20:21,488 Well, trying is not doing. 484 00:20:21,521 --> 00:20:22,855 Hold the pen. -OK. 485 00:20:26,726 --> 00:20:27,494 See? 486 00:20:27,527 --> 00:20:28,761 I'm trying to take the pen, but I'm 487 00:20:28,795 --> 00:20:31,431 not actually taking the pen. 488 00:20:31,464 --> 00:20:32,365 Remember? 489 00:20:32,399 --> 00:20:35,702 Mindfulness teaches you to do, not try. 490 00:20:35,735 --> 00:20:39,406 Yeah. I mean, maybe. 491 00:20:39,439 --> 00:20:40,673 Maybe you'll remember the next time 492 00:20:40,707 --> 00:20:44,277 you try to meet me on time. -Yeah, maybe. 493 00:20:53,986 --> 00:20:57,690 The essence of mindfulness is to observe what's there 494 00:20:57,724 --> 00:21:00,527 and what we bring that observation to, 495 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,029 with the quality of being aware of our own awareness. 496 00:21:03,062 --> 00:21:05,565 Which is sort of the opposite of being absent-minded. 497 00:21:05,598 --> 00:21:08,801 It's like dedicating your awareness 498 00:21:08,835 --> 00:21:11,037 to the present moment. 499 00:21:11,070 --> 00:21:13,640 You're either mindful in your whole body 500 00:21:13,673 --> 00:21:17,610 and in your interactions or you're sleep and unconscious. 501 00:21:17,644 --> 00:21:20,513 And there's nothing like a close relationship 502 00:21:20,547 --> 00:21:23,983 to show you, to mirror, what your unconscious patterns are. 503 00:21:24,016 --> 00:21:26,753 So first step is to just be with what's 504 00:21:26,786 --> 00:21:29,856 there, which means that all that's there is mindfulness. 505 00:21:29,889 --> 00:21:31,057 We're just aware of it. 506 00:21:31,090 --> 00:21:34,361 We're paying attention, being present, rather than being 507 00:21:34,394 --> 00:21:36,028 distracted by so many thoughts. 508 00:21:36,062 --> 00:21:38,064 If you want to summarize it, mindfulness 509 00:21:38,097 --> 00:21:41,368 allows you to be authentically present 510 00:21:41,401 --> 00:21:44,837 without the interference of preoccupations 511 00:21:44,871 --> 00:21:46,673 about the past or the future. 512 00:21:46,706 --> 00:21:50,042 So baby that's born, as it were, 513 00:21:50,076 --> 00:21:52,845 would not be presumed to be mindful necessarily. 514 00:21:52,879 --> 00:21:56,749 Because mindfulness involves this sustained deliberate 515 00:21:56,783 --> 00:21:58,050 quality of recollectiveness. 516 00:21:58,084 --> 00:22:01,120 It's the capacity of human beings to be aware. 517 00:22:01,153 --> 00:22:03,089 And our human awareness can be focused 518 00:22:03,122 --> 00:22:04,957 in something we call attention. 519 00:22:04,991 --> 00:22:08,761 So being able to be attentive to what we're 520 00:22:08,795 --> 00:22:11,398 doing, which is the essence of mindfulness, 521 00:22:11,398 --> 00:22:12,599 is incredibly helpful. 522 00:22:12,632 --> 00:22:16,503 We just are operating in an incomplete field of awareness. 523 00:22:16,536 --> 00:22:20,407 And I'm not sure the field of awareness can ever be complete, 524 00:22:20,407 --> 00:22:21,641 but it can be much faster. 525 00:22:21,674 --> 00:22:23,976 And it makes you mindful of these very 526 00:22:24,010 --> 00:22:26,813 fundamental physical processes. 527 00:22:26,846 --> 00:22:30,450 And it makes you feel more grounded in your own body. 528 00:22:30,483 --> 00:22:32,785 So when you practice mindfulness, 529 00:22:32,819 --> 00:22:35,021 you're not only becoming more aware of things 530 00:22:35,054 --> 00:22:36,122 that before you weren't aware of, 531 00:22:36,155 --> 00:22:38,725 but you're developing these skills that can allow 532 00:22:38,758 --> 00:22:40,460 you to sense the inner world. 533 00:22:40,493 --> 00:22:41,561 Awareness is change. 534 00:22:41,594 --> 00:22:44,063 It is the action of change. 535 00:22:44,096 --> 00:22:48,568 And we need to awaken the mind, expand out sense of self 536 00:22:48,601 --> 00:22:53,139 to really alert our attention, to expand our awareness. 537 00:22:53,172 --> 00:22:55,575 And you can use mindfulness as a process to do it. 538 00:22:55,608 --> 00:23:00,513 So once you're aware of that, you can change it. 539 00:23:00,547 --> 00:23:03,149 Until you're aware of it, you can't change it. 540 00:23:10,590 --> 00:23:11,824 Cultivate some mindfulness. 541 00:23:11,858 --> 00:23:12,725 Be present. 542 00:23:12,759 --> 00:23:14,727 Practice being in your body, practice 543 00:23:14,761 --> 00:23:18,197 tasting your food in a way that is fascinated 544 00:23:18,230 --> 00:23:20,800 and absorbed and nonjudgmental. 545 00:23:20,833 --> 00:23:23,836 So mindfulness is about noticing what you're feeling, 546 00:23:23,870 --> 00:23:26,072 paying attention, and not judging it. 547 00:23:26,105 --> 00:23:28,708 By non-judgemental the explanation is-- 548 00:23:28,741 --> 00:23:29,776 Don't edit. 549 00:23:29,809 --> 00:23:32,745 I mean, it's got-- you've got to let it come in. 550 00:23:32,779 --> 00:23:37,149 So it's an awareness without the discriminating mind, 551 00:23:37,183 --> 00:23:39,552 without a mind that is saying this 552 00:23:39,586 --> 00:23:42,489 is better than that, comparing without the comparing mind. 553 00:23:42,489 --> 00:23:44,791 So it's good to notice when our mind is wandering 554 00:23:44,824 --> 00:23:47,494 and be able to take note of it without judgment, 555 00:23:47,527 --> 00:23:49,095 and be curious about what's on the mind, 556 00:23:49,128 --> 00:23:50,663 and gently bring it back. 557 00:23:50,697 --> 00:23:54,567 So pay attention with a curious, receptive perspective, 558 00:23:54,601 --> 00:23:58,170 allowing you to see new aspects and angles in everyday events. 559 00:24:00,807 --> 00:24:01,974 Close your eyes. 560 00:24:02,008 --> 00:24:02,775 Mm, why? 561 00:24:02,809 --> 00:24:04,076 Because I want to test something. 562 00:24:04,110 --> 00:24:06,813 OK. 563 00:24:06,846 --> 00:24:07,747 You feel anything? 564 00:24:07,780 --> 00:24:08,414 I don't know. 565 00:24:08,515 --> 00:24:09,882 What am I supposed to feel? 566 00:24:09,916 --> 00:24:11,684 Oh, great. 567 00:24:11,718 --> 00:24:13,986 Learning what I already knew. 568 00:24:14,020 --> 00:24:14,821 Oh, really? 569 00:24:14,854 --> 00:24:16,022 What's-- what's that? 570 00:24:16,055 --> 00:24:18,658 That you're completely unaware of everything around you. 571 00:24:18,691 --> 00:24:20,693 Woo, what makes you so special? 572 00:24:20,727 --> 00:24:21,528 I'm aware. 573 00:24:21,528 --> 00:24:22,161 Oh, really? 574 00:24:22,194 --> 00:24:23,630 Big deal. -Yeah, really. 575 00:24:23,663 --> 00:24:25,131 Why don't you test me? Go ahead. 576 00:24:25,164 --> 00:24:26,833 -All right, I will test you. -OK. 577 00:24:26,866 --> 00:24:27,667 All right. 578 00:24:27,700 --> 00:24:29,536 What am I doing? 579 00:24:29,536 --> 00:24:31,103 Waving your hands in front of my face. 580 00:24:31,137 --> 00:24:32,705 Yeah, because you're obviously cheating. 581 00:24:32,739 --> 00:24:34,073 I'm not. I'm not cheating. 582 00:24:34,106 --> 00:24:34,841 Yeah, you're looking. 583 00:24:34,874 --> 00:24:35,975 No, I'm not. 584 00:24:36,008 --> 00:24:38,978 Do something else. 585 00:24:39,011 --> 00:24:41,681 Four fingers in front of my face. 586 00:24:41,714 --> 00:24:43,282 All right. 587 00:24:43,315 --> 00:24:45,752 Mm, three fingers. 588 00:24:45,785 --> 00:24:47,654 Oh, come on, make it harder. 589 00:24:47,687 --> 00:24:49,288 Your hands are above my head. -What? 590 00:24:49,321 --> 00:24:51,057 How are you doing that? 591 00:24:51,090 --> 00:24:52,792 Because I'm completely aware. 592 00:24:52,825 --> 00:24:53,760 Don't you want to be aware? 593 00:24:53,793 --> 00:24:55,194 Yeah, sure. 594 00:24:55,227 --> 00:24:57,730 OK, so then start paying attention to the little things 595 00:24:57,764 --> 00:24:59,799 around you by being mindful. 596 00:24:59,832 --> 00:25:01,233 I mean, I'll try. 597 00:25:01,267 --> 00:25:04,270 -No, there's no try, remember? -Oh, yeah, right. 598 00:25:04,303 --> 00:25:05,938 I forgot about that. 599 00:25:05,972 --> 00:25:08,240 So. 600 00:25:08,274 --> 00:25:10,577 JEFFREY M. SCHWARTZ (VOICEOVER): You are not your brain 601 00:25:10,577 --> 00:25:14,213 means you are not your thought. 602 00:25:14,246 --> 00:25:16,749 What happens during mindfulness practice 603 00:25:16,783 --> 00:25:19,151 is that people are less likely to be, 604 00:25:19,185 --> 00:25:23,923 as it were, constantly stressed, rushed off their feet. 605 00:25:23,956 --> 00:25:26,826 But also, they're less likely to respond 606 00:25:26,859 --> 00:25:28,294 to their own negative thinking. 607 00:25:28,327 --> 00:25:30,663 But the first step is to stop and be 608 00:25:30,697 --> 00:25:33,966 aware of your emotional state. 609 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:37,036 And recognizing that you have thought, 610 00:25:37,069 --> 00:25:39,271 but you aren't your thoughts, that you don't have 611 00:25:39,305 --> 00:25:43,209 to identify with the voice that's producing 612 00:25:43,242 --> 00:25:44,376 thoughts in your mind. 613 00:25:44,410 --> 00:25:47,279 That thought that's coming in, I mean, that is not you. 614 00:25:47,313 --> 00:25:51,350 That's a production of your habits, of your experience, 615 00:25:51,383 --> 00:25:53,753 but it's a commentary on your experience. 616 00:25:53,786 --> 00:25:55,121 It isn't your experience. 617 00:25:55,154 --> 00:25:57,289 It's like mistaking the menu for the meal 618 00:25:57,323 --> 00:25:58,224 that you're going to eat. 619 00:25:58,257 --> 00:26:01,293 So your emotional states are recognized 620 00:26:01,327 --> 00:26:04,997 as being emotional states, not who you are. 621 00:26:05,031 --> 00:26:07,366 And they're always passing, they're always in flux. 622 00:26:07,399 --> 00:26:11,337 It's happy, and sad, and angry, and fearful. 623 00:26:11,370 --> 00:26:15,174 Mindful awareness is like this vast sky, where problems 624 00:26:15,207 --> 00:26:17,376 and concerns and issues are like these little passing 625 00:26:17,409 --> 00:26:22,815 clouds or thoughts that just pass through your mind. 626 00:26:22,849 --> 00:26:23,683 Look at that thought. 627 00:26:23,716 --> 00:26:24,984 Oh, you mean my thought? 628 00:26:25,017 --> 00:26:25,918 Yeah. 629 00:26:25,952 --> 00:26:28,154 Yeah, that's from last night. 630 00:26:28,187 --> 00:26:29,155 I know. 631 00:26:29,188 --> 00:26:31,724 Yeah, that's actually-- I was mad last night, 632 00:26:31,758 --> 00:26:33,960 so that's like one angry little thought. 633 00:26:33,993 --> 00:26:34,794 Yeah, I know. 634 00:26:34,827 --> 00:26:36,896 But don't judge it. Just look at it. 635 00:26:36,929 --> 00:26:38,164 But why? 636 00:26:38,197 --> 00:26:39,365 Because when you judge your thoughts, 637 00:26:39,398 --> 00:26:42,001 then you're engaging in it, and then it just upsets you. 638 00:26:42,034 --> 00:26:43,269 Yeah, I actually got pretty upset, 639 00:26:43,302 --> 00:26:45,071 like watching my thoughts. 640 00:26:45,104 --> 00:26:46,338 Well, don't be upset, OK? 641 00:26:46,372 --> 00:26:48,274 Let me explain this to you. 642 00:26:48,307 --> 00:26:50,276 Like, if my hand is the thought, OK? 643 00:26:50,309 --> 00:26:51,177 Mhm. 644 00:26:51,210 --> 00:26:53,746 The space in between is the awareness. 645 00:26:53,780 --> 00:26:57,950 Don't focus on my hand, focus on the awareness. 646 00:26:57,984 --> 00:26:59,018 You see? 647 00:26:59,051 --> 00:27:02,689 When you're mindful of it, then you feel better. 648 00:27:02,722 --> 00:27:04,924 Wow, that's actually pretty awesome. 649 00:27:04,957 --> 00:27:05,758 Yeah. 650 00:27:05,792 --> 00:27:08,094 You know, like when you're mindless, 651 00:27:08,127 --> 00:27:10,062 then your brain doesn't understand it. 652 00:27:10,096 --> 00:27:12,198 But if you're mindful, your brain gets it. 653 00:27:12,231 --> 00:27:13,432 You just need to change your brain. 654 00:27:13,465 --> 00:27:15,201 Well, what's wrong with the one I have? 655 00:27:15,234 --> 00:27:16,235 Where do I start? 656 00:27:16,268 --> 00:27:17,970 Well, yeah, that's real funny. 657 00:27:18,004 --> 00:27:19,271 Well, at least you're starting to get it. 658 00:27:19,305 --> 00:27:23,209 Yeah, I mean, I am. 659 00:27:23,242 --> 00:27:26,412 So mindfulness can get you out of these reactive loops 660 00:27:26,445 --> 00:27:29,749 and change the structure of your brain. 661 00:27:29,782 --> 00:27:31,417 FRED ALAN WOLF (VOICEOVER): "Remember what you did bad 662 00:27:31,450 --> 00:27:34,286 or did on mindfully and try to bring mindfulness 663 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,023 into it the next time a similar action in your life 664 00:27:37,056 --> 00:27:38,991 takes place. 665 00:27:39,025 --> 00:27:41,027 It's really hard to say all of a sudden, 666 00:27:41,060 --> 00:27:42,829 I'm not going to be fearful or anxious 667 00:27:42,862 --> 00:27:45,798 or depressed or whatever today. 668 00:27:45,832 --> 00:27:48,901 You can't just tell yourself and it goes away, right? 669 00:27:48,935 --> 00:27:50,903 We wouldn't need shrinks and mindfulness 670 00:27:50,937 --> 00:27:53,105 and all these other things if that's the way it worked. 671 00:27:53,139 --> 00:27:54,240 So-- 672 00:27:54,273 --> 00:27:57,043 You can choose to get in touch with this idea of choice, 673 00:27:57,076 --> 00:27:58,277 what I call a choice point. 674 00:27:58,310 --> 00:28:00,046 You can choose what you want to do with it. 675 00:28:00,079 --> 00:28:01,981 How do you want to relate to life? 676 00:28:02,014 --> 00:28:03,115 You're not-- you don't need to be 677 00:28:03,149 --> 00:28:06,385 enslaved by the automatic reactions that are there. 678 00:28:06,418 --> 00:28:09,388 Consciousness tries to get control of it, but it's hard. 679 00:28:09,421 --> 00:28:13,125 And basically what we have to do is we observe ourselves acting 680 00:28:13,159 --> 00:28:15,294 in a certain way, and then we try 681 00:28:15,327 --> 00:28:20,032 to put in checks and balances in our brains that let us cope 682 00:28:20,066 --> 00:28:22,368 with those reactions when they are occurring, 683 00:28:22,401 --> 00:28:25,371 rather than preventing them from occurring in the first place. 684 00:28:25,404 --> 00:28:27,339 That's the hard part, preventing them from occurring. 685 00:28:27,373 --> 00:28:34,413 You are choosing to shift your center of identification 686 00:28:34,446 --> 00:28:36,883 from the stream to the watcher. 687 00:28:36,916 --> 00:28:41,921 And mindfulness can give you better control over your-- 688 00:28:41,954 --> 00:28:44,090 not only your cortex, but your ability of your cortex 689 00:28:44,123 --> 00:28:46,893 to control the other parts of your brain. 690 00:28:46,926 --> 00:28:50,262 Why would one choose self-limitation when you 691 00:28:50,296 --> 00:28:52,832 can be more free, more open? 692 00:28:55,467 --> 00:28:56,368 Wait a minute. 693 00:28:56,402 --> 00:28:57,303 What are you doing? 694 00:28:57,336 --> 00:28:59,005 Well, I'm calling you out. 695 00:28:59,038 --> 00:29:00,272 Calling me out? 696 00:29:00,306 --> 00:29:03,542 Yeah, I'm sick of you thinking you're so much better than me. 697 00:29:03,575 --> 00:29:05,511 Mindfulness this isn't about being better. 698 00:29:05,544 --> 00:29:08,881 Oh, there you go again with that little mindfulness talk. 699 00:29:08,915 --> 00:29:10,850 All right, if this is how you want it, 700 00:29:10,883 --> 00:29:11,918 then I'm going to show you. 701 00:29:11,951 --> 00:29:13,385 Yeah, I'm calling you out. 702 00:29:17,056 --> 00:29:18,858 It didn't have to be this way, you know. 703 00:29:18,891 --> 00:29:20,559 If you stopped thinking you were better than me, 704 00:29:20,592 --> 00:29:22,194 I wouldn't even have to do this. 705 00:29:22,228 --> 00:29:23,429 Don't you get it? 706 00:29:23,462 --> 00:29:26,132 You have them both, mindful and mindless. 707 00:29:26,165 --> 00:29:27,533 It's part of the same coin. 708 00:29:27,566 --> 00:29:29,836 I'm saying you've got both side of the coin. 709 00:29:29,869 --> 00:29:31,303 What's all this coin talk? 710 00:29:31,337 --> 00:29:35,107 I'm saying you get to choose which one you use-- be mindful 711 00:29:35,141 --> 00:29:36,175 or being mindless. 712 00:29:36,208 --> 00:29:37,944 You have both parts to you. 713 00:29:37,977 --> 00:29:39,578 But I thought I always had to be mindful. 714 00:29:39,611 --> 00:29:41,413 MINDFUL: Not at all. 715 00:29:41,447 --> 00:29:44,016 Look, every day, when you're doing your routine, 716 00:29:44,050 --> 00:29:46,853 you're using the mindless side because you're used to it. 717 00:29:46,886 --> 00:29:49,355 It's a routine, so you just go through the motions. 718 00:29:49,388 --> 00:29:51,858 But what happens is, over time, you tend 719 00:29:51,858 --> 00:29:53,225 to do that for your whole life. 720 00:29:53,259 --> 00:29:56,562 So you need to be mindful of other parts of your life, 721 00:29:56,595 --> 00:29:59,198 so that you're not mindless all the time. 722 00:29:59,231 --> 00:30:02,034 So does this mean I can't call you out? 723 00:30:02,068 --> 00:30:03,169 No. 724 00:30:03,202 --> 00:30:05,404 But if you really want to, we'll do it this one time 725 00:30:05,437 --> 00:30:07,406 and it can be our mindless moment together. 726 00:30:07,439 --> 00:30:09,441 All right. Are you ready? 727 00:30:09,475 --> 00:30:10,376 Are you ready? 728 00:30:10,409 --> 00:30:11,377 Yeah, I'm ready. 729 00:30:11,410 --> 00:30:12,411 All right, bring it. 730 00:30:20,486 --> 00:30:21,620 Ow. 731 00:30:21,653 --> 00:30:25,958 Man, I'm hit, and you-- you didn't even draw your gun. 732 00:30:25,992 --> 00:30:27,927 You didn't even get hit. 733 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,328 You're not even paying attention. 734 00:30:29,361 --> 00:30:30,562 See? 735 00:30:30,596 --> 00:30:33,032 When you're mindful, you'll start realizing these things. 736 00:30:33,065 --> 00:30:35,301 So start practicing. 737 00:30:35,334 --> 00:30:38,170 I'll practice just for you. 738 00:30:38,204 --> 00:30:40,072 ELLEN LANGER (VOICEOVER): Mindfulness, as I study it, 739 00:30:40,106 --> 00:30:45,311 it's the very simple process of noticing new things. 740 00:30:45,344 --> 00:30:48,014 And as you notice new things, several things happen. 741 00:30:48,047 --> 00:30:50,917 The first is that you come to see you didn't know it 742 00:30:50,950 --> 00:30:52,118 as well as you thought you did. 743 00:30:52,151 --> 00:30:54,586 It's like pulling back the curtain on the "Wizard of Oz," 744 00:30:54,620 --> 00:30:55,754 and we see what's really. 745 00:30:55,787 --> 00:31:00,159 And this act of noticing is the essence of engagement. 746 00:31:00,192 --> 00:31:02,161 It just opens you up to becoming 747 00:31:02,194 --> 00:31:05,264 aware of things that were there before 748 00:31:05,297 --> 00:31:06,933 but were not in awareness. 749 00:31:06,933 --> 00:31:08,534 It doesn't matter what you notice. 750 00:31:08,567 --> 00:31:12,138 The things you notice can be silly, but just the noticing 751 00:31:12,171 --> 00:31:14,140 breaks down the boundary between you 752 00:31:14,173 --> 00:31:15,574 and that which is being noticed. 753 00:31:15,607 --> 00:31:19,278 So now, everything that's old becomes new again, in some 754 00:31:19,311 --> 00:31:21,313 sense, and becomes naturally interesting. 755 00:31:21,347 --> 00:31:23,649 And life becomes a bit less serious 756 00:31:23,682 --> 00:31:26,352 and we become-- we take ourselves less seriously. 757 00:31:26,385 --> 00:31:30,156 So you're more energetic when you're doing this, not less so. 758 00:31:30,189 --> 00:31:31,323 The neurons are firing. 759 00:31:31,357 --> 00:31:34,526 And in the earliest work we did, when we taught people 760 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:36,662 to be mindful in nursing homes, we 761 00:31:36,695 --> 00:31:38,264 found that they lived longer. 762 00:31:38,297 --> 00:31:42,334 So really, our only choice is are we paying attention 763 00:31:42,368 --> 00:31:43,269 or are we not. 764 00:31:43,302 --> 00:31:45,671 And in even at that, some people will pay 765 00:31:45,704 --> 00:31:49,141 attention better than others. 766 00:31:49,175 --> 00:31:50,142 What do you think? 767 00:31:50,176 --> 00:31:51,710 About what? 768 00:31:51,743 --> 00:31:52,544 Look. 769 00:31:52,578 --> 00:31:53,112 Well, I'm looking. 770 00:31:53,145 --> 00:31:54,981 I'm looking. What? 771 00:31:55,014 --> 00:31:55,681 Are you blind? 772 00:31:55,714 --> 00:31:57,149 No. 773 00:31:57,183 --> 00:31:58,550 Look at it. 774 00:31:58,584 --> 00:32:00,719 What am I supposed to see? 775 00:32:00,752 --> 00:32:02,554 My new hair. 776 00:32:02,588 --> 00:32:03,555 Oh, yeah. 777 00:32:03,589 --> 00:32:04,423 Duh. 778 00:32:04,456 --> 00:32:05,624 That's new hair. 779 00:32:05,657 --> 00:32:09,328 You're just being mindless again, not noticing new things. 780 00:32:09,361 --> 00:32:11,463 Oh, you know what? Well, whoop-dee-doo, OK? 781 00:32:11,497 --> 00:32:12,598 So I don't notice things. 782 00:32:12,631 --> 00:32:15,434 Well, you need to be more mindful so you can notice 783 00:32:15,467 --> 00:32:18,204 new things and pay attention, therefore, 784 00:32:18,237 --> 00:32:20,006 paying better attention to me. 785 00:32:20,006 --> 00:32:21,373 OK, OK, yeah, I got it. 786 00:32:21,407 --> 00:32:22,208 Do you get it? 787 00:32:22,241 --> 00:32:23,142 Yes, I got it. 788 00:32:23,175 --> 00:32:24,010 OK. 789 00:32:34,220 --> 00:32:38,024 We're beginning to drill down through mindfulness practice 790 00:32:38,024 --> 00:32:40,559 into the core question of psychology, 791 00:32:40,592 --> 00:32:42,561 like who the hell are we in the first place, what 792 00:32:42,594 --> 00:32:44,496 does it-- what is the self? 793 00:32:44,530 --> 00:32:47,366 That's what the study of psychology is all about. 794 00:32:47,399 --> 00:32:51,570 The term ego gets a bad rep, but it was meant neutral. 795 00:32:51,603 --> 00:32:55,574 By Freud, for example, he drew on the original Latin and Greek 796 00:32:55,607 --> 00:32:57,743 roots to use the word ego meaning Ich, 797 00:32:57,776 --> 00:33:01,047 or I. It simply is a self-identification. 798 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:05,484 It's ego, whether it's a hyper inflated-- the best person-- 799 00:33:05,517 --> 00:33:07,686 best speaker in the world, or I'm the worst in the world 800 00:33:07,719 --> 00:33:09,155 and people aren't going to like me. 801 00:33:09,188 --> 00:33:10,489 Both of those are ego driven. 802 00:33:10,522 --> 00:33:12,291 When someone says you have a huge ego, 803 00:33:12,324 --> 00:33:14,393 that's not normally considered a compliment. 804 00:33:14,426 --> 00:33:18,197 An individual person's identity, that's not a problem. 805 00:33:18,230 --> 00:33:21,667 Egotism, concern about one's self and concern 806 00:33:21,700 --> 00:33:24,803 about how the outcome of your performance 807 00:33:24,836 --> 00:33:27,439 is going to reflect on your feelings about yourself 808 00:33:27,473 --> 00:33:29,375 and what other people will think of you, 809 00:33:29,408 --> 00:33:32,611 all of that complication, that is what gets in the way. 810 00:33:32,644 --> 00:33:35,314 But I think we have the possibility 811 00:33:35,347 --> 00:33:38,617 to evolve culturally to understand 812 00:33:38,650 --> 00:33:41,487 the neurobiology of a separate cell 813 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,789 and how it is in fact a delusion. 814 00:33:43,822 --> 00:33:46,492 So the conscious self is not in charge. 815 00:33:46,525 --> 00:33:47,693 It's here to learn. 816 00:33:47,726 --> 00:33:50,096 That's the function of the ego, to learn 817 00:33:50,096 --> 00:33:51,497 what we need for this lifetime. 818 00:33:51,530 --> 00:33:54,833 So much in modern culture promotes competition 819 00:33:54,866 --> 00:33:57,103 and a sense of self as separate. 820 00:33:57,136 --> 00:34:00,706 These are culturally learned delusions. 821 00:34:00,739 --> 00:34:02,841 And sadly, they're not only making 822 00:34:02,874 --> 00:34:05,211 people have meaningless lives and 823 00:34:05,244 --> 00:34:09,215 unhealthy physiological states, but it's destroying our planet. 824 00:34:09,248 --> 00:34:14,253 Mindfulness is an invitation to actually experience in reality 825 00:34:14,286 --> 00:34:16,121 how interconnected we are. 826 00:34:16,121 --> 00:34:19,190 And I'm going to get joy from your accomplishments. 827 00:34:19,225 --> 00:34:21,560 I mean, that's the kind of world we need to push for. 828 00:34:21,592 --> 00:34:26,364 To give you an example, people that are in institutions where 829 00:34:26,398 --> 00:34:29,568 they're chronically depressed, if you listen to them as they 830 00:34:29,601 --> 00:34:32,804 talk, every third word is I. I'm not feeling this, 831 00:34:32,838 --> 00:34:34,406 I'm feeling-- I'm feeling terrible. 832 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:36,842 I-- I did-- I'm guilty, I'm bad, I did this, 833 00:34:36,875 --> 00:34:41,413 I did that, I, I, I, I, I, I, I. I is like the color white. 834 00:34:41,447 --> 00:34:42,681 It has no color. 835 00:34:42,714 --> 00:34:48,154 You color it red, blue, green with a feeling that represents 836 00:34:48,154 --> 00:34:52,524 the personality that you feel is the correct personality 837 00:34:52,558 --> 00:34:53,891 for that action. 838 00:34:53,925 --> 00:34:55,860 And you may have gotten this from observing 839 00:34:55,893 --> 00:34:57,763 your parents or other parental figures 840 00:34:57,796 --> 00:35:03,502 or friends or whatever who adapt similar types of colorings 841 00:35:03,535 --> 00:35:06,205 to their I word when they're having 842 00:35:06,238 --> 00:35:10,376 a certain emotional response to a situation. 843 00:35:10,409 --> 00:35:15,447 Mindfulness is the ability to go to color white. 844 00:35:27,393 --> 00:35:29,395 Um, I think I, like, want you to teach me how 845 00:35:29,428 --> 00:35:30,796 to become, like, more mindful. 846 00:35:30,829 --> 00:35:32,664 Oh, great. 847 00:35:32,698 --> 00:35:34,400 Yeah, because, like, the other day, 848 00:35:34,433 --> 00:35:36,802 I just had, like, this little incident, 849 00:35:36,835 --> 00:35:38,770 where I wasn't mindful. 850 00:35:38,804 --> 00:35:39,505 What happened? 851 00:35:39,538 --> 00:35:40,706 Well, it's kind of a long story, 852 00:35:40,739 --> 00:35:44,510 but basically, like, I was just on my phone, like texting, 853 00:35:44,543 --> 00:35:46,212 and I was just crossing the street. 854 00:35:46,212 --> 00:35:47,813 And the next thing I knew, like, this big bus showed 855 00:35:47,846 --> 00:35:49,581 up and almost ran me over. 856 00:35:49,615 --> 00:35:51,283 -Really? -Yeah. 857 00:35:51,317 --> 00:35:52,784 -Uh, yeah. -Almost died. 858 00:35:52,818 --> 00:35:54,820 You're gonna get yourself killed, dude. 859 00:35:54,853 --> 00:35:56,087 I know. 860 00:35:56,121 --> 00:35:58,557 That's why-- that's why I turned to you to become more mindful. 861 00:35:58,590 --> 00:35:59,625 OK. 862 00:35:59,658 --> 00:36:01,927 Well, I think you're already being more mindful. 863 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,462 This is a step in the right direction. 864 00:36:03,495 --> 00:36:04,830 Right. I see it. 865 00:36:04,863 --> 00:36:05,831 Yeah. Let me show you. 866 00:36:05,864 --> 00:36:10,602 This is-- this is you with mindlessness, OK? 867 00:36:10,636 --> 00:36:12,471 This is your space, the awareness, 868 00:36:12,504 --> 00:36:14,440 this tiny little space. -OK. 869 00:36:14,473 --> 00:36:17,376 This is your awareness with mindfulness. 870 00:36:17,409 --> 00:36:18,710 -Right. -OK? 871 00:36:18,744 --> 00:36:20,412 Mindlessness. 872 00:36:20,446 --> 00:36:22,248 Mindfulness. -Mhm. 873 00:36:22,248 --> 00:36:23,749 Mindlessness. 874 00:36:23,782 --> 00:36:24,716 Mindfulness. 875 00:36:24,750 --> 00:36:27,719 You see how you have more awareness to learn 876 00:36:27,753 --> 00:36:28,820 about your surroundings. 877 00:36:28,854 --> 00:36:30,656 You end up seeing a bus. 878 00:36:30,689 --> 00:36:31,423 Otherwise-- 879 00:36:31,457 --> 00:36:32,724 [TIRES SCREECHING] 880 00:36:32,758 --> 00:36:34,426 Mindlessness. -Wow. 881 00:36:34,460 --> 00:36:36,362 That bus would have ran you over. 882 00:36:36,395 --> 00:36:37,763 -Oh, yeah. -OK? 883 00:36:37,796 --> 00:36:38,864 You get it? Got it? 884 00:36:38,897 --> 00:36:41,567 Good? -Yes, I get it, got it, good. 885 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,269 Get it, got it, good. -All right. 886 00:36:46,672 --> 00:36:47,839 PAUL HARRISON (VOICEOVER): Mark Twain 887 00:36:47,873 --> 00:36:50,809 once said I've had many troubles in my life, most of which 888 00:36:50,842 --> 00:36:53,279 never happened. 889 00:36:53,312 --> 00:36:57,783 Stress makes all kinds of physical ailments worse. 890 00:36:57,816 --> 00:37:01,720 Because a lot about what is distressing about physical 891 00:37:01,753 --> 00:37:03,855 illness, whether you're talking about pain 892 00:37:03,889 --> 00:37:08,994 or whether you're talking about any kind of debilitating state, 893 00:37:09,027 --> 00:37:12,864 fatigue, what makes it worse is how we process 894 00:37:12,898 --> 00:37:14,766 it centrally in our brain. 895 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,435 So I feel myself getting anxious. 896 00:37:16,468 --> 00:37:19,338 One of those unconscious systems has been triggered. 897 00:37:19,371 --> 00:37:23,542 So you now say, OK, I can't stop it, so what can I do. 898 00:37:23,575 --> 00:37:25,477 I can breathe. 899 00:37:25,511 --> 00:37:26,612 Take in the air. 900 00:37:26,645 --> 00:37:30,616 That trick kicks on the parasympathetic nervous system, 901 00:37:30,649 --> 00:37:32,851 which counteracts the sympathetic, which is the fight 902 00:37:32,884 --> 00:37:36,455 flight system, and kind of slows everything down a little bit. 903 00:37:36,488 --> 00:37:38,657 And so when we change the system that's here, 904 00:37:38,690 --> 00:37:41,693 the stress cycle between our thoughts that come up, 905 00:37:41,727 --> 00:37:43,829 so our thoughts-- an event happens and we immediately 906 00:37:43,862 --> 00:37:47,333 perceive something as scary or we need to do something about, 907 00:37:47,366 --> 00:37:49,701 something that's urgent or it's important, 908 00:37:49,735 --> 00:37:51,937 our brain creates a snap judgment of it being good, 909 00:37:51,970 --> 00:37:54,072 bad, right, wrong, fair, or unfair, 910 00:37:54,105 --> 00:37:55,741 and goes into a reactive mode. 911 00:37:55,774 --> 00:37:59,578 As the great stress researcher Hans Selye put it, 912 00:37:59,611 --> 00:38:03,449 "It's not stress that kills us, it's our reaction to stress." 913 00:38:03,482 --> 00:38:05,651 Stress is a function not of events, 914 00:38:05,684 --> 00:38:07,686 but the view you take of the event. 915 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,955 If you open up that view in multiple ways, 916 00:38:09,988 --> 00:38:11,423 it becomes less stressful. 917 00:38:11,457 --> 00:38:14,993 What we can help is how we respond to stress. 918 00:38:15,026 --> 00:38:16,828 That's why breathing works so well. 919 00:38:16,862 --> 00:38:20,866 Because it-- it reduces the stress in the brain. 920 00:38:20,899 --> 00:38:24,603 It reduces the drive from the sympathetic system 921 00:38:24,636 --> 00:38:26,772 that makes you-- that's releasing adrenaline. 922 00:38:26,805 --> 00:38:28,574 When you get a call from somebody 923 00:38:28,607 --> 00:38:31,042 and you're really stressed out and you just take the call, 924 00:38:31,076 --> 00:38:34,546 you're like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, OK, OK, OK, 925 00:38:34,580 --> 00:38:35,481 you know. 926 00:38:35,514 --> 00:38:37,483 All right, I'll call you back, you know. 927 00:38:37,516 --> 00:38:39,618 But if you're calm and you're not stressed out, 928 00:38:39,651 --> 00:38:42,020 you take the call and you take your time. 929 00:38:42,053 --> 00:38:45,757 And you recognize that this is important to you 930 00:38:45,791 --> 00:38:46,592 or to the other person. 931 00:38:46,625 --> 00:38:48,594 With the less time for reflection 932 00:38:48,627 --> 00:38:50,729 that we have nowadays with so much attention 933 00:38:50,762 --> 00:38:53,465 to technology filling the spaces of our day, 934 00:38:53,499 --> 00:38:55,434 we don't really have a lot of time for reflection. 935 00:38:55,467 --> 00:38:57,603 Can you give yourself three minutes? 936 00:38:57,636 --> 00:38:59,070 Do you care enough about yourself 937 00:38:59,104 --> 00:39:01,507 to give yourself three minutes, maybe minute in the morning, 938 00:39:01,540 --> 00:39:03,775 then in the afternoon, minute in the evening to just sit 939 00:39:03,809 --> 00:39:05,677 and be present with your breath. 940 00:39:05,711 --> 00:39:08,480 If we believe we can do it, we're going to be more 941 00:39:08,514 --> 00:39:10,048 motivated to actually do it. 942 00:39:10,081 --> 00:39:11,517 If we don't believe we can do something, 943 00:39:11,550 --> 00:39:12,884 we're not going to actually do it. 944 00:39:12,918 --> 00:39:15,053 The things we can't do right now, 945 00:39:15,086 --> 00:39:17,656 we can learn to do tomorrow. 946 00:39:17,689 --> 00:39:19,725 When we realize that there's no outcome 947 00:39:19,758 --> 00:39:24,630 we must have, that all of this leads us just to be more 948 00:39:24,663 --> 00:39:28,600 at peace, easier, less reason for us to need to hit 949 00:39:28,634 --> 00:39:29,735 somebody else over the head. 950 00:39:29,768 --> 00:39:34,540 And mindfulness actually reduces the risk of depression 951 00:39:34,573 --> 00:39:38,477 by half in people who are the most current depressed people, 952 00:39:38,510 --> 00:39:41,880 with three or more episodes, that many other treatments have 953 00:39:41,913 --> 00:39:42,948 failed to treat. 954 00:39:42,981 --> 00:39:45,617 We also know that it's as good as antidepressants 955 00:39:45,651 --> 00:39:46,718 in doing that. 956 00:39:46,752 --> 00:39:48,787 Now, one thing that we didn't know eight years ago 957 00:39:48,820 --> 00:39:50,456 is is that repeatable. 958 00:39:50,456 --> 00:39:52,991 And we found it is repeatable, both in our lab 959 00:39:53,024 --> 00:39:57,062 and in labs around the world, in lots of different countries, 960 00:39:57,095 --> 00:39:58,830 have found the same result. 961 00:39:58,864 --> 00:40:03,001 The simple shift of perspective can change your relationship 962 00:40:03,034 --> 00:40:06,204 to the problem when you take a second look at it 963 00:40:06,237 --> 00:40:08,607 with a mindful manner. 964 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,809 Oh, man, what's happening to me? 965 00:40:10,842 --> 00:40:12,077 You're out of focus. 966 00:40:12,110 --> 00:40:13,078 What the heck? 967 00:40:13,111 --> 00:40:15,514 Well, maybe if you were a little more mindful, 968 00:40:15,547 --> 00:40:17,215 these things wouldn't happen. 969 00:40:17,248 --> 00:40:19,084 Uh, what should I do? 970 00:40:19,117 --> 00:40:20,486 Try some finger tracing. 971 00:40:20,519 --> 00:40:22,621 What the-- what the heck's finger tracing? 972 00:40:22,654 --> 00:40:23,989 OK, watch me. Watch me, OK? 973 00:40:24,022 --> 00:40:24,823 MINDLESS: OK. 974 00:40:24,856 --> 00:40:26,057 Now you're going to take your finger 975 00:40:26,091 --> 00:40:33,565 and very slowly go like this and see each nook and cranny. 976 00:40:33,599 --> 00:40:34,099 OK. 977 00:40:34,132 --> 00:40:36,067 Focus very slowly. 978 00:40:36,101 --> 00:40:37,803 So you mean like this? 979 00:40:37,836 --> 00:40:39,738 No, no, no, no, that's too fast and mindless. 980 00:40:39,771 --> 00:40:41,873 You're not going to focus like that. 981 00:40:41,907 --> 00:40:44,109 OK, very slowly. 982 00:40:44,142 --> 00:40:45,677 Watch it. 983 00:40:45,711 --> 00:40:49,014 Oh, so you mean slow like this. 984 00:40:49,047 --> 00:40:50,015 Wow. 985 00:40:50,048 --> 00:40:51,650 Yes. 986 00:40:51,683 --> 00:40:52,784 Exactly. 987 00:40:52,818 --> 00:40:54,252 I really like this. 988 00:40:54,285 --> 00:40:56,955 Like, I'm getting into the groove of it, like-- 989 00:40:56,988 --> 00:40:59,124 Keep focusing, not bad. 990 00:40:59,157 --> 00:41:00,859 I can feel a difference. 991 00:41:00,892 --> 00:41:02,894 Yeah, see, it's not so hard. 992 00:41:02,928 --> 00:41:06,264 Yeah, this is like-- this is very nice. 993 00:41:06,297 --> 00:41:10,536 I'm just going to go home and just get busy finger tracing. 994 00:41:20,846 --> 00:41:23,148 Mindfulness enables you to get value for money 995 00:41:23,181 --> 00:41:24,750 out of your food, right? 996 00:41:24,783 --> 00:41:25,917 You taste it. 997 00:41:25,951 --> 00:41:27,185 You're more present. 998 00:41:27,218 --> 00:41:30,021 Oh, mindless eating brought me into mindful eating, actually. 999 00:41:30,055 --> 00:41:32,724 I had a-- I never met a box of cookies I didn't like. 1000 00:41:32,758 --> 00:41:34,893 Instead of eating absent-mindedly, 1001 00:41:34,926 --> 00:41:38,263 you know, going to a restaurant, spend 25 pounds 1002 00:41:38,296 --> 00:41:42,601 for a filet steak, de-da, de-da, de-da, and then not noticing 1003 00:41:42,634 --> 00:41:44,002 yourself eating it because you're 1004 00:41:44,035 --> 00:41:46,572 busy having an earnest conversation 1005 00:41:46,572 --> 00:41:49,575 with your friend about your relationship with your mother. 1006 00:41:49,575 --> 00:41:51,577 It's like you just wasted 25 quid. 1007 00:41:51,610 --> 00:41:54,112 And mindful eating actually helps people 1008 00:41:54,145 --> 00:41:55,947 broaden their view of food. 1009 00:41:55,981 --> 00:41:58,283 So when I crunch into an apple and somebody 1010 00:41:58,316 --> 00:42:01,587 says why are you making that loud crunching noise, 1011 00:42:01,620 --> 00:42:04,990 it's bothering me, I think of my grandmother being 1012 00:42:05,023 --> 00:42:06,625 unable to crunch an apple. 1013 00:42:06,658 --> 00:42:08,960 And I say, wow, I'm just enjoying every bite. 1014 00:42:08,994 --> 00:42:11,229 Usually, whenever I eat, whether it's just 1015 00:42:11,262 --> 00:42:14,633 noticing the food, smelling the food, tasting the food, 1016 00:42:14,666 --> 00:42:17,669 maybe slowing down a little bit as I'm eating the food, 1017 00:42:17,703 --> 00:42:20,238 what I find is if my hunger is really high, 1018 00:42:20,271 --> 00:42:22,207 if my hunger is in the 7 to 10 range, which 1019 00:42:22,240 --> 00:42:26,111 is the extreme hunger, and I've waited and haven't attended 1020 00:42:26,144 --> 00:42:29,681 to my earlier hunger signals, then I am prone, 1021 00:42:29,715 --> 00:42:31,983 like everybody is, I think, to mindless eating. 1022 00:42:32,017 --> 00:42:36,254 If we all used our brains in more energy efficient ways, 1023 00:42:36,287 --> 00:42:37,789 you don't eat as much. 1024 00:42:37,823 --> 00:42:40,091 And you feel much more energized when 1025 00:42:40,125 --> 00:42:46,197 you don't spend all this metabolic energy on ego 1026 00:42:46,231 --> 00:42:48,700 related process, on chatter. 1027 00:42:48,734 --> 00:42:52,370 So at a very basic level, mindfulness enables you 1028 00:42:52,403 --> 00:42:55,707 to kind of, you know, you taste your experience 1029 00:42:55,741 --> 00:42:57,275 more vividly or more richly. 1030 00:43:50,729 --> 00:43:51,997 -What? -How's your food? 1031 00:43:52,030 --> 00:43:53,198 It's good. 1032 00:43:53,231 --> 00:43:55,166 -Hm, you sure? -Yeah. 1033 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:56,267 It's all right. 1034 00:43:56,301 --> 00:43:57,435 You're not even tasting it. 1035 00:43:57,468 --> 00:43:58,403 I like it a lot. 1036 00:43:58,436 --> 00:43:59,705 I tasted it. -No. 1037 00:43:59,705 --> 00:44:04,209 Stop what you're doing and pay attention to eating your food. 1038 00:44:04,242 --> 00:44:06,211 Well-- 1039 00:44:06,244 --> 00:44:07,378 MINDFUL: Take this out. 1040 00:44:07,412 --> 00:44:09,114 OK. Ow. 1041 00:44:09,147 --> 00:44:10,882 And pay attention to what you're eating. 1042 00:44:10,916 --> 00:44:11,783 MINDLESS: OK. 1043 00:44:11,817 --> 00:44:13,919 -Chew it slowly. -I see. 1044 00:44:13,952 --> 00:44:15,386 Really taste it. 1045 00:44:15,420 --> 00:44:17,288 Like this? 1046 00:44:17,322 --> 00:44:18,824 MINDFUL: Slowly eat it. 1047 00:44:18,857 --> 00:44:20,125 Really take it in. 1048 00:44:20,158 --> 00:44:20,959 Mm. 1049 00:44:20,992 --> 00:44:21,760 MINDFUL: OK? 1050 00:44:21,793 --> 00:44:22,761 Yeah. 1051 00:44:22,794 --> 00:44:24,896 Taste it, take it in, and smell it, you know? 1052 00:44:24,930 --> 00:44:26,197 Really taste it. 1053 00:44:26,231 --> 00:44:29,801 I got to get another grape to smell it. 1054 00:44:29,835 --> 00:44:31,136 Well, get in there. 1055 00:44:31,169 --> 00:44:33,438 Really get into your food. 1056 00:44:33,471 --> 00:44:35,006 I mean, I smell it. Smells like 1057 00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,808 OK, just take up one bite. 1058 00:44:39,978 --> 00:44:40,979 So juicy in the middle. 1059 00:44:41,012 --> 00:44:42,848 Do you see the difference when you're mindful? 1060 00:44:42,881 --> 00:44:43,849 Mm. 1061 00:44:43,882 --> 00:44:45,383 When you're mindful and you're in the moment? 1062 00:44:45,416 --> 00:44:46,117 Oh, yeah. 1063 00:44:46,151 --> 00:44:47,919 -How much better it is. -Yeah. 1064 00:44:47,953 --> 00:44:49,988 And I think it's like really delicious. 1065 00:44:50,021 --> 00:44:51,957 MINDFUL: Right, well, because it's more delicious, 1066 00:44:51,990 --> 00:44:53,892 because you're being mindful. 1067 00:44:53,925 --> 00:44:55,060 That's good stuff. 1068 00:45:01,900 --> 00:45:05,236 Mindfulness has not only become increasingly popular practice 1069 00:45:05,270 --> 00:45:08,039 in schools around the world, but the US military 1070 00:45:08,073 --> 00:45:11,076 has begun to incorporate it into their centers 1071 00:45:11,109 --> 00:45:13,344 in an effort to help veterans and active duty 1072 00:45:13,378 --> 00:45:15,446 soldiers overcome some of the issues 1073 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:18,316 that they deal with, such as post-traumatic stress disorder, 1074 00:45:18,349 --> 00:45:20,485 or PTSD. 1075 00:45:20,518 --> 00:45:24,122 I recently met with Dr. Jackie Maury, senior scientist project 1076 00:45:24,155 --> 00:45:28,293 director at USC Institute for Creative Technologies, 1077 00:45:28,326 --> 00:45:31,229 and Dr. Valerie Rice, the chief of the Army 1078 00:45:31,262 --> 00:45:33,331 Research Laboratory Field Element 1079 00:45:33,364 --> 00:45:35,801 at Fort Sam Houston in Texas. 1080 00:45:35,834 --> 00:45:39,537 This is the largest army medical training facility in the world. 1081 00:45:39,570 --> 00:45:42,007 Let's stay take a look at how this all came about. 1082 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,810 It was about the same time that the troops were returning 1083 00:45:44,843 --> 00:45:47,946 from the conflicts overseas and we were beginning 1084 00:45:47,979 --> 00:45:49,848 to realize there were some pretty 1085 00:45:49,881 --> 00:45:53,919 big issues with PTSD or other psychological health issues. 1086 00:45:53,952 --> 00:45:55,921 I was in combat arms. 1087 00:45:55,954 --> 00:45:58,924 I was doing the Vietnam era. 1088 00:45:58,957 --> 00:46:01,492 And they taught you how to be aggressive. 1089 00:46:01,526 --> 00:46:05,496 You are scanning all the time and you never 1090 00:46:05,530 --> 00:46:08,199 let anybody know what's going on with you because you 1091 00:46:08,233 --> 00:46:09,534 lose your essence of surprise. 1092 00:46:09,567 --> 00:46:14,940 I mean, if you hurt, so what? 1093 00:46:14,973 --> 00:46:17,108 Mission is first. 1094 00:46:17,142 --> 00:46:20,879 You don't want people to think you're weak, 1095 00:46:20,912 --> 00:46:21,913 especially if you're a leader. 1096 00:46:21,947 --> 00:46:24,983 A chain is only as strong as the weakest link. 1097 00:46:25,016 --> 00:46:28,486 And you didn't want to be that link. 1098 00:46:28,519 --> 00:46:32,157 Because if you was that link, you was finished. 1099 00:46:32,190 --> 00:46:36,261 If you were in battle, you've already got enough enemies. 1100 00:46:36,294 --> 00:46:41,232 I mean, then having your own emotions to be another one? 1101 00:46:41,266 --> 00:46:44,235 It's just-- it's tougher. 1102 00:46:44,269 --> 00:46:46,504 You just want to do what you're told to do 1103 00:46:46,537 --> 00:46:49,875 and you don't want to reach out and ask for help. 1104 00:46:49,875 --> 00:46:51,409 To go-- to go to behavioral health 1105 00:46:51,442 --> 00:46:55,146 was-- uh, you're not a man. 1106 00:46:55,180 --> 00:46:58,116 You ain't no soldier type thing. 1107 00:46:58,149 --> 00:47:01,486 Any activity with mental health was 1108 00:47:01,519 --> 00:47:06,024 subject to medical discharge or disciplinary discharge. 1109 00:47:06,057 --> 00:47:08,259 You just didn't. 1110 00:47:08,293 --> 00:47:09,127 That simple. 1111 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:11,562 So that prevented a lot of soldiers, 1112 00:47:11,596 --> 00:47:16,401 especially young soldiers, from going, getting treatment. 1113 00:47:16,434 --> 00:47:20,238 You just don't bother to tell people because even not being 1114 00:47:20,271 --> 00:47:24,175 able to keep your personal life in control-- in control 1115 00:47:24,209 --> 00:47:25,576 is perceived as weakness. 1116 00:47:25,610 --> 00:47:27,913 As time went by and I got involved with the VA, 1117 00:47:27,913 --> 00:47:29,915 I found out that it was acceptable, 1118 00:47:29,948 --> 00:47:33,151 but I did it after I got out of the service 1119 00:47:33,184 --> 00:47:35,586 because it just was not acceptable at that point 1120 00:47:35,620 --> 00:47:36,654 in time. 1121 00:47:36,687 --> 00:47:37,923 There's still stigma. 1122 00:47:37,956 --> 00:47:41,026 But there's still stigma to go into behavioral health center. 1123 00:47:41,059 --> 00:47:45,130 And so for those individuals who simply wouldn't go because it 1124 00:47:45,163 --> 00:47:49,167 is behavioral health, then we can offer something 1125 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:51,336 like this that's over a virtual world, where 1126 00:47:51,369 --> 00:47:55,240 they can be, if they choose to be, anonymous. 1127 00:47:55,273 --> 00:47:57,342 PAUL HARRISON (VOICEOVER): Dr. Steven Hickman and Alan 1128 00:47:57,375 --> 00:48:01,312 Goldstein both teach mindfulness in the form of life mindfulness 1129 00:48:01,346 --> 00:48:03,949 based stress reduction through the virtual world 1130 00:48:03,982 --> 00:48:05,483 of Second Life to veterans. 1131 00:48:05,516 --> 00:48:07,218 So we were approached, really out of the blue, 1132 00:48:07,252 --> 00:48:10,188 by the folks at ICT saying we're looking 1133 00:48:10,221 --> 00:48:12,557 for experts in mindfulness based stress reduction. 1134 00:48:12,590 --> 00:48:15,693 We got the idea to use a virtual world as sort 1135 00:48:15,726 --> 00:48:18,463 of a place of relaxation for veterans 1136 00:48:18,496 --> 00:48:20,198 and we found experts who are very 1137 00:48:20,231 --> 00:48:21,566 interested in working with us. 1138 00:48:21,599 --> 00:48:24,369 And they told us this amazing project that they've 1139 00:48:24,402 --> 00:48:26,704 been working for quite some time in providing 1140 00:48:26,737 --> 00:48:30,075 virtual reality and virtual world training 1141 00:48:30,108 --> 00:48:32,143 in various military settings. 1142 00:48:32,177 --> 00:48:36,281 And we had done a small village-- and a rocky village 1143 00:48:36,314 --> 00:48:38,016 as a proof of concept for something 1144 00:48:38,049 --> 00:48:39,217 else in the virtual world. 1145 00:48:39,250 --> 00:48:44,089 And I took one of those veterans over to see this village. 1146 00:48:44,122 --> 00:48:46,257 He didn't last 10 seconds in the desert. 1147 00:48:46,291 --> 00:48:47,625 He teleported out. 1148 00:48:47,658 --> 00:48:50,061 He said I can't handle this. 1149 00:48:50,095 --> 00:48:51,229 It's too real. 1150 00:48:51,262 --> 00:48:55,466 So that was the impetus for doing something that looks 1151 00:48:55,500 --> 00:48:58,036 like a hunting lodge, a ski lodge, 1152 00:48:58,069 --> 00:49:00,571 something that's very mountainous and green with lots 1153 00:49:00,605 --> 00:49:01,572 of water. 1154 00:49:01,606 --> 00:49:04,742 And we factor that into the design of the world 1155 00:49:04,775 --> 00:49:05,643 that we made for them. 1156 00:49:05,676 --> 00:49:07,612 Well, when we first started this study 1157 00:49:07,645 --> 00:49:10,048 and we had the computers issued to us, 1158 00:49:10,081 --> 00:49:13,718 it was amazing, and cool, and exciting. 1159 00:49:13,751 --> 00:49:16,754 And you know, you pick your own animated body 1160 00:49:16,787 --> 00:49:18,389 and you've got to learn how to fly 1161 00:49:18,423 --> 00:49:19,757 and they teach us how to walk. 1162 00:49:19,790 --> 00:49:23,228 And that was all really very exciting. 1163 00:49:23,261 --> 00:49:24,295 And you can choose different worlds 1164 00:49:24,329 --> 00:49:27,532 to go to, and listen, and see, and just interact 1165 00:49:27,565 --> 00:49:29,200 online in an amazing way. 1166 00:49:29,234 --> 00:49:31,102 So we're looking at whether or not 1167 00:49:31,136 --> 00:49:34,672 teaching mindfulness improves those areas, both for veterans 1168 00:49:34,705 --> 00:49:36,141 and for active duty. 1169 00:49:36,174 --> 00:49:37,608 And you might need just something 1170 00:49:37,642 --> 00:49:42,313 as simple as learning mindfulness strategies 1171 00:49:42,347 --> 00:49:43,548 and techniques. 1172 00:49:43,581 --> 00:49:47,685 If we can intervene with some of this and make a palatable 1173 00:49:47,718 --> 00:49:51,756 activity, something that is a tool rather 1174 00:49:51,789 --> 00:49:54,225 than something mysterious-- 1175 00:49:54,259 --> 00:49:57,128 Which, again, makes the whole idea 1176 00:49:57,162 --> 00:50:00,331 of being an avatar kind of attractive, 1177 00:50:00,365 --> 00:50:02,433 plus you can look however you feel like looking, 1178 00:50:02,467 --> 00:50:03,801 if you want to take time. 1179 00:50:03,834 --> 00:50:06,037 For us, it was this whole novel idea of something 1180 00:50:06,071 --> 00:50:09,040 that we've been teaching them really involves face 1181 00:50:09,074 --> 00:50:11,709 to face contact in our minds, and this idea 1182 00:50:11,742 --> 00:50:14,045 of doing this in a virtual world where all of us 1183 00:50:14,079 --> 00:50:16,281 is represented by an avatar provides 1184 00:50:16,314 --> 00:50:17,482 this great opportunity. 1185 00:50:17,515 --> 00:50:20,318 So that we're not actually physically there in that world. 1186 00:50:20,351 --> 00:50:22,587 There's this being that we get to create. 1187 00:50:22,620 --> 00:50:25,523 We can dress the way we want, we can shape the way we want. 1188 00:50:25,556 --> 00:50:28,693 And people who have perhaps anxiety about being 1189 00:50:28,726 --> 00:50:31,329 in a social setting can still sort of 1190 00:50:31,362 --> 00:50:33,598 be in a virtual social setting where 1191 00:50:33,631 --> 00:50:35,533 they're still in the safety of their own home. 1192 00:50:35,566 --> 00:50:40,438 We would navigate our avatar online figures 1193 00:50:40,471 --> 00:50:42,773 to the designated location in a pavilion. 1194 00:50:42,807 --> 00:50:45,810 Our voices would come through the headsets and the headphones 1195 00:50:45,843 --> 00:50:49,347 and we would just interact online in a group forum. 1196 00:50:49,380 --> 00:50:51,182 And what's great about it, for veterans, 1197 00:50:51,216 --> 00:50:53,284 is even if they're in rural areas, 1198 00:50:53,318 --> 00:50:54,619 they can come together here. 1199 00:50:54,652 --> 00:50:57,688 They don't have to be able to go to a center. 1200 00:50:57,722 --> 00:51:00,258 People can be physically anywhere in the world, 1201 00:51:00,291 --> 00:51:03,561 but can still appear in Second Life in our classroom. 1202 00:51:03,594 --> 00:51:06,264 I think some people were afraid they might even cry 1203 00:51:06,297 --> 00:51:08,533 and they didn't want to cry in front of the group. 1204 00:51:08,566 --> 00:51:12,303 But when you're online, you can cry all you want. 1205 00:51:12,337 --> 00:51:16,141 Participating online, that was very-- 1206 00:51:16,141 --> 00:51:21,246 I found it very, very good because we 1207 00:51:21,279 --> 00:51:23,181 everybody interacted with one another. 1208 00:51:23,214 --> 00:51:26,151 And we did share a lot of information about each other. 1209 00:51:26,151 --> 00:51:32,157 Some of my best moments that I've learned how to relax 1210 00:51:32,157 --> 00:51:35,593 is because of this course. 1211 00:51:35,626 --> 00:51:41,199 But that class taught me that I do matter 1212 00:51:41,232 --> 00:51:45,636 and I have to get myself in order, 1213 00:51:45,670 --> 00:51:48,506 to not only help me, but help my-- my folks, 1214 00:51:48,539 --> 00:51:50,308 my friend, my family members. 1215 00:51:50,341 --> 00:51:52,243 That does apply to all walks of life. 1216 00:51:52,277 --> 00:51:54,679 You know, it's not just from military stressors. 1217 00:51:54,712 --> 00:51:57,415 It's common everyday things that people are going through. 1218 00:51:57,448 --> 00:52:00,385 No matter what your scenario, if you want to feel better, 1219 00:52:00,418 --> 00:52:04,455 do better, then don't let your life pass you by. 1220 00:52:04,489 --> 00:52:05,590 Be a part of your life. 1221 00:52:05,623 --> 00:52:08,626 Slow things down, pay attention to what's going on. 1222 00:52:08,659 --> 00:52:11,229 The program, it just actually makes 1223 00:52:11,262 --> 00:52:12,930 you aware of your surroundings. 1224 00:52:12,963 --> 00:52:16,534 I'm enjoying life a lot more, the simple things in life, 1225 00:52:16,567 --> 00:52:19,270 like, you know, my chihuahua sleeping 1226 00:52:19,304 --> 00:52:21,606 on my foot, whereas, before, I might not 1227 00:52:21,639 --> 00:52:25,543 have realized how she felt or how comforting 1228 00:52:25,576 --> 00:52:27,845 that was for her to be there. 1229 00:52:27,878 --> 00:52:31,649 Now I can kind of be a little bit more mindful 1230 00:52:31,682 --> 00:52:36,221 of the pleasure that she obtains from me and the pleasure 1231 00:52:36,254 --> 00:52:39,324 that I obtain from just being around her. 1232 00:52:39,357 --> 00:52:42,427 I really sit back now just take my time. 1233 00:52:42,460 --> 00:52:46,531 Sit outside, drink some tea, listen to the wind blow 1234 00:52:46,564 --> 00:52:48,499 through the trees, listen to the birds, 1235 00:52:48,533 --> 00:52:51,302 count the cars, how many color cars or whatever, 1236 00:52:51,336 --> 00:52:52,903 like I used to do when I was a kid. 1237 00:52:52,937 --> 00:52:54,572 And I just feel great. 1238 00:52:54,605 --> 00:52:59,710 If I'm more relaxed, and if I'm OK, then people around me 1239 00:52:59,744 --> 00:53:02,947 are probably going to be more relaxed and OK. 1240 00:53:02,980 --> 00:53:05,583 Instead of just immediately getting upset when something 1241 00:53:05,616 --> 00:53:07,985 irritates you, you might think, OK, well, 1242 00:53:08,018 --> 00:53:10,455 maybe this person does have something going on, whereas, 1243 00:53:10,488 --> 00:53:12,423 before, you wouldn't-- you would just get mad 1244 00:53:12,457 --> 00:53:15,460 and call that individual a name or, you know, 1245 00:53:15,493 --> 00:53:16,894 just swear or something. 1246 00:53:16,927 --> 00:53:19,397 And some of those habits are bad. 1247 00:53:19,430 --> 00:53:21,699 Losing your temper in traffic, getting yourself riled up. 1248 00:53:21,732 --> 00:53:26,003 He run on my bumper, horsed around in front of me, 1249 00:53:26,036 --> 00:53:28,839 and turned right in front of me again, and turned right 1250 00:53:28,873 --> 00:53:29,907 there, right in front of me. 1251 00:53:29,940 --> 00:53:32,843 I mean, you know, he could have waited two seconds. 1252 00:53:32,877 --> 00:53:34,579 If I hadn't have been, you know, going 1253 00:53:34,612 --> 00:53:37,382 through this mindfulness class, I'm 1254 00:53:37,415 --> 00:53:39,384 not going to tell you what I would have done because I don't 1255 00:53:39,417 --> 00:53:40,485 want to incriminate myself. 1256 00:53:40,518 --> 00:53:44,822 So it's really just becoming in touch with myself 1257 00:53:44,855 --> 00:53:46,591 and realizing who I am. 1258 00:53:46,624 --> 00:53:50,528 And as a result of that, be calmer, 1259 00:53:50,561 --> 00:53:53,398 feel better, have less pain, have 1260 00:53:53,431 --> 00:53:56,401 less anxiety, less depression. 1261 00:53:56,434 --> 00:54:01,439 Mindfulness it just makes me think of how everything is, 1262 00:54:01,472 --> 00:54:02,540 how everything actually is. 1263 00:54:02,573 --> 00:54:07,612 For example, we do-- we had to do a eating exercise. 1264 00:54:07,645 --> 00:54:09,380 And being in the military, we usually 1265 00:54:09,414 --> 00:54:12,783 eat-- you know, eat quick because we always 1266 00:54:12,817 --> 00:54:13,684 have something else to do. 1267 00:54:13,718 --> 00:54:17,688 I wolf my food down because of habit. 1268 00:54:17,722 --> 00:54:19,390 Military, you know. 1269 00:54:19,424 --> 00:54:22,460 I had never really taken time to what 1270 00:54:22,493 --> 00:54:26,797 I call savor the food that I really-- that I eat, 1271 00:54:26,831 --> 00:54:27,798 that I consume. 1272 00:54:27,832 --> 00:54:31,902 And that's still, right now, a struggle for me, 1273 00:54:31,936 --> 00:54:34,772 to sit and enjoy a meal. 1274 00:54:34,805 --> 00:54:37,074 Doing this mindful exercise I got to be 1275 00:54:37,107 --> 00:54:39,477 able to actually taste it. 1276 00:54:39,510 --> 00:54:43,948 I found out that all my taste buds do work, you know. 1277 00:54:43,981 --> 00:54:47,352 And food is delicious if you take to eat it. 1278 00:54:47,385 --> 00:54:52,790 And slow down and actually taste what you eat 1279 00:54:52,823 --> 00:54:54,525 is a challenge to me. 1280 00:54:54,559 --> 00:54:59,797 But now I take time to connect with myself and my thoughts 1281 00:54:59,830 --> 00:55:02,433 and just to be OK with me. 1282 00:55:02,467 --> 00:55:04,602 So that's what mindfulness is to me. 1283 00:55:04,635 --> 00:55:05,970 For me, it's slow motion. 1284 00:55:06,003 --> 00:55:09,640 It is my choice to slow things down, to take a breath, 1285 00:55:09,674 --> 00:55:11,709 to snap it all back into perspective. 1286 00:55:11,742 --> 00:55:16,647 It makes me-- or, well, or it invites me to slow 1287 00:55:16,681 --> 00:55:21,118 down, Concentrate on self. 1288 00:55:21,151 --> 00:55:23,421 I've learned structural activity, 1289 00:55:23,454 --> 00:55:26,457 which was important to have. 1290 00:55:26,491 --> 00:55:30,861 I never considered walking meditation. 1291 00:55:30,895 --> 00:55:34,399 For example, I was walking-- when outside of this building, 1292 00:55:34,432 --> 00:55:39,804 and I just was free, feeling like I 1293 00:55:39,837 --> 00:55:40,838 was, you know, just free. 1294 00:55:40,871 --> 00:55:42,106 I didn't have any problems. 1295 00:55:42,139 --> 00:55:45,142 And the thing that makes this different from regular walking 1296 00:55:45,175 --> 00:55:48,713 is that your focus is desperately 1297 00:55:48,746 --> 00:55:52,883 on the slowest motion of steps that you can take. 1298 00:55:52,917 --> 00:55:54,018 You just walk. 1299 00:55:54,051 --> 00:55:56,421 And, you know, you pay attention to where you're going, 1300 00:55:56,421 --> 00:55:58,889 but you tune everything out. 1301 00:55:58,923 --> 00:56:01,091 It's almost like slow motion, which, to me, is most 1302 00:56:01,125 --> 00:56:03,160 of what mindfulness represents, putting 1303 00:56:03,193 --> 00:56:04,662 everything in slow motion. 1304 00:56:04,695 --> 00:56:08,933 And you can really, really relax. 1305 00:56:08,966 --> 00:56:11,702 It does take every bit of focus, 1306 00:56:11,736 --> 00:56:13,438 so you're not thinking about the past, 1307 00:56:13,438 --> 00:56:14,672 you're not thinking about the future. 1308 00:56:14,705 --> 00:56:17,508 You're just thinking, wow, this is a neat experience, to walk. 1309 00:56:29,987 --> 00:56:32,056 It's not easy being a teenager these days. 1310 00:56:32,089 --> 00:56:34,759 The constant pressure of fitting in, growing up, going 1311 00:56:34,792 --> 00:56:37,194 through puberty, and keeping up with the world that moves 1312 00:56:37,227 --> 00:56:40,998 faster than ever before can adversely affect 1313 00:56:41,031 --> 00:56:42,600 the mind of the adolescent. 1314 00:56:42,633 --> 00:56:44,201 The Mindfulness in Schools Project 1315 00:56:44,234 --> 00:56:47,137 was created when some teaching colleagues 1316 00:56:47,171 --> 00:56:50,808 and I shared an ambition to bring 1317 00:56:50,841 --> 00:56:54,579 together two things that were really close to our hearts. 1318 00:56:54,612 --> 00:56:56,814 One was mindfulness practice, which we've 1319 00:56:56,847 --> 00:56:59,149 been doing for many years, and the other was 1320 00:56:59,183 --> 00:57:01,218 the art of classroom teaching. 1321 00:57:01,251 --> 00:57:03,988 And we ended up writing a nine week 1322 00:57:04,021 --> 00:57:05,990 classroom introduction to mindfulness, 1323 00:57:06,023 --> 00:57:07,758 which we called Dot B. 1324 00:57:07,792 --> 00:57:11,161 And Dot B was really our answer to the challenge 1325 00:57:11,195 --> 00:57:15,232 we set ourselves, which was to write a mindfulness course 1326 00:57:15,265 --> 00:57:19,036 which was engaging, fun, memorable, 1327 00:57:19,069 --> 00:57:22,239 and also of practical use on the roller coaster 1328 00:57:22,272 --> 00:57:24,575 that is adolescence. 1329 00:57:24,609 --> 00:57:27,912 We will spend a lot of time cramming kids' brains with all 1330 00:57:27,945 --> 00:57:30,147 the facts that they need for their history, 1331 00:57:30,180 --> 00:57:34,251 or their geography, or their languages, or their sciences, 1332 00:57:34,284 --> 00:57:38,789 but we never really turn the lens inwards on their minds. 1333 00:57:38,823 --> 00:57:40,525 And the great thing about mindfulness 1334 00:57:40,525 --> 00:57:45,262 is that it gives you a tool to deploy when you find yourself 1335 00:57:45,295 --> 00:57:47,164 in a stressful situation. 1336 00:57:47,197 --> 00:57:51,836 And you know, OK, if I just pause, 1337 00:57:51,869 --> 00:57:54,238 if I notice how my breathing is, I don't necessarily 1338 00:57:54,271 --> 00:57:58,709 try to control it, I just notice where it is, it switches me out 1339 00:57:58,743 --> 00:58:02,713 of the thinking mode, the ruminative, cognitive, mode, 1340 00:58:02,747 --> 00:58:04,815 and into the sensing mode. 1341 00:58:04,849 --> 00:58:08,653 And what a lot of research is telling us at the moment, 1342 00:58:08,686 --> 00:58:11,121 and what I know from my own experience and from the kids 1343 00:58:11,155 --> 00:58:14,091 that I taught, is that our kids are pretty tough on themselves 1344 00:58:14,124 --> 00:58:15,059 now. 1345 00:58:15,092 --> 00:58:18,228 I think it's the stress, and anxiety, and all 1346 00:58:18,262 --> 00:58:19,296 of these things, and achievement, 1347 00:58:19,329 --> 00:58:22,166 the achievement ethic that we have in the culture. 1348 00:58:22,199 --> 00:58:24,869 All of these things actually put tremendous pressure on kids 1349 00:58:24,902 --> 00:58:26,070 now. 1350 00:58:26,103 --> 00:58:29,574 In fact, in today's world, teens are more under pressure 1351 00:58:29,607 --> 00:58:32,910 and experiencing higher levels of stress than ever before. 1352 00:58:32,943 --> 00:58:35,112 And increasing demand in technology, 1353 00:58:35,145 --> 00:58:38,949 academic preparation, and life transitions all result 1354 00:58:38,983 --> 00:58:40,818 in physical and emotional stressors, 1355 00:58:40,851 --> 00:58:45,590 such as bad temper, anxiety, depression, 1356 00:58:45,623 --> 00:58:47,057 and attention-deficit disorder. 1357 00:58:47,091 --> 00:58:49,026 And I wanted to find out more, so I 1358 00:58:49,059 --> 00:58:52,296 went to the University of California San Diego, 1359 00:58:52,329 --> 00:58:54,599 the center of mindfulness, and spoke 1360 00:58:54,632 --> 00:58:56,801 with director Steve Hickman, and course 1361 00:58:56,834 --> 00:58:58,603 instructor, Lorraine Hobbs. 1362 00:58:58,636 --> 00:59:00,638 We were running groups, mindfulness 1363 00:59:00,671 --> 00:59:03,674 based stress reduction groups, for adults for several years. 1364 00:59:03,708 --> 00:59:07,044 And then as we talked to people, other people who had taken 1365 00:59:07,077 --> 00:59:09,179 the mindfulness based stress reduction course 1366 00:59:09,213 --> 00:59:10,981 and had seen what it had done for them, 1367 00:59:11,015 --> 00:59:12,683 they were sort of thinking, wow, you know, 1368 00:59:12,717 --> 00:59:15,085 my teenager could really benefit from this, all the stress 1369 00:59:15,119 --> 00:59:16,954 of teen life these days. 1370 00:59:16,987 --> 00:59:19,824 Almost my entire life, and as far as I remember, 1371 00:59:19,857 --> 00:59:22,827 I've been dealing with depression, anger, 1372 00:59:22,860 --> 00:59:24,328 and a good deal of anxiety. 1373 00:59:24,361 --> 00:59:27,932 Not being able to handle my emotions well enough. 1374 00:59:27,965 --> 00:59:30,935 I had a short fuse. 1375 00:59:30,968 --> 00:59:33,804 Um, and I have ADHD. 1376 00:59:33,838 --> 00:59:37,341 I was struggling with my depression. 1377 00:59:37,374 --> 00:59:40,978 I would fight with my parents a lot and, like, 1378 00:59:41,011 --> 00:59:42,046 I would take it out on them. 1379 00:59:42,079 --> 00:59:44,181 It got to the point where I started lashing out 1380 00:59:44,214 --> 00:59:46,884 at my parents, so my mom came to me, 1381 00:59:46,917 --> 00:59:48,753 like, OK, we need to find something 1382 00:59:48,786 --> 00:59:53,057 to control your temper and to control your ADHD way more. 1383 00:59:53,090 --> 00:59:58,328 And she found this mindfulness thing and I was like, fine, 1384 00:59:58,362 --> 00:59:59,329 I'll try it. 1385 00:59:59,363 --> 01:00:01,832 I'd seen the website for the mindfulness center 1386 01:00:01,866 --> 01:00:04,034 and kind of saw that there was a teen group. 1387 01:00:04,068 --> 01:00:06,170 So I came home one day and told my husband about it 1388 01:00:06,203 --> 01:00:08,305 and I said I'm just going to tell her she's going. 1389 01:00:08,338 --> 01:00:12,209 I wasn't really sure, like-- was it meditation? 1390 01:00:12,242 --> 01:00:14,378 Was it like a group, therapy group? 1391 01:00:14,411 --> 01:00:15,579 I wasn't sure. 1392 01:00:15,612 --> 01:00:18,916 And then I came and I kind of got a gist of what it was. 1393 01:00:18,949 --> 01:00:23,387 I hadn't got the practice down, but was less resistant to go. 1394 01:00:23,420 --> 01:00:27,091 So after maybe two months, I liked it a lot. 1395 01:00:27,124 --> 01:00:29,426 I've tried other stuff. 1396 01:00:29,459 --> 01:00:32,396 I've tried to the count to 10 strategy. 1397 01:00:32,429 --> 01:00:34,131 That doesn't really work. 1398 01:00:34,164 --> 01:00:35,966 After the first day, I kind of just 1399 01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:37,768 realized there's no turning back. 1400 01:00:37,802 --> 01:00:40,370 I can't go back because where am I going to go. 1401 01:00:40,404 --> 01:00:43,774 There is no-- so I was like I better do it right. 1402 01:00:43,808 --> 01:00:46,243 After the first couple times, I really look forward 1403 01:00:46,276 --> 01:00:47,344 to coming here and doing it. 1404 01:00:47,377 --> 01:00:51,148 First few times, I was like this makes sense to me. 1405 01:00:51,181 --> 01:00:53,951 I can actually-- I can actually do it. 1406 01:00:53,984 --> 01:00:56,453 This is the first thing I've ever done that was really 1407 01:00:56,486 --> 01:00:58,989 all about the mind, which, I think, 1408 01:00:59,023 --> 01:01:01,258 helps get to the root of the problems. 1409 01:01:01,291 --> 01:01:03,894 They started teaching little intricate things they have, 1410 01:01:03,928 --> 01:01:07,264 the finger tracings, 7/11, self check-in, all these different 1411 01:01:07,297 --> 01:01:08,498 have been perfected. 1412 01:01:08,532 --> 01:01:14,739 Mindfulness, um, teaches for you to be mindful of yourself, 1413 01:01:14,739 --> 01:01:17,074 to be one with yourself. 1414 01:01:17,107 --> 01:01:19,476 Mindfulness is being not mindless. 1415 01:01:19,509 --> 01:01:22,312 You take a moment and you just take a breath. 1416 01:01:22,346 --> 01:01:25,850 And that calms me down a lot, especially when 1417 01:01:25,883 --> 01:01:29,419 you're really anxious or mad. 1418 01:01:29,453 --> 01:01:30,420 That one helps me. 1419 01:01:30,454 --> 01:01:33,023 It's like if you have an uncomfortable feeling 1420 01:01:33,057 --> 01:01:36,761 of sadness or anger, you're not using those tools to exactly 1421 01:01:36,761 --> 01:01:40,230 run away from it, but to instead examine it in a way 1422 01:01:40,264 --> 01:01:43,801 that you're able to let it go, but at the same time 1423 01:01:43,834 --> 01:01:47,838 dissect it and, like, understand the feeling it in a more, like, 1424 01:01:47,872 --> 01:01:50,975 objective way, without getting attached to it as well. 1425 01:01:51,008 --> 01:01:53,243 Bring yourself in and really-- 1426 01:01:53,277 --> 01:01:56,246 [SIGH] 1427 01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:57,514 You know? 1428 01:01:57,547 --> 01:02:01,085 Mindfulness has really helped me not to control my thoughts 1429 01:02:01,118 --> 01:02:04,054 because you're never really going to be able to control 1430 01:02:04,088 --> 01:02:04,989 your thoughts 100%. 1431 01:02:05,022 --> 01:02:06,523 Your mind will always wonder to things. 1432 01:02:06,556 --> 01:02:09,794 But it's about, like, redirecting your thoughts 1433 01:02:09,827 --> 01:02:13,330 and reining in your thoughts and being able to bring them 1434 01:02:13,363 --> 01:02:15,032 to something more positive. 1435 01:02:15,065 --> 01:02:18,168 I think it's, like, for me, like, it's not about forgetting 1436 01:02:18,202 --> 01:02:19,937 your emotions or, like, what's happening, 1437 01:02:19,970 --> 01:02:22,807 it's more just, like, detaching yourself 1438 01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:28,478 from the-- like, your emotion, but at the same time, 1439 01:02:28,512 --> 01:02:30,214 observing it and accepting it. 1440 01:02:30,247 --> 01:02:32,282 If my problem was this cushion, like, 1441 01:02:32,316 --> 01:02:35,820 I'd-- sit on your problem. 1442 01:02:35,853 --> 01:02:38,088 Learn to be with your problem. 1443 01:02:38,122 --> 01:02:41,258 The life of a teenager now is probably 1444 01:02:41,291 --> 01:02:44,561 far more stressful even then when I went through it. 1445 01:02:44,594 --> 01:02:49,233 And, you know, why not give your teen the tools 1446 01:02:49,266 --> 01:02:52,903 to learn how to manage their own stress, like we're all, 1447 01:02:52,937 --> 01:02:54,471 you know, as adults, trying to learn them? 1448 01:02:54,504 --> 01:02:58,242 I have the tools now to understand what I'm feeling. 1449 01:02:58,275 --> 01:03:01,411 And because I'm really shy feel, so like, when I go and, like, 1450 01:03:01,445 --> 01:03:02,947 try to performance in front of people, 1451 01:03:02,980 --> 01:03:05,015 I get really, really nervous. 1452 01:03:05,049 --> 01:03:09,586 So I have used mindfulness for that because it calms me down 1453 01:03:09,619 --> 01:03:11,856 and I feel more comfortable then. 1454 01:03:11,889 --> 01:03:14,892 [SINGING] 1455 01:03:17,627 --> 01:03:20,397 I try and hide all of my anxiety 1456 01:03:20,430 --> 01:03:22,566 and depression and stuff, but with my mom, 1457 01:03:22,599 --> 01:03:23,433 she sees everything. 1458 01:03:23,467 --> 01:03:25,870 And so she's-- she says she's really 1459 01:03:25,903 --> 01:03:31,475 noticed a huge difference in my attention and my moods. 1460 01:03:31,508 --> 01:03:36,180 So I guess that's proof of the effectiveness of it. 1461 01:03:36,213 --> 01:03:38,448 I learned not to, like, judge myself as much 1462 01:03:38,482 --> 01:03:41,251 and think about the present. 1463 01:03:41,285 --> 01:03:45,589 Because when I think about the past or the future, like, 1464 01:03:45,622 --> 01:03:50,494 that's what causes me a lot of anxiety. 1465 01:03:50,527 --> 01:03:52,496 I've got like a mile long fuse now. 1466 01:03:52,529 --> 01:03:54,965 It's-- it's ridiculous. 1467 01:03:54,999 --> 01:03:56,100 It's really healthy. 1468 01:03:56,133 --> 01:03:58,368 If you're making eggs, you're mindfully making eggs. 1469 01:03:58,402 --> 01:04:01,571 It's an experience now, not just a task. 1470 01:04:01,605 --> 01:04:04,241 I used to wake up like three, four times in the night. 1471 01:04:04,274 --> 01:04:06,576 And now, I only wake up, like, twice. 1472 01:04:06,610 --> 01:04:10,247 But it actually really helped me and my stress levels. 1473 01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:13,183 I've noticed a huge amount of change. 1474 01:04:13,217 --> 01:04:16,486 My mood swings aren't nearly as violent. 1475 01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:18,322 My stress is completely down. 1476 01:04:18,355 --> 01:04:20,457 I think I'm more confident, more alive. 1477 01:04:20,490 --> 01:04:22,659 I was in a very sorry state before I 1478 01:04:22,692 --> 01:04:26,563 discovered the practice, before I discovered mindfulness. 1479 01:04:26,596 --> 01:04:29,199 You see, I'm bipolar, type two. 1480 01:04:29,233 --> 01:04:33,437 And as the diagnose-- well, tells you, 1481 01:04:33,470 --> 01:04:38,142 I feel extremely deep and powerful emotions 1482 01:04:38,175 --> 01:04:43,047 at almost any time, switching very rapidly. 1483 01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:49,519 And for awhile, I felt as if I was a victim of these feelings, 1484 01:04:49,553 --> 01:04:51,288 like they were something that I couldn't control, 1485 01:04:51,321 --> 01:04:54,358 like they were a monster inside me. 1486 01:04:54,391 --> 01:04:58,195 But then, a year ago, I started going to the mindfulness group. 1487 01:04:58,228 --> 01:05:03,267 And the changes that have happened since then, I 1488 01:05:03,300 --> 01:05:05,970 can't believe how different things are 1489 01:05:05,970 --> 01:05:07,537 now, much better my life is. 1490 01:05:07,571 --> 01:05:10,674 I think the ambition of the Mindfulness in Schools Project 1491 01:05:10,707 --> 01:05:12,576 is partly just to raise awareness 1492 01:05:12,609 --> 01:05:16,413 of what mindfulness is and give all kids a taste of it. 1493 01:05:16,446 --> 01:05:18,515 You know, we're not trying to convert everyone 1494 01:05:18,548 --> 01:05:21,051 into deep mindfulness practitioners. 1495 01:05:21,085 --> 01:05:22,652 We're just trying to make them aware of what it 1496 01:05:22,686 --> 01:05:24,521 is because it's common sense. 1497 01:05:24,554 --> 01:05:28,092 This, to me, seems to be the most fundamental thing 1498 01:05:28,125 --> 01:05:29,693 that we should teach our kids. 1499 01:05:29,726 --> 01:05:32,262 There's nothing else to be taught if you haven't 1500 01:05:32,296 --> 01:05:34,164 learned how to pay attention. 1501 01:05:34,198 --> 01:05:36,700 So when you teach mindfulness at home to your kids, 1502 01:05:36,733 --> 01:05:39,369 you're actually giving them this incredible source of 1503 01:05:39,403 --> 01:05:41,138 social and emotional learning. 1504 01:05:41,171 --> 01:05:43,107 You're giving them a source of resilience. 1505 01:05:43,140 --> 01:05:46,310 So those kids actually have a different feel 1506 01:05:46,343 --> 01:05:49,613 than kids who have a mind, of course, but don't see the mind. 1507 01:05:49,646 --> 01:05:51,215 You've got to train the teachers. 1508 01:05:51,248 --> 01:05:53,017 If the teachers aren't being mindful, 1509 01:05:53,017 --> 01:05:54,751 how are the kids ever going to be mindful. 1510 01:05:54,784 --> 01:05:57,487 But I don't think we should be thinking 1511 01:05:57,521 --> 01:06:00,024 that every kid in the school is going 1512 01:06:00,024 --> 01:06:01,691 to want to get up in the morning and practice mindfulness 1513 01:06:01,725 --> 01:06:03,193 for half an hour. 1514 01:06:03,227 --> 01:06:06,096 I think it is realistic for every kid in school 1515 01:06:06,130 --> 01:06:09,166 to be aware of mindfulness, to know what it is, 1516 01:06:09,199 --> 01:06:11,235 to have enjoyed learning about it, 1517 01:06:11,268 --> 01:06:14,271 to have valued the experience, so that's some of them, 1518 01:06:14,304 --> 01:06:17,274 yes, do go on to become mindfulness teachers. 1519 01:06:20,444 --> 01:06:23,747 In a sense, we human beings on our own. 1520 01:06:23,780 --> 01:06:28,052 It may be time for us to grow up and-- or grow down 1521 01:06:28,085 --> 01:06:32,256 and become planetary adults. 1522 01:06:32,289 --> 01:06:35,059 And that would mean, in some sense, 1523 01:06:35,092 --> 01:06:39,663 a deep experiential grounding in interconnectedness. 1524 01:06:39,696 --> 01:06:43,600 And if that's so, then maybe we have a certain kind 1525 01:06:43,633 --> 01:06:45,369 of responsibility if we are ever going 1526 01:06:45,402 --> 01:06:47,771 to grow into being a planetary adult 1527 01:06:47,804 --> 01:06:52,542 to actually inhabit the present moment or rediscover it. 1528 01:06:52,576 --> 01:06:55,479 Inhabit the present moment or rediscover it. 1529 01:06:55,512 --> 01:06:58,482 Inhabit the present moment or rediscover it. 1530 01:07:13,430 --> 01:07:15,132 -Hey. -Hi. 1531 01:07:15,165 --> 01:07:16,500 Notice anything different? 1532 01:07:16,533 --> 01:07:17,301 I sure do. 1533 01:07:17,334 --> 01:07:18,768 Un-huh. 1534 01:07:18,802 --> 01:07:19,503 Tell me. 1535 01:07:19,536 --> 01:07:21,371 -You got a new shirt. -Yeah. 1536 01:07:21,405 --> 01:07:22,206 You became mindful. 1537 01:07:22,239 --> 01:07:22,806 I did. 1538 01:07:22,839 --> 01:07:24,508 I became mindful. 1539 01:07:24,541 --> 01:07:25,509 Aren't you proud of me? 1540 01:07:25,542 --> 01:07:26,643 Extremely. 1541 01:07:26,676 --> 01:07:29,646 Wonderfulness, ridiculousness, with a little sprinkle 1542 01:07:29,679 --> 01:07:30,447 of mindfulness. 1543 01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:32,749 You really learned a lot with this. 1544 01:07:32,782 --> 01:07:35,652 Yeah, I mean, I guess it's not a big deal if you 1545 01:07:35,685 --> 01:07:37,654 pay attention like you learn. 1546 01:07:37,687 --> 01:07:39,256 Yeah, I knew you had it in you. 1547 01:07:39,289 --> 01:07:40,590 Now we can be mindful together. 1548 01:07:40,624 --> 01:07:41,858 Yeah, I think that'd be awesome. 1549 01:07:41,891 --> 01:07:43,560 Yeah, it wasn't so hard, right? 1550 01:07:43,593 --> 01:07:44,761 No, it wasn't hard. 1551 01:07:44,794 --> 01:07:45,695 It was easy. 1552 01:07:45,729 --> 01:07:47,364 -High five it. -Thanks. 1553 01:07:47,397 --> 01:07:49,399 Woo. 1554 01:07:49,433 --> 01:07:52,702 [MUSIC PLAYING] 114866

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