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(tense music)

- B***, are you serious?

Kostya knows?

This is not a situation where you can win.

-Why?
-Because you're trying

take revenge on Matthew by his own methods.

- I can't pretend that nothing happened.

I can not take and stop loving him.

I need to make sure he's a bastard
and get the job done.

- You should go to my therapist.

This condition.

- I thought Rita would send me to a therapist.
- I would have sent it if you were with her, and not with me.

Cutting off a person from friends is
also part of the technique.

(therapist)
-How long have you been in a relationship?

-Few weeks.

But the feeling
that he has been playing with me for a long time.

They don't behave like that
when they just want to use it.

What does "play" mean?

What happened?

- Matthew, please stop!

What I did to you?

- You didn't do anything.

You want to be loved

but you give nothing in return,
you only push away.

(ominous music)

(breathing heavily)

I did everything.

(mentor)
- No, Matvey, not everything.

She needs to be prepared for the next step.

- She's not running.

- So, make her a Needle.

-No.

(depressing music)

- You dropped your head, Matvey,
at the entrance to the mysterious forest.

And part of you is already there.

And the second part is balancing on the border,
calculating the risks.

Such meaningless, Matvey,
for these places,

like the noise of a distant road.

If you lose

you will lose your self-respect

and again turn into a rag, Matvey.

You taught yourself that it was all a game.
- Yes, it's a game.

And you define the rules of the game.

(groans)

You are the game, Matthew.
- B***, I played enough.

-Let there be a leap of faith, Matthew.

Or they will take care of the object

and let her in the second round.

Do you want this?

(crying)

Do you understand that everyone wants to do you?

(whispers)
Everything, everything, everything...

- And Anya will have to go through all the stages again.

(groans)

Just finish what you started.

And a completely different life will begin, Matvey.

I'm teaching you how to use your gift.

Here it is - the object.

Here you opened it.

This is your operation.

You are a doctor.

Well, complete this operation.

(doorbell)

-Go away!

(door slams)

-Where's the first aid kit?

-Oh, who are you?

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Matthew?

One is a brilliant doctor,
the other seems to be a real bastard.

- In such matters, when it seems -
it means you don't think.

-I'm cold.

So who came to me?

Good doctor or asshole?

- Both.

-For what?

-Talk.

- What you know how to say, I already understood.

I need you not to speak your teeth,
but to answer questions.

-Ask.
- Then look at me when I ask.

Have you had sex with other women
since we met?

- Yes.

- And on the day when we first
came to me?

- Yes.

-Get out! Go away!

- You wanted answers.

-Why are you doing this to me?

Why are you behaving like this?

What I did to you?

Yes, I'm scared. Yes, I'm pushing back.
But I'm not lying to you!

Here I am, I have nothing else -

my body, my essence, is it not enough for you?

- Once I already trusted, An.

He gave everything he had, all of himself.

Thought this was love.

I was used and thrown out.

When there was nothing left to take.

I don't want that anymore.

Carefully.

I need to control everything.

-And what?

Is this love for you?

Are you satisfied with such a relationship?

Because I am not.

-Love must be sought together.
-No.

Do not come to me.

-I'm the real one.

You are mine, do you hear?

- Yes.

I really don't know anything about him.

Except that he is a doctor and that he cheated.

Although this is probably not what you would call a change.

He never said that we were together.

But he said that I was a mistake

and that I can't love.

(therapist)
- Well, do you agree with this statement?

There was no desire to accuse him in response?

-No.

I don't know.

Look, I want to understand
what I did wrong.

I replay
the events of the last days in my head,

and I want to see where my mistake is.

-Listen.

I needed to do this one last time

to understand.

I don't need you.

Everything is over.

(dark music)

-Note,

that you blame yourself, not him.

Have you had this before in a relationship?

I mean guilt.

- Yes.

With husband.

He died a year ago in an accident.

-Can you formulate

similarity?

-In...

How painful and unstoppable it is.

(call for change)

Bye.

- Anya!

What are you doing here,

why aren't you answering your calls?
-Recovered.

Who will finish your project?
-I'm not sure.

- Anya, what kind of kindergarten?

Oh please.

Forgive me, let's forget all this
and be adults. Please.

- Stanislav Viktorovich! You forgot.

(tense music)

-I'm not a toy, Stas.

I am a living person.

Goodbye.

All my life

depended on Stas.

My friends are his friends

my reputation is his merit.

But I was happy.

-What attracted you to Stas?

- Talent first.

Mind, charisma, charm.

He was older than me, and it seemed to me that
he would protect.

-And in fact?

- Well, in fact, I always
felt guilty next to him.

Because of everything.

Because I'm not smart enough
or because men like me.

I'm calling again.

I climb with affection, I ask you to go to the store.

That he doesn't like my friends,
that I'm not successful enough

or become more successful than him.

But I felt like it should be.
After all, it's all true.

And then I found myself in a deaf well ...

in which there was no place for joy,

no desire to work

no freedom.

My whole life is centered on it.

(mystical music)

(call signal)

(therapist)
- You are familiar with the terms

"moral abuse",
"manipulation", "abuse"?

-Listen...

I know this about Stas.

And I know about Matthew. Here is another question.

Why don't you want to stop this?

That's the whole point of sacrifice.

The last time my dad washed me like that was when I was a kid.

- Don't scare me like that anymore.

Anya, I don't know why I am like this,
who made me like this, but I am like this.

I don't know if I can give you more.

You can truly love.

And I don't know if I can answer you the same.

But I can't live without you.

Marry me.

Stupid, you are the most precious thing I have.

-It's you...

It's you...

(crying)

Please forgive me.

I didn't know what to do.

I didn't know what else to do.

Forgive me please.

(crying)

I love you so much!

Sorry.

Does that mean I'm to blame?

- I didn't say it was your fault.

- Okay.

I knew he was using
manipulation techniques.

I myself use them -
in work, negotiations.

Is this a mistake?

-These techniques are useful, of course,
in conflicts - in business,

but not in a relationship.

-Why?

We all live in this,
it is not called manipulation.

It's called "achieving your goals"

"negotiate" after all.

Yes, but it's not the same thing.

You allowed yourself the opportunity
to do this to yourself.

You didn't resist.

Yes. But you are not to blame.

This is a very difficult task for the victim.

You see, the manipulator implants in you

such a distorted perception

its own value.

Plays on your fears and complexes.

Raises guilt.

And gains unlimited power.

It's not just Weinstein

it's a form of violence

which no one can judge.

Hi, I'm Ildar.
-Artyom.

- Are you new?

- Yeah.
-According to the recommendation or the test passed?

-Eh... A friend called.

-Who?

- You know what I'm saying.
-Yeah.

Many here would not want
anyone to know that they are here.

- Which one of you is in a relationship?

Are you in a relationship?

-No.

-What is your name?

- Anton.

- Come on, Anton.

Girl or wife?

-Young woman. Two years together.

- That is, you have been together for two years,

and she's still not a wife?

Haven't you saved up for a ring?

(chuckles)

-Don't know. Not sure if it's ready.

- Then call.

Call now on speakerphone.

And say that you broke up.

-For what?
-Because you're here for this.

Or ring,

or leave.

- Did I pay?

- Yes, and by x**.

(laughs)

Well, go complain.

-Stomp your feet on the floor
when you didn't buy a toy,

it's not the only way
to get your way.

Do you know why babies always smile?

-Because they love mom and dad?

-No.
-Why else?

-Because the smile -

like hysteria -

it is the simplest form of manipulation.

We are all born this way:
testing boundaries, encouraging, demanding.

Well, then - the choice of the parent,

allow or teach to negotiate.

Respect the word "no".

Just like the desires and capabilities
of another person.

(call signal)

(girl)
-I can't talk now, something urgent?

- Yes, Vic.

We...

have to part.

-It's funny?
-No.

I made up my mind, it's over.

Let's talk tonight, please.
-No.

You now take your things

and move out, and I'll rent another apartment.

I don't care.

- Anton, wait.

(mentor)
-This is willpower.

And this is the border

which the will cuts through.

You just put her in her place.

And you will go home

and fuck her like this

like never fucked.

And you will forget about this conversation.

And see how obedient she becomes.

(therapist)
- A whole generation of men has grown up,

who are sincerely convinced that the pickup -

It's not an abuse, it's a game.

Why should a person do this consciously?

Well, everyone's goals are probably different.

But the roots are the same: self-affirmation and power.

Pervert the reality of another person,

to get what you want from him.

Without evaluation of consequences, without sympathy.

-And it always works?
-Yes.

With no exceptions.

In life, in work,

in politics, in business, everywhere.

Because we are all
traumatized in one way or another.

The abusive pattern
is established in early childhood

and then haunts us for the rest of our lives.

As are the victims.

We find ourselves manipulators
and begin to depend on them.

It's scary to leave such a person,

and not quit - it hurts.

(whispers)
Everything will be fine.

(therapist)
-So, as cruel as it sounds,

it would be difficult for you
to end the relationship with your husband,

if not for what happened.

- Serious level.

Congratulations.

Interestingly, Stas
began to engage in masturbation.

This was not the case before.

-Stas is very sensitive to trends

even before they become fashionable.

And I really like this direction.

I offered several options,
he approved.

This is entirely his merit.

-Wow.

He usually selects exhibits himself.

Did you invite guests too?

Further it will only be more interesting.

You don't know anything about him.

-I know enough

about him and about you.

I think there is no excuse for meanness,
especially in the family, isn't it?

-In family?

Well, we weren't married.

He threw me out like an unnecessary thing,
and he will throw you out.

-I do not want to talk about it.
-That's right, you don't have to.

Enjoy.

Being the right thing is very nice.

- Well, shall we go?

-You lied to me?

Why did you deceive me?

I did it on purpose.

I knew he would break.

Anyone in this situation would have done the same.

and blame myself.

This is the way

deal with loss.

-Maybe.

- Stas, judging by your stories,
was a strong personality.

- Brilliant.

He was brave,
he was not afraid of losing anything.

Money,

work.

Was not afraid of anything.

-Yes Yes. I think that Stas
manipulated unconsciously.

This is nature.

Perverted narcissist and psychopath,
scientifically speaking.

Such a psychopath can be anyone:

man, parent and even girlfriend.

And that's the lesser of the evils.

-How to understand it?

- In our age of uncontrolled access to
information and learning

psychopathic manipulation technique

turned into technology.

And now absolutely everyone can master it.

We call this "deliberate manipulation".

-What the weak call abuse,

I call magic.

Magic is the dexterity of the mind.

The ability to change reality with the power of will and the power of thought
.

Become her master.

Take on the functions of God.

(plays a lyrical tune)

I will give you assignments.

If you are not ready to fulfill them,

leave immediately.

I'am a teacher.

Relationships are the perfect trainer.

I will teach you
how to use relationships

as a resource for personal growth.

And you can safely fuck anyone.

You will have life.

-And love?

-Love?

Love is for marathons for housewives.

First, learn
to control your emotions.

(plays an emotional tune)

And already now

take control of the situation.

And here you can fall in love
as much as you want.

Because love is a conscious act

and not Achilles' heel.

I taught it to business people

from politics

from art.

I will teach this to you.

It's a game.

This is the most fun
and most challenging game ever.

of all the games in the world.

I created this club

in order to unite

the best of the best

and move on.

Go beautifully, Matthew,

and authentic

dissolving all the ugliness of the world

in its greatness.

How does it feel?

-Oh***.

That feeling when she belongs to me,
no matter what I do.

Pure thrill.

- You deserve a move.

(stomping foot)

I want you all to see this.

Matthew has gone to another level.

-Ready?
-Yes.

(plays a dramatic tune)

- A minute.

(rhythmic stomping)

Come on, come on, hold on.

You can.

(choking)

(music and stomping speed up)

Hold on, hold on, I say!

(music and stomping speed up)

Stop!

Sit down.

(wheezes of Matthew)

Beautiful!

-Now you understand why I'm here?

I want you to reach the end.

And they felt their invulnerability.

(guys)
Well done, well done.

- Matthew, you know...

Matvey?

Do you understand
why you had to do this?

Matvey?

Tell.

I went through five stages with her.

Intelligence, seduction,

turbulence, game, cold shower.

(wheezes)

But the object is very complex.

If after a cold shower

I would leave her

she would understand what happened to her

play and manipulate.

And I would get off the hook.

So I resorted to the least.

Made the Needle.

Is it dangerous.

Anything can be provoked.

Up to suicide.

Thanks for reaching out.

-Thank you for trusting me.

But this is a game, Matthew.

So finish the game.

This is respect.

(therapist)
-Relationships,

in which one of the partners is unhappy,

it's definitely not love.

Love -

it's a partnership.

Love does not destroy a person.

In contrast

from codependency and moral abuse.

What do you want yourself?

- I don't want it to hurt.

I want a normal relationship.

- But for you, a normal relationship
is a mortal boredom.

And humiliation, hysteria - that's love, right?

Understand, you have lived
in the substitution of concepts for a very long time.

And again, subconsciously choose
a person who is not able to love.

And blame yourself for this.

- And so in a circle.
- Absolutely right.

People who have lived with an abuser for a long time

in a new relationship looking for the same thing.

Everyone has their own

Matthew.

-What to do about it?

- Well, the option to run
usually does not suit anyone.

Too strong girls went.

(dark music)

(shouts)

(groaning in pain)

Well, either to study
how this mechanism works from the inside,

and turn it off.

But this is a very long work.

It may take years.

(call signal)

- Hello, I want to order recycling.

Or I can try to change it.

- Don't have any illusions, An!

Well, no one can change anyone.

If someone tells you
that he has changed,

don't trust him, don't trust him.

Look at actions.

You have to take care of yourself.

Your attitude and behaviour.

Then maybe something will change.

But this does not mean
that you will have a healthy relationship.

There is a very big danger

that you yourself will become a manipulator.

(doorbell)

-Are you okay? How did you go?
-Great.

She was very accurate, thank you.

How are you doing?

-They said to choose the most impregnable
girl from the environment

and ask for a date.
-Choose?

Well, I immediately thought of you.

Bibliography.

-Here is a guide to working with drug addicts.

-Scroll below -
there is about horse training.

Have you seen Matthew?

- An, listen carefully now.

Everything that I have seen in trainings before,
and is not close.

This Vlad is a really powerful coach.

It's up to you, of course, but I'm afraid for you.
-No need.

This is my life and I know what to do.

Did you volunteer to help?

Need to go there again.

- No, that's overkill.

What are you doing?
- I'm training.

I learned that the best way
to not get attached is

it is sex with several people at the same time.

- Find yourself another trainer.

-Will you help me?

I'm counting on you.

(Leela 45 - "Eight")

(message signal)

(Rita)
- Anya, your clients are calling me,

You've been missing for three days now.
What about the opening?

-I'll call them myself,
the overhaul is over,

cosmetics - by the end of the week.
I control everything.

Thank you for your concern.

Well.

It's time for me to take it to the next level.

Please forgive me for being late.
Crazy day.

I'm so glad you invited me.
- Didn't you invite me?

-By the way, I contacted Abramovich's agents.

I told her about you,
about space, carte blanche.

If she is interested,
we will communicate directly.

Unless, of course, you change your mind.
- No, I won't change my mind.

I read about it, it's amazing.

-It will be magical if she agrees.

Guram, I wanted to
thank you very much.

If not for you, I would hardly have returned
to work with art.

And now I understand how much I missed you.

-You have changed.

You are much smarter than a simple marketer.

with my resources

you can do any projects
you want.

And my offer stands.

Why do men always try to subdue?

-Is it?

- You don't know anything about me.

I saw once in court
at a time when I felt bad,

and decided to save

You emphasize it all the time,
it's not difficult for you.

He told me the rules
by which I must play.

I don't want charity.

-But I didn't want to

to look like this.

I already lost my family once because of this.

Anya, I don't want you to be afraid.

-Do you trust me?

Shall we go for a ride?

You must understand that this is not revenge.

This is a project.

We have a customer.

And very soon

there will be results.

Most importantly, keep your emotions under control.

And don't jump.

"And let me decorate your hands
with a quiet scattering of phrases,

let them see the rivers,

desert,

mountains

and Texas

at the end of breaking lines

behind the net

parallel tracks,

I see how the crossroads is dusty

fate brings your frame.

Howling miles in the car

we died in the car

millions of times."

-Are we in a hurry?

Maybe you were hired to kill me? No?

-Maybe.

I'm sorry it was a mistake.

- I already understood that.

I told you
you don't know anything about me.

-Perhaps you're right.

Let's get back.

(Leela 45 - "Eight")

- I loved you very much, Stas.

Now I will do everything to fall out of love.

Sorry.

Go fuck yourself.