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Great part of our life
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is experienced under a haze of automatic and habitual behavior.
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We spent so much time on the hunt.
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But nothing ever satisfies us enough.
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AUTHOR OF 10% HAPPIER
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And we get so caught up in the hunt that it makes us unhappy.
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And I had everything I ever wanted.
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I had everything I should have.
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Everyone around me said: "You are successful."
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But in fact, I was unhappy.
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There was this ...
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THE MINIMALISTS
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... stark emptiness in my life.
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So I tried to fill that gap as many people do:
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With things ... many things.
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I was filling the void by buying things.
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I was spending money faster than I was earning,
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trying to buy my way to happiness.
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I thought you were going to get there one day.
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After all, happiness had to be
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Somewhere, very close.
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I was living from salary to salary,
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living for a living, living for things.
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But I was not actually living.
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At a time when people from the West
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are enjoying the best standard of living in history,
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Why, at the same time ...
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PHD IN NEUROPHYSIOLOGIST
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... is there so much desire for more?
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I think of it as a kind of delusional desire with biological roots.
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This desire is a good strategy to keep animals alive,
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including the first humans of the story,
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under very adverse conditions.
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But currently, this causes a disconnect.
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You're like a marionette, whose ropes
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should be drawn by the evolution of Mother Nature,
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tens of millions of years ago.
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We still feel restless.
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We are still always looking for more.
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That's why lottery winners are miserable.
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That's why people have garages for three cars.
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The first car generates a wonderful and exponential dose ...
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Entrepreneur
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... of happiness, joy and usefulness.
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The second car comes because we get sick of the first one.
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And, as humans, we were programmed to become dissatisfied.
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It's an addiction, really.
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And we are encouraged to keep addiction
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through technology and information.
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American culture has ...
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CONSULTANT - SUSTAINABLE CLOTHING
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... for the most part, caused this blindness.
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There is definitely this illusion of how our lives should be.
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Whether through advertising, or your Instagram,
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or Facebook feed, it's this illusion
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that our lives should be perfect.
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It is natural to use the lives of other people,
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And even imaginary lives, you know ...
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... the confections we see in advertisements, as a criterion.
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You open a Vanity Fair or Esquire and see
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very sexy and glamorous lives.
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And then the projects for most people seem to become:
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"How can I get that or how close to that will I get?"
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There can be a lot of frustration
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for trying to live that way.
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And many of us see no other alternative to live like this.
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The advertisement polluted ...
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PHD AND SOCIOLOGIST ECONOMIST
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... and infiltrated the culture.
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It's in our movies.
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It's on our television shows.
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It's in our books.
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You are in our doctors' offices.
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You're in the taxis.
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You're in the bar, sitting next to you, the person you're thinking about
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be having a relaxed conversation may have been
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Placed there by a beverage company.
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Hydrate the Rush
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It's been a slow evolution.
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This is not something that just happened yesterday.
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It's something that's been sold to us by the last, let's say, 100 years,
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slowly and always, for those who want to make lots of money.
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That's what I call a nice car.
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They want us to believe that ...
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ENOUGH AUTHOR
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... we need these things.
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With each passing year, there is more encouragement,
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more pressure, more options,
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More media, more noise and noise.
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And by uncomplicating, simplifying and enabling ...
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DIRECTOR AND PHOTOGRAPHER
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... people know they have the option,
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Is this alarm clock that is very valuable
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In a very critical time now.
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My life has reached a point
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where I no longer knew what was important.
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So, at some point as I approached age 30,
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I noticed something different in my best friend.
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In their twenties.
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Josh, he seemed happy for the first time
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in a long time type, really happy, in ecstasy.
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But I did not understand why, because we both worked
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In the same corporation.
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We both spent our twenties climbing the corporate ladder together,
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And he had been as unhappy as I was.
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So I did what any best friend would do.
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I took it to lunch for something really good ...
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I think we went to the Subway. And I sat down with him
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and asked a question.
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Why the hell are you so happy?
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He spent the next 20 minutes talking about something called minimalism.
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Before I discovered minimalism,
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I think my life was like with that of any other person.
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I had many things.
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Hundreds, thousands of books, DVDs, VHS,
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cupboards full of expensive clothes.
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All these things that I had brought into my life without question.
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But when I began to detach myself,
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I began to feel freer, happier, lighter.
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THE MINIMALISTS
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And now, as a minimalist, every thing I have serves a purpose,
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Or brings me joy.
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I have a bed, a chair, and a radio.
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And I have some furniture in my dining room.
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I have some appliances in my kitchen.
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I do not have any excesses.
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Everything I see around
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I have to justify myself, not to anyone else,
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But justify to me: "Does this add value to my life?"
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And if not, I must be willing to undo it.
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Ryan and I just wrote a book about our last five years,
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From those corporate guys in a suit and tie, to minimalists.
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And now we'll hit the road for ten months this year
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And promote this book.
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But in fact pass a message on which we believe,
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A simple message of living more free with less.
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I'm gonna need a jacket.
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We'll see where the journey will take us.
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INTERACTIVE MUSIC FILM
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He then presented it as a 12-minute lecture with 8 minutes of reading.
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-Right. -Yes.
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Cool because only
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I do not want to feel rushed in the lecture, that's all.
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Right.
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CEDO IN THE TURN, JOSHUA AND RYAN PERFORMED A LECTURE IN SOUTH.
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THEY HOPE THAT THAT TAKES THE HISTORY OF THEM TO A LARGEST PUBLIC.
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-Ready? "I was born soon."
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Nice.
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Hello, thank you for coming.
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My name is Ryan Nicodemus and this is Joshua Fields Millburn.
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And together we run a website called theminimalists.com.
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So today, Josh will read something from our book,
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but first let me tell you a story about how
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we become the Minimalists.
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We were never expelled, as long as a person appears ...
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"That's all that matters. -I feel very good.
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We had events where only two people showed up,
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and that was amazing,
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because we had to spend time with two people and add value
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their lives in a different way.
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-I'm an embrace, man. -Right.
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Thanks for coming, man.
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Thanks for coming and attending the lecture, man.
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-Cool. Thank you. -It's our pleasure.
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Did you forget your Kindle and badge in there?
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Yes thanks.
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From the day I was born
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by the second grade, when my parents divorced,
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I had perfect parents.
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When my mother left my father,
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it just got really bad.
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In high school, we had a lot of people at home.
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And then I discovered that they were there smoking crack.
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They produced crack.
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In the eighth grade, SWAT invaded our home,
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and arrested my mother for selling drugs.
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It was the drug that beat my mother.
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Josh had a childhood very similar to mine.
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My first memories of my father
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They are of him erasing a cigarette on my mother's chest.
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Soon after she left my father, she began to drink.
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My greatest fear was to be taken away from her.
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When she was sober, she was a phenomenal mother.
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I think she kind of felt trapped.
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My mother always complained about money.
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She had no money.
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I remember growing poor.
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And I remember thinking when I graduated from high school:
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"I want to start a path that will take me somewhere
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Rather than difficulties. "
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Eight hundred yards, turn left onto San Pedro Drive.
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We're on our way to NPR for a radio interview.
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They are our people. Our demographics.
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How are you ?
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- You're looking for Rick Daniels. -I think so.
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-You are the Minimalists. -Yes, we are.
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How are you ?
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- I'm Scott. - I'm Ryan. I'm a hug, man.
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-Nice to meet you. -Thank you for inviting us.
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Joshua.
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I think the moment I woke up was when I was showing colleagues
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how to sell cell phones to five year olds.
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I thought, "What am I doing?"
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This mentality of achieving a better promotion,
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Get a better house, a better car,
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Get a better salary, be able to pay expensive bills at the bar.
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And to do that he had to sell cell phones to five-year-olds.
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There's a model out there.
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You can call it American Dream,
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Or accompany the Joneses, or whatever.
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It's just a mold. It is not the mold.
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And when we realize this,
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I think we can create our own template that works for us.
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The American Dream has a long history
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which began as a concept that really was more about opportunity.
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The US is a land of opportunity
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where a person can start from the bottom work hard and do well.
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There is no doubt that what it means to have achieved
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Or have achieved the American Dream in the United States
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Has increased tremendously in material terms.
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One hundred thousand dollars or more of income per year
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has become more and more a standard desire
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in society, because that is portrayed
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as normal on TV,
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A six-figure income.
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Beginning around the mid of the 1990s,
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Americans entered a fever of consumerism probably
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unprecedented in the history of mankind.
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AVERAGE DOMESTIC EXPENSES
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originating mainly from China.
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Whether talking about clothes, electronics,
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all kinds of household goods.
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Things are cheaper, but more available.
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Buy yourself 24 hours a day online.
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LIFEEDITED FOUNDER
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There are big stores that sell everything.
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We end up accumulating a lot of things.
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So much so that even if you have
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about three times the space per person
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we used to have in the 50's, so much more space ...
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We have so many things that we need more space than that,
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and then there is a storage industry of 2.2 billion square meters ...
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Which is ridiculous.
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And we have people
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living in huge houses. And if you really repair,
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People do not use the space they have.
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A study was carried out which showed a heat map of, type,
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Where people moved in their homes ...
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DIR.LIFEEDITED COMMUNICATION
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Over a normal day.
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A family of four, in a middle house.
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And what was discovered is that people used, perhaps,
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forty percent of their space.
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No one used the dining room.
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No one uses the living room.
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There was a large balcony.
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Nobody used the balcony.
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You know, I'm not saying that's how everyone lives.
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Some people use dining rooms, but it creates this big void.
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you need to fill, so people play lots of crap in their homes,
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things you do not need.
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We are living our lives
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according to the space we have
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instead of creating our space to fit our life.
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It's so easy to choose wrong, and you're done.
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With three dining tables in the same house.
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ARCHITECT
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Well, you need to run around enough to eat at three tables at once.
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Nothing is more responsible than living in the smallest place you can.
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We probably sell or donate, say, at least 90 percent of our things.
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You can not take all your things to a small house.
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I wasted two hours a day commuting ...
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PLAINTIFF:
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... and then staying in a cubicle, ten to twelve hours a day.
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She had been very fat. I was unhappy.
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And I kept thinking, "What's wrong with me?
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I should be happy. I have all these things.
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A beautiful house, a great husband.
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And Logan was kind of like, "Well,
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you could probably quit your job
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if we simplified and moved to a smaller place.
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And I would say, "What the hell are you talking about?
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I do not want to get rid of my things. "
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I found a video on YouTube, saw the little houses,
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and I was thrilled.
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Hi, Earl.
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What's up, dude?
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I think the most important thing for me, at least at the beginning,
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was the financial side of things.
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When we saw our budget and the values,
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I was like, Let's just try.
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If I loathe the smaller apartment, we can always go for a bigger one. "
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I think there is this element of accessibility,
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simplicity and sustainability that simply does
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small houses look like the perfect solution
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for a problem that we have not yet resolved,
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That is: how are we going to work?
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DESIGNER SMALL HOUSES
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... for our whole life.
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For one to enjoy life with a little work here and there?
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For a long time when people were wanting
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buy the first home, they looked at their budgets
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and said: "How much money do I need to spend?"
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"I have $ 500,000, I will buy what $ 500,000 can buy."
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And the big mistake was that these people
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They did not have $ 500,000.
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They had a loan that guaranteed them that amount.
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And, of course, after a few years of people buying houses
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Who, in fact, were not buying,
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They only hoped to buy it someday,
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The real estate market collapsed.
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We fall 1.7 percent here, a loss of 37 points or more.
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Apple shares are plummeting today.
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We are down three or four percentage points
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On average in these markets.
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Let's talk about speed
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With which we see this market deteriorate.
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It was Wall Street's worst day since the 1987 crisis.
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This may be the worst recession in decades.
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And it means that life, as most Americans know, is about to change.
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In some cases, dramatically.
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I think where that left us,
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On the verge of a recession, it was a great
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to buy a house of their own.
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The vision that really came withLifeEdited
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It's simply, "Hey, I think we need to take a step back here."
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We are basically a company focused on a mission.
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The mission of doing more with less.
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Then the prototype apartment fromLifeEdited
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started with me buying a 40 square meter land in New York
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And launching a very aggressive program.
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What I was wanting was a lot.
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Living at home for a couple, being able to sit down for dinner
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to 10 or 12, to be able to receive guests in a civilized way.
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And be able to work from home with some kind of desk.
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Very quickly, I realized that a small place made a lot more sense
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With respect to the environment, but also made more sense in other respects.
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One of the things we really want to do is design houses based
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in A, how people live, and B, what really matters:
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Creating more social houses, you know, houses that actually
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Approach people from one another.
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It was an incredible experience,
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why change a space of 110 square meters,
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I've never felt more at peace in my life.
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ILLUSTRATOR AND DESIGNER
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There are less things to worry about.
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Our overhead was lower.
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That's when I started saying:
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"You know, thisLifeEdited thing,this philosophy,
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Maybe there's something in it. "
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A beautiful future for us
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would be to do a very good financial development,
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had a much lower cost,
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and had many developers copying what we do.
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So that this spread and we began to change the way we live as Americans
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And change that philosophy of how much bigger, better.
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I think we just started to re-examine the meaning
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To succeed in life.
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But it's not that white fence anymore.
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It's not that McMansion anymore.
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I think people are starting
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to notice that may have fallen into a trap,
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And who may have more control over their options
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Than they thought they had.
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We're sharing a recipe.
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You know, we're not here trying to convert.
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We're not trying to convert anyone to minimalism.
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But I want to share a recipe and see
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if there are ingredients that are valuable for other people,
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to apply these ingredients in their own lives.
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There is this basic dissatisfaction,
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And I think it starts to manifest in our things.
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And what I'm discovering as we travel,
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and we talked to so many people,
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is that everyone is looking for meaning for their lives.
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We're at the Tucson Book Festival.
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We are getting ready, sign some books ...
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and then, shortly after, we will give our talk.
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Dude, look at all these people waiting for us to sign the books.
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Let's stay out here.
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It does not seem like it's us.
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If a person comes,
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So let's go ahead and stay there.
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Right.
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-How are you? -I love your things.
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Thank you. I'm a hug, man. I will hug you.
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Yes, I follow you on Facebook and you will speak on this afternoon.
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What time will it be?
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At 7:00 p.m.
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THEATER GALLAGHER
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Imagine a life with less.
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Less things, less clutter, less stress,
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Debt and dissatisfaction.
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A life with fewer distractions.
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Now imagine a life with more.
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More time, more meaningful relationships,
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More growth, contribution and contentment.
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It's funny because people will surely come to us
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and will speak, like: "I'm not a minimalist like you."
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I have a collection of books and I love books.
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And I have a great, beautiful library and I love the smell of the books.
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I love turning the pages. I love what you make me feel.
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I love lending them to my friends.
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And then talk about them. "
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And I say, "Hey, keep your books."
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"It seems like you value your books a lot."
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And that's what I'd say about any kind of collection.
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If you get a book or whatever, that's fine.
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Just minimize it later.
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But I'd like to get a hug from you too, you know,
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We are big huggers. They are free and transferable.
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Get one of us later.
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I was 27 years old.
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I was director of operations of 150 retail stores.
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It was December 23, 2008,
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I got a call from my mother.
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I emailed because I was in a meeting.
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At 7:00 PM, looking at a flood of e-mails,
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I noticed that I had a lot of voice messages.
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An era of my mother, she was sober for a while,
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But I could tell by the message that she had drunk.
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In her voicemail,
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She simply said, "Honey, it's me."
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Can you call me back?
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She told me the doctors had found something.
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And she discovered that she had stage four lung cancer.
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She underwent chemo and radiotherapy,
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but in stage four, you can not usually escape.
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I went to the hospital. My mother was still in bed.
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It was the first time I cried in my adult life.
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I sobbed wildly.
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I kept saying I was sorry.
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I did not even know at the time why I said that.
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It was simply the only thing I could say.
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I really wanted to spend more time with her.
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"My mother's death still surrounds me.
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And now, in the same month, my six-year marriage ends.
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But even while Rome is burning,
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There is still time for some shopping at IKEA.
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See? When I left the house earlier in the week, loading
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My many belongings in large packages, boxes
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And in giant backpacks, my first impulse
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Was, of course, to buy the things I
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I still needed it for my new home.
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You know, just the basics.
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A shower curtain, towels, a bed, and,
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I need a sofa and a matching leather chair,
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and an armchair, a lamp, a table with chair,
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and another lamp there.
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Of course, I can not forget the shelf
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that matches the small table and the wardrobe for the bedroom.
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I need a coffee table and a couple of small tables,
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and a support for the TV that i still need to buy.
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And now that I think about it,
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I'm going to want my apartment to be my style, you know,
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In my own way.
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So I need certain decorations to decorate everything my way.
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But wait, what is my style anyway?
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And these stainless steel frames
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express this type of style?
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This Matisse sketch replica accurately captures
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my aggressive temper, but professional?
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How aggressive am I exactly?
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What coffee maker defines me as a man?
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The fact that I am doing these questions
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to be a "male man"?
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How many plates, and cups, and saucers does a man have?
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I think I need a dinner table too, right?
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And a mat for the entrance, and a bath mat.
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And that business, that business.
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That looks like a rug, only longer?
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Yes, a mat.
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I'll need one, too.
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And I'm going to need ... Damn, what else do I need? "
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My name is Sam Harris. I am an author and a neuroscientist,
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And I'm interested in how our growing understanding
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About ourselves can scientifically, and should, and really
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Should change our conception
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Of what it means to live a good life.
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Gratifying desires in a very materialistic way
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is really an interesting phenomenon.
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You can have this thing you were obsessed about.
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But then a new version is released,
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which is more modern and has dozens of improvements.
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When it comes to the new, modern,
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the most desired status symbols,
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You can bet consumers will wait long hours in line for one.
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And now you no longer care for what you have.
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In fact, the one you have is source of dissatisfaction.
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I think we are confused about what will make us happy.
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Many people think that material possessions are really
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at the heart of everything,
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and they expect that satisfying every wish as they arise
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will in some way provide a satisfying life for them.
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Faculty of Social Work
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It is clear that, as human beings ...
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PHD. COMPULSIVE ACCUMULATION
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... we have strong attachment initially
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In our lives for the people who are taking care of us.
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And sometimes it seems that this attachment is redirected
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for objects, as if they were as important as people.
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I'm not sure if we have such a good relationship like this.
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With things.
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Give me that box!
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Get off of me!
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Why are you being so aggressive?
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____You are scaring me!
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I was talking with author and sociologist Juliet Schor.
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And I said: "The problem of our society ...
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AUTHOR OFNO IMPACT MAN
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... is to be too materialistic.
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And she actually said that if we think in some ways,
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we are not materialistic enough.
517
00:31:27,133 --> 00:31:30,804
We are very materialistic in the sense of everyday.
518
00:31:31,054 --> 00:31:34,015
And we are not too materialistic
519
00:31:34,099 --> 00:31:35,683
In the real sense of the word.
520
00:31:35,975 --> 00:31:38,311
We need to be true materialists,
521
00:31:38,395 --> 00:31:40,480
we really care about material goods.
522
00:31:41,022 --> 00:31:45,068
Instead, we are in a world where material goods are
523
00:31:45,276 --> 00:31:47,862
very important for their symbolic meanings,
524
00:31:48,238 --> 00:31:51,491
How they position us in the status system,
525
00:31:51,574 --> 00:31:54,786
Based on what the advertisement or the media says about them.
526
00:32:00,875 --> 00:32:06,756
The status quo in the fashion industry is now driven by short fashion.
527
00:32:07,424 --> 00:32:09,592
Maybe when our moms bought clothes
528
00:32:09,676 --> 00:32:12,387
or our grandparents, there were four seasons in the year.
529
00:32:12,762 --> 00:32:14,264
Or maybe even two.
530
00:32:14,347 --> 00:32:16,266
You are dressed for cold or for warmth.
531
00:32:16,349 --> 00:32:20,228
Now we work on a cycle of 52 stations per year.
532
00:32:29,112 --> 00:32:31,698
They want you to feel out of fashion
533
00:32:31,781 --> 00:32:34,200
Week after week so you can buy something new
534
00:32:34,284 --> 00:32:35,452
next week.
535
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:38,746
There have even been reports
536
00:32:38,830 --> 00:32:42,792
of great fashion retailers getting rid of all clothing
537
00:32:42,876 --> 00:32:46,463
a week, pricking them with scissors, destroying them,
538
00:32:46,546 --> 00:32:48,423
and leaving everything on the side of the street
539
00:32:48,506 --> 00:32:51,509
so nobody could resell them or even use them.
540
00:32:52,969 --> 00:32:58,057
They want consumers to buy as fast as possible.
541
00:33:00,602 --> 00:33:02,145
The era of short-lived fashion,
542
00:33:02,228 --> 00:33:04,564
In which we produce clothing with abusive work
543
00:33:04,647 --> 00:33:06,274
So that we do not pay the labor cost
544
00:33:06,357 --> 00:33:08,318
and we do not pay the ecological cost
545
00:33:08,401 --> 00:33:10,987
of these things, reduced both the price of clothing
546
00:33:11,070 --> 00:33:14,824
what used clothes practically lost the value.
547
00:33:16,034 --> 00:33:19,120
I like to think rice and beans cost more than used clothing.
548
00:33:19,996 --> 00:33:24,918
In historical terms, it's a world turned inside out.
549
00:33:25,543 --> 00:33:28,171
And this represents the economy
550
00:33:28,254 --> 00:33:32,884
of an extreme and deep unsustainability.
551
00:33:34,260 --> 00:33:38,097
To a scholar of such things, it is breathtaking and terrifying.
552
00:33:40,517 --> 00:33:42,852
The short fashion was what happened to the clothing
553
00:33:42,936 --> 00:33:45,605
and then expanded to the consumer goods sector.
554
00:33:46,356 --> 00:33:48,399
Almost everything from home right now
555
00:33:48,483 --> 00:33:51,402
becomes a fashion object,
556
00:33:51,486 --> 00:33:55,490
and this was simply a dramatic transformation.
557
00:33:56,449 --> 00:33:59,327
If you think about the concept of fashion,
558
00:33:59,410 --> 00:34:03,206
It incorporates the idea that you can
559
00:34:03,289 --> 00:34:06,167
throw things away not when they no longer serve,
560
00:34:06,251 --> 00:34:08,086
but when they do not have plus that social value
561
00:34:08,169 --> 00:34:10,380
or are no longer in fashion.
562
00:34:13,007 --> 00:34:15,093
I think people buy because they are ...
563
00:34:15,176 --> 00:34:16,344
AUTHOR OFZEN HABITS
564
00:34:16,427 --> 00:34:18,596
... trying to fill that emptiness within them.
565
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,515
I know this because it was me.
566
00:34:21,432 --> 00:34:23,476
But no matter how many things we buy,
567
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:25,395
or how many different fads we try,
568
00:34:25,478 --> 00:34:27,647
We do not become a more complete person.
569
00:34:27,730 --> 00:34:28,815
We keep looking.
570
00:34:28,898 --> 00:34:30,692
This hunger is never satiated.
571
00:34:32,110 --> 00:34:34,696
I think the reason is in fact
572
00:34:35,029 --> 00:34:38,116
that you can never have enough of what you really do not want.
573
00:34:38,575 --> 00:34:40,702
In other words, deep down, we really
574
00:34:40,785 --> 00:34:43,997
We do not want more things, more toys, more cars.
575
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,666
We want what they will bring to us.
576
00:34:47,208 --> 00:34:48,751
We want to feel complete.
577
00:34:48,835 --> 00:34:50,837
We want to feel satisfied.
578
00:34:53,506 --> 00:34:57,010
This irrational consumption, the same thing
579
00:34:57,135 --> 00:34:59,721
Which is not making us happy, is also causing
580
00:34:59,804 --> 00:35:01,889
The degradation of our habitat.
581
00:35:02,473 --> 00:35:06,436
We can have 350 parts per million carbon dioxide
582
00:35:06,519 --> 00:35:08,187
in the atmosphere.
583
00:35:08,271 --> 00:35:11,107
We are approaching 400 parts per million.
584
00:35:11,399 --> 00:35:14,777
This is being caused by burning oil, natural gas, coal,
585
00:35:14,902 --> 00:35:18,656
of all the fuels we use to fuel our consumer economy,
586
00:35:18,740 --> 00:35:21,451
to feed the industries who do the things we do not need.
587
00:35:21,993 --> 00:35:26,372
This is real, and we really need to do something about it.
588
00:35:27,248 --> 00:35:28,958
We will never be able
589
00:35:29,042 --> 00:35:32,378
To achieve improvements in the environment
590
00:35:32,462 --> 00:35:36,507
That we seek, if we continue to wait for our lives to be the same.
591
00:35:36,633 --> 00:35:38,134
We'll have to give up a lot.
592
00:35:38,217 --> 00:35:39,761
FRENESI BLACK FRIDAY INVADING DURING NIGHT
593
00:35:44,557 --> 00:35:47,185
The secret is that many of these things will not be needed.
594
00:35:56,778 --> 00:35:59,614
About four years ago or more
595
00:35:59,697 --> 00:36:01,157
Who technically have no home,
596
00:36:01,240 --> 00:36:04,160
But I go to new countries and rent apartments,
597
00:36:04,243 --> 00:36:06,954
So it's from house to house.
598
00:36:07,038 --> 00:36:08,539
Or maybe full of houses.
599
00:36:08,623 --> 00:36:11,876
I simply have many houses, not just in one place,
600
00:36:11,959 --> 00:36:14,212
not for long. It's always interesting.
601
00:36:14,295 --> 00:36:16,381
Go on a date or something and need to explain:
602
00:36:16,464 --> 00:36:17,965
"Yes, I do not have a home."
603
00:36:18,883 --> 00:36:20,551
Maybe I should not start with that.
604
00:36:25,515 --> 00:36:28,142
When I began to reduce the number of things in my life,
605
00:36:28,226 --> 00:36:30,061
and started to get rid of basically everything
606
00:36:30,144 --> 00:36:33,189
That did not fit in these bags, I went and took pictures of everything ...
607
00:36:33,314 --> 00:36:34,273
ENTREPRENEUR, TRAVELER IN COMPREHENSIVE TIME
608
00:36:34,357 --> 00:36:36,025
... that I had in the world and I counted.
609
00:36:36,651 --> 00:36:40,655
As a result, I discovered that I had 51 things in the whole world.
610
00:36:42,990 --> 00:36:45,576
I started living this way about four years ago.
611
00:36:45,743 --> 00:36:47,787
I was managing a studio.
612
00:36:47,912 --> 00:36:50,540
I've always wanted to travel the world,
613
00:36:50,623 --> 00:36:53,167
And had never left the country.
614
00:36:53,334 --> 00:36:56,462
And that was kind of a sign of my failure in many ways.
615
00:36:57,422 --> 00:37:01,384
So I started a blog, I left my career in Los Angeles behind,
616
00:37:01,551 --> 00:37:03,344
and started looking for something new,
617
00:37:03,511 --> 00:37:06,305
Something a little different, and something a bit more aligned
618
00:37:06,389 --> 00:37:08,766
With what I wanted from my life.
619
00:37:08,850 --> 00:37:12,145
And now I carry everything I own in my back,
620
00:37:12,228 --> 00:37:14,480
As well as a hermit crab or a turtle.
621
00:37:16,065 --> 00:37:17,942
I was able to get rid of everything
622
00:37:18,025 --> 00:37:21,863
that I had and that did not fit in a carry-on,
623
00:37:21,946 --> 00:37:24,407
what a great decision and not something
624
00:37:24,490 --> 00:37:26,409
I've waited since the beginning.
625
00:37:27,201 --> 00:37:29,746
I realized quickly that I would not need so much.
626
00:37:29,829 --> 00:37:34,125
And I came to the conclusion that everything I left behind
627
00:37:34,208 --> 00:37:36,294
Would probably be left behind forever.
628
00:37:41,132 --> 00:37:45,845
What did this, after all, know that this path had been trodden,
629
00:37:45,928 --> 00:37:49,766
The direction in which I was going, and these people, men and women
630
00:37:49,974 --> 00:37:52,018
Successful, with all that money and prestige,
631
00:37:52,101 --> 00:37:55,104
And all this professional history,
632
00:37:55,646 --> 00:37:57,023
they were not happy.
633
00:37:57,815 --> 00:38:00,985
They are very successful, but not in an absolute sense.
634
00:38:01,068 --> 00:38:03,696
Your dollars and cents indicate success.
635
00:38:03,780 --> 00:38:06,407
It seemed much more likely that I could find something,
636
00:38:06,491 --> 00:38:09,285
find a definition of success that would really take me
637
00:38:09,368 --> 00:38:13,289
to a place where I would be equally successful and very happy.
638
00:38:16,042 --> 00:38:19,921
It seems that money can buy happiness in a way.
639
00:38:21,214 --> 00:38:26,344
In world surveys, for people of less than $ 70,000 per year,
640
00:38:26,511 --> 00:38:29,305
add greater material well-being
641
00:38:29,388 --> 00:38:32,767
Is correlated with psychological well-being.
642
00:38:33,518 --> 00:38:36,521
But when you begin to overcome this difficult limit to reach,
643
00:38:36,771 --> 00:38:38,564
Money does not buy happiness.
644
00:38:39,232 --> 00:38:41,609
You can make more money, but you will not be happier.
645
00:38:42,193 --> 00:38:44,153
Jim Carrey has a phrase that says:
646
00:38:44,237 --> 00:38:46,405
"I wish all to become rich and famous,
647
00:38:46,489 --> 00:38:48,574
so they realize that this is not the answer. "
648
00:38:49,408 --> 00:38:51,786
The first answer is always this.
649
00:38:52,119 --> 00:38:54,872
"Well, it's easy for Jim Carrey to say, he's rich and famous, right?"
650
00:38:54,956 --> 00:38:56,541
CLUTTERFREE WITH KIDS AUTHOR
651
00:38:56,624 --> 00:38:59,710
And I think, "Wait, who else could say that?"
652
00:39:00,586 --> 00:39:04,090
I would need to be someone rich and famous to say:
653
00:39:04,173 --> 00:39:06,092
"Not worth it."
654
00:39:07,927 --> 00:39:10,429
We all need to have our basic needs met.
655
00:39:11,097 --> 00:39:12,557
Have a house, food on the table ...
656
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:13,850
AUTHOR,YOU CAN BUY HAPPINESS
657
00:39:13,933 --> 00:39:14,934
... you know, have security,
658
00:39:15,518 --> 00:39:17,645
It is very important to recognize this,
659
00:39:17,728 --> 00:39:19,772
Because not everyone has these things.
660
00:39:20,940 --> 00:39:22,024
ENOUGH AUTHOR
661
00:39:22,108 --> 00:39:25,695
You think that more money will give you more security.
662
00:39:26,821 --> 00:39:28,698
The problem is that you do not necessarily
663
00:39:28,781 --> 00:39:31,409
has control over earning more.
664
00:39:31,659 --> 00:39:35,037
One thing you have control of is spending less.
665
00:39:35,663 --> 00:39:38,583
You have the control of having less,
666
00:39:38,749 --> 00:39:41,586
And by having less, you automatically
667
00:39:41,878 --> 00:39:44,046
Use what you have better.
668
00:39:45,214 --> 00:39:47,675
It's not much of a financial gain for me ...
669
00:39:47,758 --> 00:39:48,759
DESIGNER SMALL HOUSES
670
00:39:48,843 --> 00:39:51,804
... it is about financial freedom, which is the ability
671
00:39:51,888 --> 00:39:55,683
Get up in the morning and enjoy the day properly.
672
00:39:57,143 --> 00:40:01,856
One part of why we consume one thing is that we work so long,
673
00:40:01,939 --> 00:40:05,651
And many people do not find satisfaction in their jobs.
674
00:40:06,193 --> 00:40:08,863
And they need somehow to say to themselves
675
00:40:09,113 --> 00:40:11,240
it paid off, that this is
676
00:40:11,324 --> 00:40:15,036
more than a few numbers in the bank account.
677
00:40:15,828 --> 00:40:19,582
There is more. There is more to life than accounts, money and work.
678
00:40:23,669 --> 00:40:24,837
How do you win?
679
00:40:25,379 --> 00:40:27,924
You win by the traditional nicknames of success.
680
00:40:28,049 --> 00:40:28,966
EX-BROKER WALL STREET
681
00:40:29,050 --> 00:40:31,427
You win by how many zeros are on your paycheck.
682
00:40:31,886 --> 00:40:34,805
I remember sitting at Barnes and Noble's,
683
00:40:34,889 --> 00:40:36,474
deciding what grade to take,
684
00:40:36,557 --> 00:40:38,768
and all I was doing was flipping through a book.
685
00:40:38,851 --> 00:40:42,396
It was a book that showed the career and potential income through time.
686
00:40:42,605 --> 00:40:45,149
That's when I focused on finance and accounting.
687
00:40:45,983 --> 00:40:49,779
My entire life began to revolve around winning, with a capital "V".
688
00:40:49,862 --> 00:40:54,116
My whole life was based on being the guy who would be respected.
689
00:40:54,951 --> 00:40:57,578
I've had a series of jumps since I was in my 20s,
690
00:40:57,662 --> 00:40:59,080
what brought me here in 2008.
691
00:40:59,163 --> 00:41:01,540
I was earning a very high salary of six digits.
692
00:41:01,624 --> 00:41:02,792
I had my office.
693
00:41:03,250 --> 00:41:08,255
And on December 31, 2007, my boss called me into his office,
694
00:41:08,673 --> 00:41:11,092
and said he would give me a promotion.
695
00:41:11,467 --> 00:41:13,010
And that was it. That's what changed everything.
696
00:41:13,135 --> 00:41:15,012
He said I'd be a partner at the firm.
697
00:41:15,137 --> 00:41:18,307
And everything I've always worked for
698
00:41:20,226 --> 00:41:22,353
I was getting along well then.
699
00:41:22,436 --> 00:41:24,981
You know, in banking terms, I had the treasure.
700
00:41:25,064 --> 00:41:28,567
And I remember hearing that man say that,
701
00:41:28,651 --> 00:41:32,571
And it was a kind of ethereal moment
702
00:41:32,655 --> 00:41:34,615
Where I was watching it happen, you know?
703
00:41:34,699 --> 00:41:37,201
I was almost ... I left his room,
704
00:41:37,284 --> 00:41:40,663
And went back to mine, and just shut the door
705
00:41:40,746 --> 00:41:42,373
And I began to cry,
706
00:41:43,332 --> 00:41:47,586
Because I had realized that I had totally fallen into a trap.
707
00:41:47,670 --> 00:41:50,840
And that I would never be able to turn away
708
00:41:51,007 --> 00:41:52,883
Of that amount of money.
709
00:41:53,217 --> 00:41:57,304
And any dream I had of living a purposeful life
710
00:41:57,388 --> 00:42:01,225
And meaning, and be an adventurer,
711
00:42:01,308 --> 00:42:04,353
And someone who would take risks of truth, and live a life
712
00:42:04,437 --> 00:42:06,564
Conscious, with free will, was gone.
713
00:42:08,649 --> 00:42:11,318
When you see your pre-defined life,
714
00:42:11,402 --> 00:42:15,322
and recognizes that this is nothing that ...
715
00:42:15,406 --> 00:42:16,574
Why am I doing this?
716
00:42:16,782 --> 00:42:19,326
The guy who is offering me the firm does not want to be like him.
717
00:42:19,452 --> 00:42:20,870
I'm not jealous of his life.
718
00:42:22,246 --> 00:42:24,832
Maybe none of this is for me to begin with.
719
00:42:24,915 --> 00:42:26,876
And maybe, if I do not leave now,
720
00:42:27,084 --> 00:42:30,254
I'll be that guy for the rest of my life.
721
00:42:31,797 --> 00:42:35,760
I just took the elevator, I went down 28 floors and that was it.
722
00:42:35,968 --> 00:42:38,721
And since then, decided that this life would be mine
723
00:42:38,804 --> 00:42:43,059
And it would be free and extravagantly mine.
724
00:42:43,225 --> 00:42:44,185
You know?
725
00:42:46,353 --> 00:42:47,980
Ready? Here it is.
726
00:42:48,064 --> 00:42:49,482
Nevada.
727
00:42:57,698 --> 00:42:58,824
That's it!
728
00:42:58,908 --> 00:43:01,202
We're back, Nevada!
729
00:43:03,412 --> 00:43:05,456
Yes. That was great.
730
00:43:07,500 --> 00:43:08,834
WELCOME TO Fabulous LAS VEGAS, NEVADA
731
00:43:08,918 --> 00:43:10,586
All these people are waiting,
732
00:43:10,669 --> 00:43:12,755
And I'm not sure where they should be.
733
00:43:12,838 --> 00:43:14,590
I'm thinking ... Want to take a look here?
734
00:43:14,673 --> 00:43:15,841
Of course, we can do that.
735
00:43:16,383 --> 00:43:19,512
We are struggling to find seats for approximately 30 people.
736
00:43:19,970 --> 00:43:23,808
This is the most disorganized night of touring, so far.
737
00:43:23,891 --> 00:43:26,310
We're in Las Vegas. You know.
738
00:43:26,811 --> 00:43:31,273
And the space that we rent here, you know the reason there, is not ready,
739
00:43:31,357 --> 00:43:33,651
Even though we paid rent space.
740
00:43:34,401 --> 00:43:36,529
Fortunately, there are wonderful people here
741
00:43:36,654 --> 00:43:37,947
who are helping us a lot.
742
00:43:39,031 --> 00:43:40,533
Somehow, we'll make it work.
743
00:43:40,658 --> 00:43:41,617
Yes.
744
00:43:43,285 --> 00:43:44,495
Thank you very much.
745
00:43:46,580 --> 00:43:51,085
It is funny. I used to think that being rich was making $ 50,000 a year.
746
00:43:52,294 --> 00:43:54,630
So when I started up the corporate ladder, young man,
747
00:43:54,713 --> 00:43:56,882
I quickly started earning $ 50,000.
748
00:43:57,633 --> 00:44:00,094
But I did not feel rich. Something had gone wrong.
749
00:44:00,177 --> 00:44:01,762
I needed to go back to the draft,
750
00:44:02,179 --> 00:44:05,432
And found that it had not been corrected for inflation.
751
00:44:06,684 --> 00:44:09,687
Okay, so we can pontificate just for this time.
752
00:44:09,770 --> 00:44:11,856
We're really here to help, as Ryan said,
753
00:44:11,939 --> 00:44:15,734
Then we would like to do what we call questions and attempts to answer.
754
00:44:15,818 --> 00:44:16,902
MORADOR DE LAS VEGAS
755
00:44:17,403 --> 00:44:19,989
You are dedicated, creative, innovative.
756
00:44:20,072 --> 00:44:22,908
You have a sincere desire for humanity,
757
00:44:23,701 --> 00:44:28,497
The same people the Wall Street wolves fear.
758
00:44:28,581 --> 00:44:30,875
And to me, you are removing yourselves from the war.
759
00:44:31,375 --> 00:44:33,502
If you're really talking about minimalism,
760
00:44:33,586 --> 00:44:37,089
The total minimalist is a hermit, a recluse, or a monk.
761
00:44:37,173 --> 00:44:39,383
And for me, that will not change the world.
762
00:44:39,466 --> 00:44:43,095
Do you understand what I say? You are the only threat to the system.
763
00:44:45,014 --> 00:44:47,057
You're right, there are two sides to the spectrum.
764
00:44:47,391 --> 00:44:50,769
I think we should rather be in the middle of it, right?
765
00:44:50,936 --> 00:44:53,230
Because I do not think there is anything wrong with consumerism.
766
00:44:53,981 --> 00:44:55,983
The problem is compulsory consumerism.
767
00:44:56,108 --> 00:44:58,694
Buy things because that's what you should do.
768
00:44:58,777 --> 00:45:00,404
That is what propaganda tells us to do.
769
00:45:00,487 --> 00:45:03,532
Or is this the magic model of happiness,
770
00:45:03,616 --> 00:45:05,200
And then, when you get it, you realize
771
00:45:05,284 --> 00:45:07,745
That does not make you as happy as you thought.
772
00:45:08,704 --> 00:45:10,623
Yes, it was a great comment, thank you very much.
773
00:45:10,706 --> 00:45:13,918
We're trying to destroy these Wall Street wolves. I'm serious.
774
00:45:14,001 --> 00:45:15,377
-Amen. Give me a hug. -Yes.
775
00:45:15,461 --> 00:45:16,545
Thank you very much.
776
00:45:16,629 --> 00:45:20,007
I tell you, your personality and your conviction,
777
00:45:20,090 --> 00:45:23,636
And answering all the questions, this charism,
778
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:27,014
They were connecting with people, as you can see.
779
00:45:36,148 --> 00:45:38,150
It's about 4:30.
780
00:45:38,233 --> 00:45:39,234
Yes.
781
00:45:39,318 --> 00:45:42,696
And we'll be on TV.
782
00:45:48,452 --> 00:45:49,745
Good morning, 5:23 am.
783
00:45:49,828 --> 00:45:53,248
Many of us want to buy the latest handsets.
784
00:45:53,332 --> 00:45:56,335
But this morning, I'm joining two men
785
00:45:56,418 --> 00:45:58,921
who took what they call from a simpler path
786
00:45:59,004 --> 00:46:02,216
and are living a life of minimalism.
787
00:46:02,299 --> 00:46:03,300
Hello.
788
00:46:03,384 --> 00:46:06,428
Hello, we are here for the 5 o'clock time and for the 6 o'clock time,
789
00:46:06,512 --> 00:46:08,222
Josh and Ryan with the Minimalists.
790
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:13,602
I was living the American Dream and realized it was not my dream.
791
00:46:13,686 --> 00:46:15,562
I looked at all the things I had in life
792
00:46:15,646 --> 00:46:17,690
When my mother died and my marriage ended,
793
00:46:17,773 --> 00:46:20,025
both things in the same month then kind of questioned
794
00:46:20,109 --> 00:46:21,527
Which really was important.
795
00:46:21,610 --> 00:46:23,487
What things really added value to life?
796
00:46:23,570 --> 00:46:25,114
And I realized that many things
797
00:46:25,197 --> 00:46:28,575
That I had bought to be happy, did not actually do this job.
798
00:46:28,659 --> 00:46:31,161
All right, good luck to you. Take care.
799
00:46:31,245 --> 00:46:33,455
Do not exaggerate. Do not buy anything today, right?
800
00:46:33,539 --> 00:46:34,498
Amen.
801
00:46:34,581 --> 00:46:37,251
Good luck with that. We'll be back in a few moments.
802
00:46:38,002 --> 00:46:39,628
Well that's. 5h30, the last ...
803
00:46:49,346 --> 00:46:52,141
Minimalism is not a radical lifestyle.
804
00:46:52,391 --> 00:46:57,813
Yes, I totally believe in quality instead of quantity. Right?
805
00:46:57,896 --> 00:47:00,858
I'd rather have a good sweatshirt
806
00:47:01,316 --> 00:47:06,155
Than a closet full of sweatshirts I do not like to wear.
807
00:47:06,238 --> 00:47:07,614
I do not have many clothes now,
808
00:47:07,698 --> 00:47:11,493
But all the clothes I have are my favorite clothes.
809
00:47:13,245 --> 00:47:16,790
Let's take a look at what I selected for ten months of travel.
810
00:47:18,083 --> 00:47:22,004
I'm wearing my only jeans, I have some jackets.
811
00:47:22,504 --> 00:47:28,093
I have a short sleeve social shirt, some T-shirts,
812
00:47:28,427 --> 00:47:29,720
A hairdryer
813
00:47:30,054 --> 00:47:32,598
Every good minimalist has a hair dryer.
814
00:47:33,682 --> 00:47:37,644
And lots of underwear. Here's a secret with briefs.
815
00:47:38,103 --> 00:47:42,024
You must have an intermediate color.
816
00:47:42,107 --> 00:47:45,486
It's how you differentiate the dirty ones
817
00:47:45,736 --> 00:47:48,906
Of the ones that are clean ... wearing the red underwear.
818
00:47:50,282 --> 00:47:51,450
Bag of hygiene products.
819
00:47:52,576 --> 00:47:54,828
Everyone needs a bag of those, of course.
820
00:47:54,953 --> 00:47:59,333
I also have a laptop, but that's all for ten months.
821
00:48:05,881 --> 00:48:09,510
We do not really have a plan, which is basically our story.
822
00:48:13,097 --> 00:48:17,893
In 2010, when I was really getting into this cleaning process
823
00:48:17,976 --> 00:48:20,104
And simplification, I thought about the place ...
824
00:48:20,229 --> 00:48:21,271
FOUNDER OF PROJECT 333
825
00:48:21,355 --> 00:48:25,359
... in my house that had more things, and was my closet.
826
00:48:27,528 --> 00:48:32,908
So I decided to create a minimalist fashion challenge,
827
00:48:33,075 --> 00:48:36,161
To use less than I had.
828
00:48:37,246 --> 00:48:40,332
So in Project 333, the challenge for me
829
00:48:40,415 --> 00:48:43,919
was to use 33 items for three months.
830
00:48:44,002 --> 00:48:49,550
And the 33 items include clothing, jewelry, accessories,
831
00:48:49,633 --> 00:48:51,051
and shoes.
832
00:48:51,802 --> 00:48:54,221
And that's where I lose people.
833
00:48:55,722 --> 00:48:59,393
For me it was a great way to really see what I needed,
834
00:48:59,643 --> 00:49:02,980
what I was using, and whether it would make any difference.
835
00:49:03,981 --> 00:49:06,066
And then I worked with advertising.
836
00:49:06,150 --> 00:49:08,277
He had many clients who needed to see daily.
837
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,112
I went to sales meetings,
838
00:49:10,195 --> 00:49:13,574
And during those first three months, no one noticed.
839
00:49:14,158 --> 00:49:16,910
The story was shown by the Associated Press,
840
00:49:17,035 --> 00:49:18,996
because many people were writing about it,
841
00:49:19,079 --> 00:49:20,873
and putting it into practice and trying.
842
00:49:20,956 --> 00:49:24,918
In this video, I'll tell you more about how I plan my 333 Project.
843
00:49:25,002 --> 00:49:26,295
Project
844
00:49:28,881 --> 00:49:30,757
And I thought, "Wow, that's it,
845
00:49:31,758 --> 00:49:33,552
and they did not even notice.
846
00:49:34,178 --> 00:49:37,556
So I spent that year
847
00:49:37,639 --> 00:49:40,976
Until leaving the job, without anyone really knowing
848
00:49:41,143 --> 00:49:43,562
That I was using only 33 items.
849
00:49:45,189 --> 00:49:47,649
I practice this thing called Project 333,
850
00:49:47,733 --> 00:49:50,986
And that kind of helps me keep my organization simple.
851
00:49:51,153 --> 00:49:54,281
I changed from a giant cabinet I had,
852
00:49:54,615 --> 00:49:57,284
I do not know, I had about 100 dresses, to have now
853
00:49:57,367 --> 00:50:00,996
This tiny wardrobe and be able to share
854
00:50:01,079 --> 00:50:02,706
A closet with Logan.
855
00:50:02,789 --> 00:50:04,374
And that made a big difference,
856
00:50:04,458 --> 00:50:06,668
I just do not care
857
00:50:06,752 --> 00:50:09,213
With what I am going to wear in the morning, because all things
858
00:50:09,296 --> 00:50:12,716
In my wardrobes they are wonderful. At least I think they are.
859
00:50:14,259 --> 00:50:16,428
There's something about not being prepared
860
00:50:16,511 --> 00:50:18,096
for all moments, which actually
861
00:50:18,180 --> 00:50:20,974
helps you interact with your community.
862
00:50:21,808 --> 00:50:24,811
Being pregnant, for example, is a very limiting period.
863
00:50:24,895 --> 00:50:26,647
I had social events to go
864
00:50:26,730 --> 00:50:29,316
And I would tell David, "Let me see if I can find a dress."
865
00:50:29,399 --> 00:50:32,194
And I thought, "Oh, my God, this is out of style."
866
00:50:32,277 --> 00:50:34,863
Two months to go. The event is next week.
867
00:50:34,947 --> 00:50:37,366
What am I going to do? So I called some of my friends.
868
00:50:37,449 --> 00:50:40,869
"Hey, do you guys have some dresses that I can borrow?"
869
00:50:40,953 --> 00:50:43,163
But in the past, I definitely
870
00:50:43,247 --> 00:50:45,249
Would buy whatever I needed,
871
00:50:45,332 --> 00:50:47,167
Because it's what you do.
872
00:50:47,251 --> 00:50:50,045
You prepare for your situation.
873
00:50:50,128 --> 00:50:52,506
The beauty of it is that it becomes very communal.
874
00:50:52,589 --> 00:50:54,007
Our friends ask us for things.
875
00:50:54,091 --> 00:50:57,344
We become close to people because of it.
876
00:51:00,681 --> 00:51:02,891
Mark and I were married in 2005,
877
00:51:02,975 --> 00:51:07,479
And a year later, I began to feel very bad.
878
00:51:07,562 --> 00:51:11,733
He had bouts of dizziness, tingling, and fatigue.
879
00:51:12,776 --> 00:51:14,820
The following year was very bad,
880
00:51:14,903 --> 00:51:17,656
And in July, I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis.
881
00:51:18,365 --> 00:51:22,327
And at first we were terrified.
882
00:51:22,411 --> 00:51:24,871
Was difficult. It was a difficult time.
883
00:51:25,414 --> 00:51:28,375
I say immediately, my answer was not
884
00:51:28,458 --> 00:51:30,711
that I had to simplify. I learn slowly.
885
00:51:30,794 --> 00:51:36,133
So I decided that I really had to work hard to prove that I was okay.
886
00:51:36,216 --> 00:51:38,302
And then, I worked harder.
887
00:51:38,844 --> 00:51:40,095
I exercised more.
888
00:51:40,178 --> 00:51:43,056
I really forced my body during that first month
889
00:51:43,473 --> 00:51:45,392
And I felt terrible.
890
00:51:45,475 --> 00:51:49,354
In any disease or infirmity, one of the major factors,
891
00:51:49,438 --> 00:51:52,566
One of the things that contribute to these things, in a negative way
892
00:51:52,649 --> 00:51:54,276
Is the stress in your life.
893
00:51:54,359 --> 00:51:56,570
As we get rid of these things in our lives,
894
00:51:56,653 --> 00:51:59,990
material things, and all the excesses with which we are accustomed,
895
00:52:00,365 --> 00:52:01,783
Good things happen.
896
00:52:03,118 --> 00:52:07,664
Since then, I have not had what I would consider a relapse.
897
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:12,461
I'm in better health than I was before I was diagnosed.
898
00:52:13,253 --> 00:52:15,630
People always tell you, or at least they told me
899
00:52:15,714 --> 00:52:18,800
that in the early stages of EM you need to listen to your body.
900
00:52:19,092 --> 00:52:21,595
Listen to my body? I can not even hear my family.
901
00:52:21,678 --> 00:52:23,722
I do not know how I'm going to listen to my body.
902
00:52:24,056 --> 00:52:26,933
And as soon as I started removing these things,
903
00:52:27,184 --> 00:52:29,853
I was able to finally realize
904
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:35,776
Which I had sacrificed for being constantly busy with my work.
905
00:52:48,121 --> 00:52:50,123
We have this ability to focus,
906
00:52:50,874 --> 00:52:55,045
But we are living in a context where we are constantly
907
00:52:55,128 --> 00:52:58,340
Moving from one stimulus to another, in search of
908
00:52:58,465 --> 00:53:01,551
of the sensation of the dopamine, where we feel sensation of reward
909
00:53:01,635 --> 00:53:04,554
with the incoming email, with the next re-sent,
910
00:53:04,638 --> 00:53:07,265
or the next thing that comes to our phone.
911
00:53:09,976 --> 00:53:12,437
I think it's a price we pay for it.
912
00:53:13,146 --> 00:53:15,315
This really became a problem.
913
00:53:15,399 --> 00:53:16,900
There is a Nokia study that shows
914
00:53:16,983 --> 00:53:20,278
That an average person checks the phone on average about 150 times a day.
915
00:53:27,911 --> 00:53:31,331
You walk the streets in any metropolis ... They are focused on the devices.
916
00:53:31,415 --> 00:53:33,125
We're all in the Matrix.
917
00:53:33,959 --> 00:53:36,711
And it's easier not to think and just read the news,
918
00:53:36,795 --> 00:53:39,714
Update your social media and consume.
919
00:53:41,383 --> 00:53:43,635
Because you can do whatever you want,
920
00:53:43,718 --> 00:53:46,721
You can potentially do anything you want.
921
00:53:46,805 --> 00:53:48,223
ENOUGH AUTHOR
922
00:53:48,306 --> 00:53:49,975
But to do everything you want,
923
00:53:50,058 --> 00:53:53,311
You need to sacrifice things that really matter.
924
00:53:53,979 --> 00:53:57,232
When it comes to overhead, the best way to solve this is
925
00:53:57,315 --> 00:53:58,692
Is off.
926
00:53:59,776 --> 00:54:01,361
Seriously, just hang up.
927
00:54:10,036 --> 00:54:16,376
It was shocking to realize that most of my life was an illusion.
928
00:54:18,712 --> 00:54:21,089
I came here on ABC News when I was 28 years old.
929
00:54:21,173 --> 00:54:23,758
I was a very ambitious young man.
930
00:54:24,426 --> 00:54:28,180
And the way I found to make up for my insecurity
931
00:54:28,263 --> 00:54:33,977
As for me being a beginner, it was really plunging into work
932
00:54:34,060 --> 00:54:35,353
And become addicted to work.
933
00:54:35,729 --> 00:54:38,398
And after September 11, I applied to travel
934
00:54:38,482 --> 00:54:40,567
to cover the conflicts.
935
00:54:41,067 --> 00:54:42,444
We were lucky this week
936
00:54:42,527 --> 00:54:46,114
to have our reporter Dan Harris on a trip organized by the Taliban.
937
00:54:46,406 --> 00:54:48,700
We arrived at night, a winding journey
938
00:54:48,783 --> 00:54:53,371
by a single bumpy road to a city under attack.
939
00:54:53,455 --> 00:54:56,500
I spent a lot of time in Iraq and Afghanistan
940
00:54:56,583 --> 00:55:00,295
without really thinking much about the psychological consequences.
941
00:55:02,339 --> 00:55:04,549
And when I came home from a long trip in Iraq,
942
00:55:04,633 --> 00:55:05,967
I went into depression.
943
00:55:06,676 --> 00:55:08,470
And so, I did something really stupid,
944
00:55:08,553 --> 00:55:11,306
which was to start self-medicating with recreational drugs.
945
00:55:11,848 --> 00:55:13,642
According to my doctor, it was enough
946
00:55:13,725 --> 00:55:17,145
To trigger a panic attack when I was live on TV.
947
00:55:17,229 --> 00:55:19,689
Let's talk now to Dan Harris, who has the news.
948
00:55:19,773 --> 00:55:20,690
Dan?
949
00:55:20,774 --> 00:55:21,983
News on health now.
950
00:55:22,067 --> 00:55:23,777
One of the most prescribed remedies in the world
951
00:55:23,860 --> 00:55:25,695
Can provide a great bonus.
952
00:55:25,779 --> 00:55:28,490
Research shows that users of cholesterol-lowering drugs,
953
00:55:28,573 --> 00:55:30,867
Called statins for at least five years,
954
00:55:30,951 --> 00:55:33,537
May also reduce the risk of cancer.
955
00:55:33,620 --> 00:55:37,541
But it is still too early to prescribe statins to fight cancer.
956
00:55:38,291 --> 00:55:41,294
This is the news. We'll be back with Robin and Charlie.
957
00:55:45,006 --> 00:55:48,051
Raised the level of adrenaline in my brain which, according to my doctor,
958
00:55:48,134 --> 00:55:50,595
made me lose my mind on Good Morning America
959
00:55:50,679 --> 00:55:52,180
in front of five million people.
960
00:55:53,515 --> 00:55:56,768
5.09 million people, according to Nielsen.
961
00:55:57,435 --> 00:56:01,273
That moment threw me on a strange road
962
00:56:01,356 --> 00:56:04,276
Which in the end led me to this thing that I never thought
963
00:56:04,359 --> 00:56:07,279
That it was useful to someone, which was meditation.
964
00:56:15,829 --> 00:56:18,248
We ruminate on the past and future
965
00:56:18,415 --> 00:56:22,294
In a way that prevents us from actually connecting
966
00:56:22,377 --> 00:56:26,965
With the present moment, in a way that values it as being good enough.
967
00:56:28,383 --> 00:56:33,263
Meditation is a technique to find wellness
968
00:56:33,346 --> 00:56:37,267
in the present moment, before anything happens.
969
00:56:41,021 --> 00:56:45,233
You can be happy and satisfied simply by being aware
970
00:56:45,317 --> 00:56:47,444
the sensation of breathing.
971
00:56:51,740 --> 00:56:55,744
Very rarely are we totally dedicated to one thing.
972
00:56:55,827 --> 00:56:57,829
We are interrupting ourselves, or allowing ourselves
973
00:56:57,912 --> 00:57:00,582
Be interrupted by a series of information
974
00:57:00,665 --> 00:57:03,752
And what would, in any other context,
975
00:57:03,835 --> 00:57:05,211
Considered as distractions,
976
00:57:05,295 --> 00:57:08,673
Today we think of them as necessary parts
977
00:57:08,757 --> 00:57:09,966
Of our daily lives.
978
00:57:11,509 --> 00:57:14,054
If I leave my phone in my pocket and it is in vibration mode,
979
00:57:14,554 --> 00:57:16,848
Unconsciously, I'll move when it vibrates.
980
00:57:16,931 --> 00:57:20,936
And I even move when it did not vibrate but I thought it vibrated.
981
00:57:21,478 --> 00:57:23,563
And that ruins a conversation.
982
00:57:23,647 --> 00:57:27,067
Like, those nanoseconds of distraction,
983
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:30,070
I think they have a very damaging effect.
984
00:57:30,987 --> 00:57:34,532
Everywhere I look, are small constant movements.
985
00:57:37,243 --> 00:57:39,704
This anticipation of novelty
986
00:57:39,788 --> 00:57:42,958
has the effect of turning us into laboratory mice
987
00:57:43,041 --> 00:57:44,918
that simply are pressed.
988
00:57:46,044 --> 00:57:49,881
Meditation is a great antidote to this.
989
00:57:52,592 --> 00:57:54,844
The people here on ABC News asked me
990
00:57:54,928 --> 00:57:56,179
"Why are you meditating?"
991
00:57:56,596 --> 00:57:58,640
In other words: "What's wrong with you?"
992
00:57:58,723 --> 00:58:00,141
What happened to you?
993
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,268
After a while, I began to respond:
994
00:58:02,352 --> 00:58:04,396
"It's because it makes me ten percent happier."
995
00:58:04,479 --> 00:58:08,817
And I could see the expression on their faces change, from contempt
996
00:58:08,900 --> 00:58:12,654
And skepticism for one of interest, "That sounds reasonable."
997
00:58:12,737 --> 00:58:13,822
"I would like this."
998
00:58:15,323 --> 00:58:17,909
One of the best advice I've ever had
999
00:58:17,993 --> 00:58:20,537
in all my life was that of a teacher of meditation
1000
00:58:20,620 --> 00:58:21,955
named Joseph Goldstein.
1001
00:58:22,664 --> 00:58:25,375
I was asking him about the utility of concern.
1002
00:58:25,458 --> 00:58:27,419
In a specific context, I was asking
1003
00:58:27,502 --> 00:58:30,296
It made sense to worry about missing a flight.
1004
00:58:30,380 --> 00:58:31,923
And I was arguing about it:
1005
00:58:32,007 --> 00:58:35,301
"Look, you Buddhists are always saying what thoughts are just thoughts.
1006
00:58:35,385 --> 00:58:37,804
That they do not necessarily have connection with reality,
1007
00:58:37,887 --> 00:58:41,599
But the fact is that if I miss the flight, I'll be screwed. "
1008
00:58:41,975 --> 00:58:45,020
And he said, "You are unquestionably right,
1009
00:58:45,145 --> 00:58:48,648
But there is a certain amount of concern that makes sense
1010
00:58:48,732 --> 00:58:50,483
And a certain dose that does not.
1011
00:58:50,859 --> 00:58:54,404
Then, on the seventeenth time worrying about missing the flight
1012
00:58:54,487 --> 00:58:57,032
and think of all possible branches of it,
1013
00:58:57,699 --> 00:58:59,576
Ask yourself a simple question:
1014
00:58:59,868 --> 00:59:00,994
'Is this concern useful?' "
1015
00:59:02,078 --> 00:59:05,331
For a guy who spent his whole life worrying and thinking
1016
00:59:05,415 --> 00:59:09,294
That my concern was the advantage I had,
1017
00:59:09,377 --> 00:59:13,214
Because I knew that I would be more anxious and compulsive
1018
00:59:13,298 --> 00:59:14,674
That my competitors,
1019
00:59:14,758 --> 00:59:17,761
I realized that there is a certain amount of concern
1020
00:59:17,844 --> 00:59:20,680
Which is what I call constructive anguish,
1021
00:59:20,847 --> 00:59:24,309
And there's useless rumination that just makes you miserable.
1022
00:59:25,226 --> 00:59:28,897
It's not that I'm watching all the time.
1023
00:59:28,980 --> 00:59:32,442
You know, I still do a lot of stupid things,
1024
00:59:32,692 --> 00:59:34,778
And if my wife was here, she would tell you
1025
00:59:34,861 --> 00:59:36,780
That 90 percent is still stupid.
1026
00:59:37,030 --> 00:59:40,909
There is simply no doubt that I am an idiot in many respects,
1027
00:59:40,992 --> 00:59:43,453
But I'm less stupid and less stupid,
1028
00:59:43,578 --> 00:59:46,581
and full of ideas, more focused and calmer.
1029
00:59:55,507 --> 00:59:57,383
We are on the road all year,
1030
00:59:57,550 --> 01:00:02,388
And just when I start thinking if we can,
1031
01:00:02,514 --> 01:00:07,977
If we make a difference, Today Show calls us
1032
01:00:08,436 --> 01:00:10,230
And invites us to go on the air.
1033
01:00:11,231 --> 01:00:12,524
Now we have an opportunity
1034
01:00:12,607 --> 01:00:17,445
share this with millions of people, which is the maximum.
1035
01:00:17,862 --> 01:00:20,782
Dude, we're late, so we have to go.
1036
01:00:21,157 --> 01:00:22,575
The entrance is ...
1037
01:00:22,659 --> 01:00:24,619
What is the address? Is it 35?
1038
01:00:24,702 --> 01:00:27,247
Yes, but you'll see things from the Today Show armed.
1039
01:00:27,330 --> 01:00:28,623
Right there, there it is.
1040
01:00:29,707 --> 01:00:33,211
-Are you sure it's here? "Yes, down the stairs."
1041
01:00:33,294 --> 01:00:34,420
We're in this together.
1042
01:00:39,134 --> 01:00:41,594
From NBC News,
1043
01:00:42,554 --> 01:00:44,347
this is Today.
1044
01:00:45,890 --> 01:00:47,892
With Black Friday, Cyber Monday,
1045
01:00:47,976 --> 01:00:50,103
Christmas shopping and stuffed stocks,
1046
01:00:50,186 --> 01:00:51,729
It may seem that the holidays
1047
01:00:51,813 --> 01:00:54,482
Are more about more and less about what really matters.
1048
01:00:54,566 --> 01:00:57,485
Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus
1049
01:00:57,569 --> 01:00:59,279
see things differently.
1050
01:00:59,362 --> 01:01:02,282
They are what they call ... The Minimalists.
1051
01:01:02,574 --> 01:01:04,033
In a hypothetical world,
1052
01:01:04,367 --> 01:01:08,955
What if one of you falls in love with a maximalist who likes things?
1053
01:01:09,164 --> 01:01:10,206
What would you do?
1054
01:01:10,290 --> 01:01:12,542
That is an excellent question. My girlfriend,
1055
01:01:12,625 --> 01:01:14,419
I do not think she would consider herself minimalist.
1056
01:01:14,502 --> 01:01:16,462
She has about 20 pairs of shoes.
1057
01:01:16,546 --> 01:01:17,547
Not bad.
1058
01:01:17,630 --> 01:01:20,258
It's nothing compared to what I have. Hello?
1059
01:01:20,341 --> 01:01:24,220
But what I will say is that she and I have very similar values and beliefs.
1060
01:01:24,637 --> 01:01:26,431
We respect each other. We love.
1061
01:01:26,514 --> 01:01:28,266
"We love each other." -Great lifestyle,
1062
01:01:28,349 --> 01:01:30,018
Is a great subject for Today.
1063
01:01:30,101 --> 01:01:32,520
-Nice to meet them. -The last book of Minimalists,
1064
01:01:32,604 --> 01:01:34,939
All That Remains,is in stores.
1065
01:01:35,023 --> 01:01:36,399
What a concept.
1066
01:01:41,321 --> 01:01:43,114
Last night's event was incredible.
1067
01:01:43,198 --> 01:01:46,242
We showed up, the shop owner had placed 30 chairs outside.
1068
01:01:46,326 --> 01:01:48,036
I asked him to add more chairs.
1069
01:01:48,119 --> 01:01:51,122
And he said, "Are you sure that you will need more chairs?"
1070
01:01:51,539 --> 01:01:54,792
Ken Burns came here and filled all the seats.
1071
01:01:54,876 --> 01:01:56,252
I put 60 chairs in all.
1072
01:01:56,336 --> 01:01:58,922
And I said, "I think we'll have about 50 or 60 people."
1073
01:01:59,047 --> 01:02:00,798
Go ahead and bring the rest of the chairs.
1074
01:02:01,049 --> 01:02:04,469
And we ended up having about 120, 150 people.
1075
01:02:04,552 --> 01:02:08,723
People were squeezed between the shelves.
1076
01:02:09,140 --> 01:02:11,059
Thanks for coming to support us, man.
1077
01:02:11,142 --> 01:02:12,727
Thank you for everything you do.
1078
01:02:12,810 --> 01:02:15,396
I think your story came on time.
1079
01:02:15,897 --> 01:02:16,898
It's destiny.
1080
01:02:16,981 --> 01:02:18,608
You are my inspiration.
1081
01:02:18,816 --> 01:02:21,277
Wonderful, thank you so much for this. I'm happy to help.
1082
01:02:21,361 --> 01:02:22,695
Thanks for coming, brother.
1083
01:02:23,196 --> 01:02:25,573
We see more, more and more people coming,
1084
01:02:25,657 --> 01:02:28,368
It's great to see this message spreading.
1085
01:02:29,285 --> 01:02:32,288
We are on our way to Los Angeles.
1086
01:02:32,747 --> 01:02:34,666
It will be our biggest event so far.
1087
01:02:34,749 --> 01:02:37,794
We expect the largest audience, and really think
1088
01:02:37,877 --> 01:02:40,797
that Los Angeles is a city that really can take advantage of this message.
1089
01:03:24,674 --> 01:03:29,262
Cars, houses and salaries of six digits. It may sound like a dream life.
1090
01:03:29,345 --> 01:03:32,390
Joshua Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus are on a world tour
1091
01:03:32,682 --> 01:03:36,894
And are here to explain why anyone would give up these things.
1092
01:03:37,603 --> 01:03:39,647
Opening a hand was really very difficult.
1093
01:03:39,731 --> 01:03:42,150
I'd like to say that it was as easy as renting a truck
1094
01:03:42,233 --> 01:03:44,652
and throw away all my stuff, but it was a process.
1095
01:04:11,054 --> 01:04:16,351
I like to see how it's spreading like a fire, in a good way.
1096
01:04:16,434 --> 01:04:17,894
It's like a good disease.
1097
01:04:25,943 --> 01:04:27,445
An amazing study
1098
01:04:27,528 --> 01:04:30,531
Shows that a large number of children under the age of four
1099
01:04:30,615 --> 01:04:33,576
have access to a mobile device, and some of these children
1100
01:04:33,659 --> 01:04:36,871
started using them before they were one year old.
1101
01:04:37,330 --> 01:04:38,748
We are building an environment
1102
01:04:38,831 --> 01:04:41,000
more interesting and more competitive for the consumer.
1103
01:04:41,084 --> 01:04:44,629
That means adjusting the signals that tell us about your interests,
1104
01:04:44,712 --> 01:04:47,548
and making sure we can control the message they will receive.
1105
01:04:47,924 --> 01:04:49,342
The Toronto Marketing Executive
1106
01:04:49,425 --> 01:04:51,135
wrote a review in Globe and Mail
1107
01:04:51,219 --> 01:04:53,679
Saying it's time to stop advertising children.
1108
01:04:54,514 --> 01:04:57,975
Advertising for children has been around for a long time.
1109
01:04:58,351 --> 01:05:02,605
What has changed, however, is the amount of this advertisement and the vehicle
1110
01:05:02,688 --> 01:05:04,941
where these advertisements come from.
1111
01:05:06,150 --> 01:05:07,985
Historically, companies
1112
01:05:08,069 --> 01:05:11,155
who have products aimed at children focused on advertising in mothers,
1113
01:05:11,239 --> 01:05:14,117
In making mothers wish to buy things for their children.
1114
01:05:14,784 --> 01:05:18,955
What happens is that companies have decided to take the focus away from mothers
1115
01:05:19,288 --> 01:05:20,915
and focus directly on children.
1116
01:05:23,126 --> 01:05:26,337
I do not know the three most common words in American households.
1117
01:05:26,546 --> 01:05:29,882
I do not know if it's "I love you" or "I want it".
1118
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:33,636
Five thousand ads that we see every day,
1119
01:05:33,719 --> 01:05:35,847
Since we were born.
1120
01:05:36,305 --> 01:05:39,308
And they all tell us, "Hey, this is how your life should be."
1121
01:05:39,475 --> 01:05:41,811
It should be based on accumulating more things
1122
01:05:41,894 --> 01:05:44,480
Or about focusing on yourself.
1123
01:05:45,982 --> 01:05:49,610
If you have recently gone to a children's store,
1124
01:05:50,027 --> 01:05:52,071
Is quite incredible.
1125
01:05:52,155 --> 01:05:55,908
All you could dream about was thought.
1126
01:05:56,993 --> 01:05:59,245
The advertisers realized that there is this big market.
1127
01:05:59,328 --> 01:06:00,663
AUTHOR OFMINIMALIST PARENTING
1128
01:06:00,746 --> 01:06:03,416
There are parents who want to give their children the best,
1129
01:06:03,499 --> 01:06:06,502
and really work hard at it.
1130
01:06:07,211 --> 01:06:11,174
IN 1983, COMPANIES SPENT 100,000,000 DOLLARS IN ADVERTISING FOR CHILDREN
1131
01:06:11,257 --> 01:06:15,344
IN 2006, THE COMPANIES SPENTED 17,000,000,000 DOLLARS
1132
01:06:15,428 --> 01:06:19,265
There is a problem, both process and content,
1133
01:06:19,390 --> 01:06:21,684
And the content problem is huge.
1134
01:06:22,310 --> 01:06:26,689
The products that are advertised for children are junk.
1135
01:06:26,898 --> 01:06:28,816
Welcome to Mutant Mania Fight.
1136
01:06:28,900 --> 01:06:31,194
One hundred and twenty new characters for you to collect.
1137
01:06:31,277 --> 01:06:33,029
The secret is your flexible column!
1138
01:06:33,654 --> 01:06:37,200
It's a garbage culture. It's the food that hurts them.
1139
01:06:37,283 --> 01:06:41,496
They are stupid toys, that are gender and violent.
1140
01:06:43,206 --> 01:06:47,001
I do not see a justification for subjecting children to this,
1141
01:06:47,251 --> 01:06:50,254
There is no positive social benefit in this.
1142
01:06:50,963 --> 01:06:52,757
There is simply a negativity,
1143
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:55,259
and is the political power of advertising
1144
01:06:55,343 --> 01:06:58,221
and the companies that produce the advertisements, which prevents us
1145
01:06:58,304 --> 01:06:59,764
to do something about it.
1146
01:07:06,020 --> 01:07:09,106
I heard someone say, "There is a another word for minimalism,
1147
01:07:09,190 --> 01:07:10,483
it's called: be single.
1148
01:07:11,359 --> 01:07:13,402
Yes, I understand how people think
1149
01:07:13,486 --> 01:07:17,031
Which is very easy if you are not married and do not have children.
1150
01:07:17,907 --> 01:07:22,161
How do I explain my own example of being married?
1151
01:07:22,245 --> 01:07:25,957
And have six children, which is totally anti-minimalist and very ironic?
1152
01:07:26,916 --> 01:07:31,712
How do I have this minimalist lifestyle with these kids and restrictions?
1153
01:07:33,256 --> 01:07:37,552
Jaqueline and I are not so restrictive about, type:
1154
01:07:37,635 --> 01:07:39,345
"You have five toys."
1155
01:07:39,762 --> 01:07:42,598
No, man. You can only have one truck. You can not have three trucks. "
1156
01:07:42,682 --> 01:07:45,768
When I was a kid, I did not have a GI Joe.
1157
01:07:45,851 --> 01:07:47,979
I had about 100 GI Joes.
1158
01:07:48,813 --> 01:07:52,149
We have received things well in our lives, but certainly with the intention
1159
01:07:52,233 --> 01:07:58,239
To think about what we are doing instead of simply consuming.
1160
01:07:58,990 --> 01:08:01,617
When you live with other people
1161
01:08:01,701 --> 01:08:05,538
and it's a family, you can not just make unilateral decisions.
1162
01:08:05,663 --> 01:08:08,666
"Okay, now let's get rid of everything and toss the TV out of the house."
1163
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:10,585
There will be a mutiny.
1164
01:08:12,253 --> 01:08:15,548
This is a bit frustrating, because you can not do it your way.
1165
01:08:16,007 --> 01:08:18,551
But it is also a very interesting experiment
1166
01:08:18,634 --> 01:08:21,387
How you can progress as a group
1167
01:08:21,470 --> 01:08:23,347
And learn about it as a group.
1168
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:34,775
Early on, when we decided to live with less,
1169
01:08:35,526 --> 01:08:38,738
We knew beforehand that minimalism would simply
1170
01:08:38,821 --> 01:08:42,241
Be the way we wanted it to be.
1171
01:08:43,451 --> 01:08:45,620
I remember going through the process of getting rid of things
1172
01:08:45,703 --> 01:08:48,956
and finally say, "Okay, Sam." Let's go to your toys
1173
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:51,584
and we'll get rid of things that you no longer need.
1174
01:08:51,667 --> 01:08:54,920
And we did not have any problems.
1175
01:08:56,589 --> 01:09:01,427
My daughter is seven and she is very different.
1176
01:09:02,678 --> 01:09:05,848
She loves every doll she has.
1177
01:09:06,390 --> 01:09:10,936
It collects stones, branches and a lot of things
1178
01:09:11,020 --> 01:09:14,190
That she finds, and clings to them.
1179
01:09:15,566 --> 01:09:17,860
You know, as parents, we need to set some limits,
1180
01:09:17,943 --> 01:09:20,613
but in the end, we let her choose what she wants.
1181
01:09:22,281 --> 01:09:24,742
I think he certainly is
1182
01:09:24,825 --> 01:09:26,452
On a different level ...
1183
01:09:26,577 --> 01:09:27,662
CO-FOUNDER THE HOPE EFFECT
1184
01:09:27,745 --> 01:09:29,038
... of minimalism than me.
1185
01:09:29,705 --> 01:09:32,375
He wanted to get rid of more things than I wanted to get rid of,
1186
01:09:32,458 --> 01:09:34,585
and then comes the appointment.
1187
01:09:36,671 --> 01:09:41,842
His side of the wardrobe looks a lot smaller than mine.
1188
01:09:41,926 --> 01:09:43,886
And we deal well with it.
1189
01:09:44,804 --> 01:09:46,263
You know, I think one of the lessons
1190
01:09:46,347 --> 01:09:48,933
That we learned on this whole journey
1191
01:09:49,016 --> 01:09:52,061
Our children are watching us.
1192
01:09:52,645 --> 01:09:55,981
And we can tell them how we want them to be like people,
1193
01:09:56,065 --> 01:09:58,693
But, man, they absorb much more simply
1194
01:09:58,776 --> 01:10:01,070
Observing the way we live.
1195
01:10:03,239 --> 01:10:05,449
This is the countercurrent of consumerism.
1196
01:10:05,533 --> 01:10:09,912
Removing a little of those things provided a safe environment
1197
01:10:09,995 --> 01:10:12,707
Where they are able to become what they most want,
1198
01:10:12,790 --> 01:10:15,376
instead of what the world will try to convince them to be.
1199
01:10:19,547 --> 01:10:20,631
good Evening
1200
01:10:21,465 --> 01:10:25,511
It is clear that the real problem of our nation
1201
01:10:26,303 --> 01:10:30,725
Is much deeper than gasoline lines
1202
01:10:30,808 --> 01:10:34,854
Or lack of energy, deeper still than inflation and recession.
1203
01:10:36,480 --> 01:10:39,817
In a nation that prided itself on hard work,
1204
01:10:41,152 --> 01:10:44,864
strong families, united communities,
1205
01:10:46,532 --> 01:10:51,287
many of us now tend to revere comfort
1206
01:10:52,621 --> 01:10:53,914
and consumerism.
1207
01:10:56,250 --> 01:11:02,256
The identity of a person is no longer defined by what it does,
1208
01:11:04,133 --> 01:11:06,510
but for what it has.
1209
01:11:10,264 --> 01:11:15,728
But we find that owning things and consuming things
1210
01:11:16,729 --> 01:11:21,192
It does not satisfy our desire for purpose.
1211
01:11:22,651 --> 01:11:27,239
We learned that accumulating material goods is not able to fill
1212
01:11:27,323 --> 01:11:31,869
the emptiness of lives devoid of faith or purpose.
1213
01:11:34,497 --> 01:11:38,751
This is not a message of happiness or reaffirmation,
1214
01:11:39,418 --> 01:11:43,756
But it's the truth, and it's a warning.
1215
01:11:48,302 --> 01:11:49,970
We think we need these things,
1216
01:11:50,054 --> 01:11:52,556
because we were told that we need these things.
1217
01:11:53,766 --> 01:11:57,561
Society has told us that we need these things.
1218
01:12:01,357 --> 01:12:05,694
It has been so slowly, a small thing, that has just arrived
1219
01:12:05,778 --> 01:12:08,072
And suddenly it becomes what you do.
1220
01:12:10,866 --> 01:12:14,954
This is really of an ideal based on values.
1221
01:12:15,579 --> 01:12:18,833
You want to get the most benefit
1222
01:12:18,916 --> 01:12:22,503
and get the maximum value with exactly what you need.
1223
01:12:25,381 --> 01:12:27,258
Having too little will not give you this,
1224
01:12:27,341 --> 01:12:29,927
And having too much will not give you that either, right?
1225
01:12:32,471 --> 01:12:37,268
Having the balance, having enough, that's what you are looking for.
1226
01:12:43,107 --> 01:12:45,442
If I had to review the American Dream,
1227
01:12:45,734 --> 01:12:49,989
it would be more about how to unite in community.
1228
01:12:51,031 --> 01:12:53,909
It would be more about a society
1229
01:12:53,993 --> 01:12:56,412
Where there would be less inequality and more justice,
1230
01:12:56,495 --> 01:12:58,455
In which everyone had a chance,
1231
01:12:59,832 --> 01:13:03,919
and was responsible for the planet and the environment.
1232
01:13:04,461 --> 01:13:06,505
For me, that would be an American Dream.
1233
01:13:09,258 --> 01:13:11,343
When you talk about not consuming,
1234
01:13:11,427 --> 01:13:14,346
people think you are trying to get something out of them.
1235
01:13:16,807 --> 01:13:18,309
But the great truth is that
1236
01:13:18,392 --> 01:13:20,603
I think this movement is about
1237
01:13:20,686 --> 01:13:22,980
To seek a life that is good for ourselves
1238
01:13:23,063 --> 01:13:24,690
And good for the people around us.
1239
01:13:37,661 --> 01:13:39,121
We are in Los Angeles now.
1240
01:13:40,247 --> 01:13:43,542
We are here for our biggest event.
1241
01:13:44,209 --> 01:13:46,378
What we're trying to do is show people
1242
01:13:46,462 --> 01:13:51,550
That there is a different way of living.
1243
01:13:54,011 --> 01:13:55,721
The people we bring into our lives,
1244
01:13:55,804 --> 01:13:57,473
we should always be with those
1245
01:13:57,556 --> 01:14:00,643
that share the same values and that's what minimalism is all about.
1246
01:14:00,726 --> 01:14:02,311
It's about living with purpose.
1247
01:14:03,062 --> 01:14:05,981
So every choice I make, every relationship, every thing,
1248
01:14:06,065 --> 01:14:08,442
Every dollar I spend, I'm not perfect, of course,
1249
01:14:08,525 --> 01:14:11,278
but I constantly wonder: "Is this adding value to me?"
1250
01:14:11,362 --> 01:14:13,364
Am I being logical with this decision?
1251
01:14:13,989 --> 01:14:14,990
Go watch them tonight
1252
01:14:15,074 --> 01:14:16,575
at The Last Bookstore in LA, 7 pm
1253
01:14:16,659 --> 01:14:18,410
Thanks, Joshua and Ryan for coming.
1254
01:14:18,494 --> 01:14:19,787
SPRING ARTISTS SET
1255
01:14:21,372 --> 01:14:23,958
I did not realize that at the time,
1256
01:14:24,041 --> 01:14:29,004
but I was very focused on my ideal of success.
1257
01:14:29,964 --> 01:14:34,468
My idea of success was to make more money.
1258
01:14:35,469 --> 01:14:37,930
Consumer relationships were a priority.
1259
01:14:39,139 --> 01:14:41,725
I did not pay any attention to the people closest to me,
1260
01:14:43,644 --> 01:14:46,063
Including my mother.
1261
01:14:47,564 --> 01:14:51,360
The great meaning of this message, the great reason we share it,
1262
01:14:51,443 --> 01:14:56,490
is to help people overcome this appetite for more things,
1263
01:14:56,782 --> 01:15:00,411
because it is a very destructive path to follow.
1264
01:15:00,995 --> 01:15:05,207
I literally used people to sell cell phones.
1265
01:15:05,290 --> 01:15:09,586
I used people to get bigger and better customers.
1266
01:15:10,170 --> 01:15:14,091
And what I love in my life right now is that I can be genuine.
1267
01:15:14,633 --> 01:15:16,552
And that there is no manipulation.
1268
01:15:17,678 --> 01:15:19,388
It's a great, great pleasure
1269
01:15:19,471 --> 01:15:24,476
Present Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus, the Minimalists.
1270
01:15:32,818 --> 01:15:36,530
Imagine a life with less, a life of passion,
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Free from the traps of the chaotic world around them.
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Well, what you are imagining is a conscious life.
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It is not a perfect life, it is not even an easy life, but it is a simpler one.
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What I discovered with minimalism
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Is that it's a way of saying, "Let's stop the madness."
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You do not need these things. Type, will not solve.
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That is not the answer.
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There is a growing movement,
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And I do not think it will stop.
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Now I'm surrounded by people
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who are inspired and creating a great impact and social change.
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The depth of my relationship
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Is beyond anything I could ever imagine.
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When you realize that this life is yours,
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And that is his only, and when it stops
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Of being esoteric nonsense, when it is not more hippie romanticism,
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when the pragmatism of this truth
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goes right into your bones, and you realize that's it,
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everything changes.
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I do not know where you are on your journey,
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Where you are in your life, or where you are going on this journey,
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But we are very grateful to be here with us tonight.
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So if I could give one last statement,
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one thing to take with you after all, this would be:
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Love people and use things, because the opposite never works.
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Thank you so much for coming.
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Translated by: Bruno Gonçalves
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