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ERICA SCREAMS
I do not like it, Erica!

This programme contains
strong language

Oh, she's lovely.

Previously, the couples embarked
on their final dates.

I'm so grateful to have actually met
someone that I care about.

Whilst Peggy followed her heart...

Family's opinion at the moment isn't
great,

but I'm on my way
to falling in love with you.

I just hope I'm making the right
decision.

..others struggled to overcome
their differences.

I don't really think long-distance
relationships work.

When you have the same argument
over and over again with someone,

you might as well give up.

I would one day like to have kids.

I've always said
I don't want them.

And after expressing her
frustrations to Arthur...

I've carried the weight
of this relationship really heavily.

..Laura was left questioning
her marriage.

We need to actually think
about how this is going to work.

How often are we going to see
each other?

I don't really plan ahead.

I'm very conflicted as to whether
this relationship

can stand the test of time.

Tonight... Here we are.

The last supper! It's a date with
destiny.

..it's the final dinner party.

Thank you!

It's only taken all of the dinner
parties for you to do that.

Recent issues resurface
for Adrienne and Matt.

If I get to that point where
I really do want to have kids

and we have that conversation...

Then that makes me think, like,
I were just wasting the whole time.

And as the honesty box returns...

You do say things that are quite
hurtful.

Am I in love with you? Yeah.

Am I allowed
to speak without being interrupted?

Swear to God, I'm going to lose my
BLEEP.

..Arthur's unwelcome comments...

You've made some jokes that haven't
landed that well.

I have just not felt myself.

..leave his marriage to Laura
in crisis.

You've got to ask yourselves,
are you both compatible?

Here you go, babe. Thank you, babe.

And you forgot something
this morning.

Last dinner party!

The end of the experiment is fast
approaching,

and after an eventful week

that saw our six remaining couples
head out on their final dates...

I can't believe we made it this far.
Oh, thanks.

HE LAUGHS

..tonight's dinner party is the
last opportunity

for the group to come
together ahead of vow renewals.

I feel sad that it's all coming
to an end,

whereas I don't think...
It's not all coming to an end.

We're not dying. Like, we're still
going to see each other.

It feels like I'm dying.

You're so dramatic!

Honestly.

Like, we're still going to see
each other.

Yeah, but it's not the same.

I feel sad because living
with you here is coming to an end.

I think we need to just
have a good time.

We've got to go out with a bang.

I feel like I'm too sad to bang
at the moment, but...

Not that kind of bang.

I didn't mean that kind of bang!

Jordan is very emotional.

He's going through all the emotions.

He doesn't want to leave,
but I'm going to stick by him

and make sure he's OK.

PEGGY: I couldn't be happier with
us.

That feeling was cemented
by our final day.

It was magical.

There's no other word
to describe it.

It was absolutely magical.

I just felt like a true princess.

I feel buzzin', because I did not
think at one point

that we were going to get through
what we've been through.

Mmm. The fact that we have got
through them makes me think

that we will be absolutely
fine on the outside world.

Yeah. Are you excited for life
after the experiment?

Yeah, I am.

I'm more excited
that you're involved in it.

Life's going to be a little bit
better moving forward now.

Feeling really good about Adrienne
at the minute.

The only thing that is a little bit
worrying is when she said,

"I'm not sure about kids", because I
do want to have kids in the future.

I'm hoping I'm the man that,
you know, sways her

to want to have kids one day.

You OK? I'm good. You all right?
Yeah, not bad, thank you.

Making a mess?

I know, as always.

Do you, um,
do you like the brown hair?

Yeah, it suits you. Do you actually
think? Yeah.

It looks really nice.

Every dinner party, I always
have a different look.

And I thought, I think I'm going
to go dark to try and impress JJ

because I know JJ likes brunettes,
and I'm loving it.

Waking up this morning and seeing
Ella with brown hair, I wasn't sure.

I thought someone had, like,
snuck into my room.

Um, in terms of, like, my exes,
I normally go for brown hair,

so I can see why she's done that,

but I don't want her to feel
like she has to change.

Like, I've only ever taken
Ella for Ella.

I'm excited. We're here, it's the
last dinner party.

Let's enjoy ourselves tonight.
Let's have fun.

I think everyone's
just had their final dates.

I think other people probably
would have been a bit more romantic.

Relationships, end of the day,
are all about having fun.

Yeah.

I'm proud of how far we've come.

I know I've given blood, sweat and
tears to this marriage. You have.

I feel like sometimes, I have
carried us a lot of the way. Mmm.

And I would love,
like, in the outside world,

for that to be shared a bit more.

Mmm.

Arthur and I are in a really
good place.

However, we've got to be looking
ahead now

to what our lives will be like
together outside the experiment.

We've got a lot of work to do
on our relationship still,

and we're definitely not
as far as I would have hoped

we would be by now.

We've made it to the end! Yeah,
we have.

And it's just the start for us.

It is the start of a new chapter,
and I'm excited.

I'm excited for every dinner party,

but this one, I feel like we're
going in

the strongest we've ever been.
Absolutely.

I'm just so sad for it to come
to an end.

I know. The world as we know it,
gone forever.

So... You get so deep.

Even though we've had our ups
and downs,

I'm so happy to be here with Ella.

She means a lot to me and I care
a lot about her.

So I just kind of want us
to focus on having a nice time.

I'm feeling excited about the final
dinner party.

Laura and I are in a good place
at the moment.

I'm just going to be myself,
have fun.

It's the last final dinner
party, so let's bring it on.

Actually making it to the final
dinner party makes me really proud

of the progress that Arthur
and I have made,

but I feel like I've done a lot of
the heavy lifting

to try and get us this far.

I need Arthur to step up
to the plate a little bit now.

Well, here we are, guys.

This is the final dinner party
in the experiment.

The couples
have had their final dates,

so I think I'm particularly
interested to see who's listened

to our advice and really wants
to make this work.

It's going to be a big night.
Absolutely.

Tonight will be a really strong
indicator of where they're at

and where they're off to next.
Yes.

Oh, we're the first here!

We're the first ones of the last
dinner party.

That's special. That is special.

Jordan and Erica, first in tonight.

Now, let's pop the champagne.

Mm-hmm.

I'm a pro now.

Make it a good one. Bellissima!

I think that means beautiful
in Italian.

Oh, no. Oh, no. Just get it.

Oh, that's cute.

They are very playful together,
aren't they? Yeah.

I'm not going to get
emotional. I'm not going to cry.

Not yet.

It's been, like, the best, best
experience I've ever done.

And all the best moments of the best
experience have all been with you.

It's great to see Jordan being so
open about how he feels

not just about Erica,
but about the process as well.

Here he is saying, you know,
"I'm not going to cry yet."

He's really gotten so much
out of this process.

Hello!

Oh, wow.

Hello, my darling. How are you
doing? How are you doing, mate?

Clearly, Laura and Arthur
have had a very rocky time

at the homestays, and I think
a lot of their differences

have really come to the fore.

So this is the time for them

to be doubling down and focusing
inward on their relationship.

How was the final date?

Final date. Because obviously last
time we saw you guys, it was...

Rocky. And it looks like you've come
so far now.

After, like, speaking to the
experts, we were like,

"Let's just be ourselves

"and show each other how we
really feel."

And then it was just so easy
and natural and, like, since then,

we've just been us again. So...

Well, Arthur did declare his love
for me again. Come on.

Don't roll your eyes at it!
Come on.

Laura was making some nice comments
about me, about our relationship.

And that's all it took? You just
loved her after that?

And I was like, "Oh, I love you for
that." No. You said, "I love you."

So you love her?

I loved her in that minute.

I do wonder if Arthur understands
the word love.

When of course, it is a word
that means a lot to Laura,

and for her to have her partner
using it in such a frivolous way

probably feels a little bit empty.

COUPLES ON THE SOFA CHEER

Adrienne and Matt, looking strong.
Happy.

They're both smiling. They are.

Right. Adrienne, do you want one? Do
I?

So at the last dinner party,
they weren't in the best place.

But it's nice to see that they are
in a better place today.

They seem more at peace with their
differing energy levels now,

and ready to take
that into the real world.

No. He has said he's, like,
falling.

Like, I have very strong feelings
for him, but it's very hard for me

to know how real they are until
we're actually in the real world.

Are you scared?

Yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

I want to just take it as it comes
and see how things play out

when we get home.

BOTH: Hi!

You look incredible, Miss Peggy!

Guys, you look stunning!

I love how Georges,
he's the first one to do this.

He said, "You go, my bride,
you go in front of me." Love it.

He adores Peggy.

Absolutely.

How did the date go, then?
It was amazing.

Honestly, it doesn't feel real.

That's how amazing it was.
Aw! Yeah, it doesn't feel real.

It felt like a dream.

So where did you go for yours?

We had a really, really good date.

It was definitely the right
thing for us.

We just had fun.

We went pottery-making.
We had a clay fight.

I'm so glad that youse did
have a good day.

I think you needed it. Yeah.

Talk to me, how was yours?

It was really good.

Just laughing pretty much
all day long.

That's what we needed

after a difficult commitment
ceremony. You heard as well

from what the experts were saying,

that they don't believe in us
as a unit. Yeah, you need that.

You need to have more fun
in your relationship. 100%.

I'm like a child when it comes
to... I'm jokey. I'm silly.

I'm a bit goofy. You've got to have
fun.

I want to have fun,
but that's who I am.

That's my personality.

And I don't think I'd be able
to compromise

in order to change my personality.
Why would you? I wouldn't want to.

You can change things or you can
improve. I can improve things.

Exactly. Exactly, but you
don't need to change anything. No.

Do you feel like that date made
up for what happened on homestays?

I mean, there's a lot to be said
for...

His actions. ..his actions.

We have chatted about it
and I've said, like,

"I don't want to mince my words.

"You've got shit to do
on the outside."

Oh, yeah. "You've got work."
He needs to work.

WELCOMING CHEERS

Who's this?

Gosh, Ella looks so different.

I love your hair like that.

Thank you. I really do.
You look stunning. Do I?

Yeah, you do.

The last time we saw Ella and JJ,
they were not in the best place.

JJ thought that Ella had crossed
the line several times.

And we know that JJ is a reserved
guy, right?

I'd like to see JJ say more about
how he's feeling,

because he isn't really giving her
what she needs verbally. Right.

How have you been? How has your
final date been?

It was nice, mate.
Dinner on a yacht.

Just nice to get away, get out.
Are you guys all right now?

Yeah, we're good.
Yeah, yeah. Yeah? Yeah.

Yeah.

He's being very pleasant,
very polite.

But you don't actually know
what he's feeling.

I don't know which is which,
but...

Right, the final date. How was it?

Oh! It was amazing.

I really like him.

But to be honest, when I first met
JJ,

I didn't believe that someone
like him that I fancy would like me.

It was all amazing.
It was this fairy tale,

and then I started to doubt myself.

In my head, I'm just like, "Right,
I need to try to do everything

"to impress him, for him to like
me."

I just don't want you to change
who you are to please somebody else.

And I know, I'm not silly...

..JJ likes brunettes.

That is why you've gone brunette.

I know. Did you know that?

I mean, I didn't know you were going
to walk in with brunette hair,

but, like, I knew why you had done
it.

I know she really wants
to make this work.

You know, all she ever wanted,

as she said to us, is for a guy to
fall for her

and to find her attractive.

And now she has that.

This is a dream come true for her.

I just hope she doesn't try
too hard.

Hey!

Hey, sexy!

See the big grins, the big smiles?
They're obviously very happy.

Absolutely. So much happiness.

It's our final dinner party,
guys, we need champers.

Sorry. Bit more, bit more,
please. Thank you.

I'll leave you talking to the
girls.

Yeah, you talk lovely things
about me.

Always do. Always.

I have to say, I really love
the sexual energy

between the two of them.

It's like they speak
with their eyes,

a secret between just the two of
them.

Guys, can I just grab
your attention, please?

Not a game of spin the bottle,
is it? No, no, no.

Woo!

Seeing as it's our last dinner
party,

I thought we could do best
moments of the experiment.

Oh, shit.

Best moment has to be with my dear
husband, of course.

Ugh.

Um, just hands down the moment
you turned around at the altar

and I saw this.

Oh, stop it. And I stopped walking
down the aisle

because straight away,

I was just like, "That's a sexy
piece of deliciousness."

Smashed it, smashed it.

The best moment I had...was
probably when JJ came back.

I'm joking.

That's a joke!

That was a joke.

Arthur, you know that thing
about reading the room?

With this couple, I think a big
challenge that they have is,

they don't
appreciate each other's humour.

Arthur is attempting to do
this in jest, right?

Some of it is just poor execution,
but some of it is just,

"Hey, I just want to see if I can
make you laugh."

But Laura is not laughing.

Here we are.

The last supper!
Last date with destiny.

This is emotional.

Oh, thank you!

It's only taken all of the dinner
parties for you to do that.

Oh, this is where we sat
at our first ever dinner party.

I know, memories. Hi, guys.
Oh, hi.

Oh, I can smell gravy.

CORK POPS

Woo! Excellent.

Excellent job there, darling.

Who would like a glass?

This is really nice.

This is really nice, yeah.

Guys, are you looking forward
to life outside of the process?

We spoke about it.

We've spoken a lot about it.

And we keep coming back
to, like, the same thing.

We know we're very different.
We're from two different worlds.

But just because you're different
doesn't mean you won't work.

No, no, but we have a bit more of an
uphill struggle than some.

And I think, yeah, there are aspects
of Arthur and I that do...

..clash.

And there are equal parts that
actually work really well for us.

So I think that the next few days

are going to be crucial
for me and Arthur.

It's different for everybody.

I feel like I miss Georges already,
and we're not even apart yet.

And I never thought I'd say that
because I'm so close to my family,

but I don't really want to go home.

I now want to focus on us
and, you know, who knows,

our family, our future.

Do you guys want kids? Yeah.
You do? Yeah.

Wow. Yeah!
How many do you want? Er, two.

What about you, Peggy?
I would be grateful for one.

So that's three, then.

That's three altogether, eh?

Talking to the couples at the dinner
party

and seeing some of the other
relationships flourish around me,

I'm realising that Arthur and I,
we definitely are not there,

and I'm worried.

I keep forgetting I've got brown
hair. Like, I keep forgetting.

I'm like... Are you looking,
like what's that? Yeah.

They're going to think,

oh, who's this girl that fucking
JJ's got with?

He's got another one.

OK, here's a question.

When was your last date
before the experiment?

Oh, a week before it.

Wow!

Oh! Oh!
SHE SQUAWKS

Oh, fucking hell.

Arthur, you've done it again,
darling.

It's only been ten weeks,
and you still can't learn.

That's not going to go down well
with Laura.

I had a date, like, literally maybe
two weeks before I walked in here.

It wasn't great. It was nothing.

I went on a date.
Nothing happened.

I got married three weeks later.

Big deal.

You know, Arthur's issue is poor
emotional intelligence, right?

He doesn't understand how his words
when they land, how that's

going to impact the emotions
of his partner. Yeah.

Right. That's a problem.

That just makes me think that you
weren't taking it seriously.

Nothing happened.
Yeah, but it's like...

It was nothing. You knew you were
about to get married.

Doesn't matter.
I wasn't going to do anything.

Don't tell me that it doesn't
matter.

Don't tell me that
it doesn't matter.

Well, we came in to... I'll decide
whether it matters to me or not. OK.

Dating someone a week prior
to getting married to me.

Obviously, he didn't take
this seriously.

I'm furious.

I can't actually even look at him.

Would you move down south?

No.

Would you move to Leeds, Paul?

Not, not Leeds.
But I said I'd move to Manchester.

I'd happily do Manchester.
That's fine by me.

Yeah. But South's just...

Oh! It's too big.
CLATTERING

Leave me alone.

Oh! And this man
wants to have children.

Laura, how are you feeling?

I do feel like you've had it tough
on a personal level. Yeah.

I kind of entered this experiment on
a bit of a voyage of self-discovery.

And my only concern is at times
I've been suppressed.

And I haven't been my full self
over the last few weeks.

But I'm being completely honest.

Like, sometimes it's been difficult
to finish a sentence.

And I guess it's like,
am I being listened to?

And is what I'm saying being valued?
Yeah. Yeah.

I don't mean you do it with
that intent, but that's

how it makes me feel. Mm.

What is really commendable
is the fact that Laura stays every

week, and she really wants
to make this work.

That's right. Because of course, we
need to put this in the context for

Laura in terms of her own life.

She has been married before.

She's had a painful divorce.

She's placing a lot of emphasis
on this relationship as, you know,

the marriage that's going to work.

It feels weird, though, knowing that
it's coming to an end.

How does it feel that you're going
to go back to reality?

I'm ready for it. I'm excited. Are
you? I'm ready, ready for it like.

Do you guys feel like you're ready
for the real world now?

Or do you want a few extra
weeks or...?

We're in a strong place to leave.

100%, 100% in the strongest place.
We can see that. When you guys

Look at each other, you guys
just smile every time.

That connection from day one
like that's never disappeared.

It's just been like
the communication side, the me not

thinking before I speak, the things
like that. I'm like that...

Like with you as well.

There was like the compromise.
Oh, yeah.

You've compromised?
Yeah. And we've both got to cut...

What?! Yeah.

You both have to compromise
in a relationship for it to work.

Yeah. From my half, yeah.

That's what I'm saying. Oh!

That's literally what I'm saying.
I thought you meant like I wasn't

compromising. You had me so shook I
was like... I know,

I was suddenly about to be
like, "Anyhoo!"

That's what I said. Yeah.

Have you guys spoke about kids
and...?

Oh, look at her face. Yeah, she
doesn't want kids.

Oh, do you not? No. No.

That's fair enough.

Did you before you came here?

I still do.

Oh!

Would that have been one
of your deal breakers.

If he didn't want kids?

Oh, absolutely. Oh, I would.

I wouldn't be here. Yeah, yeah.

Same for me as well, actually.

Well, are you like open to it?

Having kids? Yeah.

Not really.

How does that make you feel?

Like right now, I'm just content
with how things are and wanting

to grow together and have
that amazing relationship.

Yeah. But like, when it comes
to that point of wanting kids,

then that's when we have that
conversation.

She might change your mind.
You might be like, OK, I don't need
them.

But I have wanted kids.

Yeah. Forever.

So, yeah, it's definitely something
we will,

we'll come to at some point. Mm.

This is a major issue.

Big. There's definitely further
conversation that's required

here about how they navigate
this journey moving forward.

When one person wants a child
and the other one doesn't. Mm.

How does it make you feel
when you mentioned kids?

Does it make you worried
for the outside?

Well, no, cos I don't want kids
right now.

Mm. I get that.

But I don't need to cling
on to that hope that eventually
like that would happen.

I want to be that guy one day or
potentially be the guy that could.

What if you're not?

Does it worry you that I'm just
going to leave?

..like that or like that...

I've never had it where somebody
changed my mind on wanting kids...

..before.

That's what, that's what
worries me.

If I get to that point where
I really do want to have kids

then we have that conversation.

Then that makes me think, like,
I were just wasting the whole time.

I hope that we can work
through the differences of me

not wanting children and you wanting
children.

And that's not saying
that it's never.

If eventually I was to change my
mind, then that could work.

But right now, kids aren't
really in my future.

They're not in my plan.
They're not in my five year plan.

You looking forward to going
home or are you nervous or...?

I'm, I'm sad, mate.

Living with Erica's been so
good, and that's

what I'm going to miss the most.

Yeah. Just almost like your best
friend.

But someone that you can, like, fall
in love with and stuff like that.

Like, that's the best feeling ever.
Are you in love, yeah?

I think it's obviously a...

Do you know this? No! No! No.

I've not said, I've not said like,
there's nothing to say. Anyway,

let's just drink.

I'm going to miss JJ.

It's weird being with someone 24
over seven, day in and day out.

Would you move to London, or...?

Do you mean would I move
to London for JJ?

Like, yeah.

Erm...

..I wouldn't... That doesn't mean

you need to, like, obviously like,
move in together. Yeah.

Do you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah.
No, I would, yeah.

You would have your own place and
then like... I would move to London.

No response from JJ there.

And that was a, that's a big
statement.

I feel like I want Erica
to be in my life in only one

capacity, and that's
like to be with her.

You have polar opposites
with regard to the men. Yes.

You have JJ, who is just,
you know, he's a wall.

And then you have Jordan who
is talking about his emotions.

He's smiling. He's leaning in.

There's nothing worse than
being in a not so great place

with your partner and watching
a couple kissing.

Yeah. And I feel really sorry right
now for Ella and JJ, actually,

that they're actually sitting here
having to watch that physical

intimacy play out.

Yeah, she's already planted
the seed, so...

SMOOCHING

I think, guys, it's time
to have a little bit of fun

at this dinner party of ours.
Oh, here she goes.

How about a nice little game
of never have I ever?

LAUGHS AND CHEERS

This could go so wrong.

Right, you start, Tasha.

Never have I ever thought
about writing

"Leave" with who I'm with right now.

Oh!

Oh, thanks for that, darling.
Appreciate it, I really do.

I didn't play...

LAUGHTER/SHOUTS AT THE TABLE

Oh, I've got one.

Has anybody got any weird fetishes?

Has anybody got, like, a foot
fetish?

SHE FAKE VOMITS

I like being rimmed.

LAUGHTER

I know you're not joking as well.

He's not joking. I'm not joking.

No, I told you, we've had some
downs.

So, Peggy, is that something
that you... No.

LAUGHTER

No. This is getting fun now.

Snog. Marry. Avoid.
And it can't be your own partner.

GASPING
Any of them.

Adrienne, you little shit!

You swine!

Erm, I would snog Arthur.

There's still time.

GASPS
I'm joking.

Oh, my God. You are miles off.
That was a joke, obviously.

That was a fucking joke.

It's a joke.
It's a silly game.

It's just my sense of humour.

This is so typical of Arthur.

He realises he said something wrong,
so he just very quickly back-pedals.

And I'm not letting it slide today.

Right on cue!

"The questions in tonight's honesty
box offer you all one final

"opportunity to open up fully
and truthfully to each other.

"It's important you go
into your final vow renewals

"with the clearest possible
understanding of the stage

"of your marriage."

The box. I got the box.

OK. "Where do I rank now
in your list of priorities

"in relation to gaming?"

Meh...

Erm, really easy question.

Erm, you are very much at the top
of my priority list.

Gaming is at the bottom of it,
but it's not me giving up my hobbies

and passions because I couldn't ever
give up a hobby and passion for a

partner because that would eradicate
who I am. I don't want you to.

But it's about making you a priority
and putting you at the top

of the list.

So nice to just see the growth
in Georges.

You know, from the lad
that was a bit inappropriate

sometimes to someone who's
really matured, taking

responsibility, able to articulate
what he's feeling.

You know, it's beautiful to see.

It really is.

Perfect.

Thank you, babe.

Perfect answer.

Adrienne to Matt.

"What would you change about me?"

I think, like everything
we've been through, we've learned

a lot about each other.

So if this question is right
now, I think we're strong.

I'm happy, I'm smiling.

I wouldn't change a thing
right now.

He's also a lot to drink.

Just joking. Fucking steaming.

Matt, can I just say as well? Yes.
If you genuinely feel like there's

nothing you can change about
Adrienne. Right now.

Yeah. Right now, that's good.

But if there is something...
I would say. Yeah, say it

just because it'll help you in the
future.

I'm saying not say it for everyone's
entertainment. 100%, no. Yeah.

If there is something I would
change, I would say.

This is interesting, isn't it?

Because Jordan's tapping
into the fact that Matt

has this tendency to just sweep
things under the rug. Exactly.

And he's calling him on it
and giving him an opportunity

to actually be really honest
and open.

And he's still not going there.

Yeah. No.

Matt to Adrienne.

"Am I enough for you?"

Absolutely.

That's great, on to the next one.
Brilliant.

Sweet.

It's a joke. It's a joke.

It's a joke, honestly. Oh, my God.

Arthur, man! Oh, for God's sake!

Everyone's been a bit
uptight tonight.

It's the last dinner party.

Loosen up, you know, have a bit
of fun.

How bad can it go?

Don't get me wrong, there's been
times that I've been thinking

where you what I wanted in terms
of energy.

And obviously that's one thing
that we have addressed

this whole time. Yeah.

And...

..you are everything I asked
for in the sense of, I wanted

somebody who's been through
hardship, and I feel

like the surface level is something
that can always be worked on.

Mm-hm. I absolutely think you are
enough.

That was nice, guys.
Hey. Nice guys.

"Erica, do you think I'm the man
for you long term?"

Erm...

..I think that there is so many
incredible qualities that I see

in you...

..but I do have concerns.

Obviously, the communication is such
a huge thing for me, but I think

the qualities that you possess
and how...

..all in you are for me,

definitely are the qualities that
I want in a lifetime partner.

The only things that worry me is how
we communicate when we're bad.

Absolutely. But they are things
that can be fixed.

You know, they are things
that we can work on.

Yeah, fixable. Yeah, very fixable.

But the amazing, incredible
qualities that I see

in you are things that I haven't
had with a partner before.

So for that reason...

..yeah, I would say you are, because
that's exactly what I wanted.

And you've gave me that.

Yeah, yeah.

She just gave a lot.
Yeah. She did.

For her, where she's come from,
for Erica to say that is a lot.

Cool. "To you both."

Oh, shit.

What?!

"To you both, rank the couples
in order of how long you think

"they will last in the following
months of time.

"Five years, five months, five
weeks, five days, five minutes."

Oh!

I'll go and you can jump in
if I say anything wrong. Yeah.

OK.
We will do five years first.

Yeah. I'm going to say Peggy and
George. I'll back Peggy and George,

five years. What, five years?

Yeah. Really?

Arthur!

BOTH: Five months.

This is a tough one.

Oh, this is tough.

I'd say you. Yeah, I agree with
that. Cheers, guys.

BOTH: Five weeks.

Jordan and Erica. Yeah. It was
tight. It was.

Guys, you don't need to apologise.

I'm worried about the distance
with you guys. Yeah.

Just because you guys need to be
near each other quite often.

Five days.

Now the days and minutes.

This is where it gets tough.

Erm...

Ella and JJ.

Days.

Laura and Arthur. Minutes.

Let's stay together, let's stay
together for ten minutes.

Give us ten minutes. Arthur, did
you just say...

Did you just say, give it ten
minutes? Ten minutes, yeah.

CHAT ROUND THE TABLE

It's a joke. Oh, OK.

Oh, God.

Your jokes aren't landing, mate.

I think what we're seeing
here is that Arthur's jokes

are a sign of him being quite
defensive and maybe quite fearful

about where the relationship
will go.

All right. Paul to Tasha.

"Are you in love with me?"

Am I in love with you? Yeah.

No. That's fine. Are you not?

Not yet. I'm definitely,
I'm definitely taking it..

Am I allowed to speak without
being interrupted? Let her talk.

You're starting to grind me gears.

And I'ma swear to God I'm going
to lose my shit.

Because I'm having my moment.

I've given you all your moment.
Let me have mine.

I'm trying to say that I'm falling
in love with my husband.

And you've just taken that away
from me.

Didn't like it.

Am I allowed to speak without being
interrupted?

Let her talk.

You're starting to grind my gears,
and I'ma swear to God, I'm going

to lose my shit
because I'm having my moment.

I have given you all your moment.
Let me have mine.

I'm trying to say that I'm falling
in love with my husband.

And you've just taken that away
from me.

Didn't like it.

You understand?

Right then.
No, I'm not in love with you.

But I'm falling in love with you.

Right. Any more alcohol?

If we give you one more glass, will
you say I love you?

Well, that was the nicest,

aggressive falling in love I've
ever had in my life. Yeah...

LAUGHTER

That's me!

Just you wait till tonight.

Hey, boo!
Just you wait till tonight.

I feel great. Scared at the same
time, I liked it.

I love that moment for Tasha.

I think, you know, seeing
the progress in her in, you know,

just gradually, week by week,
dropping those walls and softening

to Paul, allowing him in and getting
to the point now where she's saying,

yes, I am falling in love with you.

That is monumental.
It is, it is.

I mean, it shows the power
of being vulnerable. Yes.

And I think that Tasha thought
that was weakness at first,

and she realises now
it's a good thing.

Yeah.

Aw. Everyone's kissing.

Well, not everyone.

Uh. OK. Me to you.

Erm...

"What can I do to be a better
partner to you?"

Erm, for me,

the biggest problem is
like being disrespected

when sometimes alcohol is involved.

Not every time, but just sometimes.

And that's kind of the main
thing in our relationship.

I think the issue is not
you drinking.

It's kind of what happens after.

We argue over literally nothing.

And then or sometimes you do say
things that are quite hurtful.

I know they're not with malice or
from a bad place, but they,

like they do, weigh heavy on me like
I do think about them, and I do...

..I do hear them. Do
you know what I mean?

So, yeah, if there's anything
that I need you to change,

it would be that.

But that's not news to you. OK.

For me Ella's disrespect

when she's been drinking, I feel
like it's a catalyst for a lot

of our arguments and a lot
of our problems.

And obviously I've been in a
relationship before where that's

been the case, and I promised myself
that I wouldn't be in something

like that again.

"What can I do to be a better
partner to you?"

For me, it would probably be for
you to be more open with me.

But if that is just you,
then I don't want

you to change for me.

Because honestly, you are amazing.

Like you're the most amazing
guy I've ever met.

But it's OK to have needs. Yeah.

It's not a change, it's not that
you want to change him.

That's not what you're saying.

Just something that you need
from him in order

for this relationship to work.

So for me, I know I've got, like,
a funny way of showing that I care

about someone, but I think you do
know that, like, you do, like, mean

the world to me.

And I do care
about you like so much.

I think you probably do know that.

We have to applaud JJ there.
That was the most open

I think we've heard him be,
most transparent in terms

of what he wants and what he needs
out of the relationship.

Yeah. And then Ella, the same.

That was great.
She articulated what she needs.

Hopefully, they can give
that to each other. Yeah.

OK.

"What's the biggest change
you've seen in me

"throughout this experiment?"

Biggest change?

You've compromised a lot
in order to make it work.

And I do appreciate it.

And I wish I could do the same
for you.

You wish? Yeah.

I wish I could do the same for you.

I'm not saying I can't.

I'm just saying when it comes to
my sense of humour, it's my sense

of humour, that's my personality.

So it's going to be very hard
for me to change that.

I'm kind of getting a sense
that he's now saying, look,

this is who I am.

Like, I want someone who's going
to accept me in its entirety.

And I'm not quite sure if Laura
is able to do that.

I found the last hour or so quite
difficult.

And like you've made some jokes
that haven't landed that well today.

And the last couple of dinner
parties I have just let things slide

and we have come a long way.

And I'm not, I'm not for a second
detracting away from that right now.

But what I am saying is that
I have carried the burden

of this marriage.

And because of that, my...

..sparkle has been dimmed
and I have just not felt myself.

OK.

Can some of you just speak up
for a second and actually

remind me of who I was?

Because I don't think I was...
Somebody who you're not today. Yeah.

The fact you even just had to ask
that question, Laura,
to us says a lot. Yeah.

You're not the same girl
that was at the hen do.

When you get to this stage
in the process, you've got to ask

yourselves, are you both compatible?

This is the first time
that I've seen Laura look

so deflated, like she has no
more fight left in her,

which is a really sad place
for her to have got to... Yes.

..because she has tried so much
throughout this relationship.

Yeah.

I have been on the defensive
for so long, and I feel

like I've definitely lost myself
in this relationship.

I'm just really disappointed.

I need to start refocusing to see
if there's something long lasting

there for Arthur and I.

I've got a lot of thinking to do.

I think it's clear that this evening
most of the relationships have come

to a head and really showed us
who they are and where they're at.

You know, I think some couples
are in a really strong position

and I'm really optimistic about
them, you know, taking

these relationships out
into the world.

Others are in a really tough spot.

I think there's some very big
decisions that need to be made.

In fact, the most important decision

of the experiment for each
and every couple.

So this is ahead of them.

I think it's going to be
a tough week.

Next time.

This has truly been one of the
toughest decisions

I've ever had to make.

Three couples will make
a life-changing decision...

I'm willing to give everything
to Erica,

but is Erica willing to
give everything for me?

..as they grapple with the agonising
dilemma...

Do you think he is the perfect
son-in-law for you?

I wouldn't pick him.

I don't see him as your forever
person.

..of whether to recommit
to one another...

I want our love story to have a
happily ever after.

..or end their marriages forever.

I felt I've carried our
relationship forward on my own.

I worry that one day the gap
between us might grow

too wide to bridge.

I have thought over and over again
whether this is game over for us.

SHE SNIFFS

I'm sorry.

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