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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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NARRATOR: It's been several months
since 24 hopeful singles
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entered Australia's
biggest social experiment.
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Each participant
came with the same dream -
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to make a connection and find love.
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I've pictured this day
a thousand times,
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but to be standing here
in front of you,
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it seems surreal.
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Tonight, it's the final reunion,
and everyone is back.
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Dan faces the music when some
damning evidence is revealed.
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HUGO: Dan being like,
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'I can't stand her,'
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but we just say yes to, you know,
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try and make it to the end.
Holy shit.
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Tayla...
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Tayla's slip up exposes the truth.
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I didn't mean to say that. I...
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Oh, no! (BLEEP)
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And there's hope
for one of the season's
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most turbulent couples.
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How do you feel about Jesse
when you sit here now with him?
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(EPIC MUSIC)
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Welcome, everyone.
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(GREETINGS EXCHANGED)
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Settle in. Great to see you.
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Hello.
Hey.
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Come on in, guys.
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Welcome back everybody
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for the final reunion.
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Now, over three months ago,
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this experiment began,
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and 12 very brave couples put
their hands up
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and threw themselves in,
looking for the fairytale.
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Some of you were able
to achieve that.
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You fell in love.
You found your someone special,
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while others went away not getting
what they had hoped for.
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The important thing from the experts
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is that we hoped
that you were all able
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to learn something
through this experiment,
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that you could take stock
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and have a look at yourselves
as individuals,
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as well as how you are
in romantic relationships.
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So, on that note,
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let's all go back
to where it all began,
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on your wedding days.
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(NERVOUS MURMURING)
Oh, God.
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Holy crap. Oh, my God.
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(WARM MUSIC)
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I'm about to get married!
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(LAUGHTER)
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MELISSA: I'm marrying a stranger.
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I mean, woo! Isn't that crazy?!
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(LAUGHTER)
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(EXHALES)
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I feel like my nerves have literally
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just manifested themselves
into sweat.
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(LAUGHTER)
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TAYLA: So nervous now.
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I don't want to do this anymore.
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(LAUGHTER)
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(LAUGHTER)
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JANELLE: Hi! (GIGGLES)
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Hello!
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I'm Tahnee. Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
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(LAUGHTER)
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I'm crying already!
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I'm Dan.
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Nice to meet you, Dan. I'm Sandy.
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Wow.
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(EXHALES)
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I'm Layton.
Nice to meet you.
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Mel.
You look fantastic.
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Do we hold hands, or...
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Yes, we do!
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(LAUGHTER)
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You literally took my breath away.
Oh, stop it.
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(UPLIFTING MUSIC CONTINUES)
I'm Hugo.
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(LAUGHTER)
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How are you feeling?
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Feeling good?
Like I might throw up.
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I'm good though.
Don't throw up on me.
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I'll try.
(LAUGHTER)
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You have great teeth.
Thank you, so do you.
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Thank you.
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Evelyn.
Evelyn.
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Heh.
(NERVOUS CHUCKLING)
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(NERVOUS SQUEAK)
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(LAUGHTER)
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My wife,
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my partner and my new best friend.
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You're probably wondering,
what's with the get-up?
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But please don't take this
as a giant red flag.
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(LAUGHTER)
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I believe marriage
is built on trust,
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and nothing worth having comes easy.
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Today, I'm pulling
all my walls down...
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Because I've learned
that a life lived in fear
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is a life half-lived.
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And I don't know what more I can do
to make my light
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any easier for love to find.
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Big rewards require big risks.
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What better reward is there
than love?
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I want someone who hugs
the tightest,
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who waves goodbye from the driveway,
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and cheers the loudest
from the sidelines.
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OLLIE: We will find comfort
in each other,
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and I hope you fall in love too.
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(UPLIFTING MUSIC CONTINUES)
(WARM REACTIONS)
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I would say that you have
found yourself a unicorn.
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(LAUGHTER)
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You may now kiss the bride.
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(APPLAUSE AND CHEERING)
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(LAUGHTER)
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OLLIE: It was such a beautiful day.
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Like, I'd do that again
and again and again.
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(APPLAUSE AND WARM REACTIONS)
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Guys, that was so good!
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I should have brought
a box of tissues.
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MEL: Well, let's get
our first couple up on the couch.
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Tahnee and Ollie.
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Ooh!
(LAUGHS)
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(APPLAUSE)
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(GREETINGS EXCHANGED)
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Hey, you two.
Hello.
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How are you going?
Aw.
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Should we ask?
Are we curious?
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What's the status of
this relationship?
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(CHUCKLES)
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The status -
we are very happy, yeah.
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Incredibly happy.
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(LAUGHTER)
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How do you feel about Tahnee?
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After that final vow, we did say
that we love each other.
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(WARM MUSIC)
So,
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you're in love with Tahnee?
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Yeah. Yeah, I am.
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We're in love.
(LAUGHTER)
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Can I do a happy dance?
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(GIGGLES)
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And Tahnee,
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how do you see the future?
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Yeah, I'm excited for the future.
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You know, after this, we're going on
a little holiday together.
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I'm going to go to Perth
for a couple of weeks.
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We've kind of just been
planning everything
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and letting things just
flow nice and naturally.
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Mmm.
Obviously
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the long-distance thing
can be a challenge.
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Is there a move on the cards?
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Yeah, there is. I'm going to be
moving to New South Wales.
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Yeah, Sydney.
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Wow. There it is, people!
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Making the move.
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Got a couple of friends
that are in the area,
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so yeah.
OK, amazing.
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Yeah. So it's - you know,
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it's daunting as hell, but there's
a part of me
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definitely in Sydney now,
and that's Tahnee,
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so yeah, you want to pursue that.
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We have so much confidence
looking at you now,
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and that your future
is so incredibly bright,
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that you both have this attitude
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that means when you do come up
against challenges,
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you're going to be open to it,
you're gonna tackle it together,
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because you are
this unbeatable team.
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And please stay in touch,
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because we want to hear about all
the babies in the future, right?
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Of course.
We've loved having you
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in this experiment.
Thank you so much.
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Thank you, guys. Thank you so much.
Well done.
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(APPLAUSE)
Thanks, guys.
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You guys are so cute.
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Our next couple...
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Sandy and Dan.
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(APPLAUSE)
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Hello.
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BOTH: Hi.
JOHN: Hey, you two.
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Well, the three of us
are incredibly disappointed,
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aren't we, about where
this has landed for you guys.
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Things got pretty heated between
you two during this experiment.
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In the beginning,
there was potential.
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And do you know what?
When we matched you,
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we thought long and hard
about the two of you.
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There was a lot that we liked
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about it. We were excited.
EXPERTS: Yeah.
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Sandy, why do you think
this relationship broke down?
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Because it was so strong
in the beginning.
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Dan never came here
with the right intentions.
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I feel her never gave me...
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I never said he has to love me.
I didn't say that.
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I didn't say - I might not even be
his type. That's fine.
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At least give me a chance.
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No.
And then...
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I disagree with that. I did
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come into the experiment
with the right reasons.
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I categorically can say that,
hand on heart, that I did.
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I don't believe that,
because I never felt it.
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Because if I thought that you did,
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you would have actually
given it a chance,
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you would have spent time with me,
you would have done all those things
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a person would do to try and make
a relationship work.
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I felt quite isolated
because to everyone else,
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Dan seemed amazing.
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But I was getting someone else
behind closed doors.
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See, I disagree with that.
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Sandy, we've got a lot
of differences, OK, and I think
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that's the ultimate reason
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why the wheels fell off.
(SIGHS)
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Well look, there is one
pivotal moment
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in this experiment for both of you
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that is important
to examine right now.
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And it involved
a night out with the boys,
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when there was
an unintentional phone call made,
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that Evelyn received.
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And she was privy
to certain information
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on that boys' night.
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It implicated two grooms
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in the situation,
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and it has carried on
throughout the experiment.
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Let's take a moment now
to examine that in greater depth.
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God damn it.
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Last night, the boys went out
and I got a butt-dial from Rupert.
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I did listen in, and...
Right.
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..I unfortunately heard
what two of the husbands were saying
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about their wives.
Who?
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Hugo...
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Yep.
..and Dan.
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Specifically Dan.
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I heard it so clear.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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I know you haven't been saying some
very nice things about your wife.
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I want you now to own up to it
before I have to take it further.
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Um...
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I've got no problems
in being honest.
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OLLIE: Did I see Dan
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showing me pictures of his ex?
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I did.
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Dan, did you hold up your phone
and show your ex-girlfriends...
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No, no, don't.
Don't (BLEEP) say shit
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like that to me.
Don't swear. No one's swearing here.
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There was nothing at all
that was said
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with any kind of ill-intent,
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alright, or any kind of - anything
that was malicious
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or anything like that.
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I heard the entire conversation.
No, no, no.
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We were talking about career
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and lifestyle.
That's all you spoke about,
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career and lifestyle?
Absolutely.
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OK, you're lying.
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The fact that you even showed photos
of your ex-girlfriends,
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that's pretty disrespectful to me.
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Why would you do that?
Why? Why? Why?
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What did you say?
You haven't said it.
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(MOODY MUSIC)
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HUGO: This whole thing is (BLEEP).
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I don't want to throw
any of the boys under the bus.
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You had, you know, like,
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Dan being like, 'I can't stand her,'
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but we just say yes
to try and make it to the end.
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You know, like,
'She is the last person
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that I'd be attracted to.'
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Like, 'She's a hundred percent
not my type,'
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like, dude, all that kind of stuff.
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(SIGHS)
(BLEEP) me.
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Oh geez, Huges...
Oh, my gosh.
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Holy shit.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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HUGO: You had,
you know, Dan being like,
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'I can't stand her,'
but we just say yes
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to try and make it to the end.
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You know, like,
'She is the last person
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that I'd be attracted to.'
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Like, 'She's a hundred percent
not my type.'
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Like, dude, all that kind of stuff.
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(BLEEP) me.
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Oh geez, Huges...
Oh, my God.
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ALYSSA: Holy shit.
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(SOUNDS OF DISBELIEF)
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Stop looking at Hugo.
I know what you're doing.
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Stop intimidating him.
No, I'm not. I'm just...
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No, no...
I see it in your eyes, Dan.
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I've dealt with you
for two months full time.
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I know exactly what you do.
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You're doing it to me right now.
You're giving me those eyes.
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Stop trying to intimidate me
and stop me from speaking as well.
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Nothing he does
surprises me anymore.
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I've spent enough time with him.
That honestly didn't
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surprise me. To be honest,
there's probably much worse things
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that have happened
during the experiment
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that I don't know about.
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Hugo.
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Yeah?
When did Dan
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say these things to you?
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Uh, look...
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This was...
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We were down at Opera Bar, and...
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To be honest, I kind of led
the charge with having my big rant,
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and my big vent, and the guys
kind of supported me,
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and Dan, you mentioned
that it's friends at first sight,
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it's stuff like that,
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and you might have felt
a bit hard done by.
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Did you say the things
at the boys night
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that Hugo is suggesting
he heard from you?
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I don't recall saying them.
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So, I don't
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remember it word for word.
Dan, when you say...
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When you say you don't recall...
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Word for word.
..that suggests that it
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absolutely could have happened.
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Yep.
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What upsets me is, like I said,
the manipulation to my face.
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'Everything's fine,
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I'm all in, this is amazing,'
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but then behind my back,
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he's doing something else.
That's the issue.
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Even the sleeping with me,
I still don't understand that,
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because you said you weren't
sexually attracted to me. So when
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I pulled away,
you reeled me back in...
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No, we both agreed that we both
felt connected, you know,
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and we were two consenting adults
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that had sex.
You knew exactly what that meant
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for me in that moment.
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I thought that you could
see a future there.
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And then you completely
pulled away after that.
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You made me feel like shit.
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The night before, before we went
to bed, he was saying things like,
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'I don't understand why you only
want to get intimate in the dark.'
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No.
'I'm not vibing with this, Sandy.'
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'I date girls who walk around
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in skimpy clothes.'
No.
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Absolutely - can I...
Saying those sorts of things to me
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is not going to
make me feel comfortable
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in your presence.
Absolutely not - I absolutely...
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You said all those things.
No way. I did not.
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You said all those things.
No, I did not.
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CLAIRE: Dan, just say sorry.
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Take some accountability.
You're a grown-arse 48-year-old man.
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Act like it.
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Claire, let - this is our time
on the couch,
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please.
(GROANS)
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She's entitled to speak.
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Sandy, I absolutely was
attracted to you at the beginning,
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OK, and as we continued
to get to know each other,
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that attraction plateaued,
and the wheels fell off,
346
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and it sort of ended pretty quickly
and brutally.
347
00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,280
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,200
I still don't understand,
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why did you continue
the relationship? Why did you
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sleep with me? Why did you stay
every week? I just...
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Because...
Just to lead me on?
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00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,320
No.
Because you just wanted to stay?
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00:19:19,360 --> 00:19:20,960
No.
And then...
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I disagree with that.
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(SCOFFS)
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No.
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(SIGHS)
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00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:34,200
Dan, I've sat here tonight,
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and I've been counting
the amount of times
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'no' comes out of your mouth.
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And it is a lot.
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It means as a result of anything
she says,
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the first reaction from you is no.
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It dismisses her,
it invalidates her opinion,
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her feelings, and it makes her feel
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small and insignificant.
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00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:14,440
I thought I'd better tell you that,
368
00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,680
because I don't know
whether you know that.
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It's gotta stop.
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00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:23,440
I didn't realise.
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00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,120
This was a pretty hard watch
tonight, Dan.
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Mmm.
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I want it to be
a wake up call for you.
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It's much better off
taking a different approach.
376
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,080
Rather than trying to
protect yourself,
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00:20:43,120 --> 00:20:45,000
lower the walls
and be more vulnerable.
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MEL: Sandy,
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you came into this experiment
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without the blessing
of your parents.
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00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:02,840
Mm-hmm.
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00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:05,240
Any regrets in joining us?
383
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:11,640
No. I mean, I wish things
went differently, obviously.
384
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,960
Again, if you learn something
from an experience,
385
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,600
I think that's important,
and I certainly did.
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00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:22,200
And I think one of
the biggest takeaways,
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as much as my parents
don't always support my decisions
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because they don't understand,
and it comes from a place of love.
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00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:34,320
But going back to them
and seeing the love that they've
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00:21:34,360 --> 00:21:38,440
poured back into me, to help me
build myself back up,
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it just reminded me how important
it is to have your family
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and their support,
and how truly blessed I am
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00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:45,600
that I have that.
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Sandy, this experiment is absolutely
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00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,040
for someone like you, who literally
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00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,840
says, 'I don't care
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how many people I might disappoint
or the risks I take to come onto it,
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00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,480
I'm going to do it anyway,
because I want to find love.'
399
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:12,200
And you had zero
relationship experience.
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00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:15,920
But you took the risk.
401
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,160
And we absolutely love that
about you.
402
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:24,280
Thank you.
403
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,040
Alright, well,
404
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,280
the two of you, we do wish you both
all the best
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00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,240
with your future relationships,
406
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,280
and thank you so much, both of you,
for being here.
407
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:36,800
Thank you, guys.
Thank you.
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00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,200
(APPLAUSE)
(MOODY MUSIC)
409
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:49,760
(EXHALES)
410
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:52,760
NARRATOR: Coming up...
411
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,440
I didn't mean to say that!
412
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:59,240
..a slip of the tongue puts Tayla
and Cam under the spotlight.
413
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,240
(BLEEP).
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00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:08,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
415
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:12,880
Our next couple up...
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00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,400
Melinda and Layton.
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00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,480
(APPLAUSE AND CHEERING)
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00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,000
How are you?
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00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,040
Well, if it's not the power couple.
420
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:27,080
Oh!
421
00:23:27,120 --> 00:23:29,280
(WARM MUSIC)
422
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,320
I was about to ask how things
are going, but it kind of looks
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00:23:32,360 --> 00:23:34,120
self-explanatory.
424
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,480
Really good, really good.
Things are really good.
425
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,320
So Mel,
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00:23:39,360 --> 00:23:43,240
you went from
not really liking him -
427
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:44,480
maybe judging him a little bit,
428
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,760
just a little bit - to liking him,
429
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,000
to 'like' liking him,
to loving him.
430
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:51,200
Yeah.
431
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:57,760
Before I did come in here,
my guy didn't really exist.
432
00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,600
That's why my expectations
were so high.
433
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,120
And even though I came here
for that spark,
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00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,080
I kind of thought, well,
it's not going to be there,
435
00:24:06,120 --> 00:24:08,080
because my guy doesn't exist.
436
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,200
But he does.
He does.
437
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,160
He does. Here he is.
JOHN: Well said.
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00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,680
Why don't we take a look
at that very journey...
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00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,360
Jesus Christ.
..together.
440
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,000
(LAUGHS)
441
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,680
(GROANS)
You can do it.
442
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,160
They say that when you find
your soulmate, you just know.
443
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:34,960
So I feel like I'm just going to
know instantly.
444
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,760
He better be damn good.
445
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,480
Oh (BLEEP).
446
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,080
PHOTOGRAPHER: Just come in
for one more kiss there.
447
00:24:44,120 --> 00:24:45,840
A kiss on the lips there.
448
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,320
He was trying to stick
some tongue in there.
449
00:24:48,360 --> 00:24:50,840
(QUIRKY MUSIC)
450
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:52,440
(LAUGHTER)
451
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,720
I told you, didn't I!
452
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,080
What do you think...
Wake up. I'm so uncomfortable.
453
00:24:58,120 --> 00:24:59,680
I was like, not there yet.
454
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,720
Do a little flex.
455
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,560
So Layton and I
are actually bonding.
456
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,560
This is called
relationship struggles.
457
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:13,120
(LAUGHTER)
458
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,280
The problem for me is,
I'm an analytical thinker
459
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,000
and a logical thinker,
and Mel's quite emotional.
460
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:18,400
There's gonna be situations
that come up
461
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:19,920
where I really will disagree
with something
462
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,120
that Mel might say...
Layton,
463
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:22,960
Layton, you're taking me back
to the boardroom.
464
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:27,160
You're getting into
a lot of analysis here.
465
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,720
You've gotta go
to a vulnerable place.
466
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,200
I don't feel comfortable
467
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,600
moving into a different apartment
with someone else's wife.
468
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,760
And you're sitting here
with Harrison, the person
469
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,800
you said is your most hated person.
Yeah.
470
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:42,560
And you're not supporting me,
your partner.
471
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:44,920
I don't feel comfortable, guys.
472
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,320
(BLEEP).
I don't
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00:25:46,360 --> 00:25:49,000
feel comfortable doing that,
and now I feel like I'm being put
474
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,680
on the spot, and I feel like
I'm being challenged on it.
475
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,040
You're impossible.
476
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,800
You're actually acting like
a Harrison right now.
477
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:57,920
(LAUGHTER)
478
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,280
(WARM MUSIC)
479
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:05,320
Mel,
480
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,440
there were moments
when you needed me,
481
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,200
and I wasn't there
to support you.
482
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,320
And so I'm sorry for all those times
I let you down.
483
00:26:14,120 --> 00:26:15,360
Our relationship is hard,
484
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,000
and us being together is a risk.
485
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:22,360
So I'm ready to take that risk
with you,
486
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,440
and I am
falling in love with you, Mel.
487
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,000
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
488
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:44,760
(APPLAUSE)
489
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,560
Oh, my God.
490
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:52,960
(SIGHS) Far out.
491
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:54,600
How did it feel watching that?
492
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:56,600
It's a lot.
493
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:57,720
Yeah.
It's a lot.
494
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:58,760
Yeah.
495
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,200
It's not a linear journey
for you guys, is it?
496
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:02,320
It's been...
497
00:27:02,360 --> 00:27:03,480
It's been tough.
498
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:05,080
Yeah.
Yeah.
499
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,440
Could you ever have imagined
500
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,200
that this was the journey
you were about to embark on?
501
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:12,160
Absolutely not.
502
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,560
(LAUGHS) What did you expect?
503
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,200
I was looking for a soulmate,
and I thought
504
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,080
from everything
I had learned growing up
505
00:27:20,120 --> 00:27:23,080
that a soulmate is instant.
506
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,280
I just thought I was going to
walk down and be like,
507
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,480
that's my man, this is the guy
I've been waiting for,
508
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,000
and when I didn't feel
that initial spark,
509
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:34,200
I was really kind of let down.
Like, I felt...
510
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,160
Like this isn't going to be
my person, and I was hoping it was.
511
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:41,960
You know, we talk a lot
in this experiment
512
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,840
about the slow burn.
513
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,600
Yeah.
And we meet so many people like you
514
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,640
who come into the experiment,
expecting that initial spark
515
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,960
and that Hollywood moment.
516
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,480
But I think the two of you
are such a great example,
517
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:03,720
that although that initial
'bam' moment might not be there,
518
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,160
if you persevere
519
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,640
and do the work - and you guys
really have done the work -
520
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,280
then you can actually get
that happy ending.
521
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:12,840
Yep.
Yeah.
522
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:16,280
ALESSANDRA: Layton,
523
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,320
what have you learned
from being in this experiment?
524
00:28:20,360 --> 00:28:21,960
Um, I think...
525
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,040
I'm very logical in terms of
the way I think.
526
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:26,680
John, you've pointed that out
many a time.
527
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,720
(LAUGHS)
Yeah, I mean I went hard at you
528
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:30,800
several times.
529
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,840
And you bounced back, you picked
yourself up and you went for it.
530
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,360
You changed, and that was
really impressive.
531
00:28:37,120 --> 00:28:38,560
I've got to ask,
532
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,640
what happened with that gridlock,
being two CEOs,
533
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,360
stuck in a boardroom together?
What did you do with that?
534
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,880
It's still somewhat there,
but we're sort of getting better
535
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,840
at navigating it, through agendas
which we set -
536
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,440
we sat down at a table and took some
meeting minutes afterwards, so...
537
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:55,880
Yes.
(LAUGHTER)
538
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:56,920
I love that.
539
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:01,720
JOHN: It's just so amazing
to see you two together,
540
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,480
and the fact you were able
to fight through
541
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:09,880
your communication style
that frankly was so rigid
542
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,880
for so long, it's just inspiring.
543
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:15,280
That's nice. Thanks, John.
544
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,240
You certainly pushed us.
545
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,240
John in particular.
546
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:21,720
(LAUGHTER)
547
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:23,440
Mel,
548
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:27,360
in your mind, what does the future
look like for you and Layton?
549
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,960
Whatever happens,
I just want Layton there.
550
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,840
So I mean, hopefully children,
hopefully marriage,
551
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,760
hopefully all of that.
Five children.
552
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,200
(LAUGHS)
553
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,680
But I just see him always with me,
wherever we go.
554
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,720
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
555
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:52,680
You guys, I have to say,
we are collectively so thrilled.
556
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,640
We wish you the very best.
557
00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:00,000
All the love, all the sparkles
and magic and everything.
558
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,200
Thank you.
559
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:02,440
And lots of happiness,
560
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:07,160
and just lots of love
that you came here searching for.
561
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,000
So very happy for you.
562
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,640
Congratulations. Thank you so much.
Well done, guys.
563
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:12,920
Thank you, guys, for all the help.
564
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,800
(APPLAUSE)
565
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:30,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
566
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:31,960
Alright, let's
567
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:33,920
get our next couple up.
568
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:38,240
Lyndall and Cam.
569
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,440
Oh, great. (NERVOUS LAUGH)
570
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,120
(SIGHS)
Here we go.
571
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,360
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
572
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,080
Well guys, I've gotta say...
573
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,120
We had such high hopes.
574
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,040
There was so much riding on this.
575
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,760
We didn't expect
the way it turned out.
576
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:06,600
And we saw last night,
577
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:10,440
particularly for the both of you,
there are some open wounds.
578
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:13,360
There's a lot of pain still there.
579
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,840
Lyndall, how do you feel
sitting here next to Cam right now?
580
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:23,880
(SIGHS)
581
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,240
It's pretty hard. Yeah.
582
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,400
(SAD MUSIC)
583
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:35,800
I think so much has happened,
and I've been home,
584
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:40,520
and I've felt so grounded and happy
and big and like...
585
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:48,360
My life is so good, and so it's just
really weird being back
586
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,600
in this place, where like
all this stuff is coming back up
587
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:56,560
and reminding me of
how not good things feel.
588
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,320
I don't know. It's painful. Yeah.
589
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,040
What about for you, Cam?
Sitting right next to Lyndall now.
590
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:10,080
How do I feel?
We're doing this again, are we?
591
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:11,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
592
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:13,880
It never stops, Cam.
Yeah, I know.
593
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:15,040
No surprises here, mate.
594
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,400
How does it feel?
595
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,120
Being out of the experiment,
I felt good.
596
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,800
I've loved being back home.
I've loved
597
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:29,400
getting back into the routine,
but being here now, yeah obviously
598
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:30,600
things were left on a really bad...
599
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:35,280
Bad terms.
It wasn't really a good feeling.
600
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:37,640
But it didn't start off this way.
601
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:43,000
You guys were one of our
strongest couples to begin with.
602
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,240
I think now is a great time
603
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:51,120
to take a look back
on how your relationship began.
604
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:52,160
Oh, my God.
605
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,280
(BLEEP).
(GIGGLES)
606
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:00,680
(WARM MUSIC)
607
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:10,760
(LAUGHS)
608
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:11,840
Hi!
609
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,360
Cam. What was your name, sorry?
Lyndall.
610
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:14,680
Lyndall, nice to meet you.
611
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,160
You're gorgeous. Very gorgeous.
Let's do this, hey?
612
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:19,640
Let's do it.
613
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:23,320
I can't wipe the smile off my face.
This is ridiculous.
614
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:24,360
(LAUGHS)
615
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,080
(SAD MUSIC)
616
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,200
I have a chronic illness
called Cystic Fibrosis.
617
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:32,640
I know about it.
618
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,040
You know about it?
Yeah.
619
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,280
(CHUCKLES)
620
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,680
Oh, my God. 'I've got you.'
(EXHALES)
621
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:41,560
(WARM MUSIC)
622
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,440
Every day,
we're getting closer, for sure.
623
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:53,920
(LAUGHS)
624
00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:59,720
(LAUGHS)
625
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:01,680
Wedding, amazing.
626
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,240
Honeymoon, amazing.
627
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,440
So Cameron, this is
your first relationship.
628
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,640
How serious is this getting?
Yeah, it's getting very serious.
629
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,320
Like, how we're going at the moment,
630
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,520
I feel very comfortable
in this relationship.
631
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,400
(MOODY MUSIC)
632
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,000
Yeah.
633
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,320
(GASPS)
What's your star sign?
634
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,400
Virgo.
Oh, Virgo.
635
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,200
(LAUGHS)
Tayla, she seemed very lovely.
636
00:34:29,240 --> 00:34:31,720
What type of music?
What type of music do you listen to?
637
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,000
Yeah, Shania Twain.
638
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:34,880
Love Shania Twain.
639
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:37,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
640
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:40,640
What's going on?
641
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:50,720
So my mum, I think she just said,
'Come on, Cam, give her a hug.'
642
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:52,720
Cam was like,
'No, I feel uncomfortable,'
643
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:53,800
and kind of got up and left.
644
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,960
I felt uncomfortable.
I felt awkward.
645
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,000
It was really weird.
I found that weird.
646
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,400
It wasn't natural.
Hugging me shouldn't feel unnatural.
647
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,880
Not a month in here.
Not a month into this.
648
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,800
So, Mum did say the affection
649
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,640
and that wanting the cuddles
could be insecurity.
650
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:18,920
(TENSE MUSIC)
651
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,920
From me?
Yeah.
652
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,440
I'm not asking for a hundred,
I'm asking for, like, one.
653
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,960
It's not that much.
654
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:33,080
(SIGHS)
655
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,760
I ask for pretty much
less than bare minimum,
656
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,520
and I'm sitting here having to
justify that I'm not insecure.
657
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,840
Like, I did not wait my whole life
658
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,120
to be begging someone for hugs
and kisses.
659
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,160
You want me to be
this all affectionate, and...
660
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,080
I honestly don't think that
I'm the right person for you.
661
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:07,920
That's where I'm at.
662
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,160
I just feel like I've been dumped
663
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,120
for the third (BLEEP) time
in a week.
664
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
665
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,800
I've been thinking about
when I first met you.
666
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:23,000
On our wedding day, you were warm,
welcoming, funny and sweet.
667
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,400
Unfortunately,
at one point or another,
668
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,520
the man I met at our wedding
started fading away.
669
00:36:31,720 --> 00:36:32,840
Over the last few weeks,
670
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:34,680
I've realised that there was never
anything I could do
671
00:36:34,720 --> 00:36:37,040
to be the partner you wanted,
because you simply don't want one.
672
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,200
This entire relationship has been on
673
00:36:43,240 --> 00:36:44,800
your terms, and yours alone.
674
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:49,600
I want to build a life I'm proud of,
and my life does not include you.
675
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,960
Well said.
Thank you. Before you start...
676
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,800
Yeah?
Just on that...
677
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,520
I just feel like
no matter what you say today,
678
00:37:05,720 --> 00:37:07,640
it's only going to
disappoint me again.
679
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,120
And I think I'm just done.
680
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,520
So...
Perfect. You can have them, then.
681
00:37:16,240 --> 00:37:18,040
(CHUCKLES)
OK.
682
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:25,920
(MOODY MUSIC)
683
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,360
(SIGHS) Jesus, guys.
684
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:43,360
How was that for you, Lyndall,
re-living your relationship?
685
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,640
I mean, the worst part
was watching the start.
686
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,120
All the affection stuff.
687
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:54,720
Like, it was there.
688
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,520
And then when it wasn't,
it felt really obvious.
689
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:03,720
And when I asked for it,
it was like,
690
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,720
nah, it was never there,
never gonna be there.
691
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:07,280
And...
692
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,520
I had a lot of hope for us.
I had a lot of...
693
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,600
I don't know, it was like, we met,
and I was just like yeah, I get it.
694
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:18,600
I get why we're put together.
695
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,440
Yeah. So...
696
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,040
(SAD MUSIC)
697
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:27,840
Was that how it was for you, Cam?
698
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,440
I felt like the pressure
of the experiment was...
699
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:36,280
I don't know, maybe I was
being someone who I wasn't.
700
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:40,320
I felt pressure to be
this affectionate person
701
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:41,680
or this and that,
702
00:38:41,720 --> 00:38:43,080
which I think we all know by now,
703
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,200
I'm not really that affectionate
a person.
704
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,720
I think affection and intimacy,
705
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,320
especially affection,
it all flows naturally
706
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,480
when you're going down the path of
falling in love with someone.
707
00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:00,680
And I'm sorry to say it,
but I wasn't.
708
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,480
If you felt pressured,
you should have told me.
709
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,560
Yeah, I should have.
Because all that stuff
710
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:13,520
at the honeymoon did not
feel pressured at all to me.
711
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:15,440
I thought we had the best time,
712
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:20,440
and it's actually incredibly hurtful
to hear that a lot of that affection
713
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,000
was because you felt pressured.
It had nothing to do
714
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:26,120
with wanting to be close to me
or wanting to be with me.
715
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,960
And there is a part of me
that really doesn't believe that,
716
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:34,080
because that is not
how my experience went.
717
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:36,240
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
718
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,040
It's incredibly hard to hear.
719
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,760
MEL: Guys, we were
watching you last night
720
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,760
of course at the dinner party,
and there was something that came up
721
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,120
that we'd like a little bit of
clarification on.
722
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,120
Particularly from you, Cam.
723
00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,440
(TENSE MUSIC)
724
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,840
I got my dick out at a nightclub.
(GROANS)
725
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,560
Oh, wow.
726
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,000
That is disgusting.
727
00:40:09,720 --> 00:40:14,040
Yes, so we understand.
That wasn't my question.
728
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:15,320
But thanks for sharing.
729
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,400
(TENSE MUSIC)
730
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:22,680
What I'm actually interested in,
731
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:27,360
is the nature of your relationship
with Tayla.
732
00:40:31,240 --> 00:40:32,680
Yeah, there's nothing
going on there.
733
00:40:32,720 --> 00:40:35,840
It was a piss-take
after the final vows.
734
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,840
(TENSE MUSIC)
735
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,000
I got naked in the nightclub,
736
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,040
while my phone
was on Facetime to Tayla,
737
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:44,240
and one of the boys was holding it.
738
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,360
So, just so we can understand
the context,
739
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:52,040
why were you on Facetime to Tayla?
740
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,840
Because I'm mates with Tayla.
741
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:00,640
I think you're trying to dig up...
742
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,120
There's nothing, nothing there.
Like...
743
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:08,360
Tayla,
744
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,120
how would you describe
your relationship with Cam?
745
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:14,600
(EXHALES)
746
00:41:15,720 --> 00:41:17,840
I really like Cam as a friend.
747
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:21,720
We get along really, really well.
748
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,120
Yeah, there's not much to it.
749
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,720
He's up in Darwin,
I'm down in Tassie.
750
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:33,600
It hasn't been explored yet.
751
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,920
Not that it is going to be explored.
752
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS)
753
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:42,920
(BLEEP).
754
00:41:46,720 --> 00:41:48,520
(GROANS) Oh, no!
755
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:04,760
Tayla, how would you describe
your relationship with Cam?
756
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:06,240
(EXHALES)
757
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,480
I really like Cam as a friend.
758
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,280
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
759
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,400
We get along really, really well.
760
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,320
Yeah, there's not much to it.
761
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,160
Like, he's up in Darwin,
I'm down in Tassie.
762
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:22,480
Um...
763
00:42:23,240 --> 00:42:24,960
It hasn't been explored yet.
764
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:28,560
Not that it is going to be explored.
765
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,880
(BLEEP), (BLEEP).
766
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,360
(STORMY MUSIC PLAYS)
767
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,320
Oh, no!
768
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,160
I didn't mean to say that.
I, um...
769
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:47,520
RUPERT: But you did.
770
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:49,560
Shut up, Rupert.
771
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:59,200
I said that, if Cam was in Tassie,
then perhaps.
772
00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:01,120
What the...?
773
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:04,600
But he's not.
774
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:12,720
He's on the other side of Australia,
which makes it really hard, so...
775
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,800
(SOMBRE MUSIC PLAYS)
776
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,520
I think that's where it ends there.
777
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:26,920
Nail in the coffin.
778
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,400
(DISQUIETING MUSIC PLAYS)
779
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,920
Listening to you last night,
Lyndall,
780
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,560
it seemed you were
under the impression
781
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,760
that perhaps something had happened
between Cam and Tayla.
782
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:39,840
It just...
783
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,120
It was something...
784
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:42,680
Like, it was this
little missing piece...
785
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:49,040
..that just made the whole thing
make sense to me.
786
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:50,080
Um...
787
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:51,640
A lot of what I experienced,
788
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:55,280
a lot of what I witnessed from both
of them throughout the experiment,
789
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,520
lots of little moments that
never really made sense before
790
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,080
started to make sense.
791
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:00,800
Yeah.
792
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,480
I just...
It was something that...
793
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:06,200
When I heard, it was like, yeah,
794
00:44:06,240 --> 00:44:09,360
look, my gut's telling me
there's something in that, for sure.
795
00:44:12,240 --> 00:44:14,560
Yeah, I just obviously wasn't ready
to be in a relationship.
796
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,800
That's the core of the issue
right there.
797
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,400
I so wish we'd all known that...
798
00:44:26,720 --> 00:44:29,320
..before going down this road
for Lyndall.
799
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:34,920
So, why did you stay
as long as you did?
800
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,520
See, there were times
801
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,920
where I did want to go home
and I wanted to stay.
802
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:47,240
The part where the final vows
803
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,680
where I didn't get my say
has really said a lot.
804
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,000
Cam, that's at the end.
805
00:44:52,720 --> 00:44:53,840
That's what, sorry?
806
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:55,040
That was at the end.
807
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,160
We're talking about why did you stay
as long as you did?
808
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,360
If you had left earlier,
'cause you weren't falling for me,
809
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,720
we wouldn't have had to go through
the entire final vows situation.
810
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,200
Yeah, but there was parts of it
811
00:45:03,240 --> 00:45:05,440
that I wanted to stay
and parts where I didn't,
812
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,040
and, when I got to the final vows,
813
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,080
I just knew I should've left
when I did.
814
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:10,120
Mate...
815
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:14,720
None of this makes any sense to me.
816
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:19,680
It's incredibly hurtful.
817
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:25,080
And I went through so much crap
thinking that you were in this
818
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,200
or that eventually
you would be in this.
819
00:45:29,240 --> 00:45:31,600
I think not falling in love
with someone is perfectly fine.
820
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,560
It is perfectly fine,
but your behaviour wasn't fine.
821
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:41,080
Sitting here watching
the two of you tonight,
822
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:45,120
and listening to
the depth of experience
823
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,280
that you've described, Lyndall,
824
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,920
and watching your response here,
Cam,
825
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:56,160
I can't help but feel
you have a very casual reaction
826
00:45:56,200 --> 00:46:01,960
to something that is quite deep
and meaningful here for Lyndall,
827
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:05,120
and it just...
it feels a little bit dismissive.
828
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,120
What, how I'm sitting?
829
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:12,200
No, not the way
you're sitting, mate.
830
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:16,360
You're saying things like,
"Could've done better.
831
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:17,640
"Maybe I wasn't ready."
832
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:20,240
"Felt a bit of pressure."
833
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,200
Pretty low-key, casual reactions
834
00:46:24,240 --> 00:46:28,160
to something that Lyndall
has described as, really,
835
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,280
quite significant in her life.
836
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,360
There was a lot of pain here.
837
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,160
Well, I'm sorry for the way
that I acted, but I...
838
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:40,520
Yeah, it just...
Are you?
839
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,000
Well, I can sit here and say sorry.
840
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,840
You can say whatever you want,
you have never once acted
841
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:50,600
like you have much care at all
for how much you hurt me.
842
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:53,840
So, where's that leave me?
What do I say?
843
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,200
I can sit here and apologise
but it's not...
844
00:46:56,240 --> 00:47:00,200
I'm not saying, "Say anything, Cam,"
I'm telling you, "Do better."
845
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,800
And you should've done that
the whole experiment.
846
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,000
(FRAUGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
847
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:08,320
Be better.
848
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,240
Righto.
Have some (BLEEP) integrity.
849
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,440
Rightio. Gotcha.
850
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:21,040
Cam, Lyndall's
just given you a gift.
851
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:26,400
You know, it's not often that
we see a couple that have broken up
852
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:29,520
sit on this couch and have
one partner give the other
853
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,760
some real advice
for their next relationship,
854
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,640
so I'd really heed that.
855
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:37,800
It's good advice.
856
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,840
If you can take that advice
on board,
857
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:44,280
you'll be in a much better place
next time round.
858
00:47:46,720 --> 00:47:47,760
(SIGHS)
859
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:49,440
What I want to say to you, Lyndall,
860
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:55,080
is you are at a significant
turning point in your life.
861
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:59,560
You know, you've been given
this incredible new lease on life.
862
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:02,280
You've had this experience with Cam.
863
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:07,440
But you've got this amazing future
now laid out in front of you,
864
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:09,520
and I think you're a person
865
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,960
who's gonna make an incredible
difference in this world.
866
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,760
And I cannot wait to observe that.
867
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:17,520
Thank you.
868
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:18,880
Thank you, both.
869
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,600
We've really enjoyed having you here
and wish you both all the best.
870
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:24,920
Cheers, guys.
Thank you.
871
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,080
Appreciate it. Thank you.
JOHN: Thanks, guys.
872
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:28,680
(APPLAUSE)
873
00:48:28,720 --> 00:48:31,400
(GENTLE MUSIC PLAYS)
874
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,520
(EXHALES)
875
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:41,120
Alright, let's get
our next couple up.
876
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,520
Alyssa and Duncan.
877
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:46,880
Alright...
878
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,000
(APPLAUSE)
879
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:53,040
Hi.
880
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:54,400
ALESSANDRA: Hi.
881
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:56,960
DUNCAN: Hey.
882
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,800
Last night was a huge night
for you both, wasn't it?
883
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:03,800
Yeah.
884
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:05,480
A lot of emotion in the air.
885
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,760
You were very angry last night.
886
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:11,640
I was very angry.
887
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:15,960
And had a lot of hurtful things
to say about Duncan.
888
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:21,000
Have you had a chance to reflect
on what happened last night
889
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,680
and process all of that emotion?
890
00:49:23,720 --> 00:49:25,760
(TENSE MUSIC PLAYS)
891
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:28,400
Um...
892
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,880
Last night was a huge night
for you both, wasn't it?
893
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,120
Yeah.
894
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:47,640
A lot of emotion in the air.
895
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:51,120
Alyssa, you seemed to have a lot
to get off your chest last night.
896
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:52,920
Um...
897
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,200
Yeah, I definitely did.
898
00:49:55,240 --> 00:50:01,480
I'm clearly shocked of our ending
and, you know, really heartbroken.
899
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:03,480
You were very angry last night.
900
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,120
I was very angry.
901
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:08,080
(SOMBRE MUSIC PLAYS)
902
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:10,960
Duncan, last night,
was that confronting for you?
903
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:17,520
I don't hold anything against Alyssa
for wanting to vent
904
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:23,480
or to explain, I guess, how she felt
about the end of the experiment.
905
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:28,000
Um, I still think there were
some things said last night
906
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,120
that was around, like,
my character...
907
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:35,400
..and not around the relationship,
which I don't think is fair.
908
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,680
What kind of things, specifically?
909
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:43,400
Alyssa said, "Take your mask off."
910
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:48,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC RACES)
911
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:55,160
Why did you say that, Alyssa?
912
00:50:55,200 --> 00:51:00,080
I feel like Duncan led me
through this experiment,
913
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:04,400
saying, "I want to work
through this together with you."
914
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:08,800
And then, at the end, for him
to say, "No, it's not for me..."
915
00:51:10,240 --> 00:51:12,960
..I just didn't expect it
so I feel like...
916
00:51:14,720 --> 00:51:17,240
..yeah, I feel like
I didn't know who he was.
917
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:22,280
I'm...
918
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:26,080
I don't think that that's right.
919
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:28,440
And I just...
920
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,120
That is not fair.
921
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:35,160
Relationships are not
black and white.
922
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,320
Like, my heart was in it.
923
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,000
I wanted it to work.
924
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:44,520
I didn't come here to go to the end
and then not be in love.
925
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:49,920
And it sucks, right,
that it didn't work out.
926
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:56,840
Well, there's no question that the
two of you started off very strong.
927
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:02,000
And for the most part
really remained stable.
928
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:07,040
Then, in the experiment, later on,
there was a real shift.
929
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,480
(SOLEMN PIANO MUSIC PLAYS)
930
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:11,480
So, let's take a look
931
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:14,920
at your relationship
throughout this experiment.
932
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:20,760
(MAJESTIC MUSIC PLAYS)
933
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,920
Hi! Alyssa.
I'm Duncan.
934
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,000
Duncan, nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, too.
935
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:26,360
Let's get married.
Yeah.
936
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:27,560
(LAUGHTER)
937
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:33,840
I think it's pretty clear
that I'm falling for Duncan.
938
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:35,880
(GIGGLING)
939
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:44,160
So, how are things going
with you guys?
940
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:50,200
Why would somebody like Duncan
want to date a single mom,
941
00:52:50,240 --> 00:52:53,120
like, when there's other women
that don't have kids?
942
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:56,640
I just have, like,
a lot of baggage with, like...
943
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,440
I guess it's like
a bit of self-sabotage,
944
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:01,120
but I just, like,
have a really hard time
945
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,480
of, like, feeling deserving of it.
946
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:05,280
(DARK MUSIC PLAYS)
947
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:06,960
What, nuh, let's talk about it.
948
00:53:08,720 --> 00:53:12,440
Give me attention, I need attention,
because I haven't had any.
949
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,440
Can I hug you?
No.
950
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:20,480
I need a lot from Duncan.
951
00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:22,120
I need to be checked in on
all the time.
952
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,040
Hey, I need attention.
953
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:27,160
I do feel like I'm bangin' my head
against the wall.
954
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:31,520
It feels like a bit
of self-sabotage.
955
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,560
Because I have a child,
956
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:36,600
I'm available every other weekend
and on every Wednesday.
957
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:41,040
Yeah, I guess the reality of it all
will really come
958
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,880
when we're spending time with each
other outside of the experiment.
959
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:45,520
So...you can say
that you're OK with it
960
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:46,880
but then, like,
you really don't know.
961
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:47,920
FRIEND: Yeah.
962
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:51,360
(GLOOMY MUSIC PLAYS)
963
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:55,880
I think it's a deeper-seated issue
that sort of manifests itself
964
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:59,880
into picking apart my behaviour,
which is not fair.
965
00:53:59,920 --> 00:54:03,120
So, what do you think
about that, Alyssa?
966
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:07,200
I have a child.
967
00:54:07,240 --> 00:54:10,360
(DARK, GLOOMY MUSIC PLAYS)
968
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:11,480
CLAIRE: Oh, babe.
969
00:54:14,240 --> 00:54:16,520
I want to be there for you.
(ELEVATOR BELL DINGS)
970
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,000
So, you don't want me to come?
971
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:25,920
Nuh?
972
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:36,040
I feel more rejected
in this relationship
973
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,480
than any relationship I've been in.
974
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:41,920
I can't believe
I'm (BLEEP) crying.
975
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,600
(PENSIVE MUSIC PLAYS)
976
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,400
I realised that relationships
aren't always easy,
977
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:54,720
but I'm just not used to this much
conflict in a relationship.
978
00:54:57,360 --> 00:55:00,520
I don't want to hurt you and I don't
want to continue getting hurt.
979
00:55:02,720 --> 00:55:04,520
So, I have to say goodbye.
980
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:18,040
(ALYSSA SOBBING)
981
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:29,040
(SOMBRE MUSIC ENDS)
982
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:32,880
Whew, that was a lot.
983
00:55:35,240 --> 00:55:37,280
(DUNCAN GROANS UNDER HIS BREATH)
984
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:45,760
Alyssa, when you watch that back,
what goes through your mind?
985
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:48,200
Um, it's hard, right?
986
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:53,600
Not every day you can watch
a whole relationship
987
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,080
kind of crumble
in front of your face.
988
00:55:56,680 --> 00:55:58,320
Um...
989
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:01,480
In the beginning...
990
00:56:02,720 --> 00:56:05,480
..we just had, like,
such a connection.
991
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:12,800
I was so ready
to share everything with him.
992
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:14,360
But watching it back...
993
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:19,480
..I should've seen it coming,
absolutely should've seen it coming.
994
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,200
Yeah, there were
a lot of times where...
995
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:28,080
..I probably shouldn't
have just walked away,
996
00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:30,480
and I shouldn't have been
emotionally charged,
997
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,760
and been able to
sit in a conversation
998
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,640
and really hash things out with
Duncan and give him what he needed.
999
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:38,680
Um...
1000
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:42,400
And I think I'm very emotional.
1001
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:50,200
I do regret, um, a lot of things
through this experiment,
1002
00:56:50,240 --> 00:56:53,280
and I never wanted to hurt Duncan
and so I really am sorry.
1003
00:56:55,720 --> 00:56:56,840
I'm sorry.
1004
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:04,160
Duncan?
Any final words for Alyssa?
1005
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:07,160
(GENTLE PIANO MUSIC PLAYS)
1006
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:10,840
Um, I'm sorry that
it didn't work out.
1007
00:57:11,720 --> 00:57:13,240
I truly am.
1008
00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:16,880
You know, we've broken up
1009
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:20,120
but I still want to say, like, I
think that you're an amazing woman,
1010
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:22,360
and I think that you should, like,
1011
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:26,520
hold yourself with the confidence
that you should have about yourself.
1012
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,240
(STIRRING MUSIC PLAYS)
1013
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:41,680
What would you like to say to Duncan
now in parting?
1014
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:44,000
Um...
1015
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:50,120
I hope you do, you know,
find that person.
1016
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:54,720
And, um...
1017
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,080
..yeah, I'm sorry.
1018
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:01,280
Alright, guys,
1019
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,760
well, this has been an incredibly
difficult time for you.
1020
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:07,280
It wasn't the outcome that either of
you wanted when you first started.
1021
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:11,840
Try to take some learnings
away from it.
1022
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:13,200
Definitely.
Um...
1023
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:17,200
In a strange way, sitting on a couch
1024
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:23,040
discussing and unpacking your
break-up with us, while it is hard,
1025
00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:28,360
you can get a lot out of it, and I'm
hoping, tonight, it's gonna send you
1026
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:32,520
on your way much better equipped
to cope with your next relationship.
1027
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:36,200
So, with that, guys,
we wish you all the best.
1028
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:38,520
Thank you.
Thank you.
1029
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:40,000
Good luck, guys.
Thanks.
1030
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:41,360
MEL: All the best, guys.
1031
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,000
(APPLAUSE)
1032
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:56,840
Well, let's get our last couple
up on the couch.
1033
00:58:58,360 --> 00:58:59,720
Jesse and Claire.
1034
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,720
(UPLIFTING MUSIC PLAYS)
1035
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:09,680
Hello, you two.
Hi.
1036
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,240
Hello.
I'm so nervous.
1037
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:16,440
Alright.
Let's do this.
1038
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:27,520
I have to say that, for a couple
that parted ways in this experiment,
1039
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:30,680
it's so refreshing and so lovely
1040
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:36,200
to feel and see the energy
and the respect, uh...
1041
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:39,760
I don't want to say love
because it's not like being in love,
1042
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:40,920
but love.
1043
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:44,000
Yeah, there's big love, absolutely.
1044
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:49,560
Tell us how you've come to
this place in your relationship.
1045
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:51,760
You've gone through so much.
1046
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,920
Help us understand how you got here.
1047
00:59:54,960 --> 01:00:00,520
Well, to credit Jesse, I think he
said, um, forgiveness is a choice.
1048
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:07,520
And even though I disrespected Jesse
in the betrayal,
1049
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,760
I think, um...
1050
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:15,440
..it was clear that
he respected me enough back
1051
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:19,120
to try and rebuild
and move forward, and...
1052
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:25,720
..I guess, I'm so grateful that I
was matched with someone like Jesse.
1053
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:30,520
Yeah.
1054
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:37,760
Jesse, you seem to be
a different guy
1055
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:43,560
sitting on the couch here tonight to
what you were like in the beginning.
1056
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:47,800
Sometimes, words landed
quite hard on Claire.
1057
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:50,000
How do you think you've changed now
1058
01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:54,240
in terms of moving forward
into a next relationship?
1059
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:57,080
I think I could've thought
a bit more...
1060
01:00:58,280 --> 01:00:59,840
..before speaking.
1061
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:04,080
(GENTLE PIANO MUSIC PLAYS)
1062
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:06,200
Yeah, I'm not perfect, either.
1063
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:09,400
I know I upset Claire
a couple of times on the honeymoon.
1064
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:13,160
I had this silly mindset coming in,
when I look back in hindsight,
1065
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:16,960
with all these frickin' standards,
you know?
1066
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:23,280
How's anyone supposed to, like,
get through that, you know?
1067
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:26,080
That's really cool
that you picked up on that,
1068
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:29,120
and brought it to yourself.
1069
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,560
It's definitely been
a roller-coaster ride,
1070
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:33,600
your relationship.
1071
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:35,800
Mm.
I think we should take a look.
1072
01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:37,320
(LOUD EXHALE)
1073
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:38,640
Let's do this.
1074
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:47,280
(MAJESTIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1075
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:51,120
Oh, my God!
1076
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:55,200
She's ungodly hot.
1077
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:57,760
(LAUGHTER)
1078
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:01,800
Oh, my God, we are so weird,
I love it.
1079
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:03,960
That is crazy.
We were so cute.
1080
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:07,760
I don't know where love has
been hiding all these years.
1081
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:11,120
I swear I'm shining so brightly.
1082
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:12,680
(BLEEP), yeah, you are.
1083
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:15,160
(LAUGHTER)
1084
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:18,320
Oh, my God, look at the water.
1085
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,000
Oh, my God, amazing.
1086
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:21,800
Yeah, nuh, you're not my person.
1087
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:23,560
I'm (BLEEP) done here.
1088
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:30,000
A bunch of us decided
to go out to a pub.
1089
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:32,640
ADAM: What's up, Jesse?
1090
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:35,680
And throughout the night,
I'm noticing, like,
1091
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:40,600
the leaning in from Claire to Adam,
and the touching of his arms.
1092
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:42,480
The point where it became
a problem for me...
1093
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:43,640
Oh, (BLEEP).
1094
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:49,000
..was when the two of them
left the table to be alone.
1095
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:51,200
Claire goes missing.
1096
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:53,880
I'm thinking,
"This (BLEEP) Adam dog."
1097
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:57,560
What do you want from me,
to stroke your ego
1098
01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:00,800
and tell you, "Oh, you have
nothing to worry about, Jesse?
1099
01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:03,400
"Oh, I wasn't on the phone
to anybody."
1100
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:04,760
What do you want from me?
1101
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,400
Bang out of order from him coming
in here, trying to see my phone.
1102
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:09,120
Do you think that's
normal behaviour?
1103
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:10,840
You are out of line!
1104
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:13,480
You're paranoid, mate.
1105
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:14,800
You come through my door
and you said,
1106
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:17,920
"Show me your phone,"
'cause your own insecurities.
1107
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:22,000
Like, what you did
on Saturday night was not on.
1108
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:24,240
MEL: Would Jesse have any reason
1109
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:26,400
to think that you
might go home with...?
1110
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:27,720
No, absolutely not.
1111
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:30,720
What I did was wrong.
1112
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,280
I need to win back the trust.
1113
01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:35,520
I like this one.
1114
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:36,800
I feel so guilty.
1115
01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:38,920
Yeah, here's to...
How hot you look.
1116
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:41,200
He doesn't know the truth.
1117
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:44,120
I wrote 'stay'.
1118
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,240
I'm carrying this big secret.
1119
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:47,360
Cute.
1120
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1121
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:05,560
I just... I knew it, you know?
1122
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:07,480
That Adam, bro, what a dog.
1123
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:11,720
I thought you were
bringing me out here,
1124
01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:14,320
like, to call it off,
to break up with me.
1125
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:17,720
Yeah.
1126
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:21,800
I couldn't have imagined
anything worse than that,
1127
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:25,080
and then you actually said
something worse than that.
1128
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,600
(FRAUGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
1129
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:38,760
(BLEEP)!
1130
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:40,760
(SOBBING)
1131
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:42,040
(SIGHS AND SOBS)
1132
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:43,520
(BLEEP).
1133
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:46,720
(SOBBING)
1134
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:49,680
I can feel the adrenaline
1135
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:53,680
already starting to move through
my body when I think of Adam.
1136
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:59,520
He is an absolute dog of dogs.
1137
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:00,640
How did it happen?
1138
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:03,640
What do you mean, how did it happen?
How did it happen, Adam?
1139
01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:04,720
Do you even know?
1140
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:06,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC RACES)
1141
01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:07,040
Tell me!
1142
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:08,800
All I know is that
you hooked up with her.
1143
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:11,240
Yeah, OK, but there's a lot more
to it than that, isn't there?
1144
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:13,040
Holy shit.
1145
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,320
I feel really awful
for hurting Janelle.
1146
01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:21,080
(SOBBING)
1147
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:24,240
And for hurting Jesse.
1148
01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:28,400
(SOBBING)
1149
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:30,600
I've chosen to leave.
1150
01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:38,000
I chose to stay and try and earn
back Jesse's trust and forgiveness.
1151
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:41,240
Good game.
1152
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:45,640
This is a very different couple.
1153
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:47,920
Whoo!
1154
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:49,280
Come here, you.
1155
01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:50,720
What has allowed us
1156
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:53,600
to take us from where we were last
week to where we are this week...
1157
01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:58,160
With Jesse and I, moving forward,
anything is possible.
1158
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:04,440
Claire, Bronte said
that you're only here
1159
01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:06,760
to repair your image
after what you did to Jesse.
1160
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:08,640
Bro, shut the (BLEEP) up, Harrison.
1161
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:11,480
Seriously, shut the (BLEEP) up.
1162
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:12,680
Do you know what you need to do?
1163
01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:14,960
You need to take off that shirt
and stick it on a pole
1164
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:17,760
and wave it around 'cause
you're a giant red (BLEEP) flag.
1165
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:19,320
MAN: Bro!
1166
01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:23,760
I'm sorry, Claire.
1167
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:25,360
It's OK.
I'm sorry to say this.
1168
01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:28,880
How can I trust that the
reason you wanted to stay
1169
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,920
was to build a connection with me
and not to repair your image?
1170
01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:34,320
(TENSE MUSIC PLAYS)
1171
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:37,560
And this is the problem
that cheating does.
1172
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:41,120
I chose to leave.
1173
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:43,560
(STIRRING MUSIC PLAYS)
1174
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:47,200
And I also wrote 'leave'.
1175
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:49,920
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1176
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:53,080
I'm talking to all of you
but particularly Harrison,
1177
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:57,440
you throw grenades like that,
they can do untold damage.
1178
01:06:57,480 --> 01:07:00,920
(MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
1179
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:10,880
(GENTLE PIANO MUSIC PLAYS)
1180
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:15,960
(SIGHS)
1181
01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:20,320
How was that to watch back?
1182
01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:23,000
Claire?
1183
01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:26,120
That was really hard to watch.
1184
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:28,280
I, um...
1185
01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:31,040
I feel really...
1186
01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:36,200
..disgusted in myself and
embarrassed by some of my behaviour,
1187
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:41,600
by lying, by gaslighting Jesse
1188
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,880
and telling him he has nothing to
worry about when I knew that he did.
1189
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:49,480
Yeah, it's pretty shit.
1190
01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:56,840
Jesse, where are you right now?
1191
01:07:57,560 --> 01:07:59,240
Yeah, just, you know, like...
1192
01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,640
..goin' back
through it all mentally.
1193
01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:07,240
It's a tough watch.
1194
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:08,600
Yeah.
1195
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:17,720
This has been really difficult
for us to watch, as well,
1196
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:24,080
because you two were
a very, very exciting couple
1197
01:08:24,120 --> 01:08:29,280
that we put together, and just
the potential that you both had,
1198
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:35,760
and so to see it unravel the way
that it did was heartbreaking.
1199
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:39,160
What sort of feelings
did you develop, Jesse,
1200
01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:41,680
for Claire during the experiment?
1201
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:43,480
Hm!
1202
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:46,160
Well, yeah, you know?
1203
01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:48,760
I liked her.
1204
01:08:56,000 --> 01:08:58,480
I liked her enough to get jealous.
1205
01:08:58,520 --> 01:08:59,600
Yeah.
1206
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:03,680
I liked her enough to, you know,
cry over the bad news.
1207
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:09,680
I liked her enough
to, you know, I guess,
1208
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,560
forgive her to the point
which I did.
1209
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:12,600
You know?
1210
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:19,200
Adam?
1211
01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:23,000
Oh, no.
1212
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:25,640
When you watch that back,
1213
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:30,000
the betrayal, the deceit,
what does that do to you?
1214
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:32,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1215
01:09:46,440 --> 01:09:49,360
(FRAUGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
1216
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:51,320
Adam.
1217
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:55,120
Oh, no.
1218
01:09:55,160 --> 01:09:57,840
When you watch that back,
1219
01:09:57,880 --> 01:10:03,280
the betrayal, the deceit,
what does that do to you?
1220
01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:05,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1221
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:07,720
Um...
1222
01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:10,680
Yeah, like...
1223
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:14,040
Yeah, sorry about the whole thing.
1224
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:16,760
Like, I've had time to
think about it all and...
1225
01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:21,600
..the fact of the matter is, man,
I did you wrong, did you dirty,
1226
01:10:21,640 --> 01:10:26,840
same with Janelle, and, yeah, I've
really, like, understood it all now,
1227
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:28,440
and it's definitely hit home.
1228
01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:31,480
Do you accept the apology, Jesse?
1229
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:34,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1230
01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:46,240
I do.
1231
01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:49,960
Appreciate that, bro.
1232
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:54,800
I would also like to
say to Adam that...
1233
01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:58,240
..I wish you the best, you know,
1234
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:03,200
and I'm not gonna let
what happened hang over my head
1235
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:07,880
like a dark cloud and take this, you
know, drag it around like an anchor.
1236
01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:13,280
Yeah, like, we might not be
full buds going forward.
1237
01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:14,960
Fair enough.
But I do...
1238
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:16,360
I wish you the best.
Same, bro.
1239
01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:18,440
Alright?
Cheers, man.
1240
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:26,040
Jesse, this experience, I know, has
not been easy, the journey for you.
1241
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:29,920
What have you learned from
being in this experiment?
1242
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:32,360
What have I learnt?
1243
01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:33,640
Oh, my God.
1244
01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:35,440
Learnt so many things.
1245
01:11:35,480 --> 01:11:38,040
Wish I had something prepared
for ya.
1246
01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:40,400
Whatever comes to mind.
1247
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:46,200
I have learnt to trust my intuition.
1248
01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:49,360
(LAUGHTER)
1249
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:53,840
I've also learnt that...
to know that I can be...
1250
01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:56,120
..better.
1251
01:11:57,480 --> 01:12:03,480
To know that there's more of myself
to realise and grow into.
1252
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:05,560
Mm.
Um...
1253
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:07,960
'Cause I...
(CHUCKLES NERVOUSLY)
1254
01:12:08,000 --> 01:12:09,880
'Cause I thought coming into this
1255
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:13,080
that I was, like,
a good guy, you know?
1256
01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:14,840
(SOFT LAUGHTER)
1257
01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:16,720
But now I feel like
I'm an even better guy.
1258
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:17,960
(LAUGHTER)
1259
01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:19,200
Love that.
1260
01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:25,320
What about you, Claire, any regrets?
1261
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:26,720
Oh, just one.
1262
01:12:26,760 --> 01:12:28,800
One particular night.
1263
01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:35,160
But, um, I think
that it's shone a light
1264
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:37,640
on me and my behaviours.
1265
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:43,800
Seeking validation
from outside sources
1266
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:47,960
when I'm not happy in myself, maybe
that's not the way to go about it.
1267
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:52,360
I regret hurting Jesse,
1268
01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:57,200
and I'm so grateful for the respect
that he's given back to me.
1269
01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:00,680
You know that...
1270
01:13:00,720 --> 01:13:04,400
You know how sorry I obviously am
for everything,
1271
01:13:04,440 --> 01:13:06,880
and I feel like this...
1272
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:11,000
The end of the experiment
was the beginning of a new leaf,
1273
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:13,400
and I want to be able
to continue that.
1274
01:13:13,440 --> 01:13:15,440
Yeah, well said.
Yeah.
1275
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:18,000
Yes, indeed.
1276
01:13:18,040 --> 01:13:20,520
How do you feel about Jesse
when you sit here now with him?
1277
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:21,960
Oh, I...
1278
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:23,600
I don't know if it's weird to say
1279
01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:27,080
but I really, like,
I love who Jesse is as a person.
1280
01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:30,280
I love his uniqueness,
his quirkiness,
1281
01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:33,800
his 'stay metal', you know?
1282
01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:34,960
I...
1283
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:41,760
I have a lot of kind,
happy, great feelings
1284
01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:43,200
about Jesse.
1285
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:49,120
Aw!
1286
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:51,440
Jesse, have you got any
parting words for Claire?
1287
01:13:52,320 --> 01:13:53,680
Um...
1288
01:13:55,480 --> 01:13:56,560
No, I don't...
1289
01:13:58,120 --> 01:13:59,280
..because...
1290
01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:02,240
..she's coming to Perth.
1291
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:03,800
(UPLIFTING MUSIC PLAYS)
1292
01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:05,840
What?
1293
01:14:05,880 --> 01:14:07,080
Whoa!
1294
01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:10,160
Yeah.
1295
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:16,040
So, my parting words now
are see you in Perth.
1296
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:17,880
(LAUGHTER)
Whoo!
1297
01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:20,440
(APPLAUSE)
1298
01:14:20,480 --> 01:14:22,160
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1299
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:29,560
MEL: Watch this space.
ALESSANDRA: I love it.
1300
01:14:29,600 --> 01:14:31,080
I'm gonna cry.
1301
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:33,680
Good luck
and we look forward to seeing
1302
01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:35,360
what happens to you in the future.
1303
01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:37,440
Thank you so much.
Thank you.
1304
01:14:37,480 --> 01:14:38,640
Thanks.
See you later, guys.
1305
01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:41,280
(APPLAUSE)
1306
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:52,920
Well, that brings our reunion
to an end.
1307
01:14:52,960 --> 01:14:57,400
Thank you so much for being brave
enough to come into this experiment,
1308
01:14:57,440 --> 01:14:59,840
and try and find the fairy-tale.
1309
01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:04,120
For a number of you,
you were able to find true love.
1310
01:15:07,440 --> 01:15:10,600
For others, you didn't
get what you came for.
1311
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:15,480
However, this has been
an incredible process.
1312
01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:20,560
You've faced challenges
that most couples typically get
1313
01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:25,600
over several years in
a very short, intense space of time.
1314
01:15:26,480 --> 01:15:28,360
You've embraced the experiment,
1315
01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:34,920
you've come through it, you've been
raw and we are so grateful for that.
1316
01:15:35,480 --> 01:15:38,240
And for those of you
that are still searching for love,
1317
01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:41,600
we hope that you find
that special someone in the future.
1318
01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:45,640
For now, good luck and thank you.
1319
01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:48,680
MEL: Thanks, everyone.
ALESSANDRA: Thank you so much.
1320
01:15:50,080 --> 01:15:51,560
Oh!
1321
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:53,920
(MAJESTIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1322
01:15:57,720 --> 01:16:00,880
(ANIMATED CHATTER)
1323
01:16:03,440 --> 01:16:04,680
OLLIE: I'm buzzin'.
1324
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:07,080
(ANIMATED CHATTER)
1325
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:14,320
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