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KATE LANGBROEK:
They came looking for love.
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KRISTY: Everyone deserves
a second chance.
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KATE: 13 single parents...
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KAYLA: Find me a sexy step-mumma!
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..were nominated by their children
to find romance at the retreat.
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PETULA: I'm ready now and I do want
to be swept off my feet.
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DARREN: How do you reckon
the kids are going?
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KATE: Welcome to the surveillance
room.
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(LAUGHTER)
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KATE: As the kids...
(GASPS)
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..AKA the dating consultants,
secretly watched on...
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(LAUGHS)
Look at my mum's face!
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HAYDN: We shouldn't be watching
but I can't look away.
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Turn it off, turn it off!
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..one by one...
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I'm sorry, Charlie.
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It's you, Marette. I'm sorry.
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Mel...
I want to go home.
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Tim and Neil.
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..those unable to make
a connection left.
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MEL: You know what,
I can do anything.
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KATE: Then...
That was a little bit.
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..four love-struck couples
remained...
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(LAUGHS)
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MICHELLE: To the lovebirds!
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..and...
(LAUGHTER)
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..they found so much more.
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HEATH: How amazing!
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..than they could've ever imagined.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS)
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Yes, Mum!
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KATE: Until...
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Your children have been watching
your every move.
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(LAUGHTER)
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..their worlds
were turned upside-down.
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Your children will decide
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if they think you're right
for each other.
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Oh, my god!
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PETULA: If the kids
don't accept us...
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Oh!
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..it's a deal-breaker.
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KATE: Yes, those same kids
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who chose their parents
to find grown-up love,
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now have the power of veto.
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PRISCILLA: I just want
the best for my mum.
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KATE: Who will get
their children's blessing...
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MILLI: My mum deserves the best.
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KAYLA: I don't know
whether to say yes or no.
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..and a second chance at love?
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DARREN: Petula and I are nervous.
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You're not dating an individual.
You're dating a family.
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KATE: Will fairytales come to an end?
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SACHEM: I will easily say no...
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KATE: Or will wishes be granted?
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Here's to new friendships
and grown-up love!
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(CHEERING)
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(UPBEAT LIVELY MUSIC)
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KATE: It's the final day
at the retreat
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as our lovebirds
emerge from the nest.
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# Oh, I need somebody
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# Who knows how not to run away...
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Yum!
Hey, guys, breakfast is here!
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Giddy up.
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I'm absolutely starving!
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KATE: They've worked up an appetite
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despite last night leaving
an unexpected taste in their mouth.
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How did everyone sleep
for their last night in the retreat?
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(SCOFFS) Did you?
Terrible.
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So, it's the morning
of the blessing ceremony
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and we're all a bit wary.
We don't know how it's going to go.
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Last night, we found out
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that the kids had been watching us
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and being the dating experts.
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We all need the kids to give us
their approval and their blessing
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and that's where we're all sort of
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starting to second-guess
our relationships
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and the things that we've done
the house.
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So, how do we reckon the kids
are going to go
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with blessing all of us?
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I'm petrified.
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Oh, my god. You know when
your mind's just thinking back?
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I am who I am and I like
to be the life of the party
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but I was slightly concerned
on a few occasions,
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or maybe more than a few occasions.
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The question that I got about
what was the biggest age gap?
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That was probably a low-light.
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While we were all sitting
in that room stalking our parents,
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I saw a different side to Darren,
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and I have to sit there
and now decide
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if I want to see Darren and Mum's
relationship prosper
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and give them my blessing
or not my blessing.
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Hmm... Them skeletons
come out the cupboard.
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Yeah, anyway.
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I'm just not sure how much footage
the kids have seen.
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There could have been
one little thing that Kayla has seen
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and decided, no, that's it.
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Kayla means the world to Shane
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and if Kayla doesn't give us
her blessing,
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that could be the end of us.
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I am not a crier or P like, I don't
normally act like that.
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Yeah.
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But yeah, obviously, to Kayla,
that's really embarrassing
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'cause it does look like
I'm a big diva.
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KAYLA: I feel like what I've seen
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will have an impact
on the blessing ceremony.
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Alright, hands in. Come on.
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Hands in.
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One, two, three.
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ALL: Yay!
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Oh, my god!
Whoa!
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I just got goosebumps.
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KATE: For the last time,
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the surveillance screens
in the bunker are switched off.
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Wow!
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KATE: The next time the kids lay eyes
on their parents will be in person.
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There'll be no more spy cams
to hide behind then.
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We have to start really realising
our fairytale is coming to an end.
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Yeah, I agree.
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Pshh!
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And we have to start being serious.
Yeah.
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It's like make a big decision,
you know,
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and we all can't kind of jump
to one answer too quickly.
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Whoo!
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KATE: Waiting alone in the retreat,
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our single parents
are deep in thought
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after being told their little
munchkins are on the way.
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They haven't spoken to their kids
in a few weeks.
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Oh, the anticipation.
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# So, I'm coming home, home...
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KATE: For the kids, this short visit
with their parents
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and then their partners
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is their last opportunity to decide
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whether they'll give their tick
of approval
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to their parents' relationship
ahead of today's blessing ceremony...
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I have a massive decision
in front of me
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and I need to speak one-on-one
with my mum and away from Darren.
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Those are real hard one-to-one
questions.
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I think our mother-son relationship
has always been close,
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and for my mum, my opinion
truly matters.
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# So, I'm coming home, home...
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TESS: So, I walk into the retreat
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and I am just over the moon.
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I cannot wait to give
my dad, Darren, a big cuddle
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and just hold him
and just know that he's been OK.
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I mean, I talk to my dad
at least ten times a day every day,
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so it's been hard having
no connection with him
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or communication,
so I just can't wait.
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I cannot wait to see him.
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(CRIES)
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(TENDER MUSIC)
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(TENDER MUSIC CONTINUES)
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(GASPS)
DRHYS: Hello, hello, hello!
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(LAUGHTER)
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I've missed you.
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(LAUGHTER)
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You can't be like this, Mum.
I'm going to cry.
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PETULA: Drhys is my rock.
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He wants the best for me
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and if Drhys tells me today
that I don't have his blessing,
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Darren and I will be over.
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You've been watching everything?
I've been watching everything.
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Everything?
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Everything!
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(LAUGHTER)
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The striptease, everything!
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(LAUGHS)
Do know how many times I sat there
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just like my head in my hands,
going, "Oh, my god."
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"I could melt into this couch
right now."?
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(LAUGHTER)
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Meeting Petula was great
I knew you'd like her calmness.
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TESS: I really like Petula
but I do have some concerns.
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Dad lives in Victoria,
Petula lives in Western Australia.
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I just think
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it will likely be a deal breaker.
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I know how much your love language
is affection,
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and, you know, I would never
picture you working
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in a long-distance relationship.
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There's 1,700 km from WA.
Yeah.
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That's a real hard thing.
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Oh, god, yeah.
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Yeah, I really need to know,
what drew you to Darren?
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What drew me to Darren?
Yeah.
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He spoke about his kids.
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He spoke about his kids
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and, you know, and he got emotional
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and my heart just, like,
just jumped out of my chest.
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That was it, and he's funny
and charismatic
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and, you know, says silly things
and you've probably seen...
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Oh, he's...
..he's done some striptease
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on the table.
Oh, we saw that. Don't worry.
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I haven't even seen that.
You wait.
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It was great to see Mum.
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It was great to talk to her
and see her face-to-face
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and not through a screen.
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Her happiness is like
the biggest thing to me in the world
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and it definitely helped
with my decision.
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I love you, Mum.
Love you.
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Alright.
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# Hey...
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KATE: Now, all the kids
need a little help
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to come to a final decision.
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# The children of the revolution...
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KATE: Perhaps none more so
than Roe's son, Sachem...
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How are you doing, man?
Man, good, good.
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Mum!
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..and Carole's daughter, Priscilla...
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I missed you!
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..who witnessed their parents'
rather steamy pillow talk.
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There was some fall-on stuff there.
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(LAUGHTER)
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Like, wow!
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How can I change Carole?
How can I...
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You can't change Carole
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but does everything
have to be sexual?
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I've had a big drought.
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I don't care.
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And my man is hot, man.
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Physically and that, definitely,
that's...
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Oh, we know.
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Reow! Sorry, I couldn't help it.
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Sorry.
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There is a strong physical
attraction there with Roe.
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I think my mum's put herself
out there a lot
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and I think that he's just not
reciprocating the same
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and I really don't want to see her
get hurt.
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She's attractive, fun, outgoing,
you know, takes charge, you know,
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that's who I normally date.
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However, what is a challenge
for me is,
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she mentioned the other day
that I made her feel loved.
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You're throwing that word out there.
That's a precious word.
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It really is.
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I don't know why Dad
has these walls guarded up.
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Someone like Carole would be
an amazing person for my dad,
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but it's like, open up.
Dad, open up.
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Try and connect with someone.
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KATE: Sachem isn't the only one
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who hopes his parent
will open their heart to love.
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(SQUEALS)
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(LAUGHTER)
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KATE: Chloe, too, wants her mum
to let go
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and fall for fireman, Heath,
who's been coming on hot.
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I missed P I actually
missed your smell!
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(LAUGHTER)
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(LAUGHS) Hey!
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How are you?
Hey, buddy.
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Good to see you.
Missed you heaps, mate.
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I definitely think I got
the winning prize.
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Him?
Him.
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Oh, yeah. You got the best man
in the house.
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That's what I mean.
The only thing is...
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Haydn's got a few little questions
and, you know, doubts.
252
00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:35,280
Do you have any concerns or doubts
moving forward with Michelle?
253
00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:36,760
She's an incredible person.
254
00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,240
Yeah, she's travelled the world
and yeah...
255
00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,080
And an accent.
256
00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:42,800
And an English accent.
257
00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,720
You know, I do like
a bit of an English accent.
258
00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:46,680
Yes, I do.
259
00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,240
But if it was a decision
260
00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:52,000
where I had to follow, you know,
the love of my life back to England
261
00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,040
or leave you guys,
I'm not leaving you guys.
262
00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:56,560
Yeah.
263
00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,440
He's just kind of worried about
the whole moving back to England
264
00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,880
and I think that's one topic
that I really need to ask her about.
265
00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,160
So, do you think
she could be the one?
266
00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,360
I've got a big decision to make
this afternoon.
267
00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:13,360
So, if Haydn didn't give me
his, you know, 100% blessing,
268
00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:14,920
it would be a deal breaker.
269
00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,400
What are you thinking?
270
00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:20,200
I have my doubts.
271
00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:21,440
You have your doubts?
272
00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:22,640
What are the doubts.
273
00:12:22,680 --> 00:12:25,800
She just seems a little bit
reluctant to open up and...
274
00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,160
Yeah.
275
00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,280
I just want to make sure.
I know you've been hurt in the past.
276
00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,200
I want to make sure she's not going
to hurt you again.
277
00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:32,680
Yeah, yeah.
278
00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,920
(SUSPENSEFUL STRINGS PLAY)
279
00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:43,680
Raaa!
280
00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,040
Hello.
Hey, princess.
281
00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:51,320
How are you?
I'm good. Yourself?
282
00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:52,600
Good.
283
00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:55,640
(EMOTIVE MUSIC)
284
00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:03,920
Can I sit next to you?
Yeah, sit next to me.
285
00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:05,720
Alright.
286
00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:07,400
Tell me everything.
287
00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,120
How was it? So, tell me
about the house.
288
00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:10,920
Who are your top people?
289
00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:12,320
Kayla is like my best friend.
290
00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:13,440
Bullshit.
291
00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,720
First person I was best friends
with.
292
00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:17,040
No way!
293
00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:18,160
Yeah.
294
00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,480
My major concern was with,
295
00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:23,320
like, Kayla not liking...
maybe not liking me.
296
00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,240
Yeah, what the heck was going
on with that?
297
00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,120
Kayla was getting angry,
like, why would she not...
298
00:13:29,560 --> 00:13:32,280
She was so stressed
about meeting you.
299
00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,160
Yeah, I know. I know.
300
00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:39,400
I saw she goes, "Kayla doesn't
like anyone."
301
00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:40,720
And I was like, "Wow!"
302
00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:42,640
Of course, I'm going to be
protective over you.
303
00:13:42,680 --> 00:13:45,120
Yeah.
That's no shadow of a doubt.
304
00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,600
Kayla giving Kristy and I
our blessing,
305
00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,080
it means everything
306
00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:51,680
and if Kayla doesn't like Kristy,
307
00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:56,640
then I can't really have
a relationship in the outside world.
308
00:13:56,680 --> 00:13:59,920
But it was pretty obvious
that we had a good bond
309
00:13:59,960 --> 00:14:02,600
and she's so bubbly
and she's a beautiful person..
310
00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:03,760
Yeah. Alright.
311
00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,000
Well, I'm going to go meet Kristy.
Oh, really?
312
00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:07,200
Yeah.
313
00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:08,640
I'm starting to get
a bit nervous now.
314
00:14:08,680 --> 00:14:10,480
I'll see you soon.
Alright.
315
00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:12,440
Love you.
I love you too.
316
00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,480
# Careful what you wish for...
317
00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:18,280
KATE: Coming up...
318
00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,000
Hello!
Entree.
319
00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,200
How are you?
How are you?
320
00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,520
..friendly introductions...
321
00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:25,880
Look at you.
322
00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:28,960
..turn into frosty interrogations...
323
00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:31,400
I've got a question.
Oh, god. Here we go.
324
00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,280
..and not everyone passes the test...
325
00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:37,200
At this stage, I'm a bit unsure.
326
00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:43,520
..before a blessing ceremony
where some kids will say no.
327
00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,920
Michelle, what are your intentions
for my father?
328
00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:48,560
I think he was expecting me
to just be like, "Yes, yes, yes."
329
00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:49,880
But yeah, not today.
330
00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:58,920
(UPBEAT LIVELY MUSIC)
331
00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:02,800
# I know that you prefer it
in your comfort zone...
332
00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,520
KATE: The kids now get to meet
their parents' prospective partners
333
00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,440
for the first time in the flesh...
334
00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:12,720
Good luck!
Good luck.
335
00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,320
..and they have a tough decision
to make.
336
00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:16,880
Hello!
337
00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:18,840
Hello.
(LAUGHS)
338
00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,400
KATE: If they give their blessing
and the relationship falls apart,
339
00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:23,920
their parents will get hurt.
340
00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:28,120
It's so nice to meet you!
I know, I've been dying to meet you.
341
00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:32,880
KATE: But if they don't approve,
they also risk hurting their parents.
342
00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:34,160
(LAUGHS)
343
00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,560
Hello!
344
00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:37,840
See, I got to meet his son.
345
00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,400
Doesn't matter if he didn't want me
to meet you.
346
00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:42,120
Let me get this door for you.
347
00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:43,680
Hello!
Entree.
348
00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,280
How are you?
How are you?
349
00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:47,760
Nice to finally meet you.
350
00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,720
I know, nice to meet you too.
I'm Roe.
351
00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,880
Nice to meet you.
Priscilla. Lovely to meet you too.
352
00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:53,680
Have a seat.
Wow.
353
00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:55,440
It's a really crucial time
at the moment
354
00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:58,320
with the blessing ceremony
looming so soon.
355
00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,440
It's one thing watching someone
through the screen
356
00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,000
and watching how they act
357
00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:07,840
to seeing them in person
and being able to feel their energy
358
00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,000
and look them in the eye
face-to-face.
359
00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:14,200
First of all, let me apologise
to you about my behaviour
360
00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:19,000
with your mum, about the cherries
and the tongue thing on the...
361
00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:20,720
Don't want to relive it.
I know you don't, but...
362
00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:22,640
Like, I don't want to know!
363
00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,000
(CLEARS THROAT)
364
00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:26,720
Oh, now, I feel awkward
all of a sudden.
365
00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:28,800
So, I guess what I wanted to know
more from you
366
00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,480
is kind of what you feel
about my mum,
367
00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:35,160
so then I can P 'cause I felt like
I didn't get that from you.
368
00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:38,400
She's a beautiful, sexy woman.
369
00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,120
You know what I mean?
Yep. Yeah.
370
00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,440
Aesthetically.
Yeah.
371
00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:44,720
I'm sure I don't doubt that.
And we'll leave it at that,
372
00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,520
and we leave it at that.
Aesthetically...
373
00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,200
So, you're saying, you're definitely
physically attracted.
374
00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:51,680
Oh, yeah. Without a doubt.
375
00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:53,480
Yeah, OK.
Oh, yeah.
376
00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:56,520
I'm interested in knowing
your thoughts on me.
377
00:16:56,560 --> 00:17:00,920
From watching you and observing you
over the past however many days,
378
00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,560
you're definitely, in my opinion,
379
00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:08,000
a man who, you know, has a lot
of pride and respect for himself
380
00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:09,800
and is a gentleman.
381
00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:11,440
I definitely do see that in you.
382
00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,320
Thank you.
383
00:17:13,360 --> 00:17:18,600
But I felt like you're
very, I guess, discreet.
384
00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:20,600
I just couldn't read you.
385
00:17:22,120 --> 00:17:23,960
Um...
386
00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:28,680
I have never spoken
about my emotions.
387
00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:31,200
Yeah. Oh, I can definitely tell.
388
00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:37,400
I don't have the capacity
at this point in time.
389
00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:42,680
I have a place of my space
is protected.
390
00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:48,800
It's a place where I want somebody
to understand the temperature.
391
00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:54,120
I think Roe's lack
of emotional expression
392
00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,000
is disappointing on my behalf.
393
00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:57,680
I do still think he has walls up.
394
00:18:00,120 --> 00:18:02,720
# You know I told you so
395
00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:04,880
# Crawl right back
from the lies you told
396
00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,320
# You know I told you so...
397
00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:10,920
How are you?
398
00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:12,880
Look at you.
(CHUCKLES)
399
00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:14,600
No wonder he's so proud of you.
400
00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:16,280
I'm good. How are you?
I'm good.
401
00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,040
Sorry, I'm touching you.
No, it's alright.
402
00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,120
I'm a mum.
It's alright.
403
00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,000
Have you been?
It's been wonderful.
404
00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:25,920
You know, regardless, I did break
a few walls down for him.
405
00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,880
I saw that.
You know?
406
00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:29,360
And I'm sorry, I couldn't help
407
00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,080
that I want to jump your dad's
bones because he's pretty hot.
408
00:18:32,120 --> 00:18:33,320
Yeah.
409
00:18:33,360 --> 00:18:35,000
Sorry, I love P that's the sort
of man I love.
410
00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:37,400
(LAUGHTER)
411
00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:39,240
Wow, meeting Carole was insane.
412
00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:42,240
Carole is someone,
as I've said before,
413
00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,560
who I think that my dad
would really be suited for.
414
00:18:46,360 --> 00:18:48,800
Carole is deserving of someone
415
00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,600
who is going to give her
what she wants
416
00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:54,320
but so many questions to ask.
417
00:18:54,360 --> 00:18:59,560
I wanted to like hear from you,
like, what it is you've experienced.
418
00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:01,560
Look, I've experienced...
419
00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,240
Yeah, look, I need to bring down
some walls
420
00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,400
and yes, I could see it
working slowly.
421
00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,800
Yeah, I'd like to give it a go.
422
00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:13,000
You know, he gave me a little bit,
so I thought, "OK."
423
00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:14,920
You know?
424
00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:18,280
Did you think I was the right person
when you've seen me?
425
00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,120
Did you think I'd be the one?
426
00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,200
I really, yeah, I really have.
427
00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,040
I don't want Dad to be alone.
428
00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:30,240
I just wanted him to experience
someone has a heart like you
429
00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:34,640
and I could see that my dad's walls
were up.
430
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,840
Yeah.
431
00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,880
I know what being on the receiving
end of that is like.
432
00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,520
I can see that.
433
00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:46,680
I feel you.
434
00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,480
I feel you so hard.
435
00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:52,520
I feel you.
436
00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:00,120
Thank you so much.
437
00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:03,400
You're more open than your dad.
(CHUCKLES)
438
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:04,880
You need to step in.
439
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:08,680
You are the one that's going
to help Dad.
440
00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:10,520
We both know. (CHUCKLES)
I know.
441
00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,200
I can help too but...
442
00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:16,280
Yeah. So, we've got
the blessing ceremony.
443
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,840
Yes.
444
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:19,080
And we've got to decide
445
00:20:19,120 --> 00:20:21,480
whether or not we're going to give
the blessing.
446
00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,000
Just whatever happens,
I just want you to know
447
00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,640
that everything is from my love.
448
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:30,920
# Feeling love, feel enough,
feeling less than...
449
00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,600
TESS: Oh, my god!
450
00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,000
I'm nervous.
451
00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:36,560
Hey, mate. How are you?
452
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,600
Hey, Drhys. I'm not tearing up
for you.
453
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,800
(LAUGHS) Good man.
454
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,080
Oh, no!
455
00:20:45,120 --> 00:20:47,600
I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.
456
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:50,040
Oh, my god.
457
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:54,200
You are even more beautiful
in person.
458
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,080
Oh, I'm shaking!
459
00:20:57,120 --> 00:20:59,640
I know, I'm so nervous.
460
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,800
How are you?
I'm well. How are you?
461
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,800
I'm good.
462
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,400
How weird is this?
This is... I'm sorry.
463
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,000
I'm sorry for anything
that I have said or done
464
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,280
or encouraged your dad to do.
Don't be ridiculous!
465
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,560
(LAUGHTER)
466
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,280
I think we both know dad
will do what he wants to do.
467
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:18,720
Yeah, there's no control.
468
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,880
There's just no raining him in.
469
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:22,800
I love Petula.
470
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:27,480
I think that she is just
so intuitive and kind
471
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,040
and, you know, she just seems
like such a nice soul.
472
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,000
I don't know what's going
to happen, OK?
473
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,440
I'm being honest with you, right?
474
00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,560
Yeah, of course, of course.
I don't know what's going to happen
475
00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:42,040
but it just, you know, I just feel
like he makes me feel good.
476
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:46,280
He makes me feel safe
and I just want him in my life.
477
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:47,720
I don't know what else to say.
478
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:52,960
From what I've seen, I definitely
would love to see them
479
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:54,880
kind of grow this connection
further.
480
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,000
But Drhys might need a little bit
of time
481
00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,720
to digest the whole situation.
482
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,440
So, how did you go watching
all this from afar?
483
00:22:07,120 --> 00:22:08,640
It was pretty good.
Yeah?
484
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,240
Like, me and Mum have
a pretty good bond.
485
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,360
She's very centred and very calm.
486
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:14,640
So...
487
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:15,800
Well, that's what I said to her.
488
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:17,360
I was like, "You have to be
your true self."
489
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,880
"and always your true self."
490
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,960
Well, Tess told me
to be ten percent of myself, so...
491
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:23,840
How did you go
with some of the stories?
492
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,080
(LAUGHS)
493
00:22:25,120 --> 00:22:27,080
How did you feel doing
your striptease?
494
00:22:27,120 --> 00:22:29,360
Yeah, that was a bit awkward.
495
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,120
No, you're right, you're right.
496
00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:32,720
What drew you into Mum?
497
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:38,120
She was just calm
and had a real confidence about her
498
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:39,840
and I like how she doesn't talk
a lot.
499
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,280
She chooses her words, right,
500
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,120
and I'd rather have someone
choosing their words
501
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,880
than a lot of blah, blah,
blah, blah.
502
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,600
I'm always protective over Mum.
503
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,720
I love her and she's always going
to come first...
504
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,920
..and I have to make
this tough decision.
505
00:22:57,120 --> 00:23:01,200
This decision that will shape us
as a family
506
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,360
and as the future continues
to roll out.
507
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,520
Interviewing you and talking to Mum
and watching everything,
508
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,600
I've been tossing up many, many odds
509
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,080
and that's me coming from the heart.
510
00:23:12,120 --> 00:23:16,320
So, hopefully you can understand
my decision whatever it is.
511
00:23:16,360 --> 00:23:18,080
Yep, yeah. 100%, mate.
512
00:23:18,120 --> 00:23:19,920
Hopefully, Mum does as well.
513
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,960
Yeah.
But on that note,
514
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,480
I'm going to leave you
with a cliffhanger.
515
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:24,720
Alright.
516
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,920
Going into the blessing,
I have to put Mum's best interest
517
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,760
and what I think is best for her
at heart
518
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,680
and whether I can see
this distance working.
519
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:40,560
How have you been? Oh, my gosh.
So many questions, so many...
520
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,280
So many questions?
521
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,320
How are you finding my mum?
522
00:23:44,360 --> 00:23:47,440
Because she's P yeah, she's
a firecracker.
523
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,520
She is a firecracker. Very sociable.
524
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,840
She'll talk to... She talks
to everybody.
525
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,280
Yeah, yeah.
It's really good.
526
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,000
It's really nice just to go slow,
not rush anything.
527
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,200
Good things come to those who wait.
Good things come to those who wait.
528
00:23:58,240 --> 00:23:59,640
Yeah, yeah.
529
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,400
Could you see yourself settling
down with my dad?
530
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,920
You know, after youse go
on a few more dates,
531
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,600
do you think he's that type of guy?
532
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,600
Oh, he is.
Yeah?
533
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,760
I know he would settle down.
Oh, you're asking about...
534
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,840
I know he's been hurt before, so...
535
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:17,120
I know.
536
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,160
He's put his heart all on the table
537
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:20,560
and I just want to make sure...
538
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,400
Yeah, fair play.
..he's not gonna get hurt again.
539
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,680
(CLICKS TONGUE)
Look, who knows?
540
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,120
Who knows?
541
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,560
Certainly, my intentions
are baby steps.
542
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,200
Baby steps?
Yeah, that's fair enough.
543
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,040
Michelle's looking
a little bit reserved
544
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,040
and she's taking her time to answer.
545
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,360
So, that got me
a little bit worried.
546
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,080
I've got a question.
Oh, god, here we go.
547
00:24:42,120 --> 00:24:44,800
Would moving back, you know,
back to England, the UK,
548
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,480
would that ever be a possibility
in the future?
549
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,200
I'd be lying if I didn't say
it could be.
550
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,920
It could be?
I don't know. Look, I don't know.
551
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,160
Yeah.
Who knows what's round the corner?
552
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:57,600
We don't know.
Yeah.
553
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,920
So, I wish I could give you
the answer on it.
554
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,240
I'm just nervous about making
this decision.
555
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,320
I know he's been hurt in the past
556
00:25:07,360 --> 00:25:10,720
and I know that he is confident
in me to choose the right thing,
557
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,160
so there's a lot riding
on what my answer will be
558
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:15,960
and it's going to be really tough
559
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,080
to come out with the perfect answer
here.
560
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:20,480
KATE: Coming up...
561
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:21,520
Are you scared?
Yes.
562
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:22,640
Yeah?
Yes!
563
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,040
Just a little bit?
Just a little bit.
564
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:28,160
If the kids don't accept us,
then it's a deal breaker.
565
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:34,400
KATE: A blessing ceremony truth bomb
threatens to end a relationship.
566
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,840
It's something that we all need
to realise and a reality.
567
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,840
# Yeah, we won't,
won't give, give up...
568
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,280
KATE: For our single parents
and their kids,
569
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:58,000
the course of their lives is set
to change in one single event -
570
00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,920
the blessing ceremony.
571
00:25:59,960 --> 00:26:01,800
A blessing.
A blessing ceremony.
572
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,880
KATE: For each parent, if their child
does not give their blessing,
573
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:11,080
their newfound relationship and hopes
for a blended family will be over.
574
00:26:11,120 --> 00:26:14,360
But if they do receive
their children's approval,
575
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:19,280
the parents' desire for forever love
could be realised.
576
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,960
So, who will be left heartbroken
577
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,240
and who will be blessed
with a fairytale ending?
578
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,480
I can't wait.
579
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,960
KATE: It all comes down
to a yay or a nay.
580
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,240
DARREN: Petula and I are nervous
581
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,600
and we haven't been nervous
the whole time in the retreat.
582
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,000
We've had a ball, we've had smiles
on our faces.
583
00:26:39,360 --> 00:26:43,440
We've grown to really get a good
respect and love for each other.
584
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,520
I think she's a perfect match.
585
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,000
But like if Drhys doesn't give
me the blessing
586
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,040
for the relationship to move on,
587
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,880
that's a deal breaker
for both of us.
588
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,560
# Show me a hill
589
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:01,320
# Show me a mountain,
we'll climb it...
590
00:27:01,360 --> 00:27:02,880
Darren is amazing.
591
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,240
I feel like we could have
a fabulous life together.
592
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:11,840
But if Drhys tells me today
that I don't have his blessing,
593
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,280
I will be heartbroken.
594
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,120
I value his opinion,
I love him to bits.
595
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:21,000
I'm hoping that he can see
through the larrikin
596
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,560
and the humour that Darren puts out
and see what I've seen.
597
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:29,000
But if Drhys doesn't see that,
it will be devastating to me.
598
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,280
# I won't give up on you...
599
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,760
PETULA: I don't know what's going
to happen.
600
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,880
Oh, hello you two.
601
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,920
Well, well, well.
602
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,840
I see you standing hand-in-hand
with each other.
603
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:44,280
How are you feeling?
604
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,800
Really good. It's been
an amazing retreat,
605
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:50,280
like pushing boundaries,
looking into different areas.
606
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:51,440
Sure.
607
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,400
But the most crucial thing
that's just happened
608
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,800
is you've met Drhys, Petula's son.
609
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,080
That was confronting and great.
Right.
610
00:27:58,120 --> 00:28:01,240
Like, he's certainly a reflection
of yourself.
611
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,240
Like, 100%. He's an amazing kid
612
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,320
and I was a little bit dubious
about some of the things he's seen.
613
00:28:06,360 --> 00:28:08,760
And how do you think it went?
I think it went well.
614
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,960
I think we're sort of two similar
souls, I think.
615
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,400
You know, he likes the banter
and the comebacks.
616
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,920
But obviously, it'd be great
to have his blessing.
617
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,520
Of course.
618
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:19,560
Petula...
619
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,120
Yes.
620
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:25,040
If you were not to get Tess's
blessing at the blessing ceremony,
621
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,240
how would you feel?
622
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,240
I'd be upset.
623
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,040
I would hope she can see
the connection that we have
624
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,080
and she has seen the person
that I am.
625
00:28:37,120 --> 00:28:40,160
If Tess doesn't give us
her blessing,
626
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,000
it's going to be very sad
627
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,840
because Darren has made no secret
628
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:49,800
that his kids have to accept
the next person in his life.
629
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:54,000
For me, it's the same thing
and so if the kids don't accept us,
630
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,480
then it's a deal breaker.
631
00:28:56,520 --> 00:29:01,360
Well, you guys have made
such a lovely connection
632
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,440
and I really wish you
the best of luck today
633
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:05,720
and the best of love.
634
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:07,560
OK.
Thank you.
635
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:08,840
Thanks, Kate.
636
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:15,880
# Everybody's looking
for something...
637
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,000
DRHYS: I have a massive decision
in front of me.
638
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,920
I've spent the entire day
thinking about it.
639
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,200
I don't want Mum to get hurt
640
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,040
but I have to make
this tough decision.
641
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:28,320
This decision that will shape us
as a family.
642
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,960
She definitely trusts me
to make that right decision.
643
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,640
# My future looks like you...
644
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,640
Oh!
Oh, wow!
645
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:37,960
That's amazing!
646
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:39,360
How beautiful!
647
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,560
You scared?
Yes. Yes!
648
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:44,400
Just a little bit?
Just a little bit. You?
649
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:45,840
Yeah, I am.
650
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,640
I've got more reason to be scared.
651
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:49,160
Let me tell you.
652
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,560
Feeling the weight of the decision
on my shoulders, for sure.
653
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,000
Just relax.
(LAUGHS)
654
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,600
You know, Dad values
my opinion so much
655
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,160
and it's kind of like having
his happiness in my hands.
656
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,040
# This time, we're going
to get it right
657
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,880
# This time, we going
to get it back...
658
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,040
Hey!
659
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,640
(LAUGHTER)
660
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,360
Hello.
661
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,960
You look good on TV.
662
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,200
How are you, Mum?
663
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,160
Hello!
Hey.
664
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:26,480
G'day, mate.
665
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:27,640
How are you?
666
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,000
You look beautiful.
Thank you. So do you.
667
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,920
So, how are you guys feeling?
668
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,360
(LAUGHS)
A bit under pressure.
669
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:34,920
Yes.
670
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,760
Nervous.
Yeah?
671
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:38,360
Yeah, but it's good.
672
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,200
I think for both of us,
673
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,200
it's, you know, we've seen
the highs and lows
674
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,040
of all the different people
in the house,
675
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,560
but personally, for me,
676
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,280
I think when you dropped me off
at the retreat,
677
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,040
you said, "Go deeper."
678
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,320
And that's what I've been doing
and that's the connection we've got.
679
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,560
And do you think that's
what drew you to Petula initially?
680
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,080
Yeah, 100%. No, Petula's calmness
681
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:02,280
and her "I'll speak what I want to
not because I have to"...
682
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:03,960
Yeah.
..I really respect
683
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,320
because, you know, whatever
she says, everyone listens to.
684
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,000
So, how do you feel about it?
685
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,520
I feel really good.
686
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,640
I feel like we bonded really quick
687
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,760
and our conversations
were comfortable.
688
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,440
It wasn't strained,
there was no awkward silence,
689
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:19,880
we were just bouncing off each other
690
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,280
and we went deep
in the conversations
691
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,640
in getting to know each other
really quick,
692
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:25,880
and that only comes
693
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,600
from an instant feeling
of being comfortable, so yeah.
694
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:29,960
That's true.
695
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,680
(TENDER SOUNDTRACK)
696
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,160
From the day I dropped you off
to the day meeting you now,
697
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,280
I've been on the edge of my seat.
698
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,320
You've changed
699
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:45,520
and through this journey,
watching you find a connection,
700
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,440
you've almost found
that missing piece of the puzzle
701
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:48,920
that you never had.
702
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,640
I'm so proud of you
for how far you've come.
703
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,040
Thank you.
704
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,840
It's been amazing and I feel
so incredibly proud of you.
705
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,000
You have just come so far,
even just over this week,
706
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:14,840
allowing yourself to be loved
after, you know, a long time.
707
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,800
It's been beautiful to watch
708
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,720
that deep interaction happen
so quickly.
709
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:27,520
But I think that the long-distance
is going to be hard.
710
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,320
Dad, you having a love language
of affection,
711
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,520
it could be hard for you
712
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,240
to live so far apart
from someone for so long.
713
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,600
Drhys, what do you think?
714
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:50,560
I have been thinking about this
for a while,
715
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,520
and obviously, as Tess has said,
the distance is a worry.
716
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,760
You know, we do live so far away
717
00:32:55,800 --> 00:33:01,280
and yes, we plan to move here,
but when?
718
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:02,800
When is the big question.
719
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:09,000
# But every good thing
has its end...
720
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,680
But it's something that we all need
to realise and a reality.
721
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,280
100%, and whether or not it lasts
because of the distance,
722
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,800
but the connection won't go away,
I don't think.
723
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:20,880
Yeah.
724
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,920
(MUSIC BUILDS)
725
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,400
The connection that you guys have
developed over this past week
726
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,920
has been incredible to watch...
727
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:36,840
..and...
728
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,200
..I do give my blessing.
729
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,920
Oh!
Told you she would.
730
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,720
(LAUGHS)
731
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:45,760
Thank you.
732
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:51,480
(SIGHS)
733
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,440
The most important thing to me
in this world is you, Mum,
734
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,240
is you being happy...
735
00:33:58,120 --> 00:33:59,400
..and...
736
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:02,240
..you've got my blessing.
737
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:03,960
Thanks. That means a lot.
738
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,080
Alright. Let's celebrate.
739
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:07,400
(UPBEAT MUSIC)
740
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,160
To get Tess and Drhys's blessing
is amazing.
741
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:13,800
That's what we wanted from the start
and we can't be happier.
742
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,960
Whoo-hoo!
(LAUGHS)
743
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,520
Relieved now.
Relieved.
744
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:18,920
(LAUGHTER)
745
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:20,360
I think coming on an experience
like this,
746
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,040
you're not dating an individual,
you're dating a family
747
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:24,600
and you're creating
a family environment,
748
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,240
so that's been amazing for us
749
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,480
and having the kids give us
all their blessing
750
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:30,800
will make it easier for us
to move forward in the future.
751
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,360
Cheers to the future, guys.
752
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,000
To the future.
Cheers.
753
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:38,200
It is beautiful, it's heartfelt,
it's emotionally charged,
754
00:34:38,240 --> 00:34:42,360
the tears are flowing,
and it's amazing.
755
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,480
(LAUGHTER)
756
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,720
It feels so right.
757
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:48,840
You left it there.
758
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,360
I've had enough.
(LAUGHTER)
759
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,960
Mum, you're my role model
760
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,520
and I will always look up to you
for how strong you are.
761
00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:59,720
I love you.
762
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:01,000
I love you too.
763
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,800
(OMINOUS SOUNDTRACK)
764
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:09,040
I guess it's time to give
our blessing or not.
765
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,480
# I was hoping it would be
766
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,280
# Forever...
767
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,080
# Sick and tired of being good
768
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:22,800
# It's time to make a change
769
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,920
# It's time to rearrange my life,
uh-oh...
770
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,560
KATE: From the moment they laid eyes
on each other,
771
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,480
Roe and Carole had undeniable
sexual chemistry,
772
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:35,240
but is that going to be enough
for their kids?
773
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,000
ROE: Today's going to be
an interesting day.
774
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,840
Carole's a really good woman,
beautiful, unbelievable sexy.
775
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,480
And we have the blessing
coming up soon
776
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,720
and I need that for us.
777
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,320
We need that.
778
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:54,040
(UPBEAT MUSIC)
779
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:57,840
When I look at Roe, I feel that,
780
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,520
you know, we've got a long way
to go,
781
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,120
but I'm really loving it
and I'm not going to give up.
782
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,200
See, I don't give up on anything
783
00:36:05,240 --> 00:36:09,160
and I'm just going to keep on
nipping, nipping, nipping, nipping
784
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,800
'cause I really want this,
I really want it to work.
785
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,600
Well, hello, hello.
Hello, hello.
786
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,160
Wow.
787
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,040
Carole, you clearly have
a connection with Roe.
788
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:23,320
Is it physical or does it have
a deeper dimension to it?
789
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,480
For me, it definitely...
I'm not going to lie to you.
790
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,760
Absolutely physical.
791
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,840
Physical?
Like, definitely physical
792
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,000
to start off with, but you've got
to get to know a person.
793
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,320
This is not enough time.
I mean, we are grown-ups
794
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,880
and we just need that little bit
of time.
795
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,760
And Roe has said
he's very comfortable
796
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,040
with the physical connection.
797
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,520
Physical connection is important
to any relationship
798
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,000
because it's not there, forget it,
you're out.
799
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:52,840
Roe, how important
is Sachem's opinion
800
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,240
of your connection with Carole
to you?
801
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,280
His opinion is paramount.
802
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:58,880
It's always been a place
803
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,960
where when I have introduced him
to anyone I was seeing or dating,
804
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,080
I was actually nearly there,
805
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,080
as in like, that person and I
806
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,520
already discussed
having a possible future.
807
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,080
That's when he normally comes in.
808
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,480
So, what he says, it does play
a part, absolutely.
809
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:20,160
And Carole, of course, you got
to be reunited with Priscilla.
810
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:24,440
So, if Priscilla were to have
reservations
811
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,000
and not give her blessing,
812
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,120
that would be a deal breaker for you?
813
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,960
It has to be a deal breaker.
There's no questions about it.
814
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:38,920
Well, guys, it's a big decision today
and I hope love awaits.
815
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:40,440
Thank you.
Thank you.
816
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,440
Thank you, Kate.
Bye.
817
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:44,320
SACHEM: Seeing dad today,
818
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,680
you know, that was a hard pill
to swallow for me
819
00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:51,520
'cause I feel like Carole would be
an amazing person for my dad
820
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:57,920
but he just doesn't know
how to open up
821
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,720
in a loving space towards her...
822
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,200
Oh, wow. Look at this.
823
00:38:03,240 --> 00:38:05,720
How beautiful is this? Ooh!
824
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,760
..and that's just been running crazy
through my mind.
825
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,600
Yeah, I think that is going to be
a tough decision to make today.
826
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,440
Ooh!
827
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,480
(MUSIC BUILDS)
828
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,640
PRISCILLA: I feel like there is
a role reversal for Mum and I.
829
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,960
Today, I'm definitely more the parent
and she's more the child
830
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,800
and my mum's happiness
is in my hands.
831
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:31,080
I don't want to see her heartbroken,
so I have a lot to think about.
832
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:32,560
CAROLE: Oh, here we go.
833
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,880
Look at this!
834
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,920
Hello!
(CHUCKLES)
835
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,080
Hello, hello, hello!
836
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:40,200
Well, hello to you.
837
00:38:40,240 --> 00:38:42,080
Oh, wow!
What's up?
838
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,400
Hello, darling.
I got you.
839
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,600
You look beautiful.
840
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,680
You look beautiful.
I love your shoes.
841
00:38:47,720 --> 00:38:49,600
Take a seat.
842
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,920
First time seeing youse
off the screen.
843
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,720
And?
844
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,760
I make him look good, I know.
I know.
845
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:02,120
Man, trust me, it was so hard
to see you guys on the screen
846
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:05,960
and have all these thoughts
running through your mind,
847
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,560
saying, "I wish I could say this,
I wish I could tell you this,"
848
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,400
"or do this." But we have
to just sit and be reserved.
849
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:11,680
Oh, right.
850
00:39:11,720 --> 00:39:16,000
I guess what I wanted to see
from you both, the connection
851
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,720
and, I guess, the emotional side
of you both unfolding.
852
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,600
We got to see a lot of the physical,
853
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:26,080
maybe a bit too much, but,
yeah, I think that's why...
854
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:27,720
(ROE CHUCKLING)
855
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,960
Oh, God. I've got PTSD.
856
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,280
I'm gonna need some counselling
after this.
857
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,400
Look, sorry.
858
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:35,960
I'm just being me.
859
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,720
Mm. No, I know.
I can't, I can't pretend.
860
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:39,880
Mm.
861
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,280
Carole...
862
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,440
I see you come in, love life,
863
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:51,160
and have this
unapologetic honesty...
864
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,080
..and openness about yourself, and
865
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:59,800
one thing I kept saying, and me
and Pricilla kept agreeing on,
866
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:03,560
was that it felt very physical
at first,
867
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:08,600
the attraction felt physical,
and I wanted to see more.
868
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:13,520
I wanted to see you allow the space
for my dad to open up.
869
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:17,520
Sometimes, it's very hard when
I feel that there's walls there
870
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,240
and they don't
want to be broken down
871
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,880
so you can't push someone for that.
872
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:24,200
You know, with your dad, I think
time will break a few more walls.
873
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:29,000
It was really nice to watch you
both, I guess, through the screens.
874
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,040
I saw a lot in you, Mum.
875
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,080
I feel that I've found
a new type of respect for you
876
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,080
to see you, I guess,
open up and be yourself
877
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,400
and be confident in who you are
as a person.
878
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:45,000
I think, what I wanted to see more,
more specifically for you, Roe,
879
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:48,400
is more of how you are feeling,
880
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:52,600
how you see my mum,
how you feel towards my mum.
881
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,400
I feel like I didn't really get that
from you.
882
00:40:59,240 --> 00:41:00,560
And I won't lie.
883
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:02,640
I was disappointed.
884
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,040
I feel like my mum really put
herself out there, she really tried,
885
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:09,040
and I think that's all
you can really do is try.
886
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:14,800
I just think you saw my mum but
you didn't see my mum, in a way.
887
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:19,760
You didn't see the qualities in her
that are unlike no other.
888
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:24,280
She's the strongest woman I know
and the most amazing woman I know,
889
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,520
so I just think
there was a missed opportunity
890
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:31,480
to really get to know her
on a deeper level.
891
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:36,280
Uh, first of all, let me,
you know, say...
892
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,440
I hear what you're saying and I'm
not taking that for granted at all.
893
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:40,800
Mm.
894
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,240
And I want to be better
and get better at what I do.
895
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,000
Hey, I came here to work on myself
896
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:49,080
but I'm glad I actually let go
897
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,320
and allowed my daughter
to see something she hasn't seen
898
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:56,800
'cause I've been a bit protective
of really letting it out.
899
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,920
So, I wanted to be Carole
and I forgot where I was,
900
00:41:59,960 --> 00:42:01,480
I forgot there was cameras,
901
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,760
and what you saw in there
is exactly what you'd see outside,
902
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,800
but, walls, we talk about walls,
we've all got walls,
903
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,920
but I think you've still
gotta break it down for me.
904
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:16,040
You've gotta really open it up
and I will always be there.
905
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:17,280
Leading on from Mum,
906
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:21,320
she is a strong woman,
she is the full package
907
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:22,560
and she does deserve the best.
908
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:26,160
I'll always protect her
and give my opinion.
909
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:30,440
Mum, I'm really proud of you
and you are amazing.
910
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:31,600
You're my role model
911
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:35,480
and I will always look up to you
for how strong you are.
912
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:36,760
Oh, my God, thank you, Pricilla.
913
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,320
And if I can be half as strong
as you are in my life,
914
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,640
that would be a massive achievement
for me and all I want.
915
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,000
I love you.
916
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:45,560
I love you, too.
917
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,760
So, I guess it's time to
give our blessing or not.
918
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Um...
919
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,960
(MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
920
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,480
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
921
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,920
I guess it's time to
give our blessing or not.
922
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,480
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
923
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:26,120
Um, I, unfortunately, can't say that
I would bless this moving forward.
924
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,440
At the end of the day,
I just want the best for my mum.
925
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:36,000
(SACHEM SIGHS)
926
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,840
Carole, you're what I want
for my dad.
927
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:42,720
I want him to be comfortable
with someone.
928
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,520
But I think, Dad...
929
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,080
..there's a lot of concrete up.
930
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:49,600
I love you.
931
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:50,720
Oh, my God.
932
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,120
Love you, too, you know that.
933
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,080
And no matter what,
934
00:43:54,120 --> 00:44:00,400
I will always be there and
I will always advocate for you...
935
00:44:01,720 --> 00:44:03,000
..to let that love shine through.
936
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:06,360
My...
937
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:09,160
..blessing...
938
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:11,880
..for this moving forward...
939
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:16,800
..cannot be given.
940
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,360
# I didn't get a taste
what the future holds
941
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,600
# Oh-oh-oh whoa-oh-oh
942
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,520
# Like yeah yeah yeah yeah. #
943
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:32,000
OK, your decisions mean
a lot to both of us.
944
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:33,040
100%.
945
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:35,480
So, I'm gonna agree
with both of you.
946
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:37,960
I have a lot to offer.
947
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:41,600
I mean, I'm a total package so
I'm not settling for anything less.
948
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,960
I deserve it and I'm gonna get it.
949
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:49,800
And I have some time to
reflect on everything.
950
00:44:51,240 --> 00:44:56,040
The love that was there
between us and our kids,
951
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,200
wow, we felt it,
952
00:44:58,240 --> 00:45:02,880
and, if I can't deliver on
what is needed to give to Carole,
953
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:04,720
to provide for Carole
954
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,400
and to give her the strong stability
that she looking for
955
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,280
in an emotional way, then,
what's the point in me being here?
956
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:11,520
I don't want to do that.
957
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,560
She deserve better than that.
958
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:15,520
Thank you so much.
Thanks for the good times.
959
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:19,040
And I'm gonna catch up with you...
Very soon.
960
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:20,760
Nice meeting you!
Thank you so much.
961
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,040
Thank you. Thank you for everything.
Yeah, no problem.
962
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:24,680
I'll see you soon.
963
00:45:24,720 --> 00:45:26,400
Yeah, I'll see you soon!
964
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,640
Take my baby home.
965
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:35,240
Sachem and Pricilla didn't give us
their blessing, which is really sad.
966
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:36,440
I want to find love.
967
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:38,600
I want to find a partner
that I can have fun with.
968
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,280
I respect my daughter's decision
969
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:46,000
but, you know, Roe,
I'm sure I'll catch up with him.
970
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:50,320
But, still, this has been one of
the best experiences of my life
971
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:55,360
because it's helped my daughter
get to know me a lot better.
972
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,720
I was truly myself and I opened up.
973
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,600
She has more respect for me now,
974
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,720
and I think we're gonna be
closer than ever,
975
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,040
and, hopefully,
now she won't get rid of me
976
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,200
and I can move in with her
and her husband.
977
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,440
# We've come so far
978
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,760
# Who'd have thought we'd make it?
979
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:19,360
# But I believe in you. #
980
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,880
Not a doubt in my mind
that, you know,
981
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,320
I want to move to the next chapter
of this relationship
982
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,720
that we're starting
to build and form.
983
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,680
I hope that Haydn sees in Michelle
what I see,
984
00:46:32,720 --> 00:46:37,120
you know, a warm, beautiful,
caring, loving person.
985
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,240
Haydn may have some concerns
986
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,840
and, of course, Chloe
may have some concerns.
987
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:43,680
You know, that would be
a deal-breaker for myself
988
00:46:43,720 --> 00:46:46,600
because family is
the top of the tree.
989
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,640
I trust my daughter's judgment
a million percent.
990
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:54,680
When you've got children,
991
00:46:54,720 --> 00:46:59,680
when you are looking into starting
a relationship with somebody...
992
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,800
..any parent knows that
this is not just about you.
993
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,560
You have to think
about the big picture,
994
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:13,480
and that is your child,
who is your world.
995
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,960
# I want you to love me
996
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,400
# I need you to stay
997
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:21,240
# Have you fallen in love?
998
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:22,640
# Ooh-ooh. #
999
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:25,760
Hello.
1000
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:27,840
Hello, beautiful couple.
1001
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:31,280
Hello, Kate. How are you?
I'm very well. How are you?
1002
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,280
I'm wonderful, thank you.
1003
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:34,800
Hi there.
Michelle.
1004
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:36,640
You look lovely.
Thank you.
1005
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:38,840
As you should on this day.
1006
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:40,640
How are you feeling, Heath?
1007
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:42,240
Yeah, good, really good.
1008
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:46,920
Uh, feeling a lot different from
when we last spoke a few times ago
1009
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,400
where I was ready to
just walk away and give up.
1010
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:50,680
Yes.
1011
00:47:50,720 --> 00:47:53,480
You thought it wasn't gonna happen
for you.
1012
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:55,040
I just didn't connect with anybody,
1013
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,320
and I didn't want to force myself
to make a connection
1014
00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:58,800
with someone which wasn't there.
1015
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:03,640
Well, now I have to say you look
quite connected to somebody,
1016
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:07,560
but, of course, you had to
meet Michelle's daughter today,
1017
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,000
you met Chloe.
1018
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:10,880
Did she seem approving
of that or...?
1019
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,080
Yeah, I'm not really sure.
1020
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:13,800
Of what she'd seen?
Yeah.
1021
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:15,440
We don't really know
what they've seen.
1022
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,760
Right.
Yeah, so, you know...
1023
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,440
I think it's fair to say
they've seen all of you, Heath,
1024
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,080
and the question is, then,
is that gonna pass muster?
1025
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:24,720
Well, that's true, yes, yeah.
Mm!
1026
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:28,800
Michelle, you saw your daughter,
Chloe, this morning.
1027
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,320
Yeah.
How was your reunion?
1028
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:31,440
The best.
1029
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,400
I'm so used to having Chloe
by my side.
1030
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:34,880
We do everything 24/7.
1031
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:41,720
If Chloe was not to give her
blessing, how would that be for you?
1032
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:43,600
It would have to be
a bloody good reason.
1033
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,760
We'll see.
1034
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:50,240
Heath, if Haydn were not
to give his blessing,
1035
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,240
would that be a deal-breaker
for you?
1036
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,680
Absolutely. Yeah.
1037
00:48:54,720 --> 00:48:57,880
Do you think you guys
would have a real shot at this
1038
00:48:57,920 --> 00:48:59,560
outside of the retreat?
1039
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:00,840
Yeah, I think so.
1040
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,000
If we're allowed.
Yeah, if we're allowed.
1041
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:04,280
Depends on the next step.
1042
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:06,960
Well, good luck at
the blessing ceremony.
1043
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:08,720
Thank you.
I hope that love awaits.
1044
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,440
Thank you, Kate.
Thank you.
1045
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:11,720
Appreciate it.
Good luck.
1046
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:13,640
Thank you.
1047
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,040
Haydn throws some heat.
1048
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,880
Michelle, what are your intentions
for my father?
1049
00:49:25,240 --> 00:49:27,560
And Michelle fires back.
1050
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:31,160
Maybe he's not the person that I
should be pursuing, if I'm honest.
1051
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:34,720
But will our fireman
get his happily ever after?
1052
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,160
HAYDN: I think I've...
I've heard enough.
1053
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:37,800
(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
1054
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,280
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
1055
00:49:45,720 --> 00:49:49,080
HAYDN: I'm just nervous
about making this decision.
1056
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:51,800
I know he's been hurt in the past,
1057
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:53,840
and I know that Dad's definitely
put his heart on the table
1058
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:54,880
with Michelle.
1059
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:59,080
I just want to lay it all on the
table while I've got the chance,
1060
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,600
and find out if she's ready
to receive the love
1061
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:02,920
that my dad is willing to give.
1062
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,880
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1063
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:15,560
Are you nervous?
1064
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:16,880
Yeah, I am pretty nervous.
1065
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:17,920
Me, too.
1066
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:20,640
But...
What will be will be.
1067
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,000
Yep. Just think positive.
Yes.
1068
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,000
Here they come.
Here they...
1069
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:32,080
(QUIET SQUEAL)
1070
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:33,560
Oh, my God!
Hi!
1071
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:37,320
CHLOE: I personally don't think
1072
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:40,240
there's, like, any more hurt
that my mum could go through.
1073
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:43,120
I think her skin is just thick
at this point
1074
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:46,200
where she's got just a shield
and everything bounces off.
1075
00:50:47,240 --> 00:50:48,320
Heath is...
1076
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,920
Yeah, he's hit a bit of a soft spot
with me,
1077
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:55,200
but I'm a little bit worried that
Heath may get hurt in this situation
1078
00:50:55,240 --> 00:50:59,400
just because he is diving in
pretty quick and pretty heavy.
1079
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,560
So, it's good to finally
see you two in person
1080
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:06,840
and not watching on
a surveillance TV.
1081
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,360
Sneaky, sneaky!
Yep.
1082
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,720
This image of you guys
sitting next to each other,
1083
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:14,120
I haven't seen a man sit next to my
mum like this for a very long time.
1084
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:16,240
So, it's nice.
1085
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:17,800
I don't know, Haydn,
how are you feeling?
1086
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:19,000
I think, before we get into that,
1087
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,400
Michelle, what are your intentions
for my father?
1088
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,880
(BRISTLING MUSIC)
1089
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:28,520
He is direct.
Yep.
1090
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,760
There's a lot at stake here.
Um...
1091
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:37,920
I have gone in with
no expectations of anything,
1092
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:43,920
and been pleasantly surprised
with what your dad has shown,
1093
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:48,800
and I would like to pursue
1094
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:52,360
and actually see what happens.
1095
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:53,920
He's a good egg.
He is.
1096
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:56,760
And Heath?
1097
00:51:56,800 --> 00:52:01,960
Um, my intentions are to
slowly get to know your mum,
1098
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,440
and really understand her,
1099
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,560
understand what makes her happy,
understand what makes her sad and...
1100
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:09,720
Aw!
1101
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,000
Yeah, so, and just be there.
1102
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:12,680
Aw!
And grow.
1103
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:17,840
Me and Haydn have been watching
you guys like an eagle.
1104
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:21,400
Unfortunately, we are
big deal-breakers in your lives.
1105
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,040
We want the best for both of you.
1106
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:24,800
Of course and we understand that.
1107
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:29,240
And we do have things to say
and points to get across.
1108
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:33,560
My number-one concern is,
1109
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:36,000
I don't know if you guys realise
but those letters you wrote,
1110
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,240
your letter spoke
a lot about Michelle,
1111
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,960
you put your heart on the table,
1112
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,880
and, in your letter,
there wasn't much comment about Dad.
1113
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:47,000
Like, are you one to run away
if Dad goes in too hard?
1114
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:50,560
'Cause I think there might have been
a line in that letter that said
1115
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:53,760
"I never thought the love of
my life would walk into my life,
1116
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,880
"but turns out she walked in
in a blue jumpsuit."
1117
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,600
Get lost.
Yeah.
1118
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,240
You said that?
1119
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:00,520
Maybe.
1120
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,240
So, I'm just concerned...
No pressure.
1121
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,840
You didn't write about him
in your letter. Is there...?
1122
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,040
Is there concerns?
1123
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:14,280
Erm, it's been a bit
of a whirlwind for me.
1124
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,320
It's so opposite how I am.
1125
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,360
I'm very spontaneous,
I'm an adventurous girl.
1126
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:21,960
I set my mind
1127
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,480
that I wanted to just try and do
things a little bit differently...
1128
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:27,000
Yeah.
..this time.
1129
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:32,280
And if that pace is not
suitable for your dad,
1130
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:37,680
then maybe he's not the person that
I should be pursuing, if I'm honest.
1131
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,720
Look, outside this little
fairy-tale bubble,
1132
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:42,720
there's gonna be things
thrown at you.
1133
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:45,720
How do you guys reckon youse
will go on the outside world?
1134
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,160
Like, inside the retreat,
you know, it's completely different
1135
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,960
to when you go back to normality
and back into...
1136
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,560
Yeah, it's a fair question,
1137
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,440
we've gotta go back to work,
obviously, and normal life kicks in.
1138
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,280
I think the time's right.
It's all about timing.
1139
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:02,520
I'm pretty excited to
see where this goes.
1140
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:07,040
I think you both...
it's both your time.
1141
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:12,720
And, you know, still baby steps,
early days,
1142
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:14,520
but I'm actually
really looking forward to
1143
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,400
having, like, a family again.
1144
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:20,320
# Can this be forever? #
1145
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:21,920
And I do give you my blessing.
1146
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:23,800
Thank you.
1147
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:25,040
# Can this be forever? #
1148
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:26,960
Yeah, a lot of respect
for you, Heath.
1149
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:30,960
Yeah, so, I think I've...
I've heard enough.
1150
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:32,560
We're here to make tough decisions.
1151
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,040
Dad's been hurt before.
1152
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,040
I didn't want to see him
get hurt again.
1153
00:54:39,240 --> 00:54:41,080
# Can this be forever? #
1154
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:46,240
(APPREHENSIVE MUSIC)
1155
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,320
I think I've...I've heard enough.
1156
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,480
I had my doubts.
Dad's been hurt before.
1157
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,480
I didn't want to see him
get hurt again.
1158
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:01,320
But I think, after meeting you,
you know, face to face,
1159
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:06,520
I'm willing to open up and, you
know, let you come into our lives...
1160
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:09,760
..and I'm gonna give you guys
my blessing.
1161
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:11,400
(CHEERY MUSIC)
1162
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:13,960
Thank you so much.
(EXCITED LAUGHTER)
1163
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:18,240
It took a lot for me to, you know,
say yes and give Dad my blessing,
1164
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:21,880
but I think, seeing them in person,
not on a TV screen,
1165
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:23,360
it was too hard to say no.
1166
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,720
Them together, it's everything
that I want for my dad and more,
1167
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:30,200
and I'm so glad to see him
and Michelle finally happy.
1168
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,280
In the five years now
that you've been divorced,
1169
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,720
you haven't looked at anyone
the way you've looked at Michelle.
1170
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:37,280
Really?
Yeah.
1171
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:41,200
And he used his signature trademark
saying which is three letters - wow.
1172
00:55:41,240 --> 00:55:42,880
As soon as you walked in,
I was like, "Oh, gosh."
1173
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:44,840
Wow.
I'm saying wow 'cause I'm shocked.
1174
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:46,400
He's head over heels already.
1175
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:48,320
Do you know what,
I'm absolutely shocked by that.
1176
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,800
I'm not sure about
head over heels, mate.
1177
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:52,000
Oh!
Bit of work to do.
1178
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,040
Seeing Dad, I was like,
"Oh, gosh, we got trouble now."
1179
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:59,000
And just seeing you two together
is just so...(BLOWS)
1180
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:00,880
Warms the heart.
Yeah.
1181
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,120
(LAUGHTER)
1182
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,160
Seeing that in the flesh.
1183
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:06,520
I'm feeling really emotional.
1184
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:11,040
Being single for three years has
been an absolute roller-coaster.
1185
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:12,880
It was good to meet you.
I'll look after him.
1186
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:14,440
Oh, you better.
I will.
1187
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,040
I've been on the apps,
speed dating, bars.
1188
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,360
And then to get the winning prize...
1189
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:26,240
..what can I say?
1190
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:28,160
(CORK POPS)
Whee-hee!
1191
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:29,280
Love that sound.
1192
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,360
That's gotta be the best one yet.
1193
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,080
That has gotta go.
1194
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:33,880
Yeah, first point of call is
1195
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:38,400
to get my phone and delete all those
dating apps and focus on Michelle.
1196
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:41,880
I've swiped right for the last time.
1197
00:56:43,720 --> 00:56:45,560
To new beginnings. Cheers.
1198
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:47,840
Alright, cheers, love.
Cheers.
1199
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:51,120
(UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYS)
1200
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:53,840
Oh, now I can relax. Whew!
1201
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:55,400
Ready?
Should we get going?
1202
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,000
Yep, let's do it.
1203
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:58,320
# We've got love on our side. #
1204
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:00,000
Oh, this is just too cute.
Too good.
1205
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:01,760
This is just too cute.
Look at them.
1206
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:03,520
Yeah, I haven't seen that
in a while.
1207
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:05,560
Happy with my decision.
Yeah, I know, right?
1208
00:57:06,720 --> 00:57:09,800
(GENTLE ACOUSTIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1209
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:19,360
KRISTY: I came here after
a series of failed relationships,
1210
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:23,840
and I just feel really grateful
that I found someone like Shane,
1211
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:28,240
and I feel secure in my relationship
with Shane,
1212
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:31,000
but there's still
that little bit of doubt
1213
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:32,880
whether Kayla will accept me or not.
1214
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,800
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1215
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:39,160
The quality's that Kristy has
are she lights up a room.
1216
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:40,440
She has a great smile.
1217
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,680
She's bubbly, she's outgoing,
she's positive.
1218
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:48,400
She's just a happy, happy person,
and it's infectious.
1219
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:50,800
It makes you smile just
because she's smiling.
1220
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:56,560
But, if Kayla doesn't like Kristy,
it's a deal-breaker.
1221
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,200
Well, hello, you two.
Hi.
1222
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:04,960
Well, this, of course,
is the big moment.
1223
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,480
How do you feel?
1224
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:08,840
It's definitely all about
1225
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:12,640
whether the kids give
their tick of approval.
1226
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:13,680
Wow.
1227
00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:17,560
Yeah, because, I mean, for me,
it is a deal-breaker if they...
1228
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:20,480
Wow.
..don't like either of us.
1229
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:25,160
And, Kayla, I know that
that's been a big concern of yours?
1230
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:28,440
Look, I just know she loves Shane
and she's so protective,
1231
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,560
and I think that's why,
the whole way along,
1232
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:34,560
I have been so concerned
about what she thinks of me.
1233
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:35,840
What do you think, Shane?
1234
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,320
Will Kayla be giving her blessing?
1235
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,200
Only if she truly believes
in her heart
1236
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,640
that Kristy would be
the right person for me.
1237
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:47,040
She won't hesitate to say no.
1238
00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:51,920
If she didn't give
her blessing today,
1239
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:55,200
what would that mean
for you and Kristy?
1240
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,000
It would mean that it wouldn't work.
It's...
1241
00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,640
I can't have one in my life
without the other.
1242
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:01,440
That's just...
That just can't happen.
1243
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,320
Kristy, you've gone all in.
1244
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,440
How disappointed would you be?
1245
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,200
Oh, massively.
1246
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:13,000
I've done a lot of reflecting
and felt a lot of emotions
1247
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,200
that, you know, were hard for me,
so, yeah,
1248
00:59:16,240 --> 00:59:20,600
it would be gut-wrenching
if it was all for nothing.
1249
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:21,800
Mm.
1250
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:27,560
I hope that love is waiting for you
at the blessing ceremony.
1251
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,040
Love you two.
Thanks, Kate.
1252
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:30,440
Thanks, Kate.
Good luck.
1253
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:31,760
Good luck.
Thanks.
1254
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:33,080
Thank you.
1255
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:37,800
MILLI: My mum's happiness
means the world to me.
1256
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:42,080
So, after seeing them
and spending time with them today,
1257
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:43,280
there was no bloody way
1258
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:47,000
that I was not giving my blessing
to Shane and Kristy.
1259
00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:50,280
Pretty beautiful, eh?
So nice.
1260
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:52,040
But I'm not sure
where Kayla's head's at.
1261
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:56,040
# You're cool... #
1262
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:57,640
At stake is a lot.
1263
00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:03,360
My dad and I have this incredible,
close connection and we are one.
1264
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,080
I don't know whether
to say yes or no.
1265
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:07,960
If I say yes,
1266
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:12,520
that means I'm allowing Kristy
to step into our home
1267
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:17,240
and become family, and I don't
know how I'm gonna feel about that.
1268
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:23,040
If I say no, that could potentially
really upset my dad.
1269
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:25,120
Nervous?
Yes.
1270
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:28,480
This is really tough for me
to make this decision.
1271
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:31,360
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
1272
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,000
# One two three four
1273
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:42,680
# I'm counting every second
till you open that door like. #
1274
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:44,560
(CHUCKLING)
1275
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:46,320
You guys look so beautiful!
1276
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:48,440
Oh, my God.
1277
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,440
You both look gorgeous.
So do you.
1278
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:51,600
Thank you, beautiful.
1279
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:52,800
Hey, Dad. Mwah!
1280
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:54,920
Hey, princess.
(CONTENTED LAUGHTER)
1281
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:59,760
I'm feeling really nervous
going into the blessing ceremony.
1282
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,960
I really want to just see my dad
and see how he's feeling,
1283
01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:08,200
and really see Kristy and Dad
together in real life.
1284
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:09,720
Take a seat, old man.
1285
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:12,160
Thank you, darling.
1286
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:13,960
I just want to say, for you, Dad,
1287
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:17,840
like, when I dropped you off
at the retreat, you know,
1288
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:20,400
the man that walked in
doesn't show emotion
1289
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:22,400
and doesn't talk about how he feels
1290
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,120
but, all of a sudden,
he's talking about how he feels,
1291
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:26,960
and I just think that
that's so brave
1292
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:30,920
and I'm so proud of you for that,
and I love you very dearly.
1293
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:34,280
You guys look so cute together.
1294
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:35,880
(LAUGHTER)
1295
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,760
When I'd first seen Kristy,
it was like, "Oh, here we go."
1296
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:41,560
(ALL LAUGH)
1297
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,840
Like, this might be OK.
1298
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:45,280
And I kinda knew
that she liked me, too.
1299
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,160
Ooh!
Yeah, I noticed straight away, too.
1300
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:48,320
Yeah.
1301
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:52,320
And, yeah, I just grew a connection,
1302
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:56,200
and it just kept growing and growing
each day and each moment
1303
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:59,840
that we shared, so I haven't felt
like this way in a long time.
1304
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:03,000
What about you, Kristy?
How do you feel about Dad?
1305
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,440
Oh, well, I just instantly felt
1306
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:08,280
that he had a really nice smile
and kind eyes.
1307
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:11,000
There was just this warmth
to his eyes.
1308
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:15,000
Like, he really listens but
not in, like, a scary, like, way.
1309
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:16,760
Welcoming.
Yeah, welcoming.
1310
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:18,400
And he just made me feel safe.
1311
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,040
So, Shane...
Yeah?
1312
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:22,680
Are you in love with my mother?
1313
01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:24,280
I can see it heading that way.
1314
01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:29,080
It's been too early to say that,
and, when I say it, I mean it.
1315
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:30,160
Yep.
1316
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:31,760
And when I mean it, I say it.
Yeah.
1317
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:34,240
So, I'm definitely heading
in the right direction.
1318
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:35,360
Oh, I love that.
1319
01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:36,920
Aw! That's beautiful.
You, Kristy?
1320
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:39,280
Yeah, pretty much
exactly what he just said.
1321
01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:41,120
Aw!
1322
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:45,360
(TENSE MUSIC)
1323
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:47,960
So, Kristy, I've had a stepmum
in the past,
1324
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:50,120
and we've had our highs and our lows
1325
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:53,080
and, you know, we've been through
all different roller-coasters
1326
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,920
and that dynamic
is really important to me.
1327
01:02:56,960 --> 01:03:02,160
So, for a woman to come into our
lives, it's really important for me
1328
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:06,360
for them to be open to
accepting me as a strong woman.
1329
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:07,480
Yeah.
1330
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:11,720
So, that was a big one for me
that I had to weigh up and debate.
1331
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:15,640
And growing up, my mum
was a bit of a party animal.
1332
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:16,920
Yeah, so...
1333
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:20,800
And that was quite confronting
as a child to have to deal with.
1334
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:26,600
I know that you like to party
with the girls,
1335
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,480
and I guess, for me, I wanted
to just dive deeper on that.
1336
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:36,720
Yeah, well, I think, I know,
you know, when you meet someone
1337
01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:41,320
and you are happy, I don't
think you tend to want to go out...
1338
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:42,360
Yeah.
1339
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:45,160
..and party and, you know,
and do those sorts of things.
1340
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,080
Obviously, you've just
gotta trust that...
1341
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:51,520
..you know, from what you've seen
so far, that, deep down,
1342
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:55,360
I am a good person, and I'd love
to be able to show you that.
1343
01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:01,480
Obviously, I've seen you go through
so much in your life
1344
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:08,160
that, like, letting another person
in just to see it go downhill again,
1345
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:12,600
it's so hard because, you know,
I know my mum deserves the best.
1346
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:15,280
She is the most amazing person
in my life,
1347
01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:17,400
and all I want to do
is see her happy.
1348
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:18,600
Oh, don't...
1349
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:22,040
Oh, Mill.
1350
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:26,520
Even for Dad, as well,
1351
01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:29,800
like, we've been through so much
in our lives together.
1352
01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:32,680
We've gone through hell and back,
1353
01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:39,120
and we've come out this strong pair
that really can take on the world,
1354
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:41,960
and, for someone to
step into our world,
1355
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:44,920
that's huge for us
and how that looks...
1356
01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:47,320
..we don't know.
No.
1357
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:48,720
It's the unknown.
Yep.
1358
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,040
Yep.
1359
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:53,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1360
01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:55,320
Yeah, we need to make sure
1361
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:58,840
that this decision is
the right decision for all of us,
1362
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,120
and that what we do here today
1363
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:03,440
could heavily impact
the rest of our lives.
1364
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:05,280
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1365
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:07,360
So...
1366
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:09,000
(MUSIC INTENSIFIES)
1367
01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:10,040
..with that being said...
1368
01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:14,480
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1369
01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:17,040
..I would love to give you guys
my blessing.
1370
01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:19,880
And I would love to give you guys
my blessing.
1371
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:21,080
Ooh!
(LAUGHTER)
1372
01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:24,080
Don't fall for me already!
I am, I am!
1373
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,920
I... I have fallen.
(LAUGHTER)
1374
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:28,360
Yes!
1375
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:30,280
We got their blessing!
1376
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:31,960
Did we just become family?
1377
01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:33,760
We are a family, I knew it!
1378
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,880
It's just the biggest relief.
1379
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:38,840
I feel really loved up to the max.
1380
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,040
(CORK POPS)
1381
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:41,480
GIRLS: Whoo!
1382
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:43,000
(LAUGHTER)
1383
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:47,320
It was just so beautiful to see Dad
and he looked so happy,
1384
01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:50,200
and I'm just feeling like
I'm in love.
1385
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:54,360
To the love we have found,
to the friends we have made
1386
01:05:54,400 --> 01:05:59,240
and for the most remarkable
experience of our entire lives.
1387
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:00,280
Cheers.
Cheers.
1388
01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:01,320
Cheers.
1389
01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:03,520
# Set the bar high
We can take it
1390
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,280
# We can make it to the top
We're not alone. #
1391
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:07,720
It was just a beautiful moment.
1392
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,720
It was something that I've
never experienced before,
1393
01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:13,400
and it was four people
just all coming together,
1394
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:17,600
and we hugged and we cheered
champagne and it was just...
1395
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:19,760
It was an amazing experience.
1396
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:22,040
The king and queen!
1397
01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:23,520
(CHEERING)
1398
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:25,000
Hey-hey!
1399
01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:27,440
(UPLIFTING MUSIC,
CHEERING AND HOLLERING)
1400
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:30,160
I feel so loved...
1401
01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:35,040
..and I've definitely learnt
that love is possible again.
1402
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:37,880
I've learnt that love
can feel safe and secure,
1403
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:39,840
and I think Shane has shown me that.
1404
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,120
Here's to new friendships
and grown-up love.
1405
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:44,680
(CHEERING)
1406
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:46,880
# Step by step
1407
01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:48,520
# Heart by heart
1408
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,760
# You've got it all. #
1409
01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:54,960
(CHEERING, HOLLERING
AND EXCITED CHATTER)
1410
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:58,000
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