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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,640 --> 00:00:03,560 KATE LANGBROEK: They came looking for love. 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,440 KRISTY: Everyone deserves a second chance. 3 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:07,880 KATE: 13 single parents... 4 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:09,320 KAYLA: Find me a sexy step-mumma! 5 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:14,320 ..were nominated by their children to find romance at the retreat. 6 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:17,000 PETULA: I'm ready now and I do want to be swept off my feet. 7 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:18,680 DARREN: How do you reckon the kids are going? 8 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,840 KATE: Welcome to the surveillance room. 9 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:24,960 (LAUGHTER) 10 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:26,080 KATE: As the kids... (GASPS) 11 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:30,040 ..AKA the dating consultants, secretly watched on... 12 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,680 (LAUGHS) Look at my mum's face! 13 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:34,720 HAYDN: We shouldn't be watching but I can't look away. 14 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,080 Turn it off, turn it off! 15 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:38,600 ..one by one... 16 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:39,640 I'm sorry, Charlie. 17 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,120 It's you, Marette. I'm sorry. 18 00:00:43,160 --> 00:00:44,480 Mel... I want to go home. 19 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,040 Tim and Neil. 20 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,880 ..those unable to make a connection left. 21 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:51,800 MEL: You know what, I can do anything. 22 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:54,640 KATE: Then... That was a little bit. 23 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,360 ..four love-struck couples remained... 24 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:57,560 (LAUGHS) 25 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:58,760 MICHELLE: To the lovebirds! 26 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:00,560 ..and... (LAUGHTER) 27 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:02,880 ..they found so much more. 28 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:04,240 HEATH: How amazing! 29 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,160 ..than they could've ever imagined. 30 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS) 31 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:09,440 Yes, Mum! 32 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:10,960 KATE: Until... 33 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,080 Your children have been watching your every move. 34 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:15,120 (LAUGHTER) 35 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:18,240 ..their worlds were turned upside-down. 36 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,280 Your children will decide 37 00:01:21,320 --> 00:01:23,840 if they think you're right for each other. 38 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:25,120 Oh, my god! 39 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:26,720 PETULA: If the kids don't accept us... 40 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,280 Oh! 41 00:01:28,320 --> 00:01:29,800 ..it's a deal-breaker. 42 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:32,960 KATE: Yes, those same kids 43 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,920 who chose their parents to find grown-up love, 44 00:01:36,960 --> 00:01:39,720 now have the power of veto. 45 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:41,840 PRISCILLA: I just want the best for my mum. 46 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,120 KATE: Who will get their children's blessing... 47 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:45,720 MILLI: My mum deserves the best. 48 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,360 KAYLA: I don't know whether to say yes or no. 49 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,640 ..and a second chance at love? 50 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,240 DARREN: Petula and I are nervous. 51 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,760 You're not dating an individual. You're dating a family. 52 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:58,120 KATE: Will fairytales come to an end? 53 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,080 SACHEM: I will easily say no... 54 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,360 KATE: Or will wishes be granted? 55 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,920 Here's to new friendships and grown-up love! 56 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,960 (CHEERING) 57 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:17,640 (UPBEAT LIVELY MUSIC) 58 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:23,040 KATE: It's the final day at the retreat 59 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,840 as our lovebirds emerge from the nest. 60 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,960 # Oh, I need somebody 61 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:36,040 # Who knows how not to run away... 62 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,560 Yum! Hey, guys, breakfast is here! 63 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:39,960 Giddy up. 64 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,440 I'm absolutely starving! 65 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,280 KATE: They've worked up an appetite 66 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:49,200 despite last night leaving an unexpected taste in their mouth. 67 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,920 How did everyone sleep for their last night in the retreat? 68 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:54,880 (SCOFFS) Did you? Terrible. 69 00:02:54,920 --> 00:02:57,440 So, it's the morning of the blessing ceremony 70 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,600 and we're all a bit wary. We don't know how it's going to go. 71 00:02:59,640 --> 00:03:01,120 Last night, we found out 72 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,280 that the kids had been watching us 73 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:05,080 and being the dating experts. 74 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,200 We all need the kids to give us their approval and their blessing 75 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:11,720 and that's where we're all sort of 76 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,800 starting to second-guess our relationships 77 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:15,520 and the things that we've done the house. 78 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,720 So, how do we reckon the kids are going to go 79 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,480 with blessing all of us? 80 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,120 I'm petrified. 81 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,800 Oh, my god. You know when your mind's just thinking back? 82 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:29,560 I am who I am and I like to be the life of the party 83 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,640 but I was slightly concerned on a few occasions, 84 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,040 or maybe more than a few occasions. 85 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:38,120 The question that I got about what was the biggest age gap? 86 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,360 That was probably a low-light. 87 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,320 While we were all sitting in that room stalking our parents, 88 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,240 I saw a different side to Darren, 89 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:48,960 and I have to sit there and now decide 90 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,720 if I want to see Darren and Mum's relationship prosper 91 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:56,000 and give them my blessing or not my blessing. 92 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,520 Hmm... Them skeletons come out the cupboard. 93 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,520 Yeah, anyway. 94 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:04,080 I'm just not sure how much footage the kids have seen. 95 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:08,040 There could have been one little thing that Kayla has seen 96 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:09,760 and decided, no, that's it. 97 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:11,960 Kayla means the world to Shane 98 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,240 and if Kayla doesn't give us her blessing, 99 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:15,840 that could be the end of us. 100 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:21,080 I am not a crier or P like, I don't normally act like that. 101 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:22,560 Yeah. 102 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,280 But yeah, obviously, to Kayla, that's really embarrassing 103 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,480 'cause it does look like I'm a big diva. 104 00:04:28,280 --> 00:04:30,960 KAYLA: I feel like what I've seen 105 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:34,040 will have an impact on the blessing ceremony. 106 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,880 Alright, hands in. Come on. 107 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,160 Hands in. 108 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,560 One, two, three. 109 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,000 ALL: Yay! 110 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:46,400 Oh, my god! Whoa! 111 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,240 I just got goosebumps. 112 00:04:48,280 --> 00:04:50,000 KATE: For the last time, 113 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:53,400 the surveillance screens in the bunker are switched off. 114 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:54,600 Wow! 115 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:59,360 KATE: The next time the kids lay eyes on their parents will be in person. 116 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:03,120 There'll be no more spy cams to hide behind then. 117 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:07,320 We have to start really realising our fairytale is coming to an end. 118 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:08,640 Yeah, I agree. 119 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:09,960 Pshh! 120 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:12,560 And we have to start being serious. Yeah. 121 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,480 It's like make a big decision, you know, 122 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:19,400 and we all can't kind of jump to one answer too quickly. 123 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:20,720 Whoo! 124 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:25,400 KATE: Waiting alone in the retreat, 125 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,360 our single parents are deep in thought 126 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:32,320 after being told their little munchkins are on the way. 127 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:35,520 They haven't spoken to their kids in a few weeks. 128 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,200 Oh, the anticipation. 129 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:43,480 # So, I'm coming home, home... 130 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:47,000 KATE: For the kids, this short visit with their parents 131 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:48,600 and then their partners 132 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,960 is their last opportunity to decide 133 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:53,960 whether they'll give their tick of approval 134 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:59,440 to their parents' relationship ahead of today's blessing ceremony... 135 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,120 I have a massive decision in front of me 136 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:05,520 and I need to speak one-on-one with my mum and away from Darren. 137 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,200 Those are real hard one-to-one questions. 138 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:11,920 I think our mother-son relationship has always been close, 139 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:16,280 and for my mum, my opinion truly matters. 140 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:21,600 # So, I'm coming home, home... 141 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:24,920 TESS: So, I walk into the retreat 142 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:26,600 and I am just over the moon. 143 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,920 I cannot wait to give my dad, Darren, a big cuddle 144 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,600 and just hold him and just know that he's been OK. 145 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:40,920 I mean, I talk to my dad at least ten times a day every day, 146 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,360 so it's been hard having no connection with him 147 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,760 or communication, so I just can't wait. 148 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,200 I cannot wait to see him. 149 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:57,120 (CRIES) 150 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:01,000 (TENDER MUSIC) 151 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:07,640 (TENDER MUSIC CONTINUES) 152 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,000 (GASPS) DRHYS: Hello, hello, hello! 153 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:12,800 (LAUGHTER) 154 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:16,520 I've missed you. 155 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:18,960 (LAUGHTER) 156 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,360 You can't be like this, Mum. I'm going to cry. 157 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:23,000 PETULA: Drhys is my rock. 158 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:24,320 He wants the best for me 159 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:28,880 and if Drhys tells me today that I don't have his blessing, 160 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:33,120 Darren and I will be over. 161 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,480 You've been watching everything? I've been watching everything. 162 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:37,800 Everything? 163 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:39,000 Everything! 164 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,400 (LAUGHTER) 165 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,080 The striptease, everything! 166 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,760 (LAUGHS) Do know how many times I sat there 167 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,480 just like my head in my hands, going, "Oh, my god." 168 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:52,600 "I could melt into this couch right now."? 169 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,120 (LAUGHTER) 170 00:07:54,160 --> 00:08:00,240 Meeting Petula was great I knew you'd like her calmness. 171 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:04,120 TESS: I really like Petula but I do have some concerns. 172 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:07,200 Dad lives in Victoria, Petula lives in Western Australia. 173 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:08,240 I just think 174 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:11,120 it will likely be a deal breaker. 175 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,080 I know how much your love language is affection, 176 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,280 and, you know, I would never picture you working 177 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:18,600 in a long-distance relationship. 178 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,000 There's 1,700 km from WA. Yeah. 179 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,320 That's a real hard thing. 180 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:23,600 Oh, god, yeah. 181 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,560 Yeah, I really need to know, what drew you to Darren? 182 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,800 What drew me to Darren? Yeah. 183 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:34,240 He spoke about his kids. 184 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,240 He spoke about his kids 185 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:39,040 and, you know, and he got emotional 186 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:42,640 and my heart just, like, just jumped out of my chest. 187 00:08:42,680 --> 00:08:46,680 That was it, and he's funny and charismatic 188 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:50,280 and, you know, says silly things and you've probably seen... 189 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:51,840 Oh, he's... ..he's done some striptease 190 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:53,640 on the table. Oh, we saw that. Don't worry. 191 00:08:53,680 --> 00:08:55,920 I haven't even seen that. You wait. 192 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,080 It was great to see Mum. 193 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:00,320 It was great to talk to her and see her face-to-face 194 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:01,360 and not through a screen. 195 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,360 Her happiness is like the biggest thing to me in the world 196 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:07,240 and it definitely helped with my decision. 197 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,080 I love you, Mum. Love you. 198 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:10,560 Alright. 199 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:12,480 # Hey... 200 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,400 KATE: Now, all the kids need a little help 201 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,360 to come to a final decision. 202 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:21,120 # The children of the revolution... 203 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:25,960 KATE: Perhaps none more so than Roe's son, Sachem... 204 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,360 How are you doing, man? Man, good, good. 205 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:30,800 Mum! 206 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,480 ..and Carole's daughter, Priscilla... 207 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:33,960 I missed you! 208 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:38,040 ..who witnessed their parents' rather steamy pillow talk. 209 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:39,640 There was some fall-on stuff there. 210 00:09:39,680 --> 00:09:41,920 (LAUGHTER) 211 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,760 Like, wow! 212 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,560 How can I change Carole? How can I... 213 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:47,960 You can't change Carole 214 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:49,280 but does everything have to be sexual? 215 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:50,800 I've had a big drought. 216 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,400 I don't care. 217 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:53,760 And my man is hot, man. 218 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:57,120 Physically and that, definitely, that's... 219 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:58,240 Oh, we know. 220 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,520 Reow! Sorry, I couldn't help it. 221 00:10:01,560 --> 00:10:02,880 Sorry. 222 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,920 There is a strong physical attraction there with Roe. 223 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,760 I think my mum's put herself out there a lot 224 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:12,240 and I think that he's just not reciprocating the same 225 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,480 and I really don't want to see her get hurt. 226 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:21,000 She's attractive, fun, outgoing, you know, takes charge, you know, 227 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:22,560 that's who I normally date. 228 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:26,000 However, what is a challenge for me is, 229 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,080 she mentioned the other day that I made her feel loved. 230 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:33,920 You're throwing that word out there. That's a precious word. 231 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,040 It really is. 232 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,480 I don't know why Dad has these walls guarded up. 233 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:42,200 Someone like Carole would be an amazing person for my dad, 234 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,040 but it's like, open up. Dad, open up. 235 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:45,840 Try and connect with someone. 236 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,360 KATE: Sachem isn't the only one 237 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,800 who hopes his parent will open their heart to love. 238 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,320 (SQUEALS) 239 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:55,360 (LAUGHTER) 240 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:58,040 KATE: Chloe, too, wants her mum to let go 241 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:01,880 and fall for fireman, Heath, who's been coming on hot. 242 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,880 I missed P I actually missed your smell! 243 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:05,560 (LAUGHTER) 244 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:08,920 (LAUGHS) Hey! 245 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:10,960 How are you? Hey, buddy. 246 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,600 Good to see you. Missed you heaps, mate. 247 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,240 I definitely think I got the winning prize. 248 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:20,480 Him? Him. 249 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:22,000 Oh, yeah. You got the best man in the house. 250 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,160 That's what I mean. The only thing is... 251 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:29,680 Haydn's got a few little questions and, you know, doubts. 252 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:35,280 Do you have any concerns or doubts moving forward with Michelle? 253 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:36,760 She's an incredible person. 254 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,240 Yeah, she's travelled the world and yeah... 255 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,080 And an accent. 256 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:42,800 And an English accent. 257 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,720 You know, I do like a bit of an English accent. 258 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:46,680 Yes, I do. 259 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,240 But if it was a decision 260 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:52,000 where I had to follow, you know, the love of my life back to England 261 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,040 or leave you guys, I'm not leaving you guys. 262 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:56,560 Yeah. 263 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,440 He's just kind of worried about the whole moving back to England 264 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,880 and I think that's one topic that I really need to ask her about. 265 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,160 So, do you think she could be the one? 266 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,360 I've got a big decision to make this afternoon. 267 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:13,360 So, if Haydn didn't give me his, you know, 100% blessing, 268 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:14,920 it would be a deal breaker. 269 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,400 What are you thinking? 270 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:20,200 I have my doubts. 271 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:21,440 You have your doubts? 272 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:22,640 What are the doubts. 273 00:12:22,680 --> 00:12:25,800 She just seems a little bit reluctant to open up and... 274 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,160 Yeah. 275 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,280 I just want to make sure. I know you've been hurt in the past. 276 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,200 I want to make sure she's not going to hurt you again. 277 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:32,680 Yeah, yeah. 278 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,920 (SUSPENSEFUL STRINGS PLAY) 279 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:43,680 Raaa! 280 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,040 Hello. Hey, princess. 281 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:51,320 How are you? I'm good. Yourself? 282 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:52,600 Good. 283 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:55,640 (EMOTIVE MUSIC) 284 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:03,920 Can I sit next to you? Yeah, sit next to me. 285 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:05,720 Alright. 286 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:07,400 Tell me everything. 287 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,120 How was it? So, tell me about the house. 288 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:10,920 Who are your top people? 289 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:12,320 Kayla is like my best friend. 290 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:13,440 Bullshit. 291 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,720 First person I was best friends with. 292 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:17,040 No way! 293 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:18,160 Yeah. 294 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,480 My major concern was with, 295 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:23,320 like, Kayla not liking... maybe not liking me. 296 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,240 Yeah, what the heck was going on with that? 297 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,120 Kayla was getting angry, like, why would she not... 298 00:13:29,560 --> 00:13:32,280 She was so stressed about meeting you. 299 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,160 Yeah, I know. I know. 300 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:39,400 I saw she goes, "Kayla doesn't like anyone." 301 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:40,720 And I was like, "Wow!" 302 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:42,640 Of course, I'm going to be protective over you. 303 00:13:42,680 --> 00:13:45,120 Yeah. That's no shadow of a doubt. 304 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,600 Kayla giving Kristy and I our blessing, 305 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,080 it means everything 306 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:51,680 and if Kayla doesn't like Kristy, 307 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:56,640 then I can't really have a relationship in the outside world. 308 00:13:56,680 --> 00:13:59,920 But it was pretty obvious that we had a good bond 309 00:13:59,960 --> 00:14:02,600 and she's so bubbly and she's a beautiful person.. 310 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:03,760 Yeah. Alright. 311 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,000 Well, I'm going to go meet Kristy. Oh, really? 312 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:07,200 Yeah. 313 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:08,640 I'm starting to get a bit nervous now. 314 00:14:08,680 --> 00:14:10,480 I'll see you soon. Alright. 315 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:12,440 Love you. I love you too. 316 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,480 # Careful what you wish for... 317 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:18,280 KATE: Coming up... 318 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,000 Hello! Entree. 319 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,200 How are you? How are you? 320 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,520 ..friendly introductions... 321 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:25,880 Look at you. 322 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:28,960 ..turn into frosty interrogations... 323 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:31,400 I've got a question. Oh, god. Here we go. 324 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,280 ..and not everyone passes the test... 325 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:37,200 At this stage, I'm a bit unsure. 326 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:43,520 ..before a blessing ceremony where some kids will say no. 327 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,920 Michelle, what are your intentions for my father? 328 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:48,560 I think he was expecting me to just be like, "Yes, yes, yes." 329 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:49,880 But yeah, not today. 330 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:58,920 (UPBEAT LIVELY MUSIC) 331 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:02,800 # I know that you prefer it in your comfort zone... 332 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,520 KATE: The kids now get to meet their parents' prospective partners 333 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,440 for the first time in the flesh... 334 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:12,720 Good luck! Good luck. 335 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,320 ..and they have a tough decision to make. 336 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:16,880 Hello! 337 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:18,840 Hello. (LAUGHS) 338 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,400 KATE: If they give their blessing and the relationship falls apart, 339 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:23,920 their parents will get hurt. 340 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:28,120 It's so nice to meet you! I know, I've been dying to meet you. 341 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:32,880 KATE: But if they don't approve, they also risk hurting their parents. 342 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:34,160 (LAUGHS) 343 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,560 Hello! 344 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:37,840 See, I got to meet his son. 345 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,400 Doesn't matter if he didn't want me to meet you. 346 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:42,120 Let me get this door for you. 347 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:43,680 Hello! Entree. 348 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,280 How are you? How are you? 349 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:47,760 Nice to finally meet you. 350 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,720 I know, nice to meet you too. I'm Roe. 351 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,880 Nice to meet you. Priscilla. Lovely to meet you too. 352 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:53,680 Have a seat. Wow. 353 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:55,440 It's a really crucial time at the moment 354 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:58,320 with the blessing ceremony looming so soon. 355 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,440 It's one thing watching someone through the screen 356 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,000 and watching how they act 357 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:07,840 to seeing them in person and being able to feel their energy 358 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,000 and look them in the eye face-to-face. 359 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:14,200 First of all, let me apologise to you about my behaviour 360 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:19,000 with your mum, about the cherries and the tongue thing on the... 361 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:20,720 Don't want to relive it. I know you don't, but... 362 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:22,640 Like, I don't want to know! 363 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,000 (CLEARS THROAT) 364 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:26,720 Oh, now, I feel awkward all of a sudden. 365 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:28,800 So, I guess what I wanted to know more from you 366 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,480 is kind of what you feel about my mum, 367 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:35,160 so then I can P 'cause I felt like I didn't get that from you. 368 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:38,400 She's a beautiful, sexy woman. 369 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,120 You know what I mean? Yep. Yeah. 370 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,440 Aesthetically. Yeah. 371 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:44,720 I'm sure I don't doubt that. And we'll leave it at that, 372 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,520 and we leave it at that. Aesthetically... 373 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,200 So, you're saying, you're definitely physically attracted. 374 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:51,680 Oh, yeah. Without a doubt. 375 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:53,480 Yeah, OK. Oh, yeah. 376 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:56,520 I'm interested in knowing your thoughts on me. 377 00:16:56,560 --> 00:17:00,920 From watching you and observing you over the past however many days, 378 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,560 you're definitely, in my opinion, 379 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:08,000 a man who, you know, has a lot of pride and respect for himself 380 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:09,800 and is a gentleman. 381 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:11,440 I definitely do see that in you. 382 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,320 Thank you. 383 00:17:13,360 --> 00:17:18,600 But I felt like you're very, I guess, discreet. 384 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:20,600 I just couldn't read you. 385 00:17:22,120 --> 00:17:23,960 Um... 386 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:28,680 I have never spoken about my emotions. 387 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:31,200 Yeah. Oh, I can definitely tell. 388 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:37,400 I don't have the capacity at this point in time. 389 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:42,680 I have a place of my space is protected. 390 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:48,800 It's a place where I want somebody to understand the temperature. 391 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:54,120 I think Roe's lack of emotional expression 392 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,000 is disappointing on my behalf. 393 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:57,680 I do still think he has walls up. 394 00:18:00,120 --> 00:18:02,720 # You know I told you so 395 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:04,880 # Crawl right back from the lies you told 396 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,320 # You know I told you so... 397 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:10,920 How are you? 398 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:12,880 Look at you. (CHUCKLES) 399 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:14,600 No wonder he's so proud of you. 400 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:16,280 I'm good. How are you? I'm good. 401 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,040 Sorry, I'm touching you. No, it's alright. 402 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,120 I'm a mum. It's alright. 403 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,000 Have you been? It's been wonderful. 404 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:25,920 You know, regardless, I did break a few walls down for him. 405 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,880 I saw that. You know? 406 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:29,360 And I'm sorry, I couldn't help 407 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,080 that I want to jump your dad's bones because he's pretty hot. 408 00:18:32,120 --> 00:18:33,320 Yeah. 409 00:18:33,360 --> 00:18:35,000 Sorry, I love P that's the sort of man I love. 410 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:37,400 (LAUGHTER) 411 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:39,240 Wow, meeting Carole was insane. 412 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:42,240 Carole is someone, as I've said before, 413 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,560 who I think that my dad would really be suited for. 414 00:18:46,360 --> 00:18:48,800 Carole is deserving of someone 415 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,600 who is going to give her what she wants 416 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:54,320 but so many questions to ask. 417 00:18:54,360 --> 00:18:59,560 I wanted to like hear from you, like, what it is you've experienced. 418 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:01,560 Look, I've experienced... 419 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,240 Yeah, look, I need to bring down some walls 420 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,400 and yes, I could see it working slowly. 421 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,800 Yeah, I'd like to give it a go. 422 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:13,000 You know, he gave me a little bit, so I thought, "OK." 423 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:14,920 You know? 424 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:18,280 Did you think I was the right person when you've seen me? 425 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,120 Did you think I'd be the one? 426 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,200 I really, yeah, I really have. 427 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,040 I don't want Dad to be alone. 428 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:30,240 I just wanted him to experience someone has a heart like you 429 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:34,640 and I could see that my dad's walls were up. 430 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,840 Yeah. 431 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,880 I know what being on the receiving end of that is like. 432 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,520 I can see that. 433 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:46,680 I feel you. 434 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,480 I feel you so hard. 435 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:52,520 I feel you. 436 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:00,120 Thank you so much. 437 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:03,400 You're more open than your dad. (CHUCKLES) 438 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:04,880 You need to step in. 439 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:08,680 You are the one that's going to help Dad. 440 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:10,520 We both know. (CHUCKLES) I know. 441 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,200 I can help too but... 442 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:16,280 Yeah. So, we've got the blessing ceremony. 443 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,840 Yes. 444 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:19,080 And we've got to decide 445 00:20:19,120 --> 00:20:21,480 whether or not we're going to give the blessing. 446 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,000 Just whatever happens, I just want you to know 447 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,640 that everything is from my love. 448 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:30,920 # Feeling love, feel enough, feeling less than... 449 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,600 TESS: Oh, my god! 450 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,000 I'm nervous. 451 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:36,560 Hey, mate. How are you? 452 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,600 Hey, Drhys. I'm not tearing up for you. 453 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,800 (LAUGHS) Good man. 454 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,080 Oh, no! 455 00:20:45,120 --> 00:20:47,600 I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. 456 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:50,040 Oh, my god. 457 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:54,200 You are even more beautiful in person. 458 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,080 Oh, I'm shaking! 459 00:20:57,120 --> 00:20:59,640 I know, I'm so nervous. 460 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,800 How are you? I'm well. How are you? 461 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,800 I'm good. 462 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,400 How weird is this? This is... I'm sorry. 463 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,000 I'm sorry for anything that I have said or done 464 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,280 or encouraged your dad to do. Don't be ridiculous! 465 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,560 (LAUGHTER) 466 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,280 I think we both know dad will do what he wants to do. 467 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:18,720 Yeah, there's no control. 468 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,880 There's just no raining him in. 469 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:22,800 I love Petula. 470 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:27,480 I think that she is just so intuitive and kind 471 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,040 and, you know, she just seems like such a nice soul. 472 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,000 I don't know what's going to happen, OK? 473 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,440 I'm being honest with you, right? 474 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,560 Yeah, of course, of course. I don't know what's going to happen 475 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:42,040 but it just, you know, I just feel like he makes me feel good. 476 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:46,280 He makes me feel safe and I just want him in my life. 477 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:47,720 I don't know what else to say. 478 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:52,960 From what I've seen, I definitely would love to see them 479 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:54,880 kind of grow this connection further. 480 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,000 But Drhys might need a little bit of time 481 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,720 to digest the whole situation. 482 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,440 So, how did you go watching all this from afar? 483 00:22:07,120 --> 00:22:08,640 It was pretty good. Yeah? 484 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,240 Like, me and Mum have a pretty good bond. 485 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,360 She's very centred and very calm. 486 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:14,640 So... 487 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:15,800 Well, that's what I said to her. 488 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:17,360 I was like, "You have to be your true self." 489 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,880 "and always your true self." 490 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,960 Well, Tess told me to be ten percent of myself, so... 491 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:23,840 How did you go with some of the stories? 492 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,080 (LAUGHS) 493 00:22:25,120 --> 00:22:27,080 How did you feel doing your striptease? 494 00:22:27,120 --> 00:22:29,360 Yeah, that was a bit awkward. 495 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,120 No, you're right, you're right. 496 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:32,720 What drew you into Mum? 497 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:38,120 She was just calm and had a real confidence about her 498 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:39,840 and I like how she doesn't talk a lot. 499 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,280 She chooses her words, right, 500 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,120 and I'd rather have someone choosing their words 501 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,880 than a lot of blah, blah, blah, blah. 502 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,600 I'm always protective over Mum. 503 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,720 I love her and she's always going to come first... 504 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,920 ..and I have to make this tough decision. 505 00:22:57,120 --> 00:23:01,200 This decision that will shape us as a family 506 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,360 and as the future continues to roll out. 507 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,520 Interviewing you and talking to Mum and watching everything, 508 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,600 I've been tossing up many, many odds 509 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,080 and that's me coming from the heart. 510 00:23:12,120 --> 00:23:16,320 So, hopefully you can understand my decision whatever it is. 511 00:23:16,360 --> 00:23:18,080 Yep, yeah. 100%, mate. 512 00:23:18,120 --> 00:23:19,920 Hopefully, Mum does as well. 513 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,960 Yeah. But on that note, 514 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,480 I'm going to leave you with a cliffhanger. 515 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:24,720 Alright. 516 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,920 Going into the blessing, I have to put Mum's best interest 517 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,760 and what I think is best for her at heart 518 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,680 and whether I can see this distance working. 519 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:40,560 How have you been? Oh, my gosh. So many questions, so many... 520 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,280 So many questions? 521 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,320 How are you finding my mum? 522 00:23:44,360 --> 00:23:47,440 Because she's P yeah, she's a firecracker. 523 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,520 She is a firecracker. Very sociable. 524 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,840 She'll talk to... She talks to everybody. 525 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,280 Yeah, yeah. It's really good. 526 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,000 It's really nice just to go slow, not rush anything. 527 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,200 Good things come to those who wait. Good things come to those who wait. 528 00:23:58,240 --> 00:23:59,640 Yeah, yeah. 529 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,400 Could you see yourself settling down with my dad? 530 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,920 You know, after youse go on a few more dates, 531 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,600 do you think he's that type of guy? 532 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,600 Oh, he is. Yeah? 533 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,760 I know he would settle down. Oh, you're asking about... 534 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,840 I know he's been hurt before, so... 535 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:17,120 I know. 536 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,160 He's put his heart all on the table 537 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:20,560 and I just want to make sure... 538 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,400 Yeah, fair play. ..he's not gonna get hurt again. 539 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,680 (CLICKS TONGUE) Look, who knows? 540 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,120 Who knows? 541 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,560 Certainly, my intentions are baby steps. 542 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,200 Baby steps? Yeah, that's fair enough. 543 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,040 Michelle's looking a little bit reserved 544 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,040 and she's taking her time to answer. 545 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,360 So, that got me a little bit worried. 546 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,080 I've got a question. Oh, god, here we go. 547 00:24:42,120 --> 00:24:44,800 Would moving back, you know, back to England, the UK, 548 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,480 would that ever be a possibility in the future? 549 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,200 I'd be lying if I didn't say it could be. 550 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,920 It could be? I don't know. Look, I don't know. 551 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,160 Yeah. Who knows what's round the corner? 552 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:57,600 We don't know. Yeah. 553 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,920 So, I wish I could give you the answer on it. 554 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,240 I'm just nervous about making this decision. 555 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,320 I know he's been hurt in the past 556 00:25:07,360 --> 00:25:10,720 and I know that he is confident in me to choose the right thing, 557 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,160 so there's a lot riding on what my answer will be 558 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:15,960 and it's going to be really tough 559 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,080 to come out with the perfect answer here. 560 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:20,480 KATE: Coming up... 561 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:21,520 Are you scared? Yes. 562 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:22,640 Yeah? Yes! 563 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,040 Just a little bit? Just a little bit. 564 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:28,160 If the kids don't accept us, then it's a deal breaker. 565 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:34,400 KATE: A blessing ceremony truth bomb threatens to end a relationship. 566 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,840 It's something that we all need to realise and a reality. 567 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,840 # Yeah, we won't, won't give, give up... 568 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,280 KATE: For our single parents and their kids, 569 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:58,000 the course of their lives is set to change in one single event - 570 00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,920 the blessing ceremony. 571 00:25:59,960 --> 00:26:01,800 A blessing. A blessing ceremony. 572 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,880 KATE: For each parent, if their child does not give their blessing, 573 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:11,080 their newfound relationship and hopes for a blended family will be over. 574 00:26:11,120 --> 00:26:14,360 But if they do receive their children's approval, 575 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:19,280 the parents' desire for forever love could be realised. 576 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,960 So, who will be left heartbroken 577 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,240 and who will be blessed with a fairytale ending? 578 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,480 I can't wait. 579 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,960 KATE: It all comes down to a yay or a nay. 580 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,240 DARREN: Petula and I are nervous 581 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,600 and we haven't been nervous the whole time in the retreat. 582 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,000 We've had a ball, we've had smiles on our faces. 583 00:26:39,360 --> 00:26:43,440 We've grown to really get a good respect and love for each other. 584 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,520 I think she's a perfect match. 585 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,000 But like if Drhys doesn't give me the blessing 586 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,040 for the relationship to move on, 587 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,880 that's a deal breaker for both of us. 588 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,560 # Show me a hill 589 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:01,320 # Show me a mountain, we'll climb it... 590 00:27:01,360 --> 00:27:02,880 Darren is amazing. 591 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,240 I feel like we could have a fabulous life together. 592 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:11,840 But if Drhys tells me today that I don't have his blessing, 593 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,280 I will be heartbroken. 594 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,120 I value his opinion, I love him to bits. 595 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:21,000 I'm hoping that he can see through the larrikin 596 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,560 and the humour that Darren puts out and see what I've seen. 597 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:29,000 But if Drhys doesn't see that, it will be devastating to me. 598 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,280 # I won't give up on you... 599 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,760 PETULA: I don't know what's going to happen. 600 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,880 Oh, hello you two. 601 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,920 Well, well, well. 602 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,840 I see you standing hand-in-hand with each other. 603 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:44,280 How are you feeling? 604 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,800 Really good. It's been an amazing retreat, 605 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:50,280 like pushing boundaries, looking into different areas. 606 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:51,440 Sure. 607 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,400 But the most crucial thing that's just happened 608 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,800 is you've met Drhys, Petula's son. 609 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,080 That was confronting and great. Right. 610 00:27:58,120 --> 00:28:01,240 Like, he's certainly a reflection of yourself. 611 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,240 Like, 100%. He's an amazing kid 612 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,320 and I was a little bit dubious about some of the things he's seen. 613 00:28:06,360 --> 00:28:08,760 And how do you think it went? I think it went well. 614 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,960 I think we're sort of two similar souls, I think. 615 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,400 You know, he likes the banter and the comebacks. 616 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,920 But obviously, it'd be great to have his blessing. 617 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,520 Of course. 618 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:19,560 Petula... 619 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,120 Yes. 620 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:25,040 If you were not to get Tess's blessing at the blessing ceremony, 621 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,240 how would you feel? 622 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,240 I'd be upset. 623 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,040 I would hope she can see the connection that we have 624 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,080 and she has seen the person that I am. 625 00:28:37,120 --> 00:28:40,160 If Tess doesn't give us her blessing, 626 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,000 it's going to be very sad 627 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,840 because Darren has made no secret 628 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:49,800 that his kids have to accept the next person in his life. 629 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:54,000 For me, it's the same thing and so if the kids don't accept us, 630 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,480 then it's a deal breaker. 631 00:28:56,520 --> 00:29:01,360 Well, you guys have made such a lovely connection 632 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,440 and I really wish you the best of luck today 633 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:05,720 and the best of love. 634 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:07,560 OK. Thank you. 635 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:08,840 Thanks, Kate. 636 00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:15,880 # Everybody's looking for something... 637 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,000 DRHYS: I have a massive decision in front of me. 638 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,920 I've spent the entire day thinking about it. 639 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,200 I don't want Mum to get hurt 640 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,040 but I have to make this tough decision. 641 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:28,320 This decision that will shape us as a family. 642 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,960 She definitely trusts me to make that right decision. 643 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,640 # My future looks like you... 644 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,640 Oh! Oh, wow! 645 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:37,960 That's amazing! 646 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:39,360 How beautiful! 647 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,560 You scared? Yes. Yes! 648 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:44,400 Just a little bit? Just a little bit. You? 649 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:45,840 Yeah, I am. 650 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,640 I've got more reason to be scared. 651 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:49,160 Let me tell you. 652 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,560 Feeling the weight of the decision on my shoulders, for sure. 653 00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,000 Just relax. (LAUGHS) 654 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,600 You know, Dad values my opinion so much 655 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,160 and it's kind of like having his happiness in my hands. 656 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,040 # This time, we're going to get it right 657 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,880 # This time, we going to get it back... 658 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,040 Hey! 659 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,640 (LAUGHTER) 660 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,360 Hello. 661 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,960 You look good on TV. 662 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,200 How are you, Mum? 663 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,160 Hello! Hey. 664 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:26,480 G'day, mate. 665 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:27,640 How are you? 666 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,000 You look beautiful. Thank you. So do you. 667 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,920 So, how are you guys feeling? 668 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,360 (LAUGHS) A bit under pressure. 669 00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:34,920 Yes. 670 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,760 Nervous. Yeah? 671 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:38,360 Yeah, but it's good. 672 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,200 I think for both of us, 673 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,200 it's, you know, we've seen the highs and lows 674 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,040 of all the different people in the house, 675 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,560 but personally, for me, 676 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,280 I think when you dropped me off at the retreat, 677 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,040 you said, "Go deeper." 678 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,320 And that's what I've been doing and that's the connection we've got. 679 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,560 And do you think that's what drew you to Petula initially? 680 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,080 Yeah, 100%. No, Petula's calmness 681 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:02,280 and her "I'll speak what I want to not because I have to"... 682 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:03,960 Yeah. ..I really respect 683 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,320 because, you know, whatever she says, everyone listens to. 684 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,000 So, how do you feel about it? 685 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,520 I feel really good. 686 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,640 I feel like we bonded really quick 687 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,760 and our conversations were comfortable. 688 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,440 It wasn't strained, there was no awkward silence, 689 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:19,880 we were just bouncing off each other 690 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,280 and we went deep in the conversations 691 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,640 in getting to know each other really quick, 692 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:25,880 and that only comes 693 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,600 from an instant feeling of being comfortable, so yeah. 694 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:29,960 That's true. 695 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,680 (TENDER SOUNDTRACK) 696 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,160 From the day I dropped you off to the day meeting you now, 697 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,280 I've been on the edge of my seat. 698 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,320 You've changed 699 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:45,520 and through this journey, watching you find a connection, 700 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,440 you've almost found that missing piece of the puzzle 701 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:48,920 that you never had. 702 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,640 I'm so proud of you for how far you've come. 703 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,040 Thank you. 704 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,840 It's been amazing and I feel so incredibly proud of you. 705 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,000 You have just come so far, even just over this week, 706 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:14,840 allowing yourself to be loved after, you know, a long time. 707 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,800 It's been beautiful to watch 708 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,720 that deep interaction happen so quickly. 709 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:27,520 But I think that the long-distance is going to be hard. 710 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,320 Dad, you having a love language of affection, 711 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,520 it could be hard for you 712 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,240 to live so far apart from someone for so long. 713 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,600 Drhys, what do you think? 714 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:50,560 I have been thinking about this for a while, 715 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,520 and obviously, as Tess has said, the distance is a worry. 716 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,760 You know, we do live so far away 717 00:32:55,800 --> 00:33:01,280 and yes, we plan to move here, but when? 718 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:02,800 When is the big question. 719 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:09,000 # But every good thing has its end... 720 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,680 But it's something that we all need to realise and a reality. 721 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,280 100%, and whether or not it lasts because of the distance, 722 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,800 but the connection won't go away, I don't think. 723 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:20,880 Yeah. 724 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,920 (MUSIC BUILDS) 725 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,400 The connection that you guys have developed over this past week 726 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,920 has been incredible to watch... 727 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:36,840 ..and... 728 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,200 ..I do give my blessing. 729 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,920 Oh! Told you she would. 730 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,720 (LAUGHS) 731 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:45,760 Thank you. 732 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:51,480 (SIGHS) 733 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,440 The most important thing to me in this world is you, Mum, 734 00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,240 is you being happy... 735 00:33:58,120 --> 00:33:59,400 ..and... 736 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:02,240 ..you've got my blessing. 737 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:03,960 Thanks. That means a lot. 738 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,080 Alright. Let's celebrate. 739 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:07,400 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 740 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,160 To get Tess and Drhys's blessing is amazing. 741 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:13,800 That's what we wanted from the start and we can't be happier. 742 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,960 Whoo-hoo! (LAUGHS) 743 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,520 Relieved now. Relieved. 744 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:18,920 (LAUGHTER) 745 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:20,360 I think coming on an experience like this, 746 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,040 you're not dating an individual, you're dating a family 747 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:24,600 and you're creating a family environment, 748 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,240 so that's been amazing for us 749 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,480 and having the kids give us all their blessing 750 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:30,800 will make it easier for us to move forward in the future. 751 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,360 Cheers to the future, guys. 752 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,000 To the future. Cheers. 753 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:38,200 It is beautiful, it's heartfelt, it's emotionally charged, 754 00:34:38,240 --> 00:34:42,360 the tears are flowing, and it's amazing. 755 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,480 (LAUGHTER) 756 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,720 It feels so right. 757 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:48,840 You left it there. 758 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,360 I've had enough. (LAUGHTER) 759 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,960 Mum, you're my role model 760 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,520 and I will always look up to you for how strong you are. 761 00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:59,720 I love you. 762 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:01,000 I love you too. 763 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,800 (OMINOUS SOUNDTRACK) 764 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:09,040 I guess it's time to give our blessing or not. 765 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,480 # I was hoping it would be 766 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,280 # Forever... 767 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,080 # Sick and tired of being good 768 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:22,800 # It's time to make a change 769 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,920 # It's time to rearrange my life, uh-oh... 770 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,560 KATE: From the moment they laid eyes on each other, 771 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,480 Roe and Carole had undeniable sexual chemistry, 772 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:35,240 but is that going to be enough for their kids? 773 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,000 ROE: Today's going to be an interesting day. 774 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,840 Carole's a really good woman, beautiful, unbelievable sexy. 775 00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,480 And we have the blessing coming up soon 776 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,720 and I need that for us. 777 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,320 We need that. 778 00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:54,040 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 779 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:57,840 When I look at Roe, I feel that, 780 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,520 you know, we've got a long way to go, 781 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,120 but I'm really loving it and I'm not going to give up. 782 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,200 See, I don't give up on anything 783 00:36:05,240 --> 00:36:09,160 and I'm just going to keep on nipping, nipping, nipping, nipping 784 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,800 'cause I really want this, I really want it to work. 785 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,600 Well, hello, hello. Hello, hello. 786 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,160 Wow. 787 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,040 Carole, you clearly have a connection with Roe. 788 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:23,320 Is it physical or does it have a deeper dimension to it? 789 00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,480 For me, it definitely... I'm not going to lie to you. 790 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,760 Absolutely physical. 791 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,840 Physical? Like, definitely physical 792 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,000 to start off with, but you've got to get to know a person. 793 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,320 This is not enough time. I mean, we are grown-ups 794 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,880 and we just need that little bit of time. 795 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,760 And Roe has said he's very comfortable 796 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,040 with the physical connection. 797 00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,520 Physical connection is important to any relationship 798 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,000 because it's not there, forget it, you're out. 799 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:52,840 Roe, how important is Sachem's opinion 800 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,240 of your connection with Carole to you? 801 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,280 His opinion is paramount. 802 00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:58,880 It's always been a place 803 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,960 where when I have introduced him to anyone I was seeing or dating, 804 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,080 I was actually nearly there, 805 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,080 as in like, that person and I 806 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,520 already discussed having a possible future. 807 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,080 That's when he normally comes in. 808 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,480 So, what he says, it does play a part, absolutely. 809 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:20,160 And Carole, of course, you got to be reunited with Priscilla. 810 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:24,440 So, if Priscilla were to have reservations 811 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,000 and not give her blessing, 812 00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,120 that would be a deal breaker for you? 813 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,960 It has to be a deal breaker. There's no questions about it. 814 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:38,920 Well, guys, it's a big decision today and I hope love awaits. 815 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:40,440 Thank you. Thank you. 816 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,440 Thank you, Kate. Bye. 817 00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:44,320 SACHEM: Seeing dad today, 818 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,680 you know, that was a hard pill to swallow for me 819 00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:51,520 'cause I feel like Carole would be an amazing person for my dad 820 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:57,920 but he just doesn't know how to open up 821 00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,720 in a loving space towards her... 822 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,200 Oh, wow. Look at this. 823 00:38:03,240 --> 00:38:05,720 How beautiful is this? Ooh! 824 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,760 ..and that's just been running crazy through my mind. 825 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,600 Yeah, I think that is going to be a tough decision to make today. 826 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,440 Ooh! 827 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,480 (MUSIC BUILDS) 828 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,640 PRISCILLA: I feel like there is a role reversal for Mum and I. 829 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,960 Today, I'm definitely more the parent and she's more the child 830 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,800 and my mum's happiness is in my hands. 831 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:31,080 I don't want to see her heartbroken, so I have a lot to think about. 832 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:32,560 CAROLE: Oh, here we go. 833 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,880 Look at this! 834 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,920 Hello! (CHUCKLES) 835 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,080 Hello, hello, hello! 836 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:40,200 Well, hello to you. 837 00:38:40,240 --> 00:38:42,080 Oh, wow! What's up? 838 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,400 Hello, darling. I got you. 839 00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,600 You look beautiful. 840 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,680 You look beautiful. I love your shoes. 841 00:38:47,720 --> 00:38:49,600 Take a seat. 842 00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,920 First time seeing youse off the screen. 843 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,720 And? 844 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,760 I make him look good, I know. I know. 845 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:02,120 Man, trust me, it was so hard to see you guys on the screen 846 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:05,960 and have all these thoughts running through your mind, 847 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,560 saying, "I wish I could say this, I wish I could tell you this," 848 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,400 "or do this." But we have to just sit and be reserved. 849 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:11,680 Oh, right. 850 00:39:11,720 --> 00:39:16,000 I guess what I wanted to see from you both, the connection 851 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,720 and, I guess, the emotional side of you both unfolding. 852 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,600 We got to see a lot of the physical, 853 00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:26,080 maybe a bit too much, but, yeah, I think that's why... 854 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:27,720 (ROE CHUCKLING) 855 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,960 Oh, God. I've got PTSD. 856 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,280 I'm gonna need some counselling after this. 857 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,400 Look, sorry. 858 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:35,960 I'm just being me. 859 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,720 Mm. No, I know. I can't, I can't pretend. 860 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:39,880 Mm. 861 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,280 Carole... 862 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,440 I see you come in, love life, 863 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:51,160 and have this unapologetic honesty... 864 00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,080 ..and openness about yourself, and 865 00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:59,800 one thing I kept saying, and me and Pricilla kept agreeing on, 866 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:03,560 was that it felt very physical at first, 867 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:08,600 the attraction felt physical, and I wanted to see more. 868 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:13,520 I wanted to see you allow the space for my dad to open up. 869 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:17,520 Sometimes, it's very hard when I feel that there's walls there 870 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,240 and they don't want to be broken down 871 00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,880 so you can't push someone for that. 872 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:24,200 You know, with your dad, I think time will break a few more walls. 873 00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:29,000 It was really nice to watch you both, I guess, through the screens. 874 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,040 I saw a lot in you, Mum. 875 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,080 I feel that I've found a new type of respect for you 876 00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,080 to see you, I guess, open up and be yourself 877 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,400 and be confident in who you are as a person. 878 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:45,000 I think, what I wanted to see more, more specifically for you, Roe, 879 00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:48,400 is more of how you are feeling, 880 00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:52,600 how you see my mum, how you feel towards my mum. 881 00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,400 I feel like I didn't really get that from you. 882 00:40:59,240 --> 00:41:00,560 And I won't lie. 883 00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:02,640 I was disappointed. 884 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,040 I feel like my mum really put herself out there, she really tried, 885 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:09,040 and I think that's all you can really do is try. 886 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:14,800 I just think you saw my mum but you didn't see my mum, in a way. 887 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:19,760 You didn't see the qualities in her that are unlike no other. 888 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:24,280 She's the strongest woman I know and the most amazing woman I know, 889 00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,520 so I just think there was a missed opportunity 890 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:31,480 to really get to know her on a deeper level. 891 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:36,280 Uh, first of all, let me, you know, say... 892 00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,440 I hear what you're saying and I'm not taking that for granted at all. 893 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:40,800 Mm. 894 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,240 And I want to be better and get better at what I do. 895 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,000 Hey, I came here to work on myself 896 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:49,080 but I'm glad I actually let go 897 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,320 and allowed my daughter to see something she hasn't seen 898 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:56,800 'cause I've been a bit protective of really letting it out. 899 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,920 So, I wanted to be Carole and I forgot where I was, 900 00:41:59,960 --> 00:42:01,480 I forgot there was cameras, 901 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,760 and what you saw in there is exactly what you'd see outside, 902 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,800 but, walls, we talk about walls, we've all got walls, 903 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,920 but I think you've still gotta break it down for me. 904 00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:16,040 You've gotta really open it up and I will always be there. 905 00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:17,280 Leading on from Mum, 906 00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:21,320 she is a strong woman, she is the full package 907 00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:22,560 and she does deserve the best. 908 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:26,160 I'll always protect her and give my opinion. 909 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:30,440 Mum, I'm really proud of you and you are amazing. 910 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:31,600 You're my role model 911 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:35,480 and I will always look up to you for how strong you are. 912 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:36,760 Oh, my God, thank you, Pricilla. 913 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,320 And if I can be half as strong as you are in my life, 914 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,640 that would be a massive achievement for me and all I want. 915 00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,000 I love you. 916 00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:45,560 I love you, too. 917 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,760 So, I guess it's time to give our blessing or not. 918 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) Um... 919 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,960 (MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES) 920 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,480 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 921 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,920 I guess it's time to give our blessing or not. 922 00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,480 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 923 00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:26,120 Um, I, unfortunately, can't say that I would bless this moving forward. 924 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,440 At the end of the day, I just want the best for my mum. 925 00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:36,000 (SACHEM SIGHS) 926 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,840 Carole, you're what I want for my dad. 927 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:42,720 I want him to be comfortable with someone. 928 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,520 But I think, Dad... 929 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,080 ..there's a lot of concrete up. 930 00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:49,600 I love you. 931 00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:50,720 Oh, my God. 932 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,120 Love you, too, you know that. 933 00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,080 And no matter what, 934 00:43:54,120 --> 00:44:00,400 I will always be there and I will always advocate for you... 935 00:44:01,720 --> 00:44:03,000 ..to let that love shine through. 936 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:06,360 My... 937 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:09,160 ..blessing... 938 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:11,880 ..for this moving forward... 939 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:16,800 ..cannot be given. 940 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,360 # I didn't get a taste what the future holds 941 00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,600 # Oh-oh-oh whoa-oh-oh 942 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,520 # Like yeah yeah yeah yeah. # 943 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:32,000 OK, your decisions mean a lot to both of us. 944 00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:33,040 100%. 945 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:35,480 So, I'm gonna agree with both of you. 946 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:37,960 I have a lot to offer. 947 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:41,600 I mean, I'm a total package so I'm not settling for anything less. 948 00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,960 I deserve it and I'm gonna get it. 949 00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:49,800 And I have some time to reflect on everything. 950 00:44:51,240 --> 00:44:56,040 The love that was there between us and our kids, 951 00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,200 wow, we felt it, 952 00:44:58,240 --> 00:45:02,880 and, if I can't deliver on what is needed to give to Carole, 953 00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:04,720 to provide for Carole 954 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,400 and to give her the strong stability that she looking for 955 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,280 in an emotional way, then, what's the point in me being here? 956 00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:11,520 I don't want to do that. 957 00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,560 She deserve better than that. 958 00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:15,520 Thank you so much. Thanks for the good times. 959 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:19,040 And I'm gonna catch up with you... Very soon. 960 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:20,760 Nice meeting you! Thank you so much. 961 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,040 Thank you. Thank you for everything. Yeah, no problem. 962 00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:24,680 I'll see you soon. 963 00:45:24,720 --> 00:45:26,400 Yeah, I'll see you soon! 964 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,640 Take my baby home. 965 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:35,240 Sachem and Pricilla didn't give us their blessing, which is really sad. 966 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:36,440 I want to find love. 967 00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:38,600 I want to find a partner that I can have fun with. 968 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,280 I respect my daughter's decision 969 00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:46,000 but, you know, Roe, I'm sure I'll catch up with him. 970 00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:50,320 But, still, this has been one of the best experiences of my life 971 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:55,360 because it's helped my daughter get to know me a lot better. 972 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,720 I was truly myself and I opened up. 973 00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,600 She has more respect for me now, 974 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,720 and I think we're gonna be closer than ever, 975 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,040 and, hopefully, now she won't get rid of me 976 00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,200 and I can move in with her and her husband. 977 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,440 # We've come so far 978 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,760 # Who'd have thought we'd make it? 979 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:19,360 # But I believe in you. # 980 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,880 Not a doubt in my mind that, you know, 981 00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,320 I want to move to the next chapter of this relationship 982 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,720 that we're starting to build and form. 983 00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,680 I hope that Haydn sees in Michelle what I see, 984 00:46:32,720 --> 00:46:37,120 you know, a warm, beautiful, caring, loving person. 985 00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,240 Haydn may have some concerns 986 00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,840 and, of course, Chloe may have some concerns. 987 00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:43,680 You know, that would be a deal-breaker for myself 988 00:46:43,720 --> 00:46:46,600 because family is the top of the tree. 989 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,640 I trust my daughter's judgment a million percent. 990 00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:54,680 When you've got children, 991 00:46:54,720 --> 00:46:59,680 when you are looking into starting a relationship with somebody... 992 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,800 ..any parent knows that this is not just about you. 993 00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,560 You have to think about the big picture, 994 00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:13,480 and that is your child, who is your world. 995 00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,960 # I want you to love me 996 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,400 # I need you to stay 997 00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:21,240 # Have you fallen in love? 998 00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:22,640 # Ooh-ooh. # 999 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:25,760 Hello. 1000 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:27,840 Hello, beautiful couple. 1001 00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:31,280 Hello, Kate. How are you? I'm very well. How are you? 1002 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,280 I'm wonderful, thank you. 1003 00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:34,800 Hi there. Michelle. 1004 00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:36,640 You look lovely. Thank you. 1005 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:38,840 As you should on this day. 1006 00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:40,640 How are you feeling, Heath? 1007 00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:42,240 Yeah, good, really good. 1008 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:46,920 Uh, feeling a lot different from when we last spoke a few times ago 1009 00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,400 where I was ready to just walk away and give up. 1010 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:50,680 Yes. 1011 00:47:50,720 --> 00:47:53,480 You thought it wasn't gonna happen for you. 1012 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:55,040 I just didn't connect with anybody, 1013 00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,320 and I didn't want to force myself to make a connection 1014 00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:58,800 with someone which wasn't there. 1015 00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:03,640 Well, now I have to say you look quite connected to somebody, 1016 00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:07,560 but, of course, you had to meet Michelle's daughter today, 1017 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,000 you met Chloe. 1018 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:10,880 Did she seem approving of that or...? 1019 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,080 Yeah, I'm not really sure. 1020 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:13,800 Of what she'd seen? Yeah. 1021 00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:15,440 We don't really know what they've seen. 1022 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,760 Right. Yeah, so, you know... 1023 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,440 I think it's fair to say they've seen all of you, Heath, 1024 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,080 and the question is, then, is that gonna pass muster? 1025 00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:24,720 Well, that's true, yes, yeah. Mm! 1026 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:28,800 Michelle, you saw your daughter, Chloe, this morning. 1027 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,320 Yeah. How was your reunion? 1028 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:31,440 The best. 1029 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,400 I'm so used to having Chloe by my side. 1030 00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:34,880 We do everything 24/7. 1031 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:41,720 If Chloe was not to give her blessing, how would that be for you? 1032 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:43,600 It would have to be a bloody good reason. 1033 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,760 We'll see. 1034 00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:50,240 Heath, if Haydn were not to give his blessing, 1035 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,240 would that be a deal-breaker for you? 1036 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,680 Absolutely. Yeah. 1037 00:48:54,720 --> 00:48:57,880 Do you think you guys would have a real shot at this 1038 00:48:57,920 --> 00:48:59,560 outside of the retreat? 1039 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:00,840 Yeah, I think so. 1040 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,000 If we're allowed. Yeah, if we're allowed. 1041 00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:04,280 Depends on the next step. 1042 00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:06,960 Well, good luck at the blessing ceremony. 1043 00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:08,720 Thank you. I hope that love awaits. 1044 00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,440 Thank you, Kate. Thank you. 1045 00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:11,720 Appreciate it. Good luck. 1046 00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:13,640 Thank you. 1047 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,040 Haydn throws some heat. 1048 00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,880 Michelle, what are your intentions for my father? 1049 00:49:25,240 --> 00:49:27,560 And Michelle fires back. 1050 00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:31,160 Maybe he's not the person that I should be pursuing, if I'm honest. 1051 00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:34,720 But will our fireman get his happily ever after? 1052 00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,160 HAYDN: I think I've... I've heard enough. 1053 00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:37,800 (DISQUIETING MUSIC) 1054 00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,280 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 1055 00:49:45,720 --> 00:49:49,080 HAYDN: I'm just nervous about making this decision. 1056 00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:51,800 I know he's been hurt in the past, 1057 00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:53,840 and I know that Dad's definitely put his heart on the table 1058 00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:54,880 with Michelle. 1059 00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:59,080 I just want to lay it all on the table while I've got the chance, 1060 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,600 and find out if she's ready to receive the love 1061 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:02,920 that my dad is willing to give. 1062 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,880 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1063 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:15,560 Are you nervous? 1064 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:16,880 Yeah, I am pretty nervous. 1065 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:17,920 Me, too. 1066 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:20,640 But... What will be will be. 1067 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,000 Yep. Just think positive. Yes. 1068 00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,000 Here they come. Here they... 1069 00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:32,080 (QUIET SQUEAL) 1070 00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:33,560 Oh, my God! Hi! 1071 00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:37,320 CHLOE: I personally don't think 1072 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:40,240 there's, like, any more hurt that my mum could go through. 1073 00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:43,120 I think her skin is just thick at this point 1074 00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:46,200 where she's got just a shield and everything bounces off. 1075 00:50:47,240 --> 00:50:48,320 Heath is... 1076 00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,920 Yeah, he's hit a bit of a soft spot with me, 1077 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:55,200 but I'm a little bit worried that Heath may get hurt in this situation 1078 00:50:55,240 --> 00:50:59,400 just because he is diving in pretty quick and pretty heavy. 1079 00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,560 So, it's good to finally see you two in person 1080 00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:06,840 and not watching on a surveillance TV. 1081 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,360 Sneaky, sneaky! Yep. 1082 00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,720 This image of you guys sitting next to each other, 1083 00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:14,120 I haven't seen a man sit next to my mum like this for a very long time. 1084 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:16,240 So, it's nice. 1085 00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:17,800 I don't know, Haydn, how are you feeling? 1086 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:19,000 I think, before we get into that, 1087 00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,400 Michelle, what are your intentions for my father? 1088 00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,880 (BRISTLING MUSIC) 1089 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:28,520 He is direct. Yep. 1090 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,760 There's a lot at stake here. Um... 1091 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:37,920 I have gone in with no expectations of anything, 1092 00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:43,920 and been pleasantly surprised with what your dad has shown, 1093 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:48,800 and I would like to pursue 1094 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:52,360 and actually see what happens. 1095 00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:53,920 He's a good egg. He is. 1096 00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:56,760 And Heath? 1097 00:51:56,800 --> 00:52:01,960 Um, my intentions are to slowly get to know your mum, 1098 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,440 and really understand her, 1099 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,560 understand what makes her happy, understand what makes her sad and... 1100 00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:09,720 Aw! 1101 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,000 Yeah, so, and just be there. 1102 00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:12,680 Aw! And grow. 1103 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:17,840 Me and Haydn have been watching you guys like an eagle. 1104 00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:21,400 Unfortunately, we are big deal-breakers in your lives. 1105 00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,040 We want the best for both of you. 1106 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:24,800 Of course and we understand that. 1107 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:29,240 And we do have things to say and points to get across. 1108 00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:33,560 My number-one concern is, 1109 00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:36,000 I don't know if you guys realise but those letters you wrote, 1110 00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,240 your letter spoke a lot about Michelle, 1111 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,960 you put your heart on the table, 1112 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,880 and, in your letter, there wasn't much comment about Dad. 1113 00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:47,000 Like, are you one to run away if Dad goes in too hard? 1114 00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:50,560 'Cause I think there might have been a line in that letter that said 1115 00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:53,760 "I never thought the love of my life would walk into my life, 1116 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,880 "but turns out she walked in in a blue jumpsuit." 1117 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,600 Get lost. Yeah. 1118 00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,240 You said that? 1119 00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:00,520 Maybe. 1120 00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,240 So, I'm just concerned... No pressure. 1121 00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,840 You didn't write about him in your letter. Is there...? 1122 00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,040 Is there concerns? 1123 00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:14,280 Erm, it's been a bit of a whirlwind for me. 1124 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,320 It's so opposite how I am. 1125 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,360 I'm very spontaneous, I'm an adventurous girl. 1126 00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:21,960 I set my mind 1127 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,480 that I wanted to just try and do things a little bit differently... 1128 00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:27,000 Yeah. ..this time. 1129 00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:32,280 And if that pace is not suitable for your dad, 1130 00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:37,680 then maybe he's not the person that I should be pursuing, if I'm honest. 1131 00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,720 Look, outside this little fairy-tale bubble, 1132 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:42,720 there's gonna be things thrown at you. 1133 00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:45,720 How do you guys reckon youse will go on the outside world? 1134 00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,160 Like, inside the retreat, you know, it's completely different 1135 00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,960 to when you go back to normality and back into... 1136 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,560 Yeah, it's a fair question, 1137 00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,440 we've gotta go back to work, obviously, and normal life kicks in. 1138 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,280 I think the time's right. It's all about timing. 1139 00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:02,520 I'm pretty excited to see where this goes. 1140 00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:07,040 I think you both... it's both your time. 1141 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:12,720 And, you know, still baby steps, early days, 1142 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:14,520 but I'm actually really looking forward to 1143 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,400 having, like, a family again. 1144 00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:20,320 # Can this be forever? # 1145 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:21,920 And I do give you my blessing. 1146 00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:23,800 Thank you. 1147 00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:25,040 # Can this be forever? # 1148 00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:26,960 Yeah, a lot of respect for you, Heath. 1149 00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:30,960 Yeah, so, I think I've... I've heard enough. 1150 00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:32,560 We're here to make tough decisions. 1151 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,040 Dad's been hurt before. 1152 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,040 I didn't want to see him get hurt again. 1153 00:54:39,240 --> 00:54:41,080 # Can this be forever? # 1154 00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:46,240 (APPREHENSIVE MUSIC) 1155 00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,320 I think I've...I've heard enough. 1156 00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,480 I had my doubts. Dad's been hurt before. 1157 00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,480 I didn't want to see him get hurt again. 1158 00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:01,320 But I think, after meeting you, you know, face to face, 1159 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:06,520 I'm willing to open up and, you know, let you come into our lives... 1160 00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:09,760 ..and I'm gonna give you guys my blessing. 1161 00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:11,400 (CHEERY MUSIC) 1162 00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:13,960 Thank you so much. (EXCITED LAUGHTER) 1163 00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:18,240 It took a lot for me to, you know, say yes and give Dad my blessing, 1164 00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:21,880 but I think, seeing them in person, not on a TV screen, 1165 00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:23,360 it was too hard to say no. 1166 00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,720 Them together, it's everything that I want for my dad and more, 1167 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:30,200 and I'm so glad to see him and Michelle finally happy. 1168 00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,280 In the five years now that you've been divorced, 1169 00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,720 you haven't looked at anyone the way you've looked at Michelle. 1170 00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:37,280 Really? Yeah. 1171 00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:41,200 And he used his signature trademark saying which is three letters - wow. 1172 00:55:41,240 --> 00:55:42,880 As soon as you walked in, I was like, "Oh, gosh." 1173 00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:44,840 Wow. I'm saying wow 'cause I'm shocked. 1174 00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:46,400 He's head over heels already. 1175 00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:48,320 Do you know what, I'm absolutely shocked by that. 1176 00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,800 I'm not sure about head over heels, mate. 1177 00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:52,000 Oh! Bit of work to do. 1178 00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,040 Seeing Dad, I was like, "Oh, gosh, we got trouble now." 1179 00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:59,000 And just seeing you two together is just so...(BLOWS) 1180 00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:00,880 Warms the heart. Yeah. 1181 00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,120 (LAUGHTER) 1182 00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,160 Seeing that in the flesh. 1183 00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:06,520 I'm feeling really emotional. 1184 00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:11,040 Being single for three years has been an absolute roller-coaster. 1185 00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:12,880 It was good to meet you. I'll look after him. 1186 00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:14,440 Oh, you better. I will. 1187 00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,040 I've been on the apps, speed dating, bars. 1188 00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,360 And then to get the winning prize... 1189 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:26,240 ..what can I say? 1190 00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:28,160 (CORK POPS) Whee-hee! 1191 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:29,280 Love that sound. 1192 00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,360 That's gotta be the best one yet. 1193 00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,080 That has gotta go. 1194 00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:33,880 Yeah, first point of call is 1195 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:38,400 to get my phone and delete all those dating apps and focus on Michelle. 1196 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:41,880 I've swiped right for the last time. 1197 00:56:43,720 --> 00:56:45,560 To new beginnings. Cheers. 1198 00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:47,840 Alright, cheers, love. Cheers. 1199 00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:51,120 (UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYS) 1200 00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:53,840 Oh, now I can relax. Whew! 1201 00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:55,400 Ready? Should we get going? 1202 00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,000 Yep, let's do it. 1203 00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:58,320 # We've got love on our side. # 1204 00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:00,000 Oh, this is just too cute. Too good. 1205 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:01,760 This is just too cute. Look at them. 1206 00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:03,520 Yeah, I haven't seen that in a while. 1207 00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:05,560 Happy with my decision. Yeah, I know, right? 1208 00:57:06,720 --> 00:57:09,800 (GENTLE ACOUSTIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1209 00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:19,360 KRISTY: I came here after a series of failed relationships, 1210 00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:23,840 and I just feel really grateful that I found someone like Shane, 1211 00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:28,240 and I feel secure in my relationship with Shane, 1212 00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:31,000 but there's still that little bit of doubt 1213 00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:32,880 whether Kayla will accept me or not. 1214 00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,800 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1215 00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:39,160 The quality's that Kristy has are she lights up a room. 1216 00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:40,440 She has a great smile. 1217 00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,680 She's bubbly, she's outgoing, she's positive. 1218 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:48,400 She's just a happy, happy person, and it's infectious. 1219 00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:50,800 It makes you smile just because she's smiling. 1220 00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:56,560 But, if Kayla doesn't like Kristy, it's a deal-breaker. 1221 00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,200 Well, hello, you two. Hi. 1222 00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:04,960 Well, this, of course, is the big moment. 1223 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,480 How do you feel? 1224 00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:08,840 It's definitely all about 1225 00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:12,640 whether the kids give their tick of approval. 1226 00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:13,680 Wow. 1227 00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:17,560 Yeah, because, I mean, for me, it is a deal-breaker if they... 1228 00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:20,480 Wow. ..don't like either of us. 1229 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:25,160 And, Kayla, I know that that's been a big concern of yours? 1230 00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:28,440 Look, I just know she loves Shane and she's so protective, 1231 00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,560 and I think that's why, the whole way along, 1232 00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:34,560 I have been so concerned about what she thinks of me. 1233 00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:35,840 What do you think, Shane? 1234 00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,320 Will Kayla be giving her blessing? 1235 00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,200 Only if she truly believes in her heart 1236 00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,640 that Kristy would be the right person for me. 1237 00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:47,040 She won't hesitate to say no. 1238 00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:51,920 If she didn't give her blessing today, 1239 00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:55,200 what would that mean for you and Kristy? 1240 00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,000 It would mean that it wouldn't work. It's... 1241 00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,640 I can't have one in my life without the other. 1242 00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:01,440 That's just... That just can't happen. 1243 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,320 Kristy, you've gone all in. 1244 00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,440 How disappointed would you be? 1245 00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,200 Oh, massively. 1246 00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:13,000 I've done a lot of reflecting and felt a lot of emotions 1247 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,200 that, you know, were hard for me, so, yeah, 1248 00:59:16,240 --> 00:59:20,600 it would be gut-wrenching if it was all for nothing. 1249 00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:21,800 Mm. 1250 00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:27,560 I hope that love is waiting for you at the blessing ceremony. 1251 00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,040 Love you two. Thanks, Kate. 1252 00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:30,440 Thanks, Kate. Good luck. 1253 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:31,760 Good luck. Thanks. 1254 00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:33,080 Thank you. 1255 00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:37,800 MILLI: My mum's happiness means the world to me. 1256 00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:42,080 So, after seeing them and spending time with them today, 1257 00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:43,280 there was no bloody way 1258 00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:47,000 that I was not giving my blessing to Shane and Kristy. 1259 00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:50,280 Pretty beautiful, eh? So nice. 1260 00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:52,040 But I'm not sure where Kayla's head's at. 1261 00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:56,040 # You're cool... # 1262 00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:57,640 At stake is a lot. 1263 00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:03,360 My dad and I have this incredible, close connection and we are one. 1264 01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,080 I don't know whether to say yes or no. 1265 01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:07,960 If I say yes, 1266 01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:12,520 that means I'm allowing Kristy to step into our home 1267 01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:17,240 and become family, and I don't know how I'm gonna feel about that. 1268 01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:23,040 If I say no, that could potentially really upset my dad. 1269 01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:25,120 Nervous? Yes. 1270 01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:28,480 This is really tough for me to make this decision. 1271 01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:31,360 (FRAUGHT MUSIC) 1272 01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,000 # One two three four 1273 01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:42,680 # I'm counting every second till you open that door like. # 1274 01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:44,560 (CHUCKLING) 1275 01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:46,320 You guys look so beautiful! 1276 01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:48,440 Oh, my God. 1277 01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,440 You both look gorgeous. So do you. 1278 01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:51,600 Thank you, beautiful. 1279 01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:52,800 Hey, Dad. Mwah! 1280 01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:54,920 Hey, princess. (CONTENTED LAUGHTER) 1281 01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:59,760 I'm feeling really nervous going into the blessing ceremony. 1282 01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,960 I really want to just see my dad and see how he's feeling, 1283 01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:08,200 and really see Kristy and Dad together in real life. 1284 01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:09,720 Take a seat, old man. 1285 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:12,160 Thank you, darling. 1286 01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:13,960 I just want to say, for you, Dad, 1287 01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:17,840 like, when I dropped you off at the retreat, you know, 1288 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:20,400 the man that walked in doesn't show emotion 1289 01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:22,400 and doesn't talk about how he feels 1290 01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,120 but, all of a sudden, he's talking about how he feels, 1291 01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:26,960 and I just think that that's so brave 1292 01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:30,920 and I'm so proud of you for that, and I love you very dearly. 1293 01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:34,280 You guys look so cute together. 1294 01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:35,880 (LAUGHTER) 1295 01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,760 When I'd first seen Kristy, it was like, "Oh, here we go." 1296 01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:41,560 (ALL LAUGH) 1297 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,840 Like, this might be OK. 1298 01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:45,280 And I kinda knew that she liked me, too. 1299 01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,160 Ooh! Yeah, I noticed straight away, too. 1300 01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:48,320 Yeah. 1301 01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:52,320 And, yeah, I just grew a connection, 1302 01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:56,200 and it just kept growing and growing each day and each moment 1303 01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:59,840 that we shared, so I haven't felt like this way in a long time. 1304 01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:03,000 What about you, Kristy? How do you feel about Dad? 1305 01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,440 Oh, well, I just instantly felt 1306 01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:08,280 that he had a really nice smile and kind eyes. 1307 01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:11,000 There was just this warmth to his eyes. 1308 01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:15,000 Like, he really listens but not in, like, a scary, like, way. 1309 01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:16,760 Welcoming. Yeah, welcoming. 1310 01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:18,400 And he just made me feel safe. 1311 01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,040 So, Shane... Yeah? 1312 01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:22,680 Are you in love with my mother? 1313 01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:24,280 I can see it heading that way. 1314 01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:29,080 It's been too early to say that, and, when I say it, I mean it. 1315 01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:30,160 Yep. 1316 01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:31,760 And when I mean it, I say it. Yeah. 1317 01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:34,240 So, I'm definitely heading in the right direction. 1318 01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:35,360 Oh, I love that. 1319 01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:36,920 Aw! That's beautiful. You, Kristy? 1320 01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:39,280 Yeah, pretty much exactly what he just said. 1321 01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:41,120 Aw! 1322 01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:45,360 (TENSE MUSIC) 1323 01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:47,960 So, Kristy, I've had a stepmum in the past, 1324 01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:50,120 and we've had our highs and our lows 1325 01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:53,080 and, you know, we've been through all different roller-coasters 1326 01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,920 and that dynamic is really important to me. 1327 01:02:56,960 --> 01:03:02,160 So, for a woman to come into our lives, it's really important for me 1328 01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:06,360 for them to be open to accepting me as a strong woman. 1329 01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:07,480 Yeah. 1330 01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:11,720 So, that was a big one for me that I had to weigh up and debate. 1331 01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:15,640 And growing up, my mum was a bit of a party animal. 1332 01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:16,920 Yeah, so... 1333 01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:20,800 And that was quite confronting as a child to have to deal with. 1334 01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:26,600 I know that you like to party with the girls, 1335 01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,480 and I guess, for me, I wanted to just dive deeper on that. 1336 01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:36,720 Yeah, well, I think, I know, you know, when you meet someone 1337 01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:41,320 and you are happy, I don't think you tend to want to go out... 1338 01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:42,360 Yeah. 1339 01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:45,160 ..and party and, you know, and do those sorts of things. 1340 01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,080 Obviously, you've just gotta trust that... 1341 01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:51,520 ..you know, from what you've seen so far, that, deep down, 1342 01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:55,360 I am a good person, and I'd love to be able to show you that. 1343 01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:01,480 Obviously, I've seen you go through so much in your life 1344 01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:08,160 that, like, letting another person in just to see it go downhill again, 1345 01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:12,600 it's so hard because, you know, I know my mum deserves the best. 1346 01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:15,280 She is the most amazing person in my life, 1347 01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:17,400 and all I want to do is see her happy. 1348 01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:18,600 Oh, don't... 1349 01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:22,040 Oh, Mill. 1350 01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:26,520 Even for Dad, as well, 1351 01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:29,800 like, we've been through so much in our lives together. 1352 01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:32,680 We've gone through hell and back, 1353 01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:39,120 and we've come out this strong pair that really can take on the world, 1354 01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:41,960 and, for someone to step into our world, 1355 01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:44,920 that's huge for us and how that looks... 1356 01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:47,320 ..we don't know. No. 1357 01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:48,720 It's the unknown. Yep. 1358 01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,040 Yep. 1359 01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:53,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1360 01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:55,320 Yeah, we need to make sure 1361 01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:58,840 that this decision is the right decision for all of us, 1362 01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,120 and that what we do here today 1363 01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:03,440 could heavily impact the rest of our lives. 1364 01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:05,280 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1365 01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:07,360 So... 1366 01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:09,000 (MUSIC INTENSIFIES) 1367 01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:10,040 ..with that being said... 1368 01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:14,480 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1369 01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:17,040 ..I would love to give you guys my blessing. 1370 01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:19,880 And I would love to give you guys my blessing. 1371 01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:21,080 Ooh! (LAUGHTER) 1372 01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:24,080 Don't fall for me already! I am, I am! 1373 01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,920 I... I have fallen. (LAUGHTER) 1374 01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:28,360 Yes! 1375 01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:30,280 We got their blessing! 1376 01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:31,960 Did we just become family? 1377 01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:33,760 We are a family, I knew it! 1378 01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,880 It's just the biggest relief. 1379 01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:38,840 I feel really loved up to the max. 1380 01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,040 (CORK POPS) 1381 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:41,480 GIRLS: Whoo! 1382 01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:43,000 (LAUGHTER) 1383 01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:47,320 It was just so beautiful to see Dad and he looked so happy, 1384 01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:50,200 and I'm just feeling like I'm in love. 1385 01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:54,360 To the love we have found, to the friends we have made 1386 01:05:54,400 --> 01:05:59,240 and for the most remarkable experience of our entire lives. 1387 01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:00,280 Cheers. Cheers. 1388 01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:01,320 Cheers. 1389 01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:03,520 # Set the bar high We can take it 1390 01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,280 # We can make it to the top We're not alone. # 1391 01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:07,720 It was just a beautiful moment. 1392 01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,720 It was something that I've never experienced before, 1393 01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:13,400 and it was four people just all coming together, 1394 01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:17,600 and we hugged and we cheered champagne and it was just... 1395 01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:19,760 It was an amazing experience. 1396 01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:22,040 The king and queen! 1397 01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:23,520 (CHEERING) 1398 01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:25,000 Hey-hey! 1399 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:27,440 (UPLIFTING MUSIC, CHEERING AND HOLLERING) 1400 01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:30,160 I feel so loved... 1401 01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:35,040 ..and I've definitely learnt that love is possible again. 1402 01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:37,880 I've learnt that love can feel safe and secure, 1403 01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:39,840 and I think Shane has shown me that. 1404 01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,120 Here's to new friendships and grown-up love. 1405 01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:44,680 (CHEERING) 1406 01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:46,880 # Step by step 1407 01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:48,520 # Heart by heart 1408 01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,760 # You've got it all. # 1409 01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:54,960 (CHEERING, HOLLERING AND EXCITED CHATTER) 1410 01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:58,000 Captioned by Ai-Media ai-media.tv 107792

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