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Here's how My Mum Your Dad rolls.
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Let's go.
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A collection of single parents...
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This is it.
..nominated by their kids...
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Go find me a daddy.
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..entered the retreat
in search of love.
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I am looking for that forever love.
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Simple enough, but there's a twist.
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Welcome to the surveillance room.
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(WOMEN EXCLAIM)
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Can't believe I'm spying on dad.
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Turn it off! Turn it off!
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Their kids are secretly watching
their every move...
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Unreal.
..and pulling the strings.
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And they have to give
each other a peck.
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Then at the end of it all,
the kids have the ultimate power.
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If your parents make
a special connection
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you decide if it can or can't work
in the real world.
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What if I say "Yes",
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and then it doesn't work out
or what if I say "No,"
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and it was meant to be.
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OK, got the picture?
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Now, let me tell you
what happened last time.
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I'm sorry, Charlie, it's you.
Oh!
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Sadly, our first single parent
was farewelled...
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You've been watching the whole time.
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..leaving seven singles
to make their time count.
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That's a wake-up call.
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On connect font,
Darren and Petula continue to bond.
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What's your ideal partner?
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Somebody who makes me feel safe.
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As did Shane and Kristy.
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She's very bright and bubbly.
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She's easy to talk to.
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But other connections
were in the hands...
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Oh, my god!
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..of the dating consultants...
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(CHEERING)
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AKA the kids.
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This is the hottest of the hot.
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I need to win this.
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But I want the love triangle saga
to continue.
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(ALL TALK AT ONCE)
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Oh, is that a...
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Congratulations, Sam.
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Thank you.
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Let's keep the love triangle going.
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Mum's gonna go on a date with Shane.
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Sending his mum Mel
on her second date in decades.
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And...
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Oh, who's this?
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..a new single dad swept in.
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Hello. Hello.
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Oh, my god. He is sexy!
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Now, close your mouth, girlfriend.
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Over at the bunker, his son Sachem
sparking a similar reaction.
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Are you single?
No.
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But fortunately, bro is single.
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The white suits you though.
Oh, my god.
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Hello!
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You're like a star.
I like your voice.
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And the single dads...
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He's gonna ruffle some feathers.
Yeah. Yeah.
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..were left worried about
this grass cutter with real form.
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He is so smooth.
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Better step the game up now then.
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(THEME MUSIC)
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# There's a place for lovers... #
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As dawn breaks on a new day
for our luscious little lovebirds,
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a thick fog has rolled
in over the retreat,
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like a cab sav hangover.
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# Right now... #
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New arrival Roe
entered the retreat last night,
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and he's not mucking around.
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I'm here at the retreat
to find love,
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to find a connection.
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But you've got to take
the temperature of the room,
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who's looking at who.
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My first thought was Kristy.
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Wow, she's a firecracker.
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But also Petula.
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Good morning. Are you good?
Good morning. How are you?
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How are you? Good morning.
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Oh, yeah, I'm definitely
gonna hang out with her.
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Good morning. How are you?
Very good. How you doing?
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Good, thank you.
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The vibe between Darren and I
is really nice at the moment.
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It's getting familiar,
we'll have looks across the room.
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It's going further.
It's going deeper.
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But Roe has just arrived
into the retreat.
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He's a sexy, attractive looking guy.
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He presents really well,
he dresses well.
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He's a good catch.
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It's exciting.
(LAUGHS)
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Watch this (INDISTINCT).
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Down the road at the bunker,
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Roe's son Sachem is settling
into life as a secret agent.
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His past relationships,
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my dad, he said that love comes
from loyalty.
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I can see that dads ruffled feathers
coming into the retreat.
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Maybe the men feel
a little bit more pressure.
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My dad is a smooth talker.
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He does like to jump
right into the deep end,
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so who knows?
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Maybe they feel a little bit
under the pressure,
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under the pump.
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How do you feel about Roe entering
the retreat last night?
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I feel like he's definitely going
to spice things up.
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Yeah.
He's not here to mess around.
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He seems like
such a gentleman as well.
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So, I feel like the men
have to step their game up.
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Yeah.
Game's on, boys.
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Game on.
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Well, no amount of brekkie
can satisfy the kids' hunger
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to see their parents find love.
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So, it's back to the screens
for a smorgasbord of spying.
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You good?
I lost my headphones.
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Is it behind me?
Oh, here we go.
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Kristy, I was attracted
to straightaway.
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And Roe seems like
a real smooth ladies man.
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So, there is some concern for me
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because he's made a few comments
about some targets.
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I was like, (INDISTINCT) Kristy.
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And I was like, "Alright,
I better step the game up now then."
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(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
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Don't you just look all glowy today.
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Look at you.
Oh, thanks. Take a seat.
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And the memories that you create...
What's happening over here?
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Do you drink red wine or not?
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(LAUGHTER)
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He like her.
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Who does?
Roe likes Kristy.
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(PETULA GASPS)
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Who likes Kristy?
Roe.
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Roe.
Roe.
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Oh, god.
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Mum doesn't have a type,
I would say.
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I feel like every guy
she's ever gone
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for is the complete opposite
each time.
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How do you feel
your mum being popular?
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She's not. They're just interested.
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I've been to wineries,
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but I still can't find nothing
I can palate...
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Really?
..and enjoy.
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I'm a very finicky person
when it comes to food.
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You'll never get anyone
more finicky than me.
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I don't eat fruit.
I don't eat fruit.
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Ooh!
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Finally met somebody.
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Finally, oh, my...
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(LAUGHTER)
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Come on, Dad.
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Yeah, I don't do spicy food.
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I don't do spicy food either.
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I don't mind chilli.
Ew!
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(LAUGHTER)
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Your dad's suave
and, like, he's a gentleman.
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I'm thinking why can't Roe just go
for somebody else?
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There's so many more options
in the house.
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My dad has formed a connection
with Kristy, leave her alone.
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Cor, we haven't seen this
like, sort of, competition, have we?
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I'm gonna cook for you guys one day.
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I enjoy cooking
different things though.
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Yeah, I'm good at barbecues.
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Damn. Damn.
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Shane's up, he said,
"I'm gonna have to try hard."
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He's trying.
He's picking up his game.
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It's beautiful.
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(LAUGHTER)
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Yeah.
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I'm gonna grab water.
Does anyone want water?
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No, I'm good. Thank you.
No, I'm good.
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Thank you though.
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I'm heartbroken. That's it.
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Get your shit, Dad. We're leaving.
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(LAUGHTER)
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Do you reckon
your mum likes bald men?
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What's her usual type?
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Tall, dark, and handsome,
but like they're never that.
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(LAUGHS)
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My mum's happiness means
the world to me.
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So, I obviously want to make
the right decision for her.
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It's a huge weight on my shoulders.
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It's my mum's love life.
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So, very important.
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I definitely think Mum
and Roe have a connection,
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whether it's like sexual
or through personalities.
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But then like,
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I'm like really obsessed
with her and Shane, like...
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But then I'm like
watching her speak,
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you know, to other people,
I don't know, I'm really confused.
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I'm really confused.
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# Get, get you up
Get, get you up... #
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If luck be a lady named Kristy,
then she's holding all the cards.
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(CHEERS AND LAUGHTER)
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While Mel's playing
with a tricky hand
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after her date with Shane...
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Yeah, sit next to me.
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I think being here, you know,
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a little brick at a time
is coming down,
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even though my ex said that
I was just damaged goods.
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So I think, you know what,
I'm gonna get there, you know.
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I'm gonna get there.
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Yeah, you got a busy day
yourself, isn't it?
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I know.
Yeah.
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Very out of my...
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Look, I enjoyed my date with Shane.
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We had fun. Yeah, it felt safe.
And you felt safe with him.
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There was somebody else there.
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You know, the instructor.
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Oh, yeah, yeah. Yeah.
So, it was a fun day.
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I've been on my own for six years.
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And I think I'm the only one
in there that hasn't dated.
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Have you done
much different in six years,
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or you've just done the same?
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Just the same.
Yeah, OK.
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If you're happy with the same,
keep doing the same.
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Yeah, I know, I think like
Sam is always pushing me.
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You know, "Mum, you need to go out.
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"Mum, you need to meet someone.
Mum."
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Yeah, yeah.
I said, "Yeah, I know, Sam."
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Aw!
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And that's what I was like
when I first separated,
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like, you go to the gym,
you go for a walk,
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when it hits 1:00, I'm bored,
you know.
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Yeah.
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'Cause a lot of my friends
are married.
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Yes.
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I found the biggest thing
was finding different friends.
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Yeah, I know, but, you know...
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But you're not gonna meet him,
he's not gonna,
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like, home deliver clothes, is he?
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Yeah, I know. Yeah, I know.
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I don't get home delivery unless
it's, you know,
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Uber Eats with Sam.
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Yeah.
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(LAUGHTER)
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It's really cute.
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That was a really
nice chat actually.
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# I like way that you move
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# Would you move
A little close to me? #
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For our singles,
when it comes to finding new love,
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sometimes you need
to break old habits.
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So, I've organised
a special intimacy workshop
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to get their juices flowing.
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OK, so I wanted to start
this session off,
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to really get a sense
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of what you're currently feeling
about sex and relationships
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and maybe where some of those
learning edges might be.
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OK. OK. Ooh!
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I feel nervous, scared, anxious.
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My heart's just beating
out of my chest
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'cause I've never done
anything like this.
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I've just been in my safe bubble.
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So, how important
do you think intimacy
256
00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:38,600
is in a relationship?
257
00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:40,520
I think it's a deal breaker
if you don't have it.
258
00:10:40,560 --> 00:10:41,800
Yep.
100%.
259
00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:42,880
It's not just the intimacy.
260
00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:46,280
It's the connection,
you've got the warmth, the trust.
261
00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:49,600
So, it's, like, a little sprinkle
of everything.
262
00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,280
But the intimacy for me
is quite a big part.
263
00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,560
Do you think that chemistry
is something
264
00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:58,400
that has to be there instantly
or is it something that can grow?
265
00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,720
Instantly. From that first kiss.
266
00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,840
When you have that first kiss
with someone that does go bang,
267
00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:05,760
you remember it forever.
268
00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:07,080
Have you had a first kiss?
269
00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:09,720
Not yet.
OK.
270
00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:11,760
(LAUGHTER)
271
00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:12,840
Not yet.
272
00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:14,120
Oh, he nudged Mum.
273
00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,080
I love that.
"Not yet," I love that.
274
00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:20,000
No pressure after what he's just...
275
00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:21,280
Three, two, one.
276
00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:22,400
(LAUGHS)
277
00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:23,880
Oh!
278
00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:25,120
(LAUGHS)
279
00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:27,120
How important is touch to you?
280
00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:31,480
For me, touch,
it translates to sex to me.
281
00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:34,840
I can have someone touch my leg,
touch my hand,
282
00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:36,880
then my mind start to trigger, like,
283
00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,360
what we did the night before
or last week or the anticipation
284
00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:41,480
of what could happen.
285
00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,800
So, for some reason,
when I have touch,
286
00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:49,000
I'm ready to get to the next stage
of intimacy, ie, sex.
287
00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:50,800
It's extreme, like, what,
288
00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,000
you can't hug your partner...
289
00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,240
Exactly, you're a grown man.
..without it leading to sex.
290
00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,320
Control yourself.
Yeah, control yourself.
291
00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:58,640
That's just so much pressure,
like...
292
00:11:58,680 --> 00:12:00,800
Forget what your mum said.
Your mum's so disgusted.
293
00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:02,880
Yeah, my mum is like...
294
00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,560
So, you're the kind of guy
that would run a bath
295
00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,240
for your partner
knowing that you want sex
296
00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:07,280
because you've run the bath,
297
00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:08,960
not because you want her
to have a nice, relaxed
298
00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:10,480
and just where you've had
a shit a day,
299
00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,560
have her relax and run the bath
and just let her enjoy it.
300
00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,400
No, I do that. I do that.
I've done that before.
301
00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:17,120
I've done that part
where I ran the bath,
302
00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,640
like put the candles there.
303
00:12:19,680 --> 00:12:21,280
I want that moment for them...
OK.
304
00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:23,760
..to be in the moment
'cause they had a rough day,
305
00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:25,000
rough week or whatever.
306
00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,280
That's not my purpose of doing that.
No, it's not.
307
00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,280
However, when the touch started
to happened, that's just...
308
00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,320
(MARETTE LAUGHS)
309
00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,200
..'cause now I wanna have
that closeness
310
00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,000
of their body against my body.
311
00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:41,440
My struggle is how to have intimacy
without it becoming sex
312
00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:43,120
as a result.
313
00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:44,520
At least he could admit that,
though.
314
00:12:44,560 --> 00:12:46,400
That's true. Yeah.
315
00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:49,760
Now, we're going to have
a little bit of fun
316
00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,040
because I think
when it comes to intimacy,
317
00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,680
it should be about play
and exploration
318
00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,720
and maybe doing things
that are a little bit risky.
319
00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:02,600
So, I have a magic bag of tricks.
320
00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:05,480
Oh, my god.
321
00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:08,480
And...
322
00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,080
(LAUGHS)
323
00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:14,040
..we have aphrodisiac sensual foods.
324
00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:15,720
Oh, god!
325
00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,840
It's meant to be fun, it's playful.
326
00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:20,600
Try something new.
327
00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,160
I came into the retreat to change
328
00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:24,960
the way I looked at relationships.
329
00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,560
I was forever getting
to the six months stage
330
00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:30,240
and pulling the pin
because the passion wasn't there.
331
00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:33,080
So, Tess basically gave me
a couple of gems,
332
00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:34,920
she said, "Dad, just delve deeper."
333
00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:44,880
Feels to be in the role of giving
334
00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,000
and perhaps you could give
some direction
335
00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,960
as to what feels good.
336
00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:52,920
No, I'm good with that.
337
00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:54,240
Oh, my god.
338
00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:55,600
I'm curious about the paddle.
339
00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:56,840
Oh, OK.
340
00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:58,880
I was saving that to the end.
(LAUGHTER)
341
00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:00,760
Yeah, I knew you would.
342
00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:02,040
(LAUGHTER)
343
00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:03,880
That's a crack up..
344
00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:05,520
Oh, my god. I love it.
345
00:14:05,560 --> 00:14:07,120
Where would you want
the paddle used?
346
00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:08,840
That's for me to decide.
347
00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:10,320
Correct. Across the face.
348
00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:11,800
(LAUGHTER)
349
00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:13,560
I was thinking exactly the same.
350
00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:20,400
Aw!
351
00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:21,800
Oh, my god!
352
00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:24,480
Oh, my god!
353
00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:26,520
(LAUGHS)
354
00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:30,600
(SMACKS)
355
00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:32,040
(LAUGHTER)
356
00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:33,200
Ah!
357
00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:34,880
(LAUGHTER)
358
00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:37,920
Oh, my god!
359
00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,080
Petula and I've got great feelings
towards each other.
360
00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,480
And I learned that she's got
a really soft playful side.
361
00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,440
I think I will go
with one of these right here.
362
00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:49,720
Amazing. Great.
363
00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:56,720
So, again, it's playful, fun,
you can tease them.
364
00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:59,520
I refer to myself as Rapunzel
365
00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:03,120
because I have obviously been hurt
so many times...
366
00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:05,160
Make them salivate.
367
00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:09,160
..and I just felt so insecure,
and it just felt, like,
368
00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:10,680
"Well, I had nowhere to hide."
369
00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:12,280
Yeah. Oh, my god!
370
00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:13,400
I was like...
371
00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:14,680
It was, yeah, it was a lot.
372
00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,560
Not really my thing here at all
'cause really what I wanna do
373
00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:20,000
is just smash it in your face.
374
00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:21,840
(LAUGHTER)
375
00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:35,080
(SENSUAL MUSIC)
376
00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:38,800
No way!
377
00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:42,480
Marette, she's having a giggle
378
00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,320
and she's playing
around my nose and my lips.
379
00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,920
I'm ready to leave this room.
380
00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:58,040
Observing how it feels
and how you're wanting to receive...
381
00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:00,440
Well, that's what I'm talking about
right there.
382
00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:02,880
And next thing then
she started playing with my...
383
00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:06,800
Pulling my lip down, like this.
That feels nice.
384
00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:08,200
(LAUGHTER)
385
00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,280
Oh man, imagine what he's thinking.
386
00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,640
He really thinks it's my mum.
387
00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:16,680
(LAUGHS)
388
00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:23,760
My reaction is to bite, to grab it.
389
00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:27,120
Yeah!
Marette did a excellent job.
390
00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:29,240
She knows what she's doing.
She's a ride or die.
391
00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:32,800
She's about making her partner,
her person happy.
392
00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:37,960
Alright, so I don't want
anything aggressive.
393
00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,040
Yeah.
But I want it to be...
394
00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,080
(LAUGHS)
395
00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,120
I want it to feel good.
396
00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,560
Any particular areas?
397
00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:49,000
All over.
398
00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,800
How does that feel?
What are you noticing?
399
00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:56,440
It's tingly.
400
00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:00,440
It's good.
401
00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:01,800
I'm a bit reserved
402
00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:04,480
until I really know
and trust someone,
403
00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,680
and it was a bit of outside
the comfort zone.
404
00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:12,240
But I jumped in and I think
that's the only way that you grow.
405
00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:15,280
The petals are actually so good.
406
00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:17,160
Ah, what's good about them?
407
00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:22,320
Just how light they are and,
yeah, the way that they...
408
00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:27,000
That shut her up.
409
00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:30,120
Lost your train of thought there.
I did.
410
00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:31,720
(LAUGHTER)
411
00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:33,560
I just felt really comfy
and really safe.
412
00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:36,600
And I think Shane
is definitely someone that,
413
00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:38,600
yeah, I feel like already
I can trust.
414
00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,080
Alright, here goes I think.
415
00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:46,960
Alright.
416
00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:50,000
(INSTRUMENTAL MUSIC)
417
00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:56,960
Oh, yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!
418
00:18:02,120 --> 00:18:04,400
# There's a lot of...
419
00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,520
# See you to myself all day
420
00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:08,720
# I'm like, oh, my
421
00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:10,240
# Oh, my... #
422
00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:13,240
I love when she plucks herself.
I love that!
423
00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:14,880
I'm assuming that was your lips.
424
00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:16,040
No.
425
00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:17,520
Does that count as the first kiss?
426
00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:19,080
(CHUCKLES)
427
00:18:19,120 --> 00:18:21,560
It's so fun to do
the intimacy workshop,
428
00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:23,520
I felt like it was exactly
what we needed
429
00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,160
to sort of move past the friendzone.
430
00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:29,440
Who's gonna receive?
431
00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:38,600
You alright?
Yeah.
432
00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:43,880
Do you wanna...
You can go pick what you want.
433
00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:45,080
OK.
434
00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,240
Oh, this is out of my comfort zone.
435
00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:56,400
Yeah.
436
00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:58,960
Alright, shoosh, shoosh.
437
00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:01,280
Do you wanna just see how it goes
438
00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:02,320
'cause the comfort zone...
439
00:19:02,360 --> 00:19:03,800
I can't do this.
I don't wanna do it.
440
00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,000
You don't wanna do it? OK.
441
00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,520
That's OK. Yeah, that's OK.
I can't do this.
442
00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:08,760
Yeah. No, that's fine.
443
00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:14,000
Seeing her struggle,
obviously, makes me upset.
444
00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,760
And I don't wanna see my mum upset,
so yeah.
445
00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:18,160
OK, you don't have to do this.
446
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:19,360
No, that's fine. That's fine.
447
00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:20,840
Do you wanna just take...
448
00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:23,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
449
00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:37,400
Coming up...
(MEL SOBS)
450
00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:40,160
Can't watch her.
..emotions ran high.
451
00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:41,720
Sorry, I can't.
452
00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:43,240
Hello!
453
00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,280
And a spicy news single mum arrives.
454
00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:47,800
I'm looking for a hot guy.
455
00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:49,040
(INDISTINCT).
456
00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:50,120
Who is this?
457
00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:52,200
Has Roe met his match?
458
00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,480
You don't know
what you're getting yourself into!
459
00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:56,760
(LAUGHTER)
460
00:19:56,800 --> 00:20:00,200
Oh, my god!
461
00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,520
But a dramatic blow up...
462
00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,840
It makes me wanna get right away.
463
00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:06,600
You're missing something...
No, no.
464
00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,800
..could signal the end
for Shane and Kristy.
465
00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:10,920
No, I'm not having it.
466
00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:12,960
You've taken it
the wrong way I think.
467
00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:15,480
It's not for me.
468
00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:27,800
(BIRDS CHIRPING)
469
00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,240
What would you like to eat?
470
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:31,800
What looks sensual?
471
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,240
I can't do this.
(SNIFFLES)
472
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,280
OK, OK. OK.
You don't have to do it.
473
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:38,840
You don't have to do it. Yeah.
474
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:40,160
That's OK. Yeah.
I can't do this.
475
00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,440
No, that's fine. That's fine.
Do you wanna just take...
476
00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:43,920
OK.
477
00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:45,840
I'll just go have a quick chat.
I'll be back.
478
00:20:47,120 --> 00:20:48,200
I was...
479
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:53,600
Because I was hurt so much,
for me, I'm just scared.
480
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,320
I wanna feel safe.
481
00:20:55,360 --> 00:20:57,200
And feel, you know, protected.
482
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:00,520
I feel like I'm a monster.
483
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,200
No, don't take it personally.
484
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:03,400
It's not you. Yeah.
Yeah.
485
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,000
Yeah. Yeah.
486
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,240
I never did this even
with my husband.
487
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:23,960
So, it's all...
488
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,280
Yeah, yeah.
489
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:26,440
..nerve-wracking.
490
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:27,520
Yeah, yeah.
491
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:31,240
I think you are so amazing
for being here.
492
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:32,680
She's so amazing.
493
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,320
Because even just being here
is out of your comfort zone.
494
00:21:35,360 --> 00:21:38,000
Yeah, it is, because I'll just be
at home on the couch.
495
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,840
Yeah, yeah.
496
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,800
Minding my own business
and staying on my own.
497
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:43,960
(SOBS)
498
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,200
Aw.
499
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:47,840
Shall we take a few deep breaths?
500
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:48,920
OK.
501
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,760
Awesome. Would you like a hug?
502
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,120
Yeah. (SOBS)
Yeah. Yeah.
503
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,120
(SOBBING)
504
00:21:58,440 --> 00:21:59,920
She's amazing.
505
00:21:59,960 --> 00:22:01,480
Aw.
506
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,520
..anyone's comfort zone,
let alone your mum.
507
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:05,560
It's alright.
508
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:06,920
(MEL SOBBING)
509
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:12,080
You're doing very well.
510
00:22:14,120 --> 00:22:17,200
Yeah.
511
00:22:20,120 --> 00:22:21,440
Yeah.
512
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,520
It's just so hard to see
Mum going through that.
513
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,480
I can't watch her.
514
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:33,680
I can't.
515
00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,720
Sorry, I can't.
516
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:36,960
I'm sorry.
517
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,120
You know, you just wanna be loved.
518
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:46,720
You just want someone
to love you for who you are.
519
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:47,880
That's all I want.
520
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,720
And I think, for me, I'm just scared
to let my guard down
521
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:53,800
because I don't wanna get
my heart broken again.
522
00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,880
OK.
523
00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:01,240
Well done, darl.
524
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,600
You alright, my darling?
OK.
525
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,080
I just feel bad
'cause I don't want her
526
00:23:05,120 --> 00:23:06,560
to feel uncomfortable.
527
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,320
(SIGHS)
528
00:23:09,360 --> 00:23:12,680
She's honestly putting 110%
into this
529
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,360
and, you know, she's pushed
so many boundaries,
530
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,440
and I'm so proud of her.
531
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,240
I don't (INDISTINCT) this on you,
darling.
532
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,680
See it's different if you do it.
533
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,000
Yeah, yeah. I know.
534
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,680
How are you doing?
Yeah, OK. I'm OK.
535
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,760
# Stealing my heart
536
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:34,080
# Baby, baby, baby
537
00:23:34,120 --> 00:23:35,960
# You're stealing my heart... #
538
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,800
After a session exploring
the gentle art of seduction...
539
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,400
Well done, darl.
Thank you.
540
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,120
..the scenes been set
for our singles to take things
541
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,080
a little deeper.
542
00:23:47,120 --> 00:23:50,160
That was an interesting little bit
of a teaser this morning.
543
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:51,400
Did you like it or not?
544
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,840
Yeah, I did. I enjoy touch.
Yeah.
545
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,440
I enjoy the touch of the hand,
drop my chest,
546
00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:01,960
grab my legs, touch my ass, exactly,
all, I enjoy it to the nth degree.
547
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:07,160
But however, if I know
that you grabbed my crotch, like...
548
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,200
No.
549
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,600
..if you go there,
then you're telling me,
550
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:12,640
the trick is...
551
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:13,800
Game on.
Game's on.
552
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,080
Oh. Oh, my god.
553
00:24:16,120 --> 00:24:18,120
Coming up...
It's a glorious day.
554
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:19,200
Gorgeous.
555
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:20,440
People say, "Hey, what's your type?"
556
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,720
Well, Marette would be up there
on the highest scale.
557
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,520
Is love blooming in the lily pads?
558
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:26,760
You got to kiss a million frogs
559
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,160
before you find
your Prince Charming.
560
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,160
And Roe's pillow talk...
561
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:33,760
Now, I'm smelling you,
I'm smelling your aura,
562
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:35,440
I want you...
563
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,280
..gets put to bed.
564
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:41,080
If I'm being brutally honest,
that triggered me.
565
00:24:41,120 --> 00:24:42,160
(MIMICS BUZZER)
566
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:43,800
Three Xs. You're out.
567
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,720
# If I told you that
You're beautiful
568
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,760
# Would it mean a thing to you? #
569
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,040
It's a glorious day.
Gorgeous.
570
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,280
People say, "Hey, what's your type?"
571
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,680
Well, as far as looks and,
you know, attractiveness goes,
572
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,920
Marette would be up there
on the highest scale.
573
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,120
And I don't wanna leave here
without making an effort
574
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,120
to get to know her better
and miss a potential opportunity.
575
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,480
I wonder if there were carp
in Europe.
576
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,040
Why would you have carp?
You can't eat carp, can you?
577
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,160
I've come into this with
no expectations.
578
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,000
You gotta kiss a million frogs
before you find
579
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,000
your Prince Charming,
but I'm not gonna force it.
580
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,480
There has to be that chemistry.
581
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,040
Every time I hear carp,
I'd think of 'The Castle'.
582
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,680
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
583
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:34,440
Tell 'em they're dreamin'.
Yeah, and... Caught a carp.
584
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,720
"What'd you do today, Dale?"
"Dug a hole".
585
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,120
(GIRLS CHUCKLE)
586
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:39,360
Aw!
587
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,120
Oh, I love that.
588
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:45,440
"An ideas man." I love that movie.
589
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:49,720
So, while Heath and Marette
"carpe" diem,
590
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,320
Petula, who's been seizing
the day with Darren,
591
00:25:53,360 --> 00:25:56,600
is also sizing up new arrival Roe.
592
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,760
So, how are you settling in?
593
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:00,160
Oh, I'm good.
594
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,240
Petula is a woman like, she's got...
595
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:04,440
She's tall.
596
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:05,880
You know,
she's got strong shoulders,
597
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:07,120
you know, she walks with chin up.
598
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:08,600
And I respect that.
599
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,960
I just wanna know how you feel
about meeting me last night,
600
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,680
talking to me last night,
and then, today,
601
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,880
I got a chance to see me
in different light, no suit on.
602
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,520
I thought you were amazing.
603
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:21,240
I suppose one of my things
was confidence and conversation.
604
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:24,640
And, yeah, you were
just articulate and confident.
605
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,680
And I liked the things
that you were saying.
606
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,360
So, I was just, like, "Wow!
607
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,400
"I came back,"
and I said to the girls, like,
608
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:31,520
"Wow," he's like...
609
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,480
Yeah, it was amazing.
Thank you.
610
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,920
You were amazing.
You presented beautifully...
611
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,240
Stop it, stop it, stop it. Wow.
612
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:40,920
Ooh-wee.
613
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,600
Just...damn.
614
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,080
If I'm being brutally honest,
615
00:26:47,120 --> 00:26:50,440
there was some things
that have come out today
616
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:55,120
that have triggered me.
617
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:56,360
But that's not you.
618
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,600
That's obviously
because there's similarities
619
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,560
between an ex-partner
and I'd realised,
620
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,360
you know, your language of love
is what you identified.
621
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,440
My language of love was very...
622
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,400
It's very much affection
and touch and things like that,
623
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,120
but unconditionally I wanna be
able to do that
624
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:16,880
and not feel the pressure
of having then to have sex,
625
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,360
which is what I felt.
626
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,000
Well, there you go. Red flag.
627
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,480
Red flag activated.
628
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,840
In that session
with the intimacy consultant,
629
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,440
it did make me see Roe
in a different light.
630
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:34,920
His needs, and how in his mind,
touch relates to sex.
631
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,120
If anything, it made me pull away.
632
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,880
First of all,
thanks for clarifying to me.
633
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,200
When I say something that triggers
something about your past,
634
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:45,600
so I'm aware of it.
635
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,960
I'm person where I enjoy
the affection of you are behind me,
636
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,840
hug me from behind,
you kiss me neck,
637
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,160
"Hey, honey," you know,
I'm cool with all that.
638
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,640
It's just when it goes to that next,
639
00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:00,320
that level of 30-second space
or maybe a minute,
640
00:28:00,360 --> 00:28:04,160
now I'm smelling you,
I'm smelling your aura,
641
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,240
you know, your heartbeat,
I can feel it.
642
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:10,200
And then more importantly, now,
I can feel your body melt.
643
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,600
And that's where I want you.
644
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:15,720
Instant no.
No.
645
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,560
Pam, Pam, paw!
Pam, Pam, paw!
646
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:22,440
(MIMICS BUZZER)
Three Xs. You're out.
647
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,840
As soon as Roe mentioned that,
it's done and dusted.
648
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,160
He's finished,
but I'm not worried for Mum.
649
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,120
I think Darren and Mum
have a very special connection,
650
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,720
but I still wanna watch them
a bit longer.
651
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,440
Got to make sure
he's the right man to fit.
652
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:42,000
While Petula and Roe are speaking
very different languages,
653
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:46,720
Kristy is fluent in a language
that sounds very familiar to me.
654
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:47,840
It's sunny, so good,
655
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,280
but you just can't look
at my hairy legs because I am...
656
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,800
Once I've been here
'cause I feel, like,
657
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,080
I've got to get out
of the shower real quick.
658
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,160
Yeah.
659
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,000
And so I don't wanna take any time.
660
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,800
Yeah.
Come on, Mum.
661
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:01,880
(LAUGHS)
662
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,560
Yeah, so, how was your day
last night with Mel?
663
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:05,720
Yeah, well, it was good fun.
664
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:07,480
Then lifting those hips up.
665
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,160
Yeah, well done.
666
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,440
(WATER SPLASH)
667
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,400
(LAUGHTER)
668
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:18,280
I went in with the mindset
of creating connection,
669
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:19,960
but there's different connections.
670
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:24,080
There's like romantic connections.
There's friendship connections.
671
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:28,280
And funnily enough,
it's more a fatherly type of,
672
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:29,360
like I wanna help.
673
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:30,600
I wanna help Mel...
Yeah, Mel.
674
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,760
..because Mel's a bloody
beautiful person.
675
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,360
Of course she is.
676
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,960
That was exactly why I picked
your dad yesterday
677
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,640
because I knew whether
it wasn't gonna be romantic,
678
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,720
like he was still gonna be
respectful and,
679
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,160
like, they had a laugh.
680
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,160
So, that's all that matters
to me is that my mum is,
681
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:49,720
you know, enjoying herself.
682
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,760
Mel will get
out of this experience exactly
683
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:57,320
what she needs to get out of it.
684
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,480
And I guess for us all individually,
685
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,520
we'll all pull something important
out of it.
686
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:02,560
Yeah.
687
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,520
This time feels different,
getting to know someone.
688
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:09,240
Kristy is so outgoing and bubbly,
and her smile makes me smile.
689
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:12,840
And I've been smiling ever
since that I've met her.
690
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,400
And we have assigned,
myself and Kayla, you know,
691
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,280
it's a hell yeah or it's a hell no.
692
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:20,840
And I just think that
if am I a hell yeah.
693
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:21,920
There's still some petals
694
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:23,400
from our little episode
this morning.
695
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,440
Oh, my gosh.
696
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,680
I actually was so surprised
how good they felt.
697
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:29,640
Yeah.
(CHUCKLES)
698
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,640
It was so good.
Yeah, it was good.
699
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:35,360
Because there's stuff that you just
wouldn't do in a group environment.
700
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:36,440
Had our first kiss.
701
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,320
Had our first kiss
with a marshmallow.
702
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,240
Yep.
(SHANE CHUCKLES)
703
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,200
Hope that was good.
704
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:43,640
That was nice. It was good.
705
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:44,840
Good fun to...
706
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,200
Yeah, good.
707
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,160
Really, really good.
708
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,240
I thought
she was going to admit to him,
709
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,200
like, "I like you," or whatever.
710
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:56,960
I reckon that will happen.
But she was like...
711
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,960
You could tell
she really likes Shane.
712
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,000
Yeah.
Yeah. Definitely.
713
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:02,920
Do you feel like
she was finding it hard
714
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,880
to find her words, just then?
715
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,600
Or was that how she usually talks?
716
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,200
But I think that's
because he might make her nervous.
717
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,440
And like Mum can make
eye contact with everyone,
718
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,240
but she's not making eye contact
with Shane.
719
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:18,480
That gives me like good vibes though
because I think she's nervous.
720
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:20,400
It's so like...
721
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:21,920
It's so nice watching it.
722
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,560
I've never seen her act like this.
723
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,440
It's just beautiful to watch.
724
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,200
And you can just see how much
of a connection they've got.
725
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:32,440
I feel like Dad's giddy, like,
he's like giggly and like...
726
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,400
It looks like
he's falling in love already,
727
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:35,880
like it's weird.
728
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:36,960
Weird.
729
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,520
My dad, Shane, and Kristy,
730
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:44,120
their connection is getting stronger
and stronger as every moment passes.
731
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:45,920
There is so much at stake.
732
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:47,680
This is all about love.
733
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:50,440
Coming up,
734
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:55,560
the fight is on for the most
cherished advantage of all.
735
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,880
To visit your parents.
736
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,240
I need to win this.
737
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:01,400
I need to be in there.
738
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,440
I need to be dictating
what goes on in my mum's love life.
739
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,680
Like, that's what I came here to do.
740
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:19,680
As Cher famously said,
"If I could turn back time,
741
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,200
"well, you know what, I can."
742
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,600
And while this looks like
a retro party...
743
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,240
Whoo!
744
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:27,720
..behind the silliness
745
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,760
is a serious influence
worth fighting for.
746
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,280
Hello, rockstars.
747
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:37,360
Hello.
748
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,880
Do any of you know
who you're actually supposed to be?
749
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,560
I'm Elvis.
I can pick Elvis.
750
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,000
I don't even know who I was.
751
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:45,600
I kind of look like a gay-geez.
752
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:52,720
Today, you are stepping
back in time to the '70s and '80s.
753
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,520
Yes!
754
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,960
It's all about the '70s and '80s.
755
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,640
It's 2022, people. I'm only 24.
756
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:04,000
I've got 20 questions here
to ask you.
757
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:08,200
In order to win
the next big influence,
758
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:13,240
the two of you with the most points
will win the chance...
759
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,360
to briefly visit your parents...
760
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,160
(ALL EXCLAIM)
761
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,760
..at a sacred location
near the retreat.
762
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,320
Oh, my god.
Oh!
763
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:25,600
Mm-hm.
764
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,160
And remember,
765
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:31,800
you cannot give the game away
if you see your parents.
766
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,560
On the line is a 10-minute chat
with our parents.
767
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,680
I mean, I'm already competitive.
768
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,800
Sam, how much would you like
to see Mel?
769
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,160
I would really love to see.
770
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,120
I miss her a lot
and I just wanna give her a hug.
771
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:48,040
It's really hard watching
my mum struggle this morning.
772
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:52,320
I need to do everything I possibly
can in my power to see my mother.
773
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,680
Getting a bit emosh thinking
about it.
774
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,680
Haydn, what would you say to Heath?
775
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,160
I just think I'd ask him
how he's feeling,
776
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:00,600
give him a bit of a pep talk.
777
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:03,720
Right.
778
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,680
Let's get quizzical.
779
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,200
Yay!
780
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:11,360
The Village People released
which famous hit song in 1978?
781
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:12,960
Oh, I got it.
782
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,760
Sam.
It's the YMCA.
783
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:15,960
Yes!
784
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:20,480
In 1977,
the great Elvis Presley passed away.
785
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,120
How old was he when he died?
786
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:24,520
Kayla.
787
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,360
46.
788
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,760
So close. He was 42.
789
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,040
Aw.
790
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:35,320
Which major chain retailer
commonly known for its sexy apparel
791
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,760
opened in 1979?
792
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:39,960
Victoria's Secret.
793
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:41,520
Yes!
794
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:44,520
Tonya is on the board.
795
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,120
Come on, I need a point.
796
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:50,360
Which famous computer company
was formed by Steve Jobs?
797
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:52,720
Microsoft.
798
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:53,800
No!
799
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:54,960
(LAUGHTER)
800
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:57,320
The questions were difficult.
801
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:58,720
I'm a 2000s baby.
802
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,960
What video game
was the most popular game
803
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:04,080
of the 1980s?
804
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:05,320
Super Mario Bros.
805
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,400
Yes!
806
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,240
What is Nike's famous slogan?
807
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:11,440
Just do it.
808
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,000
Oh, and you are just doing it.
809
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,000
Once again!
Yeah!
810
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,040
What is Superman's real name?
811
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,240
Haydn.
Clark Kent.
812
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:25,920
Yes!
God!
813
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:27,560
I've had a bit of a slow start.
814
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,040
But hoping to start
to make a comeback.
815
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,160
Sam.
Glen James.
816
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,120
Yes!
817
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:38,160
Whoo-hoo!
818
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:39,440
Alright, give me a chance, guys.
819
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:46,960
Right, the last question
of Let's Get Quizzical.
820
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:50,200
Kayla, you're on four points.
821
00:35:50,240 --> 00:35:52,520
I'm ready to win this for Dad.
822
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:56,880
Sam next, also tied with Kayla
on four points.
823
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:58,000
I need to be in there.
824
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:01,160
I need to be dictating
what goes on in my mum's love life.
825
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,640
Like, that's what I came here to do.
826
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,240
And then Haydn with three.
827
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,960
Now, there can only be two winners.
828
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:14,680
So, Haydn, if you get this right,
we head to a Sudden Death round.
829
00:36:14,720 --> 00:36:16,000
I know I need to see dad.
830
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,240
He's kind of laid all of his cards
on the table with Marette.
831
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,520
I'd like him to still be
open and still getting to know
832
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,360
everyone in there.
833
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:24,720
OK.
834
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,280
What cartoon
is the Mystery Machine from?
835
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,240
Sam!
836
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,000
'Scooby-Doo'.
837
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,880
Correct!
838
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:38,920
My favourite.
839
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,360
Congratulations, Kayla and Sam.
840
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:42,920
Yeah!
841
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,480
You have won today's challenge.
842
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,400
Yay!
843
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,760
I'm so excited.
844
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:52,520
I literally am gonna give my dad
the biggest cuddle ever.
845
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,160
High-five.
846
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,680
But I'm so scared
that I will give it away
847
00:36:56,720 --> 00:36:59,040
that I've been watching
this whole time.
848
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,120
Very soon you will be face to face
with your gorgeous parents...
849
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:03,400
Oh, my god!
Yay!
850
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,520
..for 10 precious minutes.
851
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,520
Like, my stomach
is like churning, churning.
852
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,040
I'm like, I'm so excited.
853
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:17,000
Keep watching, guys,
and I will see you soon.
854
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:18,480
Bye!
855
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:19,720
See ya.
856
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:24,560
(DEVICE CHIMES)
857
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:25,680
New message.
858
00:37:25,720 --> 00:37:27,680
Hey!
Hey, hey!
859
00:37:27,720 --> 00:37:29,160
New message.
860
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,400
Drumroll.
861
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:33,960
Shane...
Yes.
862
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,360
..please head to the top garden
through the front door,
863
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,280
there's a special guest waiting
to see you.
864
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:39,400
(MEL GASPS)
865
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,360
Oh, my gosh!
866
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:42,760
Don't trip while you run.
867
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,160
Be careful on white shoes.
868
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,720
Being called out of the retreat,
saying I have a special visitor,
869
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,440
incidentally my heart just stopped.
870
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,360
# Just know if I'm leavin'...
871
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,160
I was like, wonder who can be.
872
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,600
# I'll be there to pick you up. #
873
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,680
(SHANE SNIFFLES)
874
00:38:01,720 --> 00:38:03,160
Hey, Dad.
875
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:04,320
Hey, princess.
876
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:05,600
Don't cry.
877
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:11,120
It's like cuddling home,
like it was just the warm,
878
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,680
beautiful, beautiful feeling.
879
00:38:13,720 --> 00:38:14,920
Hope they're happy tears.
880
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:16,160
(LAUGHS)
881
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,480
Think I'd literally seen dad cry
twice in his whole life,
882
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,520
and that would be number two.
883
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,600
Come take a seat.
884
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,640
We do everything together,
live together, work together,
885
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:28,600
go for walks together.
886
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,200
So, not getting to see me
every single day
887
00:38:32,240 --> 00:38:33,880
has been quite hard.
888
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:35,120
What's been happening?
889
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:36,480
It's been pretty crazy.
890
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,160
Yeah.
Have you made any connections yet?
891
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,360
Yeah, yeah. I've been out on date.
892
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,600
Date?
Kind of...
893
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:43,840
Already?
894
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,280
And I have made a kind of
romantic connection with...
895
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,480
What?
..one person.
896
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:49,920
What are their names?
897
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:51,960
Should I tell?
I think you should.
898
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:53,040
(LAUGHS)
899
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,440
Kristy.
Kristy.
900
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,200
What does she look like?
901
00:38:57,240 --> 00:38:58,800
What colour hair?
902
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:00,480
Well, your type's blonde.
Yes.
903
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:01,680
She's blonde?
904
00:39:01,720 --> 00:39:04,280
Sounds like...
I'm actually shocked.
905
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,520
It sounds like
you might have found someone
906
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,600
and that's pretty special this soon.
907
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,680
So, if you truly feel that way,
go for it.
908
00:39:11,720 --> 00:39:13,400
Just give it your all.
909
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,240
Thank you, beautiful.
910
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,440
It's amazing to see Kayla again.
911
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,560
She just brightens up my world.
912
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,760
I wish I had more time to be honest.
913
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:23,840
Love you, Dad.
914
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:24,880
Love you, princess.
915
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:26,920
Keep doing what you're doing
and make me proud.
916
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,080
Yeah. Love you.
Bye.
917
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,120
See ya. Bye-bye.
918
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:32,480
These feelings for Kristy are real
919
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,520
and this genuine connection
is there.
920
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:39,840
But for me I need to be
1,000% sure that Kristy
921
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,800
is the woman for my dad
and a potential forever love.
922
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,120
I've really got a lot
to think about.
923
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,320
Here he is. Hey, hey.
924
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:56,520
Hi!
925
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:57,920
Wow! What happened?
926
00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,600
What was the message?
927
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:01,120
I got to see me princess.
928
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,360
Whoo!
929
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:03,560
No way!
930
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:04,960
Yeah.
How was it?
931
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,040
Yeah, no, amazing. Yeah.
932
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:08,520
No, you didn't.
I did.
933
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:11,920
So, you've had a date,
you've seen your kid.
934
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:13,840
(LAUGHTER)
935
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,720
Hey, can we vote,
can we vote people out?
936
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,640
(LAUGHTER)
937
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,880
I was so excited that Shane,
938
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:25,840
obviously, got to see his daughter.
939
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,400
But Shane told me that Kayla
has been fussy in the past,
940
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,880
so there is every chance
she could be fussy again,
941
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,080
which is a worry
because I really like Shane.
942
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:38,400
(DEVICE CHIMES)
943
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:39,960
New message!
New message!
944
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,400
Oh, my god!
Oh, my god!
945
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:43,640
Mel...
946
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:48,040
Oh, come on!
Oh, it's Mel.
947
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:49,120
Head to the top garden,
948
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,040
there's a special guest
waiting to see you.
949
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,000
Oh, it's Sam.
950
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:55,360
Maybe.
Yay!
951
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,200
Yay, yay, yay, yay, yay!
952
00:40:58,240 --> 00:40:59,520
Bye.
It's Sam.
953
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:02,400
Don't get too excited.
954
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:03,960
Don't get too excited.
It may not be. It may not be.
955
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:05,040
It may not be.
956
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,800
So, don't be disappointed
if you get out that door.
957
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,280
Bye!
Bye!
958
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:11,960
See ya. Fingers crossed.
959
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:13,480
Yes, fingers crossed!
960
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,000
I think I needed to see Sam,
961
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,480
just to hug him and to feel,
you know.
962
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:22,080
He's warm.
He's, you know, hug around me.
963
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,680
(SOBS)
964
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:30,920
Don't cry, please.
965
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,000
OK.
966
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,720
Stop.
967
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:46,080
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
968
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:50,200
I was very emotional
because, you know, I'm watching her,
969
00:41:50,240 --> 00:41:53,280
but I'm not, you know, physically,
you know, talking to her.
970
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,440
And I talk to my mum every day.
971
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:56,720
Have you spoken to anyone?
972
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,920
Like, have you,
like, found anything?
973
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,680
Oh, I've gone on two dates.
974
00:42:01,720 --> 00:42:02,920
(SAM LAUGHS)
975
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:04,760
Don't ask, don't ask!
976
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:05,880
You've gone on two dates.
977
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:09,440
Well, I went on one date
at the beginning with Shane.
978
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,040
He's a really nice guy. He's a dad.
979
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:13,200
What do you think about it?
980
00:42:13,240 --> 00:42:14,360
Yeah, he's really nice.
981
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,360
Everyone's so nice, Sam.
Yeah.
982
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:20,600
And then Kristy went on with him
with the date too.
983
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,400
Does she like Shane?
Yeah.
984
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,360
Oh, she really likes Shane.
So, Shane's a no guy.
985
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:26,480
Yeah. Yeah.
OK.
986
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:27,800
I wouldn't do that. You know me.
987
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:29,880
I know, but, you
know, you are there to...
988
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:31,280
Yeah, no, but I wouldn't do that.
989
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:32,520
OK. But is there some...
Alright!
990
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:33,600
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
991
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:34,880
No, no, no, no, no.
Alright. No, no, no, no.
992
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,200
OK. OK.
I'm not asking you to have sex...
993
00:42:37,240 --> 00:42:38,600
No, you know, I...
994
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:39,680
Stop it!
995
00:42:39,720 --> 00:42:41,400
I forced my mum
to come here basically
996
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:42,920
to get her out of her comfort zone.
997
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,080
But it's also, like,
998
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,200
I'm fearful for her too
because I love her
999
00:42:46,240 --> 00:42:48,040
and I wanna protect her
at all costs.
1000
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:49,160
I just...
1001
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,200
I'm scared.
Sacred of what?
1002
00:42:51,240 --> 00:42:52,840
I don't know, Sam.
1003
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:54,320
You said that everyone's so nice.
1004
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,880
Everyone's so nice. I've come here.
1005
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:58,000
I'm enjoying it.
1006
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,160
I'm talking to everyone.
Yeah, of course.
1007
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,440
I would never have thought
in a million years
1008
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,720
that I would be here.
1009
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:09,880
I thank him every day
for doing this for me.
1010
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,560
Be yourself.
I know!
1011
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:13,400
I'm sure everyone loves you.
1012
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,560
I know but you know me.
1013
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,520
Don't start crying
'cause I'm gonna start crying,
1014
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,000
and I don't wanna cry.
1015
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:20,960
OK.
Just go in there.
1016
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:22,960
You always wear your heart
on your sleeve,
1017
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:24,240
be yourself, you know.
1018
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:25,600
If the right person loves you
for it,
1019
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,080
they're gonna love you for it.
1020
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,840
Anyone's gonna be lucky
to call you theirs.
1021
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,640
I love you so much.
1022
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:37,920
Bye.
Bye!
1023
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,640
(SOBS)
1024
00:43:47,240 --> 00:43:48,360
Coming up...
1025
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:49,640
Hi.
Hello. I'm Roe.
1026
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:50,960
Nice to meet you Carol.
1027
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:52,320
Whoo!
1028
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,960
..a new single mum turns heads...
1029
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:56,720
I'm here with you to play.
1030
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,800
..as things hit fever pitch.
1031
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,000
It's getting better and better
over time.
1032
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:04,960
And later...
1033
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:06,120
Well, I told you, she asked me,
1034
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,160
she goes,
"Who have you connected with?"
1035
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:08,520
And I said, "You."
1036
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,640
Has Kristy gone too far?
1037
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:14,680
What you do all the time
is you're like self-destructive.
1038
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,040
(GASPS)
1039
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:28,360
The magic of the retreat's been
working on our single parents
1040
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:32,360
as they bond over common ground
and shared stories.
1041
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:36,320
And since Petula talked
about the death of Drhys' father,
1042
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:39,840
Darren's keen to open up
about the loss of his father
1043
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:41,520
just months ago.
1044
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,280
I was gonna ask you,
being a medium...
1045
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:45,320
Yeah.
1046
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:46,800
And it's really weird question.
1047
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,320
But can you talk to you...
1048
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,360
Do you get to feel a presence
of your husband?
1049
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,800
Yeah. Yeah.
Is it... Has he...
1050
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:57,880
Have you contacted him?
1051
00:44:57,920 --> 00:44:59,120
You know, like...
Yeah.
1052
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:00,480
How does it work?
1053
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:02,480
I'm surprised by Darren.
1054
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,720
He was interested in my world.
1055
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,360
Well, it works exactly like that.
1056
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:11,280
If they want to come through,
they will come through.
1057
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,040
But this is 20 years ago,
you know, now.
1058
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:15,680
My mum is a psychic medium.
1059
00:45:15,720 --> 00:45:17,360
Obviously, people are sceptical,
you know.
1060
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:19,240
We all judge a book by its cover.
1061
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,160
I went to a clairvoyant,
obviously, when he passed away,
1062
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,160
and literally sat down
with this lady.
1063
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:26,440
And she told me things no-one knew.
1064
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:30,200
She told me things that I had said
to my dead husband
1065
00:45:30,240 --> 00:45:32,800
and it was only he
and I in the hospital room.
1066
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,160
No-one knew that.
1067
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,240
Like, no-one knew that.
1068
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,120
I'm pretty amazed, she's opened up.
1069
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,520
This is not really a story
she talks about.
1070
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:40,960
Oh, my god.
1071
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:45,040
Not many men would connect
with it or understand it
1072
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:46,880
or they make a joke and pass it off.
1073
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:48,480
And then I retreat.
1074
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,920
I don't open up
because they've dismissed it.
1075
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:56,840
I would love that with Dad
'cause I would love to find out
1076
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,600
if the connection (INDISTINCT),
"I've got your father here,"
1077
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:00,360
and I just...I'd burst into tears.
1078
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:02,920
The thrill of being a medium
is just another thing
1079
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:04,720
that I'm intrigued by,
1080
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:06,360
and some people think
that's a red flag.
1081
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,120
But I've been to a couple of my time
and I'm always open to,
1082
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,840
you know, different things.
1083
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,040
Just her what he's got to say.
1084
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:13,440
Yeah, yeah.
1085
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:20,760
Yeah, I've already felt things
from your dad when we left the spa,
1086
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,160
the other night,
we were sitting at the dining table.
1087
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:25,720
And I said to you, I was like...
1088
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:27,080
There's Scottish,
1089
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:28,440
that was coming through,
you know what I mean?
1090
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:29,520
I could feel that.
1091
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:31,400
But he wasn't...
1092
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:33,400
He just kept on saying,
"Now's not the time.
1093
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:34,680
"Now's not the time."
1094
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:39,880
And even last night,
I was like tossing and turning
1095
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,280
and I could feel there
was a male energy.
1096
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,120
But he keeps saying, "I'm not ready.
1097
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,200
"Now's not the time."
It's still raw.
1098
00:46:46,240 --> 00:46:50,240
It's still recent.
And was it around the birthday?
1099
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:51,720
A little bit after his birthday.
Yeah.
1100
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:52,760
OK.
1101
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,520
'Cause I'm just feeling
a celebration.
1102
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:55,680
So, it's definitely
around a birthday.
1103
00:46:55,720 --> 00:46:57,680
Yeah, it was just after Christmas
sort of thing.
1104
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:03,800
There's nothing you could do
'cause he couldn't talk.
1105
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:05,560
He lost his eyesight.
1106
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,760
One thing he said to Mum was,
"I don't wanna be put in a home."
1107
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:13,440
Can I just tell you
what I'm getting right now
1108
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,640
is that he keeps saying,
"I wanted to die with dignity."
1109
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,280
That's what he said.
Yep.
1110
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,560
He just kept on saying,
"I wanted to die with dignity."
1111
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:23,480
He was in there.
1112
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:25,320
But he was, like,
"I can't get the messages out."
1113
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:26,360
That's what he's saying.
1114
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,400
And was there something
about eyes fluttering,
1115
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:29,560
he was blinking?
1116
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,800
He could move his eyes.
Yeah, yeah, that was his window.
1117
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,920
That was the only communication that
he's saying that that he could do.
1118
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:36,600
Your mum's so good.
1119
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,440
The dying with dignity,
that's what he told us.
1120
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,880
I just wanna die with dignity.
And he did.
1121
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:43,600
And that's all that he wanted.
1122
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:44,720
That is so strong.
1123
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:46,600
A year ago, Tess?
Yeah.
1124
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,760
So nice to see...
1125
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:49,840
Him be himself.
1126
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:52,320
Yeah, and your mum...
It's very hard for a man to cry.
1127
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:53,680
I think that very moment,
1128
00:47:53,720 --> 00:47:56,320
that peacock side of dad
kind of fell away.
1129
00:47:56,360 --> 00:48:00,120
And you got to see
that raw version of him
1130
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:01,840
and that vulnerability that he has.
1131
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:04,520
And I think that was a massive
turning point.
1132
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:07,800
And your mum being there
to support this conversation,
1133
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:11,240
like, I couldn't wish anyone better
to be there for him.
1134
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:12,320
Thank you.
1135
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,560
'Cause she's obviously
incredibly intuitive
1136
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,800
and kind to sit there
and support him
1137
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,160
and make him feel comfortable
to be able to open up.
1138
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,920
Mm-hm, 100%.
1139
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:24,800
It really has cemented
and taken our relationship down
1140
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,200
a different track, a deeper track
1141
00:48:26,240 --> 00:48:28,720
that I've never been down before
because it is something different
1142
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,800
and I don't think many people
who've experienced that.
1143
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,920
Your partner has a connection
to your loved ones
1144
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:36,400
to be so accurate
on the last words of my dad,
1145
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,280
you know, that hit hard and that's,
1146
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,520
you know, you can't write stories
about that.
1147
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:45,480
As Darren and Petula
bond over their past,
1148
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:49,360
Kristy's thinking about her future
with Shane.
1149
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:50,920
She's dying to find out
1150
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,200
how things went
with his daughter Kayla.
1151
00:48:53,240 --> 00:48:55,440
Hey, that's my dad and Kristy!
1152
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:56,520
So, where was she?
1153
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:58,480
You say you walked out
and were was she?
1154
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,480
Up in the beautiful gardens...
1155
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:03,960
And was it hard, going crazy?
Yeah. Yeah.
1156
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:05,840
Geez.
1157
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:07,400
But yeah, I also spin out.
1158
00:49:08,720 --> 00:49:11,720
But it was really nice
to give her a big hug.
1159
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:13,480
Ah!
And so you're allowed to hug her.
1160
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,160
Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
Give her a big kiss and a hug.
1161
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:17,200
Yeah.
Oh, my god!
1162
00:49:17,240 --> 00:49:19,920
Sitting there hold my hand
while we're having a chat.
1163
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:21,120
Yeah, it was nice.
1164
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,120
Oh, my gosh.
1165
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:28,200
Shane told me that Kayla's
this strong gorgeous girl
1166
00:49:28,240 --> 00:49:32,440
that's in the past not always liked,
you know, girls that he's picked.
1167
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,720
Yeah, it definitely makes me worry
that Kayla's not gonna like me.
1168
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,640
I reckon she's nervous.
1169
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:38,920
No.
1170
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:41,840
Why is she hiding her face
like looking down?
1171
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:44,920
I don't know.
1172
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,080
Once she goes, so, she's like,
"Did you go on a date?"
1173
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:50,520
And I said, "Yeah," I said,
1174
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,920
the hard part is I've been
to three bloody dates, you know.
1175
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,640
And I said, "Some people
haven't even been on one."
1176
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:58,280
Yeah.
1177
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,320
Wow.
1178
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,440
And she's like,
"What's going on with you?
1179
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,000
"Are you making connections?"
1180
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,680
And said, "Yeah."
She's like, "What colour hair?"
1181
00:50:07,720 --> 00:50:09,560
"What colour hair, do you think?"
And she goes, "Blonde?"
1182
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:11,360
I said, "Yes."
(CHUCKLES)
1183
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,560
Is that what you always go for,
blondies?
1184
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,880
Yeah. Yeah.
1185
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,840
Oh, Shane says to Kayla
is I've got blonde hair,
1186
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:22,280
that got up my goat a bit
because I'm a lot more than
1187
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,840
just a girl with blonde hair,
you know?
1188
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:29,320
So, it just made me really, yeah,
second guess everything.
1189
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,640
(SHANE LAUGHS)
1190
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:34,840
I came here after a series
of failed relationships.
1191
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,840
And I feel like I've been, you know,
badly hurt in the past.
1192
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:40,080
And I just think
it's just not something
1193
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,240
I ever wanna go through again.
1194
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:43,560
I don't know, usually,
she doesn't shut up,
1195
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:44,760
but with Shane, it's so different.
1196
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:46,280
I don't understand.
1197
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,160
I've never seen her like this.
1198
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,600
I was worried about
how that came across to Kayla.
1199
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:56,440
Mum is afraid
to show her vulnerable side
1200
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,880
and she doesn't really
put her feelings out there.
1201
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,040
She stays close to her heart.
1202
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,040
Yeah, there'll be many a twists
and turns along this journey.
1203
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:06,760
Will there be?
Yes, I reckon there will be.
1204
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:08,400
So, with Kristy,
1205
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:12,560
I can just sense that there's a tiny
bit of a reservation there.
1206
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,320
And I don't know whether
it's something I did wrong
1207
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,280
or something that I said wrong.
1208
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:17,800
But there's definitely
something there.
1209
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:28,480
# Everything looks... #
1210
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:32,400
If anyone can scale walls,
it's a fireman with his ladder.
1211
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,400
So, Heath's braving
Rapunzel's tower...
1212
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:37,640
Cheers.
1213
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:39,520
..to see if he can find an in.
1214
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:42,880
# But you make yourself an island. #
1215
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,040
I wanna get to know you better.
1216
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,040
So, if we went out on our date...
(MARETTE HISSES)
1217
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,080
So, yeah,
that's what I don't wanna see.
1218
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:50,120
No, I'm talking about that.
1219
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,360
I'm not... I'm taking that as me.
1220
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:53,640
Sorry. No, sorry.
1221
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:54,920
OK, so...
1222
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:57,360
(INHALES DEEPLY)
1223
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:58,520
OK.
1224
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:00,520
She's nervous.
1225
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:04,080
I'd like to get to know
Marette more.
1226
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:05,920
But then it's...
1227
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:07,280
Yeah, I might not be her type.
1228
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:08,840
She talks about Prince Charming.
1229
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:10,680
Well, I might not be
her prince Charming.
1230
00:52:10,720 --> 00:52:12,720
If you're not interested,
just tell me.
1231
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,560
I'd love like to get
to know you better, but...
1232
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:20,640
I know.
1233
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,160
But I don't wanna
give you false hope
1234
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:23,960
and think that
there's gonna be something...
1235
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:25,280
What's she whingeing about?
1236
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,000
She said she doesn't wanna
give him false hope.
1237
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:28,520
Mmm.
1238
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:29,960
It's not fair because...
1239
00:52:33,720 --> 00:52:34,840
I'm just gonna say it.
1240
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:36,400
I just think that...
1241
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:39,040
Oh, god, I hate this.
1242
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:40,200
I just think that...
1243
00:52:40,240 --> 00:52:43,920
Just be straight up...
..you're more interested than I am.
1244
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:45,840
But I'm not not interested.
1245
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:47,880
I don't know what her problem is.
1246
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,000
I'm pretty pissed off with her,
to be honest.
1247
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,440
Oh, it's so hard.
I don't like doing these.
1248
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,520
Just let it happen, like...
1249
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:55,560
No, no, no, no.
1250
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:58,400
Do you know what I mean?
I enjoy talking to you.
1251
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:00,600
And we have common interests.
And I like hanging out with you too.
1252
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:02,240
And I like hanging out with you too.
1253
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,160
But like it's not there for me.
I don't feel that.
1254
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:07,280
But it's not like...
Yeah.
1255
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:08,600
It's so awkward for me.
1256
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:12,080
You are just very kind
and you're just so thoughtful.
1257
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:13,320
Forget it. I've heard it all before.
1258
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:14,440
It's all good.
(KAYLA GASPS)
1259
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,960
Oh, no.
Come on.
1260
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,600
Watching Dad get rejected
by Marette is pretty upsetting.
1261
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:21,120
I can tell he's going out on a limb.
1262
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,240
And he's really trying to make
an opportunity here.
1263
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:24,320
So, it's tough.
1264
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,160
It's pretty upsetting to see.
1265
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:27,520
I don't really...
1266
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,280
Have an interest.
That's all I need to hear.
1267
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,800
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
I don't...
1268
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,200
I don't know what she thinks
'cause every guy she's been with
1269
00:53:34,240 --> 00:53:36,320
has been a complete dickhead.
1270
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:37,680
Heath is so nice.
1271
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:40,560
I am pissed off.
1272
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,840
I feel like she always wants
the kind of man,
1273
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:46,240
it's like a bad boy.
1274
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,120
But she needs to get
over these bad boys
1275
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,560
and accept that there are real men
in this world
1276
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,280
that are caring and are loving
and, you know,
1277
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:58,400
have good morals and values,
and it's Heath.
1278
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:02,720
Yeah, it's just a lot.
1279
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:06,440
Cheers.
1280
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:11,520
She's never really been with a guy
that I have like "approved" of.
1281
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:13,920
And I think Heath's great, like,
1282
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:15,720
if she had met him
on the outside world,
1283
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:18,080
I'd be like pushing her.
1284
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:19,640
So, I'm really disappointed.
1285
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:22,440
Cheers to life.
1286
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,520
Cheers to finding someone
that we connect with.
1287
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:26,960
I can feel the rejection.
1288
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:28,480
But don't worry, Heath.
1289
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:31,000
There's a new single mum on the way.
1290
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:32,440
# Can't be tamed
1291
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,040
# I'm a hurricane... #
1292
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:35,200
How are you feeling?
1293
00:54:35,240 --> 00:54:36,600
I'm really excited.
1294
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:37,960
I could meet a man.
1295
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:39,280
I really hope you do.
1296
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:40,840
I'm a hairdresser to the stars.
1297
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,760
And I need a man.
1298
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:43,920
That's why I'm here.
1299
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,560
I've got a lot to live for.
1300
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:49,320
# 'Cause I'm gonna take
The world by a storm... #
1301
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:50,440
I think this is gonna be
1302
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,680
a really great opportunity
for you, Mum.
1303
00:54:52,720 --> 00:54:55,040
Do you know how excited I am?
1304
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:56,840
Because I do deserve love.
1305
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,040
I've nominated my mum
for the retreat
1306
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:01,800
because I can't be her
substitute boyfriend any more.
1307
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,360
And it's time for her
to find some love.
1308
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,800
I'm 21 and I haven't seen my mum
with a partner.
1309
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:09,760
I'd been single for 21 years.
1310
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,840
And I'm looking for a hot guy.
1311
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,520
# This girl comes
with a warning... #
1312
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,360
I'm gonna really try hard to behave.
1313
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:19,760
But I can't guarantee it.
1314
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:21,800
(LAUGHS)
1315
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,000
The mother daughter relationship,
it's definitely reversed.
1316
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:29,360
Some people say I'm an old soul
and Mum's a young soul.
1317
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:30,880
Are you gonna miss me?
1318
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:32,160
Not really, actually.
1319
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,680
I'm very, very honest.
I call a spade a spade.
1320
00:55:34,720 --> 00:55:36,520
I'm not shy to say how it is.
1321
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:38,920
I just need that man not
to be intimidated.
1322
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:40,800
Don't judge the book by its cover.
1323
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,840
Why do we always feel intimidated
by strong women?
1324
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:45,920
Read a few chapters.
It's interesting.
1325
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:48,240
Do you think
that I'm really out there,
1326
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:49,480
that's why I haven't found love?
1327
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:52,680
No, I just think that
you haven't gone for the right man.
1328
00:55:52,720 --> 00:55:56,080
The perfect man
will be definitely The Rock.
1329
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:57,920
I'm dead. I'm done.
1330
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,720
That's it, take me. I'm dead.
(CHUCKLES)
1331
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:01,800
I don't wanna know,
1332
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,520
I wish I had your plugs
in right now.
1333
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:09,600
# Can we dance together one time?
1334
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:13,600
# Would you like to be my friend? #
1335
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:16,320
Cheers, Mel.
Cheers.
1336
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:17,880
Here's to you seeing
your kids today.
1337
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:19,440
Yes, very nice.
1338
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:20,640
How good was that.
Yes.
1339
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:21,960
You too.
Yeah, mate.
1340
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:23,520
Cheers, mate.
1341
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,600
As the good cheer cracks on,
1342
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:29,440
Marette notices that one person's
not feeling the vibe.
1343
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:32,600
You alright? No, you're not.
Yeah, I'm good.
1344
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:36,120
Earlier today, Shane spent time
with his daughter Kayla,
1345
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:37,360
and when he returned,
1346
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,360
he was keen to tell Kristy
all about it.
1347
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,600
She goes, "So, tell me,
what colour hair?
1348
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:44,680
"What colour hair do you think?"
And she goes, "Blonde."
1349
00:56:44,720 --> 00:56:46,080
I said, "Yes." (CHUCKLES)
1350
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,040
Oh, my god.
1351
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:51,560
Since then, Kristy's been stewing.
1352
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,200
But how do you feel
about like you and Shane?
1353
00:56:54,240 --> 00:56:55,240
I don't trust him.
1354
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,000
I don't trust what happened today
with Kayla.
1355
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:58,240
I don't trust...
1356
00:56:58,280 --> 00:56:59,520
What?
1357
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:01,480
Oh!
1358
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:02,640
Hang on a minute.
1359
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:07,720
Something feels wrong,
and I don't know what it is.
1360
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:09,400
You don't trust Shane?
1361
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:13,720
Shane, didn't really mention
anything to Kayla about me,
1362
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:15,480
and I was really upset.
1363
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:17,680
He's probably one of the most...
1364
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:18,760
No, no, wait.
1365
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:20,160
Wait, wait, wait, wait,
wait, wait, wait.
1366
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,360
I need to do a week,
is she still in there. No.
1367
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:24,360
Oh, my god.
1368
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:25,800
She always does this.
1369
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,560
She starts to overthink things.
1370
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:31,760
No, you're wrecking your own head.
1371
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,240
I don't know, I think that you
and Shane get on great and stuff,
1372
00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:35,400
so I don't know, like,
1373
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:38,000
I don't know
if you're like sabotaging it.
1374
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:40,600
Oh, god.
1375
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:43,160
Wow!
1376
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:44,720
Stop, Kristy.
1377
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:46,000
You're killing me.
1378
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:47,600
Careful, Kristy.
1379
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:51,600
There's a new mum in town,
and she's hot to trot.
1380
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:56,320
Good luck, Mum.
1381
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:57,920
Take care of yourself.
You too.
1382
00:57:57,960 --> 00:57:59,600
Oh, it's exciting.
1383
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:02,680
Bye, Cilla.
Bye.
1384
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:03,840
# Trust me, boy,
1385
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:04,960
# I know what I like... #
1386
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:07,360
It's so good to be
child-free, isn't it?
1387
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:09,880
If I meet the love of my life
in the retreat,
1388
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:11,520
that will be a dream
come true for me.
1389
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,280
It would be really amazing.
1390
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:14,840
Why don't you be
a Vodka man tonight,
1391
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:16,680
where you can turn water into vodka?
1392
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:17,720
(LAUGHTER)
Yes!
1393
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:18,840
And be God.
1394
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:21,800
Hello!
1395
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:23,000
(ALL CHEERING)
1396
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:25,320
Hello! There's some people.
1397
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,560
Oh, my gosh!
1398
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:29,040
Now, who is this?
1399
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:31,080
# The best you ever had
1400
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:32,280
# Oh, yeah. #
1401
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:37,600
# You don't have to say that
you like my style
1402
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:39,760
# Trust me, boy,
I know what I like... #
1403
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:42,040
If I meet the love of my life
in the retreat,
1404
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:43,720
that would be
a dream come true for me.
1405
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:45,320
It would be really amazing.
1406
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:46,920
Why don't you be
a Vodka man tonight,
1407
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:48,800
where you can turn water into vodka?
1408
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:49,840
(LAUGHTER)
Yes!
1409
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:51,000
And be God.
1410
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:54,200
Hello!
1411
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:55,400
(ALL CHEERING)
1412
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:57,680
Hello! There's some people.
1413
00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:59,280
Oh, my gosh!
1414
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:01,080
Hello!
Now, who is this?
1415
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:03,840
She's a new mum.
1416
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:05,760
Oh.
1417
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:06,840
I'm Carole.
1418
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:08,560
Hi, Carole.
1419
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:09,640
Hey, Carole. How are you?
1420
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:10,720
Hello.
1421
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:12,600
Hello, hello.
1422
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:14,240
Whoo.
1423
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:15,640
Hello, I'm Roe.
Hello.
1424
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:17,080
Nice to meet you, Carole.
1425
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:21,040
Carole came in sexy.
1426
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,120
I'm here with you to play.
1427
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:24,200
Hello.
1428
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:27,040
Oh, my god.
Oh, my god.
1429
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:30,360
You don't know
what you're getting yourself into!
1430
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:31,680
(LAUGHTER)
1431
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:33,080
I like the attitude.
1432
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:35,000
I think your dad
would like the attitude.
1433
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:36,880
So, where are you from?
Tell me.
1434
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:38,040
I live in Melbourne,
1435
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:39,440
in a place called Docklands
in Melbourne.
1436
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:40,520
Wow.
1437
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:42,760
I'm originally from US
from Tampa, Florida.
1438
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:45,560
Oh, my god!
My dreams have come true.
1439
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:47,080
(LAUGHTER)
1440
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:48,520
Do you think
she might be your dad's type?
1441
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:49,600
I don't know.
1442
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,080
I hope that's the type of woman
that my dad's type is.
1443
00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:53,600
(LAUGHTER)
1444
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:55,920
Roe, you know,
with that American accent,
1445
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:58,040
oh, my god, I felt like
I'm in the movie set
1446
00:59:58,080 --> 00:59:59,680
with Dwayne, The Rock.
1447
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:01,280
It was just amazing.
1448
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:04,400
He's biting his lip in style, Roe.
1449
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:07,480
Way too many times.
1450
01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:08,760
Shall we show you inside?
1451
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,600
Well, if you'd like to, yeah.
Shall we?
1452
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:13,400
Let's get out of this cold ass
weather.
1453
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:14,920
No.
1454
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:16,120
Oh!
1455
01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:17,600
(LAUGHS)
1456
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:19,600
How nice and warm!
1457
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:21,000
(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
1458
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:23,360
Oh, here we go.
We're gonna get the fire going.
1459
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:25,760
Wow.
1460
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:27,200
We've got our very own fire...
1461
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:29,000
He's a fireman.
He's an actual fireman.
1462
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:31,440
He's an actual fireman.
1463
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:34,320
So, my first impressions was wow.
1464
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:36,480
She just owned the room.
1465
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:39,480
And yeah,
she was just absolutely gorgeous.
1466
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:41,800
(SIGHS) That's better.
1467
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:43,560
Carole's emitting a great vibe.
1468
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,560
She looks very confident
and electric.
1469
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,880
And straight away I'm thinking,
"Dad, here we go.
1470
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:49,960
"This is your shot."
1471
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,280
I'm Lebanese,
I'm born and bred in Lebanon,
1472
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:54,080
came to Australia.
1473
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:57,680
1979 from the war,
ran away from the war of Lebanon.
1474
01:00:57,720 --> 01:00:59,360
Oh, wow.
Yeah.
1475
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:01,960
Then I came to Australia.
I couldn't speak a word of English.
1476
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,800
And then I lived in Brisbane
most of my life.
1477
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:05,840
Brisbane is great.
1478
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:07,040
I love Brisbane.
I love Brisbane.
1479
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,880
He is snacking.
He's straight out snacking.
1480
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:12,360
So, all the away from the USA.
Mm-hm.
1481
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:13,640
What's your story?
1482
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:16,760
My son, he nominated me
to come to the retreat
1483
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:20,680
because I've been quite possessive
of my business
1484
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:22,080
for the last three years.
1485
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:25,360
But you left the other part that
you're gonna be moving to Brisbane.
1486
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:27,200
Oh, that's right.
Are you moving to Brisbane?
1487
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:30,040
Well, giddy-up, we're going
all the way to Queensland.
1488
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:31,400
My son lives there.
1489
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:33,000
He actually lives there, so...
1490
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:34,760
Who, your son?
Yeah, he lives there.
1491
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:36,560
Oh, OK.
So, I'm there a lot.
1492
01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:38,760
(GASPS) Wow!
1493
01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:39,920
Oh, my goodness!
1494
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:41,760
It's getting better and better
over time.
1495
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:42,840
(LAUGHTER)
1496
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:45,440
Hotter and hotter in here, isn't it?
1497
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:46,640
(LAUGHS)
1498
01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:48,240
Love it.
1499
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:50,360
My daughter nominated me
because she didn't want me
1500
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:52,560
to move in with her
when she gets married.
1501
01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:54,640
(CHUCKLES) Wow.
1502
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:57,120
Yeah, haven't dated for a long time.
1503
01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:58,320
How long?
1504
01:01:58,360 --> 01:01:59,640
21 years.
1505
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:01,000
Dated at all?
1506
01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:03,560
Well, toys are out,
so that's not bad.
1507
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:06,000
(LAUGHTER)
1508
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:07,840
Not 100% all the way.
1509
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:09,640
Did you bring
an electric toothbrush here?
1510
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:10,920
Oh!
1511
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:12,440
(LAUGHTER)
1512
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:19,280
A new mum means a new child,
1513
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:22,280
and over at the bunker the kids
are about to welcome
1514
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:23,920
Carole's daughter Pricilla.
1515
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:26,040
Hi!
Hi!
1516
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:30,920
I'm Tess.
1517
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:32,160
Nice to meet you.
1518
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:33,960
What are these screens?
1519
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,960
Soon as I saw the screens
I thought, "Oh, my god."
1520
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,360
This place is amazing.
1521
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:43,760
I just was not prepared
for what I was about to hear or see.
1522
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:45,640
No!
Yes.
1523
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:47,120
Yes!
1524
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:49,240
I know.
Welcome to the surveillance room.
1525
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,000
Oh, wow.
1526
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:52,800
Mind you, they have no idea
we're watching.
1527
01:02:52,840 --> 01:02:54,240
Yeah.
Yeah.
1528
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,800
# You feel like home... #
1529
01:02:58,240 --> 01:02:59,360
By the end of the retreat,
1530
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:00,960
you'll be able to sit there
without a pillow.
1531
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:03,280
I'm taking over the pillow.
1532
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:04,960
You're taking over the pillow.
1533
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:06,800
I'm the new closed off.
1534
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:08,480
That's what I'm gonna do.
1535
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:10,000
(INDISTINCT).
1536
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:11,960
So, Kristy seems a little different.
1537
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,400
I totally don't understand
the whole reason why,
1538
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:18,840
but it's really obvious.
1539
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:20,240
How are you?
1540
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:21,760
I don't know.
She's got the pillow, Shane.
1541
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:22,920
The pillow.
Yeah, I know.
1542
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:25,360
I'm closed off now, so...
1543
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:26,440
No.
1544
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:28,040
Yes.
1545
01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:29,920
What is it? What's the real cause?
1546
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:31,320
What do you mean,
what's the real cause?
1547
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:34,000
Like, the cause of you feeling
this way.
1548
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:37,720
You know, there is that
little bit of worry
1549
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:40,720
that Shane's not telling
his daughter about me,
1550
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:43,360
it's like he doesn't see a future,
1551
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:46,800
so I'm starting to second guess
whether my feelings
1552
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:48,040
for Shane are reciprocated.
1553
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,040
Kayla came,
saw, you didn't say a word about me.
1554
01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:51,240
I don't like it.
That's not true.
1555
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:52,280
No, it is.
That's not.
1556
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:55,440
No, but I'm not...
It makes me wanna get right away.
1557
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:56,640
You're missing...
No, no.
1558
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:58,520
(KAYLA GASPS)
1559
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:01,120
I'm not having it.
Oh, my goodness.
1560
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:03,000
What the hell's going on here?
1561
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:04,680
Kristy is wrong.
1562
01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:06,240
She goes,
"Have you made any connections?"
1563
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:08,120
And I said, "Yes."
And I said, "We've..."
1564
01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:09,840
The girl with blonde hair,
but it's like...
1565
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:11,520
And she said,
"What colour hair she has?"
1566
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:12,720
And I said, "She has blonde hair."
1567
01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:15,320
Yeah, well, it honestly
it doesn't make me feel connected.
1568
01:04:15,360 --> 01:04:18,480
It actually makes me feel
extremely disconnected
1569
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:19,560
and unimportant.
1570
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:21,800
And I just think
too little too late.
1571
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:24,560
I really... I don't honestly...
1572
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:26,960
You're taking it the wrong way.
1573
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:28,120
She always does this.
1574
01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:30,360
She starts to overthink things.
1575
01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:32,040
If Mum doesn't stop stressing,
1576
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:36,120
it could ruin the relationship
they could have.
1577
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:37,520
And I don't know. It just...
1578
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:44,440
It just feels like it's not for me.
1579
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:48,000
Ooh.
1580
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:49,880
Ouch. Dagger, heart.
1581
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:58,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1582
01:05:03,800 --> 01:05:06,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1583
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:11,400
Oh!
1584
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,520
You alright, darl?
Mm.
1585
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:17,560
I'm finding that that Kristy
has a few issues
1586
01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:20,200
that she hasn't dealt with.
1587
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:21,640
It's a precious situation.
1588
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:25,560
There's a lot going on
and I'm not judging anyone
1589
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:26,800
because I'm far from perfect,
1590
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:30,120
and I just wanna know
what's going on in her mind.
1591
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,080
Can I just say a quick thing?
1592
01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:33,280
When you saw your daughter,
1593
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:35,400
it would have been about you
and your daughter, in all honesty.
1594
01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:36,440
It wouldn't have been about...
1595
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:38,400
No, but, you know,
the reality is I told her,
1596
01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:39,520
we spoke about her.
1597
01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:42,200
We spoke about you.
The blonde hair girl.
1598
01:05:42,240 --> 01:05:45,600
No, she asked me
what colour hair you had.
1599
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:47,760
So, she... And she...
1600
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:49,520
What I told her,
she asked me, she goes,
1601
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:50,640
"Who have you connected with?"
1602
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:51,800
And I said you.
1603
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:54,160
I have made a kind of
romantic connection.
1604
01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:56,280
What are their names?
Kristy.
1605
01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:57,600
What does she look like?
1606
01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:59,200
What colour hair?
1607
01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:00,920
Well, your type's blonde.
Yes.
1608
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:02,640
She's blonde?
1609
01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:03,960
No, I'm serious.
No, it's alright.
1610
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:05,040
Don't worry, like, I'm fine.
1611
01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:06,880
It's just... It's just...
No, I'm worried about you.
1612
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:08,560
I'm worried.
1613
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:10,040
Stop it.
1614
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:17,240
What you do all the time
is you're like self-destructive.
1615
01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:20,800
(TESS GASPS)
1616
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:23,200
Whoa!
1617
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,360
No, I'm not self-destructive at all.
1618
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:36,920
I'm the opposite
of self-destructive.
1619
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:39,960
(OMINOUS MUSIC)
1620
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:57,160
(KRISTY SNIFFLES)
1621
01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:05,720
I am my dad's biggest rock
and protector.
1622
01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:07,240
(BREATHES DEEPLY)
1623
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:09,800
And when I saw Kristy's response,
1624
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:14,040
it kind of was a bit of a stab
in the heart to see him get hurt.
1625
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:16,360
That is one of my biggest concerns.
1626
01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:23,880
# 'Cause you're meant
To save my life... #
1627
01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:29,920
I avoid drama,
1628
01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:34,280
I do tend to pull back
when that kind of stuff goes on.
1629
01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:37,680
And when someone cracks the sheets
when things don't go exactly
1630
01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:41,960
the way that they want them,
it is a bit of a flag for me.
1631
01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:48,800
I've seen my mum get hurt
so many times.
1632
01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:50,880
She's gone through
so much in her life.
1633
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:55,360
So, I know that her walls
would have just gone straight up
1634
01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:57,800
to let another guy step
into our life
1635
01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:00,400
and put us in a position
to get hurt again.
1636
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:01,680
It's a lot.
1637
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:08,400
# Against the tide. #
1638
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:15,080
Oh, wow.
1639
01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:18,520
Did it throw you?
Oh, 100%.
1640
01:08:18,560 --> 01:08:20,480
Sitting here, watching her go,
1641
01:08:20,520 --> 01:08:22,400
"Where is this coming from?"
1642
01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:25,360
I don't understand.
1643
01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:29,440
I didn't understand,
but obviously, it's triggered now,
1644
01:08:29,480 --> 01:08:31,520
she's reacting in a certain way.
1645
01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:32,680
Yeah.
1646
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:34,360
Well, what was she saying
about your daughter?
1647
01:08:40,080 --> 01:08:41,160
Yeah.
1648
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:44,960
How can you interpret that to...
1649
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:46,480
Yeah, change it around.
1650
01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:48,400
That's (BLEEP)
1651
01:08:48,440 --> 01:08:50,560
complete flip of reality.
1652
01:08:59,120 --> 01:09:00,240
Yeah, no.
1653
01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:09,720
As the retreat settles
in for another night,
1654
01:09:09,760 --> 01:09:12,600
Kristy's emotions are running hot.
1655
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:16,360
But there's one person in the house
who knows how to cool things down,
1656
01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:19,920
fireman Heath.
1657
01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:21,440
I think you're overthinking it.
1658
01:09:21,480 --> 01:09:23,000
I don't...
No, I think you need to breathe.
1659
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:26,400
And don't overthink it.
Listen, can I say something, yeah?
1660
01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:30,720
You have a beautiful guy
out there...
1661
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:36,280
who is very relaxed in life
1662
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:41,560
as a great operation
in his business.
1663
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:43,720
He's in a good place in life.
1664
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:46,960
And I think you need to...
1665
01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:50,760
Personally, I'll never tell anybody
what they should do.
1666
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:54,040
But I think you just need to relax
and just let it...
1667
01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:56,560
And just go with the flow
a little bit more.
1668
01:09:57,760 --> 01:10:00,000
Don't be so overstrung.
1669
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,920
If you don't knock it back
a few notches,
1670
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:03,080
you might lose him.
1671
01:10:04,320 --> 01:10:05,600
And you don't wanna lose him.
1672
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:07,200
I think
there's a genuine connection.
1673
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:12,320
And I don't wanna see that loss
because I love both of yous.
1674
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:13,760
I've connected
with both pounds yous.
1675
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:15,200
I think you're just
beautiful people.
1676
01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:17,640
Stop overthinking it.
1677
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:20,080
If you overthink it,
you're gonna burn it.
1678
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:21,720
And you're gonna lose you.
1679
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:23,320
And that's what's gonna
come down to it.
1680
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:26,520
I guarantee you that.
1681
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:27,760
Mm.
1682
01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:35,000
I think Darren could be
my forever love.
1683
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:37,040
Love is in the air.
1684
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:38,080
(LAUGHING)
1685
01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:39,800
But temptation...
1686
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:41,360
Hello?!
1687
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:43,440
..just walked through the door.
1688
01:10:43,480 --> 01:10:45,400
First impression: Wow.
1689
01:10:45,440 --> 01:10:46,560
Does your dad have a type?
1690
01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:48,240
Yeah, I'd normally say your mum.
1691
01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:50,000
I feel threatened.
1692
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:52,520
I need to make sure I don't
lose this guy.
1693
01:10:53,480 --> 01:10:54,560
I want to be loved.
1694
01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:55,600
Get ready...
1695
01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:56,960
I'm ready.
Of course you are.
1696
01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:58,200
I can see your boobies.
1697
01:10:58,240 --> 01:10:59,240
(LAUGHTER)
1698
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:00,440
..for the moment...
1699
01:11:00,480 --> 01:11:02,120
It's The Notebook 2.0.
1700
01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:03,240
I am attracted to you.
1701
01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:05,000
..Australia's been waiting for.
1702
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:06,040
Naw!
1703
01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:07,120
I fell in love with your mum.
1704
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:08,280
I fell in love with your dad.
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