All language subtitles for Be My Dream Family EP.51 _ KBS WORLD TV 210615 (1080p_30fps_H264-128kbit_AAC).English

This is between Jonghwa

and me.

Don't worry about it.

However this concludes,

I'll let you know immediately.

And Sangmin, you said

you were moving out to a boarding house?

Don't.

Although you may be uncomfortable,

although everyone may be uneasy,

just carry on as is.

Do that for your sake

as well as Jonghwa's sake and mine.

Please.

Eat.

Eat and then go to work, okay?

Although Father has been away for two days,

you haven't said anything.

I know it's not my place, but I figured

I had to ask if you were okay.

You won't actually split up like this...

Right?

We have decided

to spend some time apart.

Mrs. Kang.

Jonghwa said he would stop his outbursts,

but he keeps flying off the handle.

I don't know if he can really change his ways

or at least make an effort.

I'm sorry.

I know everyone is worried because of me.

I'll think about it some more.

(Be My Dream Family)

(Episode 51)

Not yet.

She must really be disappointed in Father this time.

But of course she is.

So why didn't you tell me?

Things wouldn't have snowballed had we dealt with it.

Hon,

what am I to you?

What do you mean all of a sudden?

Mrs. Kang is upset and Father is away.

And you were beaten up.

It has been a whirlwind.

And since you've been moping,

I said I would let it slide for now.

But I am so angry.

How could you not tell me about the accident?

I was worried you would collapse again.

You had enough going on as it was.

So you thought you'd keep me in the dark?

Have you ever managed to keep anything from me?

You should have told me.

You almost died!

You were in an accident!

I had no idea.

Unaware that you had almost died,

I gave you a hard time for quitting.

Why make me into a bad wife?

I was worried about you.

I thought you would get angry again and collapse.

You didn't want me to chew you out,

chiding you for not being more careful.

What do you think of me?

Am I just someone you're scared of?

Who you worry will yell at you when you nearly died?

No.

You are my dear wife,

who I love very much and depend on.

I'm sorry.

You're married to someone who still gets beaten up

by his dad and goes around borrowing money,

so I'm really sorry.

Hon.

I will get a job

and pay Mrs. Kang back with my monthly wages.

Yes, Mother.

Okay.

Mother is still upset.

In a serious tone, she said she'd think about it,

but she is pretty much done with Father.

Happy now?

Are you satisfied that you caused a scene

at her birthday party and split up a happy couple?

This isn't even funny.

Did I cause a scene?

It was Dad. Dad caused a scene.

You provoked him.

You kept going off at Geuru.

People like you are the problem.

Despite seeing what happened,

you slander me and try to ruin my life.

That witch was out of turn,

and although a loser, Sangbaek is the eldest son

of our family, so I defended him.

You should have stopped at the first sign of trouble,

not make it worse.

Whatever.

Why get married only to split up this easily?

It means she didn't really love him.

Yes.

That makes sense now that I think about it.

But that means you were wrong about her

being a gold digger, who would cling on to Father

for his money.

She does not want to stay married

to a foul-tempered man who hits his children.

Isn't that proof

that she wasn't after Father's money?

No.

It just means...

What does it mean?

Oh, okay.

After signing the property claims waiver,

she sees that I'm no pushover.

Then she experiences Dad's foul temper.

She realizes her plan will fall through,

and this is her excuse to cut her losses and move on.

No. She didn't suffer any losses.

She has made plenty off him.

I got it. She decides there's nothing left to take.

"Cut her losses"? "Made plenty off him"?

What are you talking about?

Mr. Maeng.

When do we start shooting?

I can't wait to see you.

That's your pickup line?

There is trouble at home, right?

Alas, it always seems

fortune, good or ill, always comes in pairs.

But be patient.

Ill fortune will pass and good fortune will come.

Wait. Hang on.

This is our college.

Wow. Just 10 years after graduation,

I almost forgot what our college town looked like.

Here. I drank like a fish here.

Wow.

Want to take a stroll on our campus?

Are we out to have fun?

We must report right back after our offsite meeting.

Why do you want to rush back?

You'll only see Jiwan and get depressed.

Just half an hour.

Our meeting got done early.

Come on.

I'm off then.

Hurry up.

This is why you had me come?

You're not doing anything.

Hurry up and take it to Heon.

This paper is due today.

He's a college student.

Are you kidding me?

Just email it to him. He'll print it out somehow.

This isn't a regular essay.

He had to go to an art museum and write about it.

He must submit the ticket that's in here too

as proof.

Come on.

And visiting a college will motivate you

to try to get into college again.

You interrupted me studying by calling me over.

I'll give you $10.

Save it.

Hey, $20.

Hey, $50.

Deal?

It has been so long.

Oh, right. I drank a lot on that lawn there.

Let's go see.

All you did was drink.

Is that your only memory of college?

Of course not.

But you really didn't know who I was?

Although we were different majors, I played in a band

at every festival and was the lead in every play.

I was quite famous on campus.

In your heyday?

Back in your time?

Can't stand a has-been.

You can't stand anything I say or do.

Just tell me the truth.

You really never saw me around?

No.

Even if I did, it was ages ago. How would I remember?

Yet you still have a crush on a guy from ages ago.

Sorry, sorry.

But may I ask you something?

What did you like so much about Jiwan?

I saw him at our club welcome party my freshman year.

Everyone was silly and lousy, but Jiwan came off

as a true upperclassman.

He was quiet, serious,

and considerate without being showy.

He was very cool.

Women always say they like fun men

but then think the quiet ones are cool.

Fun men are cool too.

I'm a case in point.

What are you doing?

Where?

Where is that coolness?

Why do you hide it so well?

Hide it? I'm parading it around for all to see.

If you can joke back though,

you must not be as nostalgic as I expected.

But we must have bumped into each other at least once.

Oh. Want to go see my favorite hangout?

Going there might jog your memory of me.

Geez.

We only have half an hour. Let's go.

Come on.

Move it.

Si-un.

I'm sorry.

Hurry up, dude.

Sorry.

Coming.

This must be the club room

where you spent a lot of time with Jiwan.

What was the club?

It sounded very dull.

Current Events Club.

Wow. You are both so boring.

I don't hear anything inside.

Shall we go in?

But it's not our club room.

Not ours?

We are alumni. And we outrank them by many years.

Let's walk in with our heads held high.

Inseo.

You didn't get lost.

I'm not a little kid. Why would I get lost?

Here.

Thanks.

I would have gotten an F if I didn't submit it today.

I have to get good grades

to graduate early

and provide for Min-a and the baby.

Geum Min-a will be going to college too

and then getting a job.

I know.

Of course she will.

Im Heon.

Oh? You're on your way to Pop Culture, right?

Yes.

Who's this?

I don't think he's in our department.

Oh. My brother-in-law,

my wife's younger brother.

Hello.

- You go ahead. / - Okay.

I'm going to chat with my brother-in-law first.

Okay. See you later.

Did you like her?

Want me to set you up?

What? But I only just met her.

So what?

You don't have a girlfriend.

So I just date any girl I see?

So did you tell everyone you're married?

Of course.

I am married

with a baby on the way.

That's good.

Otherwise, Geum Min-a would beat you to a pulp.

That's right.

Min-a told me to show you around,

but I have to get to class. Sorry.

It's fine. There's nothing to see anyway.

Go.

Okay.

I'll treat you to a nice lunch next time.

He's always trying to be chummy.

As if.

The campus is huge.

How did they all pass the exam?

Must be nice.

Yeah.

It has changed a lot.

But of course.

So much time has passed.

You're getting nostalgic on me?

Do you see young Jiwan before your eyes?

Me.

I'm seeing the young me.

Oh? Didn't you give that to Jiwan?

It was tucked away in a corner.

He didn't even notice when I took it.

Someone who will never love me.

You asked me

what I liked, or like, so much about Jiwan.

Because he won't love me.

I must have liked him because he wouldn't love me back.

That's safer.

I just have to do the liking.

Then I won't get hurt.

If he returns my love,

that's when things get dangerous.

We'll go out, fight, and get hurt.

What I mean is,

I knew from the start.

And as if by force of habit, I fell for him again.

I knew then too

that I stood no chance.

But...

Why does it still hurt?

It was a crush.

It was just a crush.

He gave it to me here.

He gave one to me like he did

to all the freshmen.

It was just me

who put special meaning to it

despite knowing that I wasn't special,

that I would never be special

to him.

I must change.

I must change my mindset.

I'll stop being frozen in time

when everything else has moved on.

No more.

No more of that.

Shall we go now?

Wow. You're good now.

You're really good at classic games.

Your turn.

Mom, join us.

I learned this from you after all.

Must be your dad.

Okay. I'll go get my backpack.

Okay.

When his dad comes,

he doesn't frown anymore.

No, he doesn't.

Hang on.

Hello.

Sorry I'm late.

Hi, Sol.

Hello.

Ijae...

He went to get his backpack.

Mom said to thank you for the birthday gift.

She's in her room right now.

It wasn't anything grand though.

I always feel so indebted to her.

It's just side dishes.

But due to a little family trouble,

there probably won't be any this week.

No problem. I can make our own side dishes.

But is it something serious?

Are you okay?

Pardon?

I'm fine.

Don't worry about me.

But did you drink?

Yes.

There was a publishers' dinner, so I drank a little.

Do I reek of booze?

It's not that.

Did you have pork belly and pork rinds too?

Yes.

Yum.

Mom, I want some.

Okay. How about tomorrow?

Okay.

Then I'll get it for you.

You look after Ijae whenever I'm out late.

Really?

We'd love that.

Ijae.

Did you have a good day?

Yes. You had fun, right?

Let's go.

Thank you. Good night.

Bye, Sol.

Bye, Mr. Choi.

Oh. Don't forget the pork belly and pork rinds.

Like I've never gotten it for you?

Good night.

Good night.

Bye, Ijae. Sleep well.

Dad, do you know how to play cat's cradle?

Ms. Han and Sol taught it to me today. It's fun.

I might.

Will you teach me?

Sure.

Ms. Han said I was very good.

I'm sorry.

My temper flared up again.

It's so appalling though

that a grown man who is almost 50

hit you up for your savings.

And the girls found out.

I heard later they had given you that money.

I hang my head

in shame before you.

I did a poor job raising my sons.

I'm sorry.

I'll make sure this doesn't happen again,

so please accept my apology.

What's wrong with being almost 50?

If you're hard up,

you can borrow money even if you're almost 80.

People borrow and lend money all the time.

But

beating up a son

who is almost 50

is not something you can't help.

It has to be something you can stop.

You won't change.

You can't.

You say you regret it every time

but then lash out again when you lose your temper.

You will just stay that way.

No.

Never again will I...

I'll think about

whether I can stay with you,

whether I can bear to be with you

even if you keep hurting yourself and your sons

and won't change

or even try to change.

I really

must think hard about it.

Mom.

Are you okay?

Of course.

The look on your face says otherwise.

So what are you going to do?

I know Mr. Geum did a terrible thing

and you are probably very upset.

And we messed up too.

We shouldn't have harped on about it.

Geuru and I might be to blame for what happened.

Try talking to Mr. Geum.

You always say

there is nothing that words can't resolve.

Mr. Geum is probably very upset too.

Please?

Who is it?

It's me.

M-Mr. Geum.

We should talk.

Leave us.

- Leave us. / - O-Okay.

Let's talk inside.

Let's do it here.

Why are you here this late?

"W-Why am I here"?

You said this was my home now.

But you won't even let me in?

So this is why you didn't let me sell my house.

To kick me out whenever you wanted.

Sol is still up,

and you might raise your voice inside.

You are being so unfair.

No matter how I look at it, I just don't get it.

What did I do that was so wrong?

Yes.

I hit my sons and fly off the handle.

That's how I am.

But I have good reason to!

I'm not a lunatic who gets like that for no reason!

Do you really not know

what you did wrong?

You can't admit to it?

Of course I know.

I do.

Although I know,

I can't change in a flash.

This is how I've been all my life.

You knew

this was the kind of guy I was.

You said you knew

but were okay with it.

You said you loved me! You call this love?

Is it love if you kick me out

when you can't stand me?

Oh, right.

So that's why you kept paying rent

and kept business and family separate!

To split up whenever you pleased!

Father.

Mom, what's going on?

Mr. Geum, are you raising your voice again,

now at our Mom too?

No, no. He didn't.

Go inside.

Father.

Hon, go with him.

Mom.

What is wrong with Mr. Geum,

showing up this late and...

Has he always been this violent?

Geuru, enough.

Let's go.

Geuru,

I know this was wrong of Dad,

but think about how frustrated he must be.

You shouldn't talk about your elders like that.

Dad hasn't wronged you two in any way.

Although he loses it with us,

he tiptoes around the two of you.

Hon, let's go.

Good night.

Bye.

Geuru,

I'll pay Mrs. Kang back as soon as I can,

so don't be like this.

Don't be like what?

Am I not even allowed to ask?

Geuru.

That's enough, Geuru.

Frankly, you started the whole thing at the dinner.

You should have come to me about it instead.

Never mind.

Let's go.

Is this my fault?

Who borrowed the money? Who did the beating?

Come on.

Let's go inside.

Seriously.