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- Studies have shown that teen sex
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is the most searched form
of sex on the internet.
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But this is not surprising,
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because the age at which you
find other people attractive,
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does not change, instead it expands.
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When we are young we find children
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of our own age attractive,
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but as we grow older,
children under the age of 18,
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do not become less attractive.
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But pedophiles also find children
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under the age of 18 attractive.
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So what is the difference
between you and pedophiles?
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- [Man] Here's the damn thing about it,
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being a pedophile is wrong.
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- And more details about the Canadian man
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who's now at the heart
of a global manhunt,
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including who he is, his alleged crimes,
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and how he spent his
time half a world away.
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- A New York congressman says,
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"Michael Jackson was a pedophile
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"who doesn't deserve all
the attention he's getting."
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(speaking in foreign language)
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- When is it considered pedophilia?
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Under the age of 16, 14, 12?
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- I think somebody's a pedophile
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when he's attracted to
somebody who's under 18.
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- [News Reporter] The
billionaire prime minister,
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faces trial on charges of paying for sex
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with Ruby when she was just 17.
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- It's a diseased, psychotic person.
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It's not even a human being.
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I don't think it's a human being.
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- When an adult has sex with a child,
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it's called statutory rape.
- He was not charged.
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- It's not called anything else but rape.
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- Pedophiles are men older
than 30 who abuse our children.
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- Online he calls himself mannbay2004.
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He makes a date for sex with
a girl he believes to be 13.
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Makes it sound like you would
do that with a 13-year-old.
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- No, I wouldn't.
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I wouldn't do that.
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I wouldn't do that to her,
only unless if she was 18.
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Or you know?
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- A pedophile is somebody
who's older than 21,
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and who feels attracted to
somebody who's younger than 15.
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- I think somebody who's 21,
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goes with somebody who's 15 or 16.
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It's not the best thing,
but if somebody's 30
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and he goes with somebody
who's 15, I think it's wrong.
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- It is time now for another
chapter in the tawdry tale
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titled the Pope and Pedophile Priests.
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- Somebody who just likes children.
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- A pedophile is an older man.
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- Disgusting.
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- It's an illness.
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- Pervert.
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- Something like priests.
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- Mentally ill.
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- Criminal.
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- Psycho.
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- Insane.
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- Crazy.
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- [Narrator] There is no standard
definition for pedophilia,
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because the world cannot
agree on one definition.
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The most confusing factor
is the major difference
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in the legal age of consent.
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The minimum age at which a person
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is considered legal for sexual acts,
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varies from nine years to 20 years.
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Some countries such as
Saudi Arabia and Oman,
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do not even have a legal age of consent.
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But to fully understand this,
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we need to go back to the beginning.
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We need to go back in
time to the Stone Age.
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Life was not easy in the Stone Age.
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Due to the harsh environments
in the Paleolithic Era,
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men and women did not live long.
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The average lifespan for the
first modern humans was 33.
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In fact, in the Neolithic Era,
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between the Stone Age and the Bronze Age,
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the average life expectancy
for the first modern humans,
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was as low as 20 years.
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This meant that early modern humans
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did not have the luxury
to postpone having babies
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like we have today.
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Even though the life expectancy of humans
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has doubled since the Stone Age,
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natural selection favors
early reproduction,
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because it is not logical
for humans to delay maturity.
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Young females usually reach
sexual maturity at age 16,
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and up to this very day,
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this biological process on
average has not been delayed.
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Anthropological studies conducted by
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Napoleon Chagnon, on primitive societies,
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suggest that the average man
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find females around the age of 16,
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sexually the most attractive.
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Males have an instinctive
attraction towards females
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who are at the earlier
stages of sexual maturity.
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From an evolutionary standpoint,
this makes perfect sense.
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A male who can gain access
to young virgin females,
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can maximize his own
reproductive potential.
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Males who evolved an
attraction to young females,
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who were not already pregnant,
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would have more offspring
than other male competitors.
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There has always been
a biological preference
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towards pubescent
children and young adults,
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and as time progressed, certain societies
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would take this to the extreme.
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- The word pedophilia is
composed of two Greek words.
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On the one hand, Pais, which means child,
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or generally youthful person,
dependent person even.
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And Philia which means love, closeness,
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being one's own.
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So generally you could say it is
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the love of children, or a child.
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The Greeks and Romans practiced pederasty.
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And that means that there
was an erotic relationship
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between an adolescent
boy and an older man.
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Pederasty did not only
occur between men and boys.
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It was also well known
between women and girls.
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Nonetheless, I think we can safely say
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that most people associate with pederasty,
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the relationship between
older men and boys.
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Pederasty was not just widely practiced,
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it was also widely recognized,
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in particular in Ancient
Greece, as a very normal,
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and even commendable social institution.
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It was not odd, it was not wrong,
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it was something that was part
of social life, more broadly.
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Pederasty has existed in many cultures.
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The ancient Greek case is
I think the best known,
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but nonetheless, it was
practiced and normal
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in many other cultures too.
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For instance, in the Middle East and Asia.
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- If you look at the
church in the Middle Ages,
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if you look at its view on sexuality,
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that was quite conservative.
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It hadn't always been that
way from the beginning.
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Considering the practice of celibacy,
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that wasn't there when the church started.
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Popes, priests, they had their wives,
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they had their children.
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It's only when celibacy was
introduced in the Middle Ages
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that it sparked an immense increase
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of homosexuality in the church.
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Catholic priests who
molested adults and boys,
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were not homosexual by nature.
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But as you know, place
any men in an environment
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that is deprived of women,
and what will happen?
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You will most likely
see homosexual activity.
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Priests, right?
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They are spiritual, yes.
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But they are human as well.
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And as humans, they are sexual beings.
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Studies even have shown that
the sexual abuse of children
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is not limited to the Catholic church.
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Other churches and religions
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are just as likely to abuse children.
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- [Narrator] The majority of
priests who abuse children
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cannot be diagnosed with true pedophilia.
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Rather their actions involve hebophilia.
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Hebophilia is defined as an attraction
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towards adolescent children.
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In technical terms, they are
called offending hebophiles.
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If sex that involves adolescent
children is a moral issue,
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then why is it common in religion?
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Various religions contain
sexual activities with children.
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Christianity, Islam, and
Judaism are no exception.
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- Mary was at the age of 12 or 15
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when she got her baby, Jesus Christ.
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- Aisha was married
with the prophet at six,
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and consummated the marriage at nine.
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- [Narrator] Furthermore,
Bar Mitzvah is when
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Jewish boys turn 13 and are seen as men.
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Jewish girls have Bat Mitzvah.
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When they turn 12, they are seen as women.
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Looking back in history, one
can see a sexual pattern.
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The average age of pregnancy were 13,
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and only in recent years
has that age gone up,
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especially in western society.
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Currently in western society,
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the average age of pregnancy
is between 21 and 23.
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- Okay, overall you can see that girls
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start their puberty around age 10,
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and finish around age 16.
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Boys, they start their
puberty somewhat later,
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and consequently also finish
their puberty somewhat later.
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- [Narrator] Western society has chosen 18
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as the legal age at
which we become adults.
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Despite the fact that women
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usually reach maturity at age 16,
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the legal age for western society is 18.
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This was an obvious choice,
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because at 18 men reach maturity.
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To fully understand this
choice we must understand
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the evolutionary differences
between men and women.
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Women have many requirements
for their ideal man.
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One of the most valued requirements
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is that their ideal man is tall.
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This is not a superficial choice.
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Instead this is actually a
logical and instinctive decision.
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Back in the Stone Age
a simple law applied.
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Survival of the fittest.
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This meant that only the
strongest humans survived.
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Women preferred men who were big and tall.
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Larger men could provide more food
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and better protection
than smaller weaker men.
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Natural selection favored bigger men.
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That is why most men
are taller than women.
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But this extended growth came at a price.
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In order to become taller than women,
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men needed two years extra to grow taller.
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The extra energy put into growing,
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also affected men's mental growth.
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Instead of becoming
physically mature at age 16,
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men are physically mature at age 18.
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And are also later in
their mental maturity.
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Today if you compare
16-year-old girls to boys,
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you will realize that 16-year-old girls
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are sexually and mentally far more mature
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than 16-year-old boys.
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Girls even start puberty
earlier than boys,
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and therefore usually have sex earlier.
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That is why girls are more
likely to want older partners.
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Growing up they realize
that boys their own age
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lag behind in maturity,
and keep this mindset.
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That is why the average woman
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is younger than her male partner.
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Biologically, humans start experimenting
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with sexual intercourse in puberty.
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This usually begins around the age of 13.
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However, western society
has pushed the legal age
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of sexual maturity several years beyond
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the physical age of sexual maturity,
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and regards sex normal,
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when humans reach the legal age of 18.
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This choice is not based on morals.
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Instead this choice is
mainly based on education.
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Western society is fortunate enough
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to offer most children an education.
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High school education usually ends at 18.
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That is why western society
does not favor underage sex.
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Because it interferes with education.
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Doe to the increased education,
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the age of pregnancy has
risen in recent years.
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(ambient electronic music)
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- Being a mom is hard at
any age, believe me I know,
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but imagine being a mom
twice before the age of 19.
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A new study says that's the story
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for one in five teenage girls in America.
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- I think I was 12 when I first
started thinking about sex.
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- More shocking still, fully half of girls
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between 14 and 19 say they've had sex.
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- I guess when I was 11 or 12,
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I was starting to think
about sex, you know?
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- Parents out there,
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there's a worrisome trend
we need to tell you about.
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More than 20% of
teenagers admit to sending
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naked photos of themselves to other teens.
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- I was around 11 when I
started thinking about sex.
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- And teens and preteens are engaging
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in sexual behavior at much earlier ages.
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- Between the age of five and seven years.
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- I was seven years old.
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- Age of eight.
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- Was eight or nine years.
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- At the age of 11.
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- At the age of 11.
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- About 12, 13 years.
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- I was 11 or 12 when I first
started thinking about sex.
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- I guess all the,
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everybody gasps when they
hear the 13-year-olds say
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they're having sex, or the 12-year-olds,
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but I guess we have removed ourselves
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from what the world was
like when we were coming up.
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- At age 16 most girls
are physically mature.
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However that does not mean that
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they're mentally ready to have sex.
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And of course all sex
should be consensual.
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(people chattering)
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(ambient electronic music)
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- [Narrator] Child sexuality is very
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prominent in western media.
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The age of 16 is embedded in our society.
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Because at that age every man knows
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that females are sexually mature.
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(cat call whistle)
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We do not need biology to
tell us that 16-year-olds
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are portrayed in the
media as sexual beings.
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Just look at MTV.
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16 and Pregnant, Teen
Moms, or My Super Sweet 16,
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form the fact that average
age of a fashion model is 16.
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Western society considers
this behavior normal.
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- If a girl wants to
start her high-fashion
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modeling career at the age of 19,
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I think that's a little bit too old
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for most modeling agencies.
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- [Narrator] However not every culture
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has adopted the western
views on child sexuality.
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Traditional cultures which have had
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very little contact with western ideology,
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still marry and bear
children in early puberty.
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(ambient electronic music)
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There are also many modern societies
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that differ from the West.
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In Japanese society, the
attraction to young teenage girls
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is a widespread cultural phenomenon.
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The term lolicon describes an
attraction to underage girls
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or individuals with such an attraction.
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Lolicon is very popular in
Japanese media and fashion.
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Outside Japan, lolicon
mainly refers to a genre
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of Japanese comics and animations
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that depict girls sexually.
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What makes lolicon so controversial
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are the art forms, anime and manga.
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Lolicon art has no actual age.
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Just like the Disney characters
Peter Pan and Tinkerbell.
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Nobody knows their real age.
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The attraction to children can
be found in many societies,
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but there is a limit.
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There is no society in the world
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that encourages sex with
children before puberty.
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- My abuse started when I
was about five by my father.
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He was never nice.
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I have pictures of me as a baby,
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and him holding me and I'm screaming.
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I knew. I knew then that
he wasn't very nice.
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I can remember the first time
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that I remember him ever touching me.
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He had me in his bed with him,
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and I thought he was sleeping,
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he just reached over and
started touching my chest.
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I was shocked and made the
excuse for him that it was okay,
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that he just must have
thought that I was my mom,
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but now I think about that, and I think,
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why would that be my first thought,
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and not please stop or leave me alone?
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I laid there until he was done
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and left his bed and
went into my own room.
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But soon touching wasn't enough
and he moved on to oral sex.
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At the time my parents had a water bed,
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and he would straddle my little neck
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and make me do these awful adult things,
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and I couldn't understand.
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He'd kick me out of bed and tell me
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that I'd better not get sick,
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and I'd better not make
a mess on the carpet.
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In the same year, those
things still were not enough,
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and he moved on to actually raping me.
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I can remember waking up
with him on top of me,
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and my legs were asleep and hips hurt,
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and he was making me
hold his cross necklace,
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so that it didn't make any noise.
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All these things happened
almost every night.
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I got a break every now and then,
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when my grandmother came into town,
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or he went out of town for business.
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My life was doing all these
things that my father wanted.
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I became great at hiding,
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and learning how to cover things up.
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I can remember sneaking
the bloody underwear
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to the trash in the morning.
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I can still feel the cold
ground on my bare feet,
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and I would just hope that the
door wouldn't make anybody,
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wouldn't make noise and wake anybody up.
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The same year, a neighbor
started abusing me.
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Looking back I think my
father may have known
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or even set it up, but at this point,
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I'm not sure that it matters,
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or if I'll ever know for sure.
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The neighbor had this big red van,
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and he was always taking us
somewhere on the weekends,
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and we were at this little park.
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I was collecting little
tadpoles and having so much fun.
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It was beautiful outside.
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He called me over to the
van and took off my shorts,
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and he raped me in the back
of the van on the beanbags.
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I can remember looking out the window
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and seeing the beautiful
sky, and this huge tree,
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big beautiful tree swaying in the breeze,
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and I couldn't understand
why this was happening
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on such a beautiful day.
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He was done.
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He told me to get
dressed and he just left.
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I put my clothes on and
went back to the table
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to get my bucket of tadpoles,
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and he kicked them over and
started stepping on them.
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Saying that next time I wouldn't fight.
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My entire life I felt guilty
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that I couldn't pick them up fast enough.
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That I couldn't save them.
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I didn't care about me, but I
couldn't save those tadpoles.
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He was, when I think about it,
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he was in his early 20s and I was five.
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How much could I have really fought him?
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Finally when I myself was in my early 20s,
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I pressed charges on my father.
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It was one of the hardest things
I've ever done in my life.
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But at least it kept
his stepdaughter safe.
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He took a plea bargain,
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but still couldn't follow the rules,
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so he spent almost a year in jail.
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Not near enough for all that he did to me.
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But I didn't do it for me.
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I just did it to keep others safe.
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I'm trying not to let my past define me.
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Some days I lose, but I'm
winning more days than ever.
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And soon I will be okay.
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I'll find my way out of this,
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and be the person that I was meant to be.
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(ambient piano music)
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- There is a difference between
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the general public term of pedophilia
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and the professional definition.
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The public usually associates
pedophilia with someone
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who is sexually attracted to a human being
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below the legal age of the majority.
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However, the clinical term
specifies the definition as
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"A sexual preference for children,
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"usually of pre-pubertal
or early pubertal age.
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"And that for six months or more
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"that person has acted on these urges,
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"or suffers from distress as a result
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"of having these feelings.
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"The individual must also
be at least 16 years of age,
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"and at least five years older
than the juvenile involved,"
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to meet criteria for pedophilia.
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- [Narrator] Pedophiles can be divided
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into two main categories.
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Exclusive pedophiles and
non-exclusive pedophiles.
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Exclusive pedophiles are
only attracted to children,
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and non-exclusive pedophiles
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are attracted to children and adults.
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Exclusive pedophiles are sometimes
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referred to as true pedophiles.
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They're only attracted to children.
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Pedophiles are usually attracted
to a particular age range.
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If the child is younger than four years,
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it is called infantophilia,
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usually zero to three years on average.
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If the child is pre-pubertal
or early pubertal,
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it is called pedophilia,
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13 and younger on average.
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If the child is adolescent,
it is called hebophilia,
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roughly 12 to 16 years.
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Even though there are differences
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between the sexual attraction to minors,
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only one term is mainly used by the media,
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the word, pedophilia.
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- Professionally, there's more difference
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between an active pedophile,
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or an active offending pedophile,
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and a non offender,
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a pedophile who has sexual
feelings for children,
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but who doesn't engage in
sexual activities with children,
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because he knows, or
she knows, it's wrong.
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- Why do I think I'm a pedophile?
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Well, I don't think it's really a choice,
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because I think you are born like that,
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but on the other hand,
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I think a lot of people
have those feelings
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and they don't accept
them, they suppress them.
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(bicycle bell rings)
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- We are one of a kind! (laughing)
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- Firstly, I don't see
myself as 100% pedophile.
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I also like people who
are above 18 years old.
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And
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I think that sexuality of
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every human,
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is a mix.
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I'm a non-offending pedophile.
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And the difference between offending
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and non-offending is obvious.
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People who are offending,
they are breaking the law.
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(children laughing)
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Well, about child pornography,
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you have virtual child pornography,
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manga and so on,
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and sometimes I think that's attractive.
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And it's not illegal, drawings,
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but real child pornography is illegal,
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and I am not watching that.
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(somber ambient music)
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- What I'm about to share
with you is startling.
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A Delaware pediatrician is accused
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of molesting his own patients.
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Children, right there in his office.
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Doctor Earl Bradley is
accused of molesting in fact
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more than a hundred
children in his office,
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some as young as three months old.
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- He possibly is the nation's worst
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sex offender, sex
molester, in the history.
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That's according to documents,
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when you look at some of the numbers here.
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Here's his picture, just
take a look at this guy.
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- Just that everything
has to be consensual.
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(crowd jeering)
No coercion.
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- Children cannot be consensual.
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Do you understand that?
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- Personally, I wouldn't do it.
514
00:27:05,855 --> 00:27:08,094
I mean, I wouldn't go all the way to sex.
515
00:27:08,094 --> 00:27:10,798
- How can a three-year-old be consensual?
516
00:27:10,798 --> 00:27:11,631
- [Audience Member] Right.
517
00:27:11,631 --> 00:27:12,881
- Tell me that.
518
00:27:15,242 --> 00:27:17,825
- [Narrator] There is a
difference between a pedophile
519
00:27:17,825 --> 00:27:20,544
who is attracted to 13-year-olds,
520
00:27:20,544 --> 00:27:24,064
and a pedophile who is
attracted to babies.
521
00:27:24,064 --> 00:27:26,617
Pedophiles who are attracted to babies
522
00:27:26,617 --> 00:27:29,461
are called infantophiles.
523
00:27:29,461 --> 00:27:32,799
Infantophilia is a
subcategory of pedophilia.
524
00:27:32,799 --> 00:27:35,282
Infantophiles are usually attracted
525
00:27:35,282 --> 00:27:37,699
to infants age zero to three.
526
00:27:39,182 --> 00:27:43,139
Infantophilia is the most
extreme form of pedophilia.
527
00:27:43,139 --> 00:27:45,169
(baby cooing)
528
00:27:45,169 --> 00:27:47,150
Very little is known about them,
529
00:27:47,150 --> 00:27:51,067
because they are a minority
amongst pedophiles.
530
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,615
- I don't think I'm a
pedophile, I know I am.
531
00:28:07,615 --> 00:28:11,357
Whenever I see young children,
gender is irrelevant,
532
00:28:11,357 --> 00:28:14,003
especially in vulnerable situations.
533
00:28:14,003 --> 00:28:15,678
I feel more emotional.
534
00:28:15,678 --> 00:28:17,705
I physically feel hotter.
535
00:28:17,705 --> 00:28:19,900
I want to get intimate with them.
536
00:28:19,900 --> 00:28:22,386
I want to know them on a personal level.
537
00:28:22,386 --> 00:28:23,386
I want them.
538
00:28:25,353 --> 00:28:29,788
It has really taken any
kind of love out of my life.
539
00:28:29,788 --> 00:28:32,514
I can't be with the people that I love.
540
00:28:32,514 --> 00:28:35,572
However, I'm happily married to a man.
541
00:28:35,572 --> 00:28:37,556
There's no passion in the marriage,
542
00:28:37,556 --> 00:28:40,044
but we do share a special bond.
543
00:28:40,044 --> 00:28:43,374
It's like being best friends, but closer.
544
00:28:43,374 --> 00:28:45,775
So being a pedophile is not to say
545
00:28:45,775 --> 00:28:50,110
that I cannot have a proper
relationship, with an adult,
546
00:28:50,110 --> 00:28:53,724
but what saddens me is that
I cannot imagine myself
547
00:28:53,724 --> 00:28:55,974
ever having kids of my own.
548
00:28:58,117 --> 00:29:01,945
I used to spend a lot of time
sitting at the playground
549
00:29:01,945 --> 00:29:04,179
or in the bleachers at the pool,
550
00:29:04,179 --> 00:29:06,088
and just watch children.
551
00:29:06,088 --> 00:29:08,120
Eventually I asked myself,
552
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:12,505
do I really wanna do
this the rest of my life?
553
00:29:12,505 --> 00:29:14,337
The answer was obvious.
554
00:29:14,337 --> 00:29:18,119
I had to find something
else to occupy my time.
555
00:29:18,119 --> 00:29:20,802
And that is when I took up cooking.
556
00:29:20,802 --> 00:29:24,399
Whenever I feel an urge coming, I cook.
557
00:29:24,399 --> 00:29:25,984
My husband loves my food,
558
00:29:25,984 --> 00:29:29,402
so there's always somewhere
to dump my urges away.
559
00:29:29,402 --> 00:29:32,450
He's a huge source of support to me.
560
00:29:32,450 --> 00:29:36,209
I'm also a head chief
at a popular restaurant.
561
00:29:36,209 --> 00:29:38,568
Every last Tuesday of the month,
562
00:29:38,568 --> 00:29:40,885
we have a make-your-own-pizza night.
563
00:29:40,885 --> 00:29:44,463
And there's always a large
amount of kids that come.
564
00:29:44,463 --> 00:29:48,630
That is the day that I look
forward to the most each month.
565
00:29:51,866 --> 00:29:54,796
For me personally, I feel that my life
566
00:29:54,796 --> 00:29:57,441
is not much different from other adults,
567
00:29:57,441 --> 00:29:59,435
apart from the fact that I cannot
568
00:29:59,435 --> 00:30:01,629
love another person my age.
569
00:30:01,629 --> 00:30:05,046
I am able to control my urges by cooking.
570
00:30:06,101 --> 00:30:09,141
Those who cook well have lots of friends,
571
00:30:09,141 --> 00:30:11,743
and many of my friends have children.
572
00:30:11,743 --> 00:30:14,708
I invite them over for
dinner all the time.
573
00:30:14,708 --> 00:30:16,906
I know it's customary for guests
574
00:30:16,906 --> 00:30:19,471
to bring something like a bottle of wine,
575
00:30:19,471 --> 00:30:21,543
but I tell my guests not to.
576
00:30:21,543 --> 00:30:25,159
Unknowingly, what they are
bringing are their kids.
577
00:30:25,159 --> 00:30:26,585
I feed them good food.
578
00:30:26,585 --> 00:30:28,498
They bring their kids to play.
579
00:30:28,498 --> 00:30:30,498
It's a fair trade to me.
580
00:30:32,964 --> 00:30:36,912
Have I ever been in a relationship
with a minor as an adult?
581
00:30:36,912 --> 00:30:38,604
Relationship? No.
582
00:30:38,604 --> 00:30:40,126
But I do have a story.
583
00:30:40,126 --> 00:30:42,028
This was several years ago.
584
00:30:42,028 --> 00:30:44,390
A friend brought her
daughter over for lunch.
585
00:30:44,390 --> 00:30:47,601
In the middle of our meal,
her daughter started bleeding.
586
00:30:47,601 --> 00:30:50,204
So she ran to her car to get some napkins
587
00:30:50,204 --> 00:30:54,066
while I took the girl to the bathroom.
588
00:30:54,066 --> 00:30:56,789
There I took off her
skirt and her panties,
589
00:30:56,789 --> 00:31:01,267
then I quickly took some
towels and started wiping up.
590
00:31:01,267 --> 00:31:04,922
Eventually I summed up the
courage to put my finger in,
591
00:31:04,922 --> 00:31:08,295
saying, "this will help
you stop the bleeding."
592
00:31:08,295 --> 00:31:11,547
She nodded her head and I squirmed around.
593
00:31:11,547 --> 00:31:14,068
I heard footsteps nearing behind me,
594
00:31:14,068 --> 00:31:17,483
so I took my finger out
and continued wiping.
595
00:31:17,483 --> 00:31:19,761
My friend stood in the doorway and said,
596
00:31:19,761 --> 00:31:21,183
"Sorry for the mess."
597
00:31:21,183 --> 00:31:24,016
Oh, no problem. No problem at all.
598
00:31:27,857 --> 00:31:29,734
- So a new school year begins
599
00:31:29,734 --> 00:31:31,650
and your teenager comes home talking about
600
00:31:31,650 --> 00:31:33,885
how much he likes one of his teachers.
601
00:31:33,885 --> 00:31:35,385
Your first thought might be,
602
00:31:35,385 --> 00:31:37,583
good, I hope he learns something.
603
00:31:37,583 --> 00:31:40,048
But the parents of one
14-year-old in Florida
604
00:31:40,048 --> 00:31:42,491
were not happy about what
their son was learning
605
00:31:42,491 --> 00:31:44,836
from a teacher in his school.
606
00:31:44,836 --> 00:31:46,904
Her name was Debra Lafave,
607
00:31:46,904 --> 00:31:49,832
and she's one in a
string of female teachers
608
00:31:49,832 --> 00:31:52,920
who've admitted having sex
with underage male students.
609
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,847
- I don't believe that
female pedophiles exist,
610
00:31:55,847 --> 00:31:59,764
because women have a less
aggressive sex drive.
611
00:32:00,727 --> 00:32:03,083
- Does society treat this differently?
612
00:32:03,083 --> 00:32:05,320
I mean, if this was a
man doing this to a boy,
613
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,622
or a man doing this to a girl,
614
00:32:08,622 --> 00:32:10,052
would it be thought of in the same way?
615
00:32:10,052 --> 00:32:12,583
Would the word relationship even be used?
616
00:32:12,583 --> 00:32:14,386
- That's right. I mean,
sometimes I get confused.
617
00:32:14,386 --> 00:32:16,420
Is it a crime story, is it a love story?
618
00:32:16,420 --> 00:32:19,382
Was it consensual, was it a rape?
619
00:32:19,382 --> 00:32:23,157
All of that seems to be
fodder for discussion.
620
00:32:23,157 --> 00:32:24,378
We really don't know.
621
00:32:24,378 --> 00:32:26,619
- I think female pedophiles exist,
622
00:32:26,619 --> 00:32:28,208
because you have the classic stories
623
00:32:28,208 --> 00:32:30,159
of a high school teacher that having
624
00:32:30,159 --> 00:32:32,315
affair with boy student.
625
00:32:32,315 --> 00:32:36,252
- 39-year-Old Anne
Knopf denied allegations
626
00:32:36,252 --> 00:32:38,806
that she had sex with her daughter's ex
627
00:32:38,806 --> 00:32:40,799
in the basement of her home,
628
00:32:40,799 --> 00:32:43,646
while her husband and
children slept upstairs.
629
00:32:43,646 --> 00:32:45,234
- You would have maybe fantasies
630
00:32:45,234 --> 00:32:48,656
of you doing it with some hot soccer mom,
631
00:32:48,656 --> 00:32:50,445
who was way older than you,
632
00:32:50,445 --> 00:32:52,070
because, you know, she's fully developed.
633
00:32:52,070 --> 00:32:56,657
And you'd be like, oh,
yeah, I would hit that.
634
00:32:56,657 --> 00:32:58,530
- [Narrator] Females are
generally not associated
635
00:32:58,530 --> 00:33:01,875
with pedophilia in the
eyes of modern society.
636
00:33:01,875 --> 00:33:04,236
Women are seen as nurturing and caring,
637
00:33:04,236 --> 00:33:06,228
and would never harm children.
638
00:33:06,228 --> 00:33:08,341
If a man hugs a strange child,
639
00:33:08,341 --> 00:33:11,275
people would generally
think he is a pervert.
640
00:33:11,275 --> 00:33:13,345
But if a woman hugs a strange child,
641
00:33:13,345 --> 00:33:15,174
people would think she is kind,
642
00:33:15,174 --> 00:33:19,174
and even nurtures children
that are not her own.
643
00:33:20,125 --> 00:33:21,924
There is a clear double standard
644
00:33:21,924 --> 00:33:25,031
when it comes to pedophilia
between men and women.
645
00:33:25,031 --> 00:33:27,143
This double standard has allowed many
646
00:33:27,143 --> 00:33:30,893
offending female pedophiles
to go undetected.
647
00:33:32,065 --> 00:33:35,602
Roughly 80% of the victims
of female pedophiles
648
00:33:35,602 --> 00:33:37,022
are not believed.
649
00:33:37,022 --> 00:33:41,672
Furthermore, boys are less
likely to report sexual abuse.
650
00:33:41,672 --> 00:33:44,763
The media mainly talks about
female high school teachers
651
00:33:44,763 --> 00:33:47,408
when it comes to female pedophilia.
652
00:33:47,408 --> 00:33:49,480
However, high school teachers who have
653
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:53,606
sexual activities with
teenagers, are not pedophiles.
654
00:33:53,606 --> 00:33:56,569
(somber ambient music)
655
00:33:56,569 --> 00:34:00,509
If the child is in puberty
it is called hebophilia.
656
00:34:00,509 --> 00:34:02,832
This means that most high school teachers
657
00:34:02,832 --> 00:34:06,999
who have sex with children,
are offending hebophiles.
658
00:34:11,899 --> 00:34:16,784
People who are attracted to
adults are called teleiophiles.
659
00:34:16,784 --> 00:34:20,201
However, sexuality is not bound by boxes.
660
00:34:21,133 --> 00:34:24,406
In reality many categories overlap.
661
00:34:24,406 --> 00:34:26,481
Most humans are technically speaking,
662
00:34:26,481 --> 00:34:29,873
a mix of hebophiles and teleiophiles.
663
00:34:29,873 --> 00:34:32,851
Teleiophiles and hebophiles overlap.
664
00:34:32,851 --> 00:34:35,805
There are 18-year-olds who look 16.
665
00:34:35,805 --> 00:34:39,047
And there are 16-year-olds who look 18.
666
00:34:39,047 --> 00:34:42,097
Hebophiles and pedophiles also overlap.
667
00:34:42,097 --> 00:34:45,572
There are 15-year-olds who
look like 13-year-olds.
668
00:34:45,572 --> 00:34:47,488
And vice versa.
669
00:34:47,488 --> 00:34:51,245
Even teleiophiles and pedophiles overlap.
670
00:34:51,245 --> 00:34:54,123
There are 15-year-olds
who look like adults.
671
00:34:54,123 --> 00:34:58,621
And there are young adults
who look like children.
672
00:34:58,621 --> 00:35:01,204
(gloomy music)
673
00:35:07,209 --> 00:35:10,181
- Child pornography is
a visual representation
674
00:35:10,181 --> 00:35:12,672
of children under the age of 18
675
00:35:12,672 --> 00:35:14,798
engaged in sexual activity,
676
00:35:14,798 --> 00:35:17,533
lewd conduct, or erotic behavior.
677
00:35:17,533 --> 00:35:19,907
Many people believe that pedophiles
678
00:35:19,907 --> 00:35:22,875
are the main cause of child pornography.
679
00:35:22,875 --> 00:35:25,678
But in reality pedophiles are not
680
00:35:25,678 --> 00:35:28,734
the only ones who use child pornography.
681
00:35:28,734 --> 00:35:32,889
Hebophiles are the main
consumers of child pornography.
682
00:35:32,889 --> 00:35:36,472
Teen sex is the most searched
form of sex on the internet.
683
00:35:36,472 --> 00:35:38,798
But all not all teen sex is legal.
684
00:35:38,798 --> 00:35:41,029
That's why child pornography has become
685
00:35:41,029 --> 00:35:43,399
a three billion-dollar industry.
686
00:35:43,399 --> 00:35:45,428
Three times more than the income
687
00:35:45,428 --> 00:35:48,108
of all online social gaming combined.
688
00:35:48,108 --> 00:35:50,223
Child pornography is not just creepy
689
00:35:50,223 --> 00:35:53,153
basement videos with fat hairy men.
690
00:35:53,153 --> 00:35:55,469
The statistics on child pornography
691
00:35:55,469 --> 00:35:58,219
include videos, magazines, cable,
692
00:35:59,333 --> 00:36:02,827
pay-per-view, CDs, and the internet.
693
00:36:02,827 --> 00:36:05,472
It's also used to promote escort services,
694
00:36:05,472 --> 00:36:09,165
sex clubs, merchandise, and phone sex.
695
00:36:09,165 --> 00:36:12,659
Approximately 20% of
all internet pornography
696
00:36:12,659 --> 00:36:15,543
involves children under the age of 18.
697
00:36:15,543 --> 00:36:18,601
Seeing that almost all
men watch pornography,
698
00:36:18,601 --> 00:36:21,617
and one-third of women,
means that many of us
699
00:36:21,617 --> 00:36:23,924
have not only witnessed child pornography,
700
00:36:23,924 --> 00:36:26,371
but have also contributed to the industry.
701
00:36:26,371 --> 00:36:29,060
For example, sending
underage naked pictures
702
00:36:29,060 --> 00:36:31,824
of yourself to your partner as a teenager.
703
00:36:31,824 --> 00:36:35,404
The only time when it's not
considered child pornography,
704
00:36:35,404 --> 00:36:39,222
is when those images are
used by the fashion industry.
705
00:36:39,222 --> 00:36:41,538
Because when underaged fashion models
706
00:36:41,538 --> 00:36:45,705
show their private parts,
it's considered artistic.
707
00:36:48,855 --> 00:36:51,170
- [News Reporter] A
14-year-old New Jersey girl
708
00:36:51,170 --> 00:36:53,445
has been accused of child pornography,
709
00:36:53,445 --> 00:36:55,357
after posting nearly 30 explicit
710
00:36:55,357 --> 00:36:58,697
nude pictures of herself on Myspace.com.
711
00:36:58,697 --> 00:37:00,930
If convicted those charges could force her
712
00:37:00,930 --> 00:37:03,204
to register as a sex offender.
713
00:37:03,204 --> 00:37:06,498
- I think sexting is about sending
714
00:37:06,498 --> 00:37:09,776
pictures of naked people to other people.
715
00:37:09,776 --> 00:37:12,876
And I heard from a girlfriend of mine
716
00:37:12,876 --> 00:37:16,869
that she got a picture
also from a guy naked.
717
00:37:16,869 --> 00:37:18,738
- I think we've completely
lost our minds, Mike.
718
00:37:18,738 --> 00:37:21,030
We're seeing an epidemic of these cases.
719
00:37:21,030 --> 00:37:22,697
There's a case in Pennsylvania
720
00:37:22,697 --> 00:37:24,119
of two girls at a slumber party,
721
00:37:24,119 --> 00:37:27,084
teenagers in pajama bottoms and bra tops,
722
00:37:27,084 --> 00:37:28,872
who took pictures of each other.
723
00:37:28,872 --> 00:37:30,460
They're facing child porn charges.
724
00:37:30,460 --> 00:37:32,209
Have we completely lost our minds, I mean?
725
00:37:32,209 --> 00:37:35,694
- I think that they do it
because they think it's funny,
726
00:37:35,694 --> 00:37:37,849
or to bully somebody.
727
00:37:37,849 --> 00:37:39,803
- I've got five kids, let
me tell you something.
728
00:37:39,803 --> 00:37:43,135
We need to protect kids
from themselves too.
729
00:37:43,135 --> 00:37:45,577
Not just the predators,
but from themselves.
730
00:37:45,577 --> 00:37:48,340
When these photographs go out,
731
00:37:48,340 --> 00:37:51,425
they're out for good,
and they are worldwide,
732
00:37:51,425 --> 00:37:53,624
available with the push of a button.
733
00:37:53,624 --> 00:37:54,802
Who likes that?
734
00:37:54,802 --> 00:37:55,635
Let me tell you.
735
00:37:55,635 --> 00:37:56,718
Who likes that?
736
00:37:56,718 --> 00:37:57,729
The predators,
- Predators, right.
737
00:37:57,729 --> 00:37:59,737
- and the pornographers.
738
00:37:59,737 --> 00:38:02,967
(gloomy ambient music)
739
00:38:02,967 --> 00:38:05,800
(distant chatter)
740
00:38:07,966 --> 00:38:12,621
- [Narrator] There are more
phones than people in the world.
741
00:38:12,621 --> 00:38:16,157
Most of us use a mobile
service called SMS.
742
00:38:16,157 --> 00:38:19,240
SMS stands for short message service.
743
00:38:21,222 --> 00:38:23,509
The term sexting is a combination
744
00:38:23,509 --> 00:38:26,068
of the words sex and texting,
745
00:38:26,068 --> 00:38:28,920
and refers to a practice of
sending sexually explicit
746
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,503
photos electronically,
mainly by cellphone.
747
00:38:33,797 --> 00:38:36,630
(cellphone rings)
748
00:38:38,187 --> 00:38:40,630
Roughly 20% of teenagers
749
00:38:40,630 --> 00:38:43,570
in western society admit to sexting.
750
00:38:43,570 --> 00:38:46,178
That is more than 50 million teenagers
751
00:38:46,178 --> 00:38:48,261
in western society alone.
752
00:38:49,261 --> 00:38:53,001
The problem is that all
content generated by sexting
753
00:38:53,001 --> 00:38:55,602
can be considered child pornography.
754
00:38:55,602 --> 00:38:57,958
The teenager does not
even have to be naked
755
00:38:57,958 --> 00:39:01,704
for it to be considered
sexting and child pornography.
756
00:39:01,704 --> 00:39:05,809
Because child pornography
does not require nudity,
757
00:39:05,809 --> 00:39:09,793
any sexual activity, lewd
conduct, or erotic behavior,
758
00:39:09,793 --> 00:39:11,707
even when fully clothed,
759
00:39:11,707 --> 00:39:14,294
can be considered child pornography.
760
00:39:14,294 --> 00:39:16,364
The average teenager has no clue
761
00:39:16,364 --> 00:39:18,924
that they're breaking the law by sexting.
762
00:39:18,924 --> 00:39:20,755
But teenagers have been jailed,
763
00:39:20,755 --> 00:39:23,717
given probation, and
even committed suicide,
764
00:39:23,717 --> 00:39:25,184
because they could not deal with
765
00:39:25,184 --> 00:39:27,517
the consequences of sexting.
766
00:39:31,064 --> 00:39:34,436
In America, 36% of all sex offenders
767
00:39:34,436 --> 00:39:37,175
are children themselves.
768
00:39:37,175 --> 00:39:39,742
Some law enforcements
are easing the sentences
769
00:39:39,742 --> 00:39:43,611
concerning child pornography
created by minors.
770
00:39:43,611 --> 00:39:46,576
But sexting cannot be fully
legalized without rewriting
771
00:39:46,576 --> 00:39:49,745
the entire definition
of child pornography.
772
00:39:49,745 --> 00:39:52,467
That however would allow adult hebophiles
773
00:39:52,467 --> 00:39:55,384
and pedophiles to abuse the system.
774
00:40:14,511 --> 00:40:18,661
- There are the studies
showing that in pedophilia
775
00:40:18,661 --> 00:40:22,483
there are a number of
neurobiological differences
776
00:40:22,483 --> 00:40:25,335
between pedophiles and a heterosexual.
777
00:40:25,335 --> 00:40:28,100
The idea is that already when
778
00:40:28,100 --> 00:40:30,183
the fetus is in the womb,
779
00:40:31,677 --> 00:40:35,344
that there's certain hormonal processes
780
00:40:35,344 --> 00:40:37,427
that predispose a person
781
00:40:38,353 --> 00:40:41,603
to develop pedophilic sexual interests.
782
00:40:43,859 --> 00:40:46,056
- I think the main causes as for
783
00:40:46,056 --> 00:40:48,083
sexual orientation in general,
784
00:40:48,083 --> 00:40:52,189
the interaction between sex
hormones and developing brain,
785
00:40:52,189 --> 00:40:54,624
which is determined
both by genetic factors
786
00:40:54,624 --> 00:40:56,791
and environmental factors.
787
00:40:57,892 --> 00:41:01,392
- On the other hand there is the view that
788
00:41:02,935 --> 00:41:07,102
pedophilia is also related to
early childhood experiences
789
00:41:08,813 --> 00:41:12,980
of being physically abused,
and/or sexually abused.
790
00:41:15,674 --> 00:41:20,106
And the idea is that if
you are abused as a child,
791
00:41:20,106 --> 00:41:21,273
you learn that
792
00:41:23,056 --> 00:41:27,056
that is a normal way of
interacting with adults.
793
00:41:29,168 --> 00:41:32,418
So that's like an imprint in your mind.
794
00:41:34,988 --> 00:41:36,655
You think that's normal.
795
00:41:36,655 --> 00:41:39,951
So that's why that person
who has those experiences
796
00:41:39,951 --> 00:41:42,957
may develop sexual
preferences for children
797
00:41:42,957 --> 00:41:44,540
himself or herself,
798
00:41:45,562 --> 00:41:47,672
and act on those.
799
00:41:47,672 --> 00:41:50,922
(gentle ambient music)
800
00:41:53,968 --> 00:41:55,478
- [Narrator] All researchers agree
801
00:41:55,478 --> 00:41:58,794
that true pedophilia is
not a conscious choice.
802
00:41:58,794 --> 00:42:02,377
Just like being homosexual
or heterosexual.
803
00:42:04,314 --> 00:42:06,758
The main difference of true pedophilia,
804
00:42:06,758 --> 00:42:09,399
also known as exclusive pedophilia,
805
00:42:09,399 --> 00:42:12,692
starts off with problems
in sexual development.
806
00:42:12,692 --> 00:42:14,888
Unlike most people who have a normal
807
00:42:14,888 --> 00:42:17,406
sexual development into adulthood,
808
00:42:17,406 --> 00:42:21,073
a pedophile's sexual
development is blocked.
809
00:42:22,088 --> 00:42:25,023
For example, when they are 13,
810
00:42:25,023 --> 00:42:27,536
they prefer 13-year-old children.
811
00:42:27,536 --> 00:42:29,166
But when they are 20,
812
00:42:29,166 --> 00:42:32,159
they still prefer 13-year-old children.
813
00:42:32,159 --> 00:42:34,068
And even when they are older,
814
00:42:34,068 --> 00:42:38,235
they will continue to
prefer 13-year-old children.
815
00:42:39,887 --> 00:42:42,970
(gloomy piano music)
816
00:42:48,510 --> 00:42:50,790
- There is no cure for pedophilia.
817
00:42:50,790 --> 00:42:54,693
You can't change the
deviant sexual preference.
818
00:42:54,693 --> 00:42:57,704
What you can do, is two things.
819
00:42:57,704 --> 00:43:01,871
One, you can intervene at
the level of the sex drive.
820
00:43:03,110 --> 00:43:05,527
So there are pharmacological
821
00:43:07,405 --> 00:43:09,676
agents that really decrease
822
00:43:09,676 --> 00:43:12,888
the libido of the person, so that means,
823
00:43:12,888 --> 00:43:16,388
you stop their sexual activity completely,
824
00:43:17,368 --> 00:43:19,931
also called chemical castration.
825
00:43:19,931 --> 00:43:24,098
That's one option, but this
type of treatment has many
826
00:43:25,127 --> 00:43:26,877
harmful side effects.
827
00:43:28,312 --> 00:43:31,007
You can think about osteoporosis,
828
00:43:31,007 --> 00:43:33,200
I mean serious osteoporosis,
829
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,283
depression, feminization.
830
00:43:36,173 --> 00:43:41,172
So in the long term this type
of treatment is not an option.
831
00:43:41,172 --> 00:43:45,489
The second possibility is
psychological treatment.
832
00:43:45,489 --> 00:43:47,322
That means you work on
833
00:43:49,334 --> 00:43:51,501
the psychological problems
834
00:43:52,586 --> 00:43:54,456
that actually make the person
835
00:43:54,456 --> 00:43:57,373
act out their pedophilic interests.
836
00:43:58,321 --> 00:44:02,680
So you can think about,
maybe the person has the idea
837
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:06,097
that it's okay to have sex with children.
838
00:44:07,033 --> 00:44:09,950
That children are not harmed by it.
839
00:44:11,014 --> 00:44:14,431
That they actually may benefit from it.
840
00:44:14,431 --> 00:44:16,832
That it's a kind of sex education.
841
00:44:16,832 --> 00:44:20,612
Well, these types of cognitive distortions
842
00:44:20,612 --> 00:44:24,779
need to be diminished, need
to be reduced in treatment.
843
00:44:25,688 --> 00:44:27,855
Also, a lot of pedophiles
844
00:44:28,741 --> 00:44:31,463
lack empathy, lack insight
845
00:44:31,463 --> 00:44:35,296
into what their behavior
does to the children.
846
00:44:37,163 --> 00:44:39,403
So I'm talking here of course about
847
00:44:39,403 --> 00:44:43,674
pedophiles who act on
their sexual preference.
848
00:44:43,674 --> 00:44:46,960
These types of treatments are necessary,
849
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,269
and are generally quite effective
850
00:44:49,269 --> 00:44:52,770
in reducing the risk of a pedophile,
851
00:44:52,770 --> 00:44:54,770
again, abusing children.
852
00:45:00,361 --> 00:45:03,444
(soft ambient music)
853
00:45:08,665 --> 00:45:11,348
- I don't think that pedophilia
will become accepted,
854
00:45:11,348 --> 00:45:14,724
because like I said, the
public associate pedophilia
855
00:45:14,724 --> 00:45:17,041
with active sexual relationships
856
00:45:17,041 --> 00:45:20,874
between adults and
children, and condemn this.
857
00:45:21,883 --> 00:45:24,966
So I don't think it will be accepted.
858
00:45:27,127 --> 00:45:31,294
- Yes, I think ultimately
pedophilia will be accepted.
859
00:45:33,839 --> 00:45:37,006
Maybe it'll take a hundred more years.
860
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:41,011
It's just like homosexuality.
861
00:45:41,011 --> 00:45:44,428
In the DSM-II that came out in the 1950s,
862
00:45:45,569 --> 00:45:47,069
homosexuality was,
863
00:45:48,416 --> 00:45:49,270
was, yeah,
864
00:45:49,270 --> 00:45:51,382
was like listed as a mental disorder.
865
00:45:51,382 --> 00:45:53,523
Well, it's not anymore.
866
00:45:53,523 --> 00:45:56,935
And I think, yeah, it can happen that
867
00:45:56,935 --> 00:46:00,716
we can consider this sexual preference
868
00:46:00,716 --> 00:46:02,633
as a natural variation.
869
00:46:03,521 --> 00:46:07,307
And of course we still
will need to make sure
870
00:46:07,307 --> 00:46:11,474
that a pedophile doesn't act
on those sexual preferences.
871
00:46:14,220 --> 00:46:19,091
But I think the fact that
the person has a preference,
872
00:46:19,091 --> 00:46:23,197
I think we will arrive at a point in time
873
00:46:23,197 --> 00:46:27,030
where that's just a
given, considered a given.
874
00:46:28,975 --> 00:46:30,814
- So at one hand I think that
875
00:46:30,814 --> 00:46:32,734
pedophilia will never be accepted,
876
00:46:32,734 --> 00:46:35,816
because it involves damage of children.
877
00:46:35,816 --> 00:46:38,483
But we should also remember that
878
00:46:39,561 --> 00:46:42,685
many of the people who are focusing
879
00:46:42,685 --> 00:46:46,185
their sexual orientation towards children,
880
00:46:47,194 --> 00:46:51,061
can keep their impulses in such a way
881
00:46:51,061 --> 00:46:53,728
that they don't damage children.
882
00:47:02,049 --> 00:47:06,114
- [Narrator] Pedophilia is
an orientation not an action.
883
00:47:06,114 --> 00:47:08,306
We cannot condemn an orientation,
884
00:47:08,306 --> 00:47:10,545
but we can condemn an action.
885
00:47:10,545 --> 00:47:13,146
Having sex with young
children before puberty
886
00:47:13,146 --> 00:47:17,313
will never become accepted
because it damages children.
887
00:47:18,312 --> 00:47:20,874
However, sexual relations between
888
00:47:20,874 --> 00:47:23,030
adults and adolescent children
889
00:47:23,030 --> 00:47:26,364
might become more accepted
by modern society.
890
00:47:26,364 --> 00:47:28,358
As strange as this may sound,
891
00:47:28,358 --> 00:47:32,467
this future development is
not new for western society.
892
00:47:32,467 --> 00:47:34,011
If we look at the past,
893
00:47:34,011 --> 00:47:35,719
we can see that western society
894
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:38,885
treated sexuality completely different.
895
00:47:38,885 --> 00:47:41,938
- The Greeks and Romans
practiced pederasty.
896
00:47:41,938 --> 00:47:43,723
And particularly in Ancient Greece,
897
00:47:43,723 --> 00:47:46,692
it was a very well known
social institution.
898
00:47:46,692 --> 00:47:49,717
And that would typically
involve a relationship
899
00:47:49,717 --> 00:47:52,809
between an older man and a younger boy.
900
00:47:52,809 --> 00:47:55,339
However, a younger boy would not mean
901
00:47:55,339 --> 00:47:58,106
a real child as we would understand it.
902
00:47:58,106 --> 00:48:01,800
A boy in a homoerotic
relationship in Ancient Greece
903
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:06,032
would be an adolescent, so in his puberty.
904
00:48:06,032 --> 00:48:09,901
So if we were to translate this behavior
905
00:48:09,901 --> 00:48:12,666
in Ancient Greece into modern times,
906
00:48:12,666 --> 00:48:14,982
of modern sexuology,
907
00:48:14,982 --> 00:48:18,233
we would rather call it hebophilia.
908
00:48:18,233 --> 00:48:21,167
- [Narrator] Hebophilia is not
listed as a mental disorder.
909
00:48:21,167 --> 00:48:25,225
Because finding teenagers
attractive is normal.
910
00:48:25,225 --> 00:48:28,235
Children before puberty
cannot understand lust,
911
00:48:28,235 --> 00:48:30,553
but children in puberty can.
912
00:48:30,553 --> 00:48:33,196
However, we must remember that teenagers
913
00:48:33,196 --> 00:48:35,755
are still in sexual development.
914
00:48:35,755 --> 00:48:39,089
The larger the age difference
between adults and teenagers,
915
00:48:39,089 --> 00:48:42,511
the more chance there is
for an imbalance of power.
916
00:48:42,511 --> 00:48:46,678
Sex should always be
consensual, no matter what age.
917
00:48:52,391 --> 00:48:55,474
(gentle piano music)
918
00:49:17,827 --> 00:49:22,356
For most of us, the age of
attraction does not change.
919
00:49:22,356 --> 00:49:23,939
Instead it expands.
920
00:49:26,296 --> 00:49:28,248
This means that the very first people
921
00:49:28,248 --> 00:49:29,955
who we find attractive
922
00:49:29,955 --> 00:49:33,038
will remain in our age of attraction.
923
00:49:35,687 --> 00:49:38,770
Usually this begins in early puberty.
924
00:49:43,287 --> 00:49:45,812
When we pass the age of 18,
925
00:49:45,812 --> 00:49:47,883
we do not automatically remove children
926
00:49:47,883 --> 00:49:51,800
under the age of 18 from
our age of attraction.
927
00:49:55,646 --> 00:49:57,800
We are not automatically programmed
928
00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:59,997
to adjust our age of attraction
929
00:49:59,997 --> 00:50:03,080
to fit the legal age of the majority.
930
00:50:11,387 --> 00:50:13,720
Because 18 is just a number.
931
00:50:32,817 --> 00:50:35,817
(soft somber music)
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