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Everybody wants to find true love,
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and we've done
some crazy things to get it.
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Damian Powers, will you marry me?
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I will marry you.
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I will be your wife.
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- Yes?
- Yes.
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Two years ago,
we fell in love and chose someone to marry
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without ever seeing them.
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Oh, my God.
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True love is deeper than
just what somebody looks like.
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Hi.
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Oh, wow.
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Some of us are still in love.
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- I love you.
- I love you.
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You know, I met not just my wife,
but my best friend.
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Kiss her!
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Married couples to my right,
engaged to my left.
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But some of us are still searching.
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This is the part
where I ask for your number.
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Hi.
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How many more times can you
date somebody for two years?
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I don't wanna lose him.
He's my person. He's my family.
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I've taken up for you more than anybody,
and that's fucked up.
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We're married.
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It wasn't an easy situation for me.
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Everyone knew I was serious about Barnett.
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Shit happens.
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- I have a gift I wanted to deliver to you.
- Okay.
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So, I can't. I'm sorry.
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Francesca, this is Giannina.
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- Hello. Hi, how are you?
- Hi.
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Love is fucking crazy.
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He's mine.
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- You're messing with the wrong bitch.
- ♪ Are you ready for it...? ♪
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I don't care to forgive her.
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How do people even operate like this?
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That was bullshit. That was bullshit.
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But love is still everything.
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- To real love!
- To love.
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♪ Are you ready for it? ♪
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♪ Ooh ♪
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♪ Ooh ♪
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♪ You're pumpin' through my veins
You make me feel alive... ♪
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Come here.
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♪ You make me wanna cry now... ♪
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Come on.
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♪ Make me love you crazy ♪
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You look really pretty.
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- Thank you.
- Yeah.
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Tell me about my son.
How is Damian?
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Damian's good.
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Ever since I can remember,
I've been dreaming of finding a soul mate,
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and I found him.
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Giannina, do you take Damian Powers
to be your lawful wedded husband?
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Of course I do.
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And from this day on I promise
to give you the gift of being your rock,
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because this I promise, Damian,
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I'm yours.
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And then my whole world
just turned upside down.
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Damian Powers,
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do you take Giannina
to be your lawful wedded wife?
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I do not.
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Leave me the fuck alone.
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I thought I'd never
want to speak to Damian again.
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But, um,
we ended up talking that entire night,
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and we realized that
the love was still there,
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so I ended up giving him a second chance.
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I just can't picture my life
without him at all.
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He's my big, strong man.
That's what I call him.
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He's shown me unconditional love,
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and it's so rare...
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...to find somebody like that.
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- Damian's good.
- Sure?
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- Mm-hmm.
- Hmm.
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Giannina.
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Nothing happened.
We're just having some problems.
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Don't tell me that
because I'm going to cry.
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Don't cry. Don't cry.
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- You know I love Damian, Giannina.
- I know.
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He's a good match.
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How many times you are together?
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- More than two years.
- Two years. Two years.
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Two years.
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- I'm gonna be fine.
- You are the best couple on the world.
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No, no, no. He love you. You love him.
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I know. I know. I know.
We're trying to figure it out.
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It's like, not easy.
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Okay? It's not easy.
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Things are different and messy.
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We're still not married.
We're not living together.
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But I still believe in marriage.
I still believe in love,
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and I just love him so much.
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He love you,
and I know you love him.
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I know.
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♪ You are my obsession ♪
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♪ Nothing like the smell of the air ♪
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♪ Gotta let yourself lose control... ♪
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- Brother!
- Sis! Oh, my God.
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- What's up!
- Hey. What's going on?
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- Okay, with the fresh braids.
- Hi, sweetheart.
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- Hi, Dad.
- How you doing, baby?
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- Good.
- Uh-oh. Hi.
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- Good to see you.
- Mm. Good to see you, too.
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Oh, hey! There he is.
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I know that the pods and that whole
experience may seem a little unusual.
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- My best man. What's up, Bill?
- How you doing, buddy?
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- Screw that.
- How you doing, man?
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But I think it's just natural
and almost a reflex
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to judge someone based on how they look.
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That's why I was
so appreciative of Love Is Blind,
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because it allowed us to take
that element out of the picture,
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and it allowed us to form such a strong
connection over a short period of time.
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If this is giving up,
I was like right on the cusp, okay?
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Love Is Blind was like the hand
reaching out, like, "No, don't give up."
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- Give it a second chance.
- Like Rose and Jack on the Titanic.
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Like, "No."
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That was, like, Love Is Blind
for my love life.
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I think I'll have a glass of wine
'cause it's my birthday.
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It is.
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- Cam, did you wash that chicken?
- Yep.
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- No, you didn't.
- Yep.
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What's the matter?
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- He didn't wash the chicken. Cam...
- Well, you do cook it.
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- So it's a really high temperature.
- I know, but it's not the same.
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- You don't need to wash the chicken.
- I don't know who said that.
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- Well, several government organizations.
- I don't trust them.
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- It's true.
- Well, I like to wash my chicken first.
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And my produce. People's hands reaching
and touching at the grocery store,
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they could have dug in their butt,
and then they go on and grab the broccoli.
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- You not rinsing it and you gonna eat it?
- You should wash your produce.
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Not the meat.
You don't need to wash the meat.
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Everything looks so nice.
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- Well, Cam, thank you for cooking this...
- Yes.
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- ...amazing meal.
- Yeah. Cam put it together!
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To chef Cam.
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- To chef Cam!
- Chef in the house.
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- I'm just thankful to have everyone here...
- Yes.
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...for just an amazing time
to celebrate Lauren's birthday.
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We've had such an amazing year together.
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- Two years.
- Two years, yeah.
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Come on. Don't forget.
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- No, I'm not forgetting.
- It's only been two years.
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But I'm thankful for you as a partner and
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I'm thankful
that you chose me as your husband.
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Aw, Cam...
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And that you continue
to choose me every day.
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- That's sweet.
- Aw.
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Aw.
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We got our anniversary party.
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We're doing a dual anniversary party
with the Barnetts.
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Kind of unusual.
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- Nice. Okay.
- That'll be fun.
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Yeah,
after talking to Matt and Amber,
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we figured it would be
kind of fun to do it together
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because we bonded over the fact that
we went through this experience together.
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Right.
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I'm really excited
to see everyone again,
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these very special, very unique people
at our anniversary party.
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You know, we got a chance
to become good friends.
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I don't know, it brings back
those old memories, too,
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with Damian and Giannina coming.
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- Oh, really?
- Yep.
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Carlton and Diamond
in the same room, I hope that it's...
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- It could get a little heated.
- ...smooth.
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I'm looking forward to it.
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You know, when we get the group together,
it's always a fun time.
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I hope so.
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I wonder if Jessica's gonna come.
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Yes. I mean, we invited...
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- Hmm.
- Jessica...
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- Jessica...
- She...
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We did?
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Yeah, we sent an invite out.
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Oh, okay.
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- No, that's her voice when she...
- Sorry, Jessica.
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- We are gonna come off like assholes.
- I know.
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Jessica's got a new man.
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- Yeah, a lot happening in two years.
- A lot to think about.
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I'll drink some water to that.
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- It's good. Good food.
- Very good.
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- Excellent.
- I'm loving it.
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I wonder if Mark's gonna come.
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Yeah. I hope he does. I know he's got
his hands full with the baby coming and...
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- What?
- New baby mama.
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- Yeah.
- Somebody got a baby coming?
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Yeah, Mark and his girlfriend.
They have a baby coming in April.
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Mark and Jessica. You know. Remember them?
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Mark Anthony Cuevas,
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do you take Jessica Nicole Batten
to be your lawful wedded wife?
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I do.
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Jessica Nicole Batten,
do you take Mark Anthony Cuevas
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to be your lawful wedded husband?
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I cannot.
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So they decided not to get married,
but they had a...
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No, he had the baby with somebody else.
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- Oh.
- Jessica's not involved in that.
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He's moved on.
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Like, are you surprised
that Mark is about to have a baby?
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A little bit.
It happened kind of fast, but I know...
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- Kinda?
- Yeah.
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It was like two weeks,
and she was pregnant.
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So what's the timeline
on you guys having kids?
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Oh, my God.
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What's the timeline
on you having a baby, brother?
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- We're on God's clock over here, baby.
- Amen.
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But me and Cam said probably within
the next year we should get started,
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because I am getting older.
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You don't sound that excited.
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I mean, I am excited.
I think that it's kind of scary, though.
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- Just being honest.
- It is.
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I don't wanna pressure Lauren
into having a baby.
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- She gets enough pressure from the world.
- Yeah, the media.
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- Yep.
- So I'm ready when she's ready.
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I mean, I'll be ready soon.
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It's really up to me.
I mean, you know, it's my...
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it's my snatch.
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It's coming out of me.
I'm the one that has to carry the baby.
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I'm the one that's gonna get
the stretch marks and the saggy boobs.
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We've already talked about the boobs.
So all that is going to happen to me.
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All Cam has to do is...
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...shoot the club up.
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You're always hugging each other,
still, two years later.
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The way they look at each other,
the way they respond to each other,
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is just showing me what love can be.
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I spend a lot of time around them,
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and at a certain point,
as a father you's like, "Okay,
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she's in good hands."
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My dad...
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He never really had a problem with Cameron
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because he was white
or anything like that.
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My dad was gonna ask the questions because
his daughter met this man through a wall
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and we were talking about getting married.
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So my dad is like, "What? What is this?"
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"We have to ask some questions.
I need to get to know you."
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Like, my dad came to terms with that.
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That's a daughter's dream, just to know
that I fully got his stamp of approval.
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♪ Love, love, love, love ♪
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You're a shining star.
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And the world loves you.
That's what I'm proud of.
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- You guys are gonna...
- Yeah.
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- You're gonna get us teared up.
- The world loves you.
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- I know. It is... it is...
- That's nice.
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That makes me proud as a father.
244
00:11:37,405 --> 00:11:39,407
You're the blueprint for America.
245
00:11:39,490 --> 00:11:41,701
That's what I take
from the last two years.
246
00:11:41,784 --> 00:11:44,912
You guys proved that being brave
and just following your heart,
247
00:11:44,995 --> 00:11:46,622
how powerful that could be.
248
00:11:47,164 --> 00:11:49,750
- Yeah.
- My birthday makeup.
249
00:11:49,834 --> 00:11:53,254
He's still a little nerdy.
He's getting hipper by the day, though.
250
00:12:11,272 --> 00:12:13,357
- Hey, girl.
- Hey, girl. What's up?
251
00:12:13,441 --> 00:12:16,360
- Trying to find something to get into.
- Let's go to a strip club.
252
00:12:16,444 --> 00:12:17,713
- I'm just kidding.
- No.
253
00:12:17,737 --> 00:12:19,488
What are you wearing?
254
00:12:19,572 --> 00:12:21,532
Why do you... Why... Why you asking that?
255
00:12:21,615 --> 00:12:24,118
I think you should come by my shop
and put on lipstick.
256
00:12:24,201 --> 00:12:25,244
Put on lipstick?
257
00:12:25,327 --> 00:12:27,580
Do I need to push up the boobs?
Do I need to...
258
00:12:27,663 --> 00:12:29,749
Have on lipstick,
looking cute. Hurry up.
259
00:12:29,832 --> 00:12:31,667
Okay, okay, okay. Okay, friend.
260
00:12:31,751 --> 00:12:33,043
I'm on my way.
261
00:12:33,127 --> 00:12:36,255
My dating life has been unsuccessful,
I would say for several reasons.
262
00:12:36,338 --> 00:12:39,675
One, I started a new business
and I've been working extremely hard.
263
00:12:39,759 --> 00:12:41,260
I'm coming.
264
00:12:41,343 --> 00:12:44,555
And then two, I know what I want
and I'm not here for the BS.
265
00:12:44,638 --> 00:12:47,183
I need someone
who is genuinely real with me.
266
00:12:51,979 --> 00:12:53,230
Ladies, take notes.
267
00:12:53,314 --> 00:12:54,523
You have to stay prepared.
268
00:12:54,607 --> 00:12:57,193
Keep that nice black dress in the car,
as well as your heels,
269
00:12:57,276 --> 00:13:00,529
'cause you might get that phone call
and vroom, you pull up.
270
00:13:01,447 --> 00:13:02,281
Ready.
271
00:13:02,364 --> 00:13:03,741
Oops.
272
00:13:10,122 --> 00:13:12,958
Ebony and I met two years ago
from the pods.
273
00:13:13,042 --> 00:13:16,420
Does size matter,
or is it the motion in the ocean?
274
00:13:16,504 --> 00:13:21,634
There's no motion in any ocean without
the thing that makes the motion go.
275
00:13:21,717 --> 00:13:22,717
Oh, my God.
276
00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:24,136
What? God damn.
277
00:13:24,804 --> 00:13:27,848
Ebony is telling me
to get cute and hurry up,
278
00:13:27,932 --> 00:13:31,769
because where she works
is definitely a hot spot in Atlanta.
279
00:13:43,739 --> 00:13:45,115
♪ Crush it ♪
280
00:13:45,199 --> 00:13:46,617
♪ Girl, you got it ♪
281
00:13:47,785 --> 00:13:48,911
♪ Crush it ♪
282
00:13:49,411 --> 00:13:50,663
♪ Girl, you got it ♪
283
00:13:51,872 --> 00:13:52,998
♪ Crush it ♪
284
00:13:53,499 --> 00:13:54,667
♪ Girl, you got it ♪
285
00:13:55,876 --> 00:13:57,002
♪ Crush it ♪
286
00:13:57,503 --> 00:13:59,380
- ♪ Girl, you got it ♪
- ♪ Crush it, crush it ♪
287
00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:01,382
- Like red carpet...
- Hey.
288
00:14:01,465 --> 00:14:03,133
Hey, girl. I'm sorry, excuse me.
289
00:14:03,217 --> 00:14:04,969
- Look at you!
- You look cute.
290
00:14:05,052 --> 00:14:06,971
Look, I need to come to the gym with you.
291
00:14:07,054 --> 00:14:09,282
- You look good, boo.
- Yes. Hey, girl.
292
00:14:09,306 --> 00:14:12,309
Yes, girl. I mean, I had to throw on
a little something-something.
293
00:14:12,393 --> 00:14:15,312
Look to your right,
but don't look like you're looking.
294
00:14:15,396 --> 00:14:16,396
Okay.
295
00:14:16,814 --> 00:14:19,275
- That's Brett, and that's his friend.
- Ooh. Oh.
296
00:14:19,358 --> 00:14:21,068
- His name is Rumeal.
- Okay.
297
00:14:21,151 --> 00:14:22,570
Why I had you get dressed up.
298
00:14:22,653 --> 00:14:24,572
- Rumeal. You roll it off the tongue?
- Okay.
299
00:14:24,655 --> 00:14:25,990
- Think he's cute?
- Let me see.
300
00:14:26,073 --> 00:14:27,449
Well, you know.
301
00:14:27,533 --> 00:14:28,533
You know her?
302
00:14:28,951 --> 00:14:30,119
He's definitely my type.
303
00:14:30,202 --> 00:14:31,829
Get up and let's go say hi.
304
00:14:31,912 --> 00:14:35,541
- I don't know, Ebony, girl, like... Okay.
- Come on. You're already dressed.
305
00:14:35,624 --> 00:14:38,210
I definitely want a strong relationship.
306
00:14:38,294 --> 00:14:41,297
I want a strong foundation
between my husband and I,
307
00:14:41,380 --> 00:14:42,715
my future husband and I.
308
00:14:43,716 --> 00:14:46,427
So I made a really deep connection
with Carlton in the pod.
309
00:14:47,928 --> 00:14:49,138
Will you marry me?
310
00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:51,724
Oh, my gosh.
311
00:14:51,807 --> 00:14:53,642
I'm never gonna break your heart.
312
00:14:54,143 --> 00:14:57,146
But Carlton was not
completely honest with me.
313
00:14:57,605 --> 00:15:01,442
You led me to believe
that you "really was into me."
314
00:15:01,525 --> 00:15:02,627
- I do.
- You don't.
315
00:15:02,651 --> 00:15:06,906
Because if you did you would have
been here and told me from day one that,
316
00:15:06,989 --> 00:15:09,366
"Diamond, I am bisexual."
317
00:15:09,450 --> 00:15:11,702
This is why I don't deal
with bitches like you.
318
00:15:11,785 --> 00:15:12,786
Oh, I'm a bitch now.
319
00:15:13,370 --> 00:15:15,831
I want a guy
that can be truthful with me.
320
00:15:15,915 --> 00:15:18,876
I want to be with someone
who would accept me for all my flaws
321
00:15:18,959 --> 00:15:21,587
and everything about me,
and love me for who I am,
322
00:15:21,670 --> 00:15:25,049
including whatever happened in my past,
including how different I am.
323
00:15:25,132 --> 00:15:26,967
I just want something real.
324
00:15:28,344 --> 00:15:30,721
- Hi, what's going on? How you been?
- How you doing?
325
00:15:30,804 --> 00:15:33,700
- Was gon' say hey, but y'all was talking.
- You know how we do.
326
00:15:33,724 --> 00:15:34,642
Yeah. Right?
327
00:15:34,725 --> 00:15:36,226
- Hi.
- Rumeal.
328
00:15:36,310 --> 00:15:37,436
Diamond. Nice to meet you.
329
00:15:37,519 --> 00:15:39,229
You're tall.
330
00:15:40,230 --> 00:15:41,357
Sit here or there?
331
00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:43,800
- I'm gonna sit over there.
- Sit here. No problem.
332
00:15:43,859 --> 00:15:46,820
He look good.
Good, good, good, good, good, good.
333
00:15:46,904 --> 00:15:49,365
Not only that,
he's tall, like, extremely tall,
334
00:15:49,448 --> 00:15:51,992
so I can wear
whatever heels I wanna wear.
335
00:15:52,076 --> 00:15:54,286
How you been, Brett? Thank you, girl.
336
00:15:54,370 --> 00:15:56,455
- Working. Working hard.
- Working hard?
337
00:15:56,538 --> 00:15:58,082
Rumeal, tell me about yourself.
338
00:15:58,165 --> 00:16:01,085
So, been in Atlanta
for about three years now.
339
00:16:01,168 --> 00:16:02,753
Born and raised in Baltimore.
340
00:16:02,836 --> 00:16:04,564
- You from Chicago?
- From Chi-Town.
341
00:16:04,588 --> 00:16:06,590
- I'm from Michigan, so...
- Really? What part?
342
00:16:06,674 --> 00:16:07,675
I'm from South Side.
343
00:16:07,758 --> 00:16:11,679
Everybody from Chicago
is from the South Side, I feel like...
344
00:16:11,762 --> 00:16:14,362
- I really am from the South Side.
- I believe you. I believe you.
345
00:16:14,431 --> 00:16:16,809
No, I got, uh,
I got really good friends from Chicago.
346
00:16:19,937 --> 00:16:22,898
He's definitely handsome,
so that's a plus,
347
00:16:22,982 --> 00:16:24,817
and I really like his raspy voice.
348
00:16:24,900 --> 00:16:27,987
I saw you over there and I told Brett,
like, "Man, she kinda fly."
349
00:16:28,070 --> 00:16:31,323
So it's really unique
that it's a whole mutual friend thing.
350
00:16:31,407 --> 00:16:33,167
"Hey, Diamond, I see you..."
351
00:16:33,242 --> 00:16:34,743
I can't even do it right.
352
00:16:35,744 --> 00:16:38,539
So you're from Chicago.
What brought you to Atlanta?
353
00:16:38,622 --> 00:16:43,085
Actually, school brought me to Atlanta,
and so far I've been here since 2014.
354
00:16:43,168 --> 00:16:45,337
She hasn't even looked at me.
She's, like, engulfed.
355
00:16:45,421 --> 00:16:46,755
Feeling neglected? It's okay.
356
00:16:46,839 --> 00:16:48,882
No, 'cause I have you.
357
00:16:48,966 --> 00:16:51,510
So, what kind of guys you entertain?
358
00:16:51,593 --> 00:16:53,804
- "Entertain." Like it.
- Yeah.
359
00:16:54,513 --> 00:16:57,474
Genuinely, just a good connection
and really good personality.
360
00:16:57,558 --> 00:16:59,226
- Okay.
- And that we vibe right.
361
00:16:59,309 --> 00:17:00,602
We vibe good.
362
00:17:00,686 --> 00:17:04,398
Are there character traits that you
look for that compile a good personality?
363
00:17:04,481 --> 00:17:07,568
- I wanna make sure he's a family man.
- Okay.
364
00:17:07,651 --> 00:17:11,238
Um, I want to see if we have
the same goals, because, like...
365
00:17:11,321 --> 00:17:13,657
Where do you see yourself in five years?
366
00:17:13,741 --> 00:17:14,783
Definitely family.
367
00:17:14,867 --> 00:17:17,453
- Okay.
- Definitely a family. I wanna be married.
368
00:17:17,536 --> 00:17:19,079
- Okay.
- Um, kids.
369
00:17:20,247 --> 00:17:22,041
Bravo to Ebony. Bravo. Bravo.
370
00:17:22,124 --> 00:17:24,877
I'm so happy that
she looked out for your girl.
371
00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,754
I feel I need to get her a drink.
372
00:17:26,837 --> 00:17:29,840
- What do you look for in a woman?
- Definitely class.
373
00:17:29,923 --> 00:17:31,258
- Great sense of humor.
- Okay.
374
00:17:31,341 --> 00:17:35,137
Um, definitely, um,
someone who's a team player.
375
00:17:35,220 --> 00:17:39,016
- Okay.
- Um, and I would say, uh, intelligent.
376
00:17:39,099 --> 00:17:41,518
Uh, definitely ambitious as well.
377
00:17:41,602 --> 00:17:43,771
I'm definitely God-fearing.
378
00:17:43,854 --> 00:17:45,522
- Okay.
- That helps out a lot as well.
379
00:17:45,606 --> 00:17:48,108
- Yeah, that's number one.
- Yeah, for sure.
380
00:17:48,192 --> 00:17:49,443
- You're single, right?
- I am.
381
00:17:49,526 --> 00:17:51,504
- I wanna double check.
- I'm very single. Yourself?
382
00:17:51,528 --> 00:17:53,197
- Yes, sir.
- Awesome.
383
00:17:53,989 --> 00:17:55,592
- You... You fit the bill.
- Yeah.
384
00:17:55,616 --> 00:17:58,702
Diamond's fly. She from Chicago.
I'm a sucker for Midwest women.
385
00:17:58,786 --> 00:18:02,873
I'm a breast man,
so, you know, C... C cups or more.
386
00:18:02,956 --> 00:18:05,084
Anything less than that,
I really can't do.
387
00:18:05,167 --> 00:18:06,877
Uh, but that's just my preference.
388
00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:09,296
Shout out to the ladies
with the A's and B's.
389
00:18:09,379 --> 00:18:11,298
- So you was eyeing me?
- Absolutely.
390
00:18:11,381 --> 00:18:13,383
This is the part
where I ask for your number.
391
00:18:13,467 --> 00:18:16,512
- Okay. I'll give you my number.
- All right. Perfect.
392
00:18:16,595 --> 00:18:19,306
- Which car out there is yours?
- It's around the corner.
393
00:18:19,389 --> 00:18:20,766
- Okay.
- Mm-hmm.
394
00:18:20,849 --> 00:18:22,810
You need me to walk you to it, or...
395
00:18:22,893 --> 00:18:23,727
- No.
- No?
396
00:18:25,562 --> 00:18:30,776
♪ Said she wanna be my main chick
Said she got what it takes ♪
397
00:18:32,653 --> 00:18:36,115
♪ Every little movement ♪
398
00:18:36,740 --> 00:18:39,701
♪ Every little thing you do ♪
399
00:18:40,369 --> 00:18:42,746
- Yes, thank you so much.
- Cheers to you guys.
400
00:18:42,830 --> 00:18:44,331
- Thank you.
- Thank you so much.
401
00:18:44,414 --> 00:18:49,628
We are drinking espresso martinis,
and they get us in...
402
00:18:49,711 --> 00:18:51,191
- So pumped.
- ...just the right mood.
403
00:18:51,255 --> 00:18:53,882
- All jacked up on espresso martinis.
- Exactly.
404
00:18:53,966 --> 00:18:56,218
- We need adult supervision.
- That's true.
405
00:18:56,301 --> 00:18:58,971
Welcome to, uh,
date night with the Barnetts.
406
00:18:59,054 --> 00:19:02,141
Date nights are usually not this, uh,
407
00:19:02,224 --> 00:19:03,392
sophisticated.
408
00:19:03,475 --> 00:19:06,728
Our date nights aren't usually romantic.
They're more...
409
00:19:06,812 --> 00:19:07,729
- Sweet.
- ...crazy.
410
00:19:11,900 --> 00:19:13,569
Giddyup, baby!
411
00:19:13,652 --> 00:19:15,737
Ah-ah-ah!
412
00:19:16,238 --> 00:19:17,406
Ya-hoo!
413
00:19:17,906 --> 00:19:18,906
Whoo!
414
00:19:22,661 --> 00:19:25,414
Trying to kiss my car, or what?
415
00:19:33,589 --> 00:19:34,589
Jeez.
416
00:19:37,467 --> 00:19:39,154
- Put my shoes on.
- How's my hair?
417
00:19:39,178 --> 00:19:40,178
Nice.
418
00:19:40,679 --> 00:19:44,057
People don't necessarily
ask me where we met.
419
00:19:44,141 --> 00:19:47,394
More of,
"Oh, how long have you been married?"
420
00:19:48,145 --> 00:19:49,521
"Two years."
421
00:19:49,605 --> 00:19:52,441
"Oh, how long have you known each other?
How long were you dating?"
422
00:19:53,192 --> 00:19:56,653
- "Oh, we've known each other two years."
- Will you marry me?
423
00:20:01,909 --> 00:20:03,327
- Yes.
- Okay.
424
00:20:03,410 --> 00:20:04,703
- Yes.
- Whew!
425
00:20:04,786 --> 00:20:05,829
Yes.
426
00:20:05,913 --> 00:20:08,332
People typically think
that we met at a glory hole.
427
00:20:08,415 --> 00:20:11,543
- Because I said there was a wall...
- Stop, Matt. Gross.
428
00:20:11,627 --> 00:20:13,337
You had to make it weird.
429
00:20:13,420 --> 00:20:14,504
Oh, my God.
430
00:20:14,588 --> 00:20:17,132
- Did you have that the whole time?
- Yeah.
431
00:20:17,216 --> 00:20:20,510
I kind of feel bad about
trying to splash mud on you now.
432
00:20:21,678 --> 00:20:22,678
It's okay.
433
00:20:25,015 --> 00:20:26,225
You want rosé?
434
00:20:26,308 --> 00:20:27,434
- Yes.
- Okay.
435
00:20:27,517 --> 00:20:30,020
Do you want to eat off plates
or just like savages?
436
00:20:30,103 --> 00:20:31,772
- I'm a savage, baby.
- Okay.
437
00:20:31,855 --> 00:20:34,691
I'm a savage, but also I'm a classic, so...
438
00:20:35,984 --> 00:20:37,319
Okay.
439
00:20:37,903 --> 00:20:40,489
This is reminiscent
of our first anniversary.
440
00:20:40,572 --> 00:20:42,252
I like to do things the same way.
441
00:20:42,282 --> 00:20:44,844
- Just a little different every time.
- You're consistent.
442
00:20:44,868 --> 00:20:45,869
Cheers.
443
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:49,289
- I love you.
- I love you.
444
00:20:49,373 --> 00:20:53,126
- Your eyes look so pretty right now.
- I can't see your eyes. It's too bright.
445
00:20:53,210 --> 00:20:55,170
There you go.
446
00:20:55,754 --> 00:20:58,066
Think we can ask for funnel cakes
at the anniversary party?
447
00:20:58,090 --> 00:21:00,259
I might have already asked.
448
00:21:00,342 --> 00:21:01,342
No.
449
00:21:01,385 --> 00:21:03,720
Our anniversary party. Oh, gosh.
450
00:21:03,804 --> 00:21:04,805
It'll be interesting.
451
00:21:04,888 --> 00:21:06,098
Us and the Hamiltons.
452
00:21:06,723 --> 00:21:09,476
The dual anniversary with us and the...
453
00:21:09,559 --> 00:21:10,978
the Hamiltons.
454
00:21:11,061 --> 00:21:13,563
I have to say "The Hamiltons"
'cause they're so fancy.
455
00:21:13,647 --> 00:21:16,275
- You did it wrong. "The Hamiltons."
- "The Hamiltons."
456
00:21:16,358 --> 00:21:18,443
Ours is like, "The Barnetts."
457
00:21:18,527 --> 00:21:19,987
Like, "The Barnetts." Ugh.
458
00:21:21,154 --> 00:21:23,991
All right. Hold this for a second.
I'm getting cold again.
459
00:21:24,491 --> 00:21:26,702
Yeah, well,
we should have got a fire going.
460
00:21:26,785 --> 00:21:29,538
Oh, my God.
A fire pit would have been amazing.
461
00:21:29,621 --> 00:21:31,164
Anyways...
462
00:21:31,248 --> 00:21:34,584
- Damian and G are gonna be there.
- I'm excited to see them again, but...
463
00:21:34,668 --> 00:21:36,628
But maybe Voldemort.
464
00:21:36,712 --> 00:21:38,463
Yes, Voldemort.
465
00:21:38,547 --> 00:21:44,761
I have zero interest
in associating with Jessica
466
00:21:44,845 --> 00:21:46,805
after the way that she disrespected me.
467
00:21:48,307 --> 00:21:50,267
You were so confused two weeks ago.
468
00:21:51,518 --> 00:21:56,231
I want to make sure that
you're doing what's right for you.
469
00:21:56,315 --> 00:21:58,358
It just seems awfully bold
470
00:21:58,442 --> 00:22:02,779
to go to a party celebrating a couple
that you tried to break up.
471
00:22:03,739 --> 00:22:07,117
If that person were to show up,
you don't have to interact with her.
472
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:08,785
- Mm-hmm.
- Hang out with me.
473
00:22:08,869 --> 00:22:11,538
- Hang out with people you like.
- Yep. That's enough. Stop now.
474
00:22:11,621 --> 00:22:14,750
You haven't learned this about me yet,
but one of the, uh, many
475
00:22:14,833 --> 00:22:20,297
life skills that I have mastered is
acting like somebody doesn't exist.
476
00:22:22,090 --> 00:22:24,843
♪ Your bad love is trouble ♪
477
00:22:24,926 --> 00:22:27,095
♪ God knows we're in deep ♪
478
00:22:27,179 --> 00:22:29,890
♪ If hurt's gonna rain down ♪
479
00:22:30,599 --> 00:22:33,518
♪ Amen, so it be ♪
480
00:22:34,811 --> 00:22:37,731
♪ I'm a hole lot to deal with ♪
481
00:22:37,814 --> 00:22:40,817
♪ My touch, one in a million ♪
482
00:22:40,901 --> 00:22:43,612
♪ Say you'll always love me
Even if it hurts ♪
483
00:22:43,695 --> 00:22:47,032
- What's up, C?
- Lauren, what's up?
484
00:22:47,115 --> 00:22:49,409
- How you feeling? Good?
- Good. How are you?
485
00:22:49,493 --> 00:22:51,995
- Good. You look amazing.
- I love the hat. Oh.
486
00:22:52,079 --> 00:22:54,456
- I love everything.
- You look amazing.
487
00:22:54,539 --> 00:22:57,250
- I have something for you.
- What?
488
00:22:57,334 --> 00:23:00,128
A birthday present.
489
00:23:00,212 --> 00:23:02,255
And I know
y'all anniversary is coming up too,
490
00:23:02,339 --> 00:23:04,549
so I have something
for you for your anniversary.
491
00:23:04,633 --> 00:23:05,467
You so sweet.
492
00:23:05,550 --> 00:23:06,968
- Thank you.
- Sparkly.
493
00:23:07,052 --> 00:23:11,973
After our show came out, I honestly
found myself in a very dark space.
494
00:23:12,057 --> 00:23:15,352
- I gave you your ring back.
- I don't give a fuck about a ring.
495
00:23:15,435 --> 00:23:16,353
Fuck a ring!
496
00:23:16,436 --> 00:23:18,271
Fuck you! Fucker.
497
00:23:19,231 --> 00:23:21,250
- Lost your damn mind.
- Nah, fuck like me.
498
00:23:21,274 --> 00:23:23,151
- Fuck you. Shut the fuck up!
- Peace out.
499
00:23:23,235 --> 00:23:24,653
Ooh, you so fucking... Ooh!
500
00:23:24,736 --> 00:23:27,155
You mad
because I'm telling the truth.
501
00:23:27,239 --> 00:23:29,533
There were so many people judging me.
502
00:23:29,616 --> 00:23:35,539
Regardless of what happened
with Diamond and I and our situation,
503
00:23:35,622 --> 00:23:38,125
which was completely devastating,
504
00:23:38,208 --> 00:23:41,628
it's almost forced me to be stronger,
because it's like,
505
00:23:41,711 --> 00:23:44,506
are you going to bend
or are you going to break?
506
00:23:44,589 --> 00:23:49,970
Seeing you is refreshing, because I feel
like a lot of things that have happened...
507
00:23:50,053 --> 00:23:51,430
Oh, yeah.
508
00:23:51,513 --> 00:23:54,933
I... I haven't honestly done
a great job at handling it.
509
00:23:55,016 --> 00:23:56,476
- Mm-hmm.
- So, like...
510
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,770
I mean, it's a lot to handle, you know?
511
00:23:58,854 --> 00:24:02,232
It is, but, like, when you imagine,
like, trying to handle it
512
00:24:02,315 --> 00:24:05,652
and feeling like
you're alienated from everyone else.
513
00:24:05,735 --> 00:24:07,779
The people in our circle
don't fuck with me.
514
00:24:07,863 --> 00:24:08,864
They don't.
515
00:24:08,947 --> 00:24:12,617
If they don't fuck with you, that's them.
They don't need to be in your life.
516
00:24:12,701 --> 00:24:14,661
With this group from the pods,
517
00:24:14,744 --> 00:24:17,581
I feel like a lot of times
I have to get defensive.
518
00:24:17,664 --> 00:24:19,166
Like, "Get up off of me,"
519
00:24:19,249 --> 00:24:21,751
because I don't feel like
they understand me.
520
00:24:21,835 --> 00:24:26,089
But do you not see how
my energy of trying to explain myself...
521
00:24:26,173 --> 00:24:27,799
You don't have to explain yourself...
522
00:24:27,883 --> 00:24:30,469
Yes, you do, when you want to be
accepted by your friends,
523
00:24:30,552 --> 00:24:32,072
people you started an experience with.
524
00:24:32,137 --> 00:24:33,680
You need to be accepted by you.
525
00:24:33,763 --> 00:24:35,265
- I do accept me.
- Right.
526
00:24:35,348 --> 00:24:38,435
- But when other people don't accept you...
- Fuck 'em.
527
00:24:38,518 --> 00:24:42,439
So the way I see this group is
we're all on this beach,
528
00:24:42,522 --> 00:24:44,441
and I'm in middle of the water.
529
00:24:44,524 --> 00:24:47,068
There's sharks surrounding me,
and I'm screaming for help,
530
00:24:47,152 --> 00:24:48,820
and they're not trying to save me.
531
00:24:48,904 --> 00:24:50,864
How are you still giggling and happy,
532
00:24:50,947 --> 00:24:53,950
and somebody that's
a part of your group is hurt?
533
00:24:54,034 --> 00:24:59,372
I feel crazy still being emotional
about it so much time after, but I...
534
00:24:59,456 --> 00:25:02,334
Why?
That was such a huge part in our lives.
535
00:25:02,417 --> 00:25:06,379
- Are you kidding me?
- I didn't get to talk to my ex-fiancée.
536
00:25:06,463 --> 00:25:09,633
- Mm. Now, I'm gonna be honest...
- I wish she'd answer her phone.
537
00:25:09,716 --> 00:25:12,219
I feel like it's bad blood
between you and Diamond.
538
00:25:12,302 --> 00:25:16,515
Here's the thing, I don't think she'll
be able to love somebody like myself.
539
00:25:16,598 --> 00:25:18,183
Who are you to say that, though?
540
00:25:18,266 --> 00:25:21,520
The first question that she asked me
once I told her something was,
541
00:25:21,603 --> 00:25:24,689
"How are you sure
that you don't wanna be with a man?"
542
00:25:24,773 --> 00:25:26,525
Put yourself in her shoes.
543
00:25:26,608 --> 00:25:29,069
In the Black community.
Yeah, let's do that.
544
00:25:29,152 --> 00:25:30,987
- What do you mean? Bi-phobia?
- Yeah.
545
00:25:31,530 --> 00:25:33,198
I'm not saying that doesn't exist.
546
00:25:33,281 --> 00:25:34,675
- 'Cause it does.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
547
00:25:34,699 --> 00:25:38,370
But at the same time, you have to realize
she's receiving a lot of information.
548
00:25:38,453 --> 00:25:40,539
It's a Black community thing.
Let's just say that.
549
00:25:40,622 --> 00:25:42,683
- I think...
- So, what are you really concerned about?
550
00:25:42,707 --> 00:25:45,252
I think
that the main thing was that
551
00:25:45,335 --> 00:25:47,921
maybe she wanted you to tell her sooner.
552
00:25:48,004 --> 00:25:49,631
But why is she victimized?
553
00:25:49,714 --> 00:25:52,425
I didn't say she was a victim.
I'm trying to understand perspective.
554
00:25:52,509 --> 00:25:54,886
I didn't ask her who did she sleep with.
555
00:25:55,929 --> 00:25:59,140
I didn't ask her
how many sexual partners she had,
556
00:25:59,224 --> 00:26:00,892
how many abortions has she had?
557
00:26:00,976 --> 00:26:05,355
Has she ever kissed a girl
on a drunk night, which most girls do.
558
00:26:05,438 --> 00:26:07,857
They be munching carpet
and don't even talk about it.
559
00:26:07,941 --> 00:26:10,485
People like me
don't get to bounce back
560
00:26:10,569 --> 00:26:13,530
from the situations that heterosexual
people get to bounce back from.
561
00:26:13,613 --> 00:26:17,534
If you're heterosexual,
your boyfriend, your baby daddy,
562
00:26:17,617 --> 00:26:21,746
anybody can just hop into any type
of bed that they want to hop into,
563
00:26:21,830 --> 00:26:25,208
play you like a game,
do whatever they want to do,
564
00:26:25,292 --> 00:26:27,586
and then it's like,
"That's my man. I'mma stick by him."
565
00:26:27,669 --> 00:26:29,045
Let it be a fluid man,
566
00:26:29,129 --> 00:26:31,840
"Oh, well, you know his gay ass."
567
00:26:31,923 --> 00:26:34,175
I'm not even gay. Stop mislabeling me.
568
00:26:34,259 --> 00:26:36,136
You seem angry.
569
00:26:36,219 --> 00:26:37,887
You seem defensive.
570
00:26:37,971 --> 00:26:38,847
Yeah.
571
00:26:38,930 --> 00:26:41,975
I understand that you're passionate
'cause I'm a passionate person, too.
572
00:26:42,058 --> 00:26:43,810
But do you see what they're saying?
573
00:26:43,893 --> 00:26:46,730
- You see them saying this or that?
- I'm talking about the cast.
574
00:26:46,813 --> 00:26:49,441
- Fuck the cast. Who's the cast?
- You're talking about...
575
00:26:49,524 --> 00:26:52,902
The problem with the cast is
the cast is so much trying to be the cast,
576
00:26:52,986 --> 00:26:55,530
but some of us, this is our real life.
577
00:26:55,614 --> 00:26:59,993
It's not about this show or a moment.
If they need that, sorry to this man.
578
00:27:00,076 --> 00:27:01,578
I'm sorry that you need that.
579
00:27:01,661 --> 00:27:04,122
Put in with a Black woman
who's married to a white man,
580
00:27:04,205 --> 00:27:05,915
and let's make him look stupid.
581
00:27:05,999 --> 00:27:06,833
That's what it is.
582
00:27:06,916 --> 00:27:08,501
- You gonna reduce me to that?
- Yeah.
583
00:27:08,585 --> 00:27:11,379
I've taken up for you more than anybody
in your comments
584
00:27:11,463 --> 00:27:13,048
when people was coming against you.
585
00:27:13,131 --> 00:27:15,634
Did you not see
the people I was arguing against?
586
00:27:15,717 --> 00:27:18,345
Why are you getting upset?
You got on the defensive.
587
00:27:18,428 --> 00:27:20,972
- I just asked a question.
- That's the easy way out.
588
00:27:21,056 --> 00:27:24,601
Well, I felt that Diamond should feel
some type of way. That's fucked up.
589
00:27:24,684 --> 00:27:25,852
I'm tired of it.
590
00:27:26,394 --> 00:27:28,521
- Stop it.
- Fuck it.
591
00:27:32,651 --> 00:27:33,818
Oh, Lord.
592
00:27:47,248 --> 00:27:49,848
You want some liquid chalk
so your hands aren't sweating?
593
00:27:49,876 --> 00:27:50,876
Maybe.
594
00:27:51,670 --> 00:27:53,670
Rub it in
like lotion all over your hands.
595
00:27:53,713 --> 00:27:56,424
So don't use it to masturbate.
596
00:28:02,389 --> 00:28:05,266
That's like Olympic people,
do it with one hand.
597
00:28:05,350 --> 00:28:06,726
Oh, God.
598
00:28:08,895 --> 00:28:11,398
At least
we'll look good at the party.
599
00:28:11,481 --> 00:28:13,626
Don't make me laugh.
Can't lift when I laugh.
600
00:28:13,650 --> 00:28:17,445
Excited to talk
to some of our old pod squad, right?
601
00:28:17,529 --> 00:28:18,363
Pod squad.
602
00:28:18,446 --> 00:28:22,951
Yeah, people are in relationships now,
like, long-term, serious ones.
603
00:28:23,034 --> 00:28:24,244
People are having babies.
604
00:28:24,327 --> 00:28:27,122
- What about you, Cameron?
- What about me?
605
00:28:27,205 --> 00:28:29,165
When are you guys popping 'em out?
606
00:28:29,249 --> 00:28:32,293
I'm... I'm not in any rush, per se, but, uh...
607
00:28:32,961 --> 00:28:33,878
Y'all using condoms?
608
00:28:33,962 --> 00:28:35,046
- No.
- Cool.
609
00:28:36,756 --> 00:28:40,218
- That's the best part about marriage.
- Barnett, what about you, man?
610
00:28:40,301 --> 00:28:43,513
Um, I'm not actively not trying.
611
00:28:43,596 --> 00:28:46,474
- You're not actively not trying.
- Hold on. I confused myself.
612
00:28:46,558 --> 00:28:50,437
I am not doing anything
to prevent having kids.
613
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,480
And y'all are both on the same page?
614
00:28:52,564 --> 00:28:53,898
Uh...
615
00:28:53,982 --> 00:28:56,085
You wanna be a dad.
I see you actually wanna be a dad.
616
00:28:56,109 --> 00:28:58,820
I do, but where we live now,
it's an apartment complex.
617
00:28:58,903 --> 00:29:03,992
I'm not really wanting to have a kid
at an apartment, basically.
618
00:29:04,075 --> 00:29:06,536
- That makes sense.
- She's... She's like... She's...
619
00:29:06,619 --> 00:29:10,206
"Baby's not gonna know where they are
for the first couple of months anyways."
620
00:29:10,290 --> 00:29:12,083
I mean, that's a valid point, too.
621
00:29:12,167 --> 00:29:13,376
Ah, man.
622
00:29:13,460 --> 00:29:15,003
So...
623
00:29:15,086 --> 00:29:16,129
Kids.
624
00:29:16,212 --> 00:29:18,131
When we got married, I still had my house.
625
00:29:18,214 --> 00:29:20,049
Here is my... my home.
626
00:29:21,092 --> 00:29:23,595
Aw, baby. It's so little.
627
00:29:24,179 --> 00:29:25,263
Hi.
628
00:29:25,346 --> 00:29:30,477
We moved out of the house into
Amber's old apartment with her roommate,
629
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,938
and I used the money from selling
the house to pay off student loans.
630
00:29:34,022 --> 00:29:39,110
There's my student debt
from where I never graduated college.
631
00:29:40,069 --> 00:29:44,365
- How much we talking about?
- Round abouts 20 grand?
632
00:29:45,992 --> 00:29:51,581
You know, we don't have privacy,
and we need a house to... to have a kid.
633
00:29:51,664 --> 00:29:55,668
And also, like, it's... it's kinda...
Thinking about it, it's like...
634
00:29:55,752 --> 00:30:01,216
it's disrespectful maybe to have a baby
in a house or apartment with a roommate.
635
00:30:01,299 --> 00:30:05,220
Like, my roommate's got to deal
with a baby crying? Like, that's... Yeah.
636
00:30:05,303 --> 00:30:09,432
If it happens now, she'll be excited,
and I'll be like, "Okay, let's do it."
637
00:30:09,516 --> 00:30:10,391
Let's do it.
638
00:30:10,475 --> 00:30:13,186
But, if we wait until after,
that's fine, too.
639
00:30:13,269 --> 00:30:15,563
- Yeah.
- Damian, are you trying for kids?
640
00:30:15,647 --> 00:30:17,082
- Yeah?
- I want kids, yeah.
641
00:30:17,106 --> 00:30:19,317
Hundred percent I want kids.
I want a big family.
642
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,235
Yeah, man.
643
00:30:20,318 --> 00:30:21,694
Um, but we're two years in.
644
00:30:21,778 --> 00:30:24,489
I haven't asked her to marry me again.
She hasn't asked again.
645
00:30:24,572 --> 00:30:26,366
You know what I mean? So it's...
646
00:30:27,075 --> 00:30:29,202
Obviously with Amber and Barnett,
647
00:30:29,285 --> 00:30:31,454
and Cameron and Lauren's
anniversary coming up,
648
00:30:31,538 --> 00:30:35,124
it brings back, you know, memories
of my wedding day with Giannina.
649
00:30:35,208 --> 00:30:37,627
What if we would've gotten married?
Where would we be now?
650
00:30:37,710 --> 00:30:40,171
Would we be, you know,
all three of us be celebrating?
651
00:30:40,255 --> 00:30:42,423
I don't know, you know,
where it goes from here.
652
00:30:42,507 --> 00:30:43,800
I'm just figuring it all out.
653
00:30:43,883 --> 00:30:46,845
She's scared to get married again
because of what happened at the altar,
654
00:30:46,928 --> 00:30:49,597
which, I mean,
that would traumatize really anybody.
655
00:30:49,681 --> 00:30:53,476
- Yeah.
- ♪ It's a memory I can't erase ♪
656
00:30:54,936 --> 00:30:56,896
Could I see my life with Giannina? Yeah.
657
00:30:56,980 --> 00:30:57,897
- I could.
- Yeah.
658
00:30:57,981 --> 00:31:00,400
But at the end of the day,
not every person's gonna be
659
00:31:00,483 --> 00:31:02,861
that 100% perfect match, you know?
660
00:31:04,237 --> 00:31:08,700
I feel like their relationship is...
I don't understand it, honestly.
661
00:31:09,284 --> 00:31:12,704
Uh, I don't know. I don't know.
Never mind. I don't want to talk about it.
662
00:31:12,787 --> 00:31:14,706
I don't wanna get myself
in a hole.
663
00:31:14,789 --> 00:31:17,584
How many more times
can you date somebody for two years?
664
00:31:17,667 --> 00:31:19,711
I wanna hammer out kids
like he hammers curls.
665
00:31:20,795 --> 00:31:24,007
Ten-year reunion, we're grilling out
with our kids playing by the pool.
666
00:31:24,090 --> 00:31:25,800
I was about to say that.
667
00:31:28,553 --> 00:31:32,849
♪ At my worst, at my worst, at my worst ♪
668
00:31:34,601 --> 00:31:38,062
♪ At my worst, at my worst, at my worst ♪
669
00:31:38,146 --> 00:31:41,649
Oh, this is good. I'm not drinking no more
because I'll have to pee.
670
00:31:41,733 --> 00:31:43,943
Oh, my God,
your bladder is stressing me out.
671
00:31:44,027 --> 00:31:45,945
- It's stressing me out.
- I'm not gonna lie.
672
00:31:46,905 --> 00:31:49,115
Honestly, from day one in the pods,
673
00:31:49,198 --> 00:31:52,285
I was like, "Okay,
I'm interested in Barnett. That's it."
674
00:31:52,368 --> 00:31:53,369
It's not you, LC.
675
00:31:55,455 --> 00:31:59,500
You know, obviously it didn't work out
for me in a relationship way there,
676
00:31:59,584 --> 00:32:04,589
but it propelled me into being more honest
with the people I am going on dates with.
677
00:32:04,672 --> 00:32:08,718
I try to be more upfront with people about
what I want, what my expectations are.
678
00:32:08,801 --> 00:32:09,886
Are you dating?
679
00:32:09,969 --> 00:32:11,638
Mm...
680
00:32:11,721 --> 00:32:13,306
Not really.
681
00:32:13,389 --> 00:32:16,559
Right now, it's just me and my cat,
still going strong.
682
00:32:18,937 --> 00:32:21,230
- Hello.
- Oh, look, it's Gigi!
683
00:32:21,314 --> 00:32:22,815
I'm so happy.
684
00:32:22,899 --> 00:32:25,443
- Hi. Wow. You look so cute.
- Hi. You look so cute.
685
00:32:25,526 --> 00:32:27,695
Thanks. I love this anklet.
686
00:32:27,779 --> 00:32:30,448
- Oh, my gosh. It's so good to see you.
- How are you?
687
00:32:30,531 --> 00:32:31,616
Oh, my God, I like...
688
00:32:31,699 --> 00:32:33,117
It's good to see you.
689
00:32:33,201 --> 00:32:36,663
- Awesome to see you. Am I sitting here?
- Yep. Well, yeah, whichever.
690
00:32:36,746 --> 00:32:37,973
- Is there wine?
- Yes.
691
00:32:37,997 --> 00:32:39,123
We've ordered wine.
692
00:32:39,207 --> 00:32:42,710
- This is delicious. It's a red wine.
- Is it? It matches you.
693
00:32:42,794 --> 00:32:43,794
- Oh!
- I know.
694
00:32:43,836 --> 00:32:47,048
- She's like a whole vibe.
- I didn't think about it. Got a vibe here.
695
00:32:47,131 --> 00:32:48,800
I actually just got the nails, too.
696
00:32:49,384 --> 00:32:52,804
- Gigi, this is pretty.
- Thanks.
697
00:32:52,887 --> 00:32:54,055
I wanted to do black.
698
00:32:54,138 --> 00:32:55,640
Wait. Let me see that hand.
699
00:32:55,723 --> 00:32:58,017
- Where's your ring? Where's the ring?
- What ring?
700
00:33:00,561 --> 00:33:01,688
Mine in the toilet.
701
00:33:03,272 --> 00:33:06,567
- Isn't yours at the bottom of a pool?
- What'd he give you at the reunion?
702
00:33:06,651 --> 00:33:09,195
- It was that ring.
- I thought it was a different one.
703
00:33:09,278 --> 00:33:11,239
- It was that ring.
- He has some balls, man.
704
00:33:11,864 --> 00:33:13,741
Not at the right time. Sorry, I'm done.
705
00:33:15,284 --> 00:33:17,537
No, please tell me. Let's tell the world.
706
00:33:18,788 --> 00:33:19,789
Well...
707
00:33:19,872 --> 00:33:22,208
- Jess!
- Oh, my God! Hi, cuties!
708
00:33:22,291 --> 00:33:24,043
- Hi! Hi!
- You look beautiful.
709
00:33:24,127 --> 00:33:25,336
Oh, my gosh.
710
00:33:25,420 --> 00:33:28,506
- I love you. I miss you so much.
- I miss you.
711
00:33:28,589 --> 00:33:32,635
Two years ago, I really kind of crashed
and burned in front of the world.
712
00:33:34,887 --> 00:33:36,305
- Hi.
- Hi, sweetie.
713
00:33:36,389 --> 00:33:39,559
But in terms of
going through the experiment,
714
00:33:39,642 --> 00:33:42,937
I wouldn't take anything back,
because I was vulnerable
715
00:33:43,021 --> 00:33:45,982
and I was messy and I made mistakes,
716
00:33:46,065 --> 00:33:50,611
but I think it's helped a lot of people
to see my journey.
717
00:33:50,695 --> 00:33:52,864
Welcome back.
718
00:33:52,947 --> 00:33:55,700
When I got back, I'm like,
"Ugh, I miss it. I love it here."
719
00:33:55,783 --> 00:33:59,078
I've been thinking back... Well, I mean,
it's not California weather today.
720
00:33:59,162 --> 00:34:01,080
- How was California?
- It's okay, though.
721
00:34:01,164 --> 00:34:04,208
Everything since I've gotten there
has just been so amazing.
722
00:34:04,292 --> 00:34:07,545
And it's just where I belong.
How are you guys?
723
00:34:07,628 --> 00:34:09,005
- Good.
- Good.
724
00:34:09,088 --> 00:34:11,257
Does he kinda look like Damian,
back there? This guy.
725
00:34:11,340 --> 00:34:12,341
No! It's just you.
726
00:34:12,425 --> 00:34:13,468
It's just me. Okay.
727
00:34:14,677 --> 00:34:16,804
Gigi, we're dying to know this.
728
00:34:17,847 --> 00:34:20,641
- We really thought about this earlier.
- Oh, my God, what?
729
00:34:20,725 --> 00:34:22,977
Did y'all's sex life get any better?
730
00:34:23,061 --> 00:34:26,314
- Oh. Oh, my God.
- Is it Damian with a capital "D"?
731
00:34:26,397 --> 00:34:28,357
Or Damian with a lowercase "D"?
732
00:34:29,317 --> 00:34:32,445
So when you're actually
open with your partner
733
00:34:32,528 --> 00:34:34,864
and you communicate
what you want, things get better.
734
00:34:34,947 --> 00:34:36,240
Yes!
735
00:34:36,324 --> 00:34:39,327
Do not be ashamed of telling
your partner what you want.
736
00:34:40,995 --> 00:34:43,539
I kinda opened
that can of worms up myself.
737
00:34:43,623 --> 00:34:47,627
You know how you tell me
this is the best sex of your life?
738
00:34:47,710 --> 00:34:51,005
Have you noticed that
I don't return the compliment?
739
00:34:51,756 --> 00:34:54,425
But no one has to worry
about me and Damian's sex life.
740
00:34:54,509 --> 00:34:56,969
If you don't talk about sex
in your relationship,
741
00:34:57,053 --> 00:34:59,305
then maybe you should be talking about it.
742
00:35:00,807 --> 00:35:05,144
I think Damian started feeling
that pressure again where we were like,
743
00:35:05,228 --> 00:35:07,021
"Okay, we've dated for two years."
744
00:35:07,563 --> 00:35:08,397
Um...
745
00:35:08,481 --> 00:35:10,942
You know, like,
"Do we want to live together soon?"
746
00:35:11,025 --> 00:35:14,529
"How would we, like, raise a kid?"
Like, "What's next?"
747
00:35:14,612 --> 00:35:16,322
Is he more of a timestamp person,
748
00:35:16,405 --> 00:35:18,366
and you're like,
when it happens it happens?
749
00:35:18,449 --> 00:35:23,663
Yeah. Right now we need to focus
on ourselves and just say,
750
00:35:23,746 --> 00:35:26,582
"Okay, if we're meant to be,
then we're gonna be meant to be."
751
00:35:26,666 --> 00:35:29,085
"We're in it for the long haul.
But this is our time."
752
00:35:29,168 --> 00:35:31,671
So you aren't seeing other people
or anything like that.
753
00:35:31,754 --> 00:35:33,756
No. I mean, not... not that I know.
754
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,592
Like, we have the respect
and we told each other that.
755
00:35:37,552 --> 00:35:40,847
Gigi, girl, you beautiful.
What's holding you back, girl?
756
00:35:40,930 --> 00:35:44,767
Go out there. I know there's men
dying to get to know you.
757
00:35:44,851 --> 00:35:47,436
I can see you, honestly, girl,
with a soccer player.
758
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:51,274
Mm. I can see you, girl...
Ooh, a successful soccer player, too.
759
00:35:51,357 --> 00:35:54,026
Come on, y'all, get in her DMs.
Get in her DMs, y'all.
760
00:35:55,486 --> 00:35:58,865
This is our time to...
to figure it out because
761
00:36:00,032 --> 00:36:01,032
I don't wanna lose him.
762
00:36:01,075 --> 00:36:02,136
- Aw.
- Yeah.
763
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,371
Like, he's my person.
He's my person. He's my family.
764
00:36:05,454 --> 00:36:07,214
You've been through a lot together.
765
00:36:07,290 --> 00:36:08,833
Oh, my God. He's my rock.
766
00:36:08,916 --> 00:36:11,335
- To say the least.
- A lot. It's everything.
767
00:36:11,419 --> 00:36:14,005
Like, that...
No one else, no other couple will ever.
768
00:36:14,088 --> 00:36:14,922
Yeah.
769
00:36:15,006 --> 00:36:16,567
Just all smiling.
770
00:36:16,591 --> 00:36:18,718
And that's a great thing.
It's day by day.
771
00:36:18,801 --> 00:36:19,801
It's day by day.
772
00:36:20,511 --> 00:36:24,182
- Okay, so, how's your cute boyfriend?
- How are things? I saw your boo.
773
00:36:24,265 --> 00:36:26,267
- Oh, he's good.
- He really is cute.
774
00:36:26,350 --> 00:36:28,203
- Y'all are so gorgeous.
- Thanks.
775
00:36:28,227 --> 00:36:30,354
A surgeon. A foot surgeon.
776
00:36:30,438 --> 00:36:33,167
- I say, girl, you winning.
- Yes. I have weak ankles, so...
777
00:36:33,191 --> 00:36:34,358
Is it just boyfriend?
778
00:36:34,442 --> 00:36:35,276
- Yes.
- Okay.
779
00:36:35,359 --> 00:36:37,987
Nothing crazy.
I'm not running to the altar
780
00:36:38,070 --> 00:36:40,615
like a track star or anything like that.
781
00:36:40,698 --> 00:36:43,451
- Nine, ten days have passed, not engaged.
- Yeah.
782
00:36:43,534 --> 00:36:48,206
Once I left the altar,
I didn't date for a very long time,
783
00:36:48,289 --> 00:36:51,626
because I wanted to
really take my time and
784
00:36:52,501 --> 00:36:54,921
memorialize the experience
that I just went through.
785
00:36:55,004 --> 00:36:57,089
I mean, this was a huge deal.
It was an engagement,
786
00:36:57,173 --> 00:36:59,634
and I took that engagement very seriously.
787
00:36:59,717 --> 00:37:04,013
And, you know, although
I felt like I got in over my head,
788
00:37:04,096 --> 00:37:06,182
it still was a huge deal to me.
789
00:37:06,265 --> 00:37:07,683
I've never been engaged before.
790
00:37:07,767 --> 00:37:13,898
But I was so in love with Mark
and I accepted his love happily,
791
00:37:13,981 --> 00:37:17,485
but, in the end, I just felt like
there were other things at play.
792
00:37:17,568 --> 00:37:18,736
We're just keeping it chill.
793
00:37:18,819 --> 00:37:23,074
We've been getting to know each other
for seven months. We're taking our time.
794
00:37:23,658 --> 00:37:26,160
- Is he coming?
- No. He's not coming.
795
00:37:26,244 --> 00:37:28,537
- I wanted to meet the future. Dang.
- I know.
796
00:37:28,621 --> 00:37:30,998
No need for him to meet the ex-fiancé.
797
00:37:31,082 --> 00:37:32,959
No need for him to meet Mark.
798
00:37:33,042 --> 00:37:34,752
- Oh, God, no.
- For sure.
799
00:37:34,835 --> 00:37:36,128
Speaking of Mark...
800
00:37:36,212 --> 00:37:38,589
- Speaking of which. Y'all hooked up?
- Yeah.
801
00:37:40,049 --> 00:37:42,885
Um, I'm not gonna lie.
Like, I hate to admit that.
802
00:37:42,969 --> 00:37:47,306
Might've been much easier for me
if y'all connected in the pods.
803
00:37:48,099 --> 00:37:50,268
Uh, not for me.
804
00:37:50,351 --> 00:37:52,228
Maybe we have the same type.
805
00:37:52,311 --> 00:37:55,314
She did like Barnett,
and then she liked Mark.
806
00:37:55,398 --> 00:37:56,524
It's interesting.
807
00:37:56,607 --> 00:37:59,443
I'm not letting her
connect with my boyfriend.
808
00:38:00,736 --> 00:38:03,155
- Get to the juicy part.
- Um...
809
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:07,159
Yeah, basically he was going to Chicago,
I thought, for his dad's birthday.
810
00:38:07,243 --> 00:38:10,037
That's what he told me.
So I dropped him off at the airport.
811
00:38:10,121 --> 00:38:12,123
The next day, I saw it on Reddit,
812
00:38:12,206 --> 00:38:14,375
some girl posted a picture
of him and this girl
813
00:38:14,458 --> 00:38:17,837
all over each other, holding hands,
arm around each other, the whole thing.
814
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,548
- This is the girl he's having a baby with.
- Yes.
815
00:38:21,424 --> 00:38:25,052
- And so I was like, uh, "What the fuck?"
- Yeah.
816
00:38:25,136 --> 00:38:28,723
And when I confronted him about it,
he just got so defensive the whole time.
817
00:38:28,806 --> 00:38:32,977
I was like, "I don't want to date someone
who's dating or hooking up with others."
818
00:38:33,060 --> 00:38:34,937
And he was like, "Oh, my God, no."
819
00:38:35,021 --> 00:38:38,190
Like, "I'm not the kind of guy, LC."
Like, "I would never do that."
820
00:38:38,274 --> 00:38:42,028
"I'm not the kind of guy who wants to date
a bunch of girls, like, sleep around."
821
00:38:42,111 --> 00:38:43,362
Literally his words.
822
00:38:44,572 --> 00:38:46,282
We were dating. We were talking every day.
823
00:38:46,365 --> 00:38:49,952
He was really just gaslighting me.
Like, all of a sudden, we weren't dating.
824
00:38:50,036 --> 00:38:52,788
And then he didn't even apologize.
825
00:38:52,872 --> 00:38:57,084
If I did get any kind of apology,
it was always followed up with,
826
00:38:57,168 --> 00:39:01,005
you know, "I'm sorry, LC,
but you weren't my girlfriend."
827
00:39:01,088 --> 00:39:05,509
And I'm like, "Oh, my God,
that is so not the point."
828
00:39:05,593 --> 00:39:08,721
The night I found out about everything,
I did DM her a message, like,
829
00:39:08,804 --> 00:39:11,724
"I did not know about any of this,
just so you know."
830
00:39:11,807 --> 00:39:14,435
Like, sent her a whole thing,
never responded.
831
00:39:14,518 --> 00:39:18,356
After a couple days and she didn't respond
I was like, "She's staying with him."
832
00:39:18,439 --> 00:39:21,317
She called me and
told me about it, and I was like, "No!"
833
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:22,960
Like, "Oh, he's so sweet."
834
00:39:23,027 --> 00:39:26,489
- I know, right? He comes off so sweet.
- I did. I didn't know.
835
00:39:26,572 --> 00:39:29,241
At the same time,
I remember Jess was telling me things...
836
00:39:29,325 --> 00:39:30,743
I talked to Jess. I told you,
837
00:39:30,826 --> 00:39:33,371
"I don't know, because
what he been doing... What I heard."
838
00:39:33,454 --> 00:39:37,375
I'm not surprised,
because when we were engaged,
839
00:39:37,458 --> 00:39:41,420
one day I was trying
to get in touch with him.
840
00:39:41,504 --> 00:39:43,381
I'm like, "Where were you?"
841
00:39:43,464 --> 00:39:45,925
And he's like,
"I was just at lunch with a friend."
842
00:39:46,509 --> 00:39:48,109
- Named?
- "Like, what friend?"
843
00:39:48,177 --> 00:39:51,722
And he's like, "Oh, I spent...
I spent time with this girl."
844
00:39:51,806 --> 00:39:54,517
"It was the anniversary
of her dad's death,
845
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,769
and so we spent six hours talking."
846
00:39:57,686 --> 00:40:01,357
And I was immediately like,
847
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,235
"How could you spend
six hours with another girl
848
00:40:04,318 --> 00:40:06,821
talking about emotions right now?"
849
00:40:06,904 --> 00:40:08,489
"We're about to get married."
850
00:40:08,572 --> 00:40:10,658
That told you
it was more than just a friend.
851
00:40:10,741 --> 00:40:14,912
It was. And after the show,
they started dating for a year and a half.
852
00:40:14,995 --> 00:40:17,164
They had a dog together
and moved in together.
853
00:40:17,248 --> 00:40:21,335
So apparently...
He was sleeping with her at the time,
854
00:40:21,419 --> 00:40:24,422
and now I've found out
it's been multiple other women.
855
00:40:24,505 --> 00:40:26,549
That right there is character.
856
00:40:26,632 --> 00:40:31,262
That's your character, and that is,
like, how you go to sleep at night.
857
00:40:31,345 --> 00:40:34,140
Like, he had been fooling me
the entire time.
858
00:40:34,682 --> 00:40:38,185
The worst thing for me is feeling like...
859
00:40:40,980 --> 00:40:41,897
an idiot.
860
00:40:41,981 --> 00:40:45,901
I was probably one of the most hated
people ever to be on a reality TV show.
861
00:40:47,736 --> 00:40:52,158
Just, for him to just
watch that all happen and never...
862
00:40:52,741 --> 00:40:55,453
He never, you know,
came forward with anything.
863
00:40:55,536 --> 00:40:56,536
So...
864
00:40:57,079 --> 00:40:58,079
Um...
865
00:40:58,622 --> 00:40:59,707
That was really hard.
866
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:06,422
I hope he now commits
and doesn't continue to... step out.
867
00:41:06,505 --> 00:41:07,631
It was shitty before.
868
00:41:07,715 --> 00:41:11,302
It's 100 times more shitty if you do this
to your pregnant girlfriend.
869
00:41:11,385 --> 00:41:13,429
- Is she gonna be there?
- I have no idea.
870
00:41:13,512 --> 00:41:14,512
We don't know.
871
00:41:26,275 --> 00:41:28,152
♪ La-la-la-la-la-la ♪
872
00:41:29,278 --> 00:41:30,946
♪ La-la-la-la-la... ♪
873
00:41:32,364 --> 00:41:35,576
It's a 2013 Porsche Panamera
sport edition.
874
00:41:38,537 --> 00:41:41,248
I think everybody has something
in their life that expresses 'em.
875
00:41:41,332 --> 00:41:42,750
Porsche expresses me, you know?
876
00:41:42,833 --> 00:41:45,503
It says that I like sexy...
877
00:41:45,586 --> 00:41:47,922
I'd say "nasty,"
but that sounds bad.
878
00:41:48,005 --> 00:41:50,758
♪ Ooh, baby, come a little closer ♪
879
00:41:50,841 --> 00:41:53,761
♪ I wouldn't mind
I wanna get to know you ♪
880
00:41:53,844 --> 00:41:57,973
♪ Something I can't deny
I'm lost in your eyes... ♪
881
00:42:03,312 --> 00:42:05,731
- Hi, beautiful.
- Hey, cutie pie.
882
00:42:05,814 --> 00:42:08,442
- I'll park real quick. I'll be right in.
- Okay, yeah.
883
00:42:08,984 --> 00:42:10,736
♪ I wanna touch your fire ♪
884
00:42:10,819 --> 00:42:15,407
♪ I'm lost in your eyes ♪
885
00:42:17,284 --> 00:42:19,286
♪ La-la-la-la-la ♪
886
00:42:20,412 --> 00:42:22,706
♪ La-la-la-la-la-la ♪
887
00:42:23,415 --> 00:42:25,251
♪ La-la-la-la-la ♪
888
00:42:27,419 --> 00:42:28,939
- Hello, hello.
- Hello, hello.
889
00:42:30,047 --> 00:42:30,881
Hi.
890
00:42:30,965 --> 00:42:32,716
- Hi.
- Good to see you.
891
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:34,840
- Good to see you, too.
- Come sit.
892
00:42:37,221 --> 00:42:38,138
You look beautiful.
893
00:42:38,222 --> 00:42:39,932
- You look good as well.
- Thank you.
894
00:42:43,519 --> 00:42:46,105
Francesca and I met a few months ago.
895
00:42:46,188 --> 00:42:49,441
We set up a dinner with friends,
896
00:42:49,525 --> 00:42:52,069
and it turned into this big scandal.
897
00:42:52,152 --> 00:42:55,239
And for Giannina, that was hard.
I'm pissed at the paparazzi.
898
00:42:55,322 --> 00:42:58,158
It's a lot. I'm trying
to figure it out, to balance it.
899
00:42:58,242 --> 00:42:59,785
I'm used to solving problems.
900
00:43:00,786 --> 00:43:03,247
This is one that's
more difficult to solve than others.
901
00:43:03,330 --> 00:43:04,665
Do y'all have any shots?
902
00:43:04,748 --> 00:43:07,501
No.
I wish. We'd be in a lot of trouble.
903
00:43:07,585 --> 00:43:10,129
So we know, for our flights,
they're grouped by region,
904
00:43:10,212 --> 00:43:11,130
varietal or style.
905
00:43:11,213 --> 00:43:12,881
- Sweet. Thank you.
- Welcome.
906
00:43:12,965 --> 00:43:14,485
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
907
00:43:14,550 --> 00:43:17,136
- What's a flight?
- A flight's like samples.
908
00:43:17,219 --> 00:43:19,779
- Okay. Should we do that?
- I believe it's a little sample tray.
909
00:43:20,639 --> 00:43:24,268
Francesca just came into town
for a photo shoot and some work.
910
00:43:24,351 --> 00:43:25,728
I love hanging out with her.
911
00:43:25,811 --> 00:43:29,773
- Surprised we aren't going for bottles.
- It's five o'clock somewhere.
912
00:43:29,857 --> 00:43:32,776
Francesca's like, hot, right?
Too hot to handle.
913
00:43:32,860 --> 00:43:34,403
But I love the new hair too.
914
00:43:34,486 --> 00:43:36,614
- Thanks.
- I can see you got that done.
915
00:43:36,697 --> 00:43:38,115
- Very pretty.
- You look amazing.
916
00:43:39,950 --> 00:43:41,368
Yeah.
917
00:43:41,452 --> 00:43:46,624
Francesca flirting with me, it makes you
feel good, confident and special.
918
00:43:46,707 --> 00:43:50,085
Y'all have, like, a fun wine to,
like, throw down?
919
00:43:50,169 --> 00:43:51,003
Ooh.
920
00:43:51,086 --> 00:43:53,273
- He's trying to make some bad decisions.
- Yes.
921
00:43:53,297 --> 00:43:56,675
- I like this new Damian.
- Something very strong?
922
00:43:56,759 --> 00:43:59,136
- It's just gotta go down smooth.
- Okay.
923
00:43:59,219 --> 00:44:01,698
- That'd be great. Two, please.
- What just happened?
924
00:44:01,722 --> 00:44:02,640
Okay, okay.
925
00:44:02,723 --> 00:44:04,868
- No, I mean...
- Trying to cause some trouble.
926
00:44:04,892 --> 00:44:05,934
Maybe, yeah.
927
00:44:14,943 --> 00:44:17,321
- Cheers to seeing where life takes us.
- Cheers.
75212
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