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Hey, babies.
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[Diez and Dior] Previouslyon Doubling Down
with the Derricos.
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I was contacted by a young man
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that told me
that he was my nephew.
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We're gonna meet
Amani when we go
to Detroit next week.
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I would love to get
your 14 cousins out there.
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I told you I had 14, right?
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Oh, man.
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[mimics drum roll]
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[laughs]
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Chris kind of got
off on bad start
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because I feel that
I failed him
in so many areas.
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It's painfulthat Chris is not here
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It's painfulthat Chris is not here
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but I feel like meeting Amaniis God's way of giving me
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a new purpose to my life.
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The tumor is larger
than it was in July.
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He think that I'll get
better results
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-with the traditional chemo.
-Oh, wow.
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That was so, so scary for me.
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Oh.
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[GG crying]
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[upbeat music playing]
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[upbeat music playing]
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Ta... Ooh, ooh.
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[Karen] What are you doing?
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-You vacuuming?
-[Diez] Mmm-hmm.
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[Deon] Hey, girls.
Get the mouthwash,
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toothbrushes.
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[Deon] The Detroit tripis happening tomorrow.
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We're going to the D,
the Motor City,
to my home town.
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I'mma be lit!
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[Deon] We moved from Detroitto Las Vegas 16 years ago.
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And out of our 14 children,
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And out of our 14 children,
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only Darian, Derrick,
Dallas and Denver
have ever been.
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But that was justsuch a quick trip.
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They don't remember at all
because they were
just too young.
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Now put it right here.
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[Deon] And so I'm excitedto show themwhere I grew up,
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plus we're finally meeting
my nephew, Amani.
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And I'm just... I am elated.
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Hey, I need these other pants.
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I mean, y'all moving like
Myrtle the Turtle around here.
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We're only going
to be in Detroit
for about a week.
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But even still,packing for 16 people
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-is a very, very
daunting task.
-Mmm-hmm.
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Deonee, where's
your laptop, baby?
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Deonee, where's
your laptop, baby?
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Upstairs on the charger.
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You know, every time
you think you've got
this down to a science,
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there is always something new
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that can throw you off.
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You're not chasing me.
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-Yes, uh-huh.
-[laughs]
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It's like all of a sudden,
we have 14 helpers
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and they just volunteer
their services.
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Even when I don't ask for it.
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[Deon] But unfortunately,
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there's more getting
in the way
than helping us.
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-Mmm-hmm.
-[laughs]
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Why'd you just bring
me one pull-up?
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-[Deon speaking]
-Mmm-hmm.
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-[Deon speaking]
-Mmm-hmm.
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[Deon] But you need
more than one.
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Oh!
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All are our best friends.
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[Deon] Hey, listen up,
listen up, listen up.
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I'm trying to still get
my itinerary together
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on all this things
I wanna do with y'all
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'cause I won't be able
to do everything.
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Some of y'all will get
a chance to see
the barber shop I went to.
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Motown?
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Motown, yeah.
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We get a chance
to meet Amani.
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We get a chance
to meet Amani.
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So, how excited
are y'all to meet
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your first cousin
on Poppy's side
of the family?
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-I'm excited!
-I'm really excited.
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-[indistinct murmuring]
-Yeah, we're really excited.
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[Karen] You know,
if he eats a lot of food,
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he's definitely your nephew.
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Yes, we're gonna go on a boat.
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So remember, the river boat
is where Poppy's having
GG's birthday party.
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Also while we're in Detroit,
we get a chance to celebrate
GG's 73rd birthday.
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So, Poppy and Mommy
still gotta finish up
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getting these suitcases
and stuff together.
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Y'all can go upstairs,
finish getting your stuff.
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To have my mothergo through everythingshe's gone through
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with her health,it is very important
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that she keep
her mental strength
as high as possible.
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And it helpsthat we'd a chance
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to have some friendsand some family members
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at her birthday where...
So if we had it
here in Vegas,
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she wouldn't have
the same turn out.
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All right, well, um, GG...
So you know,
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she's gonna have to do
the traditional chemo
when we get back here.
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And you know
she ain't looking
forward to that.
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Yeah.
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[Deon] So, I was just hoping
that this whole trip for her
would be fun
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so that when she come
back here
and that chemo starts,
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so that when she come
back here
and that chemo starts,
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I just don't want her
down on her spirits.
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[Karen] Yeah, I'm hoping
that meeting with Amani
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is gonna be a... a good thing.
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You know, something
new and exciting.
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Yeah.
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Can you imagine
the amount of stress
that now GG has
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just knowing
that when we come back,
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she has to dotraditional chemo.
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It's very scary,but I'm hopingthat meeting Amani
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gives her a different sense
of something to fight for.
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[sighs] So yeah.
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All with her.
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We're gonna make
this a nice trip for her.
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Yeah, I'm hoping
the same thing.
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[upbeat music playing]
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[indistinct murmur]
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[Karen] Yeah.
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I'm going through
my mental checklist.
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Don't forget your laptops.
There's only two over there.
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-[grunts]
-[Karen] Girls!
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-[all grunting]
-[Karen] Boys!
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[mumbling indistinctly]
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[Karen] Come on, Diez.
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Shuttle is here!
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Shuttle is here!
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[all cheering]
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[Dawsyn speaking]
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Today is the day.
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Aw, we are all up
bright and early.
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The children couldnot really sleep last night.
[chuckles]
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I'm just so excited
to show our children
you know, where we met,
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where Darian was born.
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And it's imperative
that my children understand
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the significance
of where their father
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and their grandmother
come from.
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-[indistinct murmuring]
-Let's go.
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[Deon] We don't have too long.
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I was ready.
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I was ready like a Freddy.
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There's that part of methat don't wanna goback to Detroit.
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There's that part of methat don't wanna goback to Detroit.
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It just seem like
I'd be going back...
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to a place
where I'm missing a lot.
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The lot being my son
and my mother.
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But now the closer it gets,the more I look forward to it
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because of Amani.
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[Deon] We're clear to go.
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[GG] Ever sincewe took the DNA testto find out
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that Amani is Chris's child
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I wanted to meet him.So I look forward
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to give him
a real grandma hug.
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to give him
a real grandma hug.
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[Karen]
Hey, y'all ready?
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I got y'all.
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I used to be
a flight attendant
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so this is a breeze.
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I interrupt your regularly
scheduled program
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to tell you to get
your [laughing] TSA PreCheck
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and get that wheelchair
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because the pacecannot be slow.
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-[clapping]
-Chop, chop, chop.
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-Yeah.
-Yes.
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[Karen] Y'all get
in birth order,
behind Mommy.
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[Karen] Y'all get
in birth order,
behind Mommy.
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[Deon] Matching outfitshelp us to visualize
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-where our children are
at all times.
-Mmm-hmm.
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Okay, y'all step up.
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[Darian] Whoo!
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One, two, three,
four, five, six,
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-seven, eight, nine.
-[Karen] Over here.
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We can say, "Okay,
that one right there.
Oh, where is the other one?"
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"The other one's
in the bathroom."
"Okay."
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[all cheering]
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[Dawsyn] There's a airplane!
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-You can sit across
from Mommy.
-Okay.
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-So, you're gonna sit
on the aisle seat across.
-So... So...
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[Deon] Darian,
who's sitting with you?
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[Deon] Darian,
who's sitting with you?
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Uh, Daiten and Daician.
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You with Poppy.
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Imagine having to take
14 children on an airplane.
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I made sure
that we had
plenty of snacks.
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All right, so give me my two.
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Uh, Dior and Dyver.
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[Karen] Okay, who needs
to use the restroom?
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You wanna limit that intake
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-of water and juice.
-Yes.
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[Karen] Because there's no wayI'm spending this wholeflight in the bathroom.
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[woman speaking]
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I am a part of this group.
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[Karen] You need noisecanceling headphones
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and everyone
has their screens.
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and everyone
has their screens.
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Dawsyn, you buckled
your own self?
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Look at her.
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She buckled her own self.
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Yeah, no, no,
no, no, no, no.
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Yeah, no, no,
no, no, no, no.
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[GG] Hello, Detroit.
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[Karen] We are here!
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[Derrick speaking]
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I'm excited to see it.
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-[GG speaking]
-Ah, Detroiters.
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[GG speaking]
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[Deon] Lookee here,
lookee here.
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Yeah, this is nice.
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Yeah, this is nice.
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[Karen] Wow.
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[children exclaiming]
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Nice in here.
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So, my sweet wife here
booked a house
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that is just amazing for us.
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We had plenty of bathrooms
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-nice spacious backyards...
-Mm-hmm.
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Our children were able to
run around outside.
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-It is over all just perfect.
-[indistinct shouting]
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-Who's ready for Mommy's
pancakes in there?
-[children cheering]
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[Eric speaking]
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[upbeat music playing]
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Your breath just stinks.
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The women in Detroit
are very particular.
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You can't have
a stinky breath.
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-[claps]
-Shoe on.
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In the midst of me
unpacking, I discover
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that the suitcasethat had me and the boysdress clothes in it
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we forgot it home.
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But no child was left behind.
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Detroit, here we come.
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We about to take
you on, Detroit.
You ain't ready for us.
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Tomorrow, we'll bemeeting Amani.
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So today, I was gonna get
our children together
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and take them around
these Detroit streets.
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and take them around
these Detroit streets.
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-[chuckles]
-And give them
a little history
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about Detroit.
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What's up, Derricos?
Let's go, let's go.
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And I am so excited.
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Derricos do Detroit.
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[exclaiming]
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[cell phone beeps]
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[Karen] Hello.
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How do you all feel
to be in my hometown?
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-I feel great.
-I feel good.
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[girl] Great.
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This is my birth place
and Darian's.
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[Deon]
So here's a fun fact,did y'all know
249
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[Deon]
So here's a fun fact,did y'all know
250
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when Darian was born,
it was a blizzard.
251
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I remember I told Karen,
"Oh, God, whatever the...
Don't have this baby tonight."
252
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And I go to sleep
and I hear her laughing.
She's laughing to Jay Leno.
253
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-[Karen chuckles]
-And I don't know
if she laughed
254
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Darian out or what.
255
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But she waked me up,
"Baby, baby, I think
I wet the bed."
256
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Of course, this means
we have to get up
in this blizzard.
257
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[Deon]
And this the freeway
258
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that I took to takeMommy to the hospital.
259
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[Karen]
Had we beenany amount of time later,
260
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you would have
been born in the car.
261
00:10:28,734 --> 00:10:29,900
[Deon laughs]
Yeah, that's right.
262
00:10:30,700 --> 00:10:32,867
If she was born in a car...
263
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That means
she lived in the car.
264
00:10:35,266 --> 00:10:38,166
-No, it does not mean
she lives in a car.
-[indistinct murmuring]
265
00:10:38,166 --> 00:10:39,433
[all laugh]
266
00:10:40,967 --> 00:10:42,100
[Deon] Okay, wait,
now here you are.
267
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That's where Poppy
and Mommy met, right there.
268
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-[Darian] Ah, right there,
yeah, there.
-[indistinct murmuring]
269
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Detroit was where I was based
as a flight attendant.
270
00:10:49,867 --> 00:10:52,734
That's where I metmy lovely husband.
271
00:10:52,734 --> 00:10:54,967
He walked by meand I thought,
272
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"Damn, he smell good."
273
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I just walked out
on the dancefloor.
274
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I walked up to him
and I was like,
"You can't just be standing
275
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I walked up to him
and I was like,
"You can't just be standing
276
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-on a dancefloor
not dancing."
-"Not dancing."
277
00:11:02,734 --> 00:11:04,166
-I will never forget it.
-I'll... [laughs]
278
00:11:04,166 --> 00:11:07,266
-We dancedthat whole night.
-[Deon] Night.
279
00:11:07,266 --> 00:11:11,100
I don't think
love at first sight,
it was the energy I felt.
280
00:11:11,100 --> 00:11:13,600
-Yeah, seriously.
Seriously.
-[laughs]
281
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If we hadn't met there,
well, there would be
none of this right here.
282
00:11:16,634 --> 00:11:19,533
The favorite thing
about Detroit
is that where Mom and Pop met.
283
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That was so lit.
284
00:11:21,166 --> 00:11:22,166
[upbeat music playing]
285
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[Deon] Look
at our old neighborhood.
286
00:11:26,500 --> 00:11:29,266
-Oh, yeah.
-[Deon] Next, I'm takingthe children to see
287
00:11:29,266 --> 00:11:30,000
my grandmother's
house, Christine Turner,
288
00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,367
my grandmother's
house, Christine Turner,
289
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who I called "Mamma."
290
00:11:32,700 --> 00:11:34,500
And it's, of course,
GG's mother.
291
00:11:34,500 --> 00:11:37,166
So, Ma, how do you feel
being back here?
292
00:11:37,166 --> 00:11:38,867
-I don't know.
-[inaudible]
...are really old.
293
00:11:38,867 --> 00:11:41,333
It's kind of making
me feel some...
294
00:11:41,967 --> 00:11:43,734
'Cause I know
Mamma's not here.
295
00:11:46,266 --> 00:11:48,367
Pulling upto Mamma's house was...
296
00:11:49,367 --> 00:11:50,800
kind of emotional.
297
00:11:52,066 --> 00:11:53,867
[Deon] Wow.
298
00:11:53,867 --> 00:11:56,867
[GG] So much lovehappened in that house.
299
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That was justsuch a happy time.
300
00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:00,266
That was justsuch a happy time.
301
00:12:00,266 --> 00:12:01,867
You know,
it was just beautiful.
302
00:12:01,867 --> 00:12:04,433
The whole house,
in and out,
was beautiful.
303
00:12:05,533 --> 00:12:07,266
[Deon] So many memories.
Y'all don't understand
304
00:12:07,266 --> 00:12:10,066
all the card games
305
00:12:10,533 --> 00:12:11,533
in this house.
306
00:12:12,700 --> 00:12:15,166
[GG] You know, you gotto realize something.
307
00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:23,734
A mother is the very first
love a person experience.
308
00:12:25,734 --> 00:12:29,634
Whether you hadthe best momor the worst mom,
309
00:12:29,634 --> 00:12:30,000
that's where your love linestarts, is with your mother.
310
00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:33,066
that's where your love linestarts, is with your mother.
311
00:12:34,266 --> 00:12:37,367
And my mother,she was a good mother.
312
00:12:37,367 --> 00:12:40,867
And she was the one personthat kept us all together,
313
00:12:40,867 --> 00:12:44,734
so there was big-time loveall built up for her.
314
00:12:46,500 --> 00:12:49,066
So there was big-time
loss there, too.
315
00:12:53,100 --> 00:12:55,166
You know, this would make
Mama so proud
316
00:12:55,166 --> 00:12:58,100
-to see her great grands,
her daughter...
-[Deon] Yeah.
317
00:12:58,100 --> 00:13:00,000
[Darian] ...her grandson here.
318
00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:00,166
[Darian] ...her grandson here.
319
00:13:00,166 --> 00:13:01,166
[Deon] Yeah.
320
00:13:02,166 --> 00:13:04,166
Don't do that
'cause I'm gonna really cry.
321
00:13:04,166 --> 00:13:05,166
[sniffles]
322
00:13:05,166 --> 00:13:07,000
It's painful to be here
323
00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,266
because I could...Actually, in my mind,
324
00:13:09,266 --> 00:13:13,533
I could see her
walking through the house.
I could... Yeah.
325
00:13:14,166 --> 00:13:15,166
Yeah.
326
00:13:25,867 --> 00:13:27,533
[upbeat music playing]
327
00:13:32,367 --> 00:13:33,333
[indistinct murmuring]
328
00:13:34,967 --> 00:13:36,266
[Deon] So, how do
you feel, Mother?
329
00:13:36,266 --> 00:13:38,000
[GG] My mind's just...
330
00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:41,500
I haven't really been
able to sleep
for the last few nights
331
00:13:41,500 --> 00:13:43,467
because I know
I am in Detroit
332
00:13:43,867 --> 00:13:45,634
where Amani lives.
333
00:13:45,634 --> 00:13:48,433
The thought of meeting him
means a lot to me.
334
00:13:49,166 --> 00:13:50,634
-[indistinct murmuring]
-Hey, Nick.
335
00:13:50,634 --> 00:13:53,800
Yeah, she said the name.
[laughing] She said the...
336
00:13:54,533 --> 00:13:55,800
Yeah.
337
00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:57,600
Well, that's the scene.
I mean, we done waited it
all this time
338
00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,000
so this is...
This is officially it.
339
00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:00,100
so this is...
This is officially it.
340
00:14:00,100 --> 00:14:01,066
Yeah.
341
00:14:01,967 --> 00:14:03,066
What's up, baby? [kisses]
342
00:14:03,066 --> 00:14:04,700
You gonna help support GG?
343
00:14:04,700 --> 00:14:06,700
Through this?
Are you gonna hold
her hand?
344
00:14:06,700 --> 00:14:08,066
[Denver] I'm really excitedto see Amani
345
00:14:08,066 --> 00:14:09,467
because this was his...
346
00:14:09,467 --> 00:14:12,867
He's happy that we have
a first cousin
and that's really good.
347
00:14:12,867 --> 00:14:15,367
-Are y'all excited?
-[all] Yes!
348
00:14:15,367 --> 00:14:19,867
It's gonna be really weird
because, like, we never...
Share GG before.
349
00:14:19,867 --> 00:14:23,166
And then, I don't trust
people with GG.
350
00:14:23,166 --> 00:14:28,066
We can always trust Amani
because he's our nephew.
351
00:14:28,066 --> 00:14:29,233
[girl] He's our cousin.
352
00:14:29,867 --> 00:14:30,000
[Deon] This is
a special moment.
353
00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,266
[Deon] This is
a special moment.
354
00:14:31,266 --> 00:14:33,867
I wanted to know
what his girlfriend
looks like.
355
00:14:33,867 --> 00:14:36,367
Not... No, not because I like
her, don't get that...
356
00:14:36,367 --> 00:14:38,100
I just wanna...
I just wanna know.
357
00:14:38,100 --> 00:14:39,367
[doorbell rings]
358
00:14:39,367 --> 00:14:42,367
I think that's the door.
359
00:14:42,367 --> 00:14:44,467
[GG] From the momentthat I saw him,
360
00:14:44,467 --> 00:14:46,166
I knew he was my grandson.
361
00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,367
So now I'm ready to hold him,
362
00:14:50,367 --> 00:14:54,066
meet him in the fleshfor the very first time.
363
00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:00,900
[upbeat music playing]
364
00:15:00,900 --> 00:15:03,433
-[doorbell rings]
-[Deon] I think
that's the door.
365
00:15:06,367 --> 00:15:07,867
-Hey. [chuckles]
-[GG] Hey!
366
00:15:07,867 --> 00:15:10,000
-Hey, Grandma.
[chuckles]
-[GG] Hey.
367
00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,066
[GG and Amani laughs]
368
00:15:19,467 --> 00:15:20,734
[GG] He's here.
369
00:15:20,734 --> 00:15:25,233
He's here, and I finally get
a chance to touch him.
370
00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:26,533
[clicks tongue]
371
00:15:26,533 --> 00:15:28,939
And nothing elseat that moment mattered.
372
00:15:28,939 --> 00:15:30,066
And nothing elseat that moment mattered.
373
00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,066
I feel like I don't
wanna let him go.
374
00:15:35,100 --> 00:15:37,467
I mean,
and let's not be rude.
375
00:15:37,467 --> 00:15:38,600
Who am I meeting?
376
00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:40,367
-How you doing?
I'm Stacy.
-Um, yeah, this is my mom.
377
00:15:40,367 --> 00:15:42,900
-[GG laughs]
Hi, Stacy.
-How you doing?
378
00:15:42,900 --> 00:15:44,166
[Stacy] Hi, this is
my mom, Alma.
379
00:15:44,166 --> 00:15:45,166
-[GG] GG.
-[Karen] Come on in.
380
00:15:45,166 --> 00:15:46,166
[GG] Come on.
381
00:15:46,166 --> 00:15:48,100
-[Deon] Hello.
-[Karen] Hi!
382
00:15:48,100 --> 00:15:49,066
[indistinct murmuring]
383
00:15:49,634 --> 00:15:51,800
-[laughs]
-[Karen] Oh, my God.
384
00:15:53,467 --> 00:15:55,700
-My nephew.
-[GG laughs]
385
00:15:55,700 --> 00:15:57,100
[Deon] Your cousins.
386
00:15:57,100 --> 00:15:58,467
-How are you doing?
-Man, missed all of this.
387
00:15:58,467 --> 00:15:58,939
-Man, what's up?
-[Darian] Hi.
388
00:15:58,939 --> 00:15:59,467
-Man, what's up?
-[Darian] Hi.
389
00:15:59,467 --> 00:16:00,734
What's up? What's up?
390
00:16:01,700 --> 00:16:05,000
He looks so much
like my brother.
391
00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:06,734
This is my brother's child.
392
00:16:06,734 --> 00:16:09,867
I always thought that Daician
looked like Christopher.
393
00:16:09,867 --> 00:16:11,634
Deonee and Deniko
looks like him.
394
00:16:11,634 --> 00:16:12,634
-[woman] Yeah.
-[girl] Yeah.
395
00:16:12,634 --> 00:16:14,000
[Deon] But I don't see
that either.
396
00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:15,467
-Who looks like him is you.
-[Karen] You look
like Christopher.
397
00:16:15,467 --> 00:16:16,533
-[laughs]
-[indistinct murmur]
398
00:16:16,533 --> 00:16:17,634
[Amani] Yeah,I was a littlebit overwhelmed.
399
00:16:17,634 --> 00:16:20,467
It's very surreal
'cause I can never
imagine this.
400
00:16:20,467 --> 00:16:22,166
Sitting down with my mom,my grandmother.
401
00:16:22,166 --> 00:16:24,100
and then, like,
my new grandmother,
my uncle,
402
00:16:24,100 --> 00:16:26,634
and then especiallyjust to see that,you know, I got
403
00:16:26,634 --> 00:16:28,700
14 cousins.Going from zero
404
00:16:28,700 --> 00:16:28,939
to 14 really fast like
that was, uh, super exciting.
405
00:16:28,939 --> 00:16:32,734
to 14 really fast like
that was, uh, super exciting.
406
00:16:32,734 --> 00:16:36,166
You know, hearing aboutmy dad, like, you know,I was emotional.
407
00:16:36,166 --> 00:16:37,367
My mom talked to me about it,
408
00:16:37,367 --> 00:16:39,467
like, you know,
that whole night
we talked about it.
409
00:16:39,467 --> 00:16:41,266
I'm sorry for your loss, too.
410
00:16:41,266 --> 00:16:43,266
I saw him just passing
two years ago,
411
00:16:43,266 --> 00:16:44,900
-I'm like, "Oh, no."
-Yeah.
412
00:16:44,900 --> 00:16:47,367
Well, so, like, what was
he like, like,
growing up, like--
413
00:16:47,367 --> 00:16:49,367
I mean, he played ball
and lift weights.
414
00:16:49,367 --> 00:16:51,634
And he loved to eat
jalapeno peppers.
415
00:16:51,634 --> 00:16:52,634
-Yeah.
-[Deon] I remember...
416
00:16:52,634 --> 00:16:54,100
-Oh, my God.
-[Deon] Yeah.
He would go get
417
00:16:54,100 --> 00:16:56,734
those jalapeno peppers
and take a big bite
of some chicken
418
00:16:56,734 --> 00:16:58,166
and eat... And his nose
will sweat.
419
00:16:58,166 --> 00:16:58,939
-Red.
-[Deon]
His nose sweats
420
00:16:58,939 --> 00:16:59,700
-Red.
-[Deon]
His nose sweats
421
00:16:59,700 --> 00:17:01,000
-profusely while he's eating.
-[laughs]
422
00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:02,533
-She knows I like
the same things.
-[Stacy] Oh, my God.
423
00:17:02,533 --> 00:17:04,533
-[Deon] Yeah.
-Yeah. [crying]
424
00:17:04,533 --> 00:17:05,467
[Amani] You know,me and my dad
425
00:17:05,467 --> 00:17:07,100
definitely got, like,a lot in common.
426
00:17:07,100 --> 00:17:08,467
It's like, it's justa little bittersweet
427
00:17:08,467 --> 00:17:10,467
hearing about him,
you know.
428
00:17:10,467 --> 00:17:11,734
I got something
for you, Nephew.
429
00:17:11,734 --> 00:17:16,166
In this picture,
you're around the same age
now that he was.
430
00:17:16,166 --> 00:17:18,700
-[indistinct murmuring]
-[GG] Ooh, he's handsome.
431
00:17:18,700 --> 00:17:20,166
I had never seen
those pictures of my dad.
432
00:17:20,166 --> 00:17:21,533
You know, I can seethe resemblance
433
00:17:21,533 --> 00:17:23,634
Something I can look at,you know, daily,
434
00:17:23,634 --> 00:17:25,900
you know, that I would
cherish for a lifetime.
435
00:17:25,900 --> 00:17:27,634
-[Deon] So, yeah.
-Aw, man, this is so nice.
436
00:17:27,634 --> 00:17:28,939
While we are here,
we're planning on going
to the grave site of Chris.
437
00:17:28,939 --> 00:17:31,266
While we are here,
we're planning on going
to the grave site of Chris.
438
00:17:31,266 --> 00:17:34,166
-[Stacy] Oh, okay.
-[Deon] So, I would love
for you guys to join us.
439
00:17:34,166 --> 00:17:35,367
-Oh, yeah.
-[Stacy] Okay.
440
00:17:35,367 --> 00:17:37,533
I want to honor my brother.
441
00:17:37,533 --> 00:17:39,367
So I'm inviting Amanito the cemetery
442
00:17:39,367 --> 00:17:42,166
and hopefully,that'll bringa bit of closure
443
00:17:42,166 --> 00:17:46,367
because it's important for me
to solidify the connection
between him and his father.
444
00:17:46,367 --> 00:17:48,734
I'm also having
a, uh, birthday party.
445
00:17:48,734 --> 00:17:50,634
-All right.
-[GG] So I'd like
to invite y'all.
446
00:17:50,634 --> 00:17:51,900
-[Alma] Okay.
-Hey, I'm...
I'm gonna be there.
447
00:17:51,900 --> 00:17:52,734
I'm available.
448
00:17:52,734 --> 00:17:55,467
[GG] That feelsphenomenal
449
00:17:55,467 --> 00:17:57,467
that I'm gonna turn 73
450
00:17:57,467 --> 00:17:58,939
and my new addition,
451
00:17:58,939 --> 00:18:00,066
and my new addition,
452
00:18:00,066 --> 00:18:02,100
Amani, he will be there.
453
00:18:02,100 --> 00:18:07,533
When your father
was a baby, I had
this super woman feeling.
454
00:18:07,533 --> 00:18:09,900
-[chuckles]
-[GG] You know, like,
I'll always be there
455
00:18:09,900 --> 00:18:11,433
-to protect him.
-Yeah.
456
00:18:12,634 --> 00:18:17,166
And when he passed,
that feeling came back on me
457
00:18:17,166 --> 00:18:21,266
that I failed.
You feel like you're here
458
00:18:21,266 --> 00:18:25,166
to protect your child
from any and everything.
459
00:18:26,166 --> 00:18:28,939
And when something happens
and you can't or you don't,
460
00:18:28,939 --> 00:18:32,100
And when something happens
and you can't or you don't,
461
00:18:32,100 --> 00:18:34,734
it just leaves you
with a helpless feeling.
462
00:18:35,734 --> 00:18:38,734
Being 16 and a motherwas hard.
463
00:18:38,734 --> 00:18:41,467
I don't know
to be a mother,
I'm a child.
464
00:18:41,467 --> 00:18:44,900
My mother took care of Chris,
465
00:18:44,900 --> 00:18:48,867
so that baby
was born into a life
466
00:18:48,867 --> 00:18:52,900
where he never really knew
the love of his mother.
467
00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:55,634
[clicks tongue]
468
00:19:00,066 --> 00:19:02,734
[somber instrumental
music playing]
469
00:19:02,734 --> 00:19:04,100
Aw, you shouldn't
feel that way.
470
00:19:04,100 --> 00:19:06,166
[GG] I know,
but still I do.
471
00:19:06,734 --> 00:19:08,166
[sighs sadly]
472
00:19:08,166 --> 00:19:09,533
-[Amani] Don't, cry.
[chuckles]
-[crying]
473
00:19:10,100 --> 00:19:11,066
It's gonna be all right.
474
00:19:12,367 --> 00:19:13,533
It's gonna be all right.
475
00:19:14,734 --> 00:19:15,800
[upbeat music playing]
476
00:19:18,266 --> 00:19:20,700
[Deon] We're out here
in these Detroit streets.
477
00:19:20,700 --> 00:19:23,266
So, we had a great timecatching up with Amani.
478
00:19:23,266 --> 00:19:24,867
But eventually,
he had to leave
479
00:19:24,867 --> 00:19:26,600
to take his mother
and grandmother home.
480
00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,939
[Karen] So, we're gonna seehim again tomorrow,however, today,
481
00:19:28,939 --> 00:19:29,900
[Karen] So, we're gonna seehim again tomorrow,however, today,
482
00:19:29,900 --> 00:19:34,367
Derrico is insisting
that he take us
one more place.
483
00:19:34,367 --> 00:19:37,166
[Deon] So, who knows
what Motown is?
484
00:19:37,166 --> 00:19:39,367
Is it the thing
you could record music?
485
00:19:39,367 --> 00:19:40,600
[Deon] Yes, correct, Deonee.
486
00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,166
What grooves do you know
that came out of Motown?
487
00:19:43,166 --> 00:19:45,367
Well, I know
the Jackson 5 is one.
488
00:19:45,367 --> 00:19:47,367
And let us say Janet Jackson.
489
00:19:47,367 --> 00:19:48,533
-Uh...
-I think Michael Jackson.
490
00:19:50,100 --> 00:19:51,166
The Supremes.
491
00:19:51,166 --> 00:19:52,100
The Temptations.
492
00:19:52,100 --> 00:19:53,100
Marvin Gaye.
493
00:19:53,100 --> 00:19:54,367
Prince, I think.
494
00:19:54,367 --> 00:19:55,467
Yeah, Prince.
495
00:19:55,467 --> 00:19:57,333
No, I don't...
I don't know.
496
00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:00,467
[laughs]
497
00:20:00,467 --> 00:20:03,000
[Deon] Motown was founded
by Berry Gordy.
498
00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:05,867
It's a part of our fabric
and culture forever.
499
00:20:05,867 --> 00:20:09,867
Motown literally bridged gaps
500
00:20:09,867 --> 00:20:11,634
of racial division.
501
00:20:11,634 --> 00:20:13,533
-That's when we really saw...
-[all exclaiming]
502
00:20:13,533 --> 00:20:15,734
...things take a changeacross the world.
503
00:20:15,734 --> 00:20:18,367
So absolutely,
I had to bring
my children here.
504
00:20:18,367 --> 00:20:22,000
-[GG] I mean,
it looks the same way.
-[Deon] Exact same. It does.
505
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:25,734
It brings back
so many memories.
506
00:20:25,734 --> 00:20:28,533
[Deon] Every song that came
out of here pretty much
507
00:20:28,533 --> 00:20:28,939
was a instant hit.
508
00:20:28,939 --> 00:20:29,734
was a instant hit.
509
00:20:29,734 --> 00:20:31,100
Growing up in Detroit,
510
00:20:31,100 --> 00:20:34,166
GG played music
for every occasion,
511
00:20:34,166 --> 00:20:38,367
and the bulkof those artistswere signed to Motown.
512
00:20:38,367 --> 00:20:43,000
So that was something
that was really big,
you know, for Chris and I.
513
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,867
It... It's hard for me
to even believe
that that time has passed.
514
00:20:45,867 --> 00:20:47,166
-[all cheering]
-Kiss for you.
515
00:20:48,634 --> 00:20:50,000
Kiss for you.
516
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:51,867
[Darian] This right here
is so deep.
517
00:20:51,867 --> 00:20:54,000
[GG] When the Temptations
got Cadillacs...
518
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:55,734
-[laughs]
-...we'd come up here
519
00:20:55,734 --> 00:20:57,700
and stand or sit out there
520
00:20:57,700 --> 00:20:58,939
-in the medium,
just to see 'em.
-[Karen] Wow.
521
00:20:58,939 --> 00:21:00,266
-in the medium,
just to see 'em.
-[Karen] Wow.
522
00:21:00,266 --> 00:21:01,600
-Yeah, it was nice.
-[laughs]
523
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:05,100
And also, my girlfriend,
she ended up
524
00:21:05,100 --> 00:21:08,100
staying with me
in my apartment,
and she asked me one night
525
00:21:08,100 --> 00:21:11,700
if her friend could come over.
"Who is your friend?" I asked.
526
00:21:11,700 --> 00:21:14,367
She said, "Stevie Wonder."
I said, "Shut up!"
527
00:21:14,367 --> 00:21:15,900
[laughs]
528
00:21:15,900 --> 00:21:18,166
But anyway, he spent
the night at my apartment.
529
00:21:18,166 --> 00:21:19,467
Okay.
530
00:21:19,467 --> 00:21:20,433
When he came, I'm like...
531
00:21:22,100 --> 00:21:23,600
"It's him."
532
00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,700
And he spent the night
there with her.
533
00:21:25,700 --> 00:21:28,634
I don't thinkI gave them my bed.
534
00:21:28,634 --> 00:21:28,939
Anything happened in my bed
it was happening with me.
535
00:21:28,939 --> 00:21:31,333
Anything happened in my bed
it was happening with me.
536
00:21:33,734 --> 00:21:34,900
[laughs]
537
00:21:36,100 --> 00:21:38,166
People would come
from all around
538
00:21:38,166 --> 00:21:39,900
and they would stand
on these steps
539
00:21:39,900 --> 00:21:42,734
-and perform.
-[Deon] That's such
a good idea.
540
00:21:42,734 --> 00:21:45,066
-Y'all should perform.
-[all] Yeah.
541
00:21:46,166 --> 00:21:48,266
Seeing Motown inspired me
542
00:21:48,266 --> 00:21:52,066
because, like,
we're actually like, standing
where they were standing.
543
00:21:52,467 --> 00:21:57,467
[all singing]
544
00:21:57,467 --> 00:21:58,939
[Karen] Oh, Berry Gordy
is on the phone.
545
00:21:58,939 --> 00:22:00,100
[Karen] Oh, Berry Gordy
is on the phone.
546
00:22:00,100 --> 00:22:01,734
You hear that too, Berry?
547
00:22:01,734 --> 00:22:04,100
[children singing]
548
00:22:04,100 --> 00:22:05,533
Berry loved it!
549
00:22:05,533 --> 00:22:07,900
[all cheering]
550
00:22:07,900 --> 00:22:10,634
All right, babies.
Let's go, Derricos.
551
00:22:19,100 --> 00:22:22,467
-Welcome
to the smack talking era.
-Yeah.
552
00:22:22,467 --> 00:22:26,467
You know your dad,
he used to mook walk
from class to class.
553
00:22:26,467 --> 00:22:28,939
Have you ever told your kids
about them parties
you used to have?
554
00:22:28,939 --> 00:22:29,367
Have you ever told your kids
about them parties
you used to have?
555
00:22:29,367 --> 00:22:30,967
No. Oh, no!
556
00:22:31,533 --> 00:22:33,634
This is my big brother.
557
00:22:33,634 --> 00:22:36,634
I have not been
to Chris's gravesite
558
00:22:36,634 --> 00:22:38,266
since he passed away.
559
00:22:38,266 --> 00:22:40,600
Well, Chris.
We bring your baby to you.
560
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,166
This is probably,
the most important day
I ever had in my life.
561
00:22:43,166 --> 00:22:44,734
So much I wanna tell you.
562
00:22:45,634 --> 00:22:46,734
[sobs]
563
00:22:54,467 --> 00:22:56,367
[Deon] Almost ready.
I'll just get this shirt on.
564
00:22:56,367 --> 00:22:58,166
Yeah, we're getting ready.
565
00:22:58,166 --> 00:23:00,533
I have a very tight,
tight schedule.
566
00:23:01,867 --> 00:23:04,367
I planned a really fun day
today with Amani.
567
00:23:04,367 --> 00:23:05,734
We're gonna do some painting,
568
00:23:05,734 --> 00:23:09,100
and then we wannago back to the houseand do some hanging out there.
569
00:23:09,100 --> 00:23:11,367
I'm just really
looking forward to this day.
570
00:23:11,367 --> 00:23:13,533
Let's go, let's go, let's go!
571
00:23:17,266 --> 00:23:19,000
What up, nephew?
572
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:19,785
What's up, what's up,
what's up?
573
00:23:19,785 --> 00:23:20,467
What's up, what's up,
what's up?
574
00:23:20,467 --> 00:23:23,634
I'm excited to hang out
with Amani.
575
00:23:23,634 --> 00:23:25,800
What's up? Oh, my gosh.
576
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,166
[Denver speaking]
577
00:23:30,166 --> 00:23:33,533
Come and give your grandmama
a hug after all that here.
578
00:23:33,533 --> 00:23:36,000
[Dior speaking]
579
00:23:38,867 --> 00:23:42,166
-Don't say that.
-Oops!
580
00:23:44,967 --> 00:23:49,367
Did you realize,
I am sitting here
with all my grandchildren
581
00:23:49,367 --> 00:23:49,785
-Definitely.
-And you are a new face...
582
00:23:49,785 --> 00:23:51,800
-Definitely.
-And you are a new face...
583
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,367
-[chuckles]
-...but my grandchild
nonetheless.
584
00:23:54,367 --> 00:23:56,166
Man, I like being
a big cousin.
585
00:23:58,700 --> 00:23:59,800
I hope so.
586
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,000
Listen, 'cause you gonna
take care of me as I get old.
587
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,967
-That means I can expect.
-Oh, yeah. You got me.
588
00:24:05,967 --> 00:24:07,166
Aw!
589
00:24:07,166 --> 00:24:08,734
-That's so sweet.
-[GG] That's sweet.
590
00:24:08,734 --> 00:24:10,166
Definitely.
591
00:24:10,166 --> 00:24:13,533
I am so glad
that he's in our life.
592
00:24:13,533 --> 00:24:17,533
-I, um, just know he's real.
-[chuckles] Man, definitely.
593
00:24:17,533 --> 00:24:19,700
-And he's ours.
-[chuckles]
594
00:24:19,700 --> 00:24:19,785
[Deniko] Who wants
to play hide and seek?
595
00:24:19,785 --> 00:24:21,700
[Deniko] Who wants
to play hide and seek?
596
00:24:21,700 --> 00:24:24,533
-I do!
-One, two, three
597
00:24:24,533 --> 00:24:25,900
[Dariz] Don't peek.
598
00:24:25,900 --> 00:24:27,467
[Amani] I'm havinga great time with the family.
599
00:24:27,467 --> 00:24:30,533
It's very important
to able to bond with,
um, each and everyone.
600
00:24:30,533 --> 00:24:32,367
-What's you name?
-Deniko.
601
00:24:32,367 --> 00:24:33,800
-Huh.
-Deniko.
602
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:34,867
Deniko.
603
00:24:34,867 --> 00:24:36,433
All right.
I like that, man. That's fire.
604
00:24:39,266 --> 00:24:41,367
[Deniko speaking]
605
00:24:46,367 --> 00:24:48,634
I think, like,
it's easy to get
our personalities.
606
00:24:48,634 --> 00:24:49,785
You know our personalities,
like, okay, for instance,
607
00:24:49,785 --> 00:24:51,100
You know our personalities,
like, okay, for instance,
608
00:24:51,100 --> 00:24:53,166
Deonee, she's very prissy.
609
00:24:53,166 --> 00:24:54,967
Like, she likes to be pretty.
610
00:24:54,967 --> 00:24:56,467
All the way up.
611
00:24:56,467 --> 00:24:58,634
[Darian] Daiten's, like,
she's neutral.
612
00:24:58,634 --> 00:25:00,533
You're just learning them
by their personality.
613
00:25:02,166 --> 00:25:03,634
No, I'm not.
614
00:25:03,634 --> 00:25:06,867
[Amani] I definitely feellike I'm making upfor 24 years of lost time.
615
00:25:06,867 --> 00:25:08,166
Feels very good.
616
00:25:08,166 --> 00:25:09,166
So, long do you think
617
00:25:09,166 --> 00:25:11,467
it's gonna take
for you to learn our names.
618
00:25:11,467 --> 00:25:13,467
[Amani] So, I'd say months.
619
00:25:13,467 --> 00:25:15,367
[both laughing]
620
00:25:27,634 --> 00:25:29,367
GG, can we have a sip of that?
621
00:25:29,367 --> 00:25:33,000
-[Daician] Looks good.
-No, missy.
622
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,100
That's for me and my friends.
623
00:25:35,100 --> 00:25:37,467
I'm, uh,
up-and-coming adult though.
624
00:25:37,467 --> 00:25:39,467
[mocks] I'm an upcoming
adult though.
625
00:25:39,467 --> 00:25:40,800
[giggling]
626
00:25:42,100 --> 00:25:43,266
[Deonee] Let's get a sip.
627
00:25:43,266 --> 00:25:45,433
Not even a swig.
628
00:25:46,467 --> 00:25:48,166
-A swig doesn't hurt.
-Yeah.
629
00:25:48,166 --> 00:25:49,785
-A swig, a little swig
doesn't hurt a thing.
-One drop.
630
00:25:49,785 --> 00:25:50,634
-A swig, a little swig
doesn't hurt a thing.
-One drop.
631
00:25:50,634 --> 00:25:51,967
-A little drop
-Just to, like,
632
00:25:51,967 --> 00:25:53,867
stick our tongues out
and just...
633
00:25:54,734 --> 00:25:56,467
Look who I have.
634
00:25:56,467 --> 00:25:58,333
[all] Hey!
635
00:25:58,900 --> 00:26:00,634
[all exclaiming]
636
00:26:02,634 --> 00:26:06,000
When I come to town,
it's important for me
to see my girls.
637
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:07,467
They're just like family,
638
00:26:07,467 --> 00:26:10,367
we have been throughquite a bit together.
639
00:26:10,367 --> 00:26:12,867
Losses, on new beginnings.
640
00:26:12,867 --> 00:26:14,533
We just shared life together.
641
00:26:14,533 --> 00:26:16,533
[Karen] Let's go, girls.
642
00:26:16,533 --> 00:26:18,634
Bye, have fun.
643
00:26:18,634 --> 00:26:19,785
And it's important
that we stay in this frame
with each other.
644
00:26:19,785 --> 00:26:24,000
And it's important
that we stay in this frame
with each other.
645
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,367
All right,
so this is spades, ladies.
646
00:26:26,367 --> 00:26:28,100
Are you ready
for this whooping?
647
00:26:28,100 --> 00:26:30,266
You know,
I'm the baddest thing
they say.
648
00:26:30,266 --> 00:26:32,467
[all laughing]
649
00:26:32,467 --> 00:26:35,367
-We are so happy
that GG is home...
-Yes.
650
00:26:35,367 --> 00:26:37,100
...because we love GG.
651
00:26:37,100 --> 00:26:40,467
[Theresa] Yes,we spiritually connected,and...
652
00:26:40,467 --> 00:26:43,467
just been close ever since
the day that we met.
653
00:26:43,467 --> 00:26:45,467
So, how is everything going?
654
00:26:45,467 --> 00:26:48,166
Everything is good, but, um...
655
00:26:48,166 --> 00:26:49,785
when I get back home
I gotta do some stuff.
656
00:26:49,785 --> 00:26:52,233
when I get back home
I gotta do some stuff.
657
00:26:54,634 --> 00:26:57,533
-Some stuff.
-[GG] Yeah.
658
00:26:57,533 --> 00:27:02,467
Long story short,
the doctor wants me
to start...
659
00:27:02,467 --> 00:27:04,634
on chemo when I get back home.
660
00:27:04,634 --> 00:27:06,900
Wow! So, how do you feel
about that?
661
00:27:07,967 --> 00:27:10,900
It's not something
I really wanna do.
662
00:27:10,900 --> 00:27:15,166
When I did it the first time,
I was so tired.
663
00:27:15,166 --> 00:27:17,467
Well, it takes a lot
out of you, that's for sure.
664
00:27:17,467 --> 00:27:19,785
That was frightening.
665
00:27:19,785 --> 00:27:19,800
That was frightening.
666
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,900
No, I'm not looking forward
to it.
667
00:27:21,900 --> 00:27:23,867
It's so scary for me.
668
00:27:23,867 --> 00:27:27,467
But when I talkedto the girls that have gonethrough it,
669
00:27:27,467 --> 00:27:29,367
they know the challenges.
670
00:27:29,367 --> 00:27:34,000
So, talking to them may,
you know, give me some word
of inspiration
671
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:38,166
to have me
push forward a little easier
than I'm doing now.
672
00:27:38,166 --> 00:27:39,533
Well, I can understand
how you feel,
673
00:27:39,533 --> 00:27:42,967
but if it helps you,
we have to stay strong
and stay prayed up.
674
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,266
[GG] I do have some good news.
675
00:27:47,266 --> 00:27:49,166
Who does that look like
to you?
676
00:27:52,467 --> 00:27:55,166
-[woman] Chris.
-Who he look like to you?
677
00:27:55,166 --> 00:27:58,367
Chris. Yes, handsome guy.
678
00:27:59,166 --> 00:28:01,467
Oh, my goodness. Oh, yeah.
679
00:28:01,467 --> 00:28:03,533
I knew Chris years ago,
680
00:28:03,533 --> 00:28:06,266
and he felt his mother
was the one.
681
00:28:06,266 --> 00:28:07,967
And she didn't hold
no punches.
682
00:28:07,967 --> 00:28:10,867
That was his word.
"My mamma don't pull
no punches."
683
00:28:11,467 --> 00:28:13,367
That is Chris's son.
684
00:28:13,367 --> 00:28:15,867
-Are you serious?
-Oh, wow.
685
00:28:15,867 --> 00:28:17,700
Chris didn't know about him.
686
00:28:17,700 --> 00:28:19,785
-He live here?
-He lives here.
687
00:28:19,785 --> 00:28:20,100
-He live here?
-He lives here.
688
00:28:20,100 --> 00:28:22,734
-That's a blessing.
-[woman] You got a piece
of Chris here.
689
00:28:24,467 --> 00:28:26,467
[all] Yeah.
690
00:28:26,467 --> 00:28:30,166
And he... yeah.
And then he looks
so much like him, so...
691
00:28:30,166 --> 00:28:34,700
Yep. I had so many regrets
692
00:28:34,700 --> 00:28:37,533
as far as Chris was concerned.
693
00:28:37,533 --> 00:28:41,800
And I have to face
the responsibility
that I played in that.
694
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,867
Even though
you may think you failed,
695
00:28:45,867 --> 00:28:47,266
you really won with him,
696
00:28:47,266 --> 00:28:49,785
because he gave you
a lot of credit,
more than what you think.
697
00:28:49,785 --> 00:28:50,634
because he gave you
a lot of credit,
more than what you think.
698
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:54,166
But you were young.
699
00:28:54,166 --> 00:28:57,900
-Yep.
-[Phyllis] Yeah, we did a lot
of things wrong then.
700
00:28:57,900 --> 00:29:00,867
-We did the best we could.
-[woman] That's right.
701
00:29:00,867 --> 00:29:06,100
I am still so haunted
by the past of... of Chris,
702
00:29:06,100 --> 00:29:09,867
and the things that I feel
that he should've had
and didn't.
703
00:29:11,100 --> 00:29:14,367
I'm gonna take the chemoto heal my body,
704
00:29:14,367 --> 00:29:17,367
but you can't take nothingto heal the past.
705
00:29:18,100 --> 00:29:19,533
[tuts] Yeah.
706
00:29:22,467 --> 00:29:25,533
-[Donna] So it's not easy.
-Just stay strong.
707
00:29:35,266 --> 00:29:36,800
[Deon] What's up, man?
708
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,734
[men greeting]
709
00:29:38,734 --> 00:29:43,367
Meeting Amani has beenso emotional for all of us,especially for GG.
710
00:29:43,367 --> 00:29:44,634
And so, I'm very glad
711
00:29:44,634 --> 00:29:46,000
that in the next couple
of days,
712
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,367
her birthday is coming up,
713
00:29:47,367 --> 00:29:50,166
and we'll be able
to really enjoy ourselves.
714
00:29:50,166 --> 00:29:53,734
And with that being said,
my boys need to be ready.
715
00:29:53,734 --> 00:29:55,166
-What's up, man?
-Hey.
716
00:29:55,166 --> 00:29:57,600
Y'all getting so big.
What's up?
717
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,018
They need the tightest,
taper, haircut out here,
718
00:30:00,018 --> 00:30:01,100
They need the tightest,
taper, haircut out here,
719
00:30:01,100 --> 00:30:05,367
and so, I'm taking themto my long time best friend,Ricky,
720
00:30:05,367 --> 00:30:07,900
who... he and I have known
each other since we was like
12 years old.
721
00:30:07,900 --> 00:30:10,467
-What does it feel like
to be in my barber shop?
-Feels good.
722
00:30:10,467 --> 00:30:12,000
-It feels good.
-[Deon] But I wanna make sure
723
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,734
we don't walk out
with no timmies.
724
00:30:13,734 --> 00:30:16,634
-[chuckles] Hold on, man.
-[all laughing]
725
00:30:16,634 --> 00:30:20,166
You know, in the barber shop
you can't use that word, man.
726
00:30:21,734 --> 00:30:24,867
So, a timmy
is a messed up haircut.
727
00:30:24,867 --> 00:30:29,266
And that's across Detroit.If you tell someonethat they've been timmied,
728
00:30:29,266 --> 00:30:30,018
in a barber shop
that is like fighting words.
729
00:30:30,018 --> 00:30:31,634
in a barber shop
that is like fighting words.
730
00:30:31,634 --> 00:30:34,000
There's no timmies
in there, man.
731
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:38,100
Ricky, actually, saved me
from a severe timmy.
732
00:30:38,100 --> 00:30:41,166
I'm like, "Dawg,
you my barber for life."
733
00:30:41,166 --> 00:30:42,367
So this is their first time
734
00:30:42,367 --> 00:30:44,467
-in a... in a professional
barber chair.
-[Rick] Okay.
735
00:30:44,467 --> 00:30:46,367
-[Edward] Are you serious?
-Yeah. They've been in mine.
736
00:30:46,367 --> 00:30:49,266
Okay, so, what type
of cape do you need, man.
737
00:30:49,266 --> 00:30:51,367
-I want the diamond one.
-[Rick] You want
the diamond one?
738
00:30:51,367 --> 00:30:52,634
Just the bling, bling?
739
00:30:52,634 --> 00:30:54,634
-All right, I got you.
-Yeah, he wants
the bling, bling.
740
00:30:54,634 --> 00:30:57,734
I mean, I still like poppy,
I still like his haircuts,
741
00:30:57,734 --> 00:31:00,018
but this place,
it looks a little bit cooler.
742
00:31:00,018 --> 00:31:00,333
but this place,
it looks a little bit cooler.
743
00:31:04,634 --> 00:31:07,000
I wanted to get my boys
a chance to see
744
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:08,634
the sense of the community
that we had,
745
00:31:08,634 --> 00:31:10,533
like, an African-American
community,
746
00:31:10,533 --> 00:31:12,367
especially
in our barber shops.
747
00:31:12,367 --> 00:31:14,100
-So much is taught there.
-That's right.
748
00:31:14,100 --> 00:31:15,700
-[Deon] Yes.
-[Charles] It build character.
749
00:31:15,700 --> 00:31:16,600
[Deon] Yep.
750
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,266
In the male African-Americancommunity,
751
00:31:18,266 --> 00:31:20,166
the comraderyinside of a barbershop,
752
00:31:20,166 --> 00:31:24,166
it builds like a bondthat we talkabout sports, women,
753
00:31:24,166 --> 00:31:26,500
uh, you talk
about each other.
[chuckles]
754
00:31:26,500 --> 00:31:29,367
Have you ever told your kids
about them parties
you used to have?
755
00:31:29,367 --> 00:31:30,018
-No, Oh, no! Oh, no!
-[kids laughing]
756
00:31:30,018 --> 00:31:32,634
-No, Oh, no! Oh, no!
-[kids laughing]
757
00:31:32,634 --> 00:31:36,634
[Deon] And for the most part,barbers are therapiststo each of their clients.
758
00:31:36,634 --> 00:31:39,266
Going to Ricky's barbershop
was always home for me.
759
00:31:39,266 --> 00:31:44,000
And now to have my boys,at my barbershop in Detroit,
760
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,800
it just feels
like full circle.
761
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,000
-You know you dad,
he used to moonwalk.
-[Deon] Rick.
762
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,867
-You know what moonwalk is?
-Rick, come on now.
763
00:31:49,867 --> 00:31:52,634
He used to moonwalk
from class to class.
764
00:31:52,634 --> 00:31:54,233
[all laughing]
765
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:55,867
Oh, wow!
766
00:31:55,867 --> 00:31:58,533
[Rick] Man, he had no rhythm.
Can he dance?
767
00:32:01,100 --> 00:32:02,800
[all laughing]
768
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:04,900
-This little knuckle-head.
-Hey!
769
00:32:04,900 --> 00:32:07,100
So, Poppy has one move,
and this is it.
770
00:32:07,100 --> 00:32:08,233
Poppy'll be like this.
771
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,233
[mocks] Get it y'all.
772
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,533
Get it y'all.
773
00:32:15,533 --> 00:32:17,100
[Derrick] That's... that's allhe probably has.
774
00:32:17,100 --> 00:32:18,634
It's like, you do you.
775
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:20,900
[Charles] Check you out.
776
00:32:21,634 --> 00:32:23,266
-That looks fire.
-Yeah.
777
00:32:23,266 --> 00:32:25,100
Poppy, I don't wanna hurt
your feelings,
778
00:32:25,100 --> 00:32:27,166
but it kind of looks
a little bit better
than yours.
779
00:32:27,166 --> 00:32:29,800
-[Rick speaking]
-See that's amateur
smack-talking,
780
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:30,018
because you want the people
you talking smack to,
781
00:32:30,018 --> 00:32:32,100
because you want the people
you talking smack to,
782
00:32:32,100 --> 00:32:34,800
to really feel like,
"Damn, he came for me "
783
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,000
The best thing
about smack-talk
784
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,166
it's to your family,
because it's all true
but it's funny.
785
00:32:40,166 --> 00:32:43,367
-[chuckles]
-Dariz, your head
is slanted down.
786
00:32:43,367 --> 00:32:44,800
Your head goes like this.
787
00:32:45,467 --> 00:32:46,867
[Rick laughing]
788
00:32:46,867 --> 00:32:48,634
You gotta come back, man.
789
00:32:48,634 --> 00:32:49,800
Say something.
790
00:32:54,900 --> 00:32:56,533
[mocks metal detector]
791
00:32:57,734 --> 00:33:00,018
He called you metal detector.
[laughing]
792
00:33:00,018 --> 00:33:00,233
He called you metal detector.
[laughing]
793
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:03,367
That was a good one.
794
00:33:03,367 --> 00:33:05,467
Two of the best smack-talkers,
probably me and Dariz.
795
00:33:05,467 --> 00:33:08,000
I had the best smack-talk
in history.
796
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:09,800
-No, you don't.
-Me and Derrick.
797
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:11,533
I... I say... I say me
and Derrick,
798
00:33:11,533 --> 00:33:12,634
because me and Derrick,
you know, like,
799
00:33:12,634 --> 00:33:15,166
we do a lot of smash-talk
and stuff like that.
800
00:33:15,166 --> 00:33:18,333
-Welcome,
to the smack-talking era.
-[all] Yeah.
801
00:33:24,367 --> 00:33:27,734
[GG] Okay, let's go down here
and check out Chris.
802
00:33:27,734 --> 00:33:30,018
Today, I'm going
to see my son,
Chris's gravesite,
803
00:33:30,018 --> 00:33:32,533
Today, I'm going
to see my son,
Chris's gravesite,
804
00:33:32,533 --> 00:33:35,367
because I want my grandson,Amani,
805
00:33:35,367 --> 00:33:39,634
to see where his father
is laid to rest.
806
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,800
[Deon] This is
Uncle Chris, y'all.
807
00:33:43,533 --> 00:33:46,000
It's my big brother.
808
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:51,367
I have not been
to Chris's gravesite
since he passed away.
809
00:33:51,367 --> 00:33:53,867
So, it's very powerful for me.
810
00:33:54,467 --> 00:33:55,634
[Amani sniffles]
811
00:33:58,266 --> 00:34:00,018
Well, Chris,
we're bringing your baby.
812
00:34:00,018 --> 00:34:00,634
Well, Chris,
we're bringing your baby.
813
00:34:00,634 --> 00:34:03,233
-[GG] Oh, gosh.
-[Deon] Bringing your baby
to you.
814
00:34:06,100 --> 00:34:08,166
[Amani] I just don't know
what to say, you know.
815
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:10,634
So much I wanna tell you.
816
00:34:12,100 --> 00:34:14,166
[Deon] I feel likethis was really God's way
817
00:34:14,166 --> 00:34:16,734
of giving me what I needed
for closure,
818
00:34:16,734 --> 00:34:18,634
because family really means
everything to me.
819
00:34:20,734 --> 00:34:22,433
[both sobbing]
820
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:30,000
[Amani] This is probablythe most important dayI ever had in my life.
821
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:30,018
You know, seeing my dadfor the first time
822
00:34:30,018 --> 00:34:31,700
You know, seeing my dadfor the first time
823
00:34:31,700 --> 00:34:33,800
and meet him like this,you know...
824
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,533
I just was, like,
overwhelming.
825
00:34:37,533 --> 00:34:40,734
[GG] Just know
that you would have been
a real blessing to him.
826
00:34:40,734 --> 00:34:42,900
So, and I'm sure
your tears is coming,
827
00:34:42,900 --> 00:34:45,800
because you didn't get
a chance to meet him.
828
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:49,166
But I think spiritually
he knows you are right here.
829
00:34:49,166 --> 00:34:51,066
-Okay?
-[Amani] Okay.
830
00:34:55,467 --> 00:34:59,634
[GG] Since losing Chris,I'm not sure if I'll be ableto forgive myself or not.
831
00:35:00,166 --> 00:35:02,166
But I can try.
832
00:35:02,166 --> 00:35:06,734
Because in this moment,I see a boythat really needs me.
833
00:35:06,734 --> 00:35:11,734
And, what happens in the past
is in the past,
I can't change it.
834
00:35:13,634 --> 00:35:17,634
But what I know is
he needs his family.
835
00:35:17,634 --> 00:35:19,066
And we're his family.
836
00:35:20,166 --> 00:35:22,166
So, we're gonnabe here for him.
837
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,000
[voice breaking] Yeah.
838
00:35:26,634 --> 00:35:29,533
I'm glad I got to, you know,
come here and see him.
839
00:35:29,533 --> 00:35:30,018
Just being around y'all,
it just... it makes my day,
like, you know.
840
00:35:30,018 --> 00:35:32,634
Just being around y'all,
it just... it makes my day,
like, you know.
841
00:35:33,166 --> 00:35:34,367
-Really?
-Like... Yeah.
842
00:35:34,367 --> 00:35:37,100
It's just like
a whole new energy
and love, so...
843
00:35:37,100 --> 00:35:38,634
I'm so glad you guys are here.
844
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,000
You know seeing my dad's plot,
845
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,166
there's definitelya sense of peace.
846
00:35:44,166 --> 00:35:47,367
I needed it. I don't believe
I could have did it alone.
847
00:35:47,367 --> 00:35:49,867
They definitely was therefor me and I appreciate itso much.
848
00:35:49,867 --> 00:35:51,266
And then, obviously,
just go from here,
849
00:35:51,266 --> 00:35:53,634
and our own memories
and things.
850
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,233
So, I love it.
851
00:35:56,467 --> 00:35:58,734
I had gotten
to the point where,
852
00:35:58,734 --> 00:36:00,018
I didn't really
have to come back
to Detroit no more.
853
00:36:00,018 --> 00:36:01,433
I didn't really
have to come back
to Detroit no more.
854
00:36:02,500 --> 00:36:03,800
Until you.
855
00:36:04,533 --> 00:36:06,867
-Now there's a connection.
-Oh, yeah.
856
00:36:06,867 --> 00:36:08,800
-Thank you so much.
-Yeah.
857
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,467
-[chuckles]
-Yeah. Mmm-hmm.
858
00:36:12,467 --> 00:36:14,967
-Love you, Grandma.
-I love you too.
859
00:36:18,900 --> 00:36:20,600
[Deon] Oh, look at it.
860
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,900
It is our last nightin Detroit,.
861
00:36:22,900 --> 00:36:26,367
So we decided to make
the best birthday ever
for my mother.
862
00:36:26,367 --> 00:36:30,018
Nobody, nowhere,
can feel that void
I have for Chris.
863
00:36:30,018 --> 00:36:31,100
Nobody, nowhere,
can feel that void
I have for Chris.
864
00:36:31,100 --> 00:36:33,967
[Donna] Yeah. Oh, G. Oh.
865
00:36:40,734 --> 00:36:42,266
Oh, look at it.
866
00:36:42,266 --> 00:36:45,266
[Karen]
Celebrating GG's birthday.
867
00:36:45,266 --> 00:36:47,900
[Deon] It is our last nightin Detroit,
868
00:36:47,900 --> 00:36:49,700
and we doing this thing right.
869
00:36:49,700 --> 00:36:51,467
We're on this big,pretty boat,
870
00:36:51,467 --> 00:36:56,100
-celebrating Queen GG's
75th birthday.
-[whooping]
871
00:36:56,100 --> 00:36:59,166
-[gasps] Oh, my goodness.
-Wow!
872
00:37:00,367 --> 00:37:03,100
-[GG] This is so nice.
-[Darian] This is really nice.
873
00:37:03,100 --> 00:37:05,600
[all] Wow!
874
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,361
-[GG] Thank y'all.
-[Karen] It's your birthday,
GG.
875
00:37:07,361 --> 00:37:09,000
-[GG] Thank y'all.
-[Karen] It's your birthday,
GG.
876
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,100
So we decide to invite
all of our family and friends,
877
00:37:12,100 --> 00:37:16,700
so that we can make
the absolute best birthday
ever for my mother.
878
00:37:16,700 --> 00:37:18,266
There he is.
879
00:37:18,266 --> 00:37:20,333
-[chuckles]
-[GG] All right.
880
00:37:21,166 --> 00:37:22,700
[GG] Hey, baby.
881
00:37:22,700 --> 00:37:25,100
-Hi, Stacy.
-Hi, sweetie.
882
00:37:25,100 --> 00:37:26,867
Look so good.
Look at that dress.
883
00:37:26,867 --> 00:37:28,533
It's a big deal being here
at the party,
884
00:37:28,533 --> 00:37:30,266
'cause I missedso many before.
885
00:37:30,266 --> 00:37:32,166
You know, I don't wanna miss
anymore birthdays.
886
00:37:32,166 --> 00:37:33,800
Whatever y'all do,
don't knock him down,
887
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,467
I mean, I won't be able
to get my hug.
888
00:37:35,467 --> 00:37:37,361
Amani is here and I am geeked.
I am absolutely geeked.
[chuckles]
889
00:37:37,361 --> 00:37:40,634
Amani is here and I am geeked.
I am absolutely geeked.
[chuckles]
890
00:37:40,634 --> 00:37:42,600
[kids shouting]
891
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,100
[Deon] My childrenare excited,
892
00:37:44,100 --> 00:37:45,333
that's exciting for me.
893
00:37:47,867 --> 00:37:49,367
[Amani chuckling]
894
00:37:49,367 --> 00:37:51,900
[Deon] My brother,for whatever reasonGod saw fit,
895
00:37:51,900 --> 00:37:54,100
that he shouldn't be here.
896
00:37:54,100 --> 00:37:57,533
But God also said,
"Well, I got something
for you though."
897
00:37:57,533 --> 00:38:02,533
Nobody, nowhere can feel
that void I have for Chris.
898
00:38:02,533 --> 00:38:07,100
Like, I've enjoyed Amani
since he came into my life.
899
00:38:07,100 --> 00:38:07,361
-He's made
a new love spot for me...
-Okay, yeah. Good. Uh-huh.
900
00:38:07,361 --> 00:38:09,734
-He's made
a new love spot for me...
-Okay, yeah. Good. Uh-huh.
901
00:38:09,734 --> 00:38:12,266
...which, I feel like,
902
00:38:12,266 --> 00:38:14,634
-is strengthening me
a little bit.
-That's good, yeah.
903
00:38:15,467 --> 00:38:16,533
[all] Yeah.
904
00:38:18,467 --> 00:38:20,233
[Donna] Oh, G. Oh.
905
00:38:21,367 --> 00:38:23,700
[GG] Amani, he's partof this family.
906
00:38:23,700 --> 00:38:26,266
I mean, that's the reason
for family.
907
00:38:26,266 --> 00:38:29,100
That's the real purpose,
that you know
908
00:38:29,100 --> 00:38:31,533
there's somebody, somewhere
got your back.
909
00:38:31,533 --> 00:38:34,900
And he knows we got his back.
910
00:38:34,900 --> 00:38:37,361
-We love you, G.
-[Phyllis] Yes,
love you forever.
911
00:38:37,361 --> 00:38:38,967
-We love you, G.
-[Phyllis] Yes,
love you forever.
912
00:38:41,634 --> 00:38:44,100
Good evening, everyone.
913
00:38:44,100 --> 00:38:46,367
Thank you, for joining us.
914
00:38:46,367 --> 00:38:50,867
I'm gonna ask the lady
of the hour to please join me
up here.
915
00:38:50,867 --> 00:38:53,734
[Karen] GG, GG, GG.
916
00:38:53,734 --> 00:38:56,533
[all chanting] GG, GG, GG.
917
00:38:56,533 --> 00:38:59,900
I am blessed to be here.
918
00:38:59,900 --> 00:39:02,367
I really love you all,
919
00:39:02,367 --> 00:39:05,100
and I would now like to call,
920
00:39:05,100 --> 00:39:07,361
in birth order,
all my grandchildren.
921
00:39:07,361 --> 00:39:08,100
in birth order,
all my grandchildren.
922
00:39:08,100 --> 00:39:09,634
That mean I go first.
923
00:39:09,634 --> 00:39:13,634
Me, I go on first.
I'm going first.
924
00:39:13,634 --> 00:39:15,734
[all laughing and cheering]
925
00:39:18,867 --> 00:39:20,600
[Darian] It is a little bitof an adjustment
926
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,533
knowing that Amani is now
the oldest grandchild,
927
00:39:23,533 --> 00:39:26,000
because I'm known
for standing up first.
928
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:27,467
-Say hi.
-Hi.
929
00:39:27,467 --> 00:39:29,266
But I'm okay with that.
930
00:39:29,266 --> 00:39:30,867
Got something for you as well.
931
00:39:32,367 --> 00:39:34,367
-[all] Aw!
-Oh, yeah.
932
00:39:34,367 --> 00:39:37,361
-[woman] Aw!
-[Amani] That's my
little baby picture.
933
00:39:37,361 --> 00:39:38,166
-[woman] Aw!
-[Amani] That's my
little baby picture.
934
00:39:40,867 --> 00:39:44,367
I'm feeling so much stronger
since I've been in Detroit.
935
00:39:44,367 --> 00:39:46,800
It's like it gave me
that extra boost
936
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,900
that I need to continue onto what I do.
937
00:39:50,900 --> 00:39:53,000
And I wanna be herefor my grandchildren.
938
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:56,100
I want to get my health right,
939
00:39:56,100 --> 00:39:57,900
come home back to Detroit,
940
00:39:57,900 --> 00:40:00,700
and do some more hugging
and loving on Amani.
941
00:40:00,700 --> 00:40:03,000
Oh, let's dance with Amani.
Come on, let's dance with him.
942
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,000
Oh, oh, oh, oh.
943
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,867
-[Amani] Ey, ey, ey,
-[Karen] Oh, oh, oh.
944
00:40:06,867 --> 00:40:07,361
[laughing]
945
00:40:07,361 --> 00:40:08,333
[laughing]
946
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,467
I enjoyed seeing everybody.
947
00:40:12,467 --> 00:40:15,734
It just gave me
a total sense of love.
948
00:40:15,734 --> 00:40:20,467
-Yeah.
-I've learned not
to take that for granted...
949
00:40:20,467 --> 00:40:21,634
-Right.
-...anymore.
950
00:40:21,634 --> 00:40:22,634
Amen.
951
00:40:22,634 --> 00:40:26,867
It feel so good to seemy mother happy.
952
00:40:26,867 --> 00:40:29,266
She seems to have
a different sense
of appreciation
953
00:40:29,266 --> 00:40:33,900
for this blessed position
that we find ourselves in.
954
00:40:33,900 --> 00:40:36,867
I know Chris would be
honored to know
955
00:40:36,867 --> 00:40:37,361
of you being just who you are,
who you will be
956
00:40:37,361 --> 00:40:40,700
of you being just who you are,
who you will be
957
00:40:40,700 --> 00:40:43,634
-to Amani.
-Well, I'm looking forward
to it.
958
00:40:44,867 --> 00:40:47,166
So am I.
959
00:40:48,367 --> 00:40:51,867
I am so excited for this
new chapter of our life
with Amani,
960
00:40:51,867 --> 00:40:55,734
and I'm ready for her to takethis energy, this energywe feel right now,
961
00:40:55,734 --> 00:41:01,000
all of this love,
and get back to Vegas,
and kick some butt.
962
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:03,100
This has been
a night to remember.
963
00:41:03,100 --> 00:41:04,100
[Amani] It was super lit.
964
00:41:04,100 --> 00:41:06,266
So, babies, did y'all
have fun in Detroit?
965
00:41:06,266 --> 00:41:07,361
[all] Yeah.
966
00:41:07,361 --> 00:41:07,967
[all] Yeah.
967
00:41:10,900 --> 00:41:12,900
-Bye.
-Love you.
968
00:41:13,266 --> 00:41:14,800
Muah!
969
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,533
Thank you, Detroit!
970
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:22,166
[Karen] What grade are you in?
971
00:41:23,867 --> 00:41:26,634
[Darian] Next time,on Doubling Down
with the Derricos.
972
00:41:26,634 --> 00:41:28,533
[Deon] We are herein GG's house.
973
00:41:28,533 --> 00:41:31,700
There was substantial
water damage.
974
00:41:31,700 --> 00:41:34,533
So everywhere you see tape
is gonna get gutted out.
975
00:41:34,533 --> 00:41:37,100
You and Eric can come
to stay with us.
976
00:41:37,100 --> 00:41:37,361
Deon's insisting
that I stay with them.
977
00:41:37,361 --> 00:41:39,634
Deon's insisting
that I stay with them.
978
00:41:39,634 --> 00:41:43,867
I just never like being
a burden to nothing
and nobody.
979
00:41:43,867 --> 00:41:45,166
Oh, no.
980
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,634
So what do y'all wanna do
for y'all birthday.
981
00:41:48,634 --> 00:41:50,900
I want to get my nails done,
I wanna get my makeup done.
982
00:41:50,900 --> 00:41:52,800
Then I want them
to get their nails done.
983
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,100
That's too girly.
984
00:41:54,100 --> 00:41:55,100
Ooh!
985
00:41:55,100 --> 00:41:58,166
I'm so glad she's cutting
these toes on him.
986
00:41:58,166 --> 00:41:59,734
Deniko's feet be stinking.
987
00:41:59,734 --> 00:42:02,867
Your feet literally look
like dog crust.
988
00:42:02,867 --> 00:42:04,867
[giggles]
989
00:42:04,867 --> 00:42:06,900
-This morning I went for labs.
-[Deon] Yeah.
990
00:42:06,900 --> 00:42:07,361
Yeah, my white blood cells
are low.
991
00:42:07,361 --> 00:42:09,634
Yeah, my white blood cells
are low.
992
00:42:09,634 --> 00:42:11,734
And they said,
they're very low.
993
00:42:11,734 --> 00:42:14,734
[Deon] A simple coldcould really make her sick.
994
00:42:14,734 --> 00:42:15,734
She can't be around people.
995
00:42:15,734 --> 00:42:17,634
She can't technically be
around us.
996
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:19,367
Yep.
997
00:42:19,367 --> 00:42:22,533
[Deon] I'm going to bea absolute wreck
998
00:42:22,533 --> 00:42:24,367
if anything happens
to my mother.
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