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♪ ♪
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Man: Did you know that one out
of two marriages end in divorce?
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One out of every two marriages,
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50 percent of people
get divorced.
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- Yeah?
- Where?
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I don’t--
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In the United States of America.
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It does not exist anywhere else.
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It exists but not the way
it exists here.
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It’s so easy.
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- They have an argument--
- Yeah.
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- --"Let’s get divorced."
- Yeah.
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It’s ridiculous.
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- Work it out.
- They split, that’s it.
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We did work out for 65 years.
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- Woman: No regrets
- No regret.
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- No regret.
- No regret.
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♪ ♪
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♪ I like the way you look at me
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♪ Your pretty, pretty eyes
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♪ I like the way you love me
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♪ And not the other guys
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♪ I like the way
you hold my hand
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♪ The way you make me understan
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♪ The way you tell me
that you love me
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♪ As I love you
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♪ I like the way you look
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♪ And I could write a book
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♪ About your little loving ways
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♪ And in a little while
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♪ You give a little smile
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♪ That will last
for days and days
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♪ I like the way
you hold my hand
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♪ The way you make me understan
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♪ The way you tell me
that you love me
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♪ As I love you
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- ♪ The stars at night
- ♪ They are so bright
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- ♪ They shine so bright
- ♪ They’re so bright
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♪ Lean on me ♪
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This is my darling for life.
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We are married 45 years,
and this is my darling for life.
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What about you?
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Say something.
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♪ As I love you
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- ♪ The stars at night
- ♪ They are so bright
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- ♪ They shine so bright
- ♪ They’re so bright ♪
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[light traffic]
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Susie: 65, 65 years
is your anniversary this year.
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Open it for me
and read it for me, darling.
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Okay, Mom.
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"You’re loving and supportive,
strong and courageous,
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smart and caring.
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I could go on and on,
but it all comes down to this:
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You’re an amazing woman."
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- Oh, my Popi.
- Nani: Am I like this?
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- Oh, oh, oh.
- Woman: Kiss him.
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- Man: Kiss him.
- Oh, oh, oh.
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Woman: That’s so cute.
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♪ ♪
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Popi: I was born in Poland
in a small town,
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like 10,000 people.
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♪ ♪
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Nani: Before the war,
I was a teenager, very happy.
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I was belonging
to a Yiddish organization,
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and I met Popi there.
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He wasn’t from the same town,
but he was not far away.
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He was writing letter to me,
poems, you know, Polish
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and Yiddish,
wonderful letters.
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♪ ♪
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Popi: We were corresponding
to each other quite a lot
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until the war broke out.
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♪ ♪
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♪ [lyrics in Yiddish] ♪
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Susie: My mom and dad, you know,
they will outlive us all.
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At 95 they sing
at night together,
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they sing
all their Jewish songs,
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and they
get along beautifully.
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And I know
that when one of them--
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--decides to leave the earth the
next one will go the next day
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because they are two peas
in a pod.
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- Woman: Oh, you left a--
- [laughter]
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This is my love,
love of my life.
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Popi: Yippee.
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♪ ♪
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Popi: After the war,
I was in a camp with my sister.
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There was a girl
from Rudy’s hometown.
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And she said to me, "Do you know
Rudy is looking for you?"
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So I send her a telegram,
"I’m coming."
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Nani: And he was so happy
that he found me.
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He asked me mom to give me
permission to marry him
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because he’s so excited
that he loved me
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and he wants to marry me.
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He got papers from his family,
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papers that he can come
to United States.
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Susie came first.
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Lili came second.
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We lived ever happy again.
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That’s the story.
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Lili: Yes, that’s one story
that we know.
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And then came another story,
a different story about Dad.
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What?
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Lili: About Dad--and Dad,
Dad--what did you tell me
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about Dad recently?
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I don’t know; Susie told you.
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Lili: You did.
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You told me.
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- I did?
- Lili: Yes, you did.
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You did.
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- I can’t talk about that.
- Lili: Okay.
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But this is the thing--
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I don’t want
to talk about that.
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Lili: You don’t want to talk
about that?
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Man: No way.
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Man: Happiness.
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[coughs]
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Okay.
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This is the most
painful testimony
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I will--I’m willing to reveal
you about my life.
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In the early age, I discovered
that I am loving...
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Males.
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At that time in my life,
to be gay was a crime
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and condemned to choose
either to commit suicide
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or to live in a closet.
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I decided to live.
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Cameron: It was a weird thing.
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My sister Ashley
and I--I always joked with her
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that Popi was gay
in a past life.
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But then it was confusing
because he’s married to Nani
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and they always seemed so
in love--
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--and attracting to each other,
and kissing, and playful.
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They were really good,
um, actors, I guess,
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because that wasn’t the case.
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[laughter]
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Man: All right, Let me start
right here with you.
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What do you think she said?
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[laughter]
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[laughter]
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- Dr. Pepper.
- Dr. Pepper, that is correct.
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[applause]
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Popi: I decided
to live--not to live,
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to exist in a world
that did not understand
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or approve human nature.
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♪ ♪
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I didn’t make it.
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I was born like that.
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That was the mistake
I made in my life at that time.
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But I had no choice.
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That was the way
the world dictated.
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Either you live or you die.
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♪ ♪
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For 90 years I was in pain
and still am.
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♪ ♪
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Popi: Why should I take it
to my grave?
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I want you to know the way
I feel and who I am.
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You don’t know
because I never talked about it
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and I never let you know or feel
what is going on in my heart.
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Never.
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Until now.
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♪ ♪
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Cameron: They to us were
an example of, like,
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this amazing relationship
between a man and a woman,
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because for us,
they’ve been together
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the longest we’ve known
of anybody else.
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They have an amazing family.
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They had this business.
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They lived this life that from
the outside looked really great
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and something that we would
aspire to have.
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And then it was hard
because we thought,
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"Oh my God, it’s all a lie.
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What does it mean?"
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♪ ♪
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I was just going to say
about Popi--
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it’s very strange now,
because now when I go see Dad--
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--it’s like,
"Okay, you’re my dad,
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but now I know there’s a whole
life that I don’t know about."
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And it’s like, "Who are you?
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Who are you really?"
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Popi: Who I am, I am.
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Nani: Why did you marry me?
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Popi: Because I was stupid
and young and I was afraid.
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That’s why.
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Do you understand now?
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I understand.
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Popi: Why didn’t you look for
somebody else if you knew that?
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I didn’t know at that time.
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- Popi: Oh, you knew that.
- Nani: No.
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You can’t bring
those--those years back.
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They’re gone.
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Nani: You put up my life.
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You did.
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You shouldn’t have done that.
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- Popi: No, I shouldn’t.
- No.
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Popi: I blame myself, I know.
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What do you want me,
to commit suicide
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because I did the wrong thing?
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What do you want me to do?
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Nani: I could do the same thing.
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So do it.
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- Who doesn’t let you?
- Nani: What’s my life?
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- What’s my life?
- Popi: What’s my life?
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- What’s my life?
- I don’t have a husband.
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Popi: And I don’t have a wife.
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You made my life
miserable already.
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Popi: So did you.
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Susie: There’s a problem
that we didn’t really anticipate
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with Dad coming out,
is Mom and Dad’s relationship
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and how Mom is dealing
with all of this.
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And I think that we’re giving
a lot--with Dad,
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a lot of attention for his
needs, which he deserves
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because he’s been suppressed
for so many years.
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But it doesn’t just affect him,
because they’ve been one person
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for many years;
it affects Mom as well.
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And also realizing why I was not
that close with her growing up,
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and that Dad was the one
that I could talk to,
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that he was always the one that
I would go to with my problems.
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Well, Mom probably was so
suppressed with her having
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to stuff this information,
that she maybe was afraid
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to get too close to us,
or wasn’t getting the love
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she needed from Dad
and didn’t know
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how to give it back.
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♪ ♪
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Susie: My feeling about her is,
you know,
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she would have gone to her
grave not speaking about this.
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And she wanted to,
go to her grave.
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♪ ♪
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Nani: Life is cruel, you know?
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Life is wonderful,
but sometimes very cruel.
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♪ ♪
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Nani: My life was painful,
very painful.
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♪ ♪
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He loved the children,
he loved myself,
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but he loved me as a brother,
not as a husband.
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I sacrificed very much.
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None of my friends knew.
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We didn’t talk about it
to nobody.
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We just stuck together
and lived together until today.
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That’s it.
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♪ ♪
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Nani: I--I was [indiscernible]
all those years.
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I couldn’t do the other way.
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I just had two children.
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I want them to have
their father,
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so we stuck together, that’s it.
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Now at this point, we are 95,
we love each other,
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and we live together
you know how many years?
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65 years I live like that.
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♪ ♪
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Woman: My question is, how are
we going to have it where
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the two of you
are going to get along--
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--for the rest of your life now?
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What are we going to do?
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How are we going to--how are we
going to--
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--how are we going to
work this out?
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How are we going to work it out?
255
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I can’t hear.
256
00:15:38,738 --> 00:15:40,573
Lili: How are we going to work
it out that you get along
257
00:15:40,606 --> 00:15:41,607
with Daddy?
258
00:15:43,109 --> 00:15:45,645
- You know Daddy’s gay, right?
- Nani: Yeah.
259
00:15:46,078 --> 00:15:48,147
- You know he’s gay?
- Nani: Yeah.
260
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So what do you think of that?
261
00:15:49,549 --> 00:15:50,617
Nani: Come here and talk.
262
00:15:50,650 --> 00:15:54,420
Are you going to let Daddy
be who he is?
263
00:15:55,888 --> 00:15:57,256
Nani: I love this man.
264
00:15:57,290 --> 00:15:58,825
He is my life.
265
00:15:58,858 --> 00:16:01,494
We know each other
since children.
266
00:16:01,527 --> 00:16:02,862
Can you imagine?
267
00:16:06,399 --> 00:16:09,936
There’s nobody for me exist
except my husband.
268
00:16:09,969 --> 00:16:12,905
- Yes.
- Nani: That’s my problem.
269
00:16:12,939 --> 00:16:14,007
Yes.
270
00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:17,110
Lili: Daddy is not happy.
271
00:16:17,143 --> 00:16:19,412
- Nani: Huh?
- Lili: He’s not happy.
272
00:16:19,445 --> 00:16:20,646
So what can I do?
273
00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,048
I’m not happy either.
274
00:16:22,081 --> 00:16:23,215
So what can I do?
275
00:16:23,683 --> 00:16:26,853
We live together
and we will die together.
276
00:16:26,886 --> 00:16:27,887
Lili: Okay, wait.
277
00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:31,524
So if you’re not--you know
he’s not happy
278
00:16:31,557 --> 00:16:36,929
and you say you’re not happy,
how can you become happy?
279
00:16:37,864 --> 00:16:41,034
Maybe you should live in two
separate apartments next door
280
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to each other.
281
00:16:42,468 --> 00:16:43,803
What?
282
00:16:43,836 --> 00:16:45,004
Never in my life.
283
00:16:46,572 --> 00:16:48,974
- I don’t want that.
- Lili: Why?
284
00:16:49,008 --> 00:16:51,611
- Separate apartments?
- Lili: Next door.
285
00:16:51,644 --> 00:16:52,578
No.
286
00:16:54,380 --> 00:16:57,550
Would you like to live separate
from me?
287
00:16:57,583 --> 00:16:59,885
- Huh?
- Would you?
288
00:16:59,919 --> 00:17:02,722
- What?
- Would you?
289
00:17:02,755 --> 00:17:05,625
- No!
- So, what’s the use?
290
00:17:07,226 --> 00:17:10,529
Nani: Listen,
but if I want to, would you?
291
00:17:10,563 --> 00:17:11,497
Yes.
292
00:17:12,164 --> 00:17:13,432
Nani: You would live separate
from me?
293
00:17:13,466 --> 00:17:15,635
- Mm hmm.
- Nani: Oh my God.
294
00:17:17,570 --> 00:17:18,805
I can’t believe that.
295
00:17:21,207 --> 00:17:27,213
You know what, if you tell me
that, you know what I would do?
296
00:17:27,914 --> 00:17:29,048
There’s a window.
297
00:17:29,081 --> 00:17:30,816
See that window?
298
00:17:31,617 --> 00:17:33,486
I would--I would do that.
299
00:17:33,853 --> 00:17:34,854
I will.
300
00:17:34,887 --> 00:17:36,889
Popi: That window
is not big enough to jump.
301
00:17:39,992 --> 00:17:40,993
[sighs]
302
00:17:42,995 --> 00:17:46,565
♪ ♪
303
00:17:46,599 --> 00:17:48,835
Susie: My parents are glued
at the hip.
304
00:17:48,868 --> 00:17:51,471
And I really blame that
on my dad
305
00:17:51,504 --> 00:17:56,175
because he literally trained
my mother to be with him 24/7.
306
00:17:56,976 --> 00:17:58,110
They had one car.
307
00:17:58,144 --> 00:17:59,312
He drove her to work.
308
00:17:59,345 --> 00:18:01,547
He didn’t give her driving
lessons when she was younger.
309
00:18:01,581 --> 00:18:02,649
They shopped together.
310
00:18:02,682 --> 00:18:03,816
They cooked together.
311
00:18:03,849 --> 00:18:05,150
She never had her on chequebook.
312
00:18:05,184 --> 00:18:07,787
She didn’t even own a key
to the front door.
313
00:18:07,820 --> 00:18:09,955
What does she need a key for
if she was with my father
314
00:18:09,989 --> 00:18:12,058
all the time
and he had a key?
315
00:18:13,726 --> 00:18:16,128
Their life was their business
and their family.
316
00:18:17,263 --> 00:18:22,902
So Dad actually created
his own catastrophe,
317
00:18:22,935 --> 00:18:25,171
if you want to call it,
of them being codependent
318
00:18:25,204 --> 00:18:26,272
on each other.
319
00:18:27,873 --> 00:18:28,974
Popi: I can’t.
320
00:18:29,508 --> 00:18:30,576
I can’t.
321
00:18:31,310 --> 00:18:32,978
I go on the street.
322
00:18:34,013 --> 00:18:35,681
I go on the street.
323
00:18:36,048 --> 00:18:39,718
So, Daddy, you’re 95
and you’re getting divorced?
324
00:18:39,752 --> 00:18:40,786
Hmm?
325
00:18:42,054 --> 00:18:45,958
At 95 that’s when you’re decide
together get a divorce, at 95?
326
00:18:45,992 --> 00:18:47,627
- Yeah.
- Yeah?
327
00:18:48,861 --> 00:18:52,064
How many years
can you take that?
328
00:18:52,965 --> 00:18:56,469
Lili, how many years
can you take that?
329
00:18:57,036 --> 00:19:02,441
Be a prisoner how many times,
how many years?
330
00:19:03,242 --> 00:19:04,443
A hundred?
331
00:19:04,944 --> 00:19:07,980
- Lili: Why do you--
- I don’t want a hundred.
332
00:19:09,749 --> 00:19:16,723
This is just a very outrageous
situation at this point.
333
00:19:18,057 --> 00:19:19,025
It’s crazy.
334
00:19:19,058 --> 00:19:21,160
It’s--it’s crazy.
335
00:19:21,193 --> 00:19:25,964
I just want to make
both of them happy.
336
00:19:27,333 --> 00:19:28,701
I want them both to be happy.
337
00:19:29,402 --> 00:19:31,404
Making my mom happy,
that’s going to be challenging,
338
00:19:31,437 --> 00:19:35,975
but the good news and bad news
and the bittersweet of it is,
339
00:19:36,008 --> 00:19:38,077
is that she has dementia.
340
00:19:38,744 --> 00:19:42,047
So, maybe she’ll remember
a little bit of it
341
00:19:42,081 --> 00:19:48,354
and maybe she will, uh--she’ll
happily forget.
342
00:19:49,055 --> 00:19:57,697
♪ ♪
343
00:20:00,366 --> 00:20:07,373
♪ ♪
344
00:20:08,340 --> 00:20:10,209
Brandon: Yeah, Popi made
all these pictures for you.
345
00:20:10,676 --> 00:20:11,944
They’re beautiful.
346
00:20:11,977 --> 00:20:14,780
He painted
all those pictures for you.
347
00:20:15,548 --> 00:20:20,153
♪ ♪
348
00:20:20,386 --> 00:20:22,755
Popi: You think,
"Okay, I’ll get married.
349
00:20:22,788 --> 00:20:24,723
If I don’t like it,
I’ll divorce."
350
00:20:24,757 --> 00:20:27,827
♪ ♪
351
00:20:27,860 --> 00:20:31,764
Popi: In the years we lived,
there was no choice.
352
00:20:32,164 --> 00:20:35,834
♪ ♪
353
00:20:36,102 --> 00:20:38,538
Popi: You know how
she found out?
354
00:20:39,138 --> 00:20:44,610
I had a lover, and I was going
every night to see him.
355
00:20:47,113 --> 00:20:51,017
I used to tell her
that I’m going to the bathhouse,
356
00:20:51,050 --> 00:20:54,887
you know, to take a steam
and all that.
357
00:20:55,254 --> 00:20:57,923
♪ ♪
358
00:20:58,224 --> 00:21:02,328
Popi: So she called up the place
and wanted to talk to me,
359
00:21:02,361 --> 00:21:04,430
and they said, "He is not here.
360
00:21:04,463 --> 00:21:05,864
He never was here today."
361
00:21:07,833 --> 00:21:09,068
That was it.
362
00:21:10,035 --> 00:21:11,470
And I come home.
363
00:21:11,504 --> 00:21:14,073
She said,
"Where in the world were you?"
364
00:21:14,306 --> 00:21:16,575
♪ ♪
365
00:21:16,609 --> 00:21:18,644
Popi: You can imagine
how she reacted.
366
00:21:18,677 --> 00:21:22,414
♪ ♪
367
00:21:22,448 --> 00:21:24,917
Popi: She was walking
on the freeway.
368
00:21:24,950 --> 00:21:26,485
She wanted to commit suicide.
369
00:21:30,156 --> 00:21:34,260
At that time, she was born in
and raised like that.
370
00:21:35,861 --> 00:21:38,197
Keep it together no matter what.
371
00:21:39,965 --> 00:21:43,435
She just couldn’t accept that.
372
00:21:44,503 --> 00:21:48,474
And she was sorry
that it did happen to her.
373
00:21:49,408 --> 00:21:52,912
She could have anyone
when she was single.
374
00:21:55,347 --> 00:21:57,082
Would you take that?
375
00:21:57,983 --> 00:21:59,451
Would you live like that?
376
00:21:59,485 --> 00:22:00,519
No.
377
00:22:00,553 --> 00:22:02,088
Nobody would.
378
00:22:02,521 --> 00:22:07,459
♪ ♪
379
00:22:17,102 --> 00:22:18,370
Tripp Mills: There’s the man.
380
00:22:18,404 --> 00:22:19,972
You don’t have to get up.
381
00:22:20,005 --> 00:22:21,240
Just saying hi.
382
00:22:21,273 --> 00:22:22,341
Popi: Oh.
383
00:22:23,442 --> 00:22:25,711
[Popi laughs]
384
00:22:31,383 --> 00:22:34,386
[Popi’s muffled comments]
385
00:22:38,157 --> 00:22:41,027
Lili: Let’s say Mom--let’s say
Mom passed away.
386
00:22:41,493 --> 00:22:45,163
Let’s just say, for pretend,
right?
387
00:22:45,197 --> 00:22:47,032
Would you live with a man?
388
00:22:47,967 --> 00:22:49,168
Of course I would.
389
00:22:51,103 --> 00:22:54,306
Even now if she is alive,
it doesn’t matter.
390
00:22:54,874 --> 00:22:57,844
Lili: Oh, so you would like
to live with a man now?
391
00:22:57,877 --> 00:22:59,645
Yeah.
392
00:22:59,678 --> 00:23:00,646
Lili: Okay.
393
00:23:01,847 --> 00:23:03,782
You said you wanted to meet
somebody, right?
394
00:23:03,816 --> 00:23:06,419
Isn’t that what you told me?
395
00:23:06,452 --> 00:23:08,321
- Popi: Mm hmm.
- Meet another guy.
396
00:23:08,354 --> 00:23:13,159
Lili: Well, you know, why can’t
you have a couple guys now?
397
00:23:14,193 --> 00:23:15,528
I don’t know
if you have to be--
398
00:23:15,561 --> 00:23:17,129
Well, I can have a dozen even.
399
00:23:18,297 --> 00:23:19,899
[laughs]
400
00:23:20,099 --> 00:23:23,502
She said, "Why can’t you
have a couple guys?"
401
00:23:23,535 --> 00:23:25,670
And I said,
"I can have a dozen."
402
00:23:26,438 --> 00:23:28,440
- [laughter]
- Sounds good to me.
403
00:23:28,641 --> 00:23:30,643
[laughter]
404
00:23:31,343 --> 00:23:33,912
I remember meeting you
and you were really excited
405
00:23:33,946 --> 00:23:36,482
about the prom
that we have in June
406
00:23:36,515 --> 00:23:37,850
because we have the senior prom
in June.
407
00:23:37,883 --> 00:23:39,084
Popi: Yeah.
408
00:23:39,118 --> 00:23:41,153
Tripp: Are you going to try
to make it for the prom or what?
409
00:23:42,821 --> 00:23:44,256
Are you going to try?
410
00:23:44,290 --> 00:23:46,125
There you go.
411
00:23:46,158 --> 00:23:48,727
- You know me.
- There you go.
412
00:23:48,961 --> 00:23:54,266
♪ ♪
413
00:23:54,300 --> 00:23:57,370
Nani: I was shocked,
I was surprised,
414
00:23:57,403 --> 00:24:01,407
and I was hurting
very much inside.
415
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,810
♪ ♪
416
00:24:05,044 --> 00:24:07,780
Nani: I went to--you know,
I went on the freeway
417
00:24:07,813 --> 00:24:11,283
where cars are going,
and I wanted to go
418
00:24:11,317 --> 00:24:12,618
under the car.
419
00:24:12,918 --> 00:24:16,488
♪ ♪
420
00:24:16,789 --> 00:24:18,524
Nani: He told me everything.
421
00:24:18,557 --> 00:24:21,827
And he says,
"I feel now so sorry.
422
00:24:22,828 --> 00:24:24,229
What did I do to you?
423
00:24:24,463 --> 00:24:26,231
What did I do to you?"
424
00:24:26,498 --> 00:24:32,204
♪ ♪
425
00:24:32,237 --> 00:24:36,274
He says, "You are the most
wonderful person I ever met.
426
00:24:36,742 --> 00:24:38,377
What did I do to you?
427
00:24:38,410 --> 00:24:39,778
I’m so sorry?"
428
00:24:40,446 --> 00:24:44,216
♪ ♪
429
00:24:44,249 --> 00:24:46,585
Popi: She kept it together
and she suffered.
430
00:24:46,618 --> 00:24:50,122
And she still suffers
to this day.
431
00:24:50,155 --> 00:24:53,225
♪ ♪
432
00:24:53,425 --> 00:24:55,661
Popi: And that’s what hurts
the most.
433
00:25:02,301 --> 00:25:03,235
Muah.
434
00:25:04,503 --> 00:25:07,406
Lili: So, Mommy, are you excited
to go back to the Belmont today?
435
00:25:08,807 --> 00:25:10,309
- Yes, very much.
- Yeah.
436
00:25:12,444 --> 00:25:14,346
Taking Mom home today.
437
00:25:14,380 --> 00:25:16,082
It’s a big, big day.
438
00:25:16,448 --> 00:25:17,983
My mother.
439
00:25:18,550 --> 00:25:20,652
On a picture I saw her.
440
00:25:20,686 --> 00:25:22,121
On a picture.
441
00:25:22,154 --> 00:25:24,523
- Where is she?
- Where is she?
442
00:25:24,556 --> 00:25:29,161
She--she’s not here right now.
443
00:25:29,194 --> 00:25:30,696
- No?
- No.
444
00:25:30,729 --> 00:25:33,599
- But she’s okay?
- Of course she’s okay.
445
00:25:36,101 --> 00:25:37,369
Here we go.
446
00:25:37,770 --> 00:25:43,142
Lili: At the Belmont,
we--you’re going
447
00:25:43,175 --> 00:25:48,113
to--I’m going to take you
to your apartment
448
00:25:48,147 --> 00:25:51,951
where they--at the Belmont,
you’re going to get
449
00:25:51,984 --> 00:25:54,420
special physical therapy.
450
00:25:54,453 --> 00:25:57,256
- Ah.
- Okay?
451
00:25:57,289 --> 00:25:58,423
It’s going to be great.
452
00:25:58,457 --> 00:26:00,659
- You’re going to love it.
- Yeah, I’m glad.
453
00:26:00,692 --> 00:26:02,093
I’m glad, Lili.
454
00:26:03,295 --> 00:26:07,666
And Daddy’s going to come visit
you every day.
455
00:26:07,699 --> 00:26:09,467
- Good.
- Every day.
456
00:26:09,501 --> 00:26:11,837
- Good.
- Lili: Is that good?
457
00:26:11,870 --> 00:26:13,872
- Yeah, I love that.
- Lili: Good.
458
00:26:14,506 --> 00:26:16,074
He’s going to come visit you.
459
00:26:16,108 --> 00:26:18,110
But he can’t sleep there.
460
00:26:19,378 --> 00:26:22,314
He can’t sleep in the same room
with you.
461
00:26:22,347 --> 00:26:23,315
I see.
462
00:26:23,348 --> 00:26:28,420
Because you’re getting special,
special care.
463
00:26:29,488 --> 00:26:30,856
- Okay?
- Okay.
464
00:26:30,889 --> 00:26:32,691
- Lili: Is that good?
- Of course.
465
00:26:32,724 --> 00:26:34,059
Yay!
466
00:26:34,093 --> 00:26:35,127
Woo-hoo!
467
00:26:35,928 --> 00:26:37,163
Everything is fantastic.
468
00:26:37,196 --> 00:26:38,197
Hi!
469
00:26:42,701 --> 00:26:46,805
Okay, this is going to be so
much fun.
470
00:26:47,539 --> 00:26:48,907
Ta-da!
471
00:26:49,274 --> 00:26:50,642
Beautiful!
472
00:26:51,710 --> 00:26:54,913
Isn’t it like a little palace,
Mommy?
473
00:26:54,947 --> 00:26:56,549
- Yeah.
- Do you love it?
474
00:26:56,582 --> 00:26:58,117
- I love it.
- Look at this.
475
00:26:58,150 --> 00:27:00,552
- Nani: Sure, I love it.
- Sure, you do.
476
00:27:00,586 --> 00:27:02,822
Mommy, look,
isn’t that beautiful?
477
00:27:02,855 --> 00:27:04,757
- Nani: Yeah.
- Lili: Yes.
478
00:27:04,790 --> 00:27:06,558
And let me turn you around.
479
00:27:06,592 --> 00:27:07,827
Lovely, lovely.
480
00:27:07,860 --> 00:27:10,429
And lookit,
there’s your vanity
481
00:27:10,462 --> 00:27:12,297
where Marisha makes you
look like a beauty queen.
482
00:27:12,898 --> 00:27:15,467
- Look at my mom.
- And there’s your mom.
483
00:27:15,501 --> 00:27:19,038
- Welcome home, Mommy.
- Welcome home, Nani.
484
00:27:19,071 --> 00:27:20,272
Lili: Welcome home.
485
00:27:21,006 --> 00:27:24,510
You should live and be well here
for another hundred years.
486
00:27:25,077 --> 00:27:27,546
- Oh my God.
- [laughter]
487
00:27:27,579 --> 00:27:28,580
Right?
488
00:27:28,881 --> 00:27:30,816
♪ ♪
489
00:27:30,849 --> 00:27:32,984
♪ I’ll tell you right now
490
00:27:34,353 --> 00:27:36,488
♪ The future starts right now
491
00:27:38,157 --> 00:27:40,092
♪ I’ll tell you right now
492
00:27:41,860 --> 00:27:44,930
♪ I’ll tell you it’s all good
493
00:27:45,531 --> 00:27:48,734
♪ I’ll tell you it’s all good
494
00:27:49,234 --> 00:27:52,270
♪ Don’t care
if you’re not like me
495
00:27:52,871 --> 00:27:56,541
♪ I’ll tell you we’re all good
496
00:27:57,776 --> 00:28:01,113
♪ ♪
497
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,549
- Man: Oh yes,
- Hi!
498
00:28:04,216 --> 00:28:11,223
♪ ♪
499
00:28:14,459 --> 00:28:17,395
- ♪ I’ll tell you right now
- ♪ Right now
500
00:28:18,030 --> 00:28:20,065
♪ The future starts right now
501
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:24,470
- ♪ I’ll tell you right now
- ♪ Right now
502
00:28:25,337 --> 00:28:28,440
♪ I’ll tell you it’s all good
503
00:28:29,074 --> 00:28:32,110
♪ I’ll tell you it’s all good
504
00:28:32,711 --> 00:28:35,581
♪ Don’t care
if you’re not like me ♪
505
00:28:36,481 --> 00:28:38,516
♪ ♪
506
00:28:39,184 --> 00:28:42,187
♪ [music over speaker] ♪
507
00:28:43,555 --> 00:28:44,489
♪ Watch me now
508
00:28:44,523 --> 00:28:46,125
♪ Hey, work, work
509
00:28:46,525 --> 00:28:53,499
♪ ♪
510
00:28:56,235 --> 00:29:03,175
♪ ♪
511
00:29:06,945 --> 00:29:08,380
- [applause]
- Woman: Thank you.
512
00:29:08,947 --> 00:29:10,449
We hope you’re having
a great evening.
513
00:29:10,482 --> 00:29:13,318
So we’re going to crown
your king and queen.
514
00:29:13,352 --> 00:29:18,424
And the way this works
is that we start with the queen.
515
00:29:18,457 --> 00:29:20,125
We have someone here that is 95.
516
00:29:22,494 --> 00:29:24,796
And it looks like, Roman,
you are our new queen.
517
00:29:24,997 --> 00:29:27,867
[applause]
518
00:29:28,667 --> 00:29:30,903
Woman: Come on up here
and get your crown, honey.
519
00:29:30,936 --> 00:29:32,171
[applause]
520
00:29:32,204 --> 00:29:35,207
Crowd [chanting]: Roman, Roman.
521
00:29:39,444 --> 00:29:42,447
♪ [music over speaker] ♪
522
00:29:48,253 --> 00:29:51,256
[applause]
523
00:29:52,791 --> 00:29:55,694
Crowd [chanting]: Roman, Roman.
524
00:29:56,094 --> 00:29:59,164
♪ ♪
525
00:29:59,197 --> 00:30:00,465
Woman: Jesse,
will you do the honours?
526
00:30:00,666 --> 00:30:07,673
♪ ♪
527
00:30:10,842 --> 00:30:17,849
♪ ♪
528
00:30:20,852 --> 00:30:24,489
♪ ♪
529
00:30:25,057 --> 00:30:26,559
Popi: What can I tell you?
530
00:30:26,925 --> 00:30:30,929
♪ ♪
531
00:30:31,163 --> 00:30:38,170
Popi: I wish I could be born 50,
60 years later than I was born.
532
00:30:39,104 --> 00:30:44,843
♪ ♪
533
00:30:45,043 --> 00:30:46,411
Popi: Then I would be free.
534
00:30:49,147 --> 00:30:50,582
Completely free.
535
00:30:51,683 --> 00:30:54,186
♪ ♪
536
00:30:54,553 --> 00:30:55,654
Popi: Like a bird.
537
00:30:56,121 --> 00:31:03,061
♪ ♪
538
00:31:05,764 --> 00:31:10,068
Popi: I would find somebody
and I would fall in love.
539
00:31:10,702 --> 00:31:17,108
♪ ♪
540
00:31:17,609 --> 00:31:18,810
Popi: But it didn’t happen.
541
00:31:22,047 --> 00:31:23,382
It will never happen.
542
00:31:23,415 --> 00:31:28,420
♪ ♪
543
00:31:28,453 --> 00:31:29,654
Popi: It was too late for me.
544
00:31:30,188 --> 00:31:36,761
♪ ♪
545
00:31:44,703 --> 00:31:46,672
Nani, can you hear me?
546
00:31:46,705 --> 00:31:47,839
It’s Brandy.
547
00:31:47,873 --> 00:31:49,041
It’s Brandon.
548
00:31:50,475 --> 00:31:51,643
No, she can’t hear me, huh?
549
00:31:54,913 --> 00:31:56,481
Nani, it’s Brandy.
550
00:31:57,549 --> 00:31:59,084
How are you, babe?
551
00:31:59,117 --> 00:32:00,285
How are you, Nan?
552
00:32:01,186 --> 00:32:05,524
Has it been difficult
to be with Nani like this?
553
00:32:07,292 --> 00:32:09,294
It’s murder.
554
00:32:11,997 --> 00:32:15,300
I would like to see an end
to it.
555
00:32:16,334 --> 00:32:18,069
- An end?
- An end.
556
00:32:18,970 --> 00:32:20,472
Yeah, it’s too much.
557
00:32:21,273 --> 00:32:23,408
- This is life?
- No.
558
00:32:23,442 --> 00:32:28,314
What is it?
559
00:32:28,346 --> 00:32:29,881
Oh, what does she want?
560
00:32:34,019 --> 00:32:35,654
[Nani indecipherable request]
561
00:32:39,991 --> 00:32:41,693
Popi: What, sweetheart?
562
00:32:41,726 --> 00:32:42,994
What, darling?
563
00:32:45,397 --> 00:32:46,665
[kisses]
564
00:32:53,939 --> 00:32:55,741
Popi: Hallelujah.
565
00:32:56,741 --> 00:32:58,476
[Popi singing]
♪ Hallelujah
566
00:32:58,510 --> 00:33:02,948
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah
567
00:33:03,148 --> 00:33:05,684
♪ Hallelujah
568
00:33:06,485 --> 00:33:07,986
♪ Hallelujah
569
00:33:09,087 --> 00:33:10,822
♪ Hallelujah ♪
570
00:33:11,323 --> 00:33:12,324
[Popi laughs]
571
00:33:12,591 --> 00:33:14,059
Popi: It’s nice?
572
00:33:14,092 --> 00:33:15,260
It’s a nice song?
573
00:33:15,961 --> 00:33:17,095
You like it?
574
00:33:17,896 --> 00:33:18,997
Hallelujah.
575
00:33:22,834 --> 00:33:24,936
[whispers] Hallelujah.
576
00:33:27,939 --> 00:33:33,912
♪ [Popi sings in Yiddish]
577
00:33:35,180 --> 00:33:38,316
[Popi singing]
♪ That means I love you so
578
00:33:39,618 --> 00:33:44,623
♪ [Popi sings in Yiddish]
579
00:33:44,656 --> 00:33:47,826
[Popi singing]
♪ That means I love you so
580
00:33:49,427 --> 00:33:55,066
♪ I love you [indiscernible]
581
00:33:55,100 --> 00:33:57,336
♪ Da, da, da, da, da
582
00:33:58,370 --> 00:33:59,872
♪ Da, da, da, da, da
583
00:34:00,939 --> 00:34:03,275
♪ Da, da, da, da, da
584
00:34:03,575 --> 00:34:06,311
♪ Da, da, da, da, da
585
00:34:07,479 --> 00:34:10,282
♪ [Popi sings in Yiddish] ♪
586
00:34:10,515 --> 00:34:12,517
[kissing]
587
00:34:20,191 --> 00:34:21,192
Woman: Oh.
588
00:34:22,661 --> 00:34:26,832
♪ [Popi sings in Yiddish]
589
00:34:27,866 --> 00:34:30,869
[Popi singing]
♪ That means I love you so
590
00:34:31,770 --> 00:34:36,608
♪ [Popi sings in Yiddish]
591
00:34:37,409 --> 00:34:40,879
[Popi singing]
♪ That means I love you so ♪
592
00:34:42,914 --> 00:34:46,217
Popi: She kept
all the family intact.
593
00:34:48,853 --> 00:34:50,888
I wasn’t able to do that.
594
00:34:52,791 --> 00:34:54,059
I wasn’t able.
595
00:34:54,526 --> 00:35:00,332
♪ ♪
596
00:35:00,365 --> 00:35:02,734
Popi: In her suffering,
she did it.
597
00:35:04,002 --> 00:35:06,238
That’s why she’s so admirable.
598
00:35:06,838 --> 00:35:08,273
I admire her.
599
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:12,344
♪ ♪
600
00:35:12,811 --> 00:35:19,184
Popi: I feel she is the most
wonderful person in the world.
601
00:35:21,453 --> 00:35:26,591
Her nature, her behavior,
her love, her everything.
602
00:35:27,993 --> 00:35:31,196
I don’t know of anyone like her.
603
00:35:32,497 --> 00:35:36,901
I don’t, because I can’t picture
any woman
604
00:35:36,935 --> 00:35:39,371
going through
what she went through
605
00:35:39,404 --> 00:35:40,872
and going on.
606
00:35:41,506 --> 00:35:44,876
♪ ♪
607
00:35:45,143 --> 00:35:46,211
Popi: Love is love.
608
00:35:47,612 --> 00:35:52,817
But it does not compare,
it does not--you can’t compare
609
00:35:52,851 --> 00:35:54,820
with family like we have.
610
00:35:55,353 --> 00:35:58,356
♪ ♪
611
00:35:58,890 --> 00:36:00,058
[indistinct chatter]
612
00:36:00,392 --> 00:36:01,860
Oh my God,
look who’s coming!
613
00:36:01,893 --> 00:36:03,628
- Woman: Nani.
- Lili: Oh my God!
614
00:36:03,662 --> 00:36:06,131
- ♪ ♪
- [cheering]
615
00:36:06,364 --> 00:36:08,967
Lili: Mommy, you’re home.
616
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:10,168
Yeah, Mom!
617
00:36:10,368 --> 00:36:12,270
- ♪ ♪
- Lili: Muah!
618
00:36:12,904 --> 00:36:19,911
♪ ♪
619
00:36:24,215 --> 00:36:25,316
Popi: Give me a kiss.
620
00:36:26,718 --> 00:36:33,725
♪ ♪
621
00:36:37,796 --> 00:36:41,266
[Popi singing faintly]
♪ Da, da, da, da, da, da
622
00:36:43,568 --> 00:36:45,136
♪ Da, da
623
00:36:45,870 --> 00:36:47,372
♪ Da, da
624
00:36:48,073 --> 00:36:50,676
♪ Da, da, da, da, da
625
00:36:51,242 --> 00:36:55,246
♪ [Popi sings in Yiddish]
626
00:36:56,114 --> 00:36:58,683
[Popi singing]
♪ That means I love you so
627
00:37:00,385 --> 00:37:03,421
♪ [Popi sings in Yiddish]
628
00:37:05,056 --> 00:37:08,059
- [wind whistles]
- ♪ ♪
629
00:37:09,761 --> 00:37:16,768
♪ ♪
630
00:37:19,370 --> 00:37:26,377
♪ ♪
631
00:37:29,380 --> 00:37:36,387
♪ ♪
632
00:37:39,124 --> 00:37:41,193
♪ ♪
633
00:37:41,226 --> 00:37:42,861
This is my darling for life.
634
00:37:43,895 --> 00:37:49,067
We are married 45 years,
and this is my darling for life.
635
00:37:49,367 --> 00:37:55,206
♪ ♪
636
00:37:55,240 --> 00:38:02,013
Popi: We both had
a very difficult, rough life.
637
00:38:04,682 --> 00:38:10,087
But we coped
through everything amazingly.
638
00:38:13,158 --> 00:38:20,165
Not many people would cope
in life like we both did.
639
00:38:22,267 --> 00:38:25,971
But we did it,
and we are proud of it.
640
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:33,345
We lived 65 years together.
641
00:38:37,215 --> 00:38:39,250
Doesn’t it say something?
642
00:38:41,186 --> 00:38:43,155
Doesn’t it mean anything?
643
00:38:44,155 --> 00:38:51,162
♪ ♪
644
00:38:54,499 --> 00:38:57,502
♪ ♪
645
00:38:59,704 --> 00:39:05,143
♪ ♪
646
00:39:05,343 --> 00:39:09,047
♪ I like the way you look at me
647
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,417
♪ Your pretty, pretty eyes
648
00:39:12,450 --> 00:39:16,154
♪ I like the way you love me
649
00:39:16,187 --> 00:39:17,822
♪ And not the other guys
650
00:39:19,457 --> 00:39:22,560
♪ I like the way
you hold my hand
651
00:39:22,594 --> 00:39:25,797
♪ The way you make me understan
652
00:39:25,830 --> 00:39:29,300
♪ The way you tell me
that you love me
653
00:39:29,334 --> 00:39:31,169
♪ As I love you
654
00:39:33,037 --> 00:39:34,171
♪ I like the way you look
655
00:39:34,205 --> 00:39:36,708
♪ And I could write a book
656
00:39:36,741 --> 00:39:38,610
♪ About your little loving ways
657
00:39:39,544 --> 00:39:41,079
♪ And in a little while
658
00:39:41,112 --> 00:39:42,814
♪ You give a little smile
659
00:39:42,847 --> 00:39:45,483
♪ That’ll last for days and day
660
00:39:46,384 --> 00:39:49,988
♪ I like the way
you hold my hand
661
00:39:50,021 --> 00:39:52,724
♪ The way you make me understan
662
00:39:52,757 --> 00:39:56,394
♪ The way you tell me
that you love me
663
00:39:56,427 --> 00:39:58,829
♪ As I love you ♪
664
00:39:59,864 --> 00:40:02,867
♪ ♪
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