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Great part of our life
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is experienced under a haze of automatic and habitual behavior.
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We spent so much time on the hunt.
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But nothing ever satisfies us enough.
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AUTHOR OF 10% HAPPIER
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And we get so caught up in the hunt that it makes us unhappy.
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And I had everything I ever wanted.
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I had everything I should have.
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Everyone around me said: "You are successful."
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But in fact, I was unhappy.
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There was this ...
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... stark emptiness in my life.
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So I tried to fill that gap as many people do:
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With things ... many things.
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I was filling the void by buying things.
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I was spending money faster than I was earning,
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trying to buy my way to happiness.
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I thought you were going to get there one day.
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After all, happiness had to be
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Somewhere, very close.
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I was living from salary to salary,
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living for a living, living for things.
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But I was not actually living.
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At a time when people from the West
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are enjoying the best standard of living in history,
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Why, at the same time ...
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PHD IN NEUROPHYSIOLOGIST
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... is there so much desire for more?
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I think of it as a kind of delusional desire with biological roots.
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This desire is a good strategy to keep animals alive,
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including the first humans of the story,
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under very adverse conditions.
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But currently, this causes a disconnect.
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You're like a marionette, whose ropes
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should be drawn by the evolution of Mother Nature,
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tens of millions of years ago.
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We still feel restless.
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We are still always looking for more.
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That's why lottery winners are miserable.
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That's why people have garages for three cars.
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The first car generates a wonderful and exponential dose ...
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... of happiness, joy and usefulness.
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The second car comes because we get sick of the first one.
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And, as humans, we were programmed to become dissatisfied.
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It's an addiction, really.
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And we are encouraged to keep addiction
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through technology and information.
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American culture has ...
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CONSULTANT - SUSTAINABLE CLOTHING
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... for the most part, caused this blindness.
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There is definitely this illusion of how our lives should be.
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Whether through advertising, or your Instagram,
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or Facebook feed, it's this illusion
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that our lives should be perfect.
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It is natural to use the lives of other people,
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And even imaginary lives, you know ...
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... the confections we see in advertisements, as a criterion.
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You open a Vanity Fair or Esquire and see
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very sexy and glamorous lives.
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And then the projects for most people seem to become:
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"How can I get that or how close to that will I get?"
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There can be a lot of frustration
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for trying to live that way.
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And many of us see no other alternative to live like this.
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The advertisement polluted ...
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... and infiltrated the culture.
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It's in our movies.
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It's on our television shows.
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It's in our books.
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You are in our doctors' offices.
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You're in the taxis.
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You're in the bar, sitting next to you, the person you're thinking about
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be having a relaxed conversation may have been
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Placed there by a beverage company.
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Hydrate the Rush
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It's been a slow evolution.
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This is not something that just happened yesterday.
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It's something that's been sold to us by the last, let's say, 100 years,
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slowly and always, for those who want to make lots of money.
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That's what I call a nice car.
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They want us to believe that ...
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ENOUGH AUTHOR
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... we need these things.
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With each passing year, there is more encouragement,
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more pressure, more options,
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More media, more noise and noise.
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And by uncomplicating, simplifying and enabling ...
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DIRECTOR AND PHOTOGRAPHER
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... people know they have the option,
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Is this alarm clock that is very valuable
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In a very critical time now.
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My life has reached a point
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where I no longer knew what was important.
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So, at some point as I approached age 30,
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I noticed something different in my best friend.
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In their twenties.
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Josh, he seemed happy for the first time
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in a long time type, really happy, in ecstasy.
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But I did not understand why, because we both worked
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In the same corporation.
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We both spent our twenties climbing the corporate ladder together,
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And he had been as unhappy as I was.
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So I did what any best friend would do.
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I took it to lunch for something really good ...
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I think we went to the Subway. And I sat down with him
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and asked a question.
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Why the hell are you so happy?
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He spent the next 20 minutes talking about something called minimalism.
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Before I discovered minimalism,
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I think my life was like with that of any other person.
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I had many things.
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Hundreds, thousands of books, DVDs, VHS,
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cupboards full of expensive clothes.
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All these things that I had brought into my life without question.
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But when I began to detach myself,
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I began to feel freer, happier, lighter.
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And now, as a minimalist, every thing I have serves a purpose,
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Or brings me joy.
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I have a bed, a chair, and a radio.
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And I have some furniture in my dining room.
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I have some appliances in my kitchen.
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I do not have any excesses.
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Everything I see around
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I have to justify myself, not to anyone else,
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But justify to me: "Does this add value to my life?"
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And if not, I must be willing to undo it.
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Ryan and I just wrote a book about our last five years,
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From those corporate guys in a suit and tie, to minimalists.
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And now we'll hit the road for ten months this year
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And promote this book.
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But in fact pass a message on which we believe,
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A simple message of living more free with less.
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I'm gonna need a jacket.
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We'll see where the journey will take us.
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INTERACTIVE MUSIC FILM
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He then presented it as a 12-minute lecture with 8 minutes of reading.
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-Right. -Yes.
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Cool because only
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I do not want to feel rushed in the lecture, that's all.
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Right.
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CEDO IN THE TURN, JOSHUA AND RYAN PERFORMED A LECTURE IN SOUTH.
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THEY HOPE THAT THAT TAKES THE HISTORY OF THEM TO A LARGEST PUBLIC.
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-Ready? "I was born soon."
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Nice.
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Hello, thank you for coming.
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My name is Ryan Nicodemus and this is Joshua Fields Millburn.
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And together we run a website called theminimalists.com.
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So today, Josh will read something from our book,
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but first let me tell you a story about how
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we become the Minimalists.
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We were never expelled, as long as a person appears ...
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"That's all that matters. -I feel very good.
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We had events where only two people showed up,
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and that was amazing,
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because we had to spend time with two people and add value
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their lives in a different way.
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-I'm an embrace, man. -Right.
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Thanks for coming, man.
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Thanks for coming and attending the lecture, man.
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-Cool. Thank you. -It's our pleasure.
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Did you forget your Kindle and badge in there?
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Yes thanks.
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From the day I was born
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by the second grade, when my parents divorced,
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I had perfect parents.
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When my mother left my father,
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it just got really bad.
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In high school, we had a lot of people at home.
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And then I discovered that they were there smoking crack.
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They produced crack.
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In the eighth grade, SWAT invaded our home,
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and arrested my mother for selling drugs.
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It was the drug that beat my mother.
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Josh had a childhood very similar to mine.
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My first memories of my father
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They are of him erasing a cigarette on my mother's chest.
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Soon after she left my father, she began to drink.
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My greatest fear was to be taken away from her.
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When she was sober, she was a phenomenal mother.
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I think she kind of felt trapped.
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My mother always complained about money.
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She had no money.
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I remember growing poor.
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And I remember thinking when I graduated from high school:
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"I want to start a path that will take me somewhere
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Rather than difficulties. "
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Eight hundred yards, turn left onto San Pedro Drive.
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We're on our way to NPR for a radio interview.
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They are our people. Our demographics.
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How are you ?
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- You're looking for Rick Daniels. -I think so.
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-You are the Minimalists. -Yes, we are.
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How are you ?
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- I'm Scott. - I'm Ryan. I'm a hug, man.
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-Nice to meet you. -Thank you for inviting us.
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Joshua.
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I think the moment I woke up was when I was showing colleagues
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how to sell cell phones to five year olds.
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I thought, "What am I doing?"
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This mentality of achieving a better promotion,
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Get a better house, a better car,
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Get a better salary, be able to pay expensive bills at the bar.
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And to do that he had to sell cell phones to five-year-olds.
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There's a model out there.
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You can call it American Dream,
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Or accompany the Joneses, or whatever.
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It's just a mold. It is not the mold.
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And when we realize this,
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I think we can create our own template that works for us.
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The American Dream has a long history
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which began as a concept that really was more about opportunity.
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The US is a land of opportunity
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where a person can start from the bottom work hard and do well.
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There is no doubt that what it means to have achieved
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Or have achieved the American Dream in the United States
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Has increased tremendously in material terms.
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One hundred thousand dollars or more of income per year
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has become more and more a standard desire
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in society, because that is portrayed
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as normal on TV,
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A six-figure income.
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Beginning around the mid of the 1990s,
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Americans entered a fever of consumerism probably
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unprecedented in the history of mankind.
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AVERAGE DOMESTIC EXPENSES
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And much of this has to do with the cheapness of the products
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originating mainly from China.
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Whether talking about clothes, electronics,
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all kinds of household goods.
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Things are cheaper, but more available.
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Buy yourself 24 hours a day online.
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LIFEEDITED FOUNDER
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There are big stores that sell everything.
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We end up accumulating a lot of things.
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So much so that even if you have
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about three times the space per person
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we used to have in the 50's, so much more space ...
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We have so many things that we need more space than that,
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and then there is a storage industry of 2.2 billion square meters ...
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Which is ridiculous.
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And we have people
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living in huge houses. And if you really repair,
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People do not use the space they have.
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A study was carried out which showed a heat map of, type,
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Where people moved in their homes ...
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DIR.LIFEEDITED COMMUNICATION
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Over a normal day.
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A family of four, in a middle house.
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And what was discovered is that people used, perhaps,
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forty percent of their space.
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No one used the dining room.
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No one uses the living room.
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There was a large balcony.
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Nobody used the balcony.
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You know, I'm not saying that's how everyone lives.
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Some people use dining rooms, but it creates this big void.
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you need to fill, so people play lots of crap in their homes,
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things you do not need.
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We are living our lives
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according to the space we have
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instead of creating our space to fit our life.
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It's so easy to choose wrong, and you're done.
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With three dining tables in the same house.
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ARCHITECT
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Well, you need to run around enough to eat at three tables at once.
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Nothing is more responsible than living in the smallest place you can.
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We probably sell or donate, say, at least 90 percent of our things.
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You can not take all your things to a small house.
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I wasted two hours a day commuting ...
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PLAINTIFF:
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... and then staying in a cubicle, ten to twelve hours a day.
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She had been very fat. I was unhappy.
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And I kept thinking, "What's wrong with me?
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I should be happy. I have all these things.
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A beautiful house, a great husband.
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And Logan was kind of like, "Well,
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you could probably quit your job
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if we simplified and moved to a smaller place.
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And I would say, "What the hell are you talking about?
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I do not want to get rid of my things. "
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I found a video on YouTube, saw the little houses,
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and I was thrilled.
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Hi, Earl.
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What's up, dude?
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I think the most important thing for me, at least at the beginning,
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was the financial side of things.
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When we saw our budget and the values,
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I was like, Let's just try.
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If I loathe the smaller apartment, we can always go for a bigger one. "
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I think there is this element of accessibility,
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simplicity and sustainability that simply does
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small houses look like the perfect solution
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for a problem that we have not yet resolved,
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That is: how are we going to work?
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DESIGNER SMALL HOUSES
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... for our whole life.
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For one to enjoy life with a little work here and there?
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For a long time when people were wanting
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buy the first home, they looked at their budgets
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and said: "How much money do I need to spend?"
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"I have $ 500,000, I will buy what $ 500,000 can buy."
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And the big mistake was that these people
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They did not have $ 500,000.
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They had a loan that guaranteed them that amount.
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And, of course, after a few years of people buying houses
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Who, in fact, were not buying,
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They only hoped to buy it someday,
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The real estate market collapsed.
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We fall 1.7 percent here, a loss of 37 points or more.
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Apple shares are plummeting today.
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We are down three or four percentage points
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On average in these markets.
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Let's talk about speed
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With which we see this market deteriorate.
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It was Wall Street's worst day since the 1987 crisis.
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This may be the worst recession in decades.
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And it means that life, as most Americans know, is about to change.
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In some cases, dramatically.
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I think where that left us,
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On the verge of a recession, it was a great
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to buy a house of their own.
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The vision that really came withLifeEdited
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It's simply, "Hey, I think we need to take a step back here."
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We are basically a company focused on a mission.
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The mission of doing more with less.
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Then the prototype apartment fromLifeEdited
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started with me buying a 40 square meter land in New York
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And launching a very aggressive program.
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What I was wanting was a lot.
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Living at home for a couple, being able to sit down for dinner
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to 10 or 12, to be able to receive guests in a civilized way.
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And be able to work from home with some kind of desk.
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Very quickly, I realized that a small place made a lot more sense
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With respect to the environment, but also made more sense in other respects.
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One of the things we really want to do is design houses based
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in A, how people live, and B, what really matters:
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Creating more social houses, you know, houses that actually
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Approach people from one another.
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It was an incredible experience,
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why change a space of 110 square meters,
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I've never felt more at peace in my life.
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ILLUSTRATOR AND DESIGNER
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There are less things to worry about.
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Our overhead was lower.
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That's when I started saying:
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"You know, thisLifeEdited thing,this philosophy,
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Maybe there's something in it. "
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A beautiful future for us
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would be to do a very good financial development,
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had a much lower cost,
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and had many developers copying what we do.
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So that this spread and we began to change the way we live as Americans
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And change that philosophy of how much bigger, better.
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I think we just started to re-examine the meaning
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To succeed in life.
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But it's not that white fence anymore.
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It's not that McMansion anymore.
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I think people are starting
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to notice that may have fallen into a trap,
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And who may have more control over their options
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Than they thought they had.
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We're sharing a recipe.
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You know, we're not here trying to convert.
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We're not trying to convert anyone to minimalism.
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But I want to share a recipe and see
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if there are ingredients that are valuable for other people,
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to apply these ingredients in their own lives.
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There is this basic dissatisfaction,
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And I think it starts to manifest in our things.
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And what I'm discovering as we travel,
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and we talked to so many people,
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is that everyone is looking for meaning for their lives.
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We're at the Tucson Book Festival.
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We are getting ready, sign some books ...
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and then, shortly after, we will give our talk.
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Dude, look at all these people waiting for us to sign the books.
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Let's stay out here.
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It does not seem like it's us.
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If a person comes,
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So let's go ahead and stay there.
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Right.
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-How are you? -I love your things.
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Thank you. I'm a hug, man. I will hug you.
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Yes, I follow you on Facebook and you will speak on this afternoon.
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What time will it be?
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At 7:00 p.m.
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THEATER GALLAGHER
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Imagine a life with less.
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Less things, less clutter, less stress,
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Debt and dissatisfaction.
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A life with fewer distractions.
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Now imagine a life with more.
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More time, more meaningful relationships,
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More growth, contribution and contentment.
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It's funny because people will surely come to us
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and will speak, like: "I'm not a minimalist like you."
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I have a collection of books and I love books.
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And I have a great, beautiful library and I love the smell of the books.
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I love turning the pages. I love what you make me feel.
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I love lending them to my friends.
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And then talk about them. "
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And I say, "Hey, keep your books."
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"It seems like you value your books a lot."
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And that's what I'd say about any kind of collection.
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If you get a book or whatever, that's fine.
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Just minimize it later.
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But I'd like to get a hug from you too, you know,
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We are big huggers. They are free and transferable.
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Get one of us later.
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I was 27 years old.
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I was director of operations of 150 retail stores.
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It was December 23, 2008,
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I got a call from my mother.
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I emailed because I was in a meeting.
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At 7:00 PM, looking at a flood of e-mails,
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I noticed that I had a lot of voice messages.
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An era of my mother, she was sober for a while,
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But I could tell by the message that she had drunk.
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In her voicemail,
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She simply said, "Honey, it's me."
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Can you call me back?
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She told me the doctors had found something.
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And she discovered that she had stage four lung cancer.
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She underwent chemo and radiotherapy,
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but in stage four, you can not usually escape.
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I went to the hospital. My mother was still in bed.
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It was the first time I cried in my adult life.
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I sobbed wildly.
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I kept saying I was sorry.
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I did not even know at the time why I said that.
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It was simply the only thing I could say.
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I really wanted to spend more time with her.
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"My mother's death still surrounds me.
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And now, in the same month, my six-year marriage ends.
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But even while Rome is burning,
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There is still time for some shopping at IKEA.
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See? When I left the house earlier in the week, loading
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My many belongings in large packages, boxes
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And in giant backpacks, my first impulse
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Was, of course, to buy the things I
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I still needed it for my new home.
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You know, just the basics.
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A shower curtain, towels, a bed, and,
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I need a sofa and a matching leather chair,
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and an armchair, a lamp, a table with chair,
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and another lamp there.
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Of course, I can not forget the shelf
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that matches the small table and the wardrobe for the bedroom.
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I need a coffee table and a couple of small tables,
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and a support for the TV that i still need to buy.
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And now that I think about it,
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I'm going to want my apartment to be my style, you know,
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In my own way.
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So I need certain decorations to decorate everything my way.
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But wait, what is my style anyway?
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And these stainless steel frames
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express this type of style?
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This Matisse sketch replica accurately captures
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my aggressive temper, but professional?
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How aggressive am I exactly?
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What coffee maker defines me as a man?
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The fact that I am doing these questions
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to be a "male man"?
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How many plates, and cups, and saucers does a man have?
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I think I need a dinner table too, right?
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And a mat for the entrance, and a bath mat.
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And that business, that business.
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That looks like a rug, only longer?
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Yes, a mat.
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I'll need one, too.
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And I'm going to need ... Damn, what else do I need? "
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My name is Sam Harris. I am an author and a neuroscientist,
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And I'm interested in how our growing understanding
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About ourselves can scientifically, and should, and really
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Should change our conception
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Of what it means to live a good life.
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Gratifying desires in a very materialistic way
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is really an interesting phenomenon.
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You can have this thing you were obsessed about.
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But then a new version is released,
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which is more modern and has dozens of improvements.
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When it comes to the new, modern,
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the most desired status symbols,
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You can bet consumers will wait long hours in line for one.
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And now you no longer care for what you have.
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In fact, the one you have is source of dissatisfaction.
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I think we are confused about what will make us happy.
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Many people think that material possessions are really
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at the heart of everything,
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and they expect that satisfying every wish as they arise
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will in some way provide a satisfying life for them.
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Faculty of Social Work
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It is clear that, as human beings ...
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PHD. COMPULSIVE ACCUMULATION
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... we have strong attachment initially
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In our lives for the people who are taking care of us.
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And sometimes it seems that this attachment is redirected
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for objects, as if they were as important as people.
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I'm not sure if we have such a good relationship like this.
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With things.
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Give me that box!
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Get off of me!
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Why are you being so aggressive?
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____You are scaring me!
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I was talking with author and sociologist Juliet Schor.
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And I said: "The problem of our society ...
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AUTHOR OFNO IMPACT MAN
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... is to be too materialistic.
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And she actually said that if we think in some ways,
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we are not materialistic enough.
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We are very materialistic in the sense of everyday.
517
00:31:30,020 --> 00:31:32,982
And we are not too materialistic
518
00:31:33,066 --> 00:31:34,650
In the real sense of the word.
519
00:31:34,942 --> 00:31:37,278
We need to be true materialists,
520
00:31:37,363 --> 00:31:39,448
we really care about material goods.
521
00:31:39,990 --> 00:31:44,037
Instead, we are in a world where material goods are
522
00:31:44,245 --> 00:31:46,831
very important for their symbolic meanings,
523
00:31:47,207 --> 00:31:50,461
How they position us in the status system,
524
00:31:50,544 --> 00:31:53,757
Based on what the advertisement or the media says about them.
525
00:31:59,847 --> 00:32:05,729
The status quo in the fashion industry is now driven by short fashion.
526
00:32:06,397 --> 00:32:08,566
Maybe when our moms bought clothes
527
00:32:08,650 --> 00:32:11,361
or our grandparents, there were four seasons in the year.
528
00:32:11,736 --> 00:32:13,239
Or maybe even two.
529
00:32:13,322 --> 00:32:15,241
You are dressed for cold or for warmth.
530
00:32:15,324 --> 00:32:19,204
Now we work on a cycle of 52 stations per year.
531
00:32:28,089 --> 00:32:30,676
They want you to feel out of fashion
532
00:32:30,759 --> 00:32:33,178
Week after week so you can buy something new
533
00:32:33,262 --> 00:32:34,431
next week.
534
00:32:36,099 --> 00:32:37,725
There have even been reports
535
00:32:37,809 --> 00:32:41,772
of great fashion retailers getting rid of all clothing
536
00:32:41,856 --> 00:32:45,444
a week, pricking them with scissors, destroying them,
537
00:32:45,527 --> 00:32:47,404
and leaving everything on the side of the street
538
00:32:47,487 --> 00:32:50,491
so nobody could resell them or even use them.
539
00:32:51,951 --> 00:32:57,040
They want consumers to buy as fast as possible.
540
00:32:59,586 --> 00:33:01,129
The era of short-lived fashion,
541
00:33:01,212 --> 00:33:03,548
In which we produce clothing with abusive work
542
00:33:03,631 --> 00:33:05,259
So that we do not pay the labor cost
543
00:33:05,342 --> 00:33:07,303
and we do not pay the ecological cost
544
00:33:07,386 --> 00:33:09,973
of these things, reduced both the price of clothing
545
00:33:10,056 --> 00:33:13,810
what used clothes practically lost the value.
546
00:33:15,021 --> 00:33:18,107
I like to think rice and beans cost more than used clothing.
547
00:33:18,983 --> 00:33:23,906
In historical terms, it's a world turned inside out.
548
00:33:24,531 --> 00:33:27,160
And this represents the economy
549
00:33:27,243 --> 00:33:31,874
of an extreme and deep unsustainability.
550
00:33:33,250 --> 00:33:37,088
To a scholar of such things, it is breathtaking and terrifying.
551
00:33:39,508 --> 00:33:41,844
The short fashion was what happened to the clothing
552
00:33:41,928 --> 00:33:44,597
and then expanded to the consumer goods sector.
553
00:33:45,349 --> 00:33:47,392
Almost everything from home right now
554
00:33:47,476 --> 00:33:50,396
becomes a fashion object,
555
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:54,484
and this was simply a dramatic transformation.
556
00:33:55,443 --> 00:33:58,322
If you think about the concept of fashion,
557
00:33:58,405 --> 00:34:02,202
It incorporates the idea that you can
558
00:34:02,285 --> 00:34:05,163
throw things away not when they no longer serve,
559
00:34:05,247 --> 00:34:07,083
but when they do not have plus that social value
560
00:34:07,166 --> 00:34:09,377
or are no longer in fashion.
561
00:34:12,005 --> 00:34:14,091
I think people buy because they are ...
562
00:34:14,174 --> 00:34:15,342
AUTHOR OFZEN HABITS
563
00:34:15,425 --> 00:34:17,595
... trying to fill that emptiness within them.
564
00:34:17,679 --> 00:34:19,514
I know this because it was me.
565
00:34:20,431 --> 00:34:22,476
But no matter how many things we buy,
566
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,395
or how many different fads we try,
567
00:34:24,478 --> 00:34:26,648
We do not become a more complete person.
568
00:34:26,731 --> 00:34:27,816
We keep looking.
569
00:34:27,899 --> 00:34:29,693
This hunger is never satiated.
570
00:34:31,111 --> 00:34:33,698
I think the reason is in fact
571
00:34:34,031 --> 00:34:37,119
that you can never have enough of what you really do not want.
572
00:34:37,578 --> 00:34:39,705
In other words, deep down, we really
573
00:34:39,788 --> 00:34:43,001
We do not want more things, more toys, more cars.
574
00:34:43,084 --> 00:34:45,670
We want what they will bring to us.
575
00:34:46,212 --> 00:34:47,756
We want to feel complete.
576
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,842
We want to feel satisfied.
577
00:34:52,512 --> 00:34:56,016
This irrational consumption, the same thing
578
00:34:56,141 --> 00:34:58,728
Which is not making us happy, is also causing
579
00:34:58,811 --> 00:35:00,896
The degradation of our habitat.
580
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:05,444
We can have 350 parts per million carbon dioxide
581
00:35:05,527 --> 00:35:07,196
in the atmosphere.
582
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,116
We are approaching 400 parts per million.
583
00:35:10,408 --> 00:35:13,787
This is being caused by burning oil, natural gas, coal,
584
00:35:13,912 --> 00:35:17,667
of all the fuels we use to fuel our consumer economy,
585
00:35:17,751 --> 00:35:20,462
to feed the industries who do the things we do not need.
586
00:35:21,004 --> 00:35:25,384
This is real, and we really need to do something about it.
587
00:35:26,260 --> 00:35:27,971
We will never be able
588
00:35:28,055 --> 00:35:31,391
To achieve improvements in the environment
589
00:35:31,475 --> 00:35:35,521
That we seek, if we continue to wait for our lives to be the same.
590
00:35:35,647 --> 00:35:37,148
We'll have to give up a lot.
591
00:35:37,231 --> 00:35:38,776
FRENESI BLACK FRIDAY INVADING DURING NIGHT
592
00:35:43,573 --> 00:35:46,201
The secret is that many of these things will not be needed.
593
00:35:55,796 --> 00:35:58,633
About four years ago or more
594
00:35:58,716 --> 00:36:00,176
Who technically have no home,
595
00:36:00,259 --> 00:36:03,179
But I go to new countries and rent apartments,
596
00:36:03,262 --> 00:36:05,974
So it's from house to house.
597
00:36:06,058 --> 00:36:07,559
Or maybe full of houses.
598
00:36:07,643 --> 00:36:10,897
I simply have many houses, not just in one place,
599
00:36:10,980 --> 00:36:13,233
not for long. It's always interesting.
600
00:36:13,316 --> 00:36:15,403
Go on a date or something and need to explain:
601
00:36:15,486 --> 00:36:16,987
"Yes, I do not have a home."
602
00:36:17,905 --> 00:36:19,574
Maybe I should not start with that.
603
00:36:24,539 --> 00:36:27,166
When I began to reduce the number of things in my life,
604
00:36:27,250 --> 00:36:29,086
and started to get rid of basically everything
605
00:36:29,169 --> 00:36:32,214
That did not fit in these bags, I went and took pictures of everything ...
606
00:36:32,339 --> 00:36:33,298
ENTREPRENEUR, TRAVELER IN COMPREHENSIVE TIME
607
00:36:33,382 --> 00:36:35,051
... that I had in the world and I counted.
608
00:36:35,677 --> 00:36:39,682
As a result, I discovered that I had 51 things in the whole world.
609
00:36:42,017 --> 00:36:44,604
I started living this way about four years ago.
610
00:36:44,771 --> 00:36:46,815
I was managing a studio.
611
00:36:46,940 --> 00:36:49,569
I've always wanted to travel the world,
612
00:36:49,652 --> 00:36:52,196
And had never left the country.
613
00:36:52,363 --> 00:36:55,492
And that was kind of a sign of my failure in many ways.
614
00:36:56,452 --> 00:37:00,415
So I started a blog, I left my career in Los Angeles behind,
615
00:37:00,582 --> 00:37:02,375
and started looking for something new,
616
00:37:02,542 --> 00:37:05,337
Something a little different, and something a bit more aligned
617
00:37:05,421 --> 00:37:07,798
With what I wanted from my life.
618
00:37:07,882 --> 00:37:11,178
And now I carry everything I own in my back,
619
00:37:11,261 --> 00:37:13,513
As well as a hermit crab or a turtle.
620
00:37:15,099 --> 00:37:16,976
I was able to get rid of everything
621
00:37:17,059 --> 00:37:20,898
that I had and that did not fit in a carry-on,
622
00:37:20,981 --> 00:37:23,442
what a great decision and not something
623
00:37:23,525 --> 00:37:25,445
I've waited since the beginning.
624
00:37:26,237 --> 00:37:28,782
I realized quickly that I would not need so much.
625
00:37:28,865 --> 00:37:33,162
And I came to the conclusion that everything I left behind
626
00:37:33,245 --> 00:37:35,331
Would probably be left behind forever.
627
00:37:40,170 --> 00:37:44,884
What did this, after all, know that this path had been trodden,
628
00:37:44,967 --> 00:37:48,806
The direction in which I was going, and these people, men and women
629
00:37:49,014 --> 00:37:51,059
Successful, with all that money and prestige,
630
00:37:51,142 --> 00:37:54,145
And all this professional history,
631
00:37:54,687 --> 00:37:56,065
they were not happy.
632
00:37:56,857 --> 00:38:00,027
They are very successful, but not in an absolute sense.
633
00:38:00,110 --> 00:38:02,739
Your dollars and cents indicate success.
634
00:38:02,823 --> 00:38:05,450
It seemed much more likely that I could find something,
635
00:38:05,534 --> 00:38:08,329
find a definition of success that would really take me
636
00:38:08,412 --> 00:38:12,334
to a place where I would be equally successful and very happy.
637
00:38:15,087 --> 00:38:18,967
It seems that money can buy happiness in a way.
638
00:38:20,260 --> 00:38:25,391
In world surveys, for people of less than $ 70,000 per year,
639
00:38:25,558 --> 00:38:28,353
add greater material well-being
640
00:38:28,436 --> 00:38:31,816
Is correlated with psychological well-being.
641
00:38:32,567 --> 00:38:35,570
But when you begin to overcome this difficult limit to reach,
642
00:38:35,820 --> 00:38:37,614
Money does not buy happiness.
643
00:38:38,282 --> 00:38:40,659
You can make more money, but you will not be happier.
644
00:38:41,243 --> 00:38:43,204
Jim Carrey has a phrase that says:
645
00:38:43,288 --> 00:38:45,456
"I wish all to become rich and famous,
646
00:38:45,540 --> 00:38:47,626
so they realize that this is not the answer. "
647
00:38:48,460 --> 00:38:50,838
The first answer is always this.
648
00:38:51,171 --> 00:38:53,925
"Well, it's easy for Jim Carrey to say, he's rich and famous, right?"
649
00:38:54,009 --> 00:38:55,594
CLUTTERFREE WITH KIDS AUTHOR
650
00:38:55,677 --> 00:38:58,764
And I think, "Wait, who else could say that?"
651
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,145
I would need to be someone rich and famous to say:
652
00:39:03,228 --> 00:39:05,147
"Not worth it."
653
00:39:06,982 --> 00:39:09,485
We all need to have our basic needs met.
654
00:39:10,153 --> 00:39:11,613
Have a house, food on the table ...
655
00:39:11,696 --> 00:39:12,907
AUTHOR,YOU CAN BUY HAPPINESS
656
00:39:12,990 --> 00:39:13,991
... you know, have security,
657
00:39:14,575 --> 00:39:16,702
It is very important to recognize this,
658
00:39:16,785 --> 00:39:18,830
Because not everyone has these things.
659
00:39:19,998 --> 00:39:21,082
ENOUGH AUTHOR
660
00:39:21,166 --> 00:39:24,754
You think that more money will give you more security.
661
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,757
The problem is that you do not necessarily
662
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,469
has control over earning more.
663
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:34,098
One thing you have control of is spending less.
664
00:39:34,724 --> 00:39:37,644
You have the control of having less,
665
00:39:37,810 --> 00:39:40,648
And by having less, you automatically
666
00:39:40,940 --> 00:39:43,108
Use what you have better.
667
00:39:44,277 --> 00:39:46,738
It's not much of a financial gain for me ...
668
00:39:46,821 --> 00:39:47,822
DESIGNER SMALL HOUSES
669
00:39:47,906 --> 00:39:50,868
... it is about financial freedom, which is the ability
670
00:39:50,952 --> 00:39:54,748
Get up in the morning and enjoy the day properly.
671
00:39:56,208 --> 00:40:00,922
One part of why we consume one thing is that we work so long,
672
00:40:01,005 --> 00:40:04,718
And many people do not find satisfaction in their jobs.
673
00:40:05,260 --> 00:40:07,930
And they need somehow to say to themselves
674
00:40:08,180 --> 00:40:10,308
it paid off, that this is
675
00:40:10,392 --> 00:40:14,104
more than a few numbers in the bank account.
676
00:40:14,897 --> 00:40:18,651
There is more. There is more to life than accounts, money and work.
677
00:40:22,739 --> 00:40:23,907
How do you win?
678
00:40:24,450 --> 00:40:26,995
You win by the traditional nicknames of success.
679
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:28,037
EX-BROKER WALL STREET
680
00:40:28,121 --> 00:40:30,499
You win by how many zeros are on your paycheck.
681
00:40:30,958 --> 00:40:33,877
I remember sitting at Barnes and Noble's,
682
00:40:33,961 --> 00:40:35,547
deciding what grade to take,
683
00:40:35,630 --> 00:40:37,841
and all I was doing was flipping through a book.
684
00:40:37,924 --> 00:40:41,470
It was a book that showed the career and potential income through time.
685
00:40:41,679 --> 00:40:44,223
That's when I focused on finance and accounting.
686
00:40:45,058 --> 00:40:48,854
My entire life began to revolve around winning, with a capital "V".
687
00:40:48,937 --> 00:40:53,192
My whole life was based on being the guy who would be respected.
688
00:40:54,027 --> 00:40:56,655
I've had a series of jumps since I was in my 20s,
689
00:40:56,739 --> 00:40:58,157
what brought me here in 2008.
690
00:40:58,240 --> 00:41:00,618
I was earning a very high salary of six digits.
691
00:41:00,702 --> 00:41:01,870
I had my office.
692
00:41:02,328 --> 00:41:07,334
And on December 31, 2007, my boss called me into his office,
693
00:41:07,752 --> 00:41:10,171
and said he would give me a promotion.
694
00:41:10,547 --> 00:41:12,090
And that was it. That's what changed everything.
695
00:41:12,215 --> 00:41:14,092
He said I'd be a partner at the firm.
696
00:41:14,217 --> 00:41:17,388
And everything I've always worked for
697
00:41:19,307 --> 00:41:21,435
I was getting along well then.
698
00:41:21,518 --> 00:41:24,063
You know, in banking terms, I had the treasure.
699
00:41:24,146 --> 00:41:27,650
And I remember hearing that man say that,
700
00:41:27,734 --> 00:41:31,655
And it was a kind of ethereal moment
701
00:41:31,739 --> 00:41:33,699
Where I was watching it happen, you know?
702
00:41:33,783 --> 00:41:36,286
I was almost ... I left his room,
703
00:41:36,369 --> 00:41:39,748
And went back to mine, and just shut the door
704
00:41:39,831 --> 00:41:41,459
And I began to cry,
705
00:41:42,418 --> 00:41:46,673
Because I had realized that I had totally fallen into a trap.
706
00:41:46,757 --> 00:41:49,927
And that I would never be able to turn away
707
00:41:50,094 --> 00:41:51,971
Of that amount of money.
708
00:41:52,305 --> 00:41:56,392
And any dream I had of living a purposeful life
709
00:41:56,477 --> 00:42:00,314
And meaning, and be an adventurer,
710
00:42:00,397 --> 00:42:03,443
And someone who would take risks of truth, and live a life
711
00:42:03,527 --> 00:42:05,654
Conscious, with free will, was gone.
712
00:42:07,740 --> 00:42:10,409
When you see your pre-defined life,
713
00:42:10,493 --> 00:42:14,414
and recognizes that this is nothing that ...
714
00:42:14,498 --> 00:42:15,666
Why am I doing this?
715
00:42:15,874 --> 00:42:18,419
The guy who is offering me the firm does not want to be like him.
716
00:42:18,545 --> 00:42:19,963
I'm not jealous of his life.
717
00:42:21,339 --> 00:42:23,926
Maybe none of this is for me to begin with.
718
00:42:24,009 --> 00:42:25,970
And maybe, if I do not leave now,
719
00:42:26,178 --> 00:42:29,349
I'll be that guy for the rest of my life.
720
00:42:30,892 --> 00:42:34,856
I just took the elevator, I went down 28 floors and that was it.
721
00:42:35,064 --> 00:42:37,818
And since then, decided that this life would be mine
722
00:42:37,901 --> 00:42:42,156
And it would be free and extravagantly mine.
723
00:42:42,322 --> 00:42:43,283
You know?
724
00:42:45,451 --> 00:42:47,078
Ready? Here it is.
725
00:42:47,162 --> 00:42:48,581
Nevada.
726
00:42:56,798 --> 00:42:57,925
That's it!
727
00:42:58,009 --> 00:43:00,303
We're back, Nevada!
728
00:43:02,513 --> 00:43:04,558
Yes. That was great.
729
00:43:06,602 --> 00:43:07,936
WELCOME TO Fabulous LAS VEGAS, NEVADA
730
00:43:08,020 --> 00:43:09,689
All these people are waiting,
731
00:43:09,772 --> 00:43:11,858
And I'm not sure where they should be.
732
00:43:11,941 --> 00:43:13,694
I'm thinking ... Want to take a look here?
733
00:43:13,777 --> 00:43:14,945
Of course, we can do that.
734
00:43:15,487 --> 00:43:18,617
We are struggling to find seats for approximately 30 people.
735
00:43:19,075 --> 00:43:22,913
This is the most disorganized night of touring, so far.
736
00:43:22,996 --> 00:43:25,416
We're in Las Vegas. You know.
737
00:43:25,917 --> 00:43:30,380
And the space that we rent here, you know the reason there, is not ready,
738
00:43:30,464 --> 00:43:32,758
Even though we paid rent space.
739
00:43:33,508 --> 00:43:35,637
Fortunately, there are wonderful people here
740
00:43:35,762 --> 00:43:37,055
who are helping us a lot.
741
00:43:38,139 --> 00:43:39,642
Somehow, we'll make it work.
742
00:43:39,767 --> 00:43:40,726
Yes.
743
00:43:42,394 --> 00:43:43,604
Thank you very much.
744
00:43:45,690 --> 00:43:50,196
It is funny. I used to think that being rich was making $ 50,000 a year.
745
00:43:51,405 --> 00:43:53,741
So when I started up the corporate ladder, young man,
746
00:43:53,824 --> 00:43:55,994
I quickly started earning $ 50,000.
747
00:43:56,745 --> 00:43:59,206
But I did not feel rich. Something had gone wrong.
748
00:43:59,290 --> 00:44:00,875
I needed to go back to the draft,
749
00:44:01,292 --> 00:44:04,546
And found that it had not been corrected for inflation.
750
00:44:05,798 --> 00:44:08,801
Okay, so we can pontificate just for this time.
751
00:44:08,884 --> 00:44:10,971
We're really here to help, as Ryan said,
752
00:44:11,054 --> 00:44:14,850
Then we would like to do what we call questions and attempts to answer.
753
00:44:14,934 --> 00:44:16,018
MORADOR DE LAS VEGAS
754
00:44:16,519 --> 00:44:19,105
You are dedicated, creative, innovative.
755
00:44:19,188 --> 00:44:22,025
You have a sincere desire for humanity,
756
00:44:22,818 --> 00:44:27,615
The same people the Wall Street wolves fear.
757
00:44:27,699 --> 00:44:29,994
And to me, you are removing yourselves from the war.
758
00:44:30,494 --> 00:44:32,621
If you're really talking about minimalism,
759
00:44:32,705 --> 00:44:36,209
The total minimalist is a hermit, a recluse, or a monk.
760
00:44:36,293 --> 00:44:38,503
And for me, that will not change the world.
761
00:44:38,586 --> 00:44:42,216
Do you understand what I say? You are the only threat to the system.
762
00:44:44,135 --> 00:44:46,179
You're right, there are two sides to the spectrum.
763
00:44:46,513 --> 00:44:49,891
I think we should rather be in the middle of it, right?
764
00:44:50,058 --> 00:44:52,353
Because I do not think there is anything wrong with consumerism.
765
00:44:53,104 --> 00:44:55,106
The problem is compulsory consumerism.
766
00:44:55,231 --> 00:44:57,818
Buy things because that's what you should do.
767
00:44:57,901 --> 00:44:59,528
That is what propaganda tells us to do.
768
00:44:59,611 --> 00:45:02,657
Or is this the magic model of happiness,
769
00:45:02,741 --> 00:45:04,325
And then, when you get it, you realize
770
00:45:04,409 --> 00:45:06,871
That does not make you as happy as you thought.
771
00:45:07,830 --> 00:45:09,749
Yes, it was a great comment, thank you very much.
772
00:45:09,832 --> 00:45:13,045
We're trying to destroy these Wall Street wolves. I'm serious.
773
00:45:13,128 --> 00:45:14,504
-Amen. Give me a hug. -Yes.
774
00:45:14,588 --> 00:45:15,672
Thank you very much.
775
00:45:15,756 --> 00:45:19,135
I tell you, your personality and your conviction,
776
00:45:19,218 --> 00:45:22,765
And answering all the questions, this charism,
777
00:45:22,848 --> 00:45:26,143
They were connecting with people, as you can see.
778
00:45:35,279 --> 00:45:37,282
It's about 4:30.
779
00:45:37,365 --> 00:45:38,366
Yes.
780
00:45:38,450 --> 00:45:41,829
And we'll be on TV.
781
00:45:47,586 --> 00:45:48,879
Good morning, 5:23 am.
782
00:45:48,962 --> 00:45:52,383
Many of us want to buy the latest handsets.
783
00:45:52,467 --> 00:45:55,470
But this morning, I'm joining two men
784
00:45:55,553 --> 00:45:58,057
who took what they call from a simpler path
785
00:45:58,140 --> 00:46:01,352
and are living a life of minimalism.
786
00:46:01,435 --> 00:46:02,437
Hello.
787
00:46:02,521 --> 00:46:05,565
Hello, we are here for the 5 o'clock time and for the 6 o'clock time,
788
00:46:05,649 --> 00:46:07,360
Josh and Ryan with the Minimalists.
789
00:46:08,778 --> 00:46:12,741
I was living the American Dream and realized it was not my dream.
790
00:46:12,825 --> 00:46:14,701
I looked at all the things I had in life
791
00:46:14,785 --> 00:46:16,829
When my mother died and my marriage ended,
792
00:46:16,912 --> 00:46:19,165
both things in the same month then kind of questioned
793
00:46:19,249 --> 00:46:20,667
Which really was important.
794
00:46:20,750 --> 00:46:22,628
What things really added value to life?
795
00:46:22,711 --> 00:46:24,255
And I realized that many things
796
00:46:24,338 --> 00:46:27,717
That I had bought to be happy, did not actually do this job.
797
00:46:27,801 --> 00:46:30,303
All right, good luck to you. Take care.
798
00:46:30,387 --> 00:46:32,597
Do not exaggerate. Do not buy anything today, right?
799
00:46:32,681 --> 00:46:33,641
Amen.
800
00:46:33,724 --> 00:46:36,394
Good luck with that. We'll be back in a few moments.
801
00:46:37,145 --> 00:46:38,772
Well that's. 5h30, the last ...
802
00:46:48,492 --> 00:46:51,287
Minimalism is not a radical lifestyle.
803
00:46:51,537 --> 00:46:56,960
Yes, I totally believe in quality instead of quantity. Right?
804
00:46:57,043 --> 00:47:00,006
I'd rather have a good sweatshirt
805
00:47:00,464 --> 00:47:05,304
Than a closet full of sweatshirts I do not like to wear.
806
00:47:05,387 --> 00:47:06,763
I do not have many clothes now,
807
00:47:06,847 --> 00:47:10,643
But all the clothes I have are my favorite clothes.
808
00:47:12,395 --> 00:47:15,941
Let's take a look at what I selected for ten months of travel.
809
00:47:17,234 --> 00:47:21,156
I'm wearing my only jeans, I have some jackets.
810
00:47:21,656 --> 00:47:27,246
I have a short sleeve social shirt, some T-shirts,
811
00:47:27,580 --> 00:47:28,873
A hairdryer
812
00:47:29,208 --> 00:47:31,752
Every good minimalist has a hair dryer.
813
00:47:32,836 --> 00:47:36,799
And lots of underwear. Here's a secret with briefs.
814
00:47:37,258 --> 00:47:41,180
You must have an intermediate color.
815
00:47:41,263 --> 00:47:44,643
It's how you differentiate the dirty ones
816
00:47:44,893 --> 00:47:48,063
Of the ones that are clean ... wearing the red underwear.
817
00:47:49,439 --> 00:47:50,608
Bag of hygiene products.
818
00:47:51,734 --> 00:47:53,986
Everyone needs a bag of those, of course.
819
00:47:54,111 --> 00:47:58,492
I also have a laptop, but that's all for ten months.
820
00:48:05,042 --> 00:48:08,671
We do not really have a plan, which is basically our story.
821
00:48:12,259 --> 00:48:17,056
In 2010, when I was really getting into this cleaning process
822
00:48:17,139 --> 00:48:19,267
And simplification, I thought about the place ...
823
00:48:19,392 --> 00:48:20,435
FOUNDER OF PROJECT 333
824
00:48:20,519 --> 00:48:24,523
... in my house that had more things, and was my closet.
825
00:48:26,693 --> 00:48:32,074
So I decided to create a minimalist fashion challenge,
826
00:48:32,241 --> 00:48:35,327
To use less than I had.
827
00:48:36,413 --> 00:48:39,499
So in Project 333, the challenge for me
828
00:48:39,582 --> 00:48:43,087
was to use 33 items for three months.
829
00:48:43,170 --> 00:48:48,719
And the 33 items include clothing, jewelry, accessories,
830
00:48:48,802 --> 00:48:50,220
and shoes.
831
00:48:50,972 --> 00:48:53,391
And that's where I lose people.
832
00:48:54,892 --> 00:48:58,564
For me it was a great way to really see what I needed,
833
00:48:58,814 --> 00:49:02,152
what I was using, and whether it would make any difference.
834
00:49:03,153 --> 00:49:05,238
And then I worked with advertising.
835
00:49:05,322 --> 00:49:07,450
He had many clients who needed to see daily.
836
00:49:07,533 --> 00:49:09,285
I went to sales meetings,
837
00:49:09,368 --> 00:49:12,748
And during those first three months, no one noticed.
838
00:49:13,332 --> 00:49:16,084
The story was shown by the Associated Press,
839
00:49:16,209 --> 00:49:18,171
because many people were writing about it,
840
00:49:18,254 --> 00:49:20,048
and putting it into practice and trying.
841
00:49:20,131 --> 00:49:24,094
In this video, I'll tell you more about how I plan my 333 Project.
842
00:49:24,178 --> 00:49:25,471
Project
843
00:49:28,058 --> 00:49:29,934
And I thought, "Wow, that's it,
844
00:49:30,935 --> 00:49:32,730
and they did not even notice.
845
00:49:33,356 --> 00:49:36,734
So I spent that year
846
00:49:36,817 --> 00:49:40,155
Until leaving the job, without anyone really knowing
847
00:49:40,322 --> 00:49:42,742
That I was using only 33 items.
848
00:49:44,369 --> 00:49:46,829
I practice this thing called Project 333,
849
00:49:46,913 --> 00:49:50,167
And that kind of helps me keep my organization simple.
850
00:49:50,334 --> 00:49:53,463
I changed from a giant cabinet I had,
851
00:49:53,797 --> 00:49:56,466
I do not know, I had about 100 dresses, to have now
852
00:49:56,549 --> 00:50:00,179
This tiny wardrobe and be able to share
853
00:50:00,262 --> 00:50:01,889
A closet with Logan.
854
00:50:01,972 --> 00:50:03,558
And that made a big difference,
855
00:50:03,642 --> 00:50:05,852
I just do not care
856
00:50:05,936 --> 00:50:08,398
With what I am going to wear in the morning, because all things
857
00:50:08,481 --> 00:50:11,901
In my wardrobes they are wonderful. At least I think they are.
858
00:50:13,445 --> 00:50:15,614
There's something about not being prepared
859
00:50:15,697 --> 00:50:17,282
for all moments, which actually
860
00:50:17,366 --> 00:50:20,161
helps you interact with your community.
861
00:50:20,995 --> 00:50:23,999
Being pregnant, for example, is a very limiting period.
862
00:50:24,083 --> 00:50:25,835
I had social events to go
863
00:50:25,918 --> 00:50:28,505
And I would tell David, "Let me see if I can find a dress."
864
00:50:28,588 --> 00:50:31,383
And I thought, "Oh, my God, this is out of style."
865
00:50:31,466 --> 00:50:34,053
Two months to go. The event is next week.
866
00:50:34,137 --> 00:50:36,556
What am I going to do? So I called some of my friends.
867
00:50:36,639 --> 00:50:40,060
"Hey, do you guys have some dresses that I can borrow?"
868
00:50:40,144 --> 00:50:42,354
But in the past, I definitely
869
00:50:42,438 --> 00:50:44,441
Would buy whatever I needed,
870
00:50:44,524 --> 00:50:46,359
Because it's what you do.
871
00:50:46,443 --> 00:50:49,238
You prepare for your situation.
872
00:50:49,321 --> 00:50:51,699
The beauty of it is that it becomes very communal.
873
00:50:51,782 --> 00:50:53,200
Our friends ask us for things.
874
00:50:53,284 --> 00:50:56,538
We become close to people because of it.
875
00:50:59,876 --> 00:51:02,086
Mark and I were married in 2005,
876
00:51:02,170 --> 00:51:06,675
And a year later, I began to feel very bad.
877
00:51:06,758 --> 00:51:10,930
He had bouts of dizziness, tingling, and fatigue.
878
00:51:11,973 --> 00:51:14,017
The following year was very bad,
879
00:51:14,100 --> 00:51:16,854
And in July, I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis.
880
00:51:17,563 --> 00:51:21,526
And at first we were terrified.
881
00:51:21,610 --> 00:51:24,070
Was difficult. It was a difficult time.
882
00:51:24,614 --> 00:51:27,575
I say immediately, my answer was not
883
00:51:27,658 --> 00:51:29,912
that I had to simplify. I learn slowly.
884
00:51:29,995 --> 00:51:35,335
So I decided that I really had to work hard to prove that I was okay.
885
00:51:35,418 --> 00:51:37,504
And then, I worked harder.
886
00:51:38,046 --> 00:51:39,297
I exercised more.
887
00:51:39,380 --> 00:51:42,259
I really forced my body during that first month
888
00:51:42,676 --> 00:51:44,595
And I felt terrible.
889
00:51:44,678 --> 00:51:48,558
In any disease or infirmity, one of the major factors,
890
00:51:48,642 --> 00:51:51,771
One of the things that contribute to these things, in a negative way
891
00:51:51,854 --> 00:51:53,481
Is the stress in your life.
892
00:51:53,564 --> 00:51:55,776
As we get rid of these things in our lives,
893
00:51:55,859 --> 00:51:59,196
material things, and all the excesses with which we are accustomed,
894
00:51:59,571 --> 00:52:00,990
Good things happen.
895
00:52:02,325 --> 00:52:06,872
Since then, I have not had what I would consider a relapse.
896
00:52:07,248 --> 00:52:11,670
I'm in better health than I was before I was diagnosed.
897
00:52:12,462 --> 00:52:14,839
People always tell you, or at least they told me
898
00:52:14,923 --> 00:52:18,010
that in the early stages of EM you need to listen to your body.
899
00:52:18,302 --> 00:52:20,806
Listen to my body? I can not even hear my family.
900
00:52:20,889 --> 00:52:22,933
I do not know how I'm going to listen to my body.
901
00:52:23,267 --> 00:52:26,145
And as soon as I started removing these things,
902
00:52:26,396 --> 00:52:29,065
I was able to finally realize
903
00:52:29,732 --> 00:52:34,989
Which I had sacrificed for being constantly busy with my work.
904
00:52:47,337 --> 00:52:49,339
We have this ability to focus,
905
00:52:50,090 --> 00:52:54,262
But we are living in a context where we are constantly
906
00:52:54,345 --> 00:52:57,558
Moving from one stimulus to another, in search of
907
00:52:57,683 --> 00:53:00,769
of the sensation of the dopamine, where we feel sensation of reward
908
00:53:00,853 --> 00:53:03,773
with the incoming email, with the next re-sent,
909
00:53:03,857 --> 00:53:06,484
or the next thing that comes to our phone.
910
00:53:09,196 --> 00:53:11,657
I think it's a price we pay for it.
911
00:53:12,367 --> 00:53:14,536
This really became a problem.
912
00:53:14,620 --> 00:53:16,121
There is a Nokia study that shows
913
00:53:16,204 --> 00:53:19,500
That an average person checks the phone on average about 150 times a day.
914
00:53:27,134 --> 00:53:30,555
You walk the streets in any metropolis ... They are focused on the devices.
915
00:53:30,639 --> 00:53:32,349
We're all in the Matrix.
916
00:53:33,184 --> 00:53:35,936
And it's easier not to think and just read the news,
917
00:53:36,020 --> 00:53:38,940
Update your social media and consume.
918
00:53:40,609 --> 00:53:42,862
Because you can do whatever you want,
919
00:53:42,945 --> 00:53:45,948
You can potentially do anything you want.
920
00:53:46,032 --> 00:53:47,450
ENOUGH AUTHOR
921
00:53:47,533 --> 00:53:49,203
But to do everything you want,
922
00:53:49,286 --> 00:53:52,539
You need to sacrifice things that really matter.
923
00:53:53,208 --> 00:53:56,461
When it comes to overhead, the best way to solve this is
924
00:53:56,544 --> 00:53:57,921
Is off.
925
00:53:59,006 --> 00:54:00,591
Seriously, just hang up.
926
00:54:09,268 --> 00:54:15,609
It was shocking to realize that most of my life was an illusion.
927
00:54:17,945 --> 00:54:20,323
I came here on ABC News when I was 28 years old.
928
00:54:20,407 --> 00:54:22,992
I was a very ambitious young man.
929
00:54:23,661 --> 00:54:27,415
And the way I found to make up for my insecurity
930
00:54:27,498 --> 00:54:33,213
As for me being a beginner, it was really plunging into work
931
00:54:33,296 --> 00:54:34,590
And become addicted to work.
932
00:54:34,966 --> 00:54:37,635
And after September 11, I applied to travel
933
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:39,805
to cover the conflicts.
934
00:54:40,305 --> 00:54:41,682
We were lucky this week
935
00:54:41,765 --> 00:54:45,353
to have our reporter Dan Harris on a trip organized by the Taliban.
936
00:54:45,645 --> 00:54:47,939
We arrived at night, a winding journey
937
00:54:48,022 --> 00:54:52,611
by a single bumpy road to a city under attack.
938
00:54:52,695 --> 00:54:55,741
I spent a lot of time in Iraq and Afghanistan
939
00:54:55,824 --> 00:54:59,537
without really thinking much about the psychological consequences.
940
00:55:01,581 --> 00:55:03,791
And when I came home from a long trip in Iraq,
941
00:55:03,875 --> 00:55:05,210
I went into depression.
942
00:55:05,919 --> 00:55:07,713
And so, I did something really stupid,
943
00:55:07,796 --> 00:55:10,550
which was to start self-medicating with recreational drugs.
944
00:55:11,092 --> 00:55:12,886
According to my doctor, it was enough
945
00:55:12,969 --> 00:55:16,390
To trigger a panic attack when I was live on TV.
946
00:55:16,474 --> 00:55:18,934
Let's talk now to Dan Harris, who has the news.
947
00:55:19,018 --> 00:55:19,936
Dan?
948
00:55:20,020 --> 00:55:21,229
News on health now.
949
00:55:21,313 --> 00:55:23,023
One of the most prescribed remedies in the world
950
00:55:23,106 --> 00:55:24,941
Can provide a great bonus.
951
00:55:25,026 --> 00:55:27,737
Research shows that users of cholesterol-lowering drugs,
952
00:55:27,820 --> 00:55:30,115
Called statins for at least five years,
953
00:55:30,199 --> 00:55:32,785
May also reduce the risk of cancer.
954
00:55:32,868 --> 00:55:36,790
But it is still too early to prescribe statins to fight cancer.
955
00:55:37,540 --> 00:55:40,544
This is the news. We'll be back with Robin and Charlie.
956
00:55:44,256 --> 00:55:47,302
Raised the level of adrenaline in my brain which, according to my doctor,
957
00:55:47,385 --> 00:55:49,846
made me lose my mind on Good Morning America
958
00:55:49,930 --> 00:55:51,432
in front of five million people.
959
00:55:52,767 --> 00:55:56,021
5.09 million people, according to Nielsen.
960
00:55:56,688 --> 00:56:00,526
That moment threw me on a strange road
961
00:56:00,609 --> 00:56:03,530
Which in the end led me to this thing that I never thought
962
00:56:03,613 --> 00:56:06,534
That it was useful to someone, which was meditation.
963
00:56:15,085 --> 00:56:17,505
We ruminate on the past and future
964
00:56:17,672 --> 00:56:21,552
In a way that prevents us from actually connecting
965
00:56:21,635 --> 00:56:26,223
With the present moment, in a way that values it as being good enough.
966
00:56:27,642 --> 00:56:32,523
Meditation is a technique to find wellness
967
00:56:32,606 --> 00:56:36,527
in the present moment, before anything happens.
968
00:56:40,282 --> 00:56:44,495
You can be happy and satisfied simply by being aware
969
00:56:44,579 --> 00:56:46,706
the sensation of breathing.
970
00:56:51,003 --> 00:56:55,008
Very rarely are we totally dedicated to one thing.
971
00:56:55,091 --> 00:56:57,094
We are interrupting ourselves, or allowing ourselves
972
00:56:57,177 --> 00:56:59,847
Be interrupted by a series of information
973
00:56:59,930 --> 00:57:03,018
And what would, in any other context,
974
00:57:03,101 --> 00:57:04,477
Considered as distractions,
975
00:57:04,561 --> 00:57:07,940
Today we think of them as necessary parts
976
00:57:08,024 --> 00:57:09,233
Of our daily lives.
977
00:57:10,776 --> 00:57:13,322
If I leave my phone in my pocket and it is in vibration mode,
978
00:57:13,822 --> 00:57:16,116
Unconsciously, I'll move when it vibrates.
979
00:57:16,199 --> 00:57:20,205
And I even move when it did not vibrate but I thought it vibrated.
980
00:57:20,747 --> 00:57:22,833
And that ruins a conversation.
981
00:57:22,917 --> 00:57:26,337
Like, those nanoseconds of distraction,
982
00:57:26,670 --> 00:57:29,341
I think they have a very damaging effect.
983
00:57:30,258 --> 00:57:33,804
Everywhere I look, are small constant movements.
984
00:57:36,515 --> 00:57:38,977
This anticipation of novelty
985
00:57:39,061 --> 00:57:42,231
has the effect of turning us into laboratory mice
986
00:57:42,314 --> 00:57:44,192
that simply are pressed.
987
00:57:45,318 --> 00:57:49,156
Meditation is a great antidote to this.
988
00:57:51,867 --> 00:57:54,120
The people here on ABC News asked me
989
00:57:54,204 --> 00:57:55,455
"Why are you meditating?"
990
00:57:55,872 --> 00:57:57,916
In other words: "What's wrong with you?"
991
00:57:57,999 --> 00:57:59,418
What happened to you?
992
00:57:59,877 --> 00:58:01,545
After a while, I began to respond:
993
00:58:01,629 --> 00:58:03,674
"It's because it makes me ten percent happier."
994
00:58:03,757 --> 00:58:08,095
And I could see the expression on their faces change, from contempt
995
00:58:08,178 --> 00:58:11,933
And skepticism for one of interest, "That sounds reasonable."
996
00:58:12,016 --> 00:58:13,101
"I would like this."
997
00:58:14,603 --> 00:58:17,189
One of the best advice I've ever had
998
00:58:17,273 --> 00:58:19,818
in all my life was that of a teacher of meditation
999
00:58:19,901 --> 00:58:21,236
named Joseph Goldstein.
1000
00:58:21,945 --> 00:58:24,657
I was asking him about the utility of concern.
1001
00:58:24,740 --> 00:58:26,701
In a specific context, I was asking
1002
00:58:26,784 --> 00:58:29,579
It made sense to worry about missing a flight.
1003
00:58:29,663 --> 00:58:31,206
And I was arguing about it:
1004
00:58:31,290 --> 00:58:34,585
"Look, you Buddhists are always saying what thoughts are just thoughts.
1005
00:58:34,669 --> 00:58:37,088
That they do not necessarily have connection with reality,
1006
00:58:37,171 --> 00:58:40,884
But the fact is that if I miss the flight, I'll be screwed. "
1007
00:58:41,260 --> 00:58:44,305
And he said, "You are unquestionably right,
1008
00:58:44,430 --> 00:58:47,934
But there is a certain amount of concern that makes sense
1009
00:58:48,018 --> 00:58:49,770
And a certain dose that does not.
1010
00:58:50,146 --> 00:58:53,691
Then, on the seventeenth time worrying about missing the flight
1011
00:58:53,774 --> 00:58:56,320
and think of all possible branches of it,
1012
00:58:56,987 --> 00:58:58,864
Ask yourself a simple question:
1013
00:58:59,156 --> 00:59:00,283
'Is this concern useful?' "
1014
00:59:01,367 --> 00:59:04,620
For a guy who spent his whole life worrying and thinking
1015
00:59:04,704 --> 00:59:08,584
That my concern was the advantage I had,
1016
00:59:08,667 --> 00:59:12,505
Because I knew that I would be more anxious and compulsive
1017
00:59:12,589 --> 00:59:13,965
That my competitors,
1018
00:59:14,049 --> 00:59:17,053
I realized that there is a certain amount of concern
1019
00:59:17,136 --> 00:59:19,972
Which is what I call constructive anguish,
1020
00:59:20,139 --> 00:59:23,602
And there's useless rumination that just makes you miserable.
1021
00:59:24,519 --> 00:59:28,191
It's not that I'm watching all the time.
1022
00:59:28,274 --> 00:59:31,737
You know, I still do a lot of stupid things,
1023
00:59:31,987 --> 00:59:34,073
And if my wife was here, she would tell you
1024
00:59:34,156 --> 00:59:36,076
That 90 percent is still stupid.
1025
00:59:36,326 --> 00:59:40,205
There is simply no doubt that I am an idiot in many respects,
1026
00:59:40,288 --> 00:59:42,750
But I'm less stupid and less stupid,
1027
00:59:42,875 --> 00:59:45,878
and full of ideas, more focused and calmer.
1028
00:59:54,806 --> 00:59:56,683
We are on the road all year,
1029
00:59:56,850 --> 01:00:01,689
And just when I start thinking if we can,
1030
01:00:01,815 --> 01:00:07,279
If we make a difference, Today Show calls us
1031
01:00:07,738 --> 01:00:09,532
And invites us to go on the air.
1032
01:00:10,533 --> 01:00:11,827
Now we have an opportunity
1033
01:00:11,910 --> 01:00:16,749
share this with millions of people, which is the maximum.
1034
01:00:17,166 --> 01:00:20,086
Dude, we're late, so we have to go.
1035
01:00:20,461 --> 01:00:21,880
The entrance is ...
1036
01:00:21,964 --> 01:00:23,924
What is the address? Is it 35?
1037
01:00:24,007 --> 01:00:26,552
Yes, but you'll see things from the Today Show armed.
1038
01:00:26,635 --> 01:00:27,929
Right there, there it is.
1039
01:00:29,013 --> 01:00:32,518
-Are you sure it's here? "Yes, down the stairs."
1040
01:00:32,601 --> 01:00:33,727
We're in this together.
1041
01:00:38,442 --> 01:00:40,902
From NBC News,
1042
01:00:41,862 --> 01:00:43,656
this is Today.
1043
01:00:45,199 --> 01:00:47,201
With Black Friday, Cyber Monday,
1044
01:00:47,285 --> 01:00:49,413
Christmas shopping and stuffed stocks,
1045
01:00:49,496 --> 01:00:51,039
It may seem that the holidays
1046
01:00:51,123 --> 01:00:53,793
Are more about more and less about what really matters.
1047
01:00:53,877 --> 01:00:56,796
Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus
1048
01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:58,591
see things differently.
1049
01:00:58,674 --> 01:01:01,594
They are what they call ... The Minimalists.
1050
01:01:01,886 --> 01:01:03,346
In a hypothetical world,
1051
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:08,269
What if one of you falls in love with a maximalist who likes things?
1052
01:01:08,478 --> 01:01:09,520
What would you do?
1053
01:01:09,604 --> 01:01:11,856
That is an excellent question. My girlfriend,
1054
01:01:11,939 --> 01:01:13,734
I do not think she would consider herself minimalist.
1055
01:01:13,817 --> 01:01:15,777
She has about 20 pairs of shoes.
1056
01:01:15,861 --> 01:01:16,862
Not bad.
1057
01:01:16,945 --> 01:01:19,574
It's nothing compared to what I have. Hello?
1058
01:01:19,657 --> 01:01:23,537
But what I will say is that she and I have very similar values and beliefs.
1059
01:01:23,954 --> 01:01:25,748
We respect each other. We love.
1060
01:01:25,831 --> 01:01:27,583
"We love each other." -Great lifestyle,
1061
01:01:27,666 --> 01:01:29,336
Is a great subject for Today.
1062
01:01:29,419 --> 01:01:31,838
-Nice to meet them. -The last book of Minimalists,
1063
01:01:31,922 --> 01:01:34,258
All That Remains,is in stores.
1064
01:01:34,342 --> 01:01:35,718
What a concept.
1065
01:01:40,641 --> 01:01:42,434
Last night's event was incredible.
1066
01:01:42,518 --> 01:01:45,563
We showed up, the shop owner had placed 30 chairs outside.
1067
01:01:45,647 --> 01:01:47,357
I asked him to add more chairs.
1068
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:50,444
And he said, "Are you sure that you will need more chairs?"
1069
01:01:50,861 --> 01:01:54,115
Ken Burns came here and filled all the seats.
1070
01:01:54,199 --> 01:01:55,575
I put 60 chairs in all.
1071
01:01:55,659 --> 01:01:58,245
And I said, "I think we'll have about 50 or 60 people."
1072
01:01:58,370 --> 01:02:00,122
Go ahead and bring the rest of the chairs.
1073
01:02:00,373 --> 01:02:03,793
And we ended up having about 120, 150 people.
1074
01:02:03,876 --> 01:02:08,048
People were squeezed between the shelves.
1075
01:02:08,465 --> 01:02:10,385
Thanks for coming to support us, man.
1076
01:02:10,468 --> 01:02:12,053
Thank you for everything you do.
1077
01:02:12,136 --> 01:02:14,723
I think your story came on time.
1078
01:02:15,224 --> 01:02:16,225
It's destiny.
1079
01:02:16,308 --> 01:02:17,935
You are my inspiration.
1080
01:02:18,143 --> 01:02:20,605
Wonderful, thank you so much for this. I'm happy to help.
1081
01:02:20,689 --> 01:02:22,023
Thanks for coming, brother.
1082
01:02:22,524 --> 01:02:24,902
We see more, more and more people coming,
1083
01:02:24,986 --> 01:02:27,697
It's great to see this message spreading.
1084
01:02:28,614 --> 01:02:31,618
We are on our way to Los Angeles.
1085
01:02:32,077 --> 01:02:33,996
It will be our biggest event so far.
1086
01:02:34,079 --> 01:02:37,125
We expect the largest audience, and really think
1087
01:02:37,208 --> 01:02:40,129
that Los Angeles is a city that really can take advantage of this message.
1088
01:03:24,014 --> 01:03:28,603
Cars, houses and salaries of six digits. It may sound like a dream life.
1089
01:03:28,686 --> 01:03:31,732
Joshua Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus are on a world tour
1090
01:03:32,024 --> 01:03:36,237
And are here to explain why anyone would give up these things.
1091
01:03:36,946 --> 01:03:38,990
Opening a hand was really very difficult.
1092
01:03:39,074 --> 01:03:41,494
I'd like to say that it was as easy as renting a truck
1093
01:03:41,577 --> 01:03:43,996
and throw away all my stuff, but it was a process.
1094
01:04:10,403 --> 01:04:15,701
I like to see how it's spreading like a fire, in a good way.
1095
01:04:15,784 --> 01:04:17,245
It's like a good disease.
1096
01:04:25,295 --> 01:04:26,797
An amazing study
1097
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,884
Shows that a large number of children under the age of four
1098
01:04:29,968 --> 01:04:32,930
have access to a mobile device, and some of these children
1099
01:04:33,013 --> 01:04:36,225
started using them before they were one year old.
1100
01:04:36,684 --> 01:04:38,103
We are building an environment
1101
01:04:38,186 --> 01:04:40,355
more interesting and more competitive for the consumer.
1102
01:04:40,439 --> 01:04:43,985
That means adjusting the signals that tell us about your interests,
1103
01:04:44,068 --> 01:04:46,904
and making sure we can control the message they will receive.
1104
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:48,699
The Toronto Marketing Executive
1105
01:04:48,782 --> 01:04:50,492
wrote a review in Globe and Mail
1106
01:04:50,576 --> 01:04:53,037
Saying it's time to stop advertising children.
1107
01:04:53,872 --> 01:04:57,333
Advertising for children has been around for a long time.
1108
01:04:57,709 --> 01:05:01,964
What has changed, however, is the amount of this advertisement and the vehicle
1109
01:05:02,047 --> 01:05:04,301
where these advertisements come from.
1110
01:05:05,510 --> 01:05:07,345
Historically, companies
1111
01:05:07,429 --> 01:05:10,516
who have products aimed at children focused on advertising in mothers,
1112
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:13,479
In making mothers wish to buy things for their children.
1113
01:05:14,146 --> 01:05:18,317
What happens is that companies have decided to take the focus away from mothers
1114
01:05:18,651 --> 01:05:20,278
and focus directly on children.
1115
01:05:22,489 --> 01:05:25,701
I do not know the three most common words in American households.
1116
01:05:25,910 --> 01:05:29,247
I do not know if it's "I love you" or "I want it".
1117
01:05:30,165 --> 01:05:33,001
Five thousand ads that we see every day,
1118
01:05:33,084 --> 01:05:35,213
Since we were born.
1119
01:05:35,671 --> 01:05:38,674
And they all tell us, "Hey, this is how your life should be."
1120
01:05:38,841 --> 01:05:41,178
It should be based on accumulating more things
1121
01:05:41,261 --> 01:05:43,847
Or about focusing on yourself.
1122
01:05:45,350 --> 01:05:48,978
If you have recently gone to a children's store,
1123
01:05:49,396 --> 01:05:51,440
Is quite incredible.
1124
01:05:51,524 --> 01:05:55,278
All you could dream about was thought.
1125
01:05:56,363 --> 01:05:58,615
The advertisers realized that there is this big market.
1126
01:05:58,698 --> 01:06:00,034
AUTHOR OFMINIMALIST PARENTING
1127
01:06:00,117 --> 01:06:02,787
There are parents who want to give their children the best,
1128
01:06:02,870 --> 01:06:05,874
and really work hard at it.
1129
01:06:06,583 --> 01:06:10,547
IN 1983, COMPANIES SPENT 100,000,000 DOLLARS IN ADVERTISING FOR CHILDREN
1130
01:06:10,630 --> 01:06:14,717
IN 2006, THE COMPANIES SPENTED 17,000,000,000 DOLLARS
1131
01:06:14,801 --> 01:06:18,639
There is a problem, both process and content,
1132
01:06:18,764 --> 01:06:21,059
And the content problem is huge.
1133
01:06:21,685 --> 01:06:26,065
The products that are advertised for children are junk.
1134
01:06:26,274 --> 01:06:28,192
Welcome to Mutant Mania Fight.
1135
01:06:28,276 --> 01:06:30,571
One hundred and twenty new characters for you to collect.
1136
01:06:30,654 --> 01:06:32,406
The secret is your flexible column!
1137
01:06:33,031 --> 01:06:36,578
It's a garbage culture. It's the food that hurts them.
1138
01:06:36,661 --> 01:06:40,875
They are stupid toys, that are gender and violent.
1139
01:06:42,585 --> 01:06:46,381
I do not see a justification for subjecting children to this,
1140
01:06:46,631 --> 01:06:49,634
There is no positive social benefit in this.
1141
01:06:50,343 --> 01:06:52,138
There is simply a negativity,
1142
01:06:52,221 --> 01:06:54,640
and is the political power of advertising
1143
01:06:54,724 --> 01:06:57,603
and the companies that produce the advertisements, which prevents us
1144
01:06:57,686 --> 01:06:59,146
to do something about it.
1145
01:07:05,403 --> 01:07:08,490
I heard someone say, "There is a another word for minimalism,
1146
01:07:08,574 --> 01:07:09,867
it's called: be single.
1147
01:07:10,743 --> 01:07:12,787
Yes, I understand how people think
1148
01:07:12,871 --> 01:07:16,417
Which is very easy if you are not married and do not have children.
1149
01:07:17,293 --> 01:07:21,548
How do I explain my own example of being married?
1150
01:07:21,632 --> 01:07:25,344
And have six children, which is totally anti-minimalist and very ironic?
1151
01:07:26,303 --> 01:07:31,100
How do I have this minimalist lifestyle with these kids and restrictions?
1152
01:07:32,645 --> 01:07:36,942
Jaqueline and I are not so restrictive about, type:
1153
01:07:37,025 --> 01:07:38,735
"You have five toys."
1154
01:07:39,152 --> 01:07:41,989
No, man. You can only have one truck. You can not have three trucks. "
1155
01:07:42,073 --> 01:07:45,159
When I was a kid, I did not have a GI Joe.
1156
01:07:45,242 --> 01:07:47,371
I had about 100 GI Joes.
1157
01:07:48,205 --> 01:07:51,541
We have received things well in our lives, but certainly with the intention
1158
01:07:51,625 --> 01:07:57,633
To think about what we are doing instead of simply consuming.
1159
01:07:58,384 --> 01:08:01,011
When you live with other people
1160
01:08:01,095 --> 01:08:04,933
and it's a family, you can not just make unilateral decisions.
1161
01:08:05,058 --> 01:08:08,062
"Okay, now let's get rid of everything and toss the TV out of the house."
1162
01:08:08,396 --> 01:08:09,981
There will be a mutiny.
1163
01:08:11,649 --> 01:08:14,945
This is a bit frustrating, because you can not do it your way.
1164
01:08:15,404 --> 01:08:17,949
But it is also a very interesting experiment
1165
01:08:18,032 --> 01:08:20,785
How you can progress as a group
1166
01:08:20,868 --> 01:08:22,745
And learn about it as a group.
1167
01:08:30,839 --> 01:08:34,176
Early on, when we decided to live with less,
1168
01:08:34,927 --> 01:08:38,140
We knew beforehand that minimalism would simply
1169
01:08:38,223 --> 01:08:41,643
Be the way we wanted it to be.
1170
01:08:42,853 --> 01:08:45,023
I remember going through the process of getting rid of things
1171
01:08:45,106 --> 01:08:48,360
and finally say, "Okay, Sam." Let's go to your toys
1172
01:08:48,444 --> 01:08:50,988
and we'll get rid of things that you no longer need.
1173
01:08:51,071 --> 01:08:54,325
And we did not have any problems.
1174
01:08:55,994 --> 01:09:00,833
My daughter is seven and she is very different.
1175
01:09:02,084 --> 01:09:05,255
She loves every doll she has.
1176
01:09:05,797 --> 01:09:10,344
It collects stones, branches and a lot of things
1177
01:09:10,428 --> 01:09:13,598
That she finds, and clings to them.
1178
01:09:14,975 --> 01:09:17,269
You know, as parents, we need to set some limits,
1179
01:09:17,352 --> 01:09:20,023
but in the end, we let her choose what she wants.
1180
01:09:21,691 --> 01:09:24,152
I think he certainly is
1181
01:09:24,236 --> 01:09:25,863
On a different level ...
1182
01:09:25,988 --> 01:09:27,073
CO-FOUNDER THE HOPE EFFECT
1183
01:09:27,156 --> 01:09:28,449
... of minimalism than me.
1184
01:09:29,116 --> 01:09:31,787
He wanted to get rid of more things than I wanted to get rid of,
1185
01:09:31,870 --> 01:09:33,997
and then comes the appointment.
1186
01:09:36,084 --> 01:09:41,256
His side of the wardrobe looks a lot smaller than mine.
1187
01:09:41,340 --> 01:09:43,300
And we deal well with it.
1188
01:09:44,218 --> 01:09:45,678
You know, I think one of the lessons
1189
01:09:45,762 --> 01:09:48,348
That we learned on this whole journey
1190
01:09:48,431 --> 01:09:51,477
Our children are watching us.
1191
01:09:52,061 --> 01:09:55,398
And we can tell them how we want them to be like people,
1192
01:09:55,482 --> 01:09:58,110
But, man, they absorb much more simply
1193
01:09:58,193 --> 01:10:00,488
Observing the way we live.
1194
01:10:02,657 --> 01:10:04,867
This is the countercurrent of consumerism.
1195
01:10:04,951 --> 01:10:09,331
Removing a little of those things provided a safe environment
1196
01:10:09,414 --> 01:10:12,127
Where they are able to become what they most want,
1197
01:10:12,210 --> 01:10:14,796
instead of what the world will try to convince them to be.
1198
01:10:18,968 --> 01:10:20,052
good Evening
1199
01:10:20,887 --> 01:10:24,933
It is clear that the real problem of our nation
1200
01:10:25,726 --> 01:10:30,148
Is much deeper than gasoline lines
1201
01:10:30,231 --> 01:10:34,278
Or lack of energy, deeper still than inflation and recession.
1202
01:10:35,905 --> 01:10:39,242
In a nation that prided itself on hard work,
1203
01:10:40,577 --> 01:10:44,290
strong families, united communities,
1204
01:10:45,958 --> 01:10:50,714
many of us now tend to revere comfort
1205
01:10:52,049 --> 01:10:53,342
and consumerism.
1206
01:10:55,678 --> 01:11:01,686
The identity of a person is no longer defined by what it does,
1207
01:11:03,563 --> 01:11:05,940
but for what it has.
1208
01:11:09,695 --> 01:11:15,160
But we find that owning things and consuming things
1209
01:11:16,161 --> 01:11:20,625
It does not satisfy our desire for purpose.
1210
01:11:22,085 --> 01:11:26,673
We learned that accumulating material goods is not able to fill
1211
01:11:26,757 --> 01:11:31,304
the emptiness of lives devoid of faith or purpose.
1212
01:11:33,933 --> 01:11:38,188
This is not a message of happiness or reaffirmation,
1213
01:11:38,855 --> 01:11:43,194
But it's the truth, and it's a warning.
1214
01:11:47,741 --> 01:11:49,409
We think we need these things,
1215
01:11:49,493 --> 01:11:51,995
because we were told that we need these things.
1216
01:11:53,206 --> 01:11:57,001
Society has told us that we need these things.
1217
01:12:00,798 --> 01:12:05,136
It has been so slowly, a small thing, that has just arrived
1218
01:12:05,220 --> 01:12:07,514
And suddenly it becomes what you do.
1219
01:12:10,309 --> 01:12:14,398
This is really of an ideal based on values.
1220
01:12:15,023 --> 01:12:18,278
You want to get the most benefit
1221
01:12:18,361 --> 01:12:21,948
and get the maximum value with exactly what you need.
1222
01:12:24,827 --> 01:12:26,704
Having too little will not give you this,
1223
01:12:26,787 --> 01:12:29,374
And having too much will not give you that either, right?
1224
01:12:31,918 --> 01:12:36,716
Having the balance, having enough, that's what you are looking for.
1225
01:12:42,556 --> 01:12:44,892
If I had to review the American Dream,
1226
01:12:45,184 --> 01:12:49,440
it would be more about how to unite in community.
1227
01:12:50,482 --> 01:12:53,360
It would be more about a society
1228
01:12:53,444 --> 01:12:55,864
Where there would be less inequality and more justice,
1229
01:12:55,947 --> 01:12:57,907
In which everyone had a chance,
1230
01:12:59,285 --> 01:13:03,372
and was responsible for the planet and the environment.
1231
01:13:03,914 --> 01:13:05,959
For me, that would be an American Dream.
1232
01:13:08,712 --> 01:13:10,798
When you talk about not consuming,
1233
01:13:10,882 --> 01:13:13,801
people think you are trying to get something out of them.
1234
01:13:16,263 --> 01:13:17,765
But the great truth is that
1235
01:13:17,848 --> 01:13:20,060
I think this movement is about
1236
01:13:20,143 --> 01:13:22,437
To seek a life that is good for ourselves
1237
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:24,147
And good for the people around us.
1238
01:13:37,121 --> 01:13:38,581
We are in Los Angeles now.
1239
01:13:39,707 --> 01:13:43,003
We are here for our biggest event.
1240
01:13:43,670 --> 01:13:45,840
What we're trying to do is show people
1241
01:13:45,924 --> 01:13:51,013
That there is a different way of living.
1242
01:13:53,474 --> 01:13:55,184
The people we bring into our lives,
1243
01:13:55,267 --> 01:13:56,937
we should always be with those
1244
01:13:57,020 --> 01:14:00,107
that share the same values and that's what minimalism is all about.
1245
01:14:00,190 --> 01:14:01,776
It's about living with purpose.
1246
01:14:02,527 --> 01:14:05,446
So every choice I make, every relationship, every thing,
1247
01:14:05,530 --> 01:14:07,908
Every dollar I spend, I'm not perfect, of course,
1248
01:14:07,991 --> 01:14:10,745
but I constantly wonder: "Is this adding value to me?"
1249
01:14:10,829 --> 01:14:12,831
Am I being logical with this decision?
1250
01:14:13,456 --> 01:14:14,457
Go watch them tonight
1251
01:14:14,541 --> 01:14:16,043
at The Last Bookstore in LA, 7 pm
1252
01:14:16,127 --> 01:14:17,878
Thanks, Joshua and Ryan for coming.
1253
01:14:17,962 --> 01:14:19,255
SPRING ARTISTS SET
1254
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:23,427
I did not realize that at the time,
1255
01:14:23,510 --> 01:14:28,474
but I was very focused on my ideal of success.
1256
01:14:29,434 --> 01:14:33,939
My idea of success was to make more money.
1257
01:14:34,940 --> 01:14:37,402
Consumer relationships were a priority.
1258
01:14:38,611 --> 01:14:41,197
I did not pay any attention to the people closest to me,
1259
01:14:43,117 --> 01:14:45,536
Including my mother.
1260
01:14:47,038 --> 01:14:50,834
The great meaning of this message, the great reason we share it,
1261
01:14:50,917 --> 01:14:55,965
is to help people overcome this appetite for more things,
1262
01:14:56,257 --> 01:14:59,887
because it is a very destructive path to follow.
1263
01:15:00,471 --> 01:15:04,684
I literally used people to sell cell phones.
1264
01:15:04,767 --> 01:15:09,064
I used people to get bigger and better customers.
1265
01:15:09,648 --> 01:15:13,570
And what I love in my life right now is that I can be genuine.
1266
01:15:14,112 --> 01:15:16,031
And that there is no manipulation.
1267
01:15:17,157 --> 01:15:18,868
It's a great, great pleasure
1268
01:15:18,951 --> 01:15:23,957
Present Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus, the Minimalists.
1269
01:15:32,300 --> 01:15:36,013
Imagine a life with less, a life of passion,
1270
01:15:36,096 --> 01:15:39,935
Free from the traps of the chaotic world around them.
1271
01:15:41,102 --> 01:15:45,608
Well, what you are imagining is a conscious life.
1272
01:15:46,442 --> 01:15:51,990
It is not a perfect life, it is not even an easy life, but it is a simpler one.
1273
01:15:53,785 --> 01:15:55,203
What I discovered with minimalism
1274
01:15:55,328 --> 01:15:58,164
Is that it's a way of saying, "Let's stop the madness."
1275
01:15:59,124 --> 01:16:02,086
You do not need these things. Type, will not solve.
1276
01:16:02,461 --> 01:16:03,713
That is not the answer.
1277
01:16:04,172 --> 01:16:05,674
There is a growing movement,
1278
01:16:05,882 --> 01:16:09,095
And I do not think it will stop.
1279
01:16:09,512 --> 01:16:11,180
Now I'm surrounded by people
1280
01:16:11,264 --> 01:16:14,685
who are inspired and creating a great impact and social change.
1281
01:16:14,893 --> 01:16:17,229
The depth of my relationship
1282
01:16:17,312 --> 01:16:20,233
Is beyond anything I could ever imagine.
1283
01:16:20,316 --> 01:16:23,361
When you realize that this life is yours,
1284
01:16:23,444 --> 01:16:26,323
And that is his only, and when it stops
1285
01:16:26,448 --> 01:16:31,705
Of being esoteric nonsense, when it is not more hippie romanticism,
1286
01:16:31,788 --> 01:16:33,540
when the pragmatism of this truth
1287
01:16:33,623 --> 01:16:37,461
goes right into your bones, and you realize that's it,
1288
01:16:38,421 --> 01:16:40,215
everything changes.
1289
01:16:40,924 --> 01:16:43,594
I do not know where you are on your journey,
1290
01:16:43,677 --> 01:16:47,307
Where you are in your life, or where you are going on this journey,
1291
01:16:47,390 --> 01:16:50,019
But we are very grateful to be here with us tonight.
1292
01:16:50,144 --> 01:16:52,354
So if I could give one last statement,
1293
01:16:53,147 --> 01:16:56,735
one thing to take with you after all, this would be:
1294
01:16:57,902 --> 01:17:03,743
Love people and use things, because the opposite never works.
1295
01:17:04,243 --> 01:17:05,996
Thank you so much for coming.
1296
01:17:59,101 --> 01:18:01,104
Translated by: Bruno Gonçalves
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