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Na'ima, breathe.

Khadijah.

I know you're awake.

Wake up! Wake up! Wake up! Wake up! Wake up.

Wake up.

Wake up Khadijah, please.

Mommy I don't want to go to school.

You don't want to go to school?

But my baby you have to go to school because your

-teacher and your friends want to-- -Hanifa, Hanifa.

Where is my black hat that goes with this kaftan?

I can't find it there.

It's in the drawer where you normally keep your hats. I put it there.

Okay, let me check.

Let's go.

Please, let's go, let's go!

You're getting late.

Okay. Come here. This girl I have to drag you, let's go.

Here you go.

Ha!

Always on time.

-Right on the minute as usual. -It's always a pleasure Bappa.

You have eaten? Good.

You know your father has expressed his… his fears

over your morning runs.

Says it's dangerous for a woman.

Oh, and what did you say Bappa?

Well…

I told him it seems like he doesn't recognize…

a warrior even when she comes from him.

You know, when a warrior appears cowards run.

Yeah.

-Khadijah's father, -Yes?

I think it's time we put Binta in school.

Binta again?

Are you tired of her already? She is still a little girl.

Come on!

Ah-ah, you have your art class scheduled for today right?

-Yes. -I hope you are getting paid.

Until the end of the month.

-End of the month? -Mm.

-Until then. -Come home safely.

By God's grace.

Good morning Baddie gang.

So yes guys, it's true that Sagir and I broke up but it's fine.

We've both moved on, and I'm really happy for him,

as long as he is happy for himself.

And no, I did not cheat, neither did he. We just moved on

It's not hard to get a new man.

I can do that in a day if I want to, and you know that.

Anyways guys, so I just wanted to tell you this,

I am fine. I will always be fine.

That's Baddie for you. Bye.

-Good morning ma. -Hm. Good morning Sarah.

Um, so there's a few orders I need you to sort out for me today.

Check your mail I just sent you

-the spreadsheet. -Okay.

Also Hajiya Nana is coming today,

wife of the FCT Minister.

She wants the complete treatment, facials, body, everything.

Please make sure everything is ready before she gets here.

-Hm? And her session has to be perfect. -Alright.

Alright.

Hello Pius.

You received the alert?

Yes, thank you.

The client was very happy with your designs.

I've got another student who needs some drawings

for his modern architecture course.

Oh, that's great! But this time around Pius,

please remember to tell him, I need my payment upfront.

No problem, no problem.

Alright bye. Thank you.

-Ah! Zizi. -Yes ma.

Where's that document on the women's political sensitization exercise district?

Aargh. I hate looking for things.

When will they be done with my office?

It will take a day or two longer than expected.

And about the file, I will make sure to ask Salisu, he should know.

-Your efficiency is almost clinical. -Thank you ma.

Hi Baddie gang, it's your girl Baddie and today I'm at Dunes center.

And I'm taking you round one of my favorite stores in the mall.

They have all sorts of luxury items. They have bags, they have shoes,

they have jewelry, they have everything you can think of.

And to my favorite part of the store.

Anyone who knows me knows that if you want to get Baddie's attention,

just give me a watch like this one.

Oh my God, this one is perfect!

Maybe when I feel like giving myself a treat, I will come back for that one.

Alright Baddie gang, talk to you guys later.

Kiss, kiss. Bye!

-Hi Pat. -Hi.

Oh wow.

Rukayah, I'm leaving, see you later.

Bye baby.

Hmm.

Can you imagine Na'ima?

She is still not here.

I'm pretty sure she is somewhere working.

You know how Na'ima can be all the time, work, work, work.

-Hi ladies -Mm-hmm.

I heard you gossiping about me, eh, sorry I'm late.

Sorry! Look,

I had to go to the market, and then freshen up.

There was no way I could come here in market clothes.

Mommy of two, greetings to you. How are the girls?

Hm. They're all doing fine.

If only you have been visiting,

I'm sure you would have noticed, they have all grown up.

-Mm-hmm. -Yeah, I'm guilty, I agree I'm guilty.

-You say so all the time. -Ladies, it's okay. Ah-ah!

Baddie is here, focus on me.

-Focus on Baddie. -Baddie.

-Baddie, Baddie, Baddie. -Yeah girl.

Stop.

-Say it again. -Look at me, look at me.

How about Sagir?

Ah-ah! Na'ima! Please I don't like-- Mm-mm.

Don't spoil my mood please, let's talk about more important things.

So the makeup partnership I have with the makeup store is going very, very well.

And I got 400 followers today

just from the Instagram giveaway I did this morning.

-Really? -Yeah.

-Congratulations girl! -Thank you.

I'm out to conquer life the way I conquer men

-Baddie! -What?

See, you better order for something and while we are waiting for him...

You know how Baddie is now,

it never happened if there's no what? No selfie.

-Say Baddie. -How many selfies do you have

-on this phone? -I don't know, but just take this one.

-Smile, say Baddie. -Baddie!

Woah, woah.

-I'm so sorry sir. -Hey relax, my fault.

And I have told you before; it's not sir it's Kassim.

Okay.

Your mother is in the study, she'll be really happy to see you.

I see.

And you?

Are you happy to see me?

Have a good afternoon sir.

…He's still calling

I don't like that kind of thing.

Oh I love hanging out with you girls.

Aww.

We love hanging out with you too.

But you know what, I think it's slightly different for you, right?

-Catering for two human beings. -It's not easy my sister.

-Hello? -Hello Badriya.

How are you?

Um… Who is this and how did you get my number?

Call me your secret admirer if you like and how I got your number doesn't matter.

What I need now is your undivided attention.

Look, I don't play these games, I don't know who you are or what you want from me.

Go to that jewelry shop you like at the mall,

when you get there, tell the sales girl that you are Badriya Haliru.

There's a gift there for you; I'll call you in one hour.

I…

-Baddie is everything okay? -Yes, I need to get back to the store.

-Again? -Yes, I forgot something there.

Mm-hm.

Well I'm done here, so we might as well leave together.

-Okay. -I'm also done.

-Alright. -Bill please!

-Oh! Oh, hi Zizi. -Hi.

-How are you? -I'm fine.

-I hope my mom isn't driving you crazy. -I manage.

Kassim… I saw that.

Saw what?

That.

Whatever. Okay? Whatever.

By the way shouldn't you be somewhere making a brew or something?

Surrayah is in the kitchen waiting for you with all sorts of powders and twigs.

Nice one. Nice one, nice distraction.

But do you know something? I promise you that when my products are ready

you'll beg me for them.

Mama's boy.

If you say so, nobody's girl.

Touche.

Hello.

-Mommy! -My baby.

Hello Ma,

Khadijah is doing so well at school. When will Binta be joining us?

-Very soon. -Okay.

I will definitely speak to her dad when I get home.

-Alright Ma. Her bag. -Okay.

Okay.

-Bye. -Bye Ma.

-Bye, bye. -Bye Ma.

How about this two Ma?

Yeah, I like them both, but I think I prefer this one.

Do you have it in a different color?

-Sure we do ma, may I get it for you? -Yes please.

-Hello. -You've received the gift?

I did, and it's very beautiful.

But I wish I could call to say thank you,

you keep calling me with this private number

So are you one of my followers?

Oh, I don't waste my time on social media,

but I'll still use it to get what I need on occasion.

Besides now I know you will always have my time.

What makes you think that?

That's easy, you're wearing it.

-I'll call you later Badriya. -No, no, no. Please wait.

Here is it ma'am.

-It's perfect. Please pack it up for me. -Sure I will do that ma.

-Hey. -Hey.

Um, in my defense before you judge me, I am

staying back from business meetings today so that I could just you know,

hang around my mother's place…

It's not in my place to judge what you do with your time, sir.

I admire your discipline.

Nothing personal, It's just… it's quite a rare feat in Nigeria.

It's just discipline, nothing out of the ordinary.

Speaking of discipline, I… I know you probably have a military background.

I'm just wondering if you could give me some tips.

-Tips? -Yeah, tips like motivation and all.

You see I'm starting to get a little soft around the middle.

I was wondering if maybe one of these days I could join you

for a workout session.

Sorry, am I being weird with…

-my questions? -I run every day.

So you can join me if you're up for it.

Oh, sure, I will be there. But where do I--

Where do I meet you? Where do you live?

Okay, I guess I'm just gonna have to find out.

Ha!

You are home my dear.

-Good evening Bappa -Good evening, look who came to visit us.

What a pleasant surprise.

How are you Zizi?

Zainab.

And I'm fine, thank you for asking.

-Yeah, um… -Yes sir.

I will be inside. Uh… It's um… it's chilly, you know.

-Bappa it's 30 degrees. -Huh, it's chilly. Chilly.

Still as sharp as ever.

That was rude, don't you think?

He doesn't complain.

I have been here for over an hour, you are not

taking my calls, you don't respond to my text messages.

Why?

Yusuf I didn't ask you to call, text, or even visit me though.

So, as far as I'm concerned, you're visiting and texting yourself.

Why do you insist on being so stubborn?

Well, it's the same way you insist on being so… persistent.

-Yusuf you need to stop this. -Stop what?

Trying to marry you?

Zainab, at your age you should be thankful there's a young man running after you.

You're too brash.

I think I'm going to change my mind.

Well change your mind then let me go and cry about it.

Don't you ever

-try walking away from me again. -Yusuf, if you ever

put your hands on me again

I will snap your shoulders out of your body.

Okay? Now get out!

Khadijah's father, have a look at this.

-You are pregnant, right? -I got a university admission

to study architecture.

Admission?

When did you apply for school without my knowledge?

We spoke about this earlier, that when the children grow up,

I will go back to school.

Not now.

Good evening father, mother, Zainab, I'm sorry I'm late.

Nice of you to make it sis.

Not only did I tell you about dinner this morning,

your mother sent you messages to remind you.

Ah!

Don't bother to pretend you never saw the messages.

I'm sorry father, I just lost track of time.

Time is all you have Badriya.

You need to be more responsible.

It's about time you get a job.

-Yeah, you get used to a proper routine. -I'm sorry father.

Mother.

How is your grandfather these days? In better health, I hope.

He's alright, thank you. Thank God.

He's getting old but still as sharp as ever.

Hmm.

I can see you're still much in your

exercise phase

It's not a phase, mother.

It's a lifestyle that I maintain because of my job.

And I like it anyway.

That's why you came to dinner in Nikes and a pair of sweat pants?

My apology Baddie for not arriving in silk and gold, I'm comfortable this way.

Besides, I don't dress to please the social media mob.

Might help your sense of style, if you did once in a while.

This is pointless talking about fashion,

when there are more important issues to talk about,

especially settling down.

Don't act like you didn't hear what I said. You two are of age.

And I am beginning to wonder if you plan to give me grandkids before I--

Oh, mother please don't be dramatic.

You are not dying anytime soon.

With all due respect

I'm not a fan of marriage.

-I don't have the best impression of it. -Mm-mm.

Just because our mother divorced and remarried,

doesn't mean marriage is a bad thing Zizi.

My parents are happy.

Or are you not?

They raised my siblings and I together,

and happily. It might just work for you too.

Thank you but I'll pass.

You can go ahead with your marriage and babies thing, it's obviously your thing.

Um girls, there is no need for this,

-you are sisters after all. -Mm-mm. Half sisters, mother.

Is there any difference?

Huh?

-Hey Amir. -Always in busy mode.

Did we make plans to see today?

Nah.

I just thought I should pop in and say hi.

Though I am pained that you forgot all about our phantom date.

That tends to happen when you are busy.

So let's be busy together. I'll help.

Okay.

Yeah. Put that in there. We basically recreate this.

Okay.

So…

Yeah, put this in.

Okay.

I’m just gonna move it over there.

So what inspired all of… all of this?

Self-care has always been important to me.

I mean it started off as a hobby

and then I realized that

I can make something big out of it.

Everyone these days is trying to be as close to

perfect as they can achieve, right?

So I thought to offer them a clean

and holistic approach infusing my traditional roots.

That's why I use a lot of herbs and spices.

So tradition is important to you?

Yes…

but also no.

I respect tradition, I respect culture but

I believe that everything should evolve over time.

Tradition should not be an exception.

Oh no,

don't tell me you've been brainwashed by western culture.

Don't try and fix what isn't broken.

It's okay to appreciate other cultures and traditions but

the best thing to do is to…

follow and respect yours.

Mm.

How about we go grab something to eat?

Honestly, I can't.

I have to sort all this out.

I can order in, have them deliver pizza and we'll eat.

As long as you agree to help me sort this out and clean up.

-Deal? -Deal.

Okay.

Hello Ahmadu.

How are you? Is everything okay?

It's fine. Why wouldn't it be?

Just asking. I will be coming home late,

but thinking of stopping over to get some ice cream for the girls.

Ice cream again this night?

I don't think the children will be able to take it.

Besides,

you will be home late.

By the way, the usual monthly list.

Monthly list again Ahmadu?

-Hello? -Never mind, nothing.

-Ah! Aunty. -My darling.

-Good afternoon. -Good afternoon my love.

Yes ma.

Na'ima,

I think it's high time I discuss this important issue with you.

-Issue? -Yes.

What happened aunty?

Your dressing, look at you.

Your outfit is not covered up. As a Muslim child, you should know better.

Besides, what would suitors say when they see you dressed like this?

-Thank you aunty, I will do better. -I'm still talking.

My nephew, he wants a wife

and I told him lovely things about you

and he's eager to meet with you.

I see.

Well thank you so much for thinking of me, aunty

and painting me in such a positive image,

unfortunately my schedule is packed.

I mean between running this place, taking care of special clients like you,

taking care of myself, I quite frankly have no time.

So I will have to painfully decline meeting your nephew.

But don't worry, I will have Sarah add a free avocado facial to your spa package.

Thank you, aunty, have a lovely day.

Good bye.

Na'ima!

Doctor A…

I-- I need an emergency session please.

I'm not getting enough sleep,

if any.

and this… this has been happening very frequently.

I mean I keep myself busy doing stuff all day,

but I still end up falling into thoughts of what happened in the past.

And what was that?

You know what I’m talking about.

It may help if you talk about it.

You know it's not my job to guess

-or put words into-- -I'm stressed!

I'm worked up all day,

I don't want my mom to know I'm seeing you again obviously because…

she's just going to worry.

And when she worries, she meddles and when she meddles, it messes up my work.

Am I making sense?

Tell me Na'ima,

in between running the spa and the many other activities that you do,

would you say you take time out for yourself?

I can't do that.

I can't rest.

Cause if I do, everything is just going to come crashing down on me.

I have to keep everything going.

I hate to be the one to tell you this, but it will come crashing down

if you don't take things slow.

-Maybe you are right. -Mm-hm.

I do need to rest.

Could you prescribe some medication?

To help me sleep?

-That will make me feel better. -Na'ima you don't need medication.

You can do this.

If you must, I can recommend something homeopathic, like supplements.

Good evening father.

Good evening aunty.

-You are welcome. -We have not seen you in a while.

-We expected you last week. -Yes, I'm sorry about that.

I had a two-day training.

Really, what was it about?

No, no, no, no. No need to go into details.

Probably too technical

-for us to even understand. -That's true.

Hmmm.

Um, let me get us something to drink.

-Okay. -In the name of God.

Father, so how is your knee?

Hm,

much better. Turns out that I… I don't need the--

A surgery anymore afterwards.

And the doctor gave me some medication and I am wearing a very tight knee brace.

It's making tilling my, my garden very hard for me.

-You have a garden? -Yes.

I started a tomato and bell pepper garden, I planted Ugu, Okra.

It gives a retired man like me something to… to do besides

watch news and get upset

over the state of the nation.

Yes that is true.

-Well I’m glad you found a hobby. -Thank you.

No mosquitoes biting you today, Bappa.

Oh no, not at all.

I had the place fumigated today, this morning,

and so they've all moved to your section.

How was your day?

Well, as good as it gets, how was yours?

Did you…

finally have a visit with your father?

But Bappa, is there something wrong with the path I’ve chosen?

No officer, of course not.

Okay Bappa, then why doesn't anyone understand it?

Or me?

Uh, Zizi you see

not everybody will like the choices we make in life,

good or bad.

Some will…

throw stones,

some will have poisonous words.

But it is those who pat us on the back

and tell us well-done and commend us,

those are the ones that matter.

And that's your father.

Whether he shows it or not,

he's proud of you, just as I am.

Thank you, Bappa.

So, have you eaten old man?

Oh well um…

fruits suit my constitution very well.

Bappa you would starve if I don't come back to feed you,

so I'm going to make tuwo

and okro and a mango smoothie

if you will eat it all.

Zizi you can't cook tuwo and okro to save your life.

So you just make the other two, and I'll cook the soup, okay?

-I'm offended Bappa. -Aah!

-Here you go. -Thank you.

Um, allow me the pleasure, my dear.

Um…

You get me a virgin passion fruit cocktail and the lady will have a wave bender.

Great choice sir.

So,

do you come here often? I mean it’s lovely.

I just didn’t know a place like this existed in Abuja.

It's exclusive.

-Only on special occasions. -Hmm.

I’m surprised you’ve never been here before.

Well, I go out a lot but I've never been here.

I guess your past relationships never got passed movies and the dance clubs.

Sadiq, my past relationship suited the time just fine, thank you.

Apologies Badriya.

I meant in this relationship you'll have the best experience.

I will move the earth to see you get the luxury you deserve.

Alright.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Do you like it?

-It's fantastic! -Good.

Sir, your pre-ordered meal is ready, should I bring it over?

Yes.

-You ordered something for me? -Trust me.

You have such small delicate wrists.

Oh my God! Sadiq it's beautiful!

-You deserve the best of everything. -Mm-hm.

So tell me, how did you come up with this one?

My love,

If you want it you'll get it, all you have to do is just ask.

Wow!

This is a lot of food.

Let's see if I can make a guess.

Ginger,

hm,

uh, black pepper,

cucumber,

and…

Hold on.

Cloves!

So you still have that sense of identifying flavors.

You know all the methods to make me happy.

Ahmadu,

I want to have a word with you please.

Yes?

Um…

When am I supposed to go back to school?

-School again? -Mm-hm.

Come on Hanifa, you mean to tell me that you're still on this issue?

Hanifa you have two children now.

Yeah, one is already in school,

the other one

is still a little baby.

You're also taking care of me your husband,

but you want to leave these responsibilities and go back to school?

But, I can still do all that while studying, right?

What's the difference?

Please forget about this issue, okay?

Ahmadu, do you mean that this is the end of my dreams?

Subtitle translation by: Anu Akiyode.

Good morning.

You came.

You invited me, remember?

Shall we?

Hey, wait up. Zizi!

Wait!

Zizi!

Argh.

Wow!

You did that on purpose, right?

Probably.

What are you doing with this water anyway?

It's not like you exerted any kind of energy man.

Well I gave up

after you bolted and left me behind.

And this is a well deserved drink, trust me.

I mean,

okay I need to get ready for work, maybe we should do it another time.

Of course, we're definitely doing it some other time.

It's just that next time,

I will be riding a bike next to you

while you jog.

Uh, wait!

-Um… I got you something. -What?

Okay.

Seriously sometimes I really don't know

when you're teasing or when you're just being Zizi.

What? I was going to say thank you for the thoughtful gift.

Ah yeah, you were.

Anyway um,

have a good day, and enjoy your drinks.

Thank you.

Ahmadu.

Huh-uh?

Take this.

-What's that? -The list of food stock.

Again?

I don't understand what you mean by again, Ahmadu.

It's the end of the month.

Has the month ended?

There are two days left.

Honestly I don't understand how you manage the food stock in this house.

The way you manage the house supplies need to be adjusted.

Until I come back please.

Hello my love.

How are you doing?

Uh, better now that I’ve heard your voice.

Are you busy later in the day?

I'm never too busy for you, what do you need?

So, I have a spa appointment, and I was hoping you could drop me off.

I could send you a car and driver,

-what time? -No.

I want you to pick me up.

Because I also want to see you.

I have meetings all day

-but I can drop you off just before. -Okay, thank you, see you soon.

Okay.

Hmm.

-Ma'am. -Mm?

We have a fresh customer coming in today for a full body,

and two of the girls aren't around.

They are on break.

What time?

An hour before madam Badriya comes in.

Okay, um, I'll call Surrayah to come help us.

-Alright. -Alright.

Okay. Um…

The reports need to be handed in by next week at the latest,

so all the research needs to be done in time.

Mother.

-Kassim you are here already. -Yes.

Um, so this is Bello,

the friend I told you about.

-How are you this evening ma? -I am very well.

You didn't have to come with him.

Zainab, could you please tell the procurement officer to come down?

Yes ma.

Have a seat.

-I'll wait for you outside, okay? -Alright.

So, Kassim tells me you're into renewable energy.

Yes ma.

Tell me about it.

Hey Zizi!

-Hey. -Hey.

How's your day going?

Good as it can get. Yours?

Uh, I'm fine.

Um, so where are you going?

Aren't you supposed to be here for a meeting with your mother?

Oh, you heard when she said I didn't need to be here.

Why else do you think I came?

Hm, I don't know Kassim, why?

Listen, you can't just come to my workplace to see me.

No matter what.

It isn't proper in any way.

It's fine.

Okay, I came to see my mother…

but here you are, I guess you are just…

collateral damage.

Totally wrong context but nice try.

Now go away.

And don't come and visit me here ever again.

-Oh my God, Sadiq I'm so sorry I'm late. -No problem.

What's this?

How clumsy can you get Badriya?

Look… look at me!

-Sadiq I'm so sorry, it was an-- -Get your hands off me.

And I told you I have meetings to attend, all-day!

Now I have to go home, change, before I drop you off.

Stay in the car, I will be right back.

Na'ima!

Baddie Baddie.

-Hm-hm. -Who's that?

I'll give you the gist later, I hope I'm not late?

-No, you are just in time. -Alright let's go.

Madam let's go. Ah!

-I said I will give you the gist later. -You. Hmm!

Ha! Baddie

Baddie, they're ready for you.

I'll attend to my other client and look for you.

Surrayah.

Ah! I'm so glad to see you, really.

-We're a bit understaffed today. -Happy to help.

Sarah has the list of clients we're expecting,

she'll give you the names of the ones I need you to help me attend to.

Okay, that's fine.

Alright, so what do we have?

-Greetings, Hajiya. -Well done.

-You're new here, right? -Yes, but my cousin is a regular.

She recommended you.

Thank you for slipping me in at the last minute.

Ah, no worries Hajiya, thank you for choosing us.

Please remember to give Sarah at the reception your cousin’s name.

We like to give gifts to our clients for recommendations.

And seeing as it's your first time here, allow me the pleasure of giving you

a 50% discount off your first treatment.

Oh, thank you.

Sur, please come.

Please help me take care of our new client.

She gets 50% off, it's her first treatment.

-Oh, thank you. -You're welcome.

I have somewhere to go now, but I won't be long.

-Alright, that's fine. -Hajiya, enjoy.

Thank you.

-Um, Sur… -Yeah?

Do you happen to have any herbal remedies for insomnia?

I think so, I will check.

-Thank you. -You're welcome.

Alright, so come with me, I will show you to the changing room.

-Okay. -Yeah.

Alright. This way.

Hello Amir.

I hope I'm not interrupting you at a busy time.

No, not at all.

What can I do for you?

How… how does lunch sound?

Sure.

I'll pick you up at the hammam in an hour.

No, I won't be ready by then. Um…

How about I meet up with you?

-Sure, call me when you head out then. -Okay.

Sorry ma, we only have a few sheets left, let me go get some more.

Okay, that's fine.

Comfortable?

Yes.

But where is the other girl?

I'll replace her for now.

Oh, okay.

The things we do to keep our men, huh?

Excuse me?!

We peel and pluck,

scrub and polish,

just to keep them happy.

But is that really enough to keep them?

Ow!

No.

That wondering eye of theirs

spots a younger girl

and their attention is quickly diverted from you.

Ow!

Please, can you be a little bit more gentle?

I feel like you're going to peel off my skin. Argh.

Done now.

Hajiya Bilkis, I thought you were done.

Well I am now.

Though I'd like to advise that you get a Brazilian while you are at it.

Sadiq likes it clean.

-I'm so sorry ma. -Pass me my phone over there!

Hello Sadiq.

Are you done already?

Oh please, do you know any Hajiya Bilkis?

Yes, that's my wife's name.

What?

-I'm so sorry ma. I'm so sorry ma. -Get out!

Sorry ma.

Ha! Gosh, Sadiq.

Good evening Bappa.

Why are you home so early?

Early day off, I just thought I'll just do some groceries and clear out the store.

Oh, you took time off work,

to come home to work.

Why don't you do something? Do something that young people like.

But Bappa this is what this young

-person does. -No, no, no, I mean…

go watch a movie, hm? Spend some time with some people.

Huh?

You… just go out of the house.

Why don't you go to that… that park that you like going to.

Bappa, are you trying to get rid of me?

Yes. Because you are beginning to act like a house wife.

Okay, I will.

Very good. Good.

Yeah.

What is it Sadiq?

-Don't hang up on me again. -Why not? Why not?!

I have nothing to say to a lying, cheating man!

How could you Sadiq? You have a wife? A wife!

-Stop raising your voice. -Oh please, I'll speak the way I please!

Now listen to me!

This is going to be the last time we will ever talk to each other.

Don't call me! Don't text me! Don't come to my house!

And please, delete my number from your phone

because I'll certainly delete yours. You liar!

What's wrong Baddie?

It's none of your business!

I'm sure you've heard enough to use as your gossip,

so please get out!

Okay! It's time for prayers.

Maybe if you come out and pray God will fix whatever the problem is.

Just get out!

Ma seems to think something is bothering you. Is there?

You know you can talk to me.

I know I can, and I am.

Seriously what's up with you?

You know when ma starts to worry, she bugs me.

I mean, if it's work you can delegate and micro-manage.

Micro-manage.

Look who's using big words.

Don't deflect.

I'm really worried too.

Slow down, rest more, eat better.

It’s starting to show on you now.

Kassim I need you to relax, okay?

I'm fine, I will be fine.

Do you wanna hang out later? We can talk then, hm?

I have an incoming call and I'm driving.

Sure. I'll be at Ma's for dinner anyway,

so we'll see then. Game tonight, okay?

When we got there,

there's this amazing place everyone talked about

and we had to go scuba diving there, I think it was called Belmar Beach.

And I'm sure you'd have loved it if you were there.

Na'ima.

I'm so sorry, I didn't get that.

I was talking about my time in Mauritius.

I said to go scuba diving because it was exhilarating.

I'm a poor swimmer actually, not keen on being underwater.

They have instructors there to keep you safe.

I'm so sorry Amir, I'm poor company today,

can we take a rain check?

I promise we can have lunch or dinner in a week or two.

Is something wrong? Did… did I do anything?

I'm sorry, but I have to go.

Let's meet up when I can focus on you.

Thank you.

-Hey Zizi, it's been a while. -Hi Grace, I know.

-I've been so busy but I'm here now. -Wow!

-I was starting to think you abandoned us. -No, I'm here now.

Okay.

Alright, let's start.

Please come to the front of your mat.

Bring your hands to prayer,

relax, breathe softly.

I’m so sorry I’m late doctor. I’m so sorry.

It's fine.

So what's the sleeping situation like?

It'd be better if you give me something for it.

Are you feeling antsy?

I've had a very odd day.

I literally ran off on Amir.

I blew off Baddie,

I've had this itch in my head

all day that something's going to happen.

I've been wondering what it could be, and I can't put my finger on it.

Kassim calls me, my mom is worried,

-everybody-- -Okay, okay.

Let's take a deep breath together, yeah?

Again.

Do you feel calmer now?

I'm losing it again, aren't I?

Anxiety attacks will happen okay?

It's how you handle them that matters.

So, let's talk about Amir.

That's the love interest, right?

To be honest

Doctor Ajifa, I find him boring and overextending.

He tries so hard, it… it puts me off.

And Baddie?

Baddie is Baddie.

I mean I love her but these days

I can only take her in small doses.

And your brother and mother?

They ask,

they pry,

they prod,

and I have

absolutely nothing to say to them, I have nothing to tell them.

I mean I know they are trying to be supportive but I just…

I feel smothered.

Oh my world. He just missed a glorious chance.

-I want to have a word with you -No please, give me 50 minutes.

Let the match end, I think we are going to win.

What's the meaning of that?

I told you that I want us to talk and you are telling me

to wait until the end of the game?

Is that why you should switch off the TV?

Are you the one paying the electricity bill?

I'm not the one paying the electricity bill.

As your wife is there any problem if I help you in paying the electricity bill?

If I can't help you who else should?

Hanifa you are making things difficult for yourself.

You want to be listened to, but you are complicating the issue.

Things are not done that way.

It's concerning my education,

I want to know why you don't want me to return to school.

Do you want to know?

It's very simple.

Give birth to a male child, if you can.

You are damn lucky I came!

You drive with so much confidence and it's attractive.

Don't try to sweet talk me Sadiq

when you are nothing but a liar and a cheat.

You told me you are better than all these crazy men out there.

But you? You are the chief of them all!

Please be quiet.

What did you say?

Why are you trying to create a scene here?

I came to see a grown woman, so please, kindly compose yourself and act like one.

How dare you speak to me like a small child, Sadiq?

You know what? Why don't we go somewhere quiet

and talk like mature adults, hm?

I'm not going anywhere with you.

Sadiq!

Sadiq!

Don't you dare walk away from me!

Sadiq!

Sadiq!

I know you can hear me Sadiq.

You were saying something?

Come and sit.

Ma.

-Good morning. -Good morning my baby.

Aah… baby.

Baby.

I'm a grown woman,

you can see that, right?

You'll always be a baby in my eyes.

I always think of that chubby little girl with the curious eyes.

Do you know how unflattering that is?

Hmm.

-Talking about chubby little ones-- -No.

We’re not gonna have that conversation this morning.

-I didn't say anything. -You didn't have to say it, okay?

Chubby little baby, that's a huge hint.

By the way, why am I the one getting this conversation?

I remember you pinning me down for it last month.

It’s Kassim's turn this month.

Well if either of you would give me grandbabies

I wouldn't have to drop so many heavy hints.

-Na'ima, if you will only get married-- -Ma… No.

No please, let's have this conversation another day, hm?

How are you?

Have you been sleeping well?

I'm good.

I'm… getting enough rest.

Are you sure?

Yes, I am.

Ma, someone will think that work is keeping you busy enough

to stop you from worrying.

I'm a mother, my job is to worry about my children.

I saw the doctor only a few days ago and

she seemed satisfied with my progress.

I'm good, okay?

-I'm not trying to pry, it's just that-- -I know.

You're a mother and you're worrying about your children

like you’re supposed to. I understand.

I think.

But I'm taking care of myself.

I'm taking my vitamins, I’m eating my fruits. Hm?

Hmm, yummy!

I'm sleeping, I'm taking care of myself ma, you need to stop worrying.

In fact, stop worrying right now.

I'll try.

You'll try.

Sure.

Won't you eat something?

-Sadiq, I am shocked. -Shocked about what?

I'm married, and so what?

You say it so boldly.

You're cheating on your wife and you lied to me.

Badriya, you are getting it all wrong.

I did not cheat on my wife,

-and I've not lied to you. -Yes you have.

-Lying by omission, still the same thing. -I would have told you if you had asked.

I mean, does it make any difference?

Any difference?

I am wasting my time dating a married man.

Badriya, my relationship with Bilkis does not change anything about you,

about us.

Hold it, we've not finished our discussion.

You see, I think you should

stop acting like you don't understand our culture and tradition.

It's not as if I have treated either you or Bilkis badly.

Sadiq, this is not right.

I have never been treated this way by

-anybody I have ever-- -We are not going to talk about

anyone that you've been with

Badriya, they are beneath me.

There's a huge difference between being a wife and a girlfriend.

-Hmm. -Especially those small boys

that you've been accustomed to.

Well, that's part of my life and my past,

just the way Bilkis is part of your life.

Badriya,

my intentions towards you are honorable.

I want you to be my wife.

We need to double-check on the security,

you know how we can get with the crowds?

-Yeah, sure -Good.

Just… Hang on a little bit.

Hannatu.

You're still crying?

No.

Everything will be fine.

I understand.

You think Kassim and I, we don't have our own issues?

Kassim is willful too.

What can I do?

I just help him handle his own issues and…

he eventually comes around.

You know that a mother is the most important influence in her son's life.

They think they’re grown-ups now.

They are adults now and they are independent.

So we let them think that just to humor them.

No problem.

Everything will be fine.

No, no, no, no. What are sisters for?

My regards to everyone.

Mm-hm.

We were on the third item, ma.

-Third item of? -The updated security protocols from HQ.

-Oh! Right. -The ministers are supposed to go

through it with the ADC, so that we can both discuss it.

-And, then I got the call? -Yes.

Hmm.

You know,

As a mother grows older

her sons become the most important thing in her life.

The devotion of a son is…

the only thing a mother can trust.

The Almighty knew that

we wouldn't fully enjoy our husbands, so he blessed us with sons.

Yes ma'am.

A mother needs to raise her sons carefully.

She needs to be interested.

And that is why she has to know where he goes, who his friends are,

who he chooses as his girlfriend,

and who he decides to marry.

Here I am just rambling when you don't even know what I'm talking about.

Oh, maybe you will someday.

Maybe.

-Surrayah. -Na'ima.

Good morning.

Ah!

I swear, you're the only one I know

that makes traditional stuff smell so appealing.

But they are appealing. My grandmother always said

nature makes the plants that heal smell good,

so that we can find them.

She was right, hm.

I hope they work just as good as they smell.

They do. This one softens the skin like butter.

Just wait for your customers to try it. Hm, they will call for more.

That's Surrayah for you.

Do you know that in ancient Europe

they will call you a witch.

-A good witch I hope. -I can't say, hmm.

Some of these your concoctions, they're something else.

If I was a witch I would know all your secrets.

-I don't have any secrets. -Yes you do.

You never tell me anything these days, it's almost as if we are not friends.

I don't know anything personal about you.

Are we going to be able to keep this in supply?

Eh? Are the ingredients going to be readily available?

Yes they will. If we run out we'll get more.

Hmm.

Hanifa, have you arrived?

Aah. Okay, I'm coming.

I completely forgot that the girls were coming over to hangout.

Oh, okay.

I'll join them, I'll leave you to your magic.

Alright then.

Or is there something you wanted to discuss?

No, It's fine. Go ahead.

-Sure? -Yeah.

-You know what? I think you should join. -Really?

-Yeah, let's show them your new recipes. -Alright, I'll join you in a bit.

-See you. -Alright.

-Baddie, beg me. -No,

-I know you're going to tell me after. -I won't tell you.

-I know -Okay!

Is she coming here to join us?

-Yes Baddie. -Na'ima,

why do you humor her and act like she is a friend?

It can result in disrespect.

-Baddie. -What?

Why do you act like that?

Remember she is also a family member too.

Exactly.

Plus I want her to show you girls something.

-Yeah, I don't want to be here now. -Baddie!

-Surrayah! How are you? -Hello dear. I'm fine.

-How is your husband? -He is fine.

-And those beautiful girls? -They're all doing fine.

-Well done. -Alright.

Baddie.

Surrayah.

Anyway, Surrayah here made a very powerful mixture

and of course I thought the two of you should be the first to see it. Eh?

Hanifa, maybe you'll try it and give us feedback.

-Really? -Yes, she is our perfect tester.

Forget all these things women sell online, this is the real deal.

Mm-hmm.

Wait until your husband is dazed, you will call me back for more

Kayan mata of the highest order, you mean.

But should Baddie be here while we are discussing this?

Ah-ah, Hanifa.

See, this married woman thing you are carrying on your head everywhere,

I hope you remember that I am way older than you are.

-Only by a few weeks. -Still, I am.

Why are the two of you never focused, is that why we are here?

Surrayah please

-carry on with your presentation. -Okay.

-We have bagaruwa powder, -Mm-hm.

maca-root powder,

watermelon powder, camel's milk.

Each of these are good when taken alone.

Combine it together, ah, and it's like dynamite.

-Mm-hmm? -Yeah.

How does it work?

It's tightens your personal temple, and makes it very accommodating.

They say when a man is with you, hm,

-it feels like heaven. -Really?

Sold out, just pack it for me.

-Hanifa. -No, not now.

Ma'am.

Hello Jemima.

Hafsatu.

-How have you been? -Very well.

Look at you! You've refused to age.

Come on, you're the one who isn't aging.

Look at me, I have added weight, you are just teasing me.

There's time for everything.

-Good evening aunty. -Good evening Maryam.

Have a seat please.

I heard that Rabi is married now, and you have grandchildren now, I feel jealous.

Come on, you know how it is when the girls come before the boys,

you become a grandmother too early.

Now I wish that Na'ima came first.

Kassim has been dragging the issue, he's refused to pick a lady to marry.

Be patient, there is time for everything.

Um, Please can I use the restroom?

Um, Zizi could you show her the way?

Sure, this way.

-Hafsat, -Hm?

you've raised such a lovely young daughter.

Have you chosen a man for her yet?

We are waiting for a good one.

That's right.

Na'ima,

I really can't wait to try this your new mixture.

To be honest I can't take all the credit though.

Surrayah, that girl knows her herbs and spices.

Hanifa, please make sure you try it tonight because

we need reviews.

We?

Who's we? Why do you need reviews?

-Because I may be interested. -With who?

Ah-ah! Madam married woman, you've started again, right? Please.

-Baddie the hottie! -Yes, but I'm being serious girls, like

I have a serious proposal on ground.

When did you break up with Sagir that you have a serious proposal?

Na'ima, what's with this Sagir, Sagir? Leave the

poor small boy to rest at home please. I have a serious man in my life.

-Serious really? -Yes.

A serious man. One who knows what he wants.

Like on the very first day,

he delivered this beautiful and expensive watch to me.

Like that's how real men do it, right?

-Wait! Mr. Watch? -Mm-hm, Mr. Watch.

Come on Baddie, hm? Don't tell me you are considering that man.

I mean, I understand that he is wealthy and all,

but, I can sense another woman somewhere else.

Hanifa, why are you doing this?

You just never liked Sadiq from the beginning

and I don't know why or why you are against this whole idea.

-Wait, who's Sadiq? -Ah!

-Baddie! -Mm-hm?

Is he the one responsible for all that drama that

happened at my spa the other day?

Wait! What?

See, I'm just telling you people that he proposed to me.

-I didn't say I agreed, did I? -Hm.

-Rukky! -Yes?!

Come here, be fast!

go and get my bag quickly, I need you to go

-and buy electricity units now. -Okay.

Peace be unto you.

Ah-ah.

Hanifa!

-Hanifa! -Yes!

Where's my food?

Sorry, I'm still cooking.

Hey! You are walking out on me while I'm still talking?

-I thought you are done talking. -I just asked where my food is.

Come on Hanifa.

There isn't so much in this house.

We are not too many in this house that you can't manage things properly.

It's not as though you work in an office and you have so much to do.

You are right.

I don't work in an office.

But the workload in this house is more than that of the office, right?

What workload?

You mean going to have fun with your friends,

ignoring your responsibilities at home. Is that what you mean by workload?

Come on Hanifa.

Your attitude speaks for you. Your friends are not married.

But because of your friends, you neglect your home?

You want to jeopardize your marriage because of your friends?

What has this got to do with my friends please?

Be sincere. Huh?

Just because I went out once?

Okay, we ran out of power units and I sent Rukky to go and buy.

Power units? What?

We ran out of power units and you couldn't call to inform me? Right?

If you had called and told me

I would have bought it through my phone,

or sent the driver to go and buy it.

Is it a crime if I take up some of our financial responsibilities?

Who asked you to take up such responsibilities?

Did I tell you that I'm incapable? Have I ever asked your for help?

Damn!

This is very unfortunate.

Kassim.

Ah-ah. Are we fighting?

What is it this time?

I'm just… checking in, where are you?

-Oh God. -Hey wait, I know this place.

-The Basketball court by Jabi lake. -No, no, don't even think about it!

-Too late. -Kassim!

I'll see you in a few.

Alright, let's start the class.

Come to the front of your mats,

bring your hands to the heart.

Relax,

take a deep breath in.

Thank you.

-See you. -Bye!

Okay, so what have you achieved by coming here?

Fresh air, happy people,

and I get to see you away from work.

I'll take that, thank you.

Kassim this…

what you are doing, this isn't cute.

We're not a thing and you know it.

I never said we were. Okay?

I mean…

I just enjoy your company.

So yoga?

Yes, I like it.

It's peaceful, and I don't have to socialize too much.

-What's wrong with socializing? -Nothing. I mean,

I'm just-- I guess I'm not just a people person cause I like my own space.

Ah, tell me about it.

Oh wow, look.

-It's been a while since I saw a horse. -Huh.

-You like horses? -I do.

-Hi, can I pet him? -Yeah, for real.

My dad use to take me horse riding when we were young, it was our thing.

-Okay. -Until things started to change.

You still ride?

No, I don't.

-Why? -I don't know.

Life got in the way I guess.

Hi Prince.

Hanifa.

What are you still doing in the kitchen

at this time of the night?

This is what people who do not work in the office do.

Hello Na'ima.

Good morning Baddie.

You and your spa are all over the blogs.

Wait! What?

They are saying that you run a sex den,

that your mom is using government money to fund you.

Like, it's so crazy.

You better go do some damage control

before they spoil your business and your family's reputation.

Thanks for letting me know Baddie.

Hmm, Alhaji, you make me feel so special.

You are really, really, really special, and beautiful too.

You know, every time I look at you

every part of my body can barely think straight.

You make me shy.

Father!

Let me call you back later.

-And who was that? -It's none of your business Badriya.

Well, that was so excruciating to hear.

-Behave yourself, young lady. -Behave? After what I just witnessed?

You are cheating, father!

Watch your mouth, I will have you not talk to me in such manner!

I'm sorry father, it's just that you are not like these other men out there.

You are not, you are better than they are.

It's these small gutter Abuja girls, I know them, they're just after your money.

They are gold-diggers.

I will ask you again to keep your mouth shut.

You have a wife.

How do you think she will feel if she heard about this?

You even sent the girl to school.

Did you do that for mother?

Well, your mother is aware of this marriage,

and being the wise woman that she is, she has accepted it.

Not my mother!

You mean my mother agreed for you to bring in one small girl as her co-wife?

Impossible!

What does she have that my mother doesn't have?

You will not talk to me that way Badriya!

Now I’m a pimp.

How can I be sex trafficking from a spa?

Na'ima calm down.

Hmmm, this is lovely, it smells nice.

Mother… I am in shock!

-What happened? -It's father.

I think there is something wrong with him.

Is he alright? What happened?

He was on a video call with a small girl,

and the things I heard them say,

I swear I was so embarrassed.

And then I confronted him, guess what he said,

that he wants to marry her, and that you even know about it.

Mother.

Mother.

Are you even listening?

She should be more mature as a young woman,

but she's just still…

silly little girl.

You should always advise her.

Okay mother.

Let me see this.

-Hello Pious. -Hajiya how are you?

I'm doing fine, thank you, and you?

I'm good, thank you.

What's up?

There's a new job.

-How fast do you need it? -Like yesterday.

-That fast? -Yes, the guy needs it urgently.

Argh. Okay, no problem, you know me,

I won't disappoint you.

-Okay, I'll set everything up. -Alright.

-Just send me the details, okay? -Okay Hajiya.

Thank you.

Let's go home, mommy got a new job!

-May God open doors for us. -Amen.

-Peace be unto you. -Peace be unto you too.

-Ah-ah! Sorry, it's my in-law. -Okay, let me leave you two then.

-Good to see you, Amir. -Same here sir.

Hah! How are you?

I saw you when you walked in but I couldn't call out for obvious reasons.

I… I understand.

So, what brought you to this side?

I'm sure we've never prayed in this mosque together.

Um, there is one of my business contacts that's in the neighborhood and

at the time we were done with the meeting… Prayer.

Oh, that's great.

I haven't visited in a while,

how is my sister and those my nieces?

Thanks be to God,

Khadijah and Binta are growing fast.

You know.

But Hanifa…

Well,

you know how women can be.

Is everything alright?

See,

she's been a little moody recently.

but I'm sure that whatever it is, she will get over it.

But you know that I am treating her well as I promised.

Well of course, I… I wasn't insinuating anything else.

I know you weren't.

But you know married people have their ups and down.

But I'm sure

you will understand if you join the club.

I see.

Sorry, Amir,

right now I think, I will have to run for a meeting, hm?

-Okay. -Yes.

Uh… Good to see you once again.

Please, why don't you find time to come and see them

one of these days.

I'm sure Hanifa and the girls would be happy to see you.

That will be lovely.

-Please extend my regards to them. -I will, I will.

-Until next time. -Okay.

By God's grace.

-Baddie, -Mm?

what are you about to do?

Hi Baddie gang,

it's your girl Baddie, and today I am super excited

because I bring fantastic news to you and you're gonna love it.

So, I met someone and he…

let's say he swept me off my feet and I'm dead serious.

He popped the big question and I said yes.

Your girl Baddie is what? Off the market.

Hm.

Hauwa says what would your wedding be like?

Well, Hauwa trust your girl,

my wedding is going to be like a royal wedding.

Baddie isn't going to settle for less, neither will my sweetheart.

Guys, this is going to be a very busy period for me

but I will try to keep you guys updated.

I love you. Thank you for all the love and the wishes.

Bye guys.

When I set up my Hammam and spa, my aim was to provide Nigerian women

a place to completely nurture their bodies.

Come in.

Are you done ma?

Hmm, I'm just having a read-through.

Come. Come listen to this line, I don't know, I feel it sounds off.

"Our products are based on careful research

and integrate current science with ancient but proven practices".

Okay.

Our page has been visited a lot, since I checked this morning.

All publicity is good publicity.

Hm.

So they say, but you have to take charge of the narrative.

What are our statistics?

Aunty Baddie is trending.

It looks like she made an announcement.

What are our statistics? Leave Baddie alone.

I'm sorry ma.

Hi guys,

it's your girl Baddie and today I am super excited

because I bring fantastic news to you, and you're gonna love it.

So, I met someone and he…

Let's say he swept me off my feet and I'm dead serious.

He popped the big question and I said yes.

Your girl Baddie is what? Off the market.

Baddie! This girl is high on something.

I'll call her later.

-Sarah! -Ma'am.

-Ma-- One minute, please. -The statistics!

-Baddie. -Hm?

Are you sure?

Marriage is not something to be rushed into.

What do you think about this dress against the other one?

Don't worry, I don't think I want white anymore.

cause I think I prefer these colored dresses.

Maybe I'll just settle with uh… a deep red.

Baddie,

you should listen when you're offered advice.

I don't want you to make a mistake.

Aren't you divorced?

Why would I take advice from a divorcee?

Come on Baddie.

What's with the disrespect?

You know the circumstances that led to my divorce.

Besides you are my younger sister,

I don't want to see anything bad happen to you.

Excuse me,

last time I checked, you were not my big sister

and I will not take advice from you.

I know father and mother have made this place so comfortable for you

but please, don't forget your place.

-My place? -Yes, your place.

I know that you want my friends and everything that I have.

But please don't forget where you came from.

Hm.

Mommy!

My baby.

I'm sorry.

-Take her in to change her clothes. -Ah! Welcome, Sir.

-Take her in to change her clothes. -What's going on in this house?

I received a call from Khadijah's school that I should come and pick her up.

I don't know when I lost track of time.

They should have called me.

Where is your phone?

It's here.

I'm sorry,

-I didn't know it's on silent mode. -It's on silent?

It's on silent mode. What if something bad

had happened to this girl, what would you have said?

What will happen?

You switched off your phone and sat here drawing rubbish.

But Ahmadu why are you agitated about this issue?

You are her father too.

Why are you making it a big deal

just because I was late to pick her up today?

I know that I am her father.

Does that mean I don't have work to do?

Don't forget that

I am the one going out there to provide food for this family

to feed you and your children.

And you expect me to babysit the children for you?

Huh? Come on Hanifa!

Just two children,

you can't take care of them?

I've heard you,

I don't go out to work in any office.

Ahmadu,

but between you and God

haven't I apologized to you?

Doesn't it hurt?

It doesn’t hurt, right? You are downplaying my pain right?

Is abandoning the girl in school and refusing to go and pick her up

because of your nonsense drawing not a big deal to you?

You weren't doing anything serious and expect me not to be hurt?

You sat here drawing this nonsense!

Ahmadu!

Ahmadu--

Are you sure it's because of Khadija you're acting like this?

I can act this way over anybody.

Step away Rukkayah!

Bappa.

Are you okay?

Are you okay?

Yeah, I'm fine.

I was just taking a nap.

Bappa are you sure you are okay? You never take a nap.

And you never fuss before.

These days you are just too worried about me, I am fine.

I mean I'm sorry I worry, but you never sleep in the afternoon.

I mean, at most a nap in your chair and that's it.

Yeah.

Sometimes the soldier in me is too stubborn,

forgetting that I’m just a man.

Of course.

And talking about men,

who was that young man that came here the other day?

What man?

The one that was…

making eyes for you. Yeah.

That morning at the gate.

-Bappa nobody was making eyes at me. -Oh my dear, come on.

I am old but I am not blind.

He came to run with you.

Oh that one?

He is nobody important,

just someone who needed help with his fitness.

And…

he came to you?

Yes.

Oh come on my dear, what do you want in life my jewel?

I want…

Wait, where is all this coming from?

Ah!

Okay, I'm too tired to talk about life's philosophy and all of that, please.

Where are the kids?

I've put them to bed already.

Good.

Ahmadu, you mean…

our problem has gotten to this point?

What happened to the man I married?

Completely...

I am lost, I don't understand anything anymore.

Well, um…

There are...

some things that you may not need to understand.

I understand

that I can't understand.

Hello Mama.

How are you Zainab?

Fine.

You haven't called me.

We spoke a few days ago, didn't we?

Have you not heard about Badriya?

No, what happened to her?

You wouldn't believe it.

I don't know why she can't be sensible like you.

What has she done this time?

She made a foolish decision to waste her life,

that is what.

Imagine saying she's going to marry one stranger we don't know.

So,

what's the problem here exactly, the marriage or the stranger?

Because you've been on about marriage and grandkids

for a while now, at least she is starting early.

That is not funny Zainab!

Well mama, I don't know what to say.

I didn't know she had a boyfriend after the other one.

Me too.

All she gave us is a name.

Surrayah tells me he is very rich,

-and he has a wife. -Wow! Okay, now I'm actually surprised.

Baddie, marrying as a second or a third wife?

Can that girl even share anything let alone a husband?

That is why this is madness.

He is not very young either, from what I gather.

Oh really? I guess she is…

she is an adult, she is old enough to choose.

She is not wise enough.

Can you find out more about this man?

What do you mean?

You work with the police.

Help us find out

what is this man’s job,

who are his contacts, what is his history.

This is Abuja you know, we cannot be too careful.

Mama, you want me to spy on your prospective son-in-law?

It's normal to investigate before marriage.

If she did this the right way

she will be marrying someone we know.

I mean, oh well, you know Baddie.

That is why we want you to check.

Be your sister's keeper.

Mama,

Baddie is the last person that wants to be kept.

And I don't want to be involved in your situation besides,

use, ask the people that you know. He's not a ghost.

But you can find out from your office.

Mama, you want me to use government resources to spy on Baddie's boyfriend?

Come on mama.

Come on

Good morning father, good morning mother.

-I hope you're doing fine this morning. -Fine, thank you.

We have called you this morning

because of your latest um, decision to get married.

You are old enough to keep your own home,

yes.

But that is not the problem.

The problem is…

who is he?

Where is he from?

Which respectable man would ask for a lady's hand in marriage

without first meeting her family?

Well,

Baddie,

you don't pick a husband by the roadside.

Call him and ask him to join us for dinner tomorrow.

Yes father.

Hmmm!

Hello.

Hello ma, hope you are fine.

Good, good! Good morning.

Okay, please don't panic, but we have some problems.

I'm listening.

Where do I start?

The products that we ordered have not arrived yet

and I can't even reach the supplier.

On top of that,

the printers have messed up the packaging and they're refusing to reprint.

The towels and sheets are here but we still need the

-Let me think, let me think. -embroidery done before our launch.

Okay, all work should stop for now.

Okay?

I'm going to get on the next available flight to Lagos.

Okay.

Call the accountant, he needs to halt every payment.

I don't want to be paying for things I might have to return.

Okay ma.

Okay, I'm really sorry about this.

Book me the next available flight to Lagos.

Okay ma.

Amir,

Peace be unto you.

-I am-- -You are busy.

I guessed as much.

I'm sorry, I just…

I'm a bit worked up.

I woke up to a very crazy schedule, I just…

You know what? Go on.

My feelings towards you are probably obvious by now,

but it seems to me that we… we may not be on the same page.

After a lot of thought I… I have decided to just come out and say it.

I really want us to work towards a relationship.

Are you still there?

Yes, yes I’m here. To be honest with you,

there's just so much going on right now, I’m not in the mental capacity or

bandwidth to have a conversation about this issue.

Issue? Why call it that?

I just laid my cards on the proverbial table and

this is all you have to say?

Look, I'm leaving for Lagos on the next available flight.

I have to go and take care of business

for my Hammam opening there.

Okay, and I don't know how long I have to be there for,

I don't know when I will be back.

Can we please have this conversation

when all that is sorted and I’m back in Abuja?

Why so soon? Can't the journey wait till tomorrow?

Wait?

Amir, my business should wait?

You want me to put my…

my Hammam on pause because you and I need to have a conversation?

Wow!

-Amir… -It's okay.

You… you were just saying what you truly felt.

Please let me call you back, Amir.

It's done ma. Is there anything else you'd like for me to do?

Okay.

Good morning mama.

Zainab how is work?

I hope you are fine.

Work is fine, is everything okay?

Alhaji has invited Sadiq to dinner tonight and I would like for you to be there.

My mind has not been at rest, to be honest.

Mama, I'm… not sure that I'll be done with work by evening.

The minister’s schedule is quite tight

but I will see what I can do, I need to go back to work now.

Please try and make it, it is important for me.

Hm!

So, Hanny, as I was saying

mama has refused to understand with me.

She has refused to understand that my mind is made up

concerning this whole marriage thing with Sadiq.

And

her only reason is just because she doesn't like him.

She's just looking out for you.

You know nowadays people just jump into marriage,

without knowing what marriage is all about.

In marriage,

promises will be broken, compromises will be made.

In fact, you have to always be ready to please him.

Hanifa!

You're beginning to sound like her.

What's the meaning of that, what’s wrong with you?

Is there something you are trying to point out

that you think I should be ready for?

That's not it Baddie.

I'm just speaking to you based on experience.

Marriage is not like dating that someday you'll say,

"oh, I broke up with him because he forgot my birthday".

Wow, Hanifa

Marriage has really turned you into an old woman.

Eh! Please, not me.

Honestly, I feel so, I feel so old at times.

But I want to tell you the truth,

Baddie I want you to be honest with yourself.

I don't know why it's such a big deal.

To me honestly, I just feel like mama doesn't like him,

because he doesn't fit in to her idea of what an old-fashioned man should be.

She claims she fell in love after she got married,

but, her father just brought a man,

introduced him to her, she accepted, and they got married.

My parents too,

they have been married for over 40 years.

And they are always happy, in fact, they fall in love with each other every day.

What is so special about their own generation

that their marriages last longer than our own generation?

Now three days after the wedding,

they start having problems, and the next thing is divorce.

Alright, here.

Have a taste.

Hm!

The original name for this is Ta baje.

But I think we should give it another name.

What do you think?

Mm-hm.

Hmm.

Baddie is causing some problems at home,

I think someone needs to talk to her.

I mean, we are all worried about her.

Mother was even close to tears today,

and Baddie didn't even stop to comfort the woman.

She just jumped into the car and sped off

For someone who is about to get married,

you would think she would have a little empathy for others.

Come on Na'ima,

I have been talking to you since and you're not even listening to me.

What’s more important than your friends having family problems?

Don't be offended, I'm sorry.

My mind is just not settled today. Hm.

There’s a few issues I'm having with the new Hammam.

In fact, I have to fly to Lagos this evening.

Lagos!

Can I come? I've never been.

I need you to stay here and sort things out while I'm gone.

Okay.

How long will you be gone for?

Ah! I don't know.

It might take a few weeks, at least.

That’s if everything goes according to my plans.

Okay.

Please pass the dates.

I wish I could come though.

But I'll be here taking care of things, like you said.

So, we soak the date for an hour,

we blend it, then sieve it, the put it in the fridge.

That's it.

-Looks good. -Hm.

Surrayah, I hope this one is going be stronger than the last mixture, hm?

You know our customers and asking

"Eh, when is it going to start working?"

"When is it going to start working?"

Well, most married women make the most of our customer base for aphrodisiacs.

But, if we give them what they want, when they want

that will drive home the demand.

Speaking about driving things home,

how are things with Amir?

Normal.

Just normal, why?

Nothing, just asking.

Since he's the only one I see you with these days.

And Kassim, how has he been?

I haven't seen him in a while.

That one is always fine.

I think he has the hots for mom's bodyguard.

Oh.

Haa!

Okay.

Um Surrayah,

I'm going to need you to please name the new mixtures.

Sarah has the catalogue she will put you through it.

I ordered some new bottles, please when they arrive take pictures and send to me.

There’s like 2000 bottles, I ordered in different shapes and sizes.

-Okay. -Mm-hm.

Madam said--

Oh!

-Good afternoon. -Hi.

Your mom asked me to give this to you on my way home.

Uh… Okay.

Thank you.

-Um, just drop this for me, okay? -Alright sir.

So you ride?

Yeah, like the wind actually.

I was about to get to it, you wanna join me?

No thank you, I have things to do.

Yeah, I heard girls have a fear of power bikes.

Thank you for the delivery though.

Got a spare helmet?

-Peace be unto you. -Welcome back.

Thank you.

Ah-ah!

Where are you going to?

Why don't you come back and sit down?

Aren't you going to eat the food?

I ate with the children.

Okay.

I noticed you've been putting up an attitude,

are you still angry with me?

Why should I be angry Ahmadu?

I just stood there observing

that If I were the one that destroyed your contract document

that is worth millions of naira.

Aside that, there's nothing else.

But anyways

that shows how much you respect me, and it's fine with me.

What surprises me about you is that

you're always secretive, trying to hide things from me.

But I realized that

I don't hide anything from you.

Hm.

I don't know what you are trying to hide from me.

I should be asking you Ahmadu.

What are you hiding from me?

That's right.

Hello.

Sorry, I cannot talk right now, okay?

Yeah, I will call you a little later.

By God's grace.

That was so much fun.

We know we could do this again if you want.

Though I'll prefer

If I could take you to dinner sometime.

You have a beautiful smile.

You should smile more often, you know.

Well… I have to go.

Of course.

Hey Baddie.

Kind of busy here.

Making up, I see.

You are so good at stating the obvious.

What do you want Surrayah?

Nothing really.

I just thought you and I should have a heart-to-heart talk, you know.

Okay. I'm listening.

Well,

your man is coming for dinner tonight, right?

-Mm-hm. -So,

I thought I should give you some advice on, you know,

-how do you say-- -Wait, you?

Why would I take any advice from you?

Oh, come on Su.

It's obvious that you did more wrong than right,

else you'll still be married, right?

But if that's all, please I will like to continue my face.

Really?

You know, a little respect from you will not be a bad idea.

If this is the attitude you want to take to his house,

then I can assure you, that nobody will be

surprised if you end up doing things wrong like I did.

Finally, you admit to messing up your marriage.

Please, just go away, mama is looking for you.

Maybe somewhere in the kitchen.

You have no regard for anyone at all.

You need to learn that respecting people speaks a lot about you as a person.

And from the way that you're behaving, it's clear to see that you don't have any.

Remember this Badriya, no man, I mean no man,

will tolerate a rude and under-performing wife.

This popularity cannot shield you from this bad behavior.

And your lack of proper English will always make you look like a wannabe.

And I don't care, so just get out!

Hm!

You will look for me someday.

Father, he's almost here.

Peace be unto you.

Peace be unto you, Sadiq.

Give this to your mother.

Good evening father.

Evening.

-You are welcome Sadiq. -Thank you.

Badriya said little or nothing about you.

So I was hoping you will shed some more light on a few things.

That is why I am here sir.

So tell me Sadiq, what do you do for a living?

A variety of things sir.

I inherited um, import, export uh, holdings

from my father which I expanded.

Um, initially, he exported um groundnut and--

Give it to him first.

Thank you.

Um, initially he exported groundnut and palm kernels,

now we… we… we export those and gold, silver,

um, semi-precious stones from Gembu where I own a modest mine.

And um,

I also co-own a Polo club in Kaduna and sit as

chair in one of the new insurance companies.

Hmm! Impressive.

Um, you're quite accomplished for a young man your age.

I wish a lot of young men… were as accomplished as you are.

Now I understand why my daughter, Badriya really likes you so much.

and um, where did you finish your education?

ABU Zaria sir.

Ah!

My Alma mater.

I studied business administration,

and you?

Um, business administration also, sir.

Father,

dinner is ready.

Ah! Shall we?

Good evening father.

Ah! Sadiq,

this is Badriya's sister Zainab.

Nice to meet you.

She doesn't come to see us as often as she should though.

Father!

Wow Zizi, look at how you're looking all feminine and all.

What a surprise.

How come you arrived late?

-Work. -Where do you work?

She works as the ADC to the honorable minister Jemima.

Quite unique and endearing, don't you think?

Hm actually,

I know a few women who work in that role to first ladies.

It's an admirable position, you should be proud sir.

Um…

It seems they've just called for prayers.

Yeah! Let's go and pray.

You girls will have to excuse me.

Okay mom.

So Baddie,

this is the dude you want to marry?

Yup!

Handsome, isn't he?

If you say so.

A little bit… stern, don't you think?

I guess, but I love him.

Hm.

And your outfit looks really nice on you.

Thanks.

Hello Kassim.

Hey Zizi, busy?

Um, depends.

Uh, okay.

Are you there?

Yup!

Kassim you can't just call and not talk.

All this breathing is weird, what's up?

I'm actually not sure, I got home, I took a shower, I had dinner

and I realized the only thing left in my mind was you.

Kassim.

I'm serious.

Well, how thoughtful of you,

but I have something to do, so I really can't talk right now.

Has anyone told you that you are exceptionally defensive?

Or am I the only one that bring that out in you?

Me, defensive?

Explain in three or less sentences, you have 15 seconds, go!

Okay, example, every time I try to make a joke, you fail to find it funny,

you take what I say literally.

Well, maybe that's because you're actually not funny,

have you thought about it that way?

I am very funny,

you should hang out with me more often, you will see.

Hm!

And where will we go?

Uh, wait, are you serious?

Okay, um, this question is harder than I thought,

you are not that easy to please.

Okay, now I'm actually really surprised because

you don’t have an answer,

but you always have something to say.

Then let me surprise you.

Hm!

Kassim I really need to go.

Zizi, always in a hurry to say goodbye.

-Well, I hope you have a good night. -I will.

Okay, I think that's it. Um, these are the final designs,

I need you to look at them when you can please.

I'm so tired right now, but I will.

And I'm really sorry for dragging you down to Lagos so last minute.

-Oh, it's okay. -Okay.

Get some rest? Alright.

-Thank you Bola. -You're welcome.

-Bye. -Bye.

-Na'ima. -Hi mom, good evening.

Are you home yet?

No, not yet, um, I had a quick meeting with Bola.

Emergency stuff for the Hammam.

I was starting to worry when I called and your phone was still off.

Who is picking you up?

I will get a taxi soon, I just need to catch my breath first.

How are you, how was work today?

Tiring as usual.

Is it possible to finish fixing up the Hammam in a shorter time?

I wouldn't know until I see it.

But honestly, based on the meeting I just had, it might actually take a while.

If I find out that you have not been taking good care of yourself,

I will come over there.

Okay fine, I promise I will.

-Speak soon. -Good night.

Na'ima?

Matthew.

Na'ima.

Wow!

How are you? It's… It's been so long, how have you been?

I’ve been good.

Great, really.

-Um, what are you doing here in Eko? -Uh, work.

Well, business actually, you?

Oh, I live here. How long are you here for?

It's undecided, a while, yeah.

Okay, are you staying at the hotel?

I came for a meeting.

I was just about to head out actually.

Same. Me too.

Um, is… is anyone picking you up?

No, I was gonna get myself a taxi.

I should actually head out soon I don't want to get stuck in that traffic.

Lagos traffic.

Look, don't even get me started.

Um, uh, uh, listen um,

I've got a car and I… If you don't mind I… I could drop you.

I'd love to actually drop you.

Is… is, is that cool?

-That will be nice. -Cause… Alright.

Alright, fantastic!

-Uh, is that… is that your bag? -Yeah, that's my bag.

-Let me just get my things. -Oh, sure.

It's so good to see you.

I can't believe it.

I mean look at you.

How have you been?

I've been good, it's been so long.

It has.

Oh my God.

It's changed.

-Do you like it here? -I do.

I do. I think Lagos has a way of frustrating you

but it also keeps you going, yeah.

It feels like everyone is on a mission to be something, or be someone.

So that kind of keeps you on your toes.

I wish Abuja could be like that.

I mean everyone there is so laid back, so relaxed.

It makes me feel like I'm in a league of my own.

Okay.

But the bright side of that is I hardly have any competition.

Na'ima, I doubt anyone could do better than you.

I've always admired your drive and your passion.

Um oh, tell me, what of... What have you been up to these days?

Ah. I…

-I own my own spa in Abuja. -Oh.

And I'm about to open a branch here in Lagos.

That's what's been keeping me busy.

Okay! Miss Independent.

That's so nice though. I've…

I remember when you used to always talk about wanting

to own you own beauty business

and now, look at you.

You remember that?

Of course I do. I remember a lot of things, Na'ima.

-Here you go. -Thank you.

Um…

-Should we have lunch? -Can we do lunch?

Okay.

Tell you what, let's do dinner tomorrow. How does that sound?

That sounds good, it works for me.

Alright then, fantastic. See you tomorrow.

See you tomorrow.

-Good night, Na'ima. -Good night.

Bappa.

Bappa!

Bappa.

-Good morning. -Good morning.

-Are you okay? -I'm fine.

-Okay. Let me… help you go sit. -Yeah.

Thank you.

-Bappa your coffee is ready. -Oh thank you. Thank you.

Bappa, are you alright?

Yes. I'm fine, why?

Because you've been waking up later than usual,

and the way you just sat, do you have a headache?

Hm, now you're beginning to sound like a nurse.

I am fine truly. I'm… I'm fine.

Okay, can I call the doctor to check in?

For what? Waking up late?

They're not the same, these two

it's not the same.

-Mommy, -Yes?

did they say

-I should trace all their hands? -Yes, everything completely.

But I think this and-- Ahmadu!

Please turn down the volume.

Ah-ah!

I thought you usually do the assignment

on the dining table or in her room.

I swear you're making this house hard to be, honestly.

Then you go to the woman you always talk to on the phone,

you'll probably find the "peace" you are looking for over there.

Ah-ah! A woman? What woman are you talking about?

So I don't have the right to say anything in this house,

when I do, you bring up the issue of a woman?

As I am, I don't care, I don't even want to know who she is.

It's none of my business.

I have no idea what woman you are referring to.

I don't know who you are talking about, and let me tell you,

you're beginning to get on my nerves with this unknown woman issue.

How I wish you have the guts to look me in the eye and tell me.

It's okay.

I've observed these days

that you've slowly started disrespecting me.

Nonsense.

I'm stepping out, I will be back when you are done with the trouble,

you might all be asleep by then.

-Finished! -You're done?

-Guys, How are you? -How are you?

-Zizi! -Zizi the power hitter!

What's going on?

-I'm good. -Have they started the meeting already?

About 15 minutes ago, seems like it's going to be one of those long ones.

-Aha! -That means I need to call my madam.

Even ADC Zizi is laughing at you, won't you call your man?

You know that I do not have a husband at home,

but if you want to add me as a second wife I'm available.

Guy, you should be afraid.

-Tell him. -You should be afraid.

This lady is a judo master.

-Judo champion. -Jerry.

-Tell him. -If you get her angry in the bedroom,

-you'll be sorry for yourself. -I know her too.

-You know her, right? -I do.

-Have you told him about Kano? -Give him the gist.

Guy, this madam here,

nearly ended my career when she and I were colleagues in Kano.

Zizi beat me up in hand to hand battle.

-Oh boy. -Since that day I've stayed in my lane.

Jerry.

-Hey! I bow! -Alright.

-Continue making fun of this woman, -I bow!

until one day, you'll need her to rescue you.

Ah-ah, what did I say wrong?

Look,

it is not that I don't want you to get married now,

it is that I am not very comfortable with your choice.

Do you really know this man?

His job, his friends, family, his preferences?

This courtship is so short.

It makes me feel like you just want a wedding.

And you have forgotten what comes after that.

It takes a lot of work.

Mother, you worry too much.

Of course I know what comes after a wedding,

and I'm ready for it.

I can't be thirty and single. Everyone is getting married.

I can't be the only single one amongst my friends.

You should understand what I'm trying to tell you.

Mommy I understand.

You worry too much. He's a perfect match.

There would be other good matches for you.

Look, don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Take out time and make a well thought out decision.

It is the rest of your life we are talking about.

Mother don't worry,

everything will be okay.

Honestly, my mind isn't at rest.

-Mother, everything will be fine. -Ah!

I have prayed but… Baddie!

Hi.

Uh, minister is around? Okay.

Hey.

-Hello. What's in the box? -Clothes.

-Huh? -Did you forget?

I told you Na'ima and I did a clothes drive for IDPs,

and I said I was gonna drop them over when it was done.

And I… Actually I'm gonna need help

organizing storage and transportation.

Do you mind if I borrow your ADC for a bit?

Hm.

Really?

-All that to get me out here for-- -I just had to get creative,

and I'm not sorry about that.

-Hm. -Actually I got you something.

Have it.

Hm.

You got me riding gloves.

I figured you are not a…

flowers or sweets kind of girl so thought that could work.

-They're so soft. -You like?

I do, very much. Really thoughtful.

Thank you.

-What was that? -What was what?

You just freaked out when you saw them.

What, it's not like we are making out or anything.

You know you just ruined a magic moment.

-Magic moment? -Yes.

You're being a little dramatic.

And may I remind you that I'm actually at work right now.

You know, sometimes it's pretty hard to read you.

-So will you go out with me? -No.

-No? -Mm-mm.

Really, just like that? Come on.

Okay yeah, I know you need to head back to work, okay? But…

to be continued some other time, right?

Okay.

Is something wrong?

No ma'am. I was just giving instructions to the orderly who…

doesn't seem to understand English suddenly.

They can be annoying sometimes.

So, I got over 1000 followers on Instagram today

because I posted a picture of an earring.

It wasn't really cute, but just cause you know,

-I got paid for it and had to post it. -You talk too much.

You see, psychologists say people who talk too much are trying to hide nervousness.

-Where did you get that from? -Somewhere, I can't remember.

Those…

gorgeous shoulders of yours, must hurt from all this slouching.

-Hi Sagir. -Hey Baddie.

Sweetheart, this is Sagir.

my um… old friend, we used to go to school together.

-Hello, how are you doing? -Nice to meet you, young man.

Baddie, as always it's a pleasure.

Same. Don't forget to say hi to Rukayah for me.

Rabiya.

Whatever.

I can't keep up.

See.

What? Is there something on my teeth?

Are you trying to insult me?

Insult?

Badriya,

I would like to teach you something,

and I hope this will be the first and last time that I have to go over it.

-I don't understand. -Then try to be silent and listen.

This relationship we are in is a new life,

you have to control yourself whenever you are with me.

When we go out,

you don't see anybody.

You see only me!

Everything and everyone else is just white noise.

I am the only man in your life.

I am the only man for you, and no one else.

Hello, Hope you're enjoying your experience at Tar Tar?

Thank you.

Thank you.

So is there anywhere else that you'd like to go?

Take me home.

Call the driver and have him load those boxes.

Yes ma.

Can you put that on silent?

I'm sorry about that ma. Right away.

Sade please call madam's driver,

and tell him to come with someone that can assist him.

Good night, Sade.

-Peace be unto you. -Peace be unto you too.

You are welcome.

-What's the meaning of this? -I want us to talk.

Please get out of my way.

Not until we are done talking.

Talk?

Then come let's have it.

You always want to have a talk, when you already know everything.

If it's about you going back to school,

Hanifa, you already know my answer.

It's not yet time, and I have said it over and over.

To be honest with you,

I'm tired, you should allow me to go sleep and rest please.

If it's about the money, I've already paid.

-You did what? -I've paid.

-You've paid the tuition fee? -Yes.

Hanifa.

Hanifa, where did you get the money to pay?

Are you telling me that you earn the money to pay for the tuition fee

from those useless drawings you do for that art class?

Ahmadu,

I've been saving money for a very long time.

I am tired of all the promises you make.

The promises you make but never fulfil.

What else do I do,

aside taking care of you, our children and the entire household?

That's why I saved money to pay for my tuition fee.

Because the only thing I asked from you was to go back to school.

Hanifa.

Hanifa, you should reveal your true colors to me.

Are you sure?

Anytime you leave the house to go for your classes,

are you sure that's where you go to?

If there's any other place you go to, please tell me the truth.

-Ahmadu, -Yes?

if you can't tell me about your sneaky activities out there,

why should you suspect me? Me?

Of course.

If you doubt whether I'm actually going there, I have students,

you can go and make inquiries.

And the school where I teach, has CCTV cameras,

Ahmadu, I have already paid my tuition fee, do whatever you want to do.

Hey Hanifa! Wait, let's talk. Hanifa!

Hey you! Come back here let's finish the discussion.

You can't do that, I swear.

Hanifa.

Hanifa!

Hanifa!

Hm, exactly.

That's right.

Yes. Yes.

Okay. Let me call you later, okay?

Alright.

Mm-hmm.

Bring in the Gumba and some small containers,

then ask one of the girls to come and help me pack this up.

Wash your hands and bring some disposable gloves, okay?

Ma, we never package our products in here.

Please let me take them to the mixing room for you,

plus madam doesn't like the smell in her office.

And madam put me in charge, so I don't see what the problem is.

Or am I not moving her business forward?

Please I will pack it here, so don't tell me what I can and cannot do.

Please!

This is one of the new boxes that just arrived.

As you can see we have five soaps, what do you think?

-Okay, I like these. -Yeah?

I really like them.

These are nice. Okay, I can see we have the peppermint,

we have the lavender lemon.

Where's the hydrating one?

Oh, I think I left that in the back.

-Should I go get it? -Yes please.

I want to see what it's packed like.

-Um, how many did you order for each? -Ten each.

-Do you think we should order more? Okay. -Yeah, let's double that. Let's double it.

-Please let me see the hydrating one. -Okay, I will get that now.

Thank you.

These are so nice.

I have a gift for you.

You're still angry with me, right?

You shouldn't.

You have to understand that I'm the man in your life now.

So introducing another man is just like poking a sleeping tiger.

So you were jealous.

Does that mean that you…

Sadiq,

I know that you love me,

but now I'm beginning to think that you love me even more than you love your wife.

I have enough love to go round.

I will give you the world should you want it.

But you have to understand the kind of person I am, the kind of man I am.

Now check your message.

Sadiq, this is such a huge amount.

Spoil yourself.

I have to go.

I have to go.

Good evening Bappa.

Seems like you are in a fine mood this evening.

Bappa please not today.

Oh oh!

Having issues at work, or…

the minister's son?

I'm not discussing this.

Ah!

Bappa I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be rude.

Oh that's fine, fine.

Just go upstairs and have a shower,

cold shower.

That should calm you down.

Well if either of you will give me grandbabies,

I wouldn't have to drop so many heavy hints,

Na'ima.

I hate to be the one to tell you this

but it will come crashing down

if you don't take things slow.

I really want us to work towards a relationship.

They are saying that you run a sex den.

Breathe. Breathe.

Breathe.

You're in control of your mind.

You're in control of your body.

You've got this.

Who the hell do you think you are?

Good evening to you too.

And where do you get off calling me a coward?

I will say it again, you Zizi, are a coward.

It's obvious that we are attracted to one another,

but you blow hot and cold hiding behind your work.

It's a shame that you aren't bold enough to face yourself.

All that bravado for nothing.

Okay.

Hi Matthew.

You look so beautiful.

Thank you.

Uh, um…

-Are you… are you ready to go? -Mm-hm.

Alright then, shall we?

After you.

Ah.

What?

Do I have something in my hair?

Uhm no, I…

It's been a while since we were like this together.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Na'ima I have to admit I…

Meeting you at the hotel was far beyond my luck.

I can't tell you how happy I am to have ran into you.

Same here.

Okay.

Gist me.

What have you been up to?

Okay, wow, um…

I own my own engineering company now.

Yeah, and uh, I took a few jobs when I was in Dubai and

I fell in love with engineering, mechanical engineering to be exact.

After a while I decided to come back and you know,

start-up my own business and

basically now I consult for a lot of brands here in Nigeria.

Wow, you sound like you absolutely love what you do.

I do. Honestly I do, and

hey, it keeps me in nice clothes, doesn't it?

Yes, but…

No, it's refreshing, it's honestly so refreshing to…

hear someone talk about their work so excitedly.

I like that for you, and yes you've always had a good eye for clothes.

Nice.

Okay, I'm just going to get into this because

I don't know how else to say it, it's very clear that there is…

an elephant in the room, yeah. And you've been avoiding it,

I've been avoiding it, so I'm just gonna take a leap and…

-Do we have to? -Why did you vanish

without saying goodbye?

Well then.

Oh!

I am not a coward.

So you say.

-Listen… -You wore lipstick for me.

Kassim, that is not the point.

Okay. Oh!

So tell me then…

-What is the point? -Kassim, I didn't come here for this.

Hm.

-Do we have to? -Why did you vanish

without saying goodbye?

It is my MO. You used to call me magic, so I guess I just…

-disappeared. -Hey, hey, no.

I'm serious. Don't, don't deflect.

Just give me a reason please. I-- Any reason at all.

I just…

I needed a clean break Matthew.

I was dealing with…

so many issues,

I didn't wanna burden anyone with them.

I don't I… I…

I don't understand you.

You didn't want to burden me?

I loved you.

I mean, plus we talked. And I mean talk like, we talked about everything.

Your dreams, your fears. I--

We even had plans Na'ima.

Come on.

Matthew, I'm really sorry that I did that.

I'm sorry but…

you have to understand that my disappearing had nothing to do with you.

That was all me.

I just…

I just wish you would've…

broken up with me face to face, you know.

Instead of vanishing on me, at least

that way maybe I would've had better closure, I don't know.

That's what my therapist said.

You are in therapy?

Does that shock you?

Uh…

Back then I…

I was dealing with a lot of things.

A lot of issues and…

I had a picture of how I wanted my life to be,

alright? And when things were not going according to plan,

I got mad,

and stressed, and I just…

I wanted to end it all.

Na'ima why didn't you tell me?

I was right there, and I-- I didn't even notice.

I don't need you to feel sorry for me Matthew.

It's manageable.

I mean, sometimes I have elevated moods, mood swings,

most nights I have insomnia.

I hyperventilate when I'm too fixated on one thing,

and I'm compulsive, which should not be a surprise to you.

When I found out that I had a problem, I checked myself into a hospital.

And then my mom flew in.

I just didn't know how to explain all this to you.

I didn't want this to be what…

to be what would define me to you.

I just…

I, I wish you had talked to me.

Look, I didn't even want my own mother there, right?

But of course she kept tabs on me and that's how she found out everything.

I actually think she needs therapy for how much she worries about us.

You know…

one of the things I-- I love most about you is your…

your fierce independence.

But even that too was an issue, because you never share your pain, Na'ima.

And… I was right there.

I was right there and I didn't know or notice, not once.

So, If anything I… I've…

I feel like I should be the one to actually apologize to you.

Of course not, I don't need you to apologize.

Look, we had plans, yes,

I… acknowledge that but…

even the thought of those plans scared me to death.

Matthew, how was I going to break it to my family that we wanted to be together?

How?

Our cultural differences, our religions.

It was all just too much, I got afraid and I ran.

You know I've…

I can't lie, I…

I had those same concerns.

But when you left I-- I searched for you, I really did.

And then I found out that you had returned back home and for some reason I just…

I figured you had found someone else,

and you only wanted me around as some

fling you needed to have before you go back home.

I thought it was best to leave you be.

But…

I see now there was a problem, and I apologize for it.

Um…

Any wife,

or girlfriend?

No, no.

Um, what about you, is there any boyfriend,

or husband that I should know of?

So we waited until now to ask?

Wait! You still haven't answered my question though.

It's…

It's complicated.

Oh, okay, alright.

I can live with complicated.

Is… is… Are you going to answer that?

It's not an emergency, it can wait.

Alright.

Thank you God.

Oh, man.

Thank you for dinner.

Look um…

I'd love to see you again.

Do you think we can make that happen?

Sure.

Alright, okay.

Good night.

Good night Na'ima.

Subtitle translation by: Anu Akiyode.

Hello.

Hello Badriya.

This is Bilkis,

Sadiq's wife, remember?

What can I do for you?

Why so defensive?

I'm only calling to ask how the wedding planning is going.

It's going well.

I'm glad to hear that.

So let me get straight to the point.

I would like us to meet up and have a chat.

Why?

Because we are about to be one family

and I will like to know who my husband is bringing into our home.

Sorry, but I'm not sure I have any free time today.

I'm sure you can find the time.

You might want to hear what I have to say.

Let me know what you decide.

Goodbye.

Sadiq's wife wants to meet with me.

When?

Today.

Anyway I don't think it's a good idea

though, because I don't want any drama from "a jealous wife".

She's right, it is good you people meet.

It is good you meet your co-wife before marriage.

She can make your life better or bitter.

Okay.

You know if you’re going to have to sneak off like that, could you at least…

have some breakfast?

Who's sneaking?

-I'm not. -Then why are you shy?

I'm not shy.

Why were you sneaking off?

Again Kassim, I wasn't sneaking.

I have to be at work on time and you were sleeping and--

I was trying to catch up,

because I didn't get enough sleep last night.

-Oh really Kassim? -Yes.

Please don't be smug.

I hate smug you.

-Okay then stay. -I prefer un-funny you.

Then stay and witness hungry me over breakfast.

I can't. I also need to go check on Bappa.

Okay?

Zizi…

Yeah?

You're absolutely

the most beautiful woman that I have ever known.

Hello.

Good morning Mrs. Madaki, I hope you are well.

I'm fine, thank God.

I am an admissions officer calling from the University of Dubai,

we are really looking foward to you joining us soon.

The drawings you sent us with your application really caught our eye,

and this is exactly the kind of talent we are looking for.

Thank you.

I would like to talk to you about your course plan.

Can we discuss the details now?

Yes please, go ahead.

Okay so, Bola I like what you've done with this shelf.

This is okay I'm pleased with it but…

There’s something about this one,

I don't know what it is, it's just not working for me.

Maybe try another arrangement here.

-Okay. -Yeah, it's… it's just not working.

-Try something else please. -Okay.

Thank you.

Argh!

Hey Amir.

-Hey Na'ima, how are you? -I'm good, you?

Uh, I'm fine.

Just that I… I miss you.

And I sort of didn't like the way our last conversation ended.

I'm sorry, I've just been really busy here, there's a lot to do.

Maybe I should fly to Lagos and see you.

I… I wouldn't do that. I mean you know how crazy things get in Lagos.

Plus I'm too busy here to be good company.

Na'ima, don't tell me you're trying to push me away again?

Amir look, let's talk about this when I get back, okay?

Okay.

Alright, thank you.

Matthew!

This place looks so amazing.

You've done such a good job, I can't even lie.

Should I show you around?

I'd love that.

Come on.

What do you want Bilkis?

I just thought it'll be nice to meet

-each other and you know get to… -I thought we met already.

Or have you forgotten?

Oh!

That.

I think I was… perhaps not on my best behavior.

I asked Sadiq to convey my apologies.

I hope he did?

You know how emotional we women can get over our men.

Now that you're gonna be family, I think we can start on a clean slate.

Why?

Because I know Sadiq,

-and I know he does not like nonsense. -And who is bringing nonsense to him?

I'm glad that we've met and um…

I can see…

that you’re gonna mind your business with Sadiq and

leave me and the children alone.

Children?

Of course.

Sadiq has four.

Three from me and one from his ex-wife.

Ooh!

Is this news to you?

Oh, I’m sure he mentioned it to me but,

in all my excitement I must have overlooked it, you know.

There's so much to talk about when we are together.

Hm.

Yes of course.

Anyways,

it was nice meeting you, Bilkis.

You haven't ordered anything.

I have to go, and please,

I will stay in my lane only if you stay in yours.

Hm!

Understood.

-Hi Na'ima. -Hmm, Sadiq's bride.

-How are you doing? -I'm okay.

I miss you though. You should be here helping me organize my wedding.

-How's Lagos? -Hm, Lagos is Lagos.

Alive as always, you know this city never sleeps.

Hm-hm, Na'ima, good to see you, we miss you over here.

Exactly what I was just telling her.

-Hi Hanifa, how are you? -I'm good, thank God.

Sorry I'm late, we're all doing fine. I just put the kids to bed.

Aw, it's okay we understand. It's admirable how you are raising

two beautiful girls and you literally don't break a sweat.

Practice, practice, my dear. So when are you back Na'ima?

It should be anything from two to four weeks from now.

Hm, you better be back in time for my wedding.

because you know you're the one doing my halawa.

Who else will do it? I will literally kill you if you call anybody but me.

-You didn't do this when I got married. -Sis, I was broke, a girl was hustling.

You know that I was hustling then, eh? But I got you,

I'll make it up to you now. How's Ahmadu?

Ahmadu is fine, we're still perfect as always.

Anything interesting happening to you in Lagos?

Not much, you know,

work as usual.

Na'ima, work, work, work all the time, you need to live a little, girl.

Mm-mm, you're wasting all that beauty.

Hm, you better create time for some love and romance.

Wow! Baddie the big girl!

Look at how this girl is talking while she's still single,

what will happen when you finally get married?

Of course. I am happy, I am in love.

Everything seems to be perfect, so why won't I want the same for my friend, mm?

Alright ladies I've got to go, I have an early start tomorrow.

Mm? I will call you again.

-Love you, bye! -Bye!

Bye.

Okay.

Na'ima.

Troll!

How are you?

I'm alright, enjoying the change in pace that Lagos brings with it.

You've always loved that pace and place.

Yeah, I don't know why you don't like it.

Anyway, how are you? What’s up?

I'm actually enjoying not having my little sister in my hair.

Aaaah! Nice one.

Well, doesn't really count since you are balding,

But if we're being honest, I'm not really the person in your life now,

am I? It's the other female.

Let mother hear you.

You wouldn't tell.

Maybe I will.

You know so that she's going to give you an earful when you return.

Yeah, and speaking of returning, what's actually keeping you there?

Eh? And don't tell me it's the Hammam because you know that's a lie.

Actually…

there's something.

Remember the guy I told you about in Dubai?

Hm, how can I forget? Uh, I don't know, is it Martin or so?

Matthew.

So, what's up with him?

He and I reconnected.

Oh! Wow! Really? Okay.

Just like that,

it's like the years apart never happened.

Wow.

So how… How does that make you feel?

Very happy,

and frightened…

and torn.

Yeah.

It sounds oddly weird but familiar.

Yeah, it does.

And I take it that you don't plan on introducing this Matthew to us because…

Kassim I can't.

Not yet.

The only thing that the time apart and all of that didn’t change is the fact that

we still can't be together. Nothing in that regard has changed.

Our problem still exists.

That's deep.

So, what's the way forward?

I don't know. Do you have any ideas?

No. I wish it was that simple but,

life and love…

rarely are.

Look at you getting philosophical.

You know I still have some few working brain cells in my head,

even if you don't think so.

But Kassim to be honest,

it's different.

No one questions you.

No one puts pressure on you, you do what you want,

say what you want, when you want.

It's not like that for me.

You will never understand what it feels like…

to love someone,

want to be with them and…

not be able to do that.

I guess not.

No, this is worse.

Wait, do you realize you just sang the entire song?

-The theme song of a cartoon. -I know, I know, see, see, I…

Trust me, when you have toddlers around you, it'll… it'll grow on you,

-you'll learn it, I promise. -Oh my God.

Oh, I have tears in my eyes.

Wait, but, your sister is married…

with a whole kid.

Trust me it's crazy but, I love having him around when I have free time.

Hm.

Listen, can't you stay a little longer?

Matthew,

I can't, you know that I have so much work waiting for me in Abuja.

-Come on. -I left my Hammam.

You should have someone that can take care of these things, don't you?

Hmm, hmm?

-Maybe Surrayah. -There you go.

-I can try. Try. -So try.

Okay, that's what I want to hear, try. Try.

-Okay, let me make a call. -Alright.

Na'ima is calling me.

Hi Na'ima, how are you?

I'm fine, you?

I'm doing good, any gist?

Nothing much. Um,

I want to discuss something with you.

Let's call it a money-making opportunity.

Alright, okay.

I'm going to have to be in Lagos a little longer than I had originally planned,

and I was thinking that maybe you could continue

overseeing things at the Hammam for me, while I'm away.

I mean at this point you pretty much know everything already.

I think it's a great opportunity for you, Surrayah.

You know, and you'll make some extra money.

-Okay, I accept the offer. -Awesome!

Sorry I forgot to mention,

um, please I have a document in my bottom drawer in the office

for Kassim, could you help me deliver that to him?

Um, I could give it to him myself.

It sounds like a sensitive item to deliver.

Alright, thank you, bye.

Bye.

Mm-hm.

-Just give me a minute. -Okay.

I'm just gonna wait for you.

-Ah! Surrayah. -Hi.

-Ah, it's quite a surprise. -I'm sorry I didn't call.

Um, Na'ima asked me to bring something for you.

Um, Surrayah is here.

Hi, I'm sorry I didn't--

-H… Hi Zizi. -Hi Surrayah.

Okay um, so Na'ima asked me to…

It's sensitive so she said I should bring it myself.

Alright, um, thank you. Sorry for going through the trouble.

-It's fine. -Alright.

Okay so, uh, I'll just be going.

Oh okay, thanks for coming.

If I didn't know better I would say you don't like eating.

When were you planning to tell me about your ex-wife

and your children?

You do expect me to have children

at my age and with my status, don't you?

I guess, but I haven't really thought about it.

Good. Because I'm the one marrying you, not my children.

And for the ex, why should I mention it?

Because she was your wife Sadiq, and a mother to one child.

She's also history.

But we shouldn't be keeping any secrets between us Sadiq.

Anything you want to know I can tell you.

The children are in plain sight and so is Bilkis.

Did Bilkis tell you this?

I will talk to her.

I don't like anything that upsets you, especially as our wedding day approaches.

Hm?

My bride.

Don't be angry, okay?

Hanifa,

Have a seat.

We need to discuss your attitude.

Yes, because I realized that you are beginning to disrespect me.

When did you start hiding things from me?

Eh?

Hiding things from you Ahamdu?

Come on Hanifa.

Look, what you did was very wrong, Hanifa.

Eh? Stashing away cash for who knows how long?

I know you say you did not steal from the money

I give you for taking care of the house.

But still, it is not right.

Come on Hanifa.

Good women do not hide things from their husbands.

Oh really Ahamdu?

Look at who is talking about secrecy.

I am not the one that has been hiding behind your back

making calls to Kebbi, right?

Kebbi again?

Okay.

I can really see Hanifa, that your level of disrespect is getting extreme.

Hanifa you speak to me as you like, you make arrogant faces at your husband?

Eh?! You look at me in the eyes and…

Wow!

This is unfortunate.

That is why it is a bad idea for women to have their own money.

All of a sudden I don't know you again, Hanifa.

I feel the same too, Ahmadu.

From the moment my husband started sneaking behind my back,

making anonymous phone calls day and night.

I feel the same too, Ahmadu.

Remember your place.

Remember your place, you don't talk to your husband like that.

Ahmadu make up your mind, it's either I'm your maid or your wife.

Because I am not going to apologize for having my own money!

Don't shout at me, Hanifa!

Do not speak to your husband like that, Hanifa.

Ahmadu,

is this the kind of man you want to be?

Is this the kind of husband you want to be Ahmadu?

Okay fine,

I accept it.

Be mad at me for no reason, refuse to eat my food.

If you don't want to talk to me so be it!

Hanifa,

Come and sit down.

Have a seat.

This is not the right time for this, Hanifa.

Stop frowning.

It is only a mad man that quarrels with his wife at night.

Eh?

Don't frown your face.

Do you understand?

Come on Hanifa.

-Hello. -Oh! Hi Kassim.

Uh, I just came to pick up that tea stuff that Na'ima made for me the other time.

Oh! Okay, yes I have it.

Um, yeah. But please before you go, could you please try something for me?

Okay.

Do you like it?

Hmm, it's nice.

What did you put in it?

It's a little something I'm trying for when Na'ima returns.

It’s for energy and a clear mind.

-Oh wow! That's good. -Yes.

-Let me know when it's available. -Sure, sure.

-Okay. Thank you. -Alright, thank you.

-See you later. -Alright, bye.

Ahmadu.

Hanifa.

Good morning.

Hope you slept well?

Fine but…

Ah-ah.

Please, no buts, please, Hanifa.

Hanifa,

I know you had a good night.

So please don't spoil this mood we are in now, okay?

Ahamdu,

Honestly, I am not happy with what is happening between you and I.

Look, I know.

Hm? I promise you things will change with time.

Do you understand?

Just give me some time.

-Okay? -Alright.

-I'll have to go now. -Come home safe.

God willing.

It's really not nice staying in this big house all alone.

When is your sister coming back?

Sooner or later. she said but definitely before Baddie's wedding.

Haven't you guys talked?

We're not quarreling if that's what you are implying.

That's not what I am implying mom, I just… I assumed you guys had talked, that's it.

No.

You know she doesn't like it when I fuss.

I ask her a question, she says I'm intruding.

You know guys are so alike in temperament.

-Really? -Yes.

So why doesn't she see things my way?

Ah, she's just your father's child, that one.

And it was like he had two wives.

You used to act like her rival.

I never competed for your father's attention with your sister.

I know. I know mom.

And trust me, Na'ima knows that as well.

You both love each other fiercely

and I think I am too smart to get involved.

By the way, you're going to sort yourselves out somehow, you always do.

And you should have been a diplomat.

Oh yeah, on that I have to agree cause

the two favorite women in my life have given me enough experience.

Talking about women,

what are your plans against getting married?

Uh… Okay, I think you've had a long day, mother.

Good night.

Matthew,

Yes?

I don't think I've been this happy in…

the longest time.

Honestly, it feels like a heavy weight has been lifted off me.

I wish we could stay like this forever.

But we can't, can we?

I mean there is just… so much to consider.

Na'ima I want the same thing, I always have.

Truth be told, no one else makes me feel the way you do.

It’s like with us…

something just clicks.

I care about you and I never want you to feel pressured.

But I do want you to think about what really makes you happy.

Because I'm all in.

You know the best part of coming here these days is running into you.

Shush!

You don't want the spies to tell your secret.

-Mm-hm. -What spies?

-Where are they? -I can't tell.

I'm sorry.

-What? -Kassim…

-Good morning Ma. -Hm.

Oh, um, mother, good morning.

I came to deliver the document as promised.

Thank you, I was just on my way out.

Oh, me too.

Have a great day.

You know what is interesting?

The balance of the expectations of work.

One of the side effects of being a public servant

is that one may cross the line and…

issues may arise that become… dangerously personal.

Which is why it is important for us to…

maintain the boundaries between the personal and the professional.

So that one does not make a mess of things.

Yes Ma.

You're a smart young lady

and a true professional,

which is why sometimes I wonder if

your talents aren’t being wasted at my office.

If maybe you're better suited for a higher posting,

perhaps elsewhere.

If you prefer another ADC, Ma, I cannot stop you.

Hm.

But I know that I do my duties very well

and I am absolutely committed to my country, and to you in that order.

Here are the files Ma.

Thank you Ma.

Hm.

Na'ima is here already.

Wow!

-Hey girl! -Hey girl!

Hi ladies.

Hi, you made it just in time as you promised.

Did you think I was going to miss your wedding?

-Well… -You think I trust anybody to make

you glow the way that I would?

No one will.

She has dragged you around Abuja, right?

This one? Don't mind her. She has dragged me all around this City.

In fact, she was trying to sell me the idea of going to Dubai.

But you know Alhaji and the children, I can never go.

To be honest, this your family, the way they restrict

-you living your life, ah! Me, I can't. -Hm?

Baddie, in just a few days you'll get married,

wait and see after your marriage whether you will get the time to do social media.

Who, me?

They dare not. My career as a social media influencer

is very, very important.

Important to you or to Sadiq?

Mm-hm, Hanifa, you've started again, please oh.

Wow! All these beautiful things.

I knew you'd like it, and I just thought we should get a breath of fresh air.

-Yeah. -You know, different scenery,

different vibe, you know.

So what did I miss? What have you been up to, huh?

Nothing really, just preps for the wedding and shopping.

By next week, Baddie is off the market, what's up with you and Amir?

-I'm-- -I don't mean to pry,

you know he's my brother. So vested interest in this conversation.

Well, it's still early days, you know.

I can't say yet, let’s see how it goes, hm?

And you, how's your forever love, Ahmadu?

Hmm.

That looks like you are having a rough patch, you two hardly have those.

Well…

Unlike these days.

Is he cheating?

-Baddie! -What? I just asked a question.

Look, I'm sure it's just usual man trouble, hm? He adores you.

Thank you.

-We both know that he adores you. -Yes, he does!

-Thank you. How is your brother? -Ah! Kassim, he's alright.

You know, stealing glances

and making faces at Zizi when he thinks she’s not looking.

Zizi, my sister?

Yup! I mean she ignores him but he doesn't want to stop.

Kassim likes Zizi?

You mean he's okay with her tomboy and superwoman stuff?

-Apparently. -Oh wow.

See, it’s just the irony of life

that Surrayah is seeking for his attention so bad

and she forgets that he is not even in her class.

Come on Baddie.

What's that? Why are you laughing at her emotions?

Hanifa is right, you should not be laughing at her emotions.

-Surrayah. -Na'ima, welcome.

Awwn.

-It's so good to see you. -You too. How was your trip?

Ha! It was hectic, it was full of work, but my Hammam is up and running.

-Congratulations. -Thank you.

And thank you for keeping this place in such a good condition.

Just doing my job. As long as the customers are happy.

Your mind seems elsewhere,

perhaps you're thinking of something or someone.

You can talk to me. I'm your close friend, right? I can keep secrets.

I'm afraid I have no secrets to share, hm.

-Same old boring me. -I see.

Anyway, I have…

I have a special bonus for you, thank you so much for your hard work.

You know I don't play around with my business, hm?

Yes, business, thank you.

-Is everything okay? -Everything is fine.

Um, I need to get something from outside, excuse me.

Look Na'ima, I… I want to take care of you,

I want to be the man you’ve always dreamed of.

And I know I can be if… If only you give us a real chance.

Amir…

this isn't going to work out between us.

Why Na'ima?

You and I enjoy each other’s company, and we have so many things in common.

-I mean I know people who thrive on less. -Yes but…

that doesn't mean you shouldn't want more.

-I want more, Amir. -Like what?

Stuff you see on TV?

We can try all of that and still remember who we are and where we're from.

Where we're from?

We are from the North,

and we have our culture and religion

which we respect greatly.

But amidst of all of that, we still love deeply.

I agree with you, completely.

It’s just that…

for me,

it's not with you.

How can you tell?

Na'ima, you haven't even given us a real chance, you blocked every…

every… every moment, every opportunity for us.

That's because I don't see it going anywhere.

-Give it time. -I don't see us going anywhere.

I just said give it time, the love will come.

I've tried.

I have.

Amir, you are a great guy, and some girl out there is

dreaming and hoping for everything that you are.

It's just that, that girl isn't you.

I'm sorry.

translated by:

-I haven't told you, -Mm-mm.

-Kassim has chosen a wife. -Wow!

She's cultured, beautiful and from a good background.

-Her name is Maryam. -Wow!

-What an exquisite choice. -Indeed.

Hmm, she's so beautiful,

-congratulations! -Thank you my dear.

But Kassim has a good eye.

He has made a wonderful choice.

He made a very good choice. Congrats my dear!

-Good afternoon ma. -Yes, Good afternoon.

Maryam, hi!

Congratulations! I finally get to have a sister, hey.

We should have lunch soon,

I have a ton of embarrassing stories about Kassim.

They'll be perfect for marital blackmail.

-Oh, your henna is so pretty. -Thank you.

-Well done eh, I'll be right back. -Alright.

Surrayah!

Ah-ah!

Surrayah is everything okay?

-What's wrong? -Wrong?

What could possibly be wrong dear Na'ima?

I mean, you stormed off mid-work.

You're clearly upset about something, is everything okay?

Oh, everything is just fine! Why would something be wrong?

All these passive-aggressive things you're doing,

I thing it's unnecessary. Why did you stop decorating the guests?

Sorry for leaving your precious customers.

I forgot that to work with you, I am not entitled to any considerations whatsoever!

I did not say that. And you just told me that everything is okay.

You're a user Na'ima.

And I've allowed you to use me and dump me!

You only came here because of your precious customers.

No concern for my feelings.

You know, I thought we were friends.

But no, I am just Baddie's poor relative,

who can make the things that you can sell, right?

First of all, I'm here for Baddie, okay?

I am here for Baddie!

Why are you being dramatic, what did I do to you?

Why are you being so dramatic to me?

Wait! Is this because Kassim is getting married?

Surrayah do you know how silly this is?

Silly?

Come on Na'ima,

Even royalties have more humility than you.

Wait! You think I'm beneath your brother's taste, right?

-I didn't say so, but if the cap fits. -But you do!

You are a hypocrite Na'ima, just a well behaved one.

The prince Kassim that you're protecting so much,

does not need your services!

The irony is that according to you, he has stooped so low already.

You may want to ask who he's sleeping with.

Oh wait! I'll give you a clue.

She wears a uniform, and would take a bullet for your mother.

The "Mai-guard" like you call her.

And what is this?

Ask Na'ima, if she doesn't tell you, ask Zizi.

Um Baddie, are you not the bride? What are you doing here,

-let's go back inside. -What's all these Na'ima?

Why are you and your family trying to steal my shine?

Oh, first your mother announces Kassim's bride-to-be,

and now, you and Surrayah here arguing

-instead of attending to my-- -Baddie leave me!

-Get off your high horse! -Oh? Look who's talking.

You? Surrayah was right!

All you do is to look down on people, except of course you can use them!

Coming from you! From you Baddie!

You! Who are you loyal to?!

Even your family members, you talk down on your sister every chance you get!

If anyone is a snob Baddie, it's you!

-Not me! -Argh! My dear friend Na'ima,

I wish you had the guts to deal with your issues!

You're always claiming perfection when we all know you're dealing with stuff?

-Oh, you have things to say now. -Ladies please,

calm down.

Calm down and be-- Act like mature women.

Oh please Hanifa! I'm done with this your mature woman nonsense!

Simply because you're married you think you've become the adviser of us all?

With your boring husband that's even cheating on you!

-Baddie! -What?

You can't be saying these things to us.

What is wrong with you? You're going to hurt our friendship!

I really can't deal with both of you right now,

both of you have shit that you need to take care of.

And Surrayah was right Na'ima,

you're a user!

Just the way you raised Amir's hope so high

and you just dumped him away just like that.

That's exactly who you are!

Na'ima, you are a user!

I can't deal with any of this right now.

Na'ima, your mother is looking for you.

Zizi!

-What? -Is it true?

Are you sleeping with Kassim?

Baddie you have no right to ask me questions about my life.

Again,

it is this attitude of yours that makes life so hard for you.

So hard Zizi.

I wish you all the happiness in your life

and marriage,

that you have… brought to others.

I hope you receive as much loyalty

as you've given.

Ah-ah! Surrayah, is everything okay?

Everything is not okay, it didn't work.

What do you mean by "it didn't work"?

I gave him the potion but it didn't work.

You must have made a mistake, either in the mixture

-or when giving it to him. -No I did everything right.

He came to my workplace and I gave it to him, but it didn't work.

If you did everything right then how did you know that it didn't work?

He is getting married.

Oh, to that same lady you told me about?

No, somebody else.

-Somebody else? -Yes.

Hm, it means that the charm worked on the other lady,

instead of the one you told me about.

-That can happen. -Hm-mm?

Of course.

Uh, such things do happen sometimes. Let me check.

You see, that's what happened.

We need to do it again.

But what we will do is…

Come close and listen.

What was that rubbish Surrayah?

And at my decoration ceremony?

Look, I'm talking to you as a customer,

and courtesy demands that you listen to me respectfully.

You are not my client Badriya, I don't work for you.

Take your complaint to Na'ima.

But you work for Na'ima, and you left your work.

At least I work, what do you do?

Excuse me!

I asked, what do you do?

Wait, what are you going to do when you get to Sadiq's house?

Oh, maybe you should call Sadiq and ask him what he sees in me,

or ask him what he wants from me.

Unlike you and Kassim, when he looks at me,

he sees a princess.

-I am beautiful, I am an influencer. -Oh please.

You're going to a man's house

as a foolish and pretty doll for him to play with

-and you're proud of yourself. -Surrayah.

Wow!

-Surrayah! -Shush.

Don't say what you cannot take back.

Remember, I am doing your beauty treatment tomorrow.

And don't forget that female ancestors have transferred secrets only I know of.

Are you threatening me?

And why would I do that?

Look, you look tired.

Go to sleep, tomorrow is your wedding day.

After all, you need to shine.

What a lovely event.

I'm sure tomorrow’s will be even more splendid.

Yes ma.

It's a pity you and your sister didn't seem close.

She did make a lovely bride.

It's okay, you can leave now, Zainab.

You need to get rested for tomorrow's festivities.

But if you want I can tell the deputy commissioner to

send you a replacement, so that you can attend the wedding

as sister of the bride.

That won't be necessary ma, I'll be here as usual in uniform.

Thank you.

Hey, Zizi.

Zizi, wait, wait.

-Not another word. -Zizi, please.

Please if you can just listen to me, I can explain.

-I don't want to hear it. -Zizi don't say that.

Don't say that.

I mean, we've come too far for you to just freeze me out again.

Far to where, Kassim?

Please, step aside sir.

-Zizi, Zizi, Hey. -If you take one step

closer…

I swear…

I'll unleash something in me that you don't want to see.

You don't mean that.

Try me.

Zizi, I love you.

Go to hell.

Ah! Kassim,

how nice of you to have come back.

I thought you had already left, or did you forget something?

I do not appreciate the fact

that you went and made grand announcements in public

about Mariam and I, without informing me first.

Why would you be upset about news concerning you and your fiancée?

You know that I'm not committed to marrying that girl.

That was all your idea!

You need to be more focused about your future, and get your head back to reality.

What reality?

Tell me, yours or mine? What reality are we talking about here?

Huh?

You want me to marry some girl that I, I barely even know!

This is about your infatuation with my ADC, isn't it?

My son, you need to get yourself and your head out of the clouds.

Your Zizi made a choice today.

What are you talking about?

Nothing.

She said nothing to claim you, or identify herself as being with you.

She chose her career over you.

She understood.

Now that is a focused and ambitious woman, just like me.

So you need to let this thing die a natural death.

You and Zizi are not suited for each other.

I decide who and what suits me in my life!

Don't interfere again.

Kassim!

Good evening Bappa.

Hi.

Come, sit with me a while, okay?

Whatever is bothering you must be dealt with.

Especially if it has to do with that young boy that you sneak out to see.

Bappa.

Don't even try to deny it.

I may be an old soldier but I was once young and in love.

I am… I'm not in love.

So why are your eyes telling me that your heart has been broken?

Ever since you were little,

I never for once pushed you

to conform to what society expected of you.

All of that washing, cleaning, cooking, things like that, no.

I've always been very proud of you and for the fact that you…

you have always chosen your own path.

Bappa I know.

I've not finished.

I understand that uh…

men and marriage is not for every woman.

Some prefer to be alone.

But,

ensure that if you are alone,

it is by choice,

not force of circumstance.

-Alright Bappa, I have heard. -Good, my baby.

Okay, but now I need you to do something for me.

Fine.

Make sure you take your drugs before you go to bed

because I know that you've been skipping them.

-I know. -Those… those silly bitter things.

Why don't they make them like candies? Sweet and pleasant.

-Bappa because then you'll overdose. -Aah!

Oh.

Anyway, I have this silly wedding I have to attend,

but when I get back, I'm going to take some days off.

And then we'll go to the village and rest.

You could do with some fresh air and peace.

And you could do with not making the village

a means of escape.

Oh, Bappa please leave me alone.

And as for the wedding,

it is your sister we are talking of.

You-- You may not agree with her, yeah, but,

you ought to wish her well.

Huh?

And smile at least,

huh? smile.

-Yes, smile. -Good. Good.

Go in.

Go, go freshen up.

Okay.

Yes, that's what I mean Alhaji.

Please, for the love of God,

for the love of the prophet, Alhaji, please be patient.

Please give me more time.

Yes I will pay.

In fact, the contractor promised me

that he is going to pay me next week.

I swear Alhaji, when I receive that money, I won't even buy food for my family

until I pay you.

Things are… Hello Alhaji.

Hello, hello, hello!

Hanifa.

Ahmadu, what is going on?

I can explain Hanifa.

What is it?

Things have got as bad as they can get.

I have been trying to repay my debt, but I've failed in all my effort.

Debt?

I mean, you said debt Ahmadu?

Where is the money you invested recently in the new company?

That money Hanifa, Moshood has messed things up completely.

Right now, the company has incurred huge loses,

and he made away with whatever was remaining.

I heard that he is now in Qatar or somewhere.

Okay, may God be gracious.

Hanifa.

And I tried to meet my friend who knows the governor,

I spend half of my nights trying to see him at his office,

but that hasn't been possible.

Do you mean that all those times you went out at night,

-it was him you went to see? -Ah-ah!

I wasn't going out to see another woman Hanifa.

But why didn't you say anything Ahmadu?

Ah-ah! I couldn't Hanifa.

How was…

How was I supposed to tell you that I messed up everything?

Mm?

Especially when I know you're very wise with your money.

I was just ashamed.

Come on Ahmadu,

there shouldn't be any shame on issues that concern us.

I'm your wife.

That is why I didn't know what to tell you,

considering the amount of debt I owe.

Okay.

How much do you owe?

It's seven million, including the rent and everything.

By the grace of God, I will do all I can to pay up.

Okay.

I am really disturbed because of this problem.

Because it is my responsibility to take care of you and our children.

And you have been doing that Ahmadu, to be honest.

We don't have anything to complain about.

You've been doing your best.

Talk about children,

There were some hurtful words you uttered that are wrong.

For example,

saying that you prefer a male child over a female.

Aren't Khadija and Binta the same?

How do you think Khadija will feel

when she hears you saying that you prefer a male child over her?

Honestly, it was just anger.

I was angry, that's why I said those hurtful words.

I must confess, these children are a blessing to us.

A blessing not even a male child can bring.

I am happy to hear that.

Thank you.

But in any case,

I am hoping to meet with the minister of works and housing

at the up coming wedding.

What's wrong?

I just don't feel like going for Badriya's wedding at all.

I know you women, did you quarrel?

We didn't quarrel, there are people I just don't want to see there.

See my dear, just take everything off your mind.

Let's go to the wedding and meet up with the minister

and other important guests,

to form important business alliances that will be beneficial to us.

That will take us out of our current predicament, please.

Okay.

-No problem. -That's good, thank you.

Hey, have you eaten, or should I make something for you?

I swear, I can cook pasta for you right away.

Alright?

Okay.

So this is what you have been doing right?

Your black magic has been exposed.

How can my wife be doing black magic on me!

Where ever you go I will find you. You can never run from me.

Alright.

Good morning father, mother, Surrayah.

Today is… What's going on here? Why is she on her knees?

Surrayah has come to tell us she will be leaving,

and she is here to receive our blessings.

Leaving?

Like seriously, to where? When, why?

Come on.

Sorry father. Sorry

Okay, Surrayah where are you going to?

I'm going to Lagos, I have some contacts there for business.

-You're going to run Naima's Lagos Hammam? -No that's not it.

Um,

Surrayah please go help her out, let her be ready, please.

Okay mother.

Bride, let's go

Bappa.

Finest granddaughter in the North.

Queen Amina herself.

Thank you very much Bappa.

But as soon as this wedding is done,

I'm putting in an application for a casual leave and then we are off to the village.

Wish your sister well for me.

When you return, we will talk more.

And yours too. You can't wait? When you are still in school.

Don't worry, very soon it will be your--

-Mother. -Good morning mother.

You girls should go get set, while I talk to her

Okay ma.

You look so beautiful.

And I am happy mother, are you?

If you want a happy marriage and a happy home,

you have to be patient with your husband, respect him.

And also be respectful to your co-wife.

This is the only time I have to talk to you.

You have to listen.

Pressures will come but you have to be strong.

Marriage is all about patience.

Mother,

surely this is not the time to talk about the stress of marriage.

Yes it will come, but… not today, not now.

Mother I just need you to be happy for me.

How happy can a mother be?

When I'm about to watch my little girl go into a new phase of life.

I am only human.

You don't have to cry, you will ruin your makeup.

You don't have to do that.

Please.

You look beautiful.

-Thank you mother. -I am happy for you.

Thank you so much.

Hey Na'ima.

Are you alone?

Where is he?

Please excuse me.

Ah-ah! Where are you going to?

This is not your battle.

But she is breaking his heart in public.

Leave them alone. Let it be.

Excuse me.

Stop this nonsense Badriya, you're a married woman now.

Oh Sadiq, all more the reason why you should have a taste

of what's coming to you tonight.

-You should stop. Stop! -No.

No Sadiq, it's my wedding too and I want to enjoy it.

So just loosen up and have fun.

Your fiancée is very beautiful.

If I were you, I wouldn't waste time marrying her.

-Ah-ah! Guy, guy. -Be careful.

That's Kassim's woman you're talking about.

Yo! Okay, my apologies.

-I meant no disrespect. -Eh-eh!

Now you are talking.

Uh, just give me a minute, okay?

-I want to speak to my mother. -He's started again.

I wonder where your sister is rushing off to.

Somewhere important I believe. Um, that's not why I'm here.

Mother, where's Zizi?

She had to leave, she received a message that her grandfather died this morning.

What?

-How? -I don't know how.

But the poor girl is in shock and I've never seen her so--

Kassim where are you going to?

Nice meeting you sir.

Ah! Sir.

It's alright sir. Okay Honorable, yes, till I come.

-Okay. -Thank God.

-Ah-ah! Why are you frowning your face? -I'm not feeling well.

-Should we leave? -Let's leave.

Lead the way.

Wow!

-Good evening. -Good evening.

-How are you doing? -Okay.

Umar,

-accept my condolences please. -Thank you very much. We

-just don't know when our time would come. -True.

Sorry to have to say this but you seem vaguely familiar.

Uh, yeah, your sister is the ADC to my mother,

-so we're… we're friends. -Okay.

Um, where is she by the way? I'll like to extend my condolences.

She's uh, somewhere up on the roof.

-Oh okay. -Yeah, but

hold on let me introduce you to the family.

Uh, okay.

I'm sure once you take the medication you will be okay.

Thank you.

Hajiya, one thing,

the symptoms you mentioned are similar to that of pregnancy.

I recommend you take a test.

But in my previous pregnancies, I've never felt anything similar to this.

Maybe so, but not every pregnancy is the same.

Better to be safe than sorry.

-Good day sir. -Good day to you young man.

Um, please I'm looking for Zainab.

She is in mourning. Are you… Is it something urgent?

I'm so sorry sir, it's urgent, I have a package for her sir.

I see, okay.

I would get her cousin to collect and ensure that she gets it.

Hey Hassan!

-Yes father? -Come.

Please collect this,

-and ensure that Zainab gets it. -Alright.

-Thank you very much sir. -You are welcome, thank you too.

Thank you sir.

Doctor Ajifa.

Are you sure about this? It seems rather impulsive.

This is not impulse, this is freedom.

Doctor Ajifa I've never been more certain of anything in my entire life,

honestly, I can't--

I won't let Mathew go a second time, I won't be a coward.

This isn't about cowardice, you know that.

I know, but life is meant to be lived.

So what brought this decision about?

I was at a wedding, okay? it was a wedding, and it was filled with people

fake smiling and play-acting.

It was an eye opener, I don't want to spend the rest of my life

trying to impress or please anyone, I won't do it.

Matthew will not be the solution to your problems, Na'ima, a man never is.

I know. I know that.

But the man that you love…

He could as well be the catalyst to your recovery, to your self-realization.

-Anyway Doc, I have to go. -Na'ima wait.

Hey it's Matthew, leave a message.

Hey Matthew,

You were right. Okay, you were.

Life is meant to be lived and love…

love isn't something you should just let slide and…

I don't even know how to express myself with the right words but,

I'm on my way to you, okay? I'm driving, I'm going to the airport

and I'm coming to Lagos to see you. To be with you.

Remember when you said you were scared to lose me?

When I said I was scared to love you?

I'm not scared anymore. I'm not afraid.

And I just wanted you to know that I love you, okay?

More than…

I thought that I did.

I guess that means that I'll see you soon. Oh!

Get out!

Kassim I said get out!

I'm not going anywhere Zizi, I'm not going anywhere.

I'm not going anywhere.

I'm sorry.

Hey, hey. Hey!

I'm sorry.

Hey, I'm sorry.

I'm sorry Zizi.

Bappa died,

and I wasn't there.

They buried him and I wasn't there because I was at a stupid wedding!

I'm sorry.

Full of stupid people that I don't even like!

-Hey, hey, hey. -I should have quit and stayed home.

Listen, he tried to call me to get him to the hospital and I wasn't there.

I wasn't.

Listen, you can't blame yourself. Okay?

You-- It's not your fault.

-I will never forgive myself! -Hey, it's okay, it's okay.

It's okay. I'm so sorry.

Hi Baddie gang, it's your girl Baddie,

and today has been a fairytale.

Why? Because I had the wedding of my dreams,

and the man that fits me perfectly.

I can't wait to go on this amazing, amazing journey,

and of course I am taking each and every one of you with me.

Anyways, now the real fun is about to begin, if you know what I mean.

Alright guys, Baddie loves you.

Hugs and kisses, bye-bye.

Why did you disrespect me?

What?

-Why did you disrespect me at the wedding? -Argh!

Come on Sadiq, honestly you were being quite old and all uptight.

Relax, I mean we just had the most beautiful, amazing,

lavish wedding Abuja has seen in a long time.

I'm sure all the blogs are buzzing like…

Sadiq look, I love you the way you are,

and I think you should also accept this part of me.

Okay.

I have one those sexy things you got me

and I was thinking

why not come to the bedroom with me and I will give you your own private show.

We just got married.