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♪ Get along on down the road ♪
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♪ We've got
a long, long way to go ♪
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♪ Scared to live,
scared to die ♪
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♪ We ain't perfect but we try ♪
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♪ Get along while we can ♪
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♪ Always give love
the upper hand ♪
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♪ Paint a wall, learn to dance ♪
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♪ Call your mom,
can't we all get along? ♪
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My God.
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Sam.
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This is a surprise.
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Yeah.
I guess I should've called.
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Are you okay?
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Yeah. I j... I...
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I'm in therapy,
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and my therapist said
that I should...
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come and talk to you.
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You're in therapy?
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Mm-hmm.
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H-How's Hara doing?
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She just turned 12 last month.
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Mm.
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Her reading's getting better.
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It turns out she's pretty fast.
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She likes running races
against the boys.
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Have you heard
of panta bhat and fuchka?
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No.
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That's what she eats.
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Her favorites.
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I'm surprised
you haven't heard of those,
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with all the...
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places you eat.
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Did you tell her about us?
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That's against the rules.
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You don't tell them
about divorce or anything...
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upsetting in your family.
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Mm. Right.
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I actually have
another one now, too.
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Muntaha.
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Wow.
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Do you want to see a picture?
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Sure.
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Wow.
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She's cute.
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Yeah, and she also likes
panta bhat and fuchka.
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Alan, can you
come closer to the door?
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I'm here.
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Listen.
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Your hands are free, right?
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Yeah.
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And you said you have...
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like, meetings with him.
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Appointments?
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- Sessions.
- Sessions.
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Do you think you could have one
with him here now?
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We... actually do.
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We do have them here.
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Great.
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That's weird. Right?
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Yeah, it's weird.
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I don't really have a choice.
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We're both prob-probably going
to be dead soon.
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I say we go down swinging.
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Next time you have
one of your sessions,
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I want you to convince him
to bring me in.
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Make up some...
good therapy reason.
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And once I'm there,
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you jump him.
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And I'll, like...
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throw my body on him, too.
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Did you see Kenny last summer?
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Mm-hmm. Twice.
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Raleigh and Chicago.
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Chicago was...
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What did your therapist
want you to talk to me about?
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I don't know. He just said
I should come talk to you.
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So...
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You never picked up
your La-Z-Boy.
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Do you still want it?
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Okay.
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- All right?
- Mm-hmm.
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All right.
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Okay, just try and get it in.
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All right, go. One, two, three.
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- That's...
- No? Okay.
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- No.
- All right.
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Okay.
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Go.
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Thanks.
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Elias?
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Yeah.
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You gave me a message
for your family.
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But you may be the one
who gets out of here. So...
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I'd like to give you a message
for mine, too.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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Tell my daughter, Shoshana,
that I love her.
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And that I treasured
our life together.
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And that...
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I want her to find a way
to move on.
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Ezra, my son...
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Tell him I loved him very much
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and that his mother
loved him, too.
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Even when it was difficult
between them.
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And that I'm...
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sorry that there was so much...
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conflict in the family
when she was dying
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and that I...
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That's a lot to remember.
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Um, just...
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Just tell them
what you can remember.
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Can you k...
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keep talking?
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Please?
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When Ezra went to college...
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...he fell in with one of
those rabbis with the black hats
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and...
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suddenly he's an Orthodox Jew.
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No parties.
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Doesn't turn the lights on
or off during the Sabbath.
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Beth, my wife...
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...this all...
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just drove her crazy.
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Everybody following
their own paths
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wasn't exactly her cup of tea.
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I did my best
to help her with it, but...
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...Ezra did not make it easy.
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His family could not
even come over to our house
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without bringing their own food.
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You know about kosher food?
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It's regular food
with a thousand rules.
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This one birthday party
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for Ezra's son...
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she wanted to bring some...
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He's back.
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I got my chair back.
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So you saw her?
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Yeah.
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What did you talk about?
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She's got these kids...
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...who we adopted in Bangladesh.
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We adopted 'em from this...
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organization.
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I mean,
we-we adopted one of 'em.
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She just got another one.
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And...
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she loves them a lot.
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How did it feel seeing her?
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Yeah.
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I liked it.
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Mm.
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But I don't think
it accomplished
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what you were hoping.
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Like, diverting me.
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These kids of Mary's
and yours...
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...when they grow up,
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I bet you want them
to be responsible
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for the things they do in life.
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It has to be hard in Bangladesh.
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You want them to overcome, not...
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blame everything
on their circumstances
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or the people who hurt them.
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That's part of what
we're talking about here, Sam...
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Can you imagine me beating
the shit out of those kids?
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Like...
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punching 'em, hitting 'em
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like they're
worthless pieces of shit?
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How can anybody...
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Yeah, I'm gonna do this now.
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Wait. Wait. Wait! Sam!
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- No. Listen to me!
- This guy's gonna get it.
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- He's gonna get it right now.
- Candace! Get down here!
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Get down here! Right now!
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- We have a problem down here!
- No! No!
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- Sam?
- No! No, no, no...
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No, please.
Please.
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- Oh, Sam, stop!
- Wait, please, please.
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- Wait, wait.
- Mom, go back upstairs.
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No. You listen to me.
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Stop right now.
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You are supposed
to be protecting me
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by not doing this.
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Get back here!
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What?
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Go to your room.
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Right now.
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- I don't want to.
- Sam.
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You need
your good night's sleep.
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You know, sometimes
you feel better after that.
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Fuck!
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I'm okay.
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♪ "Jack and Diane"
painted a picture of my life ♪
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♪ And my dreams ♪
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♪ Suddenly this crazy world ♪
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♪ Made more sense to me ♪
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♪ Well, I heard it today
and I couldn't help ♪
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♪ But sing along ♪
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♪ 'Cause every time
I hear that song ♪
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♪ And I go back to a two-toned
short-bed Chevy ♪
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♪ Driving my first love
out to the levee ♪
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♪ Living life
with no sense of time ♪
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♪ And I go back to the feel of a 50-yard line ♪
Alan?
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♪ A blanket, a girl,
some raspberry wine ♪ - Yeah.
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♪ Wishing time would stop
right in its tracks ♪
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They gone?
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- ♪ Every time I hear that song ♪
- Yes.
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♪ I go back... ♪
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- ♪ I go back ♪
- His mother.
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His mother... sh-she seems okay.
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♪ I used to rock
all night long ♪
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♪ To "Keep On Rockin' Me,
Baby" ♪
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♪ Frat parties, college bars ♪
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♪ Just trying
to impress the ladies ♪
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♪ Well, I heard it today and I
couldn't help but sing along ♪
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♪ 'Cause every time
I hear that song ♪
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♪ And I go back to the smell
of an old gym floor ♪
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♪ The taste of salt
on a Carolina shore ♪
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♪ After graduation and drinking
goodbye to friends ♪
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♪ Every time ♪
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♪ I hear that song ♪
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♪ I go back... ♪
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♪ I go back. ♪
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♪ I got a feeling ♪
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♪ Are you feeling it, too? ♪
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♪ I guess
I've all but said it now ♪
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♪ So much for hoping
you'd go first ♪
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♪ Say you couldn't
sleep last night ♪
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♪ Swore that
you could feel me breathe ♪
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♪ Had you wanting me there
by your side ♪
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♪ Yeah, baby,
I know what you mean ♪
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♪ I got a feeling ♪
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♪ My head's reeling ♪
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♪ My heart is screaming ♪
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♪ I'm about to bust loose ♪
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♪ Bottled-up emotion ♪
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♪ It's more than a notion ♪
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♪ It starts with an I
and ends with a you ♪
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♪ I got a feeling ♪
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♪ You're feeling it, too. ♪
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♪ Ma yafeh hayom ♪
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♪ Shabbat shalom ♪
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- ♪ Shabbat ♪
- Mommy! Mommy!
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- ♪ Shabbat shalom ♪
- Mommy! That's my mommy!
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- Shh.
- Mommy!
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♪ Shabbat ♪
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- ♪ Shabbat shalom ♪
- Mommy! Mommy!
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- Mommy.
- ♪ Shabbat ♪
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♪ Shalom. ♪
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- I'm a cantor, but I'm also a mommy. This is my son Ezra.
- Mommy.
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Here, come sit with me
over here.
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Why don't we play one
of your favorite songs, then?
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What song should we play?
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- What's your favorite song?
- "Got That Shabbat."
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"I Got That Shabbat Feeling"?
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Okay. Here we go.
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♪ I got that Shabbat feeling ♪
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♪ Up in my head ♪
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Head.
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♪ Up in my head ♪
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♪ Up in
my head ♪
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♪ I got that Shabbat feeling ♪
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♪ Up in my head ♪
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♪ Up in my head today. ♪
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Come, sit down.
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You told me
that you get very angry
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with people
who treat you rudely.
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That everyone you hurt
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somehow deserves
what happens to them.
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And...
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I'm starting to think that
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that's not actually
what's going on, Sam.
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What do you mean?
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What I mean is, after everything
you went through as a child,
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you are angry,
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as anyone would be
who experienced that.
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And that anger
has made you violent.
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Which is also very human. So...
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really, Sam,
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you are just looking for people
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who will serve as an excuse
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for you to act out
those feelings.
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And the people that you choose...
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I-I think it's almost random.
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If you run into someone when
you are in that state of mind,
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I think you will find a way
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- to be offended by them.
- No, you're wrong.
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Those people, each and every
one of those people
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is a fucking asshole.
You weren't there.
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You were never there.
That piece of shit,
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he acts however he wants.
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He treats people like shit.
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I understand why
you feel that way.
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I know
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that is what
you are experiencing.
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But part of therapy
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is finding a way to look beyond
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what you are experiencing
in the moment
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and to search more deeply.
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Sam, I think this
is a great opportunity
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for you to search more deeply.
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I know it's what you want.
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I know it's why we are
both here right now.
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I want you to consider
what I just told you.
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May I tell you something more?
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I don't know.
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I think you are angry
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because of what your father did,
like you always said.
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But I think it connects
with your father
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on deeper levels as well.
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You said that he would beat you
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if you didn't do
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exactly what he said instantly.
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If you even took a moment
to think about it.
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Isn't that what you said?
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Mm-hmm.
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So that was, like, his reason
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to hurt you, in his mind.
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But then that
got into your mind.
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So you-you think
that there is a reason
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that all of these people are
behaving this way towards you,
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when in reality,
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they're just
going about their business.
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They didn't do anything
to provoke your attacks
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any more than you did
to provoke your father.
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He was just a violent,
out of control abuser.
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You weren't responsible.
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You were just a little boy.
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Elias Petraki in there...
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...he didn't do anything
to deserve this either.
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He's just a guy who cooks,
manages a Greek restaurant,
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makes food that you like.
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He got into a little tangle
with you
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over an inspection,
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and he might have
looked at you funny
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or been obnoxious
or disrespectful.
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He looked at me...
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He looked at me like I was...
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I was... a son of a bitch.
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You know,
it doesn't-it doesn't...
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- it doesn't-it doesn't matter.
- Sam.
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- He's-he's... he's...
- Sam.
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I want you
to bring Elias out here
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so the three of us can talk.
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What would the point of that be?
345
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You seem to think that
he is such a horrible person
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that he doesn't deserve to live.
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Let's see
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- if there's more to him.
- I don't want to.
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- I want him dead.
- I know you do,
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but I think
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the three of us talking
could be an important
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- part of our work.
- These aren't his therapy sessions. These are
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- my therapy sessions.
- I'm not suggesting that
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we do this for him.
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This is your therapy.
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I've gotten to know Elias some,
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and I think he's
a good young man.
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And I think
if you get to know him,
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you will feel differently
about him.
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Elias,
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we want you to show
your full self here
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so he can see you
as something more
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than he does right now.
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Do you think that
you could tell him
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a little bit about yourself?
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I know how hard this is,
given the circumstances,
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but... do your best.
368
00:25:31,044 --> 00:25:34,149
Okay. Um...
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Why don't you tell him
about the pastitsio,
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and how you
came up with that idea.
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O... Okay.
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Um...
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It's okay.
I know this is hard.
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Tell him about it.
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How you were in Asia.
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Okay.
Yeah, I...
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Okay.
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I work in a restaurant
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with... with my parents.
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They-they came from Greece.
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All that way. They...
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they had a-a dream to...
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What? What? Wh...
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Should I, uh...
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I-I... Okay.
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00:26:29,994 --> 00:26:31,832
So, I-I had this idea
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- to com-to combine udon noodles...
- I...
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No, no. No, no, no!
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- Alan!
- No, no, no! No.
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00:26:38,613 --> 00:26:40,582
No! Candace!
391
00:26:40,649 --> 00:26:43,187
No! Don't...
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00:26:43,254 --> 00:26:45,258
No, God. Candace!
393
00:26:46,661 --> 00:26:49,433
Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no!
394
00:26:49,500 --> 00:26:52,573
Oh, God, no!
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00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:57,015
No. Oh!
396
00:26:57,082 --> 00:26:59,085
No!
397
00:27:05,365 --> 00:27:07,236
No! No, God!
398
00:27:07,302 --> 00:27:10,676
No, no, no, no!
399
00:27:10,743 --> 00:27:12,446
No!
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00:27:16,487 --> 00:27:18,257
No.
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00:31:10,655 --> 00:31:12,926
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