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All right today right now, I
mean, we're gonna talk about

troubleshooting. Step two, step
two is about forming a

connection. And yeah, you might
get in friendzone. But that's

not as bad as serious of a
problem as just being too

serious, too boring or too deep,
just not being fun enough,

you've always got to calibrate
it with a little bit of fun.

Keep everything light and fun.
And that the fun should be like

80 to 90% of the time, you
should not be wallowing in self

pity, or like, you want don't
want her thinking about the time

she was molested for very long
at all. I would do like 2% or

maybe 1% of the time on the
date. That's just enough. It's

like season, it's just enough.
But most of it should be like a

fun job product. That should be
at least 80% of the time. So

what are you going to do you
need to inject humor. Remember

what we said in the emotional
activation system, the first

course, if you're messing up,
step two, and you're too boring,

you gotta go back to step one.
And we visit that the fun and

excitement. Pleasure, join it.
Okay, so inject humor. Remember,

emotional transference applies
to humor. So in orienting

Academy, at your admissions
test, you have to walk up to a

stranger and make her laugh. You
cannot leave until she laughs.

And that often throws people for
a loop out of the many exercises

we give them. They think, oh,
what can I do to make her laugh?

Now we're getting all serious,
cerebral logical, I'm going to

tell a joke that I've heard of
Jamie Foxx, YouTube video, and

then it falls flat because
they're thinking about it. As

they're saying, or they're just
getting nervous. They can't do

it. You know, the easiest way to
make somebody laugh, you got to

start laughing yourself. Which
is ironic, because we get we

just get guys like, hey, just go
up to her laughing and tell her

you got to make her laugh.
That's actually there's no

straightforward way to do it.
Hey, I gotta make you laugh.

What can I do? What can I do?
Tell me something I can do.

Alright, and then you just start
doing stupid stuff. Or you can

tell a really stupid joke that
makes you laugh. And then that's

infectious. Why? Because of the
emotional activation system at

work through our amygdala. So
brain steps, we pick up on these

emotions through mirror neurons.
If you find it funny, then she

will so be ready to laugh at
yourself. If she pokes fun at

you, which is gonna happen a lot
on dates. This is called

flirting. Right? Girls are gonna
poke fun at you, they're gonna

slap your arms. This is called
flirting. If you're ready for

it, you're ready to laugh at
yourself. She says you're fat.

You're like, Oh my God, no,
we're gonna roll with it.

Embrace it. Okay, we're gonna go
over some specific techniques

for humor. Oh, but before I do
that, I'll give you the basics

of humor. Humor is also like,
even though I said it's supposed

to be lightened fun 80% or more
of the time, it shouldn't be

like, you're just telling jokes
80% of the time. So the the

humor moments should shouldn't
take up more than like another

five 10% where she's like, Haha,
that's a little too much if you

just keep performing for it,
because then you'll end up being

the performer, the dancing
monkey. That's bad. I don't keep

up the humor from working 30
seconds. Keep it light and fun.

Unnecessarily funny. But if
you're going too deep and

serious, a great way to bring
her out of that is by going

funny, right? Because those are
two extremes. All right. If

you're teasing her as a way of
making her laugh, which is fine.

Do not tease cloud if you're if
she's not getting the jokes,

okay. I see this a lot. In
Singapore and Asian invasion

guys, America too. Especially,
you're getting bad reactions

because she doesn't share your
sense of humor. So the way to do

it is not to just keep going at
it. Like you're fat, just like

actually hurt. Like, no, no,
you're really fat. Just not

getting the job. That's bad.
Don't even just just draw for

that whole line of insult. Okay.
You can calibrate this by going

logical, logical. Is that
supposed to be a joke? I'm

really sorry. I went too far.
That was really done. Alright,

sorry about that. That's
logical. That will defuse

situation, you go logical and
then you throw cut out. You can

also calibrate by changing the
topic. Okay, just to kind of. So

don't use clap. If you get
consistently bad reactions.

She's gonna realize it's a joke.
So some people because of their

language barriers in Asia, they
don't get the joke because jokes

are usually context sensitive,
or language specific. So if you

take a joke from South Central
LA, and you want to tell it in

Singapore might fall flat.
Especially if you tell it in

China in English, like they
won't get it. She has to realize

it's a joke. So make sure she
realizes Hey, I'm just joking.

Just joking. And never take
yourself too seriously, as I

mentioned. You ready to laugh at
yourself? Okay, I'm gonna give

you a four techniques.

The guys in our academy you
might have heard of these

before. The first is the pink
elephant, the pink elephant.

This is a literary allusion to
the elephant and it goes like

this, don't think about a pink
elephant. They don't exist

elephants, you know, like those
African elephants are different

kinds of elephants. This one's
pink, but they don't exist.

Don't even think about it, like
an elephant that's a shade of

red doesn't exist. Just take it
out of your mind. There's no

such thing as a pink elephant.
Okay, this is called reversal of

a pink. Pink Elephant reversal.

reversal. So this is if x is the
pink elephant, this is not it.

It's a bicycle. Symbolic Logic.
Next. Okay, what about the next

technique associated with this
is dropping goat. This is where

you talk about an innocent
thread. Then you just drop in

the X and drop it and keep
going. Let me give me an example

of drop ago. Let's say the next
I want to do is be naked. Sorry,

guys. So today, it was raining
man. Yeah, let's do weather.

today. It was raining. It hasn't
rained. Actually, the whole

week. It's been raining, but
didn't rain this week. And as I

was taking showers thinking,
what am I gonna wear when I go

out? Because it could wait
later, but maybe it won't. And

I'm thinking do I go to the
beach? Or do not go to the

beach? Or go to a complex right
not to have to wear weatherproof

shoes? Or can I wear my leather
shoes? What should I do? Right?

Like, like I was in the shower,
and I thought of it. That's a

very subtle job to go and start
with weather. And that's how you

can do it just subliminally
implants, visual images. Okay,

and the reversal would be, let's
say, let's make x the two of us

naked making love like this,
we're don't think about our two

sweaty bodies together, because
that will never happened. Right?

Let's make it out making love,
it will never happen. So you've

been thinking about it. Just get
it out of your mind. No, it's

not gonna happen. Forget. So
that's not x. So this is a good

way of making people think of
images. Ideally, these are

images that you can then deny.
So she can at that point, say,

Stop talking about us making
Well, it's not gonna happen. I

feel like I know, it's not gonna
happen. That's what I just said

something about it, you keep
bringing it up friends along, do

you think about sexually, it's
not gonna happen? So what are we

going to order? Okay, you can
combine them as well like that.

So just before during the drop
ago, you do a reversal in the

job. Okay, so to pick out what
are some x's, what are some pink

elephants, you can get him to
take the two of you kissing the

two of you doing data activities
together, like the next time you

you're gonna go scuba diving
together, or maybe you're gonna

go to Bali together. Or maybe
you're gonna just meet for

dinner. Next week, you can
implant those ideas, and the two

of you shopping together, doing
groceries, the two of you

cooking together, the two of
you. Mountain climbing together,

or the two of you, making love
kissing, so forth, whatever it

is that you wanted to think you
can also get him to think of you

naked as I mentioned, or just
people having sex, you could get

her to think that too. You could
get her to think of the two of

you married. That's one way that
women do this to men all the

time. Right. So if you've seen
the TV show, the awesome TV

show, called The Girls Next Door
was the main girl the holly.

Holly continually does pink
elephants to us. When we got

married, this is what we're
gonna do. We're like, hey, well,

we have kids, it's gonna be
great because they're gonna look

like this. It says continually
implanting these images in his

head, and he resists them or
he's already thinking like, oh,

change the subject. And by the
way, all of these techniques are

things that girls do naturally,
or maybe they learned them

somewhere. But this is just
flirting techniques. Positive

misinterpretations, the next
one. You got the slides. Awesome

disputation. A great example of
this is a buddy of mine was at a

club. And this girl said to him,
you're full of shit. But he

hears he heard. You're that
shit. So yeah, so she says

you're full of shit. years. So
he says, hey, thanks. You got so

bad yourself. Buy me a drink
before you hit me like that. She

said, No. I said you're foolish
it. By that time. He was having

such a great time. It's feeling
good about himself. He's like,

Yeah, you love it. She goes,
yeah. Well, how does that work?

He positively misinterpreted
bullshit. as something that was

positive for him. He actually
did that unconsciously. And that

worked really well because his
frame was so strong, right? You

heard you're invested. So the
next time the girl says

something bad about you just
respond as if she says something

good about what a crappy shirt.
Thinks let you notice Here's

some other lines you can use.
Thanks. Glad to notice. So

that's why you'd like me so
much. Thanks for noticing.

Thanks for not too bad yourself.
You can usually just start with

things and they'll get you on
the right track. You could also

just do it in a completely funny
way, by just answering whatever

the fuck you want to ask. So she
says something you say, No, I'm

not going to give you my number.
Or no, I'm not going home with

you.

Like what? That's just funny. I
think it's hilarious, but you

got to make sure you think is
hilarious. Okay, number three,

exaggerate to absurdity,
exaggerate to absurdity. So

maybe you got on the phone with
her. Maybe just talking to you

person. You ask her what she did
that day. She says whatever. You

say, Cool. I cure cancer. Man,
it was tough. You're gonna work

on it for years. We're finally
got it fixed. You also say what

you do that what you do today?
She says whatever you say, Oh,

awesome. I just had lunch with
Justin Timberlake. He's really

thin nowadays. Like he just
keeps doing movies and

completely neglecting music. I
think that just gets in the way

of his exclusivity. Sometimes
it's not in the musical mood.

But he does say hi. Just say hi.
And he had a California just

kind of weird picture of JT just
Timberlake in California. Right.

So that should be totally weird.
So if you're like, do that,

well, you got to exaggerate to
absurdity. It's got to be

stupid. It's got to be
completely silly. How about

this? How was your day? It was
great. I just flew back from the

moon. It was amazing up there. I
saw your house a bit stalkerish.

I know. But there was a big exon
because I painted there. Last

time I flew over. It struck a
big stink bomb on it. And it's

just like, turned into an X. And
there's no transformer up there.

Don't believe what they tell
you. There's no transfer. I was

so disappointed. But as I was
coming in, I did see you coming

out of shower. totally absurd.
Just exaggerated. How do you do

this? There's a lot of Asian
guys in Asia who are forced to

say what their teachers want
them to say. I know this because

I used to be a university
teacher and they just mimic back

the exam answers that model
answers are given. So this is an

exercise that you can use to
practice exaggerating to

absurdity. Pull up your phone or
your timekeeping device and get

the stopwatch, stopwatch.
Alright, so get used to saying

what's whatever's on your mind.
And speaking just off the top of

your head for a minute, three
minutes, five minutes, do this

with a buddy for 30 seconds at a
time. There we go. I'll just

demonstrate this real quick.
Okay, so I see one guy sleeping.

What's really funny is whenever
he sleeps, he does this. And

then somebody comes up. I used
to do that in university because

I'm writing and then I know when
I'm falling asleep because my

handwriting starts to go zigzag
and starts to cut across the

paper. And then suddenly,
there's this checkbox. Well,

that's when I woke up. So I used
to look at my first class at

McGill University, I took Intro
to Chinese civilizations. And

when I look back at my notebook,
many many years later, I

couldn't read a single thing
because after the first class,

it was just and what was the
worst was I thought I will stay

awake if I sit in the front row,
because then he's gonna be

louder to be more entertaining,
more dynamic, but no, he just

noticed me sleeping more. So
that was intro to Chinese sit,

but I actually enjoy that course
because the readings were great.

Yeah, the lectures are boring,
but it's not the readings I

actually ended up majoring in it
after just because that course

also because I can get easy A's
in Chinese language. Today,

we've been talking for quite a
long time. I know some of you

guys are energy sapping I off
second my second read well now

and what retable does for us is
a bit of a diuretic so it makes

you dehydrated, which then means
I have to drink a lot of water

but then I mixed up so it's like
this back and forth like I'm

dehydrated kind of peak
dehydrated. gotta pee, but I

love it because I got a lot of
caffeine, and then I'm down

because I'm peeing again. It's
horrible. But what's worse about

peeing right now is that I'm
hooked up to this microphone.

Every time I gotta go to the
bathroom to take this thing off,

come back and put it back in and
considering just walking with

this and had it recorded by pee,
but I'm worried that all

electrocute myself. Somehow.
Nobody really bad to be

electrocuted by your own pee,
man. That's more that's like the

worst way to die. Right? Like
when we say the quarters, man,

death by pee electrocution.
Okay, it was military. But

that's just what's on my head
right now. Okay, so, get in the

habit of that. Just talk about
the top of your head and wonder

what how Rosengren just talks
off the top of his head all this

bullshit nonsense. It makes no
sense. Nonsense. It makes no

sense. It's mostly nonsense. It
doesn't make sense. He doesn't

say stupid shit. That makes no
sense. Right? I learned that in

debating. I joined the debating
team as perky in high school. We

had to debate lots of other high
schools, and I was intermediate

I was alright. But there are
these debaters from these

private schools and they got
coaching. And they would make

mistakes like they would say, as
the whole story said the war in

peace. Yes, don't war in peace,
not war in peace, not war in

peace. It's very different from
war and peace. He said they just

roll with it. See the mistake if
he makes a mistake in the war

Learning he uses he exaggerates,
it brings it out, pulls it up,

mix, mix, it takes power over
it. My music teachers used to

say, if you're gonna make a
mistake, make it loud, because

then they think it's on purpose.
So I used to play this jazz

band. And we actually had
written music for this because

it was a big jazz band. And I
started four bars early, the

whole sack section was supposed
to come in. And we're supposed

to do this dude, or whatever,
right? I just started playing

it. And then the teacher is
like, looking at me, like really

mad. It's just conducting the
rest of the band. And then she's

like,

because at least it sounds like
it's a solo, you know, like I

was that the what they just
wanted one sax for that for bar.

And yeah, there's some
dissonance, but that's what jazz

is all about. Right? If you do
something confidently, you will

get pulled off. I mean, you can
pull it off, you might get

pulled off as well. So if
anything's get pulled off, you

do this. Okay, exaggerate to
absurdity. That's the stream of

consciousness exercise via
verbal Proust. The last one is

push pull, you might have heard
a lot about this. I included it

only because it is such a
fundamental concept. Everything

in 13, exhibit some push pull.
The classic book on this is from

a decade ago, probably out swing
cat. I recommend that book, push

pull, I wrote an article on this
and it's on social media.com and

some other places. If you just
google me 20 Push bull by Asian

rakish find this in a push pull
article and looked at push pull

as it relates to coffee funding.
And I talked about the 8020

proportionality, the emotional
Activation System dictates that

there's going to be more
pulling, because you're being

honest with your desire. You're
not going to hide the fact that

you like her. It's upfront. Why?
Because that's how you feel. So

you can't hide it. Or you're not
it's it's counterproductive. You

want to speed it all up by just
saying, hey, Sue, I am I like

you. Here we go. Right. So more
more pull. But you do have to

mix in some push. I'll give you
an example of one that I've

done. Swag to go. Oh my god. So
oh my god, I'm gonna love with

you. It's puppy dog. Just be
crazy. Why? And then you give

her this incredulous look like
what? Why? I mean, why? I mean,

look at you. It should be crying
for you to walk in public. And

as she says, let's wait very,
where are you from? That's

always like, their way of
figuring out your social value

in Asia. Right? Where are you
from? So Trump doesn't matter.

Can you remember? She says No
way. No way. First, tell me

where you're from. I'm like,
okay, China. Right? I mean,

let's say Okay, okay. Yes. She
says, wherever you like, doesn't

really matter, because you don't
want to talk about this logic.

So she says wherever he's like,
yeah, pretty close. Hey, look,

you make me nervous now. Right?
So you're gonna move with that?

Right? Do you take that
opportunity? Because she's now

invested more with the question.
You break the gap. You're coming

closer. You say? You know,
you're making me all nervous.

Look, my hands are all cold and
sweaty. Your field is now

recovering and yours look
through a cold and sweaty of

course they're not. Right. But
she's like you're not nervous,

right? Because I'm not actually
nervous pretending to be but if

you really aren't nervous that
could work to like they're all

pulling switches like yeah,
that's how much I love you.

She's like, You're not nervous.
And I said, what? You call me a

liar. I convinced my deep dark
look for you. My deep, deep,

deep dark love my deep dark
look. But deep, dark, dark love

for you and you're calling me a
liar. Oh my god. That's it.

We're breaking up. You're gonna
divorce. I'm gonna keep the DVDs

but you can keep the job. And
that's just like, ah, but you

still like nothing's going on
from here. Still say nothing.

She goes Okay, bye. And do I
know, can't we we can go and

cry. And she's like, What? Like,
come here. Come here. Alright,

give you enough. So that was all
funny. Who pulled up? Oh, go

away. Come back. No, I'm in love
with him. If you do that role

playing a bit too. You know, I'm
gonna take the DVDs. You keep

the dog. I mean, we like the dog
anyway. But yeah, you're gonna

come come and come back. And
then you get real. You don't

want to be joking around too
much. Right? I think that was

the mistakes of some of you guys
just joking around too much. Not

more than 30 seconds to stop it.
Okay, come on, give me a number.

acknowledging the fact that we
were just flirting. If she jokes

back at me, it's called
flirting.

And then she's like, okay. All
right. So today, just under

section over some vulnerability
techniques. We went over humor.

We went over the pink elephants
positive misinterpretation

exaggerated to absurdity in the
stream of consciousness exercise

And we covered a bit of push
pull. But So in that example

that I gave you, there were five
poles. And then there's one push

about the roleplay push at the
end, before I pull it back in.

And that speeds it up. Because a
woman is not going to naturally

take the dominant position,
she's not naturally going to be

the aggressor. If you're going
to wait for her to be the

aggressor, it's going to take
longer, you know, it could be up

to 20 hours, 30 hours before
that happens. But if you're the

one pulling her in, all she's
going to do is resist enough for

her not to feel like she's easy,
which is great. No one's gonna

feel you don't want to, but
you're gonna pull her in. And

then you need to calibrate and
adjust so that there's some

dynamic, pushing back and forth.
And that's how the

proportionality works. Okay, so
take a little stretch, break,

and then we'll get into the next
thing. Okay, welcome back, we're

on step three. Now, three, we
had a three. This one is sexual

tension, over enjoyment, step
one. Step two is connection. And

now step three is sexual
tension. The dominant emotions

at this step are, as you might
have guessed, sexual attention,

arousal, desire, lust,
everything should be slow, and

smooth and controlled, slow,
smooth control. It should feel

like one of those seductive
dances that you're doing slow

and smooth and controlled. No
woman wants a fast, quick

movement. And in the sexual
tension step, you've got to

obviously be comfortable with
sex and sexuality. Important

part of it, you also have to be
comfortable with physical touch.

I mean, just be obvious. But we
do get quite a few virgins who

joined the Academy. And maybe
some of you out there virgins. I

just read a report that in
Japan, one in five men were over

35 are virgins. And then over 25
It's, it's like two and five,

which is ridiculous. For me. I
mean, like, from my perspective,

it's two, sentence two is very
sad for them. I mean, for the

women, especially, because they
probably have built up in their

minds, this idea of sex that can
never live up to the ideal.

Also, the probably aren't used
to touching and being touched

physically. And if you're not
used to uncomfortable touching

and being touched, it's gonna be
very hard for you to create

sexual tension. Okay, and in
addition, cognitively, there's

something you need to learn more
to learn about women's

fantasies. So a great way to do
that is a classic book by Nancy

Friday, she has produced other
books as well. The classic is my

secret garden. And it's a
collection anthology of letters

from women about their sexual
fantasies, it's really important

for you to see what it's like
from a woman's perspective. It's

also good to get some romance
novels, the ones that are hits

with women like harlequin
romances, you can see from their

perspective, what it's like they
see a guy they like more,

they're falling in love with
thoughts they have, what

feelings they have, so you can
understand what they're going

through. And so that you can
give them what they want. So the

first part of sexual vibe or
three, the first part is verbal.

So people were asking about
this, how do you go from

platonic to sexual so you're in
step two, you're saying lots of

nice things. Like I liked that
about you. I'd love it so

adventurous. It's really cool.
And that you probably throwing

in some friends qualifications
like you just like my friend,

Jennifer. These are good for
making friends, but also for

keeping her a little confused
about your intentions. But they,

they're not going all the way
into sexual intent yet. And it's

very easy to transition from
qualifying people as friends

into qualifying them as more
than that, as lovers, you just

add a different word. You've
changed words, use words like

sexy, so sexy about you, man,
that's really hot. And if it's

too much, you need to calibrate
it. Again. Just like if you

reward is too much. You've over
rewarded you calibrate with the

takeaway, verbal or physical.
Other words are like attractive.

You seem to attract beautiful
clarity of erotic gorgeous, just

start changing up the
qualification. Again, you don't

want to focus on your physical
qualities. The qualifications

should almost always be about
non physical, the physical

qualities, so stop complimenting
her boobs. Don't do that. But if

she says that she's into this
Tetris thing, rock climbing,

say, Well, that's pretty sexy.
Actually. That's perfectly fine.

Just start throwing those in
there.

You'll be transitioning out of
just platonic. Also, you want to

start using sexual innuendo. I
don't want you guys to write

down this list. Okay. You'll
have access to this list.

Obviously, it's on the slides.
But I just came up with this

list. With the help of Google
sexual innuendo words, words

like I just love this. So I
might read it up just for fun.

Aching, oh, my legs, really
aching, banging on that being

outside. That construction.
They're buried inside. Caress,

come, come over. You come from a
good place. If you see when you

just start framing the entire
conversation in sexual ways,

this is just like sub
communication. It's like a new

window. It works that way.
You're implanting ideas in the

unconscious mind are associated
with sexual thoughts. Ease into

direct, erupt, fast, finger
firm, flowing flush, prevented

hard, like, it's hard for you.
It's a tough, tough grind. You

know, I can see you this is hard
for you. Hold how you feel

inside. Obviously, this couldn't
be done when we talk about

emotions, how it feels inside.
Longing melts moist, naked,

naughty. I like it when a girl
is open. Now, you don't want to

laugh when you're saying because
obviously, there's sort of like

GRE words when I say key words,
when you learn a new word like

salubrious you want to say today
it was such a salubrious day

movers actually used it. Don't
do that. Use it. Like it's the

sort of word that you use every
day. Right? And when you're

writing in your essay, you throw
in, you know, ubiquitous, you

don't make it sound like it's a
special word that you dress up.

You just throw it in there just
like you would use a sort of

word you use every day. These
are the sorts of words you use

every day actually wouldn't be
good to use it every day to stop

using them when you're around
guys with this penetrating

plunge how many raw like my own
is raw? Yeah, release right slip

slide stiff straddles through
tees, tender, tight, throbbing,

my head strong, so hard for us
with uninhibited urge. There's a

lot of words like that are
actually sexual, you can begin

getting her thinking sexually
without even using and he's

talking about sex explicitly.
And again, you might want to see

Russell Brand's vocabulary and
its verbal patterns are very

much like this. Many of the Don
Juan's a Casanova's of history,

use a lot of sexual innuendo. So
there should be no mistaking the

sort of unconscious mind will
already be thinking sexually

about you that could repulse
her, especially if she's related

to you. But if she's interested
in you at all, it'll forward

it'll push the interaction and
accelerated much quicker. Okay,

now the second grade, vocal
tonality and eye contact, your

tonality should be slow and
smooth like the bottom. When you

first meet your step one, you
can be fun, exciting, high

energy, right. And step two,
ideally, you're gonna be moving

into something deep and serious,
more like more of a deep

connection. So you've been
talking about secrets and your

childhood and all of that, and
you're gonna start slowing it

down. And already in step two,
you should be using your slow

and smooth God. In fact, step
one could go very quickly, it

could go within seconds, and
I'll show you how that would

happen. And then you got to
switch into slow and smooth. I

have this here in the clip of
the Hungarian guy and Eyes Wide

Shut, I spent quite a lot of
time on the internet looking for

it don't have it. We could just
show the DVD too much time here.

But go purchase that movie Eyes
Wide Shut and watch the clip of

the Hungarian guy as he seduces
Nicole Kidman in the beginning

of the movie. Eye contact so I
went over pretty quickly. slow

and smooth with nada. You're
going to be rather than legato

is, in music, it's a musical
term where the over the notes

there's a phrase like it's
around for over the notes. And

that's like a lot of if it's to
kind of the opposite of legato

there's a little dot above the
notes and that's that speaking

has a musicality to it. I just
said that what's the line

speaking has a musicality to it
already. La la la la la la la

la. There's a musicality, it is
built into speaking, learn to

make your speech. slow, smooth,
legato like music. This is

agnostic for women because in
mature trance states, it will

also slow down your emotions
that you feel more sexual and

feel more seductive. Okay, then
let's move to iContact you want

to watch a blink rate?

Putting some more eyedrops LASIK
surgery and dry. blanking breaks

tension. You don't want to break
tension in step three. You don't

want to break tension in step
two. In general, powerful people

don't break tension. Powerful
people hold and maintain

tension. They create the tension
and conflict get when they want

to. They're in control of
attention. Just for my own

study, personal study of
seductive characters in movies,

I've noticed that the blink rate
is the fastest blink rate I've

seen is going to be once every
five seconds once every five

seconds. But you should try to
get the skill of practice not

blinking for 30 seconds to a
minute. Now that seems like a

long time. I can't Do it right
now, because I just had LASIK

twice. But that's something to
work towards when I first

started learning how to get
better with women. Way, way back

six, seven years ago, I had
contact lenses. And I had the

wrong type of contact lenses,
because they were making my eyes

really dry, just to keep them
moist, I had to blink every two

to three seconds. And this was
very bad for creating sexual

tension. So I went back to my
optometrist, and we tried five

different brands of contact
contact lenses to find the most

moist that would fit my Superman
eyes. And we eventually found

that it was Acuvue oasis. Give a
plug, but I work on it more. But

it could be different, because
everybody's eyes are a little

different. So just try out
different brands. So it could

actually be a biological or
chemical thing, fix it, go to a

doctor. Or you might just need
more sleep. That's definitely

one, you find yourself blinking
a lot at night, at clubs, it

could just be because you're not
having enough sleep. Okay,

here's a clip, to show the fact
that in movies. In movies,

actors have to train themselves
to keep their eyes over for long

periods of time. And that's
because they need to control the

tension, especially film acting
when they do a zoom up to the

face to the face, if you like
that takes us to face. So

Michael King who has a series of
acting workshops on YouTube,

providing your the weekend.

And if I keep blinking, it
weakens me. But if I'm talking

to you, and I don't blink, and I
just keep going, and I don't

blink, and I keep on going. And
I don't blink, and I just keep

going. And I don't blink, and I
keep on going. And I don't

blink, and I just keep going.
And I don't blink, and I keep on

going. And I don't blink. And I
just keep going. And I don't

blink, and I keep on going. And
I don't blink, and I just keep

going. And I don't blink, and I
keep on going. And I don't

blink, and I just keep going.
And I don't blink, and I keep on

going and I don't blink, you
start to listen to what I'm

saying. Makes me a very strong
person, as opposed to someone

who is sitting there going.

Okay, so that's my authority
itself. I have trouble with

waking. And I just needed to get
more sleep, I need to change my

context. Right now I need to wet
my eyes, that's all. So during

this break, I got to do that.
Another thing you can get me to

think about in terms of eye
contact is to blink slowly. You

can when you do blink, blink
slowly, that's something that

should be nice, good. Taught me
to blink slowly. It's more

seductive that way. Okay, when
you're looking, you know, this

is a problem that some guys
have, but they don't know where

to look. Look into her eye. And
the best thing is to actually

focus on your dominant eye. So
the dominant either the staring

basically had to figure out what
my job and I was. And that's the

eyewear, if you're you, they're
gonna put this image that only

one I can see. Ingle, the only
one I could see, I don't know if

it'd be here, here, here. And
then they make you close the

eyes. And you're gonna ask you
when you're both eyes are open,

which you see. And I saw one on
the right, and then they close

my eyes. And that's how they
figured out right, because most

people who are right handed are
going to be writing a document.

So just look into her dominant
eye. She will see better through

that eye, you'll see better
through that. It's also it's a

mental thing. It's not something
that you need to obsess about.

But if you don't know where to
look, generally just focus on

provided by using your tongue.
Unless just left hand they can

go right over that point. And
one of the things about about

eye contact to make it more
seductive as your there's this

thing called sticky notes that
law allows teachers to book

Sticky eyes where if you're
looking at the person and as

you're moving your head making
eye contact, so the normal is

I'm looking at you now. My eyes
move as my head moves. Sticky

eyes as I'm looking at you now
I'm looking at with my head's

moving but my eyes are staying
there. So I'm looking at you

like interesting and I look it's
a little sticky like taffy that

increases the sexual tension

Okay, sexual activation. Now we
get now that you understand the

eye contact tonality you
understand how to start speaking

using sexual vocabulary sexual
Oops, sexual innuendo. Again,

the dominant emotions here are
arousal, desire and lust and you

can begin to activate these.
Understand, in terms of your

inner game, your mindset that
women, actually, they want to be

in the more submissive role,
that's the nature of the

feminine, the feminine polarity,
they want to be desired, they

want to be fantasized about,
they want to be taken not like

badly, but take it as in, they
want to be the recipients of the

desire. So you're going to have
to get used to becoming more

dominant in this area, when it
comes to sex and sexuality. If

this is still new to you, and
your version, or maybe you're

just not experienced with sex,
you can go back and look at

women's fantasies, and you'll
read it from their very own

words, describing how they want
to be taken, how they want, they

don't want to be the guy, they
don't want to be the guy in the

relationship, that they want you
to be the guy. And here's some

things that you can do to
activate the sexual state. Now

that you're speaking in a slow
and smooth tonality, and you're

making eye contact, relatively
unthinkingly, you can begin to

do a few things one of them is
trying to regain trying to

gazing is just looking at what I
then the other eye than the

lips, and doing it in a hypnotic
rate. Okay, like it just making

a triangle. What this will do is
she's gonna be making eye

contact with you to be following
your eyes and subliminally or

subconsciously she'll be moving
to your lips. If a woman looks

at your lips at any point in
time, while you're talking to

her, she's thinking about
kissing? No, no. That's what

she's thinking. All right.
Triangle gazing, very simple. Do

it while talking about the
weather, sexual state

transplants. This is something
that this is actually these

concepts that got me thinking
about emotional activation in

the first place. This is the one
that was that's why, to me, it

was like the eureka moment.
That's why it works. Because of

the power of mirror neurons,
which we covered in the first

course. Essential state
transfers this while you're

looking at the woman, you're
imagining having sex with her,

right there, and then whatever
you need to do to get aroused.

Actually, you don't have to
think that. That's an easy way

to do it. You get fantasizing
about it, you turn yourself on

it, you become aroused. She's
made maintaining eye contact

with you, where even if she's
just close to you very close,

like touching distance, she will
pick up on that. It's just to

pick up on it through the
amygdala. This is the power of

mirror neurons. Okay, I'm gonna
show you a clip from top where

she's looking at his lips. And
he's also making amazing eye

contact there. And throughout
most of Top Gun, I mean,

throughout Top Gun. I looked for
a clip where he's blinking. I

couldn't find one. Maybe you
look hard enough you can. I

haven't seen that he's seen
blink once in the movie, the

whole world. And in this clip,
you'll see he doesn't blink. And

notice too, how eye contact and
proximity and holding unblinking

eye contact and I suspect that
he's doing something like trying

to gaze because they see their
eyes shifting and then to the

lips. Thing is actually doing
trying to engage them there. If

someone told him that she was
picking up on a tooth, she

started doing it back to him. So
you'll see this here

how many of you have seen Top
Gun movie? Okay, great. The rest

of you get down to 50 Push ups
and slapping faces. Okay,

there's no excuse not to see
this movie. It's not like it's

really doing anything to
classical by and watch it over

and over. Especially if you're
short, like myself five, seven,

like Tom Cruise. This in this
scene, this is just after they,

uh, she invited him over to her
house for dinner or something.

And he left early and created a
lot of sexual tension and just

left and that made her want more
because she she wouldn't break

the verbal barrier. Say we're
more than student teacher until

the very end. And then that's
when he knew we had her. So he's

belonging to this process and
now you can see the sexual

tension that's here

it looks like you need another
shower. Right I'm gonna be

honest with you. You're exciting
is really important to my work I

don't normally invite students
to my house. You're Please

understand I still have a job to
do sir okay, we got that

straight

so as you see, right at the end,
you saw his eyes shifting, I

don't know if it was visible
from the screen or not, but you

assume this, this was was
looking at his lips. So that was

some serious sexual tension
there. Very good. And one other

thing I wanted to mention, you
can practice your eye contacts,

holding eye contact with with a
beautiful woman does get help us

clip provides us provide you
guys with the staring contest.

And you can practice on that. So
just google or Go to YouTube and

search for just get out of a
certain contest. And you'll see

that she holds this blinking
stare for over a minute and

smiling the whole time. It's a
really good one to practice on.

If you're not used to creating
sexual tension with your eye

contact, you're not used to
looking beautiful women in the

eye to really be able to use it.
Okay, so we went over step three

sexual tension, if you do it,
you should do it verbally. You

can also do it create it to with
tonality and eye contact and

went over some specific
techniques for sexual

activation, sexual state
transference, and triangular

gazing among them. So coming up,
we're going to talk about how to

get to the kiss how to kiss her
in that way. All right, let's

take a little break. Because I'm
gonna talk about now how to

escalate to the kiss. And some
guys feel like they need a line.

They need some words, because
they don't feel righteous

creating the moment and doing
it. And that's okay. Because

when you're not experienced, you
need that. You need some words.

So your question up here is your
question up here that Linus are

trying so hard. I don't think he
did the sound yet. Great.

Awesome. Yeah, it's not needed.
So I'll give you two lines. That

could work if you feel like you
need some lines that I've worked

for myself have worked for my
clients. Works repeatedly in

many different circumstances.
And one that is very easy to do.

And that's not advanced at all,
is you have no idea how bad I

want to kiss you right now.
Desmond. Desmond doesn't use

that line. Because he's a beast.
But yeah, if you feel like you

need a line, look, interagency
triangular, gazing, boom, boom,

boom, sexual state transference.
You have no idea how bad I want

to kiss you right now. And then
you gotta let it sit. Because

you got to first see what she's
gonna say. She might just look

at you like, in which case, go
for it go for the kiss. She

might say then why don't you go
for it. But another line that's

a little bit more advanced, just
a little bit is I want to make

love with you now. Don't ever
say I want to have sex. That's

what little boys say to each
other. Make love use that word

stead. I want to make love with
you. Okay, that's more advanced.

And one other one that's really
effective all around all

purpose. You know, there's,
there's something I've been

meaning to do for a while.
That's a great one. Pull her

over, you know, something I've
been meaning to do for a while.

Just like what? That. Okay. So
I'm going to bring up Sharon,

who has agreed to help me with
this. I'm very lucky to have

her. Okay. So, we've just given
you some lines, I don't think I

need to demonstrate those just
lines and then you kiss. There's

another thing you can do is
touching hair touching with the

hair touch. So there's a ladder
of or a different layers of

comfort physically that people
have. The outer layers are

usually the ones that people use
for blocking in martial arts,

right so that we're fighting.
It's the outside of the arm,

that's your blocking arm, the
outside of the leg. It's also

blocking your back your upper
back especially is pretty

strong. You can block that way.
Right. So these are pretty

insensitive. You can This is
friendly upper back outside of

the arm, and if you're seated,
you can hit on the outside of

the thigh. That's a Little bit
more sensitive than these other

parts, because it's close to the
groin. But your especially the

lower leg is alright. But as you
work your way in, it becomes

more and more sensitive. And if
she allows you to touch more, as

you move in, then you can gauge
how much she likes you how much

compliance she's giving you.

Now, there's one way that works
really well. And it's the face,

the face is a very sensitive
place. So she's, she's probably

not going to let you just go in
and touch your face right away.

So don't do that. You could get
slapped in that you deserve it.

But the hair is attached to the
head, the hair is often around

the face as well. So that's a
really easy way of just jumping

into a higher level of, of, of
comfort for her. So let's say

you know, you're talking and so
we're like, hey, bla, bla, bla,

bla, bla bla, like, you're here.
So soft. Thank you. And then

you're welcome. You can stroke
it like this, right? And then

just let it fall like wow. And
if she's cool with you touching

her hair, then she's gonna be
cool with you probably kissing

later, right? So we're talking
about whatever, can we move up

just a little bit more elbow
room. Cool. So we're talking

about whatever, blah, blah,
blah, and then how you hear so

soft, thanks. So blah, blah,
blah, blah, blah, about whatever

else. Blah, blah, blah. And then
I'll throw in line just to let

you guys see how it's likely.
You know, there's something I've

been meaning to do for a while
now. Quit laughing. So notice

how the hair touching, right?
And then I'm coming in. I'm

actually close enough. If I say
the line to kiss her, okay,

okay. That's hair touching.
There's also one you can use on

the dance floor, which is
basically when you go to the

dance floor, you want you don't
want to start breaking out the

moves. That's counterproductive
to sexuality. Okay, so if you're

not touching, if you're not
coupled, dancing, and you just

like breaking out your moves,
and you're far apart, not so

great. Alright, so you want to,
if you're dancing, you want to

put her hands around you. But so
come in like that. Right? And

you could dance like grade six.
So you're gonna do your hands up

here and just like this, and
then within a few seconds,

they'll be able to kiss. Okay,
thanks. That was nice. Let's do

that. Okay, so that's dance
floor. Here's one that's a

little bit more elaborate. Let's
say you're on a date, and you're

getting a little bit of, she's
not feeling it quite yet. And

you feel like you need to build
it up. Maybe you don't feel it

quite yet. You're still like
friends having wine in your

apartment. So you're on the
couch. And you could say, This

is my variation on the evolution
phase shift routine that Neil

Strauss wrote about long time
ago. So I've don't do it the way

he did, because it's just too
long and boring. So I do like

this. Hey, so we haven't done
this in so long. Okay, right. We

start off with hugging and then
we build our way up to kissing.

So with the hugging, so we're
talking about whatever, blah,

blah, blah, blah, blah. And then
I say, hey, you know what's

really important to me, my
friends. Hugging? Like, it's so

under. It's so underrated these
days, people ignore it. But to

me, like, if you're going to be
my friend, you got to know how

to hug properly. Do you? If I
were to rate you on your

hugging? Like on a scale of one
to 10? What would I give you? Be

honest. See? Eight and a half.
Really? That's pretty high. It's

like an A and Canada. show me
show me show me how you hug.

Stand up and like Okay, show me.

Oh, that's not bad. That's
pretty good. That's pretty good.

I'll show you how to really hike
and it's how you really hug.

Okay, so come here. Okay.

Stop laughing. Okay, so the hug
is you go up in an X pushing,

then trace the back, trace her
back. She's got some flowing

close, it's hard to see where my
hands are going. Yeah, so let me

let them see your back. Yeah. So
I'm coming up. So I'm gonna put

her hands arms on my shoulder
and my neck. I'm gonna go up her

back in an x. Right, then move.
I'm gonna push her into me. See

how there's tension there. And
then I release the tension and I

just stroke with the back. Just
an X. Most people just like,

Okay, that's it, right? The fact
that you put any thought into it

whatsoever is already enough.
Move and then down. Don't think

too much about it because the
technique isn't as important as

the fact that you've got a
special hug. All right, so so

she's just laughing because this
is funny, I guess. So we don't

know how again, and like Yeah,
that's so you know what else? I

really like? I used to have long
hair. Mostly growing my hair out

right now. My hair used to be I
began to hear and you know what

I miss most about having long
hair? Here, I'll show you. Okay,

you have long hair. I've never,
I don't think maybe I'll have it

as long as this but okay, this
is what I miss

this is where a real couple of
so that's why it's fine. Okay,

so what you're gonna do is
you're gonna go stroke up the

back of her head. Then grab a
little clump of hair at her

crown, and then pull back
slowly. Right so her neck gets

exposed. So to go up, like this,
pull back slowly. Very slowly. I

don't want to rip it. Like that.
And then hold it just enough so

that she's got the pacing. So
it's Linda, okay. So then you

like, are you? I would love for
you to do it on me. But clearly,

you can't say I have short hair
or I have a beanie on. You know

what? What else it lifted to
When? When I get my hair pulled

back? Tell me. Now we'll show
again. So go back up. Do it

again. And then I

do Shawn's she knows John's
chance Johnson French. So, yes,

smelling like that. Is it? Is it
nice? Okay. You got a new

cologne this morning? No, it's
clean. Okay, so we're getting

bored. You're like, I can't do
this shit. We're like, maybe

you're thinking maybe you're not
even picking up what's going on?

Like, I don't know how you can
write notes on this really?

Yeah, it's it's in the eyes and
in the tonality. So I'm speaking

very slowly speaking very
softly. Some of you in the back

may not be able to hear. It's
okay. Because I have a lavalier

mic. Okay, so I've done this
smelling. So I've done a couple

of smell. And I say you know
what else really? Okay, so don't

do that. So yeah, we're we're
doing that. Okay. It's just

like, relax. Okay, so you know,
what else? It really like? Do

you know how to ride a bike?
Wait, are you like one of those

really violent? Yeah, you're
really rough. I don't know if I

can deal with that. Here. show
me show me what you mean. Oh,

shit, I got all these bracelets
on. But yeah, yeah, just just

Oh, that was a joke. No, that's
not how you but that's not bad.

But let me show you what I mean.
So I'm gonna go up. And when

you're biting, you just want to
take a little bit of flesh near.

This is the part where you can
see the veins, which,

unfortunately on mine are
covered by my bracelets. But on

hers, you see the veins,
everybody has those. That's a

very sensitive spot. In fact,
some hypnotists say you can

control the heart rate by
tapping this at a certain rate

for long enough. So you're gonna
just hold it up, you're gonna

bite and dividing is going to be
your teeth are gonna just take

it, hold it for a little bit and
then just let go. So it's

your very gentle. Thanks. I know
you liked it. So you see the

pacing. It slows everything
down. Maybe we're just joking

around like, hey, the Rangers
are so they suck, man. You

should you should watch the
pirates, some sports teams,

right? And then how you gonna go
from that into kissing. You

could just like yell at each
other. And then I hate you too.

I'm gonna kiss. But that's a
little hard. It's a harder

transition. So if you bring it
down, you can start with getting

and then here pulling and then
now we're inviting. Right? And

this is a really good one. You
know, it's like, you know, what

else are we like? whispering in
the ear? Do you know how to

whisper in people's ears? Damn,
this baby has shown me do it to

me. Like that. Okay. Oh, wow,
that was that was nice. Let me

show you how I do it. And then.
So now in order to whisper to

her ear, I'm not going to
whisper in this year. I'm going

to whisper in this year. Right.
So I'm gonna sit here,

whispering the other ear. And
what I'm going to do is as I go,

as I move my head up, I'm gonna
start breathing on her neck. So

I'm gonna exhale all the way up
her neck to her ear. Right.

Okay, so let me show you here.
Let me show you. Another thing

as I'm doing it, I'm also
smelling her neck again. This is

all part of evolution, right? So
these are evolutionary tools for

meeting

Okay, so I'm going to breathe in
And then as I'm going up, I'm

breathing out, I get up to here
and I say, nevermind. So

nevermind. That's always like
torture because like, nevermind.

And then of course, that will
lead up to the next natural

thing is just like. So. If I
were to rate you on how good you

are over kissing, whatever I
give you like one to 1010 10.

And then we kiss, right? You're
very confident, like 10 and a

half. Okay? And then that's it.
That's a good way to elongate

the process. I think I also got
now that I remember it. A long

time ago, a guy named Craig
talked about whispering in the

ear. So that was a mixture of a
bunch of different things. Okay,

I think that's it, then. Thank
you very much. That was fun.

Let's do that again. Okay, any
questions about the kiss, kiss

pieces, you exhale, and you
inhale to see why you can't

exhale, inhale the same time,
unless you're a very special

mutant. So if this is her neck,
I need to inhale first. So as I

inhale, I'm inhaling just where
her cologne or perfume would be.

So you start new and you want to
start like you're diving like

the base of her neck. And if you
do this, she's gonna lean back.

So you're gonna have her like,
like this. So it'd be like a

Harlequin romance novel cover.
So give me like an as you're,

you're sniffing in your exhale,
inhaling. And then what you want

to do is this part of the, the
skin of the neck is very

sensitive is very thin. So as
you breathe out, it'll stimulate

this. Get up to the year. And
then you say, you can change

out, you can change up the last
words if you'd like, but it's

just a little surprise, because
you've built up all the sexual

tension. Don't worry about it.
Or build up the sexual tension.

I forgot.

The last thing about sexuality
is that you have to have a

sexual image. It's gonna be hard
for her to think sexual thoughts

about you. If you look like
you're an uptight, you know,

retentive, man. Okay, but if you
look like a schoolboy, it's

gonna be like, almost illegal
for her to have those thoughts

about you, if you look like a
schoolboy, so you got to look

sexy. Right. So obviously, this
is another course entirely, we

could do another four hour
course on this. In order

Academy, we in fact, do we have
two classes on getting yourself

a sexy image totaling four
hours, but he won't give you the

quick down and dirty on it. You
want to wear clothing that's

fitted. First of all it has to
fit. It can be if it fits well,

it can be completely plain, it
can be from Uniqlo, which is a

great value. For basics, just
like a black T shirt with the

crew neck. If it fits you right,
where the shoulders are up here,

notice how the seam is above my
shoulder line just wet with the

shoulder, the armpit will go up
not here as most men in the

world would have it. You also
want it tight to your body. So

unless you're doing I don't
know, like a anorexic male model

where you're wearing some
oversized designer shirt that

comes out to here. You never
want to just like in between you

want it either way out. So it's
a fashion statement. Or write

tight to your arm. If your arms
are too skinny for any t shirt

in the world to be tight to go
to the gym, or I go to the gym.

So make sure it's fitted. Make
sure everything's fitting

properly not baggy, too baggy
unless you're doing a specific

look. Don't be afraid to show
skin. So as you can see, I've

got it on button to here, right?
You don't want to go like really

disgustingly open. But you'd be
surprised at how far down how

far how much skin you could show
and still look sexy, rather than

like, disgusting. Obviously, if
you have a lot of body hair

that's jutting out of your
clothes, like your Wolverine,

you want to trim it or save it
it also will help you with your

smell. But generally speaking,
you can open it up right to

below your pecs the solar
plexus. It also helps when you

have necklaces that draw the
line, draw the eye down to that

part. Anything around the eyes
is important, right? So if you

have baggy eyes or dark circles,
get more sleep. Or if that's not

the issue, you can try
treatments but that usually

takes a while none of them have
ever worked for me. So you could

just make sure that you get
enough moisturizer. You can wear

some concealer under your eyes.
Some guys actually go for

purposely go for more of a Goth
look. And they'll put eyeliner

and mascara on its atmosphere
anyway to put makeup on. And

that's where a specific look
again, when you're at a more

advanced level, you can do
specific looks, but the point is

she'll be looking at your eyes
90 plus percent of the time over

90% of the time. She'd be
looking at your eyes because

women hot women are more
confident than men, so they'll

be looking in your eyes have
nothing to hide nothing to fear.

And if she's gonna be spending
most of the time looking at this

and not at your shoes got to
have good shoes too. But make

sure that your face is looking
good. Make sure you've got no

nose hair sticking out, get one
of those nose hairs trimmers,

you can find it Marshalls or TJ
Maxx or you can probably order

it online in Singapore and just
get up there and trim every week

or so. Because that's just
disgusting, right? If you if

you're on the young side and you
want to look more mature and

grow some facial hair, this is
about 48 hours of facial hair on

me right now. And then I trim it
because I don't want to look too

my skin is quite dark. So I
don't want it to look too busy.

So I just shaped the cheeks. So
it's just coming down like that.

Letting the hair underneath the
chin grow will also give you

more weight to the jawline.
Women in who are men who are

ovulating are more attracted.
This has been known as the

studies. Plenty of studies have
shown women who are ovulating

are more attracted to men who
have a prominent brow line and a

prominent cheek jaw line. That's
just features that are

considered to be correlated to
high testosterone, therefore

more masculine. Get in good
shape physically, make sure

you're in good health, right.
These are

fitness indicators that have
been passed down for millions

and millions of years. If
internally, you're just eating

the wrong food, and you're not
healthy, your skin will show it

will be breaking out your body
was so it should be fat or too

skinny. And women should rightly
judge you as not a very good

genetic partner to make to mate
with. So don't want to work

against the power of evolution
work with it. Women

unconsciously. Imagine what
you're like naked or in bed when

they first meet you and they're
considering whether to be

whether you're a potential group
boyfriend. So make that work in

your favor. Get in good shape
physically. The second last

thing is that you want to smell
good. It's amazing to me still

that in Asia men just don't use
deodorant. Use deodorant. Okay,

put on like three swipes. Wake
up. Also wear cologne, right?

Invest in Cologne, put two or
three sprays depending on how

smoky the place you're gonna be
going is and generally don't

spray it on your clothing, it
won't last very long. You want

to spray it on your body,
because then it will heat it up.

And that's what activates the
collusion, so spread on your

body parts. Lastly,
testosterone. A big part of I've

been reading studies that have
shown a seriously participate

precipitously declining
testosterone levels in Asia,

among Asian men, you want to
master this, you want to get

this under control. There's some
really good ways of doing this

naturally get more vitamin D.
Specifically, this from Tim

Ferriss, vitamin d3, and butter
oil, he uses this butter oil

slash cod liver oil, I think it
is these pills you can find it

in for our body. That's a
natural way to raise your

testosterone, you can also do it
through doing more squats and

big movements like that eating
the right kinds of foods. You

can also take supplements that
weight lifters or bodybuilders

use for raising the
testosterone. Be careful with

that you don't want to take it
too much. You want to cycle it

for weeks on two weeks off,
something like that would be

good. But if you find that you
have a low sex drive, you find

that when you're trying to do
sexual state transplants, it's

just hard for you to get horny,
if you find that it's hard for

you, when you're with a woman.
And this is something actually

that's that I found is common
among clients who get good at

this really fast and they're
like, holy crap, I'm in bed

naked with women, three hours
after meeting her, this is

insane. The first few times
they're doing this, they're not

able to get it up because
they're so freaking out. They're

like, Oh my god, I can't believe
this happening. And then they

get what they get performance
anxiety. And a big part of that

actually, is the fact that their
testosterone levels aren't high

enough. So if you find that
you're just not performing as

well as you would like to you
can raise your testosterone,

that's a really great way
naturally of doing it. And

another thing women are able to
sense high testosterone, women

who are ovulating are able to
sense unconsciously through

their olfactory nerves, a man
with high testosterone and

they're actually able to pick
out who has high testosterone

based on how his T shirt smells.
So they do the studies of guys

with a certain level of
testosterone, they wear the t

shirt and they don't wash it for
like two days. And then they

donate it to to the lab, the lab
then golfers it up to the women

and ask the women to rate the
level rate the level of

attractiveness of the men with
the t shirt and they're able to

pick out in a blind smell test
which men have higher

testosterone is amazing and
which men not just have higher

testosterone but have more
masculine features like a

prominent brow line and a
prominent cheek line. jaw line.

Okay, so we've gone over how to
escalate to the kiss, give you

some kiss pieces. We've gone
over how to project the more

sexual image visually, obviously
that's a big part of it. It's an

ongoing thing. You need to get
in shape, go to the gym, hire a

trainer. Those are all really
great investments. But why?

Because you're investing in
yourself. So do that is a great

way to spend your time and
money. Lastly, we're going to

look at a microcosm of the three
steps. I'm gonna show you

remember the three steps are
step one is enjoyment, step two

is connection. Step three is
sexual tension. I'm going to

show you how you can do that in
a two minute interaction. Like

what do you minutes? Yeah, two
minutes. Okay. Oh, yes.

SCA cigarettes since then. DOMA?
I thought you're over at the

Brown Derby with the Trixie. No,
no, Teresa. Yeah, Margaret.

Exactly what happened on
Margaret. She lost her. She's

got that settle.

I'm sorry. Velma. This is Howard
Hughes. Howard and I were just

discussing how he wants me to
pull a camera out of my abs.

Cigarette. Oh, no. Thanks. And
I'll smoke while you're just

hitting on all six cylinders,
aren't you?

Do me a favor and just Would you
just smile for me one time just

want yeah, you see you got a
short upper lip. makes for much

nicer smile.

I wonder what gives a beautiful
woman like you pleasure. Let's

say you just stand in there
right? And I just touch you just

just like this. My fingertips?
Do you like that? Day see open

alarm of lasers. I want to learn
everything about you. What you

let me do that you can match I'm
offering a half an hour. I'm in

room 272 70. See you there.

Okay, so you saw that clip. The
aviators, a great movie, won the

Academy Award for Best Film, won
a bunch of other Academy Awards.

Got to see that movie. It's
wonderful. Leonardo DiCaprio is

wonderful in it. You see how
little he blinked? It's on blink

once the entire thing. So you
can see the three steps of the

relationship collapse, we
condensed it to less than two

minutes. It was an emotionally
driven interaction. There was no

bullshit. That other guy he was
a jerk. He was like a douche. He

was getting trying to tool
around and he didn't get any

attraction, right? What happened
to what it did DiCaprio do to

cut him off. You just cut you
just like let that settle just

right in the middle of it
interrupted him and got down to

business. But he asserted
himself. Right. And then he

asserted himself with the with
the woman. So let me see you

smile. Alright, so what was step
one? Step one is smiling

contentment. They're just joking
around with the friends right

there smiling contentment before
she even comes in? Well, they're

joking around. And then when she
comes in, he's getting to know

her better, right? It was just
before you know, just like she

says, Do you want a cigarette?
You know, a cigar? And he says,

No, thank you. And that's just a
good vibe. It's a fun,

enjoyable, contented by. Step
two is where he's appreciating

her smile. He's asked her to
smile and says See, upper lip,

small upper lip makes for a
better smile. That's just what

rapport is. This is two friends
talking about, you know, things

about each other. There was
enough of a vibe of, hey, we're

having a good time. And enough
of a connection he could see,

looks down, closer and closer.
And now he goes into step three.

I wonder what would make a woman
like you? What would give a

woman like you pleasure? And
then he goes into this hypnotic

tonality? Did you hear the
tonality? slow and smooth. He's

projecting desire and arousal.
He's not blinking, very strong

eye contact. And that happens
all boom in two minutes. That's

a highly condensed version.
Yeah, sometimes it takes as long

as four hours. Right? Maybe
seven maybe 10. But you can also

do it very quickly like that two
minutes. Okay, documents. So in

conclusion, the emotional
activation system. It's about

intensely feeling the right
emotions at the right times. And

then projecting them onto the
woman. Right so that she picks

up Can transfers the emotion
it's inferred? Immediately

through her unconscious, she's
not even in conscious control.

So even if she didn't want to
have the emotions transferred,

she has no choice. It's because
of our sciences of our mirror

neurons or amygdala, the way our
brains are hardwired, given to

us from evolution. You can't
resist that. So use it, harness

it for your power, so that
you're in control of that.