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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:35,430 --> 00:00:38,380 Being a dad is one of the great privileges of my life. 2 00:00:41,270 --> 00:00:45,320 Give my son a BB gun, and that's just about all the emotional support he needs. 3 00:00:45,770 --> 00:00:52,890 My daughter, on the other hand, I've heard people say that there are no differences between male and female. 4 00:00:53,690 --> 00:00:55,530 Those people are idiots. 5 00:00:56,450 --> 00:00:57,418 I'm a husband. 6 00:00:57,514 --> 00:00:58,962 I'm a father of four. 7 00:00:59,156 --> 00:01:00,606 I host a talk show. 8 00:01:00,728 --> 00:01:03,330 I give speeches, I write books. 9 00:01:04,010 --> 00:01:05,780 I like to make sense of things. 10 00:01:06,650 --> 00:01:09,594 But making sense of females is a whole other matter. 11 00:01:09,752 --> 00:01:12,884 Even astrophysicist Stephen Hawking, who could come up with 12 00:01:12,908 --> 00:01:16,040 a theory on black holes, was completely dumbfounded by women. 13 00:01:16,430 --> 00:01:19,594 Women, they are a complete mystery. 14 00:01:19,762 --> 00:01:23,403 And now our culture is telling us that the differences between girls and boys 15 00:01:23,427 --> 00:01:27,020 don't matter, that if you identify as something, then you are that thing. 16 00:01:27,950 --> 00:01:31,794 How do we help our kids make sense of this when they're bombarded with 17 00:01:31,818 --> 00:01:36,500 conflicting messages about gender and identity? Forget trying to figure out women. 18 00:01:37,070 --> 00:01:42,596 The real question is, what is a woman? As you grow, your 19 00:01:42,620 --> 00:01:48,146 body changes from that of a young girl to that of a woman. 20 00:01:48,338 --> 00:01:51,252 Soon Molly will be a young woman having dates, 21 00:01:51,276 --> 00:01:54,190 going to dances, and lovely romantic dresses. 22 00:01:54,810 --> 00:01:56,868 The boy's shoulders are broad and his body 23 00:01:56,892 --> 00:01:59,354 muscular, while the girl's body is more curved. 24 00:01:59,402 --> 00:02:02,210 I'd like to know more about different kinds of hormones. 25 00:02:02,330 --> 00:02:05,130 The presence of these hormones in the blood brings 26 00:02:05,154 --> 00:02:08,470 about many changes in the bodies of both boys and girls. 27 00:02:11,890 --> 00:02:15,160 Being a woman is one of the things I like best about myself. 28 00:02:15,730 --> 00:02:17,380 I think you'll like it, too. 29 00:02:32,990 --> 00:02:35,000 I like to come out here to think. 30 00:02:36,770 --> 00:02:42,020 Nature seems to always tell the truth, even when we don't want to hear it. 31 00:02:44,970 --> 00:02:50,123 Truth is, I'm not very good at fishing, but what is 32 00:02:50,147 --> 00:02:55,300 truth? Is there a truth? 33 00:02:55,324 --> 00:03:00,528 Is this what progress looks like? Can my boys really become girls? Do I have four 34 00:03:00,552 --> 00:03:05,655 daughters? Do I now have to pay for four weddings? 35 00:03:05,679 --> 00:03:10,556 Is there a son trapped in my daughter's body? If 36 00:03:10,580 --> 00:03:15,458 so, how do I get them out? Are any of my kids who 37 00:03:15,482 --> 00:03:20,612 they claim to be? Who are these people? Who am I? 38 00:03:20,636 --> 00:03:25,766 I better see a therapist in the state of Tennessee. 39 00:03:25,778 --> 00:03:28,046 I'm a licensed marital and family therapist, which 40 00:03:28,070 --> 00:03:30,198 basically means I've been trained up to think 41 00:03:30,222 --> 00:03:32,254 about, like, systems, family systems, how we 42 00:03:32,278 --> 00:03:34,642 were raised up, how that shapes who we are today. 43 00:03:34,776 --> 00:03:36,911 So on your website, if you'll bear with me 44 00:03:36,935 --> 00:03:39,542 quoting you say I use a combination of approaches 45 00:03:39,566 --> 00:03:44,174 in my therapeutic work, including anti oppression, feminist, and narrative frameworks. 46 00:03:44,222 --> 00:03:46,390 I rely deeply on systems theory and understanding 47 00:03:46,414 --> 00:03:48,854 that individuals are products of and in dialogue with 48 00:03:48,878 --> 00:03:51,067 our surroundings, including our families, broader 49 00:03:51,091 --> 00:03:53,510 culture, workplaces, nature, and political climates. 50 00:03:53,690 --> 00:03:57,180 What does that mean? Yeah. 51 00:03:57,750 --> 00:04:01,358 So thinking about the modalities that I use, I'm 52 00:04:01,382 --> 00:04:04,990 definitely informed by feminist family therapy. 53 00:04:05,310 --> 00:04:10,384 And the idea is that we've lived in gendered worlds where there are certain imperatives 54 00:04:10,408 --> 00:04:15,482 that are placed on us about who we are and what we do based on how we've been gendered. 55 00:04:15,566 --> 00:04:18,248 From the minute I was assigned female, I was told, okay, 56 00:04:18,272 --> 00:04:20,954 these are the kind of clothing that you're going to wear. 57 00:04:21,002 --> 00:04:25,130 These are the type of play that you're going to engage in as a child, 58 00:04:25,154 --> 00:04:29,282 the path that maybe your life will take because of social expectations. 59 00:04:29,426 --> 00:04:35,686 What do you mean by assigned female? Who assigns female? Yeah. 60 00:04:35,748 --> 00:04:39,071 So most times people, when they're born, they're 61 00:04:39,095 --> 00:04:42,134 assigned to gender by the doctor doctors. 62 00:04:42,182 --> 00:04:42,780 Yeah. 63 00:04:43,530 --> 00:04:50,410 What are they based that assignment on? So basically it's based on genitalia. 64 00:04:51,270 --> 00:04:56,700 So people are looking at genitalia and deciding, okay, this is a girl or a boy. 65 00:04:57,390 --> 00:05:02,114 And we know now that sex and gender are so much more than just this binary. 66 00:05:02,222 --> 00:05:05,410 Some women have penises, right? Some men have vaginas. 67 00:05:06,450 --> 00:05:08,700 That's not how gender work. 68 00:05:09,210 --> 00:05:12,478 How do we know that that's not true? Where did we 69 00:05:12,502 --> 00:05:15,770 learn that? Yeah, well, I learned that from hearing 70 00:05:15,794 --> 00:05:19,022 from transgender people who said, like, oh, I'm a 71 00:05:19,046 --> 00:05:22,814 trans woman, and just because I happen to have a penis. 72 00:05:22,862 --> 00:05:23,038 Right. 73 00:05:23,064 --> 00:05:27,005 That doesn't mean that this is like who I am as 74 00:05:27,029 --> 00:05:30,970 a person or that genitalia doesn't equal gender. 75 00:05:31,710 --> 00:05:34,390 Who they are, their gender, their gender expression. 76 00:05:35,970 --> 00:05:36,370 Yeah. 77 00:05:36,420 --> 00:05:39,840 Trans woman is a woman with the fluidity of these things. 78 00:05:40,170 --> 00:05:44,890 How do I know if I'm a woman? That's a great question. 79 00:05:45,060 --> 00:05:46,562 I like scented candles. 80 00:05:46,706 --> 00:05:48,240 I've watched Sex in the City. 81 00:05:51,190 --> 00:05:54,660 So how do I know? Yeah, Matt, that question right 82 00:05:54,684 --> 00:05:58,082 there, that question is when it's asked with a 83 00:05:58,106 --> 00:06:01,540 lot of curiosity, that's the beginning of a lot 84 00:06:01,564 --> 00:06:04,998 of people's gender identity development journeys. 85 00:06:05,154 --> 00:06:10,085 If my mom who gave birth to me is a woman and my wife 86 00:06:10,109 --> 00:06:15,040 is a woman, so I haven't asked her, maybe I should. 87 00:06:16,630 --> 00:06:23,042 But if they're all women and also the boy who sits down with you and says, 88 00:06:23,066 --> 00:06:29,478 I think I'm a girl actually is one, then what is a woman? Great question. 89 00:06:29,564 --> 00:06:32,840 I'm not a woman, so I can't really answer that. 90 00:06:38,070 --> 00:06:40,750 I thought therapy would make me less confused. 91 00:06:54,370 --> 00:06:57,294 we're talking about gender in society. 92 00:06:57,462 --> 00:06:59,270 Let me start with a real basic question. 93 00:07:08,510 --> 00:07:11,730 I don't want to assume, but you guys are all women. 94 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:12,500 Yeah. 95 00:07:12,890 --> 00:07:18,246 How would you define it? Like in the simplest terms, that is hard. 96 00:07:18,368 --> 00:07:18,726 Yeah. 97 00:07:18,788 --> 00:07:20,326 It is a stumper. 98 00:07:20,458 --> 00:07:23,812 A woman is someone that likes to be pretty and 99 00:07:23,836 --> 00:07:27,190 think of themselves as a delicate creature. 100 00:07:27,310 --> 00:07:28,710 I'm pretty indelicate. 101 00:07:29,450 --> 00:07:30,618 I could be a woman, too. 102 00:07:30,704 --> 00:07:31,518 Yes, you could. 103 00:07:31,604 --> 00:07:37,066 Defining womanhood is just a product of someone who identifies as a woman. 104 00:07:37,138 --> 00:07:41,842 Yeah, but I'm saying, what do they identify as they identify as a woman. 105 00:07:41,866 --> 00:07:48,440 But what is that as they do now? It's a simple question. 106 00:08:06,970 --> 00:08:12,100 for all of human existence, women were understood to be a certain thing. 107 00:08:15,050 --> 00:08:19,400 So what changed? No one can seem to answer the question now. 108 00:08:20,270 --> 00:08:22,410 Over 2000 surgeries and counting, Dr. 109 00:08:22,460 --> 00:08:25,710 Marcy Bowers is the nation's preeminent sex change surgeon. 110 00:08:36,390 --> 00:08:36,862 talking to. 111 00:08:36,876 --> 00:08:39,526 Marcy Bowers, first of all, thanks for talking to us. 112 00:08:39,648 --> 00:08:40,322 My pleasure. 113 00:08:40,406 --> 00:08:43,178 So you're a world renowned gynecologist and surgeon. 114 00:08:43,274 --> 00:08:44,950 You're also a transgender woman. 115 00:08:45,390 --> 00:08:49,210 Can you tell me a little bit about that? I identify as a woman. 116 00:08:50,010 --> 00:08:52,870 But you're a woman, right? I'm a woman. 117 00:08:53,430 --> 00:08:55,860 That's my life day to day. 118 00:08:56,190 --> 00:08:58,020 But I have a transgender history. 119 00:08:58,830 --> 00:09:02,474 So one thing on your website, it says gender affirm Gav. 120 00:09:02,582 --> 00:09:04,990 Gender affirming vaginal plasty. 121 00:09:05,490 --> 00:09:12,978 What is that exactly? Vaginaplasty is the creation of a female vagina. 122 00:09:13,074 --> 00:09:13,962 And Balva. 123 00:09:14,046 --> 00:09:18,935 We're altering the physical characteristics of the individual 124 00:09:18,959 --> 00:09:23,358 to fit better with a gender identity that is female. 125 00:09:23,514 --> 00:09:25,842 This is all constructed from the penis. 126 00:09:25,986 --> 00:09:27,086 Yes, that's right. 127 00:09:27,208 --> 00:09:31,917 The surgeries are quite refined in the sense that they really not only do they 128 00:09:31,941 --> 00:09:36,650 look like female anatomy, but they also function that way for the most part. 129 00:09:36,700 --> 00:09:39,294 I mean, certainly it's a bit of a Faustian bargain. 130 00:09:39,402 --> 00:09:40,406 It's not perfect. 131 00:09:40,528 --> 00:09:45,338 Does anyone ever regret their surgeries? We know they do. 132 00:09:45,364 --> 00:09:47,547 But how often do people regret their surgeries? 133 00:09:47,571 --> 00:09:49,706 Well, actually, we don't know that they do. 134 00:09:49,768 --> 00:09:54,455 There are legitimate detransitioners, and there are people who 135 00:09:54,479 --> 00:09:59,166 truly feel that in their journey they may have made a mistake. 136 00:09:59,358 --> 00:10:04,398 Now, fortunately, this is a really uncommon phenomenon. 137 00:10:04,494 --> 00:10:08,342 I don't know if you've ever heard of people in the trans abled community. 138 00:10:08,476 --> 00:10:11,910 These are people who are physically able bodied but 139 00:10:11,934 --> 00:10:15,782 feel like they should be disabled or identify as such. 140 00:10:15,916 --> 00:10:19,900 For example, a man who has two arms but feels like you should have one. 141 00:10:20,230 --> 00:10:24,390 If a man in this kind of marginalized community went to 142 00:10:24,414 --> 00:10:28,573 the doctor and said, I want to have my arm cut off, do 143 00:10:28,597 --> 00:10:32,751 you think that doesn't have anything to do with gender 144 00:10:32,775 --> 00:10:37,400 identity? Someone's self identity? That's someone who has. 145 00:10:39,590 --> 00:10:44,398 And I'll accept it as a mental diagnosis, a psychiatric condition. 146 00:10:44,494 --> 00:10:49,340 I don't even pretend to know what abdomen affiliate is all about, but somehow it's 147 00:10:49,364 --> 00:10:54,630 the idea that you're fascinated or charmed by having a limb or part of a limb missing. 148 00:10:55,310 --> 00:11:02,250 Okay, I would say that's, pardon my non medical language, Kooky. 149 00:11:03,110 --> 00:11:04,280 You don't see any. 150 00:11:04,730 --> 00:11:08,120 Do you think this is totally irrelevant? Yes. 151 00:11:08,810 --> 00:11:13,946 So the biggest broadest question is, what is a woman? A 152 00:11:13,970 --> 00:11:19,678 woman is a combination of your physical attributes and then 153 00:11:19,702 --> 00:11:25,124 what you're showing to the world and the gender clues that 154 00:11:25,148 --> 00:11:30,570 you give, and hopefully those match your gender identity. 155 00:11:30,890 --> 00:11:37,460 The critics on the other side of this issue, there aren't many. 156 00:11:37,910 --> 00:11:38,946 But go ahead. 157 00:11:39,068 --> 00:11:42,630 There aren't many who would disagree with what you're saying 158 00:11:42,654 --> 00:11:46,640 about, well, the dinosaurs of the world are certainly out there. 159 00:11:54,210 --> 00:11:57,682 How long have you been running the shop here? 25 years. 160 00:11:57,816 --> 00:11:58,366 Wow. 161 00:11:58,488 --> 00:12:02,220 Now you had an incident here a little while ago that went really viral online. 162 00:12:02,550 --> 00:12:04,390 Lots of reaction in the public. 163 00:12:04,500 --> 00:12:08,000 Aberdeen Councilwoman ties confronted owner Don 164 00:12:08,024 --> 00:12:12,058 Sucker about a sign he posted in his store one day. 165 00:12:12,084 --> 00:12:15,377 I just put the sign up over here and he came around 166 00:12:15,401 --> 00:12:18,694 the corner and I thought, okay, I recognize him. 167 00:12:18,732 --> 00:12:20,830 I said, oh, I recognize you. 168 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:22,610 You're our new city Councilman. 169 00:12:22,730 --> 00:12:25,766 He says, no, I'm your new city Council woman. 170 00:12:25,898 --> 00:12:28,630 So it was kind of on from there. 171 00:12:28,740 --> 00:12:30,790 You know what? It's bullshit. 172 00:12:31,590 --> 00:12:33,146 Your spouting is bullshit. 173 00:12:33,218 --> 00:12:34,102 No, it's not. 174 00:12:34,236 --> 00:12:35,146 Women are women. 175 00:12:35,208 --> 00:12:37,406 Sir, that sign is bullshit. 176 00:12:37,478 --> 00:12:39,600 I've been doing this 25 years. 177 00:12:39,990 --> 00:12:42,310 I've never had a problem with anybody. 178 00:12:42,420 --> 00:12:44,818 Whether they're gay, trans, sex, anything. 179 00:12:44,964 --> 00:12:49,338 Now you're saying, Councilman he, this individual is saying, 180 00:12:49,362 --> 00:12:53,438 I'm a woman, right? And you said, you're not a woman. 181 00:12:53,594 --> 00:13:01,660 How do you know that person is not a woman? How do I know? Well, common sense. 182 00:13:05,170 --> 00:13:10,130 Doesn't the science say that if someone identifies as 183 00:13:10,154 --> 00:13:15,114 a woman, then they are? No, that's completely bogus. 184 00:13:15,282 --> 00:13:21,160 I don't care if you think you're a sheep dog and you come into my store. 185 00:13:21,490 --> 00:13:22,694 It don't matter to me. 186 00:13:22,732 --> 00:13:26,178 Just don't come in and try to shove that shit down my throat. 187 00:13:26,274 --> 00:13:27,614 If it makes someone feel better. 188 00:13:27,712 --> 00:13:30,594 What about their feelings? I don't give a shit about their feelings. 189 00:13:30,642 --> 00:13:31,418 I'm old. 190 00:13:31,564 --> 00:13:39,023 What about a Star Wars universe Jar Jar Binks pansexual? Do you think 191 00:13:39,047 --> 00:13:46,506 transgender? Why would I even care if it's his truth? Well, it ain't true. 192 00:13:46,628 --> 00:13:47,554 You're not a scientist. 193 00:13:47,602 --> 00:13:48,810 You're not a gender studies major. 194 00:13:48,860 --> 00:13:50,214 Or are you? No. 195 00:13:50,312 --> 00:13:50,754 Okay. 196 00:13:50,852 --> 00:13:55,830 How do you know that you're a man? How do I know that? I guess because I got a Dick. 197 00:13:58,170 --> 00:14:00,480 Well, I guess Don isn't overthinking it. 198 00:14:00,990 --> 00:14:06,430 He admits he's not a gender studies major or at the very least, a doctor. 199 00:14:07,350 --> 00:14:09,120 Maybe I should go talk to one. 200 00:14:20,630 --> 00:14:26,314 My name is Michelle Forcier, and I have a medical degree from University of Connecticut. 201 00:14:26,362 --> 00:14:29,374 Residency, University of Utah Pediatrics. 202 00:14:29,482 --> 00:14:33,342 And I've worked for a number of different plant Parenthoods for 20 years. 203 00:14:33,476 --> 00:14:38,193 I do advanced contraception and abortion, as well as gender hormones and sort 204 00:14:38,217 --> 00:14:42,934 of looking at the whole sort of schema of gender, sex and reproductive justice. 205 00:14:42,982 --> 00:14:44,274 So you've done a lot of work in this field. 206 00:14:44,312 --> 00:14:46,460 Could you just start by telling us? Sure. 207 00:14:46,970 --> 00:14:51,808 At what age can a child first begin to transition into another 208 00:14:51,832 --> 00:14:56,670 gender or identify themselves as a gender different from how 209 00:14:56,694 --> 00:15:01,290 they were born? Yeah, well, there's research and data that 210 00:15:01,314 --> 00:15:06,394 show that babies and infants understand differences in gender. 211 00:15:06,562 --> 00:15:11,120 Some children figure out their gender really early. 212 00:15:11,450 --> 00:15:14,077 And the reason why we say, oh, that's interesting 213 00:15:14,101 --> 00:15:16,344 or important is because they're figuring 214 00:15:16,368 --> 00:15:18,803 out their gender identity is not necessarily 215 00:15:18,827 --> 00:15:21,262 congruent with their sexist signed at birth. 216 00:15:21,406 --> 00:15:25,242 When the doctor sees the penis and says, this is a 217 00:15:25,266 --> 00:15:29,730 male as a sex of male, that's an arbitrary distinction. 218 00:15:30,110 --> 00:15:35,351 Telling that family based on that little penis that your child is 219 00:15:35,375 --> 00:15:41,600 absolutely 100% male identified, no matter what else occurs in their life. 220 00:15:42,110 --> 00:15:43,446 That's not correct. 221 00:15:43,628 --> 00:15:48,051 So what is gender affirmation care you're a big proponent of if we walk 222 00:15:48,075 --> 00:15:52,498 through a child is sitting down with you is questioning their gender. 223 00:15:52,594 --> 00:15:55,825 What's the gender affirmation process? Affirmation 224 00:15:55,849 --> 00:15:58,816 means that as a pediatrician, as someone who 225 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,939 says my job is to provide the best medical care 226 00:16:01,963 --> 00:16:05,062 for you is I need to listen really carefully. 227 00:16:05,206 --> 00:16:07,614 And how I put it in words for kids so that 228 00:16:07,638 --> 00:16:10,400 they can understand it is tell me your story. 229 00:16:10,850 --> 00:16:14,088 Where have you been in terms of your gender and 230 00:16:14,112 --> 00:16:17,350 your gender identity? Where are you right now? 231 00:16:17,374 --> 00:16:20,433 And more excitingly, where would you like to 232 00:16:20,457 --> 00:16:23,873 be in the future? Have you ever met a four year 233 00:16:23,897 --> 00:16:27,135 old who believes in Santa Claus? This is someone 234 00:16:27,159 --> 00:16:30,397 who believes that fat man is traveling through 235 00:16:30,421 --> 00:16:33,800 the sky and a flying reindeer at lightning speed, 236 00:16:33,824 --> 00:16:36,920 coming down his chimney with presence? Yes. 237 00:16:37,250 --> 00:16:40,450 Would you say that this is someone who maybe has a tenuous grasp on 238 00:16:40,474 --> 00:16:43,966 reality? They have an appropriate four year old handle on the reality. 239 00:16:44,038 --> 00:16:45,558 That's very real for them. 240 00:16:45,644 --> 00:16:46,366 Agreed. 241 00:16:46,498 --> 00:16:48,018 But Santa Claus is real for them. 242 00:16:48,044 --> 00:16:49,830 But Santa Claus is not actually real. 243 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:53,370 Yeah, but Santa Claus does deliver their Christmas presents. 244 00:16:53,690 --> 00:16:57,620 Yeah, but he's not real, though, to that child they are. 245 00:16:58,070 --> 00:17:03,078 When I see a child who believes in Santa Claus and then let's say this is a boy and he 246 00:17:03,102 --> 00:17:08,110 says, I'm a girl, this is someone who can't distinguish between fantasy and reality. 247 00:17:08,170 --> 00:17:14,463 So how could you take that as a reality? I would say that as a pediatrician and 248 00:17:14,487 --> 00:17:20,780 as a parent, I would say how wonderful my four year old in their imagination is. 249 00:17:26,850 --> 00:17:30,892 Aren't kids famous for their active imaginations? 250 00:17:30,916 --> 00:17:34,959 Should we really let our children define reality? 251 00:17:34,983 --> 00:17:38,389 If I said that I feel a certain way, then 252 00:17:38,413 --> 00:17:42,760 obviously you can't tell me I don't feel that way. 253 00:17:43,210 --> 00:17:46,940 But just because I feel that way, does that mean 254 00:17:46,964 --> 00:17:50,694 that it's true? Truly, like none of my business. 255 00:17:50,852 --> 00:17:53,638 So we all have our own identity realities. 256 00:17:53,734 --> 00:17:57,586 What if I said, I want you to say that it's true that I'm a woman. 257 00:17:57,778 --> 00:18:02,900 Would you say that? I would also say that if you want I honestly don't care. 258 00:18:03,350 --> 00:18:04,782 Whatever makes you happy. 259 00:18:04,916 --> 00:18:07,820 What's true to you can be false to me. 260 00:18:09,890 --> 00:18:13,734 What if I said that my truth is that you don't exist? Does that 261 00:18:13,758 --> 00:18:17,602 mean you no longer exist? I mean, if that's your true chair. 262 00:18:17,686 --> 00:18:18,550 I don't. 263 00:18:18,730 --> 00:18:20,240 Because it's so you do. 264 00:18:20,870 --> 00:18:23,000 I mean, if you're saying that I do that I do. 265 00:18:23,630 --> 00:18:25,518 Well, but even if I said that you don't, you still do. 266 00:18:25,544 --> 00:18:30,440 Because we're having this conversation, are we? I think so. 267 00:18:30,830 --> 00:18:32,060 That's what you think. 268 00:18:33,530 --> 00:18:37,230 Well, I should have known it would be hard to define reality in Hollywood. 269 00:18:37,850 --> 00:18:41,308 I should probably look to the place where truth 270 00:18:41,332 --> 00:18:44,790 is the foremost pursuit, the American University. 271 00:18:52,950 --> 00:18:57,371 What we do in gender studies is not just reduce gender to what 272 00:18:57,395 --> 00:19:02,834 psychologists might call individual differences, but rather thinking about 273 00:19:02,858 --> 00:19:07,532 gender, not women and man, but gender as a social form, something 274 00:19:07,556 --> 00:19:12,742 that kind of infuses itself into virtually all aspects of social life. 275 00:19:12,936 --> 00:19:13,858 Let's talk about that. 276 00:19:13,884 --> 00:19:14,460 Then. 277 00:19:15,810 --> 00:19:19,225 I guess we should start with we've got gender and sex, right? 278 00:19:19,249 --> 00:19:22,664 What's the difference between the two? Is there a difference? 279 00:19:22,688 --> 00:19:26,103 I saw that in your questions, and I thought, my goodness, this 280 00:19:26,127 --> 00:19:29,542 is what we spend an entire semester kind of thinking through. 281 00:19:29,616 --> 00:19:36,521 But what we tend to think about in the social Sciences today is that sex refers to 282 00:19:36,545 --> 00:19:43,450 a set of biological characteristics, and gender is a social constructor category. 283 00:19:43,890 --> 00:19:46,780 What I think is often misleading about that character, 284 00:19:46,804 --> 00:19:49,694 that it's allowed to be sort of messy and complicated. 285 00:19:49,802 --> 00:19:53,787 But in that framing, when you split them up into these wholly discrete constructs, 286 00:19:53,811 --> 00:19:57,698 study scholars and really more specifically, people who study gender and sex. 287 00:19:57,734 --> 00:19:59,760 We're not talking about sexuality right now. 288 00:20:00,210 --> 00:20:03,203 Academic universe that I travel in is that we see 289 00:20:03,227 --> 00:20:06,221 how deeply gendered ideas, cultural ideas about 290 00:20:06,245 --> 00:20:09,208 masculinity, feminine, maleness and femaleness, 291 00:20:09,232 --> 00:20:12,130 both in humans and in lots of other animals. 292 00:20:14,310 --> 00:20:16,500 So our gender and sex two different things. 293 00:20:17,010 --> 00:20:20,630 Well, I think that they both are and they aren't. 294 00:20:20,750 --> 00:20:23,814 I'm comfortable saying that gender and sex are two different 295 00:20:23,838 --> 00:20:26,902 constructs, but they're deeply intertwined with each other. 296 00:20:26,976 --> 00:20:30,382 We're talking about gender and sex, and there's a lot of controversies there. 297 00:20:30,456 --> 00:20:37,125 If we're talking about a trans woman has all of the male physical characteristics, 298 00:20:37,149 --> 00:20:43,241 so would that not be a male, then? Couldn't we plainly say this person is 299 00:20:43,265 --> 00:20:49,727 a male? Well, I guess it's like, why are you asking the question? I think I want 300 00:20:49,751 --> 00:20:56,050 to understand sort of why that's so important to sort of understand reality. 301 00:20:57,870 --> 00:21:01,030 Well, I mean, I think when someone tells you who they are, you should believe them. 302 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:04,409 So if a person says that they're a woman or they're 303 00:21:04,433 --> 00:21:07,762 a man, then that's them telling you their gender is. 304 00:21:07,896 --> 00:21:13,561 I'm not so sure what social interactions would have to do with maleness 305 00:21:13,585 --> 00:21:18,926 or femaleness that we I'm not even talking about social context. 306 00:21:19,058 --> 00:21:21,790 I'm just trying to start by getting to the truth. 307 00:21:24,250 --> 00:21:24,578 Yeah. 308 00:21:24,604 --> 00:21:27,477 I mean, I'm really uncomfortable with that language 309 00:21:27,501 --> 00:21:30,374 of, like, getting to the truth again in social life. 310 00:21:30,472 --> 00:21:34,840 Why is that uncomfortable? Because it sounds actually deeply transphobic to me. 311 00:21:35,590 --> 00:21:38,810 And if you keep probing, we're going to stop the interview. 312 00:21:39,130 --> 00:21:41,955 If I probe about what the truth is, you keep invoking 313 00:21:41,979 --> 00:21:44,694 the word truth, which is condescending and rude. 314 00:21:44,802 --> 00:21:48,339 I'm saying to you, how is the word truth condescending and 315 00:21:48,363 --> 00:21:51,900 rude? Why don't you tell me what your truth is, and you're 316 00:21:51,924 --> 00:21:55,521 walking on 30 seconds more of the nights before I get up what 317 00:21:55,545 --> 00:21:59,022 my truth is? Well, I don't think I really have the truth. 318 00:21:59,046 --> 00:22:03,110 I think that there's just the truth, like the reality. 319 00:22:03,490 --> 00:22:07,600 And so we should begin by trying to figure out what the reality is. 320 00:22:09,430 --> 00:22:13,181 And why are you concerned when someone else tells you that 321 00:22:13,205 --> 00:22:17,285 they're a man, or even if they use the word male, why are you 322 00:22:17,309 --> 00:22:21,689 concerned with not believing them? Well, you keep bringing it back 323 00:22:21,713 --> 00:22:25,958 to how do you respond in a social situation? That's what I do. 324 00:22:25,984 --> 00:22:27,006 I'm a social scientist. 325 00:22:27,078 --> 00:22:27,518 Well, right. 326 00:22:27,544 --> 00:22:28,554 But we're in a University. 327 00:22:28,602 --> 00:22:31,814 This is a place of understanding truth, isn't it? Absolutely. 328 00:22:31,972 --> 00:22:33,366 We pursue truth. 329 00:22:33,438 --> 00:22:35,798 And I'm a social scientist, and that's what I did. 330 00:22:35,824 --> 00:22:37,542 You just say the truth is transphobic. 331 00:22:37,686 --> 00:22:43,010 That you would say if you're saying the truth is that I get to say you're not a man. 332 00:22:43,120 --> 00:22:44,214 Show me your genitalia. 333 00:22:44,262 --> 00:22:45,102 That's transphobic. 334 00:22:45,126 --> 00:22:46,614 No, I don't want to see if it's genitalia. 335 00:22:46,722 --> 00:22:51,534 I just mean someone can make a statement about themselves that could be untrue. 336 00:22:51,582 --> 00:22:56,283 Like, for example, if I were to say that I'm a 337 00:22:56,307 --> 00:23:01,008 black man, would you accept that, or would you 338 00:23:01,032 --> 00:23:05,733 be skeptical? Are you black? Are you African 339 00:23:05,757 --> 00:23:10,458 American? Are you biracial? I don't think so. 340 00:23:10,604 --> 00:23:11,610 Well, you don't look that. 341 00:23:11,660 --> 00:23:13,642 And I don't think that's a it doesn't sound 342 00:23:13,666 --> 00:23:15,980 like that's a genuine statement of who you are. 343 00:23:18,690 --> 00:23:19,018 Okay. 344 00:23:19,044 --> 00:23:19,906 So that's my point. 345 00:23:19,968 --> 00:23:21,814 I could make a statement about who I am. 346 00:23:21,912 --> 00:23:23,366 That's incorrect. 347 00:23:23,558 --> 00:23:24,070 Of course. 348 00:23:24,120 --> 00:23:26,174 I think it's well established that human beings can lie. 349 00:23:26,222 --> 00:23:26,820 Yes. 350 00:23:27,270 --> 00:23:28,046 Or not even lie. 351 00:23:28,058 --> 00:23:29,590 I mean, I could just be mistaken. 352 00:23:31,470 --> 00:23:32,220 Yeah. 353 00:23:35,110 --> 00:23:39,493 I guess this all comes back just all comes down to really 354 00:23:39,517 --> 00:23:44,450 one question, especially women, gender and sexuality studies. 355 00:23:54,030 --> 00:24:01,390 Why do you ask the question? I just really like to know, what do you think the answer 356 00:24:01,414 --> 00:24:08,510 to that question is? Well, I'm asking that's why I came to a College Professor. 357 00:24:10,850 --> 00:24:12,140 This is what you do. 358 00:24:20,250 --> 00:24:23,446 a lot of like this where you're not answering? I've gotten a lot of that. 359 00:24:23,568 --> 00:24:26,278 I think it's interesting that you say that some of the 360 00:24:26,302 --> 00:24:29,422 people you've interviewed have been reluctant to answer it. 361 00:24:29,436 --> 00:24:32,063 And I think that has a lot to do with the the way questions that 362 00:24:32,087 --> 00:24:35,174 preceded it and the way that you've conducted yourself in the interview. 363 00:24:35,282 --> 00:24:39,865 How have I conducted myself? How do you think you've conducted yourself? You 364 00:24:39,889 --> 00:24:44,411 just really don't want to answer the questions, do you? I came today very 365 00:24:44,435 --> 00:24:48,920 willing and enthusiastic about answering questions about women and gender 366 00:24:48,944 --> 00:24:54,054 sexuality studies, which is you wanted to answer questions about women's studies. 367 00:24:54,102 --> 00:24:56,589 And so the first answer you should be able to 368 00:24:56,613 --> 00:24:59,100 provide is what exactly is a woman? Well, for 369 00:24:59,124 --> 00:25:01,611 me, it's actually a really simple answer, and 370 00:25:01,635 --> 00:25:04,122 that's the person who identifies as a woman. 371 00:25:04,206 --> 00:25:09,611 But what are they identifying as a woman? What is that as 372 00:25:09,635 --> 00:25:15,040 a woman? Do you know what a circular definition is? I do. 373 00:25:16,930 --> 00:25:19,406 It's sort of like what you're doing right now. 374 00:25:19,468 --> 00:25:23,777 Where is a woman? Because you're seeking what we would call 375 00:25:23,801 --> 00:25:28,110 in my field of work, an essentialist definition of gender. 376 00:25:28,230 --> 00:25:32,662 I think it sounds like you would like me to give you a set of biological or 377 00:25:32,686 --> 00:25:37,118 cultural characteristics that are associated with one gender or the other. 378 00:25:37,204 --> 00:25:38,754 I'm not seeking any type of definition. 379 00:25:38,802 --> 00:25:40,542 I'm just seeking a definition. 380 00:25:40,626 --> 00:25:41,980 Yeah, I gave you one. 381 00:25:42,970 --> 00:25:45,100 Well, now I can say I've been to College. 382 00:25:45,790 --> 00:25:47,450 Glad I didn't pay for it. 383 00:25:47,620 --> 00:25:50,619 Is there anyone willing to give me a straight answer? 384 00:25:50,643 --> 00:25:54,280 Ideally somebody with a bunch of medical degrees on the wall. 385 00:25:54,790 --> 00:25:55,154 Dr. 386 00:25:55,192 --> 00:25:57,302 Grossman, thanks for talking to us. 387 00:25:57,376 --> 00:25:59,951 You're a psychiatrist and medical doctor and 388 00:25:59,975 --> 00:26:02,550 you've done a lot of work in child psychiatry. 389 00:26:02,730 --> 00:26:06,880 What is transgenderism? From a psychiatric 390 00:26:06,904 --> 00:26:12,474 standpoint? The best way to approach it is by speaking 391 00:26:12,498 --> 00:26:16,887 about gender dysphoria, which is an intense 392 00:26:16,911 --> 00:26:22,242 loathing and discomfort with one's biological sex. 393 00:26:22,386 --> 00:26:32,066 They exist anywhere between one in 30,000 people and one in 110,000. 394 00:26:32,248 --> 00:26:36,572 It's important to distinguish those people from 395 00:26:36,596 --> 00:26:40,919 what's happening much more recently, which is 396 00:26:40,943 --> 00:26:45,267 kids that never had any discomfort or dysphoria, 397 00:26:45,291 --> 00:26:49,614 as it's now called, with their biological sex. 398 00:26:49,722 --> 00:26:56,262 And then quite suddenly, as preteens or as adolescents, they come out and 399 00:26:56,286 --> 00:27:03,462 they announce that they are gender fluid or they start to question their sex. 400 00:27:03,606 --> 00:27:07,470 So first, let's define the terms sex and gender. 401 00:27:07,530 --> 00:27:08,378 Yes, please. 402 00:27:08,524 --> 00:27:11,870 Sex is biology. 403 00:27:12,730 --> 00:27:15,246 Sex is unchanging. 404 00:27:15,378 --> 00:27:17,970 It's based on chromosomes. 405 00:27:18,150 --> 00:27:26,310 99 point 99% of the cells in the body are marked either male or female. 406 00:27:26,490 --> 00:27:29,450 Gender, on the other hand, is a perception. 407 00:27:29,770 --> 00:27:30,846 It's a feeling. 408 00:27:30,918 --> 00:27:34,180 It's a way of identifying it's an experience. 409 00:27:34,810 --> 00:27:37,686 Okay, that's subjective. 410 00:27:37,818 --> 00:27:43,402 It sounds like what you're saying is that if a man is male 411 00:27:43,426 --> 00:27:49,010 but thinks of himself as a woman, he's not actually a woman. 412 00:27:49,450 --> 00:27:50,500 That's correct. 413 00:27:52,090 --> 00:27:53,562 Male gametes. 414 00:27:53,646 --> 00:27:54,762 That's what makes me male. 415 00:27:54,846 --> 00:27:57,330 No, your sperm don't make you male. 416 00:27:57,450 --> 00:28:01,790 Then what does it's a constellation in reality. 417 00:28:02,170 --> 00:28:03,342 In truth. 418 00:28:03,486 --> 00:28:05,707 Okay, whose truth are we talking about? The same truth 419 00:28:05,731 --> 00:28:08,246 that says we're sitting in this room right now, you and I. 420 00:28:08,308 --> 00:28:10,338 No, you're not listening. 421 00:28:10,494 --> 00:28:14,325 If I see a chicken laying eggs and I say that's a female chicken laying 422 00:28:14,349 --> 00:28:18,070 eggs, did I assign female or am I just observing a physical reality 423 00:28:18,094 --> 00:28:21,924 that's happening in the world? Does a chicken have gender identity? Does 424 00:28:21,948 --> 00:28:25,670 a chicken cry? Does a chicken commit suicide because you're talking. 425 00:28:25,780 --> 00:28:26,474 You're trying. 426 00:28:26,572 --> 00:28:27,318 Chicken has sex. 427 00:28:27,354 --> 00:28:30,590 Like any biological organism, an assigned gender. 428 00:28:31,210 --> 00:28:33,138 But a chicken doesn't have a gender identity. 429 00:28:33,174 --> 00:28:35,478 So we assign female the chickens and they lay eggs. 430 00:28:35,574 --> 00:28:37,866 We assume they're female if they lay eggs. 431 00:28:37,998 --> 00:28:42,649 Now, I was told that really, everyone agrees with the current 432 00:28:42,673 --> 00:28:47,090 approach to gender and transitioning kids and all that. 433 00:28:47,140 --> 00:28:51,693 And if you don't agree that you are a dinosaur and a bigot, are 434 00:28:51,717 --> 00:28:56,270 you a bigoted dinosaur? I'm not bigoted and I am not a dinosaur. 435 00:28:56,890 --> 00:29:01,490 I am rooted in reality and in science. 436 00:29:01,990 --> 00:29:05,090 Who's reality? There's one reality. 437 00:29:08,450 --> 00:29:11,133 The first race that I competed against a 438 00:29:11,157 --> 00:29:14,600 transgender athlete was during my freshman year. 439 00:29:17,670 --> 00:29:21,166 And once the gun went off, the two transgender athletes 440 00:29:21,190 --> 00:29:24,686 took off flying and left all of us girls in the dust. 441 00:29:24,818 --> 00:29:26,573 Throughout all four years of high school, I 442 00:29:26,597 --> 00:29:28,646 was forced to compete against biological males. 443 00:29:28,718 --> 00:29:32,726 I only competed against them in the sprinting events, but I raced against these 444 00:29:32,750 --> 00:29:36,758 athletes over a dozen times throughout the years, and every single time I lost. 445 00:29:36,854 --> 00:29:41,564 Did they inch you out of medals that you would have won otherwise or trophies you 446 00:29:41,588 --> 00:29:46,298 would have won? They beat me out by 20 meters out of medals and qualifying spots. 447 00:29:46,334 --> 00:29:48,310 I missed out on qualifying for New England. 448 00:29:48,750 --> 00:29:52,802 I had to go in the long jump and the 4 X 200 meters relay. 449 00:29:52,826 --> 00:29:55,250 So I was forced on the sidelines in my own event, and if 450 00:29:55,274 --> 00:29:57,698 they were not there, I would have been able to qualify. 451 00:29:57,854 --> 00:30:00,842 So I missed out on so much throughout my high school career. 452 00:30:00,926 --> 00:30:03,972 Did they win all the events or almost all the events between 453 00:30:03,996 --> 00:30:07,354 the two of them? They want every single event they competed in. 454 00:30:07,512 --> 00:30:10,951 How does that feel? It is so frustrating and heartbreaking 455 00:30:10,975 --> 00:30:13,991 because we elite female athletes train so hard to 456 00:30:14,015 --> 00:30:17,272 shave distractions of a second off of our time and going 457 00:30:17,296 --> 00:30:20,494 into races knowing that we will never be able to win. 458 00:30:20,532 --> 00:30:23,050 It feels like all that work gone to waste. 459 00:30:39,010 --> 00:30:39,374 Case. 460 00:30:39,412 --> 00:30:45,098 In Connecticut, there were two male track runners, trainers, girls, right. 461 00:30:45,244 --> 00:30:48,438 Who decided that they were going to race against the girls. 462 00:30:48,534 --> 00:30:51,714 And you look at those individuals, you look at 463 00:30:51,738 --> 00:30:54,918 their times against the men, against the boys. 464 00:30:54,954 --> 00:30:57,842 So they were kind of middle of the pack, and then they're 465 00:30:57,866 --> 00:31:00,650 racing the girls and they're first and second place. 466 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:05,942 Is that indicative of some kind of unfair advantage that those individuals 467 00:31:05,966 --> 00:31:11,574 might have against the girls? No, it's not indicative of an unfair advantage. 468 00:31:11,622 --> 00:31:16,100 And I think part of the proof of this is that more transgender girls are 469 00:31:16,124 --> 00:31:20,982 coming out in high school and still playing sports and they're not winning. 470 00:31:21,066 --> 00:31:23,358 The Connecticut case is the exception. 471 00:31:23,514 --> 00:31:28,406 It got a lot of attention because those two trans girls performed well. 472 00:31:28,528 --> 00:31:33,474 But there are many more trans girls competing in sports, and they don't excel. 473 00:31:33,642 --> 00:31:37,330 At the end of the day, whether or not you win a game is about how 474 00:31:37,354 --> 00:31:41,042 hard you work in your practice, and most of us aren't going to win. 475 00:31:41,116 --> 00:31:43,300 And that goes for transgender athletes, too. 476 00:31:44,530 --> 00:31:45,580 Let's go. 477 00:31:54,770 --> 00:31:59,686 The norm is that transgender youth don't win that much in sports games. 478 00:31:59,758 --> 00:32:03,342 Alana McLaughlin was very appreciative for Provost to take this by. 479 00:32:03,356 --> 00:32:06,570 I don't know how appreciative now, but she got a couple of punches in. 480 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:11,686 It is very much the exception when a transgender young person does 481 00:32:11,710 --> 00:32:17,180 win, and it's because there's not really an advantage to being trans. 482 00:32:17,510 --> 00:32:20,420 Only a few people are going to lead the pack. 483 00:32:39,330 --> 00:32:43,417 if there was a big advantage to being transgender in sports, 484 00:32:43,441 --> 00:32:47,390 then we would see transgender women totally dominating. 485 00:32:47,450 --> 00:32:52,228 And over the last half of the pool, nobody will 486 00:32:52,252 --> 00:32:57,030 touch Leah Thomas and man a feel like a woman. 487 00:32:57,150 --> 00:33:00,834 Transgender swimmer Leah Thomas breaking barriers and records. 488 00:33:00,882 --> 00:33:03,598 But in a new article, Sports Illustrated calls the 489 00:33:03,622 --> 00:33:06,894 College senior the most controversial athlete in America. 490 00:33:07,062 --> 00:33:11,306 Leah obviously helps us do better, right? Swimming really fast. 491 00:33:11,428 --> 00:33:15,266 Leah's performance helps the University of Pennsylvania swim team. 492 00:33:15,328 --> 00:33:18,630 The feeling of winning doesn't feel as good anymore because it feels painted. 493 00:33:18,750 --> 00:33:21,586 There was a lot of things you couldn't talk about that 494 00:33:21,610 --> 00:33:24,446 were very concerning, like a locker room situation. 495 00:33:24,628 --> 00:33:28,290 If you even brought up concerns about it, you were transphobic. 496 00:33:28,350 --> 00:33:30,718 If you even bring up the fact that Leah swimming 497 00:33:30,742 --> 00:33:33,110 might not be fair, you were immediately shut down. 498 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:36,294 This being called a hateful person or transphobic. 499 00:33:36,342 --> 00:33:38,646 But there's never any conversation. 500 00:33:38,718 --> 00:33:40,717 The coaches don't sit everyone down and 501 00:33:40,741 --> 00:33:43,322 acknowledge what everyone's really upset about. 502 00:33:43,396 --> 00:33:45,363 So kind of actually brought in people high 503 00:33:45,387 --> 00:33:47,354 up in the athletic Department to talk to us. 504 00:33:47,392 --> 00:33:49,766 They brought in someone from the LGBTQ center. 505 00:33:49,888 --> 00:33:52,598 They brought in someone from the psychological services. 506 00:33:52,744 --> 00:33:57,182 So you're upset about what's happening and so you need psychological help. 507 00:33:57,256 --> 00:33:57,566 Yeah. 508 00:33:57,628 --> 00:34:00,432 And they told us in this meeting, they said, look, we understand 509 00:34:00,456 --> 00:34:03,618 there's an array of emotions, but Leah, swimming is a non negotiable. 510 00:34:03,714 --> 00:34:06,566 However, we can help you make that okay. 511 00:34:06,688 --> 00:34:07,802 That's what we here for. 512 00:34:07,876 --> 00:34:10,122 So you're anonymous for this interview. 513 00:34:10,206 --> 00:34:15,480 Why did you decide that you can't have your face out there saying these things? They've made it pretty clear that 514 00:34:15,504 --> 00:34:18,129 if you speak up about it and you say anything negative 515 00:34:18,153 --> 00:34:20,778 that your life will be over in some way, you'll be lost. 516 00:34:20,814 --> 00:34:21,678 It all over the Internet. 517 00:34:21,714 --> 00:34:22,482 As a transphobe. 518 00:34:22,506 --> 00:34:24,962 If you come out and then you'll never be able to get a job. 519 00:34:25,036 --> 00:34:27,196 Like anyone who wants to hire you will look you up 520 00:34:27,220 --> 00:34:29,380 and see your transphobic and your life will be over. 521 00:34:31,990 --> 00:34:35,574 Let's say that I identified as a woman tomorrow, and I 522 00:34:35,598 --> 00:34:39,182 wanted to go into the same locker room where you are. 523 00:34:39,376 --> 00:34:44,210 Should I be allowed to do that? As long as I identify that way, I don't know. 524 00:34:44,260 --> 00:34:49,142 I just feel that other women would be uncomfortable by you walking in. 525 00:35:01,910 --> 00:35:05,998 controversy at a health club in Korea Town over the issue of gender. 526 00:35:06,094 --> 00:35:06,678 That's right. 527 00:35:06,764 --> 00:35:10,158 Video of spa goers complaining was posted on social media. 528 00:35:10,244 --> 00:35:11,900 I just want to be clear with you. 529 00:35:13,130 --> 00:35:16,203 It's okay for a man to go into the women's 530 00:35:16,227 --> 00:35:19,902 section, show his penis around the other women. 531 00:35:19,976 --> 00:35:22,110 Young, little girls under age. 532 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:23,386 Your spa. 533 00:35:23,518 --> 00:35:25,134 Wi spa condone that. 534 00:35:25,172 --> 00:35:30,740 Is that what you're saying? Like I asked, he could stay there. 535 00:35:31,310 --> 00:35:32,780 He could stay there. 536 00:35:34,130 --> 00:35:35,374 Bisexual orientation. 537 00:35:35,422 --> 00:35:36,250 I see a dick. 538 00:35:36,310 --> 00:35:38,608 Police identified the person involved as 52 539 00:35:38,632 --> 00:35:40,930 year old Darren Morager of Riverside County. 540 00:35:40,990 --> 00:35:44,030 Moragor, who has been a registered sex offender since 541 00:35:44,054 --> 00:35:47,446 2006, now faces five felony counts of indecent exposure. 542 00:35:47,518 --> 00:35:49,774 Hello, I'm Congressman Mark Dakano. 543 00:35:49,942 --> 00:35:53,763 Trans month of visibility is a time to recognize the strength, 544 00:35:53,787 --> 00:35:57,294 diversity and resiliency of the transgender community. 545 00:35:57,392 --> 00:36:02,731 Together, we can make our country and our world a more accepting place by speaking out against 546 00:36:02,755 --> 00:36:08,900 transphobia at the source and supporting the trans community by getting the quality acts signed into law. 547 00:36:09,590 --> 00:36:11,478 Congressman, thank you for being here. 548 00:36:11,504 --> 00:36:12,330 Thanks for joining us. 549 00:36:12,380 --> 00:36:15,645 You are the first member of Congress who's a member of 550 00:36:15,669 --> 00:36:18,934 the LGBT community and also a person of Asian descent. 551 00:36:19,042 --> 00:36:22,014 You're also a big proponent of the Equality Act. 552 00:36:22,172 --> 00:36:22,782 Yes. 553 00:36:22,916 --> 00:36:26,658 What is the Equality Act? If you were to just summarize it very briefly, I know it does a lot. 554 00:36:26,804 --> 00:36:32,865 The most simplest way to talk about the Equality Act is that it simply amends 555 00:36:32,889 --> 00:36:38,710 the Civil Rights Act to include sexual orientation and gender identity. 556 00:36:38,830 --> 00:36:42,800 So public accommodations is one area. 557 00:36:43,190 --> 00:36:49,770 What's a way that someone who's LGBT could be discriminated in public accommodations. 558 00:36:50,150 --> 00:36:56,082 Currently, public accommodations is the whole area 559 00:36:56,106 --> 00:37:02,038 of hotels and motels, bathrooms and sports teams. 560 00:37:02,074 --> 00:37:02,850 Is that. 561 00:37:03,020 --> 00:37:06,658 I say bathrooms, sports teams, athletic events. 562 00:37:06,754 --> 00:37:10,086 Let's get into more specific policy issues. 563 00:37:10,268 --> 00:37:13,580 There are some women who say and I've talked to a few who say this. 564 00:37:13,910 --> 00:37:18,922 They say, hey, I'd like some Privacy in the bathroom. 565 00:37:19,066 --> 00:37:22,162 I'd prefer not to encounter naked penises. 566 00:37:22,246 --> 00:37:32,130 Frankly, they say even that the penis is a telltale sign that someone is a male. 567 00:37:32,930 --> 00:37:39,810 There are people really bought into the rumor that only men have penises. 568 00:38:19,030 --> 00:38:21,280 we're talking not about a lot of people. 569 00:38:25,130 --> 00:38:29,096 I think a person who wants to use a woman's bathroom, who identifies 570 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,730 as transgender really does think of themselves as a female. 571 00:38:40,650 --> 00:38:49,500 respect their basic right to live? I think it will be an important part of this law. 572 00:38:51,750 --> 00:38:52,680 Wait a minute. 573 00:38:54,150 --> 00:39:01,550 Bathrooms are where you want to take this conversation instead of the basic right to 574 00:39:01,574 --> 00:39:08,974 dislike is something that I'm kind of mystified that you're kind of not focusing on. 575 00:39:09,012 --> 00:39:12,910 First, we're going straight to the controversy over bathrooms. 576 00:39:14,490 --> 00:39:19,138 So you know what? I think this interview is overview is over. 577 00:39:19,164 --> 00:39:20,580 I just had one last question. 578 00:39:21,870 --> 00:39:22,714 The interview is over. 579 00:39:22,752 --> 00:39:26,110 We want to know what is a woman? Please turn off the camera. 580 00:39:29,790 --> 00:39:31,186 I just wanted to know. 581 00:39:31,368 --> 00:39:35,218 I came all this way to know what they're fair. 582 00:39:35,244 --> 00:39:36,850 Quote, I just wanted to know what is a woman. 583 00:39:49,150 --> 00:39:52,199 My trip to California isn't providing many 584 00:39:52,223 --> 00:39:55,720 answers, but at least I'm making new friends. 585 00:39:56,410 --> 00:39:59,568 Do you worry about kids walking around out here? No, because I 586 00:39:59,592 --> 00:40:03,114 raised two daughters they're two of the most well adjusted adults. 587 00:40:03,162 --> 00:40:05,258 They grew up around naked people. 588 00:40:05,344 --> 00:40:09,275 And there's been studies that have shown that children raised around 589 00:40:09,299 --> 00:40:13,230 non sexual nudity actually have fewer hang ups when they're adults. 590 00:40:13,290 --> 00:40:14,082 People do have hang ups. 591 00:40:14,106 --> 00:40:17,150 There's a lot of things hanging right now during this conversation. 592 00:40:18,070 --> 00:40:21,179 Can anyone be any gender they want to be? Can a man become a 593 00:40:21,203 --> 00:40:24,630 woman if he wants to be what people do? That's personal choice. 594 00:40:24,690 --> 00:40:26,810 People can live the life they want to. 595 00:40:26,860 --> 00:40:28,622 I'm trying to live the life I want to. 596 00:40:28,636 --> 00:40:29,774 An authentic life. 597 00:40:29,932 --> 00:40:33,998 That's why I respect other people's rights to choose what they want to do. 598 00:40:34,084 --> 00:40:37,533 Well, why are you asking the gay man as to what it means to be a woman? You 599 00:40:37,557 --> 00:40:41,006 should be asking women what it means to be women, especially trans women. 600 00:40:41,188 --> 00:40:42,758 Who what it means to be women. 601 00:40:42,784 --> 00:40:44,090 I'm asking all kinds of people. 602 00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:48,100 Can anyone have an opinion about it? Only people who are women. 603 00:40:48,550 --> 00:40:51,138 Gay men don't know nothing about what it means to be a woman. 604 00:40:51,294 --> 00:40:55,385 Have you told gay men here in San Francisco that they're not allowed to talk about 605 00:40:55,409 --> 00:40:59,500 this? No, but it's not like I come around and say what a gay man is allowed to be. 606 00:41:00,730 --> 00:41:05,263 So you're saying if you're not a woman, then you shouldn't have an opinion? Where 607 00:41:05,287 --> 00:41:09,820 does the guy get a right to say what a woman is? Women only know what women are. 608 00:41:10,330 --> 00:41:13,180 Are you a cat? No. 609 00:41:20,750 --> 00:41:22,354 This is actually a genuine mistake. 610 00:41:22,402 --> 00:41:24,260 I'm sorry I even came up here. 611 00:41:25,850 --> 00:41:32,454 Do you want to tell us what a woman is? If my friend in the purple hat is correct 612 00:41:32,478 --> 00:41:39,660 and only women can tell me what a woman is, I guess I need to go where the women are. 613 00:41:59,010 --> 00:42:00,062 Oh, you're at the women's March. 614 00:42:00,086 --> 00:42:01,260 You must have some idea. 615 00:42:05,950 --> 00:42:09,050 So I see girls vagina. 616 00:42:09,910 --> 00:42:12,348 Does that mean that they're the only people who can get pregnant? 617 00:42:12,372 --> 00:42:15,040 If men can get pregnant, too, I think they want the right to choose. 618 00:42:15,910 --> 00:42:17,094 But men can get pregnant. 619 00:42:17,142 --> 00:42:19,666 We're saying someone who was born as a woman 620 00:42:19,690 --> 00:42:22,214 but identifies as a man, that's a real man. 621 00:42:22,312 --> 00:42:23,054 It's a real man. 622 00:42:23,092 --> 00:42:23,680 Yeah. 623 00:42:25,030 --> 00:42:26,980 So men can get pregnant? Yes. 624 00:42:27,670 --> 00:42:29,330 They have the parts. 625 00:42:29,710 --> 00:42:31,886 Is it just women that give birth or is it. 626 00:42:32,068 --> 00:42:32,846 Yeah. 627 00:42:33,028 --> 00:42:37,180 So men could give birth to Dino, but that could be a man or one. 628 00:42:37,510 --> 00:42:40,374 Well, I mean, I think that's the whole point, right? That it's fluid. 629 00:42:40,422 --> 00:42:42,842 The way that we define these things changes a lot. 630 00:42:42,916 --> 00:42:44,855 What are you doing here? I'm asking these questions, 631 00:42:44,879 --> 00:42:46,742 okay? I'm trying to figure out what a woman is. 632 00:42:46,756 --> 00:42:47,570 That's why I'm here. 633 00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:48,522 This is the women's March. 634 00:42:48,546 --> 00:42:50,054 I figured it's a good place to find out. 635 00:42:50,152 --> 00:42:51,770 I've come all this way, ask that question. 636 00:42:51,820 --> 00:43:02,460 Can anyone tell me what a woman is? What is that? Am I ask her a question. 637 00:43:33,890 --> 00:43:34,290 please. 638 00:43:34,340 --> 00:43:36,740 If one person could tell me what a woman is. 639 00:43:40,950 --> 00:43:43,740 Do you guys know what a woman is by any chance? No. 640 00:43:45,990 --> 00:43:48,250 I've been all over America. 641 00:43:50,070 --> 00:43:52,080 I still can't find an answer. 642 00:43:55,690 --> 00:43:57,580 Maybe I'm looking too close to home. 643 00:44:40,110 --> 00:44:44,762 We came a long way to come and talk to you guys thousands of miles from America. 644 00:44:44,906 --> 00:44:47,102 Thank you for inviting us into your tribe. 645 00:44:47,126 --> 00:44:52,858 First of all, I can say it is my pleasure to meet you and feel most welcome. 646 00:44:53,004 --> 00:44:55,066 But you're here to learn with me. 647 00:44:55,128 --> 00:44:56,386 I'm here to learn with you too. 648 00:44:56,448 --> 00:44:57,060 Great. 649 00:45:08,510 --> 00:45:10,160 with the elbow? Yeah. 650 00:45:13,170 --> 00:45:13,970 I mean, they're laughing. 651 00:45:14,030 --> 00:45:16,282 I guess it's not good, but I thought it was pretty good. 652 00:45:16,356 --> 00:45:17,940 Not good enough to be a man yet. 653 00:45:18,570 --> 00:45:22,808 What does a man do? What are his roles within the tribe? 654 00:45:22,832 --> 00:45:27,070 At the role of a man, you need to work for your woman. 655 00:45:27,510 --> 00:45:30,370 Secondly, to have children. 656 00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,800 If you have children and you don't have 657 00:45:32,824 --> 00:45:35,880 something to feed them, you are not still a man. 658 00:46:04,510 --> 00:46:07,420 The best raw kidney I've had in my life. 659 00:46:24,810 --> 00:46:28,834 in Masai community? It will not exist at all. 660 00:46:28,932 --> 00:46:30,010 It doesn't exist. 661 00:46:47,290 --> 00:46:52,115 A woman has its own duty and a man has its own duty and a lady cannot 662 00:46:52,139 --> 00:46:56,750 duty the duty of a man and a man cannot do the duty of a woman. 663 00:47:06,170 --> 00:47:06,920 No. 664 00:47:17,910 --> 00:47:18,660 No. 665 00:47:18,990 --> 00:47:22,346 It looks like if you want to become a lady, but 666 00:47:22,370 --> 00:47:25,726 your man, you have something wrong in your mind. 667 00:47:25,848 --> 00:47:27,358 Something wrong in your family. 668 00:47:27,444 --> 00:47:28,980 Something wrong in you. 669 00:47:30,030 --> 00:47:35,770 What about if someone was non binary? Come again? Non binary. 670 00:47:44,770 --> 00:47:46,026 Someone is neither. 671 00:47:57,170 --> 00:47:57,882 he's saying. 672 00:47:57,956 --> 00:48:02,626 We have never seen things like this for a man, he has a penis. 673 00:48:02,698 --> 00:48:04,822 For a woman, has a vagina. 674 00:48:04,966 --> 00:48:06,514 So we know this is a lady. 675 00:48:06,622 --> 00:48:07,700 This is a man. 676 00:48:21,630 --> 00:48:22,750 People are laughing. 677 00:48:28,510 --> 00:48:31,814 They're just laughing because they have never heard something like that. 678 00:48:31,852 --> 00:48:33,220 This is their first time. 679 00:48:33,550 --> 00:48:34,706 I never heard it before. 680 00:48:34,828 --> 00:48:38,670 A woman has a penis and she's a woman. 681 00:48:38,850 --> 00:48:40,862 In my country, I can't go day without hearing it. 682 00:48:40,876 --> 00:48:41,834 We hear it every day. 683 00:48:41,932 --> 00:48:44,649 So in my country, sometimes you'll hear people say a 684 00:48:44,673 --> 00:48:47,390 man will say that I'm a woman trapped in a man's body. 685 00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,080 And so they say that I have a woman trapped inside. 686 00:49:00,530 --> 00:49:04,006 They want to know a woman has the breast. 687 00:49:04,198 --> 00:49:05,050 Breast. 688 00:49:05,230 --> 00:49:07,650 Secondly, he has a vagina. 689 00:49:08,090 --> 00:49:08,962 Vagina. 690 00:49:09,106 --> 00:49:14,953 And the question is, does this man deliver? Does 691 00:49:14,977 --> 00:49:20,700 he deliver babies? No, not as far as I know. 692 00:49:24,430 --> 00:49:29,408 The question is, let's say if you want to sleep a 693 00:49:29,432 --> 00:49:34,930 woman, definitely you'll do sexy, is it? But for the 694 00:49:34,954 --> 00:49:40,295 man, where do you you ask that question? I don't know 695 00:49:40,319 --> 00:49:45,454 all the logistics of it based on what I'm saying. 696 00:50:04,790 --> 00:50:07,414 She saved a woman, delivered. 697 00:50:07,582 --> 00:50:08,730 A man cannot. 698 00:50:09,110 --> 00:50:13,906 So it sounds like you don't spend a lot of time thinking about gender. 699 00:50:14,038 --> 00:50:15,174 You just kind of live your lives. 700 00:50:15,212 --> 00:50:16,230 You don't think much about it. 701 00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:17,300 It doesn't matter. 702 00:50:20,190 --> 00:50:23,506 He said no because we believe that's a God plan. 703 00:50:23,628 --> 00:50:28,942 God's plan? He's saying that I'm shocked on what you're telling me. 704 00:50:29,076 --> 00:50:30,480 He's shocked? Yeah. 705 00:50:32,070 --> 00:50:32,822 The Masai. 706 00:50:32,846 --> 00:50:37,870 People don't think much about gender, but they have a firm sense of their identity. 707 00:50:38,430 --> 00:50:42,650 It's clear that gender ideology is a uniquely Western phenomenon. 708 00:50:42,830 --> 00:50:47,139 So where did all this come from? Who came up with 709 00:50:47,163 --> 00:50:51,382 it and why? Matt, I want to show this to you. 710 00:50:51,396 --> 00:50:54,010 You're a parent, right? Okay. 711 00:50:54,180 --> 00:50:58,150 It's perfectly normal for ten years and up. 712 00:51:07,630 --> 00:51:14,174 For ten and up, huh? It's unspeakable what these people have done to our children. 713 00:51:14,332 --> 00:51:17,878 When did that start? When was it decided that we need to start teaching kids 714 00:51:17,902 --> 00:51:21,400 about this stuff at such a young age? So I'll answer that with one word. 715 00:51:21,730 --> 00:51:22,790 Kinsey. 716 00:51:23,170 --> 00:51:28,230 Kinsey was a social reformer. 717 00:51:28,350 --> 00:51:33,972 He wanted to rid society of JudeoChristian values when it came to 718 00:51:33,996 --> 00:51:40,850 sexuality, and he worked very hard to do that, and I would say he succeeded. 719 00:51:41,530 --> 00:51:44,320 Kinsey would be very happy with our culture today. 720 00:51:45,070 --> 00:51:48,510 His idea was that children are sexual from birth, that 721 00:51:48,534 --> 00:51:52,494 we're all inherently sexual creatures from cradle to grave. 722 00:51:52,602 --> 00:51:55,894 He believed that true happiness is found in a life of 723 00:51:55,918 --> 00:51:59,210 perverse sexual experimentation, no matter the age. 724 00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:02,810 What came out is that his research was fraudulent. 725 00:52:03,550 --> 00:52:06,022 Kinsey based his fraudulent conclusions on data he 726 00:52:06,046 --> 00:52:09,126 collected from convicted sex offenders and child molesters. 727 00:52:09,258 --> 00:52:12,546 His research was conducted in prisons, not everyday America. 728 00:52:12,678 --> 00:52:17,860 He also performed horrific sexual experiments on children, some under the age of one. 729 00:52:18,730 --> 00:52:21,659 His most influential book, Sexual Behavior in the 730 00:52:21,683 --> 00:52:24,612 Human Male, contains an infamous chart called table 731 00:52:24,636 --> 00:52:27,294 34, which documents the orgasms of very young 732 00:52:27,318 --> 00:52:30,460 kids, including babies as young as five months old. 733 00:52:31,090 --> 00:52:34,772 But instead of suffering the consequences for his heinous actions, 734 00:52:34,796 --> 00:52:38,250 he was, and still is, celebrated by academia and Hollywood. 735 00:52:38,310 --> 00:52:42,578 His ideas form the foundation for sexual education and public schools today. 736 00:52:42,724 --> 00:52:46,398 How do we get from this to you can choose your own gender. 737 00:52:46,494 --> 00:52:49,662 Okay, well, now we have another and very important character. 738 00:52:49,746 --> 00:52:52,240 And his name was John Money. 739 00:52:52,690 --> 00:52:56,930 John Money was a psychologist and professor at Johns Hopkins University. 740 00:52:57,430 --> 00:52:59,990 Gender ideology was his brainchild. 741 00:53:00,550 --> 00:53:04,070 In fact, he coined the terms gender identity and gender roles. 742 00:53:04,570 --> 00:53:07,975 And according to Money, babies are gender neutral at birth, and 743 00:53:07,999 --> 00:53:12,066 ultimately, environment determines whether a person is a man or a woman. 744 00:53:12,198 --> 00:53:16,245 Money was telling the world about his theory that a boy 745 00:53:16,269 --> 00:53:20,766 could be raised as a girl and do just fine and vice versa. 746 00:53:20,838 --> 00:53:25,425 And so Money tried out his theory on two young twin boys, the Rhymer Twins, 747 00:53:25,449 --> 00:53:29,850 when the twins were eight months old and they went to be circumcised. 748 00:53:29,970 --> 00:53:34,786 The first twin, whose name was Bruce, something went 749 00:53:34,810 --> 00:53:39,626 wrong with the machinery and his penis was burnt off. 750 00:53:39,748 --> 00:53:41,871 They stopped and didn't do a second circumcision 751 00:53:41,895 --> 00:53:43,790 on the other twin, as you might imagine. 752 00:53:44,110 --> 00:53:47,138 And the parents, of course, didn't know what to do. 753 00:53:47,284 --> 00:53:49,760 How are they going to raise this child? John Money 754 00:53:49,784 --> 00:53:52,718 convinced Bruce's parents to transition him into a girl. 755 00:53:52,864 --> 00:53:56,619 Money also conducted sexually abusive experiments on the twins throughout 756 00:53:56,643 --> 00:54:00,398 their childhood, including forcing them to simulate sex acts on each other. 757 00:54:00,484 --> 00:54:05,020 He reported up to the age of ten that this was a complete success. 758 00:54:05,470 --> 00:54:08,162 Well, it wasn't true. 759 00:54:08,356 --> 00:54:10,734 The results were a disaster. 760 00:54:10,902 --> 00:54:13,590 Bruce could never fully accept his female identity. 761 00:54:13,710 --> 00:54:16,601 Eventually, his parents told him the truth, and he chose 762 00:54:16,625 --> 00:54:19,410 to transition back to a boy, taking the name David. 763 00:54:19,590 --> 00:54:24,230 As an adult, David spoke out about the abuse and the damage done to him by John Money. 764 00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:27,778 The girls would do their things with their barbies 765 00:54:27,802 --> 00:54:31,180 and things like that, and that wouldn't interest me. 766 00:54:31,630 --> 00:54:35,710 And things such as trucks and rolling forts 767 00:54:35,734 --> 00:54:40,398 and getting to the fist fight, climbing trees. 768 00:54:40,434 --> 00:54:41,714 That's the kind of stuff that I like. 769 00:54:41,752 --> 00:54:42,750 But it was unacceptable. 770 00:54:42,810 --> 00:54:46,874 So I never as a girl, as a girl, I had no place to fit in. 771 00:54:46,972 --> 00:54:52,970 The trauma that he and his brother and his entire family went through left deep scars. 772 00:54:53,590 --> 00:55:02,090 His brother died of an overdose when he was 38, and then David committed suicide. 773 00:55:03,130 --> 00:55:06,758 There was never a retraction or an apology from John Money. 774 00:55:06,904 --> 00:55:09,901 Instead, his ideas were adopted by mainstream psychology, 775 00:55:09,925 --> 00:55:12,760 and they formed the basis of gender ideology today. 776 00:55:13,210 --> 00:55:17,653 Why don't more people know about John Money and Alfred Kinsey? 777 00:55:17,677 --> 00:55:22,120 Evidently, there are forces that don't want this information out. 778 00:55:26,810 --> 00:55:30,538 I never said I was an Alpha female sales executive. 779 00:55:30,574 --> 00:55:32,840 That kind of just didn't fit in any box. 780 00:55:35,970 --> 00:55:40,082 When psychologists or somebody that I was in love with or whatever said 781 00:55:40,106 --> 00:55:44,160 that I was in the wrong body, I started to think, well, maybe I am. 782 00:55:47,370 --> 00:55:51,574 I'm a biological woman that medically transitioned to 783 00:55:51,598 --> 00:55:56,450 appear like a male through synthetic hormones and surgery. 784 00:55:56,570 --> 00:55:59,580 I will never be a man. 785 00:55:59,970 --> 00:56:05,336 Is it transphobic for me to tell the truth? Why is it then, a couple of hundred years 786 00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:08,322 from now, if you dug up my body, they're going 787 00:56:08,346 --> 00:56:11,110 to go, yeah, that was a woman had babies. 788 00:56:11,730 --> 00:56:18,250 Can you tell me about the procedures that you had? I've had seven surgeries. 789 00:56:18,930 --> 00:56:20,674 I've had one stress heart attack. 790 00:56:20,832 --> 00:56:24,290 I've had a helicopter life ride with pulmonary embolism. 791 00:56:24,350 --> 00:56:27,806 I've had 17 rounds of antibiotics. 792 00:56:27,938 --> 00:56:32,482 I had six inches of hair on the inside of my retrain for 17 months. 793 00:56:32,676 --> 00:56:34,951 Nobody would help me, including the doctor that 794 00:56:34,975 --> 00:56:37,200 did this to me because I lost my insurance. 795 00:56:37,590 --> 00:56:39,970 I get infections every three to four months. 796 00:56:40,020 --> 00:56:42,540 I'm probably not going to live very long. 797 00:56:43,830 --> 00:56:52,570 Was there any real discussion of the risks and the side effects? No, there's not. 798 00:56:52,740 --> 00:56:55,860 And I know that people want to think that there is, but there's not. 799 00:56:56,610 --> 00:57:00,110 The truth is that medical transition is experimental. 800 00:57:00,290 --> 00:57:03,708 We have studies that said that medical transition 801 00:57:03,732 --> 00:57:07,150 helps mental health, helps mental health of kids. 802 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:10,814 They've all been retracted, modified, changed. 803 00:57:10,982 --> 00:57:16,374 But the only long term study tells us seven to ten years is 804 00:57:16,398 --> 00:57:21,790 when transgender people are the most suicidal after surgery. 805 00:57:22,170 --> 00:57:27,109 But that's transphobic to say for the first time in history, a 806 00:57:27,133 --> 00:57:32,722 marginalized group has a huge dollar sign on the top of their head. 807 00:57:32,916 --> 00:57:40,260 We have five children's hospitals in the United States promoting that. 808 00:57:43,810 --> 00:57:44,958 That's a paleoplasty. 809 00:57:44,994 --> 00:57:46,350 That's a bottom surgery. 810 00:57:46,530 --> 00:57:52,269 We have five children's hospitals in the United States 811 00:57:52,293 --> 00:57:57,598 telling girls that they can be boys at $70,000 a 812 00:57:57,622 --> 00:58:02,818 pop in a surgery that has a 67% complication rate 813 00:58:02,842 --> 00:58:08,690 that will kill me from infection that I can't sue on. 814 00:58:08,860 --> 00:58:11,035 We're butchering a generation of children 815 00:58:11,059 --> 00:58:13,780 because nobody's willing to talk about anything. 816 00:58:14,170 --> 00:58:21,020 I have three kids at the age that they're doing this to kids. 817 00:58:22,610 --> 00:58:24,454 I'm not transphobic. 818 00:58:24,622 --> 00:58:27,606 I love my kids and I love other people's kids. 819 00:58:27,668 --> 00:58:29,060 And you should, too. 820 00:58:30,290 --> 00:58:35,490 This is wrong on so many levels. 821 00:58:35,810 --> 00:58:37,723 Can kids consent? Do you think kids are 822 00:58:37,747 --> 00:58:40,218 capable of consenting to that? No, they're not. 823 00:58:40,364 --> 00:58:48,526 Being a parent is loving the hell out of your kids and helping them see around corners what's the 824 00:58:48,550 --> 00:58:53,179 youngest patient that you've operated on? The youngest 825 00:58:53,203 --> 00:58:57,394 patient I've done vaginal plastic on is age 16. 826 00:58:57,502 --> 00:59:03,628 Do you worry that minors just don't understand enough about themselves? They're not 827 00:59:03,652 --> 00:59:06,883 neurologically developed enough yet to make 828 00:59:06,907 --> 00:59:10,602 permit life altering decisions? Absolutely not. 829 00:59:10,796 --> 00:59:13,710 A young person's self perception. 830 00:59:14,030 --> 00:59:19,014 One day they may be clear, the next day they may be totally confused and not sure. 831 00:59:19,172 --> 00:59:23,167 And you're affirming it with hormones that have 832 00:59:23,191 --> 00:59:27,970 never been used in this way in the field of medicine. 833 00:59:28,090 --> 00:59:32,190 You're talking about puberty blockers? Blockers and then opposite sex hormones. 834 00:59:32,630 --> 00:59:36,778 What age does the medical transition begin with medication. 835 00:59:36,934 --> 00:59:41,706 So medical affirmation begins when the patient says they're ready for it. 836 00:59:41,888 --> 00:59:45,390 So that could be a kiddo who is just starting puberty 837 00:59:45,414 --> 00:59:48,781 and panicking because they're getting breast buds 838 00:59:48,805 --> 00:59:51,964 or their penis is getting bigger and busier and 839 00:59:51,988 --> 00:59:55,698 they're worried about all kinds of masculine changes. 840 00:59:55,844 --> 01:00:01,371 And that way puberty blockers, which are completely reversible and don't have 841 01:00:01,395 --> 01:00:06,922 permanent effects, are wonderful because we can put that pause on puberty. 842 01:00:07,066 --> 01:00:10,964 It's like if you were listening to music, you put the pause on and we 843 01:00:10,988 --> 01:00:14,886 stopped the blockers and puberty would go right back to where it was. 844 01:00:15,008 --> 01:00:19,194 The next note in the song just delayed that period of time. 845 01:00:19,352 --> 01:00:21,022 You can just pause puberty. 846 01:00:21,106 --> 01:00:22,974 No, you can't and then pick it up. 847 01:00:23,012 --> 01:00:23,518 No, you can't. 848 01:00:23,554 --> 01:00:24,030 In the future. 849 01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:25,018 No, you can't. 850 01:00:25,174 --> 01:00:27,849 How many studies do they have? Long term 851 01:00:27,873 --> 01:00:31,306 studies on hormone blockers with children? None. 852 01:00:31,498 --> 01:00:36,632 I just spoke a month or two ago with a mother 853 01:00:36,656 --> 01:00:41,790 whose 14 year old daughter was put on blockers. 854 01:00:42,110 --> 01:00:47,194 They discovered after two years, this 14 year old girl has osteoporosis. 855 01:00:47,242 --> 01:00:49,398 That's something that like old women get. 856 01:00:49,484 --> 01:00:53,743 How can doctors assure parents that a certain medicine is totally 857 01:00:53,767 --> 01:00:58,026 safe? Based on what you're saying, they can't possibly know that. 858 01:00:58,148 --> 01:01:06,297 How can they be removing the healthy breaths of 15 year old girls? How can they be sterilizing kids? How can this 859 01:01:06,321 --> 01:01:10,127 whole thing be happening Matt? 860 01:01:10,151 --> 01:01:14,470 Every child that they convince is transgender and in need of medical transition, 861 01:01:14,530 --> 01:01:18,346 it generates $1.3 million to Pharma. 862 01:01:18,478 --> 01:01:25,078 And we're believing a pharmaceutical company, Lupron hormone blockers, reversible. 863 01:01:25,174 --> 01:01:29,024 So they say, well, the truth is that in 2003, Lupron was 864 01:01:29,048 --> 01:01:33,320 sued and deemed a criminal enterprise by the US government. 865 01:01:34,010 --> 01:01:38,886 They paid the most fine of any pharmaceutical company at that time. 866 01:01:39,008 --> 01:01:42,282 $874,000,000 wrote a check. 867 01:01:42,416 --> 01:01:46,280 Is Lupron chemical castration? Yes. 868 01:01:49,470 --> 01:01:52,760 We're giving it to Pedophiles, aren't we? We're giving it to people that are dying 869 01:01:52,784 --> 01:01:56,074 and we're giving it to kids telling them that they were born in the wrong body. 870 01:01:56,112 --> 01:01:57,446 And it's completely safe. 871 01:01:57,578 --> 01:01:59,114 One of the drugs used is Lupron. 872 01:01:59,162 --> 01:01:59,374 Right. 873 01:01:59,412 --> 01:02:04,330 Which has actually been used to chemically castrate sex offenders. 874 01:02:04,770 --> 01:02:07,581 You know what? I'm not sure that we should continue with this 875 01:02:07,605 --> 01:02:10,934 interview because it seems like it's going in a particular direction. 876 01:02:11,042 --> 01:02:12,434 Well, you're a medical professional. 877 01:02:12,482 --> 01:02:13,946 I am a medical professional. 878 01:02:14,018 --> 01:02:18,086 So you don't want to talk about the drugs that you give 879 01:02:18,110 --> 01:02:22,178 to kids? Again, I'm a physician and I use medication. 880 01:02:22,334 --> 01:02:26,314 You're choosing exploitive words, drugs I give to you. 881 01:02:26,352 --> 01:02:29,066 I'm choosing a chemical word that was in a dictionary. 882 01:02:29,138 --> 01:02:31,250 That's not a correct term for puberty blocking. 883 01:02:31,310 --> 01:02:33,438 I could look it up on my phone, but I'm pretty sure 884 01:02:33,462 --> 01:02:35,590 if I looked it up, you can look it up on your phone. 885 01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:39,367 It says medical definition, the administration of a drug to bring about a marked 886 01:02:39,391 --> 01:02:43,118 reduction in the body's production of androgens and especially testosterone. 887 01:02:43,154 --> 01:02:47,404 And I'm saying as a pediatrician who takes care of hundreds of these 888 01:02:47,428 --> 01:02:52,250 kids, when you use that terminology, you were being malignant and harmful. 889 01:02:52,430 --> 01:02:55,040 There are some who would say that giving chemical 890 01:02:55,064 --> 01:02:57,674 castration drugs to kids is malignant and harmful. 891 01:02:57,782 --> 01:03:03,434 It's about the context of caring for a child and seeing the suffering 892 01:03:03,458 --> 01:03:09,110 that kids can have that have not been in affirmative home situations. 893 01:03:09,170 --> 01:03:12,973 What do you say to the claim that we have to do this for 894 01:03:12,997 --> 01:03:16,800 these kids? Because if we don't, they'll kill themselves. 895 01:03:17,610 --> 01:03:19,574 They'll resort to drugs and self harm. 896 01:03:19,682 --> 01:03:21,430 A lot of them were hurting themselves. 897 01:03:21,540 --> 01:03:24,974 A lot of them were suicidal before they even discovered gender. 898 01:03:25,142 --> 01:03:28,370 That is never part of the discussion. 899 01:03:28,490 --> 01:03:34,098 And they say, what would you rather have? A living daughter or a dead son? If 900 01:03:34,122 --> 01:03:39,730 this is what the professionals are saying, it's terrible emotional blackmail. 901 01:03:43,750 --> 01:03:45,674 Hello? Hey, is this. 902 01:03:45,832 --> 01:03:46,334 This is. 903 01:03:46,372 --> 01:03:46,898 Yes. 904 01:03:47,044 --> 01:03:48,830 Hey, it's Matt Walsh. 905 01:03:49,270 --> 01:03:50,620 Where are you right now. 906 01:03:51,370 --> 01:03:54,340 I'm in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada, right now. 907 01:03:55,390 --> 01:03:59,070 Are you able to leave? I'm not able to leave BC. 908 01:03:59,130 --> 01:04:01,720 I can't even go to another province in Canada right now. 909 01:04:02,170 --> 01:04:04,670 And it's because I'm technically out on bail. 910 01:04:27,050 --> 01:04:30,894 how exactly did this get into the courts to begin with? Right. 911 01:04:30,932 --> 01:04:34,755 So what happened is we set up a meeting with BC Children's Hospital, and according 912 01:04:34,779 --> 01:04:38,602 to the BC Children's Hospital website, there's going to be a thorough evaluation. 913 01:04:38,686 --> 01:04:39,738 And I'm thinking, good. 914 01:04:39,824 --> 01:04:41,178 This is going to be the end of it all. 915 01:04:41,204 --> 01:04:44,422 You're going to clearly see that my child is not the opposite sex. 916 01:04:44,506 --> 01:04:48,094 So my ex wife brings my child into BC Children's Hospital. 917 01:04:48,202 --> 01:04:51,938 I get a call less than an hour into that appointment is that they were going 918 01:04:51,962 --> 01:04:55,698 to pump her full of cross-sex hormones within the hour, and I put a halt to that. 919 01:04:55,724 --> 01:04:56,720 I said no. 920 01:04:57,290 --> 01:04:59,430 They agreed to stop for the moment. 921 01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:01,302 They figured, well, let's get the dad on board too. 922 01:05:01,316 --> 01:05:02,190 This is all going to be better. 923 01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:03,786 Let's just get everybody on the same page. 924 01:05:03,848 --> 01:05:05,154 I said it's not going to happen. 925 01:05:05,252 --> 01:05:10,011 So I get a letter from BC Children's Hospital in December of 2018, and it says that 926 01:05:10,035 --> 01:05:14,794 under the BC Infants Act, they will start injecting my child with cross-sex hormones. 927 01:05:14,842 --> 01:05:18,786 And I have two weeks to respond with legal action if I still choose. 928 01:05:18,968 --> 01:05:22,234 And so that's how I ended up in court, because I did respond with legal action. 929 01:05:22,402 --> 01:05:28,506 So you called your daughter a she and you went to jail for that? 930 01:05:28,628 --> 01:05:32,902 It's considered criminal violence to not use the preferred pronouns. 931 01:05:32,986 --> 01:05:35,396 It's no different than, let's say I were to take a 932 01:05:35,420 --> 01:05:37,830 broomstick and whack one of my kids over the head. 933 01:05:37,940 --> 01:05:40,114 So they were treating it in a similar fashion. 934 01:05:40,162 --> 01:05:41,638 That misgendering. 935 01:05:41,674 --> 01:05:45,286 Mispronouncing my child was the equivalent of family violence. 936 01:05:45,478 --> 01:05:49,830 Is she on the hormone pills now? She is. 937 01:05:49,940 --> 01:05:57,083 The court ordered that she could do whatever she wanted. 938 01:05:57,107 --> 01:06:04,250 2020 until I would say 2016, I would say 80% of my clients were trans youth. 939 01:06:04,370 --> 01:06:05,314 Now it is. 940 01:06:05,412 --> 01:06:09,050 You identify, you take hormones, you do surgery. 941 01:06:09,170 --> 01:06:12,098 There isn't any other pathways. 942 01:06:12,254 --> 01:06:15,289 So if you have two parents, one parent wants to 943 01:06:15,313 --> 01:06:18,878 affirm the trans identity, the other parent doesn't. 944 01:06:18,914 --> 01:06:21,910 Who wins that battle? The one who wants to affirm every time. 945 01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:22,918 Every single time. 946 01:06:23,004 --> 01:06:27,000 The goal is to get the parents to affirm the kid. 947 01:06:32,350 --> 01:06:35,298 There's no such thing as a gender affirming therapist. 948 01:06:35,454 --> 01:06:36,974 That's a contradiction in terms. 949 01:06:37,072 --> 01:06:38,634 Why? Because you don't affirm. 950 01:06:38,682 --> 01:06:41,630 If you're a therapist, it's not your business to affirm. 951 01:06:42,250 --> 01:06:44,330 You come to see me because there's something wrong. 952 01:06:44,500 --> 01:06:46,737 Maybe you come to see me because a destructive 953 01:06:46,761 --> 01:06:48,998 element of you is wreaking havoc in your life. 954 01:06:49,144 --> 01:06:52,646 I'm on the side of the part of you that wants to aim up, man. 955 01:06:52,828 --> 01:06:54,374 That's what I'm on the side of. 956 01:06:54,412 --> 01:06:55,814 Okay? Now, I don't know what that means. 957 01:06:55,852 --> 01:06:58,394 In your case, we're going to talk about it. 958 01:06:58,492 --> 01:07:02,786 Am I going to affirm what you think? No, it's not up to me to affirm it. 959 01:07:02,848 --> 01:07:05,208 You don't get a casual pad on the back from a 960 01:07:05,232 --> 01:07:08,238 therapist for your pre existing axiomatic conclusions. 961 01:07:08,334 --> 01:07:09,426 That's not therapy. 962 01:07:09,498 --> 01:07:10,878 That's a rubber stamp. 963 01:07:11,034 --> 01:07:17,194 Is anybody at any point explaining to these kids the real long term consequences 964 01:07:17,218 --> 01:07:23,378 of hormones and puberty blockers? I don't think they're explaining it to the kids. 965 01:07:23,464 --> 01:07:26,598 That has frightened me that it's become that 966 01:07:26,622 --> 01:07:30,194 we're even talking to the kids about it at ten. 967 01:07:30,292 --> 01:07:32,034 We're presenting it in schools. 968 01:07:32,142 --> 01:07:38,394 So this generation, they're the lab rats. 969 01:07:38,502 --> 01:07:41,954 Biological sex, binary. It's been binary for like 100 million years, longer than that. 970 01:07:41,992 --> 01:07:43,422 Temperament is not binary. 971 01:07:43,506 --> 01:07:44,790 Temperamental personality. 972 01:07:44,850 --> 01:07:45,822 So it's gender. 973 01:07:45,966 --> 01:07:46,986 Temperament is gender. 974 01:07:47,058 --> 01:07:53,850 Well, gender is not a good word because it's vague and it isn't measurable. 975 01:07:53,910 --> 01:07:57,332 So do we need it? Why can we just say temperament? What do we even need 976 01:07:57,356 --> 01:08:00,778 the word gender for? Well, I don't need it, but what I would say is that 977 01:08:00,802 --> 01:08:04,028 people who talk about the diversity and gender are actually talking 978 01:08:04,052 --> 01:08:07,622 about diversity and personality and temperament, but they don't know it. 979 01:08:07,696 --> 01:08:12,128 You can have a masculine temperament if you're a woman, maybe one in ten women have 980 01:08:12,152 --> 01:08:16,530 the average temperament of a man and you can have feminine men temperamentally. 981 01:08:16,590 --> 01:08:18,912 And it's not that uncommon because the differences 982 01:08:18,936 --> 01:08:21,686 between men and women temperamentally aren't that great. 983 01:08:21,808 --> 01:08:23,310 There are masculine girls. 984 01:08:23,370 --> 01:08:24,858 There are feminine boys. 985 01:08:25,014 --> 01:08:28,972 What are we going to do about that? Carve them up? You as someone 986 01:08:28,996 --> 01:08:32,954 who started your professional life, you know, transgender care. 987 01:08:33,052 --> 01:08:33,700 Yeah. 988 01:08:34,210 --> 01:08:39,254 Now you're sitting here talking to me and I'm a dangerous man. 989 01:08:39,292 --> 01:08:40,180 I've been told. 990 01:08:41,170 --> 01:08:46,038 Are you worried about reprisals? Are you worried about how this is going to play among 991 01:08:46,062 --> 01:08:48,714 your professional peers? I am worried that I 992 01:08:48,738 --> 01:08:51,390 can't have conversations with any other peers. 993 01:08:51,450 --> 01:08:54,388 I don't know any other peer that will speak 994 01:08:54,412 --> 01:08:57,350 to me around these things, that question it. 995 01:08:57,400 --> 01:09:02,860 I just don't think developmentally this is helpful to our children. 996 01:09:03,490 --> 01:09:05,178 You step wrong as a therapist. 997 01:09:05,214 --> 01:09:07,737 You say the wrong thing once and your bloody career 998 01:09:07,761 --> 01:09:10,182 is over and now it's the same with physicians. 999 01:09:10,266 --> 01:09:12,477 How's that going to work? You're going to go have 1000 01:09:12,501 --> 01:09:14,944 an honest conversation with your physician when he's 1001 01:09:14,968 --> 01:09:17,155 terrified out of his mind if he'll say something 1002 01:09:17,179 --> 01:09:19,646 politically incorrect during the diagnostic process. 1003 01:09:19,768 --> 01:09:22,670 Hey, man, you're sick with whatever you want to be. 1004 01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:23,800 See you later. 1005 01:09:24,310 --> 01:09:26,845 You want a prescription for something? I left 1006 01:09:26,869 --> 01:09:29,924 academia because the climate had become too stifling 1007 01:09:29,948 --> 01:09:32,832 politically, especially when it comes to the topic 1008 01:09:32,856 --> 01:09:35,562 of gender identity and the science of gender. 1009 01:09:35,646 --> 01:09:38,738 It is absolutely impossible to do good research. 1010 01:09:38,824 --> 01:09:41,093 You basically have to decide beforehand what you're 1011 01:09:41,117 --> 01:09:43,386 going to find so that you don't upset activists. 1012 01:09:43,458 --> 01:09:45,174 And that is not how you do science. 1013 01:09:45,282 --> 01:09:48,371 Why has this shift occurred where all of a sudden 1014 01:09:48,395 --> 01:09:51,291 gender and sex has become so politically and 1015 01:09:51,315 --> 01:09:54,598 culturally charged? There's a really ugly history 1016 01:09:54,622 --> 01:09:57,906 between sex researchers and transgender activists. 1017 01:09:58,038 --> 01:10:05,006 In the past, if any sex researcher spoke out about science that went against activist orthodoxy or particular narratives 1018 01:10:05,030 --> 01:10:08,326 that activists wanted to promote, they would basically 1019 01:10:08,350 --> 01:10:11,646 have their personal and professional reputations ruined. 1020 01:10:11,718 --> 01:10:13,661 So what you see is that only experts who toe 1021 01:10:13,685 --> 01:10:15,902 the party line and say the things that activists 1022 01:10:15,926 --> 01:10:18,258 like, those are the people who get attention, those 1023 01:10:18,282 --> 01:10:20,474 are the people who get lifted up in the media. 1024 01:10:20,572 --> 01:10:23,861 And also, I would say people are incentivized to go along with the 1025 01:10:23,885 --> 01:10:27,630 activist narratives and gender ideology because that helps their career. 1026 01:10:27,750 --> 01:10:29,018 Trans is very cool. 1027 01:10:29,164 --> 01:10:32,800 Trans is a way of giving yourself value. 1028 01:10:33,130 --> 01:10:36,306 Given the way society at the moment is functioning. 1029 01:10:36,378 --> 01:10:39,850 All of the things that used to give us anchors of identity 1030 01:10:39,874 --> 01:10:43,346 have become very fluid or very volatile in recent years. 1031 01:10:43,468 --> 01:10:47,189 And in that context, I think what you find then is 1032 01:10:47,213 --> 01:10:50,934 new identities start to fill the void of the vacuum. 1033 01:10:51,042 --> 01:10:54,600 Whereas in the past I might have got my sense of self worth from 1034 01:10:54,624 --> 01:10:58,126 being part of the village where I grew up, now I might get my 1035 01:10:58,150 --> 01:11:01,680 sense of self worth through being part of the online community 1036 01:11:01,704 --> 01:11:05,234 that I connect with or part of the sexual identity community. 1037 01:11:05,392 --> 01:11:10,083 So now we are seeing kids that are identifying as animals going 1038 01:11:10,107 --> 01:11:14,798 to school, and they are purring instead of answering questions. 1039 01:11:14,884 --> 01:11:18,441 And they Meow and the teachers are not allowed to 1040 01:11:18,465 --> 01:11:22,542 question it because it's considered a queer identity. 1041 01:11:22,686 --> 01:11:27,670 So you have kids that are going to school and they're saying, 1042 01:11:27,694 --> 01:11:32,594 I'm a cat, and the teachers have to affirm them as a cat. 1043 01:11:32,752 --> 01:11:33,460 Yes. 1044 01:11:34,990 --> 01:11:35,778 Literal zoos. 1045 01:11:35,814 --> 01:11:43,210 Now, basically they are. I am a 27 year old transgender woman. 1046 01:11:43,390 --> 01:11:46,690 I am a Wolf theory and a member of the Furry fandom. 1047 01:11:46,810 --> 01:11:52,702 When and how did you discover this inner wolfness? Probably around age ten or eleven. 1048 01:11:52,786 --> 01:11:57,482 I was watching an anime about Wolves and see the Wolf running across 1049 01:11:57,506 --> 01:12:02,202 the screen, and I'm somehow just intrinsically like, oh, that's me. 1050 01:12:02,276 --> 01:12:05,540 Have you spent any time around biological Wolves? Yes. 1051 01:12:05,930 --> 01:12:07,114 That sounds dangerous. 1052 01:12:07,162 --> 01:12:10,690 Also, what context are you? So I was a volunteer with 1053 01:12:10,714 --> 01:12:14,242 a preserve, and I've also visited many Wolf preserves. 1054 01:12:14,386 --> 01:12:19,079 Are you able to communicate with the Wolf? Am I going to have a conversation 1055 01:12:19,103 --> 01:12:23,670 with a Wolf in the way that I'm communicating? You and I obviously not. 1056 01:12:23,780 --> 01:12:27,530 Am I going to read their body language, respond appropriately 1057 01:12:27,554 --> 01:12:30,740 to their behaviors and their nonverbal cues? Yes. 1058 01:12:31,190 --> 01:12:34,743 Would you be able to give us an example of this Wolf 1059 01:12:34,767 --> 01:12:38,250 communication? No, I'm not comfortable doing so. 1060 01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:38,742 Okay. 1061 01:12:38,816 --> 01:12:39,294 All right. 1062 01:12:39,392 --> 01:12:43,362 How exactly have these ideas become pervasive? First of 1063 01:12:43,386 --> 01:12:47,873 all, I think we need to remember that in the west, at least, 1064 01:12:47,897 --> 01:12:51,872 we have it drilled into our minds from childhood onwards 1065 01:12:51,896 --> 01:12:56,378 that personal happiness is the key to individual flourishing. 1066 01:12:56,474 --> 01:12:58,966 Secondly, we think of ourselves in psychological terms. 1067 01:12:59,028 --> 01:13:00,266 I am my feelings. 1068 01:13:00,398 --> 01:13:04,634 And in order for me to be happy, I have to be able to express my feelings. 1069 01:13:04,682 --> 01:13:08,630 I have to be outwardly that which I feel myself to be inwardly. 1070 01:13:08,750 --> 01:13:14,122 Thirdly, we're taught that interfering with somebody else's happiness is very bad. 1071 01:13:14,256 --> 01:13:17,399 We need to acknowledge that there are powerful lobby groups, 1072 01:13:17,423 --> 01:13:20,940 powerful cultural and political lobby groups driving this thing. 1073 01:13:21,270 --> 01:13:26,558 Hollywood is pressing LGBTQ+ matters in so many movies. 1074 01:13:26,714 --> 01:13:30,266 We're seeing it in the way Amazon sets up its algorithms. 1075 01:13:30,398 --> 01:13:33,718 There are all kinds of factors in society that 1076 01:13:33,742 --> 01:13:37,062 are pushing what would really be numerically a 1077 01:13:37,086 --> 01:13:40,406 fairly minority interest into being one of the 1078 01:13:40,430 --> 01:13:43,750 main political focal points of this generation. 1079 01:13:46,990 --> 01:13:49,950 After my operation, I will be a woman. 1080 01:13:50,070 --> 01:13:54,746 Why can't she just be a lesbian? Because she's not a lesbian mom. 1081 01:13:54,808 --> 01:13:56,006 She's a boy. 1082 01:13:56,188 --> 01:13:58,226 Because I was born in a girl's body. 1083 01:13:58,348 --> 01:14:04,455 Can I ask you a question? Why don't you kiss me? The whole idea of social contagion, that there could be 1084 01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:07,375 something in one social environment that could play 1085 01:14:07,399 --> 01:14:10,586 some role in somebody coming out identifying as trans. 1086 01:14:10,648 --> 01:14:14,111 Would you say that that is definitely part of your story? 1087 01:14:14,135 --> 01:14:17,536 When I look back, I don't think I would have ever even 1088 01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:21,494 considered seeing myself as a boy without these social aspects, 1089 01:14:21,518 --> 01:14:25,070 especially if I hadn't joined these online communities. 1090 01:14:26,830 --> 01:14:28,626 I identify as non binary. 1091 01:14:28,698 --> 01:14:31,070 I'll officially be changing my pronouns to they/them. 1092 01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:34,554 My pronouns are dem and demon/demonself. 1093 01:14:34,602 --> 01:14:37,094 I've been going by they/them pronouns for four years now. 1094 01:14:37,132 --> 01:14:40,506 I'm pretty comfortable with them. 1095 01:14:40,578 --> 01:14:44,414 There was literally a period of a few weeks to a few months. 1096 01:14:44,512 --> 01:14:46,709 I started out as an ally, and then eventually 1097 01:14:46,733 --> 01:14:48,930 I was starting to identify as transgender. 1098 01:14:48,990 --> 01:14:50,118 We are transmodels. 1099 01:14:50,154 --> 01:14:53,020 So they go on the Internet and they're told that all 1100 01:14:53,044 --> 01:14:55,910 their problems will be solved if they become a man. 1101 01:14:56,020 --> 01:14:57,414 Kids are being taught. 1102 01:14:57,522 --> 01:15:00,422 You might feel like you're a boy, even if you have a 1103 01:15:00,446 --> 01:15:03,746 vagina and you're a girl, you are what you feel you are. 1104 01:15:03,808 --> 01:15:06,702 Some people are girls, some are boys, some are both, some are neither. 1105 01:15:06,786 --> 01:15:10,626 Gender is all about how we feel on the inside and how we express ourselves. 1106 01:15:10,758 --> 01:15:12,546 Ah, the gender fluid teacher. 1107 01:15:12,618 --> 01:15:15,810 What do I go by in the classroom? I go by teacher fan BRAINI. 1108 01:15:15,870 --> 01:15:17,961 As a queer and trans teacher, my agenda is to 1109 01:15:17,985 --> 01:15:20,314 show little boys that they don't have to be like 1110 01:15:20,338 --> 01:15:22,692 a steriotypically masculine, that they can like paint 1111 01:15:22,716 --> 01:15:25,070 their nails and wear earrings and like still be a guy. 1112 01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:26,186 And like it can be cool. 1113 01:15:26,248 --> 01:15:31,228 Do you worry that there could be a sort of social contagion element of 1114 01:15:31,252 --> 01:15:36,810 this? A teeny tiny bit, maybe? Looking back on it, it was the same pattern. 1115 01:15:36,870 --> 01:15:41,562 Just kids who were really struggling, kids who were very alone and isolated. 1116 01:15:41,646 --> 01:15:42,750 They have anxiety. 1117 01:15:42,870 --> 01:15:44,598 They don't fit in with their peers. 1118 01:15:44,754 --> 01:15:46,926 They don't know where they belong. 1119 01:15:47,058 --> 01:15:49,670 Maybe they didn't have a welcoming family life. 1120 01:15:49,780 --> 01:15:52,346 They just got caught up in these communities online. 1121 01:15:52,468 --> 01:15:57,398 Then they discover, hey, there's this group of people and they also don't fit in. 1122 01:15:57,424 --> 01:15:57,962 They're different. 1123 01:15:58,036 --> 01:15:59,462 They're not sure who they are. 1124 01:15:59,536 --> 01:16:01,322 Gee, that's where I fit in. 1125 01:16:01,396 --> 01:16:04,254 Today is the day before my top surgery. 1126 01:16:04,362 --> 01:16:06,158 I am waking up tomorrow at 05:00 A.m. 1127 01:16:06,244 --> 01:16:08,430 To have a subcutaneous mastectomy. 1128 01:16:08,550 --> 01:16:12,520 We're telling children when they haven't fully developed that 1129 01:16:12,544 --> 01:16:16,514 all you have to do is medically transition and you fit in. 1130 01:16:16,612 --> 01:16:18,350 I was one of those kids. 1131 01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:20,510 It got me at 42. 1132 01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:23,860 Your child doesn't have a chance. 1133 01:16:28,070 --> 01:16:30,310 This is only going in one direction. You will respect us. 1134 01:16:30,490 --> 01:16:40,106 As parents come to understand more about gender identity. 1135 01:16:40,178 --> 01:16:42,086 Kids are coming out at younger ages. 1136 01:16:42,158 --> 01:16:43,226 It's exciting. 1137 01:16:43,418 --> 01:16:46,922 And you know who gets it right is this next generation. 1138 01:16:47,066 --> 01:16:51,121 The next generation who's already telling us that our antiquated 1139 01:16:51,145 --> 01:16:55,200 ideas of things have to be a certain way just don't apply to them. 1140 01:16:56,430 --> 01:16:59,438 They're rejecting a lot of our social mores. 1141 01:16:59,534 --> 01:17:00,960 They are tweaking the system. 1142 01:17:05,470 --> 01:17:09,878 I just don't think it's realistic to put this decision on them. 1143 01:17:25,610 --> 01:17:27,990 I'm a physician and I use medication. 1144 01:17:28,370 --> 01:17:28,806 Certainly. 1145 01:17:28,868 --> 01:17:30,958 It's a bit of a Faustian bargain. 1146 01:17:31,114 --> 01:17:34,410 Puberty blockers, which are completely reversible. 1147 01:17:37,170 --> 01:17:41,354 You keep invoking the word truth, which is condescending, 1148 01:17:41,402 --> 01:17:45,790 and rude. Some women have penises, right? Some men have vaginas. 1149 01:17:47,070 --> 01:17:50,557 Does the chicken cry? Does a chicken commit suicide? 1150 01:17:50,581 --> 01:17:54,000 I'm not a woman, so I can't really answer that. 1151 01:17:54,690 --> 01:17:56,820 I guess because I got a dick. 1152 01:18:13,970 --> 01:18:17,070 Somehow this madness has affected our entire society. 1153 01:18:18,410 --> 01:18:22,520 Am I the crazy one? I'm done asking questions. 1154 01:18:28,050 --> 01:18:31,898 Tanner Cross is on administrative leave for what he said about gender identity. 1155 01:18:31,994 --> 01:18:35,990 He said he would not call a student who is transgender by their preferred pronoun. 1156 01:18:36,050 --> 01:18:40,161 I can't lie to children, and I got to also represent a whole community that 1157 01:18:40,185 --> 01:18:44,686 believes in biological facts and scientific facts, and I can't do that to kids. 1158 01:18:44,748 --> 01:18:46,462 You get into teaching because you love kids. 1159 01:18:46,536 --> 01:18:51,502 This policy started coming into play and I was like, wait a minute, it's causing me, 1160 01:18:51,576 --> 01:18:54,610 I'm going to have to lie to my kids the ones I've always wanted to protect. 1161 01:18:54,720 --> 01:18:59,933 Do we have assaults in our bathrooms and our locker rooms regularly? To my 1162 01:18:59,957 --> 01:19:05,170 knowledge, we don't have any records of assaults occurring in our restroom. 1163 01:19:10,810 --> 01:19:14,342 The predator transgender student is, or person, 1164 01:19:14,536 --> 01:19:16,314 simply, it does not exist. 1165 01:19:16,422 --> 01:19:19,837 The Virginia Department of Education says it is now reviewing whether the 1166 01:19:19,861 --> 01:19:23,562 Loudoun County School District has properly reported cases of sexual assault. 1167 01:19:23,586 --> 01:19:27,397 This comes after a 15 year old was charged on two separate occasions 1168 01:19:27,421 --> 01:19:30,890 for assaulting two different students at different schools. 1169 01:19:32,650 --> 01:19:36,546 Dozens rallying Center Loudoun County to protest the school's policies. 1170 01:19:36,618 --> 01:19:38,904 So that includes limiting who can talk during 1171 01:19:38,928 --> 01:19:41,214 public comment portions of board meetings. 1172 01:19:41,322 --> 01:19:44,390 One speaker leased property in the area just so he could speak. 1173 01:19:44,440 --> 01:19:47,682 Tonight, Fox Five Paris Jones is live with the details. 1174 01:19:47,766 --> 01:19:48,194 That's right. 1175 01:19:48,232 --> 01:19:51,649 Conservative commentator Matt Wallace told me he's leasing 1176 01:19:51,673 --> 01:19:55,090 out someone's basement in Loudoun County so he'd be able 1177 01:19:55,114 --> 01:19:58,558 to speak during tonight's meeting, I decided last week to 1178 01:19:58,582 --> 01:20:02,334 fulfill my lifelong dream of being a Loudoun County resident. 1179 01:20:02,442 --> 01:20:05,454 I've always felt like I lived in Tennessee. 1180 01:20:05,502 --> 01:20:08,946 I felt sort of like a Virginian trapped in a Tennessee. 1181 01:20:08,958 --> 01:20:12,482 In his body, I identified sort of state fluid, I guess. 1182 01:20:12,556 --> 01:20:14,202 This is Matt Wall, she tweeted. 1183 01:20:14,286 --> 01:20:18,505 How do you do, fellow Virginians? 1184 01:20:18,529 --> 01:20:23,150 Now I just got to explained to my wife and kids that we're going to be staying in someone's basement. 1185 01:20:28,190 --> 01:20:32,066 They tried to muzzle me by not allowing me to speak, and 1186 01:20:32,090 --> 01:20:36,390 when that didn't work, they tried to muzzle me with a mask. 1187 01:20:39,150 --> 01:20:40,814 I would thank you all for allowing me to speak 1188 01:20:40,838 --> 01:20:42,502 to you tonight, but you tried not to allow it. 1189 01:20:42,516 --> 01:20:43,560 Yet here I am. 1190 01:20:44,070 --> 01:20:45,482 Now, you only give us 60 seconds. 1191 01:20:45,506 --> 01:20:46,774 So let me get to the point. 1192 01:20:46,932 --> 01:20:48,698 You are all child abusers. 1193 01:20:48,854 --> 01:20:51,466 You prey upon impressionable children and indoctrinate 1194 01:20:51,490 --> 01:20:53,804 them into your insane ideological cult, a cult 1195 01:20:53,828 --> 01:20:56,516 which holds many fanatical views, but none so deranged 1196 01:20:56,540 --> 01:20:59,126 as the idea that boys are girls and girls or boys. 1197 01:20:59,318 --> 01:21:01,717 By imposing this vile nonsense on students to the 1198 01:21:01,741 --> 01:21:04,541 point even of forcing young girls to share locker rooms 1199 01:21:04,565 --> 01:21:07,341 with boys, you deprive these kids of safety and Privacy 1200 01:21:07,365 --> 01:21:10,090 and something more fundamental, too, which is truth. 1201 01:21:10,470 --> 01:21:13,730 If education is not grounded in truth, then it is worthless. 1202 01:21:13,910 --> 01:21:15,398 Worse, it is poison. 1203 01:21:15,554 --> 01:21:16,946 You are poison. 1204 01:21:17,138 --> 01:21:18,506 You are predators. 1205 01:21:18,638 --> 01:21:20,386 I can see why you try to stop us from speaking. 1206 01:21:20,448 --> 01:21:22,526 You know that your ideas are indefensible. 1207 01:21:22,718 --> 01:21:25,766 You silence the opposing side because you have no argument. 1208 01:21:25,958 --> 01:21:28,515 You can only hide under your beds like pathetic 1209 01:21:28,539 --> 01:21:31,654 little gutless cowards, hoping we shut up and go away. 1210 01:21:31,692 --> 01:21:35,580 But we won't, I promise you that. 1211 01:21:48,350 --> 01:21:51,210 Johnny is a boy with a big imagination. 1212 01:21:53,090 --> 01:22:01,874 One day he's a dog, the next day a crustacean. Johnny's mom loves her son's 1213 01:22:01,922 --> 01:22:08,680 make believe time. You're Johnny the Walrus till you change your mind. 1214 01:22:10,630 --> 01:22:13,154 Matt Walsh is out with a new children's book. 1215 01:22:13,192 --> 01:22:15,450 The book is called Johnny the Walrus. 1216 01:22:15,510 --> 01:22:20,174 What is this about? It's sold out on Amazon in a few hours. 1217 01:22:20,272 --> 01:22:24,018 I have embraced my true calling as a children's author, hence the cardigan. 1218 01:22:24,054 --> 01:22:28,422 The book is about a little boy who is very imaginative and playful. 1219 01:22:28,566 --> 01:22:31,447 I have four kids and they all have an imagination and he likes to 1220 01:22:31,471 --> 01:22:34,758 pretend to be different things, and one day he pretends to be a walrus. 1221 01:22:34,914 --> 01:22:39,174 And unfortunately, his mother is very progressive and thus confused. 1222 01:22:39,222 --> 01:22:43,174 And so she's convinced by the Internet and by society that if your 1223 01:22:43,198 --> 01:22:47,150 child is identifying as something, then he really is that thing. 1224 01:22:47,260 --> 01:22:50,603 And so she tries to raise her child as a walrus, as 1225 01:22:50,627 --> 01:22:53,970 a sort of trans walrus, respecting his self identity. 1226 01:22:54,030 --> 01:22:58,113 One morning he came downstairs barking and clapping wood spoons 1227 01:22:58,137 --> 01:23:02,022 for tusks and sock fins a-flapping. It's spoons in his mouth, 1228 01:23:02,046 --> 01:23:03,590 he's pretending to be a walrus. 1229 01:23:04,750 --> 01:23:07,770 I'm Johnny the Walrus, he said with a roar. 1230 01:23:07,890 --> 01:23:10,790 Johnny the Walrus. 1231 01:23:17,510 --> 01:23:19,774 This is a hot topic. 1232 01:23:19,942 --> 01:23:22,050 That's a good thing, right? Yeah, absolutely. 1233 01:23:22,220 --> 01:23:23,938 It's good for us to have these conversations. 1234 01:23:24,034 --> 01:23:27,370 People open their minds and relearn and unlearn to what we've been taught. 1235 01:23:27,430 --> 01:23:31,040 So I want this to be a safe place to talk about and learn. 1236 01:23:32,150 --> 01:23:36,610 As you can see, there's an ongoing evolution of language and how people can identify. 1237 01:23:36,730 --> 01:23:40,182 My next guest, author and conservative host of Daily Wire's 1238 01:23:40,206 --> 01:23:43,454 The Matt Walsh Show, talking about his recently 1239 01:23:43,478 --> 01:23:46,692 published children's book that has since been 1240 01:23:46,716 --> 01:23:49,930 removed online by a popular large retail chain. 1241 01:23:50,110 --> 01:23:57,210 Now, Matt says gender is not a social construct, but rooted firmly in biology. 1242 01:23:57,530 --> 01:23:58,818 True, true. 1243 01:23:58,904 --> 01:24:00,841 As human beings, we have a sex, male or 1244 01:24:00,865 --> 01:24:03,366 female, but it's a biological, scientific fact. 1245 01:24:03,488 --> 01:24:05,722 Now, gender is a linguistic term. 1246 01:24:05,866 --> 01:24:06,934 Words have gender. 1247 01:24:06,982 --> 01:24:09,473 People don't you can have whatever self perception 1248 01:24:09,497 --> 01:24:11,631 you want, but you can't expect me to take 1249 01:24:11,655 --> 01:24:14,173 part in that self perception or to take part in 1250 01:24:14,197 --> 01:24:16,714 this kind of charade, this theatrical production. 1251 01:24:16,882 --> 01:24:19,234 You don't get your own pronouns, just like you don't 1252 01:24:19,258 --> 01:24:21,610 get your own prepositions or your own adjectives. 1253 01:24:21,730 --> 01:24:26,638 It's like if I were to tell you my adjectives are handsome and brilliant. 1254 01:24:26,674 --> 01:24:29,236 And whatever you're talking about me, you have to describe 1255 01:24:29,260 --> 01:24:31,822 me as handsome and brilliant because that's how I identify. 1256 01:24:31,966 --> 01:24:35,922 So you think it's a delusion? Well, this is one of the problems with this left wing 1257 01:24:35,946 --> 01:24:38,106 gender ideology is that no one who espouses 1258 01:24:38,130 --> 01:24:40,290 it can even tell you what these words means. 1259 01:24:40,340 --> 01:24:44,854 Like what is a woman? Can you tell me what a woman is? No, I can't. 1260 01:24:45,022 --> 01:24:47,914 Womanhood is something that is an umbrella term. 1261 01:24:48,022 --> 01:24:53,374 It includes people that describes what people who identify as a woman. 1262 01:24:53,542 --> 01:24:56,180 What is that? What's to each their own. 1263 01:24:56,750 --> 01:24:59,304 Each man, each person is going to have a different relation 1264 01:24:59,328 --> 01:25:01,882 with their own gender identity and define it differently. 1265 01:25:01,966 --> 01:25:02,934 You want to reduce women. 1266 01:25:02,972 --> 01:25:04,979 You want to reduce men down to maybe just 1267 01:25:05,003 --> 01:25:07,414 their genetics, our genitals, our chromosomes. 1268 01:25:07,462 --> 01:25:09,066 Right? That's what you want to do. 1269 01:25:09,248 --> 01:25:11,614 What you want to do is appropriate woman. 1270 01:25:11,722 --> 01:25:14,146 You want to appropriate womanhood and turn it 1271 01:25:14,170 --> 01:25:16,594 into basically a costume that could be worn. 1272 01:25:16,702 --> 01:25:18,486 Joining us on stage is doctor 1273 01:25:18,548 --> 01:25:22,126 Susie Denbo, associate professor at Kent State University. 1274 01:25:22,198 --> 01:25:26,267 Doctor Denbo, how do you feel those who oppose using pronouns are 1275 01:25:26,291 --> 01:25:30,359 taking the wrong approach in this conversation? 1276 01:25:30,383 --> 01:25:34,541 There's the extreme approach that you are admittedly taking, and then there's also just 1277 01:25:34,565 --> 01:25:39,102 ordinary people that might not be comfortable with the language change. 1278 01:25:39,176 --> 01:25:41,386 She began by saying that my view is extreme. 1279 01:25:41,458 --> 01:25:41,658 Okay. 1280 01:25:41,684 --> 01:25:44,079 So the view that every single person on Earth 1281 01:25:44,103 --> 01:25:46,498 has held up until 15 seconds ago is extreme. 1282 01:25:46,594 --> 01:25:49,912 They are conflating gender and sex because on one hand, they say, well, you 1283 01:25:49,936 --> 01:25:53,254 got your biological sex, but then your gender is whatever social construct. 1284 01:25:53,362 --> 01:25:56,346 But then they turn around and say that trans women are women. 1285 01:25:56,528 --> 01:25:59,304 So a man who identifies with the gender, the 1286 01:25:59,328 --> 01:26:02,557 social construct of womanhood actually is a woman 1287 01:26:02,581 --> 01:26:05,518 part of me wants to ask why you care so much, 1288 01:26:05,542 --> 01:26:08,480 because it's really not that big of a deal. 1289 01:26:09,770 --> 01:26:11,158 I care about the truth. 1290 01:26:11,314 --> 01:26:12,682 So basic truth matters. 1291 01:26:12,706 --> 01:26:14,722 I want to live in a society where people care about the truth. 1292 01:26:14,806 --> 01:26:18,968 I care about children, and these insane ideas about gender 1293 01:26:18,992 --> 01:26:23,154 are being foisted on kids, and that bothers me quite a bit. 1294 01:26:23,252 --> 01:26:26,790 I care about the women who are having their opportunities stolen from them. 1295 01:26:26,840 --> 01:26:27,618 I care quite a bit. 1296 01:26:27,644 --> 01:26:27,870 Yeah. 1297 01:26:27,920 --> 01:26:32,646 I wanted us to have a safe place to be able to talk about this. 1298 01:26:32,708 --> 01:26:36,112 And it seems like we should just keep the dialogue 1299 01:26:36,136 --> 01:26:39,330 going and hopefully find some middle ground. 1300 01:27:17,650 --> 01:27:21,108 What do you say to parents? A parent comes to you and 1301 01:27:21,132 --> 01:27:24,590 says, My eight year old son is telling me he's a girl. 1302 01:27:24,760 --> 01:27:29,289 Great, you're going to have him do an experimental procedure that creates the most 1303 01:27:29,313 --> 01:27:33,786 suicidal ideation of any other population seven to ten years after transition. 1304 01:27:33,918 --> 01:27:35,790 And here's what I tell parents. 1305 01:27:35,970 --> 01:27:42,746 You don't have the right to medically transition your child. 1306 01:27:42,868 --> 01:27:47,102 We have no research on long term hormone use. 1307 01:27:47,176 --> 01:27:51,206 We will be seeing the first generation of long term hormone use. 1308 01:27:51,388 --> 01:27:53,877 And we already know, at least with ten years 1309 01:27:53,901 --> 01:27:56,390 of hormones, you're giving yourself cancer. 1310 01:27:57,310 --> 01:27:59,749 What's your message to parents who are trying to cope with this? 1311 01:27:59,773 --> 01:28:02,598 The first thing is to tell parents that they're not alone. 1312 01:28:02,694 --> 01:28:06,518 It is our responsibility as a parent to be the front line defense for our children. 1313 01:28:06,604 --> 01:28:09,191 And I know with my child, a lot of people will say, 1314 01:28:09,215 --> 01:28:11,801 Was it worth it because you now seemingly have lost 1315 01:28:11,825 --> 01:28:14,490 your child? And I'll say, yeah, but at least I saved 1316 01:28:14,514 --> 01:28:17,022 my conscience and my morals and my convictions. 1317 01:28:17,106 --> 01:28:21,254 And when my child turns 25 and says, dad, where were you? I'll say, I was there. 1318 01:28:21,292 --> 01:28:22,754 I was fighting as hard as I could. 1319 01:28:22,792 --> 01:28:24,760 I was not prepared to let this happen. 1320 01:28:32,910 --> 01:28:37,653 Does this really matters is another question, so... 1321 01:28:37,677 --> 01:28:42,250 Matters for those who are getting double mastectomies when they're 16. 1322 01:28:42,630 --> 01:28:45,378 Why should we care if we live in a society where 1323 01:28:45,402 --> 01:28:48,620 gender is? Well, I care because my government decided 1324 01:28:48,644 --> 01:28:51,539 that I had to call people by the terms that they 1325 01:28:51,563 --> 01:28:54,458 designated or I'd be subject to legal penalties. 1326 01:28:54,614 --> 01:28:58,740 It's like, no, I'm not doing that. 1327 01:28:59,490 --> 01:29:01,380 I don't care what your reason is. 1328 01:29:01,950 --> 01:29:03,962 You don't get control of my tongue. 1329 01:29:04,106 --> 01:29:08,970 We live in a climate now in which no one seems to care about the safety of women and 1330 01:29:08,994 --> 01:29:13,858 girls who are going through a very developmentally challenging time in their lives. 1331 01:29:14,004 --> 01:29:16,994 They may not want to share spaces with their male peers. 1332 01:29:17,102 --> 01:29:18,038 I would not be surprised. 1333 01:29:18,074 --> 01:29:21,566 In a few years, there will no longer be women's sports. 1334 01:29:21,698 --> 01:29:25,550 It will literally be men's sports and transgender sports. 1335 01:29:25,670 --> 01:29:29,086 The question being asked by the trans person is a legitimate one. 1336 01:29:29,148 --> 01:29:33,625 How can I be happy? The answer being given by having my body transformed 1337 01:29:33,649 --> 01:29:38,125 to look like the other gender, by having myself pumped full of hormones 1338 01:29:38,149 --> 01:29:42,626 clearly isn't working, and we have to find a better and the more humane 1339 01:29:42,650 --> 01:29:47,126 way of dealing with individuals who are struggling with gender dysphoria. 1340 01:29:47,258 --> 01:29:54,146 I have the utmost compassion for people who suffer from gender dysphoria. 1341 01:29:54,218 --> 01:29:57,782 It's a nightmare for them and their families. 1342 01:29:57,926 --> 01:30:01,342 The vast majority, up to 90% of kids. 1343 01:30:01,416 --> 01:30:05,278 If they go through a normal puberty, they're going to be okay. 1344 01:30:05,424 --> 01:30:09,728 They will be at peace with their bodies, and they will have avoided 1345 01:30:09,752 --> 01:30:13,990 dangerous and experimental medical interventions and surgeries. 1346 01:30:14,550 --> 01:30:18,273 Maybe we're up against a battle here, up against a hill 1347 01:30:18,297 --> 01:30:22,020 that perhaps we're not going to necessarily win today. 1348 01:30:22,410 --> 01:30:26,700 But if we don't pave the way for a win, we'll never get there. 1349 01:30:29,110 --> 01:30:30,770 So we're going on this journey. 1350 01:30:31,510 --> 01:30:32,478 Boys can be girls. 1351 01:30:32,514 --> 01:30:33,606 Girls can be boys. 1352 01:30:33,738 --> 01:30:34,514 Men can be women. 1353 01:30:34,552 --> 01:30:35,620 Women can be men. 1354 01:30:35,950 --> 01:30:41,604 It makes me wonder, what is a woman? What is a woman? A woman is someone 1355 01:30:41,628 --> 01:30:47,282 who claims that as their identity, it could be many things to many people. 1356 01:30:47,416 --> 01:30:54,693 I think the question really brings up the fact that it is pretty relative, right? That if you ask 1357 01:30:54,717 --> 01:30:58,611 women across race, across identities, across class, 1358 01:30:58,635 --> 01:31:02,450 across culture, you will get a different answer. 1359 01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:06,738 Some of it is based on biology, some of it is based on hormones. 1360 01:31:06,774 --> 01:31:11,282 Some of it is based on what you wear and how you present yourself. 1361 01:31:11,416 --> 01:31:13,202 A woman is not anything in particular. 1362 01:31:13,336 --> 01:31:14,894 There's no one particular thing. 1363 01:31:14,992 --> 01:31:16,898 There is not one particular thing. 1364 01:31:17,044 --> 01:31:22,062 A woman is someone who says that she is a woman and transitions to be a woman. 1365 01:31:22,086 --> 01:31:28,703 Who says that she's what? Can you define the word woman without 1366 01:31:28,727 --> 01:31:41,200 using the word woman? Well that's actually kind of like, it's a curious question, um, but I... 1367 01:31:43,350 --> 01:31:45,624 We've been journeying across the country asking 1368 01:31:45,648 --> 01:31:48,420 people this question, and almost nobody can answer it. 1369 01:31:49,710 --> 01:31:53,220 What is a woman? What is a woman? Marry one and find out. 1370 01:31:55,110 --> 01:31:56,998 So I should go home and ask my wife, I guess. 1371 01:31:57,084 --> 01:31:57,720 Yeah. 1372 01:32:08,590 --> 01:32:11,020 I mean, to ask you something. 1373 01:33:06,690 --> 01:33:11,657 Can you provide a definition for the word woman? 1374 01:33:11,681 --> 01:33:16,330 Can I provide a definition? Yeah, I can't. 1375 01:33:16,650 --> 01:33:21,602 You can't? Not in this context. 1376 01:33:21,686 --> 01:33:24,999 I'm not a biologist... So meaning of the word woman is so unclear 1377 01:33:25,023 --> 01:33:28,810 and controversial that you can't give me a definition? 1378 01:33:29,190 --> 01:33:36,314 Senator, in my work as a judge, what I do is I address disputes. 1379 01:33:36,422 --> 01:33:42,116 If there's a dispute about a definition, people make arguments and I 1380 01:33:42,140 --> 01:33:48,261 look at the law and I decide so I'm not... The fact that you can't give me a straight 1381 01:33:48,285 --> 01:33:54,490 answer about something as fundamental as what a woman is underscores the 1382 01:33:54,514 --> 01:34:00,720 dangers of the kind of progressive education that we are hearing about. 1383 01:34:01,110 --> 01:34:05,031 Just last week, an entire generation of young 1384 01:34:05,055 --> 01:34:09,513 girls watched as our taxpayer funded institutions 1385 01:34:09,537 --> 01:34:13,853 permitted a biological man to compete and beat a 1386 01:34:13,877 --> 01:34:18,746 biological woman in the NCAA swimming Championships. 1387 01:34:30,330 --> 01:34:30,842 Senator. 1388 01:34:30,866 --> 01:34:33,806 I'm not sure what message that sends. 1389 01:34:33,938 --> 01:34:37,200 If you're asking me about the legal issues related to it. 1390 01:34:38,610 --> 01:34:42,218 Those are topics that are being hotly discussed. 1391 01:34:42,254 --> 01:34:44,870 As you say, you could come to the court.126209

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