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- Hi.
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- Hi.
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Would you like some tea?
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- Sure. Thanks.
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How's college going?
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- Fine, thanks.
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And you?
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Work?
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Uh, yeah. Good.
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Busy.
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Do you take milk?
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Shall we sit?
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Thanks for coming.
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I've-- I've been wondering
what you've been thinking.
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Like, is there something
you want out of this?
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- Um--
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I don't really think
I've been thinking about it like that.
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I, um--
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There's no... plan,
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if that's what you mean.
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- Right. Yeah, that's what Nick said,
but I wanted to hear it from you.
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Nick likes to tell people
what they want to hear.
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- Does he?
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- That's not your experience of him?
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Right. You want to keep it
between the two of you.
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Um, is it difficult for you that I know?
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- A little.
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- You know, I did this to him.
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He was depressed and--
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I dealt with that
by having an affair with his best friend.
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So, maybe I don't have the right
to feel so betrayed.
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He wouldn't have been able
to fuck any of my friends.
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That would have been
terrifying for him, but--
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him fucking a 21-year-old behind my back
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has definitely caused some pain.
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Do you-- Do you understand
why I feel so betrayed, Frances?
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- Of course. Yeah.
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- I feel like I encouraged a friendship
between the two of you.
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And then you started fucking.
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And I can't even fight with him.
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It's like he's pathologically passive.
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Lately, I've gotten so used to
thinking of him as... as pathetic.
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I didn't even know he had this in him.
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- Yeah, I'm not really sure why I'm here.
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What do you want me to say to that?
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- Nick and I are talking again, properly.
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I've realized that
I don't want to leave him.
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And he has said
that he doesn't want to leave me.
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But I'm not asking him
to stop seeing you either.
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He... says he loves you.
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And, um, and I don't know--
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I don't know if he still loves me,
which is, uh--
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But things are better between us now.
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Um, things have been better.
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He's happier.
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And, um, presumably...
you are the cause of that.
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And that, that is always what I said
I wanted, his happiness.
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And now, um,
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now I know that's true.
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So... I'd like to figure out a way
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to make it work between us.
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Three of us.
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I don't know.
Maybe we could all have dinner.
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I'll invite Bobbi.
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- Okay.
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- Okay.
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Okay. Hit me.
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- Um--
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It was weird.
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I mean, it felt like-- I don't know.
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She really wanted me to know
that she'd had an affair first.
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Like... this was just some,
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like, "revenge" thing between them
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and... that she's
permitting us to be together.
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- Okay. But what'd she actually say?
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- That I made him better.
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And that she wanted
to find a way to make it work.
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- Well, I mean,
that's incredibly generous.
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- Yeah, no, I know it is.
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But it felt... hostile.
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- Well, obviously it felt hostile.
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You're sleeping with her husband.
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- Yeah.
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But if she's saying
she wants to make it work,
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especially when it hurts her,
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it's kind of amazing, right?
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- Yeah.
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No, yeah. Yeah, you're right.
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Anyway, she wants us all to have dinner.
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You too.
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- Great. Can't wait.
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I'd love to help you all figure out
your very complicated feelings.
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- Sorry.
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NICK
So it went okay.
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- I think so.
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Thank you for talking to her.
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I know this is strange.
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How is she?
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She's... okay.
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She's trying.
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So this is still an affair?
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Um, maybe.
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God, I don't really know.
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- Hi, Bobbi.
- Hello, you.
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- It's good to see you. Hi.
You too.
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- Hey, how are you?
- Bobbi.
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- Nicholas.
- Hey.
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- Wine.
- Thank you.
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- Mm-hmm.
- Hey.
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- Um, should we, uh, have drinks?
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- Yeah.
Yes, please.
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Smells delicious.
- Thank you.
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We had a lot of menu discussions.
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This is uncharted territory.
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- Certainly is.
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Um--
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- Oh, okay.
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Uh, Bobbi, you can sit next to me.
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- Cool.
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- Uh, Frances and Nick over there.
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Does everyone have their wine glasses?
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- Yes.
Yeah.
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- Who wants to say grace?
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Thanks. I tried.
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- You did.
Yeah.
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- Do your homework.
That's cute.
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Of course not, but I will get it done.
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- How is college going?
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Thank you.
- My final year, I was so stressed.
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- Yeah, it is intense.
- Yeah.
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- Think all of university
was too intense for me.
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- Well, that's because you were
sleeping with one of your teachers.
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- You slept with your tutor?
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- Um, yeah. My professor.
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Shit.
- Was she old?
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- Frances.
- What?
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Forty-five. Is that old?
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- When you're 19, it is.
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Jesus, Nick.
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- So what happened?
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- Nothing, really.
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And I struggled to end it.
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She was pretty certain
at carrying on, I guess.
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Wow.
That's pretty wild.
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I don't know what's happening.
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You used to be good at this, Nick.
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- I'm gone.
- You are shit.
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- Bobbi, I'm impressed.
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- Not as a person. It's a game.
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- I don't understand.
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- Are you writing, Frances?
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Oh, yeah.
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- Kind of. Not really.
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- I'm working on this thing about my dad.
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- Oh.
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He died two years ago, and I don't know,
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suddenly he's all I want to write about.
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You getting angry?
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- He was an alcoholic.
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Nick told me that your dad is too.
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- Shoot. Shoot.
- I'm trying.
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I'm trying.
Okay.
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- It's interesting.
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- No!
- No!
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Mm. Just killed your husband, innit?
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- This feels weird.
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- I know.
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- I don't know why she'd want to do this.
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It's not easy for anyone.
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DENNIS
Hello. This is Dennis Flynn.
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I can't take your call right--
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- Morning.
Morning.
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Tea?
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- Sorry. Uh, yes, please.
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Frances Flynn?
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- Um, do you need
anything else from me or--
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No, you're fine.
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Once the results are in, we'll be in touch
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to confirm your appointment
with the consultant.
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- Okay. Thank you.
- Okay?
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Saw my sister and Rachel today.
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How was that?
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She always makes my day.
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- Is it weird to be jealous of a baby?
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- Maybe.
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- Would you still find me
attractive if I was pregnant?
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Hmm.
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Yeah, I think so.
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Maybe even more attractive.
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- In a fetishistic way?
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- No.
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- Guess I'm more aware of pregnant women
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than I was ten years ago.
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I feel like I can imagine myself
doing nice things for them.
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- It's definitely a fetish.
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- I mean, more like cooking them meals.
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- Okay.
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But, yeah--
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If you were pregnant,
I'd still find you very attractive.
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- I love you.
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- I love you.
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- I'm gonna get lunch. Wanna come?
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- I've made something at home.
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- You still broke?
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I'll pay.
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- Thanks. I'm fine.
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- Okay.
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See ya.
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What's the magazine?
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- The Stinging Fly.
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- It's brilliant.
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- It's the first short story
I've ever written.
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- That's wildly intimidating.
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- Well, the editor
has some revisions
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or, like, suggestions, but--
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I'm getting paid, Nick.
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An advance, like my own money.
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Fucking published.
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Here you go.
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Thanks.
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What's it about?
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- Um--
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It's kind of about Bobbi.
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- Like explicitly or--
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- Um, pretty much, yeah.
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Have you told her?
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- Not yet.
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- Will she be flattered?
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- I don't know.
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I mean, it's about our breakup, so.
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- You should tell her.
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- Yeah, I will.
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Good.
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You have one new voice message.
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DENNIS
Frances.
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I just wanna tell you that, um--
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I can't--
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I can't--
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I can't do this anymore.
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Frances!
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The mobile customer you are calling
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is not accessible at the moment.
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Please--
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PAULA
Hi, Frances.
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- Mom. Hi.
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You okay?
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- Yeah. Um, just, Dad, um--
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I had a really weird voice mail
from him there.
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When?
- Uh, yesterday.
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I only listened to it now, um--
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He sounded bad.
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- I'll call you back.
- Okay.
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Yeah, I don't think so, Olivia.
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Hey.
- Hey.
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They're both just really stressed.
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It's not fair, though.
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No, Dad should really stay
somewhere else for now.
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He's suffering.
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- Mum?
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PAULA
Your uncle's with him.
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He's fine.
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What happened?
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It just got to be a bit too much for him.
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And, you know, he's not well, Frances.
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I'm not gonna lie to you, but he's safe.
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- Should I call him?
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I-I think leave it for now, sweetheart.
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He's being looked after.
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- Okay.
271
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Is it just the drinking?
272
00:20:47,243 --> 00:20:50,403
I don't know,
but the main thing is he's-he's alright.
273
00:20:51,443 --> 00:20:52,523
Alright.
274
00:20:53,803 --> 00:20:55,643
I'm just sorry
you had to hear him like that.
275
00:20:57,123 --> 00:21:00,003
Well, I'll call you
if there's any updates, okay?
276
00:21:00,003 --> 00:21:02,683
- Okay.
- Mind yourself.
277
00:21:02,683 --> 00:21:03,683
Bye.
278
00:21:08,803 --> 00:21:10,283
Morning.
279
00:21:10,283 --> 00:21:12,003
- Hey. There's coffee.
280
00:21:12,003 --> 00:21:13,163
Thank you.
281
00:21:15,163 --> 00:21:16,563
- Did you sleep okay?
282
00:21:16,563 --> 00:21:18,323
- Uh, not good.
283
00:21:19,163 --> 00:21:21,043
I was up late being my dad's therapist.
284
00:21:23,483 --> 00:21:24,603
Alright.
285
00:21:25,443 --> 00:21:26,443
- Bye.
286
00:21:27,523 --> 00:21:28,523
Later.
287
00:21:32,163 --> 00:21:34,363
- So how's it going with you guys?
288
00:21:35,203 --> 00:21:37,483
- Uh... it's-- Yeah, it's going great.
289
00:21:37,923 --> 00:21:39,483
Go on.
290
00:21:40,043 --> 00:21:41,083
- What's her name again?
291
00:21:41,763 --> 00:21:44,203
- You remember her name, Bobbi.
- I really don't.
292
00:21:44,203 --> 00:21:45,723
It's Camille.
293
00:21:45,723 --> 00:21:47,003
- Got it. Camille.
294
00:21:47,003 --> 00:21:48,803
- Are you officially a couple or--
295
00:21:48,803 --> 00:21:50,443
Oh, my God.
- What?
296
00:21:50,443 --> 00:21:51,563
- "Officially a couple"?
297
00:21:51,563 --> 00:21:53,083
- It's a legitimate question.
298
00:21:53,083 --> 00:21:54,123
- What year is it?
299
00:21:54,123 --> 00:21:56,323
Are we seriously talking
about relationships like this?
300
00:21:57,323 --> 00:21:58,643
Hi.
- Hi.
301
00:22:00,203 --> 00:22:01,363
- Hi, Camille.
302
00:22:01,363 --> 00:22:02,803
- Hi, Bobbi.
303
00:22:03,803 --> 00:22:05,763
Aideen needs to know,
304
00:22:05,763 --> 00:22:07,083
are you and Philip exclusive?
305
00:22:07,083 --> 00:22:09,283
Oh, my God.
306
00:22:09,803 --> 00:22:11,563
- Is that a trick question?
307
00:22:11,563 --> 00:22:14,163
Bobbi.
- Are you and Andrew monogamous?
308
00:22:14,163 --> 00:22:15,243
Yes, we are.
309
00:22:15,243 --> 00:22:17,123
And I'm really happy with that.
310
00:22:17,123 --> 00:22:18,403
- That's good to know.
311
00:22:19,123 --> 00:22:22,603
- No, I-I do think that some people
are naturally non-monogamous, though.
312
00:22:22,603 --> 00:22:25,723
- No sexual orientation
is natural or unnatural.
313
00:22:25,723 --> 00:22:30,083
Monogamy is designed to serve
the needs of men and patrilineal societies
314
00:22:30,083 --> 00:22:32,683
to make sure they can pass off property
to their genetic offspring.
315
00:22:32,683 --> 00:22:35,723
- Alright. Thanks for clearing that up.
316
00:22:35,723 --> 00:22:38,643
- Non-monogamy could be based
on a completely different model.
317
00:22:39,123 --> 00:22:40,323
- Like?
318
00:22:41,323 --> 00:22:43,683
- Spontaneous consent.
- Yes!
319
00:22:43,683 --> 00:22:45,803
- Right. And what is that
in the real world?
320
00:22:45,803 --> 00:22:47,603
- Okay, patriarchy aside,
321
00:22:47,603 --> 00:22:50,763
I do think that some people
just prefer to be with one person.
322
00:22:50,763 --> 00:22:52,523
- Great. So they're both legitimate.
323
00:22:52,523 --> 00:22:55,203
- Yeah, but monogamy
has somehow become the default.
324
00:22:55,203 --> 00:22:59,923
Commitment should be based on
desire and choice and honesty.
325
00:22:59,923 --> 00:23:01,763
Okay, but if we just put
326
00:23:01,763 --> 00:23:03,963
theory aside for a second,
327
00:23:03,963 --> 00:23:06,563
I just don't think it's really possible
to love more than one person.
328
00:23:06,563 --> 00:23:07,683
You know?
329
00:23:07,683 --> 00:23:10,683
Like, with all your heart,
to really love them.
330
00:23:11,523 --> 00:23:14,163
- I'm just trying to figure out
if you were your parents' favorite child
331
00:23:14,163 --> 00:23:15,883
or least favorite child.
332
00:23:15,883 --> 00:23:17,483
Both can be taxing.
333
00:23:19,243 --> 00:23:21,003
- I'm an only child.
- Hmm.
334
00:23:21,003 --> 00:23:22,763
- They couldn't have had any more.
335
00:23:22,763 --> 00:23:24,643
There wasn't room in their hearts.
336
00:23:24,643 --> 00:23:26,683
It's not really the same
with children, though, is it?
337
00:23:27,163 --> 00:23:29,283
- No. Obviously not.
338
00:23:29,283 --> 00:23:33,003
- Well, that depends whether you believe
in some trans historic
339
00:23:33,003 --> 00:23:36,043
and culturally consistent
concept of romantic love.
340
00:23:39,723 --> 00:23:41,803
I guess we all believe
in silly things, don't we?
341
00:23:49,763 --> 00:23:51,923
I liked your "spontaneous content."
342
00:23:57,123 --> 00:23:59,563
- You shouldn't punch down, Bobbi,
it's not nice.
343
00:24:02,163 --> 00:24:04,483
- I think they'll be very happy together.
344
00:24:14,043 --> 00:24:15,563
I feel like shit.
345
00:24:18,723 --> 00:24:20,323
Just all this stuff at home.
346
00:24:22,163 --> 00:24:23,883
My dad is--
347
00:24:27,403 --> 00:24:29,163
so upset.
348
00:24:31,963 --> 00:24:32,963
- Bobbi.
349
00:24:33,883 --> 00:24:36,603
- You think you're the kind of person
that can deal with something
350
00:24:36,603 --> 00:24:39,083
and then it happens and you realize
351
00:24:40,283 --> 00:24:42,323
you aren't actually.
352
00:24:45,283 --> 00:24:46,443
What's he doing?
353
00:24:47,323 --> 00:24:49,083
- It's not just him, but--
354
00:24:50,443 --> 00:24:52,723
he's not really handling the divorce.
355
00:24:55,243 --> 00:24:57,483
And he's trying to play us
against each other.
356
00:24:59,083 --> 00:25:00,083
Oh.
357
00:25:04,003 --> 00:25:06,323
- I think Mom's just gonna
go back to the States.
358
00:25:09,563 --> 00:25:12,523
And I'll be here... with him.
359
00:25:17,283 --> 00:25:19,643
- I didn't know you were
going through all this.
360
00:25:23,643 --> 00:25:26,083
- Everyone's always
going through something, aren't they?
361
00:25:27,843 --> 00:25:29,723
Just life, basically.
362
00:25:30,963 --> 00:25:33,403
Just more and more stuff to go through.
363
00:25:35,363 --> 00:25:37,243
You have all that shit going on
with your dad
364
00:25:37,243 --> 00:25:38,723
that you never talk about.
365
00:25:41,363 --> 00:25:43,163
Nobody's going through nothing.
366
00:25:49,323 --> 00:25:50,523
Sorry.
367
00:25:52,963 --> 00:25:54,803
I didn't mean to be such a dick in there.
368
00:25:59,043 --> 00:26:00,763
- You don't need to apologize.
369
00:26:05,723 --> 00:26:06,723
- I know.
370
00:26:54,483 --> 00:26:55,923
Should we go back upstairs?
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