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[happy music]
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- Grady, Grady.
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There you are.
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Hey, mail these to the
Holy City Heartbreakers.
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Better get a move on.
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[happy music]
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- Grady.
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- Oh hey Andre.
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- You still driving Coley?
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- More like she's driving me.
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- You wouldn't be the first.
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- Nope.
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- Hello.
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Whoa.
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Sorry, I didn't mean
to startle you.
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Not used to seeing you
here on Tuesdays.
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Everything alright?
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- Oh, yes, no,
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I mean I should be
sitting here praying
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but I'm just thinking.
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Pastor Rodney, would you
have a minute to talk?
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- Of course.
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Let me sit over here
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and you tell me what's
on your mind.
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- Every year my college
sorority has a reunion.
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- Okay.
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Holy City Heartbreakers,
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hoo, sounds more like a roller
derby team than a sorority.
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- Well, that's just what
we called ourselves.
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Charleston is the holy city
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and we weren't a sorority,
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we were just a bunch of
girls who hung out together.
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- Says here you were
the cougars, too.
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- That is the College
of Charleston's mascot.
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- The famous fighting cougars.
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This sounds like it's gonna
be one heck of a weekend.
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- Stop it, seriously.
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Last year, I decided I
was never gonna go again.
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They all just act like a
bunch of silly teenagers
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and make me feel like
I don't fit in
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and when I try to talk
about my faith,
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it's like, well, like you
Italians say, forget about it.
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- I guess that's what
the Italians would say
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but my family is Portuguese
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but please go on.
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- Oh no.
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Well they just make fun of me,
harass me,
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bring up stories from the past.
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- Well, I don't think God
expects you to go anywhere
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where you feel foolish
and don't fit in.
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- True.
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But then there's Gracie.
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You would love Gracie.
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She just recently
became a Christian.
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She's the sweetest little thing,
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mother to three girls.
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I can't let an innocent
sheep like that
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go to the wolves by herself.
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I mean, not that my
friends are wolves,
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well Coley maybe,
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well she's just crazy fun
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but she has a drinking problem
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and it's destroyed
most of her life.
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- I know what that's like.
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Often happens to people
who drink obsessively.
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- Yeah and everybody sees
it but nobody says anything.
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They just egg her on.
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It's like, Patrice just
makes it worse
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which is so crazy
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because when Patrice
isn't with us,
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she's a totally
different person.
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She's very politically
active and she's a poet
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and she thinks that white
men have suppressed society
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and Coley thinks men
make the world go round.
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- Well don't we?
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- Hardly.
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And then there's Glen.
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- Glen, okay well whoa wait,
let's slow down here a second.
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So there's Glen, so you've
got a guy in a sorority too?
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- No, Glen is a woman.
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She's incredible.
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She does more for people
than most Christians I know
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but she thinks that
doing good deeds
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is what puts you into heaven.
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- I wonder where she read that.
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Let me ask you a question.
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When you were in college,
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were you a Christian?
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- Well I was raised
in the church
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but I didn't feel a
personal connection
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and then when I got to college
temptation was everywhere
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and I fell in with the
wrong crowd, drinking,
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things I'm not proud of
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but by the time my senior
year came around
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I got involved with
Campus Crusade for Christ
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and I've been walking
with the Lord ever since.
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- You have an amazing testimony,
you do
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and you know what I think?
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I think you've already made
up your mind about going.
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- I have?
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- I think you have
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and I know finances are tight.
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You got a babysitter
for the weekend?
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- But I'll find one.
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- Boy, you know I sure could
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use two more helping
hands around here.
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- You mean the same
helping hands
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that set off the fire
extinguisher
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in the prayer meeting last week?
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- You'd be doing me a favor.
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I've got to visit my nieces
and nephews in a couple weeks,
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I need the practice.
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- Are you sure?
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- Yeah, absolutely.
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- Pastor Rodney, thank
goodness I found you,
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Emily Campbell's on the phone,
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her mother's taken a turn
for the worse.
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Family'd like to speak with you.
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- Okay, excuse me.
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I'll pray for you.
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So make arrangements
for the boys.
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- Arrangements, the boys?
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- Yeah, Sara's boys.
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- Her boys?
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- I'll be watching 'em
for the weekend.
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- Oh bless your heart, pastor.
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Isn't that nice?
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[happy music]
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- You love Pastor Hot Rod,
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you love Pastor Heart Rod,
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you love Pastor Heart!
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- Quit it, please.
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- You are worse than my
husband and kids together.
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- Oh, but not worse
than Sara's kids.
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I'm just dying to know
how that's going.
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I could just see those boys now
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chasing that pastor around
with frogs and snakes.
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- It's going just fine,
thank you very much,
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my kids adore him.
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He is a man after god's
own heart and mine.
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- Men are only after one thing
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and it's not your heart.
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Where is my drink?
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- Get your lazy behind
up and help me.
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- [Patrice] I'm not the maid
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and besides my behind
is not as big as yours.
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- [Coley] It is too.
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- [Patrice] What am I saying,
yes it is?
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- Honey, you're the one
that has a big butt.
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- You have been on that
phone all morning.
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What is going on?
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- Oh, I have to make a call.
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- What is going on?
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- We're remodeling the
women's shelter
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and it's fundraising issues
with the city non-stop.
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- I don't know how you do it.
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- Oh well, it's a joy.
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- Hey,
congratulations on your son.
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I hear he's gonna be
serving our country.
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That is so brave of him.
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Have you been praying
for his safety?
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- I'm gonna make that call.
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- I shouldn't have said
anything about praying.
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I blew it.
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- No, it's okay.
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She really did have to
make the call.
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You didn't blow anything.
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- Hey, what's up with her?
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- Nothing happens in this
town that I don't know about
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and I know all about it.
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- Well, you better not
be holding out on me.
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I'm the only one here
who likes you.
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- What are you talking about?
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Sara and Gracie love me.
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- Ptth, they're Christians,
they don't know any better,
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they love everybody.
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- And Glen adores me.
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- Glen adores the money
that you give
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to the women's shelter.
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- Well, what's wrong with that?
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I pride myself on having the
kind of friends money can buy.
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- Oh come on, don't go
playing the fool.
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- I may be a fool
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but I'm the only fool
that read your last book.
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A book of poems.
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You didn't even bother
to rhyme half of them.
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Where is that thing?
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- You try reading my book
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with that fake sugary accent.
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- Oh no, let go, let go.
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- Let it go.
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- I'll let it go, just
let go of my hair.
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- I'll let go of your
hair, you put it down.
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Now you tell me about Glen.
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- Well I was going to
till you pulled my hair.
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- Hey.
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- Hey, Glen, come on in
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and you want to look at
Patrice's new
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exciting book of poems?
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- Oh great, now you're
giving my party gift away.
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- Oh it's alright, I've
already read it.
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I keep up on all of you.
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- [Gracie] These homes
are so beautiful.
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- [Sara] I know.
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- [Gracie] Where do people
get so much money from?
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- Maybe they all have rich
ex-husbands like Coley.
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- Speaking of which,
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you don't have to talk
about it if you don't want.
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Have you heard from Scott?
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- Once.
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I blame myself, you know.
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I keep thinking maybe if
I'd been a better Christian.
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I mean at the beginning
of our marriage,
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he would come to church with me
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and then it was like as
my faith got stronger,
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he got more angry.
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He'd throw things around
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and accuse me of being
a holy roller.
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He said when I wanted
to home school the boys
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that was the last straw but
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then I found out he'd
been having an affair
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the whole time.
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- Ugh.
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- Um...
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- I'm so sorry.
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- Maybe I wasn't good enough,
you know, at anything?
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He'd stay awake all night
on the computer
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and I'd be alone in the bed.
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I'm so lonely.
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I still pray for him,
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I'm trying not to be too bitter.
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It's hard seeing the boys
grow up without a dad.
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- What about Pastor Rodney?
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He would make a great dad.
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- No preacher's gonna marry
a divorced woman, come on.
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But still there's some
times when I,
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I look into his eyes and I
think he feels the same way I do
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but then nothing happens.
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- Hello, what do you mean
nothing happens?
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He's watching your boys
for the weekend.
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I don't know, I think
something good might happen.
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- Oh Gracie, you're so
cute but you're so naive.
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- Patrice, I wanted
to talk to you
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about doing a poetry reading
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at the woman's
shelter fundraiser.
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It is the biggest event
that keeps our doors open
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and your poetry, Patrice,
it is powerful.
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- You hear that, finally
a voice of reason.
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- And I guess it was
real reasonable
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nearly yanking the hair
right out my head.
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- I always thought it
was a weave.
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- Okay, y'all are giving
me a headache.
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I'm going upstairs,
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just talk amongst
yourselves while I'm gone.
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- [Gracie] Did I ever tell
you my dad had a problem?
258
00:14:40,053 --> 00:14:42,794
- I don't ever remember
you talking about your dad.
259
00:14:42,969 --> 00:14:44,840
Your mama never seemed
like the kind of woman
260
00:14:45,014 --> 00:14:46,494
who would be with a
man like that.
261
00:14:46,668 --> 00:14:48,757
She always seemed like
the perfect mother to me.
262
00:14:48,931 --> 00:14:50,237
We all loved her like
she was ours,
263
00:14:50,411 --> 00:14:52,282
asking her for advice.
264
00:14:52,456 --> 00:14:55,198
- Yeah, she's pretty
amazing alright.
265
00:14:56,547 --> 00:14:59,420
She just got mixed up
with the wrong guy.
266
00:14:59,594 --> 00:15:02,771
That's probably why she
never remarried.
267
00:15:02,945 --> 00:15:04,860
But I never knew my dad,
268
00:15:05,034 --> 00:15:07,558
I just remember waiting for him,
269
00:15:08,951 --> 00:15:13,086
waiting and waiting and
waiting on the doorstep.
270
00:15:16,045 --> 00:15:18,526
Years later, I would make up
stories about him to my friends
271
00:15:18,700 --> 00:15:21,094
like he was a military hero,
272
00:15:21,268 --> 00:15:23,400
away in some exotic place.
273
00:15:24,967 --> 00:15:28,536
- It must've been hard
growing up without a dad.
274
00:15:28,710 --> 00:15:32,322
- I always felt like there
was something missing in me
275
00:15:32,496 --> 00:15:36,022
and I kept thinking if
I find the right man,
276
00:15:36,979 --> 00:15:39,112
if I have perfect children,
277
00:15:39,286 --> 00:15:41,027
I kept thinking if I had
the right house,
278
00:15:41,201 --> 00:15:42,680
had the right cars,
279
00:15:42,854 --> 00:15:46,119
that that missing feeling
would just disappear
280
00:15:46,293 --> 00:15:47,729
but it never did.
281
00:15:49,644 --> 00:15:53,126
One day, I walked
past this mirror,
282
00:15:53,300 --> 00:15:56,129
that pretty gold one
in the hallway
283
00:15:57,695 --> 00:16:00,437
and I saw myself
holding the baby
284
00:16:03,223 --> 00:16:05,747
and I looked like a dead soul.
285
00:16:10,273 --> 00:16:12,493
I couldn't see my physical self
286
00:16:12,667 --> 00:16:15,148
just that condition of my soul.
287
00:16:19,674 --> 00:16:20,980
And it was scary.
288
00:16:26,028 --> 00:16:28,335
That's when I called you
289
00:16:28,509 --> 00:16:30,467
and you brought me back.
290
00:16:32,165 --> 00:16:35,995
- No, I am so glad you
felt like you could call me
291
00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,000
but I'm not the one who brought
you back and you know that.
292
00:16:41,174 --> 00:16:42,784
- I know.
293
00:16:42,958 --> 00:16:46,005
I feel like if Coley and
Patrice know about my new faith,
294
00:16:46,179 --> 00:16:47,528
they're gonna make fun of me.
295
00:16:47,702 --> 00:16:49,878
They already make fun
of my husband.
296
00:16:50,052 --> 00:16:51,488
I know he works a lot, I know,
297
00:16:51,662 --> 00:16:52,663
and he's demanding
298
00:16:52,837 --> 00:16:54,361
but he is an amazing father.
299
00:16:56,102 --> 00:17:00,845
He's the kind of father that
I always dreamed of having.
300
00:17:01,020 --> 00:17:01,629
- And now,
301
00:17:03,109 --> 00:17:06,634
now you know the love
of a heavenly father.
302
00:17:08,114 --> 00:17:09,811
He'll always come home.
303
00:17:11,552 --> 00:17:13,554
That's who you were waiting for
304
00:17:13,728 --> 00:17:16,470
on the steps when you
were little.
305
00:17:16,644 --> 00:17:19,473
That's who you were missing.
306
00:17:19,647 --> 00:17:23,085
That's that hole that you felt
like you could never fill.
307
00:17:23,259 --> 00:17:27,350
God has known you and loved
you before time, Gracie.
308
00:17:29,265 --> 00:17:32,094
He whispered your name
into your mother's ear
309
00:17:32,268 --> 00:17:35,184
and he called you Grace,
amazing Grace.
310
00:17:41,103 --> 00:17:42,583
- [Gracie] Thanks.
311
00:17:49,459 --> 00:17:52,114
[dog barking]
312
00:18:14,702 --> 00:18:15,703
- [Coley] Well this is something
313
00:18:15,877 --> 00:18:18,445
most people don't see every day.
314
00:18:19,837 --> 00:18:22,710
- I remember trying some of
these on back in college.
315
00:18:22,884 --> 00:18:24,973
- Behind my back, all y'all did.
316
00:18:25,147 --> 00:18:26,148
- Oh, Glen never did.
317
00:18:26,322 --> 00:18:29,499
- Let me show you how it's done.
318
00:18:29,673 --> 00:18:30,544
Yes.
319
00:18:31,806 --> 00:18:33,373
This is gonna be fun.
320
00:18:33,547 --> 00:18:35,418
Now, when are you going
321
00:18:37,203 --> 00:18:38,682
to get those two adorable
girls of yours
322
00:18:38,856 --> 00:18:42,295
started down the right path,
Gracie?
323
00:18:42,469 --> 00:18:44,079
Do you know where self
esteem comes from?
324
00:18:44,253 --> 00:18:45,776
- From within.
325
00:18:45,950 --> 00:18:47,648
- Don't be ridiculous,
that's a bunch of bunkie,
326
00:18:47,822 --> 00:18:50,085
it comes from achieving things
327
00:18:50,259 --> 00:18:52,000
and there's no better way
328
00:18:52,174 --> 00:18:55,743
to teach confidence
and poise to your girls
329
00:18:55,917 --> 00:18:58,006
than through pageants.
330
00:18:58,180 --> 00:19:01,009
- I've seen some of
those kid pageants on TV
331
00:19:01,183 --> 00:19:02,489
and they look like a
train wreck.
332
00:19:02,663 --> 00:19:05,144
- Okay and so do
gymnastic events
333
00:19:05,318 --> 00:19:08,059
and track meets and
football practice.
334
00:19:08,234 --> 00:19:09,670
Close.
335
00:19:09,844 --> 00:19:12,151
You just don't see the
fathers out there
336
00:19:12,325 --> 00:19:14,283
pushing their sons to
be number one
337
00:19:14,457 --> 00:19:17,504
or the mothers all
upset behind the scenes.
338
00:19:17,678 --> 00:19:20,115
Life is a competition.
339
00:19:20,289 --> 00:19:23,597
- I never understood the
bond between you two.
340
00:19:23,771 --> 00:19:27,688
You're so different when
she's not around.
341
00:19:27,862 --> 00:19:31,387
- When I first came to
the College of Charleston,
342
00:19:31,561 --> 00:19:32,388
I was lost.
343
00:19:33,433 --> 00:19:35,652
My home was far from there.
344
00:19:36,784 --> 00:19:38,699
And I walk into this door
345
00:19:38,873 --> 00:19:42,137
and there she is sitting
there all loud and blonde
346
00:19:42,311 --> 00:19:43,399
and I stop in my tracks
347
00:19:44,922 --> 00:19:47,751
and she's thinking, you look
like you just saw a ghost,
348
00:19:47,925 --> 00:19:49,057
honey, put your bags down
349
00:19:49,231 --> 00:19:50,493
and let's walk these halls
350
00:19:50,667 --> 00:19:52,234
and show these
schools who's boss
351
00:19:52,408 --> 00:19:55,237
and I looked at her like
she was crazy.
352
00:19:55,411 --> 00:19:57,196
But I put my bags down
353
00:19:57,370 --> 00:19:58,458
and off we went.
354
00:20:00,721 --> 00:20:03,332
That woman, she gave me a voice
355
00:20:03,506 --> 00:20:05,682
before I even thought I
knew I had one.
356
00:20:05,856 --> 00:20:08,207
- Well there is only one Coley.
357
00:20:08,381 --> 00:20:10,078
- That's for sure.
358
00:20:10,252 --> 00:20:12,559
- There's been some incidents,
359
00:20:12,733 --> 00:20:16,389
one or two, with Coley at
numerous events.
360
00:20:18,782 --> 00:20:20,306
- All you Charleston folk do
361
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:23,222
is just do your
little fundraisers
362
00:20:23,396 --> 00:20:25,224
and stab each other in the back.
363
00:20:25,398 --> 00:20:27,661
- Now I never say a
word about anyone ever.
364
00:20:27,835 --> 00:20:30,229
- Yes, I know because you're
old money mommy and daddy
365
00:20:30,403 --> 00:20:32,143
taught you better.
366
00:20:32,318 --> 00:20:36,235
- I only say this from one
Charleston heart to another.
367
00:20:36,409 --> 00:20:38,585
She doesn't go out anymore,
368
00:20:38,759 --> 00:20:40,413
she's become a recluse
369
00:20:40,587 --> 00:20:42,328
but she still sends a check,
370
00:20:42,502 --> 00:20:45,331
I guess as some form of apology.
371
00:20:46,288 --> 00:20:47,985
- Listen, it gives them
372
00:20:48,159 --> 00:20:51,598
what old money, back stabbing,
bony booty horse faces
373
00:20:53,948 --> 00:20:54,992
something to talk about,
374
00:20:55,166 --> 00:20:56,429
no offense to you, of course.
375
00:20:56,603 --> 00:20:58,082
- Oh, no offense taken,
my friend.
376
00:20:58,257 --> 00:20:59,258
- Good.
377
00:21:01,825 --> 00:21:03,479
- It's a wonderful thing
378
00:21:03,653 --> 00:21:06,439
for daughters and
mothers to share.
379
00:21:06,613 --> 00:21:08,658
I would rather put my
kids in a pageant
380
00:21:08,832 --> 00:21:10,660
than on some soccer field
381
00:21:10,834 --> 00:21:14,490
with some lunatic coaching and
molding their little minds.
382
00:21:15,361 --> 00:21:17,667
Besides, not every
child is cut out
383
00:21:17,841 --> 00:21:19,800
for academics or sports.
384
00:21:22,455 --> 00:21:24,631
- Never thought of it that way.
385
00:21:24,805 --> 00:21:27,155
- Well, think of it this way,
386
00:21:27,329 --> 00:21:29,113
if you had a champion
thoroughbred,
387
00:21:29,288 --> 00:21:32,247
would you stick it out in a
field with a bunch of donkeys?
388
00:21:32,421 --> 00:21:33,770
- Uh no I wouldn't,
389
00:21:36,599 --> 00:21:37,644
if I had a thoroughbred,
390
00:21:37,818 --> 00:21:39,298
I wouldn't stick it in a field
391
00:21:39,472 --> 00:21:40,821
with a bunch of donkeys.
392
00:21:40,995 --> 00:21:42,344
- Exactly, okay, well
there you go.
393
00:21:42,518 --> 00:21:44,912
Maybe you need to call
me more often.
394
00:21:45,086 --> 00:21:47,306
Don't get your head all
twisted around
395
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,438
with that Christian kool aid.
396
00:21:49,612 --> 00:21:51,658
I see you two talking.
397
00:21:51,832 --> 00:21:52,702
Now don't get me wrong,
398
00:21:52,876 --> 00:21:54,574
Sara is a wonderful girl,
399
00:21:54,748 --> 00:21:58,229
she's just got some
crazy ideas about life.
400
00:21:58,404 --> 00:22:00,231
I mean I believe Jesus is
the son of God
401
00:22:00,406 --> 00:22:02,277
and he came down from
heaven and all that stuff
402
00:22:02,451 --> 00:22:06,325
but you don't have to go
telling everybody about it.
403
00:22:06,499 --> 00:22:07,064
Look at you,
404
00:22:08,414 --> 00:22:10,851
you make a beautiful
pageant queen,
405
00:22:11,025 --> 00:22:13,332
almost as beautiful as me.
406
00:22:14,333 --> 00:22:15,159
Now I'm warning you,
407
00:22:15,334 --> 00:22:17,161
I'm not gonna stop
408
00:22:17,336 --> 00:22:19,512
until you get those adorable
girls of yours in the circuit.
409
00:22:19,686 --> 00:22:20,556
They'll win
everything they enter.
410
00:22:20,730 --> 00:22:22,602
- What if they lose?
411
00:22:22,776 --> 00:22:24,778
Then they'll feel awful.
412
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,043
- Well I wouldn't know,
I never lost.
413
00:22:30,653 --> 00:22:33,482
Now, let's you and
me go upstairs
414
00:22:33,656 --> 00:22:35,876
and be beauty queen winners.
415
00:22:36,050 --> 00:22:36,920
- Oh no.
416
00:22:37,094 --> 00:22:38,139
- Come on!
417
00:22:38,313 --> 00:22:39,009
- I have to go take a shower
418
00:22:39,183 --> 00:22:39,923
and take a nap.
419
00:22:40,097 --> 00:22:40,881
I'm really tired.
420
00:22:41,055 --> 00:22:42,361
- Oh Gracie,
421
00:22:42,535 --> 00:22:43,971
okay listen, don't be
a runner up,
422
00:22:44,145 --> 00:22:46,669
you are a real winner, you are.
423
00:22:51,065 --> 00:22:51,979
That a girl
424
00:23:22,444 --> 00:23:25,099
- Coley, again, I won't have it!
425
00:23:28,450 --> 00:23:29,930
- Angie, don't you think
this is a little harsh?
426
00:23:30,104 --> 00:23:31,627
She's just a child.
427
00:23:33,150 --> 00:23:36,937
- She has to learn that
second place is worthless.
428
00:23:37,111 --> 00:23:41,420
If you're not first place,
you're nothing, period.
429
00:23:45,032 --> 00:23:48,078
And you know what I'm
saying is true.
430
00:23:48,992 --> 00:23:50,690
- She's just a child.
431
00:23:52,518 --> 00:23:56,609
Give her a chance to grow
and follow her dreams.
432
00:23:56,783 --> 00:23:58,306
- She has her dreams
433
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:02,005
and she doesn't want to
settle for second place.
434
00:24:02,179 --> 00:24:04,312
She wants to win, be first,
435
00:24:04,486 --> 00:24:06,314
everyone wants to win.
436
00:24:06,488 --> 00:24:09,186
- Not when you're
five years old.
437
00:24:10,710 --> 00:24:14,627
No one cares about those
contests, they don't.
438
00:24:14,801 --> 00:24:17,847
They don't, I mean it's more
for the parents anyways.
439
00:24:18,021 --> 00:24:19,632
The kids could care less.
440
00:24:19,806 --> 00:24:22,678
- You don't even know
what you're talking about.
441
00:24:22,852 --> 00:24:25,768
You're second place
just like Coley.
442
00:24:27,030 --> 00:24:28,641
You'll never be a real winner
443
00:24:28,815 --> 00:24:31,818
'cause you ain't got it in you.
444
00:24:31,992 --> 00:24:33,950
You're nothing, nothing!
445
00:24:43,917 --> 00:24:46,180
You ain't even a real daddy.
446
00:25:01,848 --> 00:25:04,154
[sad music]
447
00:25:18,908 --> 00:25:22,433
- Oh get that thing off
your head please.
448
00:25:22,608 --> 00:25:23,652
- Thank you.
449
00:25:23,826 --> 00:25:25,393
- [Gracie] Coley will be mad.
450
00:25:25,567 --> 00:25:27,351
- Well let Coley be the
queen of crazy crowns,
451
00:25:27,526 --> 00:25:29,049
I don't care.
452
00:25:29,223 --> 00:25:31,138
- I can hear you.
453
00:25:31,312 --> 00:25:34,054
- Well look at you,
miss everything.
454
00:25:34,228 --> 00:25:35,272
Where's your tiara?
455
00:25:35,446 --> 00:25:37,492
- How Christian of you to ask.
456
00:25:37,666 --> 00:25:39,668
Is that any way for a wannabe
preacher's wife to talk?
457
00:25:39,842 --> 00:25:41,452
- Oh you know I'm
speaking the truth.
458
00:25:41,627 --> 00:25:44,412
You have been the queen
of everything.
459
00:25:44,586 --> 00:25:45,674
And I say it with love.
460
00:25:45,848 --> 00:25:48,155
- Well I say this with love,
461
00:25:49,852 --> 00:25:51,811
this needs more red wine.
462
00:25:53,247 --> 00:25:56,076
- Hey, have you talked to
Pastor Hot Rod?
463
00:25:56,250 --> 00:25:58,426
- Well just text messages.
464
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,384
But it's good,
465
00:26:00,559 --> 00:26:03,474
we both decided that we should
focus on the task at hand.
466
00:26:03,649 --> 00:26:05,999
He doesn't want me to worry.
467
00:26:07,348 --> 00:26:08,479
- He doesn't want to get
your hopes up,
468
00:26:08,654 --> 00:26:10,090
is what he's really saying.
469
00:26:10,264 --> 00:26:12,048
- Coley, don't say that.
470
00:26:12,222 --> 00:26:16,096
I think it's like watching a
romance novel come to life.
471
00:26:16,270 --> 00:26:20,491
- Oh look, the president
of South Carolina
472
00:26:20,666 --> 00:26:22,450
is here on official business.
473
00:26:22,624 --> 00:26:24,452
Where's your briefcase?
474
00:26:24,626 --> 00:26:28,761
Y'all look like y'all are off
to a United Nations summit.
475
00:26:28,935 --> 00:26:32,503
- Falling in love is just
the most amazing thing.
476
00:26:32,678 --> 00:26:34,114
Are you and pastor gonna
have a big wedding?
477
00:26:34,288 --> 00:26:35,158
- What, no!
478
00:26:35,332 --> 00:26:36,638
- [Coley] Can I be in it.
479
00:26:36,812 --> 00:26:38,945
- Oh of course, you'd
be the waitress.
480
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:40,599
- Don't jinx it.
481
00:26:42,339 --> 00:26:44,167
- Are you up for this?
482
00:26:44,341 --> 00:26:47,910
- Oh, can't be any different
than any other year.
483
00:26:48,084 --> 00:26:50,609
An obligation is an obligation.
484
00:26:50,783 --> 00:26:52,175
- Nope, I mean the controversy.
485
00:26:52,349 --> 00:26:53,786
- Did Coley tell you something?
486
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,310
Nothing is going on, nothing.
487
00:26:57,354 --> 00:26:59,095
- Coley knows nothing.
488
00:26:59,269 --> 00:27:00,270
She pretends to know
489
00:27:00,444 --> 00:27:02,098
but she doesn't know a thing
490
00:27:02,272 --> 00:27:03,099
but I do.
491
00:27:08,757 --> 00:27:10,890
- I'm not doing anything wrong.
492
00:27:11,064 --> 00:27:13,588
He's an internet friend.
493
00:27:13,762 --> 00:27:17,418
He's an American professor
working in China.
494
00:27:19,942 --> 00:27:23,119
- Glen, you are playing
with fire here.
495
00:27:24,904 --> 00:27:27,602
Let me tell you something one
Charleston heart to another,
496
00:27:27,776 --> 00:27:31,127
you have spent your entire
life empowering women,
497
00:27:31,301 --> 00:27:32,346
helping people,
498
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:33,564
not just you but your family,
499
00:27:33,739 --> 00:27:34,696
and what, you're gonna blow it
500
00:27:34,870 --> 00:27:36,959
for some internet romance?
501
00:27:38,004 --> 00:27:40,093
You are better than this, Glen.
502
00:27:40,267 --> 00:27:42,748
- Well yeah obviously I'm not.
503
00:27:44,184 --> 00:27:45,925
- Well if you won't
think of yourself,
504
00:27:46,099 --> 00:27:47,840
think of your family.
505
00:27:48,014 --> 00:27:49,493
- Okay stop.
506
00:27:49,668 --> 00:27:52,018
You have no idea what
it's like to be me.
507
00:27:52,192 --> 00:27:54,585
Do you have any idea
how hard it is
508
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,066
to keep up this house of cards?
509
00:27:58,807 --> 00:28:02,942
I have a mother who constantly
criticizes everything I do
510
00:28:05,118 --> 00:28:09,209
and a husband who constantly
cheats behind my back
511
00:28:11,777 --> 00:28:15,171
and a child leaving or
the Air Force Academy
512
00:28:17,783 --> 00:28:19,872
and the whole family
in an uproar
513
00:28:20,046 --> 00:28:21,830
because he decided not to
go to West Point
514
00:28:22,004 --> 00:28:23,223
and telling me how I failed
515
00:28:23,397 --> 00:28:24,703
'cause I did not teach him
516
00:28:24,877 --> 00:28:27,357
the importance of
family tradition.
517
00:28:28,881 --> 00:28:32,058
I went to college, I
graduated in three years,
518
00:28:32,232 --> 00:28:34,930
I spent four years in
the Peace Corps,
519
00:28:35,104 --> 00:28:38,281
I came home, I married the
man that I was supposed to
520
00:28:38,455 --> 00:28:39,935
and now I spend my days
521
00:28:40,109 --> 00:28:44,157
trying to make other
people's lives better.
522
00:28:44,331 --> 00:28:45,724
I deserve this.
523
00:28:47,116 --> 00:28:48,335
I deserve this.
524
00:28:50,032 --> 00:28:52,382
I'm not doing anything wrong.
525
00:29:01,087 --> 00:29:02,001
He hears me
526
00:29:06,309 --> 00:29:08,790
and he writes me these words
527
00:29:10,531 --> 00:29:12,838
that every woman should hear
528
00:29:16,755 --> 00:29:18,887
at least once in her life.
529
00:29:23,500 --> 00:29:25,851
And now, I am watching my son
530
00:29:26,852 --> 00:29:29,376
do all the things I taught him
531
00:29:31,334 --> 00:29:34,773
and I do not want him to
end up like this,
532
00:29:34,947 --> 00:29:36,252
you know, holding on to a phone
533
00:29:36,426 --> 00:29:38,820
for some small piece
of happiness.
534
00:29:40,822 --> 00:29:43,694
- Oh I'm so sorry, I
am so sorry.
535
00:29:43,869 --> 00:29:45,566
- No, no, I'm sorry.
536
00:29:46,959 --> 00:29:49,048
Oh I am sorry, I'm sorry.
537
00:29:52,181 --> 00:29:56,229
Well I guess if I was gonna
have a lapse in better judgment
538
00:29:59,406 --> 00:30:01,234
it should be with you.
539
00:30:03,889 --> 00:30:05,499
- It's funny
540
00:30:05,673 --> 00:30:08,763
because I always thought
that your life was perfect,
541
00:30:08,937 --> 00:30:10,765
everything handed to you,
542
00:30:10,939 --> 00:30:12,680
that you could never
relate to me
543
00:30:12,854 --> 00:30:15,726
or anything that I would
be going through,
544
00:30:15,901 --> 00:30:20,209
trying to be a banker, the
token one in the company,
545
00:30:20,383 --> 00:30:21,689
so you have to be better,
546
00:30:21,863 --> 00:30:23,386
you have to be smarter
547
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:24,910
than most everyone that
you ever work with,
548
00:30:25,084 --> 00:30:26,650
that you encounter,
549
00:30:26,825 --> 00:30:30,872
but my soul is that of
an activist, of a poet,
550
00:30:31,046 --> 00:30:33,701
and I can't do what
I want to do,
551
00:30:33,875 --> 00:30:35,834
I can't live the dream
I want to live
552
00:30:36,008 --> 00:30:39,707
so I sacrifice family and I
sacrifice the things I need
553
00:30:39,881 --> 00:30:42,014
because that's what we do.
554
00:30:45,887 --> 00:30:48,672
- We are not that far apart.
555
00:30:48,847 --> 00:30:50,500
- I think
556
00:30:50,674 --> 00:30:52,198
my life might be a little
better than yours right now.
557
00:30:52,372 --> 00:30:53,155
Sorry.
558
00:30:58,421 --> 00:31:02,295
- Dear Lord, thank you for
the time that you've given us
559
00:31:02,469 --> 00:31:04,819
to be together this weekend.
560
00:31:04,993 --> 00:31:06,734
Thank you for all our blessings
561
00:31:06,908 --> 00:31:09,258
because we are so blessed.
562
00:31:09,432 --> 00:31:11,391
Please continue to watch
over these precious women
563
00:31:11,565 --> 00:31:14,176
and keep our hearts open to you.
564
00:31:15,612 --> 00:31:16,483
Amen.
565
00:31:17,919 --> 00:31:18,964
- [All] Amen.
566
00:31:20,966 --> 00:31:22,968
- Sure smells good.
567
00:31:23,142 --> 00:31:25,753
Mama's been in the kitchen.
568
00:31:25,927 --> 00:31:27,842
- I tried to make that
sauce so many times
569
00:31:28,016 --> 00:31:29,409
but I must be doing
something wrong.
570
00:31:29,583 --> 00:31:31,498
The kids hate it.
571
00:31:31,672 --> 00:31:34,631
- Coley, we've heard
about your son,
572
00:31:35,502 --> 00:31:36,416
quite the football star,
573
00:31:36,590 --> 00:31:38,592
a linebacker, 230 pounds.
574
00:31:40,072 --> 00:31:42,030
- How is your boy doing?
575
00:31:42,204 --> 00:31:43,031
You haven't
mentioned him at all.
576
00:31:43,205 --> 00:31:44,250
- Are we gonna sit around
577
00:31:44,424 --> 00:31:46,252
and talk a bunch of nonsense?
578
00:31:46,426 --> 00:31:48,341
Now we all know Robert has
poisoned that child against me.
579
00:31:48,515 --> 00:31:51,779
Besides, whoever heard
of eating Italian food
580
00:31:51,953 --> 00:31:54,260
without a glass of red wine?
581
00:31:54,434 --> 00:31:55,435
Let's get this party started.
582
00:31:55,609 --> 00:31:57,350
500 bucks a bottle.
583
00:31:57,524 --> 00:31:59,352
- You know me.
- I'm good.
584
00:31:59,526 --> 00:32:01,832
- [Female] We have a long drive.
585
00:32:02,007 --> 00:32:03,269
- Patrice, don't let me down.
586
00:32:03,443 --> 00:32:04,574
- Maybe later.
587
00:32:07,447 --> 00:32:09,884
- Hey, I have an idea,
588
00:32:10,058 --> 00:32:13,192
why don't we open our
gifts before we eat?
589
00:32:13,366 --> 00:32:14,845
Every year it's the same thing.
590
00:32:15,020 --> 00:32:16,064
Let's do something different.
591
00:32:16,238 --> 00:32:18,806
- Great.
- Okay, let's do it.
592
00:32:18,980 --> 00:32:20,503
- What are y'all
looking at me for?
593
00:32:20,677 --> 00:32:22,897
I'm not a party
pooper or hangry.
594
00:32:23,071 --> 00:32:24,768
- Coley, you always give
the best gifts.
595
00:32:24,943 --> 00:32:26,945
Why don't you start?
596
00:32:27,119 --> 00:32:30,861
Show all of us bourgeoisie
gift givers who's boss.
597
00:32:31,036 --> 00:32:32,472
- For a second there,
598
00:32:32,646 --> 00:32:34,517
you sounded like the
old Sara I used to know.
599
00:32:34,691 --> 00:32:36,911
Alright, everybody stay put,
600
00:32:37,085 --> 00:32:38,608
I'll be right back.
601
00:32:40,959 --> 00:32:42,134
- Oh, good job.
602
00:32:48,357 --> 00:32:52,013
- Alright, fellow Holy
City Heartbreakers,
603
00:32:52,753 --> 00:32:54,407
may I present to you,
604
00:32:54,581 --> 00:32:57,845
fresh off the perfume
assembly line of Gay Parade,
605
00:32:58,019 --> 00:33:01,240
not yet available in the
United States,
606
00:33:01,414 --> 00:33:02,371
Sweet Carolina.
607
00:33:02,545 --> 00:33:03,938
- Oh!
- Coley!
608
00:33:04,112 --> 00:33:05,809
- You all have one in your bag.
609
00:33:05,984 --> 00:33:07,246
- [Female] Thank you.
610
00:33:07,420 --> 00:33:08,856
- Don't you love me?
611
00:33:09,030 --> 00:33:09,900
- Yes.
612
00:33:10,075 --> 00:33:11,424
- Top that.
613
00:33:11,598 --> 00:33:14,383
- Coley, I can't top you,
you know that.
614
00:33:14,557 --> 00:33:16,429
I think everybody here
knows what my gift is,
615
00:33:16,603 --> 00:33:18,126
my latest book.
616
00:33:18,300 --> 00:33:20,215
- And your writing is
wonderful, thank you.
617
00:33:20,389 --> 00:33:23,436
- And Patrice will be
doing a reading
618
00:33:25,046 --> 00:33:26,917
at the women's
shelter fundraiser
619
00:33:27,092 --> 00:33:29,877
and it will be held at
the Charleston Yacht Club
620
00:33:30,051 --> 00:33:31,922
and I hope that all of
you will attend.
621
00:33:32,097 --> 00:33:35,013
Patrice is truly an
inspiring woman.
622
00:33:37,058 --> 00:33:41,062
Speaking of, if you will
all fill out your cards,
623
00:33:42,368 --> 00:33:43,891
you'll receive a
year's subscription
624
00:33:44,065 --> 00:33:45,893
to Sweet Southern
Society magazine.
625
00:33:46,067 --> 00:33:47,764
- Wait a minute, wait, wait,
626
00:33:47,938 --> 00:33:51,507
you mean you want us to
fill out the cards for you?
627
00:33:51,681 --> 00:33:55,294
What are you so busy doing
that you can't?
628
00:33:55,468 --> 00:33:56,469
- I love that magazine.
629
00:33:56,643 --> 00:33:57,992
Thank you, Glen.
630
00:33:58,166 --> 00:33:58,949
- Thank you, Glen.
631
00:33:59,124 --> 00:33:59,863
- Thank you, Glen.
632
00:34:00,038 --> 00:34:00,908
- You're welcome.
633
00:34:01,082 --> 00:34:02,562
- Thank you, Glen.
634
00:34:03,737 --> 00:34:06,131
- Well, I guess it's my turn.
635
00:34:08,350 --> 00:34:11,092
It's been my turn for awhile.
636
00:34:11,266 --> 00:34:14,487
I just haven't had
the right words.
637
00:34:14,661 --> 00:34:17,577
Would you all please turn
your picture frames over?
638
00:34:17,751 --> 00:34:19,057
- Oh, alright.
639
00:34:21,102 --> 00:34:25,193
Oh my, somebody packed on a
few pounds since last year.
640
00:34:26,107 --> 00:34:28,109
- It's beautiful, Gracie.
641
00:34:29,154 --> 00:34:32,548
- Y'all have been my
family since college,
642
00:34:33,462 --> 00:34:35,203
my Charleston hearts,
643
00:34:36,161 --> 00:34:38,032
and I know that some of you
644
00:34:38,206 --> 00:34:40,948
have noticed a little bit of a
change in me in the last year
645
00:34:41,122 --> 00:34:43,168
and no, I'm not pregnant,
646
00:34:44,256 --> 00:34:48,086
but there is someone new
in my life, a new man,
647
00:34:51,176 --> 00:34:53,091
and his name is Jesus
648
00:34:54,614 --> 00:34:57,225
and he has made me a new person.
649
00:34:59,575 --> 00:35:01,621
I can't even find the
words to describe
650
00:35:01,795 --> 00:35:06,365
all the things that he's
done for me in my life.
651
00:35:06,539 --> 00:35:07,366
I was dead
652
00:35:10,456 --> 00:35:12,110
and now I'm alive.
653
00:35:14,503 --> 00:35:15,287
Sorry.
654
00:35:18,203 --> 00:35:19,117
Born again,
655
00:35:20,770 --> 00:35:22,207
freed of my sins,
656
00:35:23,382 --> 00:35:26,254
I still don't know all of
god's missions for my life
657
00:35:26,428 --> 00:35:27,734
but maybe it's as simple
658
00:35:27,908 --> 00:35:31,390
as just sharing with
all of you girls.
659
00:35:31,564 --> 00:35:35,655
But all I know is that God has
made me a whole new person,
660
00:35:37,178 --> 00:35:38,266
a better person.
661
00:35:39,311 --> 00:35:40,268
I feel free.
662
00:35:42,227 --> 00:35:44,620
- Gracie, as Jesus
would tell you,
663
00:35:45,752 --> 00:35:49,190
well done, good and
faithful servant.
664
00:35:49,364 --> 00:35:50,974
- Thank you.
665
00:35:51,149 --> 00:35:53,151
- I'm so proud of you.
666
00:35:54,195 --> 00:35:55,153
Oh!
667
00:35:55,327 --> 00:35:58,112
[thunder clapping]
668
00:35:58,286 --> 00:36:00,245
Well, it looks like
God is speaking.
669
00:36:00,419 --> 00:36:03,073
- Yes, I didn't now that
God was a woman.
670
00:36:03,248 --> 00:36:04,553
I'd be signing up too.
671
00:36:04,727 --> 00:36:05,685
- Don't worry, give it time,
672
00:36:05,859 --> 00:36:07,077
we're praying for you.
673
00:36:07,252 --> 00:36:08,166
- Now I've always
gone to church.
674
00:36:08,340 --> 00:36:09,384
- I did when I was little.
675
00:36:09,558 --> 00:36:10,559
- Okay, this isn't a revival.
676
00:36:10,733 --> 00:36:12,039
Sara, pass out those bibles now,
677
00:36:12,213 --> 00:36:13,736
the food's getting cold.
678
00:36:13,910 --> 00:36:17,131
- Yeah, you know what
I got you, let's eat.
679
00:36:17,305 --> 00:36:20,352
[thunder clapping]
680
00:36:26,445 --> 00:36:28,795
- Rainy night in Charleston,
681
00:36:32,277 --> 00:36:34,453
rainy night in Charleston.
682
00:36:37,891 --> 00:36:40,459
- Coley, baby, come on,
let's go,
683
00:36:40,633 --> 00:36:43,113
I think it's time for you
to go upstairs.
684
00:36:43,288 --> 00:36:44,071
- Do you want me to help you?
685
00:36:44,245 --> 00:36:45,638
- Just take this please.
686
00:36:45,812 --> 00:36:48,118
- No, it's okay, it's okay,
I got her.
687
00:36:48,293 --> 00:36:49,163
Why don't you guys go to bed?
688
00:36:49,337 --> 00:36:50,643
I'll just take her up.
689
00:36:50,817 --> 00:36:53,428
Come on, I got it, it's okay,
690
00:36:53,602 --> 00:36:54,560
Sara's going to bed,
691
00:36:54,734 --> 00:36:55,691
say goodnight to Sara now.
692
00:36:55,865 --> 00:36:56,692
- [Coley] Goodnight, Sara.
693
00:36:56,866 --> 00:36:57,954
- Goodnight, Coley.
694
00:36:58,128 --> 00:36:59,086
- [Coley] Goodnight, everybody.
695
00:36:59,260 --> 00:37:00,522
We're going night night now.
696
00:37:01,654 --> 00:37:03,221
I love everybody.
697
00:37:50,659 --> 00:37:53,923
- [Patrice] I'm on the
road to recovery.
698
00:37:59,755 --> 00:38:02,584
[thunder clapping]
699
00:38:10,375 --> 00:38:12,768
[slow music]
700
00:38:35,356 --> 00:38:36,357
- Come in.
701
00:38:36,531 --> 00:38:38,185
- Ah, there's the queen of mean.
702
00:38:38,359 --> 00:38:39,708
- What are you talking about?
703
00:38:39,882 --> 00:38:42,232
Is that any way to talk
to a dying woman?
704
00:38:42,407 --> 00:38:44,713
- Dying woman, are
you kidding me?
705
00:38:44,887 --> 00:38:47,020
You're hungover, that's all.
706
00:38:48,500 --> 00:38:51,851
Glen had to leave early,
she left you a note.
707
00:38:52,025 --> 00:38:55,245
- She does every year, ingrate.
708
00:38:55,420 --> 00:38:58,901
- Glen loves you, we all
love you, Coley.
709
00:38:59,075 --> 00:39:03,123
You have got to do something
about your drinking.
710
00:39:04,559 --> 00:39:06,256
- You know what, hold
on a second,
711
00:39:06,431 --> 00:39:09,303
let me check my social calendar.
712
00:39:09,477 --> 00:39:13,351
Fundraiser at MUSC, fundraiser
at the women's center,
713
00:39:15,483 --> 00:39:17,267
huh, look right here,
714
00:39:17,442 --> 00:39:20,880
it's an AA meeting two
weeks from tonight.
715
00:39:21,054 --> 00:39:25,493
No seriously though, I have
tried AA, couple of times.
716
00:39:25,667 --> 00:39:28,366
Anyway, let's talk about
more important things.
717
00:39:28,540 --> 00:39:30,237
- Honey, what could be more
important than your health?
718
00:39:30,411 --> 00:39:31,717
- Money, of course.
719
00:39:35,851 --> 00:39:36,635
Open it.
720
00:39:41,857 --> 00:39:43,424
And don't go telling the others.
721
00:39:43,598 --> 00:39:46,645
You know you've always
been my favorite.
722
00:39:48,473 --> 00:39:49,952
I want you to take that money
723
00:39:50,126 --> 00:39:51,432
and I want you to publish
yourself a new book.
724
00:39:51,606 --> 00:39:52,781
- Honey, I don't self
publish anymore,
725
00:39:52,955 --> 00:39:55,567
I have a publisher and an agent.
726
00:39:59,832 --> 00:40:01,007
You're too much.
727
00:40:01,181 --> 00:40:02,530
- I know, thank you.
728
00:40:02,704 --> 00:40:03,749
- No, but seriously,
729
00:40:03,923 --> 00:40:05,707
you really need to do something.
730
00:40:05,881 --> 00:40:09,537
- Ah, please, we've had
a nice weekend, okay?
731
00:40:11,670 --> 00:40:12,584
- Okay fine
732
00:40:12,758 --> 00:40:14,455
but let's make a deal.
733
00:40:15,456 --> 00:40:18,328
You go to meetings,
I'll follow up.
734
00:40:18,503 --> 00:40:20,766
If not, I'm dragging you
to Betty Ford immediately.
735
00:40:20,940 --> 00:40:22,463
- Oh no, anybody but her,
please.
736
00:40:22,637 --> 00:40:24,334
I met Betty one time at
this fundraiser--
737
00:40:24,509 --> 00:40:27,773
- Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait,
stop.
738
00:40:27,947 --> 00:40:28,861
I know you.
739
00:40:32,691 --> 00:40:34,083
- And I know you.
740
00:40:35,563 --> 00:40:37,086
Come give me a hug.
741
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:43,571
Okay, drive safe, the weather
man said there's storms.
742
00:40:44,485 --> 00:40:45,486
Love you.
743
00:40:55,017 --> 00:40:56,323
- Okay, be safe,
744
00:40:56,497 --> 00:40:58,760
you know you're my favorite,
745
00:40:58,934 --> 00:41:00,719
don't tell the others.
746
00:41:03,069 --> 00:41:05,985
- She told me to use mine to
get the girls into pageants.
747
00:41:06,159 --> 00:41:07,508
- Of course.
748
00:41:07,682 --> 00:41:08,683
You don't even want to know
749
00:41:08,857 --> 00:41:10,424
what she told me to use mine for
750
00:41:10,598 --> 00:41:12,382
but it's going straight
to the church nursery.
751
00:41:12,557 --> 00:41:13,949
- You need those for the boys.
752
00:41:14,123 --> 00:41:15,951
- No, God will provide.
753
00:41:17,039 --> 00:41:17,953
- I love you.
754
00:41:18,127 --> 00:41:19,128
- I love you.
755
00:41:20,739 --> 00:41:21,957
Be safe.
756
00:41:22,131 --> 00:41:23,350
- Be safe.
757
00:41:23,524 --> 00:41:24,525
I'll miss you.
758
00:41:24,699 --> 00:41:25,483
- You too.
759
00:41:27,572 --> 00:41:28,486
- I'll see you soon.
760
00:41:28,660 --> 00:41:30,400
- [Sara] Okay.
761
00:41:30,575 --> 00:41:33,621
[grand orchestra music]
762
00:42:06,175 --> 00:42:08,047
- [Reporter] A terrible
thunderstorm this morning.
763
00:42:08,221 --> 00:42:10,876
We've had over 315
lightning strikes
764
00:42:11,050 --> 00:42:12,921
just in the last hour.
765
00:42:13,095 --> 00:42:16,882
And there was an accident on
Highway 17 south of Charleston.
766
00:42:17,056 --> 00:42:19,449
The South Carolina highway
patrol has confirmed
767
00:42:19,624 --> 00:42:21,060
that only a single
car was involved
768
00:42:21,234 --> 00:42:23,802
and one fatality has
been reported.
769
00:42:23,976 --> 00:42:26,892
Grace Williams of Newport,
South Carolina.
770
00:42:27,066 --> 00:42:31,810
According to SCHP, the accident
occurred at about 11:17 a.m.
771
00:42:31,984 --> 00:42:33,028
when her vehicle went
off the road
772
00:42:33,202 --> 00:42:35,814
and crashed into the guard rail.
773
00:42:38,077 --> 00:42:40,558
[sad music]
774
00:43:26,168 --> 00:43:28,606
- [Coley] Life is a competition.
775
00:43:28,780 --> 00:43:32,087
- I just feel like putting
so much importance on beauty
776
00:43:32,261 --> 00:43:33,132
isn't good.
777
00:43:48,234 --> 00:43:52,325
- It's a wonderful thing for
daughters and mothers to share.
778
00:43:59,898 --> 00:44:01,639
- Again Coley!
779
00:44:01,813 --> 00:44:05,077
If you're not first place,
you're nothing!
780
00:44:22,355 --> 00:44:23,530
- Don't you want to go
to your salon
781
00:44:23,704 --> 00:44:25,924
and do something with your?
782
00:44:27,752 --> 00:44:30,972
- I'm not gonna tell him,
I'm not gonna.
783
00:45:01,394 --> 00:45:03,788
- Will you please go with me?
784
00:45:05,746 --> 00:45:08,967
- I told you already,
it's your friend.
785
00:45:19,455 --> 00:45:20,543
- I assume you sent flowers
786
00:45:20,718 --> 00:45:22,589
on behalf of the entire family?
787
00:45:22,763 --> 00:45:23,721
- Of course.
788
00:45:27,855 --> 00:45:30,075
Why don't you come with me?
789
00:45:32,730 --> 00:45:34,993
- What an odd question.
790
00:45:35,167 --> 00:45:36,385
Why would I go?
791
00:45:37,343 --> 00:45:38,170
- For me.
792
00:45:40,041 --> 00:45:42,391
- I'm here for you every day.
793
00:46:13,945 --> 00:46:16,904
- Oh Grady, it's been
a long time.
794
00:46:17,949 --> 00:46:19,211
How you doing?
795
00:46:19,385 --> 00:46:21,779
- I'm alright but
she's not so good.
796
00:46:29,264 --> 00:46:30,962
I got you, I got you.
797
00:46:32,311 --> 00:46:33,268
Here's Glen.
798
00:46:34,835 --> 00:46:35,793
- Glen.
799
00:46:35,967 --> 00:46:37,882
[sobbing]
800
00:46:43,844 --> 00:46:45,454
- Oh, you look pretty.
801
00:46:46,934 --> 00:46:47,892
- Thank you.
802
00:46:50,111 --> 00:46:51,112
- Okay, come on,
803
00:46:51,286 --> 00:46:53,332
you and I are gonna do this.
804
00:46:53,506 --> 00:46:56,901
You just walk with me,
just go with me,
805
00:46:57,075 --> 00:46:58,119
just go slow.
806
00:47:02,863 --> 00:47:04,996
[sobbing]
807
00:47:21,142 --> 00:47:21,926
- Hey.
808
00:47:25,190 --> 00:47:28,149
Is it okay if we all
keep calling you mama?
809
00:47:28,323 --> 00:47:29,281
- Oh please.
810
00:47:36,157 --> 00:47:37,289
- Look at you.
811
00:47:39,944 --> 00:47:42,947
Here, let me help you,
I'll take her.
812
00:47:44,644 --> 00:47:46,689
It'd be an honor.
813
00:47:46,864 --> 00:47:47,473
Hey.
814
00:47:50,955 --> 00:47:52,478
Sweet, sweet girl.
815
00:47:59,398 --> 00:48:00,965
- If anyone would like to
come forward now
816
00:48:01,139 --> 00:48:02,967
and share a few words.
817
00:48:17,416 --> 00:48:20,375
- The name of this
poem is Graceful.
818
00:48:27,252 --> 00:48:29,471
Graceful as a summer's rain
819
00:48:30,429 --> 00:48:32,953
sliding down a window pane,
820
00:48:33,127 --> 00:48:35,869
graceful as a bright
resting light
821
00:48:36,043 --> 00:48:39,307
who says I do every
day of her life,
822
00:48:39,481 --> 00:48:42,441
graceful as a mother's applause
823
00:48:42,615 --> 00:48:44,922
while tiny ballerina bows,
824
00:48:46,358 --> 00:48:49,187
to little Lindsey, Jackie,
Sydney,
825
00:48:53,626 --> 00:48:55,933
a mother's love never ends
826
00:48:57,325 --> 00:49:00,372
and heaven's grace will
see you through.
827
00:49:01,503 --> 00:49:04,550
Rely on the strength
she gave to you.
828
00:49:06,639 --> 00:49:09,468
When only the memory of
her love remains,
829
00:49:09,642 --> 00:49:13,080
go on living each precious
day gracefully.
830
00:49:31,011 --> 00:49:34,319
- Hey everyone, I'm Craig,
worship and music leader
831
00:49:34,493 --> 00:49:36,321
at Gracie's church.
832
00:49:36,495 --> 00:49:38,323
A few weeks ago we
played a new song
833
00:49:38,497 --> 00:49:40,064
and she said that she
really loved it
834
00:49:40,238 --> 00:49:42,980
so I thought that it
would be a great thing
835
00:49:43,154 --> 00:49:45,330
to play today for her.
836
00:49:45,504 --> 00:49:47,462
I know she's listening.
837
00:49:56,254 --> 00:50:00,345
A day feels like forever
until it's gone
838
00:50:05,176 --> 00:50:09,267
You're left with only memories
839
00:50:11,312 --> 00:50:15,447
Every moment's
precious and we know
840
00:50:18,319 --> 00:50:22,454
The next one's
never guaranteed
841
00:50:26,284 --> 00:50:30,462
I'm only passing
through this place
842
00:50:33,073 --> 00:50:36,816
Very soon I will be on my way
843
00:50:40,037 --> 00:50:43,562
'Cause this is not my home
844
00:50:43,736 --> 00:50:47,348
It's not where I belong
845
00:50:47,522 --> 00:50:51,483
Someday soon I'll be set free
846
00:50:54,747 --> 00:50:58,316
And the father calls me home
847
00:50:58,490 --> 00:51:02,102
I bow before the storm
848
00:51:02,276 --> 00:51:05,932
Worship for eternity
849
00:51:06,106 --> 00:51:09,936
I know that you'll
be missing me
850
00:51:10,110 --> 00:51:12,852
Please be strong
851
00:51:13,722 --> 00:51:16,856
This is not my home
852
00:51:20,294 --> 00:51:23,428
This is not my home
853
00:51:38,312 --> 00:51:40,271
- Hey Sara, I can take
the baby now.
854
00:51:40,445 --> 00:51:41,228
Thank you.
855
00:51:46,190 --> 00:51:48,453
- We'll see you back at
the house, okay?
856
00:51:48,627 --> 00:51:51,412
- Y'all sure you don't
need family time alone?
857
00:51:51,586 --> 00:51:54,328
- You girls are our family.
858
00:51:54,502 --> 00:51:56,025
Winston and I decided
he and the girls
859
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:57,592
will go to the burial site
860
00:51:57,766 --> 00:52:00,769
but we'll see you at the house,
okay?
861
00:52:05,470 --> 00:52:06,775
- See you there.
862
00:52:14,609 --> 00:52:18,135
It was a beautiful service,
it was Grace.
863
00:52:20,224 --> 00:52:22,835
And your poem, Patrice,
I loved it.
864
00:52:25,316 --> 00:52:27,622
- It's that song, so beautiful.
865
00:52:29,711 --> 00:52:31,017
- It's wonderful, isn't it?
866
00:52:31,191 --> 00:52:32,801
I keep humming it.
867
00:52:32,975 --> 00:52:36,762
I can't get over it, it's
beautiful and the message,
868
00:52:36,936 --> 00:52:39,373
all about our eternal home.
869
00:52:39,547 --> 00:52:42,246
- The message of god's
love and salvation.
870
00:52:42,420 --> 00:52:46,337
- It's starting to make sense
to me for the first time.
871
00:52:46,511 --> 00:52:48,034
- Really honey?
872
00:52:48,208 --> 00:52:48,817
- Yeah.
873
00:52:49,949 --> 00:52:51,603
- Isn't it beautiful
874
00:52:52,865 --> 00:52:54,127
when God starts to--
875
00:52:54,301 --> 00:52:56,782
- Oh stop, please
don't start again.
876
00:52:56,956 --> 00:53:00,177
That's all we've been hearing
for the last half an hour.
877
00:53:00,351 --> 00:53:02,701
- Coley, there's nothing wrong
878
00:53:02,875 --> 00:53:05,399
with talking about God
at a time like this.
879
00:53:05,573 --> 00:53:06,661
- That's all we've been
hearing from you
880
00:53:06,835 --> 00:53:09,316
for the last 20 years, Sara.
881
00:53:09,490 --> 00:53:10,796
- No, no, Coley.
882
00:53:12,450 --> 00:53:13,538
- Excuse me.
883
00:53:13,712 --> 00:53:16,018
- You've had enough, stop.
884
00:53:16,193 --> 00:53:17,106
- What is the matter,
885
00:53:17,281 --> 00:53:18,282
what are you doing?
886
00:53:18,456 --> 00:53:19,544
- [Glen] Stop!
887
00:53:19,718 --> 00:53:20,806
- You stupid.
888
00:53:22,982 --> 00:53:26,115
Do you think you're
better than me
889
00:53:26,290 --> 00:53:29,728
because you do so much
for the community,
890
00:53:29,902 --> 00:53:33,340
when the only good you do
is for yourself?
891
00:53:35,734 --> 00:53:37,083
At least Sara lives for God.
892
00:53:37,257 --> 00:53:39,825
You, you live as if you are God.
893
00:53:40,913 --> 00:53:42,175
- I am not listening to this.
894
00:53:42,349 --> 00:53:44,395
You, you're just drunk again.
895
00:53:45,700 --> 00:53:47,136
- [Coley] At least I
don't live a double life.
896
00:53:47,311 --> 00:53:49,269
- Listen, you are way
out of line here, Coley.
897
00:53:49,443 --> 00:53:52,446
- You're the biggest
hypocrite of all, Patrice.
898
00:53:52,620 --> 00:53:56,537
Social injustice and the
whole black thing, ha,
899
00:53:56,711 --> 00:53:59,279
you grew up in Marietta,
Georgia.
900
00:54:00,367 --> 00:54:03,196
You might as well be
1,000 miles from Atlanta.
901
00:54:03,370 --> 00:54:04,241
I grew up closer to the hood
902
00:54:04,415 --> 00:54:05,851
than any of y'all.
903
00:54:06,025 --> 00:54:09,507
- Coley, look at me,
look at me, we love you,
904
00:54:14,294 --> 00:54:16,122
we love you.
905
00:54:16,296 --> 00:54:17,210
- No you don't.
906
00:54:17,384 --> 00:54:18,472
- [Sara] We love you.
907
00:54:18,646 --> 00:54:20,431
- No you don't, no you don't!
908
00:54:20,605 --> 00:54:22,041
No!
909
00:54:22,215 --> 00:54:24,130
You wish it'd been me
instead of Gracie.
910
00:54:24,304 --> 00:54:25,436
- No!
- Yes you do.
911
00:54:25,610 --> 00:54:26,611
- No!
912
00:54:26,785 --> 00:54:28,265
- Yes you do, all of you do.
913
00:54:28,439 --> 00:54:29,266
You wish it'd been me.
914
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:30,919
- Oh this is coming
915
00:54:31,093 --> 00:54:33,139
from some dark place
inside of you, sweetie
916
00:54:33,313 --> 00:54:34,227
and it's not you.
917
00:54:34,401 --> 00:54:36,316
Please, look at me.
918
00:54:36,490 --> 00:54:37,361
- Get off me.
919
00:54:37,535 --> 00:54:38,449
- Stop.
920
00:54:38,623 --> 00:54:39,885
- Get off me.
921
00:54:40,059 --> 00:54:42,670
Of course you wish you'd been me
922
00:54:42,844 --> 00:54:46,761
because deep inside, you
know there isn't a God.
923
00:54:47,893 --> 00:54:50,765
So it may as well have been me.
924
00:54:50,939 --> 00:54:54,291
You can spray as much
perfume on it as you want,
925
00:54:54,465 --> 00:54:58,251
it's not gonna change
the fact that she's dead.
926
00:54:58,425 --> 00:55:00,906
And you all know it, she's dead.
927
00:55:02,995 --> 00:55:04,344
- [Sara] Coley.
928
00:55:04,518 --> 00:55:06,738
- You stupid bible thumper.
929
00:55:18,053 --> 00:55:21,448
- Go after her, somebody,
go after her.
930
00:55:31,502 --> 00:55:32,807
- I'm at a loss for words.
931
00:55:32,981 --> 00:55:35,767
Did you see Gracie's
mother's face?
932
00:55:35,941 --> 00:55:39,901
As if she hasn't already
been through enough already.
933
00:55:40,075 --> 00:55:42,339
Do you think we
stayed long enough?
934
00:55:42,513 --> 00:55:44,253
I couldn't take it anymore.
935
00:55:44,428 --> 00:55:47,953
It's just more bad news
on top of bad news.
936
00:55:49,389 --> 00:55:52,827
- Yeah well, I'm never speaking
to Coley again, I'm done.
937
00:55:53,001 --> 00:55:55,613
- I barely speak to
her as it is.
938
00:55:55,787 --> 00:55:59,530
She had a similar meltdown
at the hospital fundraiser.
939
00:55:59,704 --> 00:56:01,619
- Well Sara can deal
with her now.
940
00:56:01,793 --> 00:56:03,229
I mean nothing short
of a miracle
941
00:56:03,403 --> 00:56:05,666
is gonna help her turn
her life around.
942
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:06,885
- All this talk about God
943
00:56:07,059 --> 00:56:09,931
and all this Christian thing,
944
00:56:10,105 --> 00:56:13,935
you know in some ways,
I think Coley is right.
945
00:56:14,109 --> 00:56:15,459
Life is short.
946
00:56:17,722 --> 00:56:19,332
I'm sick of it.
947
00:56:19,506 --> 00:56:21,203
- Sick of what, living?
948
00:56:21,378 --> 00:56:22,379
- No.
949
00:56:23,858 --> 00:56:24,946
Thank you.
950
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:26,295
- Thanks.
951
00:56:26,470 --> 00:56:27,471
- Okay.
952
00:56:28,820 --> 00:56:30,038
- No, not living.
953
00:56:31,518 --> 00:56:34,913
I'm sick of living for
everyone else.
954
00:56:35,087 --> 00:56:38,395
I am not gong to miss
out on anymore of life
955
00:56:38,569 --> 00:56:40,484
because of everybody
else's rules.
956
00:56:40,658 --> 00:56:41,528
- So what are you gonna do,
957
00:56:41,702 --> 00:56:42,573
start living like her?
958
00:56:42,747 --> 00:56:44,488
- No, like me, for me,
959
00:56:47,447 --> 00:56:50,015
for the way I see
right and wrong.
960
00:56:51,538 --> 00:56:54,759
- Well I don't know about
right and wrong
961
00:56:54,933 --> 00:56:58,545
but that song is really
pulling at my heart.
962
00:57:00,678 --> 00:57:04,682
I keep remembering how
happy and alive Gracie was
963
00:57:06,031 --> 00:57:06,901
at our last dinner
964
00:57:07,075 --> 00:57:08,947
and it made me think,
965
00:57:09,121 --> 00:57:10,514
what do I have?
966
00:57:12,907 --> 00:57:15,040
No kids, no nothing, just,
967
00:57:19,958 --> 00:57:22,569
just my words written onto books
968
00:57:23,744 --> 00:57:26,355
and it makes me think
I don't know
969
00:57:26,530 --> 00:57:28,967
but there has to be
something more.
970
00:57:29,141 --> 00:57:30,098
- Don't cry.
971
00:57:31,883 --> 00:57:34,538
Look, you save all those words
972
00:57:37,541 --> 00:57:39,630
for when you're not hurting.
973
00:57:45,549 --> 00:57:47,072
- You do the same.
974
00:57:50,771 --> 00:57:53,600
[doorbell ringing]
975
00:57:59,998 --> 00:58:02,914
- Girls, what are
y'all doing here?
976
00:58:05,177 --> 00:58:06,918
- We want our grandma.
977
00:58:07,962 --> 00:58:10,008
- She's right here, sweetie.
978
00:58:11,183 --> 00:58:14,099
Why don't we all sit
down and talk?
979
00:58:15,753 --> 00:58:16,754
"Eyes into the hills"
980
00:58:16,928 --> 00:58:19,496
"who once come with my help.
981
00:58:19,670 --> 00:58:22,020
"My help cometh from the Lord
982
00:58:22,194 --> 00:58:24,588
"who made heaven and Earth.
983
00:58:25,589 --> 00:58:27,329
"He will not let thy foot slip
984
00:58:27,504 --> 00:58:29,375
"and he will not slumber,
985
00:58:29,549 --> 00:58:32,509
"he who watches over thee.
986
00:58:32,683 --> 00:58:34,685
"Behold, he will not
slumber nor sleep,
987
00:58:34,859 --> 00:58:36,948
"he watches over Israel."
988
00:58:40,038 --> 00:58:43,171
[inspirational music]
989
00:58:51,876 --> 00:58:52,703
Is he in?
990
00:58:52,877 --> 00:58:53,834
- Uh huh.
991
00:58:54,008 --> 00:58:54,792
- Oh good.
992
00:59:05,585 --> 00:59:08,936
- Deacon Ray, hey, it's
Daisy at the church.
993
00:59:09,110 --> 00:59:11,591
You want to give me a call
when you get a chance?
994
00:59:11,765 --> 00:59:13,462
There's some things going
on around here
995
00:59:13,637 --> 00:59:15,508
I think you should know about.
996
00:59:15,682 --> 00:59:16,814
- Everyone went to
that playground,
997
00:59:16,988 --> 00:59:18,816
his family is is in need now
998
00:59:18,990 --> 00:59:20,426
and it's gonna benefit
everyone so--
999
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:22,123
- Is now a bad time?
1000
00:59:22,297 --> 00:59:23,777
- No, come on in, come on in.
1001
00:59:23,951 --> 00:59:25,431
Hey Ron, let me call
you right back, alright?
1002
00:59:25,605 --> 00:59:27,172
Yeah, look, thanks.
1003
00:59:28,695 --> 00:59:30,392
Hey, how are you?
1004
00:59:30,567 --> 00:59:31,829
- Good.
1005
00:59:32,003 --> 00:59:34,092
I mean God is good.
1006
00:59:34,266 --> 00:59:37,443
- Yes and that cake is
good it looks like.
1007
00:59:37,617 --> 00:59:39,097
- [Sara] Here, here.
1008
00:59:39,271 --> 00:59:40,620
- That looks beautiful,
thank you so much.
1009
00:59:40,794 --> 00:59:42,970
- Thank you for taking
care of the boys.
1010
00:59:43,144 --> 00:59:46,147
I have never seen them so
well behaved in all my life.
1011
00:59:46,321 --> 00:59:47,496
I don't know what you
did to them.
1012
00:59:47,671 --> 00:59:49,107
- Well you know what they say,
1013
00:59:49,281 --> 00:59:52,458
spare the rod, spoil the child.
1014
00:59:52,632 --> 00:59:54,678
[laughs]
1015
00:59:55,809 --> 00:59:57,811
Come on, sit down, sit down.
1016
00:59:58,769 --> 00:59:59,987
You alright, everything alright?
1017
01:00:00,161 --> 01:00:02,511
- Oh I wouldn't even be able
1018
01:00:02,686 --> 01:00:04,949
to know how to answer
that question.
1019
01:00:05,123 --> 01:00:07,081
I have so much going on.
1020
01:00:10,258 --> 01:00:13,261
- Hey, what do you say
we get a bite?
1021
01:00:14,828 --> 01:00:16,961
We can talk about the boys
1022
01:00:18,353 --> 01:00:19,616
and how my weekend
went with them?
1023
01:00:19,790 --> 01:00:22,183
- Yeah, sure, let's do it,
let's go.
1024
01:00:22,357 --> 01:00:23,228
- No, I don't mean now.
1025
01:00:23,402 --> 01:00:25,622
I mean you know tomorrow,
1026
01:00:28,799 --> 01:00:29,930
an official bite,
1027
01:00:32,106 --> 01:00:33,455
maybe tomorrow around noon
1028
01:00:33,630 --> 01:00:35,240
if that's okay with you.
1029
01:00:35,414 --> 01:00:36,763
I'll pick you up.
1030
01:00:38,852 --> 01:00:40,724
- You mean like a date?
1031
01:00:43,770 --> 01:00:46,817
Oh, you mean like an
official bite?
1032
01:00:50,255 --> 01:00:51,082
- Yeah.
1033
01:00:52,039 --> 01:00:54,825
- Yeah, we could do that, yeah.
1034
01:00:56,827 --> 01:00:58,350
- I'd love that.
1035
01:00:58,524 --> 01:01:02,136
- Yeah because you have
been a great pastor
1036
01:01:02,310 --> 01:01:05,966
and so we could go get
a bite, go for a bite.
1037
01:01:09,056 --> 01:01:13,147
- You know Sara, I hope that
I've been a good friend to you.
1038
01:01:14,758 --> 01:01:18,109
You can call me Rod or
Rodney, if you like,
1039
01:01:18,283 --> 01:01:21,199
you know, whichever one
you like better.
1040
01:01:21,373 --> 01:01:25,029
- I like them both very much,
the names.
1041
01:01:25,203 --> 01:01:28,467
Okay, yeah, a bite, tomorrow,
tomorrow.
1042
01:01:30,904 --> 01:01:32,123
- Tomorrow, noon,
I'll pick you up.
1043
01:01:32,297 --> 01:01:33,951
Thanks for the cake.
1044
01:01:41,915 --> 01:01:43,221
- I'll see you tomorrow.
1045
01:01:43,395 --> 01:01:44,918
- Tomorrow?
1046
01:01:45,092 --> 01:01:47,747
You coming back here tomorrow?
1047
01:01:47,921 --> 01:01:50,010
Well isn't that nice?
1048
01:01:50,184 --> 01:01:51,708
Bless your heart.
1049
01:02:05,069 --> 01:02:07,985
- Oh, look at you,
you look pretty.
1050
01:02:08,159 --> 01:02:09,856
- I want a hamburger.
1051
01:02:11,858 --> 01:02:14,078
- I couldn't find a babysitter.
1052
01:02:14,252 --> 01:02:15,296
- That's okay.
1053
01:02:15,470 --> 01:02:16,080
- Yeah.
1054
01:02:16,254 --> 01:02:17,908
- Yeah.
1055
01:02:18,082 --> 01:02:20,737
You know what, let's forget
about that restaurant,
1056
01:02:20,911 --> 01:02:22,608
I think I got a better idea.
1057
01:02:22,782 --> 01:02:23,652
- Okay.
1058
01:02:23,827 --> 01:02:24,828
- Yeah.
1059
01:02:28,309 --> 01:02:30,224
Now watch this.
1060
01:02:30,398 --> 01:02:32,836
[happy music]
1061
01:03:02,953 --> 01:03:05,825
- [Larry] After all, I've been
on you about that for awhile.
1062
01:03:05,999 --> 01:03:07,479
I hope you can get it done
by noon today--
1063
01:03:07,653 --> 01:03:09,786
- Okay, Larry, Larry,
give me a minute okay?
1064
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:10,961
Thanks.
1065
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:15,879
Hey, what's going on?
1066
01:03:16,836 --> 01:03:19,317
- He's here, in Charleston.
1067
01:03:19,491 --> 01:03:20,492
- [Patrice] Who's here?
1068
01:03:20,666 --> 01:03:22,929
- My internet friend, Mark.
1069
01:03:24,148 --> 01:03:25,976
He's here on business
for two weeks.
1070
01:03:26,150 --> 01:03:28,805
- Oh yeah, monkey business.
1071
01:03:28,979 --> 01:03:29,980
- I'm serious.
1072
01:03:30,154 --> 01:03:32,286
He's got an important job.
1073
01:03:34,201 --> 01:03:36,813
The man is fluent in
Arabic and Chinese.
1074
01:03:36,987 --> 01:03:38,162
He's working with the Air Force,
1075
01:03:38,336 --> 01:03:40,164
it's all top secret.
1076
01:03:40,338 --> 01:03:42,688
- Okay, is hanky panky the
same in Chinese
1077
01:03:42,862 --> 01:03:44,821
as it is in English?
1078
01:03:44,995 --> 01:03:46,213
Have you seen him yet?
1079
01:03:46,387 --> 01:03:47,867
- Not yet.
1080
01:03:48,041 --> 01:03:51,436
I was thinking about the
fundraiser next week,
1081
01:03:53,046 --> 01:03:56,745
maybe you could bring him
as your guest.
1082
01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:59,705
- No, no, there's no way
1083
01:03:59,879 --> 01:04:01,838
I'm going to walk into a
poetry reading
1084
01:04:02,012 --> 01:04:03,883
about social justice
1085
01:04:04,057 --> 01:04:05,406
with a white guy
hanging on my arm.
1086
01:04:05,580 --> 01:04:06,843
I'm sorry, no.
1087
01:04:07,017 --> 01:04:08,670
- He wouldn't be
hanging on your arm.
1088
01:04:08,845 --> 01:04:10,281
He'd be your escort.
1089
01:04:11,238 --> 01:04:14,372
- Glen, I don't know about this.
1090
01:04:14,546 --> 01:04:15,808
- Please say you will.
1091
01:04:15,982 --> 01:04:18,506
Patrice, you're my only friend.
1092
01:04:20,465 --> 01:04:22,771
Don't back out on me.
1093
01:04:22,946 --> 01:04:26,036
You know how hard my life is.
1094
01:04:26,210 --> 01:04:28,342
- There's something,
I don't know,
1095
01:04:28,516 --> 01:04:30,431
there's something
wrong about this.
1096
01:04:30,605 --> 01:04:31,693
- What's so wrong?
1097
01:04:31,868 --> 01:04:33,304
I just want to meet him.
1098
01:04:33,478 --> 01:04:35,828
Men and women can't be
friends or talk?
1099
01:04:36,002 --> 01:04:36,829
- You're not friends,
1100
01:04:37,003 --> 01:04:38,613
you don't even know him,
1101
01:04:38,787 --> 01:04:40,920
he's just a bunch of words
on a computer screen.
1102
01:04:41,094 --> 01:04:42,400
- People read your poetry
1103
01:04:42,574 --> 01:04:44,271
and feel like they know you
1104
01:04:44,445 --> 01:04:45,359
without every meeting you.
1105
01:04:45,533 --> 01:04:46,883
How's this any different?
1106
01:04:47,057 --> 01:04:47,927
- I don't know.
1107
01:04:48,101 --> 01:04:50,060
Ever since Grace died,
1108
01:04:50,234 --> 01:04:52,453
I've been rethinking
my whole life.
1109
01:04:52,627 --> 01:04:55,892
I keep picturing how Gracie was
1110
01:04:56,066 --> 01:05:00,157
the last time we saw her at
our last dinner together.
1111
01:05:01,636 --> 01:05:04,074
I don't know, I don't
know what's right anymore,
1112
01:05:04,248 --> 01:05:05,423
I don't know what the truth is.
1113
01:05:05,597 --> 01:05:07,077
- What is right?
1114
01:05:08,034 --> 01:05:09,949
What do you mean right?
1115
01:05:10,123 --> 01:05:12,909
And the truth, it's
what you make it.
1116
01:05:13,083 --> 01:05:14,823
Listen to me, Patrice,
1117
01:05:14,998 --> 01:05:19,176
the bible, it's just a
book about white people
1118
01:05:19,350 --> 01:05:21,482
trying to feel good
about themselves.
1119
01:05:21,656 --> 01:05:23,441
It's a lot of self
righteousness.
1120
01:05:23,615 --> 01:05:25,878
- No, I don't know about that,
see,
1121
01:05:26,052 --> 01:05:28,925
I just, it's about the
oppressed race
1122
01:05:29,099 --> 01:05:32,276
and god's power, that's
what I feel it's about.
1123
01:05:32,450 --> 01:05:35,018
It's much like my own poetry,
1124
01:05:36,062 --> 01:05:38,543
only God is the great equalizer.
1125
01:05:40,284 --> 01:05:42,764
It's not about color or race,
1126
01:05:42,939 --> 01:05:44,636
it's about forgiveness.
1127
01:05:46,029 --> 01:05:47,813
I'm seeing whole
different book here now.
1128
01:05:47,987 --> 01:05:49,467
- You've been talking to Sara.
1129
01:05:49,641 --> 01:05:52,383
- No mam, I have not
but I might.
1130
01:05:53,993 --> 01:05:56,300
I just want to get
my life right.
1131
01:05:56,474 --> 01:05:58,824
- Patrice, your life
is fine the way it is.
1132
01:05:58,998 --> 01:06:00,826
You are a good person.
1133
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:02,480
You remember that.
1134
01:06:05,004 --> 01:06:07,093
- I just don't know anymore.
1135
01:06:09,269 --> 01:06:10,618
- [Rodney] I think the
boys enjoyed that
1136
01:06:10,792 --> 01:06:12,794
more than the restaurant,
don't you think?
1137
01:06:12,969 --> 01:06:14,927
- Oh, I know they did.
1138
01:06:15,101 --> 01:06:17,016
- [Rodney] Do you
feel like desert?
1139
01:06:17,190 --> 01:06:18,191
- No, you?
1140
01:06:19,192 --> 01:06:22,065
- No, I'm good, I'm
good with this.
1141
01:06:23,631 --> 01:06:27,374
- [Sara] Can I ask you kind
of a personal question?
1142
01:06:27,548 --> 01:06:28,419
- Sure.
1143
01:06:30,203 --> 01:06:33,076
- What made you become a pastor?
1144
01:06:34,207 --> 01:06:38,168
- Well, I came to the
Lord at eight years old.
1145
01:06:40,083 --> 01:06:41,084
- Eight?
1146
01:06:41,258 --> 01:06:42,520
- Yep.
1147
01:06:42,694 --> 01:06:45,044
- Well then there's hope
for my boys yet.
1148
01:06:45,218 --> 01:06:48,091
- Yes, your boys remind me
a lot of my brother and I.
1149
01:06:48,265 --> 01:06:52,051
We're around the same
number of years apart.
1150
01:06:59,058 --> 01:07:02,192
- So what happened when
you were eight?
1151
01:07:05,412 --> 01:07:08,241
- Well, a couple of
friends of mine and I
1152
01:07:08,415 --> 01:07:12,071
went into a local five
and dime store
1153
01:07:12,245 --> 01:07:15,814
and saw some candy,
didn't have any change,
1154
01:07:18,208 --> 01:07:22,212
grabbed a handful and
ran out of that place
1155
01:07:22,386 --> 01:07:24,214
and went down the street,
1156
01:07:24,388 --> 01:07:26,085
I was scared to death,
1157
01:07:26,259 --> 01:07:27,608
I thought somebody was
gonna jump out
1158
01:07:27,782 --> 01:07:28,696
and grab my shoulder
1159
01:07:28,870 --> 01:07:30,002
and off to jail I'd go.
1160
01:07:30,176 --> 01:07:31,569
- I bet.
1161
01:07:31,743 --> 01:07:33,005
Don't tell that to my boys.
1162
01:07:33,179 --> 01:07:35,094
I don't want them
getting any ideas.
1163
01:07:35,268 --> 01:07:37,009
That is unless of course
you did go to jail.
1164
01:07:37,183 --> 01:07:40,665
- No, I went to church on
Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday
1165
01:07:42,232 --> 01:07:45,409
because my father was a
true blue bible believer
1166
01:07:45,583 --> 01:07:48,499
and he was gonna make sure
that we got the message.
1167
01:07:48,673 --> 01:07:51,067
- You and I grew up in
the same family.
1168
01:07:51,241 --> 01:07:55,593
- Yeah well, only I never
really got the message.
1169
01:07:55,767 --> 01:07:59,336
I could never figure out why
we went to church so much,
1170
01:07:59,510 --> 01:08:00,554
why we had to go
1171
01:08:00,728 --> 01:08:03,122
but that night was different.
1172
01:08:04,689 --> 01:08:08,040
I remember sitting in my
seat in church
1173
01:08:08,214 --> 01:08:11,348
and I had tears rolling
down my cheeks
1174
01:08:12,610 --> 01:08:15,178
and that candy was in my pocket
1175
01:08:17,180 --> 01:08:19,225
felt like it weighed 100 pounds
1176
01:08:19,399 --> 01:08:21,967
and then the minister said,
1177
01:08:22,141 --> 01:08:26,319
"Anyone out there who'd
like to ask for forgiveness
1178
01:08:26,493 --> 01:08:29,235
"and live a life with Jesus
Christ, please come forward."
1179
01:08:29,409 --> 01:08:31,629
And I couldn't get out
of my seat quick enough.
1180
01:08:31,803 --> 01:08:34,501
I ran forward and I kneeled
1181
01:08:34,675 --> 01:08:37,809
and when I came face to
face with him,
1182
01:08:40,333 --> 01:08:42,553
my hands were shaking,
1183
01:08:42,727 --> 01:08:45,208
and I handed over the candy.
1184
01:08:46,165 --> 01:08:47,558
- You poor thing.
1185
01:08:48,646 --> 01:08:50,430
- And he looked at me,
1186
01:08:52,432 --> 01:08:55,435
he just wiped the tears
off my cheeks
1187
01:08:56,480 --> 01:08:58,395
and he gave me a big hug
1188
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:01,093
and he lifted me in the air
1189
01:09:01,267 --> 01:09:03,617
and I tell you at that moment,
1190
01:09:03,791 --> 01:09:05,750
I felt pure forgiveness,
1191
01:09:07,578 --> 01:09:08,927
pure, pure love,
1192
01:09:10,842 --> 01:09:14,933
and I guess that's why
they call it the good news.
1193
01:09:17,196 --> 01:09:18,197
Ever since that day,
1194
01:09:18,371 --> 01:09:19,372
I just wanted to spread the word
1195
01:09:19,546 --> 01:09:20,808
to anybody who'd listen
1196
01:09:20,982 --> 01:09:23,333
and I took my bible
anywhere I went.
1197
01:09:23,507 --> 01:09:25,161
- You gave me chills.
1198
01:09:26,423 --> 01:09:29,513
- Impressions, when
you're young, boy.
1199
01:09:30,862 --> 01:09:33,647
- I wish it was that
clear for me.
1200
01:09:35,867 --> 01:09:39,000
I mean I don't know what
God has planned for my life,
1201
01:09:39,175 --> 01:09:41,307
what he wants me to do,
1202
01:09:41,481 --> 01:09:42,787
what my path is.
1203
01:09:45,572 --> 01:09:49,010
Lately, I think he wants
me to reach out to Coley
1204
01:09:49,185 --> 01:09:51,187
and Patrice and Glen
1205
01:09:51,361 --> 01:09:53,493
and bring them closer to God.
1206
01:09:55,321 --> 01:09:56,844
But I don't know how.
1207
01:09:57,715 --> 01:09:59,717
I've tried,
1208
01:09:59,891 --> 01:10:03,721
I send them emails and
literature
and all that but you know.
1209
01:10:03,895 --> 01:10:07,594
- Yeah, well sorry,
emails and literature
1210
01:10:07,768 --> 01:10:10,728
are something that can really
turn people off, you know,
1211
01:10:10,902 --> 01:10:12,382
it's just not personal enough.
1212
01:10:12,556 --> 01:10:13,339
- Yeah.
1213
01:10:14,253 --> 01:10:16,255
- I got a better idea.
1214
01:10:17,430 --> 01:10:19,563
Why don't you go visit?
1215
01:10:19,737 --> 01:10:21,173
Why not?
1216
01:10:21,347 --> 01:10:22,740
It's the perfect time,
1217
01:10:22,914 --> 01:10:24,785
their hearts are open,
1218
01:10:24,959 --> 01:10:26,700
I'll watch your boys for you.
1219
01:10:26,874 --> 01:10:28,224
- You will not.
1220
01:10:28,398 --> 01:10:29,573
- I will, I would love
to watch 'em.
1221
01:10:29,747 --> 01:10:31,227
We have such a great time.
1222
01:10:31,401 --> 01:10:34,230
- You are so amazing
with them, Pastor Rod.
1223
01:10:34,404 --> 01:10:37,624
- I thought you could
call me Rod or Rodney
1224
01:10:37,798 --> 01:10:41,106
and cut out the amazing part,
too.
1225
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:44,544
I mean, nah, maybe
leave that in.
1226
01:10:44,718 --> 01:10:47,678
- Okay, alright, well
Rod or Rodney,
1227
01:10:50,855 --> 01:10:52,335
can I ask you,
1228
01:10:52,509 --> 01:10:54,641
you're so great with kids,
1229
01:10:55,599 --> 01:10:57,862
have you ever been married?
1230
01:10:59,994 --> 01:11:01,213
- I really have been married
1231
01:11:01,387 --> 01:11:03,607
to the holy word and the church
1232
01:11:03,781 --> 01:11:06,566
I just haven't
married a woman yet.
1233
01:11:07,828 --> 01:11:10,962
- Well, maybe one day
you'll marry me.
1234
01:11:17,751 --> 01:11:18,709
- Hey mom.
1235
01:11:18,883 --> 01:11:19,623
- Yeah?
1236
01:11:19,797 --> 01:11:20,798
- I'm thirsty.
1237
01:11:20,972 --> 01:11:22,800
- Let me take care of that.
1238
01:11:33,463 --> 01:11:35,291
- Maybe one day I will.
1239
01:11:46,084 --> 01:11:49,609
- Well maybe you'll
marry me one day.
1240
01:11:49,783 --> 01:11:52,438
[happy music]
1241
01:12:06,452 --> 01:12:09,194
- I was just thinking we
should take a trip to Hotlanta
1242
01:12:09,368 --> 01:12:10,282
and here you are.
1243
01:12:10,456 --> 01:12:11,762
This is amazing.
1244
01:12:13,459 --> 01:12:14,721
- You've been on my
heart and mind
1245
01:12:14,895 --> 01:12:16,941
for the last two weeks, Patrice.
1246
01:12:17,115 --> 01:12:20,858
- There are so many times
I've been meaning to call you
1247
01:12:21,032 --> 01:12:23,469
but I haven't had the courage.
1248
01:12:25,471 --> 01:12:29,257
I haven't felt that
good about myself.
1249
01:12:29,432 --> 01:12:32,783
- You, who is so bold
in everything you do,
1250
01:12:34,828 --> 01:12:37,353
not good about yourself?
1251
01:12:37,527 --> 01:12:40,356
- Sometimes that boldness
covers up other things,
1252
01:12:40,530 --> 01:12:41,357
believe me.
1253
01:12:43,533 --> 01:12:44,882
- I don't think I ever
told you about this
1254
01:12:45,056 --> 01:12:48,364
but when I was younger
I met this man,
1255
01:12:50,409 --> 01:12:54,500
he was so handsome, Harvard
Business School grad and white,
1256
01:12:56,459 --> 01:12:59,679
and I fell head over
heels in love with him
1257
01:13:00,854 --> 01:13:02,334
and it took a lot of
courage for me
1258
01:13:02,508 --> 01:13:05,337
to bring him around my family.
1259
01:13:05,511 --> 01:13:09,385
You know how proud they are
about our black heritage.
1260
01:13:11,387 --> 01:13:12,866
He kept telling me
1261
01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:14,738
it doesn't matter if a
person's black or white,
1262
01:13:14,912 --> 01:13:17,305
what really matters
is true love,
1263
01:13:17,480 --> 01:13:19,264
only his love wasn't so true
1264
01:13:19,438 --> 01:13:21,788
because a few days after he
took me to meet his family,
1265
01:13:21,962 --> 01:13:24,574
I never heard from him again.
1266
01:13:25,488 --> 01:13:26,924
He got some job up in New York
1267
01:13:27,098 --> 01:13:28,665
and lost my number.
1268
01:13:30,144 --> 01:13:32,190
I was devastated and lost
1269
01:13:33,583 --> 01:13:37,500
and it changed the way I
felt about other people
1270
01:13:38,936 --> 01:13:41,504
but mainly it changed the way
1271
01:13:42,766 --> 01:13:44,724
how I felt about myself.
1272
01:13:46,465 --> 01:13:47,379
- I'm sorry.
1273
01:13:47,553 --> 01:13:48,815
- No, I'm sorry.
1274
01:13:48,989 --> 01:13:51,339
I'm sorry it took Gracie's death
1275
01:13:51,514 --> 01:13:53,690
for me to really get
to the truth.
1276
01:13:54,995 --> 01:13:57,389
That's when I started
reading the bible,
1277
01:13:57,563 --> 01:13:59,609
the bible that you gave me,
1278
01:13:59,783 --> 01:14:03,569
and for the first time,
I felt love, real love.
1279
01:14:07,530 --> 01:14:08,705
- Yeah and peace,
1280
01:14:11,664 --> 01:14:14,014
especially at a time like this.
1281
01:14:14,188 --> 01:14:15,538
- Yeah.
1282
01:14:15,712 --> 01:14:18,889
- God has his reasons
for doing things
1283
01:14:19,063 --> 01:14:21,587
that we don't always understand
1284
01:14:23,546 --> 01:14:24,938
like losing Gracie.
1285
01:14:28,594 --> 01:14:29,987
One day when we meet in heaven,
1286
01:14:30,161 --> 01:14:32,424
we'll understand his reasons
1287
01:14:32,598 --> 01:14:34,121
and it will all make sense
1288
01:14:35,688 --> 01:14:39,779
and we'll see all the times
when he was watching over us
1289
01:14:39,953 --> 01:14:41,520
and protecting us
1290
01:14:42,521 --> 01:14:43,653
and loving us.
1291
01:14:46,830 --> 01:14:49,485
- I believe that, I really do.
1292
01:14:51,661 --> 01:14:53,750
Okay, so what's next?
1293
01:14:53,924 --> 01:14:54,968
I don't know how this works.
1294
01:14:55,142 --> 01:14:57,667
- Well keep reading your bible
1295
01:14:57,841 --> 01:15:00,539
and find a church,
I'll help you.
1296
01:15:02,193 --> 01:15:06,153
Actually, our church every
month has a ceremony,
1297
01:15:07,807 --> 01:15:09,896
a baptism ceremony for
new believers
1298
01:15:10,070 --> 01:15:11,768
and it's this Sunday.
1299
01:15:12,682 --> 01:15:14,466
You could come if you want to
1300
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,556
and be baptized by
Pastor Rodney.
1301
01:15:18,557 --> 01:15:21,517
- Ooh, well yes then,
I'd love to.
1302
01:15:23,736 --> 01:15:27,000
- Somebody pinch me, I
must be dreaming.
1303
01:15:29,046 --> 01:15:30,395
- Thank you.
1304
01:15:30,569 --> 01:15:32,353
- [Sara] I'm so glad I came.
1305
01:15:32,528 --> 01:15:33,529
- Me too.
1306
01:15:37,054 --> 01:15:39,883
[doorbell ringing]
1307
01:15:47,717 --> 01:15:51,024
- Oh hey, she's waiting
for you upstairs.
1308
01:15:52,809 --> 01:15:55,942
- Grady, how about a
hello and a hug?
1309
01:15:56,116 --> 01:15:58,336
- You girls drive me crazy.
1310
01:16:12,568 --> 01:16:13,351
- Come in.
1311
01:16:13,525 --> 01:16:14,744
Oh, it's just you.
1312
01:16:17,137 --> 01:16:19,052
- Well, who were you expecting?
1313
01:16:19,226 --> 01:16:20,837
- Well, Blake Shelton of course
1314
01:16:21,011 --> 01:16:23,927
but he appears to be
running a little late.
1315
01:16:24,101 --> 01:16:25,102
- Get out of this bed.
1316
01:16:25,276 --> 01:16:26,190
- I am sick and running a fever.
1317
01:16:26,364 --> 01:16:27,844
- You are not sick.
1318
01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:31,761
Did you have something
you wanted to say to me?
1319
01:16:31,935 --> 01:16:34,938
- I thought I said it
with the check.
1320
01:16:36,113 --> 01:16:37,636
I'm sorry though.
1321
01:16:40,639 --> 01:16:42,902
- Well that's better, not much.
1322
01:16:45,296 --> 01:16:48,386
- I am trying to change
my evil ways.
1323
01:16:49,692 --> 01:16:51,955
I even went to a
couple AA meetings.
1324
01:16:52,129 --> 01:16:53,957
- Yeah, you get
anything out of 'em?
1325
01:16:54,131 --> 01:16:55,436
- Yeah, they gave me a chip,
1326
01:16:55,611 --> 01:16:57,743
it says one day at a time.
1327
01:16:57,917 --> 01:17:01,051
It just doesn't seem to
be working very well.
1328
01:17:01,225 --> 01:17:03,749
- Well how 'bout I take
you to church instead?
1329
01:17:03,923 --> 01:17:06,056
- Oh no, I'm already
gong through menopause.
1330
01:17:06,230 --> 01:17:08,841
That would really bring
on the hot flashes, no.
1331
01:17:09,015 --> 01:17:10,321
- Coley, I'm serious.
1332
01:17:10,495 --> 01:17:12,976
I've never seen you
like this before.
1333
01:17:13,150 --> 01:17:15,805
You can't go on like this.
1334
01:17:15,979 --> 01:17:18,285
You've hurt a lot of people.
1335
01:17:19,809 --> 01:17:21,811
- Yeah, I suppose I have.
1336
01:17:24,117 --> 01:17:26,859
But what else is new, right?
1337
01:17:27,033 --> 01:17:29,557
It seems to be my area
of expertise,
1338
01:17:29,732 --> 01:17:31,864
just like I hurt my son.
1339
01:17:32,038 --> 01:17:33,344
- It's not too late.
1340
01:17:34,824 --> 01:17:37,914
Coley, all things are
possible with God.
1341
01:17:39,959 --> 01:17:43,006
This straight out of his word.
1342
01:17:43,180 --> 01:17:46,923
All things including
mending your broken past,
1343
01:17:47,837 --> 01:17:48,925
your relationship with Bobby,
1344
01:17:49,099 --> 01:17:50,013
all of it.
1345
01:17:50,187 --> 01:17:51,362
- I miss Bobby.
1346
01:17:52,668 --> 01:17:54,670
[sobbing]
1347
01:17:54,844 --> 01:17:56,454
I miss him so much.
1348
01:18:00,980 --> 01:18:03,679
But I can't face it
without boos.
1349
01:18:03,853 --> 01:18:06,029
I can't do anything without it
1350
01:18:06,203 --> 01:18:07,378
and I've tried.
1351
01:18:08,684 --> 01:18:09,946
It's impossible.
1352
01:18:11,208 --> 01:18:13,079
- All things are
possible with God.
1353
01:18:13,253 --> 01:18:14,864
- Maybe for some.
1354
01:18:16,866 --> 01:18:18,563
- Please let me help you.
1355
01:18:18,737 --> 01:18:19,999
- You know what,
1356
01:18:20,173 --> 01:18:22,741
I've got a bad
headache right now
1357
01:18:22,915 --> 01:18:26,614
but thank you for coming
by, really, I appreciate it.
1358
01:18:26,789 --> 01:18:29,661
- Don't go breaking my
heart right now, I need you.
1359
01:18:29,835 --> 01:18:31,010
- I need you too
1360
01:18:32,446 --> 01:18:36,712
and I won't let you down,
I'll call, really I will.
1361
01:18:38,888 --> 01:18:41,804
Now you go on and get
out of here now.
1362
01:19:06,393 --> 01:19:08,265
- [Male] Miss Dorothy Rutledge?
1363
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:09,701
- Who's asking?
1364
01:19:09,875 --> 01:19:10,528
- FBI, mam.
1365
01:19:11,790 --> 01:19:13,705
We have reason to believe
that your daughter
1366
01:19:13,879 --> 01:19:15,751
may be seeing a man
named Mark Johnson.
1367
01:19:15,925 --> 01:19:17,317
I thought you should know
1368
01:19:17,491 --> 01:19:18,623
that he's under federal
investigation
1369
01:19:18,797 --> 01:19:20,320
and that anybody
involved with him
1370
01:19:20,494 --> 01:19:22,758
could be subject to the
same type of trouble.
1371
01:19:22,932 --> 01:19:23,454
- Trouble?
1372
01:19:24,977 --> 01:19:28,459
- Danger mam, a con
artist of the worst kind.
1373
01:19:39,905 --> 01:19:40,601
- Hey there, Fred.
1374
01:19:40,776 --> 01:19:42,299
- Look at you.
1375
01:19:42,473 --> 01:19:45,345
Why don't you have a seat
right down next to me?
1376
01:19:45,519 --> 01:19:48,609
- That's alright, I'm just
waiting on my good friend,
vodka.
1377
01:19:48,784 --> 01:19:49,785
- Straight up?
1378
01:19:49,959 --> 01:19:52,744
- You know I've never liked ice.
1379
01:19:52,918 --> 01:19:53,876
It's too cold.
1380
01:19:54,050 --> 01:19:55,399
- Make that two.
1381
01:19:56,922 --> 01:19:59,229
- [Bartender] I could do it.
1382
01:20:04,060 --> 01:20:05,931
- You had some visitors today.
1383
01:20:06,105 --> 01:20:07,715
- I did, who?
1384
01:20:07,890 --> 01:20:10,370
- Two gentlemen from the FBI.
1385
01:20:10,544 --> 01:20:12,198
- What are you talking about?
1386
01:20:12,372 --> 01:20:14,157
- Well, they told me that
my daughter was dumb enough
1387
01:20:14,331 --> 01:20:15,419
to have an internet affair
1388
01:20:15,593 --> 01:20:18,074
with a professional con artist.
1389
01:20:18,944 --> 01:20:20,250
You were one of 26,
1390
01:20:21,555 --> 01:20:22,905
four of them live right
here in Charleston,
1391
01:20:23,079 --> 01:20:25,081
all waiting to meet him.
1392
01:20:25,995 --> 01:20:26,952
How special.
1393
01:20:28,171 --> 01:20:29,694
If he thought
1394
01:20:29,868 --> 01:20:31,348
he wasn't gonna get a big
enough check from 'em,
1395
01:20:31,522 --> 01:20:32,653
he would pickpocket their purses
1396
01:20:32,828 --> 01:20:33,872
while they were dining out
1397
01:20:34,046 --> 01:20:35,700
and by the time they realized,
1398
01:20:35,874 --> 01:20:39,356
there would be $25,000 in
hotel and restaurant charges
1399
01:20:39,530 --> 01:20:41,314
on their credit cards.
1400
01:20:42,272 --> 01:20:43,795
Where did you think
1401
01:20:43,969 --> 01:20:45,710
that the two of you would
go for dinner tonight
1402
01:20:45,884 --> 01:20:47,407
on your dollar
1403
01:20:47,581 --> 01:20:50,410
and no one in this town
would recognize you?
1404
01:20:50,584 --> 01:20:52,369
Of course, you didn't
think about that
1405
01:20:52,543 --> 01:20:56,808
because your family name means
absolutely nothing to you.
1406
01:20:56,982 --> 01:20:59,071
- Mother, that's not true.
1407
01:21:00,072 --> 01:21:01,508
- How long do you think
it's gonna be
1408
01:21:01,682 --> 01:21:05,034
before everybody in this
town knows about this?
1409
01:21:05,208 --> 01:21:06,818
Maybe if you'd be a better wife
1410
01:21:06,992 --> 01:21:08,559
to the husband that you
have living here,
1411
01:21:08,733 --> 01:21:10,517
the two of you wouldn't
go tramping around town
1412
01:21:10,691 --> 01:21:12,824
leaving your dirty laundry
in everybody else's backyard.
1413
01:21:12,998 --> 01:21:15,653
- Mother, stop it, just stop it,
1414
01:21:16,915 --> 01:21:19,004
just once, just once I wish,
1415
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:24,357
I wish that you would shut up.
1416
01:21:26,969 --> 01:21:28,057
- Where are you going?
1417
01:21:28,231 --> 01:21:30,363
- [Glen] None of your business.
1418
01:21:32,322 --> 01:21:33,889
[knocking on window]
1419
01:21:34,063 --> 01:21:35,760
- Are you with the blonde lady?
1420
01:21:35,934 --> 01:21:37,109
- Yes, I am.
- You need to come in,
1421
01:21:37,283 --> 01:21:38,676
I need some help.
1422
01:21:41,635 --> 01:21:43,811
- [Rodney] Just feel free
to say what's on your mind,
1423
01:21:43,986 --> 01:21:45,378
that's what we're here for.
1424
01:21:45,552 --> 01:21:48,033
- It's just really hard
to understand.
1425
01:21:50,427 --> 01:21:54,170
I have spent my whole
life trying to be good.
1426
01:21:58,000 --> 01:22:01,003
I've never deliberately sinned
1427
01:22:01,177 --> 01:22:04,180
or tried to hurt anyone else.
1428
01:22:04,354 --> 01:22:06,878
And still I am sitting here
1429
01:22:07,052 --> 01:22:10,273
and I am watching my whole
life fall apart
1430
01:22:11,970 --> 01:22:13,929
and every good thing that
I have ever done
1431
01:22:14,103 --> 01:22:15,713
has led me nowhere.
1432
01:22:18,977 --> 01:22:20,370
And then when I finally decided
1433
01:22:20,544 --> 01:22:23,025
that I was sick of being good,
1434
01:22:25,114 --> 01:22:27,377
I still get walked all over.
1435
01:22:28,508 --> 01:22:31,990
- Glen, only you and God
know the truth.
1436
01:22:34,123 --> 01:22:36,125
You don't have to answer
to me or anybody else
1437
01:22:36,299 --> 01:22:39,563
but let me just ask you
one question,
1438
01:22:39,737 --> 01:22:41,304
have you ever told a lie?
1439
01:22:41,478 --> 01:22:43,132
- Of course.
1440
01:22:43,306 --> 01:22:45,264
- Have you ever used
the lord's name in vain?
1441
01:22:45,438 --> 01:22:46,962
- Everyone has.
1442
01:22:47,136 --> 01:22:48,876
- Do you know that
the bible says
1443
01:22:49,051 --> 01:22:51,488
that if you look at
another person in lust
1444
01:22:51,662 --> 01:22:55,448
that you are guilty in
your heart of adultery?
1445
01:22:58,060 --> 01:23:00,366
- But everyone does
those things?
1446
01:23:00,540 --> 01:23:02,151
- That is exactly right
1447
01:23:02,325 --> 01:23:05,110
and that is why Jesus
sacrificed his life for us
1448
01:23:05,284 --> 01:23:06,807
so that we wouldn't have
to spend an eternity
1449
01:23:06,982 --> 01:23:08,244
separated from God.
1450
01:23:08,418 --> 01:23:10,376
He took on our sin.
1451
01:23:10,550 --> 01:23:11,987
- But what is sin?
1452
01:23:15,294 --> 01:23:17,862
And I don't like the
idea of a God
1453
01:23:18,036 --> 01:23:19,690
who sends people to hell.
1454
01:23:19,864 --> 01:23:24,390
- Sin is when you go directly
against god's holy word,
1455
01:23:24,564 --> 01:23:27,002
against his holy commandments.
1456
01:23:28,177 --> 01:23:29,656
- So you're saying
1457
01:23:33,138 --> 01:23:36,141
that God is the only
truly good thing
1458
01:23:38,622 --> 01:23:40,798
and we can never be good enough
1459
01:23:42,278 --> 01:23:46,369
but he's given us a way out
despite all of our sinning
1460
01:23:48,632 --> 01:23:49,459
so what?
1461
01:23:53,158 --> 01:23:55,291
Being good is a waste of time?
1462
01:23:55,465 --> 01:23:58,337
- No, no, no, being
good is good,
1463
01:23:58,511 --> 01:24:01,210
being good works for society,
it's great
1464
01:24:01,384 --> 01:24:02,211
but what we're really
talking about here
1465
01:24:02,385 --> 01:24:04,387
is faith in Jesus Christ.
1466
01:24:06,780 --> 01:24:11,046
- I'm really tired of trying
to figure it out on my own.
1467
01:24:12,221 --> 01:24:13,135
I'm exhausted.
1468
01:24:15,833 --> 01:24:19,402
But I know that there
has to be a better way
1469
01:24:22,231 --> 01:24:23,971
I just don't know
whether this is it
1470
01:24:24,146 --> 01:24:28,280
and I just don't know if
Jesus Christ is the only way.
1471
01:24:28,454 --> 01:24:32,545
- Glen, nobody walks through
those church doors by mistake,
1472
01:24:33,546 --> 01:24:34,547
nobody.
1473
01:24:34,721 --> 01:24:37,159
Lord is calling out for you,
1474
01:24:37,333 --> 01:24:39,900
right now reaching out for you.
1475
01:24:40,075 --> 01:24:41,946
- I'll think about it,
1476
01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:43,208
I'll think about it
1477
01:24:43,382 --> 01:24:45,993
and I'll maybe do some reading.
1478
01:24:46,168 --> 01:24:49,736
- Don't just think
about it, pray about it.
1479
01:24:52,217 --> 01:24:54,132
Listen to your heart.
1480
01:24:55,090 --> 01:24:56,352
It'll tell you.
1481
01:24:58,441 --> 01:25:00,965
Read the bible I gave you.
1482
01:25:01,139 --> 01:25:05,100
You know Patrice is getting
baptized here Sunday.
1483
01:25:06,536 --> 01:25:09,408
- I knew she'd been
talking to you.
1484
01:25:12,498 --> 01:25:15,762
Wait, I was baptized when
I was a child.
1485
01:25:19,114 --> 01:25:20,680
- Mmhmm, yeah, me too,
1486
01:25:22,421 --> 01:25:25,642
that was our parents commitment
to raise us in the faith
1487
01:25:25,816 --> 01:25:28,993
but as adults, it's our choice
1488
01:25:29,167 --> 01:25:33,650
so baptism is publicly
proclaiming your faith in Jesus
1489
01:25:33,824 --> 01:25:35,391
as our savior.
1490
01:25:35,565 --> 01:25:39,308
And all you need to do
that is the faith part.
1491
01:25:44,182 --> 01:25:46,576
- Help me with my lack of faith.
1492
01:25:49,492 --> 01:25:51,798
- Okay.
- Good gracious girl.
1493
01:25:53,496 --> 01:25:56,760
Glen, could we pray with
you right now?
1494
01:26:00,198 --> 01:26:02,809
- Alright, let's pray with Glen.
1495
01:26:05,290 --> 01:26:06,596
Dear holy father,
1496
01:26:06,770 --> 01:26:09,338
thank you for bringing
Glen here today.
1497
01:26:09,512 --> 01:26:11,427
Pray that you'll guide her
1498
01:26:11,601 --> 01:26:14,125
like you guided her
into this church,
1499
01:26:14,299 --> 01:26:16,301
you'll guide her on her way
1500
01:26:17,694 --> 01:26:19,652
to a life in your faith.
1501
01:26:21,350 --> 01:26:23,787
Praise in Jesus's name, amen.
1502
01:26:27,269 --> 01:26:30,185
- Drugs, alcohol,
possible overdose.
1503
01:26:37,714 --> 01:26:39,672
- Take good care of her.
1504
01:26:48,681 --> 01:26:50,292
- What do you think?
1505
01:26:50,466 --> 01:26:53,991
Do you think we got through
to her a little bit?
1506
01:26:57,386 --> 01:27:00,258
Thank you assistant pastor.
1507
01:27:00,432 --> 01:27:02,826
- Thank you assistant friend.
1508
01:27:05,611 --> 01:27:07,091
[phone ringing]
1509
01:27:07,265 --> 01:27:09,136
Oh, I should take this.
1510
01:27:09,311 --> 01:27:10,442
It might be Daisy,
she's got the boys.
1511
01:27:10,616 --> 01:27:11,400
Hello?
1512
01:27:15,882 --> 01:27:16,709
What?
1513
01:27:21,758 --> 01:27:22,541
No.
1514
01:27:23,934 --> 01:27:26,241
Okay, I'll be right there.
1515
01:27:28,417 --> 01:27:29,722
- What happened?
1516
01:27:31,289 --> 01:27:32,159
- It's Coley.
1517
01:27:32,334 --> 01:27:34,249
She's in the hospital.
1518
01:27:36,947 --> 01:27:38,209
She took an overdose of pills
1519
01:27:38,383 --> 01:27:40,690
and they're trying
to revive her.
1520
01:27:43,258 --> 01:27:44,868
I can't do this again.
1521
01:27:47,697 --> 01:27:49,525
I can't do this again.
1522
01:27:50,700 --> 01:27:52,702
- Listen, I'm going to drive you
1523
01:27:52,876 --> 01:27:55,705
and everything's
gonna be alright.
1524
01:27:55,879 --> 01:27:59,143
Okay, I promise you,
everything's gonna be alright.
1525
01:27:59,317 --> 01:28:01,276
Let's go, come on, let's go.
1526
01:28:01,450 --> 01:28:03,713
[tense music]
1527
01:28:09,762 --> 01:28:10,589
- [Doctor] Are you family?
1528
01:28:10,763 --> 01:28:11,547
- Yes.
1529
01:28:12,852 --> 01:28:14,680
- Well, she's a very lucky lady.
1530
01:28:14,854 --> 01:28:18,293
Her blood alcohol alone
was close to killing her
1531
01:28:18,467 --> 01:28:21,165
and she had 30 pills
in her stomach.
1532
01:28:21,339 --> 01:28:24,255
I'm not so sure this
wasn't a suicide attempt.
1533
01:28:24,429 --> 01:28:27,780
- No, no, I know here,
she wouldn't do that.
1534
01:28:31,480 --> 01:28:32,872
She just got confused
1535
01:28:33,046 --> 01:28:34,396
and she didn't know how
many she took.
1536
01:28:34,570 --> 01:28:37,921
- Well, my advice to her
is to stay here
1537
01:28:38,095 --> 01:28:39,401
and get some medical attention,
1538
01:28:39,575 --> 01:28:42,534
mostly psychological
at this point.
1539
01:28:42,708 --> 01:28:45,624
She's going to need help,
serious help.
1540
01:28:45,798 --> 01:28:47,278
- May we go in to see her now?
1541
01:28:47,452 --> 01:28:50,325
- Two at a time, no
longer than five minutes,
1542
01:28:50,499 --> 01:28:51,761
she needs rest.
1543
01:28:54,329 --> 01:28:56,287
- Well you two go first.
1544
01:28:56,461 --> 01:28:57,680
- Okay.
1545
01:28:57,854 --> 01:28:58,637
- Okay.
1546
01:29:03,990 --> 01:29:08,430
- I hear you're going to
be baptized this weekend.
1547
01:29:08,604 --> 01:29:09,648
- Yeah, I am.
1548
01:29:14,653 --> 01:29:15,437
- Me too.
1549
01:29:22,835 --> 01:29:25,360
- That looks like it.
1550
01:29:25,534 --> 01:29:28,145
[machine beeping]
1551
01:29:41,463 --> 01:29:42,464
- Coley.
1552
01:29:45,075 --> 01:29:45,902
- Hey Sara.
1553
01:29:49,035 --> 01:29:50,428
- Oh thank
1554
01:29:52,604 --> 01:29:54,476
We've been praying for
you all night.
1555
01:29:54,650 --> 01:29:56,303
Everybody's here
1556
01:29:56,478 --> 01:29:59,655
but Pastor Rodney and Patrice,
even Glen.
1557
01:30:02,571 --> 01:30:03,572
- I'm real sorry,
1558
01:30:04,921 --> 01:30:07,706
I didn't mean to give
everybody a fright.
1559
01:30:07,880 --> 01:30:10,535
- We're just glad you're here.
1560
01:30:13,625 --> 01:30:15,540
- Sara, would you step
out in the hall?
1561
01:30:15,714 --> 01:30:18,935
I'd like to talk to
Pastor Rodney alone.
1562
01:30:27,770 --> 01:30:28,553
- Okay.
1563
01:30:33,515 --> 01:30:34,603
I love you.
1564
01:30:40,130 --> 01:30:42,349
- How are you doing?
1565
01:30:42,524 --> 01:30:43,220
- I'm here.
1566
01:30:44,656 --> 01:30:46,658
- Yeah, you sure are.
1567
01:30:46,832 --> 01:30:48,878
You sure have a lot of
friends out there
1568
01:30:49,052 --> 01:30:50,575
who care about you.
1569
01:30:51,663 --> 01:30:53,796
- You don't know me
from anybody.
1570
01:30:53,970 --> 01:30:56,712
- Well, I do know
something about you.
1571
01:30:56,886 --> 01:30:58,975
I know you just asked
me to stay here
1572
01:30:59,149 --> 01:31:00,498
because there's
something in your heart
1573
01:31:00,672 --> 01:31:03,588
that's looking for a
deeper meaning.
1574
01:31:04,981 --> 01:31:06,417
I may not know you personally
1575
01:31:06,591 --> 01:31:09,638
but Jesus knows every
hair on your head.
1576
01:31:13,468 --> 01:31:14,338
- Yeah, me too.
1577
01:31:14,512 --> 01:31:16,253
- Yeah, I'll bet you do.
1578
01:31:18,081 --> 01:31:21,563
- Pastor, you probably
never met anybody
1579
01:31:24,653 --> 01:31:26,959
quite like me before, right?
1580
01:31:29,135 --> 01:31:31,355
- Well, matter of fact
1581
01:31:31,529 --> 01:31:35,011
I do know someone who
drank an awful lot,
1582
01:31:35,185 --> 01:31:37,796
yep, she was pretty like you too
1583
01:31:38,754 --> 01:31:40,973
and had three kids,
1584
01:31:41,147 --> 01:31:43,367
had great husband,
1585
01:31:43,541 --> 01:31:45,674
nice place in the suburbs,
1586
01:31:46,588 --> 01:31:47,893
she wasn't happy
1587
01:31:48,067 --> 01:31:50,809
'cause all she wanted
to do was drink.
1588
01:31:50,983 --> 01:31:53,638
And one day she just vanished,
1589
01:31:56,032 --> 01:31:59,514
left those kids behind,
family behind,
1590
01:31:59,688 --> 01:32:03,779
met some fella who made
a lot of promises to her
1591
01:32:03,953 --> 01:32:05,302
and had some money,
1592
01:32:06,695 --> 01:32:08,523
she partied and
partied and partied
1593
01:32:08,697 --> 01:32:11,917
till the parties got
smaller and smaller
1594
01:32:12,091 --> 01:32:14,224
till there was no one left
1595
01:32:16,052 --> 01:32:17,836
and Carol was her name
1596
01:32:21,057 --> 01:32:22,667
and Carol ended up
1597
01:32:22,841 --> 01:32:26,802
in a cheap seven dollar a
night motel room drinking
1598
01:32:26,976 --> 01:32:27,803
all alone
1599
01:32:29,239 --> 01:32:31,676
and her kids wanted to see her
1600
01:32:34,157 --> 01:32:36,855
but she just refused
to see them.
1601
01:32:43,122 --> 01:32:46,082
And she ended up
passing away alone.
1602
01:32:48,127 --> 01:32:49,825
- Well that's not me.
1603
01:32:51,740 --> 01:32:53,568
- No, that's my mom.
1604
01:33:00,357 --> 01:33:02,577
- I don't want that to be me.
1605
01:33:02,751 --> 01:33:03,578
- It's not gonna be you.
1606
01:33:03,752 --> 01:33:05,231
- Help me, pastor.
1607
01:33:07,277 --> 01:33:08,713
Please help me,
1608
01:33:09,758 --> 01:33:11,498
I don't want to do this anymore.
1609
01:33:11,673 --> 01:33:13,022
- It's okay, you're not alone,
1610
01:33:13,196 --> 01:33:15,198
you're not gonna do this alone,
okay?
1611
01:33:15,372 --> 01:33:17,722
You got friends here,
1612
01:33:17,896 --> 01:33:19,985
you got me here any time
you want to talk to me.
1613
01:33:20,159 --> 01:33:21,073
- Okay.
1614
01:33:21,247 --> 01:33:22,684
- Okay?
1615
01:33:22,858 --> 01:33:24,163
I brought you a little present,
okay,
1616
01:33:24,337 --> 01:33:26,035
this is gonna help you
more than me.
1617
01:33:26,209 --> 01:33:28,951
You don't have to read
the whole thing
1618
01:33:29,125 --> 01:33:31,518
but just open it from
time to time
1619
01:33:31,693 --> 01:33:33,216
when you feel like you need
1620
01:33:33,390 --> 01:33:36,088
to talk to somebody that
might give you comfort.
1621
01:33:36,262 --> 01:33:37,524
- I will.
1622
01:33:37,699 --> 01:33:38,613
- Okay.
1623
01:33:38,787 --> 01:33:39,614
- Okay.
1624
01:33:39,788 --> 01:33:41,050
Thank you pastor.
1625
01:33:41,224 --> 01:33:41,964
- Okay.
1626
01:33:42,138 --> 01:33:43,574
- Okay.
1627
01:33:43,748 --> 01:33:46,185
- Alright, I'll send in
your friends.
1628
01:33:46,359 --> 01:33:47,447
- Okay.
1629
01:33:47,622 --> 01:33:48,231
- Okay.
1630
01:34:09,339 --> 01:34:10,253
- Hey boys.
1631
01:34:17,826 --> 01:34:19,654
Did y'all mind your
manners for Miss Daisy?
1632
01:34:19,828 --> 01:34:20,655
- [Male] Yes, mam.
1633
01:34:20,829 --> 01:34:22,526
- Okay, good.
1634
01:34:22,700 --> 01:34:25,268
Go inside, I'll get your
breakfast in a minute.
1635
01:34:25,442 --> 01:34:26,704
Daisy, I'm so sorry,
1636
01:34:26,878 --> 01:34:28,837
it was a crazy night
1637
01:34:29,011 --> 01:34:31,709
and we all wound up
spending it at the hospital.
1638
01:34:31,883 --> 01:34:35,800
- No Sara, I'm the one
who has to say I'm sorry.
1639
01:34:41,458 --> 01:34:44,591
When Pastor Rodney first
showed up 10 years ago,
1640
01:34:44,766 --> 01:34:47,029
I thought hallelujah,
1641
01:34:47,203 --> 01:34:49,466
this is an answer to prayer,
1642
01:34:50,728 --> 01:34:54,340
not the kind of prayer
that you're thinking.
1643
01:34:57,213 --> 01:35:01,260
When I saw the two of you
alone together at the church,
1644
01:35:02,914 --> 01:35:07,005
I knew in my heart that
God hadn't heard my prayer.
1645
01:35:11,401 --> 01:35:14,665
Then you walked in the
church offices that day
1646
01:35:14,839 --> 01:35:16,798
with a beautiful cake
and smile on your face
1647
01:35:16,972 --> 01:35:19,931
and jealousy just
filled my heart
1648
01:35:21,106 --> 01:35:25,197
and I picked up the phone
and I called Deacon Ray.
1649
01:35:28,374 --> 01:35:30,594
You know what a busy body he is.
1650
01:35:30,768 --> 01:35:32,248
- Daisy.
1651
01:35:32,422 --> 01:35:34,903
- Just everything took
on a life of its own
1652
01:35:35,077 --> 01:35:38,297
and now they're a lot
of people in an uproar
1653
01:35:39,821 --> 01:35:43,694
wondering what a divorced
woman with two kids
1654
01:35:43,868 --> 01:35:47,089
is doing hanging out with
a single pastor.
1655
01:35:51,354 --> 01:35:54,836
I've been up all night
reading my bible.
1656
01:35:57,012 --> 01:35:59,188
I asked God to forgive me.
1657
01:36:00,450 --> 01:36:03,540
Now I'm asking you to
forgive me too.
1658
01:36:07,239 --> 01:36:09,807
- Daisy, why did you do that?
1659
01:36:12,810 --> 01:36:14,116
- I was jealous.
1660
01:36:16,248 --> 01:36:18,381
Please, please forgive me.
1661
01:36:21,950 --> 01:36:24,082
- Of course I forgive you.
1662
01:36:26,258 --> 01:36:28,217
Of course I forgive you.
1663
01:36:40,838 --> 01:36:44,624
- Hey Sara, Sara, hey
I wanted to talk to you
1664
01:36:44,799 --> 01:36:46,017
after the service.
1665
01:36:46,191 --> 01:36:48,759
- Oh I heard, I already know.
1666
01:36:48,933 --> 01:36:50,413
- You heard what?
1667
01:36:50,587 --> 01:36:52,807
- Well I can read the
writing on the wall.
1668
01:36:52,981 --> 01:36:55,897
I gotta go, the
service is starting.
1669
01:36:59,857 --> 01:37:01,946
- What is she talking about?
1670
01:37:02,991 --> 01:37:04,427
Church family,
1671
01:37:04,601 --> 01:37:07,822
this has been a day of
celebration, amen.
1672
01:37:10,389 --> 01:37:11,738
And we're going to
continue that celebration
1673
01:37:11,913 --> 01:37:14,350
by baptizing the new souls
1674
01:37:14,524 --> 01:37:16,352
that have committed themselves
1675
01:37:16,526 --> 01:37:18,310
to a life with Christ.
1676
01:37:23,489 --> 01:37:24,316
You ready?
1677
01:37:26,405 --> 01:37:28,973
[soft music]
1678
01:37:44,902 --> 01:37:49,733
Coley Phillips, in the
name of the father, the son
1679
01:37:49,907 --> 01:37:52,910
and the holy spirit,
I baptize you.
1680
01:38:05,227 --> 01:38:07,969
[upbeat music]
1681
01:38:12,147 --> 01:38:15,150
When he rises, you have risen
1682
01:38:15,324 --> 01:38:19,328
Embrace this life you've given
1683
01:38:19,502 --> 01:38:22,722
The old has gone
1684
01:38:22,897 --> 01:38:26,465
The new has come
1685
01:38:26,639 --> 01:38:29,860
The new has come
1686
01:38:30,034 --> 01:38:32,907
The new has come
1687
01:38:34,517 --> 01:38:37,389
The new has come
1688
01:38:39,130 --> 01:38:42,003
The old has gone
1689
01:38:43,134 --> 01:38:46,746
The new has come
1690
01:38:46,921 --> 01:38:49,619
The new has come
1691
01:38:50,663 --> 01:38:53,579
The new has come
1692
01:38:55,581 --> 01:38:58,933
And the old has gone
1693
01:39:00,108 --> 01:39:02,937
The new has come
1694
01:39:12,990 --> 01:39:16,907
And the old has gone
1695
01:39:17,081 --> 01:39:19,954
The new has come
1696
01:39:29,572 --> 01:39:31,226
- Will you marry me?
1697
01:39:33,097 --> 01:39:34,229
- [Female] What?
1698
01:39:36,622 --> 01:39:39,408
[uplifting music]
1699
01:39:47,024 --> 01:39:48,286
- Are you serious?
1700
01:39:49,157 --> 01:39:50,985
- Yeah, I'm serious.
1701
01:39:54,336 --> 01:39:54,989
- Yes.
1702
01:39:55,163 --> 01:39:56,903
- Yes, yes?
1703
01:39:57,078 --> 01:39:58,079
- Yes.
1704
01:39:58,253 --> 01:40:00,429
[upbeat music]
1705
01:40:00,603 --> 01:40:03,606
[audience applause]
1706
01:40:04,999 --> 01:40:07,871
We rise as you have risen
1707
01:40:08,045 --> 01:40:12,093
Embrace this life you've given
1708
01:40:12,267 --> 01:40:15,009
The old has gone
1709
01:40:15,183 --> 01:40:18,447
And the new has come
1710
01:40:19,448 --> 01:40:22,842
The new has come
1711
01:40:23,017 --> 01:40:25,715
The new has come
1712
01:40:27,151 --> 01:40:30,024
The new has come
1713
01:40:31,808 --> 01:40:35,203
And the old has gone
1714
01:40:36,073 --> 01:40:39,424
The new has come
1715
01:40:39,598 --> 01:40:42,471
The new has come
1716
01:40:44,125 --> 01:40:46,518
[soft music]
1717
01:40:58,530 --> 01:41:02,665
A day feels like
forever till it's gone
1718
01:41:06,538 --> 01:41:10,673
And you're left with
only memories
1719
01:41:12,240 --> 01:41:15,504
Every moment's precious
1720
01:41:17,549 --> 01:41:21,684
And we know the next
one's never guaranteed
1721
01:41:27,124 --> 01:41:31,215
We're only passing
through this place
1722
01:41:34,349 --> 01:41:38,527
And very soon I
will be on my way
1723
01:41:41,399 --> 01:41:45,360
'Cause this is not my home
1724
01:41:45,534 --> 01:41:49,015
It's not where I belong
1725
01:41:49,190 --> 01:41:53,107
One day soon I'll be set free
1726
01:41:56,588 --> 01:42:00,114
When the father calls me home
1727
01:42:00,288 --> 01:42:03,682
I'll bow before a stone
1728
01:42:03,856 --> 01:42:08,122
And worship for eternity
1729
01:42:08,296 --> 01:42:11,951
I know that you'll
be missing me
1730
01:42:12,126 --> 01:42:15,085
But please be strong
1731
01:42:15,259 --> 01:42:19,133
'Cause this is not my home
1732
01:42:22,875 --> 01:42:24,921
Oh no
1733
01:42:33,495 --> 01:42:37,151
When the tears are falling
1734
01:42:39,283 --> 01:42:41,459
Rest alone
1735
01:42:43,157 --> 01:42:46,421
I will never cry again
1736
01:42:47,509 --> 01:42:51,643
When you feel you
can't keep going
1737
01:42:53,210 --> 01:42:57,040
'Cause your heart is broken
1738
01:42:57,214 --> 01:43:00,957
Remember this is not the end
1739
01:43:02,524 --> 01:43:06,658
'Cause life is full
of pain of sin
1740
01:43:10,401 --> 01:43:14,492
And forever's where
we'll meet again
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