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happiness starts to attitude but how do
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we go about with all that
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is today's seminar
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how many people truly know
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what they really what they really want
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this is another problem
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nobody knows what they truly want
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implant their ideas
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so
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we don't develop our own ideas what we
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want
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because when we are kids
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you're right but see
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i'm sorry to give myself as an example
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but because this is how my mother
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brought me up and my father
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quran was one of the richest man
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in his times in east africa and also in
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india
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and he had 11 children the number nine
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was madhu me madhusula
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my brothers and sisters were wonderful
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they were obedient they did everything
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that daddy said
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i have never heard my father yell at
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servants or poor people anywhere my
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father was a very kind nice man
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but the only person with whom he would
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ever get angry and get irritated was
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with mother because i are the black
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sheep of the family
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because i did things i was i was a
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naughty kid a naughty child at school so
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all the boys and girls would follow me
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so whenever there was a problem
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they caught me and said the gang leader
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was
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a little boy
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trauma maker my father would get
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irritated
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so one day he's scolding me and telling
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me that i should do so-and-so so i said
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why i have to do like that she said he
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says to me because i am telling you to
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do so
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so i said why are you telling me and he
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makes the mistake of telling me that
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because he's my father
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and i make the mistake of telling that
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powerful man that it's not my fault that
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you're my father i was only five years
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old
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and i can still remember that because
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that was the first time i saw my father
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get so angry that he was reaching for
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the chair as he wanted to take the chair
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and hit me it was my mother my
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biological mother that stopped him
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because i told him that it's not my
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fault that he's my father
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that's not enough for me to do what he
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does but just because he made me i
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didn't ask him to make me
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so
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this
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particular event my biological mother
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explained to the divine mother to the
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astral mother and the letter the teacher
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had written an english lady
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she was always angry with me
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and she'd written a very mean letter to
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my father while he was quoting and she
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sent that letter to the divine mother
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and that is when the divine mother
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called my parents and said that she's
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taking me away that she's going to
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educate me and she moved into the
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ashram's first boarding school
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and said you sleep there you're dead and
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you go home because parents aren't
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crying say let him come at least hope
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for lunch
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so mother said you go home for lunch and
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if your father starts cooling you take
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your bicycle and go to the body
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and every second me my father sent me
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out so i understand the parents tell you
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they implanted you what you should do
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what you should think
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but i want you
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to be obligated in the sense that to be
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not opinion respectful i was respectful
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to my father i never insulted my mother
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or father
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i never spoke rudely to my father this
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respect we have to show this is our
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culture
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no matter how powerful how strong you
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are so you tell yes
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yes daddy try but ask them to explain it
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to you
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and then if you have a better argument
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explain them tell them and they should
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listen to you
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and then decide
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but the parents have a responsibility
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and you have to respect
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that they can't let you do what you want
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because you're still too young to know
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everything
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you can make mistakes and the parents
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protect you from it
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so i'm not asking children to make a
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rebellion but i'm asking people
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to stop doing things because others want
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it
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and again
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there's a lady sitting here who said
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she suffers a lot because she's afraid
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to talk to others about her feelings
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about her opinion and so on because she
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feels that they will think that she's
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not good or whatever or does she stupid
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or whatever and i said my god
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what you think about me
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anything i give a damn
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no i don't give a name you can think i'm
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stupid you can think i'm good you can
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love me you can hate me that's your
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right
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but your thoughts your feelings towards
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me
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doesn't
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change but if you are throwing stones at
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me
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or you are taking a stick and hitting me
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that is different
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then i want to make sure that i say the
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right thing so that you don't throw a
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stone at me
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but my thoughts
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what others think about me
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what others
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speak about me it is their democratic
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right to do so and thoughts and feelings
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and emotions
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of others
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don't hurt you
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but you see how conditioned you are that
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you make your happiness and your success
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depending on others
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you behave nice just because people will
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you want the person to think nice about
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and i behave nice just because i love
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and it's not because i want them to love
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me or think good about me honest to god
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i help
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where i can but not because i want to be
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appreciated or something but it's part
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of my life
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i was born to help and serve humanity
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