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We are gathered here today

on Jack and Rebecca's
40th wedding anniversary

to witness a renewal
of their vows.

I hope you're enjoying
your last day as my fiancée,

because by this time tomorrow,

you're gonna be
my straight-up wife.

Uh, you doing okay?

Of course. Yeah

Oh, no reason.

You know, just doing
this whole big wedding thing

without your dad's gonna
be hard, and we're here

at the family cabin,
which is probably bringing up

a lot of memories--
please don't Runaway Bride me.

Please don't
Runaway Bride... -Toby.

I would never.

But will you come with me?

-I have a surprise for you.
-Ooh.

-Uh-huh.
-I like surprises.

This is for you.

Thank you.

Oh, look.

It's a used bow tie.

Oh, not just any used bow tie.

This was worn by Leslie Nielsen

in Naked Gun 33 1/3:
Final Insult.

-So.
-Shut your freaking face.

Yeah.

I just wanted to thank you.

You've gone out of your way
to make this my dream wedding.

You know, just one beautiful day
at my favorite place.

And I know that my choices
are kind of...

they're weird.

I know it's not normal
to have my dad's urn

next to our guestbook.

It's a fun twist
on the sign-in station.

Okay, and to have
his Daytona Beach T-shirt

as my something old.

-It's weird, and I know.
-Listen, if my boo comes

with baggage,
I'm paying the handling fee.

-Mm, I love your airline
metaphors. -Well, that's good,

-'cause I'm cleared for takeoff.
-Oh...

-Aw, damn it.

Everyone gets
a Ka-Toby wine opener,

they get a bottle
of champagne and they get

a scented candle, now,
why are you just now starting

with the gift bags?
No, no, no. Hold on, hold on.

Don't justify it, fix it.

Okay.

Yeah, I'll see you
tonight, Randall. Okay.

-Wow.
-No, it's fine.

It's fine. Don't worry about it.
Randall and I, we have

this whole, uh, wedding planner
thing all figured out.

You do not have
to lift a finger.

Toby, you should be getting
to the airport, all right?

-Oh, yeah. -Your mom gets in
at 5:28, your dad gets in

-Yeah, okay, okay, okay.

T-this car ride is gonna be
a nightmare, by the way.

My-my parents, whenever they're
together, all they do is fight.

My dad's constantly pressuring
my mom to marry her boyfriend.

If she marries Monty,

then my dad doesn't
have to pay alimony anymore.

-It's a whole thing.
-Ah.

Okay, I think he wants you
to go, babe.

-I think he wants me to leave.
-Yeah.

All right, well,
I'll see you later. Mwah.

I'll see you tomorrow,
at the end of the aisle.

-Thanks for this.

Be safe.

Uh, I'm gonna go
check on these caterers.

Some of these clowns
wouldn't know an amuse-bouche

if it bit them on the ass.

Hey, Kev?

-Yeah.
-Do you think

that, like,
Dad would've been okay...

you know, us having it here?

At the cabin?

Yeah.

Dad would've loved it.

Hey, babe. You about ready
to head up to the cabin?

Almost done.

Going as fast as I can.

Got two bottles in one bag.

Get your head
out of your ass, Pearson.

You okay?

Just scrambling
to get this done for Kate.

Things have been
a little hectic around here.

Haven't had much time.

Hey, Dej.

You excited about this weekend?

I can't wait for you
to meet my cousin Zoe.

She's gonna take Kate and Toby's
wedding photos.

Yeah, she's the cool one.

In my family,
she's the cool one.

Can you believe that I'm not
the cool one in my fa...

We're gonna be leaving

as soon as I finish
with these bags.

I can't believe we're going

to some dumbass wedding
in the woods.

Man, she's mean.

I miss Deja Classic.

No.

Deja Classic
was when we first met her,

and she was all quiet
and sullen.

I miss Deja 2.0, when she was
all used to us and sweet,

and she told me
all my jokes were corny,

but secretly, she liked them.

I feel like the moment she heard
her mom say to the judge

that she wanted to terminate
all parental rights,

something switched in her.

Yep.

Okay. Let's grab
the girls and head out.

Uh, wait. Wait.

Can we just do our thing?

Where we say all the bad things

that we're thinking;
no judgment, no censorship?

You want to play
worst

I just got to get it
out of my system.

All right, let's do it.

Deja never turns this around
and ends up in jail. Go.

She might kill us both
in our sleep. Go.

She might kill us both
not in our sleep. Go.

She'll make Tess resent us
and end up on the pole. Go.

Wait, Tess will resent us, and
Deja will end up on the pole?

Or Tess will resent us,
and also be the one who ends up

-Both on the pole.

Damn.

Out of your system now?

Yeah.

-Okay.
-Yeah, thanks.

Oh. That's really pretty.

Mm. Nah.

It's just...

feels a little flashy.

I just-I don't want to do
anything to make Kate feel

like I'm gonna make
tomorrow about me.

Wha... Now, why would
she think that?

Because I put her on edge
by the things I do or say

or don't say or...
the way I breathe.

But tomorrow's her wedding day,

and I just feel like I am this
walking reminder of Jack.

You know, he's the one
that she lost,

and I'm the one
that she got stuck with.

Well, I don't think that's true.

And if it helps, just remember:
at least you're not me.

What's that supposed to mean?

-Yeah.

Well, if anyone is a walking
reminder of Jack, it's me.

Forget about
what you're wearing.

If I could dress
in all brown tomorrow

and pretend to be a tree,
I would.

Stop.
-Just throw acorns at people.

Miguel.

Welcome to wedding central.

Where is everybody?
Where's Beth, the girls?

I dropped them at the hotel.

It was a rough car ride.

Deja?
-Yeah.

She's belligerent.

It's like I'm raising
Russell Crowe.

-Kevin!
-Uh-oh.

No. No.

No. No, no, no, no, no.

-Hey.

-Um, hey, Randall.
-Okay, sis,

-Oh, my God,
oh, my God.

Um, I can't find
Dad's Daytona T-shirt.

It was gonna be
my something old,

and I was gonna pin it
in my dress.

-Aw.
-Wow, that's really, uh...

I know I am weird,
Randall! -KEVIN: Ah, no, no, no.

-"Unique." I was gonna say
"unique." -Hold up. Wait, wa...

-Was what I thought.
-Kate. Kate.

-Just call Toby. We're gonna
call Toby. -Yeah. We...

-It's a quick phone call.
Quick fix. -Yeah, yeah.

-We'll...
-Do not...

-tell him that I'm freaking out.
-No.

I do not want him
to worry about me.

It's a quick phone call. Yeah.

I'm just saying, you two
have been dating for a while

now, so why don't you just marry
the poor bastard already?

As I told you before, Alan,

-Monty and I are taking it slow.
-Yeah, you mean

like the way you're slowly
draining my retirement fund

-with those alimony payments.
-TOBY: Okay, guys, it's, uh,

it's my wedding weekend,
so can we go 48 hours

Hey, look, it's Kevin.

-Hey, Kev.
: Toby.

I got Randall here.

Randall wants to say 'sup.

-'Sup.
-'Sup.

We were just calling,
we wanted to know

if you could remember
where you packed

our dad's Daytona T-shirt.

Oh, my God, did I forget
to pack the T

I totally forgot
to pack the T-shirt.

Uh, uh, okay,

um, I can figure out
a way to get it. Uh, uh...

-There's still time.
-It's fine. Everything's fine.

-Everything is great, um...

Yeah, really.

Um, it's no biggie.

Ciao.

Uh, uh... okay, bye.

Hey, it sounds like
it's just a shirt, right?

Yeah, well,
it's not just a shirt, Ma.

Okay.

We'll round up anything
of Dad's we can find,

and then, tomorrow morning,
you'll take your pick.

Okay?

Kate.

It's a T-shirt.

We can roll with this, right?

He was more than a T-shirt.

Okay?

-Okay.
-Okay.

Okay, so then, uh,

you just put your PJs on,
all right?

Curl up with your favorite
Sandra Bullock movie,

-because guess what.

Someone's getting
married tomorrow.

-Yeah.

Who's getting married tomorrow?

-Ah.
-All right.

Mm.

-All right.
-RANDALL: Okay.

One of the romantic ones.
Not the one where

they're trying to kill her
through the Internet. Spooky.

JACK: So some of you
may not know this,

but for the 22 years that
I worked for Lundy Builders,

my wife put a folded note packed
into my briefcase every day.

The highlight of my day
in the office

was opening one of those
little scraps of paper.

Now, when Rebecca and I started
Big Three Homes,

she stopped writing
the lunch notes.

But I was okay with that.

I had the highlight of my day
right there, sitting by my side.

Every day.

Uh-huh.

All right, we got nine hours
until I-do's, people.

Little less texting,
a lot more tenting.

I was.

All right, ladies, let's go.

-Come on, ladies.

This place is a dump.

Aunt Zoe!

Hey, T-bone. Hey, A-frame.

-You look so good.
-Look at you!

Oh, you look great.
How are you?

-Thank you.
-Hey, Zoe.

-Hey!

-I'm good.
-Good. Girls,

-will you take your dresses
inside for me, please. -Yes.

Thank you very much.
Appreciate it.

Uh, I'm gonna go see
if Kevin needs anything.

I love you. Mwah.

So, you're just gonna,
like, look 21 forever?

-Look who's talking.

You got no right to still have
that body after two kids.

-Oh, I'm good.

Yeah? I don't have to come to
Chicago and whup nobody's ass?

-Mm, not this week.
-Okay.

Thank you for doing
this wedding, lady.

Hey, any family of yours
is mine, right?

This is why I love you.

Is that her?

Mm-hmm.
I'll tell you all about it.

-Hopefully, over champagne.
-Mm.

-Lots of champagne.

All right, here it is,
everything old of Dad's

I could find around the cabin
to replace the T-shirt.

So you want her
to walk down the aisle

with our old baseball bat.

That's romantic.

Yeah, you're right--
this is a disaster.

A total disaster, man.
How are we gonna do...

-Hey! Look,
it's the bride! -Hey.

Uh, so we rounded up a few
"something old" options for you

-Yeah. -to replace the T-shirt.
What do you think?

-Terrific options.
-Mm-hmm.

Thank you. But I don't need
any of this stuff.

-I have a new plan.

What... Where are you going?
You know, Mom's gonna be here

with the bridesmaids,
they're gonna do

hair and makeup any minute now.

-Okay. I'll be back soon.
-Hello, hello.

-Hey.
-Bug!

Happy wedding day, sweetheart.

I'm just running an errand.

Oh. Can somebody not run
the errand for you?

I'll be back.

You said,
"Happy wedding day, Bug."

It's wedding day, bitches!

Oh, I thought this room
would be, like,

-filled with women.
- No.

Where is Kate?

Hey!
Welcome to Artisanal Scoops.

Would you like a sample
of our new flavor?

It's lavender balsamic.

Um, no. Thanks.

Uh, I used to come here
with my dad.

I think it was called Frenchie's
back then, or...

Oh, yeah. They sold the place
a couple years ago.

Oh. Any chance
you guys are still making

that banana pudding flavor?

No. I'm sorry.

It was my dad's favorite.

I was gonna buy it today

to serve with the cake
at my wedding.

Not exactly something old,

but an old tradition.

Hey, we do have banana coconut.

It's really good.
It's one of my favorites.

No. Thanks.

It just wouldn't...

mean anything.

But thanks.

So, long before Jack and I
had our own company,

and long before the Big Three
were around,

I was singing

in a bar...

when a man walked in.

I'm bein' followed
by a moonshadow

Moonshadow, moonshadow

Leapin' and hoppin'
on a moonshadow

Moonshadow, moonshadow

And if I ever lose my hands

Lose my plough, lose my land

Oh, if I ever
lose my hands, oh...

Hey-o!

Hey.

-What is going on
in here, Randall? -Mm-hmm.

I did not know that Kate hired
professional models

-to be her bridesmaids.

I think she did, Kev,
'cause this room's

-full of a whole lot of damn.
-BETH: Yeah, it is.

Hey there.

-We brought gifts. For you.

- Don't even try.
Yeah. -So, uh,

I just tried her again,
and her phone must be off,

'cause it went straight
to voice mail.

We should go look
for her.

-I have an idea.

Uh, I'm maid of honor.
I should help search.

-Maid of honor. -Yeah.
-Oh. I thought Kate said

she didn't have a maid of honor.

Well, maybe she said that,
but she didn't mean it.

-We could... could, you know...
-No.

-Yeah. We're good.

-Thank you.
-Thank you. -Okay.

-Oh, man. She's crazy.
-Yeah, man.

Don't let me sleep with her.

So now we're waiting
for the courts to terminate

her mom's parental rights so
that we can legally adopt her.

But she has turned
into a complete nightmare.

I can barely get a sentence out
of her.

And I'm pretty sure
she's wearing

-that sweatshirt
to Kate's wedding. -Yikes.

-Mm. -You want me
to try talking to her?

What are you, like,
the angry kid whisperer now?

Only 'cause I used to be
the angry kid.

Can't believe we missed her.

God, this Nutella chip
is insane, huh?

Ridonkulously good.

This is just so good.

-Do not drip ice cream in my...

I'm not. I'm not gonna drip ice
cream in the car, okay? It's...

I understand. You love the car.
You bought it for cash.

-Thank you.

No idea.

This is a disaster, Randall.

This is huge. We lost the bride
on the wedding day

That's, like, the number one
don't for wedding coordinators.

Yeah.

You know, Beth and I play
this game sometimes,

worst-case scenario.

It's where we say all the things
that we're afraid of out loud,

and it makes us feel better.
You know?

-Yeah. Yeah, I'm down.
-Okay.

We never find Kate

and we have to tell Toby
that the wedding's off

and he's so shocked that he has
a heart attack and dies.

-Jesus, Randall.
-That's-that's the game.

-Yeah.

-You know, what if
he doesn't die, Randall? -Okay.

-But, uh...

-I mean, he could kick her out
of the apartment.

Now she's forced
to find a place to live. -Yeah.

She's forced to move in with me,
all right?

It's supposed to be temporary,
of course,

-but neither one of us
ever find love. -Mm.

Right? We become one
of those creepy pairs of twins

that grows old together.

And we're at the grocery store

and people mistake us
for a married couple

and we don't even correct 'em
anymore because...

I mean, what's the point?

Wow.

-You're really good
at this game. -Thank you.

You're welcome.

Hey, what if, after Dad died,

I got so absorbed
in my own life,

with school and Beth
and the girls, that, um,

I stopped looking out
for my sister?

What if...

uh...

what if she spent so much time
taking care of me

that she forgot
to take care of herself?

And year after year went by
and I should've...

recognized
and I should've helped her?

I didn't help her.

Randall, I do not feel better.

No.

Not big on weddings?

Me neither, actually.

I just do them
to pay the bills, but...

not really my jam.

They're just so in your face,
you know?

At least there's cake.

I hope at least Randall
does a good toast.

I'm a sucker for a good toast.

Listen, you don't got
to talk to me.

Okay? You're Annie
and Tess' aunt, not mine.

I'm not theirs either, actually.

Beth is my cousin,

so, technically, that makes...

Tess and Annie my...

first cousins once removed.

But the girls like to call me
their aunt,

'cause, Beth,
she's like a sister to me.

'Cause her mom raised me.

My mom dumped me in their house

when I was seven or eight.

Said she'd be back
in a few weeks.

I know what you're trying to do.

I don't care if my mom left me.

Well, good for you.
But I did.

I was so angry, I wanted to take
it out on the whole world.

Instead, I took it out
on Beth's mom

and on Beth,
on her whole family.

You know, somehow,

it was my way
of being loyal to my mom.

God, I got real good

making their lives miserable.

Then, one morning,
I don't know...

I just forgot.

I forgot to hate 'em.

We were all, um...

sitting at the kitchen table,

and Beth was saying
something crazy,

probably about D'Angelo.

And I started laughing.

That was a good day.

The day... when it stopped
making sense...

...hating the people
who loved me.

Now, if you'll excuse me,
I gotta go...

find some pretty light and
photograph the bride's shoes.

Did I mention weddings
are not my thing?

My love for you abounds,
and a heart attack

-and two proposals later...
Yeah

Yup.

Hey there.
Come on in, parentals.

-Doing good.

Was up half the night
calling Task Rabbits,

trying to convince them
to fly Kate's dad's

-T-shirt across the country.
-Yeah, we know.

That's why you couldn't
have dinner with us.

Yeah, in the end,
they all said no.

So, apparently they are
"not up to the Task" Rabbits.

-Yeah.

Um... your mother and I,
we need you to know

that we have concerns
about Kate.

Wha... What
Stop.

You barely know her.

Well, it feels like
you're constantly

bending over backwards
to calm her.

Okay, yeah, it-it's--
you guys, it's a wedding.

It's supposed to be
a little stressful.

Yeah, but the way
you tiptoe around

to keep from setting her off,
it's just not normal, honey.

And it feels to us like she--

she might be
a little unstable.

Wow. Un

Do-Do you remember when
she broke up with you

for no reason,

and you had to fly
across the country

to change her mind?

Okay, that wasn't
for no reason.

Look, Toby...

I didn't say anything when you
married your first wife.

-Dad...
-No!

You need to hear this.

Now, I knew Josie
wasn't good for you,

and I held my tongue.

And now you're gonna marry
this new woman

who clearly has issues
you can't fix.

And we're worried that you're
headed down the same path.

Toby, you remember--
you-you remember

what it was like when
things fell apart with Josie.

Remember how you stopped
going to work,

and how I-I-I found you

in your apartment
in the middle of a workday

just with the curtains drawn
and just-just...

hiding under the covers
like a little kid.

Oh, sweetie, you were
severely depressed

for a very long time,
and we-we just...

You know what's funny?

Is that my whole life,

I wanted you two
to agree on something,

and now you finally do.

Here we are.
Y-you-you agree that

I shouldn't marry the woman
that I'm madly in love with.

-Toby, son...
-No, Dad, listen.

I think you need to hear this.

Kate is not like Josie.
All right?

She would never hurt me.

She cares about me.

So, yeah, the wedding may be
bringing some stuff up,

but it's not because
she's unstable.

Okay, if anyone's unstable,
I'm the unstable one, right?

Fine, I'm unstably in love
with-with Kate Pearson.

So, here is what's
gonna happen.

You two are gonna go downstairs,
you're gonna make a decision.

All right, you're gonna decide
that-that coming to me like this

was-was a terrible mistake.

All right, and you're gonna
show up to my wedding

with bells on.

Or you can decide to

go straight on to the airport.

Either way, in about an hour,

I'm gonna be standing
out on the front lawn

watching my bride
walk down the aisle.

So... okay?
Okay.

Uh, please go.

I mean, please help me
with this last cuff link,

and then go.

Don't you look...

-No.

-Wait.
-Oh.

Hi, Bug.

-Hey, Mom.

Okay, I've been having
these dreams

every night for the past
couple of weeks.

We're at the cabin,
at a wedding,

but-but it's not
me and Toby, Mom.

It's... it's you and Dad,

and you're renewing your vows.

And you're so beautiful and...

and Dad is older and grayer,

but still Dad.

And,

you know, we're just...
we're all there.

And we're so happy together.

You know, the way
it was supposed to be.

Wow.

That sounds really
beautiful, sweetheart.

You know, weddings
can be very emotional.

They stir all kinds
of things up.

But that's why I'm glad
you have Toby now,

to go through these kinds
of things with.

What was he doing
in the dreams?

Probably making you laugh
somehow, huh?

No, he's not in them.

Oh.

Is that bad,
that he's not in them?

No, no, no. It's fine.

I just, I figured, because,
you know, the wedding.

-You know, you...
-I got to go, Mom.

Oh.

I don't know why Toby hasn't
been in the dreams I'm having.

But I do know that he is
the perfect guy for me, though.

With...

Without a doubt in my mind,

and you wouldn't...
you wouldn't, either.

You remember the carnival that
would come to town every summer

with those old roller coasters?

Oh, I loved
riding those with you.

I... Feeling so scared, but
so safe, all at the same time.

I've been holding
onto that feeling

for a really long time now.

That feeling of you next to me.

But, Dad,
I'm getting married today.

Ooh.

And I've got to make room.

I've got to make room for Toby.

So I've got to... I've got
to let go a little now.

How long have
you guys been here?

Just a few minutes.

Seemed like you were
having a moment.

So you did it?

I did. I did.

Let's go get me married.

You know, maybe we didn't
fail her after all.

Are you kidding me?

We're great brothers.

-We are.

-You guys. Guys!
-I would want me as a brother.

-Need to get married, here.
-KEVIN: Oh. -RANDALL: Gotcha.

-Let's get married, here.
-Let's do that, let's do that.

Oh, this is gonna be great.

What are you doing?

Guarding the door.

Why are you making
that cocky smile?

What am I seeing?

Did she just have
a pretty dress on,

and some lip gloss?

We had a talk.

Don't expect her to do
The Electric Slide tonight,

but, uh, if we're lucky,
we might get a sentence or two.

Good Lord,
I love my baby cousin.

-Oh, thank you.

Oh, Kate.

Hi.

Sweetheart.

You look stunning.

That dress is just...

Perfect.

I mean, it's gonna be perfect
in the setting.

Not that it wouldn't
be perfect anywhere

because it's a beautiful dress.

-Mom.
-But it's...

-Yeah.

I just, uh...

I feel really bad for upsetting
you on the phone earlier.

Oh, no, you didn't.

I was going through
my own thing.

Okay.

I just, I want...

I want today
to be perfect for you

in every way that you've
ever dreamed about.

And I know that sometimes
I can make you...

You know...

So I'm just-- I want to stay
out of your way, okay?

Mom, I know that our stuff--

it can be complicated sometimes.

But it's because...

all that I've ever wanted
was to be like you.

I want to be a singer like you.

I want to be a mom like you.

I want to have a marriage
like yours.

Mom, you are not...

You are not in my way.
You are my way.

Sweetheart...

No. No cry... No crying.

-We have to get to the wedding
first -Okay, okay.

-before you cry.
-I know, but...

Covered in everything

Coveted all at once...

Dad, can I ask you something?

Anything.

Can I marry you one day?

Everything all at once

But I would fake

I would hate

I would break

Every inch of my love

But I would fake,
I would hate

I would break

Every inch of my love

Every inch
of my love...

I'm sorry, baby, that's...
not really how it works.

But...

But you want to know
the exciting part?

One day, a long time from now,

you're gonna meet someone
who's better than me.

He's gonna be stronger
and handsomer

and even better
at board games than me.

And when you find him,

when you find that guy,

that's the guy
you're gonna marry.

Oh, and he's one lucky guy,

the guy that gets to marry you,
Katie girl.

And your mom and me,
we're gonna be there, you know.

Just to check him out.

Make sure he's
as good at board games

as you think that he is.

That you probably
meant for us...

And, assuming that he is,

I'll get to walk you
down the aisle.

And I may even cry a little.

And I saw the peaks
on my own

That you probably
meant for us

And I tore the fear
from my bones

That you probably
never lost.

Watch it.

You know, I still don't
understand what Zoe said to her.

Me neither. But who cares?

-She's magic.
-Mm-hmm.

-I told you.
-This is good.

You three are Beth
and Randall's girls, right?

Yes, we are.

Oh, you two are the
spitting image of your mother.

But you, you look
just like your father.

So what's good over here, hmm?

Uh... excuse me, everyone. Hi.

I'm Kevin. I'm Kate's brother,
and it is toast time.

So...

Um...

To, uh...

My, uh, my brother and I
have been going,

uh, well, a little bit crazy
the past couple of days.

Um...

W-We were going crazy
'cause we-we wanted make sure

that this day was perfect
for you, Kate.

And the reason

we wanted to make sure this day
was absolutely perfect

for you is because that's...

that's what Dad would've done.

He would've made it
perfect for you.

And, uh...

If he were here,

he definitely would've looked
at you, and he would've said,

"Katie girl, in your life,

"you have never looked
more beautiful

than you do right now."

And he would've been right,
by the way.

You're beautiful.

Um... Mom, Randall,

uh...

earlier last year, Kate said
something to me that was,

well, profound, uh...

She said, "Kevin, if you
don't allow yourself to...

"to grieve Dad's death,

"it'll be like taking
a giant breath in and just...

"holding it there

for the rest of your life."

I... At the time, I didn't want
to hear any of that.

You know, I... I didn't.

Um, but here we are.

It's one DUI
and a rehab stint later,

and I-I'm-I'm thinking maybe
you were on to something

-when you said that to me, um...

I think we've all been
holding our breath

for a long time.

And, um...

So before we toast
Toby and Kate,

before we clink our glasses,

I think that the four of us
should, uh,

release that breath together.

I think it's important that
we do that, that we just let go

of those things we've
been holding onto, so...

So here we go.

-Okay.

KEVIN:
I, uh...

I think my time is up.

Um...

Toby, Kate,
I love you both so much.

I really do. I am so happy
for you. I'm proud.

And I-I'm sorry
my toast was weird.

I'm not an expert
on marriage at all,

but, um, this next
young gentleman is,

my brother Randall.
Please come save me.

Save your brother.
Come on, young man.

Ladies and gentlemen,
Randall Pearson,

my brother.

-You did good.
-There you go.

-Great. Bye.

Um...

Those of you who know me,
know that I'm big on control.

It's taken me 37 years
to accept the fact

that there's absolutely
zero point

in trying to control the future.

'Cause nobody knows
where we'll be.

Not even a year from now.

Well, folks, we'll be landing

in Vietnam shortly,
where it's a balmy

85 degrees.

Hey, babe.

I just spoke to the doctor.

He wants you
to come in tomorrow,

talk about adjusting your meds.

But... what we can control

are the people we choose.

Choosing our people

is the closest we come
to controlling our destiny.

Where's Deja?

Because...

while everything else
may change,

if you choose right,

your people will stay the same.

Whether that's tonight

or a year from now,

or ten years from now...

It's time to go see her, Tess.

I'm not ready.

Me neither.

Katie girl,

Tobias,

when I look at you,

I know in my bones
that in choosing each other,

you have chosen

perfectly.

Yes.

To Kate and Toby.

Kate and Toby.

-Come here.

I liked your toast.

I've, um, always been a sucker
for a good toast.

-Thank you.
-Yeah.

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