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- The first day I came here,
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there was like questions about
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like how confident you
are about your stutter.
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And I put not at all.
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- My dad would get upset.
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And one time I had started
crying and yelled at him,
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something like, you don't
know what it's like to be me.
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You don't understand
what it's like
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to be scared of
speaking in class
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and to everyone around you.
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And he just looked
at me and he's like,
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"No, I don't, I'm sorry."
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- Here is the only place where
I can actually be myself.
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And I know like
that sounds corny,
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but that's just because
it's really true.
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Taro, you have made a
truly amazing place.
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And it's really
helped me through
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really tough times
where I felt alone.
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(thoughtful music)
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- I moved here in June, 1991.
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And I remember looking around
at everyone in the park
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and kind of just
watching everybody talk.
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It just struck me
how easy it seemed
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for people's mouths to move.
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I remember just being
this 19-year-old kid
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and just wanting that,
wanting that ease of speech.
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My number one goal
in life when I was 19
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and for many years
before and after that
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was to not let anybody
see me stutter.
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- What do Winston
Churchill, Marilyn Monroe,
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Samuel L. Jackson and Bruce
Willis all have in common?
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Anybody know?
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- [Audience] Stuttering.
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- That's right, you
are a smart audience.
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They are all stutters.
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In fact, this debilitating
speech disorder
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affects more than 3 million
people in this country.
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Many of whom suffer in silence.
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- [News Anchor] Experts
define stuttering,
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also called stammering as
an involuntary disruption
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of the rhythm and
flow of speech.
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The person knows where
he or she wants to say,
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but just can't produce
the words fluently.
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- And while many who stutter
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try to stay out
of the spotlight.
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One theater company in New York
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is putting a group of
stuttering teens on center stage
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and giving them the
confidence to speak freely.
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- Their...
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pieces can be a
play, a poem, a song.
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- Nobody needs the white
crayon, I'm useless.
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(audience laughs)
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- Whatever they want to create.
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- [News Anchor] The group
also has a sense of humor
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noting on its programs
that the performance
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will be anywhere
from two to 10 hours,
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depending on the
actor's fluency.
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- When I say our time,
you say 'bout time.
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Our time.
- 'Bout time.
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Our time.
- 'Bout time.
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- [Taro] When I first had
the idea to start Say,
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Everett was the first
person in the world
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that I shared this idea with.
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I think when a lot of
kids grow up stuttering,
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you feel isolated
and you feel uncool.
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And to me, Everett's like
the coolest person I know.
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And so to have somebody with
that energy and that positivity
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around these kids, you're saying
to them, you're important,
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and what you have
to say matters.
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- This is a big year at Say,
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we have lots of seniors
graduating high school
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and the Say program.
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- [Taro] Most of the
kids and teens in Say,
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don't want to be actors
or performers at all.
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That's not the point.
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Creating something
and then presenting it
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in whatever form,
that's a scary thing.
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Okay, you ready?
- Yeah.
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- All right, here we go,
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from the end of
Juliana speech, please.
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- Thank you
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so much for
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listening.
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(applause)
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- She was never enthused
about going to school
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because she was afraid to talk.
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She couldn't be
herself at school.
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She would tell me stories about
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when it was her turn
to read in class,
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how the kids wouldn't
have any patience.
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And they would even
say, oh my God,
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she's gonna take so long.
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- It
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wasn't just kids.
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It was also teachers.
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I think I was in
second or third grade.
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I was asked to read aloud
from like a book, I stuttered,
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and my teacher was
just mocking me
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and like saying,
oh, you can do it.
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Come on, you can do
it, you can read.
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I feel like my stuttering almost
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deemed me as like unintelligent
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or something in
school, I don't know.
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I just thought, you know,
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I'll always be treated like
this because I'm the only one
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in the world who has
to deal with this.
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So I'm always going to
be treated like this,
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and I just kind of accepted it.
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And that sounds really bad,
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but that's kind of how
it was at the time.
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- And I didn't know how
depressed she was until last year.
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- I had like, thoughts
of pretty bad things.
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Like, I didn't want to be here.
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I didn't want to deal
with anything anymore.
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- It's been hard between
Juliana and I, you know,
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because I wasn't
raised by my father.
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So it got hard for me
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to be there for her when
it comes to bullying.
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- I was so withdrawn.
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I would just
internalize everything.
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So I would have to
let it out somehow.
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And I would sing all the time.
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- You're gonna laugh at
me, look how I tapped it,
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I taped it with the
camera this way,
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so now I have to turn the whole
thing over, can that work?
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That's awful, can you see it?
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♪ Everybody's been there ♪
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♪ Everybody's been stared
down by the enemy ♪
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- When she sings that's her
way of soothing herself.
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I don't know, it
just makes her happy.
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It's like, she's letting out.
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I can't explain it, it's
like comforting to her.
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♪ Never gonna shut you out ♪
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♪ Everywhere I'm looking out ♪
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♪ I'm surrounded
by your embrace ♪
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♪ Baby I can see your halo ♪
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♪ You know you're
my saving grace ♪
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- It lets me forget
about anything
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that makes me upset, sad,
hurt, anxious, anything.
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♪ Halo feel your halo ♪
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♪ Halo feel your halo ♪
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♪ Halo feel your halo ♪
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♪ Halo ♪
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- I love that little smile
she puts it the end there.
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- When I started Say
we would travel a lot.
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It is a true
pleasure to be here.
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The feedback was always from
both the parents and the kids.
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Is there something
like this near me?
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So after years of hearing
that and thinking,
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how can we help more kids?
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I thought a great
first step for that
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would be to create a hub
where kids who stutter
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from all around the country
and the world can come.
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And so that's where the
idea for a summer camp came.
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- How are you?
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- I'm good.
- Awesome!
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Just look around you guys,
look around to your right.
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You can see some of the
camp, enjoy camp you guys!
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(pleasant music)
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- I think the first time
I noticed him stuttering
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was when he was four
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and afterwards he had something
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traumatic happen in his life.
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I was going to work,
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and I was dropping
him off at school.
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I was just about
to get into my car
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when his father pulled up.
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He started shooting and shooting
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and I can just
plainly see that gun.
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And I don't even
think that he noticed
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that Malcolm was in the car.
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I got shot right here in my arm
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and a little glaze on my chest,
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but he saw his
dad shoot himself.
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I did not see that part.
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After it was all over with
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Malcolm kept asking me questions
about why did it happen?
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And I couldn't
give him an answer.
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I think he internalized
everything.
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He thought it was his
fault that that happened.
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- If you look here, I
got retired uniforms.
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- [Interviewer] And what
led you to retire them?
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- Because I'm gonna be a
famous baseball player.
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- He was closing down, saying
that he didn't like who he was
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because when he'd go to
school, people would tease him.
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And especially when he had to
get up in front of the class
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and do presentations,
he hated that the most.
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- Last year we won the
championship against Milne.
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- And once the teacher said,
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we're gonna have to do
something about this stuttering,
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like she was saying, it's his
fault that he was a stutterer.
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- I'll show you
how far I can hit.
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- He told me he felt embarrassed
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because she said that
in front of the class.
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- Ah, it's a ground ball.
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- It's just recently last year
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that he got help at a hospital.
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- [Malcolm] There we go.
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- His stuttering was
just becoming worse
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and the kids were
being more aggressive
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with their teasing and bullying
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because of the way he talked.
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- To read what these kids in
his school have done to him,
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kicked, smacked, tripped.
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And then just the way
he lists all the places,
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lunch line, hallway, classroom,
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and then even in the van
that brings him home.
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I mean, it's just, it
breaks my heart, man.
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- And a lot of people
don't intend to be hurtful.
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I mean, there are many
people who are just assholes,
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but most of the time,
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I think people just don't
know what stuttering is.
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- Hello. (Sarah shouts)
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- She always loved
being around people,
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reacting and playing,
goofing around.
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- She's always been
very sensitive,
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always needed a little extra
love and kisses and hugs,
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but that's not bad.
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(Sarah laughs) Happy kid.
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What does a cow say?
- Moo.
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- What does a horse say?
- Neigh.
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- What does a pig say?
(Sarah snuffles)
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- I can remember
the first time that
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I picked up on
Sarah's stuttering.
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And you were asking me if
I wanted to go and play,
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and you get stuck
on the word, do,
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do-do-do-do you want to play?
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- I went to swimming lessons.
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- [Sarah's Dad] You
had swimming lessons?
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- And then, and then, and then.
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- [Sarah's Dad] And then what?
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And I could see that it
was just so hard for you
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to get the words out right then.
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And probably within
a week or two,
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you know, we're at
the pediatrician,
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just asking him for
a little advice.
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♪
Supercalifragilisticexpialidocis ♪
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♪ Even though the sound of it
is something quite atrocious ♪
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♪ If you say it loud enough
you'll always sound precocious ♪
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♪
Supercalifragilisticexpialidocis ♪
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- For a long time, she
would come home from school
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and she would just
kind of shut down,
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and it would be
quiet in the house.
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And Paul and I would say,
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don't you wanna call
so-and-so to go out?
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Don't you wanna go
out with a friend?
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Don't you wanna do something?
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And finally, one
day she said to us,
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"I am so tired all
day of talking.
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"It is exhausting."
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"I have to think
where my tongue goes,"
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"I have to think
how my breath is."
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- [Sarah's Dad] Sarah.
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- "Have to concentrate on
people's eyes for eye contact.
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"By the end of the day, by
the end of the school day,"
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"I can't, I just can't anymore."
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- [Sarah's Dad] And
there you are baby.
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Sarah was born early, she's
five and a half weeks early.
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And could that have
caused some of this?
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I mean, I was
strict with my diet.
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I was doing all
the right things,
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but there's always in
the back of your head,
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what could I have
done differently?
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Watching your child hurt,
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that's the hardest
part of being a parent.
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- I such a hard
time making friends.
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People don't know
like what's going on,
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are you nervous, is there
something not right?
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I have a lot of good
friends back at home,
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but I don't have like
that one best friend
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that like gets me
and Sarah is that.
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- [Emily's Mom]
You know, we should
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look at these more often.
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- [Emily] I like this one.
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- Yup, that was at
the Oregon beach.
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As far back as I can remember,
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it's always been
Caroline, Em, and me.
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And that's important to me,
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you know that they
know that I'm there.
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And I know that they
would be there for me too.
285
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- When we were younger, we
had problems with our dad.
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For Emily, Emily was,
you were terrified.
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- I remember times
when I would like hide.
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It was not the best time.
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- My goal is to empower both
of them, how amazing they are.
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With Emily she
needs to hear that.
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And I try to do that
almost on a daily basis.
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I remember in fifth grade,
we talked about affirmations
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and Emily, we put up
affirmations all over the house,
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and Emily put them up
all over in her room.
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Wait 'til you see her
room, it's amazing.
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Affirmations are
just saying things,
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positive things that
you love about yourself,
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whether you love them or not.
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Like in fifth grade, I
started to do affirmations
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and put them on sticky notes
on my wall and say things like,
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I love my stutter, but at the
time, like I hated my stutter,
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but the whole point
is to say something
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until it becomes true.
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- She always was smiling,
but she wasn't talking.
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And people that knew her would
say, Emily doesn't stutter.
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Nobody knew she stuttered
because she'd never talk.
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- This poem is called Honest
Speech and it's by Erin Schick.
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And she is a local
poet who stutters.
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And it's just another voice
saying when I stutter,
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I am speaking my own
language fluently,
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like this is what I sound like,
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and I have no shame about it.
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"For too long I have been
afraid of my own name."
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"The word invented
only to describe me."
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"I have let it sit heavy in my
throat, a tool of betrayal."
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And that is like a
really powerful line.
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And like, that's how I
used to feel about it.
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Literally, I was
afraid of my own name.
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I didn't wanna say my own name.
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"My mouth spit shines
syllables till they sparkle.
321
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"So my voice is the
only one like it.
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"This is not a
speech impediment.
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"My voice is an instrument,"
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"my stutter it's
greatest symphony,"
325
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"my speech composed by God."
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So good.
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Ah, I get chills when I say it.
328
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- For those of you that
have been here before
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welcome back, welcome home.
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For those of you, this is
your first day at camp Say
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we open our hearts to you,
we open our arms to you
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and we thank you so
much for coming here.
333
00:21:02,661 --> 00:21:06,564
I have stuttered since
I was five years old,
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I didn't meet anyone
else who stutters
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until I was 26 years old.
336
00:21:14,006 --> 00:21:15,539
It's a really long
time to grow up
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feeling like I was the only
one that had this challenge.
338
00:21:21,980 --> 00:21:24,448
It's a really long time
to grow up feeling alone.
339
00:21:25,651 --> 00:21:29,720
And when I was a kid,
all I wanted was this.
340
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I wanted to be
around other people
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00:21:35,093 --> 00:21:39,930
who know what it felt like
to talk the way that I did.
342
00:21:42,634 --> 00:21:44,068
I wanted to be
around other people
343
00:21:44,169 --> 00:21:45,736
who knew how frustrating it is
344
00:21:45,837 --> 00:21:49,373
to have someone
else interrupt them
345
00:21:49,474 --> 00:21:54,879
or finish their sentence for
them or give them that look.
346
00:21:54,980 --> 00:21:56,514
That look of why do
you talk that way?
347
00:21:57,749 --> 00:21:59,684
I think the way you
sound is beautiful,
348
00:22:01,687 --> 00:22:05,289
right now, just the way you are.
349
00:22:08,427 --> 00:22:11,395
We all come from very
different places.
350
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None of us speak exactly the
same, none of us walk the same.
351
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None of us dress the same,
352
00:22:19,204 --> 00:22:24,208
but we are all human
beings that wanna be heard.
353
00:22:25,277 --> 00:22:27,278
And that means
letting everyone have
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as much time as
they need to speak.
355
00:22:30,649 --> 00:22:33,217
A lot of these kids have
these hard shells up.
356
00:22:33,318 --> 00:22:35,119
You know, it's like a turtle.
357
00:22:35,220 --> 00:22:37,021
You have to put up your shell,
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put up your box to
survive in this world
359
00:22:42,327 --> 00:22:43,828
And you get to camp,
360
00:22:43,895 --> 00:22:47,131
and we're talking
about listening
361
00:22:47,232 --> 00:22:48,699
and acceptance and patience,
362
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,535
and it's like, I don't
know about that right now
363
00:22:51,636 --> 00:22:53,671
because my wall is still up,
364
00:22:53,772 --> 00:22:55,806
my really hard
shell is still up.
365
00:23:05,283 --> 00:23:06,417
We're about to wake up
366
00:23:06,518 --> 00:23:08,386
the whole camp right
now, over walkie.
367
00:23:09,488 --> 00:23:11,956
Here we go, every
morning, eight o'clock.
368
00:23:13,458 --> 00:23:17,795
Good morning Camp Say, this
is WSAY in the morning.
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Let's have a blast today,
and have a lot, a lot of fun.
370
00:23:25,003 --> 00:23:27,605
(Travis sings)
371
00:23:33,779 --> 00:23:37,548
It's impossible to
have an amazing day
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without the long standing
tradition of your morning song.
373
00:23:45,724 --> 00:23:49,827
- I went through a period of
being kind of an introvert,
374
00:23:49,928 --> 00:23:51,328
just like very quiet.
375
00:23:51,430 --> 00:23:54,031
And I knew that that
wasn't my nature.
376
00:23:54,132 --> 00:23:58,035
- Give it up for the one,
the only Travis Robertson.
377
00:23:58,136 --> 00:24:00,438
(cheering)
378
00:24:02,841 --> 00:24:07,445
- This sounds so weird, but
I would talk to myself a lot,
379
00:24:07,546 --> 00:24:09,346
just like my thoughts.
380
00:24:10,782 --> 00:24:15,519
You know, my dreams, or just
like random conversations.
381
00:24:16,254 --> 00:24:17,421
I would talk to myself
382
00:24:17,522 --> 00:24:21,425
because like that's when
I felt most comfortable
383
00:24:21,526 --> 00:24:23,461
is when no one was judging me,
384
00:24:23,562 --> 00:24:28,532
and I could just sort of
get out all I wanted to say.
385
00:24:34,005 --> 00:24:37,374
Even now there are
times where like,
386
00:24:37,476 --> 00:24:39,610
I have to remind
myself that it's okay.
387
00:24:39,711 --> 00:24:41,145
It's okay that I stutter.
388
00:24:42,414 --> 00:24:46,817
♪ I sure like Camp Say
and all of this food ♪
389
00:24:46,918 --> 00:24:51,822
♪ And I sure like the
friends I'm making here too ♪
390
00:24:51,923 --> 00:24:54,558
♪ And I'm thinking
back to last night ♪
391
00:24:54,659 --> 00:24:58,729
♪ All the campers gathered
round that campfire ♪
392
00:24:58,830 --> 00:25:03,701
♪ We just need one last
ingredient so fluffy and white ♪
393
00:25:03,802 --> 00:25:07,071
♪ We're not talking
'bout jello ♪
394
00:25:07,172 --> 00:25:09,640
♪ We roast marshmallows ♪
395
00:25:09,741 --> 00:25:12,309
(cheering)
396
00:25:12,410 --> 00:25:14,111
- It didn't happen when I sang,
397
00:25:14,212 --> 00:25:17,047
which is a lot of the reason
why I do it today, you know?
398
00:25:18,483 --> 00:25:23,053
It's a place where I just
feel totally just free.
399
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,360
I'm uninhibited.
400
00:25:29,461 --> 00:25:31,695
(cheering)
401
00:25:36,301 --> 00:25:39,670
I don't know what life
would have been like
402
00:25:39,771 --> 00:25:41,906
if I didn't have
something like that
403
00:25:43,608 --> 00:25:47,478
to just hold on to, you know?
404
00:25:47,579 --> 00:25:52,082
I hope that this experience
is that for these kids
405
00:25:52,183 --> 00:25:57,187
to carry with them beyond
these two weeks is the hope.
406
00:26:00,725 --> 00:26:02,526
- [Taro] Y'all didn't know
he could sing like that.
407
00:26:02,627 --> 00:26:04,828
(cheering)
408
00:26:06,264 --> 00:26:07,665
All right, let's
keep the party going,
409
00:26:07,766 --> 00:26:10,301
we got such a fun,
action-packed day.
410
00:26:11,570 --> 00:26:14,471
(comforting music)
411
00:26:26,017 --> 00:26:28,285
(chanting)
412
00:26:31,022 --> 00:26:34,458
You ever feel like uncomfortable
or scared about a game
413
00:26:34,559 --> 00:26:36,126
you can always
come to me, right?
414
00:26:36,227 --> 00:26:39,096
Just come find me, and
we'll talk about it, okay?
415
00:26:40,265 --> 00:26:42,366
Okay, we're ready
to go back in there?
416
00:26:49,007 --> 00:26:50,140
There are some kids
that are coming here
417
00:26:50,241 --> 00:26:52,443
that are in a real dark place
418
00:26:52,544 --> 00:26:54,511
that don't feel like
they're important.
419
00:26:54,613 --> 00:26:55,879
There are some kids
that are coming here
420
00:26:55,981 --> 00:26:58,849
who've tried to kill themselves.
421
00:26:58,950 --> 00:27:01,785
There are some kids
who come here who
422
00:27:01,886 --> 00:27:05,623
feel inferior every
single day of their lives.
423
00:27:05,724 --> 00:27:07,591
- [Counselor] Do you
wanna catch Taro up about
424
00:27:07,692 --> 00:27:09,727
sort of the way you're
feeling right now?
425
00:27:12,130 --> 00:27:13,697
- What's going on?
426
00:27:13,798 --> 00:27:16,367
I want camp to be a profound
experience for each kid.
427
00:27:16,468 --> 00:27:19,970
I want it to change their
life in some capacity.
428
00:27:20,071 --> 00:27:22,840
For some kids, I want it
to turn their lives around.
429
00:27:25,243 --> 00:27:29,380
- We first met here
at camp in 2013.
430
00:27:33,652 --> 00:27:35,219
- I walked into the hero,
431
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:39,423
and then he was
playing this game
432
00:27:39,524 --> 00:27:42,626
and I asked this woman
named Lauren, "Who's that?"
433
00:27:42,727 --> 00:27:44,595
She was like, "Oh,
that's Ronin."
434
00:27:44,696 --> 00:27:46,664
And I was staring at him, ahh,
435
00:27:46,765 --> 00:27:48,932
and he's like, just
like playing the game.
436
00:27:49,034 --> 00:27:52,736
He was so oblivious to all
my attempts at flirting
437
00:27:52,837 --> 00:27:57,741
until then finally Emily was
like, "Dude, she likes you."
438
00:27:57,842 --> 00:28:00,878
And then he's like,
"Wait, really, awesome."
439
00:28:00,979 --> 00:28:04,248
So yeah, that's what happened.
440
00:28:15,493 --> 00:28:19,697
- We first met in
the New York program
441
00:28:20,932 --> 00:28:24,001
and we really didn't talk.
442
00:28:24,102 --> 00:28:26,570
- Didn't you like ask me
out, like over Facebook?
443
00:28:28,006 --> 00:28:28,872
(Julianna laughs)
444
00:28:28,973 --> 00:28:30,574
- Probably did.
- He did.
445
00:28:30,675 --> 00:28:33,410
- [Julianna's Mom] Hi Joe,
oh my God, this is so nice.
446
00:28:33,511 --> 00:28:35,779
- Right?
- He matches so perfectly.
447
00:28:37,782 --> 00:28:40,984
- Before you, you know, meet
anyone like cool and accepting,
448
00:28:41,086 --> 00:28:45,022
like you just feel like, like,
will I ever, I don't know,
449
00:28:45,123 --> 00:28:48,659
get to meet someone that
will love me the same way
450
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,661
like, I could love
another person.
451
00:28:50,762 --> 00:28:55,733
People don't wanna be
friends with the weird girl.
452
00:28:56,901 --> 00:28:58,001
And that made me
meet the nervous,
453
00:28:58,103 --> 00:29:00,370
like am I never gonna
have a boyfriend?
454
00:29:00,472 --> 00:29:06,210
I mean I wanna go through
455
00:29:06,311 --> 00:29:09,079
the same things
every teenager does.
456
00:29:10,749 --> 00:29:14,451
- I've never been in a
relationship and yeah, it's scary
457
00:29:14,552 --> 00:29:17,654
'cause there's still that
part of me that's just like,
458
00:29:17,756 --> 00:29:22,159
will I find a guy
who like likes me
459
00:29:22,260 --> 00:29:25,496
and like loves my stutter.
460
00:29:27,165 --> 00:29:29,600
I actually had an
incident in middle school
461
00:29:29,701 --> 00:29:34,705
where a guy I had a crush on
came up to me and told me,
462
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:39,643
no guy will like you
because you talk like that.
463
00:29:41,246 --> 00:29:45,882
- It is my delight to
pronounce you husband and wife.
464
00:29:45,950 --> 00:29:47,284
(cheering)
465
00:29:47,385 --> 00:29:52,389
- I remember so clearly
just being like hit
466
00:29:53,525 --> 00:29:56,627
with this wave of fear
about, will I ever
467
00:29:56,728 --> 00:30:00,264
find somebody to really
love me for who I am,
468
00:30:00,365 --> 00:30:04,735
and accept me for
the way that I speak.
469
00:30:07,672 --> 00:30:10,541
I was like these kids in Say.
470
00:30:10,642 --> 00:30:13,710
- It's definitely
scary to think about
471
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,649
getting married and having kids.
472
00:30:18,750 --> 00:30:21,718
And I often times
think about, you know,
473
00:30:21,820 --> 00:30:26,824
from a genetic perspective,
are my kid's going to stutter?
474
00:30:27,559 --> 00:30:28,826
I don't know how I feel.
475
00:30:31,796 --> 00:30:35,532
I don't want other people to
go through what I went through.
476
00:30:35,633 --> 00:30:37,267
- All right, next topic.
477
00:30:37,368 --> 00:30:40,003
What do you say when
someone asks you,
478
00:30:40,104 --> 00:30:41,939
why do you stutter,
what's the answer?
479
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:46,143
- Well, I just say like what
my speech therapist has told me
480
00:30:46,244 --> 00:30:47,978
and I'm like,
well, it's genetic,
481
00:30:51,115 --> 00:30:54,685
yes, it can be caused
from a brain injury,
482
00:30:54,786 --> 00:30:56,820
yes, it can be caused
from like other things,
483
00:30:56,921 --> 00:31:00,691
but a lot of time it's genetic,
484
00:31:00,792 --> 00:31:03,460
like literally
someone has asked me,
485
00:31:03,561 --> 00:31:07,798
okay, so middle school
was a tough time.
486
00:31:07,899 --> 00:31:11,468
One person asked me,
"Are you stupid?"
487
00:31:11,569 --> 00:31:16,139
And I'm like, no, like it has
nothing to do with my brain.
488
00:31:19,110 --> 00:31:21,111
Like they they thought I was
not smart because I stuttered.
489
00:31:21,212 --> 00:31:22,012
- [Teacher] Right, well, I mean,
490
00:31:22,113 --> 00:31:23,247
it does have to do
with your brain,
491
00:31:23,348 --> 00:31:24,214
but not how smart you are.
492
00:31:24,315 --> 00:31:25,215
- Yeah, yeah, exactly right.
493
00:31:26,651 --> 00:31:30,387
- Stuttering really is
a neurological disorder.
494
00:31:30,488 --> 00:31:35,392
And the reason why you're
fluent when you sing
495
00:31:35,493 --> 00:31:39,796
is because, you know, singing
496
00:31:39,898 --> 00:31:43,700
is a very much more of
a right brained activity
497
00:31:43,801 --> 00:31:46,003
while talking is a
left brain activity.
498
00:31:46,104 --> 00:31:49,873
You know, it's not because
I'm emotional or anxious.
499
00:31:55,079 --> 00:31:57,247
People who stutter are
emotional and anxious
500
00:31:57,348 --> 00:31:58,415
because they stutter.
501
00:31:59,651 --> 00:32:02,286
- I almost wish like,
for me personally,
502
00:32:02,387 --> 00:32:04,955
like I had something
on my forehead
503
00:32:05,023 --> 00:32:09,993
that says like I stutter,
no, I'm not nervous.
504
00:32:12,664 --> 00:32:15,432
You asking me about
it makes me nervous.
505
00:32:15,533 --> 00:32:17,167
Please give me the time of day.
506
00:32:17,268 --> 00:32:18,936
Like, I just want like that.
507
00:32:19,871 --> 00:32:21,271
It's exhausting, stuttering.
508
00:32:21,372 --> 00:32:25,242
Like physically, I feel
it in my lips and my jaw,
509
00:32:25,343 --> 00:32:27,611
like my jaw has really tense.
510
00:32:27,712 --> 00:32:30,480
Everything around me stops,
like a pause and time.
511
00:32:30,581 --> 00:32:34,584
I get really hot and
I just stand there
512
00:32:34,686 --> 00:32:36,920
and it's like, I'm
hanging upside down,
513
00:32:37,021 --> 00:32:40,824
like all the blood
rushes to my head.
514
00:32:40,925 --> 00:32:44,227
Not everybody stutters the same.
515
00:32:46,531 --> 00:32:50,600
- There's blocking, and
there's sound repetition,
516
00:32:50,702 --> 00:32:51,969
and there's word repetition,
517
00:32:52,070 --> 00:32:53,937
and there's syllable repetition.
518
00:32:54,038 --> 00:32:54,871
- Elongation.
519
00:32:56,274 --> 00:32:57,641
- When I'm like in a block,
520
00:32:58,843 --> 00:33:01,278
I can like see it from
like another standpoint,
521
00:33:01,379 --> 00:33:02,512
like as I'm doing it, it's like,
522
00:33:02,613 --> 00:33:05,082
ah, this is taking
a while. (chuckles)
523
00:33:05,183 --> 00:33:07,985
- I think I probably
block the most.
524
00:33:08,086 --> 00:33:09,319
Which is where, you know,
525
00:33:11,022 --> 00:33:15,692
the sounds stops completely.
526
00:33:15,793 --> 00:33:17,260
- Like that.
527
00:33:17,362 --> 00:33:18,829
That just an example.
528
00:33:18,930 --> 00:33:20,797
- Yeah, and I didn't even try.
529
00:33:20,898 --> 00:33:24,701
- What pediatricians for years
were actually trained to do
530
00:33:24,802 --> 00:33:27,871
was to advise parents not to
talk about the stuttering,
531
00:33:27,972 --> 00:33:29,106
and that if you
don't talk about it,
532
00:33:29,207 --> 00:33:31,341
if you don't mention it,
it will just go away.
533
00:33:31,442 --> 00:33:33,910
When you have a problem,
when nobody talks about it,
534
00:33:34,012 --> 00:33:36,780
it really makes you feel
like it's really shameful.
535
00:33:36,881 --> 00:33:39,216
The things that your
parents don't talk about
536
00:33:39,317 --> 00:33:40,851
are usually the
biggest problems.
537
00:33:40,952 --> 00:33:42,819
If they have a brother who
has a drinking problem,
538
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,422
well, we don't talk about
uncle Billy's drinking,
539
00:33:45,523 --> 00:33:48,658
or we don't talk about
somebody's big, major problems.
540
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,495
You talk about people's problems
that aren't that important.
541
00:33:51,596 --> 00:33:54,064
I used to go to bed every night,
542
00:33:54,165 --> 00:33:56,733
and wish that I would
wake up and be fluent.
543
00:33:56,834 --> 00:33:57,901
I used to go to bed every night
544
00:33:58,002 --> 00:33:59,836
and wish that I wouldn't
wake up sometimes
545
00:33:59,937 --> 00:34:01,171
because I thought
that stuttering
546
00:34:01,272 --> 00:34:03,807
was this terrible thing
that you had to hide.
547
00:34:03,908 --> 00:34:06,543
- My mom would put me in
speech therapy, kindergarten,
548
00:34:06,644 --> 00:34:09,413
first grade, second grade,
third grade, fourth grade,
549
00:34:09,514 --> 00:34:11,048
fifth grade, outside of school
550
00:34:12,283 --> 00:34:13,683
because we didn't want
anyone to find out.
551
00:34:13,785 --> 00:34:15,285
And I stutter in two languages
552
00:34:16,554 --> 00:34:17,954
and I was just so tired of it.
553
00:34:18,056 --> 00:34:21,191
And I told her, if you want
me to live a normal life,
554
00:34:21,292 --> 00:34:24,294
you can't expect
people to try to fix me
555
00:34:24,395 --> 00:34:25,962
'cause you can't really fix me.
556
00:34:27,432 --> 00:34:31,001
- I just remember not wanting
to even talk about my speech.
557
00:34:31,102 --> 00:34:32,469
I never wanted to talk about it.
558
00:34:32,570 --> 00:34:35,472
I always like hated even
calling myself a stutterer,
559
00:34:35,573 --> 00:34:36,740
I didn't like it.
560
00:34:36,841 --> 00:34:39,476
- I was always trying
to find a cure for her
561
00:34:39,577 --> 00:34:41,678
or somebody who can help her.
562
00:34:41,779 --> 00:34:44,047
And finally, at
the age of seven,
563
00:34:44,148 --> 00:34:47,384
a professional told
me you gotta stop.
564
00:34:47,485 --> 00:34:50,153
You know, you have to
stop trying to fix this.
565
00:34:50,254 --> 00:34:53,223
If at this age she's
still stuttering.
566
00:34:53,324 --> 00:34:56,426
All you can do is
help her to manage it.
567
00:34:56,527 --> 00:34:58,962
But she's gonna stutter
for the rest of her life.
568
00:35:00,131 --> 00:35:04,868
And that really hit
me, that hit me hard.
569
00:35:07,405 --> 00:35:08,872
I didn't handle it well at all.
570
00:35:10,174 --> 00:35:15,212
I knew that her future
wasn't gonna be easy.
571
00:35:18,649 --> 00:35:20,016
- It didn't even occur to me
572
00:35:20,118 --> 00:35:23,553
that I was different until
I was in first grade.
573
00:35:25,556 --> 00:35:29,993
And this popular
girl walked up to me
574
00:35:30,094 --> 00:35:33,697
and she's like, Sarah,
what's your middle name?
575
00:35:33,798 --> 00:35:38,568
And I said, Rose, like
whatever, sure, friend.
576
00:35:38,669 --> 00:35:43,106
And she goes and she
stands on the tabletop,
577
00:35:43,207 --> 00:35:48,378
and she goes S-s-Sarah
R-r-rose B-b-berkowitz,
578
00:35:48,479 --> 00:35:52,382
and she throws her orange
peels from her lunchbox at me.
579
00:35:52,483 --> 00:35:57,487
And I wish like I had a Say
to like make me understand
580
00:35:58,890 --> 00:36:01,591
like, there's not like
something wrong with you.
581
00:36:01,692 --> 00:36:05,862
Like you aren't a bad person.
582
00:36:07,932 --> 00:36:11,201
Didn't do something
to deserve this.
583
00:36:17,108 --> 00:36:19,509
- For those of you who
are new to camp Say,
584
00:36:19,610 --> 00:36:22,779
and haven't heard about
this day yet, what we do
585
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,282
is we take all of the campers
586
00:36:25,383 --> 00:36:29,352
and we divide you guys into
campers who are a little older
587
00:36:29,453 --> 00:36:31,855
and campers who are
a little younger.
588
00:36:31,956 --> 00:36:33,356
So when I call your
name, put your hand up.
589
00:36:33,457 --> 00:36:34,591
When Meg calls your
name put your hand up,
590
00:36:34,692 --> 00:36:36,293
'cause you guys can
wave to each other
591
00:36:36,394 --> 00:36:38,962
so you know who the
people are, all right?
592
00:36:39,063 --> 00:36:41,865
I already picked the first
name, it' right here,
593
00:36:41,966 --> 00:36:46,169
and it is Emily Purkey.
594
00:36:46,270 --> 00:36:47,470
- [Meg] With Tyrese.
595
00:36:50,575 --> 00:36:52,008
- [Taro] Juliana.
596
00:36:52,109 --> 00:36:53,109
- [Meg] And Mikayla.
597
00:36:54,912 --> 00:36:56,646
- [Taro] Will Davis.
598
00:36:56,747 --> 00:36:59,182
- [Meg] With Malcolm.
599
00:36:59,283 --> 00:37:01,351
- [Taro] Got the
waving, see each other.
600
00:37:07,058 --> 00:37:09,159
- In the outside world
you're always worrying
601
00:37:09,260 --> 00:37:10,827
about people laughing
at you or teasing you.
602
00:37:10,928 --> 00:37:15,131
And it's almost
weird going to camp
603
00:37:15,233 --> 00:37:16,800
because for the first few days,
604
00:37:16,901 --> 00:37:20,270
I wasn't used to this idea
that like, if I spoke,
605
00:37:20,371 --> 00:37:22,872
like no one would
think that it was weird
606
00:37:22,974 --> 00:37:24,908
if I was stuttering.
607
00:37:25,009 --> 00:37:27,377
In fact, he would
would think that
608
00:37:27,478 --> 00:37:29,813
it was weird if
I didn't stutter.
609
00:37:29,914 --> 00:37:31,047
This is my teacher, Ms. Siegel.
610
00:37:31,148 --> 00:37:32,482
- Hi, Will.
- Hi, Ms. Siegel, how are you?
611
00:37:32,583 --> 00:37:34,351
- [Ms. Siegel] Fine thanks.
612
00:37:34,452 --> 00:37:35,652
Will, it brings
attention to himself
613
00:37:35,753 --> 00:37:38,421
by being quite literally
the tallest person
614
00:37:38,522 --> 00:37:39,990
in the entire school.
615
00:37:40,091 --> 00:37:43,994
He also is fearless and what
he contributes to class.
616
00:37:44,095 --> 00:37:47,063
He's a very original
thinker, he's a great writer.
617
00:37:47,164 --> 00:37:50,367
- I have a history
of being very open
618
00:37:50,468 --> 00:37:52,902
with Ms. Siegel about my speech.
619
00:37:53,004 --> 00:37:55,105
She was probably
one of three people
620
00:37:55,206 --> 00:37:56,840
who read my college essay,
621
00:37:56,941 --> 00:38:00,410
which was a very open
and heartfelt discussion
622
00:38:00,511 --> 00:38:03,613
of how my speech has
affected my life.
623
00:38:03,714 --> 00:38:07,684
So this is the first
paragraph of my college essay.
624
00:38:12,556 --> 00:38:16,026
As a person who stutters I'm
defined by a tragic irony.
625
00:38:17,561 --> 00:38:20,764
I love the sound a stunning
sentence makes in my head.
626
00:38:20,865 --> 00:38:23,166
I love the feeling as
I put my pen to paper
627
00:38:23,267 --> 00:38:24,834
and work to create
something beautiful.
628
00:38:24,935 --> 00:38:26,770
- [Will's Dad] That's
right, how about a W?
629
00:38:29,106 --> 00:38:30,907
- [Will] Yet there is
no feeling I know better
630
00:38:31,008 --> 00:38:33,476
than that of a word
choked beneath my lips,
631
00:38:33,577 --> 00:38:37,280
struggling to escape, yet
strangled beneath my larynx.
632
00:38:37,381 --> 00:38:39,049
My greatest and most
unique attribute
633
00:38:39,150 --> 00:38:41,084
is not my six foot six frame,
634
00:38:41,185 --> 00:38:43,386
although that is most visible,
635
00:38:44,522 --> 00:38:46,356
My defining characteristic,
636
00:38:46,457 --> 00:38:49,025
the shaper of my being,
molder of my conscience
637
00:38:49,126 --> 00:38:51,394
occurs when I open
my mouth to speak.
638
00:38:51,495 --> 00:38:55,031
The words I produce, those
mangled, beautiful, ugly words.
639
00:38:55,132 --> 00:38:56,066
Those are who I am.
640
00:39:03,407 --> 00:39:04,574
Something I've
always wanted to try,
641
00:39:04,675 --> 00:39:06,910
but haven't had a chance to yet.
642
00:39:07,044 --> 00:39:09,846
I've always wanted to give
like a big public speech.
643
00:39:11,782 --> 00:39:14,484
- What is your favorite
subject in school?
644
00:39:17,221 --> 00:39:19,389
- Well, I really
don't like school.
645
00:39:19,490 --> 00:39:20,690
- Okay.
646
00:39:20,791 --> 00:39:22,492
You could say PE, lunch.
647
00:39:22,593 --> 00:39:24,961
- Carpool.
- Carpool, why?
648
00:39:25,062 --> 00:39:25,895
- Going home.
649
00:39:26,764 --> 00:39:28,131
- Okay, that's a good one.
650
00:39:28,232 --> 00:39:30,233
- Friendship, what does it mean?
651
00:39:30,334 --> 00:39:33,103
A close that cannot be seen.
652
00:39:33,204 --> 00:39:35,205
You might think it's a joke,
653
00:39:35,306 --> 00:39:37,907
but with your good friend,
you can always share a Coke.
654
00:39:38,008 --> 00:39:39,442
Now, it's good.
655
00:39:39,543 --> 00:39:41,811
- It's good that you're making
some new friends who stutter,
656
00:39:41,912 --> 00:39:46,516
did ya know, cause
we're pretty cool
657
00:39:46,617 --> 00:39:47,951
if I do say so myself.
658
00:39:52,790 --> 00:39:56,159
- WSAY. (applause)
659
00:40:00,030 --> 00:40:02,732
- [Taro] You know how I usually
say WSAY in the morning,
660
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:06,836
well this is WSAY in the
evening, you feel me, okay.
661
00:40:06,937 --> 00:40:11,174
- [Announcer] And in the
evening it's real, real chill.
662
00:40:11,275 --> 00:40:13,209
- [Taro] It's so chill
that there's something
663
00:40:13,310 --> 00:40:15,512
that's not allowed in this room.
664
00:40:15,613 --> 00:40:17,247
Clapping.
- We ain't clapping tonight.
665
00:40:17,348 --> 00:40:19,048
- [Taro] The way that we
celebrate each other tonight,
666
00:40:19,150 --> 00:40:20,984
that's right, we snap it up.
- We snapping.
667
00:40:21,085 --> 00:40:24,454
- This is WSAY evening
edition, only snaps.
668
00:40:26,323 --> 00:40:29,793
The focus of tonight
is about your teamwork
669
00:40:29,894 --> 00:40:33,263
and anything that you'd like
to express to your buddy.
670
00:40:34,432 --> 00:40:35,532
And here at Camp Say,
671
00:40:35,633 --> 00:40:38,268
we all have as much
time as we need to speak
672
00:40:38,369 --> 00:40:40,770
with no time pressure at all.
673
00:40:40,871 --> 00:40:42,739
And no pressure to
say anything at all,
674
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:43,873
if you don't want to.
675
00:40:45,075 --> 00:40:49,045
So without further ado,
are there any buddies
676
00:40:49,146 --> 00:40:51,714
that would like to come up
here and share something?
677
00:40:59,924 --> 00:41:02,225
How about those two in
the front, come on up.
678
00:41:14,972 --> 00:41:17,173
- Friendship, what does it mean?
679
00:41:28,352 --> 00:41:30,820
- Close connection
that cannot be seen.
680
00:41:32,590 --> 00:41:36,326
- Good friends can talk
however long they want.
681
00:41:40,331 --> 00:41:43,633
- And if you stutter
they will never taunt.
682
00:41:45,069 --> 00:41:47,303
(applause)
683
00:41:51,942 --> 00:41:56,513
- Me and my buddy wrote
a poem and we said,
684
00:41:56,614 --> 00:41:59,883
friendship is nice,
that's right, and bright.
685
00:42:01,418 --> 00:42:05,388
Friendship is cool, hanging
in the pool, don't be a fool.
686
00:42:05,489 --> 00:42:07,924
Friendship is fun
just like the sun.
687
00:42:13,163 --> 00:42:16,266
And friendship is awesome
just like a possum.
688
00:42:16,367 --> 00:42:18,635
(laughter)
689
00:42:19,937 --> 00:42:22,772
- I'm not okay that
for two weeks a year,
690
00:42:22,873 --> 00:42:24,474
the people that
happen to be here,
691
00:42:24,575 --> 00:42:26,876
get to know these
kids in a way that
692
00:42:26,977 --> 00:42:28,411
their families don't know
693
00:42:28,512 --> 00:42:30,046
or their friends don't know
or their teachers don't know
694
00:42:30,147 --> 00:42:32,916
or their speech
therapist don't know.
695
00:42:33,017 --> 00:42:36,953
The whole point of this
place is to instill them
696
00:42:37,054 --> 00:42:38,555
with this confidence
and this hope
697
00:42:38,656 --> 00:42:40,523
and this knowledge
that they're wonderful.
698
00:42:40,624 --> 00:42:43,693
And then to send them back
699
00:42:43,794 --> 00:42:46,396
into their everyday
lives with that
700
00:42:46,497 --> 00:42:48,932
so that they can be
their true selves.
701
00:42:54,338 --> 00:42:55,171
- Hello.
702
00:42:57,808 --> 00:43:00,143
Sit down, relax, let's be chill.
703
00:43:29,673 --> 00:43:31,674
I'm Guy, thank you guys.
704
00:43:36,213 --> 00:43:37,046
- Hi.
705
00:43:50,494 --> 00:43:51,594
My name's Kendall.
706
00:43:59,003 --> 00:44:00,703
(applause)
- Thank you, Kendall.
707
00:44:02,439 --> 00:44:07,410
- Me and my buddy
Arman were hanging out
708
00:44:08,746 --> 00:44:12,382
because it was his
last two weeks of camp.
709
00:44:50,521 --> 00:44:51,954
- There's a lot of
sadness in this world.
710
00:44:52,056 --> 00:44:55,658
There's a lot of sadness in
being someone who stutters,
711
00:44:55,759 --> 00:44:56,959
there's a lot of pain
involved in that.
712
00:44:57,061 --> 00:44:59,462
There's a lot of tears
that need to be shed.
713
00:45:00,764 --> 00:45:03,499
So being able to do
that and get that out.
714
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:07,737
And then what's on the
other side of that rainbow
715
00:45:07,838 --> 00:45:12,775
is this other side of
you, kind of the real you.
716
00:45:21,485 --> 00:45:23,653
- Hey, there it is. (clapping)
717
00:45:23,754 --> 00:45:27,523
- Got 'em. (shouting)
718
00:45:27,624 --> 00:45:30,460
(cheering)
719
00:45:30,561 --> 00:45:33,229
- Do you feel like your
teachers understand stuttering?
720
00:45:34,598 --> 00:45:36,099
Not at all.
721
00:45:36,166 --> 00:45:37,533
Do you feel like you
get cut off sometimes,
722
00:45:37,634 --> 00:45:40,002
like people try
and answer for you?
723
00:45:40,104 --> 00:45:41,003
- [Malcolm] Mm-hmm.
724
00:45:42,439 --> 00:45:44,674
There's a difference between
knowing something cognitively
725
00:45:44,775 --> 00:45:47,009
and knowing something
emotionally.
726
00:45:47,111 --> 00:45:49,812
A lot of people
cognitively understand
727
00:45:49,913 --> 00:45:51,414
that it would be better for them
728
00:45:51,515 --> 00:45:53,282
to just tell everyone
that they stutter
729
00:45:53,383 --> 00:45:55,051
before they have a conversation.
730
00:45:55,152 --> 00:45:56,119
What do you think
that'll be like
731
00:45:56,220 --> 00:45:57,620
if you talk to your teacher?
732
00:45:59,823 --> 00:46:01,390
- She would understand.
733
00:46:06,563 --> 00:46:07,563
- I hope so.
734
00:46:08,732 --> 00:46:09,732
I think that's a
really cool idea.
735
00:46:09,833 --> 00:46:12,802
You can know that that's
a great thing to do,
736
00:46:12,903 --> 00:46:15,271
but if you're not
emotionally ready to do it,
737
00:46:15,372 --> 00:46:16,572
it's never gonna happen.
738
00:46:18,208 --> 00:46:19,942
- Aw, thought that was going in.
739
00:46:20,043 --> 00:46:23,679
- You have to really believe
740
00:46:23,781 --> 00:46:25,381
that you have the
strength to do that.
741
00:46:25,482 --> 00:46:26,549
And you have to believe that
742
00:46:26,650 --> 00:46:28,050
it's gonna make a
difference in your life.
743
00:46:28,152 --> 00:46:29,719
You feel like you can say
what you wanna say here?
744
00:46:29,820 --> 00:46:30,686
- Yeah.
- Great.
745
00:46:31,855 --> 00:46:33,890
You can't always make
the shot you wanna make.
746
00:46:51,275 --> 00:46:52,375
- Good morning, everybody.
747
00:46:52,476 --> 00:46:53,976
I'd like to welcome
you to Camp Say.
748
00:46:54,044 --> 00:46:55,444
My name is Taro Alexander
749
00:46:55,546 --> 00:46:58,781
and I'm the founder and
director of Camp Say.
750
00:46:58,882 --> 00:47:01,017
It's a true pleasure
to welcome you here.
751
00:47:01,118 --> 00:47:06,055
Your kids are so remarkable
and talented and kind,
752
00:47:07,491 --> 00:47:09,425
and we're looking forward
to showing you around today
753
00:47:09,526 --> 00:47:12,094
and showing you some of
the things that we've done.
754
00:47:14,064 --> 00:47:15,832
- I think one of the
most important things
755
00:47:15,933 --> 00:47:18,267
we've learned over
the last year or so
756
00:47:18,368 --> 00:47:22,905
is this stutter doesn't have
to be something we focus on.
757
00:47:23,006 --> 00:47:24,574
Doesn't have to be
something that impedes you
758
00:47:24,675 --> 00:47:26,142
from having a great life, right?
759
00:47:26,243 --> 00:47:28,611
And that message in some ways,
760
00:47:28,712 --> 00:47:32,648
conflicts a little bit with
the idea of working on it,
761
00:47:32,749 --> 00:47:34,884
or doing therapy
or focusing on it
762
00:47:34,985 --> 00:47:37,920
or trying to improve it.
763
00:47:38,021 --> 00:47:39,755
And I'm really
curious how everybody
764
00:47:39,857 --> 00:47:41,757
strikes that balance, right?
765
00:47:41,859 --> 00:47:43,025
When we hear the word therapy,
766
00:47:43,126 --> 00:47:45,328
we think, oh, they
need to be fixed.
767
00:47:45,429 --> 00:47:47,597
It basically is simply
something that gives them
768
00:47:47,698 --> 00:47:50,132
the confidence and the
tools when they need it.
769
00:47:50,234 --> 00:47:51,901
Once I came to
terms with the fact
770
00:47:52,002 --> 00:47:54,837
that he's gonna stutter
for the rest of his life
771
00:47:54,938 --> 00:47:57,306
and I accepted
it, he started to.
772
00:47:58,542 --> 00:48:00,142
- I'm the type of
father who thinks
773
00:48:00,244 --> 00:48:02,578
he can fix anything
for his family,
774
00:48:03,747 --> 00:48:06,782
with Melanie and the
stuttering I couldn't.
775
00:48:08,051 --> 00:48:08,885
She would say, you know,
776
00:48:08,986 --> 00:48:10,653
Dad, it's not getting any better
777
00:48:10,754 --> 00:48:13,923
and it doesn't look like
I'm gonna grow out of it.
778
00:48:14,024 --> 00:48:16,225
And you know, we talked about
it and she said, you know,
779
00:48:16,326 --> 00:48:19,729
it's just tough when you
can't even say your name.
780
00:48:19,830 --> 00:48:21,731
- [Emily] Wide-eyed
at lunchtime.
781
00:48:21,832 --> 00:48:23,900
First grade seemed quite fine
782
00:48:24,034 --> 00:48:28,437
until they asked for my middle
name, and I took my time.
783
00:48:29,573 --> 00:48:33,676
"S-s-sarah R-r-rose
B-b-berkowitz,"
784
00:48:33,777 --> 00:48:37,079
they chanted to me as they
stood up on the tables
785
00:48:37,180 --> 00:48:39,282
and threw orange
peels aggressively.
786
00:48:40,484 --> 00:48:43,352
- We enrolled her in
a program in Boston
787
00:48:43,453 --> 00:48:44,587
and it was intensive.
788
00:48:44,688 --> 00:48:47,423
Three weeks later, she's
giving a presentation
789
00:48:47,524 --> 00:48:52,428
in front of 50 people
with zero bumpiness.
790
00:48:52,529 --> 00:48:55,097
And that was just before
we came to Camp Say.
791
00:48:56,266 --> 00:49:00,169
- Class presentation
at eight years old,
792
00:49:00,270 --> 00:49:03,639
my words got stuck
and I was out of luck
793
00:49:03,740 --> 00:49:06,542
as my fellow classmates
laughed at me.
794
00:49:06,643 --> 00:49:09,111
- Taro had mentioned
to me that, you know,
795
00:49:09,179 --> 00:49:11,647
stuttering is a
lifelong journey.
796
00:49:11,748 --> 00:49:14,750
That intense therapy that
Melanie went through,
797
00:49:14,851 --> 00:49:18,888
there would be some
digression in her speech.
798
00:49:18,989 --> 00:49:21,424
So I just took a moment,
got myself together
799
00:49:21,525 --> 00:49:23,826
'cause I didn't know
how I'd react walking in
800
00:49:23,927 --> 00:49:26,028
and seeing Melanie
for the first time
801
00:49:26,129 --> 00:49:28,130
and trying not to
analyze the first word
802
00:49:28,231 --> 00:49:29,665
that comes out of her mouth.
803
00:49:29,733 --> 00:49:32,435
I gave her a hug,
gave her a kiss
804
00:49:32,536 --> 00:49:35,204
and asked her if she
had a great time.
805
00:49:35,305 --> 00:49:37,673
And unfortunately she didn't.
806
00:49:38,542 --> 00:49:41,344
(mournful music)
807
00:49:43,914 --> 00:49:46,983
As a parent, I want
my daughter to improve
808
00:49:47,084 --> 00:49:49,385
and I wanna see improvement
in her stuttering.
809
00:49:51,989 --> 00:49:54,890
She's stuttering more
than I had hoped for.
810
00:49:57,861 --> 00:50:00,830
She's in tears, obviously
we were in tears
811
00:50:00,931 --> 00:50:02,164
when we first met her.
812
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,502
This is not the greatest
experience for her, unfortunately.
813
00:50:07,871 --> 00:50:10,673
- 15-years-old and life is hard.
814
00:50:14,077 --> 00:50:17,380
I wish I wasn't dealt this card.
815
00:50:22,452 --> 00:50:26,188
Why do I talk like this, why me?
816
00:50:26,289 --> 00:50:28,791
Did I do something wrong,
what's wrong with me?
817
00:50:29,993 --> 00:50:31,727
My head's spinning
with questions
818
00:50:31,828 --> 00:50:34,063
and it's never gonna stop.
819
00:50:35,499 --> 00:50:38,701
That's why I end up on the
bottom and never on the top.
820
00:50:38,802 --> 00:50:42,371
- I think for parents that
are sending their kids here
821
00:50:42,472 --> 00:50:45,408
with this desire of, I want
the stutter to go away,
822
00:50:45,509 --> 00:50:49,011
man, I get it, I so get it.
823
00:50:49,112 --> 00:50:51,881
I have a beautiful three
and a half year old daughter
824
00:50:51,982 --> 00:50:54,283
who's stuttering right now.
825
00:50:54,384 --> 00:50:56,218
This is my daughter, Hazel.
826
00:50:56,319 --> 00:50:58,054
Do you have a title?
827
00:50:58,155 --> 00:50:59,321
Nope, okay.
828
00:50:59,423 --> 00:51:00,923
This is my daughter,
Hazel, who is awesome.
829
00:51:01,024 --> 00:51:02,391
(applause)
830
00:51:02,492 --> 00:51:05,061
I also know that we're laying
the foundation right now
831
00:51:05,162 --> 00:51:08,230
for her to love herself
just the way she is.
832
00:51:09,332 --> 00:51:12,701
- 16-years-old and
as happy as can be.
833
00:51:12,803 --> 00:51:16,172
I'm with all of my friends
who can really understand me.
834
00:51:17,641 --> 00:51:20,810
- Going from a three week
fluency intensive program
835
00:51:20,911 --> 00:51:23,512
to a place where you're
surrounded by people
836
00:51:23,613 --> 00:51:26,082
who are saying
stuttering is okay.
837
00:51:26,183 --> 00:51:27,750
I mean, just those two
things back to back,
838
00:51:27,851 --> 00:51:30,186
I think are hard.
839
00:51:30,287 --> 00:51:31,787
I think if it was the opposite,
840
00:51:31,888 --> 00:51:35,357
I think it would have
been pretty outstanding.
841
00:51:35,459 --> 00:51:38,561
- I found my home, I
can finally fit in.
842
00:51:38,662 --> 00:51:42,965
This is where I belong,
where everyone gets along.
843
00:51:43,066 --> 00:51:45,668
No more tormenting,
no more tears.
844
00:51:45,769 --> 00:51:48,170
I feel better than
I have in years.
845
00:51:48,271 --> 00:51:52,875
Camp Say is my home, I am
not and will never be alone.
846
00:52:07,190 --> 00:52:09,358
- My son's with a speech
therapist at school,
847
00:52:09,459 --> 00:52:11,594
he said to her, "I don't
want to do this anymore"
848
00:52:11,695 --> 00:52:14,096
"because if I didn't
stutter, I wouldn't be me."
849
00:52:18,101 --> 00:52:20,536
I cried my eyes out, and I said.
850
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,375
- Good morning Camp
Say, this is WSAY.
851
00:52:28,278 --> 00:52:30,846
Hope y'all had a
great night sleep
852
00:52:30,947 --> 00:52:35,951
and hope y'all are ready for
Teams Day, Championship Day.
853
00:52:38,121 --> 00:52:42,324
So the word of the
day today is teamwork.
854
00:52:42,425 --> 00:52:45,127
I know I'm feeling
ready, feeling confident,
855
00:52:45,228 --> 00:52:48,731
feeling ready to let
everybody's light shine today
856
00:52:49,766 --> 00:52:52,034
and be the true
champions that you are.
857
00:52:52,135 --> 00:52:56,071
'Cause everyone is a champion
today, and every day.
858
00:52:58,108 --> 00:52:59,308
- [Instructor] Fire
when you're ready,
859
00:53:00,277 --> 00:53:02,278
(arrow thuds) (crowd cheers)
860
00:53:02,379 --> 00:53:07,283
(arrow thuds) (crowd shouts)
861
00:53:09,286 --> 00:53:12,288
(whistle chirps)
- It's all over!
862
00:53:12,389 --> 00:53:16,592
- Carter, Carter.
- Let's go Carter, let's go.
863
00:53:16,693 --> 00:53:21,197
- (claps) Let's go
Carter, let's go! (claps)
864
00:53:21,298 --> 00:53:23,532
(cheering)
865
00:53:27,337 --> 00:53:29,438
- [Announcer] All right, guys,
866
00:53:29,539 --> 00:53:31,140
it's time for some basketball!
867
00:53:31,241 --> 00:53:33,509
(shouting)
868
00:53:38,081 --> 00:53:41,183
- These counselors want it bad.
869
00:53:41,284 --> 00:53:43,686
Players this year, they
have a title to defend.
870
00:53:44,588 --> 00:53:46,822
(chanting)
871
00:53:50,660 --> 00:53:53,529
(shouting)
872
00:53:53,630 --> 00:53:55,197
- Splash Warriors on
three, one, two, three!
873
00:53:55,298 --> 00:53:56,832
- [Everyone] Splash Warriors!
874
00:53:56,900 --> 00:53:59,134
(clapping)
875
00:53:59,236 --> 00:54:02,905
- [Announcer] Nine,
eight, seven, six,
876
00:54:03,006 --> 00:54:05,307
five, four, three, two, one!
877
00:54:08,278 --> 00:54:11,113
(whistle chirps)
878
00:54:11,214 --> 00:54:13,482
(shouting)
879
00:54:15,185 --> 00:54:17,886
(cheering)
880
00:54:17,988 --> 00:54:22,224
- [Announcer] Splash Warriors!
(cheering)
881
00:54:22,325 --> 00:54:24,560
(applause)
882
00:54:25,962 --> 00:54:29,531
- That's a lot of contact
ref, a lot of contact.
883
00:54:29,633 --> 00:54:32,334
(cheering)
- Woo!
884
00:54:34,404 --> 00:54:35,537
(cheering)
885
00:54:35,639 --> 00:54:38,207
- Pick it up, pick it
up, let's go, let's go!
886
00:54:38,308 --> 00:54:42,011
- [Announcer] Eight,
seven, six, five, four,
887
00:54:42,112 --> 00:54:44,446
three, two, one.
888
00:54:48,385 --> 00:54:50,619
(shouting)
889
00:54:53,290 --> 00:54:54,423
- [Interviewer] How
much was that shot
890
00:54:54,524 --> 00:54:55,858
at the end of the half
a shift in momentum,
891
00:54:55,959 --> 00:54:57,860
and how do you play the counter
to start the second half?
892
00:54:57,961 --> 00:54:59,395
- You know, I'm not
too worried about it.
893
00:54:59,496 --> 00:55:04,400
We've been focusing on bonding,
coming together like a team.
894
00:55:04,501 --> 00:55:06,869
So like I think little
things like that
895
00:55:06,970 --> 00:55:08,270
won't shake our unity.
896
00:55:08,371 --> 00:55:09,371
I trust my guys.
897
00:55:09,472 --> 00:55:11,674
(chanting)
898
00:55:13,343 --> 00:55:14,610
- I just think that
they gotta dig deep.
899
00:55:14,711 --> 00:55:15,811
You know we're playing
a really good team.
900
00:55:15,912 --> 00:55:18,013
The campers are really
strong this year,
901
00:55:18,114 --> 00:55:20,015
they have great teamwork,
talented players.
902
00:55:20,116 --> 00:55:21,884
- Let's bring the heat,
I think we can come back.
903
00:55:21,985 --> 00:55:23,619
- Let's do this
you guys, come on!
904
00:55:23,720 --> 00:55:25,554
- On three, one, two, three.
- Heat!
905
00:55:25,655 --> 00:55:28,023
- [Everyone] Teamwork
makes the dream work!
906
00:55:28,124 --> 00:55:31,794
(clapping) (whistle chirps)
907
00:55:31,895 --> 00:55:34,430
- [Taro] Hands
up, hands up, yes!
908
00:55:34,531 --> 00:55:36,665
Keep those hands up!
909
00:55:36,733 --> 00:55:39,001
(cheering)
910
00:55:42,572 --> 00:55:45,841
- [Announcer] 11, 10,
nine, eight, seven,
911
00:55:45,942 --> 00:55:48,744
six, five, four,
three, two, one!
912
00:55:51,247 --> 00:55:54,249
(whistle screeches)
913
00:55:55,785 --> 00:55:57,586
- There you go, there you go!
914
00:55:57,687 --> 00:56:00,022
We have the momentum, they
don't know what happened,
915
00:56:00,123 --> 00:56:02,124
they're seriously
shocked right now.
916
00:56:02,225 --> 00:56:03,392
One, two, three.
917
00:56:03,493 --> 00:56:04,660
- [Everyone] Teamwork
makes the dream work!
918
00:56:04,761 --> 00:56:07,429
- Be ready, all right, be ready.
919
00:56:10,166 --> 00:56:12,401
(cheering)
920
00:56:15,739 --> 00:56:17,339
- The contact, man.
921
00:56:21,010 --> 00:56:23,278
(cheering)
922
00:56:27,050 --> 00:56:29,318
(cheering)
923
00:56:39,896 --> 00:56:41,296
(shouting)
924
00:56:41,398 --> 00:56:44,833
- [Announcer] Five,
four, three, two, one!
925
00:56:44,934 --> 00:56:47,703
(whistle chirps)
926
00:56:55,545 --> 00:56:57,813
(shouting)
927
00:57:02,185 --> 00:57:03,285
- It's called championship day
928
00:57:03,386 --> 00:57:06,455
not because of this
basketball game.
929
00:57:07,390 --> 00:57:08,757
It's called championship day
930
00:57:08,858 --> 00:57:11,393
because each and every
one of you are champions.
931
00:57:11,494 --> 00:57:13,362
And you're champions
because of what's in here
932
00:57:13,463 --> 00:57:14,663
inside your heart.
933
00:57:17,934 --> 00:57:20,903
It's hard to be there for
each other all day long.
934
00:57:21,004 --> 00:57:23,839
We've been going since
9:45 in the morning
935
00:57:23,940 --> 00:57:26,141
with just a few little
breaks here and there.
936
00:57:26,242 --> 00:57:28,010
And the support that
you guys give each other
937
00:57:28,111 --> 00:57:30,946
so that every single person
had a moment to shine.
938
00:57:32,682 --> 00:57:34,483
That's what being a champion is.
939
00:57:35,685 --> 00:57:37,052
You came into this
camp, a champion,
940
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,254
whether you knew it or not.
941
00:57:39,355 --> 00:57:40,422
We didn't do anything,
942
00:57:40,523 --> 00:57:42,090
but give you the
opportunity to shine.
943
00:57:42,192 --> 00:57:43,492
So remember that.
944
00:57:44,761 --> 00:57:46,328
Remember that
that's in your heart
945
00:57:46,429 --> 00:57:47,563
and you have the capability
946
00:57:47,664 --> 00:57:49,698
of being a champion
every single day.
947
00:57:49,799 --> 00:57:51,567
You just gotta do
it and believe it.
948
00:57:52,535 --> 00:57:53,635
I love you guys very much.
949
00:57:53,736 --> 00:57:55,437
Congratulations on a
great championship day.
950
00:57:55,538 --> 00:57:57,773
(cheering)
951
00:58:13,957 --> 00:58:16,992
I was, I think 25
or 26 years old,
952
00:58:17,093 --> 00:58:19,695
and I was doing a
play out in Colorado.
953
00:58:19,796 --> 00:58:21,630
I was on the phone
with my grandparents.
954
00:58:21,731 --> 00:58:23,632
They asked me the name of
the play that I was in,
955
00:58:23,733 --> 00:58:25,634
they couldn't remember
the name of the play.
956
00:58:25,735 --> 00:58:29,738
I couldn't couldn't say the
name without stuttering a lot.
957
00:58:29,839 --> 00:58:32,274
It was like probably the
longest stutter that I've had.
958
00:58:32,375 --> 00:58:35,110
And I was like, kind of
pounding on the table
959
00:58:35,211 --> 00:58:36,912
or pounding on myself
or doing something
960
00:58:37,013 --> 00:58:38,580
to physically just
get it to come out
961
00:58:38,681 --> 00:58:40,516
and it wasn't coming out
and it wasn't coming out.
962
00:58:40,617 --> 00:58:45,020
I ended up physically sitting
on the floor of my closet
963
00:58:45,121 --> 00:58:46,822
and like yanking at a shirt,
964
00:58:46,923 --> 00:58:48,957
just pulling at the
shirt with all my might.
965
00:58:49,058 --> 00:58:53,128
Just trying to yank it down to
get this word out, sweating.
966
00:58:53,229 --> 00:58:57,299
Finally, I like yanked this
shirt so hard the word came out,
967
00:58:58,268 --> 00:58:59,368
And you know, my grandparents
968
00:58:59,469 --> 00:59:00,869
are the greatest
people in the world.
969
00:59:00,970 --> 00:59:02,638
They said, oh right,
that that's what it was.
970
00:59:02,739 --> 00:59:05,774
Sorry, we couldn't remember.
971
00:59:05,875 --> 00:59:07,809
It was one of those moments
where you see yourself,
972
00:59:07,911 --> 00:59:09,578
like from outside of yourself,
973
00:59:09,679 --> 00:59:13,649
I was just looking at this
picture, like I'm 26 years old,
974
00:59:13,750 --> 00:59:17,719
I'm sitting on the floor
in my closet, sweating.
975
00:59:18,888 --> 00:59:20,055
There was no one to
talk to about it.
976
00:59:20,156 --> 00:59:21,623
And I couldn't say
to my grandparents,
977
00:59:21,724 --> 00:59:24,526
man, that was so hard,
stuttering is so sometimes
978
00:59:24,627 --> 00:59:27,596
because I had hit
that for 15 years.
979
00:59:27,697 --> 00:59:31,733
And I just sat there and I was
feeling so incredibly lonely
980
00:59:31,801 --> 00:59:34,970
and scared and just pitiful.
981
00:59:36,172 --> 00:59:38,540
And in that moment
I looked at myself
982
00:59:38,641 --> 00:59:42,277
and I said, you need to change,
something needs to change.
983
00:59:42,378 --> 00:59:45,314
This hiding, this
constant hiding
984
00:59:45,415 --> 00:59:47,215
and not talking about this thing
985
00:59:47,317 --> 00:59:51,420
that is driving every moment
of your life has to change.
986
00:59:56,759 --> 01:00:01,163
Fear was the main feeling
that dictated my choices.
987
01:00:02,332 --> 01:00:06,301
I want these kids to
not live that way.
988
01:00:07,170 --> 01:00:08,637
I want them to go for it.
989
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:15,844
And not let fear dictate
their daily life.
990
01:00:38,901 --> 01:00:40,502
One of the biggest
things about today
991
01:00:40,603 --> 01:00:42,604
is making sure that
the kids feel ready
992
01:00:42,705 --> 01:00:46,808
to face the world tomorrow
because this place is great.
993
01:00:46,909 --> 01:00:50,345
And then tomorrow they gotta
go back to the real world.
994
01:00:50,446 --> 01:00:52,014
Travis, come on up.
995
01:00:56,919 --> 01:00:57,986
- We're a family.
996
01:00:59,889 --> 01:01:03,692
I look around and I see family.
997
01:01:05,595 --> 01:01:07,763
That's something
that I have come
998
01:01:07,864 --> 01:01:10,365
to know the meaning
of better and better
999
01:01:10,466 --> 01:01:14,269
in these past few
years of my life.
1000
01:01:14,370 --> 01:01:19,374
I'm proud to say that you
all are a part of my family.
1001
01:01:20,843 --> 01:01:24,713
Hold onto this time and take
it far beyond these two weeks
1002
01:01:24,814 --> 01:01:26,248
because I know that I will.
1003
01:01:27,617 --> 01:01:29,017
I love all of you guys.
1004
01:01:29,118 --> 01:01:32,988
And I want you to know that
you're all incredibly special.
1005
01:01:34,390 --> 01:01:35,757
- They may have
felt that stuttering
1006
01:01:35,858 --> 01:01:39,461
was the problem in their life,
1007
01:01:40,830 --> 01:01:42,898
but when they meet 20
other kids who stutter
1008
01:01:42,999 --> 01:01:46,568
in 20 other different ways
and they get to see some kid,
1009
01:01:46,669 --> 01:01:48,070
who's just like me.
1010
01:01:48,171 --> 01:01:51,907
Who's the greatest kid at
basketball at his school
1011
01:01:52,008 --> 01:01:53,709
or I'm seeing a kid
who is just like me,
1012
01:01:53,810 --> 01:01:57,145
who's asking questions to
the adults in the room.
1013
01:01:57,246 --> 01:01:59,047
Or I'm seeing a kid
who's just like me
1014
01:01:59,148 --> 01:02:01,550
who seems to be struggling
even more than I am.
1015
01:02:03,252 --> 01:02:05,654
That makes it harder to
really buy into the idea
1016
01:02:05,755 --> 01:02:07,622
that you're the only one.
1017
01:02:07,724 --> 01:02:09,891
And that your
stutter defines you
1018
01:02:09,992 --> 01:02:11,426
as much as you think it does.
1019
01:02:12,895 --> 01:02:15,263
- One thing that
Malcolm loves to do
1020
01:02:15,364 --> 01:02:17,866
is like pushups and stuff.
1021
01:02:19,202 --> 01:02:21,636
So I told Malcolm
that if there's ever
1022
01:02:21,738 --> 01:02:24,172
like a girl walking past
and he's doing pushups,
1023
01:02:24,273 --> 01:02:26,575
he should just
immediately go 99, 100.
1024
01:02:26,676 --> 01:02:28,710
(Malcolm laughs)
- Right so that way
1025
01:02:28,811 --> 01:02:31,613
you seem even like tougher
and stronger, right?
1026
01:02:31,714 --> 01:02:35,050
- Yeah, and doing dips.
1027
01:02:35,151 --> 01:02:36,218
- The dips.
- Yeah.
1028
01:02:36,319 --> 01:02:38,153
It's like the same
thing with the pushups.
1029
01:02:38,254 --> 01:02:40,222
You do like one, two.
1030
01:02:40,323 --> 01:02:42,724
- [Both] 99, 100. (laughs)
1031
01:02:42,825 --> 01:02:45,393
(fire crackles) (crickets chirp)
1032
01:02:45,495 --> 01:02:47,362
- Coming around right now,
1033
01:02:47,463 --> 01:02:50,265
everyone's gonna
get a paper plate.
1034
01:02:50,366 --> 01:02:53,635
I want you to write
down on that plate,
1035
01:02:53,736 --> 01:02:58,740
a wish or a memory from
this summer at Camp Say.
1036
01:02:59,909 --> 01:03:03,945
Want you guys to walk
towards the lake,
1037
01:03:04,046 --> 01:03:09,050
the counselors are there
with some little candles,
1038
01:03:10,119 --> 01:03:13,622
and then you're going
to put the plates
1039
01:03:13,723 --> 01:03:15,724
with the candle
on it in the lake.
1040
01:03:17,093 --> 01:03:20,262
That's your way of sending
your wish out there.
1041
01:03:20,363 --> 01:03:22,130
And throughout the evening,
1042
01:03:22,231 --> 01:03:24,399
the lake will just get
more and more filled
1043
01:03:24,500 --> 01:03:29,437
with our wishes and
dreams and memories.
1044
01:03:36,412 --> 01:03:39,514
We're gonna open up the
circle for anyone that
1045
01:03:39,615 --> 01:03:41,316
would like to say anything.
1046
01:03:42,652 --> 01:03:45,654
You'd like to share something,
just raise your hand.
1047
01:03:55,097 --> 01:04:00,135
- Throughout my childhood,
I couldn't make any friends.
1048
01:04:09,779 --> 01:04:12,147
Each year in my head, I said,
1049
01:04:13,382 --> 01:04:17,185
these people actually
care about me?
1050
01:04:17,286 --> 01:04:20,822
What did I ever
do to deserve it?
1051
01:04:22,725 --> 01:04:26,695
And now this year, I
finally have my answer.
1052
01:04:27,830 --> 01:04:30,866
I got this just for being me.
1053
01:04:31,934 --> 01:04:32,767
So thank you.
1054
01:04:34,537 --> 01:04:37,839
- The amount of pain
1055
01:04:39,976 --> 01:04:44,045
that is caused by stuttering
is not determined on age,
1056
01:04:44,146 --> 01:04:49,150
but how long you go without
knowing that stuttering is okay.
1057
01:04:53,256 --> 01:04:56,391
- One of my bunkmates said
something and he said,
1058
01:04:56,492 --> 01:04:59,127
you know, we have to leave
home to come to camp,
1059
01:04:59,228 --> 01:05:01,329
and now we have to
leave camp to go home.
1060
01:05:02,932 --> 01:05:07,769
But tomorrow I'm not going home.
1061
01:05:07,870 --> 01:05:09,104
I'm going to camp.
1062
01:05:10,306 --> 01:05:14,242
And then in a year, I'm
coming back home here.
1063
01:05:15,611 --> 01:05:17,779
If everyone could
just take a moment,
1064
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:21,349
put your hands down and look up.
1065
01:05:22,518 --> 01:05:23,718
You find a star,
1066
01:05:25,888 --> 01:05:30,525
put all your energy on
focusing on that one star.
1067
01:05:38,467 --> 01:05:40,335
Just keep looking at that star.
1068
01:05:42,571 --> 01:05:47,609
And tomorrow night, wherever
you are, look up at the sky
1069
01:05:50,279 --> 01:05:53,248
and know that when you're
looking up at that sky,
1070
01:05:53,349 --> 01:05:55,283
when you're looking
up at those stars,
1071
01:05:56,385 --> 01:05:58,086
we'll all be looking
up there too.
1072
01:05:59,288 --> 01:06:02,757
And that we are right
there beside you.
1073
01:06:04,427 --> 01:06:09,431
And we're whispering in
your ear, you can do it.
1074
01:06:11,067 --> 01:06:14,202
And we're whispering in
your ear, you're not alone.
1075
01:06:17,473 --> 01:06:21,977
- This is my third year here,
and for the past two years,
1076
01:06:22,078 --> 01:06:24,112
I would have been
crying my eyes out
1077
01:06:24,213 --> 01:06:26,548
because I would
have been so, so sad
1078
01:06:26,649 --> 01:06:29,584
to leave this amazing place.
1079
01:06:29,685 --> 01:06:34,022
But right now I'm excited
to be completely honest.
1080
01:06:34,123 --> 01:06:39,127
I'm so excited to bring
all of these friendships
1081
01:06:40,596 --> 01:06:44,366
and all of these emotions
back into the real world.
1082
01:06:46,702 --> 01:06:50,805
Just hearing everyone's thoughts
1083
01:06:50,906 --> 01:06:55,944
and hearing your beautiful
voices, it just inspires me.
1084
01:07:00,616 --> 01:07:04,786
- Nothing used to worry
me more than my future
1085
01:07:05,688 --> 01:07:07,856
until I came here and I found
1086
01:07:07,957 --> 01:07:10,358
the most powerful thing in
the world, which is hope.
1087
01:07:10,459 --> 01:07:15,463
And there's one person in this
camp has inspired me the most
1088
01:07:16,932 --> 01:07:19,267
and he's not here right now
because he's nine years old,
1089
01:07:19,368 --> 01:07:21,736
he's probably asleep,
but that's Malcolm.
1090
01:07:23,039 --> 01:07:25,373
Malcolm's had a
really hard life.
1091
01:07:27,109 --> 01:07:29,711
Look at him now.
1092
01:07:29,812 --> 01:07:32,480
There's never a time he doesn't
have a smile on his face.
1093
01:07:32,581 --> 01:07:36,017
And the fact that he's
gone through things
1094
01:07:36,118 --> 01:07:38,119
I can never even imagine.
1095
01:07:38,220 --> 01:07:42,123
And he's still the way he
is inspired me so much.
1096
01:07:42,224 --> 01:07:45,060
I could not be more thankful
for the opportunities
1097
01:07:45,161 --> 01:07:49,130
that this camp's given me and
for all that it's taught me.
1098
01:07:51,534 --> 01:07:54,436
(melancholy music)
1099
01:08:02,078 --> 01:08:03,845
- [Interviewer] What's
your best advice for Will
1100
01:08:03,946 --> 01:08:06,181
going forward into college?
1101
01:08:09,618 --> 01:08:14,556
- Don't let nothing stop you
1102
01:08:15,424 --> 01:08:19,661
from reaching your own goal.
1103
01:08:23,399 --> 01:08:24,232
- Perfect.
1104
01:08:25,835 --> 01:08:27,068
- Goodbye Will.
1105
01:08:32,308 --> 01:08:34,309
- [Meg] If I call your name
1106
01:08:34,410 --> 01:08:36,578
please make your way
out the blacktop.
1107
01:08:38,881 --> 01:08:41,649
- [Emily] And I literally live
across the country from you.
1108
01:08:41,750 --> 01:08:45,386
- That's okay, I'll just run
there with my pigeon toes
1109
01:08:45,488 --> 01:08:49,157
like Forrest Gump, just cross
country and grow a beard.
1110
01:08:50,593 --> 01:08:52,594
I'm already halfway there,
I have to wax my upper lip.
1111
01:08:52,695 --> 01:08:54,963
(laughter)
1112
01:09:06,775 --> 01:09:08,676
- The world needs you,
1113
01:09:08,777 --> 01:09:11,079
the world really,
really needs you Tiana.
1114
01:09:20,189 --> 01:09:21,923
You are Say Julianna.
1115
01:09:25,761 --> 01:09:28,630
And not because you're
a beautiful singer,
1116
01:09:28,731 --> 01:09:31,132
not because you
write amazing songs
1117
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:33,034
because of who you
are in your heart.
1118
01:09:34,570 --> 01:09:36,971
I just beg of you to keep
believing in yourself.
1119
01:09:41,243 --> 01:09:44,412
- This is like our
break from reality.
1120
01:09:50,786 --> 01:09:55,557
- If the first step is, I
think that stuttering is okay.
1121
01:09:55,658 --> 01:10:00,662
If you can get that foundation
there and strong and real,
1122
01:10:01,530 --> 01:10:03,665
you can do whatever you want.
1123
01:10:03,766 --> 01:10:05,633
You can do this, keep
reaching out for support,
1124
01:10:05,734 --> 01:10:08,269
we're all here for you, yeah?
1125
01:10:08,370 --> 01:10:11,039
And that sentence it's
okay that I stutter,
1126
01:10:11,140 --> 01:10:14,075
that took a very,
very long time for me.
1127
01:10:18,981 --> 01:10:20,882
That takes a lifetime
for some people.
1128
01:10:24,687 --> 01:10:27,422
(mournful music)
1129
01:10:49,278 --> 01:10:51,646
(bats clang)
1130
01:11:02,024 --> 01:11:03,424
- When he came
back from Camp Say
1131
01:11:03,525 --> 01:11:08,429
he was very happy and very
positive about himself.
1132
01:11:10,566 --> 01:11:15,069
I didn't really know who he
was, (laughs) to be honest.
1133
01:11:15,170 --> 01:11:18,339
I was like, "Is this you",
1134
01:11:18,440 --> 01:11:22,410
"what happened to my
Malcolm?" (laughs)
1135
01:11:22,511 --> 01:11:25,246
- You really believe
in yourself, right?
1136
01:11:27,283 --> 01:11:28,750
And you know that
you have something
1137
01:11:28,851 --> 01:11:30,418
really important to say, right?
1138
01:11:30,519 --> 01:11:31,719
- Yep.
1139
01:11:31,820 --> 01:11:35,056
- I feel much better
now that he knows
1140
01:11:35,157 --> 01:11:37,558
it's okay to have a stutter.
1141
01:11:38,761 --> 01:11:41,496
He starting to accept
himself for who he is.
1142
01:11:41,597 --> 01:11:43,665
And tomorrow there's gonna
be a lot of people there
1143
01:11:43,766 --> 01:11:47,869
that are gonna be really
interested in what you have to say.
1144
01:11:47,970 --> 01:11:50,972
You're such a good writer and
you're such a great speaker.
1145
01:11:51,073 --> 01:11:52,440
- Thank you.
- My goodness.
1146
01:11:53,509 --> 01:11:55,443
You were just the man.
1147
01:11:55,544 --> 01:11:57,211
He's got it going on.
1148
01:11:57,279 --> 01:12:01,416
We can't change the way we
love, the color of our skin,
1149
01:12:01,517 --> 01:12:03,685
you know, our eyes, anything.
1150
01:12:06,522 --> 01:12:09,590
And I wouldn't want him to
change his speech, you know.
1151
01:12:12,094 --> 01:12:14,529
I love him just the way he is.
1152
01:12:14,630 --> 01:12:16,497
- I dealt with
stuttering as a kid,
1153
01:12:16,598 --> 01:12:17,932
dealt with it my whole life.
1154
01:12:18,033 --> 01:12:20,068
The most important thing
is you live the life
1155
01:12:20,169 --> 01:12:21,669
that you wanna live.
1156
01:12:21,770 --> 01:12:23,871
Don't let it stop you
from doing anything.
1157
01:12:24,773 --> 01:12:25,606
Don't be bad.
1158
01:12:27,242 --> 01:12:30,144
Don't be bad and say this
is who I am, don't do that.
1159
01:12:36,085 --> 01:12:37,085
- All right.
1160
01:12:38,287 --> 01:12:39,387
- When you have a
stuttering problem
1161
01:12:39,488 --> 01:12:41,222
it's harder to make friends.
1162
01:12:41,323 --> 01:12:43,024
Some of my classmates
are bullies
1163
01:12:43,125 --> 01:12:45,393
that torment and then harass me.
1164
01:12:45,494 --> 01:12:49,163
They have kicked me,
tripped and push me.
1165
01:12:50,132 --> 01:12:51,833
I am being bullied sometimes
1166
01:12:51,934 --> 01:12:53,735
when I'm standing
in the lunch line,
1167
01:12:53,836 --> 01:12:57,338
in the hallway, in the
classroom, at recess,
1168
01:12:57,439 --> 01:13:00,908
and sometimes on a van that
brings me home after school.
1169
01:13:01,009 --> 01:13:02,243
At that moment, I felt like
1170
01:13:02,344 --> 01:13:04,779
that I was on a
planet all by myself,
1171
01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:06,948
trapped and cut
off from the world.
1172
01:13:07,049 --> 01:13:10,685
It is a everyday
battle for me to speak.
1173
01:13:10,786 --> 01:13:13,988
I believe that love has the
power to crush any barrier.
1174
01:13:14,089 --> 01:13:15,790
I am breaking down
my stuttering barrier
1175
01:13:15,891 --> 01:13:18,259
and moving forward you using
courage and determination.
1176
01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:20,862
Thank you. (applause)
1177
01:13:21,730 --> 01:13:23,965
(cheering)
1178
01:13:27,469 --> 01:13:29,036
- I was like nervous,
1179
01:13:29,138 --> 01:13:31,406
'cause I didn't want to mess up,
1180
01:13:31,507 --> 01:13:33,274
but I don't think I did.
1181
01:13:34,710 --> 01:13:37,512
This mentality of getting
frustrated at someone
1182
01:13:37,613 --> 01:13:39,714
for taking a long time
to order at Starbucks,
1183
01:13:39,815 --> 01:13:43,151
or a car not immediately
moving on a green light,
1184
01:13:43,252 --> 01:13:45,486
or even getting
annoyed at the freshmen
1185
01:13:45,587 --> 01:13:48,890
for standing in the middle
of the hallway astounds me.
1186
01:13:50,659 --> 01:13:52,393
We want things now.
1187
01:13:52,494 --> 01:13:55,129
And this pressure of
our fast pace world
1188
01:13:55,230 --> 01:13:59,567
really affects the
stuttering community.
1189
01:13:59,668 --> 01:14:03,838
Just be patient,
stop and listen.
1190
01:14:03,939 --> 01:14:07,008
Because for all you
know someone could say
1191
01:14:07,109 --> 01:14:09,977
the most inspirational,
insightful,
1192
01:14:10,078 --> 01:14:13,648
and incredible few words
you'll ever hear in your life.
1193
01:14:13,749 --> 01:14:17,385
And they can take five minutes
to say them, thank you.
1194
01:14:17,486 --> 01:14:19,720
(applause)
1195
01:14:23,826 --> 01:14:26,828
- [Everett] Two, three,
four, check, check, one, two.
1196
01:14:37,372 --> 01:14:40,475
- This coming to
an end with Say,
1197
01:14:41,944 --> 01:14:46,948
I'm a little bit
worried about that.
1198
01:14:47,816 --> 01:14:48,649
- [Interviewer] How do you mean?
1199
01:14:50,319 --> 01:14:53,521
- Like I think she's
gonna be extremely sad.
1200
01:14:54,690 --> 01:14:57,191
I mean, it's been such
a big part of her life.
1201
01:14:59,261 --> 01:15:01,929
(upbeat music)
1202
01:15:12,808 --> 01:15:17,578
♪ Well I believe that
I can make a change ♪
1203
01:15:17,679 --> 01:15:22,683
♪ Look out world I'm gonna
say what I have to say ♪
1204
01:15:30,492 --> 01:15:35,496
♪ If you try to dream
be all you can be ♪
1205
01:15:36,732 --> 01:15:38,966
♪ Put your hand up put
your put your hand up ♪
1206
01:15:39,067 --> 01:15:42,570
♪ Put your hand up ♪
1207
01:15:42,671 --> 01:15:47,408
♪ (singing indistinctly) ♪
1208
01:15:47,509 --> 01:15:50,878
(Julianna cries softly)
1209
01:16:02,124 --> 01:16:04,592
- One time Taro approached me,
1210
01:16:04,693 --> 01:16:08,796
and he said, "Do you know
Julianna has an amazing voice?"
1211
01:16:08,897 --> 01:16:10,164
And I said, "She does?"
1212
01:16:10,265 --> 01:16:12,867
(chuckles) I didn't know.
1213
01:16:12,968 --> 01:16:16,237
He said, "Do you mind if she
stays a little longer today"
1214
01:16:16,338 --> 01:16:18,306
"because Everett
wants to work with her"
1215
01:16:18,407 --> 01:16:19,840
"on a song that she wrote."
1216
01:16:19,942 --> 01:16:21,008
- [Interviewer] How old was she?
1217
01:16:21,109 --> 01:16:24,378
- She was eight years old, yeah.
1218
01:16:27,716 --> 01:16:31,953
- We have a huge group
of graduating seniors
1219
01:16:32,054 --> 01:16:33,387
in our program this year.
1220
01:16:33,488 --> 01:16:34,689
If you're a graduating senior,
1221
01:16:34,790 --> 01:16:36,290
come on in the
middle of the circle.
1222
01:16:36,391 --> 01:16:38,659
(applause)
1223
01:16:44,166 --> 01:16:46,467
You guys are our future.
1224
01:16:47,436 --> 01:16:48,903
So the pledge I wanna know,
1225
01:16:49,004 --> 01:16:51,339
can you live your life with
courage, let me hear you.
1226
01:16:51,440 --> 01:16:52,573
- [Seniors] Yes.
1227
01:16:52,674 --> 01:16:54,475
- Can you live your
life with bravery?
1228
01:16:54,576 --> 01:16:55,409
- [Seniors] Yes.
1229
01:16:56,979 --> 01:16:58,613
- And can you not
give up on your dreams
1230
01:16:58,714 --> 01:17:01,048
even when it gets really hard?
1231
01:17:01,149 --> 01:17:02,249
- [Seniors] Yes.
1232
01:17:02,351 --> 01:17:03,985
All right, I want a
group hug with you guys.
1233
01:17:04,086 --> 01:17:06,320
(applause)
1234
01:17:08,824 --> 01:17:13,160
- Stuttering isn't something
that gets a lot of attention.
1235
01:17:13,261 --> 01:17:15,763
I think stuttering gets
15 minutes here and there.
1236
01:17:17,065 --> 01:17:20,901
But if you are a child
who stutters it's 24/7,
1237
01:17:21,003 --> 01:17:23,037
just a couple of weeks ago,
1238
01:17:23,138 --> 01:17:28,175
we got a call from a family
and there was a young man
1239
01:17:29,378 --> 01:17:31,412
who we know who tried
to take his own life.
1240
01:17:31,513 --> 01:17:34,382
And you know,
1241
01:17:35,384 --> 01:17:36,651
he's just a kid.
1242
01:17:36,752 --> 01:17:40,621
And to think that
that's the option
1243
01:17:40,722 --> 01:17:44,492
that's better than getting up
and going out and stuttering.
1244
01:17:44,593 --> 01:17:47,294
- You know, it's like life is
like building these bricks,
1245
01:17:47,396 --> 01:17:48,529
building this fountain.
1246
01:17:51,033 --> 01:17:54,135
I want tonight to be like a
solid brick in their life.
1247
01:17:57,906 --> 01:18:01,042
- Are you all right?
- Yeah, I'm fine.
1248
01:18:09,685 --> 01:18:11,886
- The gala is the
scariest show of all.
1249
01:18:13,188 --> 01:18:14,588
- Yeah, why is that?
1250
01:18:14,690 --> 01:18:17,358
- There's about 300 people here.
1251
01:18:19,127 --> 01:18:21,362
- Probably about 500 people.
1252
01:18:21,463 --> 01:18:22,196
- My God!
1253
01:18:22,297 --> 01:18:23,798
- You've got this.
1254
01:18:25,167 --> 01:18:28,235
- There are over 70 million
people who stutter in the world,
1255
01:18:28,336 --> 01:18:31,038
including 5% of all children.
1256
01:18:32,207 --> 01:18:35,910
Every day, kids who
stutter shutdown.
1257
01:18:36,011 --> 01:18:38,646
How many silent kids
are sitting at the back
1258
01:18:38,747 --> 01:18:42,283
in the classroom, who
are actually brilliant?
1259
01:18:43,485 --> 01:18:44,919
Who are just pretending
not to know the answers
1260
01:18:45,020 --> 01:18:46,987
because they're afraid to talk,
1261
01:18:47,089 --> 01:18:48,923
because they're
terrified of being
1262
01:18:49,024 --> 01:18:51,892
bullied or ridiculed
about the way they speak.
1263
01:18:53,028 --> 01:18:55,930
These kids who
stutter will go on
1264
01:18:56,031 --> 01:18:58,566
to do all kinds of
different things.
1265
01:18:58,667 --> 01:19:02,103
They just need the
opportunity to do it.
1266
01:19:08,710 --> 01:19:13,547
♪ I didn't give up ♪
1267
01:19:13,648 --> 01:19:18,919
♪ Hardships in my life
told me to never give up ♪
1268
01:19:26,661 --> 01:19:28,662
- My name is Amy
and I graduate Say
1269
01:19:28,764 --> 01:19:30,765
with the confidence
to face the world.
1270
01:19:30,866 --> 01:19:33,067
(applause)
1271
01:19:34,970 --> 01:19:36,270
My name is Will,
1272
01:19:40,542 --> 01:19:43,244
and I graduate Say with a voice.
1273
01:19:45,046 --> 01:19:47,281
(applause)
1274
01:19:50,218 --> 01:19:51,786
- Thank you you guys
so much for being here
1275
01:19:51,887 --> 01:19:53,788
to support these
amazing young people.
1276
01:19:56,024 --> 01:19:59,794
So when Juliana
started coming to Say
1277
01:19:59,895 --> 01:20:01,862
she was seven years old
1278
01:20:01,963 --> 01:20:04,598
and had never met another
person who stutters it,
1279
01:20:04,666 --> 01:20:06,467
It has been truly a
remarkable journey
1280
01:20:06,568 --> 01:20:09,403
to watch her grow
up over the years.
1281
01:20:09,504 --> 01:20:14,275
Juliana is smart,
kind, creative,
1282
01:20:14,376 --> 01:20:16,744
and she inspires me
every single day.
1283
01:20:20,248 --> 01:20:22,817
Juliana Padilla. (applause)
1284
01:20:44,639 --> 01:20:45,439
Confidence.
1285
01:20:49,778 --> 01:20:52,479
A word that did
1286
01:20:56,384 --> 01:20:57,751
not exist in my
1287
01:21:05,894 --> 01:21:08,629
vocabulary.
1288
01:21:09,764 --> 01:21:12,466
I absolutely hated
my stuttering.
1289
01:21:12,567 --> 01:21:14,802
I thought, why me?
1290
01:21:14,903 --> 01:21:16,103
Why am I even here?
1291
01:21:18,039 --> 01:21:21,408
I shouldn't have to hide
the fact that I stutter.
1292
01:21:24,646 --> 01:21:28,315
I have a right to be
heard because of Say,
1293
01:21:28,416 --> 01:21:31,619
I've found my voice.
1294
01:21:32,454 --> 01:21:33,287
I now
1295
01:21:35,824 --> 01:21:38,726
feel like I have a
purpose in this world
1296
01:21:39,694 --> 01:21:40,928
and a reason to live.
1297
01:21:43,431 --> 01:21:48,402
Thank you so much for listening.
1298
01:21:50,338 --> 01:21:52,573
(applause)
1299
01:21:58,113 --> 01:22:00,814
(hopeful music)
1300
01:22:46,628 --> 01:22:49,763
- I just want that
mentality of stuttering
1301
01:22:49,864 --> 01:22:51,265
as a negative thing to end.
1302
01:22:51,366 --> 01:22:55,469
And I'm so passionate
about just letting you know
1303
01:22:55,570 --> 01:23:00,074
that it's okay, it's
okay, it's more than okay.
1304
01:23:03,011 --> 01:23:04,712
I felt so sure that I
was gonna be a nurse.
1305
01:23:04,813 --> 01:23:08,649
And then now I'm like
having second thoughts.
1306
01:23:08,750 --> 01:23:12,019
I don't know a lot of things
in my life has changed.
1307
01:23:17,025 --> 01:23:19,093
I wanna spend my
time on something
1308
01:23:19,194 --> 01:23:20,260
that I really, really love,
1309
01:23:20,362 --> 01:23:21,895
and that's that's music.
1310
01:23:21,997 --> 01:23:26,233
That's theater.
1311
01:23:26,334 --> 01:23:27,334
That's singing.
1312
01:23:47,155 --> 01:23:49,656
- I've been a bit on edge.
1313
01:23:49,758 --> 01:23:53,193
I think that's an
understatement. (laughs)
1314
01:23:55,897 --> 01:23:58,332
Hello, Class of 2017.
1315
01:23:58,433 --> 01:24:01,635
I never thought I would
be delivering this.
1316
01:24:03,638 --> 01:24:06,240
My self confidence
wasn't as good back then
1317
01:24:06,341 --> 01:24:07,574
because of all of the teasing,
1318
01:24:07,675 --> 01:24:11,645
and now look at me
now bitches. (laughs)
1319
01:24:14,215 --> 01:24:17,117
We all have a
voice and a choice.
1320
01:24:17,218 --> 01:24:20,187
Gifts that we can use
to crush and silence
1321
01:24:20,288 --> 01:24:22,322
or to encourage and empower.
1322
01:24:22,424 --> 01:24:25,659
Today I challenge us to
go out into the world
1323
01:24:25,760 --> 01:24:27,828
and learn about the
people and cultures
1324
01:24:27,929 --> 01:24:31,865
that are different from who
we are and where we come from,
1325
01:24:31,966 --> 01:24:35,669
to hear people for what they
say, not how they say it,
1326
01:24:35,770 --> 01:24:38,005
to build bridges
instead of walls.
1327
01:24:38,106 --> 01:24:40,174
Our future hasn't
been written yet.
1328
01:24:40,275 --> 01:24:44,144
Class of 2017, let's
write a good one.
1329
01:24:44,245 --> 01:24:46,480
(applause)
1330
01:24:49,084 --> 01:24:52,019
- This has become one of my
favorite nights of the year.
1331
01:24:52,120 --> 01:24:53,854
I look forward to this so much.
1332
01:24:57,025 --> 01:24:59,526
My stuttering in
a way was a gift
1333
01:25:00,728 --> 01:25:04,131
because it helped me
develop my curiosity
1334
01:25:04,232 --> 01:25:06,934
and my listening abilities
and my ability to observe.
1335
01:25:20,348 --> 01:25:22,583
- I've been stuttering
for 55 years.
1336
01:25:22,684 --> 01:25:24,651
You can do it, your
voice does matter.
1337
01:25:25,587 --> 01:25:27,821
(applause)
1338
01:25:38,266 --> 01:25:41,034
♪ Now it's our time
to say rock it out ♪
1339
01:25:41,136 --> 01:25:42,436
♪ Say rock it out ♪
1340
01:25:42,537 --> 01:25:43,871
♪ Say rock it out ♪
1341
01:25:43,972 --> 01:25:46,540
♪ Now it's our time
to say rock it out ♪
1342
01:25:46,641 --> 01:25:47,774
♪ Say rock it out ♪
1343
01:25:47,876 --> 01:25:49,176
♪ Say rock it out ♪
1344
01:25:49,277 --> 01:25:51,778
♪ Now it's our time
to say get loose ♪
1345
01:25:51,880 --> 01:25:52,980
♪ Say get loose ♪
1346
01:25:53,081 --> 01:25:54,381
♪ Say get loose ♪
1347
01:25:54,482 --> 01:25:56,883
♪ Now it's our time
to say get hyped ♪
1348
01:25:56,951 --> 01:25:57,951
♪ Say get hyped ♪
1349
01:25:58,052 --> 01:25:59,219
♪ Say get hyped ♪
1350
01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:01,688
♪ Now it's our
time to say love ♪
1351
01:26:01,789 --> 01:26:02,723
♪ Say love ♪
1352
01:26:02,824 --> 01:26:03,991
♪ Say love ♪
1353
01:26:04,092 --> 01:26:06,260
♪ Now it's our
time say bravery ♪
1354
01:26:06,361 --> 01:26:07,494
♪ Say bravery ♪
1355
01:26:07,595 --> 01:26:08,729
♪ Say bravery ♪
1356
01:26:08,830 --> 01:26:11,265
♪ Now it's our time
to say get down ♪
1357
01:26:11,366 --> 01:26:12,432
♪ Say get down ♪
1358
01:26:12,534 --> 01:26:13,700
♪ Say get down ♪
1359
01:26:13,801 --> 01:26:15,969
♪ Now it's our time
to say get down ♪
1360
01:26:16,070 --> 01:26:17,204
♪ Say get down ♪
1361
01:26:17,338 --> 01:26:18,472
♪ Say get down ♪
1362
01:26:18,573 --> 01:26:20,841
♪ Now it's our
time to say peace ♪
1363
01:26:20,942 --> 01:26:22,009
♪ Say peace ♪
1364
01:26:22,110 --> 01:26:23,277
♪ Say peace ♪
1365
01:26:23,378 --> 01:26:25,512
♪ Now it's our time
to say compassion ♪
1366
01:26:25,613 --> 01:26:26,613
♪ Say compassion ♪
1367
01:26:26,714 --> 01:26:27,948
♪ Say compassion ♪
1368
01:26:28,049 --> 01:26:30,317
♪ Now it's our time
to say get loud ♪
1369
01:26:30,418 --> 01:26:31,518
♪ Say get loud ♪
1370
01:26:31,619 --> 01:26:32,819
♪ Say get loud ♪
1371
01:26:32,921 --> 01:26:34,988
♪ Now it's our time
to say good show ♪
1372
01:26:35,089 --> 01:26:36,123
♪ Say good show ♪
1373
01:26:36,224 --> 01:26:37,391
♪ Say good show ♪
1374
01:26:37,492 --> 01:26:39,560
♪ Now it's our time
to say good show ♪
1375
01:26:39,661 --> 01:26:40,561
♪ Say good show ♪
1376
01:26:40,662 --> 01:26:41,828
♪ Say good show ♪
1377
01:26:41,930 --> 01:26:43,931
♪ Now it's our
time to say love ♪
1378
01:26:44,032 --> 01:26:45,132
♪ Say love ♪
1379
01:26:45,233 --> 01:26:47,000
♪ Say love ♪
1380
01:26:47,101 --> 01:26:50,737
- There we go. (cheering)
1381
01:26:50,838 --> 01:26:54,775
♪♪
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